Speaker 1: Alright, what's up? It is Angela G it's lip service.
Speaker 1: I'm stepping in Santiago. I'm g G Maguire and we
Speaker 1: got Cranny. I'm here with us here. I just saw
Speaker 1: him and busting him and Tory Lanes are actually on
Speaker 1: tour right now together. How is that for you guys?
Speaker 1: I mean it's a good experience for me differently, you know,
Speaker 1: old set of the Caribbean markets. I'm just going through
Speaker 1: these seats in America and just performing and seeing different
Speaker 1: characteristic with people and all they are receive dance on
Speaker 1: and we give music. So it's been very fun for
Speaker 1: me on this this weekend. It's good for you guys too,
Speaker 1: because Tory Lanes has a bit of a Caribbean vible,
Speaker 1: so you know so, and I feel like y'all have
Speaker 1: all co signed him and so it gives him more
Speaker 1: of that, like okay, we're cool, dope, alright, So we
Speaker 1: always start a fashion with the tip of the day. Now,
Speaker 1: you had tweeted something the other day to caught my eye.
Speaker 1: All right. He was talking about cheating. Yeah, and you
Speaker 1: said that since you were fifteen years old, you never
Speaker 1: got caught cheating. Yeah, So how do you what are
Speaker 1: the steps that you can take the tip of the
Speaker 1: day to make sure you don't get caught cheating because
Speaker 1: a lot of people be getting caught up. First, it's
Speaker 1: gonna get me caught now, I'm just about about people. Now.
Speaker 1: It's a tip therefore, learning Stephanie attempt to not get
Speaker 1: caught cheating. Number one tip to not get caught cheating.
Speaker 1: You don't follow or have any public contact with the
Speaker 1: person that you're cheating. Was so, no liking pictures? Yeah,
Speaker 1: no liking pictures. You can't even follow me. You don't
Speaker 1: know that person. Who is that person? Right? You don't
Speaker 1: know that person? That good tis tip? G what's your tip?
Speaker 1: One of your tips? Because we know we have made
Speaker 1: I have a few Delete delete, delete, delete right sex messages,
Speaker 1: save the number, remember, memorize the number. Don't even save it. Wow,
Speaker 1: you guys are professional cheaters. I'm just listening, like, yeah,
Speaker 1: imagine that. Yeah, I mean it is a part of everything.
Speaker 1: But I also feel like, you know, you can do
Speaker 1: delete the numbers or whatever. What about to putting their
Speaker 1: name in differently and then deleting it. Also, because what
Speaker 1: if they happened to call you, I text you? You
Speaker 1: can do that as well, but that will still gets
Speaker 1: you got up if the person you know, I still
Speaker 1: could delete it. You know what's the number one tip?
Speaker 1: I change my mind? Number one, I changed my mind.
Speaker 1: A number one tip is you can't act different when
Speaker 1: you're cheating. Okay, You've got to act normal. Everything is normal.
Speaker 1: They don't change. That's a mistake that people make when
Speaker 1: they cheat, Like they start treating their partner bad, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean, and they're like smiling in their phone,
Speaker 1: and then they're looking up and rolling their eyes at
Speaker 1: their partner like or they treat you even better because
Speaker 1: they feel guilty. They come home doing things they never did.
Speaker 1: But even that, even that, that's a little extra, don
Speaker 1: I don't everyone change is normal. And you can't be
Speaker 1: like too messy with your phone, you know how all
Speaker 1: of a sudden you gotta like take your calls in
Speaker 1: the bathroom or I'll be right back and do stuff
Speaker 1: you never You cannot change your pattern, what I mean
Speaker 1: when these in these times, this don't need for like
Speaker 1: going to buy through my stuff because things called do
Speaker 1: not disturb anyth ah. So that's a tipire I use
Speaker 1: that do not disturb you know what? You can also
Speaker 1: black one person's number. Yeah, you can put that one
Speaker 1: person on not disturb Yeah, I don't know. I'm not
Speaker 1: doing any of these things. This is the stuff that
Speaker 1: I've done in my path or that you know of. Ye,
Speaker 1: this is the stuff I heard I say that. But
Speaker 1: some people I know take it even even a step further,
Speaker 1: Like if you spend the night or you go to
Speaker 1: someone set and you have to shower, they make sure
Speaker 1: they use the same exact soap and lotion. You don't use. No,
Speaker 1: don't use any soaps. So just rent off and right
Speaker 1: do want to be smith swith don't want to smell toast?
Speaker 1: You just rents with a lot of hot water and
Speaker 1: pet dry and then you still have the same lotion
Speaker 1: and deodorant and all of that smell that you have.
Speaker 1: We do right to well, these are at a lot
Speaker 1: of tipts. We must know some real professional cheaters out here. Also,
Speaker 1: you should tell the significant well or the person that
Speaker 1: you're cheating with the side person not to wear any
Speaker 1: type of perfumer cologne. Right. Sometimes that gives it away
Speaker 1: too if it gets on your clothes. The only reason
Speaker 1: I know these tips is because these are the things
Speaker 1: that I did not follow. You know, I never deleted anything.
Speaker 1: I was always getting cloffee cheater. Yes, so just learn
Speaker 1: learn from my mistakes cars, because then pictures be on
Speaker 1: the SoundCloud and all of that. Like I've gotten I mean,
Speaker 1: I get caught every single time. I've never not gotten caught.
Speaker 1: Wal Yeah, you've never not gotte caught. No, no, I
Speaker 1: didn't need to say sound held. But the iPhone cloud
Speaker 1: you know how you think you do. Yeah, the eye cloud.
Speaker 1: That eye cloud got everything. Yeah, text messages, all of
Speaker 1: that stuff. And also if you use somebody's computer. This
Speaker 1: had called my ex boyfriend cheating, make sure you log out. Yeah,
Speaker 1: if you're checking your emails on someone's computer, that's how
Speaker 1: he got car. He didn't log out of my laptop.
Speaker 1: And then I went to go look something up and
Speaker 1: on Google, and his Gmail popped up and it was
Speaker 1: just open. I did after, but I'm like a lie.
Speaker 1: I did for a second feel bad about it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he should have left it open. Yeah, I felt bad,
Speaker 1: But then I felt like, God, did this. You didn't
Speaker 1: go You didn't go into his computer and go look
Speaker 1: for you open up your own computer and surprise, surprise,
Speaker 1: he left. I felt like it was funny you don't
Speaker 1: think somethings are destiny something that I'm not. You need
Speaker 1: to search somebody's for me, because I didn't go looking
Speaker 1: like figure out his password and kind of felt like
Speaker 1: somebody's like, girl, you need to look at this and
Speaker 1: see what he's up to. Well that's what you actually didn't.
Speaker 1: I think that was like a test of trust in musically,
Speaker 1: so you didn't trust him. I already didn't trust him,
Speaker 1: and that's probably what it was, because if I trusted him,
Speaker 1: I probably wouldn't have done That's true. So yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: what we're gonna say that happened with Derek. Um No.
Speaker 1: I went to my he parted, he I've done to
Speaker 1: his Facebook from my computer, and I opened it up
Speaker 1: and I found him cheating on me. Yeah, but you
Speaker 1: know it was that was just you know, that was
Speaker 1: just that was just fate, because I used to feel
Speaker 1: so bad for cheating on him for you know, like
Speaker 1: even interesting kind of thing else, and finally I got
Speaker 1: to see that and I was like, Okay, it's okay.
Speaker 1: Everything I've been doing it it's been it's justified, he said,
Speaker 1: And you said at the time, Yeah, no, I was, Yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, but I was really younger. When I was
Speaker 1: with my son's father, I was I was, I was
Speaker 1: a kid. I needed to live. You know, I don't
Speaker 1: think that counts. I don't think it's like my first
Speaker 1: real relationship, right. I mean, it counts, but it counts,
Speaker 1: It counts, but I don't think it reflects on the
Speaker 1: person that I am. Listen, in your younger years, people
Speaker 1: and made mistakes, right, I mean, I don't even considering mistakes.
Speaker 1: You know. I was just living my life. Everybody got
Speaker 1: to live, right, and we're going to continue. It's just life,
Speaker 1: all right. Now. We were also talking about you know,
Speaker 1: the best part of relationship sometimes is when it first starts,
Speaker 1: like the newness of it. You're having sex all the time.
Speaker 1: How soon do you think until all of a sudden,
Speaker 1: like that newness wears off and you're like, Okay, we
Speaker 1: used to have sex three times a day, Now we
Speaker 1: have sex three times a month. What do you think
Speaker 1: is that honeymoon period is over six months? I ain't
Speaker 1: think six months or six months, Oh no, I think
Speaker 1: it lasts like a year and change. Yeah, a year
Speaker 1: and a half. Yeah. I feel like I'm in averages
Speaker 1: like a year and a half for I think for
Speaker 1: a lot of people from from use. I don't know
Speaker 1: because my last relationship and the Audie loven months, so
Speaker 1: if we were still in that, we were still in
Speaker 1: that phase of having sex all the time, you know,
Speaker 1: and then thinking about in my past relationships, I just
Speaker 1: it's not even the time, it's just what happens. What
Speaker 1: make that happened? Like, how do you go from wanting
Speaker 1: to have sex all the time to not wanting to
Speaker 1: have sex all the time? You get comfortable? Like what
Speaker 1: makes you what makes you horny for this? What makes
Speaker 1: you horny so much? In the beginning, you're all of
Speaker 1: a sudden, you don't have you don't have you don't
Speaker 1: have the feeling, you don't have the feeling like you
Speaker 1: don't want to. Yeah, you start saying the feeling. It's
Speaker 1: just not as like, so you want to you want
Speaker 1: to have sex with somebody else. You would have sex
Speaker 1: three times a day if it was with somebody else.
Speaker 1: I think you get comfortable sometimes and come out six
Speaker 1: months it's like if it did, because because when the
Speaker 1: experient when these fresh fish fish is like you want
Speaker 1: to do the other time that event, surely you'd be
Speaker 1: like zero. You know, I've been doing so much. I think.
Speaker 1: I think it also depends on how often you see
Speaker 1: the person, because sometimes if you're in a long distance
Speaker 1: relationship and every time you see each other, it feels like, Okay,
Speaker 1: this is exciting. But I'm gonna be honest. I feel
Speaker 1: like sometimes in relationships we get comfortable and we need
Speaker 1: to set it up because we take for granted, like, Okay,
Speaker 1: you know I could I go to bed wearing an
Speaker 1: old T shirt and some shorts. You don't do the
Speaker 1: things that you used to do. None of us do,
Speaker 1: I mean not me. I sleep naked all the time.
Speaker 1: I need to real life, like life, I'm a naked person.
Speaker 1: I always need it all the time. All right, Well,
Speaker 1: I sleep with clothes on. I know, I know. But
Speaker 1: and that's another thing. Like even I was with someone
Speaker 1: for seven years and I used to want to have
Speaker 1: sex with him all the time, except for the times
Speaker 1: that I was having sex with other people. M that's
Speaker 1: the only time that I didn't want him all the time.
Speaker 1: And we're talking about for years, right, So basically you
Speaker 1: switched it up, and you think he could tell like,
Speaker 1: now she don't want to have sex, she must be
Speaker 1: doing something. I just want. I just I just want
Speaker 1: to know what makes that happen? Like why? Where? How
Speaker 1: do you go from wanting somebody so bad to not
Speaker 1: wanting them so much anymore? Like what makes that happen?
Speaker 1: The newness wears off cranium? You tell as a man. Honestly,
Speaker 1: I feel like everybody's different still, and I mean not
Speaker 1: everybody's seeing but there's this is saying like it's too
Speaker 1: much of one thing. Yeah, sometimes you need that break
Speaker 1: in between. That's necessarily you're going to be in a brick,
Speaker 1: but sometimes you need to take you know, do different things,
Speaker 1: go to enjoy yourself, part with the kids. Just not
Speaker 1: need it. You need to miss it. You can't be
Speaker 1: all up on each other every single day still, That's
Speaker 1: all I feel because no matter what, almost an angel,
Speaker 1: something's at one point they're gonna be like it's too much.
Speaker 1: Sometimes you doesn't need that. I can sometimes it's just
Speaker 1: so stressed too from like whatever you have going on.
Speaker 1: It depends on the female because someone you else is
Speaker 1: annoying as hell. Know, it's really things. So it's not
Speaker 1: even about you even don't want to be your penny normal.
Speaker 1: It's more like, yeah, I need that, But what do
Speaker 1: females do that's annoying everything everything like can't be everything
Speaker 1: like what some examples it was annoying, like talking on
Speaker 1: the floor, but you say talking like like you guys
Speaker 1: have some un necessary stuff sometimes like I've dated someone
Speaker 1: who literally want food from someone's like thirty miles of
Speaker 1: it like all the time, like in the media and night.
Speaker 1: But like I feel like this stuff of food I'm
Speaker 1: looking at, like you're not pregnant like a you know,
Speaker 1: and after what you just become a nine very patient. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And that's what I'm saying. I'm very patient. So it's
Speaker 1: like if this guy's patient is good, but if he's
Speaker 1: not patient and much at the time, at one point
Speaker 1: he's going to get impatient and I'm gonna do some
Speaker 1: stuff's explain something, you just do something. You think that
Speaker 1: annoying factor makes you not want to have sex with
Speaker 1: them anymore. You don't want to have period of time.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't say not want to have six books. But
Speaker 1: I think the girl, I think it's the woman who
Speaker 1: really goes cold. I think it's the woman who goes cold,
Speaker 1: like what actually whenever you want in the beginning and
Speaker 1: then after a while, it's like hard. But sometimes guys
Speaker 1: don't even try, like that's all you want. Now. Maybe
Speaker 1: guys too sometimes that don't want Yeah, I have a
Speaker 1: lot of friends that have told me like, I don't
Speaker 1: know what's going on. And the thing about women too
Speaker 1: is when you don't want to have sex with us
Speaker 1: and initiate sexy, it makes us feel like, yeah, it
Speaker 1: makes us feel really bad. Yeah, it makes us feel
Speaker 1: like Dan, you just not attracted. Is he's doing something else?
Speaker 1: You know what's going on. We're doing things. It's been
Speaker 1: taking your business. It doesn't matter. She's like waxing everything,
Speaker 1: or does hair matter. I don't think I've ever been
Speaker 1: with a guy that's not always be sent on my pussy,
Speaker 1: like always running behind my pussy. I don't think I've
Speaker 1: ever been with a guy that's not like that. I've
Speaker 1: ever been with a guy that doesn't try to to
Speaker 1: initiate sex. I've never been with that has never happened
Speaker 1: to me. Okay, when I live with a guy, he's
Speaker 1: always behind my eyes, always trying to have sex. I
Speaker 1: think things can't take a shot. I've definitely been anything
Speaker 1: in situations where it might be like like I had
Speaker 1: a boyfriend that he was working like a double shift,
Speaker 1: trying to save up money for something, and he was
Speaker 1: always tired. He would be at work from nine in
Speaker 1: the morning until ten o'clock at night, and he didn't
Speaker 1: really want he was exhausted, tired. But I was irritated
Speaker 1: about it is working. I was irritated because then a
Speaker 1: job too. By the way, it's true, and it's like
Speaker 1: you have to be smart too, because a girl sometimes
Speaker 1: feel like she's not getting enough from you, so she
Speaker 1: goes somewhere. That's very true. You know, that's the worst
Speaker 1: thing you can say to that guy. If you don't
Speaker 1: do it, you know somebody else will if you put
Speaker 1: all right, she's not gonna still. You know, I wanted
Speaker 1: to give it to the right through. I don't feel
Speaker 1: like she's gonna go somewhere. She's gonna think, you know,
Speaker 1: make up for entertainment. You don't do it. So I
Speaker 1: forgive her with each time, so that you've got to
Speaker 1: perform up to part you have. You know, you have
Speaker 1: your back up. She's not like, oh my god, she
Speaker 1: gets a good enough so she can't w up all right. Now,
Speaker 1: let's say, um, you're in a relate you said with
Speaker 1: somebody you're not married, but you guys want to get
Speaker 1: some properties together or go into business together, how careful
Speaker 1: are you about that? Like, let's say you guys have
Speaker 1: been together for four years and you want to buy
Speaker 1: a house. Would you buy a house with somebody that
Speaker 1: you're not married to? What have I Nah? Because then
Speaker 1: jealousy gets and there's a lot of things that could
Speaker 1: stop stem from just being jealous, sir. So I don't think.
Speaker 1: I don't think I couldn't know. I don't think I
Speaker 1: could na I couldn't do it. I think buying an
Speaker 1: investment property is a good idea with someone because if
Speaker 1: it don't work out, if it don't work out, at
Speaker 1: the end of the day, business is business, and y'all
Speaker 1: can just handle your businesses and go you're separate ways
Speaker 1: when y'all siut of the house. But not everybody thinks
Speaker 1: like that though. Yeah, so you have people like when
Speaker 1: that jealousy coming is like you're gonna go to was
Speaker 1: headed for like friend that you know he's Yeah, But
Speaker 1: I mean everybody is different than the same. But for
Speaker 1: me personally, I would never in my life because people
Speaker 1: act very different than you think they would. When you're
Speaker 1: you got to think about in the beginning of every
Speaker 1: everything is great. Then when it starts to end, you're like, damn,
Speaker 1: who is this person? Who am I? How did I
Speaker 1: get here? Why am I being such a bit? And
Speaker 1: those things are like high stuff like points in life
Speaker 1: that those are stuff where you really like buying a
Speaker 1: host are like business that's like part of your everyday
Speaker 1: thing where you're you're in come mind, you're comfort zing.
Speaker 1: So you can just just like that with somebody because
Speaker 1: you feel like everything is good now, you know. But
Speaker 1: if she's like, I want you to invest in it,
Speaker 1: let's start a company together, and it's a good idea,
Speaker 1: Oh okay, I don't think I could do it, man,
Speaker 1: because as I said, I mean person. The reason why
Speaker 1: I'm talking about this is because I've experienced that in
Speaker 1: that sense weird I serio. Jessy comes in and like
Speaker 1: change everything like people, they forgot like everything that we
Speaker 1: spoke about, and this is going to be just you know,
Speaker 1: did that happen like when you started to really blow up.
Speaker 1: I've been I've been through situations where I feel like
Speaker 1: I would do certain stuff and I'm happy I didn't
Speaker 1: do it like I was gonna go through sometimes like
Speaker 1: you know what I'm so happy. I'm so glad. I
Speaker 1: didn't you know, That's what I'm saying. Like, and it
Speaker 1: was cool, that's the thing. It was like cool, everything
Speaker 1: was all right, the body, school and stuff like that.
Speaker 1: It's jealousy ever justified though never you're gonna make it worse.
Speaker 1: But I mean, what's causing the jealousy, because sometimes it
Speaker 1: could be like you really doing ship? Yeah, like so
Speaker 1: a girl guess jealous What I'm saying, like, jealousy is
Speaker 1: something you need a reason to be jealous someone. What
Speaker 1: I mean, so if if you love someone right and
Speaker 1: you're in a relationship with somebody, and you know, if
Speaker 1: you hear jealousy, you're giving what's the reason you have
Speaker 1: another woman? You're making her jealous of other women or
Speaker 1: she jealous of your success? Yeah she did listened so
Speaker 1: many weeks. Sorry, say to you even if even if,
Speaker 1: for example, like even if you're successful and you're not
Speaker 1: with the person anymore, at some point, she's gonna have flashbuger,
Speaker 1: he's gonna have flash. I mean, when you're not with
Speaker 1: the person I was speaking like, you're still Tosh and
Speaker 1: you know, in a relationship, and when she causes problems,
Speaker 1: you know. That's what I was thinking. When you're not
Speaker 1: with somebody, yeah, they could be jealous. Actually yeah you can. Yeah,
Speaker 1: your access they're haters, even when they act like they're
Speaker 1: not your haters. But sometimes when you're in a relationship
Speaker 1: with somebody, they get jealous, like little things don't matter,
Speaker 1: Like you should be able to be like, oh she's
Speaker 1: really pretty or right, you know, that's fine, that's fine,
Speaker 1: But people will be jealous. Someone like my girls laughing
Speaker 1: up with people and they're like laughing, laughing, what do
Speaker 1: you mean? You know, for example, you're with me, I
Speaker 1: will go whatever. It keeps me to being like a
Speaker 1: guy like I don't like the laughing every minute, like
Speaker 1: he's so funny. My god, your farther so so you
Speaker 1: don't like like if I see five six times a person.
Speaker 1: What if it's Kevin Hart, care zero, that's his job
Speaker 1: as a comedian. I don't care care zero. But if
Speaker 1: it's Eddie Murphy, come on, you gotta give. She could
Speaker 1: laugh with Eddie Murphy, I said, to a smile, it's
Speaker 1: fine when I see three and four going, you know,
Speaker 1: it's like, you know what these two Yeah, it didn't
Speaker 1: even have That's why he thinks, can I she have
Speaker 1: friends that our males? Like, what about having guy friends? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I stop, I'm having friends okay, but there's certain things
Speaker 1: that are going to do with their friends, like what
Speaker 1: then you go out to eat? Yeah, of course that's fine. Okay, um,
Speaker 1: but they're not going to tell me. It's get up
Speaker 1: like a freeboard and I'm going to go by John Holst. No, yeah, no,
Speaker 1: that's crazy, we think, can she laugh? Yeah of course.
Speaker 1: But there's definitely certain things that's not happening, like are
Speaker 1: weird trips? I don't know like that, like certain things
Speaker 1: is like heavy and it depends on the guide. What
Speaker 1: if you just said away trips. So what if they're
Speaker 1: best friends and they've been best friends for years and
Speaker 1: one of their mutual friends is having a destination wedding,
Speaker 1: she can't go sticky, but it's when yeah, and then
Speaker 1: a getting to trust So maybe if we really trust
Speaker 1: like that, if it's one of those girls and really
Speaker 1: trust by any mean, if she goverdy and get Penis,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, but she can't go. I won't know anyways,
Speaker 1: But I am not going to just let certain things
Speaker 1: just fly. It's just like you're not gonna certain things,
Speaker 1: certain things are respecting. But if it's a wedding, when
Speaker 1: it's fine, you know when that's a big when it
Speaker 1: would be weaked if you said no, even though we
Speaker 1: really want to say no. But when that's that's different
Speaker 1: and she should invite you to. I can't. I'm on
Speaker 1: the road. Me and Tory Lanes got these days to
Speaker 1: not out who the girls? Um try to get two
Speaker 1: more at the shows? You are, Tory Lane. Everybody have
Speaker 1: them different time because remember I go on before then
Speaker 1: this is good in different places different you know what
Speaker 1: I mean. I would be in under with him certain
Speaker 1: plains and nobody know what's creams right then We've been
Speaker 1: places with everybody cream me. So okay, I get to
Speaker 1: fear ship. You know what's been your favorite city so far?
Speaker 1: Favorite city so far? Um in America? Because we did
Speaker 1: boyd American favorite that I've been was San Francisco. I
Speaker 1: like San Francisco. San Francisco. I can feel that Francisco
Speaker 1: in New York. I wouldn't go that fast still except
Speaker 1: cleaner a certain areas. Yeah, I don't know when when
Speaker 1: I was there was this area we went shopping in
Speaker 1: and I was like, this is it's nice, it's different. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I like that. All right now, Stephanie, can your man
Speaker 1: have female friends? No? What if they said no? But
Speaker 1: what if you knew them before you? You're comfortable? Lesson?
Speaker 1: All right, Lessen, I will say this, and um, you know,
Speaker 1: in the beginning of a relationship, you deal and put
Speaker 1: up with a lot of things, you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: from your partner's past life. But after a while, like,
Speaker 1: what do you mean saying I would girl for like
Speaker 1: that doesn't make sense. It's just when you're in a
Speaker 1: relationship after a while, there are no friends. It's just
Speaker 1: you and that person. Come on, that's a very unhealthy relationship.
Speaker 1: It's not an unhealthy relationship. Social life. You have your
Speaker 1: social life like you have to. It's just no, it's
Speaker 1: just not I don't I don't feel like momy I
Speaker 1: should want me to have god friends either. What I
Speaker 1: need to hang out with gods for? If I have
Speaker 1: my man? How many guy friends you had to never
Speaker 1: try to hit it? Not many, not many, not many,
Speaker 1: not many? And you pretty much all of my guy
Speaker 1: friends if I wanted to have sex with, if I
Speaker 1: could have sex with them, every single one. I mean,
Speaker 1: you had a lot of women friends except for like
Speaker 1: my best friend who has my brother, and he's like,
Speaker 1: we're disgusted by me as well as I'm disgusted by
Speaker 1: Would you do you think that other women that you're
Speaker 1: friends with at some point you try to have sex
Speaker 1: with them? I wanted to or if you tried, they
Speaker 1: that you're trying to get me. But I'm just asking because, um, somebody,
Speaker 1: you know, some of them look really good. Yeah, so
Speaker 1: you're attracted to some of them. Chris was differently at
Speaker 1: some points. Of course you're gonna see they're gonna put
Speaker 1: on that one, just that that one shots that morning,
Speaker 1: you know. And that's another thing, like especially not hot friends,
Speaker 1: hot friend. What do you need a hot girlfriend for? Oh?
Speaker 1: I was just hanging out my hot girlfriends at the club.
Speaker 1: What you're cheating, you're having sex stuff it. That does
Speaker 1: not automatically mean that my totally prospected because my boyfriend
Speaker 1: has all of the friends, and all of his friends
Speaker 1: are hot Angela Ye La La, Anthony Garriel Union. The
Speaker 1: list goes on and on. These are married woman action
Speaker 1: of Angela that you just said, well, I mean there's
Speaker 1: a whole lot more. He has a lot of female friends.
Speaker 1: And and he's like the host with the most. He
Speaker 1: wants everybody around, everybody hang out. Let's definitely be having
Speaker 1: at Did you ever have a problem with it, that's
Speaker 1: the question. Okay, Now, I did not have a problem
Speaker 1: with it initially, and there was only a time that
Speaker 1: I had a problem with it when I found out
Speaker 1: when we broke up two years ago that he would
Speaker 1: and was messing around with one of these said friends
Speaker 1: that flew to his friend to d C to meet
Speaker 1: him in d C after me and him and this
Speaker 1: said friend were all in Miami together just hang out
Speaker 1: and kicking it two weeks prior. So. That made me sigy, like,
Speaker 1: how many of these other bitches have you've been working
Speaker 1: behind my back while you got a mouth smiling in
Speaker 1: my face calling me home girl. Well now I'm in
Speaker 1: of course, not you, but we all know how he
Speaker 1: is and we know it's always living around him, and
Speaker 1: of course they expect me when I'm in when I'm there,
Speaker 1: but who knows the goals behind my back? That that
Speaker 1: situation opened my eyes to that so ever since then
Speaker 1: I saw everything for me. And I mean, if it's
Speaker 1: just a guy that I'm sucking with, he can have
Speaker 1: all the girlfriends he can hang out with, whom he
Speaker 1: could be the hostess with, the most he can sleep
Speaker 1: with him to somebody that I care about, somebody that
Speaker 1: I'm serious with. No, so you cut up for your
Speaker 1: guy friends too, Yes, I cut it all my What
Speaker 1: do I mean? I mean, if it's not a business,
Speaker 1: if we're not if we're not doing something that has
Speaker 1: to do with my life, my you know, my my career,
Speaker 1: or you know something that involves friends other you know,
Speaker 1: mutual friends, like where it's normal. You know, I don't
Speaker 1: need to be hanging out with my guy friends for what.
Speaker 1: What do I need to go to lunch with relationships?
Speaker 1: It makes no signs. Let's set the business lunch. What
Speaker 1: is the point of me sitting with another man? What
Speaker 1: do you saying? What I'm saying is if I meet
Speaker 1: a girl and she has friends, right, me personally cannot
Speaker 1: look at my girl and like, I don't I don't
Speaker 1: like your friends anymore. Yeah. I came in the relationship
Speaker 1: knowing that you have your friends. So if you were
Speaker 1: getting me and I have some friends as our females,
Speaker 1: she cannot and will never ever in that life telling
Speaker 1: me to change my friends. I stopped right. But the
Speaker 1: only thing is that's not about side. I would say,
Speaker 1: the only thing is that is up to me though
Speaker 1: for respect the relationship. That said that she wants to
Speaker 1: cut your friends from the from the get she started
Speaker 1: acting like I'm being my friends too much. I mean,
Speaker 1: you don't. That's not because I feel like this. When
Speaker 1: you're with somebody when it's new, you know it's but
Speaker 1: it's a new thing in your life. So that's a change.
Speaker 1: So you have to make changes, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: You have to make changes for them. So I'm changing.
Speaker 1: You can't be the same person. You can't. You can't
Speaker 1: have the same life that you had when you were
Speaker 1: in a relationship, and a relationship to extends, not if
Speaker 1: when you're agree we need a boyfriend where those friends
Speaker 1: go back to your friends. But you can't do that exactly.
Speaker 1: I think there's certain friends that you know that you
Speaker 1: shouldn't equal with and that's fine, and then there's certain
Speaker 1: friends that you're for real real friends, Like I have friends, right,
Speaker 1: I agree with that I agree with Like, no, I
Speaker 1: have certain friends I know if I'm going certain places,
Speaker 1: invite them to different business because they know where they didn't.
Speaker 1: But even and he's an artist too. Let's keep it real,
Speaker 1: like there's no way he's not gonna be able to
Speaker 1: have wind. But that's like, you know, industry things, industry things.
Speaker 1: We have to mingle with opposite sex all the time.
Speaker 1: It's that's that's part of our lifestyle. That's part of
Speaker 1: you know, a business, you know what I mean, especially
Speaker 1: when you you can't if you're a business person where
Speaker 1: you work in the office. All right, now, you could
Speaker 1: dedicate your whole life to your family and just stay home,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. But you know, socialize with
Speaker 1: your family. That's that becomes your life. Like this is
Speaker 1: we're family. This is a different kind of family, and
Speaker 1: we are friends. Of is a male and female. You
Speaker 1: shouldn't have to cut your friends. Yeah, but here's the thing.
Speaker 1: I don't feel like you cut people off and be like, oh,
Speaker 1: you're not we're not friends anymore because I have a boyfriend.
Speaker 1: You just say you just pade out. That is, you
Speaker 1: don't you don't go on single people lunches, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean, When you're not single anymore, you know,
Speaker 1: when you're dating something, when you're when you're saying when
Speaker 1: you're single, you can do whatever you want to go,
Speaker 1: even whatever you want. I have friends that I really love.
Speaker 1: But if I was in a relationship, even though I'll
Speaker 1: go to lunch, I'm not in a relationship now. If
Speaker 1: I'll go to lunch with anybody, now, I could do whatever.
Speaker 1: You know, it's crazy, But in a relationship, I probably
Speaker 1: I could think of a couple of guys that I
Speaker 1: would go to lunch with now even though it's totally friends,
Speaker 1: it's totally friends, I still would not go to lunch
Speaker 1: with them if I was in a relationship. But yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean there's certain things that I have definitely be like,
Speaker 1: you know, you adjust when you're adjusting, Like, there's certain
Speaker 1: things that I have for a fact that I wouldn't
Speaker 1: care if my good bureau that's not even do it.
Speaker 1: You can trust everybody all the time, fool on you,
Speaker 1: but this there's certain friends that you definitely have a
Speaker 1: way you'd be like you don't even care in the
Speaker 1: sense of like, yeah, I'm going to the mond. Okay,
Speaker 1: i want to go to the month and I'm tired.
Speaker 1: I'm not going to the mound. You guys would go
Speaker 1: to money. There's always that friend that could you know,
Speaker 1: I'm saying pick your girl apart, pick you up, and
Speaker 1: stuff like that. But as I said, me as some money,
Speaker 1: it's some money in my relationship. I don't know what
Speaker 1: no other guy relationships talking about my RESI more female
Speaker 1: can ever and he shiff monkind in my life telling
Speaker 1: me altarians my friends not happening. I have one guy
Speaker 1: friend that I'm really close, but we went to high
Speaker 1: school together and he's married. He as a kid, like
Speaker 1: I know, his wife really cool and he comes to
Speaker 1: my house whenever, like you know, he'll hit me and
Speaker 1: be like, yeah, what you're doing, I'm gonna come watch
Speaker 1: the game. You know my boy Jama and it's never
Speaker 1: a problem. And his like I have you know, I'm
Speaker 1: friends that's like my dude and she has no problem.
Speaker 1: He'll hit me. He'll be like, I'm in Brooklyn. What
Speaker 1: you're doing, Like, let's go and Angela. It's different. It's different.
Speaker 1: It's different with your with g dude and you're a dude.
Speaker 1: It's different. You guys like work in the same environment. No,
Speaker 1: my other friend just went to high school with. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you guys went to high school. That's different. And you
Speaker 1: cheer what his wife. His wife comes over with him.
Speaker 1: We don't never really chill individually. And the kid met
Speaker 1: that I met them. Yeah, you know, everything is normal.
Speaker 1: That's normal, that's really normal, you know. But there's some friends.
Speaker 1: There's just certain things you just don't do when you're
Speaker 1: in a relationship, like when I'm when I'm when I'm
Speaker 1: in a respectful relationship, even when I'm in a relationship,
Speaker 1: even if I'm not, you know, I'm not going to
Speaker 1: do the same things that I would do. You know, well,
Speaker 1: you always have to compromise regardless. There's some compromises that
Speaker 1: you make, right, there's some things that you have to
Speaker 1: stay infirm on because I give into this. Then to me,
Speaker 1: everything you are as a single can happen in a
Speaker 1: relationship just to an extent, right exactly your trust. Now,
Speaker 1: how much does a person's diet matter to you? Like
Speaker 1: the things that they eat to come and if it's naturally,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be pissed the funk off you are what
Speaker 1: you mean? Okay, I need I need that bullshit you're
Speaker 1: eating all that processed fast food bullshit. No, I need
Speaker 1: you to be juicing. I need to be eating fresh
Speaker 1: fruits and berries, organic meats, and wild caught fish. And
Speaker 1: I need you to god them hey your ship right,
Speaker 1: so that when they be all of my face, it
Speaker 1: don't be stinky, or when I got to swallow it,
Speaker 1: it don't be nasty. Okay, thanks, all right? So no
Speaker 1: burger king seeming, no McDonald's, jiz, I don't want it, alright,
Speaker 1: So I feel you are not that matters. What about cranium?
Speaker 1: How much is a diet matter like your woman and
Speaker 1: she eats? Do you care? Are you like disgusting? No?
Speaker 1: I don't really. I don't watch that like the professor.
Speaker 1: I don't like when guys eat pork, but y'all know
Speaker 1: that I don't need Could you date somebody who doesn't
Speaker 1: eat pork? I mean, who eats pork? Yeah, of course
Speaker 1: that's isn't that man? I didn't eat pork for months.
Speaker 1: And I just had a Cuban sign with sut today
Speaker 1: and I almost died and I was sicking three days
Speaker 1: because of the diarrhea. I'm not you know, I don't
Speaker 1: like talking about those kind of subjects. But did you dirty?
Speaker 1: Let's just say that it wasn't even about the movements.
Speaker 1: It was just I was in pain and I felt
Speaker 1: sleepy and sweaty. It was nasty. I felt sick and
Speaker 1: that really felt sick. All right, Well, the holidays are
Speaker 1: coming up, so we gotta at least discuss that a
Speaker 1: little bit, okay, because a lot of people need help.
Speaker 1: You know, a lot of people are in new relationships
Speaker 1: and they don't know how they're supposed to act because
Speaker 1: it's Christmas is New Year's you know, do I spend
Speaker 1: time with you? Do you bring me around your family?
Speaker 1: What's about to happen? So, um, let's talk about Christmas.
Speaker 1: If you just started dating somebody, do you feel like
Speaker 1: you should buy a present? Of course, even if it's
Speaker 1: just just just yeah, m yeah, it's just it's a
Speaker 1: good gift to get for a guy when you first
Speaker 1: start dating him and you like him. What would you like?
Speaker 1: What would you like that? What would you buy? What
Speaker 1: you like? Um? Um, I don't know exactly what would
Speaker 1: you like to get? Like? What have been some good point?
Speaker 1: What's some parst of like? What would you be like? Wow?
Speaker 1: She nice? Yeah? Something thoughtful, something that you know he
Speaker 1: likes or something that you like a nice watch or something?
Speaker 1: Why come on you just fine, I gotta spends or
Speaker 1: something just something nice? And what I'm saying I'm gonna
Speaker 1: need something a little cheaper. You know, I got these
Speaker 1: bills and I got a kid. Like what I mean,
Speaker 1: it's just something nice way, I don't know exactly. Maybe
Speaker 1: something technology, I think technology, something yea like Alexa Alexa. Oh,
Speaker 1: you know, you know you're good at getting gifts because
Speaker 1: I'm a cake mama. To talk about this, We're gonna
Speaker 1: talk about or if he doesn't have Apple TV. That's
Speaker 1: a nice apple Apple, not a TV Apple TV. Okay too. Five,
Speaker 1: he's like he wants to I mean nobody, nobody how
Speaker 1: I could spend I would send out to like six thousand,
Speaker 1: seven thousand on the gift. But dating somebody, that's a
Speaker 1: lot for the first guy. I mean for the first ever,
Speaker 1: the first couple of weeks for somebody, a couple of thousand.
Speaker 1: But you said a watch for a guy. What do
Speaker 1: you mean about? I just like meal girl, I just
Speaker 1: mean buying a gift. Five. I'm not pressing ample, I'm
Speaker 1: not investing somebody. I'm not sure able with you. I'm
Speaker 1: not sure. I don't know. I mean I find that
Speaker 1: when in the beginning of dating a guy, I get
Speaker 1: the best gifts for the holidays, my birth because my
Speaker 1: Christmas is always the best, and so I mean for
Speaker 1: me for as a woman. I like buying gifts too.
Speaker 1: I like spending more than but sometimes you get spend.
Speaker 1: Sometimes you can spend. Yeah I have to go to
Speaker 1: but sometimes you could spend a little bit of money
Speaker 1: and get a really thought that's the first time. Something's
Speaker 1: very thoughtful. Something that you know, if I'm going for man,
Speaker 1: something for his home can use on a daily basis,
Speaker 1: Something will compliment You're lying here're going to talk about.
Speaker 1: That's talk. I'm a nice car. I would buy a
Speaker 1: nice car. Okay, that's not bad. Everybody can use a
Speaker 1: scarf at some point and then you can tie you
Speaker 1: up with it nice. Well, crany, and we appreciate you
Speaker 1: so much. I know you took some time out of
Speaker 1: your tour scheduling everything to sit down with us. We're
Speaker 1: here at Atlantic Records too. Yes, were you happy? I'm happy?
Speaker 1: I might not even with drinking something something something something too.
Speaker 1: So well, you're the only one kidding you. I know
Speaker 1: she's high. Yeah. Yeah, come on, guys, I'm trying to
Speaker 1: smoke right now. Yeah, I'm going to court smoking weed
Speaker 1: this week. Yeah, I quit just starts. Think it thirty
Speaker 1: first right there, okay for ye, all right, just for you,
Speaker 1: I'll share to that alright, chairs, everybody, lift, service, cranny
Speaker 1: and thank you so much, appreci