WEBVTT - Episode 77: Kranium 0:00:00.120 --> 0:00:02.440 Alright, what's up? It is Angela G it's lip service. 0:00:02.560 --> 0:00:05.040 I'm stepping in Santiago. I'm g G Maguire and we 0:00:05.120 --> 0:00:07.960 got Cranny. I'm here with us here. I just saw 0:00:08.039 --> 0:00:09.880 him and busting him and Tory Lanes are actually on 0:00:09.920 --> 0:00:13.039 tour right now together. How is that for you guys? 0:00:13.400 --> 0:00:15.400 I mean it's a good experience for me differently, you know, 0:00:15.600 --> 0:00:18.960 old set of the Caribbean markets. I'm just going through 0:00:19.000 --> 0:00:22.360 these seats in America and just performing and seeing different 0:00:22.440 --> 0:00:25.320 characteristic with people and all they are receive dance on 0:00:25.360 --> 0:00:27.360 and we give music. So it's been very fun for 0:00:27.440 --> 0:00:29.760 me on this this weekend. It's good for you guys too, 0:00:29.800 --> 0:00:31.960 because Tory Lanes has a bit of a Caribbean vible, 0:00:32.120 --> 0:00:35.360 so you know so, and I feel like y'all have 0:00:35.400 --> 0:00:37.159 all co signed him and so it gives him more 0:00:37.159 --> 0:00:42.560 of that, like okay, we're cool, dope, alright, So we 0:00:42.560 --> 0:00:45.120 always start a fashion with the tip of the day. Now, 0:00:45.159 --> 0:00:47.360 you had tweeted something the other day to caught my eye. 0:00:48.000 --> 0:00:50.800 All right. He was talking about cheating. Yeah, and you 0:00:50.840 --> 0:00:53.360 said that since you were fifteen years old, you never 0:00:53.400 --> 0:00:57.080 got caught cheating. Yeah, So how do you what are 0:00:57.080 --> 0:00:58.720 the steps that you can take the tip of the 0:00:58.800 --> 0:01:00.840 day to make sure you don't get caught cheating because 0:01:00.840 --> 0:01:03.040 a lot of people be getting caught up. First, it's 0:01:03.080 --> 0:01:05.880 gonna get me caught now, I'm just about about people. Now. 0:01:05.880 --> 0:01:11.840 It's a tip therefore, learning Stephanie attempt to not get 0:01:11.840 --> 0:01:15.839 caught cheating. Number one tip to not get caught cheating. 0:01:16.200 --> 0:01:20.120 You don't follow or have any public contact with the 0:01:20.160 --> 0:01:23.280 person that you're cheating. Was so, no liking pictures? Yeah, 0:01:23.480 --> 0:01:25.960 no liking pictures. You can't even follow me. You don't 0:01:25.959 --> 0:01:28.800 know that person. Who is that person? Right? You don't 0:01:28.800 --> 0:01:32.720 know that person? That good tis tip? G what's your tip? 0:01:32.760 --> 0:01:34.720 One of your tips? Because we know we have made 0:01:35.000 --> 0:01:41.120 I have a few Delete delete, delete, delete right sex messages, 0:01:41.200 --> 0:01:45.319 save the number, remember, memorize the number. Don't even save it. Wow, 0:01:45.400 --> 0:01:48.080 you guys are professional cheaters. I'm just listening, like, yeah, 0:01:49.280 --> 0:01:53.120 imagine that. Yeah, I mean it is a part of everything. 0:01:53.680 --> 0:01:56.960 But I also feel like, you know, you can do 0:01:57.240 --> 0:02:00.720 delete the numbers or whatever. What about to putting their 0:02:01.120 --> 0:02:04.640 name in differently and then deleting it. Also, because what 0:02:04.680 --> 0:02:07.160 if they happened to call you, I text you? You 0:02:07.240 --> 0:02:10.399 can do that as well, but that will still gets 0:02:10.400 --> 0:02:12.839 you got up if the person you know, I still 0:02:12.840 --> 0:02:15.399 could delete it. You know what's the number one tip? 0:02:15.520 --> 0:02:18.320 I change my mind? Number one, I changed my mind. 0:02:18.919 --> 0:02:22.280 A number one tip is you can't act different when 0:02:22.280 --> 0:02:26.040 you're cheating. Okay, You've got to act normal. Everything is normal. 0:02:26.280 --> 0:02:29.120 They don't change. That's a mistake that people make when 0:02:29.160 --> 0:02:32.840 they cheat, Like they start treating their partner bad, you 0:02:32.880 --> 0:02:35.280 know what I mean, and they're like smiling in their phone, 0:02:35.280 --> 0:02:37.240 and then they're looking up and rolling their eyes at 0:02:37.240 --> 0:02:40.600 their partner like or they treat you even better because 0:02:40.600 --> 0:02:44.200 they feel guilty. They come home doing things they never did. 0:02:44.200 --> 0:02:46.440 But even that, even that, that's a little extra, don 0:02:46.960 --> 0:02:50.840 I don't everyone change is normal. And you can't be 0:02:50.880 --> 0:02:52.760 like too messy with your phone, you know how all 0:02:52.840 --> 0:02:55.360 of a sudden you gotta like take your calls in 0:02:55.400 --> 0:02:57.480 the bathroom or I'll be right back and do stuff 0:02:57.480 --> 0:02:59.839 you never You cannot change your pattern, what I mean 0:03:00.280 --> 0:03:03.480 when these in these times, this don't need for like 0:03:03.560 --> 0:03:05.440 going to buy through my stuff because things called do 0:03:05.520 --> 0:03:09.000 not disturb anyth ah. So that's a tipire I use 0:03:09.120 --> 0:03:13.480 that do not disturb you know what? You can also 0:03:13.560 --> 0:03:16.720 black one person's number. Yeah, you can put that one 0:03:16.760 --> 0:03:21.120 person on not disturb Yeah, I don't know. I'm not 0:03:21.160 --> 0:03:23.800 doing any of these things. This is the stuff that 0:03:23.840 --> 0:03:26.680 I've done in my path or that you know of. Ye, 0:03:26.919 --> 0:03:32.320 this is the stuff I heard I say that. But 0:03:32.440 --> 0:03:34.520 some people I know take it even even a step further, 0:03:34.639 --> 0:03:36.160 Like if you spend the night or you go to 0:03:36.200 --> 0:03:38.160 someone set and you have to shower, they make sure 0:03:38.280 --> 0:03:41.120 they use the same exact soap and lotion. You don't use. No, 0:03:42.160 --> 0:03:46.240 don't use any soaps. So just rent off and right 0:03:46.360 --> 0:03:50.680 do want to be smith swith don't want to smell toast? 0:03:51.400 --> 0:03:53.480 You just rents with a lot of hot water and 0:03:53.920 --> 0:03:57.360 pet dry and then you still have the same lotion 0:03:57.440 --> 0:03:58.960 and deodorant and all of that smell that you have. 0:03:59.800 --> 0:04:03.000 We do right to well, these are at a lot 0:04:03.040 --> 0:04:06.880 of tipts. We must know some real professional cheaters out here. Also, 0:04:07.680 --> 0:04:09.960 you should tell the significant well or the person that 0:04:09.960 --> 0:04:12.480 you're cheating with the side person not to wear any 0:04:12.520 --> 0:04:16.240 type of perfumer cologne. Right. Sometimes that gives it away 0:04:16.240 --> 0:04:19.320 too if it gets on your clothes. The only reason 0:04:19.400 --> 0:04:21.320 I know these tips is because these are the things 0:04:21.320 --> 0:04:24.320 that I did not follow. You know, I never deleted anything. 0:04:24.400 --> 0:04:28.880 I was always getting cloffee cheater. Yes, so just learn 0:04:29.080 --> 0:04:31.440 learn from my mistakes cars, because then pictures be on 0:04:31.480 --> 0:04:34.440 the SoundCloud and all of that. Like I've gotten I mean, 0:04:34.839 --> 0:04:38.560 I get caught every single time. I've never not gotten caught. 0:04:38.600 --> 0:04:42.120 Wal Yeah, you've never not gotte caught. No, no, I 0:04:42.120 --> 0:04:43.839 didn't need to say sound held. But the iPhone cloud 0:04:43.880 --> 0:04:45.599 you know how you think you do. Yeah, the eye cloud. 0:04:46.040 --> 0:04:50.640 That eye cloud got everything. Yeah, text messages, all of 0:04:50.680 --> 0:04:53.320 that stuff. And also if you use somebody's computer. This 0:04:53.360 --> 0:04:56.880 had called my ex boyfriend cheating, make sure you log out. Yeah, 0:04:57.080 --> 0:04:59.680 if you're checking your emails on someone's computer, that's how 0:04:59.680 --> 0:05:02.080 he got car. He didn't log out of my laptop. 0:05:02.120 --> 0:05:04.120 And then I went to go look something up and 0:05:04.320 --> 0:05:06.279 on Google, and his Gmail popped up and it was 0:05:06.320 --> 0:05:12.480 just open. I did after, but I'm like a lie. 0:05:12.520 --> 0:05:15.160 I did for a second feel bad about it. Yeah, 0:05:15.240 --> 0:05:17.240 he should have left it open. Yeah, I felt bad, 0:05:17.320 --> 0:05:19.479 But then I felt like, God, did this. You didn't 0:05:19.480 --> 0:05:22.560 go You didn't go into his computer and go look 0:05:22.560 --> 0:05:25.840 for you open up your own computer and surprise, surprise, 0:05:26.160 --> 0:05:28.520 he left. I felt like it was funny you don't 0:05:28.560 --> 0:05:33.360 think somethings are destiny something that I'm not. You need 0:05:33.400 --> 0:05:36.520 to search somebody's for me, because I didn't go looking 0:05:36.640 --> 0:05:39.000 like figure out his password and kind of felt like 0:05:39.040 --> 0:05:40.719 somebody's like, girl, you need to look at this and 0:05:40.720 --> 0:05:43.080 see what he's up to. Well that's what you actually didn't. 0:05:43.240 --> 0:05:45.480 I think that was like a test of trust in musically, 0:05:46.160 --> 0:05:48.760 so you didn't trust him. I already didn't trust him, 0:05:48.960 --> 0:05:50.800 and that's probably what it was, because if I trusted him, 0:05:50.800 --> 0:05:54.479 I probably wouldn't have done That's true. So yeah, yeah, 0:05:54.560 --> 0:05:58.040 what we're gonna say that happened with Derek. Um No. 0:05:58.120 --> 0:06:00.400 I went to my he parted, he I've done to 0:06:00.440 --> 0:06:03.560 his Facebook from my computer, and I opened it up 0:06:03.560 --> 0:06:07.839 and I found him cheating on me. Yeah, but you 0:06:07.880 --> 0:06:10.359 know it was that was just you know, that was 0:06:10.400 --> 0:06:12.479 just that was just fate, because I used to feel 0:06:12.480 --> 0:06:14.760 so bad for cheating on him for you know, like 0:06:14.920 --> 0:06:18.200 even interesting kind of thing else, and finally I got 0:06:18.200 --> 0:06:21.559 to see that and I was like, Okay, it's okay. 0:06:21.720 --> 0:06:26.719 Everything I've been doing it it's been it's justified, he said, 0:06:27.839 --> 0:06:30.160 And you said at the time, Yeah, no, I was, Yeah, 0:06:30.480 --> 0:06:32.039 you know, but I was really younger. When I was 0:06:32.080 --> 0:06:34.360 with my son's father, I was I was, I was 0:06:34.400 --> 0:06:37.920 a kid. I needed to live. You know, I don't 0:06:37.920 --> 0:06:40.839 think that counts. I don't think it's like my first 0:06:40.920 --> 0:06:44.719 real relationship, right. I mean, it counts, but it counts, 0:06:44.839 --> 0:06:47.760 It counts, but I don't think it reflects on the 0:06:47.800 --> 0:06:50.640 person that I am. Listen, in your younger years, people 0:06:50.680 --> 0:06:54.359 and made mistakes, right, I mean, I don't even considering mistakes. 0:06:54.480 --> 0:06:56.840 You know. I was just living my life. Everybody got 0:06:56.920 --> 0:07:04.279 to live, right, and we're going to continue. It's just life, 0:07:05.640 --> 0:07:07.359 all right. Now. We were also talking about you know, 0:07:07.440 --> 0:07:10.080 the best part of relationship sometimes is when it first starts, 0:07:10.120 --> 0:07:12.840 like the newness of it. You're having sex all the time. 0:07:13.480 --> 0:07:16.440 How soon do you think until all of a sudden, 0:07:16.520 --> 0:07:18.320 like that newness wears off and you're like, Okay, we 0:07:18.360 --> 0:07:20.360 used to have sex three times a day, Now we 0:07:20.480 --> 0:07:22.200 have sex three times a month. What do you think 0:07:22.280 --> 0:07:26.480 is that honeymoon period is over six months? I ain't 0:07:26.560 --> 0:07:31.280 think six months or six months, Oh no, I think 0:07:31.280 --> 0:07:35.720 it lasts like a year and change. Yeah, a year 0:07:35.720 --> 0:07:38.560 and a half. Yeah. I feel like I'm in averages 0:07:38.680 --> 0:07:41.040 like a year and a half for I think for 0:07:41.080 --> 0:07:43.200 a lot of people from from use. I don't know 0:07:43.480 --> 0:07:46.640 because my last relationship and the Audie loven months, so 0:07:48.000 --> 0:07:50.080 if we were still in that, we were still in 0:07:50.120 --> 0:07:53.320 that phase of having sex all the time, you know, 0:07:53.440 --> 0:07:56.000 and then thinking about in my past relationships, I just 0:07:56.320 --> 0:07:59.680 it's not even the time, it's just what happens. What 0:07:59.800 --> 0:08:02.440 make that happened? Like, how do you go from wanting 0:08:02.520 --> 0:08:06.720 to have sex all the time to not wanting to 0:08:06.760 --> 0:08:09.000 have sex all the time? You get comfortable? Like what 0:08:09.160 --> 0:08:11.640 makes you what makes you horny for this? What makes 0:08:11.640 --> 0:08:15.040 you horny so much? In the beginning, you're all of 0:08:15.080 --> 0:08:18.400 a sudden, you don't have you don't have you don't 0:08:18.400 --> 0:08:20.920 have the feeling, you don't have the feeling like you 0:08:20.960 --> 0:08:24.800 don't want to. Yeah, you start saying the feeling. It's 0:08:24.840 --> 0:08:28.040 just not as like, so you want to you want 0:08:28.040 --> 0:08:30.160 to have sex with somebody else. You would have sex 0:08:30.200 --> 0:08:32.200 three times a day if it was with somebody else. 0:08:32.640 --> 0:08:37.600 I think you get comfortable sometimes and come out six 0:08:37.640 --> 0:08:40.079 months it's like if it did, because because when the 0:08:40.480 --> 0:08:43.040 experient when these fresh fish fish is like you want 0:08:43.040 --> 0:08:44.559 to do the other time that event, surely you'd be 0:08:44.559 --> 0:08:48.080 like zero. You know, I've been doing so much. I think. 0:08:48.480 --> 0:08:50.600 I think it also depends on how often you see 0:08:50.600 --> 0:08:53.000 the person, because sometimes if you're in a long distance 0:08:53.000 --> 0:08:55.400 relationship and every time you see each other, it feels like, Okay, 0:08:55.400 --> 0:08:57.880 this is exciting. But I'm gonna be honest. I feel 0:08:57.920 --> 0:09:00.200 like sometimes in relationships we get comfortable and we need 0:09:00.240 --> 0:09:04.599 to set it up because we take for granted, like, Okay, 0:09:04.920 --> 0:09:07.120 you know I could I go to bed wearing an 0:09:07.120 --> 0:09:09.440 old T shirt and some shorts. You don't do the 0:09:09.480 --> 0:09:10.920 things that you used to do. None of us do, 0:09:11.520 --> 0:09:13.880 I mean not me. I sleep naked all the time. 0:09:13.920 --> 0:09:17.880 I need to real life, like life, I'm a naked person. 0:09:18.120 --> 0:09:20.839 I always need it all the time. All right, Well, 0:09:20.840 --> 0:09:25.800 I sleep with clothes on. I know, I know. But 0:09:26.200 --> 0:09:29.720 and that's another thing. Like even I was with someone 0:09:29.760 --> 0:09:31.880 for seven years and I used to want to have 0:09:31.920 --> 0:09:34.000 sex with him all the time, except for the times 0:09:34.000 --> 0:09:36.720 that I was having sex with other people. M that's 0:09:36.720 --> 0:09:38.640 the only time that I didn't want him all the time. 0:09:38.679 --> 0:09:42.080 And we're talking about for years, right, So basically you 0:09:42.240 --> 0:09:44.200 switched it up, and you think he could tell like, 0:09:44.320 --> 0:09:45.719 now she don't want to have sex, she must be 0:09:45.840 --> 0:09:48.199 doing something. I just want. I just I just want 0:09:48.200 --> 0:09:51.600 to know what makes that happen? Like why? Where? How 0:09:51.640 --> 0:09:54.280 do you go from wanting somebody so bad to not 0:09:54.440 --> 0:09:57.600 wanting them so much anymore? Like what makes that happen? 0:09:58.120 --> 0:10:02.319 The newness wears off cranium? You tell as a man. Honestly, 0:10:04.000 --> 0:10:06.400 I feel like everybody's different still, and I mean not 0:10:06.440 --> 0:10:12.040 everybody's seeing but there's this is saying like it's too 0:10:12.120 --> 0:10:16.760 much of one thing. Yeah, sometimes you need that break 0:10:16.840 --> 0:10:19.280 in between. That's necessarily you're going to be in a brick, 0:10:19.360 --> 0:10:22.920 but sometimes you need to take you know, do different things, 0:10:23.320 --> 0:10:26.200 go to enjoy yourself, part with the kids. Just not 0:10:26.720 --> 0:10:28.640 need it. You need to miss it. You can't be 0:10:28.679 --> 0:10:31.120 all up on each other every single day still, That's 0:10:31.160 --> 0:10:34.000 all I feel because no matter what, almost an angel, 0:10:34.160 --> 0:10:36.120 something's at one point they're gonna be like it's too much. 0:10:36.160 --> 0:10:38.240 Sometimes you doesn't need that. I can sometimes it's just 0:10:38.360 --> 0:10:40.480 so stressed too from like whatever you have going on. 0:10:40.559 --> 0:10:42.120 It depends on the female because someone you else is 0:10:42.160 --> 0:10:45.560 annoying as hell. Know, it's really things. So it's not 0:10:45.640 --> 0:10:47.880 even about you even don't want to be your penny normal. 0:10:47.920 --> 0:10:51.040 It's more like, yeah, I need that, But what do 0:10:51.160 --> 0:10:59.360 females do that's annoying everything everything like can't be everything 0:10:59.440 --> 0:11:04.400 like what some examples it was annoying, like talking on 0:11:04.440 --> 0:11:09.840 the floor, but you say talking like like you guys 0:11:09.840 --> 0:11:12.880 have some un necessary stuff sometimes like I've dated someone 0:11:12.920 --> 0:11:18.000 who literally want food from someone's like thirty miles of 0:11:18.040 --> 0:11:21.520 it like all the time, like in the media and night. 0:11:21.520 --> 0:11:23.040 But like I feel like this stuff of food I'm 0:11:23.040 --> 0:11:25.320 looking at, like you're not pregnant like a you know, 0:11:25.559 --> 0:11:29.040 and after what you just become a nine very patient. Yeah, 0:11:29.040 --> 0:11:31.000 And that's what I'm saying. I'm very patient. So it's 0:11:31.040 --> 0:11:33.080 like if this guy's patient is good, but if he's 0:11:33.240 --> 0:11:36.319 not patient and much at the time, at one point 0:11:36.360 --> 0:11:39.160 he's going to get impatient and I'm gonna do some 0:11:39.440 --> 0:11:42.760 stuff's explain something, you just do something. You think that 0:11:42.880 --> 0:11:44.960 annoying factor makes you not want to have sex with 0:11:45.000 --> 0:11:47.640 them anymore. You don't want to have period of time. 0:11:47.679 --> 0:11:49.640 I wouldn't say not want to have six books. But 0:11:49.679 --> 0:11:51.880 I think the girl, I think it's the woman who 0:11:51.920 --> 0:11:54.920 really goes cold. I think it's the woman who goes cold, 0:11:55.200 --> 0:11:58.480 like what actually whenever you want in the beginning and 0:11:58.520 --> 0:12:01.320 then after a while, it's like hard. But sometimes guys 0:12:01.320 --> 0:12:06.040 don't even try, like that's all you want. Now. Maybe 0:12:06.120 --> 0:12:08.440 guys too sometimes that don't want Yeah, I have a 0:12:08.480 --> 0:12:10.520 lot of friends that have told me like, I don't 0:12:10.559 --> 0:12:12.800 know what's going on. And the thing about women too 0:12:12.920 --> 0:12:14.520 is when you don't want to have sex with us 0:12:14.559 --> 0:12:17.200 and initiate sexy, it makes us feel like, yeah, it 0:12:17.200 --> 0:12:20.760 makes us feel really bad. Yeah, it makes us feel 0:12:20.800 --> 0:12:23.240 like Dan, you just not attracted. Is he's doing something else? 0:12:23.720 --> 0:12:26.800 You know what's going on. We're doing things. It's been 0:12:26.800 --> 0:12:33.160 taking your business. It doesn't matter. She's like waxing everything, 0:12:33.440 --> 0:12:36.040 or does hair matter. I don't think I've ever been 0:12:36.080 --> 0:12:38.640 with a guy that's not always be sent on my pussy, 0:12:38.800 --> 0:12:41.319 like always running behind my pussy. I don't think I've 0:12:41.320 --> 0:12:44.720 ever been with a guy that's not like that. I've 0:12:44.760 --> 0:12:46.800 ever been with a guy that doesn't try to to 0:12:46.880 --> 0:12:49.680 initiate sex. I've never been with that has never happened 0:12:49.679 --> 0:12:52.360 to me. Okay, when I live with a guy, he's 0:12:52.360 --> 0:12:55.600 always behind my eyes, always trying to have sex. I 0:12:55.640 --> 0:12:58.000 think things can't take a shot. I've definitely been anything 0:12:58.280 --> 0:13:01.480 in situations where it might be like like I had 0:13:01.480 --> 0:13:03.720 a boyfriend that he was working like a double shift, 0:13:03.720 --> 0:13:05.240 trying to save up money for something, and he was 0:13:05.280 --> 0:13:07.000 always tired. He would be at work from nine in 0:13:07.000 --> 0:13:09.960 the morning until ten o'clock at night, and he didn't 0:13:09.960 --> 0:13:13.720 really want he was exhausted, tired. But I was irritated 0:13:13.760 --> 0:13:18.280 about it is working. I was irritated because then a 0:13:19.400 --> 0:13:21.200 job too. By the way, it's true, and it's like 0:13:21.640 --> 0:13:24.240 you have to be smart too, because a girl sometimes 0:13:24.320 --> 0:13:26.480 feel like she's not getting enough from you, so she 0:13:26.559 --> 0:13:30.200 goes somewhere. That's very true. You know, that's the worst 0:13:30.200 --> 0:13:31.480 thing you can say to that guy. If you don't 0:13:31.480 --> 0:13:33.600 do it, you know somebody else will if you put 0:13:34.000 --> 0:13:37.280 all right, she's not gonna still. You know, I wanted 0:13:37.320 --> 0:13:38.959 to give it to the right through. I don't feel 0:13:38.960 --> 0:13:41.880 like she's gonna go somewhere. She's gonna think, you know, 0:13:42.280 --> 0:13:44.280 make up for entertainment. You don't do it. So I 0:13:44.360 --> 0:13:46.840 forgive her with each time, so that you've got to 0:13:46.840 --> 0:13:48.680 perform up to part you have. You know, you have 0:13:48.679 --> 0:13:51.520 your back up. She's not like, oh my god, she 0:13:51.600 --> 0:13:57.839 gets a good enough so she can't w up all right. Now, 0:13:57.880 --> 0:14:00.400 let's say, um, you're in a relate you said with 0:14:00.440 --> 0:14:03.000 somebody you're not married, but you guys want to get 0:14:03.040 --> 0:14:07.240 some properties together or go into business together, how careful 0:14:07.280 --> 0:14:09.160 are you about that? Like, let's say you guys have 0:14:09.200 --> 0:14:12.360 been together for four years and you want to buy 0:14:12.360 --> 0:14:14.600 a house. Would you buy a house with somebody that 0:14:14.640 --> 0:14:21.600 you're not married to? What have I Nah? Because then 0:14:21.760 --> 0:14:24.600 jealousy gets and there's a lot of things that could 0:14:24.600 --> 0:14:27.560 stop stem from just being jealous, sir. So I don't think. 0:14:28.680 --> 0:14:30.280 I don't think I couldn't know. I don't think I 0:14:30.280 --> 0:14:33.000 could na I couldn't do it. I think buying an 0:14:33.040 --> 0:14:35.760 investment property is a good idea with someone because if 0:14:35.800 --> 0:14:37.720 it don't work out, if it don't work out, at 0:14:37.720 --> 0:14:39.240 the end of the day, business is business, and y'all 0:14:39.240 --> 0:14:41.040 can just handle your businesses and go you're separate ways 0:14:41.080 --> 0:14:43.120 when y'all siut of the house. But not everybody thinks 0:14:43.160 --> 0:14:46.160 like that though. Yeah, so you have people like when 0:14:46.160 --> 0:14:49.000 that jealousy coming is like you're gonna go to was 0:14:49.160 --> 0:14:53.360 headed for like friend that you know he's Yeah, But 0:14:53.440 --> 0:14:55.360 I mean everybody is different than the same. But for 0:14:55.400 --> 0:14:57.640 me personally, I would never in my life because people 0:14:57.640 --> 0:14:59.920 act very different than you think they would. When you're 0:15:00.000 --> 0:15:01.200 you got to think about in the beginning of every 0:15:01.680 --> 0:15:04.160 everything is great. Then when it starts to end, you're like, damn, 0:15:04.200 --> 0:15:09.080 who is this person? Who am I? How did I 0:15:09.120 --> 0:15:11.320 get here? Why am I being such a bit? And 0:15:11.400 --> 0:15:14.400 those things are like high stuff like points in life 0:15:14.400 --> 0:15:17.440 that those are stuff where you really like buying a 0:15:17.520 --> 0:15:20.640 host are like business that's like part of your everyday 0:15:20.720 --> 0:15:23.280 thing where you're you're in come mind, you're comfort zing. 0:15:23.320 --> 0:15:27.280 So you can just just like that with somebody because 0:15:27.720 --> 0:15:29.960 you feel like everything is good now, you know. But 0:15:30.000 --> 0:15:31.360 if she's like, I want you to invest in it, 0:15:31.440 --> 0:15:33.520 let's start a company together, and it's a good idea, 0:15:35.960 --> 0:15:41.120 Oh okay, I don't think I could do it, man, 0:15:41.120 --> 0:15:43.160 because as I said, I mean person. The reason why 0:15:43.160 --> 0:15:46.840 I'm talking about this is because I've experienced that in 0:15:46.880 --> 0:15:49.960 that sense weird I serio. Jessy comes in and like 0:15:50.240 --> 0:15:53.480 change everything like people, they forgot like everything that we 0:15:53.560 --> 0:15:56.000 spoke about, and this is going to be just you know, 0:15:57.600 --> 0:15:59.600 did that happen like when you started to really blow up. 0:16:00.760 --> 0:16:02.600 I've been I've been through situations where I feel like 0:16:03.160 --> 0:16:05.760 I would do certain stuff and I'm happy I didn't 0:16:05.760 --> 0:16:08.040 do it like I was gonna go through sometimes like 0:16:08.080 --> 0:16:09.680 you know what I'm so happy. I'm so glad. I 0:16:09.680 --> 0:16:12.320 didn't you know, That's what I'm saying. Like, and it 0:16:12.400 --> 0:16:14.560 was cool, that's the thing. It was like cool, everything 0:16:14.600 --> 0:16:16.360 was all right, the body, school and stuff like that. 0:16:16.880 --> 0:16:20.840 It's jealousy ever justified though never you're gonna make it worse. 0:16:21.080 --> 0:16:24.680 But I mean, what's causing the jealousy, because sometimes it 0:16:24.760 --> 0:16:27.480 could be like you really doing ship? Yeah, like so 0:16:27.520 --> 0:16:30.520 a girl guess jealous What I'm saying, like, jealousy is 0:16:30.560 --> 0:16:33.960 something you need a reason to be jealous someone. What 0:16:34.000 --> 0:16:37.200 I mean, so if if you love someone right and 0:16:37.320 --> 0:16:40.440 you're in a relationship with somebody, and you know, if 0:16:40.640 --> 0:16:43.400 you hear jealousy, you're giving what's the reason you have 0:16:43.440 --> 0:16:48.640 another woman? You're making her jealous of other women or 0:16:48.760 --> 0:16:51.520 she jealous of your success? Yeah she did listened so 0:16:51.520 --> 0:16:58.640 many weeks. Sorry, say to you even if even if, 0:16:59.160 --> 0:17:03.440 for example, like even if you're successful and you're not 0:17:03.480 --> 0:17:07.960 with the person anymore, at some point, she's gonna have flashbuger, 0:17:08.000 --> 0:17:09.440 he's gonna have flash. I mean, when you're not with 0:17:09.600 --> 0:17:13.359 the person I was speaking like, you're still Tosh and 0:17:13.800 --> 0:17:17.240 you know, in a relationship, and when she causes problems, 0:17:17.640 --> 0:17:19.760 you know. That's what I was thinking. When you're not 0:17:19.800 --> 0:17:23.880 with somebody, yeah, they could be jealous. Actually yeah you can. Yeah, 0:17:24.480 --> 0:17:30.160 your access they're haters, even when they act like they're 0:17:30.200 --> 0:17:34.480 not your haters. But sometimes when you're in a relationship 0:17:34.480 --> 0:17:36.760 with somebody, they get jealous, like little things don't matter, 0:17:36.800 --> 0:17:38.240 Like you should be able to be like, oh she's 0:17:38.240 --> 0:17:41.720 really pretty or right, you know, that's fine, that's fine, 0:17:42.000 --> 0:17:44.920 But people will be jealous. Someone like my girls laughing 0:17:44.960 --> 0:17:47.600 up with people and they're like laughing, laughing, what do 0:17:47.640 --> 0:17:52.119 you mean? You know, for example, you're with me, I 0:17:52.119 --> 0:17:54.080 will go whatever. It keeps me to being like a 0:17:54.119 --> 0:17:56.359 guy like I don't like the laughing every minute, like 0:17:57.720 --> 0:18:01.560 he's so funny. My god, your farther so so you 0:18:01.560 --> 0:18:06.119 don't like like if I see five six times a person. 0:18:07.560 --> 0:18:12.920 What if it's Kevin Hart, care zero, that's his job 0:18:12.960 --> 0:18:16.360 as a comedian. I don't care care zero. But if 0:18:16.400 --> 0:18:19.440 it's Eddie Murphy, come on, you gotta give. She could 0:18:19.480 --> 0:18:21.520 laugh with Eddie Murphy, I said, to a smile, it's 0:18:21.520 --> 0:18:25.320 fine when I see three and four going, you know, 0:18:25.359 --> 0:18:32.280 it's like, you know what these two Yeah, it didn't 0:18:32.280 --> 0:18:36.800 even have That's why he thinks, can I she have 0:18:36.920 --> 0:18:39.720 friends that our males? Like, what about having guy friends? Yeah? 0:18:39.720 --> 0:18:42.600 I stop, I'm having friends okay, but there's certain things 0:18:42.600 --> 0:18:44.920 that are going to do with their friends, like what 0:18:45.440 --> 0:18:49.320 then you go out to eat? Yeah, of course that's fine. Okay, um, 0:18:49.480 --> 0:18:52.320 but they're not going to tell me. It's get up 0:18:52.359 --> 0:18:55.040 like a freeboard and I'm going to go by John Holst. No, yeah, no, 0:18:55.320 --> 0:19:03.520 that's crazy, we think, can she laugh? Yeah of course. 0:19:03.520 --> 0:19:06.639 But there's definitely certain things that's not happening, like are 0:19:06.680 --> 0:19:10.800 weird trips? I don't know like that, like certain things 0:19:10.920 --> 0:19:12.960 is like heavy and it depends on the guide. What 0:19:13.040 --> 0:19:15.800 if you just said away trips. So what if they're 0:19:15.840 --> 0:19:17.800 best friends and they've been best friends for years and 0:19:17.800 --> 0:19:20.119 one of their mutual friends is having a destination wedding, 0:19:20.840 --> 0:19:24.520 she can't go sticky, but it's when yeah, and then 0:19:24.520 --> 0:19:27.600 a getting to trust So maybe if we really trust 0:19:27.720 --> 0:19:29.480 like that, if it's one of those girls and really 0:19:29.480 --> 0:19:32.679 trust by any mean, if she goverdy and get Penis, 0:19:32.720 --> 0:19:35.880 I'm sorry, but she can't go. I won't know anyways, 0:19:35.960 --> 0:19:39.560 But I am not going to just let certain things 0:19:39.600 --> 0:19:42.080 just fly. It's just like you're not gonna certain things, 0:19:42.119 --> 0:19:45.480 certain things are respecting. But if it's a wedding, when 0:19:45.680 --> 0:19:47.480 it's fine, you know when that's a big when it 0:19:47.520 --> 0:19:49.520 would be weaked if you said no, even though we 0:19:49.560 --> 0:19:52.240 really want to say no. But when that's that's different 0:19:52.400 --> 0:19:57.560 and she should invite you to. I can't. I'm on 0:19:57.560 --> 0:19:59.560 the road. Me and Tory Lanes got these days to 0:19:59.680 --> 0:20:04.920 not out who the girls? Um try to get two 0:20:04.920 --> 0:20:07.600 more at the shows? You are, Tory Lane. Everybody have 0:20:07.680 --> 0:20:10.680 them different time because remember I go on before then 0:20:11.480 --> 0:20:13.399 this is good in different places different you know what 0:20:13.400 --> 0:20:14.680 I mean. I would be in under with him certain 0:20:14.680 --> 0:20:17.080 plains and nobody know what's creams right then We've been 0:20:17.119 --> 0:20:20.119 places with everybody cream me. So okay, I get to 0:20:20.200 --> 0:20:23.680 fear ship. You know what's been your favorite city so far? 0:20:24.000 --> 0:20:28.199 Favorite city so far? Um in America? Because we did 0:20:28.280 --> 0:20:33.639 boyd American favorite that I've been was San Francisco. I 0:20:33.800 --> 0:20:38.480 like San Francisco. San Francisco. I can feel that Francisco 0:20:38.920 --> 0:20:43.040 in New York. I wouldn't go that fast still except 0:20:43.080 --> 0:20:47.080 cleaner a certain areas. Yeah, I don't know when when 0:20:47.080 --> 0:20:48.679 I was there was this area we went shopping in 0:20:48.760 --> 0:20:51.360 and I was like, this is it's nice, it's different. Yeah, 0:20:51.440 --> 0:20:55.840 I like that. All right now, Stephanie, can your man 0:20:55.880 --> 0:21:02.320 have female friends? No? What if they said no? But 0:21:02.400 --> 0:21:05.439