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Speaker 1: Alright, what's up? It is Angela G it's lip service.

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Speaker 1: I'm stepping in Santiago. I'm g G Maguire and we

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Speaker 1: got Cranny. I'm here with us here. I just saw

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Speaker 1: him and busting him and Tory Lanes are actually on

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Speaker 1: tour right now together. How is that for you guys?

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Speaker 1: I mean it's a good experience for me differently, you know,

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Speaker 1: old set of the Caribbean markets. I'm just going through

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Speaker 1: these seats in America and just performing and seeing different

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Speaker 1: characteristic with people and all they are receive dance on

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Speaker 1: and we give music. So it's been very fun for

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Speaker 1: me on this this weekend. It's good for you guys too,

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Speaker 1: because Tory Lanes has a bit of a Caribbean vible,

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Speaker 1: so you know so, and I feel like y'all have

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Speaker 1: of that, like okay, we're cool, dope, alright, So we

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Speaker 1: always start a fashion with the tip of the day. Now,

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Speaker 1: you had tweeted something the other day to caught my eye.

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Speaker 1: All right. He was talking about cheating. Yeah, and you

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Speaker 1: said that since you were fifteen years old, you never

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Speaker 1: got caught cheating. Yeah, So how do you what are

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Speaker 1: the steps that you can take the tip of the

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Speaker 1: day to make sure you don't get caught cheating because

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Speaker 1: a lot of people be getting caught up. First, it's

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Speaker 1: gonna get me caught now, I'm just about about people. Now.

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Speaker 1: It's a tip therefore, learning Stephanie attempt to not get

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Speaker 1: caught cheating. Number one tip to not get caught cheating.

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Speaker 1: You don't follow or have any public contact with the

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Speaker 1: person that you're cheating. Was so, no liking pictures? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: no liking pictures. You can't even follow me. You don't

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Speaker 1: know that person. Who is that person? Right? You don't

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Speaker 1: know that person? That good tis tip? G what's your tip?

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Speaker 1: One of your tips? Because we know we have made

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Speaker 1: I have a few Delete delete, delete, delete right sex messages,

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Speaker 1: save the number, remember, memorize the number. Don't even save it. Wow,

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Speaker 1: you guys are professional cheaters. I'm just listening, like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: imagine that. Yeah, I mean it is a part of everything.

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Speaker 1: But I also feel like, you know, you can do

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Speaker 1: delete the numbers or whatever. What about to putting their

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Speaker 1: name in differently and then deleting it. Also, because what

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Speaker 1: if they happened to call you, I text you? You

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Speaker 1: can do that as well, but that will still gets

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Speaker 1: you got up if the person you know, I still

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Speaker 1: could delete it. You know what's the number one tip?

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Speaker 1: I change my mind? Number one, I changed my mind.

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Speaker 1: A number one tip is you can't act different when

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Speaker 1: you're cheating. Okay, You've got to act normal. Everything is normal.

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Speaker 1: They don't change. That's a mistake that people make when

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Speaker 1: they cheat, Like they start treating their partner bad, you

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Speaker 1: and then they're looking up and rolling their eyes at

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Speaker 1: their partner like or they treat you even better because

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Speaker 1: they feel guilty. They come home doing things they never did.

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Speaker 1: But even that, even that, that's a little extra, don

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Speaker 1: I don't everyone change is normal. And you can't be

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Speaker 1: you never You cannot change your pattern, what I mean

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Speaker 1: when these in these times, this don't need for like

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Speaker 1: going to buy through my stuff because things called do

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Speaker 1: that do not disturb you know what? You can also

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Speaker 1: black one person's number. Yeah, you can put that one

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Speaker 1: person on not disturb Yeah, I don't know. I'm not

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Speaker 1: doing any of these things. This is the stuff that

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Speaker 1: this is the stuff I heard I say that. But

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Speaker 1: some people I know take it even even a step further,

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Speaker 1: someone set and you have to shower, they make sure

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Speaker 1: they use the same exact soap and lotion. You don't use. No,

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Speaker 1: don't use any soaps. So just rent off and right

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Speaker 1: do want to be smith swith don't want to smell toast?

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Speaker 1: You just rents with a lot of hot water and

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Speaker 1: I know these tips is because these are the things

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Speaker 1: I was always getting cloffee cheater. Yes, so just learn

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Speaker 1: That eye cloud got everything. Yeah, text messages, all of

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Speaker 1: But then I felt like, God, did this. You didn't

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Speaker 1: for you open up your own computer and surprise, surprise,

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Speaker 1: he left. I felt like it was funny you don't

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Speaker 1: think somethings are destiny something that I'm not. You need

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Speaker 1: I think that was like a test of trust in musically,

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Speaker 1: You know. I was just living my life. Everybody got

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Speaker 1: it lasts like a year and change. Yeah, a year

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Speaker 1: don't want to. Yeah, you start saying the feeling. It's

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Speaker 1: And we're talking about for years, right, So basically you

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Speaker 1: doing something. I just want. I just I just want

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Speaker 1: to know what makes that happen? Like why? Where? How

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Speaker 1: The newness wears off cranium? You tell as a man. Honestly,

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Speaker 1: but sometimes you need to take you know, do different things,

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Speaker 1: Sometimes you doesn't need that. I can sometimes it's just

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Speaker 1: we're disgusted by me as well as I'm disgusted by

423
00:22:10,640 --> 00:22:12,320
Speaker 1: Would you do you think that other women that you're

424
00:22:12,359 --> 00:22:15,000
Speaker 1: friends with at some point you try to have sex

425
00:22:15,000 --> 00:22:17,919
Speaker 1: with them? I wanted to or if you tried, they

426
00:22:18,000 --> 00:22:25,639
Speaker 1: that you're trying to get me. But I'm just asking because, um, somebody,

427
00:22:26,840 --> 00:22:29,000
Speaker 1: you know, some of them look really good. Yeah, so

428
00:22:29,040 --> 00:22:31,280
Speaker 1: you're attracted to some of them. Chris was differently at

429
00:22:31,320 --> 00:22:34,240
Speaker 1: some points. Of course you're gonna see they're gonna put

430
00:22:34,240 --> 00:22:37,159
Speaker 1: on that one, just that that one shots that morning,

431
00:22:37,840 --> 00:22:41,280
Speaker 1: you know. And that's another thing, like especially not hot friends,

432
00:22:42,359 --> 00:22:44,720
Speaker 1: hot friend. What do you need a hot girlfriend for? Oh?

433
00:22:44,760 --> 00:22:46,960
Speaker 1: I was just hanging out my hot girlfriends at the club.

434
00:22:47,119 --> 00:22:50,719
Speaker 1: What you're cheating, you're having sex stuff it. That does

435
00:22:50,760 --> 00:22:58,280
Speaker 1: not automatically mean that my totally prospected because my boyfriend

436
00:22:58,320 --> 00:23:01,960
Speaker 1: has all of the friends, and all of his friends

437
00:23:02,080 --> 00:23:06,720
Speaker 1: are hot Angela Ye La La, Anthony Garriel Union. The

438
00:23:06,800 --> 00:23:10,880
Speaker 1: list goes on and on. These are married woman action

439
00:23:11,080 --> 00:23:14,080
Speaker 1: of Angela that you just said, well, I mean there's

440
00:23:14,160 --> 00:23:16,840
Speaker 1: a whole lot more. He has a lot of female friends.

441
00:23:16,960 --> 00:23:18,879
Speaker 1: And and he's like the host with the most. He

442
00:23:18,920 --> 00:23:22,160
Speaker 1: wants everybody around, everybody hang out. Let's definitely be having

443
00:23:22,200 --> 00:23:26,720
Speaker 1: at Did you ever have a problem with it, that's

444
00:23:26,720 --> 00:23:31,440
Speaker 1: the question. Okay, Now, I did not have a problem

445
00:23:31,520 --> 00:23:34,920
Speaker 1: with it initially, and there was only a time that

446
00:23:34,960 --> 00:23:36,840
Speaker 1: I had a problem with it when I found out

447
00:23:36,840 --> 00:23:39,919
Speaker 1: when we broke up two years ago that he would

448
00:23:40,080 --> 00:23:43,520
Speaker 1: and was messing around with one of these said friends

449
00:23:43,960 --> 00:23:45,800
Speaker 1: that flew to his friend to d C to meet

450
00:23:45,840 --> 00:23:48,040
Speaker 1: him in d C after me and him and this

451
00:23:48,160 --> 00:23:50,280
Speaker 1: said friend were all in Miami together just hang out

452
00:23:50,280 --> 00:23:53,720
Speaker 1: and kicking it two weeks prior. So. That made me sigy, like,

453
00:23:54,800 --> 00:23:56,560
Speaker 1: how many of these other bitches have you've been working

454
00:23:56,560 --> 00:23:58,200
Speaker 1: behind my back while you got a mouth smiling in

455
00:23:58,240 --> 00:24:00,119
Speaker 1: my face calling me home girl. Well now I'm in

456
00:24:00,480 --> 00:24:03,600
Speaker 1: of course, not you, but we all know how he

457
00:24:03,720 --> 00:24:06,040
Speaker 1: is and we know it's always living around him, and

458
00:24:06,160 --> 00:24:08,600
Speaker 1: of course they expect me when I'm in when I'm there,

459
00:24:08,600 --> 00:24:10,840
Speaker 1: but who knows the goals behind my back? That that

460
00:24:10,920 --> 00:24:13,280
Speaker 1: situation opened my eyes to that so ever since then

461
00:24:13,320 --> 00:24:16,160
Speaker 1: I saw everything for me. And I mean, if it's

462
00:24:16,200 --> 00:24:19,280
Speaker 1: just a guy that I'm sucking with, he can have

463
00:24:19,320 --> 00:24:21,240
Speaker 1: all the girlfriends he can hang out with, whom he

464
00:24:21,280 --> 00:24:23,040
Speaker 1: could be the hostess with, the most he can sleep

465
00:24:23,040 --> 00:24:25,399
Speaker 1: with him to somebody that I care about, somebody that

466
00:24:25,440 --> 00:24:28,639
Speaker 1: I'm serious with. No, so you cut up for your

467
00:24:28,680 --> 00:24:32,000
Speaker 1: guy friends too, Yes, I cut it all my What

468
00:24:32,000 --> 00:24:34,040
Speaker 1: do I mean? I mean, if it's not a business,

469
00:24:34,080 --> 00:24:36,360
Speaker 1: if we're not if we're not doing something that has

470
00:24:36,400 --> 00:24:39,320
Speaker 1: to do with my life, my you know, my my career,

471
00:24:39,640 --> 00:24:42,879
Speaker 1: or you know something that involves friends other you know,

472
00:24:43,119 --> 00:24:46,280
Speaker 1: mutual friends, like where it's normal. You know, I don't

473
00:24:46,320 --> 00:24:48,480
Speaker 1: need to be hanging out with my guy friends for what.

474
00:24:48,480 --> 00:24:51,680
Speaker 1: What do I need to go to lunch with relationships?

475
00:24:51,560 --> 00:24:55,399
Speaker 1: It makes no signs. Let's set the business lunch. What

476
00:24:55,560 --> 00:24:58,280
Speaker 1: is the point of me sitting with another man? What

477
00:24:58,280 --> 00:25:00,320
Speaker 1: do you saying? What I'm saying is if I meet

478
00:25:00,400 --> 00:25:05,720
Speaker 1: a girl and she has friends, right, me personally cannot

479
00:25:05,760 --> 00:25:08,680
Speaker 1: look at my girl and like, I don't I don't

480
00:25:08,720 --> 00:25:11,400
Speaker 1: like your friends anymore. Yeah. I came in the relationship

481
00:25:11,520 --> 00:25:13,119
Speaker 1: knowing that you have your friends. So if you were

482
00:25:13,160 --> 00:25:15,680
Speaker 1: getting me and I have some friends as our females,

483
00:25:17,000 --> 00:25:20,000
Speaker 1: she cannot and will never ever in that life telling

484
00:25:20,080 --> 00:25:23,919
Speaker 1: me to change my friends. I stopped right. But the

485
00:25:23,960 --> 00:25:25,720
Speaker 1: only thing is that's not about side. I would say,

486
00:25:25,720 --> 00:25:28,520
Speaker 1: the only thing is that is up to me though

487
00:25:28,600 --> 00:25:33,320
Speaker 1: for respect the relationship. That said that she wants to

488
00:25:33,359 --> 00:25:35,919
Speaker 1: cut your friends from the from the get she started

489
00:25:35,920 --> 00:25:39,000
Speaker 1: acting like I'm being my friends too much. I mean,

490
00:25:39,040 --> 00:25:42,920
Speaker 1: you don't. That's not because I feel like this. When

491
00:25:42,920 --> 00:25:45,679
Speaker 1: you're with somebody when it's new, you know it's but

492
00:25:45,720 --> 00:25:47,679
Speaker 1: it's a new thing in your life. So that's a change.

493
00:25:47,960 --> 00:25:50,400
Speaker 1: So you have to make changes, you know what I mean.

494
00:25:50,440 --> 00:25:52,720
Speaker 1: You have to make changes for them. So I'm changing.

495
00:25:52,800 --> 00:25:54,920
Speaker 1: You can't be the same person. You can't. You can't

496
00:25:54,960 --> 00:25:57,360
Speaker 1: have the same life that you had when you were

497
00:25:57,520 --> 00:26:02,159
Speaker 1: in a relationship, and a relationship to extends, not if

498
00:26:02,240 --> 00:26:06,040
Speaker 1: when you're agree we need a boyfriend where those friends

499
00:26:06,080 --> 00:26:10,080
Speaker 1: go back to your friends. But you can't do that exactly.

500
00:26:10,160 --> 00:26:12,439
Speaker 1: I think there's certain friends that you know that you

501
00:26:12,440 --> 00:26:14,880
Speaker 1: shouldn't equal with and that's fine, and then there's certain

502
00:26:14,880 --> 00:26:18,080
Speaker 1: friends that you're for real real friends, Like I have friends, right,

503
00:26:18,119 --> 00:26:19,960
Speaker 1: I agree with that I agree with Like, no, I

504
00:26:19,960 --> 00:26:22,000
Speaker 1: have certain friends I know if I'm going certain places,

505
00:26:22,359 --> 00:26:24,520
Speaker 1: invite them to different business because they know where they didn't.

506
00:26:24,560 --> 00:26:27,560
Speaker 1: But even and he's an artist too. Let's keep it real,

507
00:26:27,640 --> 00:26:29,399
Speaker 1: like there's no way he's not gonna be able to

508
00:26:29,440 --> 00:26:34,080
Speaker 1: have wind. But that's like, you know, industry things, industry things.

509
00:26:34,160 --> 00:26:37,000
Speaker 1: We have to mingle with opposite sex all the time.

510
00:26:37,080 --> 00:26:40,200
Speaker 1: It's that's that's part of our lifestyle. That's part of

511
00:26:40,240 --> 00:26:42,760
Speaker 1: you know, a business, you know what I mean, especially

512
00:26:42,760 --> 00:26:45,240
Speaker 1: when you you can't if you're a business person where

513
00:26:45,240 --> 00:26:46,720
Speaker 1: you work in the office. All right, now, you could

514
00:26:46,760 --> 00:26:49,840
Speaker 1: dedicate your whole life to your family and just stay home,

515
00:26:50,040 --> 00:26:53,639
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. But you know, socialize with

516
00:26:53,800 --> 00:26:56,639
Speaker 1: your family. That's that becomes your life. Like this is

517
00:26:56,760 --> 00:26:58,920
Speaker 1: we're family. This is a different kind of family, and

518
00:26:59,359 --> 00:27:01,440
Speaker 1: we are friends. Of is a male and female. You

519
00:27:01,440 --> 00:27:03,840
Speaker 1: shouldn't have to cut your friends. Yeah, but here's the thing.

520
00:27:03,840 --> 00:27:05,840
Speaker 1: I don't feel like you cut people off and be like, oh,

521
00:27:05,960 --> 00:27:08,400
Speaker 1: you're not we're not friends anymore because I have a boyfriend.

522
00:27:08,680 --> 00:27:12,119
Speaker 1: You just say you just pade out. That is, you

523
00:27:12,160 --> 00:27:15,320
Speaker 1: don't you don't go on single people lunches, you know

524
00:27:15,359 --> 00:27:18,239
Speaker 1: what I mean, When you're not single anymore, you know,

525
00:27:18,280 --> 00:27:20,920
Speaker 1: when you're dating something, when you're when you're saying when

526
00:27:20,960 --> 00:27:22,320
Speaker 1: you're single, you can do whatever you want to go,

527
00:27:22,359 --> 00:27:25,000
Speaker 1: even whatever you want. I have friends that I really love.

528
00:27:25,080 --> 00:27:27,680
Speaker 1: But if I was in a relationship, even though I'll

529
00:27:27,680 --> 00:27:29,520
Speaker 1: go to lunch, I'm not in a relationship now. If

530
00:27:29,560 --> 00:27:31,920
Speaker 1: I'll go to lunch with anybody, now, I could do whatever.

531
00:27:32,040 --> 00:27:34,800
Speaker 1: You know, it's crazy, But in a relationship, I probably

532
00:27:34,840 --> 00:27:36,239
Speaker 1: I could think of a couple of guys that I

533
00:27:36,240 --> 00:27:39,000
Speaker 1: would go to lunch with now even though it's totally friends,

534
00:27:39,200 --> 00:27:42,400
Speaker 1: it's totally friends, I still would not go to lunch

535
00:27:42,400 --> 00:27:45,600
Speaker 1: with them if I was in a relationship. But yeah,

536
00:27:45,640 --> 00:27:48,440
Speaker 1: I mean there's certain things that I have definitely be like,

537
00:27:49,119 --> 00:27:51,960
Speaker 1: you know, you adjust when you're adjusting, Like, there's certain

538
00:27:52,000 --> 00:27:54,080
Speaker 1: things that I have for a fact that I wouldn't

539
00:27:54,080 --> 00:27:57,639
Speaker 1: care if my good bureau that's not even do it.

540
00:27:57,800 --> 00:28:00,080
Speaker 1: You can trust everybody all the time, fool on you,

541
00:28:00,160 --> 00:28:02,399
Speaker 1: but this there's certain friends that you definitely have a

542
00:28:02,400 --> 00:28:04,040
Speaker 1: way you'd be like you don't even care in the

543
00:28:04,119 --> 00:28:06,359
Speaker 1: sense of like, yeah, I'm going to the mond. Okay,

544
00:28:06,600 --> 00:28:08,040
Speaker 1: i want to go to the month and I'm tired.

545
00:28:08,080 --> 00:28:09,399
Speaker 1: I'm not going to the mound. You guys would go

546
00:28:09,440 --> 00:28:11,440
Speaker 1: to money. There's always that friend that could you know,

547
00:28:11,480 --> 00:28:13,520
Speaker 1: I'm saying pick your girl apart, pick you up, and

548
00:28:13,560 --> 00:28:17,240
Speaker 1: stuff like that. But as I said, me as some money,

549
00:28:17,760 --> 00:28:19,639
Speaker 1: it's some money in my relationship. I don't know what

550
00:28:19,720 --> 00:28:22,880
Speaker 1: no other guy relationships talking about my RESI more female

551
00:28:23,920 --> 00:28:27,560
Speaker 1: can ever and he shiff monkind in my life telling

552
00:28:27,600 --> 00:28:31,560
Speaker 1: me altarians my friends not happening. I have one guy

553
00:28:31,600 --> 00:28:33,240
Speaker 1: friend that I'm really close, but we went to high

554
00:28:33,240 --> 00:28:36,000
Speaker 1: school together and he's married. He as a kid, like

555
00:28:36,040 --> 00:28:38,080
Speaker 1: I know, his wife really cool and he comes to

556
00:28:38,120 --> 00:28:39,960
Speaker 1: my house whenever, like you know, he'll hit me and

557
00:28:40,000 --> 00:28:41,400
Speaker 1: be like, yeah, what you're doing, I'm gonna come watch

558
00:28:41,480 --> 00:28:43,720
Speaker 1: the game. You know my boy Jama and it's never

559
00:28:43,760 --> 00:28:45,720
Speaker 1: a problem. And his like I have you know, I'm

560
00:28:45,720 --> 00:28:48,960
Speaker 1: friends that's like my dude and she has no problem.

561
00:28:49,040 --> 00:28:50,880
Speaker 1: He'll hit me. He'll be like, I'm in Brooklyn. What

562
00:28:51,000 --> 00:28:54,880
Speaker 1: you're doing, Like, let's go and Angela. It's different. It's different.

563
00:28:55,120 --> 00:28:58,280
Speaker 1: It's different with your with g dude and you're a dude.

564
00:28:58,320 --> 00:29:01,200
Speaker 1: It's different. You guys like work in the same environment. No,

565
00:29:01,320 --> 00:29:03,040
Speaker 1: my other friend just went to high school with. Yeah,

566
00:29:03,040 --> 00:29:04,640
Speaker 1: you guys went to high school. That's different. And you

567
00:29:04,720 --> 00:29:07,160
Speaker 1: cheer what his wife. His wife comes over with him.

568
00:29:07,320 --> 00:29:10,240
Speaker 1: We don't never really chill individually. And the kid met

569
00:29:10,280 --> 00:29:13,240
Speaker 1: that I met them. Yeah, you know, everything is normal.

570
00:29:13,400 --> 00:29:16,880
Speaker 1: That's normal, that's really normal, you know. But there's some friends.

571
00:29:16,920 --> 00:29:19,040
Speaker 1: There's just certain things you just don't do when you're

572
00:29:19,040 --> 00:29:22,200
Speaker 1: in a relationship, like when I'm when I'm when I'm

573
00:29:22,240 --> 00:29:25,480
Speaker 1: in a respectful relationship, even when I'm in a relationship,

574
00:29:26,080 --> 00:29:29,800
Speaker 1: even if I'm not, you know, I'm not going to

575
00:29:29,880 --> 00:29:32,240
Speaker 1: do the same things that I would do. You know, well,

576
00:29:32,280 --> 00:29:35,480
Speaker 1: you always have to compromise regardless. There's some compromises that

577
00:29:35,560 --> 00:29:37,400
Speaker 1: you make, right, there's some things that you have to

578
00:29:37,400 --> 00:29:40,800
Speaker 1: stay infirm on because I give into this. Then to me,

579
00:29:40,960 --> 00:29:43,720
Speaker 1: everything you are as a single can happen in a

580
00:29:43,760 --> 00:29:50,080
Speaker 1: relationship just to an extent, right exactly your trust. Now,

581
00:29:50,200 --> 00:29:52,680
Speaker 1: how much does a person's diet matter to you? Like

582
00:29:52,720 --> 00:29:56,360
Speaker 1: the things that they eat to come and if it's naturally,

583
00:29:56,360 --> 00:29:58,520
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be pissed the funk off you are what

584
00:29:58,680 --> 00:30:03,520
Speaker 1: you mean? Okay, I need I need that bullshit you're

585
00:30:03,520 --> 00:30:06,440
Speaker 1: eating all that processed fast food bullshit. No, I need

586
00:30:06,480 --> 00:30:08,560
Speaker 1: you to be juicing. I need to be eating fresh

587
00:30:08,640 --> 00:30:13,600
Speaker 1: fruits and berries, organic meats, and wild caught fish. And

588
00:30:13,640 --> 00:30:15,680
Speaker 1: I need you to god them hey your ship right,

589
00:30:15,760 --> 00:30:17,280
Speaker 1: so that when they be all of my face, it

590
00:30:17,320 --> 00:30:19,280
Speaker 1: don't be stinky, or when I got to swallow it,

591
00:30:19,280 --> 00:30:23,440
Speaker 1: it don't be nasty. Okay, thanks, all right? So no

592
00:30:23,520 --> 00:30:28,560
Speaker 1: burger king seeming, no McDonald's, jiz, I don't want it, alright,

593
00:30:28,560 --> 00:30:31,000
Speaker 1: So I feel you are not that matters. What about cranium?

594
00:30:31,000 --> 00:30:33,240
Speaker 1: How much is a diet matter like your woman and

595
00:30:33,400 --> 00:30:36,360
Speaker 1: she eats? Do you care? Are you like disgusting? No?

596
00:30:36,400 --> 00:30:40,520
Speaker 1: I don't really. I don't watch that like the professor.

597
00:30:43,080 --> 00:30:44,760
Speaker 1: I don't like when guys eat pork, but y'all know

598
00:30:44,800 --> 00:30:47,720
Speaker 1: that I don't need Could you date somebody who doesn't

599
00:30:47,720 --> 00:30:49,920
Speaker 1: eat pork? I mean, who eats pork? Yeah, of course

600
00:30:49,960 --> 00:30:56,200
Speaker 1: that's isn't that man? I didn't eat pork for months.

601
00:30:56,240 --> 00:30:58,200
Speaker 1: And I just had a Cuban sign with sut today

602
00:30:58,240 --> 00:31:00,760
Speaker 1: and I almost died and I was sicking three days

603
00:31:00,960 --> 00:31:03,920
Speaker 1: because of the diarrhea. I'm not you know, I don't

604
00:31:03,960 --> 00:31:07,920
Speaker 1: like talking about those kind of subjects. But did you dirty?

605
00:31:08,000 --> 00:31:12,960
Speaker 1: Let's just say that it wasn't even about the movements.

606
00:31:13,040 --> 00:31:15,200
Speaker 1: It was just I was in pain and I felt

607
00:31:15,480 --> 00:31:19,280
Speaker 1: sleepy and sweaty. It was nasty. I felt sick and

608
00:31:19,360 --> 00:31:21,600
Speaker 1: that really felt sick. All right, Well, the holidays are

609
00:31:21,640 --> 00:31:23,800
Speaker 1: coming up, so we gotta at least discuss that a

610
00:31:23,800 --> 00:31:25,640
Speaker 1: little bit, okay, because a lot of people need help.

611
00:31:26,080 --> 00:31:28,160
Speaker 1: You know, a lot of people are in new relationships

612
00:31:28,160 --> 00:31:29,680
Speaker 1: and they don't know how they're supposed to act because

613
00:31:29,680 --> 00:31:32,480
Speaker 1: it's Christmas is New Year's you know, do I spend

614
00:31:32,480 --> 00:31:34,960
Speaker 1: time with you? Do you bring me around your family?

615
00:31:35,160 --> 00:31:38,520
Speaker 1: What's about to happen? So, um, let's talk about Christmas.

616
00:31:38,560 --> 00:31:40,440
Speaker 1: If you just started dating somebody, do you feel like

617
00:31:40,440 --> 00:31:44,240
Speaker 1: you should buy a present? Of course, even if it's

618
00:31:44,240 --> 00:31:51,080
Speaker 1: just just just yeah, m yeah, it's just it's a

619
00:31:51,080 --> 00:31:52,880
Speaker 1: good gift to get for a guy when you first

620
00:31:52,880 --> 00:31:57,239
Speaker 1: start dating him and you like him. What would you like?

621
00:31:57,400 --> 00:31:59,960
Speaker 1: What would you like that? What would you buy? What

622
00:32:00,160 --> 00:32:06,920
Speaker 1: you like? Um? Um, I don't know exactly what would

623
00:32:06,920 --> 00:32:08,440
Speaker 1: you like to get? Like? What have been some good point?

624
00:32:08,480 --> 00:32:10,480
Speaker 1: What's some parst of like? What would you be like? Wow?

625
00:32:10,560 --> 00:32:15,000
Speaker 1: She nice? Yeah? Something thoughtful, something that you know he

626
00:32:15,080 --> 00:32:18,120
Speaker 1: likes or something that you like a nice watch or something?

627
00:32:18,760 --> 00:32:24,320
Speaker 1: Why come on you just fine, I gotta spends or

628
00:32:24,360 --> 00:32:28,000
Speaker 1: something just something nice? And what I'm saying I'm gonna

629
00:32:28,000 --> 00:32:29,920
Speaker 1: need something a little cheaper. You know, I got these

630
00:32:29,960 --> 00:32:32,840
Speaker 1: bills and I got a kid. Like what I mean,

631
00:32:33,120 --> 00:32:36,480
Speaker 1: it's just something nice way, I don't know exactly. Maybe

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Speaker 1: something technology, I think technology, something yea like Alexa Alexa. Oh,

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Speaker 1: you know, you know you're good at getting gifts because

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Speaker 1: I'm a cake mama. To talk about this, We're gonna

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Speaker 1: talk about or if he doesn't have Apple TV. That's

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Speaker 1: a nice apple Apple, not a TV Apple TV. Okay too. Five,

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Speaker 1: he's like he wants to I mean nobody, nobody how

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Speaker 1: I could spend I would send out to like six thousand,

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Speaker 1: seven thousand on the gift. But dating somebody, that's a

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Speaker 1: lot for the first guy. I mean for the first ever,

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Speaker 1: the first couple of weeks for somebody, a couple of thousand.

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Speaker 1: But you said a watch for a guy. What do

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Speaker 1: you mean about? I just like meal girl, I just

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Speaker 1: mean buying a gift. Five. I'm not pressing ample, I'm

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Speaker 1: not investing somebody. I'm not sure able with you. I'm

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Speaker 1: not sure. I don't know. I mean I find that

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Speaker 1: when in the beginning of dating a guy, I get

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Speaker 1: the best gifts for the holidays, my birth because my

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Speaker 1: Christmas is always the best, and so I mean for

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Speaker 1: me for as a woman. I like buying gifts too.

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Speaker 1: I like spending more than but sometimes you get spend.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes you can spend. Yeah I have to go to

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Speaker 1: but sometimes you could spend a little bit of money

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Speaker 1: and get a really thought that's the first time. Something's

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Speaker 1: very thoughtful. Something that you know, if I'm going for man,

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Speaker 1: something for his home can use on a daily basis,

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Speaker 1: Something will compliment You're lying here're going to talk about.

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Speaker 1: That's talk. I'm a nice car. I would buy a

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Speaker 1: nice car. Okay, that's not bad. Everybody can use a

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Speaker 1: scarf at some point and then you can tie you

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Speaker 1: up with it nice. Well, crany, and we appreciate you

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Speaker 1: so much. I know you took some time out of

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Speaker 1: your tour scheduling everything to sit down with us. We're

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Speaker 1: here at Atlantic Records too. Yes, were you happy? I'm happy?

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Speaker 1: I might not even with drinking something something something something too.

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Speaker 1: So well, you're the only one kidding you. I know

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Speaker 1: she's high. Yeah. Yeah, come on, guys, I'm trying to

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Speaker 1: smoke right now. Yeah, I'm going to court smoking weed

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Speaker 1: this week. Yeah, I quit just starts. Think it thirty

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Speaker 1: first right there, okay for ye, all right, just for you,

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Speaker 1: I'll share to that alright, chairs, everybody, lift, service, cranny

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Speaker 1: and thank you so much, appreci