WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Love at First Starbucks

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<v Speaker 1>Keep looking Jebils second d update. When you get emails

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<v Speaker 1>in like this for a second date update, you can't

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<v Speaker 1>help but respond. It says, Jebil, I met the love

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<v Speaker 1>of my life. I can't let her walk away. I

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<v Speaker 1>will always regret it. Please help me if it's the

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<v Speaker 1>last thing you do. You know, I'm a man of

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<v Speaker 1>the people, one of the top five celebrities in Seattle.

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<v Speaker 1>I still have a sandwich named after me. That'd be nice.

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<v Speaker 1>But I will help Andrew out who sent that email?

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<v Speaker 1>What's up? Andrew? Hey, how's it going? Guys? It's a

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<v Speaker 1>little dramatic, I know, but I mean when you meet

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<v Speaker 1>the love of your life, it's just like weighs heavily

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<v Speaker 1>on you. Slow the fun truck down, Andrew. I'm sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>it's you know, like this has never happened to me,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like people talk about it all the time,

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<v Speaker 1>but you know when it happened, it's like, what that

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<v Speaker 1>never happened? Wait? How do you know this person is

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<v Speaker 1>the love of your life? I mean we were at

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<v Speaker 1>a coffee shop and I was sitting at this bar

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<v Speaker 1>area and this very cute girl in like this yellow

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<v Speaker 1>dress kind of like sits across from me. And she's

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<v Speaker 1>about to put on her headphones and she she's like

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<v Speaker 1>playing music. So I hear a little bit of the

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<v Speaker 1>song that's playing before she puts on her headphones, and

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<v Speaker 1>it's and it's fun Tonight We are Young specifically, which

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<v Speaker 1>is like my favorite song. It's like my anthem. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>It's just it's like makes you want to like get

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<v Speaker 1>up in like dance. So you heard that she was

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<v Speaker 1>listening to Fun. Yeah, that's what that's what I do.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like my jams Andrew. It's a pretty popular song. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess, I mean, I know, but you it's very

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<v Speaker 1>rare that you're listening to the exact same song at

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<v Speaker 1>the same time. Okay, Like when you when you go

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<v Speaker 1>out into the world and you see somebody else wearing

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<v Speaker 1>the same clothing you're wearing, Like, that's very rare. Okay, okay, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So what did you like about her so much? She

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<v Speaker 1>was just beautiful. You know, we had like the same interests.

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<v Speaker 1>Her hair smelled like sunshine, the sunshine I smell. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>you really have fallen for this chick. After spending two

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<v Speaker 1>hours with her over coffee, I fell for her within

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<v Speaker 1>spending like a minute and a half man, has this

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<v Speaker 1>ever happened to you before? Like I've been in relationships

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<v Speaker 1>where like after a month or two, I'm like, wow,

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<v Speaker 1>I like this girl, but not yeah, I'm not this powerful. Yeah, man,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel the power. So what she responded, and she

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<v Speaker 1>was into what you were saying, You're she was into

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<v Speaker 1>the lines you're feeding her. We wound up talking for

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<v Speaker 1>like two hours, all right. I was like, I have

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<v Speaker 1>to take this somewhere else. So I was like, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what, let's get out of here. Let's let's get

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<v Speaker 1>a drink. And she was like, well, we're in a

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<v Speaker 1>coffee shop, We're already getting a drink. I guess let's

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<v Speaker 1>get She's got a great taste of music and witty.

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<v Speaker 1>I like her already. So she's like, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>actually have to run um, but here's my number. And

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<v Speaker 1>she crosses over to me and gives me a kiss

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<v Speaker 1>on the cheek and then leave. So she kissed you

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<v Speaker 1>on the cheek and then just walked out of your

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<v Speaker 1>life forever we are in a Ryan gosslip. Yeah, So

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<v Speaker 1>she left and then you tried to get a hold

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<v Speaker 1>of her to ask her out, and you haven't heard

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<v Speaker 1>a response. Well, she texted me once, never picked up

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<v Speaker 1>the phone, just texted me and she was like, look,

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<v Speaker 1>there's a great girl out there for you, but it's

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<v Speaker 1>it's not me. So so you know that she's not

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<v Speaker 1>into you then by that text, and you still want

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<v Speaker 1>to call her the problem? I mean, who talks to

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<v Speaker 1>somebody for two hours? You know? I really believe that

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<v Speaker 1>we have a future together, you know, like I see it.

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<v Speaker 1>I see it in my head. Andrew, did you tell

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<v Speaker 1>her any of this? I think that most women say

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<v Speaker 1>that that romance is dead, you know, and I think

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<v Speaker 1>that a woman now wants to hear like, look I

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<v Speaker 1>like you. So did you say that to her? I

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<v Speaker 1>mean I said I like you. I did not say

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<v Speaker 1>I love you. Okay, your lips may have said I

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<v Speaker 1>like you, but your eyes said marriage and babies. And

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<v Speaker 1>maybe that's what scared her a little bit. All right, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna play a song, come back, call her and

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<v Speaker 1>get your second date update. Okay, all right, hang on

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<v Speaker 1>man broking jubil in the morning. All right, Andrew's on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone with us. He met a girl named Beth

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<v Speaker 1>at a coffee shop. She was listening to the same

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<v Speaker 1>song as he was on her headphones and he knew

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<v Speaker 1>it was love at first sight. He even said that

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<v Speaker 1>her hair smelled like sunshine. H Now, if people missed

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<v Speaker 1>the first part of the second day update. At the

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<v Speaker 1>end of your little exchange with her, which lasted about

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<v Speaker 1>two hours, she kissed you on the cheek, gave you

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<v Speaker 1>her phone number, and then left, and all you got

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<v Speaker 1>from her was a text message saying you can find

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<v Speaker 1>another girl. Yeah, Brooke seems to think that maybe she

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<v Speaker 1>has a boyfriend. Lydia thinks that maybe she was just

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<v Speaker 1>being nice and hanging out with you for a little while.

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<v Speaker 1>You're ready to give her a call and see what's up. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>let's do it. Yeah, if we can even get her

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone. Have you practiced your speech, because I

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<v Speaker 1>know you've been thinking about this, about how to win

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<v Speaker 1>her heart. Yes, okay, because I you know I love love.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just a little concerned this more like spontaneous combustion

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<v Speaker 1>instead of like a long blowing flame. I will give

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<v Speaker 1>you a tip, Andrew. If you're gonna say your hair

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<v Speaker 1>smells like something, make it something that actually has a scent.

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<v Speaker 1>Then okay. Yeah, I didn't know Sunshine had a smell,

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<v Speaker 1>but apparently I was. I'm the one that's weird here.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, We're gonna call her right now. I'll let

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<v Speaker 1>you know when to talk to her once I get

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<v Speaker 1>the answer out of her. Okay, okay, thank you, all right?

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<v Speaker 1>Hang on Hello, Hi, can I speak to Beth? Please? Hi? Beth.

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<v Speaker 1>This is Jewel for Brook and Jewel in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm moving ninety two point five. How are you? I'm okay?

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<v Speaker 1>How are you better now that I'm talking to you? Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to call you to talk to you about

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<v Speaker 1>somebody who you went on a date with recently. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you went out with well, I guess he didn't really

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<v Speaker 1>go out with a guy named Andrew. You met a

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<v Speaker 1>guy named Andrew at a coffee shop. You were listening

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<v Speaker 1>to the same music. You ended up talking for a

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<v Speaker 1>little while. I oh remember Okay, Andrew is a friend

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<v Speaker 1>of the show, and he liked you a lot. He

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<v Speaker 1>got your text message that said that he should find

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<v Speaker 1>another girl or there was another girl out there for

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<v Speaker 1>him or something like that. But he's very interested in

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<v Speaker 1>going out with you again. Is there a particular reason

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<v Speaker 1>that you don't want to see Andrew? Um? I mean

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<v Speaker 1>I basically I kind of just said what I wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to saying that text message actually okay, But usually those

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<v Speaker 1>things kind of are kind of loaded, like there's a

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<v Speaker 1>reason he said that when you left after you met him,

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<v Speaker 1>you kissed him on the cheek and gave him your

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<v Speaker 1>phone number. To me, as a guy, I'd be like, oh, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>this girl wants to go out again. To be honest,

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<v Speaker 1>like I really liked hanging out with him, but I'm moving.

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<v Speaker 1>You're leaving. Yeah, I'm actually moving to Australian about two weeks.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh wow, cool? Yes week? Can we go? Good for

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<v Speaker 1>you that you didn't tell him that in your two

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<v Speaker 1>hour conversation. No, I mean it's kind of wrapped up

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<v Speaker 1>in like I'm there. I just I'm trying to kind

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<v Speaker 1>of start start over, and I'm honestly like I just

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<v Speaker 1>got out of another relationships, I got divorced recently, and

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<v Speaker 1>I so it didn't I didn't really want to talk

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<v Speaker 1>about that with him. Are you I'm embarrassed to tell

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<v Speaker 1>him that you're moving or what? How are you feeling

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<v Speaker 1>about that? And I don't want to come off like egotistical,

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<v Speaker 1>but like I could kind of tell how he felt

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<v Speaker 1>about me, and I really liked hanging out with him.

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<v Speaker 1>But I could tell like if I hung out with

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<v Speaker 1>him more or like when on another date with him,

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<v Speaker 1>it would be even worse for him when I did leave.

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<v Speaker 1>But Beth, Yeah, at this point, I should tell you

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<v Speaker 1>that Andrew is actually on the other line and heard

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<v Speaker 1>everything that you just said. What uh this is? This

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<v Speaker 1>is an embarrassing Um. I I emailed these guys to

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<v Speaker 1>try and call you because I just wanted to tell

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<v Speaker 1>you that that I had a really great time with you.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, yeah, I mean flattering that you would like

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<v Speaker 1>go to the trouble of doing that. I didn't know

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<v Speaker 1>about Australia. Um, I really think that that if I

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<v Speaker 1>let you leave that that I'll I'll be losing somebody

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<v Speaker 1>who who I could possibly see myself spending my future with.

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<v Speaker 1>Who I mean, that's I I don't know really what

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<v Speaker 1>to say to that, Like, I'm I'm not gonna I

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<v Speaker 1>can't stay. I'm like going, It's not it's already all

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<v Speaker 1>kind of planned out. I'm not gonna stay in Seattle,

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<v Speaker 1>of course, No, no, no, of course. Um but I

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<v Speaker 1>just I mean, you you have two weeks, that's that's

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<v Speaker 1>practically a lifetime. I think it would end up being

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<v Speaker 1>harder if we saw each other again, And if it

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<v Speaker 1>was harder, wouldn't that be a good thing, if it

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<v Speaker 1>was harder to leave? I don't no, no, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want it to be for also for you.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I know the real issue here, Beth. No

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<v Speaker 1>wisdom from jewis You're moving to Australia two weeks and

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<v Speaker 1>all you can think about his accents with accents, we

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<v Speaker 1>get it. Congrats. I can provide action as well. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's right, Andrew. Wait, Beth, sometimes the timing is not right,

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<v Speaker 1>but you have to make the time. Wait Andrew, can

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<v Speaker 1>we hear you do an Australian accent? Good day, mate.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know about sexy, but it was there. Try

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<v Speaker 1>asking her out in your accent. You want to go

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<v Speaker 1>for a spin on the on the dangeful? Ye want

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<v Speaker 1>to take a spin in the babe? I mean it

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<v Speaker 1>makes it tempting. But I have a feeling if you

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<v Speaker 1>don't say yes to him, he will follow you to Australia. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>and just show up one day. I'm not throwing myself

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<v Speaker 1>at you. I totally understand that that I come on

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<v Speaker 1>strong and that I just I feel like I became

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<v Speaker 1>a I don't know. I became a better person when

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<v Speaker 1>I met you, Like I just was happy just one day.

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<v Speaker 1>One day. We will pay for it if you'll go

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<v Speaker 1>out with Andrew again, Beth. Come on, he can't even

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<v Speaker 1>stock you. You'll be in Australia either that. Hey, Beth,

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<v Speaker 1>if you don't go out him again, I'm gonna buy

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<v Speaker 1>him a plan ticket to Australia. How about that. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel horrible, but I just know I don't. I

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<v Speaker 1>can't do it if the divorce is stopping you. I've

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<v Speaker 1>been in horrible relationships before too, But that's what made

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<v Speaker 1>this meeting so amazing, is that your smile like lit

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<v Speaker 1>up my face. I'm not I don't think I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to change my mind, all right. I think Beth, you

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<v Speaker 1>won't go out with him again. But I think Brook's

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<v Speaker 1>about to leave her husband for him. So Ji in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning,