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Speaker 1: My girlfriend of two years won't forgive me for cheating

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Speaker 1: on my ex fiance, and I am at a loss.

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Speaker 1: Cheater's gonna cheat, cheater's gonna cheat and maybe cheat again.

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Speaker 2: And you know what reader's gonna read read it. So

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Speaker 2: let's get into it. Coming from user not always a Cheater,

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Speaker 2: very apt to user name, who says, I don't believe

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Speaker 2: you right, I'm just gonna jump.

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Speaker 1: In some background so I know the sub often quotes

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Speaker 1: wants a cheater, always a cheater. I agree and disagree

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Speaker 1: at the same time. I cheated on my ex fiance

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Speaker 1: when he deserved it ouch when I was twenty four

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Speaker 1: years old. I had recently found out after my mother

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Speaker 1: had passed, that she was not actually my mother but

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Speaker 1: my grandmother. Oh my goodness. So this is like a

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Speaker 1: DNA test and cheating story. Come fine, it's ok, Chris now.

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Speaker 3: Story and thank you to all of you who are

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Speaker 3: coming in two hours late.

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Speaker 2: But hey, we're freaking here.

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Speaker 1: We're coming in giving you the story, ladies and gentlemen.

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Speaker 1: So he goes on to say, wow, my junkie sister,

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Speaker 1: who oh deed when I was fifteen, was actually my

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Speaker 1: bio mom. So it was the classic my mom.

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Speaker 3: I love how this is a classic.

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Speaker 2: It is a classic situation.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, my junkie, my sister, this is okap.

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Speaker 4: Best episode of Doctor Who. One of the best episodes

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Speaker 4: follows that plotline, are you my mommy?

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Speaker 2: Well, are you spoiling it for me?

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Speaker 3: Watch the Doctor? But let's get back to this.

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Speaker 1: My fiance at the time, Alma, told me that I

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Speaker 1: needed to get over it because there was nothing I

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Speaker 1: could do. Get over the mom passed away and him

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Speaker 1: finding out like, oh my sister was actually the whole time, right,

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Speaker 1: get over it.

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Speaker 2: God.

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Speaker 1: She stopped wanting to talk to me, even if it

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Speaker 1: was about her day, and I felt emasculated constantly. She

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Speaker 1: refused to do it with me from months at a time,

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Speaker 1: and I Withdrew. We both stopped trying, but neither of

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Speaker 1: us were ready to let go, as we were both

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Speaker 1: high school sweethearts and were afraid of being without each other.

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Speaker 1: Long story short, I had a one night's stand.

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Speaker 3: They hadn't been hooking up for like months, and.

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Speaker 4: That's when you break up.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, for their whole relationship, but in op and is

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Speaker 1: now ex fiance at that time like they didn't want.

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Speaker 2: To leave each other.

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Speaker 3: Their high school sweethearts leave each other.

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Speaker 2: Leave each other if they should leave yea yeah? Should

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Speaker 2: they leave just or should they stay? Just tell us.

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Speaker 1: In the moment, it felt nice that someone was interested

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Speaker 1: in my day, in me and found me sexually attractive,

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Speaker 1: And then it felt like someone dropped a boulder on me.

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Speaker 2: Kind of happens when you cheat my guy.

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Speaker 1: I told my fiance Alma immediately the day after, and

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Speaker 1: we split up, so Opie says, I am, by no

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Speaker 1: means proud.

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Speaker 2: Of myself for cheating. Getting back to the story here.

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Speaker 1: I felt sick to my stomach looking at myself and

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Speaker 1: took a year to reevaluate my life. I moved apartments,

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Speaker 1: hit the gym ate better, tried Buddhism, and now I

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Speaker 2: Wow.

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Speaker 3: Tried or just try, just like spiritually enlighten myself, for

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Speaker 3: you cannot try, only do only bood.

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Speaker 1: She apologized for pulling away and I apologize for cheating, and.

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Speaker 3: We forgave each other closure good.

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Speaker 1: We will never be great friends again, but I feel

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Speaker 1: better knowing that we both won't cringe when we see

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Speaker 1: the other person. I met my now girlfriend Sasha at

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Speaker 1: a mutual friend's party. I got her number and we

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Speaker 1: really hit it off. When we broached the conversation about

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Speaker 1: past relationships, I told her what happened between me and Alma.

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Speaker 1: I told her that if she had any questions or

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Speaker 1: She seemed failure understanding though she had never cheated or

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Speaker 2: Okay, so moving on, moving.

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Speaker 1: On, fast forward to now ish about the end of February,

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Speaker 2: My cheating incident. She asked me if the one night

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Speaker 2: how she said the one night stand instead of the.

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Speaker 3: Uh yeah, the cheating.

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Speaker 1: She asked me about the one night stand, if I

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Speaker 1: if I ever tried to get with other women of.

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Speaker 3: Relationships, et cetera, et cetera, et cetera. Oh, so she's like,

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Speaker 3: this is gonna happen to me.

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Speaker 1: I answered her honestly to all the questions and let

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Speaker 1: her know that if she's concerned. If I'm going to

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Speaker 1: cheat again, I will keep my electronics and such opened

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Speaker 1: her Basically, you get have my phone.

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Speaker 2: Look, I cheat.

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Speaker 3: This is a slippery slope that we're entering into.

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Speaker 2: Slippery slope.

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Speaker 1: Things seem to be all right for a bit until

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Speaker 1: I noticed that Sasha was compulsively going through my devices.

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Speaker 1: She didn't ask me any more questions regarding my infidelity,

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Speaker 1: shop because it had been acting buggy. Oh no, come

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Speaker 1: to find out that it had a key logger of

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Speaker 1: some sort that had been.

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Speaker 2: Installed on my computer.

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Speaker 3: Oh oh my god. Okay, so she's going like full

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Speaker 4: She said she hadn't been cheated on in the Platfast

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Speaker 4: hadn't been in the past.

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Speaker 3: This isn't their first rodeo cheater.

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Speaker 1: and we'll check it in a sec. Do you leave

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Speaker 1: the relationship at this point?

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Speaker 3: I'm curious if someone if someone cheated in a past relationship,

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Speaker 3: would that hurt your curt relationship? And also, Christo and

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Speaker 3: I don't happy Birthday, sleepless night.

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Speaker 2: Let's go.

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Speaker 4: I feel like once we get to the break, we

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Speaker 4: should sing happy birthday for you.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah right, yeah, we will sing you Happy Birthday,

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Speaker 3: Stay tuned for sleep and happy birthday?

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Speaker 2: Is that a copyright? Though they won't be able to

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Speaker 1: They won't be able to do that, they will be

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Speaker 1: I think I think Happy Birthday is past the copyright.

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Speaker 2: It is over. Good, couldn't awkward? But let's get back

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Speaker 1: So I brought this up to Sasha, and she asked

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Speaker 2: Went onto some porn site or something. I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I don't know, I don't know. It seems a little sas.

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Speaker 1: Another example would be Alma messaging me on Facebook last

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Speaker 1: week wondering why.

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Speaker 2: I had sent her and another girl from.

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Speaker 1: My high school text messages. So texting Alma, the ex

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Speaker 1: fiance and some other female friends from school. Wait, he's

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Speaker 2: They have received? Is he the one sending them?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 2: The one hyping the messages that are being sent.

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Speaker 3: So she's trying to do like her history.

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Speaker 4: She's messaging, so.

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Speaker 2: Opie says.

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Speaker 1: I had no idea what she was talking about, and

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Speaker 1: she sent me screenshots from a cell phone number that's

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Speaker 1: obviously mine. The text weren't inappropriate, but obviously out of place.

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Speaker 1: They just tried to strike up a conversation, but were

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Speaker 1: obviously not done in my tone. Again, I asked Sasha,

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Speaker 1: from my phone, which.

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Speaker 3: She has access to.

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Speaker 2: All of this devices died a virus. Yeah, it's a hacker.

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Speaker 2: It was probably those sites.

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Speaker 4: A robber broke into our house and got onto your phone.

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Speaker 2: Oh you're so right, babe, you're so right.

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Speaker 3: Wow, never thought of that, now, don't buy it.

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Speaker 1: Yesterday, Sasha and I went out to celebrate her friend

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Speaker 1: Danielle's promotion. When Sasha went to the bathroom, her friend

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Speaker 1: Danielle brought up cheating, the favorite topic of the group.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, not a hot button topic at all.

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Speaker 1: She told me about this ex that had cheated on

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Speaker 1: her all the time and cheated in all of his relationships.

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Speaker 3: Once a cheater, you know, always a cheater, always a cheater.

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Speaker 1: I told her that for some people that is true,

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Speaker 1: will see me as a cheater. I can't take that away.

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Speaker 1: But I never want to cheat again. I never want

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Speaker 1: to step into a relationship and be treated like a cheater.

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Speaker 1: I explained this to Danielle without referencing my past infidelity.

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Speaker 4: If you come into a relationship with the like mindset

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Speaker 2: What are we doing? Then? What are we doing?

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Speaker 3: The trust is eroad and relationships are built on trust,

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Speaker 2: Tortuous. Maybe that's fun, Maybe that's.

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Speaker 3: What they want. Maybe maybe they want a little fun toxicity.

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Speaker 3: Oh god, it's not fun.

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Speaker 1: Sasha came back and I excused myself and told Sasha

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Speaker 2: And wanted to go home.

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Speaker 1: She wanted to say and said that I could just

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Speaker 3: I made a little pit stop before I go. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: there's no trust. The trust, says a road in. Basically,

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Speaker 3: I mean, like just because of his past cheating, now

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Speaker 3: he is being I mean, I think each relationship is different,

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Speaker 3: and you can learn from past relationships that what you

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Speaker 4: Also think if you go into a relationship, as I said,

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Speaker 4: if you go into relationship with this type of mindset,

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Speaker 4: then you shouldn't be going into that relationship if you're

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Speaker 4: already like just lack trust for why, why why.

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Speaker 3: Pursue a relationship? Yeah, Cassanda La says, just break up.

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Speaker 3: Yeah I feel Yeah. Kelly I says, wow, yep, that's over. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Kimberly find says his name is not in Nego Montoya.

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Speaker 3: His storyline isn't one track minded great, true, said Scott says,

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Speaker 3: sounds like gaslighting to the highest. Sela Davis says, girlfriend

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Speaker 3: needs therapy so bad. I mean they need to talk

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Speaker 3: because this is like this relationship can't continue one hundred.

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Speaker 4: So if you told up front, they're past in history

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Speaker 1: then as time went on, it just seemed to just like.

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Speaker 2: Snowball up until it just got crazy.

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Speaker 4: No, Maybe it's like if I just killed one person,

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Speaker 2: Murderer, all right.

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Speaker 3: If you're a barber, you're doing it multiple times.

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Speaker 1: There's no manslaughter in cheating because manslaughter is accidental murder.

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Speaker 1: There is no accidental cheating.

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Speaker 2: There is no manslaughter in cheating.

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Speaker 3: Well, if you get drunk and crash someone and hit

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Speaker 1: I'm fuming. I've done everything I feel I can to

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Speaker 1: So Opie's in this new relationship he cheated once in

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Speaker 3: Break up, break up, break up, break up? Yeah, what

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Speaker 3: right now? Kelly says, run far away. Della Davis says,

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Speaker 3: Yes, Kelly says, do it. The ones that accused others

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Speaker 3: Silver Hunter, Run for Us, Run cat Arena, break up

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Speaker 3: and run Okay, I feel like everyone's saying run, says run.

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Speaker 2: Sleepless Knights says Riley.

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Speaker 1: If you could scroll up, just tweet a bit for

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Speaker 1: I'm out been cheated on like seven times.

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Speaker 2: Sleep at nights? Where are they? Yea, where are they?

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Speaker 3: We will murder them, I will, one after another, will

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Speaker 3: to them like it's my job. Yes, that's right, because

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Speaker 2: I will Yeah that's right.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, who's gonna make me put the hit on them?

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Speaker 3: Right now?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I want the contract.

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Speaker 1: Who's gonna do it? Sleepless guys? Put it Debbie in

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Speaker 1: Also from the story Chaos Collected, says dude, run, this

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Speaker 1: Opi replied and infuriated me that she texted Almah. I

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Speaker 1: But Sasha just acted so baffled and confused. I for

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Speaker 3: But it doesn't sound like he wasn't honest.

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Speaker 4: It sounds like you were very honest.

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Speaker 3: Sounds like he was.

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Speaker 2: He was too honest.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, no, I'm kidding. You can't be too honest.

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Speaker 4: Well, really, I think you can be too honest. This

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you could do a play by play. And

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Speaker 1: then I unzipped Ziffer like you could do a fifty

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Speaker 1: Fiftand that was last.

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Speaker 2: That was last.

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Speaker 3: What do we do the comment section? Oh my god,

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Speaker 3: the comments were so.

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Speaker 2: Sorry. I'm in a committed relationship.

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Speaker 1: Please spare me anyways, No, don't spare John, right right,

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Speaker 1: all right, right, but back to the story. Oh, he

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Speaker 2: Now.

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Speaker 1: I'm afraid she's going to track my cell phone, my messages,

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Speaker 1: my computer. I'm posting this from my coworker's laptop.

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Speaker 2: Wow, he came.

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Speaker 3: Oh so because he's worried that she's gonna crack out.

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Speaker 4: Oh gosh, yeah, break up didn't say he wasn't going

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Speaker 3: He was, he was planning on breaking up, But I mean,

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Speaker 1: He hasn't done it yet, so I need to plan

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I love how people are like, I need to be

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Speaker 4: But you guys will keep a secret for ya.

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Speaker 3: You won't tell anyone.

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Speaker 2: No.

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Speaker 1: Maybe I'm being just overly paranoid, but I've never thought

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Speaker 2: When Alma and I talked, we both reflected on that.

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Speaker 1: In her words, she was kind of grateful that I

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Speaker 3: Wow, I really did as a favor of my cheating.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he's like, dang, you're so right. Let me throw

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Speaker 3: And no one has emotional intimacy like me.

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Speaker 1: She said, you was kind of grateful that I cheated

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Speaker 2: Kind of karma for cheating.

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Speaker 1: I do think that I diluted our issues in hopes

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Speaker 2: We have a big old up dare.

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Speaker 3: A big juicy, fat update, big ol juice that update.

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Speaker 3: But it like, yeah, I'm a horse. I don't know

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Speaker 4: Texting people through because she.

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Speaker 4: I think it destroys the trust in the same way.

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Speaker 3: John's squinting at me.

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Speaker 4: Because emotional pain it's different, it's different.

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Speaker 2: It's different, different, but same. There's like a different emotional

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Speaker 3: Of course, of course, of course, but the same like

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Speaker 2: Like it is.

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Speaker 3: It is as destructive, even though to a relationship, even

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Speaker 4: I think that cheating is like a cup of B

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Speaker 3: Like shooting someone in the head versus like poisoning.

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Speaker 4: Someone Whoao what example?

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Speaker 2: You're welcome here say?

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Speaker 3: It was the King of examples, just coming in with

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Speaker 2: Okay, so we have an update, but I will catch

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Speaker 1: Basically, we had Op who cheated, but you know it

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Speaker 1: his computer, texting his exes through his phone, doing all

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Speaker 3: We are not ignoring you. Hello, Yeah, we would never

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Speaker 3: ignore you. But also we have like three hundred people

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Speaker 3: in this chat. If you haven't liked the stream already

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Speaker 3: or commented do so right now. What's your name? Yeah,

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Speaker 3: we will find you.

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Speaker 4: Tell us your name.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I will be contracted to murder you. Oh name

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Speaker 2: and fun fact?

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Speaker 3: Oh name and fun fact. Also maybe put where everyone's from? Yes, countries?

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Speaker 1: Do it?

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Speaker 3: Yeah name, fun fact? Country? Go all right, let's get

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Speaker 3: back into this update.

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Speaker 2: I'll see the fun the funnest fact of them all.

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Speaker 2: So be good.

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00:20:01,080 --> 00:20:03,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, we'll read it onto the update.

446
00:20:03,760 --> 00:20:06,000
Speaker 1: So I am just going to sum things up because

447
00:20:06,000 --> 00:20:08,560
Speaker 1: there's a lot of detail that's too long for stories

448
00:20:08,560 --> 00:20:10,240
Speaker 1: with friends, but maybe not read it. So Sasha told

449
00:20:10,280 --> 00:20:12,359
Speaker 1: me that she was going to visit her mother because

450
00:20:12,359 --> 00:20:14,760
Speaker 1: there was a health emergency last week. I took her

451
00:20:14,800 --> 00:20:17,679
Speaker 1: to the airport and immediately moved all essentials out of

452
00:20:17,720 --> 00:20:20,359
Speaker 1: my place to a storage locker not too far from it.

453
00:20:20,400 --> 00:20:21,479
Speaker 4: Has he broke up with her?

454
00:20:22,080 --> 00:20:24,080
Speaker 3: Please tell me. I don't think he's broken up. No,

455
00:20:24,359 --> 00:20:26,560
Speaker 3: because he's doing it all in the secret. They're fbhiing

456
00:20:26,600 --> 00:20:28,480
Speaker 3: each other. That's fucking crazy.

457
00:20:29,119 --> 00:20:29,760
Speaker 2: Wow.

458
00:20:31,320 --> 00:20:34,440
Speaker 1: I had my computer and phone scrubbed of any key

459
00:20:34,520 --> 00:20:39,399
Speaker 1: loggers and trackers, of which there were several on each Jesus,

460
00:20:39,880 --> 00:20:42,560
Speaker 1: several trackers on each device. A good friend of mine

461
00:20:42,640 --> 00:20:45,320
Speaker 1: offered me his spare room until the month is up.

462
00:20:45,560 --> 00:20:48,040
Speaker 1: As I had to leave a thirty day written notice

463
00:20:48,080 --> 00:20:49,640
Speaker 1: for Sasha in the apartment.

464
00:20:49,760 --> 00:20:52,520
Speaker 3: My goodness, gracious, thirty day written notice.

465
00:20:52,680 --> 00:20:54,880
Speaker 4: So he's going to leave the apartments.

466
00:20:54,960 --> 00:20:58,400
Speaker 3: I think of day notice for thirty so Sasha can

467
00:20:58,440 --> 00:21:01,200
Speaker 3: stay there for thirty days. It's like, per the least

468
00:21:01,280 --> 00:21:05,800
Speaker 3: is what I'm living. That a right, but also served

469
00:21:05,800 --> 00:21:08,280
Speaker 3: a thirty d notice, I think for her leaving.

470
00:21:08,400 --> 00:21:10,840
Speaker 4: For her leaving, he has to serve a thirty day.

471
00:21:10,720 --> 00:21:13,879
Speaker 1: Nice, well he's gone, he's not living there, but he's

472
00:21:13,880 --> 00:21:16,280
Speaker 1: now like giving the thirty I think, so he's like,

473
00:21:16,320 --> 00:21:19,639
Speaker 1: I'm exiting the least so Sasha can stay in that place, but.

474
00:21:20,840 --> 00:21:22,840
Speaker 4: Thirty day she's staying with a friend during those.

475
00:21:22,680 --> 00:21:25,160
Speaker 1: Thirty kind of notifying low key the apartment and Sasha

476
00:21:25,200 --> 00:21:27,359
Speaker 1: at the same time, I decided it would be best

477
00:21:27,359 --> 00:21:29,320
Speaker 1: to wait until she got home to let her know

478
00:21:29,440 --> 00:21:31,760
Speaker 1: we broke up, so as not to distract her from

479
00:21:31,840 --> 00:21:32,400
Speaker 1: her family.

480
00:21:32,800 --> 00:21:34,919
Speaker 4: We've already broken up. You just didn't know.

481
00:21:35,240 --> 00:21:40,320
Speaker 2: Honestly, the fuck this is wild. Why aren't you broken up?

482
00:21:40,760 --> 00:21:43,000
Speaker 2: He should have broken up before he should.

483
00:21:42,720 --> 00:21:45,520
Speaker 4: Have Yeah, you can't just be like, hey, we broke

484
00:21:45,600 --> 00:21:47,000
Speaker 4: up you have to tell the person.

485
00:21:47,200 --> 00:21:50,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, but to be fair, she probably already knows if

486
00:21:50,359 --> 00:21:54,080
Speaker 3: she's trashing him so well, true already knows. She has

487
00:21:54,320 --> 00:21:56,639
Speaker 3: probably planted into his brain.

488
00:21:56,680 --> 00:21:59,600
Speaker 1: He's like, you didn't scrub the sixth and seventh trackers

489
00:21:59,640 --> 00:22:00,000
Speaker 1: that I am?

490
00:22:00,160 --> 00:22:01,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, so.

491
00:22:04,920 --> 00:22:05,600
Speaker 4: To follow you.

492
00:22:05,840 --> 00:22:06,040
Speaker 2: Yeah.

493
00:22:07,320 --> 00:22:09,840
Speaker 1: The day before Sasha was supposed to fly back, I

494
00:22:09,920 --> 00:22:13,479
Speaker 1: received an eerie Facebook message from Alma. Apparently for the

495
00:22:13,520 --> 00:22:16,800
Speaker 1: past couple of days her home had been messed with.

496
00:22:17,400 --> 00:22:18,159
Speaker 2: What the frick?

497
00:22:18,520 --> 00:22:21,520
Speaker 4: Maybe we were wrong to judge a piece so quickly.

498
00:22:21,720 --> 00:22:23,439
Speaker 2: We don't know what this woman is capable of.

499
00:22:23,720 --> 00:22:26,760
Speaker 1: We don't and so far we don't have reason to

500
00:22:26,800 --> 00:22:31,480
Speaker 1: trust her. From not being bananas, someone left gates open,

501
00:22:31,840 --> 00:22:35,480
Speaker 1: tore through screen doors, broke a couple pots in the yard,

502
00:22:35,600 --> 00:22:39,119
Speaker 1: and she felt like she was being watched. She asked

503
00:22:39,119 --> 00:22:41,840
Speaker 1: if there was any chance that I or Sasha were

504
00:22:41,880 --> 00:22:45,840
Speaker 1: behind any of this. This is crazy, it pained me

505
00:22:45,960 --> 00:22:49,720
Speaker 1: to say, but part of me thought Sasha or Danielle

506
00:22:50,200 --> 00:22:53,920
Speaker 1: might be. Danielle was the friend who was also like,

507
00:22:54,200 --> 00:22:56,240
Speaker 1: oh man, you know once and she'd had something.

508
00:22:57,640 --> 00:22:59,760
Speaker 2: The worst, which, fair enough.

509
00:22:59,640 --> 00:23:01,280
Speaker 3: Put what you would do at this point in the

510
00:23:01,280 --> 00:23:04,000
Speaker 3: story right now like you'd call the police. Do you

511
00:23:04,040 --> 00:23:05,920
Speaker 3: break up with your girlfriend finally the cops, or you

512
00:23:06,000 --> 00:23:06,439
Speaker 3: break up with.

513
00:23:06,440 --> 00:23:08,280
Speaker 4: Your girlfriend and then you call the police.

514
00:23:08,320 --> 00:23:09,720
Speaker 2: All the cops are now let us know.

515
00:23:09,880 --> 00:23:11,560
Speaker 1: It pained me to say, but part of me thought

516
00:23:11,600 --> 00:23:13,760
Speaker 1: it might be Sasha or Danielle. As I had no

517
00:23:13,880 --> 00:23:17,760
Speaker 1: idea where Alma currently even lived. I informed her about

518
00:23:17,760 --> 00:23:21,479
Speaker 1: the key logger, the trackers, and other issues. Alma asked

519
00:23:21,640 --> 00:23:24,240
Speaker 1: what kind of car I drove, as she noticed the

520
00:23:24,280 --> 00:23:28,120
Speaker 1: same car driving by several times and was now parked

521
00:23:28,160 --> 00:23:30,919
Speaker 1: at the end of her block at this very moment

522
00:23:32,160 --> 00:23:37,000
Speaker 1: where she's still there. It was not Sasha's vehicle or mine,

523
00:23:37,080 --> 00:23:41,840
Speaker 1: so I assumed Danielle might be stalking Alma on Sasha's behalf.

524
00:23:41,560 --> 00:23:43,840
Speaker 2: While I was gone. What is it with friends that

525
00:23:43,880 --> 00:23:44,600
Speaker 2: will go this far?

526
00:23:44,760 --> 00:23:48,760
Speaker 4: Why some of y'all's friends need to check Abby?

527
00:23:48,960 --> 00:23:52,280
Speaker 3: Really like terrible, should never be done, But damn, that's

528
00:23:52,280 --> 00:23:52,880
Speaker 3: a ride.

529
00:23:54,760 --> 00:23:57,600
Speaker 1: I want friends like those they did the right or

530
00:23:57,640 --> 00:24:01,200
Speaker 1: die energy ride or died and they completely different area.

531
00:24:01,480 --> 00:24:05,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, a terrible but damn but damn good friend.

532
00:24:05,960 --> 00:24:06,560
Speaker 2: I got it.

533
00:24:06,680 --> 00:24:09,280
Speaker 1: Almah asked if I would come deal with this, as

534
00:24:09,280 --> 00:24:12,439
Speaker 1: she was very upset to be involved involuntarily in the

535
00:24:12,480 --> 00:24:14,320
Speaker 1: issue and to at least provide.

536
00:24:14,080 --> 00:24:16,720
Speaker 2: Company so she wouldn't be home alone. Guys, are you

537
00:24:16,840 --> 00:24:20,440
Speaker 2: seeing company? Are you icu ing? Guys? Can we put

538
00:24:21,160 --> 00:24:22,639
Speaker 2: this fake? If we see?

539
00:24:22,960 --> 00:24:23,760
Speaker 3: Is this fake?

540
00:24:24,040 --> 00:24:26,280
Speaker 2: Wait? What are you? What are you thinking? Wait?

541
00:24:26,320 --> 00:24:28,560
Speaker 3: Because she said, oh, like I need someone to keep

542
00:24:28,560 --> 00:24:29,080
Speaker 3: me company?

543
00:24:29,200 --> 00:24:31,000
Speaker 4: So she is Alma lying?

544
00:24:31,320 --> 00:24:35,120
Speaker 3: Is Alma lying to get OP to hook up with her?

545
00:24:35,320 --> 00:24:35,560
Speaker 5: No?

546
00:24:35,680 --> 00:24:38,400
Speaker 4: I don't think so. I No, Almah wouldn't do that.

547
00:24:38,840 --> 00:24:40,359
Speaker 3: I don't know what will do.

548
00:24:40,440 --> 00:24:41,960
Speaker 2: I don't know anything anymore.

549
00:24:42,200 --> 00:24:44,520
Speaker 3: But dude, what a pickup line?

550
00:24:44,680 --> 00:24:45,639
Speaker 2: I thought you were saying.

551
00:24:45,880 --> 00:24:51,400
Speaker 1: Does have Almah's phone and is texting him phone like

552
00:24:51,560 --> 00:24:54,439
Speaker 1: cat fishing? Ye, because she knows that Op is all

553
00:24:54,480 --> 00:24:55,280
Speaker 1: paranoid and stuff.

554
00:24:55,400 --> 00:24:56,920
Speaker 4: She's kidnapped Almah.

555
00:24:57,119 --> 00:25:00,000
Speaker 1: She's got Almah and she's texting Op through almost found

556
00:25:00,119 --> 00:25:02,040
Speaker 1: and it's like, Hey, I'm so worried, can you please

557
00:25:02,080 --> 00:25:02,440
Speaker 1: come here?

558
00:25:02,440 --> 00:25:03,359
Speaker 2: And I'm alone?

559
00:25:03,359 --> 00:25:06,840
Speaker 3: And we're definitely in conspiracy theory lands Yeah, I'm sorry,

560
00:25:06,880 --> 00:25:09,359
Speaker 3: but yeah, I hope that's not it. We should go

561
00:25:09,440 --> 00:25:11,560
Speaker 3: back to reality to actually see what happens.

562
00:25:11,200 --> 00:25:13,399
Speaker 1: Though, But that's the theory of what could happen. Okay,

563
00:25:13,520 --> 00:25:16,840
Speaker 1: let's see ladies and gentlemen. She gave me your address,

564
00:25:16,880 --> 00:25:20,560
Speaker 1: and off I went. Come to find out, Sasha never

565
00:25:20,600 --> 00:25:23,440
Speaker 1: boarded that plane. She bought a ticket and turned around

566
00:25:23,640 --> 00:25:26,000
Speaker 1: as soon as I did. She rented a car and

567
00:25:26,040 --> 00:25:29,280
Speaker 1: went to stock Alma, probably in hopes to catch me

568
00:25:29,560 --> 00:25:33,120
Speaker 1: going back to Almah, which in her eyes, happened as

569
00:25:33,200 --> 00:25:36,359
Speaker 1: soon as I showed up to Almah's place. Oh my god,

570
00:25:36,480 --> 00:25:41,560
Speaker 1: it's just a earth shattering, self fulfilling prophecy of And

571
00:25:41,600 --> 00:25:42,080
Speaker 1: she's like.

572
00:25:42,119 --> 00:25:43,280
Speaker 2: I knew it. I know.

573
00:25:43,720 --> 00:25:45,320
Speaker 4: That's why I stalked her house.

574
00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:50,119
Speaker 3: Quaras Queen says. My mind is fucking really same. I

575
00:25:50,160 --> 00:25:51,480
Speaker 3: don't know what to believe.

576
00:25:51,200 --> 00:25:52,000
Speaker 2: What is happening.

577
00:25:52,320 --> 00:25:53,119
Speaker 4: Everything's alive.

578
00:25:53,359 --> 00:25:56,080
Speaker 2: He's like the departed or like inception. Truly.

579
00:25:56,680 --> 00:25:59,639
Speaker 1: I arrived and Sasha came bold dozing out of her

580
00:25:59,640 --> 00:26:02,480
Speaker 1: rented car towards me. She kept screaming at me for

581
00:26:02,600 --> 00:26:05,240
Speaker 1: cheating on her. She knew I'd run back to.

582
00:26:05,200 --> 00:26:07,640
Speaker 2: That salute WHOA.

583
00:26:07,720 --> 00:26:10,200
Speaker 1: The second that she was gone, I couldn't keep my

584
00:26:10,359 --> 00:26:13,080
Speaker 1: wiener in my pants. Alma came out of her house

585
00:26:13,119 --> 00:26:15,560
Speaker 1: at the sound of the screams, and Sasha tried to

586
00:26:15,760 --> 00:26:18,920
Speaker 1: sprint at her oh my god, Oh my god. Thankfully,

587
00:26:18,960 --> 00:26:21,199
Speaker 1: Alma was able to get back into her home and

588
00:26:21,240 --> 00:26:24,320
Speaker 1: lock the door in time, while Sasha began to hurl

589
00:26:24,480 --> 00:26:27,120
Speaker 1: things around her yard.

590
00:26:27,280 --> 00:26:31,160
Speaker 3: She's crazy, but op's like just in the yard? Are

591
00:26:31,160 --> 00:26:31,800
Speaker 3: you just watching?

592
00:26:32,119 --> 00:26:35,000
Speaker 2: Just watching her just go and just destroy her home?

593
00:26:35,240 --> 00:26:38,399
Speaker 1: Taking pots, throwing it out of the fence, taking nomes,

594
00:26:38,440 --> 00:26:42,040
Speaker 1: throwing it against the door, and then digging up the mulch,

595
00:26:42,359 --> 00:26:45,359
Speaker 1: kicking the dirt, ripping the flowers out of their flower beds,

596
00:26:45,400 --> 00:26:46,359
Speaker 1: eating her tomatoes.

597
00:26:46,600 --> 00:26:48,679
Speaker 3: If you're watching someone do this, like woul do you

598
00:26:48,760 --> 00:26:49,720
Speaker 3: just watch or do you like?

599
00:26:49,840 --> 00:26:50,440
Speaker 4: What do you do?

600
00:26:50,800 --> 00:26:54,040
Speaker 1: I think I would Here's what I would do, right,

601
00:26:54,080 --> 00:26:55,639
Speaker 1: I would be guys, let us know what you would do.

602
00:26:55,680 --> 00:26:56,359
Speaker 2: But this is me.

603
00:26:56,480 --> 00:26:59,240
Speaker 1: I would be ready. This is my position, right because

604
00:26:59,359 --> 00:27:01,240
Speaker 1: I know to up, I need to know. I'm like

605
00:27:01,480 --> 00:27:04,879
Speaker 1: hovering like like like kind of fighters, because she could

606
00:27:04,880 --> 00:27:06,000
Speaker 1: start throwing stuff at me.

607
00:27:06,280 --> 00:27:06,760
Speaker 2: But I get it.

608
00:27:07,160 --> 00:27:10,480
Speaker 1: I gotta be that dodge and I got a watch

609
00:27:10,560 --> 00:27:12,639
Speaker 1: to make sure she doesn't try to break into the

610
00:27:12,760 --> 00:27:15,439
Speaker 1: house to get Almas. So I'm also in sprint mode

611
00:27:15,560 --> 00:27:17,639
Speaker 1: in case she tries to like break through.

612
00:27:17,480 --> 00:27:19,520
Speaker 3: The winds, so like let her throw stuff let her

613
00:27:19,600 --> 00:27:22,359
Speaker 3: damage the property, but let the police handle that.

614
00:27:22,680 --> 00:27:25,040
Speaker 1: It all starts going into the house. That's when you

615
00:27:25,200 --> 00:27:32,840
Speaker 1: have to go thunder and lightning. Cut didn't know this

616
00:27:32,960 --> 00:27:33,760
Speaker 1: was California.

617
00:27:33,800 --> 00:27:35,840
Speaker 2: But with taking it to the gun show, it didn't work.

618
00:27:36,680 --> 00:27:40,399
Speaker 2: I try. I tried. Okay, put an L Paris for

619
00:27:40,560 --> 00:27:44,720
Speaker 2: those guns. Oh cow baby, put an L in the

620
00:27:44,760 --> 00:27:47,080
Speaker 2: chat for my terrible jokes. Ladies and gentlemen, Thank you

621
00:27:47,080 --> 00:27:49,120
Speaker 2: you did Sofia saved. Put a W in the chatter.

622
00:27:49,240 --> 00:27:51,720
Speaker 1: Sophia put a W in chafter Sophia, my goodness now

623
00:27:51,840 --> 00:27:53,800
Speaker 1: thankfully almost able to get in the home, locked the

624
00:27:53,800 --> 00:27:55,919
Speaker 1: door while Sasha was hurling things around the yard. The

625
00:27:56,000 --> 00:28:01,560
Speaker 1: police arrived and took everyone aside for statements. Almah showed

626
00:28:01,600 --> 00:28:04,879
Speaker 1: pictures of prior damage, photos of the car parked at

627
00:28:04,920 --> 00:28:07,560
Speaker 1: the end of the block. Facebook messages between me and

628
00:28:07,640 --> 00:28:10,840
Speaker 1: I did the same. Surprisingly, it seemed that Sasha didn't

629
00:28:10,880 --> 00:28:14,320
Speaker 1: even deny any of it. She even admitted to stocking

630
00:28:14,560 --> 00:28:18,560
Speaker 1: Almah's Facebook enough to determine where she lived based on

631
00:28:18,920 --> 00:28:19,800
Speaker 1: the photos.

632
00:28:21,080 --> 00:28:22,400
Speaker 3: Dude, she's geoguessing.

633
00:28:22,800 --> 00:28:24,320
Speaker 2: She's fucking geogussing.

634
00:28:25,320 --> 00:28:28,480
Speaker 3: Imagine, imagine if she used our powers.

635
00:28:28,080 --> 00:28:29,920
Speaker 4: For good, she could be in part of the FBI.

636
00:28:30,080 --> 00:28:31,920
Speaker 3: She could be part of the SBI, or she could

637
00:28:31,960 --> 00:28:35,720
Speaker 3: just like do the geo guesser streams and geo guesser

638
00:28:35,840 --> 00:28:39,040
Speaker 3: and it's like that grass slightly off green.

639
00:28:40,920 --> 00:28:41,600
Speaker 2: I love that guy.

640
00:28:41,640 --> 00:28:45,000
Speaker 3: We gotta get him, you know. I met him and

641
00:28:45,000 --> 00:28:47,000
Speaker 3: I'm like, where are we? It was a thick move,

642
00:28:47,040 --> 00:28:50,640
Speaker 3: but he was like, shut up, get that.

643
00:28:51,840 --> 00:28:54,920
Speaker 2: Oh my god, Oh my god, rain Bolts I think

644
00:28:55,040 --> 00:28:58,160
Speaker 2: is his name. Shout out to him. Yeah, so Opie says.

645
00:28:58,320 --> 00:29:01,240
Speaker 1: The worst moment was when they put Sasha into the

646
00:29:01,280 --> 00:29:04,000
Speaker 1: police car. She looked me dead in the eye and

647
00:29:04,080 --> 00:29:07,200
Speaker 1: told me that what she did she did for me

648
00:29:07,520 --> 00:29:10,400
Speaker 1: in our love together and we will be together.

649
00:29:10,520 --> 00:29:12,200
Speaker 2: She swears it. She swears.

650
00:29:12,800 --> 00:29:15,840
Speaker 1: The officer apologized and said that I should start looking

651
00:29:15,840 --> 00:29:18,880
Speaker 1: into a restraining order as appy when the police.

652
00:29:18,600 --> 00:29:20,480
Speaker 2: Are like, yo, you got to get a restraining asp.

653
00:29:20,600 --> 00:29:23,080
Speaker 4: That's you know, they have not broken up yet.

654
00:29:23,160 --> 00:29:32,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's still his girlfriend. Girlfriend is Yeah, yeah, don't

655
00:29:32,960 --> 00:29:34,040
Speaker 3: get in the way of our loves.

656
00:29:34,120 --> 00:29:36,360
Speaker 1: She might be a stane stalker, she might be a

657
00:29:36,480 --> 00:29:37,640
Speaker 1: literal criminal, but.

658
00:29:39,440 --> 00:29:40,480
Speaker 2: That's my girlfriend.

659
00:29:40,560 --> 00:29:43,200
Speaker 3: She you know what, She cussed me up every night, officer,

660
00:29:43,240 --> 00:29:44,920
Speaker 3: and I love it. You know what the real crime

661
00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:46,800
Speaker 3: she goes crazy on the gnomes and on me.

662
00:29:48,280 --> 00:29:51,000
Speaker 2: What she might need to get guillotine? But that hed crazy?

663
00:29:53,120 --> 00:29:55,560
Speaker 4: Who said that?

664
00:29:55,720 --> 00:29:58,000
Speaker 2: As somebody said that is that?

665
00:29:58,080 --> 00:29:59,560
Speaker 3: Righty?

666
00:30:00,120 --> 00:30:01,239
Speaker 2: Why are saying that?

667
00:30:01,440 --> 00:30:03,200
Speaker 3: Riley James?

668
00:30:03,360 --> 00:30:04,840
Speaker 2: Are you ready for this one? This is what I

669
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Speaker 2: was gonna say the officer. The only crime she's committed

670
00:30:08,560 --> 00:30:09,760
Speaker 2: is stealing my heart.

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00:30:10,160 --> 00:30:16,680
Speaker 1: Oh energy, guys, Riley or job?

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00:30:16,800 --> 00:30:22,440
Speaker 3: Devin Nelson says, Oh, Riley, they're just disappointed.

673
00:30:22,200 --> 00:30:30,120
Speaker 2: Ley auto parts ow people like Riley's dude. Jelly Buzz said,

674
00:30:30,160 --> 00:30:32,560
Speaker 2: Riley's hilarious. You know Riley, you know us up.

675
00:30:32,800 --> 00:30:38,120
Speaker 3: So in the seventies they gave each other head. Only

676
00:30:38,280 --> 00:30:41,560
Speaker 3: in the seventies, well also.

677
00:30:41,360 --> 00:30:44,000
Speaker 1: About everyone they just went Silently's like they just gave

678
00:30:44,040 --> 00:30:50,680
Speaker 1: each other head to the story's glass, say.

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Speaker 2: Why didn't you explain it? Could you break down that

680
00:30:52,800 --> 00:30:53,240
Speaker 2: joke and.

681
00:30:53,240 --> 00:30:55,400
Speaker 3: Just explain just saying it? And she's like, what was

682
00:30:55,440 --> 00:30:58,239
Speaker 3: happening to the seventies? We're talking about head? Riley did

683
00:30:58,280 --> 00:31:01,120
Speaker 3: the guillotine joke? Guiantine well whatever?

684
00:31:01,560 --> 00:31:06,920
Speaker 1: Guilty On ther relevant comments, Helli Fitz says, she looked

685
00:31:06,920 --> 00:31:08,520
Speaker 1: me dead in the eye and told me that what

686
00:31:08,560 --> 00:31:09,960
Speaker 1: she did was for me and our love together.

687
00:31:10,080 --> 00:31:12,880
Speaker 2: We will be together, She swears, Oh my god, dude,

688
00:31:13,000 --> 00:31:16,480
Speaker 2: so romantic. These movies almost be getting there.

689
00:31:16,560 --> 00:31:20,360
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, anyways, watch the notebook. That shit crazy, that is.

690
00:31:20,600 --> 00:31:23,680
Speaker 3: The commenter says, that is so unsettling. I am glad

691
00:31:23,680 --> 00:31:25,920
Speaker 3: that you and Alma are safe. You should talk to

692
00:31:25,960 --> 00:31:28,400
Speaker 3: her about looking into getting a restraining order.

693
00:31:28,240 --> 00:31:31,560
Speaker 1: For herself against Sasha, which I agree with, Like she

694
00:31:31,640 --> 00:31:35,800
Speaker 1: came way more than oh.

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00:31:34,840 --> 00:31:37,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean what seems like it's a jealousy thing,

696
00:31:37,640 --> 00:31:41,080
Speaker 4: like you can't have him, he's mine mine, Yeah, even

697
00:31:41,080 --> 00:31:42,280
Speaker 4: though there's literally no proof.

698
00:31:42,120 --> 00:31:43,920
Speaker 2: That there's only one way to make sure that you

699
00:31:44,000 --> 00:31:49,640
Speaker 2: can't have him. Oo death. Well, Opie responds to all this.

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Speaker 1: I'm not sure what Almah's plans are right now, but

701
00:31:52,280 --> 00:31:55,240
Speaker 1: we're both refraining from further contact from each other. She's

702
00:31:55,280 --> 00:31:57,880
Speaker 1: removed herself from Facebook, and that is all I know.

703
00:31:58,160 --> 00:32:01,360
Speaker 1: Wild Stallions one one says, I don't understand your ex's

704
00:32:01,400 --> 00:32:04,880
Speaker 1: plan or really the story. Why did your ex assume

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00:32:05,080 --> 00:32:07,400
Speaker 1: that you would go over to Almah's house? How did

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00:32:07,440 --> 00:32:10,200
Speaker 1: she know that Almah would ask for your help? Why

707
00:32:10,240 --> 00:32:13,760
Speaker 1: did Almah ask for your help? And why did Alma

708
00:32:13,800 --> 00:32:15,720
Speaker 1: even suspect it was your girlfriend.

709
00:32:15,920 --> 00:32:17,520
Speaker 4: Commoner said, it's not adding up.

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00:32:17,800 --> 00:32:22,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, So is it like our Alma and Sasha conspiring together?

711
00:32:22,800 --> 00:32:23,640
Speaker 2: Is that? What is?

712
00:32:24,480 --> 00:32:27,040
Speaker 4: I think it's just she's asking this person's asking questions

713
00:32:27,080 --> 00:32:29,520
Speaker 4: of like why were you still the person that Alma called?

714
00:32:29,760 --> 00:32:29,960
Speaker 2: Right?

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00:32:30,000 --> 00:32:32,800
Speaker 3: Well, yeah, like people call their exes like I was

716
00:32:32,840 --> 00:32:33,960
Speaker 3: talking to my ex.

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00:32:34,120 --> 00:32:37,760
Speaker 1: Well, because it's beyond it's that and like, yo, you're

718
00:32:37,800 --> 00:32:41,120
Speaker 1: involved in this and like low key, it's obviously Sasha's

719
00:32:41,120 --> 00:32:43,560
Speaker 1: fault because she's crazy, but it's like, yo, I need help,

720
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Speaker 1: and you're the one that's like in the mix, like

721
00:32:46,240 --> 00:32:47,120
Speaker 1: you're Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Does she know that it was Sasha or of Op's

723
00:32:50,880 --> 00:32:51,520
Speaker 4: car though.

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Speaker 3: I think she said that and she said yeah, she

725
00:32:53,480 --> 00:32:56,120
Speaker 3: because she got bunken into and she's like, hey, I've

726
00:32:56,160 --> 00:32:58,480
Speaker 3: seen this. I know, like your ex is kind of

727
00:32:58,480 --> 00:33:01,960
Speaker 3: crazy or your your current girlfriend that's kind of crazy.

728
00:33:02,240 --> 00:33:05,040
Speaker 2: I think yet to be I think that's what. Yeah. Yeah, yeah,

729
00:33:05,160 --> 00:33:07,080
Speaker 2: they're still together. They are still together.

730
00:33:07,120 --> 00:33:08,320
Speaker 4: They're still happily together.

731
00:33:08,680 --> 00:33:08,920
Speaker 2: Yeah.

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00:33:08,960 --> 00:33:11,200
Speaker 3: And Josie Mende says, maybe she asked because of the

733
00:33:11,240 --> 00:33:14,920
Speaker 3: previous incident. I remember because she went into his phone

734
00:33:15,200 --> 00:33:16,280
Speaker 3: texted all the xes.

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00:33:16,360 --> 00:33:19,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I also found out later communicated with all

736
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Speaker 2: about that. That makes sense.

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Speaker 1: Sasha assumed that I would go over to Almah's house

738
00:33:22,960 --> 00:33:25,040
Speaker 1: because she thought I would go back to her to

739
00:33:25,080 --> 00:33:28,040
Speaker 1: have an affair with her. I'm guessing the stem from

740
00:33:28,040 --> 00:33:32,480
Speaker 1: the unprompted Facebook message Alma sent me regarding the weird texts.

741
00:33:32,080 --> 00:33:32,920
Speaker 2: That she received.

742
00:33:33,280 --> 00:33:35,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, reaching out because it's like, why am I getting

743
00:33:35,920 --> 00:33:39,840
Speaker 1: all of these fucking weird things that I'm not sending?

744
00:33:39,840 --> 00:33:42,120
Speaker 3: Why do we stop using spell that tea because a

745
00:33:42,120 --> 00:33:43,160
Speaker 3: majority of you hated it?

746
00:33:43,560 --> 00:33:48,440
Speaker 2: Yes, that's it ten thousand, We'll bring it back. I'm

747
00:33:48,440 --> 00:33:49,080
Speaker 2: just kidding.

748
00:33:49,280 --> 00:33:52,120
Speaker 1: So Alma asked for my help because she recognized it

749
00:33:52,160 --> 00:33:55,160
Speaker 1: was my girlfriend or my girlfriend's friend more than.

750
00:33:55,160 --> 00:33:57,520
Speaker 2: Likely causing this due to the dates.

751
00:33:57,200 --> 00:34:00,160
Speaker 1: And the new information regarding the tracking that she had

752
00:34:00,160 --> 00:34:02,719
Speaker 1: out about And Sasha has a very distinct feature so

753
00:34:02,840 --> 00:34:05,600
Speaker 1: that if you Facebook stalked her, you could easily point

754
00:34:05,640 --> 00:34:07,840
Speaker 1: her out in a lineup or in a car that

755
00:34:07,960 --> 00:34:09,920
Speaker 1: drives by at least four times.

756
00:34:10,160 --> 00:34:11,680
Speaker 2: What is the distinct feature?

757
00:34:11,800 --> 00:34:15,680
Speaker 1: I guess distinct features, like it's easy to like.

758
00:34:16,000 --> 00:34:18,320
Speaker 3: What distinct features? Could eyebrows?

759
00:34:18,480 --> 00:34:19,239
Speaker 2: Nose like that?

760
00:34:19,320 --> 00:34:21,319
Speaker 4: I like, what's his face. Eyebrow guy.

761
00:34:21,440 --> 00:34:23,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what I'm talking about, the basketball eyebrow guy.

762
00:34:24,080 --> 00:34:29,040
Speaker 3: But there's no way is that the eye I'm talking about?

763
00:34:29,040 --> 00:34:30,759
Speaker 2: Will Poulter, Who are you talking about?

764
00:34:30,840 --> 00:34:34,000
Speaker 3: Brianna says she is super pretty? Maybe and say she says,

765
00:34:34,080 --> 00:34:37,359
Speaker 3: nose and glasses. I don't know. I think I think

766
00:34:37,400 --> 00:34:41,400
Speaker 3: she's got them white brow got them curves, curves, curl.

767
00:34:41,200 --> 00:34:44,720
Speaker 2: Deville or something. Kara the Kara the eyebrow.

768
00:34:44,800 --> 00:34:49,080
Speaker 1: Yes, right, she's got the eyebrows, right eyebrows. No, she's

769
00:34:49,120 --> 00:34:51,640
Speaker 1: just got boom, big old eyebrows.

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00:34:51,960 --> 00:34:55,040
Speaker 3: I don't know. Statement all right, Well, Josie says, maybe

771
00:34:55,040 --> 00:34:57,560
Speaker 3: bright colored hair. I think that's probably a right.

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00:34:59,160 --> 00:35:01,520
Speaker 2: What are we doing here? Th that's it?

773
00:35:01,719 --> 00:35:04,759
Speaker 1: So Opie on cutting contact with Sasha and her family, Oh,

774
00:35:04,840 --> 00:35:07,239
Speaker 1: I have no intention of talking to her anymore. So

775
00:35:07,280 --> 00:35:09,080
Speaker 1: if they can't break up, I just still hope that

776
00:35:09,120 --> 00:35:12,400
Speaker 1: she can get the help she needs. Before she started

777
00:35:12,440 --> 00:35:15,960
Speaker 1: to tip and spiral, she was generally a wonderful person.

778
00:35:16,200 --> 00:35:18,880
Speaker 1: I hope someone helps her find stability in that mindset

779
00:35:19,120 --> 00:35:21,880
Speaker 1: and not this crazy one. And I spoke to her

780
00:35:21,920 --> 00:35:24,520
Speaker 1: mom to let her know what is going on. But

781
00:35:24,560 --> 00:35:28,279
Speaker 1: I have been advised to seize contact with anyone with

782
00:35:28,520 --> 00:35:30,719
Speaker 1: obvious ties to her.

783
00:35:31,000 --> 00:35:33,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, and it's crazy that she has like a whole

784
00:35:33,560 --> 00:35:35,640
Speaker 3: army supporting her endeavors.

785
00:35:36,400 --> 00:35:39,040
Speaker 2: And the story is over and we're still together. They're

786
00:35:39,040 --> 00:35:40,000
Speaker 2: still together? Wow?

787
00:35:40,040 --> 00:35:41,200
Speaker 3: Are they actually still together?

788
00:35:41,280 --> 00:35:41,960
Speaker 2: They haven't broken up?

789
00:35:42,120 --> 00:35:44,799
Speaker 3: The broken up? Please tell me there's an update.

790
00:35:44,880 --> 00:35:45,799
Speaker 2: Is there an update? Is that it?

791
00:35:46,160 --> 00:35:47,640
Speaker 3: That's it? That's it.

792
00:35:48,000 --> 00:35:51,520
Speaker 4: Moral of the story, because they haven't broken up. He

793
00:35:51,800 --> 00:35:54,600
Speaker 4: is a cheater and will always be achieved.

794
00:35:54,719 --> 00:35:55,440
Speaker 2: That's true.

795
00:35:56,239 --> 00:35:59,319
Speaker 3: That is true because if he has any real cheat,

796
00:36:00,560 --> 00:36:03,080
Speaker 3: a fulfilling prophecy, he is going to cheat again because

797
00:36:03,080 --> 00:36:03,640
Speaker 3: he never broke up.

798
00:36:03,680 --> 00:36:04,480
Speaker 4: Because he never broke up.

799
00:36:04,600 --> 00:36:06,799
Speaker 2: That's true. He said he was gonna date again. Ooh,

800
00:36:07,000 --> 00:36:09,280
Speaker 2: didn't think about that. He might be done with dating forever.

801
00:36:09,400 --> 00:36:13,560
Speaker 3: Maybe he'll go Yeah. Marco m says loophole. David Arnold

802
00:36:13,600 --> 00:36:17,680
Speaker 3: says wow, that's extreme. Luz Boddaz says cheater and a

803
00:36:17,800 --> 00:36:22,399
Speaker 3: dumb ass. Tricia Stewart says, nice, ten things I hate

804
00:36:22,400 --> 00:36:23,080
Speaker 3: about you reference?

805
00:36:23,080 --> 00:36:23,600
Speaker 2: We had it.

806
00:36:23,600 --> 00:36:25,200
Speaker 3: We talked about ten things I hate about you.

807
00:36:25,680 --> 00:36:27,160
Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't know. Is that a movie?

808
00:36:27,200 --> 00:36:27,960
Speaker 3: It is a movie.

809
00:36:28,880 --> 00:36:32,360
Speaker 4: Yes, it's a great movie. It's one of my favorite

810
00:36:32,440 --> 00:36:33,640
Speaker 4: rong comsludger.

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00:36:35,480 --> 00:36:37,319
Speaker 2: I know him, okay, he was in he was in a.

812
00:36:37,239 --> 00:36:40,040
Speaker 4: Wrong com Yeah yeah, when he was younger.

813
00:36:40,320 --> 00:36:42,520
Speaker 2: Wow, that's so cool. Before he did a joker.

814
00:36:42,600 --> 00:36:45,279
Speaker 3: Yeah, an said, got him mad in technicality.

815
00:36:45,400 --> 00:36:45,880
Speaker 2: I love it.

816
00:36:45,960 --> 00:36:49,680
Speaker 3: You know what else you're gonna love this next story.

817
00:36:51,360 --> 00:36:54,640
Speaker 4: Honised to Happy Birthday song on the break that we did.

818
00:36:55,120 --> 00:36:57,839
Speaker 4: Thank you, Sophia, You're welcome our sleep is night are

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00:36:57,840 --> 00:36:58,080
Speaker 4: you here?

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00:36:58,239 --> 00:37:03,879
Speaker 3: Are nice and sleepless Night's birthday here, Dennise demn Meg

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00:37:04,000 --> 00:37:04,920
Speaker 3: will thank you.

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00:37:05,000 --> 00:37:06,400
Speaker 2: Lots of fun from London in it.

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00:37:06,480 --> 00:37:10,320
Speaker 3: Let's go all right, we are going to sing happy

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00:37:10,320 --> 00:37:14,839
Speaker 3: birthday right now, right now, by birthday.

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00:37:14,640 --> 00:37:28,720
Speaker 5: To you, to you, by dear Sleepless Nights, Hapy.

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Speaker 2: To you.

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00:37:35,160 --> 00:37:39,959
Speaker 3: That's right all right, for your birthday gift we're gonna

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Speaker 3: give you