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Speaker 1: Yet I tell them back.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, they talk better than they sign. Tell me.

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Speaker 3: These are the radio blogs on the Fred Show. I

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Speaker 3: like for writing in our diaries, except we say them aloud.

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Speaker 2: We call them blogs. Paulina.

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Speaker 1: Yes, all right, thank you.

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Speaker 2: I'm giving you the case of the car. Now be responsible.

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Speaker 4: I am.

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Speaker 1: I take it away, dear blog, Thank you, dear blog.

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Speaker 4: I am going through this like I don't know if

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Speaker 4: it's just like a new thought or something that's coming

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Speaker 4: to me.

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Speaker 1: But I don't pray for the downfall of many people.

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Speaker 1: I don't.

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Speaker 4: But when it comes to some influencers, I question a

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Speaker 4: why they.

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Speaker 1: Have such a large following with the things they say.

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Speaker 4: And then number two, I really wish that podcasting equipment

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Speaker 4: was harder to come by because not everybody needs that

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Speaker 4: a podcast or needs a platform when they just you know,

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Speaker 4: just say stupid things.

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Speaker 2: You're saying.

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Speaker 3: People should be licensed to be able to, you know,

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Speaker 3: have a podcast. There needs to be like some coding,

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Speaker 3: maybe like an interview process like say pre check or something.

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Speaker 4: Like a pre check just say anything that you know,

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Speaker 4: show was there a little qualified to do it because

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Speaker 4: people just say things, yes, Kicky, I know, just people

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Speaker 4: just say things. Man, and it just drives me crazy.

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Speaker 4: And I don't know how the TikTok algorithm brought me

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Speaker 4: to this, but basically I saw that a and I'll

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Speaker 4: call her out by her name, but I saw that

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Speaker 4: a influencer by Avery Woods is her name. I don't

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Speaker 4: know of this woman. I don't, I don't. I couldn't

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Speaker 4: tell you something about her. But she's saying a bunch

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Speaker 4: of crazy things or whatever. People are like, you know, oh,

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Speaker 4: this is so controversial, and I think the latest one,

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Speaker 4: which was very recent, was her discussing I guess she's

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Speaker 4: a mother to discussing sea sections versus like vaginal birth,

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Speaker 4: and she basically was saying, and I'm gonna use the

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Speaker 4: But she said that sea section moms are pristine on there,

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Speaker 4: basically calling herself that because mothers who do it the

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Speaker 4: other way, right then quote natural way if you will,

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Speaker 4: or the vaginal way become wrecked. That's the word she

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Speaker 4: used down there, or like things are like yeah and

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Speaker 4: I no, no, And again it's not even like comparing,

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Speaker 4: but like both are so difficult. First of all, you're

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Speaker 4: you're giving birth to a child first and foremost, and

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Speaker 4: our bodies are are designed to to yes, carry children

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Speaker 4: and give birth to kids and have our children, and

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Speaker 4: obviously we heal from that. But either way, like it

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Speaker 4: doesn't make you less or more. Things aren't broken after,

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Speaker 4: you know what I mean. And I thought that was

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Speaker 4: just like a weird comment to say, very straight, especially

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Speaker 4: with a huge, huge platform like yours, like this is

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Speaker 4: this girl, and of course like the moms are our

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Speaker 4: mommy on on the TikTok and they're they're you know,

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Speaker 4: everyone's upset. And I agree with that because I just

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Speaker 4: feel like that's not I don't know, that wasn't the.

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Speaker 1: Right thing to say. I don't think.

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Speaker 4: I think sometimes we can just be quiet, we can

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Speaker 4: turn off our microphone, our podcast equipment.

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Speaker 1: I just felt like that was really out of touch.

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Speaker 4: And I don't like that because I think that you know,

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Speaker 4: saying that having a sea section right like saves your body,

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Speaker 4: like no, like sea section moms go through it.

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Speaker 3: That's pretty serious, abdominal search, very serious.

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Speaker 2: You don't want to put that.

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Speaker 3: I wouldn't think you'd want to put the misnomer out

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Speaker 3: save your nether region because I mean I was talking

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Speaker 3: natural way or what I guess both are natural. But

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Speaker 3: take that step, then don't take that step. And then

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Speaker 1: And you're a mother, and it's not true. It's not

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Speaker 4: Like I'm no longer a practicing doctor, but I can

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Speaker 4: tell you that's not true.

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Speaker 2: I know you gave up your license.

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Speaker 1: I did be on the radio. Yes, I understand that. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: do you think it's just rage bait?

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Speaker 5: Like I think people just post stuff so we'll take

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Speaker 4: Could be because we're talking about it, right, you know,

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Speaker 4: like we're bringing up her name, we're saying what she said.

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Speaker 4: I again, podcasting equipment should be they should lock it

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Speaker 4: like get the shampoo.

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Speaker 1: Now, they should put podcasts and equipment in there too.

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Speaker 3: I agree, Like, I'm not got a woman implying to

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Speaker 3: other women that if you don't have a sea section

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Speaker 3: that somehow your stuff is not going to be right again,

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Speaker 3: or something like it's not going to be the way

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Speaker 3: that it was or less than perfect. When what you

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Speaker 3: an incredible natural feat as it is, So why put that?

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Speaker 3: Why perpetuate that that that insecurity or that feeling that,

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Speaker 3: oh wow, now I guess will never be the same.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: I know women who who wanted to give birth vaginally

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Speaker 5: and had to go into an emergency sea section, and

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Speaker 5: I comonly imagine those women seeing that being like what

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Speaker 5: the hell?

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Speaker 1: Like you know what I mean? One d perc like

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Speaker 4: Who thinks like that, because I think it takes my

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Speaker 4: being in serious strength regardless. Right, like you said, you

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Speaker 4: go in with one idea of how this is going

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Speaker 4: to go, and sometimes it doesn't.

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Speaker 1: The recovery is really hard to the sea section, I think.

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Speaker 4: Honestly, I think it sounds I didn't have the section,

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Speaker 4: but it sounds more difficult when you're trying to care

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Speaker 4: incision of multiple layers like that cannot be easy.

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Speaker 1: So honestly, like it's hard. Motherhood is so hard. Regardless,

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Speaker 1: Let's stop spending this weird narrative.

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Speaker 3: You know, if I could call in it for one moment,

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Speaker 3: if I could use my powers for good, I love that,

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Speaker 3: you know. I just like to say that I've been

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Speaker 3: in these streets. I've experienced many a different scenario. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: and I can tell you that everything goes right back

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Speaker 3: to normal and it's great. From your research, from my

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Speaker 3: from my focused research, I can tell you have nothing

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Speaker 3: to be concerned about. It's wonderful, I think, I think,

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Speaker 3: is what you mean. I'm saying to you. I am,

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Speaker 3: I am, I am. What is the word I'm looking for. Well,

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Speaker 3: I am certified, but I am using my powers for good.

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Speaker 3: I am just spelling any misinformation out there. I can

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Speaker 3: tell you firsthand.

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Speaker 1: Well, thank you.

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Speaker 2: Nothing, well not you first you.

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Speaker 3: I just God I met in general tour Fred Show

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