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Speaker 2: I was fine with this.

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Speaker 1: His grandparents are traveling overseas to see relatives, and my

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Speaker 1: From my understanding, accommodation is covered for her while on

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Speaker 1: His sisters suffer from extreme anxiety and tend to be

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Speaker 1: extremely selfish. I will not downplay her anxiety. She certainly

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Speaker 1: does suffer with her mental health, but she's also very

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Speaker 2: He being over dramatic or is this an actual condition?

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Speaker 1: Hm? Not even forty eight hours into this trip, she

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Speaker 2: I thought it was five days.

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Speaker 1: I thought it was five days too. Maybe he's only

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Speaker 2: Oh oh, so it's like she's taking a mini trip

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Speaker 1: So she's visiting the grandparents, which is fine.

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Speaker 3: Ah, but then she's gonna take like a little mini

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Speaker 2: And then she's like terrified. Yeah, what use Sophia. You're

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, And jelly Bu says, is her brother

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Speaker 3: I think maybe the reason we're like kind of having

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Speaker 3: Like, for instance, if someone has like a fear of crowds,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so.

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Speaker 3: I feel like that puts a lot of responsibility on her,

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Speaker 1: Like I think the I think in that case, I

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Speaker 1: And if if it's become so debilitating that she can't

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Speaker 3: Could we try a one day trip where it's like

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Speaker 1: But yeah, Elias Magic says Opie can be disappointed that

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Speaker 1: If it is just five days.

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Speaker 2: The only thing that was a whole was not communicating.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that's it. Yeah, yeah, but I think

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Speaker 2: You can you can't do it? The next week? Can

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Speaker 3: I guess and OPI didn't mention this, so I'm going

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Speaker 2: That is a different story.

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Speaker 1: But I don't think that this is the boyfriend's fault.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think.

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Speaker 3: And I and I really kind of empathize for the

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Speaker 2: He doesn't and she said no.

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Speaker 1: He said no at first too.

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Speaker 2: Yes, he did say no, and then when the moment they.

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Speaker 1: Kind of like pushed for him to do it. Yes,

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Speaker 2: Abroad, I do it.

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Speaker 1: Well, yeah, I would probably do it right away, but

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Speaker 4: I told my stepdaughter to stop throwing her icky period

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Speaker 4: and I have three sons aged sixteen, eighteen, and fifteen.

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Speaker 2: Oh so many crusty socks. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: She's a really good kid and she's a good influence

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Speaker 4: My stepdaughter's father isn't present in her life, nor is

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Speaker 4: my son's mother. All four children share a bathroom. My

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Speaker 4: week and told me that his stepsister disposes of her

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Speaker 2: Dad, what are you doing? What you're doing, daddy?

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Speaker 4: My sons are teenage boys and don't want to see

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Speaker 4: they pick it up and use it as a paintbrush

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Speaker 2: I'd become multi millionaires.

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Speaker 4: And a few nights ago, I went to the kitchen

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Speaker 2: Ah.

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Speaker 4: I told her my sons were uncomfortable with her period

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Speaker 4: they always say, don't flush the period products down the toilet,

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Speaker 4: clog your pipes. My stepdaughter left and told me it

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Speaker 4: I thought was an unnecessary attack. Bro, I've been nothing

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Speaker 4: but nice to the girl and it's hardly a comparison.

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Speaker 4: My son shouldn't be subjected to her unhygienic products if

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Speaker 2: Do get it, bro.

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Speaker 4: I called her a scruff and told her that this

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Speaker 4: later asked my wife if she could have a word

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Speaker 4: and that her daughter has had her period for ten

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Speaker 2: What she's doing. Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 4: When I told her it was making so uncomfortable, she says,

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Speaker 2: That's what his wife said.

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Speaker 4: No, oh, this is a genuine issue to me, and

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Speaker 4: I asked my stepdaughter again in the morning and she

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Speaker 4: But I don't see how I'm being unreasonable when it

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Speaker 2: Am I the a hole?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 2: Man?

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Speaker 3: Some people, some people just don't get it, Sam, No,

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Speaker 3: they don't. You know what could happen? This could turn

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Speaker 3: into a nuclear revenge where she's like, oh, you want

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Speaker 3: me to flush them down? Bet So she gets like

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Speaker 4: I'm talking, like little pipes are freaking destroyed.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and then the son's like toil is not working,

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Speaker 2: Bro. But there's an update. Oh god.

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Speaker 4: Not even two hours after I posted this, my wife

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Speaker 4: It was a hoot. They made an interactive quiz and everything.

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Speaker 4: My sons and I learned a lot and apologized to

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Speaker 2: Hey, there we go. That's a good add at.

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Speaker 4: Least at least op learned shout those I'm just like,

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Speaker 4: I'm like surprised that this old man, this middle aged man,

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Speaker 2: I mean, I live with a woman, and yeah you

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Speaker 4: Shout out as about sharing a bathroom, Yes, with a woman.

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Speaker 4: There's hair fucking everywhere, bro everywhere, that's right, And there's

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Speaker 4: and there's a billion different hair products. There's no space

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Speaker 4: It's everywhere, and there's so much.

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Speaker 3: Stop becoming a peasant and become a king like me

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Speaker 3: and have sex. Two bathrooms, you know, one bathroom for

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Speaker 2: That's what we need. That's what we need.

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Speaker 3: Literally, just break down the walls, break down all of it.

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Speaker 3: Build three extra no, two extra bathrooms, two extra bathrooms.

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Speaker 2: Make the living room bathrooms. Ooh wow, put a porta

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Speaker 3: Am I the a hole for calling out my kid's

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Speaker 4: Okayop, this is Okayop. I'm Samuel Donner and I'm John

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Speaker 4: Fry and John please tell me your tales that you

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Speaker 4: do so well?

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Speaker 3: Am I the a hole for calling out my kid's

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Speaker 2: Like a surrogate?

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Speaker 4: Oh god, When you got surrogates and husbands and wives

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Speaker 4: mixed together, it's a recipe for disaster. I twenty nine female,

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Speaker 4: dated a guye Joe thirty mail for three months before

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Speaker 4: he left me to go back to his ex Kim Yikes,

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Speaker 4: turn off with the bangs, start off with the bank today,

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Speaker 4: ladies and gentlemen. Right before we broke up, I found

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Speaker 2: I let him know and he was ecstatic. How how

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Speaker 3: Turns out his girlfriend had fertility issues and would likely

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Speaker 2: Bro, this is weird.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, getting back together was out of the question for

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Speaker 3: Joe was not allowed at the initial appointment because of

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Speaker 3: The trouble, according to Joe, when he told Tim she

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Speaker 4: Thing is, I don't know what's normal in this situation,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's very Strange's of telling me that I needed

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Speaker 4: That's not even biologically possible. But how do you think

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Speaker 2: I'd be like, you're telling me how I'm giving birth? Yeah,

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Speaker 3: Kim wanted the kids to call her mama, since they

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Speaker 4: The audacity for the audacity, but OP wasn't having it.

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Speaker 3: I shut her down, and I said I would make

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Speaker 2: And my body and left.

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Speaker 3: I think the craziest thing is at home birds, because

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Speaker 3: I am getting the medical attention that I want for that,

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Speaker 3: not one that you want. Kim continued to be overbearing

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Speaker 3: B because you're not freaking pregnant.

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Speaker 2: You you fool.

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Speaker 3: At the virtual genetics counseling appointment, she attended instead of

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Speaker 3: Joe and took over the whole meeting, trying to talk

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Speaker 3: You're not related. This is all a relevant information, you

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Speaker 3: freaking idiots.

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Speaker 4: I don't know if you've ever seen that episode of

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Speaker 4: it's not even his, Like this is that scenario.

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Speaker 1: Oh god, now this baby will be related to Michael through.

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Speaker 2: Collusion.

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Speaker 3: When it came time for my twenty week Level two scan,

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Speaker 4: Also, why is Joe so absent from this process? Like

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Speaker 4: that the family history is actually important, actually relevant. Joe

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Speaker 4: Because I wanted to keep it a surprise for me

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Speaker 4: the non traditional way, and how blessed she.

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Speaker 2: Was on traditional?

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Speaker 4: Oh you mean birth from your boyfriend.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, your boyfriend's like freaking traditional. I was irritated,

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Speaker 2: Getting worked up. What is the world.

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Speaker 3: She also announced that she'd be having a baby shower.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, dude, I commented on her baby. Dude,

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Speaker 3: we're just getting worn down. It's not your baby. But

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Speaker 3: it's not your baby. That's not your baby. I commented

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Speaker 3: Joe didn't have any claim or custody of the kids

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Speaker 3: until they are born. I then called Joe and reiterated

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Speaker 3: all of this and stated that I would not be

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Speaker 3: and that my mother would be my birthing partner. He

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Speaker 3: and Kim and some of her friends and family are

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Speaker 3: saying that I'm the a hole, and her mother even

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Speaker 3: called that I insisted and I give her one of

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Speaker 3: my babies. Like this isn't the parent trap.

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Speaker 4: Kim's mom wants oh P to give away one of

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Speaker 4: her children to this freaking delusional person that I guess

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Speaker 4: wants a child so bad. So like making up this fantasy.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, like, hey, we can bamboozle one of the kids

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Speaker 3: into thinking that she's from Kim.

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Speaker 2: So am I the ahole? No? No, I did not

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Speaker 2: think you're the ahle.

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Speaker 4: It's your kids, bro, it's your and the the baby

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Speaker 4: daddy's kids. And this freaking girlfriend, this Kim over here,

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Speaker 4: this Kim has this Kimar is she has no claim

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Speaker 4: over these children, and like treating her like a surrogate,

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Speaker 4: that's that's no bueno.

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Speaker 3: Even worse than a surrogate, because the surrogate is like

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Speaker 3: I am intentionally choosing to have your child is you

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Speaker 3: are paid.

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Speaker 2: They're getting paid.

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Speaker 3: Like this is like worse than that, because it's like listen,

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Speaker 3: this isn't a surrogate.

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Speaker 2: I'm me.

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Speaker 3: I'm having a baby that's not yours, So get the

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Speaker 3: f out of my life.

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Speaker 4: Yeah bro, this is uh freaking nuts, but like you

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Speaker 4: know what, you should never take out of your life

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Speaker 4: and you should always have a bond with okop Yeah us,

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