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Speaker 1: It is time to ask the CLO. Our chief love Officer,

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey is in the building. Quentin and Bakersfield says,

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Speaker 1: I'm dating a woman that is bestie's with her mom,

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Speaker 1: and when we go out, her mom comes to CLO.

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Speaker 1: I don't mind the mom coming, but she's got it

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Speaker 1: going on and I'm becoming more attracted to her. Do

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Speaker 1: I separate myself from the two of them? Or do

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Speaker 1: I focus more on the mother and see where that

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Speaker 1: could possibly go?

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Speaker 2: Quentin?

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Speaker 1: Quentin, yes, Quentin, Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I cannot tell you how dog and deep the hole

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Speaker 3: is you about to step? Yo?

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Speaker 2: Dump?

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Speaker 3: Now mom has a going on. I bet she do.

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Speaker 3: Mmm now, sir, I don't know how far you and

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Speaker 3: this daughter then went. I don't know how y'all met.

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Speaker 3: I don't know if y'all was set up. I don't

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Speaker 3: know if y'all been cuddling. I don't know if y'all

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Speaker 3: and went all the way. It don't sound like it.

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Speaker 3: It sounds like y'all just been hanging out and you

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Speaker 3: trying to see where it goes.

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Speaker 2: I understand what, Lord Mercy.

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Speaker 3: I updated in my life a best friend that had

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Speaker 3: a woman who had a best friend that used to

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Speaker 3: come along, and her friend was finer than her. So

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Speaker 3: and the first day we had never done nothing. We

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Speaker 3: just went out on the date. The first day we

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Speaker 3: went out, I drew the conclusion that I would be

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Speaker 3: much better off with her friend than her I.

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Speaker 2: Came at the first day. I knew that right way

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Speaker 2: first date, just on sight.

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Speaker 3: In my twenty some years, I came to the conclusion

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Speaker 3: that my life, future and all I hope.

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Speaker 2: For would be in better hands with her.

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Speaker 1: Friend, because, like the mom and this one, she had

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Speaker 1: it going on.

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Speaker 2: Boy did she. So. I sat there and made the

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Speaker 2: switch in my mind.

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Speaker 3: Okay, the problem I had, Quentin, is the problem you

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Speaker 3: gonna have. You can make the switch in your mind,

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Speaker 3: but how do you get to switch out verbally, the

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Speaker 3: verbage to use to tell your original date that you

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Speaker 3: are now feeling her best.

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Speaker 2: I have yet to come up with those words, Quentin,

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Speaker 2: good luck.

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Speaker 1: Steve, isn't this different? It's her mom. It's not just

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Speaker 1: her best friend, it's her best friend who happens to

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Speaker 1: be her mom.

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Speaker 2: Surely I told you what would happen with just the

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Speaker 2: best friend.

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Speaker 1: Exactly.

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Speaker 2: I really don't know what to tell you about this

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Speaker 2: girl's mom.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, this is something right now, this is really something.

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Speaker 1: You gotta stop.

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Speaker 2: It ain't nothing, he could say, you know.

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Speaker 1: There's nothing.

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Speaker 2: You're right all right.

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Speaker 1: Moving on to JJ in Southfield, JJ says, last night

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Speaker 1: I heard rumbling in my backyard, so I opened the curtains.

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Speaker 1: My neighbor and a woman were back there having sex.

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Speaker 1: The next day he called to thank me for not

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Speaker 1: scaring the woman off, and he said it won't happen again.

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Speaker 1: His wife is my wife's cousin. I know man code,

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Speaker 1: but do I break code if it involves family?

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Speaker 3: No, you can't break man code. Family, your wife's cousin.

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Speaker 3: They ain't even clothes. That ain't your brother. You're really

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Speaker 3: don't even know them people. Man, Come on now, my

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Speaker 3: mama's sister's kids. What what y'all live out of state

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Speaker 3: in all this whatever? Now, dog, you can't break man

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Speaker 3: cold on that, okay. And he even he realized you

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Speaker 3: saw him and thanked.

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Speaker 1: You and said it won't happen again, not in your backyard.

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Speaker 3: That's what That's what he said. That what he meant, Yeah, yeah, no, no, no, no,

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Speaker 3: that's what he said. It won't happen again. You didn't

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Speaker 3: hear under his breath. It won't happen again, right, yea,

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Speaker 3: that's what that.

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Speaker 1: Means, all right, Harper and Talladega says, I'm thirty and

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Speaker 1: I'm dating a black man that is a mama's boy.

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Speaker 1: If the food doesn't taste like it's mama's food, then

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Speaker 1: he won't eat it. He highly offended my pastor's wife

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Speaker 1: last week by telling her that she didn't cook her

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Speaker 1: lime of beans long enough. We're about to get engaged,

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Speaker 1: should I think twice before marrying him?

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Speaker 3: Well, now I'm gonna be real, which it's hard to

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Speaker 3: chew down on some tough line.

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Speaker 2: I'm just gonna be real with you.

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Speaker 3: You know that, because they already starchy, you know, and

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Speaker 3: that's like that, that's like undercooked coin. You know, them

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Speaker 3: starting foods. You got to cook them through and through.

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Speaker 3: I'd rather have a soft line of bean than a

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Speaker 3: crunchy line of bean. These ain't snap peas. Now, you

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Speaker 3: got to know your groceries, you know. And if you're

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Speaker 3: gonna be country and we're gonna get married, you can't

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Speaker 3: be in here undercooking these limee of bean and the

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Speaker 3: pastor wife no better.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, hell you and a Harry Foe.

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Speaker 3: You should have just left them on and came to church,

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Speaker 3: cut them on low and leave him in there.

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Speaker 2: On simmer in the crack five.

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Speaker 3: And then call home and tell somebody ain't here is

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Speaker 3: somebody that don't go to church, go up there and

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Speaker 3: turn them beans off.

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Speaker 2: But you gotta say it like that. You better come

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Speaker 2: up with That's how they always go in there and

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Speaker 2: turn them beans.

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Speaker 3: Off somebody before they run over. You know how they

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Speaker 3: go because somebody at that street, in their apartment across

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Speaker 3: the street, got the kid your house because you made

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Speaker 3: friends with them. Y'all had your own little watch committee,

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Speaker 3: and you know to send them over to the house

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Speaker 3: cause they don't never go to church and turn them

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Speaker 3: beans off.

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Speaker 1: I got a question lady that wrote the letter, is

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Speaker 1: she white? Because she says some dating a black man.

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Speaker 1: Man see, And.

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Speaker 3: Now that I kind of thought that too. I wouldn't

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Speaker 3: gonna say that because I try to stay out of

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Speaker 3: hild when I came assist. You don't give it from

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Speaker 3: here I go. You know, you know y'all always running

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Speaker 3: stuff under hot water. Anyway, you got the ball and

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Speaker 3: blind of beans, and your pastor's wife don't know how

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Speaker 3: to cook, and I don't blame it black for saying

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Speaker 3: nothing about it, because I'm not gonna be coming over

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Speaker 3: here these little white dinners and y'all under cooking these

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Speaker 3: vegetables and running these hot water across these green beans

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Speaker 3: and slicing up these almonds on them. I'm not coming

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Speaker 3: over here for this. And stop putting these marshmallows on

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Speaker 3: top of these jam Who talked y'all to do that?

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Speaker 3: And we like dressing, and dressing and stovetop is two

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Speaker 3: different things.

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Speaker 2: Entirely coming to the White church. No more.

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Speaker 1: Thank you for llow you're listening, Steve Harvey Morning Show