WEBVTT - Off Record: Missing Husband

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome to The Knife Off Record. I'm Hannah Smith.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm Pasha Eaton. And Hannah, today I have a story

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<v Speaker 1>for you that came from actually a call I was making,

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<v Speaker 1>like so many of these do, for a different episode.

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<v Speaker 1>And I got in touch with a detective who had

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<v Speaker 1>been working on the case I'm going to talk about.

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<v Speaker 1>And he couldn't speak to me about it because everything

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<v Speaker 1>was still pending. And it's no longer pending. I had

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<v Speaker 1>a call with him and I'm going to.

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<v Speaker 2>No longer pending. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm going to be able to talk about the

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<v Speaker 1>phone call, but we weren't able to schedule an interview. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I was able to put this together with body cam

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<v Speaker 1>footage and court records.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow.

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<v Speaker 1>So news articles plus a call with the detective who

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<v Speaker 1>I think played an instrumental role in the case. Wow.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so dark, but I think that it was really

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<v Speaker 1>great police work. And I think this case is a

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<v Speaker 1>really good lesson in trusting your instincts if you know

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<v Speaker 1>something is wrong.

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<v Speaker 2>Cool.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. So I'll just get right into it then. Let's

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<v Speaker 1>do it.

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<v Speaker 1>So on May 12th, 2025, a call comes in to

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<v Speaker 1>the non-emergency line at the Otero County Sheriff's Office saying,

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<v Speaker 1>Otero County is in southern New Mexico.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's a very rural area. And the man calling

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<v Speaker 1>is actually from Texas. He sounds very concerned and with

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of urgency, but he also sounds really frustrated.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, he sounds like no one's been listening to him.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if it was the first call he'd made,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's pretty clear that he's been trying to reach

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<v Speaker 1>someone and he can't reach them.

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<v Speaker 2>And is he calling from Texas or he's a Texan

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<v Speaker 2>who's in Texas?

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<v Speaker 1>He's calling from Texas.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>And he asks the dispatcher, who can I talk to

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<v Speaker 1>about a wellness check for someone who lives in Otero County?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>And the man he's interested in doing a wellness check

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<v Speaker 1>on is Craig Thetford. And Craig is from the same

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<v Speaker 1>town in Texas. He's from Breckenridge, Texas, but he's been

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<v Speaker 1>living in Cloudcroft, New Mexico, with his wife, Dina.

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<v Speaker 2>Where is Breckenridge? I've never heard of that town in Texas.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's in West Texas. I think it's like

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<v Speaker 1>90 minutes from Dallas, maybe.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe two hours from Dallas.

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<v Speaker 2>Gotcha.

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<v Speaker 1>So this man is really concerned because... Craig has not

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<v Speaker 1>been reachable to him for two months. He had been

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<v Speaker 1>able to exchange some text messages with him, but that

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<v Speaker 1>was it. And Craig was usually someone who was really

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<v Speaker 1>easy to get on the phone. Now, this call that

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<v Speaker 1>he's making for a wellness check is in mid-May 2025.

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<v Speaker 1>And he hasn't had a text from Craig in two months.

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<v Speaker 1>He's really concerned. And adding to his concern, really compounding

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<v Speaker 1>his sort of frustration in my interpretation of his call,

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<v Speaker 1>is that he also now can't reach Dina, Craig's wife.

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<v Speaker 1>So he's really concerned. And the dispatcher's like, OK, we'll

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<v Speaker 1>send someone out to the house. And he's happy with that.

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<v Speaker 1>They get off the phone. Now, this 911 caller is

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<v Speaker 1>actually Craig's longtime friend and business partner. So he knows

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<v Speaker 1>him really well.

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<v Speaker 2>Are they still business partners at the time or like retired?

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<v Speaker 1>Actually, Craig had retired. He had a roofing business and

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<v Speaker 1>it was really successful. The roofing business was in Texas,

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<v Speaker 1>where he's from. And he just decided to retire in

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<v Speaker 1>New Mexico. They just found a place they really loved

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<v Speaker 1>up in Cloudcroft. It's like a very rural place. tight-knit community,

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<v Speaker 1>a mountain town. Sounds nice. Yeah. And they had been

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<v Speaker 1>loving life up there. They lived in a three-story home.

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<v Speaker 1>They had a lot of recreational vehicles, did a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of outdoorsy fun trips together. By all accounts, his life

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<v Speaker 1>was going really well. Like he was really reaping the

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<v Speaker 1>benefits of a lot of hard work in his life. Okay. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So Craig and Dina had both been married before. They

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<v Speaker 1>both had children from earlier relationships and they met over

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<v Speaker 1>10 years ago. They seem to really enjoy a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of the same things, like being outdoors and hiking and fishing,

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<v Speaker 1>all of those kinds of activities, maybe motorcycles. I saw

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<v Speaker 1>some pictures of them with helmets on. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>if it was like ATVs or motorcycles, but that was

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<v Speaker 1>like the vibe of the pictures on their Facebook page.

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<v Speaker 1>And they look really happy. And so everyone's really confused. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>why haven't we heard from Craig? Why haven't we heard

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<v Speaker 1>from Dina? They're living in this little town by themselves.

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<v Speaker 1>They're both from Texas. She's from Seymour or her family

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<v Speaker 1>lives there.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm guessing their kids don't live in that same area.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just them. It's just this like post-retirement chapter that

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<v Speaker 1>they've started.

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<v Speaker 2>It sounds like they're like young and healthy for retirees,

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<v Speaker 2>still active, living their lives. There was no medical reason

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<v Speaker 2>why people should be concerned about them. Yeah. That we

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<v Speaker 2>know of. Exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>And Cloudcroft, like I mentioned, is a small town. And

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<v Speaker 1>so people do notice when you're coming and going or

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<v Speaker 1>if you're not there. A lot of people live there

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<v Speaker 1>year round, even though it's, you know, maybe there's not

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<v Speaker 1>like this booming economy. So you could have a second

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<v Speaker 1>home there. But they're quick to notice police presence. And

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<v Speaker 1>so on the evening of May 12th, 2025, following this

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<v Speaker 1>911 call, Two officers arrived at the mountainside home belonging

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<v Speaker 1>to Craig Thetford and his wife, Dina. And watching the

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<v Speaker 1>body cam footage, it's late in the evening. I think

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<v Speaker 1>it's around 8 p.m. The sun is like mostly going down,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's the summertime. And the police get out of

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<v Speaker 1>the car. They immediately start announcing themselves sheriff's office sheriff's

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<v Speaker 1>office no response most of the bottom level is the

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<v Speaker 1>garage area and then there's like a back part that

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<v Speaker 1>they'll go into later but their vehicles look like they're

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<v Speaker 1>in there there's some lights on at the house They

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<v Speaker 1>look inside the window and see some boxes. So they're

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<v Speaker 1>thinking maybe they went on a trip or maybe they're

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<v Speaker 1>packing to move again. But nothing concerning. It's not like

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<v Speaker 1>they're seeing a bunch of like blood on the wall,

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<v Speaker 1>lamps knocked over. And these are adults like they can

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<v Speaker 1>come and go as they please. So. They knock on

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<v Speaker 1>the door. There's no answer. And it's rural, but you

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<v Speaker 1>can still like walk to your neighbor's house. So that's

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<v Speaker 1>what they do. They just decide, OK, we're going to

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<v Speaker 1>walk to the nearest house and see if they can

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<v Speaker 1>tell us anything. And something about Otero County is that

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<v Speaker 1>only 10 percent of it is privately owned. So that's

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<v Speaker 1>how small it is. The rest of the county is

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<v Speaker 1>made up of sovereign tribal land, federal land, which is,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, military installations and state land. So the houses

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<v Speaker 1>aren't squished together, but you know who lives around you.

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<v Speaker 1>And so before this officer can even get to the

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<v Speaker 1>front door of the neighbor's house, he's walking out to

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<v Speaker 1>greet him. And he knows why he's there. He's like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm really worried. He's like, I haven't seen or heard

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<v Speaker 1>from Craig in a long time.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, like, so now the officer, you can tell, is

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit like, okay, well, tell me more. And

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<v Speaker 1>this guy says that he is actually a volunteer firefighter

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<v Speaker 1>for the James Canyon Volunteer Fire Department. And when he

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<v Speaker 1>stopped hearing from Craig, it was January of 2025.

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<v Speaker 2>And had they been in contact regularly before that?

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<v Speaker 1>All the time. He said they were great friends. Really?

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<v Speaker 1>They were volunteer firefighters together, that they were super passionate

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<v Speaker 1>about doing that.

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<v Speaker 2>And in five months, he hadn't like... Hadn't heard from him.

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<v Speaker 2>And hadn't thought to call the police or anything? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I wondered about that. But I also wonder if.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like sort of a, you know, like it would

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<v Speaker 1>suck to be wrong about that. And then it's like.

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<v Speaker 2>Then you're invasive. You're being invasive in your neighbor's life.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. And because they did travel a lot, I wonder

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<v Speaker 1>if that played into it. Like, well, they go on

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of trips and he doesn't need to tell

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<v Speaker 1>me where he's going. Mm-hmm. So, yeah, he said that

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<v Speaker 1>they were in constant contact. They saw each other all

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<v Speaker 1>the time on calls for the volunteer fire department and

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<v Speaker 1>hung out a lot because they're neighbors and then just

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<v Speaker 1>nothing except for a few text messages. And he's like,

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<v Speaker 1>but he wouldn't get on the phone. So the texts

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<v Speaker 1>kind of fizzle out anyway.

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<v Speaker 2>Had he seen Dina?

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<v Speaker 1>He had seen Dina a little bit, but she didn't

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<v Speaker 1>seem like she was acting abnormally at all. So the

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<v Speaker 1>sheriff's office is just sort of like they're taking some notes.

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<v Speaker 1>This is all on body cam. And this neighbor says

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<v Speaker 1>that actually Craig had been sick briefly in January and

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<v Speaker 1>that he had been sick as well. So maybe something's

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<v Speaker 1>going around. And that was kind of the last time

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<v Speaker 1>they saw each other. It's like they were both sick

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<v Speaker 1>out and then just didn't see each other again. So.

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<v Speaker 1>Craig and Dina did live in Cloudcroft year-round, but like

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<v Speaker 1>I said, they traveled a lot. So the officers are

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<v Speaker 1>taking all of this with a grain of salt. They

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<v Speaker 1>continue down the road to talk to another neighbor. And

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<v Speaker 1>just like the last one, these people are very nervous.

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<v Speaker 1>These neighbors are actually a little more forward with their concerns.

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<v Speaker 1>They're like, something weird is going on over there. We

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what. We haven't seen Craig. We haven't heard

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<v Speaker 1>from Craig. And they also say that Dina has been

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<v Speaker 1>at the house as recently as three weeks ago.

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<v Speaker 2>Interesting.

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<v Speaker 1>Interesting. Craig, they haven't seen or heard from him, at

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<v Speaker 1>least verifiably, since January. Dina's been at the house as

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<v Speaker 1>recently as mid-April.

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<v Speaker 2>Did they talk with Dina?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and they said that she just, you know, would

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<v Speaker 1>kind of come and go and wave and she's friendly.

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<v Speaker 1>But that was that. So officers try to call Dina,

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<v Speaker 1>get some information. and they're unable to reach her. But

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<v Speaker 1>you can tell that the officers who are talking to

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<v Speaker 1>the neighbors are like, OK, this is not good. It's

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<v Speaker 1>not going somewhere good. And they finally get another call

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<v Speaker 1>where they're able to learn a little bit more about

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<v Speaker 1>Dina and what's going on. And it's from Craig's grandson. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>separate from Craig's longtime business partner and friend who made

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<v Speaker 1>that initial call, Craig's grandson calls. And he's like, my grandfather, Craig,

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<v Speaker 1>did not call his mother on Mother's Day. And that's

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<v Speaker 1>how we know something is wrong. And he's like, he

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<v Speaker 1>would never, ever do that. Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>And so the whole family now back in Texas is like,

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<v Speaker 1>what is going on? But they can't reach Dina. She's

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<v Speaker 1>pretty much stopped communicating with them. Wow.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Except for Dina did go visit Craig's mother on Mother's Day.

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<v Speaker 1>So they're like, what is happening here? Where is Craig?

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<v Speaker 1>Because they didn't know she's going over there. They would

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<v Speaker 1>all be like, what's going on with Craig? So weird.

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<v Speaker 1>So Dina ends up calling the sheriff's department back and

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<v Speaker 1>they're like, yeah, we're just, you know, people are a

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<v Speaker 1>little worried about Craig. Do you know anything? And she's like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>not really. We're separated. He met someone.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. And she's like, you know, those boxes, he's packing

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<v Speaker 1>up and leaving. And they're like, okay, well, where is he?

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<v Speaker 1>And she said that he was in Mexico. And they're like, oh, well,

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<v Speaker 1>what was he doing there? And she said he was

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<v Speaker 1>trophy fishing and that he was out with all these other,

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<v Speaker 1>she said youngsters, like multiple young women. Oh, okay. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>He's fishing with young women. Right.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, young women, they love to fish. They love

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<v Speaker 1>to fish. Yeah. And so this callback from Dina is

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<v Speaker 1>not reassuring, but, you know, what else can they say?

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<v Speaker 1>These people are going through a divorce. So Dina agrees, like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's weird that he hasn't been in touch, but I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what to tell you because I can't reach

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<v Speaker 1>him either. So listening to this phone call, I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>if I'm Dina in that moment, I'm irritated. I'm like, OK,

0:12:06.110 --> 0:12:08.849
<v Speaker 1>you're leaving me. You're with these other women. You're out

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<v Speaker 1>in Mexico. But can you just put your family's worries

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<v Speaker 1>to rest and call them? Like, what's that have to

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<v Speaker 1>do with us?

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<v Speaker 2>Right. Right.

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<v Speaker 1>Because now I have this like thorn in my side

0:12:17.290 --> 0:12:20.030
<v Speaker 1>of investigators showing up wondering where you are. Yeah. And

0:12:20.050 --> 0:12:21.780
<v Speaker 1>I have to air all of our dirty laundry to

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<v Speaker 1>the sheriff's office. Totally.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm dealing with enough here. Now I'm having to deal

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<v Speaker 2>with all of this.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. But there's none of that. She doesn't ask. You know,

0:12:28.160 --> 0:12:29.700
<v Speaker 1>they're like, we're going to have to report him missing.

0:12:30.160 --> 0:12:31.940
<v Speaker 1>She says, well, I don't think he's missing. I think

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<v Speaker 1>he's in Mexico. And they're like, well, we can't reach him.

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<v Speaker 2>This whole thing sounds suspicious.

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<v Speaker 1>Very suspicious.

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<v Speaker 2>And the fact that he's in Mexico, sort of conveniently

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<v Speaker 2>out of the country.

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<v Speaker 1>A little harder to get to. It's very vague. Like, okay, Mexico.

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<v Speaker 2>Could be true.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>But like, yeah. Raises some red flags.

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<v Speaker 1>Definitely raises red flags. So the officer gets this story

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<v Speaker 1>from Dina and she's like, I know he's in Mexico

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<v Speaker 1>because he's using our credit cards.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, OK.

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<v Speaker 1>And he's like, oh, OK, well, that could be that's

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<v Speaker 1>like maybe the first moment of maybe he is in Mexico. Yeah.

0:13:04.730 --> 0:13:06.750
<v Speaker 1>She can see what he's spending money on. But she

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<v Speaker 1>said she last saw him a couple of weeks earlier.

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<v Speaker 1>So that would be early May, late April, which is

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<v Speaker 1>a very different timeline from the neighbors. And she said

0:13:14.900 --> 0:13:16.880
<v Speaker 1>he came to the house in Cloudcroft to pack up

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<v Speaker 1>his things and then he was leaving again. So the

0:13:25.020 --> 0:13:26.679
<v Speaker 1>officer is like, well, what was he wearing the last

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<v Speaker 1>time you saw him? And she said he was wearing

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<v Speaker 1>a big dog shirt. I don't know what that is.

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<v Speaker 2>Is that a brand?

0:13:33.050 --> 0:13:35.099
<v Speaker 1>She didn't go into detail, but some sort of like

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<v Speaker 1>big dog shirt.

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<v Speaker 2>Big dog? Wait, I gotta look this up real quick.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, it does look like there's a clothing brand

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<v Speaker 2>called BigDogs.com.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, wow.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know if this is really it. It's like

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<v Speaker 2>t-shirts with pictures of large dogs on them.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it may have been the only morsel of

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<v Speaker 1>truth that she tells officers this entire time. So... Dina

0:14:01.320 --> 0:14:04.679
<v Speaker 1>hangs up on the officer. She gets kind of irritated.

0:14:05.080 --> 0:14:07.340
<v Speaker 1>And I don't know if she like outwardly is like,

0:14:07.500 --> 0:14:09.870
<v Speaker 1>I'm done with this conversation. But she hangs up. He

0:14:09.890 --> 0:14:13.589
<v Speaker 1>calls back. She doesn't answer. Now, that conversation with Dina

0:14:13.610 --> 0:14:16.829
<v Speaker 1>took place three days after that initial wellness check.

0:14:17.610 --> 0:14:18.090
<v Speaker 2>And then the.

0:14:18.010 --> 0:14:22.770
<v Speaker 1>Sheriff's office does something really smart. They call in Deputy

0:14:22.920 --> 0:14:25.420
<v Speaker 1>Roger Schoolcraft. And this is the person that I spoke

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<v Speaker 1>with briefly before this all had come to be resolved.

0:14:29.260 --> 0:14:31.450
<v Speaker 1>But Dina's back in town. A neighbor tips them off.

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<v Speaker 1>Dina's back from Texas. She'd been in Seymour with her mom.

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<v Speaker 1>And so he goes over to the house. And Roger

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<v Speaker 1>on the body cam footage, I mean, he just sounds

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<v Speaker 1>so disarming and unassuming and like approachable. It's a small town.

0:14:47.520 --> 0:14:50.560
<v Speaker 1>Dina's like, I recognize you. We met at a football game.

0:14:50.620 --> 0:14:53.800
<v Speaker 1>And Roger's like, oh, that sounds right. And he's like,

0:14:54.120 --> 0:14:56.520
<v Speaker 1>you know, can we sit down for a second? First

0:14:56.540 --> 0:14:58.510
<v Speaker 1>of all, she answers the door like wrapped in a blanket.

0:14:59.010 --> 0:15:02.870
<v Speaker 1>she just seems ultra relaxed. And she's, you know, she's

0:15:02.890 --> 0:15:05.210
<v Speaker 1>not done up or anything. She's like, yeah, come on in.

0:15:05.850 --> 0:15:08.970
<v Speaker 1>They sit down and Roger's just kind of asking her

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<v Speaker 1>the same questions this initial officer did on this phone call.

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<v Speaker 1>And she's just talking and talking and talking. It's like

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<v Speaker 1>she had no concern, you can tell, during this conversation

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<v Speaker 1>that anyone suspected anything. And he's just letting her talk.

0:15:26.600 --> 0:15:30.830
<v Speaker 2>Does he suspect that she's involved in something at this point?

0:15:31.010 --> 0:15:33.170
<v Speaker 1>Well, I don't know if he did when he initially

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<v Speaker 1>went to the house, but it doesn't take long for

0:15:36.530 --> 0:15:40.070
<v Speaker 1>her story to start not making sense with what she

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<v Speaker 1>previously told people.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, she had mentioned that she last saw him

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<v Speaker 1>three weeks ago. Right. Which would be, I guess, the

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<v Speaker 1>end of April.

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<v Speaker 2>Because he came back to the house to pack up

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<v Speaker 2>all of his things.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. And she gives a date that's like a week

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<v Speaker 1>after that.

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<v Speaker 2>Interesting.

0:15:55.640 --> 0:16:00.760
<v Speaker 1>And so Roger does something that's like It's so smooth

0:16:00.880 --> 0:16:04.450
<v Speaker 1>the way he does it in this conversation. He's like, well,

0:16:04.470 --> 0:16:06.890
<v Speaker 1>a little bit about me is I was actually retired

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<v Speaker 1>for a couple of years and I just got so,

0:16:09.950 --> 0:16:12.530
<v Speaker 1>you know, stir crazy. I decided to come back to work.

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<v Speaker 1>And I used to be a homicide detective in Albuquerque

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<v Speaker 1>and just sort of leaves it hanging. And she just

0:16:19.150 --> 0:16:22.020
<v Speaker 1>kind of looks at him like, oh, OK. So there's

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<v Speaker 1>a homicide detective sitting in her living room like she

0:16:24.440 --> 0:16:24.840
<v Speaker 1>knows now.

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<v Speaker 2>Does her demeanor change at that point?

0:16:27.790 --> 0:16:29.930
<v Speaker 1>She kind of takes a breath and goes right back

0:16:30.010 --> 0:16:34.220
<v Speaker 1>into like cool, calm, collected. But because like I know

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm watching, it's like you can see it on

0:16:36.360 --> 0:16:38.800
<v Speaker 1>her face that she's a little bit like, oh, this

0:16:38.940 --> 0:16:39.820
<v Speaker 1>is not good for me.

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<v Speaker 2>Right.

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<v Speaker 1>But she just keeps talking and he asks her some

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<v Speaker 1>questions like, how long have you guys been together? It's,

0:16:46.530 --> 0:16:49.450
<v Speaker 1>you know, well over 10 years they've been together. She

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<v Speaker 1>also tells Roger that Craig is her fourth husband. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>And she said something interesting in that conversation. She's like, oh,

0:16:57.310 --> 0:16:59.330
<v Speaker 1>I just make a joke of it, but I eventually

0:16:59.370 --> 0:17:03.270
<v Speaker 1>realized I'm the common denominator. So he's just like, oh, yeah,

0:17:03.320 --> 0:17:05.700
<v Speaker 1>like laughing it off. And he just starts talking about

0:17:05.740 --> 0:17:08.659
<v Speaker 1>his police work and kind of like, okay, I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to mirror her and like share because she's sharing and

0:17:11.320 --> 0:17:12.740
<v Speaker 1>really make her feel comfortable.

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<v Speaker 2>So this is body cam footage that you've watched?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>And what does she look like?

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<v Speaker 1>She is petite, blonde, very blonde, and... She just looks like,

0:17:25.080 --> 0:17:28.420
<v Speaker 1>you know, your average, like, youngish grandma.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:17:29.619 --> 0:17:34.320
<v Speaker 1>And she seems very approachable and charismatic.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. I mean, when I hear that she's from West Texas,

0:17:37.630 --> 0:17:39.610
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, yeah, of course she's like, come on in,

0:17:39.630 --> 0:17:42.090
<v Speaker 2>and like chatting with him and very friendly. That feels

0:17:42.210 --> 0:17:46.449
<v Speaker 2>very culturally aligned with West Texas.

0:17:46.470 --> 0:17:48.370
<v Speaker 1>She offered him coffee. She's like, I was just about

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<v Speaker 1>to make some coffee, and Roger's like, I would love

0:17:50.330 --> 0:17:50.910
<v Speaker 1>some coffee.

0:17:50.930 --> 0:17:51.360
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Yeah.

0:17:52.250 --> 0:17:55.700
<v Speaker 1>And by all accounts, like she was someone people liked

0:17:55.820 --> 0:17:58.340
<v Speaker 1>to be around until they got to know her.

0:17:58.359 --> 0:17:59.340
<v Speaker 2>Oh, really?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. So Roger immediately clocks some inconsistencies in the timeline

0:18:04.980 --> 0:18:09.050
<v Speaker 1>that she's giving him. He then is like, well, how

0:18:09.090 --> 0:18:10.810
<v Speaker 1>are you paying for things? Because she's like, I don't

0:18:10.850 --> 0:18:13.390
<v Speaker 1>have access to the money. He kept all the money

0:18:14.010 --> 0:18:16.830
<v Speaker 1>in a safe and it's all cash. Then she mentions

0:18:16.850 --> 0:18:19.900
<v Speaker 1>that she is paying the utility bills online. So it's like, OK,

0:18:19.940 --> 0:18:22.659
<v Speaker 1>so you do have access to accounts. but you don't

0:18:22.700 --> 0:18:25.429
<v Speaker 1>have access to this safe. The timeline you're giving me

0:18:25.470 --> 0:18:29.429
<v Speaker 1>is a little off. So he's just not buying it.

0:18:29.530 --> 0:18:33.230
<v Speaker 1>But still, they don't really have enough to say, we're

0:18:33.250 --> 0:18:35.689
<v Speaker 1>going to take you down to the station. At this point,

0:18:35.730 --> 0:18:37.670
<v Speaker 1>it's still way better for them to just keep building

0:18:37.710 --> 0:18:40.490
<v Speaker 1>this relationship and this rapport and try to get information.

0:18:40.520 --> 0:18:43.920
<v Speaker 1>And then Dina brings over something that she clearly thinks

0:18:44.040 --> 0:18:47.280
<v Speaker 1>is like... Her, I don't know what the right word is,

0:18:47.540 --> 0:18:51.260
<v Speaker 1>almost like an alibi or something. She brings over a whiteboard. Okay.

0:18:51.380 --> 0:18:53.380
<v Speaker 1>And she's like, this is where we would leave notes

0:18:53.400 --> 0:18:56.060
<v Speaker 1>for each other to communicate. And on the whiteboard and

0:18:56.119 --> 0:18:59.399
<v Speaker 1>scratchy handwriting, it's like, I'm in El Salto. Maybe we

0:18:59.440 --> 0:19:01.400
<v Speaker 1>can talk when I get back. And that's, you know,

0:19:01.660 --> 0:19:04.399
<v Speaker 1>the place where she says he's fishing in Mexico. And

0:19:04.440 --> 0:19:06.659
<v Speaker 1>she's like, your family's really worried about you. And the

0:19:06.700 --> 0:19:09.379
<v Speaker 1>handwriting is really different. And he's like, so that's Craig

0:19:09.400 --> 0:19:12.909
<v Speaker 1>and that's you. And she's like, mm-hmm, yep. And he's like, OK.

0:19:13.150 --> 0:19:15.480
<v Speaker 1>You know, he's like, well, it's just a whiteboard. But

0:19:15.580 --> 0:19:18.100
<v Speaker 1>I thought it was funny, too, because she goes up

0:19:18.160 --> 0:19:20.480
<v Speaker 1>and gets the whiteboard off the wall and brings it

0:19:20.520 --> 0:19:23.460
<v Speaker 1>to him. And I know that a little whiteboard isn't

0:19:23.560 --> 0:19:26.570
<v Speaker 1>it's not like a heavy, cumbersome thing to do. But

0:19:26.590 --> 0:19:29.750
<v Speaker 1>if I would just think you'd bring someone to a whiteboard.

0:19:30.190 --> 0:19:32.689
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. It's very clearly like, look at this evidence.

0:19:33.070 --> 0:19:36.040
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. It's like, let me present this to you. And,

0:19:36.150 --> 0:19:38.080
<v Speaker 1>you know, you get the sense looking back, Roger probably

0:19:38.100 --> 0:19:41.460
<v Speaker 1>feels the same way. So now we know that neighbors

0:19:41.500 --> 0:19:45.010
<v Speaker 1>haven't seen or heard from Craig since January. And also

0:19:45.310 --> 0:19:47.510
<v Speaker 1>Dina said he left that message on the whiteboard on

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<v Speaker 1>March 28th. But then she had also said maybe he

0:19:50.760 --> 0:19:54.080
<v Speaker 1>was there a few weeks ago getting more clothing. So

0:19:54.619 --> 0:19:59.420
<v Speaker 1>nothing is adding up. And Roger now knows, well, she's

0:19:59.460 --> 0:20:02.310
<v Speaker 1>on her fourth husband. We should probably find out why.

0:20:02.330 --> 0:20:05.750
<v Speaker 2>Do they look into the three other husbands and make

0:20:05.770 --> 0:20:08.790
<v Speaker 2>sure that they're you know, alive and well and driving.

0:20:09.130 --> 0:20:10.310
<v Speaker 1>And they are all alive.

0:20:10.330 --> 0:20:10.890
<v Speaker 2>Okay, great.

0:20:11.210 --> 0:20:13.090
<v Speaker 1>But it sounds like narrowly.

0:20:13.570 --> 0:20:14.290
<v Speaker 2>What? Yeah.

0:20:15.210 --> 0:20:17.310
<v Speaker 1>One said that she tried to stab him with a

0:20:17.350 --> 0:20:20.399
<v Speaker 1>kitchen knife. Another one said that she tried to run

0:20:20.440 --> 0:20:23.140
<v Speaker 1>him over with a car. Another one said that she

0:20:23.180 --> 0:20:25.740
<v Speaker 1>tried to shoot him, but the gun wasn't loaded. It

0:20:25.900 --> 0:20:28.040
<v Speaker 1>was his gun in the nightstand. He's like, I never

0:20:28.080 --> 0:20:29.399
<v Speaker 1>kept it loaded because I didn't trust her.

0:20:29.420 --> 0:20:29.659
<v Speaker 2>Oh, my gosh.

0:20:30.520 --> 0:20:35.620
<v Speaker 1>And apparently she is extremely volatile and violent when she's drinking.

0:20:35.990 --> 0:20:37.159
<v Speaker 1>which is often.

0:20:37.560 --> 0:20:37.980
<v Speaker 2>Wow.

0:20:38.660 --> 0:20:42.440
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. And so before Roger leaves that day, she's also said, well,

0:20:42.460 --> 0:20:44.580
<v Speaker 1>those boxes, that was him packing up all of his

0:20:44.640 --> 0:20:47.830
<v Speaker 1>clothes because he's moving out because we're separating. She's talking about,

0:20:47.850 --> 0:20:49.690
<v Speaker 1>I want to get the house. I'm going to ask

0:20:49.710 --> 0:20:52.230
<v Speaker 1>him for the house. So kind of making it sound

0:20:52.270 --> 0:20:54.890
<v Speaker 1>like That's maybe why he's avoiding me is because he's

0:20:54.930 --> 0:20:56.729
<v Speaker 1>avoiding this process because he knows he's going to have

0:20:56.770 --> 0:20:57.629
<v Speaker 1>to give some stuff up.

0:20:57.790 --> 0:20:58.109
<v Speaker 2>Okay.

0:20:58.490 --> 0:21:01.320
<v Speaker 1>Which, you know, I've never been through a divorce, but, like,

0:21:01.400 --> 0:21:03.660
<v Speaker 1>we've all heard that story a million times. Like, some

0:21:03.700 --> 0:21:06.959
<v Speaker 1>people drag these things out because they're unpleasant and they

0:21:07.000 --> 0:21:10.139
<v Speaker 1>can or whatever. Then she says, can I say something

0:21:10.300 --> 0:21:13.580
<v Speaker 1>off the record? Which, like, if you're talking to a

0:21:13.600 --> 0:21:16.760
<v Speaker 1>cop about your missing husband, like, it's.

0:21:16.609 --> 0:21:17.850
<v Speaker 2>Not off the record. This is not a reporter.

0:21:17.970 --> 0:21:19.350
<v Speaker 1>But he's like, yes, yes, you can.

0:21:19.369 --> 0:21:20.510
<v Speaker 2>And so.

0:21:21.480 --> 0:21:23.750
<v Speaker 1>She's like, there's a bunch of cash in our safe

0:21:23.810 --> 0:21:25.869
<v Speaker 1>because he doesn't like to keep money in the bank.

0:21:26.230 --> 0:21:29.250
<v Speaker 1>I don't have the code, but I don't know if

0:21:29.290 --> 0:21:32.990
<v Speaker 1>that's something you guys are looking into because he's missing,

0:21:33.030 --> 0:21:35.649
<v Speaker 1>if he took all this cash or not. And he's like,

0:21:35.910 --> 0:21:37.950
<v Speaker 1>you don't have the code anywhere? And she's like, no.

0:21:38.020 --> 0:21:39.939
<v Speaker 1>And Roger's like, well, I don't know that we can

0:21:39.980 --> 0:21:41.820
<v Speaker 1>get into that today, but I can make a note

0:21:41.880 --> 0:21:43.460
<v Speaker 1>of it. But of course, he's like, we need to

0:21:43.500 --> 0:21:45.919
<v Speaker 1>get into the safe. But he does ask her to

0:21:46.160 --> 0:21:49.619
<v Speaker 1>show him the safe. And they walk downstairs and it's

0:21:49.660 --> 0:21:53.280
<v Speaker 1>this big, big it's a very serious safe I think

0:21:53.340 --> 0:21:55.080
<v Speaker 1>Roger said it would be an act of God to

0:21:55.119 --> 0:21:57.619
<v Speaker 1>break into it okay there's a hot tub next to

0:21:57.680 --> 0:21:59.379
<v Speaker 1>it and she's like oh Craig got me that as

0:21:59.420 --> 0:22:00.859
<v Speaker 1>a present but now I don't know if I'll get

0:22:00.900 --> 0:22:03.700
<v Speaker 1>to keep it and he's like you know these people

0:22:03.740 --> 0:22:06.450
<v Speaker 1>have some money like they're enjoying their life this isn't

0:22:06.510 --> 0:22:10.850
<v Speaker 1>making sense so Roger leaves keeps digging talks to the

0:22:10.970 --> 0:22:15.850
<v Speaker 1>ex-husbands and then learns through their investigation that she's been

0:22:15.930 --> 0:22:18.940
<v Speaker 1>spending a lot of money and she's been spending cash.

0:22:19.420 --> 0:22:21.379
<v Speaker 1>And one of the things she bought was a house

0:22:21.460 --> 0:22:24.540
<v Speaker 1>in Texas where she's from in Seymour. She also bought

0:22:24.619 --> 0:22:27.580
<v Speaker 1>a blue Mustang and she's paying cash. So where is

0:22:27.619 --> 0:22:29.139
<v Speaker 1>it coming from if you don't have the code to

0:22:29.160 --> 0:22:33.470
<v Speaker 1>the safe? So five days later, Roger goes back to

0:22:33.490 --> 0:22:38.310
<v Speaker 1>the house again. Dina's still there. And when he walks up, because,

0:22:38.330 --> 0:22:40.130
<v Speaker 1>you know, his body cam is recording from the moment

0:22:40.170 --> 0:22:43.090
<v Speaker 1>he gets out of the car. He turns, and you

0:22:43.130 --> 0:22:46.010
<v Speaker 1>can see he's looking at, I mean, what's it called?

0:22:46.050 --> 0:22:49.030
<v Speaker 1>I'm just hearing that blippy excavator song. It looks like

0:22:49.070 --> 0:22:51.230
<v Speaker 1>a tractor with a scooper on it. Is that an excavator?

0:22:51.790 --> 0:22:54.610
<v Speaker 1>But it's like, okay, you're trying to dig a big

0:22:54.670 --> 0:22:57.990
<v Speaker 1>hole in the ground. Like, this is a piece of

0:22:58.030 --> 0:23:01.080
<v Speaker 1>equipment that she would have had to rent somewhere. And

0:23:01.170 --> 0:23:03.260
<v Speaker 1>she is, in fact, digging a big hole in the ground.

0:23:03.640 --> 0:23:05.800
<v Speaker 1>She's not physically on it in that moment, but there's,

0:23:05.820 --> 0:23:07.680
<v Speaker 1>you can see, a hole in progress.

0:23:07.700 --> 0:23:09.180
<v Speaker 2>In the front yard? In the backyard?

0:23:09.220 --> 0:23:11.800
<v Speaker 1>In the front yard, next to a shed. And so

0:23:12.020 --> 0:23:14.860
<v Speaker 1>Roger goes in and just to keep it light, he's like,

0:23:15.320 --> 0:23:17.220
<v Speaker 1>so what are you burying? What are you putting in

0:23:17.260 --> 0:23:20.440
<v Speaker 1>the ground? And she's like, oh, nothing. I'm going to

0:23:20.480 --> 0:23:22.359
<v Speaker 1>put rocks down and then it's going to be a

0:23:22.460 --> 0:23:26.399
<v Speaker 1>gardening bed. And he's like, okay. But like you're, you know,

0:23:26.420 --> 0:23:28.280
<v Speaker 1>in the process of a divorce, you don't know who's

0:23:28.300 --> 0:23:29.820
<v Speaker 1>going to get this house. Like what?

0:23:30.119 --> 0:23:30.399
<v Speaker 2>Wow.

0:23:31.060 --> 0:23:34.220
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. And so in regards to the safe, they now

0:23:34.280 --> 0:23:36.580
<v Speaker 1>know she's spending a lot of money, but they don't

0:23:36.600 --> 0:23:38.380
<v Speaker 1>know where she's getting it because she said she can't

0:23:38.460 --> 0:23:42.209
<v Speaker 1>access the safe. And They're continuing to have conversations with

0:23:42.260 --> 0:23:45.500
<v Speaker 1>the neighbors. And the neighbor who was a volunteer firefighter

0:23:45.720 --> 0:23:49.679
<v Speaker 1>with Craig said that Craig knew it was a dangerous job.

0:23:49.880 --> 0:23:52.720
<v Speaker 1>And he mentioned at one point that he had a

0:23:52.760 --> 0:23:54.760
<v Speaker 1>lot of cash stored so that Dina would have it

0:23:55.060 --> 0:23:57.060
<v Speaker 1>and she had access to it if anything ever happened

0:23:57.080 --> 0:23:57.300
<v Speaker 1>to him.

0:23:57.900 --> 0:23:58.260
<v Speaker 2>Okay.

0:23:58.420 --> 0:24:01.989
<v Speaker 1>So directly contradicting. She can get into that safe. She

0:24:02.010 --> 0:24:05.470
<v Speaker 1>can get into the safe. Another neighbor says that Dina

0:24:05.510 --> 0:24:09.140
<v Speaker 1>and Craig had explosive fights, especially if Dina was drinking.

0:24:09.800 --> 0:24:12.900
<v Speaker 1>You know, we know that her ex-husbands don't have nice

0:24:12.940 --> 0:24:15.950
<v Speaker 1>things to say about her. It's just, it's not looking good.

0:24:16.070 --> 0:24:16.350
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:24:16.630 --> 0:24:21.840
<v Speaker 1>But the real bombshell comes from Dina's own close family

0:24:21.900 --> 0:24:26.200
<v Speaker 1>member who calls in two crime stoppers with really damning information.

0:24:27.000 --> 0:24:31.300
<v Speaker 1>She tells the story of a Dina who is abusive

0:24:31.460 --> 0:24:34.800
<v Speaker 1>to her children. Oof. And said that Dina told her

0:24:34.820 --> 0:24:37.379
<v Speaker 1>that she got into a fight with Craig. This was

0:24:37.440 --> 0:24:40.040
<v Speaker 1>Dina's story. We don't know what happened. She said Craig

0:24:40.100 --> 0:24:42.330
<v Speaker 1>pushed her down the stairs and so Dina shot him

0:24:42.510 --> 0:24:46.159
<v Speaker 1>three times. and then moved his body from their home

0:24:46.260 --> 0:24:50.320
<v Speaker 1>to the carport. And then shortly after that, another friend

0:24:50.380 --> 0:24:53.800
<v Speaker 1>of Dina's, a longtime friend back in Texas, calls and

0:24:53.820 --> 0:24:56.080
<v Speaker 1>says the same thing. So she's now said the same

0:24:56.140 --> 0:24:57.290
<v Speaker 1>story to two people.

0:25:03.190 --> 0:25:06.330
<v Speaker 2>So she's told people, I shot him, I killed him,

0:25:06.350 --> 0:25:10.490
<v Speaker 2>I moved his body. To the carport. The carport is

0:25:10.510 --> 0:25:11.250
<v Speaker 2>like an open.

0:25:11.270 --> 0:25:16.130
<v Speaker 1>Theirs is like, it's closed. I don't know. It's like

0:25:16.170 --> 0:25:18.859
<v Speaker 1>a big work garage, but they're calling it the carport.

0:25:19.490 --> 0:25:23.179
<v Speaker 1>And in that very first call, when officers arrived at

0:25:23.200 --> 0:25:25.800
<v Speaker 1>the house for the wellness check, one of them notes

0:25:26.080 --> 0:25:30.800
<v Speaker 1>a strange smell. Okay. But there's wildlife everywhere. Right. They

0:25:30.840 --> 0:25:31.600
<v Speaker 1>don't know what the smell is.

0:25:31.600 --> 0:25:33.060
<v Speaker 2>And it had been a long time.

0:25:33.140 --> 0:25:34.720
<v Speaker 1>Had been a long time. Yeah.

0:25:34.840 --> 0:25:38.100
<v Speaker 2>When did she reveal this to two people in her life?

0:25:38.770 --> 0:25:41.770
<v Speaker 1>I'm guessing it happened in the spring because no one

0:25:41.810 --> 0:25:46.430
<v Speaker 1>had heard from Craig since January. And in both instances,

0:25:46.670 --> 0:25:49.359
<v Speaker 1>I suspect she'd been drinking when she was talking about it.

0:25:49.630 --> 0:25:53.360
<v Speaker 2>Okay. But then maybe they weren't sure if she was

0:25:54.340 --> 0:25:57.100
<v Speaker 2>telling the truth because they waited a few months to call.

0:25:57.760 --> 0:26:00.560
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Like, I think there was also a fear of

0:26:00.619 --> 0:26:02.440
<v Speaker 1>her and wronging her.

0:26:03.000 --> 0:26:07.119
<v Speaker 2>Also, it sounds like she's this little lady and she moved...

0:26:07.859 --> 0:26:09.460
<v Speaker 2>A dead body?

0:26:09.480 --> 0:26:11.480
<v Speaker 1>She told them that she rolled it up in a

0:26:11.540 --> 0:26:15.720
<v Speaker 1>carpet and drug it across to the carport. Yeah. And

0:26:16.060 --> 0:26:18.770
<v Speaker 1>so it's a good question, right? Because if someone tells

0:26:18.790 --> 0:26:20.180
<v Speaker 1>me that story, and I know they have a history

0:26:20.220 --> 0:26:22.609
<v Speaker 1>of violence and drinking, why am I waiting to call?

0:26:23.410 --> 0:26:26.830
<v Speaker 1>But people like that can also have probably conditioned you

0:26:26.850 --> 0:26:30.250
<v Speaker 1>to be scared of them. And so it's just hard

0:26:30.270 --> 0:26:33.270
<v Speaker 1>to say what anyone would do in that situation. Because

0:26:33.310 --> 0:26:35.750
<v Speaker 1>if you're wrong, then you've really angered someone who you

0:26:35.770 --> 0:26:36.930
<v Speaker 1>think is dangerous. Yeah.

0:26:37.740 --> 0:26:40.179
<v Speaker 2>And they're your family member. You're going to see them.

0:26:40.200 --> 0:26:41.180
<v Speaker 2>They know where you live.

0:26:41.540 --> 0:26:44.320
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. And I'm not using this person's name because I

0:26:44.340 --> 0:26:46.990
<v Speaker 1>know they made the tip anonymously to Crimestoppers, but their

0:26:47.030 --> 0:26:51.010
<v Speaker 1>name is now everywhere. And their relationship to her is

0:26:51.050 --> 0:26:54.170
<v Speaker 1>now everywhere. Yeah. Same with this friend of hers. And

0:26:54.930 --> 0:26:56.230
<v Speaker 1>I just, I don't know how to feel about that.

0:26:56.280 --> 0:26:59.780
<v Speaker 1>It's like, we'll get more into it, but... So investigators,

0:27:00.210 --> 0:27:02.720
<v Speaker 1>their suspicions are all but confirmed. Like, Dina has done

0:27:02.760 --> 0:27:05.520
<v Speaker 1>something to Craig, and she's not telling us the full

0:27:05.560 --> 0:27:08.480
<v Speaker 1>story here. But they don't have anything to charge her

0:27:08.500 --> 0:27:10.619
<v Speaker 1>with yet because they haven't found Craig.

0:27:11.000 --> 0:27:12.760
<v Speaker 2>Nobody. Nobody. No crime.

0:27:12.900 --> 0:27:16.560
<v Speaker 1>Right. And so they could charge her theoretically and try

0:27:16.580 --> 0:27:19.000
<v Speaker 1>to make a case out of it. But, you know,

0:27:19.220 --> 0:27:21.420
<v Speaker 1>here's a guy who keeps a lot of money in cash.

0:27:22.220 --> 0:27:24.620
<v Speaker 1>He could probably just disappear if he wants to.

0:27:24.640 --> 0:27:29.000
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, there's another version of this story where she's... been

0:27:29.040 --> 0:27:32.240
<v Speaker 2>volatile and he's finally had enough and he does peace

0:27:32.359 --> 0:27:34.239
<v Speaker 2>out and go to Mexico and is like, I don't

0:27:34.260 --> 0:27:35.760
<v Speaker 2>want to talk to you or be around you.

0:27:35.920 --> 0:27:37.080
<v Speaker 1>Right. Like you're scary.

0:27:37.100 --> 0:27:37.399
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:27:37.420 --> 0:27:38.740
<v Speaker 1>I mean, think about all the things she did to

0:27:38.780 --> 0:27:41.340
<v Speaker 1>her exes. Like what must she have done to him?

0:27:41.820 --> 0:27:45.360
<v Speaker 1>So yeah, it's not like this impossible theory, even though

0:27:45.380 --> 0:27:48.540
<v Speaker 1>it didn't fit his character at all to go out

0:27:48.560 --> 0:27:52.879
<v Speaker 1>of contact with people. Right. So things then take another

0:27:52.960 --> 0:27:55.760
<v Speaker 1>turn because Dina goes back to Texas where she's staying

0:27:55.800 --> 0:27:57.830
<v Speaker 1>with her mother and she attempts to end her life.

0:27:58.390 --> 0:27:59.450
<v Speaker 2>Oh, my gosh. Yeah.

0:27:59.530 --> 0:28:02.020
<v Speaker 1>And so they're like, we need to charge her because

0:28:02.160 --> 0:28:04.580
<v Speaker 1>if she does end up dying, like, we may never

0:28:04.640 --> 0:28:05.780
<v Speaker 1>find out what happened. Yeah.

0:28:06.140 --> 0:28:08.420
<v Speaker 2>And we need to get into the carport. They haven't

0:28:08.460 --> 0:28:09.560
<v Speaker 2>searched the carport yet?

0:28:09.680 --> 0:28:11.790
<v Speaker 1>No, it's locked up and they want to do it

0:28:11.830 --> 0:28:13.810
<v Speaker 1>the right way so they can use everything. So they're

0:28:13.830 --> 0:28:14.710
<v Speaker 1>trying to get a search warrant.

0:28:14.850 --> 0:28:15.090
<v Speaker 2>Okay.

0:28:15.590 --> 0:28:17.770
<v Speaker 1>Well, this makes it so time is really of the

0:28:17.850 --> 0:28:21.270
<v Speaker 1>essence and they get the search warrant. He's in the carport.

0:28:21.990 --> 0:28:24.340
<v Speaker 1>The remains are in the carport. Oh. He's covered in

0:28:24.400 --> 0:28:29.020
<v Speaker 1>a tarp and like mothballs. And she clearly had plans

0:28:29.100 --> 0:28:32.140
<v Speaker 1>to do something else with his remains. But I mean,

0:28:32.180 --> 0:28:32.760
<v Speaker 1>for months.

0:28:32.920 --> 0:28:33.460
<v Speaker 2>That's horrible.

0:28:33.480 --> 0:28:38.050
<v Speaker 1>That's horrible to think about. It's actually like so bizarre, too,

0:28:38.090 --> 0:28:40.670
<v Speaker 1>because just sleeping in the house alone in the woods,

0:28:40.810 --> 0:28:43.660
<v Speaker 1>I'm like. Yeah, I'm an adult. I don't lay awake

0:28:43.700 --> 0:28:47.140
<v Speaker 1>at night worried about ghosts. But like, come on, are

0:28:47.160 --> 0:28:49.940
<v Speaker 1>you not scared of anything? There's a body in your

0:28:50.000 --> 0:28:52.680
<v Speaker 1>carport and you're just going to sleep at night? Like,

0:28:52.750 --> 0:28:54.910
<v Speaker 1>that's just so scary and strange.

0:28:55.090 --> 0:28:56.890
<v Speaker 2>It seems like she probably thought it was safer to

0:28:56.930 --> 0:29:01.030
<v Speaker 2>just leave his body there. But then once the detective

0:29:01.050 --> 0:29:03.490
<v Speaker 2>started to come around, she immediately went out and rented

0:29:03.550 --> 0:29:07.520
<v Speaker 2>this industrial digger and started digging up the backyard or

0:29:07.580 --> 0:29:12.610
<v Speaker 2>front yard, which is Quite brazen. Yeah. Such bad planning. Yeah.

0:29:13.450 --> 0:29:16.570
<v Speaker 1>Very confident person to do that. I mean, police are

0:29:16.610 --> 0:29:21.890
<v Speaker 1>regularly visiting her house. Yeah. Like, what? And so once

0:29:21.930 --> 0:29:24.560
<v Speaker 1>they find Craig's remains, it's very clear he has been

0:29:24.630 --> 0:29:27.420
<v Speaker 1>dead since January, which is the last time his friends

0:29:27.460 --> 0:29:30.080
<v Speaker 1>and family had really verifiably seen or heard from him.

0:29:30.960 --> 0:29:33.440
<v Speaker 1>They are able to then break into the safe and

0:29:33.460 --> 0:29:36.950
<v Speaker 1>they find $ 84, 000 in cash. They find guns and they

0:29:36.990 --> 0:29:38.750
<v Speaker 1>find a lot of cleaning supplies.

0:29:39.850 --> 0:29:39.969
<v Speaker 2>So.

0:29:40.480 --> 0:29:43.000
<v Speaker 1>They're pretty confident that this story that she told her

0:29:43.260 --> 0:29:46.680
<v Speaker 1>friend and family member is probably some version of what

0:29:46.740 --> 0:29:52.380
<v Speaker 1>actually happened. And through their forensic investigation with their finances,

0:29:52.500 --> 0:29:55.240
<v Speaker 1>they determined that she spent $ 1. 5 million since January 2025

0:29:55.240 --> 0:30:03.360
<v Speaker 1>to June. purchasing cars and homes. She told law enforcement

0:30:03.400 --> 0:30:05.300
<v Speaker 1>and family that he was in Mexico, but he actually

0:30:05.340 --> 0:30:07.790
<v Speaker 1>hadn't gone to Mexico since 2023.

0:30:07.790 --> 0:30:10.990
<v Speaker 2>Wow. So there had been much more money in that safe.

0:30:11.070 --> 0:30:13.510
<v Speaker 2>She'd spent $ 1. 5 million of it.

0:30:13.730 --> 0:30:13.990
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:30:14.270 --> 0:30:14.990
<v Speaker 2>Wow. Okay.

0:30:15.050 --> 0:30:19.060
<v Speaker 1>Very quickly. And so Dina was, of course, then the

0:30:19.100 --> 0:30:23.360
<v Speaker 1>person behind all these text messages to friends and family

0:30:23.420 --> 0:30:26.960
<v Speaker 1>who thought they were communicating with Craig until months later

0:30:27.040 --> 0:30:31.180
<v Speaker 1>when they're like, something is up. And so she's arrested

0:30:31.200 --> 0:30:34.720
<v Speaker 1>and she pleads not guilty. She's like, I'm going to

0:30:34.760 --> 0:30:37.200
<v Speaker 1>get a lawyer and fight this. Well, she's arrested and

0:30:37.220 --> 0:30:41.460
<v Speaker 1>booked in jail on July 8th, 2025. And it takes

0:30:41.520 --> 0:30:44.460
<v Speaker 1>a year for her to decide, maybe I'm not going

0:30:44.480 --> 0:30:47.320
<v Speaker 1>to be able to fight this. And she ends up

0:30:47.420 --> 0:30:52.980
<v Speaker 1>pleading guilty to second degree murder, tampering with evidence and forgery.

0:30:53.000 --> 0:30:56.040
<v Speaker 1>I saw two ages for her at the time, 60

0:30:56.040 --> 0:30:58.380
<v Speaker 1>or 61 years old. And she was sentenced to 18 years.

0:30:59.440 --> 0:31:02.220
<v Speaker 2>Okay. So that was just recently that she got guilty.

0:31:23.960 --> 0:31:27.460
<v Speaker 1>And yeah, I think I agree. The more we work

0:31:27.520 --> 0:31:30.220
<v Speaker 1>on these kinds of stories and learn about different sentences,

0:31:30.770 --> 0:31:32.610
<v Speaker 1>it actually made me, I'm going to get back to

0:31:32.650 --> 0:31:35.890
<v Speaker 1>the Craig Thetford case in a minute, but, or Dina

0:31:35.910 --> 0:31:38.830
<v Speaker 1>Thetford case, but it made me think of Brian Barker,

0:31:39.550 --> 0:31:41.550
<v Speaker 1>who I talked about a while ago, but he's that

0:31:41.650 --> 0:31:46.270
<v Speaker 1>police officer who burglarized homes and businesses in Illinois, I

0:31:46.550 --> 0:31:48.989
<v Speaker 1>think it was. He was sentenced to 40 years. Yeah.

0:31:50.710 --> 0:31:51.670
<v Speaker 2>And no one got hurt.

0:31:51.950 --> 0:31:54.330
<v Speaker 1>And no one got hurt. And he actually had a

0:31:54.390 --> 0:31:58.090
<v Speaker 1>very traumatic life leading up to that, that, you know,

0:31:58.190 --> 0:32:00.520
<v Speaker 1>I can't diagnose him, but I don't know. I think

0:32:00.580 --> 0:32:03.360
<v Speaker 1>it's pretty clear that he was a troubled person who

0:32:03.720 --> 0:32:07.120
<v Speaker 1>was conditioned to steal from people.

0:32:07.360 --> 0:32:10.140
<v Speaker 2>Which, like, doesn't always come into play when it comes

0:32:10.160 --> 0:32:13.250
<v Speaker 2>to sentencing, because You could argue that anyone that murders

0:32:13.290 --> 0:32:16.210
<v Speaker 2>their spouse is a pretty troubled person who's had, you know,

0:32:16.250 --> 0:32:17.910
<v Speaker 2>probably some trauma in their life, too.

0:32:18.090 --> 0:32:18.590
<v Speaker 1>Totally.

0:32:18.710 --> 0:32:22.630
<v Speaker 2>But, you know, you commit a crime and you gotta, like,

0:32:23.300 --> 0:32:26.940
<v Speaker 2>serve time for it. But it's weird how varied those

0:32:26.980 --> 0:32:30.880
<v Speaker 2>sentences can be. Like, she took a human life. And

0:32:31.300 --> 0:32:32.320
<v Speaker 2>Brian Barker didn't.

0:32:32.700 --> 0:32:35.280
<v Speaker 1>He stole things and he stole money, but he did

0:32:35.320 --> 0:32:36.520
<v Speaker 1>not kill someone.

0:32:36.660 --> 0:32:36.900
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:32:36.960 --> 0:32:40.480
<v Speaker 1>And he's serving 40 years where she's got 18.

0:32:40.480 --> 0:32:43.340
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. I wonder, I guess it's maybe because she pled guilty.

0:32:43.420 --> 0:32:45.880
<v Speaker 2>They gave her some deal. But, you know, so if

0:32:45.940 --> 0:32:48.480
<v Speaker 2>she's 60, she'll be 78 when she gets out. You

0:32:48.500 --> 0:32:51.840
<v Speaker 2>can still live a long life. And if she's a

0:32:51.880 --> 0:32:55.420
<v Speaker 2>healthy 78, she could also still be a dangerous person

0:32:55.440 --> 0:32:58.900
<v Speaker 2>at that point. So it doesn't seem like a very

0:32:58.960 --> 0:33:00.280
<v Speaker 2>long time, to be honest.

0:33:00.420 --> 0:33:02.600
<v Speaker 1>No. I mean, 18 years for what she did, I think,

0:33:02.780 --> 0:33:04.960
<v Speaker 1>feels like a lightweight sentence. And I know that these,

0:33:05.500 --> 0:33:09.240
<v Speaker 1>especially probably in a smaller county, you have more limited resources.

0:33:09.300 --> 0:33:11.940
<v Speaker 1>Are you going to spend all of your time getting

0:33:11.960 --> 0:33:15.410
<v Speaker 1>your prosecutor ready for a trial? Or are you going to?

0:33:16.260 --> 0:33:19.050
<v Speaker 1>Take a plea deal and put those resources elsewhere because

0:33:19.070 --> 0:33:20.610
<v Speaker 1>you never know what could happen at trial.

0:33:21.250 --> 0:33:21.510
<v Speaker 2>Right.

0:33:21.710 --> 0:33:26.250
<v Speaker 1>So pretty nuts. But Craig Thetford's estate and family was

0:33:26.390 --> 0:33:32.380
<v Speaker 1>also awarded a $ 143 million judgment from Dina Thetford for

0:33:32.400 --> 0:33:35.510
<v Speaker 1>the wrongful death of Craig Thetford. I don't know how

0:33:35.550 --> 0:33:36.650
<v Speaker 1>much of that they'll receive, right?

0:33:36.670 --> 0:33:38.630
<v Speaker 2>How is she going to— does she have money to pay that?

0:33:38.870 --> 0:33:43.010
<v Speaker 1>I think the reason for this lawsuit, this wrongful death lawsuit,

0:33:43.150 --> 0:33:47.060
<v Speaker 1>was to prevent her from maintaining any assets that she

0:33:47.100 --> 0:33:50.640
<v Speaker 1>would have acquired in the marriage or inheriting those. It's like, no.

0:33:51.120 --> 0:33:55.280
<v Speaker 2>Everything that's left of theirs goes toward his family members.

0:33:55.420 --> 0:33:58.340
<v Speaker 1>Right, right. Okay. Yeah, and so, you know, I would

0:33:58.380 --> 0:34:00.060
<v Speaker 1>assume also she'll have to pay them a portion of

0:34:00.100 --> 0:34:05.200
<v Speaker 1>any earnings she ever makes again. In his obituary, Craig Thetford,

0:34:05.800 --> 0:34:09.480
<v Speaker 1>his date that he passed is listed as June 17, 2025,

0:34:09.480 --> 0:34:12.620
<v Speaker 1>which is when his remains were found. He was born

0:34:12.640 --> 0:34:17.390
<v Speaker 1>in 1964 in Ranger, Texas, and who's a son, brother, uncle, father, grandfather,

0:34:17.410 --> 0:34:22.170
<v Speaker 1>and friend. And after retiring from his successful roofing business,

0:34:22.250 --> 0:34:25.760
<v Speaker 1>he worked just as hard as a volunteer firefighter. protecting

0:34:26.060 --> 0:34:27.860
<v Speaker 1>the wilderness that he loved.

0:34:28.180 --> 0:34:28.860
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, wow.

0:34:29.180 --> 0:34:33.930
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and even Dina in her conversations with detectives, they

0:34:33.950 --> 0:34:36.469
<v Speaker 1>were always suspicious of Dina, but they're like, does he

0:34:36.510 --> 0:34:39.410
<v Speaker 1>have any enemies? And she's like, no, everyone loves him.

0:34:39.469 --> 0:34:41.730
<v Speaker 1>He'd give everyone the shirt off his back. He's the

0:34:41.910 --> 0:34:47.189
<v Speaker 1>most well-liked, hardworking person and treats everyone so well. And yeah,

0:34:47.210 --> 0:34:50.750
<v Speaker 1>it's just, it's sad when someone goes missing or is

0:34:50.810 --> 0:34:55.270
<v Speaker 1>murdered and the spouse is like, immediately questioned, but it's

0:34:55.370 --> 0:34:58.469
<v Speaker 1>so often the case that something close to home happened

0:34:58.550 --> 0:35:01.690
<v Speaker 1>that I understand it. It's like, it probably wouldn't have

0:35:01.790 --> 0:35:04.770
<v Speaker 1>taken much for her to get away with this for

0:35:04.810 --> 0:35:05.950
<v Speaker 1>even longer than she did.

0:35:05.969 --> 0:35:07.790
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. I mean, she got away with it for a

0:35:07.830 --> 0:35:09.090
<v Speaker 2>long time, honestly.

0:35:10.070 --> 0:35:10.310
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:35:10.350 --> 0:35:11.350
<v Speaker 2>I'm glad that she was caught.

0:35:11.650 --> 0:35:15.250
<v Speaker 1>Definitely. So Roger was great and he's still working in

0:35:15.270 --> 0:35:15.950
<v Speaker 1>Otero County.

0:35:16.270 --> 0:35:18.750
<v Speaker 2>So you've been in contact with him and then was

0:35:18.790 --> 0:35:20.530
<v Speaker 2>he able to speak to you once she pled guilty?

0:35:20.950 --> 0:35:22.969
<v Speaker 1>I haven't spoken to him since. I just had that

0:35:23.070 --> 0:35:26.470
<v Speaker 1>initial phone call with him when I was first poking

0:35:26.510 --> 0:35:28.850
<v Speaker 1>around when I read about this case. And then I

0:35:28.969 --> 0:35:31.469
<v Speaker 1>saw that it had been wrapped up and I was like, oh,

0:35:31.530 --> 0:35:32.940
<v Speaker 1>I'm going to talk about this. Oh, okay.

0:35:32.960 --> 0:35:33.560
<v Speaker 2>I see. I see.

0:35:33.700 --> 0:35:36.040
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. I didn't think we would be able to schedule

0:35:36.060 --> 0:35:38.100
<v Speaker 1>an interview because he's a very busy person. Right.

0:35:38.760 --> 0:35:41.940
<v Speaker 2>Well, that's, yeah, that's an interesting story. Yeah. I've never

0:35:41.960 --> 0:35:42.340
<v Speaker 2>heard of it.

0:35:42.910 --> 0:35:46.310
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Maybe we'll be hearing more as now that it's

0:35:46.350 --> 0:35:49.110
<v Speaker 1>wrapped up and I would expect there to be something

0:35:49.170 --> 0:35:52.470
<v Speaker 1>about it. But I also have a recommendation.

0:35:52.610 --> 0:35:52.950
<v Speaker 2>Oh, okay.

0:35:53.310 --> 0:35:55.250
<v Speaker 1>I just watched it actually on Hulu.

0:35:55.270 --> 0:35:55.950
<v Speaker 2>Okay.

0:35:56.070 --> 0:35:59.330
<v Speaker 1>It's a true crime documentary. It's by Investigation Discovery and

0:35:59.370 --> 0:36:04.250
<v Speaker 1>it's a three-part docuseries called Big Girls Wanted Escaping Paradise.

0:36:05.070 --> 0:36:10.030
<v Speaker 1>Paradise is spelled like the fruit, like P-E-A-R, paradise.

0:36:10.250 --> 0:36:10.609
<v Speaker 2>Oh, okay.

0:36:11.190 --> 0:36:15.589
<v Speaker 1>But It's an interesting documentary in that it explores the

0:36:15.670 --> 0:36:21.120
<v Speaker 1>world of feeders, which I had never heard of. Basically,

0:36:21.160 --> 0:36:25.339
<v Speaker 1>there's this man in Las Vegas who created Paradise, and

0:36:25.580 --> 0:36:28.700
<v Speaker 1>it's a house, his house, where he just, he really

0:36:28.760 --> 0:36:33.540
<v Speaker 1>loves what he describes as big women. And the story

0:36:33.580 --> 0:36:37.770
<v Speaker 1>is told largely by a journalist and photojournalist who... Never

0:36:37.830 --> 0:36:39.370
<v Speaker 1>felt like she fit in in the world because of

0:36:39.469 --> 0:36:42.009
<v Speaker 1>her weight or never felt like she was fully accepted

0:36:42.660 --> 0:36:45.020
<v Speaker 1>because of her weight. And so she went to explore

0:36:45.100 --> 0:36:49.660
<v Speaker 1>it both as a journalist and as someone who resonated

0:36:49.719 --> 0:36:52.690
<v Speaker 1>with like wanting to feel accepted and not judged by

0:36:52.710 --> 0:36:55.020
<v Speaker 1>your body. Yeah. But when she got in there, she

0:36:55.080 --> 0:36:57.190
<v Speaker 1>realized something else was happening. There was a lot of

0:36:57.290 --> 0:37:02.129
<v Speaker 1>control with food, a lot of manipulation from her perspective

0:37:02.170 --> 0:37:06.140
<v Speaker 1>and the perspective of other former members of Paradise. I

0:37:06.160 --> 0:37:08.900
<v Speaker 1>don't know if they call themselves members, I guess. Cult vibes.

0:37:09.320 --> 0:37:14.070
<v Speaker 1>Very much, to me, cult vibes and... A lot of death,

0:37:14.469 --> 0:37:18.230
<v Speaker 1>like not a lot, but at least one death that

0:37:18.430 --> 0:37:21.950
<v Speaker 1>a lot of the people in the documentary felt like was,

0:37:22.469 --> 0:37:25.170
<v Speaker 1>you know, something that contributed to this person's death was

0:37:25.190 --> 0:37:28.680
<v Speaker 1>the way that they were treated in the house. And there,

0:37:29.540 --> 0:37:31.739
<v Speaker 1>I don't know if it would be classified as like

0:37:32.280 --> 0:37:34.919
<v Speaker 1>something to do with a food addiction or not, but

0:37:35.060 --> 0:37:38.600
<v Speaker 1>basically a lot of control. And there's a website that

0:37:38.620 --> 0:37:41.620
<v Speaker 1>they talk about a lot in this documentary. I think

0:37:41.660 --> 0:37:44.480
<v Speaker 1>it's called Phoebe. Let me look it up, actually. But

0:37:44.840 --> 0:37:50.900
<v Speaker 1>it's people who are, yeah, Phoebe, obsessed with or fetishize eating.

0:37:52.460 --> 0:37:55.140
<v Speaker 1>And for a lot of these women, their health was

0:37:55.239 --> 0:38:01.230
<v Speaker 1>already at risk. And it was honestly bizarre. The man

0:38:01.330 --> 0:38:05.609
<v Speaker 1>at the center of this, he participates in the documentary.

0:38:05.630 --> 0:38:06.710
<v Speaker 2>Interesting.

0:38:06.750 --> 0:38:09.630
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. But there's also a lot of footage of him eating.

0:38:10.180 --> 0:38:12.819
<v Speaker 1>just saying and doing really awful things. So I don't

0:38:12.860 --> 0:38:16.600
<v Speaker 1>know if it's just like, it's extremely confident. Wow. But

0:38:16.719 --> 0:38:17.080
<v Speaker 1>I wonder.

0:38:17.100 --> 0:38:20.340
<v Speaker 2>Do they interview people who like lived in this house

0:38:20.450 --> 0:38:22.210
<v Speaker 2>previously and got out?

0:38:22.450 --> 0:38:25.410
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. And people who still do and love being there.

0:38:25.770 --> 0:38:28.529
<v Speaker 2>Wow. Yeah. How'd you find this?

0:38:28.550 --> 0:38:32.450
<v Speaker 1>It was just on Hulu. And I was like, oh,

0:38:32.750 --> 0:38:34.390
<v Speaker 1>my husband's traveling for work. I don't have to watch

0:38:34.430 --> 0:38:39.990
<v Speaker 1>a golf tournament this weekend. No offense to golf. Yeah.

0:38:40.010 --> 0:38:43.290
<v Speaker 1>And so I watched the whole thing and yeah, I

0:38:43.330 --> 0:38:46.989
<v Speaker 1>would recommend it. I mean, look, it's a sad documentary,

0:38:47.130 --> 0:38:49.790
<v Speaker 1>but I thought it was exposure to a world I

0:38:49.830 --> 0:38:53.290
<v Speaker 1>hadn't seen before, was not familiar with. And I think

0:38:53.350 --> 0:38:58.700
<v Speaker 1>also we're more inclusive now than we were before and

0:38:59.160 --> 0:39:02.839
<v Speaker 1>our generation and certainly generations younger than us, especially are

0:39:03.300 --> 0:39:07.100
<v Speaker 1>working toward like more inclusive language and Like we all

0:39:07.140 --> 0:39:10.180
<v Speaker 1>grew up in the 90s, like Weight Watchers and just

0:39:10.360 --> 0:39:11.800
<v Speaker 1>everything about being skinny.

0:39:12.060 --> 0:39:14.719
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Well, and just like trying to date. And if

0:39:14.760 --> 0:39:19.830
<v Speaker 2>you fall into a category, a person who's being fetishized,

0:39:20.969 --> 0:39:23.390
<v Speaker 2>like I have heard about this from some of my friends,

0:39:23.630 --> 0:39:26.070
<v Speaker 2>some of my curvier friends, where like they'll get creepy

0:39:26.110 --> 0:39:29.049
<v Speaker 2>messages from guys on dating apps who are just like,

0:39:29.670 --> 0:39:31.300
<v Speaker 2>I want to feed you. And they're like, okay.

0:39:32.620 --> 0:39:34.040
<v Speaker 1>That's so strange.

0:39:34.320 --> 0:39:36.280
<v Speaker 2>Like, you're not seeing me as a person.

0:39:36.340 --> 0:39:36.770
<v Speaker 1>Right.

0:39:36.910 --> 0:39:38.930
<v Speaker 2>I'm just a fetish to you. And there's obviously a

0:39:39.010 --> 0:39:42.370
<v Speaker 2>lot of different versions of that, right? But certain people

0:39:42.390 --> 0:39:45.129
<v Speaker 2>in certain demographics have to field that a lot more

0:39:45.170 --> 0:39:47.899
<v Speaker 2>than others. And I think there's probably just a lot

0:39:47.940 --> 0:39:51.520
<v Speaker 2>of frustration and exhaustion that comes with that.

0:39:51.860 --> 0:39:54.680
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, there was a young woman in the documentary who

0:39:54.719 --> 0:39:56.779
<v Speaker 1>talked about this being the first time in her life

0:39:56.860 --> 0:40:00.239
<v Speaker 1>she ever felt like wanted by someone. And it's like

0:40:00.300 --> 0:40:04.180
<v Speaker 1>heartbreaking because, you know, not to say that two things

0:40:04.260 --> 0:40:08.969
<v Speaker 1>can't coexist, but if there's an exercise of control or

0:40:09.010 --> 0:40:13.130
<v Speaker 1>maybe doing something that is not healthy, it's not a

0:40:13.150 --> 0:40:17.259
<v Speaker 1>good balance. But yeah, it's called Big Girls Wanted, and

0:40:17.320 --> 0:40:18.980
<v Speaker 1>it's on Hulu if you want to watch it.

0:40:19.340 --> 0:40:22.500
<v Speaker 2>Cool. I do not have a recommendation for you today.

0:40:23.400 --> 0:40:26.180
<v Speaker 1>You haven't just been watching or listening to things all weekend?

0:40:26.650 --> 0:40:28.730
<v Speaker 2>I have watched stuff, but I feel like it's stuff

0:40:28.770 --> 0:40:32.430
<v Speaker 2>that people already have heard of. You know, I watched

0:40:32.650 --> 0:40:37.670
<v Speaker 2>the Crash documentary on Hulu, Mackenzie Shurella. But pretty much,

0:40:37.910 --> 0:40:39.609
<v Speaker 2>if you're into true crime, I feel like you've probably

0:40:39.650 --> 0:40:40.630
<v Speaker 2>watched that already.

0:40:40.650 --> 0:40:40.730
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:40:41.170 --> 0:40:43.350
<v Speaker 2>I thought it was well done. I thought it was interesting. Wait,

0:40:43.390 --> 0:40:44.149
<v Speaker 2>did you watch it yet?

0:40:44.290 --> 0:40:46.469
<v Speaker 1>No, I haven't watched it yet, but I need to.

0:40:46.530 --> 0:40:48.260
<v Speaker 1>I feel like I did a lot of reading about

0:40:48.300 --> 0:40:51.040
<v Speaker 1>that case when it first came out, but I definitely

0:40:51.080 --> 0:40:53.200
<v Speaker 1>would like to watch it. I think that, and maybe

0:40:53.219 --> 0:40:57.340
<v Speaker 1>this is answered in the documentary, I'm always shocked by

0:40:57.360 --> 0:41:01.330
<v Speaker 1>teenagers driving and getting in wrecks that have done things

0:41:01.410 --> 0:41:04.830
<v Speaker 1>before that are questionable because I feel like my parents

0:41:04.850 --> 0:41:06.590
<v Speaker 1>would take my car away if I looked at them.

0:41:06.770 --> 0:41:09.730
<v Speaker 2>The wrong way. Like, her parents basically gave her a

0:41:09.969 --> 0:41:12.200
<v Speaker 2>lot of leeway. She was 17 living with her 19-

0:41:12.190 --> 0:41:17.239
<v Speaker 2>or 20-year-old boyfriend, and they were like, great, you know.

0:41:17.460 --> 0:41:19.400
<v Speaker 1>Okay, yeah, that wouldn't have flown in my household.

0:41:20.239 --> 0:41:23.500
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so I think it was just, like, a very different—

0:41:23.780 --> 0:41:26.120
<v Speaker 2>I mean, her dad has gotten a lot of flack.

0:41:26.340 --> 0:41:28.460
<v Speaker 2>I read somewhere that he was let go from his

0:41:28.520 --> 0:41:29.540
<v Speaker 2>job after this.

0:41:29.960 --> 0:41:30.080
<v Speaker 1>Oh.

0:41:30.460 --> 0:41:32.140
<v Speaker 2>And I have not confirmed that, so I don't know

0:41:32.180 --> 0:41:33.719
<v Speaker 2>for sure, but there was, like, a lot of people

0:41:33.739 --> 0:41:37.000
<v Speaker 2>that got mad at him because he's wearing a T-shirt—

0:41:37.570 --> 0:41:39.609
<v Speaker 2>In the interview that says, like, in sort of, like,

0:41:39.690 --> 0:41:43.950
<v Speaker 2>cartoon-y characters, it says, like, boom. Like, if you were

0:41:43.969 --> 0:41:46.950
<v Speaker 2>to watch a cartoon of, whatever, Bugs Bunny running around,

0:41:46.969 --> 0:41:48.799
<v Speaker 2>and then there's, like, a TNT, and it's like, boom.

0:41:48.820 --> 0:41:50.040
<v Speaker 1>It's just in really bad taste.

0:41:50.100 --> 0:41:52.180
<v Speaker 2>It's just in bad taste. And it's like, that probably

0:41:52.239 --> 0:41:54.739
<v Speaker 2>doesn't mean anything, but it kind of, like, blew up

0:41:54.800 --> 0:41:56.960
<v Speaker 2>on the internet. People were like, what the heck? How

0:41:57.020 --> 0:41:57.840
<v Speaker 2>could he do that?

0:41:57.860 --> 0:41:58.020
<v Speaker 1>Mm-hmm.

0:41:58.700 --> 0:42:00.660
<v Speaker 2>And I don't know if there was other reasons, but.

0:42:00.880 --> 0:42:02.819
<v Speaker 1>Because it's one thing to feel like you have to

0:42:02.880 --> 0:42:05.859
<v Speaker 1>defend your child no matter what. Like, I think that's

0:42:05.960 --> 0:42:09.160
<v Speaker 1>probably just this primal instinct that you have when you're

0:42:09.180 --> 0:42:12.600
<v Speaker 1>a parent. But it's another to be insensitive to the

0:42:12.640 --> 0:42:14.860
<v Speaker 1>harm that they've caused so blatantly.

0:42:15.300 --> 0:42:18.109
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it was interesting. I recommend it. And I like

0:42:18.140 --> 0:42:21.010
<v Speaker 2>that it was just one. It was like an hour

0:42:21.050 --> 0:42:23.670
<v Speaker 2>or something long. It was it wasn't like a three parter.

0:42:24.390 --> 0:42:27.009
<v Speaker 2>If there's enough content for a three-parter, I'm all for it.

0:42:27.070 --> 0:42:30.209
<v Speaker 2>But I sometimes feel like it's a little stretched out. Yeah, definitely.

0:42:30.230 --> 0:42:32.009
<v Speaker 2>And it was nice that this was just like a one,

0:42:32.070 --> 0:42:33.489
<v Speaker 2>sit down and watch it. I thought they did a

0:42:33.510 --> 0:42:36.350
<v Speaker 2>really good job. We had talked about this case before.

0:42:36.570 --> 0:42:39.870
<v Speaker 2>And then a few months before the documentary came out,

0:42:40.250 --> 0:42:43.310
<v Speaker 2>I was revisiting it. I'm like, oh, I wonder if

0:42:43.350 --> 0:42:44.710
<v Speaker 2>we could get more information about it now. And so

0:42:44.750 --> 0:42:47.570
<v Speaker 2>I was doing a lot of outreach and research. called

0:42:47.750 --> 0:42:50.500
<v Speaker 2>some of the victims' family members. They never answered, probably

0:42:50.520 --> 0:42:53.080
<v Speaker 2>because they were like, hey, we already did this documentary. Yeah,

0:42:53.100 --> 0:42:55.640
<v Speaker 2>we're not going to talk on your little podcast. Yeah.

0:42:56.219 --> 0:42:58.700
<v Speaker 2>So anyway, it was a good watch. So I guess

0:42:58.719 --> 0:43:01.149
<v Speaker 2>that is my recommendation. If you haven't seen it, check

0:43:01.210 --> 0:43:01.489
<v Speaker 2>it out.

0:43:01.710 --> 0:43:04.509
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