Speaker 1: Kate Middleton, So there are so many conspiracy theories now
Speaker 1: about where she is when there was a statement put
Speaker 1: out that she would not be seen until Easter that
Speaker 1: she was having abdominal surgery. So isn't that what they're
Speaker 1: abiding by? Meaning they said what the matter was, and
Speaker 1: aren't they just abiding by that. The Palace doesn't seem
Speaker 1: to be like, oh hey, we said that, but just kidding.
Speaker 1: They seemed to be fairly say what you mean, mean
Speaker 1: what you say now? I hear William canceled something that
Speaker 1: would normally be important. But the conspiracy theories are ridiculous
Speaker 1: that like something bad happen. I mean, her sister has
Speaker 1: been seen, he's been seen.
Speaker 2: But it just.
Speaker 1: Overall really speaks to the pressure of being a royal,
Speaker 1: that you must be accountable and you must go to
Speaker 1: public appearances and people must see you to feel that
Speaker 1: all is well in the world.
Speaker 2: It's really.
Speaker 1: Very similar to Queen Elizabeth when people would get unsettled
Speaker 1: if they hadn't seen her. It doesn't really happen with
Speaker 1: that many people in the royal family that people even
Speaker 1: notice their absence, But with Kate it's like she's the
Speaker 1: new Queen and I don't mean this to be negative
Speaker 1: or rude.
Speaker 2: If we hadn't.
Speaker 1: Seen Camilla Parker Bulls for several months, I'm not sure
Speaker 1: that people would even realize. I just don't know that
Speaker 1: they would pay the same amount of attention. I actually
Speaker 1: do know they would not pay the same amount of
Speaker 1: attention if Camilla Parker Bowles just wasn't seen for a while.
Speaker 1: So Kate is beloved, she is the people's queen, and
Speaker 1: what a hard job. What if the pressures of the
Speaker 1: job or something personal going on in her life or
Speaker 1: her marriage, or let's just talk about the pressure of
Speaker 1: that scrutiny and that spotlight. Oh my god, I think
Speaker 1: it sounds It sounds dreadful if you're a person who
Speaker 1: cares what other people think of which I really don't.
Speaker 1: I'm used to scrutiny, But it sounds like a prison
Speaker 1: in some ways, Like it just sounds like very trapping.
Speaker 1: Let's say she feels good, but not good enough to
Speaker 1: go out or be seen. She can't just go anywhere.
Speaker 1: She can't like just go to a store. She can't
Speaker 1: just go to a park, she can't just go be
Speaker 1: taken to the ocean somewhere just to like breathe the
Speaker 1: air and feel good. Maybe you know she can't be
Speaker 1: taken to a spa. I know she can have a
Speaker 1: spa in the palace. It's not the same, and the
Speaker 1: palace doesn't is in a city. It doesn't feel like
Speaker 1: fresh air in that way, you know. I guess she
Speaker 1: can walk around the palace and get fresh air. I
Speaker 1: just mean like I would want to go straight out
Speaker 1: to the Hamptons and breathe the ocean air. I would
Speaker 1: want to feel free in that way, and that sounds
Speaker 1: hard to not.
Speaker 2: Be able to do that. So I love Kate. I
Speaker 2: don't know her.
Speaker 1: I can't love someone that I don't know. I love
Speaker 1: what is portrayed about her.
Speaker 2: I love what seems like her poise.
Speaker 1: Let's hope something's not going on in their personal life
Speaker 1: and their relationship. That would be just really hard to
Speaker 1: deal with with so much scrutiny, or with the kids,
Speaker 1: or just people go through problems.
Speaker 2: People go through serious issues like imagine being in a bubble.
Speaker 1: In a fish bowl for any issue that you have
Speaker 1: gone through in the last five years, two years, six months.
Speaker 1: I won't leave the house for days in a row.
Speaker 1: I don't want to go anywhere the pandemic was great
Speaker 1: for that and interesting, that's why everybody went through so
Speaker 1: much of their shit then good and bad.
Speaker 2: So we wish Kate.
Speaker 1: Well, that's all I have to say. How crazy is
Speaker 1: it the influence that Taylor Swift has on the election
Speaker 1: the political landscape. It's almost like when a monopoly has
Speaker 1: too much power. I mean, Taylor Swift could just run
Speaker 1: for president, right, Travis Kelsey would be the first man.
Speaker 2: It's really unbelievable that.
Speaker 1: It's almost dangerous, like she's almost you know, she has
Speaker 1: so much power to make something happen, but it's kind
Speaker 1: of dangerous. She probably almost wants to stay quiet because
Speaker 1: it's like an earthquake. It's just her impact is seismic.
Speaker 1: I just it's the Oprah effect times one hundred, Like
Speaker 1: what the Oprah effect was so scary and powerful, like
Speaker 1: whatever she did or said was going to affect the outcome.
Speaker 1: That's nothing compared to this. This is this is global.
Speaker 1: She's moved the entire sports and entertainment industry, to say
Speaker 1: the least, like, she's affected ratings in such a drastic
Speaker 1: way that it's they said it was bigger than the
Speaker 1: moon landing, that the Super Bowl that's that's bananas.
Speaker 2: Like she has such a power.
Speaker 1: I remember years ago, I think Oprah was on weight
Speaker 1: Watchers and she moved the stock, which means you're affecting
Speaker 1: the economy, like you're in a small way. And Taylor
Speaker 1: Swift has such greater power than Oprah ever had. That
Speaker 1: she can move a market, what influence, what power. That's deep,
Speaker 1: that's amazing, wow. And I think she's doing a good
Speaker 1: job with how she uses that power because she's influencing youth.
Speaker 1: Taylor should use her platform because it's so influential with
Speaker 1: young girls like Britain to be like never ever touch
Speaker 1: any kind of drug or you know, even she could
Speaker 1: talk about alcohol and excess and I don't think that,
Speaker 1: or just never to drink until you're legal and even
Speaker 1: then some you know, like listen, I have a rose.
Speaker 1: I don't drink hard alcohol anymore, and I don't drink
Speaker 1: wine a lot.
Speaker 2: That's the honest truth. I don't really drink that much at.
Speaker 1: All because I have a medical issue with it. It
Speaker 1: affects me medically. And although I have a beautiful rose
Speaker 1: forever young. I hope that Britain never takes a sip
Speaker 1: of alcohol.
Speaker 2: Her whole life.
Speaker 1: That's what I honestly hope, whether it's wine, tequila, skinny girl,
Speaker 1: I hope she never takes a zip of alcohol or
Speaker 1: her whole life.
Speaker 2: I hope she hates it. I hope she hates it.
Speaker 1: And I have a mocktail and it's for people that
Speaker 1: are sober curious, or it's to mix alcohol with it,
Speaker 1: or to drink is a soft drink, but I like
Speaker 1: that I provide that option. My rose is so superb,
Speaker 1: so delicious, such a stunning bottle.
Speaker 2: It's an amazing, high quality product.
Speaker 1: One of the things my mom did do that stuck
Speaker 1: with me my whole life was talk to me about
Speaker 1: being in control and you drink, get wasted, and you're
Speaker 1: out of control and you're not making good decisions.
Speaker 2: I'll never forget that. She said that in high school.
Speaker 1: So I never was one who would get wasted and
Speaker 1: be that sloppy, blackout drunk.
Speaker 2: I mean on Housewives.
Speaker 1: A couple of times I've gotten really drunk and acted
Speaker 1: a fool, but like it's been rare, It's happened a
Speaker 1: couple of times in my life that I've been completely inebriated,
Speaker 1: and I don't like the way that looks and I
Speaker 1: don't like the way that feels, but that's been minimized
Speaker 1: by something my mother told me. So Taylor Swift would
Speaker 1: be an amazing don't do drugs, don't drink while driving,
Speaker 1: and drink responsibly, and really don't ever drink underage you're
Speaker 1: not emotionally or physically prepared to do that.
Speaker 2: That would be a great.
Speaker 1: Use and politics, but that's gonna be scary. Her influence
Speaker 1: is enormous. I'm excited for Jennifer Lopez's documentary. That's all
Speaker 1: I've wanted to see. And Ben is pretty raw, so
Speaker 1: I feel like that influence on her. And also once
Speaker 1: you are over fifty, it's just different. Everything just hits differently.
Speaker 1: It's like, really, yes, you could put together the whole
Speaker 1: hot look and be fierce and be hot no matter what.
Speaker 1: There are so many people that are thirty years younger
Speaker 1: that are more relevant and on the calm and on
Speaker 1: the up, and like you got to just accept as
Speaker 1: a woman, like you know, you're not in the demo anymore.
Speaker 1: You're like in a different category and you're focused more
Speaker 1: on your health and your future and security and just
Speaker 1: different things. So I'm interested in this next era because
Speaker 1: I'm not Jennifer Lopez, but I relate to the hustle,
Speaker 1: the struggle, the fight, the work, the climb, you know,
Speaker 1: like the being broke, the wanting it. And once you
Speaker 1: know you are safe and financially secure and you're still healthy,
Speaker 1: you choose projects differently, you choose partners differently, you make
Speaker 1: different decisions in life. And I think that this is
Speaker 1: a nice chapter to see her in and I want
Speaker 1: to hear about some reflection and I believe that we will,
Speaker 1: so I'm excited about that. And the belad era is
Speaker 1: the best era, like I am, so team be Low.
Speaker 2: I live for it.
Speaker 1: Not to get too deep into this, there was and aftermath.
Speaker 2: Of my.
Speaker 1: Travis and Taylor commentary. It is funny because I think
Speaker 1: about Ariana Grande and she did an interview talking about
Speaker 1: how the truth, you know, gets in the way of
Speaker 1: a good story. I don't know her story, like I said,
Speaker 1: I didn't pay attention closely, but the truth about what
Speaker 1: I said about Travis and Taylor, I have done several
Speaker 1: videos and posts saying that they're great, like they're on
Speaker 1: top of the world.
Speaker 2: They're both you have to give it to them.
Speaker 1: They're both so successful in their own careers, and they've
Speaker 1: moved a market, and he won the Super Bowl, and
Speaker 1: she went on the most famous musical tour in history.
Speaker 2: And I've said so many amazing things.
Speaker 1: It's just amazing that like people have to say that
Speaker 1: I slammed their relationship, which I didn't. I simply mentioned
Speaker 1: a dynamic in their relationship because it's something that might
Speaker 1: help other people in their relationship, or something that just
Speaker 1: when people talk about different Even when someone says to me,
Speaker 1: a Leo and a Libra might not work together, it
Speaker 1: doesn't mean you know, it's gonna change my life. But
Speaker 1: I do think about what people say as it pertains
Speaker 1: to relationships, and I never slammed anything. I am always
Speaker 1: open to being entirely wrong. I can't be wrong, though,
Speaker 1: that he's the peacock in the relationship.
Speaker 2: It's just what I think.
Speaker 1: I think she's a performer, but she seems like she
Speaker 1: gets sheepish and shy when she's not performing. She doesn't
Speaker 1: seem like she needs to be the center of attention.
Speaker 1: I stand by that he seems like he seems to
Speaker 1: be that he seems like he likes to be the
Speaker 1: center of attention, and she seems like it's her job
Speaker 1: to be the center of attention, but in her personal
Speaker 1: life she's not necessarily the center of attention. But I
Speaker 1: do understand why commenting on celebrities lives. You know, it's
Speaker 1: not our business, right or is it our business? That's
Speaker 1: what I don't understand because I remember when they were
Speaker 1: first dating, how they were going to Nobu, and I
Speaker 1: was thinking.
Speaker 2: That's a very public place to go.
Speaker 1: Like celebrities that don't want to be paparazzied or found don't.
Speaker 2: Go to Nobu.
Speaker 1: And even Taylor Swift and Travis Kelcey can go places
Speaker 1: that are private and not get attacked. I've seen it
Speaker 1: with you know, I know Ellen and Porsche are not them,
Speaker 1: but I've seen it before where people go through the
Speaker 1: back entrance, or they go to really small places at
Speaker 1: have eight tables and they know the manager and they
Speaker 1: go in a corner, and like I've seen Harry and
Speaker 1: Meghan they were at a restaurant in Santa Barbara that
Speaker 1: I was at years ago, and like it wasn't a frenzy.
Speaker 1: And I know Taylor Swift is the most famous person ever,
Speaker 1: but like, if you are going to be in a
Speaker 1: situation where you're so public, And yes she's supporting him
Speaker 1: and going to his game, but she's up in the
Speaker 1: box with the mom and the cheering and the drinking
Speaker 1: and the outfit. Like they want to be seen and
Speaker 1: want to be talked about. I don't really talk much
Speaker 1: about people that don't really want to be seen, except
Speaker 1: just to say, like if I think they're amazing, Like
Speaker 1: meaning I think George Clooney and a Mall who I
Speaker 1: talk about every day ending and why, are amazing, But
Speaker 1: like I don't go deep into anything about them because
Speaker 1: they have chosen a private life. Same thing with like
Speaker 1: I talk about Harrison Ford and Calista Flockhart. They used
Speaker 1: to be really super famous and they are still very
Speaker 1: successful individually, and he's a legend in many ways and
Speaker 1: she was on a very successful show.
Speaker 2: But they've chosen privacy.
Speaker 1: Many people have chosen privacy, and many people have not
Speaker 1: chosen privacy. And if Travis Kelsey's gonna scream Viva Las
Speaker 1: Vegas on a stage and sing drunk karaoke and they're
Speaker 1: gonna go to Nobu together and she's gonna go sit
Speaker 1: with his mom and wear you know, the outfit and
Speaker 1: be in the spotlight, then I think we're going to
Speaker 1: talk about them. And the other thing that's interesting is
Speaker 1: that people always say Bethany slammed. Bethany trashes, like I said,
Speaker 1: one verbal insult on my show The Housewives about somebody.
Speaker 1: Other than that, I will discuss decisions they've made or
Speaker 1: their actions, but I don't go like call someone just
Speaker 1: a name or talk about their body or something like that.
Speaker 1: I don't go insults, which is why being called a
Speaker 1: troll by Travis's dad to me was like not using
Speaker 1: your intellect using an insult word versus just saying, listen,
Speaker 1: I wish you wouldn't weigh in because they're really happy,
Speaker 1: Like I fully get that, you know. And if I've
Speaker 1: discussed someone's relationship or infidelity or something about it, it's
Speaker 1: not trashing. It's just discussing the dynamic between them, you know.
Speaker 1: It's just where's the line. When people are very public, like,
Speaker 1: for example, I don't even like to talk about Ben
Speaker 1: Affleck that much or like anything in his personal life
Speaker 1: because he is very obviously trying to not be out there.
Speaker 1: Like the Kardashians, for example, they want to be out there.
Speaker 1: They choose to be the center of attention. She's driving
Speaker 1: a gigantic from the Future monster truck in tight hot clothing,
Speaker 1: going out in public. She wants to be talked about
Speaker 1: negatively or positively. But other people, like a Ben Affleck,
Speaker 1: who seems like he's just mining is fucking business drinking
Speaker 1: his coffee, does not seem to want to be talked about.
Speaker 1: So it feels like people who really put themselves out
Speaker 1: there live and direct, like a Jennifer Lopez.
Speaker 2: She's out there.
Speaker 1: She's wanting the you know, media, and promoting other things
Speaker 1: via getting the media about their boat trip or when
Speaker 1: she's in Europe, or the fashion Like some people want it,
Speaker 1: some people don't. Blake Lively and Ryan do not seem
Speaker 1: to really want it. She's going out and getting decked
Speaker 1: when it's something meaningful, she doesn't seem to really want it.
Speaker 1: Even at in a wintur she seems to want to
Speaker 1: go for when it's work, but she doesn't seem to
Speaker 1: want to be out there. So I feel like some
Speaker 1: people really want it and some people don't. Beyonce, I
Speaker 1: never really talk about Beyonce. I didn't talk about jay
Speaker 1: Z and Beyonce when they had their you know incident
Speaker 1: in the elevator.
Speaker 2: I don't believe because.
Speaker 1: They don't seem to want attention in the same way,
Speaker 1: like it seems like work for them. They're going to work,
Speaker 1: she's going on stage.
Speaker 2: It's work.
Speaker 1: But they seem to be very private when it's not work.
Speaker 1: It's the people that seem like they really want to
Speaker 1: be talked about that get talked about. So I think
Speaker 1: that's an interesting concept overall, with who's fair game and
Speaker 1: who's not. So I guess when we gossip about celebrities
Speaker 1: or talk about dynamics, first of all, we shouldn't just
Speaker 1: gossip with the sake.
Speaker 2: Of gossip, like oh my god.
Speaker 1: Look what happened, but really for like a cautionary tale,
Speaker 1: or if it could apply to you, like my peacock
Speaker 1: theory in a relationship, that's something that I'm thinking that
Speaker 1: could apply to you, that could apply to me. That's
Speaker 1: learning something not just to just randomly talk about. And
Speaker 1: also I've talked about like being so public about a relationship.
Speaker 1: In the beginning, it seems like such a great idea,
Speaker 1: but then everybody's in your business. Megan Fox and Machine
Speaker 1: Gun Kelly were extremely public. Even Courtney and Travis Barker
Speaker 1: have gone quieter because it's not sustainable to be so
Speaker 1: in your face about your relationship. It's not so sustainable
Speaker 1: because something will come and bite you in the ass, and.
Speaker 2: We all learn it.
Speaker 1: Because the oxytocin and the pheromones and whatever's going on
Speaker 1: in love and insects and in attraction and in chemistry
Speaker 1: makes you want to share it.
Speaker 2: With the world. It just all seems like a great idea.
Speaker 1: You're madly in love, You're never happier, you can't imagine
Speaker 1: ever not being happy. But life does sometimes get in
Speaker 1: the way, and that's when people have been invited in
Speaker 1: and they feel like they're part of your life and
Speaker 1: they just definitely don't want to be asked to leave
Speaker 1: when the shit hits the fan. And in general, they've
Speaker 1: just invited you in, so you're going to now be in.
Speaker 1: So I would say to celebrities, if they don't really
Speaker 1: want you to be opining on their life and their relationship,
Speaker 1: they should probably do the very best that they can
Speaker 1: to keep their life and their relationship private in that
Speaker 1: part of their life. No one talked about Paul and I,
Speaker 1: not that we're at the same level by any means,
Speaker 1: but no one talked about us until three months after
Speaker 1: we were engaged. Because we were extremely quiet about it,
Speaker 1: no one knew about it, and that was great, and
Speaker 1: we still don't really talk about our relationship. We don't
Speaker 1: want anyone to really know. We've made the mistake a
Speaker 1: couple of times because we're videoing and like we feel
Speaker 1: funny about something or we're eating something or whatever.
Speaker 2: But I don't know.
Speaker 1: It just feels like a very scary game, and I've
Speaker 1: played it. Was I put my wedding on television, and
Speaker 1: I just certainly don't think that was the best idea.
Speaker 1: And when my daughter was being born and you're just
Speaker 1: in the machine, it all seems like a good idea,
Speaker 1: and it ultimately is not a good idea. So I
Speaker 1: think when you're a public person or a private person,
Speaker 1: privacy is probably best