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Speaker 1: Kate Middleton, So there are so many conspiracy theories now

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Speaker 1: would normally be important. But the conspiracy theories are ridiculous

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Speaker 1: that like something bad happen. I mean, her sister has

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Speaker 1: been seen, he's been seen.

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Speaker 2: But it just.

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Speaker 1: Overall really speaks to the pressure of being a royal,

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Speaker 1: that you must be accountable and you must go to

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Speaker 1: public appearances and people must see you to feel that

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Speaker 2: It's really.

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Speaker 1: Very similar to Queen Elizabeth when people would get unsettled

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Speaker 1: if they hadn't seen her. It doesn't really happen with

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Speaker 1: notice their absence, But with Kate it's like she's the

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Speaker 1: new Queen and I don't mean this to be negative

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Speaker 2: If we hadn't.

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Speaker 1: Seen Camilla Parker Bulls for several months, I'm not sure

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Speaker 1: attention if Camilla Parker Bowles just wasn't seen for a while.

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Speaker 1: So Kate is beloved, she is the people's queen, and

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Speaker 1: what a hard job. What if the pressures of the

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Speaker 1: her marriage, or let's just talk about the pressure of

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Speaker 1: that scrutiny and that spotlight. Oh my god, I think

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Speaker 1: it sounds It sounds dreadful if you're a person who

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Speaker 1: I'm used to scrutiny, But it sounds like a prison

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Speaker 1: in some ways, Like it just sounds like very trapping.

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Speaker 1: Let's say she feels good, but not good enough to

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Speaker 1: She can't like just go to a store. She can't

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Speaker 1: taken to a spa. I know she can have a

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Speaker 1: spa in the palace. It's not the same, and the

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Speaker 1: fresh air in that way, you know. I guess she

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Speaker 1: just mean like I would want to go straight out

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Speaker 2: Be able to do that. So I love Kate. I

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Speaker 2: don't know her.

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Speaker 1: I can't love someone that I don't know. I love

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Speaker 1: what is portrayed about her.

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Speaker 2: I love what seems like her poise.

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Speaker 1: Let's hope something's not going on in their personal life

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Speaker 1: and their relationship. That would be just really hard to

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Speaker 2: People go through serious issues like imagine being in a bubble.

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Speaker 1: In a fish bowl for any issue that you have

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Speaker 1: gone through in the last five years, two years, six months.

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Speaker 2: So we wish Kate.

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Speaker 1: Well, that's all I have to say. How crazy is

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Speaker 1: it the influence that Taylor Swift has on the election

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Speaker 1: the political landscape. It's almost like when a monopoly has

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Speaker 1: too much power. I mean, Taylor Swift could just run

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Speaker 2: It's really unbelievable that.

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Speaker 1: It's almost dangerous, like she's almost you know, she has

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Speaker 1: I just it's the Oprah effect times one hundred, Like

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Speaker 1: That's nothing compared to this. This is this is global.

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Speaker 1: She's moved the entire sports and entertainment industry, to say

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Speaker 2: Like she has such a power.

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Speaker 1: I remember years ago, I think Oprah was on weight

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Speaker 1: Swift has such greater power than Oprah ever had. That

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Speaker 1: Taylor should use her platform because it's so influential with

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Speaker 1: young girls like Britain to be like never ever touch

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Speaker 1: I don't drink hard alcohol anymore, and I don't drink

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Speaker 2: That's the honest truth. I don't really drink that much at.

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Speaker 1: All because I have a medical issue with it. It

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Speaker 1: affects me medically. And although I have a beautiful rose

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Speaker 2: Her whole life.

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Speaker 1: That's what I honestly hope, whether it's wine, tequila, skinny girl,

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Speaker 2: I hope she hates it. I hope she hates it.

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Speaker 1: And I have a mocktail and it's for people that

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Speaker 2: It's an amazing, high quality product.

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Speaker 1: One of the things my mom did do that stuck

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Speaker 2: I'll never forget that. She said that in high school.

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Speaker 1: So I never was one who would get wasted and

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Speaker 1: Use and politics, but that's gonna be scary. Her influence

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Speaker 1: It's like, really, yes, you could put together the whole

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Speaker 1: There are so many people that are thirty years younger

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Speaker 1: You're like in a different category and you're focused more

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Speaker 2: I live for it.

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Speaker 1: Not to get too deep into this, there was and aftermath.

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Speaker 1: It's just amazing that like people have to say that

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Speaker 2: It's just what I think.

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Speaker 1: I think she's a performer, but she seems like she

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Speaker 2: That's a very public place to go.

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Speaker 1: Like celebrities that don't want to be paparazzied or found don't.

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Speaker 1: And even Taylor Swift and Travis Kelcey can go places

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