WEBVTT - The Internet Is Ruining Us

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<v Speaker 1>Once upon a time there was a good old traditional housewife.

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<v Speaker 1>She cooked, she cleaned, cared for her children and the

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<v Speaker 1>man of the house, and of course.

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<v Speaker 2>She didn't talk back.

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<v Speaker 1>She was both.

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<v Speaker 2>Obedient and soft by nature.

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<v Speaker 1>She was a good woman who always made good choices.

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<v Speaker 1>That we're good mom's bad choices?

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<v Speaker 3>Who single mom?

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<v Speaker 1>Who said? But the patriarchy shared all.

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<v Speaker 3>Their bad choices and found out they were so bad

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<v Speaker 3>after all, we're experts. Overhairs and your new vestie. Sit

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<v Speaker 3>back and near the ride. I can do a pat

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<v Speaker 3>on my I can do a bad all on my

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<v Speaker 3>Welcome back to good mom's bad choices. I'm Erica and

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<v Speaker 3>I'm Mela. Happy Humpday, bitchy, happy motherfucking hump day. It's

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<v Speaker 3>another grand Wednesday with the good moms. How are you feeling, dear.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel good. I'm a little bit under the weather,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm healthy. I'm tan, I'm thriving great. I am too,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not under the weather. I'm never under the weather.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like I rarely get sick, thank to the heavens,

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<v Speaker 3>because I can't handle it. I don't want to get sick.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel all right over here too.

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<v Speaker 3>Well. Usually we start the show and then we open up.

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<v Speaker 3>But today, you guys, we have some very excited gentlemen

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<v Speaker 3>on the show. And you know, it's rare that we

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<v Speaker 3>have gentlemen on the show. And it's even rare that

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<v Speaker 3>we have two gentlemen on the show. And we have

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<v Speaker 3>two grand gentlemen, not grand gentleman, one of which I

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<v Speaker 3>went to elementary school with since I'm a child, and

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<v Speaker 3>the other is my friend of me slash side husband

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<v Speaker 3>to hear more and Patrick Cloud of the Damn Internet

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<v Speaker 3>You Scary Podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys went to elementary school together.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, oh kindergarten. Actually. Fun fact, his older brother was

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<v Speaker 3>my first boyfriend and he has the same birthday as

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<v Speaker 3>my current husband, so it was always writing in the stars.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know that his brother does.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you know his brother, remember he he hosted our

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<v Speaker 3>first live show, Ryan Houston.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh ship, that's your bro.

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<v Speaker 3>The resemblance. Shout out to Ryan. What's his uh? His

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<v Speaker 3>his his YouTube right now?

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<v Speaker 1>That's pop it Golden Hour.

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<v Speaker 3>Golden Hour, Ryan Houston, who does the Golden Hour. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>thank you guys for coming on our show.

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<v Speaker 4>Absolutely, thank you for having us.

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<v Speaker 3>Of course, I couldn't wait to have you guys on

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<v Speaker 3>the show, especially to hear so I could chastise you

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<v Speaker 3>publicly on my platform. You love each other so much

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<v Speaker 3>and all we do is talk ship but then love

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<v Speaker 3>each other. But talk ship and love each other right

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<v Speaker 3>to hear lies, lies and deception. He was just at

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<v Speaker 3>my birthday party all weekend, like you the bomb, big Mama.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, tell me to hear you the.

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<v Speaker 5>Bomb big Babi before. Yeah, I told you that the confidence.

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<v Speaker 4>Now you've never heard again.

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<v Speaker 1>Damn Live podcast. I tell you a little flosy.

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<v Speaker 3>Eric and I were on damn Internet. You're scary like

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<v Speaker 3>two three years ago.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I had to be like almost four years ago.

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<v Speaker 4>That's when we first met.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it was like four years ago because I think

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<v Speaker 3>maybe Alonda had just moved here, and I was like,

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<v Speaker 3>we're gonna go to here's birthday party because my man

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<v Speaker 3>needs new friends. And to hear you, guys, you're gonna

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<v Speaker 3>best friends. And I set them up like a mom,

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<v Speaker 3>and now they're best friends in the whole white world.

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<v Speaker 5>That's my dog. I'll tell you what. Like Lando, I'm

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<v Speaker 5>usually the aggressor. When I like said I'm gonna be

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<v Speaker 5>some friends with somebody, I'm like, yo, niggas pull up here.

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<v Speaker 5>We're gonna be doing this. We're gonna be popping. It's

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<v Speaker 5>gonna be great. Orlando invited me over to the house.

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<v Speaker 5>He's like, cool up, I'm gonna cook for you.

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<v Speaker 4>I was like what.

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<v Speaker 5>He's like, you never had is it a and sewtfish?

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<v Speaker 5>And I was like nah, He's like, yeah, come on over.

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<v Speaker 5>I had never had it before. So I got on

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<v Speaker 5>the phone when I was like this nigga trying to

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<v Speaker 5>fuck bro. I ain't never had a nigga invite me

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<v Speaker 5>over for a home cooked meal and then Jamaican at that.

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<v Speaker 5>And I get there and nig ain't got no shirt on.

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<v Speaker 5>He got his cross beads on. I was like, I'm

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<v Speaker 5>gonna just stay by the door. He's like, you take

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<v Speaker 5>your shoes off.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna keep it my mom.

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<v Speaker 5>I might have to run, but that's that's been my

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<v Speaker 5>nigga hundred cross Well, he got the waist beads on,

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<v Speaker 5>but they crossed his chest like Ammo like Rambo.

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<v Speaker 3>To hear, always think somebody trying to fuck people.

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<v Speaker 4>Gottau me he because I'm like a leprechaun.

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<v Speaker 1>How many black Gingers.

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<v Speaker 4>Do you know?

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<v Speaker 3>Do you know many times. I've heard this at our friendship.

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<v Speaker 3>I know niggas with freckles, my nigga.

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<v Speaker 4>You know black gingers with freckles that play tennis.

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<v Speaker 1>He thinks I was first seen actually call a black

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<v Speaker 1>ginger with but he is a gay man.

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<v Speaker 4>I know, Na, do you really know?

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<v Speaker 3>No, I wish I did that.

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<v Speaker 4>Hilarious see ah got shut the.

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<v Speaker 3>Fuck up, just kidding. I mean, look at your calls

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<v Speaker 3>this niggas guy.

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<v Speaker 5>It was cragny for the long it's time. I never

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<v Speaker 5>thought Pat was light skinned. I always was like, he's

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<v Speaker 5>not light skin. I thought he was more like brown skin.

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<v Speaker 1>But I guess he is.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, black people have the most interesting take on skin,

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<v Speaker 3>the color spectrum, because we're also for yourself like skin.

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<v Speaker 4>But you're like, I'm more red, I'm light skinned. I'm red.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a little my little red bone relaxed.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, to call a big red balls redbone only for women,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I've.

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<v Speaker 5>Only heard it regarded to women, like I got me

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<v Speaker 5>a little red bone, little red thing.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, feminist. I like to use things both ways.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, like.

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<v Speaker 3>Yellow is I don't that's everything I never knew it was.

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<v Speaker 3>It was gender specific.

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<v Speaker 5>No, we're not high yellow, I don't think, but red Bone.

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<v Speaker 5>I had only grown up hearing it.

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<v Speaker 3>That's your new nickname.

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<v Speaker 4>No it's not.

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<v Speaker 1>I will block you, mister Red. Don't mister Red. Come on,

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<v Speaker 1>that's that's.

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<v Speaker 3>My little redbone right here to hear.

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<v Speaker 5>It's not that bad you got.

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<v Speaker 3>How did you guys come to be? How did my

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<v Speaker 3>two love and my my initial brother love interest and

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<v Speaker 3>to hear come to be? How did you guys.

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<v Speaker 4>Meet all deaf?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, we used to working all death together and Pat

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<v Speaker 5>at that time was you were more producer?

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<v Speaker 4>Actually you first.

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<v Speaker 6>Started, I was a Yeah, I was a I think

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<v Speaker 6>I was the equipment manager when you pulled up.

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<v Speaker 3>Really okay, I'll talk about walking working your way out.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, yeah, I didn't know what any of the equipment was,

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<v Speaker 6>so that they.

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<v Speaker 3>Figured it out quickly.

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<v Speaker 5>You didn't know ship, Let's see if you can produce

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<v Speaker 5>something because this isn't I don't know where anything is.

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<v Speaker 5>And then he became a producer and director, and then

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<v Speaker 5>I came home around the same time as my co

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<v Speaker 5>host Meg and we were just part time at the time.

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<v Speaker 5>This is when the studio was in Culver City, and

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<v Speaker 5>then we moved downtown and shared a building with the Clippers,

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<v Speaker 5>and that's when we really started jail because we started

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<v Speaker 5>working on a lot more projects together. And so when

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<v Speaker 5>All Deaf kind of took a break from the public

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<v Speaker 5>while they were transitioning and getting new owners and stuff

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<v Speaker 5>like that, me and Pat had just started uh a

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<v Speaker 5>podcast called the Internet Undefeated Undefeated because the company had

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<v Speaker 5>kind of went under when dark for a second, we

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<v Speaker 5>wanted to keep the momental gone, so we came up

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<v Speaker 5>with damn in a net, You're scary. And initially we

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<v Speaker 5>started we were filming with two iPhones.

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<v Speaker 4>Actually we did that for like the first three years.

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<v Speaker 3>We did that for a long time.

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<v Speaker 5>We did that for a long because we were doing

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<v Speaker 5>it that place first, Yeah, and then keVs and we

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<v Speaker 5>did that kiss place.

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<v Speaker 1>It was three iPhones. And how annoying wasn't to get

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<v Speaker 1>that ship off the phone into the computer? Well it was,

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<v Speaker 1>it was. I'm only saying that because we did the

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<v Speaker 1>same ship.

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<v Speaker 5>It wasn't that bad because the high editing on on

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<v Speaker 5>on the mac, so it was air dropping it.

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<v Speaker 3>The episodes probably were fucking two hours. Yeah, that's true,

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<v Speaker 3>because we'd have to like break it up and hour

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<v Speaker 3>and a half. Well, maybe you had better iPhones than us, because.

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<v Speaker 1>It all depends on It was a huge struggle. What

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<v Speaker 1>year was this? Yeah, okay, maybe maybe had the twenty

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<v Speaker 1>seventeen phones. Yeah, that's when air Drop was really tempered.

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<v Speaker 1>Middle Sometimes we didn't have her doing. We had to

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<v Speaker 1>put it.

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<v Speaker 3>We were the equipment man, so we didn't understand like

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<v Speaker 3>the beat, like the seconds per whatever, Like the sound

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<v Speaker 3>wouldn't fucking match up. It was the whole thing. It

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<v Speaker 3>was a It makes me want to smoke. Actually, I'm

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<v Speaker 3>rolling up the background. Even even thinking about being in

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<v Speaker 3>the dining room trying to air drop and match up

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<v Speaker 3>that ship literally stresses me out, and I get stressed

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<v Speaker 3>pretty easily.

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<v Speaker 4>So i'm you wear it well. Yeah, you wear your

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<v Speaker 4>stress well.

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<v Speaker 3>I kind of think that's the problem though nobody knows

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<v Speaker 3>that I'm stressed, and then we don't take you seriously inside,

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<v Speaker 3>and then one day they're like she was just fine

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<v Speaker 3>with the I was like, I'm dying on the inside.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm seeing I've seen you in all I think forms

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<v Speaker 5>of emotions.

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<v Speaker 3>I think that's have you never seen me cry or sad? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>When when.

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<v Speaker 1>Lying? No, absolutely I've seen you cry tears of.

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<v Speaker 3>Joy, joy maybe in Vegas. Okay, I was getting married yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Still counts still and then oh fuck, we were at not.

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<v Speaker 1>When did you see me cry?

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<v Speaker 3>Right?

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<v Speaker 1>Prove I wanted what day was it? This is my diary.

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<v Speaker 3>I go home, dear diary. That bitch finally cried today.

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<v Speaker 3>She thought she's so strong. Wrong, She's a weak ass

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<v Speaker 3>bitch and I knew it, smiley face, you know what?

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<v Speaker 3>You know what? This weekend I turned thirty eight, and

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<v Speaker 3>we were together because he's my best friend enemy, and

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<v Speaker 3>I realized this weekend I was like, I am usually

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<v Speaker 3>so chill and well collected that when I'm not doing well,

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<v Speaker 3>nobody respects me. Nobody respects that I'm not doing well

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<v Speaker 3>like I was. We went to a sex party. Shout

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<v Speaker 3>out to the play we had. I launched my birthday

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<v Speaker 3>party with the Matrix play party, which was beautiful and wonderful.

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<v Speaker 3>But I think because I am well versed in tantra

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<v Speaker 3>and like very familiar or very like sensitive to sex energy,

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<v Speaker 3>sometimes it gets like a big It could be a big,

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<v Speaker 3>it can be overwhelming.

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<v Speaker 4>And ready to go.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean I had been there for eight hours. So

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<v Speaker 3>it was a beautiful party and it was everything was great,

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<v Speaker 3>except at the end, I like did a little chanting

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<v Speaker 3>and then I was like, oh, maybe tapped in too hard.

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<v Speaker 3>And then I was like, Orlando, it was like in

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<v Speaker 3>the mid stroke, and I was like, I'm ready. I

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<v Speaker 3>think I need to shift and need to take him

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<v Speaker 3>on it. And he got mad.

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<v Speaker 4>He was like, I've been holding this not all night. No,

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<v Speaker 4>it wasn't.

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<v Speaker 3>Even that far in. He was just like, this is

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<v Speaker 3>where I thrive. And I was like, I'm having a

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<v Speaker 3>hard time. He literally said these words to me, like

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<v Speaker 3>this is my space. And I said, actually, this is

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<v Speaker 3>my party, and it's my birthday. Actually it's my birthday

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<v Speaker 3>and I'm coming married.

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<v Speaker 4>What's yours is yours.

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<v Speaker 3>But I think I wear my my stress too well.

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<v Speaker 3>And so now in my thirty eight years of living,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna I decided that very moment at the party

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<v Speaker 3>suck everybody. Everybody's gonna hear what the fuck I have

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<v Speaker 3>to say. So I put my foot down. And so

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<v Speaker 3>for those of you that know me and don't know me,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna start putting my foot down and I'm going

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<v Speaker 3>to say everything I need to say. And so if

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<v Speaker 3>I need to cry in the middle of the fucking party,

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<v Speaker 3>I will. I did not cry at the middle of

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<v Speaker 3>this party, but I almost punched it again the face

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<v Speaker 3>which was my husband. We made up later actually to

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<v Speaker 3>hear was there. I was laying on his lap and

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<v Speaker 3>he's like, I just want you to have fun. I

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<v Speaker 3>just want so much into this. I want you to

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<v Speaker 3>have fun. I'm like, He's like, I want you to

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<v Speaker 3>do whatever you want to do. I was like, I'm

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<v Speaker 3>doing exactly what I want to do, and he was like.

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<v Speaker 3>He looked at me and he said, actually, I want

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<v Speaker 3>you to do what I want you to do. What

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<v Speaker 3>I want you to do, and I said. I got

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<v Speaker 3>up and I said, that's the fucking pra I said,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm so happy you said it. I'm so happy you

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<v Speaker 3>said it before I had to say it, because this

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<v Speaker 3>is exactly how I was feeling. This is about you.

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<v Speaker 3>He was like, yeah, kind of. He was like, you

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<v Speaker 3>know what, I'm sorry I did make it about me.

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<v Speaker 4>He did, but he admitted it.

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<v Speaker 5>He was like, this is the first year I've been

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<v Speaker 5>in the position financially to provide for her fully. I

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<v Speaker 5>didn't want to have to worry about anything. I didn't

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<v Speaker 5>want to have to lift the finger. I didn't want

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<v Speaker 5>to have to think about car transportation where we're staying.

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<v Speaker 4>And I was able to do that.

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<v Speaker 1>And so he just yeah, yeah, he was just a

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<v Speaker 1>FESTI he was.

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<v Speaker 3>Just AESTI literally looked at me and said, actually, don't

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<v Speaker 3>do what you want to do. Yeah, do what I

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<v Speaker 3>want you to do. And I said, nigga, you're out

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<v Speaker 3>of your goddamn mind. And then that's when it turned on,

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<v Speaker 3>and I said, I gotta put my foot down. Niggas

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<v Speaker 3>are going to know who the boss is and that's me.

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<v Speaker 3>God damn it.

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<v Speaker 1>And you're in the mood because of chanting. No, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>genuinely you said. That's when it shifted.

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<v Speaker 6>So I kind of wanted to ask about that part.

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<v Speaker 1>What was chanting?

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you for listening.

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<v Speaker 4>She got thirty eight ancestors inside of her and they

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<v Speaker 4>was like, it is time to let him know.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought chanting was the time to leave every party.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what we call a seance.

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<v Speaker 5>I will say nothing, but we in the middle of

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<v Speaker 5>the sex party. It's fucking going on, and Mila's lightning

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<v Speaker 5>forty eight candles.

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<v Speaker 1>Forty eight candles.

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<v Speaker 5>She's lighting instants and taking says, tell the fucking ear, well,

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<v Speaker 5>little I'm not answer about it here.

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<v Speaker 3>We tried to get that.

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<v Speaker 6>Killed.

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<v Speaker 3>So that's a very good question, Patrick, And the answer

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<v Speaker 3>to that is, I'm a sexologist and a tangent practitioner

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<v Speaker 3>that's well versed in a specific lineage, and in that

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<v Speaker 3>lineage there are specific chants that you can tap into.

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<v Speaker 3>And I thought it was a good time to tap

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<v Speaker 3>into the life force energy because everybody was fucking and

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<v Speaker 3>I had a good idea. I was like, there was

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<v Speaker 3>a good amount of white people at this party, and

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, white people, I mean, we collaborated, and

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<v Speaker 3>I thought, this is you know, this is a good

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<v Speaker 3>time to tapp into the white privilege and the audacity

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<v Speaker 3>because white people don't have it, don't really have any cares.

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<v Speaker 3>And I said, I'm gonna I'm gonna tap in. I'm

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<v Speaker 3>gonna take some of this.

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<v Speaker 4>She did immediately. She started calling me a hard r

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<v Speaker 4>right after.

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<v Speaker 3>That, just like shut up, nigger, and hey, hey up,

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<v Speaker 3>that never happened. Take it back, I take it back

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<v Speaker 3>on camera. That's not true. Such a comedian, you think

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<v Speaker 3>everything the fucking joke. Anyway, there are some chances that

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<v Speaker 3>you could tap into. And while I was getting my

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<v Speaker 3>pussy a, so this is a good time to like,

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<v Speaker 3>use my chance.

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<v Speaker 4>Well that's when you're chanted.

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<v Speaker 3>Wow, you're supposed to, but probably not with a room

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<v Speaker 3>full of other people. And then I got really tapped

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<v Speaker 3>in and I was like, who this is a bit much.

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<v Speaker 3>There's a lot of fucking going on. It's just like

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<v Speaker 3>a lot of life force energy. If you are very

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<v Speaker 3>sensitive to certain energy and you're aware of it, and

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<v Speaker 3>you're aware of your body, then you'll know. So that's

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<v Speaker 3>why the chanting maybe have like you know, tapped in

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<v Speaker 3>too deeply to the to the every energy in the room.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm a witch, Patrick, I'm a fairy witch.

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<v Speaker 1>A night for you both.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you can, you can be whatever you want to be.

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<v Speaker 1>Wings are broomstick, but we're both wings on the broomstick.

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<v Speaker 3>In case something happen to the broomstick. I just I'm

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<v Speaker 3>also the goddess of indulgence, so excessive it would be

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<v Speaker 3>a good a good word to describe me. You are

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<v Speaker 3>the only thing we've agreed to today. Yes, anyway, did

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<v Speaker 3>you enjoy the sex party since you weren't chanting?

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<v Speaker 1>It was?

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<v Speaker 5>Uh, it was probably the most will produced and thoroughly

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<v Speaker 5>produced play party I've ever been to. The theme was

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<v Speaker 5>throughout the entire event. They had you know, picture stations

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<v Speaker 5>before you entered the place, you could take pictures, and

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<v Speaker 5>like they had missions for everyone, like they had like

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<v Speaker 5>welcome missions and then like a little spicy missions.

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<v Speaker 1>Tons of of of drinks and.

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<v Speaker 3>There was niggas and suits passing out our dirves.

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<v Speaker 4>It was crazy and a lot of them white, which

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<v Speaker 4>felt appropriate for jun Yeah yeah, yeah, you don't.

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<v Speaker 3>Know, but give me one of those meat balls again,

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<v Speaker 3>come back here.

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<v Speaker 5>But it was it was fire and it was and

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<v Speaker 5>it felt really low stakes as for us, Like sometimes

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<v Speaker 5>I've been the event saying people just like what.

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<v Speaker 4>Time you was getting started, like what was going on?

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<v Speaker 5>This is this feels creepy, But this one it was

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<v Speaker 5>super chill, super relaxed, and everybody was like themed out.

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<v Speaker 4>It was right. It was a great time.

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<v Speaker 5>I had a great time and it was open bar.

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<v Speaker 5>I liked that they had planned out everything. There was

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<v Speaker 5>no cash, no hierarchy, uh, no tipping or nothing. Everything

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<v Speaker 5>was included in your ticket so you didn't need a

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<v Speaker 5>reason to bring any cash.

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<v Speaker 4>So it was it was a super dope thing. Shout

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<v Speaker 4>out to Michael for putting it.

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<v Speaker 3>And the tickets weren't cheap because oh yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, they weep out like heio heatos priced people out too.

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<v Speaker 3>Now have you ever been to a play party before?

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<v Speaker 3>But you were you were gonna come that. Where do

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<v Speaker 3>you wish you would have joined the festivities?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>My brother shout out to Ryan Golden Hour, he through

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<v Speaker 1>the Golden.

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<v Speaker 3>You've ruined it for your brother. I sure you don't

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<v Speaker 3>want to come enough. I can't imagine Patrick getting a

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<v Speaker 3>play party setting. Do you think you could have? Do

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<v Speaker 3>you think you would have been fine? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 6>I mean I'm not like I mean, I would probably

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<v Speaker 6>just be like, you know, chilling washing and stuff, you know,

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<v Speaker 6>like oh cool, oh Daryl, you know, but I'm never

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<v Speaker 6>like I'm not like, oh, you know, like I can hang.

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<v Speaker 4>I just don't be outside a lot. So people don't think.

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to see him at the morning.

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<v Speaker 4>I like, they just don't do that right here, I'm like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>everywhere else too.

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<v Speaker 3>At one point there was like chains from the from

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<v Speaker 3>the vaults, like high ceilings. I don't know if there's things,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think if anybody saw one girl, she she

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<v Speaker 3>had like a chain performance and she came out a

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<v Speaker 3>black girl, and then she had like a baby chainsaw

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<v Speaker 3>and she was like then like the the fire was

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<v Speaker 3>like going around. I was like, wow, that looks dangerous. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>and it was like very was also very June teens

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<v Speaker 3>because she was cutting the chains and I was like girl.

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<v Speaker 1>At first, I was like a black woman was performing

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<v Speaker 1>in chains.

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<v Speaker 3>Was like hew. But then she then she cut him

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<v Speaker 3>with the chainsaw, and I said, I wasn't expecting.

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<v Speaker 5>I was noting, and I thought as soon as I

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<v Speaker 5>saw the change, I was like, this seems a little

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<v Speaker 5>too on the nose.

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<v Speaker 3>Wait then I saw a nigga hanging from the change.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh Jesus, okay, no, no, no, no, no, okay no

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<v Speaker 3>like this like handhand, foot, foot, And then the girl

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<v Speaker 3>was giving him head while he was spinning in a circle.

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<v Speaker 4>And then he was like yeah, and I was just

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<v Speaker 4>like this, she's just kept going around because.

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<v Speaker 3>He and I was. I was at the top looking

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<v Speaker 3>down and I was like, no, that's something you don't

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<v Speaker 3>see every day.

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<v Speaker 4>Everything at that fucking party was something you don't see

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<v Speaker 4>every day.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think you see much of any of those things.

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<v Speaker 4>And we're playing it really cool. That ship was fire

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<v Speaker 4>as fuck.

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<v Speaker 5>I ain't even gonna hold don I'm tired of playing

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<v Speaker 5>it cool. That ship was crazy. Okay, it was crazy crazy.

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<v Speaker 5>I couldn't have been high on that ship like that

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<v Speaker 5>that I need. I needed to be sober for that event.

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<v Speaker 5>It was.

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<v Speaker 4>It was a psight to see.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow.

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<v Speaker 3>I thought it was pretty impressive. I'm the type of

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<v Speaker 3>person who likes to go and see things that I've

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<v Speaker 3>never seen before. Though some people are like that's too much,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, bring it. I want to see what the

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<v Speaker 3>Fu's going on over there. So if you're curious, then

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<v Speaker 3>you want to tap into the play that's the place

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<v Speaker 3>to go to, the top notch high end NA.

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<v Speaker 4>That's the Fountain Blue of play parties. I mean, that's

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<v Speaker 4>it was good.

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<v Speaker 5>They had a massage station that was like non sexual,

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<v Speaker 5>but like if you just needed to go and relax,

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<v Speaker 5>massage you.

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<v Speaker 3>You had a loom cups to keep up and they

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<v Speaker 3>had our names on all of the cups.

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<v Speaker 4>Bro it was. It was nice and it was like

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<v Speaker 4>real order. It's not just like you know, meatballs and

0:19:09.680 --> 0:19:11.040
<v Speaker 4>bro it was. They did it right.

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<v Speaker 3>There was a chef there. She'd bring your chef out.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that was great. It was a good time.

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<v Speaker 1>Why you didn't come, I was out of town.

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<v Speaker 3>I was it was fun. Though it was.

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<v Speaker 1>I was on my little solo vacation.

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<v Speaker 4>How often do you do that? Like, oh, really nice?

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<v Speaker 4>I thought that you would have been way more.

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<v Speaker 1>I know I've done like I've gone places alone, but

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<v Speaker 1>I've never gone to multiple cities by myself. Oh you

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<v Speaker 1>did like that, like a multiple city?

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<v Speaker 4>Where all did you go?

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<v Speaker 1>I went to Mexico City and I went to.

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<v Speaker 5>I would not be able to tell people I went

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<v Speaker 5>to that second place because I not not to say

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<v Speaker 5>that motherfucker right there now, I do love Mexico City.

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<v Speaker 5>Mexico City one of my favorite places vacation, so beautiful,

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<v Speaker 5>good food. It feels like a miniature in New York.

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<v Speaker 1>It is because like a jungle. Yeah, the nature just

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<v Speaker 1>like bursting.

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<v Speaker 4>Through the but good food, good music everywhere.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like one of my favorite good because a lot

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<v Speaker 1>I hear that.

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<v Speaker 6>That's kind of dangerous right there for for American tourist,

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<v Speaker 6>ye about.

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<v Speaker 1>Everything about Mexico.

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<v Speaker 4>Anything, any problems. I didn't have any.

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<v Speaker 5>And I was walking late at night all by myself

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<v Speaker 5>when I was in Mexico City, just like the Budio.

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<v Speaker 1>For sure, probably you shouldn't just like you, we probably

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't go to the rolling sixties at past nine pm

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<v Speaker 1>by yourself, you know, like you know, somewhere to go,

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<v Speaker 1>where to be. But I was fine. I was I

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<v Speaker 1>and I was alone. I was a woman. I felt

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<v Speaker 1>I felt safe the whole time.

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<v Speaker 3>I wish we could have a travel show that we

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<v Speaker 3>went into the underground of sex world and food, just

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<v Speaker 3>putting that out there, food and sex.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean that's never allowed cameras usually, right.

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<v Speaker 3>Uh, well, you know, I met this girl at the

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<v Speaker 3>party and she was saying she just got back from

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<v Speaker 3>Dubai and there's like an underground sex world in Dubai. Bitch,

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<v Speaker 3>I said, bitch, you are risky, because.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that's planning taking a joint.

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<v Speaker 1>I said, girl, well, the underground it's run by all

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<v Speaker 1>the wealthy men, so it's it's like run by the

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<v Speaker 1>people that are condemning the women.

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<v Speaker 3>So I think she said a lot of expects it's

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<v Speaker 3>an ex pat sex world, and I was like, you're

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<v Speaker 3>you're really torisk your life for this time.

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<v Speaker 1>I said, I'm not the rich.

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<v Speaker 4>Man that run that. Motherfucker are the ones that I

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<v Speaker 4>ain't got to worry about going to.

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<v Speaker 1>You because there is an underground sex like like space,

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<v Speaker 1>but it is run by. I mean, I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>about the xpat one, but like the men, Oh.

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<v Speaker 3>That's the ones that they were like a group on,

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<v Speaker 3>like all the bitches. All the bitches were going to

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<v Speaker 3>get shitted on.

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<v Speaker 1>No, no, no, I mean like it's I mean they

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<v Speaker 1>probably have. They probably all different types.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm sure you remember that time in like twenty seventeen,

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<v Speaker 3>all the bitches were going to do Bay and I

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<v Speaker 3>was like, is there a fucking two for one flight

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<v Speaker 3>to Dubai? You remember that? That's because they were getting

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<v Speaker 3>paid to get shitted on.

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<v Speaker 5>To get shipped on, or to shipped on people to

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<v Speaker 5>get shipped probably both. Wait what it was always them

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<v Speaker 5>doing the ship now they.

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<v Speaker 4>Would get the ship.

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<v Speaker 3>Fifty k.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a ship pro.

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<v Speaker 3>They were getting fifty k. The sheikhs were paying bitches

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<v Speaker 3>like fifty k to go ship on Themy so.

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<v Speaker 1>Fifty k and a free ticket and they're paying for

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<v Speaker 1>your hotel.

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<v Speaker 4>No, you're not doing it.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not going into the country.

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<v Speaker 1>Is there any logic behind that?

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<v Speaker 4>Like a power thing, you gotta like like there's a.

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<v Speaker 6>Power thing, there's a power thing and degradation because you know,

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<v Speaker 6>like you know Vince McMahon, now w w rain.

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<v Speaker 4>You got pooping on people too?

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<v Speaker 3>What do you mean he got caught?

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<v Speaker 1>It's powerful people.

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<v Speaker 6>Like the powerful people feel like once they got money,

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<v Speaker 6>they got women, they just want to you know, they're

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<v Speaker 6>just like the last thing I want to, well I need.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, we just verbally saying I'm shitting on these niggas.

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<v Speaker 5>We don't really mean it, but I mean, I mean

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<v Speaker 5>that's taking. It's a whole another level.

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<v Speaker 3>Like the smell.

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<v Speaker 1>You get bored you, It doesn't matter what race you are,

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<v Speaker 1>you'll do some girding. Yeah, powerful people get way too

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<v Speaker 1>bored you.

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<v Speaker 5>If you grow up with money and you have access

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<v Speaker 5>to everything, like regular sex gets boring and I imagine that.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't believe that if you're like people. Proven people always

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<v Speaker 3>say like, oh, if you're so rich, then you get gay.

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<v Speaker 3>Like niggas don't just want to say gay, bored and rich.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I wouldn't say gay, but I'm saying delation.

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<v Speaker 3>Of gayness before you did some gay.

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<v Speaker 4>Ships hard left.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I was talking about like the shipting and a

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<v Speaker 5>pan and stuff like I think you get advanced like

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<v Speaker 5>the water sports and the Kinks.

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<v Speaker 1>I think. Yeah, I was gonna say, I was gonna

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<v Speaker 1>say it could just be drugs. You do enough drugs.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually that kind of felt good.

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<v Speaker 4>I think it's power for sure, because it's always number.

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<v Speaker 1>One is power then drugs.

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<v Speaker 3>Would you guys?

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<v Speaker 4>Should they wipe out the words or they just get

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<v Speaker 4>in a shower?

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<v Speaker 1>I got questions because I.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't know that rich they have a golden shower.

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<v Speaker 6>Probably play with it a little bit, I think, like

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<v Speaker 6>I assume that the bedroom looks like you know, dexter plastic.

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<v Speaker 1>Everywhere, they rub it all over, they put it in

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<v Speaker 1>their mouth.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's be doing this, okay for for one hundred.

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<v Speaker 4>K No, does it matter where they do it at?

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<v Speaker 4>Does that change your answer?

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<v Speaker 5>Like if they're not shipping, yeah, like if they're not

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<v Speaker 5>shipping on your chest, like I.

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<v Speaker 4>Love the balls of feet. I just want to ship

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<v Speaker 4>on the ball of your foot, your left foot. That's

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<v Speaker 4>all I want to do, Just to ship your belly.

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<v Speaker 4>But I know yeah, yeah, yeah, in the belly. But anyway,

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<v Speaker 4>because you don't know if it's gonna be solid.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I forgot about people eat like certain foods so

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<v Speaker 3>they could produce a show.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm thinking about is parasites. Parasites as they break open

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<v Speaker 1>the poop.

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<v Speaker 4>That's all you're thinking about.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean, I'm thinking about a lot of things.

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<v Speaker 5>What if what if they come pick you up from

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<v Speaker 5>the airport and they like give you a little taste

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<v Speaker 5>and a fart and they roll the windows up and

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<v Speaker 5>so oh, yeah, this is what you're getting ready for.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. People people have fart kinks too.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah I was.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know if it was like a funny video,

0:24:45.440 --> 0:24:50.640
<v Speaker 5>but this ship was like farting bottles yours them making money.

0:24:51.160 --> 0:24:52.000
<v Speaker 1>She's farting in jars.

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<v Speaker 3>And one of her homegirls had a guy who would

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<v Speaker 3>like text her all the time asking to see pictures

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<v Speaker 3>of her ship, and she would send them some Oh my.

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<v Speaker 1>God, people, man, that's too freaky.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know what activate.

0:25:07.680 --> 0:25:10.000
<v Speaker 5>So I wonder does it activate something sexual or does

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<v Speaker 5>it activate something something else?

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<v Speaker 1>Is just to like know what's coming out of your body,

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<v Speaker 1>like it's.

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<v Speaker 4>Just you just made that.

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<v Speaker 1>Huh, what did you eat?

0:25:19.000 --> 0:25:19.320
<v Speaker 3>What else?

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<v Speaker 4>What did you eat today?

0:25:20.800 --> 0:25:21.639
<v Speaker 1>There's a lot of veis.

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<v Speaker 4>I see it's kind of green greens.

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<v Speaker 3>Today out there has these fetishes call us, we want

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<v Speaker 3>to interview. We could fuzze your face out. Maybe I

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<v Speaker 3>don't know if we've had that technology.

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<v Speaker 1>But that's crazy. Have y'all made any bad choices this week?

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<v Speaker 4>Not a bad mom, but a bad mom, so good.

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<v Speaker 1>Is freaky choices? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 6>I was about to say, like they're stupid, Like what

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<v Speaker 6>it's not even like it's not even a fun answer,

0:26:03.000 --> 0:26:04.879
<v Speaker 6>you know. I'm trying to think of a funner answer

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<v Speaker 6>than this.

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<v Speaker 4>Just be honest, A bad choice.

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<v Speaker 1>What are you laughing about over there?

0:26:12.040 --> 0:26:12.240
<v Speaker 4>Ship?

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<v Speaker 5>This is a fucking it's a hate paler ship for

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<v Speaker 5>me to choose from. I'm just trying to figure.

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<v Speaker 4>Out what fucking what I need to fucking what does

0:26:19.800 --> 0:26:20.600
<v Speaker 4>that the hate thing do?

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<v Speaker 6>What is it?

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<v Speaker 3>What does it go about?

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<v Speaker 4>No, but what's the one thing? No, it's the pickfork. Pitchfork, pitchfork, pitchfork.

0:26:26.800 --> 0:26:27.240
<v Speaker 1>That's what it is.

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<v Speaker 4>I need a pitchfork to get through all of it.

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<v Speaker 4>You have to go first, Yeah, you know, because like

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<v Speaker 4>if I do something crazy and you'd be like I

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<v Speaker 4>paid my rent, Like.

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<v Speaker 1>That's that's the level of.

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<v Speaker 4>Damn.

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<v Speaker 1>I want a fun one. I know that made some

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<v Speaker 1>bad choices. It'll get inspired by your hears.

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<v Speaker 4>All right, man?

0:26:51.040 --> 0:26:56.159
<v Speaker 5>Uh, stand out all day drinking, partying, kicking it and

0:26:56.680 --> 0:26:59.480
<v Speaker 5>catching up with friends for dinner, hanging out in the

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<v Speaker 5>hotel to time for the afters, going to the afters drinking, partying, uh,

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<v Speaker 5>and then promising to pick somebody developed at the airport

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<v Speaker 5>at eight And when I just left the hotel at

0:27:10.080 --> 0:27:11.320
<v Speaker 5>six and I was like, all right, I can give

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<v Speaker 5>you an hour and a half asleep.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you make it?

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<v Speaker 3>Fuck?

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<v Speaker 4>No, I just get there.

0:27:15.280 --> 0:27:17.000
<v Speaker 5>I was like, listen, I ain't gonna make you get

0:27:17.080 --> 0:27:19.240
<v Speaker 5>into Ober because you gotta do the whole la exiting,

0:27:19.359 --> 0:27:20.160
<v Speaker 5>I got a black cart.

0:27:20.200 --> 0:27:21.040
<v Speaker 4>I got him a black car.

0:27:21.400 --> 0:27:24.000
<v Speaker 3>When he looked over at the hotels and I had

0:27:24.040 --> 0:27:25.800
<v Speaker 3>to pick up somebody in two hours, I said, nigga

0:27:25.880 --> 0:27:28.440
<v Speaker 3>call a car. Yeah, yeah, I think that's a ridiculous

0:27:28.480 --> 0:27:29.120
<v Speaker 3>call of car taker.

0:27:29.280 --> 0:27:29.639
<v Speaker 4>I was.

0:27:30.040 --> 0:27:31.960
<v Speaker 5>I was, and I I had to drop somebody off

0:27:32.080 --> 0:27:33.840
<v Speaker 5>before after I left the hotels, I had to go

0:27:33.920 --> 0:27:36.159
<v Speaker 5>to the valley drop somebody off. I was like, all right,

0:27:36.160 --> 0:27:37.800
<v Speaker 5>I'm just going and I should have just went out

0:27:37.800 --> 0:27:39.400
<v Speaker 5>to l A. I was like, I'm napping the car.

0:27:39.880 --> 0:27:41.480
<v Speaker 4>I was like, my bed right there.

0:27:41.680 --> 0:27:45.080
<v Speaker 1>I got in the car to hey, Lizen. Because my

0:27:45.400 --> 0:27:45.800
<v Speaker 1>word is.

0:27:45.800 --> 0:27:47.159
<v Speaker 5>Big to me, like if I say I'm gonna do it,

0:27:47.200 --> 0:27:50.800
<v Speaker 5>I like to be a man in my words. So nah, man,

0:27:51.280 --> 0:27:54.399
<v Speaker 5>I said six alarms. I said six and l a

0:27:54.840 --> 0:27:58.160
<v Speaker 5>X pickup is like, that is true? That is real, real, friend,

0:27:59.400 --> 0:28:00.760
<v Speaker 5>I put my mom, I'm in a black cart.

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<v Speaker 1>Friend.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, what not better?

0:28:04.480 --> 0:28:07.320
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, that's better because it's hard, like especially with lex

0:28:07.400 --> 0:28:09.680
<v Speaker 5>because it's hard to determine when the bags are gonna

0:28:09.680 --> 0:28:12.280
<v Speaker 5>come out, depending on what airline you come on. It's

0:28:12.359 --> 0:28:14.840
<v Speaker 5>just a lot just getting in sometimes can be twenty

0:28:14.920 --> 0:28:16.440
<v Speaker 5>thirty minutes getting in lax.

0:28:16.760 --> 0:28:18.280
<v Speaker 4>So I was like, man, I just I'll just pay

0:28:18.320 --> 0:28:19.360
<v Speaker 4>the money. Man, this is less.

0:28:19.359 --> 0:28:20.920
<v Speaker 1>It's somebody I ain't seen in like years.

0:28:21.680 --> 0:28:22.639
<v Speaker 4>I'm paying that money. Bro.

0:28:23.480 --> 0:28:26.320
<v Speaker 3>Everybody knows how to catch an uber. My dad asked

0:28:26.359 --> 0:28:27.840
<v Speaker 3>me to pick him up from somewhere the other day

0:28:27.840 --> 0:28:30.280
<v Speaker 3>and I told him no, or was it lax?

0:28:30.560 --> 0:28:33.359
<v Speaker 4>No, it was just a bad daughter. No, it was

0:28:33.920 --> 0:28:36.520
<v Speaker 4>fucked up person. My dad fucked up person. Man, that's

0:28:36.520 --> 0:28:36.879
<v Speaker 4>what it is.

0:28:36.960 --> 0:28:37.840
<v Speaker 3>My dad does that a lot.

0:28:38.080 --> 0:28:39.080
<v Speaker 4>What actually to pick you.

0:28:39.280 --> 0:28:41.000
<v Speaker 3>Has expectations that he didn't discuss.

0:28:41.080 --> 0:28:44.560
<v Speaker 4>Your dad nutted and gave you life. You're here because.

0:28:44.400 --> 0:28:48.520
<v Speaker 3>When the words you got pleasure out of that. Damn

0:28:49.440 --> 0:28:51.040
<v Speaker 3>I didn't ask to be here, and I damn sure

0:28:51.080 --> 0:28:52.600
<v Speaker 3>didn't ask to pick you up fifteen minutes out of

0:28:52.640 --> 0:28:55.160
<v Speaker 3>my way, and you know what, I'm thirty a. I

0:28:55.200 --> 0:28:55.840
<v Speaker 3>have boundaries.

0:28:56.200 --> 0:29:00.280
<v Speaker 4>Fifteen minutes out of LA can literally just be four

0:29:00.400 --> 0:29:01.160
<v Speaker 4>miles in LA.

0:29:01.240 --> 0:29:02.440
<v Speaker 3>Because debate.

0:29:03.840 --> 0:29:05.720
<v Speaker 4>I was just I was, I was still going to

0:29:05.720 --> 0:29:07.080
<v Speaker 4>speaking on it. I had a thought on my mom,

0:29:07.160 --> 0:29:08.680
<v Speaker 4>I was gonna finish it my.

0:29:08.680 --> 0:29:09.440
<v Speaker 3>Happy Father's Day.

0:29:09.520 --> 0:29:10.200
<v Speaker 1>And he forgave me.

0:29:10.280 --> 0:29:13.120
<v Speaker 3>I'm pretty sure, so sorry, dad, he did not forgive you.

0:29:13.240 --> 0:29:15.720
<v Speaker 4>He texted me the other day like this, mother did.

0:29:15.720 --> 0:29:17.600
<v Speaker 1>That Actually sounds exactly what like he would say.

0:29:17.680 --> 0:29:21.240
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, Yeah, we've been talking and.

0:29:21.240 --> 0:29:22.640
<v Speaker 3>I said, Lena, we're not picking him up.

0:29:24.440 --> 0:29:27.080
<v Speaker 4>You have the baby with you denied the baby of

0:29:27.120 --> 0:29:28.040
<v Speaker 4>seeing her grandfather.

0:29:28.360 --> 0:29:31.520
<v Speaker 1>Listen that So the next time when when Luna is

0:29:31.600 --> 0:29:34.720
<v Speaker 1>grown and she wanted to daddy, remember when you didn't

0:29:34.720 --> 0:29:36.800
<v Speaker 1>pick up the grandpa. Yeah, I'm not picking your ass.

0:29:36.840 --> 0:29:38.840
<v Speaker 3>I'm not depending on anybody to get me from point

0:29:38.880 --> 0:29:40.880
<v Speaker 3>A to point b. Ever in my life, if I

0:29:41.040 --> 0:29:43.640
<v Speaker 3>can't get back, it's not happening because I'm a grown

0:29:43.680 --> 0:29:44.160
<v Speaker 3>ass woman.

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<v Speaker 5>You're also collect you know, you know Daniels collecting infinity stones.

0:29:51.160 --> 0:29:55.560
<v Speaker 5>Mila is a collector of stragglers, and I have to

0:29:55.640 --> 0:29:58.640
<v Speaker 5>tell her ass. Hey, one time we hanging out. She

0:29:58.720 --> 0:30:01.080
<v Speaker 5>was like, I didn't make a stop and she popped

0:30:01.120 --> 0:30:02.960
<v Speaker 5>in the club and she comes out with.

0:30:03.120 --> 0:30:04.320
<v Speaker 1>Six fucking people.

0:30:05.400 --> 0:30:07.880
<v Speaker 4>SI fucking people always gonna drop them off.

0:30:07.920 --> 0:30:08.800
<v Speaker 1>No the fuck we're not.

0:30:09.560 --> 0:30:12.360
<v Speaker 4>No the fuck we not. I don't know these niggas

0:30:12.400 --> 0:30:12.920
<v Speaker 4>right home.

0:30:14.040 --> 0:30:16.280
<v Speaker 5>I'm not letting all of these random ass niggas get

0:30:16.360 --> 0:30:17.560
<v Speaker 5>behind me in this fucking car.

0:30:17.680 --> 0:30:19.360
<v Speaker 1>You crazy? And it was in her car, but I

0:30:19.360 --> 0:30:20.280
<v Speaker 1>didn't give them fuck.

0:30:20.120 --> 0:30:21.960
<v Speaker 3>Nobody told you to tell my fucking business. That was

0:30:22.000 --> 0:30:24.280
<v Speaker 3>a private private what conversation experience?

0:30:24.360 --> 0:30:26.120
<v Speaker 1>Were These just promises you made throughout the night.

0:30:26.320 --> 0:30:28.320
<v Speaker 3>I just went in and then they were like, can

0:30:28.360 --> 0:30:29.600
<v Speaker 3>you get me right home? And I was like sure.

0:30:29.600 --> 0:30:30.480
<v Speaker 3>I'm like, we're six people.

0:30:30.480 --> 0:30:32.840
<v Speaker 5>I'm like, and that's what she said, I got, I got,

0:30:32.880 --> 0:30:35.320
<v Speaker 5>I'm I'm coming back. Plans change a little bit. I'm like,

0:30:35.360 --> 0:30:37.040
<v Speaker 5>what what the fuck you mean plans? Because I'm in

0:30:37.080 --> 0:30:39.360
<v Speaker 5>the car, I'm in the loading zone right, I'm looking

0:30:39.440 --> 0:30:42.320
<v Speaker 5>around because we're also at also like three in the morning,

0:30:42.920 --> 0:30:45.160
<v Speaker 5>after our spot, and you know, after I was kind

0:30:45.160 --> 0:30:48.040
<v Speaker 5>of anything goes. Niggas walking up with chainsaws and ship

0:30:48.320 --> 0:30:50.720
<v Speaker 5>one nigga got like a like a baby dog and it's.

0:30:50.600 --> 0:30:53.040
<v Speaker 4>On fire and he's swissing it around the fucking wild

0:30:53.040 --> 0:30:53.440
<v Speaker 4>wild West.

0:30:53.480 --> 0:30:56.240
<v Speaker 5>We're two blocks over from skid row, like they're selling

0:30:56.320 --> 0:30:58.760
<v Speaker 5>body parts next to the guy selling hot dogs.

0:30:58.880 --> 0:31:00.600
<v Speaker 1>She was like, Oh, coming up was some friends.

0:31:00.640 --> 0:31:02.160
<v Speaker 3>I think you're from East St. Louis to hear.

0:31:02.400 --> 0:31:04.200
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that's exactly why I don't want to go back

0:31:04.200 --> 0:31:05.200
<v Speaker 4>to an environment.

0:31:04.920 --> 0:31:10.400
<v Speaker 5>That he was here. He's alive because then niggas didn't

0:31:10.440 --> 0:31:13.600
<v Speaker 5>get in. M yeah, because only two were getting in.

0:31:13.640 --> 0:31:14.720
<v Speaker 5>I'm not letting all these niggas.

0:31:14.720 --> 0:31:16.560
<v Speaker 4>I don't care. It's your car, no where they did

0:31:16.640 --> 0:31:17.280
<v Speaker 4>they live close?

0:31:17.640 --> 0:31:25.000
<v Speaker 3>Yeah? Anyway, Uber, this is why I don't bring friends

0:31:25.040 --> 0:31:27.040
<v Speaker 3>on the show. I talked to you fucking much. We

0:31:27.200 --> 0:31:29.560
<v Speaker 3>have a wonderful game that we called Trigger.

0:31:30.760 --> 0:31:32.480
<v Speaker 4>No y'all didn't say y'all bad choices.

0:31:32.800 --> 0:31:36.280
<v Speaker 1>I know, it's just y'all. Oh, Pat, you come on,

0:31:36.880 --> 0:31:37.360
<v Speaker 1>we can move on.

0:31:37.600 --> 0:31:39.040
<v Speaker 3>Come on, Pat, it's boring.

0:31:39.520 --> 0:31:42.040
<v Speaker 4>Tell us it's not even like the Vibe but the show.

0:31:42.160 --> 0:31:46.560
<v Speaker 3>You're Virgo, right, Pat? Yes, Virgo and Pisces. Can't you

0:31:46.600 --> 0:31:47.320
<v Speaker 3>tell the difference.

0:31:48.240 --> 0:31:49.920
<v Speaker 6>I just didn't do anything this week, so I didn't

0:31:49.920 --> 0:31:52.360
<v Speaker 6>have any Okay, I I had to cancel on a

0:31:52.400 --> 0:31:55.200
<v Speaker 6>shoot because of choices that I made.

0:31:55.400 --> 0:31:56.360
<v Speaker 3>You got too drunk?

0:31:57.160 --> 0:31:59.040
<v Speaker 6>No, I was just I was just really tired and

0:31:59.680 --> 0:32:03.440
<v Speaker 6>it was like a shoot that I really made plans

0:32:03.560 --> 0:32:04.200
<v Speaker 6>or promises for.

0:32:04.800 --> 0:32:09.000
<v Speaker 4>But I did feel bad boring to you to do

0:32:09.840 --> 0:32:11.640
<v Speaker 4>disappoint That's what I'm trying. That's what I'm trying to

0:32:11.680 --> 0:32:12.080
<v Speaker 4>do more of.

0:32:12.240 --> 0:32:14.000
<v Speaker 1>You know, more people pleasing.

0:32:14.240 --> 0:32:16.400
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, exactly, okay, So I'll tie it into something.

0:32:16.560 --> 0:32:20.560
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, do you want to play Trigger? Yeah?

0:32:21.280 --> 0:32:21.680
<v Speaker 4>Oh do you have?

0:32:21.960 --> 0:32:24.080
<v Speaker 1>I gave it to you thought you're just telling me

0:32:24.120 --> 0:32:24.640
<v Speaker 1>to add stuff?

0:32:24.720 --> 0:32:25.360
<v Speaker 3>Sorry I can.

0:32:25.520 --> 0:32:25.920
<v Speaker 4>I can do it.

0:32:27.600 --> 0:32:30.120
<v Speaker 3>I'm going to light the backwood as we play trigger.

0:32:30.200 --> 0:32:32.560
<v Speaker 3>So Trigger is a game that we play that we're

0:32:32.600 --> 0:32:34.160
<v Speaker 3>going to give you one word, and you're gonna give

0:32:34.240 --> 0:32:36.360
<v Speaker 3>us the first word that comes to mind. Don't think

0:32:36.400 --> 0:32:39.080
<v Speaker 3>about it too much, don't overthink about it, don't over

0:32:39.120 --> 0:32:39.560
<v Speaker 3>think about it.

0:32:39.720 --> 0:32:40.680
<v Speaker 1>And I like this.

0:32:41.480 --> 0:32:46.520
<v Speaker 3>We're smoking a true, a true rap aromatic. This is

0:32:46.560 --> 0:32:48.680
<v Speaker 3>one of my favorite Have you tried these guys? I

0:32:48.720 --> 0:32:50.320
<v Speaker 3>don't have to gut it or anything. It just comes

0:32:50.400 --> 0:32:50.800
<v Speaker 3>ready to go.

0:32:51.040 --> 0:32:51.400
<v Speaker 4>Oh wow.

0:32:51.680 --> 0:32:52.440
<v Speaker 1>That what makes it true?

0:32:52.960 --> 0:32:53.160
<v Speaker 3>Yep?

0:32:53.280 --> 0:32:57.080
<v Speaker 1>It's true, easy, peasy, simple, you ready for trigger.

0:32:57.080 --> 0:33:02.960
<v Speaker 4>I've never smoked before, wore, I.

0:33:02.960 --> 0:33:09.160
<v Speaker 1>Feel like I've smoked with you. Yeah, anyway, I've never

0:33:09.200 --> 0:33:10.360
<v Speaker 1>done drunks in my life ever.

0:33:11.280 --> 0:33:13.080
<v Speaker 4>You never drake did no drugs, none of that.

0:33:13.200 --> 0:33:16.800
<v Speaker 5>Ship sober Actually time, I actually just got my license,

0:33:17.480 --> 0:33:18.520
<v Speaker 5>uh to be a pastor.

0:33:18.640 --> 0:33:20.080
<v Speaker 4>So we're about to start the church, so.

0:33:20.120 --> 0:33:22.760
<v Speaker 3>We can call you pastor pastor pastors more to hear

0:33:22.960 --> 0:33:25.640
<v Speaker 3>pastor moore more. That sounds kind of freak.

0:33:26.800 --> 0:33:28.040
<v Speaker 1>She's opening a church's chicken.

0:33:32.520 --> 0:33:35.720
<v Speaker 3>Churches is disgusting. Watch eats churches.

0:33:38.320 --> 0:33:41.120
<v Speaker 4>Not a real nigga ever planning to be Sometimes I.

0:33:42.720 --> 0:33:45.560
<v Speaker 3>Think that does not eat church's chicken in your hands.

0:33:45.600 --> 0:33:47.440
<v Speaker 4>That's real nigga ship. That is real nigga shire.

0:33:47.480 --> 0:33:50.800
<v Speaker 5>She real nigga adjacent though she want the accolades of

0:33:50.880 --> 0:33:53.400
<v Speaker 5>being a real nigga because she hung with real niggas

0:33:53.560 --> 0:33:55.000
<v Speaker 5>and she sucked a couple of real niggas.

0:33:55.560 --> 0:33:57.080
<v Speaker 3>I'm a rich, real nigga church.

0:33:57.280 --> 0:33:59.160
<v Speaker 4>You shut your valley ass up. You're not real. You're

0:33:59.160 --> 0:34:02.160
<v Speaker 4>a real nigga. Move right now, be fine.

0:34:02.200 --> 0:34:04.640
<v Speaker 3>I have all the niggas. Yeah, I have the luxury

0:34:04.640 --> 0:34:05.320
<v Speaker 3>apartment to watch.

0:34:05.840 --> 0:34:09.600
<v Speaker 4>Whatever churches lit, there will be no church is slander

0:34:09.840 --> 0:34:10.839
<v Speaker 4>on my fucking watch.

0:34:11.080 --> 0:34:13.120
<v Speaker 3>If you hat churches into twenty twenty six, we need

0:34:13.200 --> 0:34:13.440
<v Speaker 3>to talk.

0:34:14.120 --> 0:34:15.160
<v Speaker 1>I feel like Erica.

0:34:15.040 --> 0:34:16.960
<v Speaker 4>Said, Dad, he would fuck with some church.

0:34:17.120 --> 0:34:17.880
<v Speaker 1>Even know what the fuck that is.

0:34:17.880 --> 0:34:20.080
<v Speaker 5>I'm seeing him, but you know the way he laughing. Yeah,

0:34:20.120 --> 0:34:22.920
<v Speaker 5>he didn't have the halopenos before and a little bite over.

0:34:23.200 --> 0:34:27.720
<v Speaker 1>Put the last vegan. He's vegetarian. He lives off juices

0:34:27.719 --> 0:34:28.200
<v Speaker 1>and berries.

0:34:28.360 --> 0:34:30.000
<v Speaker 4>God damn you had to put them. He didn't had

0:34:30.080 --> 0:34:32.279
<v Speaker 4>churches before that. I bet he missed it right now

0:34:32.280 --> 0:34:33.120
<v Speaker 4>if I called him not in.

0:34:33.120 --> 0:34:35.520
<v Speaker 3>The last ten years? Have you had have your church

0:34:35.520 --> 0:34:37.560
<v Speaker 3>in the last ten years? All right?

0:34:37.600 --> 0:34:39.120
<v Speaker 4>So neither one of y'all have had churches in the

0:34:39.239 --> 0:34:39.960
<v Speaker 4>last five years.

0:34:40.120 --> 0:34:41.719
<v Speaker 3>My stomach, I give a fuck about my son.

0:34:41.880 --> 0:34:43.080
<v Speaker 1>No you don't.

0:34:43.080 --> 0:34:44.840
<v Speaker 4>I've seen what you eating before and my party with

0:34:44.920 --> 0:34:46.640
<v Speaker 4>you don't give the stomach or the line it.

0:34:46.760 --> 0:34:50.040
<v Speaker 1>What about you. I've never had churches, chicken, that's not

0:34:50.880 --> 0:34:51.520
<v Speaker 1>I know, was boo.

0:34:53.640 --> 0:34:56.200
<v Speaker 3>I didn't like it's Daddy is a doctor. He never

0:34:56.280 --> 0:34:57.560
<v Speaker 3>had no damn churches, Chicken.

0:34:57.800 --> 0:34:58.800
<v Speaker 1>That has nothing to do with anything.

0:34:58.840 --> 0:34:59.960
<v Speaker 4>I have had churches, but I don't like.

0:35:00.560 --> 0:35:03.600
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm still helping you prove your point.

0:35:03.719 --> 0:35:05.520
<v Speaker 3>When did you eat? When did your church of sugar?

0:35:06.200 --> 0:35:06.800
<v Speaker 4>What days?

0:35:06.960 --> 0:35:08.919
<v Speaker 3>When? Like how many years ago? Like years ago?

0:35:09.800 --> 0:35:10.520
<v Speaker 1>The time stuff?

0:35:10.719 --> 0:35:13.279
<v Speaker 3>I know at school he went to So what you

0:35:13.360 --> 0:35:19.719
<v Speaker 3>went to the same school, bitch, elementary school Atlanta with

0:35:19.800 --> 0:35:22.840
<v Speaker 3>a ghetto girl. Me and Pat.

0:35:23.080 --> 0:35:25.600
<v Speaker 5>We didn't we'd have been in Atlanta together, throwing money

0:35:25.719 --> 0:35:27.200
<v Speaker 5>back to back, making a round.

0:35:27.200 --> 0:35:32.840
<v Speaker 4>I'm lying, Pat is so frugal in Atlanta nice, so

0:35:32.920 --> 0:35:37.439
<v Speaker 4>frugal up And as you said, I well.

0:35:37.400 --> 0:35:39.600
<v Speaker 5>First of all, we've been in Atlanta together. We departied

0:35:39.640 --> 0:35:41.200
<v Speaker 5>in Atlanta together, went to Strict Club. We had a

0:35:41.239 --> 0:35:42.879
<v Speaker 5>good time. We met in Saint Louis together. I took

0:35:42.960 --> 0:35:45.080
<v Speaker 5>him to East Saint Louis. We got some hood rice

0:35:45.120 --> 0:35:47.239
<v Speaker 5>in East St. Louis, praan racgoon, Saint Paul. All this

0:35:47.320 --> 0:35:49.440
<v Speaker 5>ship we were sucking it up.

0:35:49.480 --> 0:35:50.120
<v Speaker 1>Now when we went to.

0:35:50.120 --> 0:35:55.759
<v Speaker 4>Atlanta, we went to the ATM was like yo. I

0:35:55.840 --> 0:35:58.000
<v Speaker 4>was like, yo, I've never balled out in the Strict club.

0:35:58.120 --> 0:35:58.879
<v Speaker 4>You want to do it tonight?

0:35:58.960 --> 0:36:00.360
<v Speaker 5>He was like, fuck, yeah, let's do it. So I

0:36:00.400 --> 0:36:03.520
<v Speaker 5>went to got a couple I mean boom, he got it.

0:36:03.680 --> 0:36:05.239
<v Speaker 5>I got mine boone. So you know what I'm saying,

0:36:05.280 --> 0:36:06.399
<v Speaker 5>this is my front. Don't read to go to the club.

0:36:06.440 --> 0:36:07.640
<v Speaker 5>It ain't really my thing, but I'm like, fuck it,

0:36:07.680 --> 0:36:10.600
<v Speaker 5>I'm gonna pretend tonight, right, so boom, don't want to boom.

0:36:10.640 --> 0:36:12.239
<v Speaker 4>We pulling coup of chicks side section We had a

0:36:12.280 --> 0:36:14.080
<v Speaker 4>section ship like that boom. You know what I'm saying.

0:36:14.080 --> 0:36:16.000
<v Speaker 4>I'm forty five minutes in. I didn't I don't know.

0:36:16.239 --> 0:36:18.360
<v Speaker 4>Probably I done blew through, like I don't know.

0:36:18.480 --> 0:36:21.600
<v Speaker 1>Four hundred dollars right, Pat got one chick. He danced

0:36:21.600 --> 0:36:22.040
<v Speaker 1>with a boom.

0:36:22.120 --> 0:36:24.200
<v Speaker 4>She on him right now, right, I'm about forty five

0:36:24.239 --> 0:36:25.440
<v Speaker 4>minutes in. I look onto him.

0:36:25.440 --> 0:36:27.120
<v Speaker 5>I was like, yeah, you need some more? He was like,

0:36:27.400 --> 0:36:31.840
<v Speaker 5>I only I've only gave twelve dollars. Was I supposed

0:36:31.840 --> 0:36:32.160
<v Speaker 5>to get more?

0:36:35.000 --> 0:36:36.960
<v Speaker 3>See his faces? Yeah? Absolutely?

0:36:38.760 --> 0:36:40.359
<v Speaker 5>Oh. I got to tell you what his nigga was doing.

0:36:40.640 --> 0:36:42.320
<v Speaker 5>This nigga Pat was doing. This is how he was

0:36:42.360 --> 0:36:46.600
<v Speaker 5>tippic to write every every a couple of minutes, he would.

0:36:46.360 --> 0:36:51.359
<v Speaker 4>Just be like, like every songs, I thought that was hell,

0:36:51.520 --> 0:36:52.000
<v Speaker 4>what you know.

0:36:52.400 --> 0:36:53.240
<v Speaker 1>You didn't look around?

0:36:53.480 --> 0:36:54.799
<v Speaker 4>But look then the same dollar.

0:36:54.840 --> 0:36:58.400
<v Speaker 5>He would be like this fortnight he went over her

0:36:58.480 --> 0:37:00.879
<v Speaker 5>whole anatomy with that one dollar bill.

0:37:01.080 --> 0:37:04.080
<v Speaker 4>The entire song got corrected and one night.

0:37:04.000 --> 0:37:10.640
<v Speaker 3>And he was like, okay, he had less regrets. In

0:37:10.680 --> 0:37:13.080
<v Speaker 3>the morning, he did, Yeah, I'm.

0:37:12.960 --> 0:37:15.880
<v Speaker 1>Talking about I went we were filming.

0:37:16.320 --> 0:37:19.000
<v Speaker 5>Squad cares or d all Way asked one time virtually

0:37:19.640 --> 0:37:22.319
<v Speaker 5>and he had his camera on. I was like, there, boy,

0:37:22.640 --> 0:37:24.399
<v Speaker 5>you're finna do some washingt or something like that, because

0:37:24.400 --> 0:37:26.160
<v Speaker 5>the stacking ones like on the desk.

0:37:26.000 --> 0:37:26.480
<v Speaker 1>And I saw it.

0:37:26.800 --> 0:37:29.600
<v Speaker 5>He's, oh, no, I'm sad to say. I'm like what

0:37:29.760 --> 0:37:31.719
<v Speaker 5>He's like, he's the same ones from Atlanta. It was

0:37:31.760 --> 0:37:32.800
<v Speaker 5>like two years later.

0:37:32.680 --> 0:37:35.080
<v Speaker 4>It's still there. Not two years it's still there.

0:37:36.200 --> 0:37:38.200
<v Speaker 1>It's still a rainy day.

0:37:40.120 --> 0:37:40.319
<v Speaker 4>Boy.

0:37:40.520 --> 0:37:41.239
<v Speaker 3>He's from l A.

0:37:42.560 --> 0:37:44.480
<v Speaker 1>Never go to this strip club with Patrick.

0:37:44.840 --> 0:37:49.120
<v Speaker 3>Halfway through, I just I those is that dollar bills

0:37:49.160 --> 0:37:49.840
<v Speaker 3>on your underwears?

0:37:51.320 --> 0:37:52.680
<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, damn, that's ironic.

0:37:53.760 --> 0:37:57.600
<v Speaker 3>I was like, now that you telling this story money

0:37:57.640 --> 0:38:00.759
<v Speaker 3>and I want to now all on my underwear and

0:38:00.840 --> 0:38:03.080
<v Speaker 3>I made them apparel, xerox them.

0:38:04.600 --> 0:38:06.080
<v Speaker 1>I decided I wanted to keep it.

0:38:07.160 --> 0:38:09.680
<v Speaker 4>Y'all don't want to see pasts. It's only fans.

0:38:09.880 --> 0:38:15.480
<v Speaker 1>Is JG. Went Worth, it's my money. I want to know.

0:38:16.440 --> 0:38:17.080
<v Speaker 4>That's so crazy.

0:38:17.320 --> 0:38:18.879
<v Speaker 6>I did nothing with that stack. I might as well

0:38:18.960 --> 0:38:22.600
<v Speaker 6>thrown it. It's just in a drawer, but I have it,

0:38:22.760 --> 0:38:23.800
<v Speaker 6>I have access to it.

0:38:25.160 --> 0:38:28.520
<v Speaker 1>Wow, that's a good side. I did throw. What's your clip?

0:38:28.560 --> 0:38:29.120
<v Speaker 1>Did y'all go to.

0:38:32.640 --> 0:38:34.080
<v Speaker 4>No blue magic?

0:38:34.880 --> 0:38:38.479
<v Speaker 3>Blue flame, blue flame magic? Is it fucking crack you guys?

0:38:38.560 --> 0:38:39.600
<v Speaker 1>Listen? Magic City?

0:38:41.920 --> 0:38:45.120
<v Speaker 4>Are you ready for trigger away or churches want to

0:38:45.120 --> 0:38:45.600
<v Speaker 4>be triggered?

0:38:46.800 --> 0:38:47.200
<v Speaker 1>Oh my god?

0:38:47.200 --> 0:38:49.120
<v Speaker 3>Do we need to do a sm R churches? We

0:38:49.239 --> 0:38:50.600
<v Speaker 3>live in the valley. Where the fuck are we gonna

0:38:50.600 --> 0:38:52.440
<v Speaker 3>get churches? It's not one in the twenty male radius?

0:38:53.440 --> 0:38:59.520
<v Speaker 3>Probably Google where's the close do it?

0:38:59.600 --> 0:39:00.040
<v Speaker 4>Let me know if.

0:39:01.480 --> 0:39:08.120
<v Speaker 1>And religion word that comes to mind?

0:39:08.440 --> 0:39:08.839
<v Speaker 4>First thing?

0:39:11.719 --> 0:39:12.279
<v Speaker 3>Come on? Ye?

0:39:15.800 --> 0:39:21.359
<v Speaker 1>Okay, church urch, chicken, churches.

0:39:25.160 --> 0:39:25.480
<v Speaker 4>Chicken?

0:39:30.440 --> 0:39:40.600
<v Speaker 6>Oh my god, aliens real amazing, feminism awesome, great, yeah,

0:39:40.680 --> 0:39:41.280
<v Speaker 6>the best.

0:39:42.960 --> 0:39:43.479
<v Speaker 3>You're lying.

0:39:44.640 --> 0:39:47.680
<v Speaker 1>Patriarchy hy it?

0:39:48.640 --> 0:39:52.360
<v Speaker 4>I guess birth overrated?

0:39:53.080 --> 0:40:00.120
<v Speaker 3>Overrated? Nigga, you were birst, crowded, don't even care crowded, crowded, fatherhood.

0:40:01.840 --> 0:40:07.279
<v Speaker 4>Necessary Nope, oh no, no kids for you.

0:40:07.280 --> 0:40:13.960
<v Speaker 1>You're done, I mean never you have kids? Okay? Love, language, time,

0:40:16.840 --> 0:40:31.120
<v Speaker 1>act service, the Internet, exhausting, scary, cannabis relaxing, all right, backwards? Amazing?

0:40:33.200 --> 0:40:34.359
<v Speaker 4>Oh is this one of them.

0:40:34.960 --> 0:40:42.000
<v Speaker 5>Uh uh, trusted amongst the ball smokers. We're gonna keep

0:40:42.000 --> 0:40:43.319
<v Speaker 5>it going for We're gonna get that back.

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<v Speaker 1>Polyamory hm fun when done right?

0:40:50.280 --> 0:40:50.720
<v Speaker 4>Unsure?

0:40:51.600 --> 0:40:56.239
<v Speaker 1>How does one do polyamory write? I think it's important to.

0:40:58.200 --> 0:41:01.400
<v Speaker 5>Have the conversations that are necessary to go into that

0:41:01.520 --> 0:41:03.480
<v Speaker 5>with the right mindset and make sure that you're doing

0:41:03.480 --> 0:41:06.560
<v Speaker 5>it for the right regals. Both partners, I think, should

0:41:06.600 --> 0:41:10.359
<v Speaker 5>have to be equally invested in it, even if they're

0:41:10.520 --> 0:41:13.840
<v Speaker 5>like their dynamic is different, but both people have to be.

0:41:14.040 --> 0:41:15.840
<v Speaker 5>They can be one person doing it just because the

0:41:15.840 --> 0:41:17.160
<v Speaker 5>other person wants to do it. It's not gonna work

0:41:17.239 --> 0:41:17.360
<v Speaker 5>like that.

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<v Speaker 1>And you have you ever explored polyamory?

0:41:21.239 --> 0:41:21.439
<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>And did you enjoy it?

0:41:23.360 --> 0:41:23.520
<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

0:41:23.560 --> 0:41:24.560
<v Speaker 4>It was? It was cool.

0:41:24.680 --> 0:41:27.120
<v Speaker 6>I think that it has to come with a lot

0:41:27.160 --> 0:41:30.440
<v Speaker 6>of communication, like to hear we're saying. And I did

0:41:30.480 --> 0:41:32.360
<v Speaker 6>it when I was like a little bit younger, so

0:41:32.480 --> 0:41:34.719
<v Speaker 6>I didn't I wasn't really like good at that part

0:41:34.760 --> 0:41:36.440
<v Speaker 6>of it, so it didn't work out.

0:41:36.520 --> 0:41:39.080
<v Speaker 3>But I see the are you good at it now

0:41:39.440 --> 0:41:40.880
<v Speaker 3>now that you're much older and wiser?

0:41:41.040 --> 0:41:41.800
<v Speaker 4>I feel like I would be.

0:41:41.960 --> 0:41:45.560
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, are you in a relationship? No single about you?

0:41:46.680 --> 0:41:47.239
<v Speaker 4>Yeah? I'm rried.

0:41:48.719 --> 0:41:58.040
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm mess black man king, strong, white man there.

0:41:59.239 --> 0:42:04.360
<v Speaker 6>Thief, white woman, wife of the thief, careful, wife of

0:42:04.480 --> 0:42:06.439
<v Speaker 6>the thief, wife of the thief.

0:42:06.560 --> 0:42:08.880
<v Speaker 4>That sounds like a book that.

0:42:11.640 --> 0:42:12.680
<v Speaker 3>Careful, careful?

0:42:13.680 --> 0:42:14.600
<v Speaker 4>Is it one word or just whatever?

0:42:17.239 --> 0:42:18.000
<v Speaker 3>Do you date white woman?

0:42:18.080 --> 0:42:22.239
<v Speaker 4>Patrick? I've never done it, but I've smashed experienced.

0:42:22.360 --> 0:42:24.120
<v Speaker 1>Yes, favorite food.

0:42:25.560 --> 0:42:33.640
<v Speaker 5>Mexican facos, I would say, Mexican, Yeah, guilty. Pleasure masturbating necket.

0:42:35.040 --> 0:42:36.759
<v Speaker 1>What because take it all over?

0:42:36.960 --> 0:42:38.080
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, like most of the times.

0:42:37.920 --> 0:42:40.719
<v Speaker 1>We masturbate is is it's a quick fix. You know,

0:42:41.080 --> 0:42:42.560
<v Speaker 1>cans are just down. You know what I'm saying, You

0:42:42.640 --> 0:42:43.640
<v Speaker 1>got one leg out.

0:42:43.840 --> 0:42:46.480
<v Speaker 4>Doing a quick you know? And always yeah, I do

0:42:46.680 --> 0:42:49.200
<v Speaker 4>standing up. I'm always weirdedout bout people like, yes, I

0:42:49.320 --> 0:42:51.759
<v Speaker 4>lay down or sit down or jack off. I'm like,

0:42:51.840 --> 0:42:52.560
<v Speaker 4>how do you do that?

0:42:52.760 --> 0:42:55.560
<v Speaker 3>Women don't have the privilege of like standing and.

0:42:56.880 --> 0:42:58.560
<v Speaker 4>Talking about I can't.

0:42:58.800 --> 0:43:01.239
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, you absolutely can't stand up, put one leg up there,

0:43:01.840 --> 0:43:04.920
<v Speaker 5>do a deep squat like a farmer and put the headphones.

0:43:07.280 --> 0:43:11.360
<v Speaker 4>Go DJ. But yeah, like masserbating fully naked.

0:43:11.600 --> 0:43:13.600
<v Speaker 5>And I recently got into like toys, so like I

0:43:13.719 --> 0:43:16.400
<v Speaker 5>have this egg thing now because for years I just

0:43:16.560 --> 0:43:17.800
<v Speaker 5>was a dry jacker.

0:43:18.160 --> 0:43:21.319
<v Speaker 1>I never used. I never did anything.

0:43:21.040 --> 0:43:23.120
<v Speaker 5>Because I just didn't want to clean up using when

0:43:23.120 --> 0:43:23.800
<v Speaker 5>I was jacking.

0:43:24.520 --> 0:43:26.359
<v Speaker 3>Right, huh, just the clean up either way.

0:43:26.560 --> 0:43:28.920
<v Speaker 1>But low shit is weird because it like mixes with everything.

0:43:29.200 --> 0:43:31.200
<v Speaker 4>Yeahry jacker too.

0:43:31.280 --> 0:43:33.399
<v Speaker 1>I jack off right in the toilet. It falls in there.

0:43:33.440 --> 0:43:35.680
<v Speaker 4>I take a little tissue time.

0:43:35.760 --> 0:43:38.759
<v Speaker 1>Women have been lathering our hands up and spinning on things.

0:43:38.840 --> 0:43:40.799
<v Speaker 1>We could just drive jack. Well, here's the thing.

0:43:40.960 --> 0:43:43.359
<v Speaker 5>I drive jack because I know what gets me there.

0:43:43.440 --> 0:43:45.960
<v Speaker 5>I got the right video cued up. I get jack off,

0:43:46.000 --> 0:43:47.120
<v Speaker 5>and I can be done too many.

0:43:47.200 --> 0:43:47.839
<v Speaker 1>That's a good point.

0:43:47.960 --> 0:43:49.319
<v Speaker 4>Yeah you can't.

0:43:49.440 --> 0:43:52.439
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, you don't know my rhythm the same way guys

0:43:52.560 --> 0:43:54.560
<v Speaker 5>don't know y'all rhythm like that, And y'all can get there,

0:43:54.600 --> 0:43:58.000
<v Speaker 5>probably faster doing it yourselves than than a man doing it.

0:43:58.760 --> 0:44:00.560
<v Speaker 4>But I reasonly got into like the egg and I

0:44:00.760 --> 0:44:02.040
<v Speaker 4>have my loop. I put it in there.

0:44:02.719 --> 0:44:04.280
<v Speaker 3>You're doing a grown up jacking off.

0:44:04.760 --> 0:44:06.520
<v Speaker 1>Like I've been jacking off with glasses on, lady.

0:44:06.840 --> 0:44:09.640
<v Speaker 3>Because you're such an adult, I am stand on and

0:44:09.719 --> 0:44:10.600
<v Speaker 3>your egg, I would.

0:44:11.719 --> 0:44:14.320
<v Speaker 4>It just a sweater van, I don't put the shirt underneath,

0:44:14.360 --> 0:44:15.480
<v Speaker 4>but that sweel.

0:44:16.800 --> 0:44:20.440
<v Speaker 1>Can you send a snippet, what's your guilty pleasure.

0:44:22.440 --> 0:44:27.319
<v Speaker 6>I gotta start going first, I gotta start going. It's

0:44:27.360 --> 0:44:32.920
<v Speaker 6>gotta be like a builder, I would say. I would say, eating.

0:44:32.800 --> 0:44:33.680
<v Speaker 4>Late, eating.

0:44:35.800 --> 0:44:39.520
<v Speaker 1>Up. You already did it, babe, my guilty pleasure, Yeah,

0:44:39.800 --> 0:44:40.560
<v Speaker 1>jacket standing.

0:44:41.960 --> 0:44:42.959
<v Speaker 4>You wanted to throw another?

0:44:43.680 --> 0:44:44.239
<v Speaker 3>What's your other one?

0:44:44.280 --> 0:44:46.200
<v Speaker 4>Go ahead sending up videos while I say the nag.

0:44:47.680 --> 0:44:51.040
<v Speaker 3>You like to send that videos while saying bitches names. Yeah,

0:44:51.520 --> 0:44:53.440
<v Speaker 3>that per request and that's just your request.

0:44:53.480 --> 0:44:54.080
<v Speaker 4>I would never do that.

0:44:55.880 --> 0:45:00.320
<v Speaker 1>Crazy crazy, But that's like so multiple women have quested

0:45:00.360 --> 0:45:01.319
<v Speaker 1>that of you, or you have.

0:45:01.400 --> 0:45:02.520
<v Speaker 4>Like a menu, he suggests.

0:45:02.520 --> 0:45:04.200
<v Speaker 1>W You're like, these are the options. No, no, no,

0:45:04.400 --> 0:45:05.440
<v Speaker 1>not people like me to know.

0:45:06.960 --> 0:45:10.080
<v Speaker 3>You know you can, like you can pay somebody to

0:45:10.200 --> 0:45:12.480
<v Speaker 3>say happy birthday to you, but that's an only fans requests, like,

0:45:12.480 --> 0:45:14.799
<v Speaker 3>but like people don't only fans like you pay extra

0:45:14.920 --> 0:45:16.000
<v Speaker 3>to get them to say your name.

0:45:16.080 --> 0:45:17.400
<v Speaker 1>That's why it's very specific.

0:45:17.960 --> 0:45:19.400
<v Speaker 4>My first lady was the first person, that.

0:45:21.160 --> 0:45:23.920
<v Speaker 3>First lady of the church, really of your church that

0:45:24.040 --> 0:45:26.920
<v Speaker 3>you went to grew up in churches, not the pastors.

0:45:27.040 --> 0:45:31.239
<v Speaker 3>Why not the pastor's wife you were you were fulling

0:45:31.280 --> 0:45:32.120
<v Speaker 3>around with the pastor's wife.

0:45:32.440 --> 0:45:33.719
<v Speaker 4>No, no, no, no, she worked the fire.

0:45:35.640 --> 0:45:39.560
<v Speaker 5>The first lady churches churches church or churches chicken mashed

0:45:39.560 --> 0:45:40.080
<v Speaker 5>potatoes in.

0:45:40.120 --> 0:45:44.080
<v Speaker 3>Christ anyway, not mashed potatoes of Christ.

0:45:44.080 --> 0:45:48.560
<v Speaker 1>The first lady of churches is crazy. That's crazy.

0:45:48.640 --> 0:45:50.839
<v Speaker 5>He only takes orders. You can't like gloves, you don't

0:45:50.880 --> 0:45:53.080
<v Speaker 5>do all that cooking. Right there, she moved up.

0:45:53.600 --> 0:45:56.719
<v Speaker 1>It's porn, favorite porn category.

0:45:57.560 --> 0:45:59.000
<v Speaker 4>You the creamy.

0:46:00.800 --> 0:46:01.360
<v Speaker 1>You heard that.

0:46:03.080 --> 0:46:05.719
<v Speaker 3>Pov ebony creamy, I.

0:46:05.719 --> 0:46:09.000
<v Speaker 4>Should say amateur first, amateur pov ebony creamy. Is that

0:46:09.080 --> 0:46:09.520
<v Speaker 4>one video?

0:46:09.680 --> 0:46:11.560
<v Speaker 5>Okay, no, that's those are the categories. So I go,

0:46:11.640 --> 0:46:13.320
<v Speaker 5>I don't even look at the thumb nail ship. I

0:46:13.400 --> 0:46:15.360
<v Speaker 5>go straight to the search bar, put that in amateur

0:46:15.719 --> 0:46:19.120
<v Speaker 5>pov ebony creamy and then wet because it can't just

0:46:19.160 --> 0:46:20.680
<v Speaker 5>be creamy because creamy ship it is just a little

0:46:20.680 --> 0:46:21.759
<v Speaker 5>like like bit you spilled.

0:46:21.560 --> 0:46:22.520
<v Speaker 4>Cake better all up in there.

0:46:22.600 --> 0:46:25.440
<v Speaker 5>So there's creamy and yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah are

0:46:25.440 --> 0:46:26.960
<v Speaker 5>the ones that do it, because like there are people

0:46:27.040 --> 0:46:30.279
<v Speaker 5>that use like they have like the creamy lube that

0:46:30.400 --> 0:46:32.239
<v Speaker 5>you can use like if you are a fan of

0:46:32.360 --> 0:46:34.880
<v Speaker 5>that creamy like look and you know, for the visuals.

0:46:35.280 --> 0:46:38.600
<v Speaker 4>So but sometimes that can mess up to a woman's

0:46:38.600 --> 0:46:39.959
<v Speaker 4>pH so like, oh.

0:46:39.920 --> 0:46:43.160
<v Speaker 3>Ship a creamy lube sounds like no good.

0:46:43.239 --> 0:46:44.960
<v Speaker 1>I cannot wait to hear yours. What is it?

0:46:45.239 --> 0:46:45.439
<v Speaker 3>Why?

0:46:46.920 --> 0:46:50.000
<v Speaker 1>Why it's like the Yan and the Yang because you

0:46:50.080 --> 0:46:50.759
<v Speaker 1>didn't go first?

0:46:51.440 --> 0:46:51.640
<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

0:46:52.320 --> 0:46:55.880
<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, Can you start first so we can have

0:46:56.040 --> 0:46:57.799
<v Speaker 1>like an uplid. Okay, let's switch now.

0:46:59.600 --> 0:47:01.520
<v Speaker 5>First all, I just want to say that my ship

0:47:01.600 --> 0:47:05.000
<v Speaker 5>sounds wild because it's mainly like sex center. Pat lives

0:47:05.040 --> 0:47:07.799
<v Speaker 5>a crazy fucking life, y'all just not answering the white question.

0:47:08.239 --> 0:47:09.640
<v Speaker 4>When we worked it all day together.

0:47:10.160 --> 0:47:12.719
<v Speaker 5>Everybody in the office would come in on Monday and

0:47:12.800 --> 0:47:14.280
<v Speaker 5>be like, did y'all see pasts Instagram?

0:47:14.640 --> 0:47:15.680
<v Speaker 3>Hat was a crazy life?

0:47:15.760 --> 0:47:17.960
<v Speaker 1>This part right here, Pat was what I mean. It's

0:47:18.040 --> 0:47:19.960
<v Speaker 1>just but it's just a different.

0:47:19.760 --> 0:47:21.400
<v Speaker 3>Seven dollars at the shrimp club.

0:47:23.560 --> 0:47:24.200
<v Speaker 1>This episode.

0:47:25.960 --> 0:47:28.960
<v Speaker 5>It's it's at different areas that he ventured, like like

0:47:29.040 --> 0:47:32.000
<v Speaker 5>he went to the fucking desert and did real life

0:47:32.040 --> 0:47:35.520
<v Speaker 5>fruit Ninjer had swords and him and his cousin were

0:47:35.560 --> 0:47:38.920
<v Speaker 5>throwing fruit at each other and actually just filming it, like.

0:47:39.040 --> 0:47:42.359
<v Speaker 1>Really slicing watermelons in handlopes.

0:47:42.200 --> 0:47:46.759
<v Speaker 4>Bananas kiwis to no, we were cutting them, threw them

0:47:46.800 --> 0:47:47.000
<v Speaker 4>in like.

0:47:49.280 --> 0:47:52.560
<v Speaker 3>No, no, it was just fun, brite, that down to

0:47:52.640 --> 0:47:52.759
<v Speaker 3>do that.

0:47:54.560 --> 0:47:55.440
<v Speaker 1>Fierce oceans.

0:47:55.680 --> 0:47:58.759
<v Speaker 4>And then one weekend was just on this stupid, big

0:47:58.840 --> 0:47:59.359
<v Speaker 4>ass yacht.

0:47:59.480 --> 0:48:02.520
<v Speaker 5>We're like eighty chicks. I was like, I thought you

0:48:02.600 --> 0:48:04.880
<v Speaker 5>hate the water. He was like, yeah, but it was

0:48:04.880 --> 0:48:07.920
<v Speaker 5>a yacht. Yeah, you're not in the water, you know

0:48:07.960 --> 0:48:08.239
<v Speaker 5>what I mean.

0:48:08.560 --> 0:48:09.920
<v Speaker 4>It's pretty. It's a few.

0:48:14.320 --> 0:48:18.520
<v Speaker 6>I usually go for amateur. Also, POV is cool. People

0:48:18.560 --> 0:48:23.000
<v Speaker 6>be getting too close. I'm too close. I feel like

0:48:23.280 --> 0:48:26.320
<v Speaker 6>POV you have to have kind of like a director's

0:48:26.360 --> 0:48:28.400
<v Speaker 6>mindset because people would just be like all, like, I

0:48:28.400 --> 0:48:28.680
<v Speaker 6>don't know.

0:48:28.760 --> 0:48:30.440
<v Speaker 4>I just I feel like it's it's not shocked.

0:48:30.239 --> 0:48:33.359
<v Speaker 3>Very well POV professional POV.

0:48:33.239 --> 0:48:37.480
<v Speaker 1>Like you know, strategic, strategic POV POV. I like, I

0:48:37.600 --> 0:48:38.600
<v Speaker 1>like looking up group stuff.

0:48:38.680 --> 0:48:38.840
<v Speaker 4>You know.

0:48:39.560 --> 0:48:41.200
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, after life.

0:48:43.000 --> 0:48:43.880
<v Speaker 4>It was still triggered.

0:48:44.000 --> 0:48:45.000
<v Speaker 1>Yes, after life.

0:48:45.080 --> 0:48:54.560
<v Speaker 4>Oh uh hmm, that's a good one. Nothing really came

0:48:54.600 --> 0:48:59.880
<v Speaker 4>to mind. I guess I hope.

0:49:02.840 --> 0:49:04.320
<v Speaker 1>You hope that you make it to the afterlife.

0:49:05.200 --> 0:49:05.760
<v Speaker 4>This one.

0:49:12.640 --> 0:49:13.200
<v Speaker 1>Sounds fun.

0:49:14.360 --> 0:49:21.600
<v Speaker 4>He he uh, great time, no problems over here, no

0:49:21.800 --> 0:49:24.400
<v Speaker 4>problem care important.

0:49:24.120 --> 0:49:25.640
<v Speaker 1>Essential retention.

0:49:26.320 --> 0:49:33.200
<v Speaker 4>Stupid as fuck. Actually I get it, Hm, I get it.

0:49:33.560 --> 0:49:34.400
<v Speaker 4>I understand it now.

0:49:34.560 --> 0:49:37.040
<v Speaker 1>Not stupid as fuck, stupid as fuck.

0:49:37.320 --> 0:49:41.719
<v Speaker 5>I just I just saw this one and I had

0:49:41.760 --> 0:49:43.279
<v Speaker 5>to screenshot it because I was gonna make a video

0:49:43.360 --> 0:49:43.680
<v Speaker 5>about this.

0:49:44.320 --> 0:49:45.600
<v Speaker 1>And I was like, it's a real thing, though I

0:49:45.680 --> 0:49:47.040
<v Speaker 1>tried it this year. Yeah, no, I hear it.

0:49:48.400 --> 0:49:49.920
<v Speaker 3>And and how what happened when you tried it? While

0:49:49.920 --> 0:49:51.360
<v Speaker 3>he's looking at the video? Did you find it?

0:49:52.239 --> 0:49:53.239
<v Speaker 4>Yeah? But it wasn't the video.

0:49:53.239 --> 0:49:55.719
<v Speaker 5>It's just I think I love having sexual attension more

0:49:55.800 --> 0:49:57.279
<v Speaker 5>than actually engaging in the act.

0:49:57.320 --> 0:49:59.920
<v Speaker 3>And I was just like, that's not that's not seman retention.

0:50:00.040 --> 0:50:00.200
<v Speaker 6>I know.

0:50:00.320 --> 0:50:03.040
<v Speaker 1>I just I mean along the lines of I was like,

0:50:03.120 --> 0:50:04.880
<v Speaker 1>have you never had blue balls? So you don't know

0:50:04.960 --> 0:50:06.239
<v Speaker 1>the pain balls?

0:50:07.280 --> 0:50:10.560
<v Speaker 4>You said are not real? Oh, because you've had balls before,

0:50:10.640 --> 0:50:14.000
<v Speaker 4>so you've had Okay, then up telling me that blue

0:50:14.040 --> 0:50:14.719
<v Speaker 4>balls ain't real.

0:50:14.920 --> 0:50:17.799
<v Speaker 1>I have balls all my life. I've been clothed burning

0:50:17.880 --> 0:50:18.680
<v Speaker 1>since I was nine.

0:50:18.760 --> 0:50:21.680
<v Speaker 4>Oh, so you're telling us how to work our bodies, right.

0:50:23.239 --> 0:50:25.520
<v Speaker 4>People are like Femininem grosses the line you can't you

0:50:25.680 --> 0:50:29.239
<v Speaker 4>don't don't do that. It don't do no, No, I'm good.

0:50:29.640 --> 0:50:30.319
<v Speaker 4>I ain't even smoke.

0:50:30.360 --> 0:50:32.399
<v Speaker 1>Before I would smoke, but I don't want to get

0:50:32.440 --> 0:50:35.880
<v Speaker 1>nobody sick. Blue balls is not a medical condition.

0:50:35.960 --> 0:50:37.960
<v Speaker 3>You, guys, you're not going to have any side effects

0:50:38.000 --> 0:50:43.520
<v Speaker 3>if you have to mid Broner not finish, ladies. Blue

0:50:43.560 --> 0:50:45.200
<v Speaker 3>balls is not real. Do not let niggas.

0:50:45.360 --> 0:50:48.280
<v Speaker 1>Disappointment is in a medical condition either, But it still happens.

0:50:50.480 --> 0:50:51.080
<v Speaker 3>Disappointment.

0:50:51.200 --> 0:50:54.520
<v Speaker 1>No, it is an actual pain. It's an actual pain.

0:50:55.040 --> 0:50:59.160
<v Speaker 5>It's like a build up of that imagine. So it's

0:50:59.160 --> 0:51:03.400
<v Speaker 5>a million nuts, right, a million nuts right here. They

0:51:03.600 --> 0:51:06.120
<v Speaker 5>already in the shaft, them niggas is in the train,

0:51:06.560 --> 0:51:08.080
<v Speaker 5>and then they see they stop and they.

0:51:08.160 --> 0:51:10.160
<v Speaker 4>Trying to get off the train, but you're like, okay

0:51:10.320 --> 0:51:12.160
<v Speaker 4>right now, and they just piling up.

0:51:12.239 --> 0:51:14.200
<v Speaker 1>That's what it feels like. It's very painful.

0:51:14.320 --> 0:51:16.160
<v Speaker 5>And even when you jack off after you have blue

0:51:16.200 --> 0:51:19.000
<v Speaker 5>balls for too long, you still experience that discomfort. Blue

0:51:19.040 --> 0:51:20.440
<v Speaker 5>balls is absolutely a real thing.

0:51:21.320 --> 0:51:24.000
<v Speaker 1>Martin, Fuck you, Fuck you.

0:51:24.120 --> 0:51:25.680
<v Speaker 4>I almost called you a bitch because I see what

0:51:25.719 --> 0:51:26.960
<v Speaker 4>you're trying to do. You're trying to push them over

0:51:26.960 --> 0:51:32.360
<v Speaker 4>the edge. Biggest regret, Oh, biggest regret.

0:51:33.840 --> 0:51:47.680
<v Speaker 6>Uh, bad negotiations, people, please, A biggest accomplishment, hm, biggest accomplishment.

0:51:54.280 --> 0:51:56.120
<v Speaker 1>I don't know you can go first on this one.

0:51:56.480 --> 0:51:57.280
<v Speaker 4>Betting on myself.

0:51:57.960 --> 0:51:59.319
<v Speaker 1>I was gonna say that but I was like, they

0:51:59.400 --> 0:51:59.920
<v Speaker 1>just don't say that.

0:52:00.040 --> 0:52:04.120
<v Speaker 6>It wos to say the first thing that comes to mind.

0:52:04.360 --> 0:52:06.320
<v Speaker 3>But I feel like y'all are looking for spicy stuff,

0:52:06.360 --> 0:52:10.120
<v Speaker 3>and I don't go today for your truest answer.

0:52:10.520 --> 0:52:12.400
<v Speaker 1>There's no there's no batter good answer.

0:52:13.840 --> 0:52:15.920
<v Speaker 4>Yeah. I was gonna say, take it a risk and

0:52:16.000 --> 0:52:16.279
<v Speaker 4>with it.

0:52:16.480 --> 0:52:18.120
<v Speaker 1>Pet Peeve. It's not people pleasing.

0:52:18.360 --> 0:52:27.400
<v Speaker 6>Oh you're right right, Pet Peeve, Pet Peeve, just I

0:52:27.440 --> 0:52:31.440
<v Speaker 6>don't know people who like people who like suck their

0:52:31.480 --> 0:52:34.960
<v Speaker 6>teeth loud, very.

0:52:34.880 --> 0:52:42.160
<v Speaker 3>Specific, you hang around Jamaican childhood, Grandma.

0:52:43.280 --> 0:52:50.120
<v Speaker 4>Done black or this thing. Okay, now I'm hitting home.

0:52:50.480 --> 0:52:53.759
<v Speaker 1>I hate that. There you go. Do you hear me?

0:52:53.880 --> 0:52:57.680
<v Speaker 1>That person who's listening, who fucking does that style doing it?

0:52:57.800 --> 0:52:59.040
<v Speaker 1>It's fucking disgusting.

0:53:00.040 --> 0:53:00.320
<v Speaker 3>Stop.

0:53:00.880 --> 0:53:03.000
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, what's your pet peeve?

0:53:03.040 --> 0:53:03.239
<v Speaker 1>To hear?

0:53:04.800 --> 0:53:05.640
<v Speaker 4>How much time do we have?

0:53:07.040 --> 0:53:07.880
<v Speaker 1>How much time do you have?

0:53:08.120 --> 0:53:09.880
<v Speaker 4>Is the question a lot tardiness?

0:53:10.320 --> 0:53:14.200
<v Speaker 1>Tardiness she's looking at us because we're more starting sorry.

0:53:14.680 --> 0:53:19.759
<v Speaker 4>Uh, people who burp loudly, farting loud.

0:53:20.400 --> 0:53:23.680
<v Speaker 3>That didn't yeah that now like both of those things.

0:53:23.800 --> 0:53:25.920
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I feel like people are more prone to burp

0:53:26.040 --> 0:53:28.560
<v Speaker 5>than they are far like far as like genially accidental,

0:53:28.600 --> 0:53:30.840
<v Speaker 5>but people were like, I couldn't stop it an't for.

0:53:30.880 --> 0:53:34.320
<v Speaker 4>The come, yes, the did you had two fucking soldiers.

0:53:34.360 --> 0:53:37.160
<v Speaker 5>You didn't know that all that fucking bubbles just gonna

0:53:37.160 --> 0:53:38.520
<v Speaker 5>come up burping proudly.

0:53:40.239 --> 0:53:40.879
<v Speaker 3>Especially women.

0:53:41.800 --> 0:53:44.759
<v Speaker 1>It's making me want to burp now, making you want

0:53:45.160 --> 0:53:46.239
<v Speaker 1>trying to bur gonna throw up?

0:53:46.280 --> 0:53:48.080
<v Speaker 4>Now that cut it out. You just said it was sick,

0:53:48.160 --> 0:53:49.680
<v Speaker 4>you know, your little soft slub ass.

0:53:50.440 --> 0:53:52.480
<v Speaker 1>That didn't even that, said burber loudly. You could do

0:53:52.600 --> 0:53:55.600
<v Speaker 1>that on cue Q as a kid.

0:53:55.640 --> 0:53:58.399
<v Speaker 4>Because I was hanging with my my cousin, my boy cousin.

0:53:59.600 --> 0:54:05.160
<v Speaker 4>Just pull back the air. Oh my god, see I

0:54:05.239 --> 0:54:05.680
<v Speaker 4>gross it in.

0:54:08.320 --> 0:54:08.960
<v Speaker 1>Okay, what's up?

0:54:10.440 --> 0:54:11.040
<v Speaker 4>That's crazy?

0:54:12.880 --> 0:54:18.800
<v Speaker 6>Monogamy beautiful if if that's for you and it's with

0:54:18.880 --> 0:54:20.640
<v Speaker 6>the right person, could you be monogamous?

0:54:20.880 --> 0:54:21.080
<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

0:54:21.160 --> 0:54:23.759
<v Speaker 1>Do you enjoy monogamy? Like long term?

0:54:24.200 --> 0:54:25.920
<v Speaker 5>I think if it's with the right person, I think

0:54:26.200 --> 0:54:30.680
<v Speaker 5>anything is beautiful enough. And also like if y'all are like,

0:54:30.840 --> 0:54:32.560
<v Speaker 5>I have a lifestyle that requires me to be out

0:54:32.560 --> 0:54:34.840
<v Speaker 5>a lot, right, but if I'm anagurism with my person

0:54:35.040 --> 0:54:37.440
<v Speaker 5>and I know, like I have high sexual andnergo, I

0:54:37.480 --> 0:54:38.719
<v Speaker 5>just want my person with me all the time.

0:54:38.920 --> 0:54:39.440
<v Speaker 1>Someone want to.

0:54:39.440 --> 0:54:41.680
<v Speaker 4>Grab that booty and we can still observe beautiful people.

0:54:41.680 --> 0:54:43.200
<v Speaker 5>I'm like, damn, she thinks, fuck you know what I'm saying,

0:54:43.480 --> 0:54:45.400
<v Speaker 5>But like we know that what we got right here

0:54:45.480 --> 0:54:48.000
<v Speaker 5>is so solid, like we can be Monogoy allows you

0:54:48.840 --> 0:54:52.719
<v Speaker 5>the ability to be completely nasty with that one person, right,

0:54:52.800 --> 0:54:54.640
<v Speaker 5>But that is very difficult to do because a lot

0:54:54.680 --> 0:54:57.640
<v Speaker 5>of times it's easier for us to be super nasty

0:54:57.760 --> 0:55:00.840
<v Speaker 5>with And I'll just say this as a man who's

0:55:00.840 --> 0:55:04.200
<v Speaker 5>talked to other men about this when it comes to

0:55:05.600 --> 0:55:11.480
<v Speaker 5>like sex kind of trailing off or things changing from

0:55:11.680 --> 0:55:13.799
<v Speaker 5>when you get married to when you were dating. It's

0:55:13.840 --> 0:55:18.160
<v Speaker 5>because men see our wives on this pedestal and sometimes

0:55:18.200 --> 0:55:20.800
<v Speaker 5>it feels difficult to do the disrespectful shit we like

0:55:20.880 --> 0:55:23.680
<v Speaker 5>to do to this person that raises our kids and

0:55:23.719 --> 0:55:26.080
<v Speaker 5>co exprekfast to take care of us. And also I've

0:55:26.160 --> 0:55:29.320
<v Speaker 5>shown her the vulnerable side of me, my fears, my ambitions,

0:55:29.360 --> 0:55:31.560
<v Speaker 5>the things that I want to do but haven't done yet.

0:55:31.920 --> 0:55:33.680
<v Speaker 5>Like we hold you in a different wace, so it's

0:55:33.719 --> 0:55:36.040
<v Speaker 5>hard to like choke you out while come on your

0:55:36.080 --> 0:55:37.719
<v Speaker 5>face and spit in your hair and call you the

0:55:37.760 --> 0:55:39.680
<v Speaker 5>bitch that you want to be because I'll put you

0:55:39.719 --> 0:55:42.279
<v Speaker 5>on this pedestal as this position, right, So it takes

0:55:42.360 --> 0:55:45.720
<v Speaker 5>a lot to make monogamy on that level work because

0:55:45.719 --> 0:55:48.120
<v Speaker 5>you have to be able to acknowledge this to your

0:55:48.200 --> 0:55:50.279
<v Speaker 5>queen and all this. But I all still acknowledge this

0:55:50.360 --> 0:55:52.160
<v Speaker 5>is still my little slut too, And I think that's

0:55:52.200 --> 0:55:54.200
<v Speaker 5>hard for a lot of men to wrap their mind around.

0:55:54.719 --> 0:55:57.319
<v Speaker 5>So I applaud to people that good point or able

0:55:57.400 --> 0:56:01.239
<v Speaker 5>to do that. I believe when I could, you know,

0:56:01.920 --> 0:56:06.080
<v Speaker 5>get to a level I can definitely do that, I.

0:56:06.080 --> 0:56:06.680
<v Speaker 4>Would say.

0:56:09.239 --> 0:56:15.600
<v Speaker 6>Monogamy. I feel like it, it can work, it could work. Situational, situational,

0:56:15.640 --> 0:56:15.880
<v Speaker 6>got it?

0:56:16.080 --> 0:56:16.239
<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

0:56:17.120 --> 0:56:23.759
<v Speaker 1>Therapy necessary? Yeah, yeah yeah.

0:56:23.800 --> 0:56:26.400
<v Speaker 5>I was so anti therapy, I know. I know that

0:56:26.560 --> 0:56:28.320
<v Speaker 5>hurt a couple of years of my marriage because I

0:56:28.480 --> 0:56:33.120
<v Speaker 5>was so anti therapy. I didn't think that talking about

0:56:33.719 --> 0:56:36.840
<v Speaker 5>my problems with someone was beneficial to solving my problems.

0:56:37.400 --> 0:56:40.040
<v Speaker 5>But I also didn't have a healthy view or understanding

0:56:40.080 --> 0:56:44.280
<v Speaker 5>of communication because I associated communication with conflict anytime voices

0:56:44.320 --> 0:56:47.440
<v Speaker 5>would rise, or curse words would use, or there was

0:56:47.480 --> 0:56:49.759
<v Speaker 5>a difference of opinion. Because I grew up seeing my

0:56:49.880 --> 0:56:52.960
<v Speaker 5>aunts and my mom get beat when they oppose the

0:56:53.080 --> 0:56:54.800
<v Speaker 5>man that they was with, and so I didn't have

0:56:54.880 --> 0:56:57.960
<v Speaker 5>any healthy examples of discourse when it came to communication,

0:56:58.360 --> 0:57:00.800
<v Speaker 5>and so, you know, early on with me and my

0:57:00.840 --> 0:57:03.239
<v Speaker 5>wife would getting into it, I would just shut down

0:57:03.960 --> 0:57:06.040
<v Speaker 5>because I didn't I didn't want to be one of

0:57:06.080 --> 0:57:08.000
<v Speaker 5>my uncles or my sister dad.

0:57:08.040 --> 0:57:11.280
<v Speaker 4>And so now I'm shut down and we not talking,

0:57:11.520 --> 0:57:13.240
<v Speaker 4>and it's weird in the house because I'm.

0:57:13.400 --> 0:57:14.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna let you know.

0:57:14.120 --> 0:57:16.600
<v Speaker 5>I'm mad, I'm coming in quiet, i don't want nothing

0:57:16.600 --> 0:57:18.320
<v Speaker 5>to eat, I'm good, I'm going to bed early.

0:57:18.200 --> 0:57:18.680
<v Speaker 4>Whatever, you know.

0:57:18.760 --> 0:57:20.479
<v Speaker 5>And I would keep that going for two three days

0:57:20.760 --> 0:57:23.480
<v Speaker 5>until she would finally, you know, just give in and

0:57:23.600 --> 0:57:25.680
<v Speaker 5>be like fine. And that was so unfair for her

0:57:25.800 --> 0:57:27.760
<v Speaker 5>because she didn't get a chance to address whatever it

0:57:28.040 --> 0:57:30.440
<v Speaker 5>was that she wanted to talk about, whatever it was

0:57:30.560 --> 0:57:33.320
<v Speaker 5>that was pressing enough for her to bring it to me.

0:57:33.520 --> 0:57:37.280
<v Speaker 5>I denied hear that ability. And that's because I wasn't

0:57:37.320 --> 0:57:39.720
<v Speaker 5>in therapy. I was anti therapy. I didn't know how

0:57:39.720 --> 0:57:43.840
<v Speaker 5>to effectively communicate, and that was fucked up. But now

0:57:43.960 --> 0:57:47.400
<v Speaker 5>I'm a big, big advocator and proponent for therapy, and

0:57:47.480 --> 0:57:49.560
<v Speaker 5>I think everyone should do it, even if you ain't

0:57:49.560 --> 0:57:52.000
<v Speaker 5>got nothing going wrong. In your life, get the therapy,

0:57:52.080 --> 0:57:53.479
<v Speaker 5>like do let somebody get in there and pick around

0:57:53.480 --> 0:57:54.520
<v Speaker 5>and ask questions and shit like that.

0:57:55.080 --> 0:57:56.920
<v Speaker 1>So I was very mature of you.

0:58:00.040 --> 0:58:00.720
<v Speaker 4>Is absolutely wrong.

0:58:01.040 --> 0:58:02.440
<v Speaker 3>How many years have you been? How long have you

0:58:02.520 --> 0:58:03.440
<v Speaker 3>been in therapy now?

0:58:05.120 --> 0:58:06.200
<v Speaker 4>Five and a half maybe six?

0:58:06.280 --> 0:58:07.200
<v Speaker 1>Closer to nice?

0:58:07.480 --> 0:58:09.360
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, solid, h.

0:58:11.920 --> 0:58:15.560
<v Speaker 1>You've survived trigger. That's actually really tough.

0:58:19.000 --> 0:58:23.160
<v Speaker 4>The quick thinking I was, I'm gonna call y' I'm

0:58:23.160 --> 0:58:23.720
<v Speaker 4>gonna text y'all.

0:58:23.720 --> 0:58:26.640
<v Speaker 5>I'm like, hey, it's trigger Sidney's words, send me back

0:58:26.720 --> 0:58:27.600
<v Speaker 5>voice immediately.

0:58:28.280 --> 0:58:29.760
<v Speaker 1>In the In regards to therapy, do you guys have

0:58:29.800 --> 0:58:32.920
<v Speaker 1>any affirmations that you guys you know, live by or

0:58:33.240 --> 0:58:35.400
<v Speaker 1>help motivate you on the daily?

0:58:41.400 --> 0:58:44.160
<v Speaker 4>Worrying is like a work rocking chair gives you something

0:58:44.200 --> 0:58:45.200
<v Speaker 4>to do, but get you nowhere.

0:58:46.400 --> 0:58:47.360
<v Speaker 1>Worrying like a rock.

0:58:47.360 --> 0:58:48.280
<v Speaker 3>It is like a rocking chair.

0:58:50.000 --> 0:58:51.160
<v Speaker 4>I'm I'm trying. I've been.

0:58:51.160 --> 0:58:53.200
<v Speaker 5>I've been leaning into that more. I've been leaning into

0:58:55.960 --> 0:58:57.560
<v Speaker 5>If you got a problem and there's something you can

0:58:57.600 --> 0:58:59.560
<v Speaker 5>do about it, don't worry about it. If there's nothing

0:58:59.600 --> 0:59:03.040
<v Speaker 5>to do about don't worry about it. Just kind of

0:59:03.080 --> 0:59:06.080
<v Speaker 5>like letting, letting shit have, Like if if you can,

0:59:06.200 --> 0:59:08.080
<v Speaker 5>if you got a problem that can't be solved within

0:59:08.160 --> 0:59:11.400
<v Speaker 5>twenty four hours, then there's nothing you can do about it.

0:59:11.760 --> 0:59:13.640
<v Speaker 5>You know, you just prepare for it, and you know,

0:59:13.960 --> 0:59:16.240
<v Speaker 5>prepare for whatever the results may be or whatever the

0:59:16.760 --> 0:59:18.640
<v Speaker 5>consequences may be, and then you go from there. And

0:59:18.680 --> 0:59:20.880
<v Speaker 5>I really been trying to lean more into that. And

0:59:20.920 --> 0:59:22.520
<v Speaker 5>even though I've been like going through like a really

0:59:22.960 --> 0:59:25.920
<v Speaker 5>a down pier right now, like I had, I would say,

0:59:25.960 --> 0:59:27.680
<v Speaker 5>this is the most I've been able to lean on

0:59:27.760 --> 0:59:28.600
<v Speaker 5>my friends.

0:59:30.040 --> 0:59:32.720
<v Speaker 4>And like outside of like my my my house unit,

0:59:32.800 --> 0:59:36.720
<v Speaker 4>my family unit, like Pat has been I feel like

0:59:36.760 --> 0:59:38.800
<v Speaker 4>a big brother watching the little brother growing up and

0:59:38.920 --> 0:59:40.800
<v Speaker 4>say he has been texting me and like, hey man,

0:59:40.840 --> 0:59:42.320
<v Speaker 4>you're good. You need anything.

0:59:43.440 --> 0:59:45.680
<v Speaker 5>He's been like, yo, I'll take care to ask this week,

0:59:45.680 --> 0:59:48.840
<v Speaker 5>don't worry about it. Coming over to the crib and

0:59:49.320 --> 0:59:50.880
<v Speaker 5>pulling up to the house just to go with shows

0:59:50.920 --> 0:59:55.680
<v Speaker 5>with me. He's like he's really been just instrumental, instrumental

0:59:55.760 --> 0:59:58.040
<v Speaker 5>in this this this process, in this period of my life.

0:59:58.080 --> 0:59:59.919
<v Speaker 5>And the same thing with my boy Dion Man Dion

1:00:00.040 --> 1:00:02.240
<v Speaker 5>and Will pull He pulled up on me one time

1:00:02.320 --> 1:00:03.800
<v Speaker 5>it was like let's go walk against some hot dogs.

1:00:03.840 --> 1:00:04.520
<v Speaker 4>I was like, you do it?

1:00:04.680 --> 1:00:10.320
<v Speaker 5>Bitch, because a lot of times when you're going through

1:00:10.320 --> 1:00:14.280
<v Speaker 5>something that's depressed, when people hit you up and like yo,

1:00:14.360 --> 1:00:14.840
<v Speaker 5>what do you need?

1:00:14.960 --> 1:00:15.440
<v Speaker 4>Like we don't know.

1:00:16.560 --> 1:00:18.400
<v Speaker 5>I don't know what I need when I'm down like that,

1:00:18.480 --> 1:00:20.320
<v Speaker 5>I don't know what will make me feel better. But

1:00:20.400 --> 1:00:22.160
<v Speaker 5>sometimes pulling up on me and be like, oh, let's

1:00:22.160 --> 1:00:23.920
<v Speaker 5>get out the house. I won't want to tell you

1:00:24.000 --> 1:00:25.440
<v Speaker 5>no because I know you took the time out to

1:00:25.800 --> 1:00:26.440
<v Speaker 5>come over, so.

1:00:26.840 --> 1:00:27.960
<v Speaker 4>I'm like, let's do it.

1:00:28.280 --> 1:00:29.960
<v Speaker 1>That's the thing about depression, because I feel like I

1:00:30.320 --> 1:00:32.040
<v Speaker 1>was moving through that a lot in the last like

1:00:32.320 --> 1:00:34.920
<v Speaker 1>i'd say, on and off two years, and like that

1:00:35.120 --> 1:00:37.280
<v Speaker 1>question coming up around, like what is it? What do

1:00:37.360 --> 1:00:39.760
<v Speaker 1>you need? It's like, nigga, I don't know. And I

1:00:39.800 --> 1:00:42.600
<v Speaker 1>think that's almost like sometimes the most triggering question you

1:00:42.640 --> 1:00:45.280
<v Speaker 1>can ask somebody who's moving through some sort of like

1:00:45.880 --> 1:00:48.240
<v Speaker 1>up and down and emotion and depression, because it makes

1:00:48.280 --> 1:00:52.520
<v Speaker 1>you feel even less in control, in control, and just

1:00:52.680 --> 1:00:58.520
<v Speaker 1>like like week week and just like I don't don't

1:00:58.600 --> 1:01:00.520
<v Speaker 1>you have nothing you there's no way out of it.

1:01:00.800 --> 1:01:04.080
<v Speaker 1>You don't even know the path out. So that's really

1:01:04.480 --> 1:01:06.400
<v Speaker 1>great that you have each other in that way. And

1:01:06.440 --> 1:01:08.520
<v Speaker 1>I feel like a lot of men. I feel like

1:01:08.560 --> 1:01:11.240
<v Speaker 1>I'm grateful for the men that I have in my

1:01:11.360 --> 1:01:14.280
<v Speaker 1>life and that I've seen, including like you and Orlando

1:01:14.440 --> 1:01:16.840
<v Speaker 1>and like just the men that I've seen that have

1:01:17.080 --> 1:01:19.520
<v Speaker 1>other men that they can depend on in those moments

1:01:19.600 --> 1:01:21.320
<v Speaker 1>and be vulnerable with.

1:01:21.520 --> 1:01:24.160
<v Speaker 5>Right, That's a that's a big thing, being vulnerable in

1:01:24.200 --> 1:01:27.240
<v Speaker 5>front of a because you have these friends that you're like,

1:01:27.280 --> 1:01:28.720
<v Speaker 5>oh yeah, hood, that's my nigga and all of this

1:01:28.800 --> 1:01:31.960
<v Speaker 5>type of stuff. Really, has he seen you cry? Has

1:01:32.000 --> 1:01:33.800
<v Speaker 5>he picked you up when you fucked up and they

1:01:33.960 --> 1:01:36.440
<v Speaker 5>were there for you? Has he come through for you?

1:01:36.680 --> 1:01:38.520
<v Speaker 5>Have you reached out to a friend when you know

1:01:40.720 --> 1:01:44.000
<v Speaker 5>this was essential for you to get something done? Is

1:01:44.040 --> 1:01:45.400
<v Speaker 5>this somebody that you trust that much?

1:01:45.920 --> 1:01:46.080
<v Speaker 4>You know?

1:01:46.680 --> 1:01:46.720
<v Speaker 3>So?

1:01:47.320 --> 1:01:47.880
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, man, I.

1:01:49.400 --> 1:01:53.560
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I'm grateful for Pat Orlando, for Dion, homegirl Chantel,

1:01:54.120 --> 1:02:01.040
<v Speaker 5>this niggat.

1:01:58.200 --> 1:02:00.720
<v Speaker 4>Who Orlando was before that.

1:02:03.320 --> 1:02:06.000
<v Speaker 1>Which you.

1:02:09.440 --> 1:02:12.000
<v Speaker 5>Now me La has been Her and Orlando have opened

1:02:12.080 --> 1:02:13.920
<v Speaker 5>up their houses to me, their house to me, and

1:02:14.280 --> 1:02:15.640
<v Speaker 5>even Mela was like, you can come over here any

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<v Speaker 5>time in the day. I'm just alway working or cleaner,

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<v Speaker 5>is it? And like just to have somebody that cares

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<v Speaker 5>about my will being, my mental health, Uh, so I'm

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<v Speaker 5>not just sitting at the crib along while everybody else

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<v Speaker 5>is at work or you know, doing things. It's essential

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<v Speaker 5>because sometimes like it's just it's it's it's debilitating, like you.

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<v Speaker 4>Can't get up.

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<v Speaker 5>I've had to cancel a show recently, and I've never

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<v Speaker 5>had to do that while you know, battling with depression.

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<v Speaker 5>And I thought that, you know, being in therapy and

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<v Speaker 5>getting the tools and adding them to the toolbox, I'd

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<v Speaker 5>be able to handle it. But that ship is differently,

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<v Speaker 5>you know what I'm saying. So depending on what it is,

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<v Speaker 5>it's just it's heavy.

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<v Speaker 3>Man.

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<v Speaker 6>It's really interesting what you said about uh that you

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<v Speaker 6>don't know, because yeah, that's that's that makes a lot

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<v Speaker 6>of sense. I never really thought of it like that,

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<v Speaker 6>like you actually don't know, and it makes that that

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<v Speaker 6>makes it worse for you, because yeah, it's it's it

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<v Speaker 6>is tough like when you when you do reach out

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<v Speaker 6>and they don't know and then you're like, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>But what I think it is is like what what

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<v Speaker 1>what te hear said was just like you just pulling

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<v Speaker 1>up right, Like I think when your friends show up

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<v Speaker 1>for you, you begin to understand what it is that

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<v Speaker 1>you need. Oh, I guess I need I need companionship.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I guess I just need somebody there, or I

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<v Speaker 1>guess I needed to just go get some motherfucking hot

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<v Speaker 1>dogs today. You know, like you you start to understand

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<v Speaker 1>what your needs are, but like when you are moving

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<v Speaker 1>through depression, and like kind of I think, because I

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<v Speaker 1>think a lot of times depression is like you shedding something.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like whether you're shuting a relationship, a version of yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>There's something going on. And so like when you're in

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<v Speaker 1>the metamorphosis, you don't know what you need because you're

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<v Speaker 1>literally becoming something different. So there's no there's no like

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<v Speaker 1>tools to tell you, oh, well now you need And

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<v Speaker 1>of course, yes, like you said, you go to therapy,

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<v Speaker 1>you have all the little same here. I've been. I've

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<v Speaker 1>done the I've done the ton I've done the fucking therapy,

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<v Speaker 1>I've done the life coaching, I've done all the things,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, why are none of these things helping

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<v Speaker 1>me right now? And then also sometimes like you reject

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<v Speaker 1>those things too. It's like I know that I can

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<v Speaker 1>do this, but I don't even I can't even meditate today.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to meditate today. And then you kind

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<v Speaker 1>of like revel in them not feeling good. You're like,

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to not feel good.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I would love not not feeling good. I will

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<v Speaker 4>play sad music. Let me tell you so. I got

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<v Speaker 4>a playlist that's so good.

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<v Speaker 5>For depression but so anti good like this is, oh, yes,

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<v Speaker 5>I feel everything.

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<v Speaker 3>I have a nerve. I'mers, I'm exsed to nerve.

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<v Speaker 1>There goes you'all monetization.

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<v Speaker 5>But I will say I was talking to her free

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<v Speaker 5>yesterday and I was telling her like the space I've

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<v Speaker 5>been in, and she told me this thing she does

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<v Speaker 5>is she talks to herself all loud, like why am

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<v Speaker 5>I feeling this way? Like what is it about this

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<v Speaker 5>situation on this point in life that has me feel

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<v Speaker 5>in this way? And she'll just start yelling the things out,

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<v Speaker 5>and then when she gets to something that she feels

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<v Speaker 5>something like it brings anxiety or the hair stands up,

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<v Speaker 5>she's like, okay, let's explore this all right, I'm feeling

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<v Speaker 5>anxious around this because and whatever comes to her mind,

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<v Speaker 5>she just says it out loud, and then she'll write

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<v Speaker 5>it down and then she'll not fixate. But she'll look

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<v Speaker 5>over that and be like, what about this is causing

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<v Speaker 5>this triggering experience in my life. She's like her own therapist. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>but I've never thought about Actually I have thought about

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<v Speaker 5>saying things out loud, but it's more with like what

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<v Speaker 5>I need to get done, like this is like what

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<v Speaker 5>I need healed or what's bothering, what's aching me.

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<v Speaker 4>I had never thought about doing it.

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<v Speaker 5>So I'm going to try that going forward, just to

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<v Speaker 5>see if it helps, and like I'm always up for

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<v Speaker 5>sharing tips.

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<v Speaker 1>One of the things that I've done in that is

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<v Speaker 1>I've done that as well, but it's I don't even

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<v Speaker 1>have a term for it. I guess it's just like raging,

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<v Speaker 1>Like you start talking out loud and then you just

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<v Speaker 1>start saying like kind of the worst thoughts that you have,

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<v Speaker 1>the worst thoughts that you might have about yourself, the

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<v Speaker 1>worst thoughts you might have about people, just the shit.

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<v Speaker 1>That's really just like because when you're depressed, you're not

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<v Speaker 1>just like not thinking about shit, You're like thinking about

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<v Speaker 1>everything you know, and like it is true, like releasing

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<v Speaker 1>it like verbally does help, but also sometimes like fucking

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<v Speaker 1>yelling that ship, screaming that ship hitting some ship, like

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of things are trapped in our bodies, and

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<v Speaker 1>we think that we can just like therapize it away

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<v Speaker 1>or calmly talk it away or meditated away. And oftentimes

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<v Speaker 1>I found that, Like my biggest releases have been through

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<v Speaker 1>rage honestly, and movement, and even like I'm a hooper,

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<v Speaker 1>I love hula hooping, So when I hula hoop, I

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<v Speaker 1>do a lot of talking as well. What no, I

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<v Speaker 1>was a soccer player. I don't got them, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>got them hands. But like that practice for me like

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<v Speaker 1>helps me come to I usually use hooping when I'm

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<v Speaker 1>trying to come up with ideas, but even like talking

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<v Speaker 1>and moving your body while you're doing it, like there's

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<v Speaker 1>something in it that kind of like gets you out

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<v Speaker 1>of the way and just kind of lets your own

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<v Speaker 1>spirit just kind of come through.

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<v Speaker 4>So do it. I think move movement, and action are great.

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<v Speaker 5>Combatants of depression if you can get to that point,

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<v Speaker 5>if you're at a point where you already sort of

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<v Speaker 5>staying in bed, then it's a little harder to break

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<v Speaker 5>out of that. But like earlier this year and last year,

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<v Speaker 5>when I was hiking, I was still going through the

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<v Speaker 5>same shit, but I was I was getting up every

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<v Speaker 5>morning early like seven seven thirty and I'm going hike it.

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<v Speaker 5>And that kind of set the tone for the day.

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<v Speaker 5>Made me feel like I could be productive. I can

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<v Speaker 5>own this day. When it got to a point when

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<v Speaker 5>I was traveling a lot and I wasn't able to

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<v Speaker 5>like go hiking, that's when the shit started to set

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<v Speaker 5>up and put up tents and houses. And then by

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<v Speaker 5>the time I came back here then but it just

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<v Speaker 5>had a whole community inside of me, nigga.

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<v Speaker 4>And I was just I was just down back.

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<v Speaker 5>So yeah, it's hard, but you know, I feel like

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<v Speaker 5>I'm getting close to the end of it and I'm

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<v Speaker 5>looking forward to it.

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<v Speaker 4>But I'm very thankful for my community.

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<v Speaker 3>Man, No, thank you for being vulnerable. That is I

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<v Speaker 3>think necessary. A lot of Black men, a lot of men,

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<v Speaker 3>a lot of women are not able to, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>just share and be vulnerable and say I'm not doing

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<v Speaker 3>okay right now, and even like to the point where

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<v Speaker 3>you can say it on the mic and then say

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<v Speaker 3>when you came over and just pulled up on me,

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<v Speaker 3>thank you. And there's so many there's just so many

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<v Speaker 3>rules I think around how we can be and I

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<v Speaker 3>didn't realize that until recently. I mean, i'd have realized it,

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<v Speaker 3>but someone said I heard someone say it out loud.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like there's so many rules about being a black man.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like how can like, god damn, how can exist?

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<v Speaker 3>You can't pop still, you can't do this, and it's

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<v Speaker 3>like there's so many things are like no homo or

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<v Speaker 3>even like me, like we've gone hiking, or we hang

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<v Speaker 3>out without Orlando, like as friends and we can have

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<v Speaker 3>intimate platonic time together. And there's all these rules about

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<v Speaker 3>like if you're married, you can hang out with my man,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, my husband's wife or whatever the fuck the

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<v Speaker 3>rules are, or how men should show up for men

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<v Speaker 3>are just pulling up on your homeboy, Like no, that's gay, nigga,

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<v Speaker 3>Like you are right, stop crying, you know. It's like

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<v Speaker 3>these rules that we are inducted in really keep us

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<v Speaker 3>from our mental health, like keep us from being well,

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<v Speaker 3>keep us from being connected and just loving each other

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<v Speaker 3>and just accepting shit, Like all these rules that we've

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<v Speaker 3>created about how we can express, how we can feel

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<v Speaker 3>when we don't know what's wrong, and it's like or

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<v Speaker 3>just how we express as men or men to men

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<v Speaker 3>or women, you know, whatever, these rules are, like they

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<v Speaker 3>keep us so separated, and it's just so unnecessary, and

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<v Speaker 3>so like the more we have these conversations and be

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<v Speaker 3>honest and and talk about things that we do that

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<v Speaker 3>are outside of the rule box, right, everything about sex.

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<v Speaker 3>This is how we heal, This is how we come

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<v Speaker 3>together as a community. And there's so I always mean

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<v Speaker 3>or mean meaning to hear, always talking about everything before

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<v Speaker 3>the sex. And like, I'm like, people are so uncomfortable

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<v Speaker 3>in that middle area. You know. It's like you either

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<v Speaker 3>be homeb these friends with this strong boundary or we're

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<v Speaker 3>fucking you know, And like, as you know, I'm naked

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<v Speaker 3>around my house. I'm naked around my friends often. And

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<v Speaker 3>it's like for some people that's uncomfortable or foreign, but

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<v Speaker 3>it's like it means nothing. It means that I'm in

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<v Speaker 3>my house, my nigga, and I'm comfortable. And even if

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<v Speaker 3>you know, I'm dancing on to here and it is

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<v Speaker 3>love and affection and it doesn't is not an invitation.

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<v Speaker 3>And there's so much We've shared, so much intimacy as friends,

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<v Speaker 3>platonic friends that I think people are so uncomfortable with.

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<v Speaker 4>But if you they don't know, Like perception is crazy.

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<v Speaker 5>And I've really been trying to work on my perception

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<v Speaker 5>and my perspective when I approach different things, even with

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<v Speaker 5>what I'm dealing with when it comes to another person,

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<v Speaker 5>to make sure I'm trying to view it from another

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<v Speaker 5>person's perspective and that doesn't take away from how something

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<v Speaker 5>made me feel, because intention doesn't necessarily dictate how a

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<v Speaker 5>person receives what you meant. But like when we were

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<v Speaker 5>hanging out and I was like, hey, don't dance on me,

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<v Speaker 5>like Nick ain't here. I got to make sure it's okay,

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<v Speaker 5>Like I know it's harmless.

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<v Speaker 3>But like I don't want him to think everybody else

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<v Speaker 3>out here you're my husband.

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<v Speaker 5>I know, but still, But because of traditional mas societal

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<v Speaker 5>norms when it comes to platonic relationships and friendships with

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<v Speaker 5>someone that is married and stuff like that, I I

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<v Speaker 5>like to found the parameters. I like to found the

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<v Speaker 5>boundaries and have those conversations because it's it's not it

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<v Speaker 5>is still kind of taboo unless you have that community.

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<v Speaker 5>But people that are new to that community or people

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<v Speaker 5>that are outside of that community, they're looking at it

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<v Speaker 5>from a different.

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<v Speaker 1>Perspective, like why the fuck that's crazy? I ain't no

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<v Speaker 1>way I was.

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<v Speaker 3>We know you wouldn't.

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<v Speaker 5>We know you wouldn't, right, but you haven't also put

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<v Speaker 5>in the work of being there for these people and

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<v Speaker 5>showing up for their events saying like hey, can I

1:11:24.720 --> 1:11:27.320
<v Speaker 5>help or can I promote, or just pulling up to

1:11:27.360 --> 1:11:29.879
<v Speaker 5>a show like that's where you build that community.

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<v Speaker 4>In that community is what UH grows.

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<v Speaker 5>That understanding and evolving of your mentality or your perception

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<v Speaker 5>of what that looks like, what that friendship looks like,

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<v Speaker 5>what that I'm your husband when this nigga ain't here

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<v Speaker 5>And that's why the niggas ain't getting that car because

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<v Speaker 5>it ain't no fucking way.

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<v Speaker 4>And I told, I told, I told that night as

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<v Speaker 4>I absolutely did.

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<v Speaker 5>Call that down and I told all your ass and

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<v Speaker 5>she why would you call him a tellica us because

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<v Speaker 5>you ain't even getting in trouble driving?

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<v Speaker 3>You was with me.

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<v Speaker 4>And all of a sudden, now the eight niggas in

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<v Speaker 4>one vehicle.

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<v Speaker 3>Fuck no, this my new friends to hear just giving

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<v Speaker 3>him ride down the street.

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<v Speaker 1>Relax crazy, Like what.

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<v Speaker 4>Car is that easy? A Jeep car that they would

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<v Speaker 4>not have. They ain't going, They ain't going, everybody ain't going.

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<v Speaker 4>I was very adamant and very rude, and I don't.

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<v Speaker 3>Give listen you did you did think it? How do

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<v Speaker 3>you guys feel about the esoterics? Do you guys want

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<v Speaker 3>to pull a card for tarot time?

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<v Speaker 1>Sure?

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<v Speaker 4>Is that with.

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<v Speaker 3>Aerosot like the mystics. The mysticals is a pib card

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<v Speaker 3>tereole time un lets you go first?

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<v Speaker 4>You want to go first? I've been going first all

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<v Speaker 4>the time, not half the time. H turn it around

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<v Speaker 4>the chariot.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh you run to pick yours to hear? Okay, do

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<v Speaker 3>key Patrick, the chariot I said some good cards. Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>this is a cool card though, Yeah, this is it

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<v Speaker 3>is good art. The chariot is a card of will, power, determination,

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<v Speaker 3>and strength. You virgo, you have discovered how to make

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<v Speaker 3>decisions in alignment with your values with the Lover's card,

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<v Speaker 3>and now you're taking action on those decisions. When the

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<v Speaker 3>chariot appears in a chariot reading, take it as a

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<v Speaker 3>sign of encouragement. You have set your objective and are

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<v Speaker 3>now channeling your inner power with a fierce dedication to

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<v Speaker 3>bring them to fruition. When you apply discipline and commitment

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<v Speaker 3>and will power to achieve your goals, you will succeed.

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<v Speaker 3>Now is the time to be passive in the hope

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<v Speaker 3>that things will work out in your favor. Take focus, action,

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<v Speaker 3>and stick to the course no matter what challenges may

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<v Speaker 3>come your way, because believe me, there will be challenges.

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<v Speaker 3>You may be pulled in opposite directions and find your

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<v Speaker 3>strengths and conviction tested. Others may try to block you,

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<v Speaker 3>distract you, or drag you down to pursuit in pursuit

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<v Speaker 3>of your goal, but the chariot is an invitation to

1:14:29.320 --> 1:14:33.000
<v Speaker 3>draw upon your willpower and home in on what's essential

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<v Speaker 3>to you so you can push past the obstacle in

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<v Speaker 3>your way.

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<v Speaker 4>I love that. Yeah, that was really good.

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<v Speaker 1>It's fire.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, this is a great one.

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<v Speaker 1>And you have the magician. Yeah that was a god.

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<v Speaker 3>That was a good blurb.

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<v Speaker 4>It's good reading.

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<v Speaker 1>The Magician upright represents manifestation, resourcefulness, power, inspired action. As

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<v Speaker 1>a master manifestor, the Magician brings you the tools resource

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<v Speaker 1>This is an energy you need to make your dreams

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<v Speaker 1>come true. Seriously, everything you need right now is at

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<v Speaker 1>your fingertips to hear it, to hear you have spiritual, physical, mental,

1:15:09.080 --> 1:15:12.439
<v Speaker 1>and emotional resources to manifest your desires, and when you

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<v Speaker 1>combine them with the energy of the spiritual and earthly realms.

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<v Speaker 1>You will become a manifestation powerhouse. Now is the perfect

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<v Speaker 1>time to move forward on an idea that you recently conceived.

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<v Speaker 1>The seed of potential has sprouted, and you are being

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<v Speaker 1>called to take action and bring your intention to fruition.

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<v Speaker 1>In your quest to manifest your goals, you must establish

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<v Speaker 1>a clear vision of what you will create before you act.

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<v Speaker 1>It is not enough to be motivated by ego, money, status,

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<v Speaker 1>or fame. You need to have a sole connection to

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<v Speaker 1>your goals and intentions. You are a powerful creative being

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<v Speaker 1>and this is your opportunity to bring your higher self

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<v Speaker 1>in alignment with your day to day actions to create

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<v Speaker 1>the future you want the most.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow boom, I sounded like homework, Go home, study, get

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<v Speaker 2>serious about it. Didn't walk in that path, sell some seeds.

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to like squall of they good moms.

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<v Speaker 4>When the thing I love about tarot cards is that

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<v Speaker 4>it is random, so that it's for you.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not it's not really random. It's the energy so

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<v Speaker 1>you know you're.

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<v Speaker 3>Gonna get what you need to get right before we

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<v Speaker 3>get out of here. Fellas, do you guys have any horries?

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<v Speaker 3>Any horror stories? When you're a top notch top level

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<v Speaker 3>ten hoh stories. It was the craziest who time story

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<v Speaker 3>you could think of.

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<v Speaker 4>It was good. I wouldn't get out of my car first,

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<v Speaker 4>I should go.

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<v Speaker 6>First, okay, since we okay, So in my twenties I

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<v Speaker 6>did have a very horri whatuld you call it? A

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<v Speaker 6>horror hoory hoary face.

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<v Speaker 5>It was.

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<v Speaker 1>It was at night that I was passed around like

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<v Speaker 1>a blunt.

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<v Speaker 4>A group of young ladies ran what they call a

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<v Speaker 4>train on you on me.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh okay, how many young ladies or three of them?

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<v Speaker 4>Yep? They and uh it was. It was very disrespectful, really,

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<v Speaker 4>so please do. It was like, yeah, it was kind

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<v Speaker 4>of like a like a.

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<v Speaker 6>Like a take turns one person watches. I think somebody filmed.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh damn.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it was very It was like, say, still shut up, Jerry,

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<v Speaker 3>little boy.

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<v Speaker 4>Kept pulling his hairbag, not pull his hairbags in his mouth.

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<v Speaker 3>I kind of like that.

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<v Speaker 4>I was, yeah, and it was.

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<v Speaker 6>It was one of those things where it's like I

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<v Speaker 6>never experienced that, so I did. Didn't think on paper

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<v Speaker 6>it wasn't something I would like, but I was just

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<v Speaker 6>like your little whore, you know.

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<v Speaker 4>I looked at it. I went home and looked at

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<v Speaker 4>the r like, yeah, you're a little horse.

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<v Speaker 3>You enjoyed kind of being the piece of meat for

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<v Speaker 3>the night.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you know what I mean, was thrown into you said,

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<v Speaker 1>what did.

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<v Speaker 3>Your due diligence for the seminon you? You were a

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<v Speaker 3>devotion exactly.

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<v Speaker 6>Any any like bent up or built up anger they

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<v Speaker 6>had against men, it wasn't actually it wasn't like disrespectful

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<v Speaker 6>like that.

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<v Speaker 4>Like they weren't like.

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<v Speaker 3>Hitting me, and like, you know, how did they propose

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<v Speaker 3>this to you? It was like after a night hour

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<v Speaker 3>or were they like, hey, can you come over? We

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<v Speaker 3>have an idea?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Really, And it was weird. It was kind of like

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<v Speaker 1>a ritual because they were all wearing.

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<v Speaker 4>The same thing.

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<v Speaker 3>Really, I like these girls color.

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<v Speaker 6>It was like a they all had like that was

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<v Speaker 6>kind of weird. Yeah, they had like black crew necks

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<v Speaker 6>on with no bottoms.

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<v Speaker 5>You were a sacrifice, a sacrifice sacrifice.

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't a sacrifice in a pussy cult.

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<v Speaker 4>They had like.

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<v Speaker 3>Why a fucking yeah, like what you got on right now?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god, oh my god, what get this away?

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<v Speaker 3>Shut up?

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<v Speaker 4>Damn they're wearing what I'm wearing now. Pretty much it

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<v Speaker 4>was like a black crew neck. But they had no bottoms, which.

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<v Speaker 1>Was they were wearing a sweatshirt with no panties on.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, you were sacrifice one black.

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<v Speaker 3>They had sacrifice. It sounds it sounds like that's why

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<v Speaker 3>you're getting blessed, look at your life.

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<v Speaker 4>It was. It was definitely.

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<v Speaker 1>It was just a blessing that was just dropped off.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't even hang out with them.

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<v Speaker 3>I just knew he was only one of them, and

1:19:41.880 --> 1:19:44.280
<v Speaker 3>there was no conversations though, like, ah, let's take some shots.

1:19:44.320 --> 1:19:45.400
<v Speaker 3>It was like get naked.

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<v Speaker 6>I was there for like maybe ten fifteen minutes, but

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<v Speaker 6>I walked in and they had no bottom so I

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<v Speaker 6>kind of knew what you know, But yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>They like, uh you eat it, pussy?

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<v Speaker 4>I typically, how do you not pussy?

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<v Speaker 1>There's three bitches, That's.

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<v Speaker 4>What I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>It was a buffet.

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<v Speaker 3>The deeps damn for the ladies ship.

1:20:04.160 --> 1:20:04.759
<v Speaker 1>It's a buffet.

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<v Speaker 4>And actually I actually did uh.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, I don't know, because it lasted so long that

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<v Speaker 6>eventually just like two of them were like all right,

1:20:16.439 --> 1:20:20.000
<v Speaker 6>I gotta go, and so like two left. But I guess,

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, I'm just gonna I'm just gonna toot my

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<v Speaker 6>own horn. I guess the head I was given was

1:20:24.720 --> 1:20:27.680
<v Speaker 6>so good that the last one was just like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 6>well no, I wasn't at my house. I went somewhere else,

1:20:29.800 --> 1:20:31.720
<v Speaker 6>which was actually pretty dangerous because they have like baby

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<v Speaker 6>daddies and stuff.

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<v Speaker 3>But not baby daddies and stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>But that was my I guess that was the reason

1:20:37.400 --> 1:20:39.800
<v Speaker 1>why I stayed. And that was like the hoary part

1:20:39.840 --> 1:20:42.320
<v Speaker 1>because she was like, daddy's like the current in relationships

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<v Speaker 1>or just like I don't think so I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>So she said I'm gonna go. I'm gonna stay a

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<v Speaker 3>little later and get a little extra head because you're

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<v Speaker 3>doing a fire.

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<v Speaker 6>This was the This was the disrespect because one of

1:20:51.280 --> 1:20:52.960
<v Speaker 6>them was like, I have to go, I have to

1:20:52.960 --> 1:20:54.400
<v Speaker 6>wake up, and she was just like, are you.

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<v Speaker 1>Sure you don't want.

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<v Speaker 3>You'd be good for birth tomorrow.

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<v Speaker 1>To look it up, like please say no, it's just

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<v Speaker 1>so tired. I was just like, drop trop drop traps,

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<v Speaker 1>it's been eighty four years.

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<v Speaker 3>Can I have a little bit of water? Shut up?

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<v Speaker 4>You don't want this is wed enough down there.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like a blood Like you sure you don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to hit this wobble?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh that was great, that was beautiful. That was beautiful.

1:21:31.120 --> 1:21:33.479
<v Speaker 4>I said these are hoary story. It's not horror, okay.

1:21:33.680 --> 1:21:34.920
<v Speaker 1>I mean it could be both. It could be a

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<v Speaker 1>combo of.

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<v Speaker 3>It could be great. Yeah it went terribly wrong, it

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<v Speaker 3>could be right.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like one time a heato it's always he though.

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<v Speaker 4>The homie.

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<v Speaker 5>It was a girl came to the to the room,

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<v Speaker 5>was like, yo, I got these four chicks they on

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<v Speaker 5>the on the day pass. They gotta get in going

1:21:58.200 --> 1:21:59.400
<v Speaker 5>like two hours. They said, what's up?

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<v Speaker 1>J passes wild.

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<v Speaker 4>Because you should do.

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<v Speaker 1>That's like one sixty.

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<v Speaker 3>So they try to get their money worthy.

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<v Speaker 5>So uh, she went back and got them and uh

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<v Speaker 5>came back to our our room because we were one

1:22:15.920 --> 1:22:17.519
<v Speaker 5>of the rooms that's right on the waterfront, so it

1:22:17.600 --> 1:22:19.040
<v Speaker 5>has its own jacuzie and ship like that.

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<v Speaker 4>So it's like eight of us in this uh and

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<v Speaker 4>uh you know, you know where are you from all

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<v Speaker 4>that ship.

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<v Speaker 5>It was like two minutes and there was like somebody

1:22:29.320 --> 1:22:31.080
<v Speaker 5>was like I want to see you eat her pussy,

1:22:31.320 --> 1:22:33.080
<v Speaker 5>and I want to say you eat her pussy, and

1:22:35.439 --> 1:22:38.000
<v Speaker 5>we all dried off and it was like eight people

1:22:38.160 --> 1:22:41.280
<v Speaker 5>on this this fucking bed and it was just it.

1:22:41.360 --> 1:22:42.439
<v Speaker 4>Was it was wild.

1:22:42.600 --> 1:22:43.920
<v Speaker 3>Everybody's getting pussy.

1:22:44.320 --> 1:22:47.400
<v Speaker 4>Pussy, that's how it started.

1:22:47.439 --> 1:22:49.320
<v Speaker 5>They started eating pussy in a jacuzie and then by

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<v Speaker 5>the time we made to the bed, it was all

1:22:50.640 --> 1:22:51.080
<v Speaker 5>off fest.

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<v Speaker 3>So it's the eight people fast.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, so how many men were there?

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<v Speaker 3>Two?

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<v Speaker 1>And then six worlds? Whoa, this was a lot of work.

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<v Speaker 4>That's that's a it's a workout, workout, it was. It

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<v Speaker 4>makes you have to replen with the water at least

1:23:09.160 --> 1:23:10.840
<v Speaker 4>three of them for the rest of that night.

1:23:11.360 --> 1:23:13.519
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, the water went fast. I was replenishing with a

1:23:13.600 --> 1:23:16.000
<v Speaker 5>rare stripe. I was just living a wild lot crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>That's all we had.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, we had rare stripe and like a Fanta orange

1:23:21.120 --> 1:23:23.000
<v Speaker 5>and then rum, like tons of rum.

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<v Speaker 4>So yeah, it was a time, but I was long

1:23:27.360 --> 1:23:29.439
<v Speaker 4>fluids after words, but.

1:23:29.479 --> 1:23:33.760
<v Speaker 3>It was all of dehydrated as fu don't try to

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<v Speaker 3>sit home without fluids.

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<v Speaker 4>That don't do that.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, those were lovely. Those are top notes. I'm

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<v Speaker 3>very proud that you guys came with the heat.

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<v Speaker 1>Come on?

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<v Speaker 3>How growl summer opened, Little bus open. I don't know

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<v Speaker 3>if Patrick made that story up or he's just trying

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<v Speaker 3>to get all the d ms.

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<v Speaker 1>But would.

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<v Speaker 4>Why would they DM me for that?

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<v Speaker 1>Once? Church is chicken that you don't have three SUPs.

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<v Speaker 4>You ain't never had churches either.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't care. I'm okay with that.

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<v Speaker 4>That's fair.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't care. Okay, you're not missing anything.

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<v Speaker 1>Friend, your ass up? Did you look and see what

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<v Speaker 1>the closes churches is?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm about to look right now.

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<v Speaker 4>Late, None look for me. I look for myself.

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<v Speaker 3>You gotta go anywhere anyway if you want to find

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<v Speaker 3>these two gentlemen, where can we find you?

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<v Speaker 6>Instagram at to hear more, I mean Instagram prison right now,

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<v Speaker 6>so follow me at Cloudy Arcade my backup page, but

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<v Speaker 6>Patrick cloud everywhere else?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, and then you can find our show. Damn in

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<v Speaker 5>and that you're scary on Instagram, Twitter, YouTube. It's just

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<v Speaker 5>damn Internet.

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<v Speaker 4>You're scary, damn with no in so damn Internet, you're

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<v Speaker 4>scary we out there, and.

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<v Speaker 3>That's it.

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<v Speaker 1>Bye Easy