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Speaker 1: It's awkward.

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Speaker 2: It's Tuesday.

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Speaker 1: It's awkward Tuesday phone call.

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 1: I heard someone say being a bridesmaid is basically like

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Speaker 1: being in a very expensive cult. What there's matching outfits,

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Speaker 1: one really strict leader, lots of emotional chanting, and you

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Speaker 1: have to financially ruin yourself to prove your loyalty.

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Speaker 2: That's a good point.

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Speaker 1: I've personally never been one, but Alexis is that description relatively.

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Speaker 4: In many cults.

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, how much red kool aid? Did you drink too much?

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Speaker 6: Yeah? It was mixed with vodka.

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Speaker 5: That's right.

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Speaker 2: Now.

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Speaker 1: I'm probably missing a lot of the tears and the

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Speaker 1: choreographed dances that come with it too. But you do

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Speaker 1: get the general idea because yes, it is an honor,

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Speaker 1: but it can also be a challenge.

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Speaker 6: It really depends on where the bride is. That's true,

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Speaker 6: I mean honestly.

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Speaker 1: Because you can all of a sudden now you're signed up, oh,

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Speaker 1: bachelotte party in another state or country.

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Speaker 5: You don't know.

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Speaker 1: It's different for everything, and that's why our listener Shannon

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Speaker 1: says she needs our help today with a bridesmaid situation. Shannon,

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Speaker 1: Welcome to the show. Hi guys are you.

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Speaker 7: Are you the bridesmaid? Shannon, I am one of the bridesmaids. Yeah, okay, okay, yeah,

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Speaker 7: you know, I risk I thought it was an honor,

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Speaker 7: but now it's getting a little weird and a little stressful.

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Speaker 6: Can we ask before we get into it? How you

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Speaker 6: know the bride?

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Speaker 7: So we've been friends for like ever, like since kindergarten.

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Speaker 6: Oh, that's always one of those where you're like, are

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Speaker 6: you still really that close or is it just you know,

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Speaker 6: sometimes it can go either way.

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Speaker 7: It's one of those we don't have to talk every day,

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Speaker 7: we don't live in the same state anymore, but we

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Speaker 7: get together. It's like your time has passed.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, okay, that's awesome.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's cool. So what's going on with the bride?

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Speaker 7: So here's the thing. She recently got engaged to her

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Speaker 7: boyfriend and she asked me to be a bridesmaid. Of

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Speaker 7: course they said yes. So then a few days later,

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Speaker 7: I get this email and has an attachment and it's

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Speaker 7: a bridemaid contract.

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Speaker 6: Contracts that's business like or just like you're going to

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Speaker 7: So it like outlines all her expectations of being part

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Speaker 7: of the wedding Oh.

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Speaker 6: Interesting. You know it probably came from somebody told her,

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Speaker 6: like some advice somewhere, was like, lay out what your

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Speaker 6: expectations are and then you won't have any drama.

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Speaker 4: I've been sent a PowerPoint before, have you. Yeah, she's

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Speaker 4: a teacher, so it's her thing on like nails and

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Speaker 4: outfits and like what we expected. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: When I heard that, I thought it was a joke,

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Speaker 1: but that that's something that actually a contract.

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Speaker 6: Is a little different than a PowerPoint. What did it say?

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Speaker 7: So I actually have it in front of me, so

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Speaker 7: I'm going to read you some of these. One is

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Speaker 7: attendance mandatory for all pre wedding events, including dress spitting,

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Speaker 7: bachelor party, bridal shower, and spontaneous gathering.

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Speaker 4: What spontanous?

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Speaker 1: I mean that can't That can't be you.

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Speaker 6: You live in another There's no way you.

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Speaker 7: Can make spontaneous like I can't be spontaneous. Imped to

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Speaker 7: do that well by a flight last second.

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Speaker 1: If you actually cared about her, then you wouldn't make

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Speaker 6: I even think the dress fitting is ridiculous.

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Speaker 7: Oh this is a good one too. Weight management must

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Speaker 7: fit into dress, as is no diet accordingly, No, Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Okay, but that one I can kind of understand,

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Speaker 1: because you want to look good in the photos. Right

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Speaker 1: out of here, Jeff, No one, no one, No one

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Speaker 6: There's no way in before a wedding.

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Speaker 1: Okay, like I didn't get in your way in. I

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Speaker 1: just must fit in your dress.

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Speaker 7: No die diet accordingly.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, maybe that did cross. It triggered me, Jeff, obviously,

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Speaker 1: tell you're hiding. I'm afraid to even continue to ask if.

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Speaker 7: There's anything else on the better guys?

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Speaker 1: Oh god, okay.

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Speaker 7: Groom proximity, no flirting, joking or standing too close to

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Speaker 7: the groom, no exceptions.

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Speaker 1: Okay, you know what, now I have tow the line.

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Speaker 6: That's a weird thing that you would even have to

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Speaker 6: say your best friends.

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Speaker 4: That's weird.

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Speaker 1: Has he cheated or something?

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Speaker 6: Yeah? Is there history? I'm with jose on that one.

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Speaker 7: No, no, not not as far as I know. I

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Speaker 7: know she has one of her bridesmaids is a little

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Speaker 1: That So maybe that rule was specifically designed for that

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Speaker 7: But here's the one that really irks me too. Financial commitment.

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Speaker 7: You're expected to contribute a minimum of two thousand dollars

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Speaker 7: towards the entire events, travels and gifts. Wow, And at

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Speaker 7: the bottom it says to sign it and return within

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Speaker 7: twenty four hours or else penalties would occur.

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Speaker 6: This is God.

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Speaker 7: But she's like, ha ha ha No, I'm literally on

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Speaker 7: a group chat with all the girls. They think she

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Speaker 7: is out of her mind. So I'm reaching out to you,

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Speaker 7: guys because they're all like pushing me because I've known

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Speaker 7: her the longest to have the conversation with her.

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Speaker 6: A bridesmaid union, You're going to rise up and fight

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Speaker 7: I like it.

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Speaker 1: The situation sounds pretty serious, which is great that we're

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Speaker 1: putting it in an awkward Tuesday where jose can contribute

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Speaker 6: I'm so scared to talk. I mean, I think here's

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Speaker 6: the thing. This is a really important conversation because the

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Speaker 6: her that's what's happening.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe that someone should be brooked because she feels

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Speaker 1: the strongest about it. By the way, Shannon, what is

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Speaker 1: the bride's name?

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Speaker 7: Oh yeah, Parah.

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Speaker 1: The first part of terrible, that's not I'm not going

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Speaker 1: We're gonna come up with some top notch advice to

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Speaker 1: about the bridesmaid contract. Say you've gone too far, girl.

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Speaker 1: You're gonna do it with your awkward Tuesday phone call

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Speaker 1: right after this hold on, it's awkward. It's awkward Tuesday

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Speaker 1: phone call. We just heard from a bridesmaid. Her name

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Speaker 1: is Shannon, who told us about her friend's extremely reasonable

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Speaker 1: Some of the clauses in there include minimum dollar amounts

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Speaker 1: on groom proximity. Now, again, I've never been a bridesmaid before,

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Speaker 1: but if I was, I would think that'd be pretty

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Speaker 1: normal stuff. I would think Brook tends to disagree. She

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Speaker 1: For the bottom line is Shannon has been nominated by

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Speaker 1: That's why she needs a little bit of advice before

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Speaker 1: she does it. Brooke, we're gonna start with you. What

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Speaker 6: Okay, for Shannon, the most important thing is you need

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Speaker 7: Okay.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, this call is because you've got her back and

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Speaker 6: she hasn't thought all of this through yet. Like, of

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Speaker 6: course all the bridesmaids are gonna sign it. But what

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Speaker 6: if this document, this contract got leaked on social media,

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Speaker 6: this bride may become literally the most hated person on

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Speaker 6: the internet. And not only is that not deserved, but

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Speaker 6: like it's also like such a distraction from her big day.

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Speaker 6: You know, she has this little window right now, I see.

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Speaker 1: The advice is to threaten to leak it onto the internet, nosed.

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Speaker 6: The advice is to tell her you have this little

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, wait a minute's a chance to back out?

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Speaker 1: Do you What do you think about that? Shannon?

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Speaker 7: She's not one to back down. But I do think

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Speaker 6: You got to set it up that way before you

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Speaker 1: Is blowing up right now. So a lot of people

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Speaker 1: have opinions. Okay, so there's one piece of advice for you.

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Speaker 7: Now.

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Speaker 1: Jose has already said that he is too scared to

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Speaker 7: I don't want to be in the room because I

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Speaker 1: To happen and it's gonna yell that's fair. So instead

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Speaker 1: we're gonna go to Alexis. The bride's made experts, makes sense.

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Speaker 4: I'm a way we're asking me because I probably would

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Speaker 4: I'm too scared. Yeah, but if you are brave enough

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Speaker 4: to be a great bride. I love your plans, and

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Speaker 4: then go into like, but you're a little psycho.

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Speaker 6: But that's what I love about you, you know, But

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Speaker 6: that's what I love about it. You have about you

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Speaker 6: never had a confrontation with any one of your friends.

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Speaker 1: Let's just stop back down like that already. Come on,

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Speaker 1: So it sounds like say some sweet things, compliment her

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Speaker 7: Some compliment sandwiches.

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Speaker 1: Nobody ever sees through that, although the compliment sandwiches might

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Speaker 1: be a problem with the weight restrictions on the sandwich.

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Speaker 1: Jennermy order cucumber sandwiches either way. Now we're going to

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Speaker 1: call the bride teara here and we will step back

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Speaker 1: and let you make your call. Oh, just keep the

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Speaker 1: to We're going to jump in if you feel like

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Speaker 7: Okay, I'm really nervous. My hands are sweating, but thank

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Speaker 1: Remember this is your friend. Yes, so you have the

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Speaker 1: benefit of the doubt act that way.

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Speaker 5: Here we go.

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Speaker 3: Hello, Hey, who's the.

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Speaker 7: Grow a Shanna? Do you get a new number or something?

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Speaker 7: Where are you calling from? Yeah? I had to use

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Speaker 5: So it's interesting because Melanie texted me earlier and she

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Speaker 5: said that you're gonna call because there's something about the wedding.

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Speaker 5: And honestly, I'm starting to feel some type of way

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Speaker 5: because none of you guys have signed the contract and

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Speaker 5: it's the deadlines ten night at midnight.

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Speaker 2: So what's going away?

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Speaker 7: I didn't know if she'd do that. Of course she would.

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Speaker 7: Maybe we just dive in. First of all, very excited

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Speaker 7: for the big day. We all are.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it should be. It's gonna be amazing.

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Speaker 7: I gotta be Yeah. So you sound kind of foolish

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Speaker 7: right now. What No, listen, I love your enthusiasm for

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Speaker 7: loving and constructive way possible, but it was girl, Come on,

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Speaker 7: I don't have time to this.

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Speaker 2: Let's up with us.

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Speaker 7: Okay. Well, like number one, the weight management thing, Amber's

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Speaker 3: She's not having twins, is she at least?

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Speaker 7: No, listen you your dress is kind of form fitting.

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Speaker 7: She's never gonna hide if she by the time your

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Speaker 3: I'm not really liking your tone.

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Speaker 2: Girl.

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Speaker 7: Let me tell you something.

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Speaker 3: I went to Shana's wedding in a hot pink bridesmaid

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Speaker 7: Much you know how like things hit the internet, like

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Speaker 7: what if one of these girls talks about it he or

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Speaker 3: First of all, I can't believe that you would.

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Speaker 2: What are you do to me?

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Speaker 7: I would?

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Speaker 3: I held your hair back in Vegas.

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Speaker 7: We made a pack about it. Well, we're not gonna

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Speaker 7: leak anything online either, Sarah, I adore you, I love you,

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Speaker 7: can you. I'm coming from a place of love and friendship.

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Speaker 2: Listed Listen, listen, listen, listen.

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Speaker 7: You and I both know who has polish.

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Speaker 2: Tendencies and we do not.

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Speaker 3: You and I both know that is not directed at you.

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Speaker 3: I'm not gonna listen. There is no compromising on that.

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Speaker 7: Okay, well that one, that one's fine.

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Speaker 2: Leave that one.

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Speaker 7: But like the minimum two thousand dollars and the travel

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Speaker 7: and the no missing event, like I don't live in

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Speaker 3: It might be a problem, but it's not my problem.

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Speaker 2: But listen, I deserve a perfect day, and by God,

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Speaker 2: I'm going to have it.

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Speaker 7: What is going on?

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Speaker 4: He told you that was way too castulon.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Shannon's there, and so is there a radio show

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Speaker 7: Morning, Tara.

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Speaker 1: Okay, it's okay, everything's okay.

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Speaker 6: She was just scared on how to bring this up,

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Speaker 1: Just it was all out of like she said, love

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Speaker 6: That's where we're coming from.

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Speaker 2: My question is this, that's a good question.

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Speaker 3: Brook is.

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Speaker 7: Another girl today? Okay, okay, okay, hold on, this is

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Speaker 7: a station in my town, not yours.

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Speaker 6: I even know you.

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Speaker 7: There's no connection.

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Speaker 2: Oh that makes it so much better.

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Speaker 1: All she's asking, Tara is if maybe you would consider

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Speaker 7: All of us want to be in your wedding. We're

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Speaker 7: and you know I don't do well with confrontation, and

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Speaker 7: I am very sweaty. Palms, my armpitar are very sweaty.

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Speaker 2: I gets true. I'm way you are bright right right,

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Speaker 7: Like, I'm sweating. I'm sweating in all my crevices.

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Speaker 7: We'll talk about it, Okay, we can talk about it.

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Speaker 6: Okay, that's it.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna tell you right now, though the room is staying.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 1: Let's have a really questionable best friend.

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Speaker 7: We love her, hoish Okay, do you have her for

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Speaker 7: the plot?

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Speaker 1: I get it. Yeah, we all got one.

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Speaker 6: I don't think I have anyone that will take my man.

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Speaker 1: You're looking at her, that's not what I member.

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Speaker 7: But freaking Jeffrey in the morning,