1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,600 Speaker 1: It is time now to check Steve's voicemail, and if 2 00:00:02,600 --> 00:00:04,560 Speaker 1: you want to leave a message for Steve, call him 3 00:00:04,600 --> 00:00:07,800 Speaker 1: eight seven seven twenty nine Steve. All right, Steve, this 4 00:00:07,880 --> 00:00:10,400 Speaker 1: first caller has a spiritual question for you. 5 00:00:11,039 --> 00:00:13,520 Speaker 2: Good evening, Steve. Thank you so much for sharing your 6 00:00:13,600 --> 00:00:18,160 Speaker 2: inspirational relationship with God with the world. My question is simple, 7 00:00:18,800 --> 00:00:21,880 Speaker 2: how does one stop longing for something that God has 8 00:00:21,920 --> 00:00:27,080 Speaker 2: obviously said no to? That particular question? Thank you, Lovey. 9 00:00:28,680 --> 00:00:36,760 Speaker 3: That's a question that's everybody's dilemma. We want what we want, Yeah, 10 00:00:36,800 --> 00:00:43,400 Speaker 3: that's everybody's delima. And then also sometimes what you want, Jess, 11 00:00:43,600 --> 00:00:47,360 Speaker 3: is in the form of temptation. You know, it's not 12 00:00:47,680 --> 00:00:51,600 Speaker 3: always longing for something you ask God for He told 13 00:00:51,680 --> 00:00:55,560 Speaker 3: you no. Sometimes God makes moves he know you wouldn't 14 00:00:55,600 --> 00:00:59,720 Speaker 3: make because he heard conversations you didn't hear. And He 15 00:00:59,760 --> 00:01:02,160 Speaker 3: may decisions that you just not gonna make for the 16 00:01:02,200 --> 00:01:07,680 Speaker 3: betterment of yourself. Example, I want this relationship to work 17 00:01:07,760 --> 00:01:11,840 Speaker 3: with this person. God know that ain't the one you need, 18 00:01:11,920 --> 00:01:14,679 Speaker 3: so sometimes He don't aid you in doing that. Now 19 00:01:14,680 --> 00:01:16,920 Speaker 3: you can run off and do it yourself, but you're 20 00:01:16,959 --> 00:01:20,440 Speaker 3: gonna get beat up. He not coming back. You quit 21 00:01:20,520 --> 00:01:23,040 Speaker 3: asking God for him to come back. He not coming back. 22 00:01:23,600 --> 00:01:25,679 Speaker 3: That ain't got nothing to do with God. The dude 23 00:01:25,760 --> 00:01:30,319 Speaker 3: you want and made a decision that he don't want you. Now, 24 00:01:30,360 --> 00:01:34,160 Speaker 3: once you keep asking God for him fault instead, you 25 00:01:34,200 --> 00:01:37,800 Speaker 3: should ask God for somebody that want you. So sometimes 26 00:01:37,840 --> 00:01:41,360 Speaker 3: and I had to learn this myself. The thing that 27 00:01:41,400 --> 00:01:44,640 Speaker 3: I'm asking God for that I keep getting a know 28 00:01:44,800 --> 00:01:49,360 Speaker 3: to is for a reason. Yeah, and it's usually been 29 00:01:49,440 --> 00:01:51,280 Speaker 3: because God has something better for me. 30 00:01:51,440 --> 00:01:51,680 Speaker 4: Better. 31 00:01:52,800 --> 00:01:54,880 Speaker 3: But you got to open up yourself to the better 32 00:01:54,880 --> 00:01:57,440 Speaker 3: and stop thinking you got the answer. You can't ask 33 00:01:57,480 --> 00:01:59,120 Speaker 3: God to bless you and then and tell him how. 34 00:01:59,040 --> 00:02:00,600 Speaker 1: To do it. 35 00:02:00,000 --> 00:02:02,400 Speaker 3: So that's just a man, brother. 36 00:02:02,600 --> 00:02:05,080 Speaker 1: Uh huh, all right, you better preach up in here. 37 00:02:05,280 --> 00:02:10,400 Speaker 1: You met a minister, all right? This caller, all right, 38 00:02:10,520 --> 00:02:13,760 Speaker 1: last week we had a colo question, Steve. It was 39 00:02:13,800 --> 00:02:16,480 Speaker 1: about the Uh. It was from the married woman who 40 00:02:16,560 --> 00:02:19,200 Speaker 1: had emailed us. She asked us if she was wrong 41 00:02:19,320 --> 00:02:23,240 Speaker 1: because she purchased Raider season football tickets but changed them 42 00:02:23,240 --> 00:02:26,040 Speaker 1: from her husband's name to her name after he told 43 00:02:26,080 --> 00:02:29,280 Speaker 1: her he preferred attending the games with his boys instead 44 00:02:29,280 --> 00:02:32,040 Speaker 1: of going with her. So this caller has a comment 45 00:02:32,080 --> 00:02:33,760 Speaker 1: about that, Say. 46 00:02:33,680 --> 00:02:37,120 Speaker 4: Steve, I'm using your radio show this morning, and I 47 00:02:37,160 --> 00:02:40,680 Speaker 4: agree with you. My husband is one of the three brothers. 48 00:02:40,919 --> 00:02:43,799 Speaker 4: Her brothers needs to be to Gebo sometimes, just the men. 49 00:02:44,480 --> 00:02:47,320 Speaker 4: I'm okay with him hanging with his brothers. You don't 50 00:02:47,360 --> 00:02:49,600 Speaker 4: need me around all the time. We didn't get once. 51 00:02:49,639 --> 00:02:52,359 Speaker 4: They four seven seven days a week. Let that man 52 00:02:52,480 --> 00:02:55,359 Speaker 4: have some men time. If you don't, he want to 53 00:02:55,400 --> 00:02:57,920 Speaker 4: drive him crazy. And you gonna want to know why 54 00:02:57,960 --> 00:03:01,720 Speaker 4: he ain't homeboy, he's coming home and goo strata. Let 55 00:03:01,720 --> 00:03:04,240 Speaker 4: her loose. You want to hang with your girls, hang 56 00:03:04,320 --> 00:03:07,040 Speaker 4: with your girls. You don't ask to come. I love 57 00:03:07,080 --> 00:03:09,639 Speaker 4: it when my husband hang with his brothers. Let them 58 00:03:09,720 --> 00:03:13,560 Speaker 4: men have that many time. Y'all have a good day. 59 00:03:14,919 --> 00:03:23,280 Speaker 3: I didn't that because everybody needs me time. Yeah, I say. 60 00:03:23,360 --> 00:03:25,440 Speaker 3: When I tell my wife I'm going on the golf trip, 61 00:03:25,480 --> 00:03:28,520 Speaker 3: she want to be talking at cannot go. No, she 62 00:03:28,639 --> 00:03:31,480 Speaker 3: know I don't want her to go right now. I 63 00:03:31,560 --> 00:03:35,480 Speaker 3: want to go play golf, talk trash, get through, go 64 00:03:35,560 --> 00:03:39,240 Speaker 3: eat without showering. Then I want to take a shower. 65 00:03:39,360 --> 00:03:43,240 Speaker 3: All these speeches you got, you've been playing golf. I'm 66 00:03:43,360 --> 00:03:49,400 Speaker 3: hungry now, I'm hungry. Now I'm hungry enough. And now 67 00:03:49,440 --> 00:03:51,960 Speaker 3: here she come, she'd have walked in the room. I 68 00:03:52,000 --> 00:03:58,040 Speaker 3: do want to go, Well, you ain't. You ain't get 69 00:03:58,160 --> 00:04:05,080 Speaker 3: out of this studio, Mordreie. You're not going to play golf. Talking, 70 00:04:05,640 --> 00:04:09,600 Speaker 3: you are not going to play golf. No, you don't 71 00:04:09,640 --> 00:04:11,040 Speaker 3: want to go, You're not going. 72 00:04:14,080 --> 00:04:16,120 Speaker 4: I want to talk. I don't want to shower. 73 00:04:16,160 --> 00:04:20,680 Speaker 3: When you ask me to shower, stop, I want to 74 00:04:20,720 --> 00:04:23,560 Speaker 3: eat now. Why don't you take a shower first? You'll 75 00:04:23,680 --> 00:04:26,640 Speaker 3: enjoy your food better. Who need a shower to enjoy 76 00:04:26,680 --> 00:04:30,360 Speaker 3: the man? 77 00:04:32,360 --> 00:04:32,560 Speaker 4: Man? 78 00:04:32,600 --> 00:04:33,599 Speaker 3: Can we go to break? 79 00:04:34,040 --> 00:04:39,680 Speaker 1: Yeah? About that time, you're listening to the Steve Harvey 80 00:04:39,720 --> 00:04:40,359 Speaker 1: Morning Show.