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Speaker 1: He said he was okay with this Bob. For the

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Speaker 1: Into you, but anyone's listening to this his named Bob.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, Bob, I could be into you, but this

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Speaker 1: Have you seen like the India memes where it's like

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Speaker 1: Under the Christmas tree, the hookup tree, the Friends with

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Speaker 1: He's doing this to himself. He's setting himself up for

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Speaker 1: Bob's gonna hit the gym and fly to Romania. Then

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Speaker 1: Something I made Claire. I don't want Bob.

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Speaker 1: No amount of diamond earrings is going to change that.

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Speaker 1: This is the low class move, Bob. I said no,

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Speaker 2: It's just so hilarious when he's like, you made me

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Speaker 1: So game as that class and one that's a gift

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Speaker 1: Opie is definitely not in the wrong, but I do

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Speaker 1: You know, they are complicated. There's not a lot of

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Speaker 2: is an interesting let's do it? Okay. So I nineteen

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Speaker 1: John and I are big, big sports guys, big sports

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Speaker 1: One day where I was I thinking, like, you know,

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Speaker 1: Well, you know what I said, Yeah, sports sport his life,

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Speaker 1: But like, as my question is, should a disabled kid

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Speaker 2: That's my thing is Honestly, I kind of think that

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Speaker 2: Okay, I think potentially disabled children could because.

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Speaker 3: the ten piece Crispy Nuts, Medium Strawberry Lemonade with a

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Speaker 3: Spicy Chicken sandwich, Spicy Chicken with a Dave Single, Dave

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Speaker 3: Single with the Strawberry Lemonade, Strawberry Lemonade, Strawberry Lemonade if

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Speaker 3: you're into that, Chicken Sam, Krispy Nugs, Rispy Nugs, Strawberry Lemonade,

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Speaker 3: Dave Dave's Nugs, Nugs, Sam Sam Who pick what you

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Speaker 3: want at.

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Speaker 2: A price you want. Choose wisely.

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Speaker 1: Choose Wendy's two for six for.

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Speaker 3: A limited time.

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Speaker 2: Price of participation may varied in US.

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Speaker 1: Wendy's on the card only a single line of my

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Speaker 1: regular price