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Speaker 1: First Day to follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury

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Speaker 1: Attorneys online at adjocuslaw dot com.

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Speaker 2: Aleijandro is on the phone today for a first Day

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Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Tasha.

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Speaker 2: So in a few minutes, we're gonna call her and

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Speaker 2: see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him. But first, Alejandro,

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Speaker 2: how long has it been since you heard from Tasha?

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Speaker 3: Hey?

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Speaker 4: Man, Yeah, thanks for having me. It's been a couple

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Speaker 4: of days now, last weekend.

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Speaker 1: Actually, okay, that's not too bad. How did you guys

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Speaker 1: leave it after the date?

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Speaker 5: I mean, I thought it went really well.

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Speaker 4: So I'm like, you know, a little stress over here

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Speaker 4: because I thought we were gonna kick it off right away,

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Speaker 4: you know what I mean, And I don't want to

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Speaker 4: do the first a call and I yeah.

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Speaker 5: I'm just really confused. I thought any went really well,

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Speaker 5: so I want to know what's on.

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Speaker 1: Okay, we'll tell us a little bit about the date.

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Speaker 5: So, I mean, Tasha is goping now. I'm just like

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Speaker 5: attracted to her vibe, like right away.

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Speaker 4: You know, SE's just the kind of person that's like

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Speaker 4: effortless and everything that she does, and oh.

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Speaker 5: Man, the way she knows about her life. The way

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Speaker 5: she swings and moves.

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Speaker 4: I mean, it's just so natural and confident, like like

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Speaker 4: the dream woman, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: What was the thing that was most dreaming about her?

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Speaker 4: I mean, she's just like just so natural and confident,

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Speaker 4: like you know, she's the type of person that can

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Speaker 4: walk up to anybody and talk where I'm like super

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Speaker 4: afraid to say to anybody because I think they'll hate me.

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Speaker 5: She just has this love for everybody that's just you

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Speaker 5: could feel it, you know. When she walks by, like

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Speaker 5: a cashier at the Sure, she's the type of person

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Speaker 5: that says, hello, hell's your day. You know, I'm just

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Speaker 5: like in and out the door, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: So she's a good influence on you. You guys balance each other, I.

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Speaker 5: Think, so.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Every time I see her talk to people, though, she

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Speaker 4: smiles and the way people smile back at her, it's

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Speaker 4: it's I'm melting over here.

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Speaker 1: What does you guys do on your day?

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Speaker 4: So I like to do like rock climbing, that's like

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Speaker 4: my hobby. So I thought I'd take her somewhere, you know,

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Speaker 4: where I'm comfortable. And she had told me that she

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Speaker 4: had never been but you know what she like was

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Speaker 4: adventurous and fearless, and she was like, let's go, even

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Speaker 4: though she had like.

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Speaker 5: Never done it.

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Speaker 4: So I thought it was a good opportunity to me, like,

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Speaker 4: you know, to do you know, like that movie Ghosts

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Speaker 4: or he's like behind her making pottery. I would be me,

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Speaker 4: but instead of like pottery, it's helping her climb. I

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Speaker 4: thought I was gonna be like, you know, the awesome

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Speaker 4: guy here. But there was a little like thing that

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Speaker 4: happened while I was there, Like I'm scared that that's

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Speaker 4: the reason why she's probably.

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Speaker 5: Not calling me.

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Speaker 1: Why do you think she's not calling you?

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Speaker 5: So when we were climbing, you know, things are going grave,

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Speaker 5: she's she's doing it. I'm being encouraging.

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Speaker 4: And then as I'm going up about halfway up the wall,

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Speaker 4: like I kind of slipped my foot and I panicked,

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Speaker 4: and then like I yelled to the belairer below me,

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Speaker 4: and I was like, you know, yo, can you know

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Speaker 4: watch out? And it wasn't like a it wasn't like

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Speaker 4: a manly yell, you know, it was more like a

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Speaker 4: poddler losing his balloon.

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Speaker 5: Kind of yelled.

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Speaker 6: You know.

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Speaker 4: It was just like instinctual, like I didn't have time

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Speaker 1: So you squeaked a little.

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Speaker 5: Bit, just just a little bit, you know, I left off.

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Speaker 5: We seamless.

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Speaker 4: She was laughing, and I just thought it wasn't doing enough.

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Speaker 4: Felt like we like shared a moment, you know what

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well maybe this squeak did it. I don't know

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Speaker 1: that would This sounds kind of silly to go somebody

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Speaker 1: over a squeak, unless you keep squeaking.

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Speaker 5: Which even after that, I was like really nervous.

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Speaker 4: Then, so I get like I have a thing where

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Speaker 4: like I get like really sweaty when I get nervous.

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Speaker 5: And I was trying my best.

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Speaker 4: I wore like an undershirt and I was trying my

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Speaker 4: best to like not show it, but like I mean,

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Speaker 4: I switched so much like you, and my chalk back

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Speaker 4: turned into like paste, you know what I mean. I

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Speaker 4: basically left the gym looking like I had been hosed down. Okay,

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Speaker 4: and I should say it was not my sexiest moment,

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Speaker 2: All right, we'll see if we can figure it out

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Speaker 2: where you will play a song, come back and then

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Speaker 2: call her and see if she'll tell us why she's

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Speaker 2: ghosting you and maybe get you a second date.

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Speaker 5: Okay, I appreciate that helped me out.

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Speaker 6: Yo.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, man, your first day follow up is next. It's

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Speaker 1: the Jubile show right in the middle of your first

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Speaker 1: date follow up.

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Speaker 2: And if you're just joining us, Alejandro is on the

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Speaker 2: phone and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Tasha.

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Speaker 2: So we're about to call her and see if she'll

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Speaker 2: tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him

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Speaker 2: a second day if he still wants one. But first, Alejandro,

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Speaker 2: why don't you break down your situation again real quick?

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Speaker 5: All right? Cool?

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Speaker 4: So Tasha, you know I won a second day with her,

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Speaker 4: but on the first day, we went rock climbing and

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Speaker 4: I was a little nervous, so I kind of like

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Speaker 4: had a squeal at one point because I almost go off.

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Speaker 4: And then I was sweating so much that I was

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Speaker 4: just basically drenched in my sweat and it will be

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Speaker 4: a good look.

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Speaker 5: And I'm hoping that that's not the reason why she won't.

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Speaker 1: Call me that squealer. I mean, all right, are you

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Speaker 1: ready for us to call her?

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Speaker 5: Please? I'm dying here.

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Speaker 2: Okay, here we go? Oh well, hi, ma askepeaking Tatasha? Please, Hey, Tasha,

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Speaker 2: how are you? This is the Jewbil Show. It's a

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Speaker 2: radio show.

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Speaker 1: Hi Tasha, I'm Nina and Victoria and my name is Jewbel.

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Speaker 1: What's up?

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Speaker 6: Oh? Okay, Wow, I wasn't sexting. This'd be weird if

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Speaker 6: you were.

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Speaker 2: Have you ever listened to the show before? Yeah, I

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Speaker 2: have sweets. Well, then you might have heard a first

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Speaker 2: date follow up before you know. It's the segment where

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Speaker 2: if you end up ghosting somebody, that person can email

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Speaker 2: us to get you on the phone and ask why

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Speaker 2: you're ghosting them.

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Speaker 1: And we got to email about you.

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Speaker 6: Oh you did?

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Speaker 1: Yes from Alejandro? Remember him?

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Speaker 4: Yes?

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Speaker 1: He says it's been a while and.

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Speaker 2: You haven't called him back, and he is just wondering

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Speaker 2: if you'll tell us why you're ghosting him.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Like, honestly, he was sweating a lot, but that wasn't

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Speaker 6: I mean, he he.

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Speaker 3: Was basically like a human waterfall with like chalk paste

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Speaker 3: ripping down his arms.

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Speaker 6: But there's real reason is well, we were climbing on

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Speaker 3: And he slipped on the wall and when he slipped,

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Speaker 3: he yelled and it was so high pitched it was

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Speaker 6: High pitched.

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Speaker 1: Okay, he told us about that. Yeah, I was a

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Speaker 1: little worried about it. He thought that, is that the

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Speaker 1: reason you're ghosting? Because that's what he thought.

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Speaker 6: Uh No, not exactly. He was making like.

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Speaker 7: A bunch of noises when he was climbing, Like what

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Speaker 7: do you mean? No, he was making like weird, like

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Speaker 7: grunting sounds and like not to be like too graphic

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Speaker 7: or anything, but I it made me like picture him

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Speaker 6: And it really just turned me off.

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Speaker 2: Who He's climbing rocks, squealing a little bit when he fell,

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Speaker 2: and then making grunting noise and you're like, I don't

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Speaker 2: want to hear that in another bedroom type situation.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean she sounds like that now, like I don't.

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Speaker 7: Even even want to think about you know.

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Speaker 2: Oh wow, Well, thank you for telling us the reason why, Atasha.

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Speaker 2: I'll also let you know that Alejandro is on the

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Speaker 2: phone listening and wants to talk to you.

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Speaker 6: Oh he's here, yes, hey, Tasha, Wait, is that really

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Speaker 5: Come on? Let's look great? Great?

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Speaker 6: Right, I'm sorry, but no, I mean it is it

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Speaker 5: Oh come on, you're gonna goat me over that.

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Speaker 4: Oh, come on, Hey, look, you know what, at least

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Speaker 4: you're thinking me that way, and I'm kinda happy to

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Speaker 5: That's kind of cool. But look, come on.

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Speaker 4: Over that, man, I think about it, and look, you know,

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Speaker 4: by the way, I definitely do not sound like that.

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Speaker 5: When that's going on. You know what I'm saying, Like,

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Speaker 5: you know, you don't got to worry about that.

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Speaker 1: Are you sure?

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Speaker 5: You promise you I'll show you what's up.

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Speaker 3: I don't know, Like all I can think about was

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Speaker 3: like you looking at me and spilling and.

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Speaker 6: Being like, you know, like I was going on I

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Speaker 5: Those are not regular sounds. I'll stick to the medium,

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Speaker 5: hard wall. Worry about that, baby, just give me another chance.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's just animated.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean you know, I was working hard. I

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Speaker 5: was trying to impress you.

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Speaker 4: But again, guarantee you that sound and that other sounded

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Speaker 4: completely different, completely different compartments.

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Speaker 1: Like another date with Alejandro will pay for it.

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Speaker 6: I'm sorry, but no, really, we go.

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Speaker 5: We'll hear it.

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Speaker 6: You could take weird sounds doing that too, that's true.

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Speaker 4: Hey, I'll make whatever weird songs you want me to make.

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Speaker 4: Just give me another second day. Yeah, I promise. I'll

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Speaker 4: make it up to you. Look, they're gonna pay for it,

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Speaker 4: so you know we're not losing anything. At least we

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Speaker 4: get a dinner together. I love that you know, things.

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Speaker 5: Go well, we go back. You could take my mouth shut,

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Speaker 5: you could take me up, tie me up, whatever.

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Speaker 2: Huh what do you think, Tasha, I'm just one more chance.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you know.

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Speaker 2: He's really willing to Yeah. Also jumping to conclusions on

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Speaker 2: that you don't know, I mean you.

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Speaker 6: Know I can't. I am sorry.

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Speaker 1: Sorry man, No second day for you?

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Speaker 4: What can you say?

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Speaker 5: I appreciate you trying, though

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Speaker 6: You will First day follow up