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Speaker 1: What's up y'all?

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Speaker 2: Is your girl lexp and is Sugarl Dray in the

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Speaker 2: car and you are tuned in to another episode of

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Speaker 2: Poor Mine thoughts. Girl, I've had a day today already,

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Speaker 2: so I'm just, you know, driving mine of my business.

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Speaker 2: I'm jamming at young I'm feeling myself, you know, and.

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Speaker 1: I just see the blue whites in my blue white,

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Speaker 1: the blue lights. You know what I mean. It's crazy.

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Speaker 1: Why you got pulled over? You signed a little tootube.

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Speaker 2: I've been talking like that morning, you know what I mean. So, yes, girl,

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Speaker 2: I got pulled on my way to the studio. I

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Speaker 2: was sweeding how fast?

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I was just swerving in the burbon.

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Speaker 1: That's crazy because you drive drives. Everybody was like he

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Speaker 1: was forty and I thought I was moving, pitch moving

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Speaker 1: and groovy. So yeah, girl, he pulled me over. And

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Speaker 1: let me tell you why.

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Speaker 2: It was funny because like I got pulled over. He

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Speaker 2: comes to the window, he was like, hey, you know,

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Speaker 2: you're going pretty fast. I was like, I was like,

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry, sir. Like I'm on the way to my podcast.

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Speaker 1: You know, I'm filming today.

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Speaker 2: I was trying to sound a part so he would

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Speaker 2: know like, oh, she ain't just no, she ain't no

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Speaker 2: other body.

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: She ain't just anybody. So he was actually cool about it.

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Speaker 2: He was like, all right, let me see your ID.

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Speaker 2: So I handed my ID and he goes back to

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Speaker 2: his car. So I'm like, oh, I was like, let

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Speaker 2: me take the group chat till I'm gonna be late.

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Speaker 2: So I'm looking at my hands. You know, it's cold outside,

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Speaker 2: so's I'm a little ashy. So I dig in my pirates,

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Speaker 2: I put my lotion on, and I'm like rubbing my hands.

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Speaker 2: When he walked back up, he said, good because your

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Speaker 2: hands was ashy.

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Speaker 1: I was like, give me your badge number. It was

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Speaker 1: a give me your bag of course.

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Speaker 2: So he lets you go. I understand, man, and pulled

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Speaker 2: me over the day let me he was skinned.

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Speaker 1: He was he was kind of short.

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Speaker 2: Well I wasn't really paying attention to his height, but

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Speaker 2: you know, we live in the same area, so it

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Speaker 2: might have been might have.

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Speaker 3: Been the same dude. He let me go to him, girl.

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Speaker 1: Real nigga's him?

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Speaker 2: Why are you looking in my hand? And then he

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Speaker 2: was looking in my car? Baby, please, I'm lotioned up.

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Speaker 1: Now I mean now, but he was, Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I mean I was. But you ain't have to bring

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Speaker 2: that to my attention. I'm gonna get his badge number.

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Speaker 2: I was offended because he would have said that.

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Speaker 1: To a white lady. He wouldn't. He wouldn't been able

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Speaker 1: to tell you. No.

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Speaker 2: You can see that's why white people be thinking they

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Speaker 2: don't need lotion. Yes, you never seen an ashy white person,

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Speaker 2: Well you would know he was.

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Speaker 1: I definitely would. They used to be. You can see

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Speaker 1: when they asked, yes, it's skin.

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Speaker 2: You can see when skin is dry like, but that's

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Speaker 2: dry ash to me, as white ash and dryness is

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Speaker 2: the same thing. Your skin could be dry and not

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Speaker 2: be ass she because people be having skin, they be

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Speaker 2: looking like scary and like dry, but it don't be

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Speaker 2: like ashy To me, Ashy is when your skin look

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Speaker 2: like white like. Yeah, you know, well white people can

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Speaker 2: get ashy. If y'all didn't know, you do. Now Billy

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Speaker 2: Tanner put on that lotion. So I mean we do

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Speaker 2: have white listeners. We remember Becky from the.

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Speaker 1: What you always be saying, shout out to all three

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Speaker 1: of y'all. No, it's like six. Now one of them

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Speaker 1: came to the live show and her name was literally Becky.

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Speaker 1: She danced on the stage. She did because I was

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Speaker 1: trying to be funny.

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Speaker 2: I was like, come on stage, Becky, and she was like, that's.

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Speaker 1: And that ship was finny.

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Speaker 2: Shout out to Shout out to Becky. It was a

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Speaker 2: good sea. Ryan said, he gets ashy, So yeah, white

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Speaker 2: people definitely get ashy. Okay, But other than that, what

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Speaker 2: you went up to gro and girl, you know, staying

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Speaker 2: to stay warm.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because it's been called as fun.

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Speaker 2: It's snow yesterday, but it didn't stick. It didn't sneak exactly.

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Speaker 1: The blue Whites did not speak snik.

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Speaker 2: Blue White did not sneak. We need to name the episode.

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Speaker 2: The blue did not sneak. It didn't so it didn't stik.

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Speaker 2: But it was still cold as fuzz. Like it was

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I'm not a cold weather person. I'm a summer baby.

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Speaker 1: Imagine being born in a winter that ghetto.

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Speaker 2: You lame as fu having to wear having to wear

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Speaker 2: a cold on your birthday, You lame.

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Speaker 1: Bro Like, who hals to that? Is they born in

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Speaker 1: the winter.

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Speaker 2: Honestly, I feel like if you were born in the winter,

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Speaker 2: you really don't need to celebrate your birthday.

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Speaker 1: What are you happy about? Facts? It begetting dark early,

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Speaker 1: it's fuzz, it's dark, it's cold. There don't be no

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Speaker 2: It's coffy season. So you can't even find a nigga.

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Speaker 2: Like the winter just trash, bro, it's trash all around.

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Speaker 2: I'm a summer baby to the tea like I'm a

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Speaker 2: spring baby. Yeah, I can't do it. I don't like

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Speaker 2: the winter is too cold. I'm already like an ashy person.

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Speaker 2: So I'll be like, bro, extra ashy. I'll be like,

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Speaker 2: I'm only laughing because I got these video of you

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Speaker 2: in my phone. Why are you okay? Because you just

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Speaker 2: always have the worst shit of me. You got my

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Speaker 2: old weeks, my.

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Speaker 1: Old clothes, in your own clothes.

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Speaker 2: I definitely left a lot of clothes, like you all

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Speaker 2: got one of your sports borrows.

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Speaker 1: I don't have none of your clothes though, Okay, So

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Speaker 1: what's the video?

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Speaker 2: So the video was one day you was leaving work

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Speaker 2: and it was cold outside. It was like you know what,

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Speaker 2: and you had on your little not espaderos.

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Speaker 1: What you call it? What you remember? What is that?

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Speaker 2: The beach's used to wear them, the ones that like

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Speaker 2: you tied around your ankle. That's why I said the

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Speaker 2: wrong sho Mary Jane, Oh hadj It's given professional you

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Speaker 2: have on your little work, and it was your ankles,

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Speaker 2: and your ankles was ashy as a fuck.

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Speaker 1: When I tell you was doing a little dance, you know,

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Speaker 2: I don't know what she was doing a little First

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Speaker 2: she was you was doing the dance like, and I

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Speaker 2: wasn't recording you. But then I started recording you and

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Speaker 1: And I was like, I got your dance, you know,

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Speaker 2: I read something that said you'll have better days if

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Speaker 2: you wake up like an hour before work and like

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Speaker 2: you know, cook yourself breakfast, get yourself ready, and like

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Speaker 2: really prepare for your day. And I feel like maybe

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Speaker 2: that's why I hated working so bad, because like if

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Speaker 1: Twenty eight, no kidding, like I would still be on time.

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Speaker 1: I would be wrong. So I'm concerned something.

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Speaker 2: You literally I can't even brush my teeth into many

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Speaker 2: I mean, you get stuffed done when you just you

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Speaker 2: don't care about life. Sometimes literally sometimes like on the

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Speaker 2: weekends that would open at seven, so like I would

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Speaker 2: literally sleep in my work clothes.

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Speaker 1: You need.

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Speaker 2: All I had to do was wake up and put

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Speaker 2: that last little button and I was gone, bitch, you

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Speaker 2: know how much time you say about putting your work

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Speaker 2: clothes on?

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Speaker 1: Already give it.

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Speaker 2: I would be a little wrinkle, but that's all right.

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Speaker 2: I used to sit behind the desk so nobody would know.

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Speaker 2: I do be heavy mass shit of yours at my house.

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Speaker 2: I remember when I first moved to the building I

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Speaker 2: live here. Now, I had your work badge?

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Speaker 3: Is you ain't even called? She ain't even missed the

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Speaker 3: fucking badge.

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Speaker 1: I didn't you know.

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Speaker 2: I think I got rolled up for that one time

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Speaker 2: because it was literally in my house, and I told you,

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Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie. Like the last I would say,

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Speaker 2: like six seven months of me working, I was a

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Speaker 2: terrible employee.

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Speaker 1: I was terrible you was there any way? I mean no,

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Speaker 1: I used to be a very good one.

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Speaker 2: Look you are you have I feel like you've always

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Speaker 2: been a great employee. I'm the one that was a

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Speaker 2: trash Like the last six months, like after we went

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Speaker 2: on Edy five. I was like, do y'all know why?

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Speaker 1: I mean, like I was, I was.

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Speaker 2: They used to come up like I remember when people

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Speaker 2: my god, I recognize you.

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Speaker 1: I was like, yes, it's me and I was like, okay,

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Speaker 1: I gotta quick because it was like saying I'm here. Okay.

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Speaker 2: So anyways, anyways, let's get into these topics.

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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all?

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Speaker 3: Is your girl lexp Any sugarl drain and the cold.

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Speaker 1: And it's time to make an announcement.

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Speaker 2: Times were overdudes, second show, second live show, the second shower.

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Speaker 1: Or is it the third show? Because you know we

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Speaker 1: had two shows. We did have two shows.

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Speaker 2: Well let me tell y'all right now, we're not doing

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Speaker 2: two shows on one night. So y'all better get y'all

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Speaker 2: tickets right now because one fell out.

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Speaker 1: We're done.

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Speaker 2: On Wednesday, March sixteenth, we're gonna be in Charlotte for

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Speaker 2: our second live show.

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Speaker 1: I'm super excited because we got the girl. The poor Charlotte.

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Speaker 2: I'm excited too, So yes, we're gonna be at the

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Speaker 2: Comedy Zone and Charlie.

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Speaker 1: It's gonna be huge. It's gonna be amazing. I hope

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Speaker 1: y'all already. Y'all need to get y'all tickets. And because

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Speaker 1: y'all know the v IP gonna sell out, tease so

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Speaker 1: super close. I'm excited. I haven't been to Charlotte. That's

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Speaker 1: one thing that's good about it. I've never been in that.

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Speaker 2: So Charlotte, come turn up with us second live show

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Speaker 2: we outside. I'll see y'all March sixteenth. Get your tickets

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Speaker 2: right now.

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Speaker 1: Come party with the girls period.

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Speaker 2: Because I'm gonna let you introduce the first one because

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Speaker 2: you went on a low key rants I did. I did?

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Speaker 1: I do this? Sometimes?

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Speaker 2: The crazy thing about me is like I either tweet

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Speaker 2: a lot or not at all. So I definitely tweeted recently.

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Speaker 2: I was just talking about like because I'm trying to

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Speaker 2: remember what made me start talking about these I think

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Speaker 2: I had seen something on the timeline, but I can't

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Speaker 2: remember what it was. And I basically was just like

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Speaker 2: how nobody talks about the PTSD that you develop from

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Speaker 2: like your female friends betraying you as a woman, you

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Speaker 2: know what I mean. I'm sure maybe men can relate.

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Speaker 2: I'm sure men have maybe went through the same thing

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Speaker 2: with their friends. But I was speaking more from a

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Speaker 2: woman's perspective because I feel like that's something that a

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Speaker 2: lot of us can relate to, but nobody talks about it,

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Speaker 2: and so and so many women love to get on

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Speaker 2: Do you think that matters't getting back women have been

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Speaker 1: Not they that hurt. Let's talk about it.

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Speaker 2: Let's talk about the burn books and ship like I'm

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Speaker 1: Everybody is mean growing up. I don't agree with that. Kids,

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Speaker 2: I told you, but it was because he grabbed my ass.

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Speaker 2: I talked about. I talked about I didn't on the show.

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Speaker 2: I said I stabbed him with the pence. So I'm sorry, by.

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Speaker 2: But I do sometimes think that even though some people

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Speaker 2: I don't think that you should move and hurt because

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Speaker 2: Relationships, that doesn't stop us from still seeking love and

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Speaker 2: So at the end of the day, like what are

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Speaker 2: I'm just way more cautious, Right, I trust people as

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Speaker 2: you you still you know, like you said, you're not

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Speaker 1: No, I'm not, but it's not something I'm looking for, right.

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Speaker 2: But there's some people out there that are really like

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Speaker 1: I don't talk to them at all.

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Speaker 2: I be with my men, my men and my men,

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Speaker 2: and that's it. Oh well, I never been that type

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Speaker 1: I love that.

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Speaker 2: But I've always been a friend like I love friendship. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I love friendship like I love be I would choose

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Speaker 2: to hang with my friends before I hang with a nigga.

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Speaker 1: Well, not me, y'all. Wouldn't take it unless I.

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Speaker 2: Really like you, don't get me wrong, because I definitely

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Speaker 1: I definitely used to dat you. Oh, I know, I

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Speaker 2: So unless I really like a nigga, I definitely will,

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Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie. I'm not interested like my friends.

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Speaker 2: I love, y'all, but I'm gonna be with my nigga. No,

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Speaker 2: you definitely one of them friends who when you get

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Speaker 3: Well, at least I don't ghost my friends. I'm just

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Speaker 1: Though.

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Speaker 3: When he called, I got to go.

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Speaker 2: But it's like when girls be like, oh my god, y'all, y'all,

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Speaker 2: Well, first of all, was the last time I had

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Speaker 3: Let's talk about it. I have PTSD for me from me, yes, okay.

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Speaker 2: While you was at show, my man, my man, while

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Speaker 2: I'm just that girl like when the when the girls

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Speaker 1: I'm very loyal. I lied for you first of all.

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Speaker 3: No Lex is loyal to a fault, like definitely on

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Speaker 1: For me, I will definitely on the stand.

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Speaker 2: But I will say I'm just that type of girl,

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Speaker 2: Like when the girls are like, oh, let's go on

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Speaker 1: I'm like, can I bring my niggas? Yeah, I am

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Speaker 2: I'm like, I should bring that niggas, but like, if

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Speaker 2: can't let that stop you from wanting to make friends, right,

437
00:20:15,200 --> 00:20:17,480
Speaker 2: But that was really like the only backlash I've seen,

438
00:20:17,960 --> 00:20:20,080
Speaker 2: if anything, it was nothing but women.

439
00:20:20,119 --> 00:20:21,800
Speaker 1: Like I think at this point that tweet.

440
00:20:21,480 --> 00:20:25,119
Speaker 2: Probably has like sixty thousand likes or something, you know

441
00:20:25,160 --> 00:20:27,320
Speaker 2: what I'm just saying. It has like sixty thousand likes

442
00:20:27,320 --> 00:20:30,080
Speaker 2: and like maybe twenty thousand retweets, and all of the

443
00:20:30,080 --> 00:20:32,600
Speaker 2: people that were quote tweeting me were saying like, yeah, bitch,

444
00:20:32,720 --> 00:20:35,960
Speaker 2: like I feel you, but I will say you don't

445
00:20:35,960 --> 00:20:39,919
Speaker 2: feel like you have any PTSD from like people backstabby,

446
00:20:40,000 --> 00:20:43,320
Speaker 2: like your female friendships in the past. Honestly, I've had

447
00:20:43,359 --> 00:20:46,120
Speaker 2: people do me wrong, but it wasn't to the point

448
00:20:46,119 --> 00:20:47,040
Speaker 2: to where I feel like.

449
00:20:47,160 --> 00:20:49,000
Speaker 1: I'm nervous or scared of making new friends.

450
00:20:49,160 --> 00:20:52,159
Speaker 2: I can honestly say that I really don't have PTSD

451
00:20:52,240 --> 00:20:55,280
Speaker 2: from friendships like I do have women that have done

452
00:20:55,600 --> 00:20:59,280
Speaker 2: bad to me. But on your tweet, I will say,

453
00:20:59,600 --> 00:21:02,040
Speaker 2: it was so many people bringing up stuff from like

454
00:21:02,200 --> 00:21:03,560
Speaker 2: elementary and high school.

455
00:21:03,600 --> 00:21:05,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I'm not gonna lie.

456
00:21:06,240 --> 00:21:09,200
Speaker 2: Mine more so comes from literally, yeah, like the stuff

457
00:21:09,320 --> 00:21:12,000
Speaker 2: one bad, really bad situation you were it literally happened

458
00:21:12,080 --> 00:21:15,479
Speaker 2: three or four years ago. So but to see people

459
00:21:16,119 --> 00:21:20,120
Speaker 2: hurting and talking about things from elementary school and middle school,

460
00:21:20,119 --> 00:21:22,199
Speaker 2: it's like, Okay, y'all really have to let stuff like

461
00:21:22,240 --> 00:21:22,520
Speaker 2: that go.

462
00:21:22,680 --> 00:21:25,040
Speaker 3: And when you really think about it, because that situation that.

463
00:21:25,040 --> 00:21:30,359
Speaker 2: You okay, go ahead, that's you you use a little

464
00:21:30,359 --> 00:21:35,639
Speaker 2: soft I wish. So anyway, that situation that she was

465
00:21:35,640 --> 00:21:38,840
Speaker 2: talking about from like three years ago, remember it was

466
00:21:38,920 --> 00:21:42,600
Speaker 2: like three situations in one year. It was more than

467
00:21:42,640 --> 00:21:45,440
Speaker 2: that with three different people. Oh, I thought you're talking

468
00:21:45,440 --> 00:21:47,639
Speaker 2: about with that one person. No, it was like three

469
00:21:47,680 --> 00:21:51,560
Speaker 2: situations with three different people within that same time frame

470
00:21:51,680 --> 00:21:52,080
Speaker 2: of the year.

471
00:21:52,200 --> 00:21:55,000
Speaker 1: Was a girl that lived in New York. Oh, I

472
00:21:55,119 --> 00:22:00,280
Speaker 1: remember that, two bites that lived here. The beach.

473
00:22:00,359 --> 00:22:02,679
Speaker 2: Well, let me say, all beaches, all three you beaches

474
00:22:02,720 --> 00:22:05,960
Speaker 2: is beaches, you beach, you beat.

475
00:22:06,920 --> 00:22:09,320
Speaker 1: I felt that. I like that.

476
00:22:10,640 --> 00:22:13,720
Speaker 2: Okay, but y'all three of you beaches and beaches. But yeah,

477
00:22:13,840 --> 00:22:16,080
Speaker 2: remember it was like three of them, I will say. But,

478
00:22:16,320 --> 00:22:18,320
Speaker 2: like I said, a lot of that has to do

479
00:22:18,400 --> 00:22:20,919
Speaker 2: with the environment, Like you were meeting a lot of

480
00:22:20,960 --> 00:22:23,760
Speaker 2: people through social media, people that were popping on social

481
00:22:23,760 --> 00:22:26,840
Speaker 2: media social well, working in the club.

482
00:22:27,400 --> 00:22:30,080
Speaker 1: Like I'm sorry, I'm not gonna lie to you. I

483
00:22:30,119 --> 00:22:30,920
Speaker 1: said this before, and.

484
00:22:30,880 --> 00:22:33,000
Speaker 3: I'm not a bad beaches link up type.

485
00:22:33,280 --> 00:22:33,600
Speaker 1: Yeah.

486
00:22:33,640 --> 00:22:37,280
Speaker 2: Like when I moved to Atlanta, Honestly, everybody that Dre

487
00:22:37,480 --> 00:22:39,520
Speaker 2: had introduced me to I met them hose one time,

488
00:22:39,560 --> 00:22:41,120
Speaker 2: and every time she'd be like, oh, we're going out tonight.

489
00:22:41,160 --> 00:22:43,879
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm cool, Like I am, so she

490
00:22:44,080 --> 00:22:45,320
Speaker 1: was cool, but she still came.

491
00:22:45,680 --> 00:22:50,160
Speaker 2: I mean, honestly, I can really I haven't made any

492
00:22:50,240 --> 00:22:55,280
Speaker 2: friends in Atlanta. No, I haven't made any friends who

493
00:22:55,359 --> 00:22:58,520
Speaker 2: is from Atlanta? I mean, who was I was cool

494
00:22:59,240 --> 00:23:02,480
Speaker 2: or from Atlanta, from Atlanta, but they lived here like

495
00:23:02,560 --> 00:23:04,800
Speaker 2: they were living. You have a friend right now that

496
00:23:05,720 --> 00:23:07,520
Speaker 2: being like you met them in Atlanta?

497
00:23:07,640 --> 00:23:14,040
Speaker 1: Who didn't you? Who? Who? No? Who?

498
00:23:16,280 --> 00:23:16,520
Speaker 4: No?

499
00:23:17,000 --> 00:23:19,080
Speaker 2: You me and her in Houston. No, we we were

500
00:23:19,119 --> 00:23:21,440
Speaker 2: following each other. My friend Jazz, she's talking about my

501
00:23:21,440 --> 00:23:23,760
Speaker 2: friend Jazz. Yeah, she was living in Houston, but we

502
00:23:23,880 --> 00:23:27,399
Speaker 2: moved to Atlanta around the same time. She wasn't living

503
00:23:27,400 --> 00:23:30,680
Speaker 2: out here living here, living out here, I.

504
00:23:30,600 --> 00:23:33,520
Speaker 1: Have made I have been in Houston since twenty seventeen.

505
00:23:33,760 --> 00:23:37,120
Speaker 1: Everybody can't be true. I'm telling you, bro, nobody.

506
00:23:37,200 --> 00:23:40,080
Speaker 2: I don't have no friends that have been out here

507
00:23:40,119 --> 00:23:42,959
Speaker 2: living even with Diamond. Diamond was a Diamond moved here

508
00:23:43,000 --> 00:23:44,320
Speaker 2: around the same time. Audid too.

509
00:23:44,240 --> 00:23:46,240
Speaker 1: We Kikey is. I feel like Kikey is a friend

510
00:23:46,240 --> 00:23:47,040
Speaker 1: that we both met.

511
00:23:47,119 --> 00:23:50,720
Speaker 2: Okay, well in Atlanta like way that kik is probably

512
00:23:50,720 --> 00:23:52,560
Speaker 2: the only one, like you said, that's somebody that does

513
00:23:52,600 --> 00:23:53,160
Speaker 2: the same.

514
00:23:52,960 --> 00:23:56,680
Speaker 1: Thing that we do. But Atlanta, the Atlanta women are weird.

515
00:23:56,680 --> 00:23:59,000
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. Atlanta women are weird.

516
00:23:59,040 --> 00:24:01,240
Speaker 2: Those and I mean, let's I did even say Atlanta

517
00:24:01,320 --> 00:24:04,360
Speaker 2: women because like I said, I went through a crazy

518
00:24:04,600 --> 00:24:07,800
Speaker 2: traumatic experience with someone that I was cool with that

519
00:24:07,840 --> 00:24:10,320
Speaker 2: lived in New York, Like I went through a crazy

520
00:24:10,359 --> 00:24:14,160
Speaker 2: traumatic experience with somebody that was that was from Houston,

521
00:24:14,480 --> 00:24:17,280
Speaker 2: another girl that I was cool with in adulthood, Like

522
00:24:17,840 --> 00:24:19,520
Speaker 2: I feel like with you, though, a lot of people

523
00:24:19,520 --> 00:24:21,840
Speaker 2: wanted to be friends with you because they had ulterior motives,

524
00:24:21,840 --> 00:24:25,280
Speaker 2: Like they felt like you were dating certain men, living

525
00:24:25,320 --> 00:24:27,920
Speaker 2: a certain lifestyle, and they wanted that and they wanted

526
00:24:27,960 --> 00:24:29,439
Speaker 2: to be a part of that. Like you were pretty,

527
00:24:29,480 --> 00:24:31,760
Speaker 2: you looked a certain way, and they just wanted to

528
00:24:31,760 --> 00:24:33,960
Speaker 2: be cool with you because you know, because of social media,

529
00:24:34,040 --> 00:24:37,679
Speaker 2: you have followers. Girls try to be friends with women

530
00:24:37,840 --> 00:24:39,880
Speaker 2: like other girls just because they have a lot of followers.

531
00:24:39,960 --> 00:24:45,320
Speaker 1: Let's be honest, Like that's the truth. I mean in granted, yeah,

532
00:24:45,440 --> 00:24:46,119
Speaker 1: that's true.

533
00:24:46,160 --> 00:24:47,960
Speaker 2: But at the end of the day, if anything to me,

534
00:24:48,040 --> 00:24:50,399
Speaker 2: if you're going to be that type of conniving ass person, well,

535
00:24:50,440 --> 00:24:52,600
Speaker 2: if you that type of person, you a social climber, right,

536
00:24:53,320 --> 00:24:55,160
Speaker 2: So if you a social climber, then why would.

537
00:24:55,000 --> 00:24:55,719
Speaker 1: You cross somebody?

538
00:24:57,160 --> 00:25:00,400
Speaker 2: Because why would you cross somebody who like because I'll

539
00:25:00,440 --> 00:25:01,359
Speaker 2: tell you, I'll tell.

540
00:25:01,200 --> 00:25:02,760
Speaker 1: You like that don't make me either.

541
00:25:02,800 --> 00:25:06,199
Speaker 2: One they've become they've become jealous and they don't like

542
00:25:06,480 --> 00:25:09,119
Speaker 2: that the attention isn't spread out evenly.

543
00:25:09,040 --> 00:25:10,200
Speaker 1: Or too but it never was.

544
00:25:10,520 --> 00:25:13,199
Speaker 2: Or two, they've used you and they've gotten what they

545
00:25:13,240 --> 00:25:15,560
Speaker 2: needed from the situation, not you in particular, but I'm

546
00:25:15,600 --> 00:25:18,680
Speaker 2: saying in certain situations like either they've gotten what they needed,

547
00:25:18,720 --> 00:25:21,200
Speaker 2: Like say, I'm trying to hang out with you because

548
00:25:21,240 --> 00:25:23,359
Speaker 2: you cool and this and that, but you got this

549
00:25:23,440 --> 00:25:25,000
Speaker 2: nigga that you fucking with, and I want to meet

550
00:25:25,040 --> 00:25:27,320
Speaker 2: him and be around his friends because I know. So

551
00:25:27,520 --> 00:25:30,160
Speaker 2: if we go to the club one night and your

552
00:25:30,280 --> 00:25:32,159
Speaker 2: nigga there and I end up meeting his friend, I

553
00:25:32,160 --> 00:25:33,760
Speaker 2: get his friend number, Well, I don't need you no

554
00:25:33,800 --> 00:25:35,480
Speaker 2: more because I got what I wanted, you know what

555
00:25:35,480 --> 00:25:35,800
Speaker 2: I'm saying.

556
00:25:35,840 --> 00:25:37,000
Speaker 1: So a lot of people be like, oh, I got

557
00:25:37,040 --> 00:25:38,920
Speaker 1: what I needed from the situation. I can dip now.

558
00:25:39,440 --> 00:25:42,880
Speaker 2: So I just feel like a lot of these friendships

559
00:25:43,200 --> 00:25:46,680
Speaker 2: go bad and go sour because there's alterior motives outside

560
00:25:46,680 --> 00:25:48,760
Speaker 2: of just you know, I want to have somebody that's

561
00:25:48,920 --> 00:25:50,760
Speaker 2: that I'm cool with and we can have a good time.

562
00:25:50,800 --> 00:25:53,560
Speaker 2: I also think some of my friendships went sour too

563
00:25:53,600 --> 00:25:57,000
Speaker 2: because and this is gonna bring us into the next topic, yeah,

564
00:25:57,000 --> 00:25:58,440
Speaker 2: this is gonna bring us into the next topic. But

565
00:25:58,480 --> 00:26:00,640
Speaker 2: I think some of my friendships when sour too because

566
00:26:00,960 --> 00:26:04,359
Speaker 2: of what I don't share and what I don't tell people,

567
00:26:04,920 --> 00:26:07,440
Speaker 2: because people be thinking like you. Like, like you said,

568
00:26:07,480 --> 00:26:10,040
Speaker 2: people will try to get cool with you because they

569
00:26:10,080 --> 00:26:11,719
Speaker 2: want to know what you got going on in all

570
00:26:11,720 --> 00:26:13,439
Speaker 2: this episode. But I'm not really a beach like just

571
00:26:13,440 --> 00:26:15,280
Speaker 2: because we cool with each other, we can very much

572
00:26:15,600 --> 00:26:18,080
Speaker 2: go out together, have a good time. We could talk

573
00:26:18,080 --> 00:26:19,760
Speaker 2: on the phone, but we're gonna talk about other things.

574
00:26:19,760 --> 00:26:21,800
Speaker 2: We're not about to talk about mobbs needs what I

575
00:26:21,880 --> 00:26:24,439
Speaker 2: be doing unless I fuck with you like that, right,

576
00:26:24,640 --> 00:26:27,040
Speaker 2: And the select people that I do fuck with like that,

577
00:26:27,240 --> 00:26:28,760
Speaker 2: they do know what I be having going on. But

578
00:26:28,800 --> 00:26:30,960
Speaker 2: don't think just because you my friend and we be

579
00:26:31,040 --> 00:26:33,120
Speaker 2: hanging out now you're about to know all my tea,

580
00:26:33,240 --> 00:26:33,720
Speaker 2: well that's.

581
00:26:33,560 --> 00:26:34,080
Speaker 1: Not a friend.

582
00:26:34,119 --> 00:26:36,520
Speaker 2: Then that's more of an associate, right, I mean, but

583
00:26:36,640 --> 00:26:38,919
Speaker 2: in my mind, I think that's the problem. A lot

584
00:26:38,960 --> 00:26:43,480
Speaker 2: of people have just been associated to me. But then

585
00:26:43,560 --> 00:26:47,440
Speaker 2: I guess as time progressed, because we spent so much

586
00:26:47,480 --> 00:26:50,920
Speaker 2: time together, I started feeling like you could be my friend, right,

587
00:26:51,080 --> 00:26:54,080
Speaker 2: And then with that obviously comes a little bit Okay,

588
00:26:54,119 --> 00:26:56,120
Speaker 2: I'll be telling you a little bit more. And then

589
00:26:56,119 --> 00:26:59,920
Speaker 2: I feel like that's why even now I don't share

590
00:27:00,040 --> 00:27:03,120
Speaker 2: as much anymore, because people will use that same those

591
00:27:03,160 --> 00:27:06,120
Speaker 2: same things that you told them in confidence against you. Right, Oh,

592
00:27:06,200 --> 00:27:08,360
Speaker 2: I definitely agree with that, you know, And so now

593
00:27:08,400 --> 00:27:10,560
Speaker 2: I'm even way more caut She It's like, yeah, if

594
00:27:10,560 --> 00:27:12,680
Speaker 2: I meet you and we hang out, you definitely in

595
00:27:12,720 --> 00:27:14,400
Speaker 2: associated you definitely not my friend.

596
00:27:14,400 --> 00:27:16,240
Speaker 1: I'm not telling you. She right, you know.

597
00:27:16,359 --> 00:27:18,040
Speaker 2: But I think that that's the reason why in the

598
00:27:18,080 --> 00:27:21,240
Speaker 2: past too, like I had issues with my female friends

599
00:27:21,280 --> 00:27:24,199
Speaker 2: because people have loved to be like I'm sneaky and

600
00:27:24,240 --> 00:27:27,040
Speaker 2: I'm secretly like we talked about these before, but it's

601
00:27:27,119 --> 00:27:27,440
Speaker 2: just like.

602
00:27:27,440 --> 00:27:29,080
Speaker 1: I'm really not sneaky.

603
00:27:29,119 --> 00:27:31,760
Speaker 2: You are sneaky in what way?

604
00:27:32,119 --> 00:27:34,000
Speaker 1: I mean, that's a trait of tourists.

605
00:27:34,000 --> 00:27:36,480
Speaker 3: It's all about me, Like, give me an example of

606
00:27:36,520 --> 00:27:37,280
Speaker 3: me being sneaky.

607
00:27:37,520 --> 00:27:40,199
Speaker 2: You do sneaky shit like what I don't want to

608
00:27:40,200 --> 00:27:41,240
Speaker 2: put your business.

609
00:27:41,280 --> 00:27:43,600
Speaker 3: I want to, but I'm giving you permission. I want

610
00:27:43,600 --> 00:27:44,120
Speaker 3: an example.

611
00:27:45,280 --> 00:27:47,800
Speaker 2: You don't have to like tell everything, but I want

612
00:27:47,840 --> 00:27:50,120
Speaker 2: to like know exactly what you talking about, so.

613
00:27:50,080 --> 00:27:50,399
Speaker 1: I need to.

614
00:27:50,480 --> 00:27:52,280
Speaker 2: Okay, Well, we've talked about this on the show before,

615
00:27:52,320 --> 00:27:54,800
Speaker 2: like you do sneaky? Are we talking about in friendships

616
00:27:54,880 --> 00:27:55,639
Speaker 2: or just in general?

617
00:27:56,560 --> 00:27:57,200
Speaker 1: Maybe? Both?

618
00:27:57,359 --> 00:28:00,960
Speaker 2: Okay, I can cause I can name more than two instances,

619
00:28:01,000 --> 00:28:04,639
Speaker 2: but okay, we'll talk about you being. I mean you

620
00:28:04,680 --> 00:28:09,320
Speaker 2: got more than Yeah, Like to me, like when you

621
00:28:10,560 --> 00:28:14,080
Speaker 2: went to the islands and you were olan hopping that time,

622
00:28:14,680 --> 00:28:16,280
Speaker 2: you were being sneaky?

623
00:28:16,640 --> 00:28:18,120
Speaker 1: How that was sneaky?

624
00:28:18,280 --> 00:28:22,000
Speaker 2: How was it sneaky because you because the person that

625
00:28:22,040 --> 00:28:24,000
Speaker 2: you were know I was going So how was I being?

626
00:28:24,280 --> 00:28:25,880
Speaker 2: You were being sneaky to the person you were dealing

627
00:28:25,920 --> 00:28:27,320
Speaker 2: with because you were trying to make him mad. So

628
00:28:27,359 --> 00:28:30,840
Speaker 2: you snuck off and you went to the islands getting

629
00:28:30,880 --> 00:28:34,159
Speaker 2: gold no sprights hand. That's what you did. That is

630
00:28:34,200 --> 00:28:36,800
Speaker 2: what you did. You want me to talk about another instance? Yeah,

631
00:28:36,840 --> 00:28:38,720
Speaker 2: because I I don't feel like that was snak that

632
00:28:38,760 --> 00:28:43,440
Speaker 2: was sneaky how you snuck off to the If you

633
00:28:43,520 --> 00:28:45,360
Speaker 2: get on a plane and you don't tell the person

634
00:28:45,400 --> 00:28:47,360
Speaker 2: that you're fucking that I'm going to an island to

635
00:28:47,400 --> 00:28:48,040
Speaker 2: get gold with no.

636
00:28:48,160 --> 00:28:50,560
Speaker 1: SPRTs hand, he got out a plane and went to

637
00:28:50,600 --> 00:28:51,760
Speaker 1: an island withould have been he was?

638
00:28:51,960 --> 00:28:54,960
Speaker 2: I didn't I say he wasn't being? You were being

639
00:28:55,000 --> 00:28:58,560
Speaker 2: sneaky back Tomato tomatow knicks. You was forever getting your

640
00:28:58,840 --> 00:29:03,240
Speaker 2: back in that I'm gonna get my what period. No,

641
00:29:03,880 --> 00:29:06,960
Speaker 2: the other situation was this is a friendship, this is

642
00:29:07,000 --> 00:29:11,080
Speaker 2: her well an associates situation, and you got me involved.

643
00:29:11,840 --> 00:29:14,240
Speaker 2: You started fucking this, you fucked that, And I said

644
00:29:14,280 --> 00:29:18,280
Speaker 2: this on the past episode she was associates with somebody.

645
00:29:18,520 --> 00:29:20,480
Speaker 2: Not only did she still her man once she stole

646
00:29:20,520 --> 00:29:23,280
Speaker 2: her cool of her inn, she started sucking the first

647
00:29:23,320 --> 00:29:25,240
Speaker 2: man and had me lie to her about it.

648
00:29:25,320 --> 00:29:30,960
Speaker 1: She was like, did I have you let me told

649
00:29:30,960 --> 00:29:32,560
Speaker 1: me to tell the stories? You're gonna let me tell me?

650
00:29:32,720 --> 00:29:35,240
Speaker 1: Tell it right that I am, and you gonna tell

651
00:29:35,240 --> 00:29:35,520
Speaker 1: the story?

652
00:29:35,600 --> 00:29:37,400
Speaker 2: Tell the truth because we did not have a conversation

653
00:29:38,120 --> 00:29:40,960
Speaker 2: into the beached on your own because I hold you

654
00:29:41,000 --> 00:29:43,480
Speaker 2: what you want me to tell the truth? Did you

655
00:29:43,480 --> 00:29:44,480
Speaker 2: want me to tell the truth?

656
00:29:44,560 --> 00:29:45,320
Speaker 1: But I'm just say.

657
00:29:46,760 --> 00:29:48,360
Speaker 2: But guess what if I would have sat there and

658
00:29:48,360 --> 00:29:50,880
Speaker 2: told the truth, you would have been having a podcast

659
00:29:50,880 --> 00:29:52,920
Speaker 2: with somebody named Shirley, Like, yeah, I was friends with

660
00:29:52,960 --> 00:29:55,280
Speaker 2: this bitch name next P one time, and now I

661
00:29:55,320 --> 00:29:58,280
Speaker 2: got PTSD because why are you supposed to be my friend?

662
00:29:58,280 --> 00:30:02,719
Speaker 2: Why are you done told the bitch what I'm doing. So,

663
00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:05,560
Speaker 2: like I was saying, the bitch came and she was like,

664
00:30:05,680 --> 00:30:11,600
Speaker 2: last time it's Dragon fucking such and such. I was like, nah, nah, bro,

665
00:30:11,760 --> 00:30:14,000
Speaker 2: she ain't doing The whole time, Dragonting bent over in

666
00:30:14,080 --> 00:30:18,720
Speaker 2: that nigga crimped cutting up and not only me after her,

667
00:30:18,960 --> 00:30:21,240
Speaker 2: Like after drag stopped dealing with this nigga, it was

668
00:30:21,280 --> 00:30:22,600
Speaker 2: another nigga she was dealing with.

669
00:30:22,720 --> 00:30:26,240
Speaker 1: She's like, I want that nigga too, So that was sneaky.

670
00:30:26,440 --> 00:30:30,600
Speaker 2: How it was not sneaky because at that point, let's

671
00:30:30,600 --> 00:30:33,160
Speaker 2: be clear, be clear, homie, that was not.

672
00:30:33,240 --> 00:30:35,040
Speaker 1: My friend no more. That bitch was fraud.

673
00:30:35,120 --> 00:30:36,680
Speaker 3: She used to be talking about me behind my back.

674
00:30:36,760 --> 00:30:37,680
Speaker 3: Did we not find that out?

675
00:30:37,840 --> 00:30:40,760
Speaker 2: I mean we did, And that's when I decided that

676
00:30:40,880 --> 00:30:43,120
Speaker 2: it was okay for me to talk to the second nigga,

677
00:30:43,200 --> 00:30:45,760
Speaker 2: the first nigga she lied to me about.

678
00:30:45,880 --> 00:30:48,440
Speaker 3: I asked her. I asked her face to face.

679
00:30:48,520 --> 00:30:50,320
Speaker 1: I said, you being with him?

680
00:30:50,680 --> 00:30:52,800
Speaker 3: She said, nah, girl, we donna be fucking. This's just

681
00:30:52,840 --> 00:30:53,280
Speaker 3: for TV.

682
00:30:53,520 --> 00:30:56,880
Speaker 2: But then you just say it was you don't tell

683
00:30:56,920 --> 00:30:59,600
Speaker 2: everybody your business what you talking about? Because you said

684
00:30:59,640 --> 00:31:02,040
Speaker 2: you don't tell all your friends your business, like sometimes

685
00:31:02,080 --> 00:31:03,520
Speaker 2: you just so maybe she just wanted to keep the

686
00:31:03,520 --> 00:31:07,120
Speaker 2: information to herself. Okay, but at the end, and that's cool,

687
00:31:07,160 --> 00:31:10,160
Speaker 2: But why lie about a nigga? You fucking and Okay,

688
00:31:10,200 --> 00:31:11,080
Speaker 2: so I don't understand.

689
00:31:11,200 --> 00:31:13,040
Speaker 3: I get that, but then I don't. I do keep

690
00:31:13,040 --> 00:31:13,800
Speaker 3: thinking to myself.

691
00:31:13,800 --> 00:31:15,840
Speaker 2: But even if I'm not that cool with you, if

692
00:31:15,840 --> 00:31:18,400
Speaker 2: you come to me, if it's because obviously she felt

693
00:31:18,400 --> 00:31:20,320
Speaker 2: some type of way about me fucking the nigga after

694
00:31:21,280 --> 00:31:23,640
Speaker 2: so you fucked with him like that. If I fuck

695
00:31:23,720 --> 00:31:26,120
Speaker 2: with a nigga like that and somebody comes and asks me,

696
00:31:26,680 --> 00:31:29,480
Speaker 2: do you be fucking with him, I'm gonna be like, bitch, yeah,

697
00:31:29,520 --> 00:31:30,560
Speaker 2: why right?

698
00:31:30,920 --> 00:31:33,320
Speaker 1: Well, but by the time why are you asking me?

699
00:31:33,400 --> 00:31:35,560
Speaker 2: By the time she asked us, we had figured out

700
00:31:35,560 --> 00:31:38,920
Speaker 2: that they were talking though, and I already had fucked

701
00:31:38,920 --> 00:31:42,640
Speaker 2: to him, and it was not my fault. But it

702
00:31:42,720 --> 00:31:48,440
Speaker 2: wasn't my fault because if you lied, Andruth sneaky because.

703
00:31:48,120 --> 00:31:51,640
Speaker 3: I was playing a game. You know, it wasn't sneak.

704
00:31:52,600 --> 00:31:55,600
Speaker 2: You know what was going on, all right, we can,

705
00:31:55,760 --> 00:31:59,640
Speaker 2: but you you were playing a game, you had a reason. Yes,

706
00:32:00,600 --> 00:32:02,640
Speaker 2: I did not tell her at the time, so that

707
00:32:02,720 --> 00:32:05,120
Speaker 2: was being sneaky. It was not being sneaky. You were

708
00:32:05,160 --> 00:32:08,200
Speaker 2: playing a game to gain something, which is fine. I

709
00:32:08,280 --> 00:32:11,400
Speaker 2: can't be being sneaky towards you if you ain't my homegirl,

710
00:32:11,520 --> 00:32:13,360
Speaker 2: like I don't fuck with you like that no more

711
00:32:13,400 --> 00:32:15,840
Speaker 2: because I found out you was missy. You used to

712
00:32:15,920 --> 00:32:19,120
Speaker 2: be talking about me to a nigga who used to

713
00:32:19,120 --> 00:32:22,160
Speaker 2: come back and tell me everything. Now you're not my friend.

714
00:32:22,280 --> 00:32:24,880
Speaker 2: So now guess what. All the niggas on your roster

715
00:32:25,080 --> 00:32:29,240
Speaker 2: is free game. That's my final word. I said what I.

716
00:32:29,200 --> 00:32:38,040
Speaker 1: Said, sneaky. Let's move on to the next topic. Sneaky.

717
00:32:38,440 --> 00:32:41,560
Speaker 2: Let me make sure you don't steal my wine.

718
00:32:42,280 --> 00:32:45,080
Speaker 1: It's given, sneaky. Okay, go ahead, go ahead, go do

719
00:32:45,360 --> 00:32:45,960
Speaker 1: super sneak.

720
00:32:46,080 --> 00:32:51,000
Speaker 2: It's okay, though it is okay. Everybody has flaws about themselves.

721
00:32:51,080 --> 00:32:52,000
Speaker 1: I don't think that's.

722
00:32:51,880 --> 00:32:56,240
Speaker 2: A flaw, even if I am sneaky. I don't think

723
00:32:56,280 --> 00:32:58,840
Speaker 2: that's a flaw. I think that's a great thing that

724
00:32:58,880 --> 00:33:03,200
Speaker 2: I've learned of being private and mysterious sneaky.

725
00:33:04,720 --> 00:33:07,240
Speaker 1: That's a great thing. You call it potato, I call

726
00:33:07,360 --> 00:33:12,520
Speaker 1: it okay. Ringing the next topic, bitch, what's up y'all?

727
00:33:12,560 --> 00:33:14,520
Speaker 2: Is your girl LIKEX speak and it's sugarl Dray in

728
00:33:14,560 --> 00:33:16,600
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729
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730
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731
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Speaker 2: in the market just to get some new wheels, broom

732
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733
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Speaker 1: Yes.

734
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Speaker 2: vehicles on the website.

736
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738
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739
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Speaker 2: you want to use your own bank, they can do

740
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741
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Speaker 2: if you had going to the car dealership and dealing

742
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743
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746
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747
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Speaker 1: You know how people be.

748
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Speaker 3: Like, oh, let me see how much is marry You

749
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Speaker 3: gotta do none of that.

750
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755
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756
00:34:13,200 --> 00:34:16,000
Speaker 2: Speaking of all of this that Lex say I'm sneaky,

757
00:34:16,080 --> 00:34:19,120
Speaker 2: and shit, I don't think I'm sneaky. I think that

758
00:34:19,480 --> 00:34:23,479
Speaker 2: I have mastered the art of being mysterious. I feel

759
00:34:23,480 --> 00:34:29,919
Speaker 2: like some music like, okay, so what do you feel

760
00:34:29,920 --> 00:34:32,719
Speaker 2: like the minute? Because I'm not a mysterious person, Like

761
00:34:34,320 --> 00:34:36,719
Speaker 2: I'm an open book. That's me, Like I'm a leo.

762
00:34:36,920 --> 00:34:39,319
Speaker 2: I'm very like what you see is what you get.

763
00:34:39,480 --> 00:34:41,319
Speaker 2: This is me, This is who I am. You either

764
00:34:41,360 --> 00:34:42,160
Speaker 2: gonna fuck.

765
00:34:41,960 --> 00:34:44,239
Speaker 1: With me and like it or not.

766
00:34:44,640 --> 00:34:46,799
Speaker 2: Like we talked about this on the past episode where

767
00:34:46,840 --> 00:34:48,680
Speaker 2: I was literally on the on my first date with

768
00:34:48,800 --> 00:34:50,600
Speaker 2: throwback Back and I told him, hey, you know I

769
00:34:50,719 --> 00:34:52,400
Speaker 2: used to fuck with your friend like I tell on

770
00:34:52,480 --> 00:34:55,480
Speaker 2: myself all the time, and a nigga asked me, I

771
00:34:55,600 --> 00:34:58,120
Speaker 2: started fucking a nigga and I knew I had fucked friends.

772
00:34:58,200 --> 00:35:01,440
Speaker 2: I didn't say nothing nothing. We are So now maybe

773
00:35:01,600 --> 00:35:05,040
Speaker 2: that was sneaky. I will I will take the blame

774
00:35:06,640 --> 00:35:07,760
Speaker 2: because that was sneaky.

775
00:35:08,000 --> 00:35:08,800
Speaker 1: That was deceitful.

776
00:35:08,880 --> 00:35:11,680
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, so it wasn't What do you what do

777
00:35:11,760 --> 00:35:15,640
Speaker 2: you think the benefits are being mysterious.

778
00:35:17,080 --> 00:35:17,440
Speaker 1: Mmmm.

779
00:35:18,520 --> 00:35:21,360
Speaker 2: I think it's good for people to never know everything

780
00:35:21,440 --> 00:35:24,000
Speaker 2: about you, because I feel like the more people know

781
00:35:24,080 --> 00:35:26,080
Speaker 2: about you, the more that they can use against you.

782
00:35:26,160 --> 00:35:29,279
Speaker 2: And you can't never one hundred percent trust nobody, don't

783
00:35:29,280 --> 00:35:31,839
Speaker 2: ever put nothing past nobody. So to me, it's good

784
00:35:31,960 --> 00:35:34,480
Speaker 2: to like, until you feel like you could trust people

785
00:35:34,640 --> 00:35:37,120
Speaker 2: like that, you don't let them in all the way.

786
00:35:37,280 --> 00:35:41,120
Speaker 2: You kind of keep them on edge, not on edge,

787
00:35:41,200 --> 00:35:43,600
Speaker 2: but like on the fence about who they think you are.

788
00:35:43,920 --> 00:35:46,000
Speaker 2: Maybe you think I'm this way, maybe I am, maybe

789
00:35:46,040 --> 00:35:47,400
Speaker 2: I'm not. I do.

790
00:35:48,040 --> 00:35:48,960
Speaker 1: The world would never know.

791
00:35:50,480 --> 00:35:53,560
Speaker 2: It is enticing, Like when somebody's more mysterious, it's like

792
00:35:53,640 --> 00:35:56,480
Speaker 2: you want to know, like what is what do they

793
00:35:56,560 --> 00:35:59,680
Speaker 2: have going on? Because people are naturally curious. Like I

794
00:35:59,800 --> 00:36:02,080
Speaker 2: tell you one thing about one of our friends, and

795
00:36:02,160 --> 00:36:03,800
Speaker 2: this is another male friend I have shout outs to

796
00:36:03,880 --> 00:36:06,160
Speaker 2: cast Kats always have said that about me.

797
00:36:06,320 --> 00:36:08,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, like ever since we first met him.

798
00:36:08,400 --> 00:36:12,000
Speaker 2: He just always be like like, yeah, like it's because

799
00:36:12,040 --> 00:36:14,120
Speaker 2: you look how you look, and then you funny how

800
00:36:14,239 --> 00:36:15,239
Speaker 2: you look, bitch.

801
00:36:15,360 --> 00:36:20,480
Speaker 1: Anyways, I was just asking.

802
00:36:21,680 --> 00:36:30,120
Speaker 2: I know that's right, but anyways, Cats always be like, yeah,

803
00:36:30,160 --> 00:36:33,120
Speaker 2: it's because you like a pretty girl. Or whatever, you're

804
00:36:33,160 --> 00:36:35,360
Speaker 2: attractive and then on top of that, you know, you

805
00:36:35,480 --> 00:36:37,759
Speaker 2: cools fucking you have a good personality. But he was like,

806
00:36:37,800 --> 00:36:40,000
Speaker 2: but I really think would draw me and into you.

807
00:36:40,120 --> 00:36:41,680
Speaker 2: He was like, because from what I could see how

808
00:36:41,800 --> 00:36:43,759
Speaker 2: niggas be about you and how they act over you.

809
00:36:44,360 --> 00:36:46,840
Speaker 2: He was like, I think it's because you're mysterious and

810
00:36:47,280 --> 00:36:50,319
Speaker 2: like you're interesting to most people because they just can't

811
00:36:50,360 --> 00:36:53,520
Speaker 2: figure you out right, And I think, but there's also

812
00:36:53,920 --> 00:36:55,560
Speaker 2: levels to being mysterious as well.

813
00:36:55,880 --> 00:36:59,040
Speaker 3: I think so too, Like I feel like I think

814
00:36:59,080 --> 00:37:00,760
Speaker 3: you a certain level mysterious.

815
00:37:01,400 --> 00:37:06,080
Speaker 2: I think I'm a liar, like it's a miss Like

816
00:37:06,200 --> 00:37:09,320
Speaker 2: I'm definitely it's a mystery going on you just because

817
00:37:09,360 --> 00:37:09,759
Speaker 2: you don't know.

818
00:37:10,400 --> 00:37:12,120
Speaker 1: You don't. Niggas don't know if I'm lied of telling

819
00:37:12,160 --> 00:37:14,400
Speaker 1: the truth like a good liar.

820
00:37:14,560 --> 00:37:18,279
Speaker 2: I'll say this, and I'm telling on myself right now,

821
00:37:18,320 --> 00:37:20,200
Speaker 2: I really am. But when I fuck with a nigga,

822
00:37:20,280 --> 00:37:22,759
Speaker 2: niggas never know if they are the only person I'm

823
00:37:22,800 --> 00:37:25,880
Speaker 2: talking to or if there's multiple because I literally I

824
00:37:26,040 --> 00:37:28,480
Speaker 2: make every person I'm dealing with feel like a king.

825
00:37:28,840 --> 00:37:31,720
Speaker 2: When you said that to me, and remember, I was like, really,

826
00:37:32,080 --> 00:37:34,560
Speaker 2: because I guess because I be knowing, yo, bees, cause

827
00:37:34,560 --> 00:37:35,359
Speaker 2: you tell me something.

828
00:37:35,440 --> 00:37:37,759
Speaker 1: I find it hard to believe that they don't know.

829
00:37:38,080 --> 00:37:40,919
Speaker 1: They do not know. Well, maybe you just really good.

830
00:37:41,440 --> 00:37:43,680
Speaker 2: I mean, I feel like that's why I say. I

831
00:37:43,719 --> 00:37:46,200
Speaker 2: don't think it's necessarily like mysterious.

832
00:37:46,239 --> 00:37:49,719
Speaker 1: I just feel like I just handle my baby. I'm

833
00:37:49,840 --> 00:37:53,399
Speaker 1: very mysterious. Yeah, beach stoop. Yeah.

834
00:37:53,400 --> 00:37:55,160
Speaker 2: I feel like people never really know because I feel

835
00:37:55,160 --> 00:37:57,839
Speaker 2: like on the show we talk about, you know, our

836
00:37:57,960 --> 00:38:01,680
Speaker 2: bays and things like that, But honestly, sometimes.

837
00:38:01,480 --> 00:38:02,640
Speaker 1: I may reason anybody.

838
00:38:02,760 --> 00:38:05,080
Speaker 2: The only reason anybody that listened to this show, even

839
00:38:05,120 --> 00:38:07,239
Speaker 2: though was about one person that I ever fucked with,

840
00:38:07,440 --> 00:38:09,759
Speaker 2: is because I said who it was, right, had I

841
00:38:09,880 --> 00:38:12,040
Speaker 2: not said who it was, even though the episode is

842
00:38:12,080 --> 00:38:14,279
Speaker 2: going now, if I had never said who it was,

843
00:38:14,520 --> 00:38:16,640
Speaker 2: y'all never would have figured it out. Well, I'll say,

844
00:38:16,680 --> 00:38:19,320
Speaker 2: I do feel like when people know about our base,

845
00:38:19,440 --> 00:38:23,200
Speaker 2: like we know this, like we never necessarily give like

846
00:38:23,239 --> 00:38:26,040
Speaker 2: a timeline, Like sometimes I might be telling the story

847
00:38:26,080 --> 00:38:27,960
Speaker 2: and it might have happened four or five years ago,

848
00:38:28,280 --> 00:38:31,160
Speaker 2: and I don't feel like that's me being mysterious. I'm

849
00:38:31,320 --> 00:38:34,520
Speaker 2: just not telling the whole story, you know what I'm saying,

850
00:38:34,680 --> 00:38:39,040
Speaker 2: Like I omit some information. Sometimes I guess I'll say

851
00:38:39,120 --> 00:38:42,160
Speaker 2: that like because I said, well, I'll say that. It

852
00:38:42,239 --> 00:38:44,600
Speaker 2: may be lying, but I will say this. I don't

853
00:38:44,840 --> 00:38:47,320
Speaker 2: mind people thinking that they know shit about me.

854
00:38:47,440 --> 00:38:47,920
Speaker 1: I'll say that.

855
00:38:48,040 --> 00:38:51,040
Speaker 2: So if people be like, oh, let's say she back

856
00:38:51,080 --> 00:38:53,000
Speaker 2: of Rapper Bay, I know they together right now, and

857
00:38:53,120 --> 00:38:55,080
Speaker 2: I could possibly not be back with Rapper Bay. I

858
00:38:55,440 --> 00:38:57,960
Speaker 2: could have been just lying, But I'm not mad at that.

859
00:38:58,080 --> 00:38:59,440
Speaker 2: If that's what y'all want to go with, and that's

860
00:38:59,440 --> 00:39:00,880
Speaker 2: what y'all want to I think I'm cool with it.

861
00:39:01,320 --> 00:39:05,080
Speaker 2: I like people thinking whatever I do, and it's because

862
00:39:05,200 --> 00:39:08,560
Speaker 2: I give you the information. I'm choosing to let give

863
00:39:08,640 --> 00:39:10,640
Speaker 2: y'all information because this is what I want y'all to

864
00:39:10,640 --> 00:39:11,399
Speaker 2: talk about this week.

865
00:39:11,440 --> 00:39:12,680
Speaker 1: So this is what I'm going to tell y'all.

866
00:39:13,239 --> 00:39:16,040
Speaker 2: So that's how I I'm not a mysterious person like that,

867
00:39:16,560 --> 00:39:18,600
Speaker 2: but I like to feed people information that I want

868
00:39:18,640 --> 00:39:19,000
Speaker 2: them to know.

869
00:39:19,120 --> 00:39:20,879
Speaker 1: If that, I feel like I'm the same way.

870
00:39:21,000 --> 00:39:22,480
Speaker 2: I mean, I feel like that's all a part of

871
00:39:22,520 --> 00:39:25,480
Speaker 2: being a serious though, Like you feed people what you

872
00:39:25,600 --> 00:39:28,120
Speaker 2: want them to know, like you don't, because let's be honest,

873
00:39:28,200 --> 00:39:29,320
Speaker 2: what do people know about it?

874
00:39:30,040 --> 00:39:32,640
Speaker 1: I mean nothing, but what we tell them. Yeah, I mean,

875
00:39:32,680 --> 00:39:35,120
Speaker 1: but well maybe for me, like they know about tell

876
00:39:35,200 --> 00:39:40,359
Speaker 1: them a little more than yeah, but they still only

877
00:39:40,440 --> 00:39:41,279
Speaker 1: know what you tell them.

878
00:39:41,360 --> 00:39:44,160
Speaker 2: I feel like nobody knows things about you because they

879
00:39:44,560 --> 00:39:46,359
Speaker 2: heard it from the person that's cool.

880
00:39:46,800 --> 00:39:49,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, I must it from the nigga. You fucking like.

881
00:39:49,960 --> 00:39:52,400
Speaker 3: I feel like people know what they know because of

882
00:39:52,480 --> 00:39:54,600
Speaker 3: what you say. Yeah, I will say.

883
00:39:54,680 --> 00:39:57,000
Speaker 2: My circle is really really tight, Like I don't ever

884
00:39:57,080 --> 00:39:58,680
Speaker 2: have to worry about somebody being like, oh.

885
00:39:58,640 --> 00:39:59,520
Speaker 1: This is what's going on?

886
00:39:59,800 --> 00:39:59,840
Speaker 4: This?

887
00:40:00,120 --> 00:40:02,799
Speaker 1: What's going on with you know this person? For real?

888
00:40:03,000 --> 00:40:05,839
Speaker 1: So but I don't know being mysterious that's just never

889
00:40:05,960 --> 00:40:07,239
Speaker 1: been I.

890
00:40:07,280 --> 00:40:09,719
Speaker 2: Think my tea for real, I mean, and I feel

891
00:40:09,800 --> 00:40:13,560
Speaker 2: like it's not something. I feel like some people are

892
00:40:13,800 --> 00:40:17,560
Speaker 2: just mysterious people. It's just like naturally, naturally, it's just

893
00:40:17,640 --> 00:40:19,800
Speaker 2: who you are, Like you don't like one thing about me.

894
00:40:19,880 --> 00:40:22,239
Speaker 2: It's not even that I try to be mysterious necessarily.

895
00:40:22,360 --> 00:40:24,560
Speaker 2: I've just always been a person. I don't like people

896
00:40:24,640 --> 00:40:25,440
Speaker 2: in my business.

897
00:40:26,120 --> 00:40:28,600
Speaker 1: Why do you want to know? Why? Why does it matter?

898
00:40:28,800 --> 00:40:31,839
Speaker 1: What difference? Is it gonna make you? What I eat

899
00:40:31,920 --> 00:40:34,040
Speaker 1: don't make you shit? But I'm not gonna lie what

900
00:40:34,200 --> 00:40:34,920
Speaker 1: I have going on.

901
00:40:35,400 --> 00:40:38,080
Speaker 3: I've just always naturally been that type of person.

902
00:40:38,200 --> 00:40:42,080
Speaker 2: So I feel like as I became older and more mature,

903
00:40:42,200 --> 00:40:45,400
Speaker 2: it turned into being mysterious because I've literally been this

904
00:40:45,480 --> 00:40:46,200
Speaker 2: way my whole life.

905
00:40:46,239 --> 00:40:47,600
Speaker 1: I don't like people in my bubs.

906
00:40:47,680 --> 00:40:50,080
Speaker 2: Well, i'll tell you why it's interesting and why people

907
00:40:50,160 --> 00:40:52,800
Speaker 2: want to know. I like to gossip, and that's I

908
00:40:53,040 --> 00:40:54,959
Speaker 2: like hot tea in the morning. A lot of people

909
00:40:55,120 --> 00:40:57,320
Speaker 2: like gossip, and I like that's why a lot of

910
00:40:57,360 --> 00:41:00,160
Speaker 2: people be intrigued. And I also feel like that's while

911
00:41:00,200 --> 00:41:03,040
Speaker 2: a lot of people sometimes don't like me because people

912
00:41:03,080 --> 00:41:05,040
Speaker 2: will not like you too because they can't.

913
00:41:05,400 --> 00:41:07,399
Speaker 1: They don't know what you got going on in the list.

914
00:41:07,480 --> 00:41:09,920
Speaker 1: You know, you can't. What can you do if you don't? Right?

915
00:41:10,000 --> 00:41:11,480
Speaker 2: But I was saying like you can't be like, well,

916
00:41:11,520 --> 00:41:13,200
Speaker 2: why you want to know? Because we like to go

917
00:41:13,440 --> 00:41:14,200
Speaker 2: like we gossip.

918
00:41:14,520 --> 00:41:15,719
Speaker 1: No, why you want to know?

919
00:41:15,840 --> 00:41:18,319
Speaker 2: But that ain't enough for me to tell you. I mean, yeah,

920
00:41:18,400 --> 00:41:20,680
Speaker 2: of course, but you know why people want to know

921
00:41:20,760 --> 00:41:23,600
Speaker 2: because gossiping is fun. I hate people that be like, oh,

922
00:41:23,760 --> 00:41:26,959
Speaker 2: why y'all gossip? That's not productive, bitch. Gossiping is fun

923
00:41:27,320 --> 00:41:29,560
Speaker 2: and I like to laugh, bitch when I get some

924
00:41:29,640 --> 00:41:30,000
Speaker 2: hot tea.

925
00:41:30,080 --> 00:41:32,160
Speaker 1: I'll be like, girl, is you thirsty? Because I got

926
00:41:32,239 --> 00:41:34,000
Speaker 1: a cup? I love to gossip.

927
00:41:34,080 --> 00:41:35,759
Speaker 2: Well. I also wanted to talk about the art of

928
00:41:35,800 --> 00:41:38,520
Speaker 2: being mysterious too, because I had seen a post on

929
00:41:39,120 --> 00:41:42,960
Speaker 2: Instagram and it basically has said, like, the reason that

930
00:41:43,120 --> 00:41:46,000
Speaker 2: you get in place is it's because you're not mysterious,

931
00:41:46,080 --> 00:41:49,440
Speaker 2: and m you don't understand the art of being mysterious.

932
00:41:49,520 --> 00:41:51,839
Speaker 2: You tell niggas too much off the rip, you let

933
00:41:51,920 --> 00:41:54,400
Speaker 2: them know too much about you, and you don't realize

934
00:41:54,440 --> 00:41:56,640
Speaker 2: that you're kind of giving them the playbook on how

935
00:41:56,760 --> 00:41:59,759
Speaker 2: to get what they want from you in ND Okay, So,

936
00:42:00,120 --> 00:42:02,560
Speaker 2: but when do you draw that line of like I

937
00:42:02,600 --> 00:42:04,719
Speaker 2: don't want to play games and being pure with my

938
00:42:04,840 --> 00:42:07,680
Speaker 2: intentions and just letting somebody know what my intentions.

939
00:42:07,160 --> 00:42:09,880
Speaker 1: Are about these though, That's what I'm saying.

940
00:42:11,600 --> 00:42:16,240
Speaker 2: With the Yeah with the DA talks about this with Monette,

941
00:42:16,280 --> 00:42:20,200
Speaker 2: and I feel like that's cute, that's good. You don't

942
00:42:20,239 --> 00:42:22,080
Speaker 2: want to play games, but when he comes to day,

943
00:42:22,239 --> 00:42:25,920
Speaker 2: you gotta play a certain level of games, especially with

944
00:42:26,120 --> 00:42:27,759
Speaker 2: I think that you don't got to play You don't

945
00:42:27,800 --> 00:42:29,839
Speaker 2: have to play no games with a certain type of men,

946
00:42:30,840 --> 00:42:32,359
Speaker 2: but with the type of men you'll be trying to date.

947
00:42:32,800 --> 00:42:35,080
Speaker 3: Unfortunately, you got to play a certain level of game.

948
00:42:36,480 --> 00:42:37,920
Speaker 2: I do know what type of mean you like, and

949
00:42:38,000 --> 00:42:39,520
Speaker 2: with those type of men, you have to play a

950
00:42:39,560 --> 00:42:41,359
Speaker 2: certain level of games because you're crazy if you think

951
00:42:41,400 --> 00:42:42,600
Speaker 2: they're not playing games with you.

952
00:42:42,920 --> 00:42:44,960
Speaker 1: That's why I'm about to go give me a square.

953
00:42:46,200 --> 00:42:47,719
Speaker 1: I'm going I.

954
00:42:47,800 --> 00:42:51,040
Speaker 2: Think that being mysterious and leaving a certain level of

955
00:42:51,160 --> 00:42:54,080
Speaker 2: mystery definitely works for a certain type of when you're

956
00:42:54,120 --> 00:42:57,120
Speaker 2: dating certain type of guys. Yeah, it definitely does work.

957
00:42:57,200 --> 00:43:01,040
Speaker 2: But I can't force that among myself. Like on first day,

958
00:43:01,040 --> 00:43:03,520
Speaker 2: I'm like, are we going to fuck? Because I like

959
00:43:03,600 --> 00:43:06,200
Speaker 2: to suck dick? That's how the first day is gonna go.

960
00:43:06,840 --> 00:43:10,000
Speaker 2: So I'm not being mysterious. I'm getting straight to the point.

961
00:43:10,040 --> 00:43:12,560
Speaker 2: Why are we gonna waste each other's time? I'm looking

962
00:43:12,640 --> 00:43:16,359
Speaker 2: for a husband who's ready to fuck today, that's ready

963
00:43:16,360 --> 00:43:17,000
Speaker 2: to fuck today.

964
00:43:17,440 --> 00:43:19,320
Speaker 1: Why don't we Why don't we have to wait? Wait?

965
00:43:19,520 --> 00:43:21,839
Speaker 2: Because honestly, if you think about it, when people are

966
00:43:21,880 --> 00:43:23,920
Speaker 2: like fifty and sixty, they start dating get married in

967
00:43:23,960 --> 00:43:28,319
Speaker 2: two weeks because they're about to die, so they do, right,

968
00:43:28,440 --> 00:43:30,440
Speaker 2: So why do we can might as well do that? Now,

969
00:43:30,600 --> 00:43:32,560
Speaker 2: because I don't know what's gonna happen life. I'm not

970
00:43:32,719 --> 00:43:36,360
Speaker 2: guaranteed one thing about you. I'm I'm very surprised that

971
00:43:36,480 --> 00:43:39,879
Speaker 2: you've never been married. Honestly that you haven't been married.

972
00:43:40,080 --> 00:43:44,439
Speaker 2: But you know what I am, because you have that personality.

973
00:43:44,719 --> 00:43:47,319
Speaker 3: Yeah, where I would have seen you being married at

974
00:43:47,400 --> 00:43:48,200
Speaker 3: like nineteen and.

975
00:43:48,239 --> 00:43:49,680
Speaker 1: Now you divorced. You know what it is.

976
00:43:49,800 --> 00:43:54,240
Speaker 2: Though I've talked about marriage and a lot of my relationships,

977
00:43:54,280 --> 00:43:56,160
Speaker 2: but when it comes down to it, I chicken out.

978
00:43:56,880 --> 00:43:59,399
Speaker 2: But why because like you said, we're here today, we're

979
00:43:59,440 --> 00:44:02,000
Speaker 2: going tomorrow, or we're young. You can get a divorce,

980
00:44:02,040 --> 00:44:04,600
Speaker 2: you can get an annoy me. I think the first

981
00:44:04,640 --> 00:44:07,000
Speaker 2: time I talked to my marriage in my relationship, it

982
00:44:07,160 --> 00:44:09,680
Speaker 2: was before I realized the type of person I am,

983
00:44:09,719 --> 00:44:13,919
Speaker 2: because I was twenty twenty one. That was the first

984
00:44:13,960 --> 00:44:15,960
Speaker 2: time I talked about marriage. The second time I talked

985
00:44:15,960 --> 00:44:18,160
Speaker 2: to me about marriage was in my relationship. I was

986
00:44:18,239 --> 00:44:22,439
Speaker 2: before I moved here and the ultimatum that was given

987
00:44:22,520 --> 00:44:25,239
Speaker 2: to me, I wasn't doing it like I was moving

988
00:44:25,280 --> 00:44:27,000
Speaker 2: to Atlanta. Whether you liked it or not, well, I

989
00:44:27,040 --> 00:44:29,320
Speaker 2: wouldn't want to marry a nigga that gave me an ultimatum.

990
00:44:29,400 --> 00:44:30,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, he definitely gave me an ultimatum.

991
00:44:31,000 --> 00:44:32,840
Speaker 2: So I have been in the position to get married

992
00:44:32,960 --> 00:44:36,680
Speaker 2: and engaged like multiple times, even somebody that I'm like, like,

993
00:44:36,920 --> 00:44:38,960
Speaker 2: I've talked about marriage with a person I've dealt with

994
00:44:39,080 --> 00:44:40,720
Speaker 2: for a while, and it's just kind of like, okay,

995
00:44:40,920 --> 00:44:41,759
Speaker 2: like are we gonna do this?

996
00:44:41,840 --> 00:44:42,719
Speaker 1: Are we gonna not? Like?

997
00:44:43,600 --> 00:44:45,319
Speaker 2: So I think when it comes down to it, I'll

998
00:44:45,360 --> 00:44:47,520
Speaker 2: be talking a lot of shit. But sometimes I'd be like, wait,

999
00:44:47,600 --> 00:44:49,440
Speaker 2: you for real. I was just pleaning, this is the

1000
00:44:49,520 --> 00:44:51,920
Speaker 2: first time in my life that I ever thought about marriage.

1001
00:44:52,520 --> 00:44:55,560
Speaker 2: I never about mayor yo bo, no nobody did I

1002
00:44:55,640 --> 00:44:57,600
Speaker 2: talk to right now? Oh okay, okay, But I'm saying

1003
00:44:57,640 --> 00:44:59,399
Speaker 2: it's the first time in my life that I've ever

1004
00:44:59,560 --> 00:45:02,720
Speaker 2: felt like like I've had the desires to get married,

1005
00:45:02,840 --> 00:45:04,560
Speaker 2: Like I never used to think about it.

1006
00:45:04,680 --> 00:45:07,720
Speaker 1: Like I don't know, I'm weird. I think I'm way.

1007
00:45:07,680 --> 00:45:10,239
Speaker 2: More weirder than a lot of people think, Like I

1008
00:45:10,640 --> 00:45:12,880
Speaker 2: don't I never used to think about getting married, Like

1009
00:45:12,960 --> 00:45:15,520
Speaker 2: it was just never something that crossed the cross, not crossed,

1010
00:45:16,120 --> 00:45:17,920
Speaker 2: never something that crossed my mind.

1011
00:45:17,880 --> 00:45:19,759
Speaker 1: Right, you know what I mean? Versus you? I feel

1012
00:45:19,760 --> 00:45:21,400
Speaker 1: like you such a lover girl, I am.

1013
00:45:21,520 --> 00:45:23,720
Speaker 2: I want to get married. I want to get married.

1014
00:45:24,120 --> 00:45:26,439
Speaker 2: I feel like I'm gonna get married at least three times.

1015
00:45:26,520 --> 00:45:29,319
Speaker 2: Like even I think I'm definitely gonna get married twice. Yeah,

1016
00:45:29,600 --> 00:45:31,480
Speaker 2: I think it's definitely three for me. I think I'm

1017
00:45:31,480 --> 00:45:33,200
Speaker 2: definitely gonna get married twice. And I know that sounds

1018
00:45:33,239 --> 00:45:35,319
Speaker 2: fucked up because I ain't get married. Sorry to theay

1019
00:45:35,360 --> 00:45:38,279
Speaker 2: first man, honestly, and then on my like if I'm

1020
00:45:38,320 --> 00:45:39,920
Speaker 2: married by the time I die, like I'm on my

1021
00:45:40,000 --> 00:45:41,400
Speaker 2: death bed, I'm gonna let that nigga know, if you

1022
00:45:41,480 --> 00:45:46,320
Speaker 2: move on, I'm gonna haunt you. B Yeah, well, what

1023
00:45:46,400 --> 00:45:49,480
Speaker 2: if he start fucking with one of your friends? Because

1024
00:45:49,480 --> 00:45:52,600
Speaker 2: why would they always happen in movie they do? Well?

1025
00:45:53,120 --> 00:45:57,400
Speaker 1: Why because they always he end up being fucking married

1026
00:45:57,440 --> 00:45:59,000
Speaker 1: to her fucking friend.

1027
00:45:58,840 --> 00:46:01,200
Speaker 2: Because they be talking about they be trauma bonding. Don't

1028
00:46:01,239 --> 00:46:03,719
Speaker 2: trauma bond over my dig big bitch. Oh god, I

1029
00:46:03,760 --> 00:46:05,640
Speaker 2: don't give a fuck about another of that. Oh God,

1030
00:46:05,680 --> 00:46:08,279
Speaker 2: I'm coming back and hunting both. Y'all be chassy. I am,

1031
00:46:08,440 --> 00:46:10,399
Speaker 2: and I'm gonna watch you. So he might not even

1032
00:46:10,400 --> 00:46:12,320
Speaker 2: be doing nothing. He's gonna be brushing his teeth in

1033
00:46:12,320 --> 00:46:13,600
Speaker 2: the miror. I'm gonna just be sitting there like, hey,

1034
00:46:13,680 --> 00:46:15,040
Speaker 2: boom boom.

1035
00:46:16,120 --> 00:46:18,960
Speaker 1: That ain't scary me. I'm not supposed to scare him.

1036
00:46:18,960 --> 00:46:21,040
Speaker 1: He's just brushing out to scare him.

1037
00:46:21,160 --> 00:46:23,720
Speaker 2: If he's not doing anything, like, if he's just brushing

1038
00:46:23,719 --> 00:46:25,680
Speaker 2: his teeth, I'm gonna just be like, I don't really

1039
00:46:25,719 --> 00:46:27,359
Speaker 2: give a fuck what he doing. I just think I'm

1040
00:46:27,360 --> 00:46:30,200
Speaker 2: gonna love being the ghost boo niggas. All right, all right,

1041
00:46:31,040 --> 00:46:33,640
Speaker 2: what's up y'all? Is your girl XP and it's Sugarls

1042
00:46:33,680 --> 00:46:35,480
Speaker 2: Ray and the Call, and we are here.

1043
00:46:35,400 --> 00:46:38,920
Speaker 1: To talk about. Real Husbands of Hollywood is back.

1044
00:46:39,360 --> 00:46:43,480
Speaker 2: Now streaming only on BET Plus. Real Husbands of Hollywood

1045
00:46:43,600 --> 00:46:46,400
Speaker 2: is back, and it's out of this world crazy. This

1046
00:46:46,680 --> 00:46:48,760
Speaker 2: untensored fund could only live.

1047
00:46:48,640 --> 00:46:51,360
Speaker 1: On BET Plus. And I used to love it was

1048
00:46:51,560 --> 00:46:54,520
Speaker 1: it was so entertaining. Kevin Hart is so sunny and

1049
00:46:54,640 --> 00:46:58,719
Speaker 1: it's more Kevin this season. More more, more, That's all

1050
00:46:58,760 --> 00:46:59,000
Speaker 1: we need.

1051
00:47:00,080 --> 00:47:02,560
Speaker 2: And they got Nick Cann in his bag, JB Smooth,

1052
00:47:02,719 --> 00:47:07,600
Speaker 2: Dwayne Martin, Jackie Longbors Coojo, everybody, Nellie, Tiffany Hat, it's

1053
00:47:07,640 --> 00:47:09,480
Speaker 2: gonna be on that, Yolanda Adams.

1054
00:47:09,200 --> 00:47:13,800
Speaker 1: Mark Angela Right, it's giving, it's very very good. I

1055
00:47:13,840 --> 00:47:14,279
Speaker 1: can't wait.

1056
00:47:14,640 --> 00:47:17,480
Speaker 2: Yes, I love Real Hussin's Hollywood. I think it's funny

1057
00:47:17,480 --> 00:47:18,759
Speaker 2: and I'm excited to see where they gonna go.

1058
00:47:18,800 --> 00:47:19,080
Speaker 1: They meet.

1059
00:47:19,400 --> 00:47:21,799
Speaker 2: They saying Nellie wants a wife this season. I can't

1060
00:47:21,840 --> 00:47:23,560
Speaker 2: wait to see. I want to see y'all would like

1061
00:47:23,600 --> 00:47:26,160
Speaker 2: to say, so they show y'all tune in with us? Yeah,

1062
00:47:26,200 --> 00:47:28,000
Speaker 2: So you're gonna go ahead and sign up so you

1063
00:47:28,080 --> 00:47:30,480
Speaker 2: can binge the new season. You're gonna visit b E

1064
00:47:30,640 --> 00:47:31,440
Speaker 2: T Dot.

1065
00:47:31,400 --> 00:47:34,279
Speaker 1: Plus to learn more and stream the black culture. We

1066
00:47:34,360 --> 00:47:36,160
Speaker 1: gotta support the black creators. Amen.

1067
00:47:36,719 --> 00:47:41,879
Speaker 2: So now we gonna get into the bed out ow

1068
00:47:42,920 --> 00:47:47,160
Speaker 2: bow bow about, bow about. So I seen a post

1069
00:47:47,200 --> 00:47:50,000
Speaker 2: the other day and it was talking about the the

1070
00:47:50,280 --> 00:47:55,799
Speaker 2: orgasm gap between men and women. So let me look

1071
00:47:55,880 --> 00:47:58,759
Speaker 2: up the statistics really quick on that, because this is

1072
00:47:58,840 --> 00:48:00,800
Speaker 2: why I wanted to talk about what I'm about to talk.

1073
00:48:00,640 --> 00:48:03,279
Speaker 1: About right now. Let me go to my messages real quick.

1074
00:48:04,920 --> 00:48:08,800
Speaker 2: So there was a chart that was released and it

1075
00:48:08,880 --> 00:48:14,120
Speaker 2: was basically talking about orgasm gaps between different genders and sexualities.

1076
00:48:14,640 --> 00:48:18,440
Speaker 2: So it says ninety five percent of heterosexual men have

1077
00:48:18,520 --> 00:48:21,680
Speaker 2: an orgasm. I'm gonna skip all the middle stuff because

1078
00:48:21,840 --> 00:48:24,480
Speaker 2: that's obviously you know, we're straight women who deal with

1079
00:48:24,520 --> 00:48:24,920
Speaker 2: straight men.

1080
00:48:25,000 --> 00:48:25,960
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna just talk about that.

1081
00:48:26,440 --> 00:48:32,600
Speaker 2: So percent, well, well there's it has for bisexual womens.

1082
00:48:33,719 --> 00:48:37,279
Speaker 2: Ninety five percent of heterosexual men have orgasms, sixty six

1083
00:48:37,360 --> 00:48:42,040
Speaker 2: percent of bisexual women have orgasms, and sixty five percent

1084
00:48:42,120 --> 00:48:43,720
Speaker 2: of heterosexual.

1085
00:48:43,040 --> 00:48:44,080
Speaker 1: Women have orgasms.

1086
00:48:44,160 --> 00:48:46,439
Speaker 2: Mind you, that's lower than what we said in the past,

1087
00:48:46,440 --> 00:48:48,920
Speaker 2: because I thought it was seventy percent. So that you

1088
00:48:49,000 --> 00:48:51,560
Speaker 2: know that that that's a big fucking gap. So I

1089
00:48:51,760 --> 00:48:57,520
Speaker 2: wanted to talk about sexual dysfunction because a lot of

1090
00:48:57,560 --> 00:49:00,239
Speaker 2: you men are suffering from this in either you y'all

1091
00:49:00,400 --> 00:49:02,520
Speaker 2: know it, y'all probably don't know it because a lot

1092
00:49:02,560 --> 00:49:04,120
Speaker 2: of men out here thinking they laying that pipe and

1093
00:49:04,160 --> 00:49:08,759
Speaker 2: they not. Okay, So I wanted to talk about it

1094
00:49:08,920 --> 00:49:14,080
Speaker 2: from the erectile dysfunction because a lot of you men

1095
00:49:14,160 --> 00:49:18,800
Speaker 2: just can't get it up. So what is erectile dysfunction

1096
00:49:18,960 --> 00:49:24,160
Speaker 2: aka ED? Erectile dysfunction is the inability to get and

1097
00:49:24,320 --> 00:49:29,800
Speaker 2: keep an erection firm enough for sexual intercourse. Estimates suggest

1098
00:49:29,920 --> 00:49:33,400
Speaker 2: that one of every ten men will suffer from ED

1099
00:49:33,880 --> 00:49:35,800
Speaker 2: at some point during his lifetime.

1100
00:49:37,280 --> 00:49:40,480
Speaker 1: That's a pretty that's a lot that's a lot.

1101
00:49:40,640 --> 00:49:42,920
Speaker 2: Because when you meet one hundred percent of straight men,

1102
00:49:43,360 --> 00:49:46,719
Speaker 2: they all lay in that pipe according to them, according

1103
00:49:46,800 --> 00:49:51,480
Speaker 2: to them. Okay, so that's a lot. Well, we definitely

1104
00:49:51,800 --> 00:49:54,200
Speaker 2: know that's a lot. Like I said, it's very common.

1105
00:49:54,320 --> 00:49:57,040
Speaker 2: It's more common than people like to talk about. And honestly,

1106
00:49:57,120 --> 00:49:58,880
Speaker 2: I don't know if this is super super true, but

1107
00:49:58,960 --> 00:50:00,960
Speaker 2: I heard that was one of the side effects of COVID.

1108
00:50:02,200 --> 00:50:04,080
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I did see that. And then I heard

1109
00:50:04,200 --> 00:50:08,000
Speaker 2: your penis shrink. Y'all better get vaccinated, and it's irreversible.

1110
00:50:09,760 --> 00:50:12,640
Speaker 1: Even if you get I know what I'm saying, they

1111
00:50:12,840 --> 00:50:15,160
Speaker 1: won't be the symptoms won't be as bad. But yeah,

1112
00:50:15,320 --> 00:50:15,600
Speaker 1: like you.

1113
00:50:15,600 --> 00:50:17,839
Speaker 2: Didn't see that article where it says some man had

1114
00:50:17,920 --> 00:50:21,239
Speaker 2: got COVID and he said that his penis shrunk one

1115
00:50:21,280 --> 00:50:23,319
Speaker 2: point five inches and then he went to the doctor

1116
00:50:23,360 --> 00:50:24,600
Speaker 2: and they said it's irreversible.

1117
00:50:25,840 --> 00:50:28,560
Speaker 1: That's crazy, that's scary.

1118
00:50:29,040 --> 00:50:31,520
Speaker 2: Okay, So we're gonna say he had that dick like

1119
00:50:32,680 --> 00:50:35,320
Speaker 2: the man we talked about, Harry Potter Daddy, and he

1120
00:50:35,400 --> 00:50:38,520
Speaker 2: had that dick like that he would lose one point

1121
00:50:39,440 --> 00:50:44,040
Speaker 2: Harry Potter Daddy. Cohen was like, cool, I'm chilling, you

1122
00:50:44,120 --> 00:50:46,760
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying, so I want to talk about

1123
00:50:46,800 --> 00:50:50,960
Speaker 2: what causes a rectile dysfunction because sometimes it's things that

1124
00:50:51,040 --> 00:50:55,320
Speaker 2: are more common. Now, the first thing this is, I

1125
00:50:55,440 --> 00:50:58,120
Speaker 2: feel like the most common thing that a lot of

1126
00:50:58,160 --> 00:50:59,919
Speaker 2: men because men don't like to go to the doctor.

1127
00:51:00,040 --> 00:51:02,279
Speaker 2: First of all, niggas are the type like, oh, I

1128
00:51:02,360 --> 00:51:04,279
Speaker 2: fucked this girl, she went and got tested, so I

1129
00:51:04,320 --> 00:51:10,000
Speaker 2: ain't got nothing, that's how exactly. So first, it's vascular disease,

1130
00:51:10,120 --> 00:51:13,240
Speaker 2: which is blood supply to the penis can become blocked

1131
00:51:13,320 --> 00:51:17,160
Speaker 2: or narrowed as a result of vascular disease, such as.

1132
00:51:21,480 --> 00:51:24,560
Speaker 1: After row solerosses. I don't know what.

1133
00:51:27,160 --> 00:51:32,000
Speaker 2: Whatever, bitch, it means the hardening of the arteries. So basically,

1134
00:51:32,400 --> 00:51:34,480
Speaker 2: oh no, after sclerosis.

1135
00:51:35,000 --> 00:51:40,160
Speaker 1: Go yeah, girl, you said it was closer than I

1136
00:51:40,280 --> 00:51:42,840
Speaker 1: will tell. So this is a hardening of the arteries.

1137
00:51:42,920 --> 00:51:45,800
Speaker 1: So that means your penis is not getting enough blood flow.

1138
00:51:46,360 --> 00:51:48,480
Speaker 2: So a lot of like, y'all gotta start eating healthy

1139
00:51:48,600 --> 00:51:52,359
Speaker 2: and taking care of yourself, because that's why a lot

1140
00:51:52,400 --> 00:51:54,759
Speaker 2: of men, you don't have a You can't get your

1141
00:51:54,840 --> 00:51:57,360
Speaker 2: dick up because you're eating burgers every day. Why is

1142
00:51:57,400 --> 00:51:59,680
Speaker 2: you eating McDonald's for breakfast once and dinner? And then

1143
00:51:59,719 --> 00:52:01,440
Speaker 2: when it's tom the fuck you can't get it up.

1144
00:52:01,440 --> 00:52:03,359
Speaker 2: If you hate it, make it on for breakfast, lunch,

1145
00:52:03,480 --> 00:52:05,239
Speaker 2: and dinner. You don't have no bitch, and y'all like

1146
00:52:05,320 --> 00:52:05,759
Speaker 2: they love you.

1147
00:52:06,000 --> 00:52:06,799
Speaker 1: Yeah, Sea help.

1148
00:52:07,520 --> 00:52:12,480
Speaker 2: So the second reason is neurological disorder such as multiple sclerosis.

1149
00:52:12,960 --> 00:52:14,000
Speaker 1: Is smart.

1150
00:52:15,520 --> 00:52:18,600
Speaker 2: Nerves that send impulses to the penis can become damaged

1151
00:52:18,640 --> 00:52:20,600
Speaker 2: from stroke, diabetes.

1152
00:52:20,280 --> 00:52:22,480
Speaker 1: Or other causes. So diabetes.

1153
00:52:22,520 --> 00:52:27,960
Speaker 2: That's another thing with eating healthy and about diabetes. So

1154
00:52:28,200 --> 00:52:31,200
Speaker 2: don't fuck no diabetic dick. You know who got diabetes,

1155
00:52:33,080 --> 00:52:33,440
Speaker 2: keep it too.

1156
00:52:37,600 --> 00:52:48,960
Speaker 1: That's why he be so angry. All okay, okay, let's

1157
00:52:49,040 --> 00:52:50,640
Speaker 1: move on. Okay.

1158
00:52:51,200 --> 00:52:57,560
Speaker 2: It says psychological st These include stress, depression, lack of

1159
00:52:57,640 --> 00:53:01,640
Speaker 2: stimulus from the brain, and performance anxiety. So a lot

1160
00:53:01,680 --> 00:53:03,279
Speaker 2: of times I will give that to men. Being a

1161
00:53:03,360 --> 00:53:05,680
Speaker 2: man is stressful. Now being a woman is stressful, But

1162
00:53:05,800 --> 00:53:07,640
Speaker 2: also being a man is stressful. Like there's a lot

1163
00:53:07,680 --> 00:53:09,960
Speaker 2: of pressure on men to you know, make a lot

1164
00:53:10,000 --> 00:53:13,560
Speaker 2: of money, be the head of households, and it's like it's.

1165
00:53:13,480 --> 00:53:16,239
Speaker 1: Hard to get money out here. It really is, especially now,

1166
00:53:16,640 --> 00:53:17,440
Speaker 1: So I feel.

1167
00:53:17,280 --> 00:53:20,120
Speaker 2: Like I feel like it's easier now than it was

1168
00:53:20,600 --> 00:53:24,279
Speaker 2: back then. It's easier for I feel like the younger generations.

1169
00:53:24,320 --> 00:53:26,320
Speaker 2: But I'm not trying we are the younger generation. I

1170
00:53:26,360 --> 00:53:29,440
Speaker 2: mean no, it's different from an eighteen year old versus

1171
00:53:29,600 --> 00:53:31,800
Speaker 2: like a thirty thirty five year old, Like an eighteen

1172
00:53:31,840 --> 00:53:33,680
Speaker 2: year old, like if they're funny enough and they know

1173
00:53:33,719 --> 00:53:36,040
Speaker 2: how to work TikTok, they can go viral on TikTok

1174
00:53:36,280 --> 00:53:38,000
Speaker 2: two or three times and be getting a check and

1175
00:53:38,040 --> 00:53:40,840
Speaker 2: become popular. Nobody really wants to see like a thirty

1176
00:53:40,880 --> 00:53:44,359
Speaker 2: five year old man on TikTok doing like I mean,

1177
00:53:44,400 --> 00:53:47,400
Speaker 2: we talk, we're talking about TikTok, but I mean like

1178
00:53:47,840 --> 00:53:50,200
Speaker 2: social media being pretty.

1179
00:53:49,920 --> 00:53:51,000
Speaker 1: Relevant for the past team.

1180
00:53:51,120 --> 00:53:53,200
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, it has, and I feel like it's people

1181
00:53:53,320 --> 00:53:56,160
Speaker 2: our age who have become rich off of social media. No,

1182
00:53:56,320 --> 00:53:58,200
Speaker 2: I agree with that, but I'm saying I feel like,

1183
00:53:58,719 --> 00:54:01,240
Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, the likelihood stress.

1184
00:54:01,480 --> 00:54:03,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, like that's for sure, Like that's something that I

1185
00:54:03,920 --> 00:54:05,640
Speaker 3: could see making Yo Dick.

1186
00:54:06,239 --> 00:54:08,239
Speaker 1: Limp and depression. A lot of black men.

1187
00:54:08,520 --> 00:54:10,640
Speaker 2: Well we're talking about black men because we date black men,

1188
00:54:10,719 --> 00:54:14,160
Speaker 2: but men in general, a lot of it's not a.

1189
00:54:14,200 --> 00:54:17,120
Speaker 1: Lot of black men. I don't agree with this statement necessarily.

1190
00:54:17,120 --> 00:54:19,480
Speaker 1: I wonder if Yo Dick can be seasonally depressed.

1191
00:54:20,160 --> 00:54:24,600
Speaker 2: The probably can, But that's what I'm saying. A lot

1192
00:54:24,719 --> 00:54:27,520
Speaker 2: of men, for real, I would say black men. They

1193
00:54:27,640 --> 00:54:29,279
Speaker 2: say like they don't feel like they have a lot

1194
00:54:29,320 --> 00:54:33,160
Speaker 2: of safe spaces to you know, talk to people in

1195
00:54:33,360 --> 00:54:35,160
Speaker 2: So a lot of black men deal with depression and

1196
00:54:35,239 --> 00:54:37,560
Speaker 2: they don't really deal with it. So that's why a

1197
00:54:37,600 --> 00:54:40,640
Speaker 2: lot of y'all walking around with a limb dick seasonal

1198
00:54:40,800 --> 00:54:40,960
Speaker 2: or not.

1199
00:54:41,719 --> 00:54:44,960
Speaker 1: That's said. Imagine not waking up on Christmas morning to

1200
00:54:45,040 --> 00:54:46,359
Speaker 1: some dick because you want to be sad.

1201
00:54:46,600 --> 00:54:49,720
Speaker 2: Niggas be having but I thought all niggas have mourning wood,

1202
00:54:52,239 --> 00:54:53,040
Speaker 2: at least the niggas.

1203
00:54:53,040 --> 00:54:57,040
Speaker 1: I'll be fugging with baby in the morning, I am dead. Well.

1204
00:54:58,200 --> 00:55:01,080
Speaker 2: So the next one is trauma injury could contribute to

1205
00:55:01,160 --> 00:55:04,080
Speaker 2: symptoms of ED. Okay, yeah, that makes sense because I mean,

1206
00:55:04,080 --> 00:55:08,640
Speaker 2: you know, like so I've always wondered these for me. Okay,

1207
00:55:09,080 --> 00:55:11,480
Speaker 2: so if you have paralyzed on the waist down, I

1208
00:55:11,520 --> 00:55:17,120
Speaker 2: wouldn't know paralyzed, so honestly, okay, well, I think it

1209
00:55:17,200 --> 00:55:20,719
Speaker 2: just depends on you know what vertebrae. They had to

1210
00:55:21,480 --> 00:55:24,560
Speaker 2: because my sister used to not she did. This guy

1211
00:55:24,600 --> 00:55:25,800
Speaker 2: took us on a day and he was in a

1212
00:55:25,840 --> 00:55:29,160
Speaker 2: wheelchair and he had money too. He took my sister

1213
00:55:29,200 --> 00:55:31,239
Speaker 2: on a day, but like he invited me to come

1214
00:55:31,400 --> 00:55:33,279
Speaker 2: because his friend was there with him, like his friend

1215
00:55:33,320 --> 00:55:34,799
Speaker 2: to be helping them getting in and out the car

1216
00:55:34,840 --> 00:55:37,640
Speaker 2: and stuff. This was a long time ago. Yeah, this

1217
00:55:37,680 --> 00:55:39,040
Speaker 2: is when we were really young. I think I was

1218
00:55:39,120 --> 00:55:43,880
Speaker 2: like nineteen, so my sister was like twenty two. But

1219
00:55:44,320 --> 00:55:46,640
Speaker 2: she said that he never tried to fuck her or

1220
00:55:46,719 --> 00:55:48,440
Speaker 2: do anything like. He would just like to talk to

1221
00:55:48,520 --> 00:55:49,880
Speaker 2: her and spend time with her. He used to give

1222
00:55:49,920 --> 00:55:53,080
Speaker 2: her money and stuff. So I'm not assuming, but I

1223
00:55:53,480 --> 00:55:54,799
Speaker 2: guess his penis didn't work.

1224
00:55:55,640 --> 00:55:57,320
Speaker 1: But I think some of them do. I think it

1225
00:55:57,440 --> 00:56:01,719
Speaker 1: just depends on the situation. Always says they are so

1226
00:56:01,840 --> 00:56:02,359
Speaker 1: they do work.

1227
00:56:02,520 --> 00:56:04,719
Speaker 2: It says the nerves that control a men's ability to

1228
00:56:04,800 --> 00:56:07,880
Speaker 2: have a reflex erection are located in the sacral area

1229
00:56:08,120 --> 00:56:11,360
Speaker 2: of the spinal cord. Most paralyzed men are able to

1230
00:56:11,440 --> 00:56:14,920
Speaker 2: have a reflex erection with physical stimulation unless it is

1231
00:56:15,000 --> 00:56:17,480
Speaker 2: two to its four pathway is damage. So I guess

1232
00:56:17,600 --> 00:56:20,000
Speaker 2: unless certain parts of your spine, That's what I said.

1233
00:56:20,280 --> 00:56:23,359
Speaker 2: I watched a lot of grays anatomy beach. I knew

1234
00:56:23,360 --> 00:56:25,800
Speaker 2: what the fuck I was talking about now, God damn it.

1235
00:56:26,200 --> 00:56:26,880
Speaker 1: So those are the.

1236
00:56:26,920 --> 00:56:29,400
Speaker 2: Causes of d So men, if you have any of

1237
00:56:29,440 --> 00:56:32,040
Speaker 2: those symptoms, take care of that and get your dick up.

1238
00:56:33,080 --> 00:56:35,800
Speaker 1: What's up, y'all is your girl XP and it's sugarl

1239
00:56:35,880 --> 00:56:37,239
Speaker 1: dray and the cold and y'all know.

1240
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1243
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Speaker 2: have student loans, whether you have credit card payments, anything,

1244
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1245
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Speaker 2: all of your payments and get it down to one

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Speaker 2: low interest payment.

1247
00:56:57,160 --> 00:56:57,319
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1248
00:56:57,360 --> 00:56:59,719
Speaker 2: So, if you have no credit, bad credit, or whatever

1249
00:57:00,080 --> 00:57:02,560
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Speaker 2: Zero percent interest rate, So it's not like you're just

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Speaker 2: creating more debt for yourself.

1253
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Speaker 1: You're literally getting out of debt.

1254
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Speaker 2: The average American that has over ten thousand dollars and

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Speaker 2: debt ends up paying back two and a half times

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Speaker 2: what they originally spent. So PDS debt is the program

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1260
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Speaker 1: take back your financial freedom today.

1263
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Speaker 2: Okay, get that dick up. Get that fucking dick up.

1264
00:57:41,760 --> 00:57:44,200
Speaker 2: All right, So you want to do the breakdown, you

1265
00:57:44,280 --> 00:57:46,640
Speaker 2: want to go ahead and go cause break down. I mean,

1266
00:57:46,720 --> 00:57:48,400
Speaker 2: we were supposed to do the breakdown of Sex in

1267
00:57:48,480 --> 00:57:52,280
Speaker 2: the City, but we is chatty today, big Oh mean

1268
00:57:52,320 --> 00:57:52,840
Speaker 2: we can talk.

1269
00:57:52,760 --> 00:57:54,160
Speaker 1: About it real quick. Okay, go ahead.

1270
00:57:54,200 --> 00:57:55,880
Speaker 2: Let's I kind of feel like it goes with like

1271
00:57:56,000 --> 00:58:00,400
Speaker 2: the not the six topic with it's kind of about

1272
00:58:00,480 --> 00:58:03,760
Speaker 2: six I guess, like it's about women who are like menopausal.

1273
00:58:05,040 --> 00:58:07,680
Speaker 1: Damn, I ain't there yet. No, we're not. We're nowhere

1274
00:58:07,800 --> 00:58:08,000
Speaker 1: near it.

1275
00:58:08,160 --> 00:58:10,840
Speaker 2: I mean because the News of so Sex and the

1276
00:58:10,920 --> 00:58:14,080
Speaker 2: City has a spin off series that has just came

1277
00:58:14,160 --> 00:58:17,640
Speaker 2: out I think last month, and because they're on like

1278
00:58:17,720 --> 00:58:21,400
Speaker 2: episode seven now, okay, so it's basically about the same characters.

1279
00:58:21,440 --> 00:58:23,520
Speaker 2: The only one that's not on the show anymore is Samantha.

1280
00:58:24,760 --> 00:58:27,439
Speaker 2: Now they are in their fifties, they're like fifty five,

1281
00:58:27,600 --> 00:58:28,240
Speaker 2: fifty three.

1282
00:58:28,120 --> 00:58:28,720
Speaker 1: To fifty five.

1283
00:58:29,360 --> 00:58:32,680
Speaker 2: And obviously when the show, when the original Sex in

1284
00:58:32,720 --> 00:58:35,120
Speaker 2: the City ere they were like in their thirties. So

1285
00:58:35,320 --> 00:58:38,720
Speaker 2: it's basically like showing the lives of women kind of

1286
00:58:38,800 --> 00:58:44,080
Speaker 2: navigating through their sexuality in the oh wow, which I

1287
00:58:44,120 --> 00:58:46,439
Speaker 2: think is really interesting because I mean at some point,

1288
00:58:46,520 --> 00:58:49,440
Speaker 2: I mean, obviously we all want to live to be older.

1289
00:58:50,160 --> 00:58:53,680
Speaker 1: So once we get to that age, it's interesting to see,

1290
00:58:53,920 --> 00:58:55,720
Speaker 1: like what it's kind of like, right, you know what

1291
00:58:55,800 --> 00:58:57,680
Speaker 1: I mean? So are they single? Are they? Because I've

1292
00:58:57,720 --> 00:58:59,560
Speaker 1: never watched Sex in the City, Okay, so.

1293
00:58:59,680 --> 00:59:02,880
Speaker 2: Spoil Taylor alert, spoiler alert, because you know they love

1294
00:59:02,920 --> 00:59:04,760
Speaker 2: It's like we'd be spoiling She's spoiler alert if you

1295
00:59:04,800 --> 00:59:06,240
Speaker 2: ain't watched it, Carrie.

1296
00:59:06,320 --> 00:59:08,120
Speaker 1: You know she was married to mister Bee, right he

1297
00:59:08,240 --> 00:59:09,120
Speaker 1: died on the first episode.

1298
00:59:09,200 --> 00:59:11,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, I remember, I'm saying that, but we're not gonna

1299
00:59:11,040 --> 00:59:12,640
Speaker 2: get into why he got fired. But I got this

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Speaker 2: about this, So yeah, he died on the first episode.

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Speaker 2: Miranda is still married to Steve. Okay, Charlotte is still

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Speaker 2: married to I forgot her husband's name, and she's still

1303
00:59:21,800 --> 00:59:25,280
Speaker 2: married to him, and so yeah, they are all in relationships,

1304
00:59:25,360 --> 00:59:29,280
Speaker 2: but like Miranda is dealing with like identity issues.

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00:59:29,280 --> 00:59:33,000
Speaker 1: Which is around the age. Yeah, just like the quarter

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00:59:33,080 --> 00:59:33,720
Speaker 1: life crisis.

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00:59:34,840 --> 00:59:38,360
Speaker 2: So Miranda is dealing with like identity issues, which is

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00:59:38,440 --> 00:59:41,320
Speaker 2: funny to me because you know who she is in

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00:59:41,440 --> 00:59:43,440
Speaker 2: real life. You know, she was married to a man

1310
00:59:43,560 --> 00:59:46,720
Speaker 2: and all, she's a Lesbie. So I think it's interesting

1311
00:59:46,800 --> 00:59:48,840
Speaker 2: that they're kind of like bringing it into play with

1312
00:59:48,960 --> 00:59:50,200
Speaker 2: her character on the show.

1313
00:59:50,280 --> 00:59:52,960
Speaker 1: You know who's on the show. She like fucking on

1314
00:59:53,040 --> 00:59:57,240
Speaker 1: the show. So she's cheating on her husband. She is

1315
00:59:57,320 --> 01:00:01,680
Speaker 1: with a woman, oh wow, none buying woman? Okay, who

1316
01:00:01,840 --> 01:00:03,760
Speaker 1: is it? Grayce?

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01:00:04,920 --> 01:00:06,640
Speaker 3: The one it was on Grades? They had the maybe

1318
01:00:06,680 --> 01:00:09,560
Speaker 3: with slng with make Steemi, I can't remember.

1319
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Speaker 1: How Kelly Tori.

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Speaker 3: Yes, so wow one.

1321
01:00:13,640 --> 01:00:15,360
Speaker 2: And just because the name of the show is and

1322
01:00:15,600 --> 01:00:19,480
Speaker 2: just like that on the show, her name is Shaye Okay,

1323
01:00:19,960 --> 01:00:21,680
Speaker 2: And so Miranda is fucking Shade.

1324
01:00:22,080 --> 01:00:24,200
Speaker 1: That is interesting. And she's way younger than her.

1325
01:00:24,400 --> 01:00:25,800
Speaker 2: You know, I'm in the middle of a Grades anatomy

1326
01:00:25,880 --> 01:00:28,760
Speaker 2: rewatch right now, so I'm just like, okay, that's interesting.

1327
01:00:28,840 --> 01:00:29,919
Speaker 3: So yeah, so she's on the show.

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01:00:29,960 --> 01:00:32,120
Speaker 2: So it's interesting to kind of because like obviously her

1329
01:00:32,160 --> 01:00:35,000
Speaker 2: and Steve don't fuck at all. And then it's also

1330
01:00:35,120 --> 01:00:38,240
Speaker 2: interesting the way that their parents and their son. Okay,

1331
01:00:38,400 --> 01:00:39,000
Speaker 2: which I don't think.

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01:00:39,000 --> 01:00:40,800
Speaker 1: I'm a nighbor parent. My kids like that when I

1333
01:00:40,880 --> 01:00:44,200
Speaker 1: have kids. Okay, I think that's some white people. You know,

1334
01:00:44,840 --> 01:00:47,520
Speaker 1: I ain't doing any Okay, Okay, Because the son be

1335
01:00:47,600 --> 01:00:49,640
Speaker 1: fucking in the house. How old is the son?

1336
01:00:49,880 --> 01:00:53,040
Speaker 2: He like sixteen? Okay, his girlfriend be coming over, she

1337
01:00:53,120 --> 01:00:54,640
Speaker 2: be spending the night. They be fucking in the house.

1338
01:00:55,120 --> 01:00:57,160
Speaker 2: D and A be in a bedroom chilling the beady.

1339
01:00:57,200 --> 01:00:58,080
Speaker 2: You can hear them fucking.

1340
01:00:58,200 --> 01:01:00,480
Speaker 1: Oh my god, yes, like I'm about to go over there.

1341
01:01:00,760 --> 01:01:03,960
Speaker 1: Excuse the fuck out of me? Right, What the fuck

1342
01:01:04,080 --> 01:01:07,360
Speaker 1: y'all doing about? Crazy? Yeah? They just be fucking and

1343
01:01:07,440 --> 01:01:12,200
Speaker 1: then her husband. It's weird. So that's why I mean.

1344
01:01:12,360 --> 01:01:15,000
Speaker 3: And again, you don't know. I don't think that's.

1345
01:01:15,040 --> 01:01:16,320
Speaker 1: No. I don't think there's black people.

1346
01:01:16,720 --> 01:01:19,520
Speaker 2: How is Carrie handling Bigg's death? Because if she's handling

1347
01:01:19,960 --> 01:01:23,320
Speaker 2: anything like e Meredith was handling Derek's death, I'm not

1348
01:01:23,360 --> 01:01:27,480
Speaker 2: gonna watch she's not handling you will, Okay I figured that. Yeah,

1349
01:01:27,880 --> 01:01:29,800
Speaker 2: is she handling worse or better than Meredith?

1350
01:01:32,680 --> 01:01:36,920
Speaker 1: Better? Okay? She actually went on a date. Okay, it

1351
01:01:37,000 --> 01:01:38,240
Speaker 1: was because she just wrote a book.

1352
01:01:38,920 --> 01:01:41,320
Speaker 2: In the publishing office told her that they think it

1353
01:01:41,360 --> 01:01:42,960
Speaker 2: would be great for her to go on a date

1354
01:01:43,120 --> 01:01:44,920
Speaker 2: so that she can create a narrative at the end

1355
01:01:44,960 --> 01:01:46,840
Speaker 2: of her book that gives women hope, because they said

1356
01:01:46,920 --> 01:01:50,480
Speaker 2: the book is too sad, okay, and maybe just kill

1357
01:01:50,560 --> 01:01:53,560
Speaker 2: the mood. I mean, if that's what you're going through,

1358
01:01:53,600 --> 01:01:56,640
Speaker 2: then that's what you're going And Charlotte, I think, I

1359
01:01:56,680 --> 01:01:58,480
Speaker 2: don't know she'd be tripping on her husband all the time.

1360
01:01:58,520 --> 01:02:01,880
Speaker 1: But I mean it's a it's a very series, so

1361
01:02:02,000 --> 01:02:02,439
Speaker 1: it's good.

1362
01:02:02,600 --> 01:02:05,360
Speaker 3: It's good, but it's different from Sex and the City.

1363
01:02:05,400 --> 01:02:07,680
Speaker 2: It ain't all the fucking and all that sheet how

1364
01:02:07,760 --> 01:02:10,200
Speaker 2: it was on six in the City, like the holes

1365
01:02:10,200 --> 01:02:13,320
Speaker 2: ain't fucking no more, which I don't think I want

1366
01:02:13,400 --> 01:02:14,920
Speaker 2: to be seeing the booking like that.

1367
01:02:15,160 --> 01:02:17,760
Speaker 1: Now, all right, all right, so the girl should watch it.

1368
01:02:17,800 --> 01:02:19,360
Speaker 1: If you're a Sex in the City fan, you shall

1369
01:02:19,360 --> 01:02:20,120
Speaker 1: watch you shall watch it.

1370
01:02:20,160 --> 01:02:22,520
Speaker 2: I think it's good, and I love Charlie, like I've

1371
01:02:22,600 --> 01:02:25,560
Speaker 2: only seen the movies, so Carrie is my fave, though

1372
01:02:25,640 --> 01:02:28,200
Speaker 2: she's always been my fave. Like when I think of

1373
01:02:28,320 --> 01:02:30,680
Speaker 2: like my friend group, I always feel like I'm gonna

1374
01:02:30,680 --> 01:02:31,680
Speaker 2: carry I do.

1375
01:02:32,040 --> 01:02:35,160
Speaker 1: Oh brother, I do. I feel like.

1376
01:02:36,920 --> 01:02:40,520
Speaker 2: You don't need to say I already know who because

1377
01:02:40,520 --> 01:02:42,520
Speaker 2: people always say that I'm that person.

1378
01:02:43,000 --> 01:02:45,960
Speaker 1: What's the lady name? And not on it? No more, Samantha.

1379
01:02:46,800 --> 01:02:48,720
Speaker 1: I already knew where you were going with that. And

1380
01:02:48,800 --> 01:02:50,880
Speaker 1: I feel like my friendly and is like a Charlie

1381
01:02:51,920 --> 01:02:54,080
Speaker 1: for sure. Lena's gonna be the first one all of

1382
01:02:54,200 --> 01:02:56,360
Speaker 1: us to get married for sure. Yes, for sure.

1383
01:02:56,720 --> 01:02:59,160
Speaker 2: Okay, so she wants to get married, Yeah, that's definitely

1384
01:02:59,200 --> 01:03:01,480
Speaker 2: gonna be her. Okay, Okay, So now we're gonna get

1385
01:03:01,760 --> 01:03:02,960
Speaker 2: into the bop.

1386
01:03:03,120 --> 01:03:07,720
Speaker 1: Heyoo.

1387
01:03:08,520 --> 01:03:10,680
Speaker 2: So I'm really excited about my bop of the week

1388
01:03:10,760 --> 01:03:14,480
Speaker 2: this week because somebody actually sent me this. A listener did,

1389
01:03:14,880 --> 01:03:17,200
Speaker 2: And honestly, I'm not lying y'all. When y'all send me music,

1390
01:03:17,280 --> 01:03:19,880
Speaker 2: I listen to all of it. Some of it it

1391
01:03:19,960 --> 01:03:22,120
Speaker 2: don't be good, but some of it be hot fire.

1392
01:03:22,720 --> 01:03:26,120
Speaker 2: So somebody sent me something this week and it was

1393
01:03:26,280 --> 01:03:29,200
Speaker 2: so good. And when I listen to it. Every time

1394
01:03:29,240 --> 01:03:31,200
Speaker 2: I listen to an artist, I go google them because

1395
01:03:31,200 --> 01:03:33,840
Speaker 2: I like to see their like aesthetics and like what

1396
01:03:33,960 --> 01:03:36,600
Speaker 2: they're about. So first, let me say the bop of

1397
01:03:36,640 --> 01:03:39,760
Speaker 2: the week is by Luna l It's called Flaws, and

1398
01:03:39,840 --> 01:03:43,800
Speaker 2: it's basically talking about you know, somebody in a relationship

1399
01:03:43,960 --> 01:03:45,880
Speaker 2: and y'all are loving each other through your flaws.

1400
01:03:47,040 --> 01:03:49,160
Speaker 1: It's a beautiful song. It's beautifully written.

1401
01:03:49,920 --> 01:03:53,040
Speaker 2: When I tell you, her voice sounds like velvet like,

1402
01:03:54,240 --> 01:03:57,560
Speaker 2: so smooth, and it's so deep and so rich, and

1403
01:03:57,680 --> 01:03:59,480
Speaker 2: so when I googled her, I was so shocked to

1404
01:03:59,520 --> 01:04:02,320
Speaker 2: find out that this girl was sixteen years old. Oh wow,

1405
01:04:03,280 --> 01:04:05,760
Speaker 2: sixteen years old. When I tell you, her voice sounds

1406
01:04:05,920 --> 01:04:14,360
Speaker 2: like me. Okay, maybe not the good best example, but

1407
01:04:15,440 --> 01:04:18,240
Speaker 2: she sounds like a grown woman who' done been through

1408
01:04:18,320 --> 01:04:18,720
Speaker 2: some shit.

1409
01:04:19,040 --> 01:04:22,400
Speaker 1: I'll just say that. So yeah, Luna L Flaws. It's

1410
01:04:22,440 --> 01:04:24,640
Speaker 1: a beautiful song, well written.

1411
01:04:24,760 --> 01:04:27,320
Speaker 2: I'm very excited to see where she goes because the

1412
01:04:27,360 --> 01:04:29,880
Speaker 2: fact that she's only sixteen was just shot.

1413
01:04:30,120 --> 01:04:30,960
Speaker 1: Sixteen at war.

1414
01:04:31,120 --> 01:04:33,280
Speaker 2: She is sixteen at war because the way she was

1415
01:04:33,320 --> 01:04:37,560
Speaker 2: singing this, she had war. She'd have been through something, bitch.

1416
01:04:38,360 --> 01:04:40,160
Speaker 2: And I want to let you know, Luna, I'm here

1417
01:04:40,200 --> 01:04:40,400
Speaker 2: for you.

1418
01:04:41,800 --> 01:04:43,720
Speaker 1: Yes. So that's my bop of the week. Luna L

1419
01:04:43,840 --> 01:04:46,400
Speaker 1: Flaws bow my bop of the.

1420
01:04:46,440 --> 01:04:48,959
Speaker 2: Week, And it's only my bable of the week because

1421
01:04:48,960 --> 01:04:50,800
Speaker 2: I can't believe I haven't said it, and I feel

1422
01:04:50,800 --> 01:04:52,560
Speaker 2: like we just have to have these documentaries that I

1423
01:04:52,720 --> 01:04:55,640
Speaker 2: said because y'all't know how much I'm like a rap

1424
01:04:55,720 --> 01:05:03,560
Speaker 2: trap girl. Bro super Grimlin by Kodak Black, that is

1425
01:05:03,680 --> 01:05:04,760
Speaker 2: my fucking song.

1426
01:05:05,120 --> 01:05:08,880
Speaker 1: I love this. The hold, the hold that Kodak Black

1427
01:05:08,960 --> 01:05:12,800
Speaker 1: songs be having on me. She oh, it's that is

1428
01:05:12,840 --> 01:05:14,960
Speaker 1: that the ship was a bob. It was a bob.

1429
01:05:15,240 --> 01:05:22,320
Speaker 1: You said, what is wrong with you? What you mean?

1430
01:05:23,440 --> 01:05:28,640
Speaker 1: That was all? No, I'm because that was our song

1431
01:05:29,440 --> 01:05:31,520
Speaker 1: the song, but super Grimbling is a bob.

1432
01:05:31,760 --> 01:05:34,880
Speaker 2: Like one thing about Kodak He's gonna come with him

1433
01:05:35,000 --> 01:05:37,919
Speaker 2: hard as fucking songs every once in a while.

1434
01:05:38,920 --> 01:05:43,919
Speaker 1: Okay, No, I don't. I was being for real because

1435
01:05:43,920 --> 01:05:46,840
Speaker 1: I feel like I didn't say anything. You're annoying.

1436
01:05:47,560 --> 01:05:50,480
Speaker 2: I feel like Kadak Black always just come out with

1437
01:05:50,560 --> 01:05:53,160
Speaker 2: a super super hard ass song every few years.

1438
01:05:53,280 --> 01:05:56,920
Speaker 1: I really liked she this, what was that song? Look,

1439
01:05:57,280 --> 01:05:59,800
Speaker 1: they don't like to see you? And that was like.

1440
01:06:01,800 --> 01:06:04,720
Speaker 3: He really do like ill how to give a little code?

1441
01:06:05,480 --> 01:06:06,480
Speaker 3: Stop playing with the men?

1442
01:06:06,640 --> 01:06:15,680
Speaker 1: Okay, so Coda Black, super Grimblin you ever, No, I haven't.

1443
01:06:15,840 --> 01:06:19,920
Speaker 1: I can't get with you, shout out to y'all. What's up,

1444
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Speaker 2: Pal my X and I ended things very amicably.

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Speaker 2: and I are cool and he has no problems, but

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Speaker 2: my exes girl has a problem with our relationship. A

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Speaker 2: while back after we split, he started to see this

1497
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Speaker 2: girl early on, but told me that he gave it

1498
01:08:51,000 --> 01:08:53,600
Speaker 2: a break because he kept bringing me up whenever he

1499
01:08:53,760 --> 01:08:56,320
Speaker 2: was around her, and he wasn't over me completely yet.

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Speaker 2: Well more recently, I've noticed that he's a bit more

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01:09:01,280 --> 01:09:03,960
Speaker 2: dry in conversations with me, so I left him alone

1502
01:09:03,960 --> 01:09:05,920
Speaker 2: because I had a feeling it was because he started

1503
01:09:05,920 --> 01:09:08,680
Speaker 2: seeing the same girl again. Sure Enough, he hits me

1504
01:09:08,800 --> 01:09:10,840
Speaker 2: up recently to confirm that his girl does not like

1505
01:09:10,880 --> 01:09:13,679
Speaker 2: our relationship, but also that she's a few months pregnant

1506
01:09:13,720 --> 01:09:16,400
Speaker 2: with his child. I was more shocked and annoyed to

1507
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Speaker 2: learn that his girl goes out of her way to

1508
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Speaker 2: bring up my name and conversations they have. He's even

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Speaker 2: told me that there are some places that they want

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Speaker 2: to vacation, but she said that they can't go because

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Speaker 2: he and I went before. I don't want to get

1512
01:09:27,760 --> 01:09:30,040
Speaker 2: involved in their situation, and I have a feeling that

1513
01:09:30,160 --> 01:09:33,360
Speaker 2: this is only going to get worse once their baby comes.

1514
01:09:33,680 --> 01:09:35,479
Speaker 2: It just sucks because I really thought my ex and

1515
01:09:35,560 --> 01:09:37,720
Speaker 2: I can be chilled. But maybe I just need to

1516
01:09:37,800 --> 01:09:39,320
Speaker 2: let it go. Do you think that this is a

1517
01:09:39,400 --> 01:09:42,040
Speaker 2: friendship with my ex worth saving? Or should I leave

1518
01:09:42,120 --> 01:09:42,920
Speaker 2: the whole thing alone?

1519
01:09:45,160 --> 01:09:47,240
Speaker 1: Girls, that's what I'm I mean.

1520
01:09:47,800 --> 01:09:50,000
Speaker 2: I say this only because I've been in a situation

1521
01:09:50,200 --> 01:09:52,160
Speaker 2: like these, like and I've talked about it on poor

1522
01:09:52,240 --> 01:09:55,400
Speaker 2: Minds before. I literally had an ex who literally like

1523
01:09:55,720 --> 01:09:58,120
Speaker 2: was like my best friend, Like me and him were

1524
01:09:58,160 --> 01:10:00,840
Speaker 2: so close, we were so tight. He had not fucked

1525
01:10:00,880 --> 01:10:03,439
Speaker 2: with each other in like six seven years. But when

1526
01:10:03,479 --> 01:10:05,840
Speaker 2: he got a girl pregnant and had a baby on

1527
01:10:05,920 --> 01:10:08,120
Speaker 2: the way, she did not want us being cool no more,

1528
01:10:08,200 --> 01:10:10,840
Speaker 2: and so now we not cool no more. At first,

1529
01:10:10,920 --> 01:10:12,400
Speaker 2: I felt some type of way about it, because I

1530
01:10:12,479 --> 01:10:14,880
Speaker 2: was like, what the fuck, Like this is literally my friend,

1531
01:10:15,080 --> 01:10:17,200
Speaker 2: Like we don't we're not on that type of time

1532
01:10:17,280 --> 01:10:20,479
Speaker 2: no more. But this is the mother of his child.

1533
01:10:20,680 --> 01:10:23,200
Speaker 2: You gotta understand it. So you can't never win when

1534
01:10:23,280 --> 01:10:24,840
Speaker 2: it comes to some shit like that. So I just

1535
01:10:24,920 --> 01:10:26,160
Speaker 2: feel like you just need to let this.

1536
01:10:26,280 --> 01:10:28,599
Speaker 1: She go, let it go. It's nothing but drama. If

1537
01:10:28,640 --> 01:10:30,800
Speaker 1: she not cool with the relationship, she not cool with

1538
01:10:30,920 --> 01:10:33,880
Speaker 1: y'all being cool, it's gonna keep being issues going forward.

1539
01:10:34,000 --> 01:10:36,439
Speaker 2: I feel like it's okay to be cool with your ex,

1540
01:10:36,600 --> 01:10:38,639
Speaker 2: like as far as it being no beef and y'all

1541
01:10:38,680 --> 01:10:40,960
Speaker 2: not talking bad about each other. But while y'all gotta

1542
01:10:40,960 --> 01:10:43,880
Speaker 2: be friends and talking, that's something in your past. Y'all

1543
01:10:43,920 --> 01:10:45,880
Speaker 2: broke up for a reason. Girl, you have a whole

1544
01:10:45,920 --> 01:10:48,120
Speaker 2: new man and even though yr Man is cool with it,

1545
01:10:48,760 --> 01:10:51,240
Speaker 2: I'm sorry. I don't want to date somebody that talks

1546
01:10:51,280 --> 01:10:54,360
Speaker 2: to their ex constantly. I don't like that's weird to me.

1547
01:10:54,479 --> 01:10:57,200
Speaker 2: That's a lot like, especially at this age, it's like

1548
01:10:57,560 --> 01:10:59,120
Speaker 2: there's so many people you can be cool with. You

1549
01:10:59,240 --> 01:11:03,120
Speaker 2: got other friends, Like it ain't that serious, and like

1550
01:11:03,200 --> 01:11:05,479
Speaker 2: you said, for your example, like it wasn't that serious

1551
01:11:05,520 --> 01:11:08,160
Speaker 2: for y'all to keep trying to be friends over like yeah,

1552
01:11:08,280 --> 01:11:10,320
Speaker 2: and now I don't care. It's like, yeah, it's kind

1553
01:11:10,320 --> 01:11:11,800
Speaker 2: of fucked up, but at the end of the day,

1554
01:11:11,840 --> 01:11:13,720
Speaker 2: it ain't that serious. Like, go be a family man

1555
01:11:13,760 --> 01:11:15,920
Speaker 2: and take care of your baby, so let that shit

1556
01:11:16,000 --> 01:11:19,960
Speaker 2: go girl. Question number two. Hey, girls, I've reconnected with

1557
01:11:20,040 --> 01:11:22,240
Speaker 2: the guy I used to text before, and we've been

1558
01:11:22,280 --> 01:11:24,760
Speaker 2: talking for three months. We are both twenty four. He's

1559
01:11:24,840 --> 01:11:27,320
Speaker 2: really sweet with his shit together, but I feel like

1560
01:11:27,400 --> 01:11:29,280
Speaker 2: it was too good to be true. So I snuck

1561
01:11:29,320 --> 01:11:32,200
Speaker 2: into his eye messages and Instagram through his laptop while

1562
01:11:32,240 --> 01:11:34,360
Speaker 2: he was sleep and found out he has a secret

1563
01:11:34,400 --> 01:11:37,160
Speaker 2: baby in another city. He's never mentioned a kid to

1564
01:11:37,240 --> 01:11:40,240
Speaker 2: me or any of his or on any of his socials.

1565
01:11:40,640 --> 01:11:43,400
Speaker 2: I've been trying to fish it out of him without revealing.

1566
01:11:43,479 --> 01:11:45,600
Speaker 2: I went through his stuff, but he just keeps hiding it.

1567
01:11:46,080 --> 01:11:48,040
Speaker 2: I even asked him if he wanted kids, and all

1568
01:11:48,080 --> 01:11:50,839
Speaker 2: he said was yeah, I do. Like boy, you already

1569
01:11:50,920 --> 01:11:53,479
Speaker 2: have one. Should I just come straight out and say,

1570
01:11:53,560 --> 01:11:55,880
Speaker 2: I know, why do you think he's hiding it? P

1571
01:11:56,160 --> 01:11:58,479
Speaker 2: is After going through him and his baby mom texts,

1572
01:11:58,560 --> 01:12:00,160
Speaker 2: I know they're not together and I know, oh, he

1573
01:12:00,280 --> 01:12:01,960
Speaker 2: not a dead beat, so I'm not worried about that.

1574
01:12:02,720 --> 01:12:05,240
Speaker 1: Let me tell y'all something I just talked to this.

1575
01:12:05,479 --> 01:12:08,160
Speaker 2: I'm not to these I just talked about this with

1576
01:12:08,360 --> 01:12:11,880
Speaker 2: one of my best friends earlier today because I was

1577
01:12:12,000 --> 01:12:14,080
Speaker 2: fucking with the dude who like, have.

1578
01:12:14,160 --> 01:12:15,920
Speaker 1: A baby and don't nobody know you have a baby.

1579
01:12:17,040 --> 01:12:19,080
Speaker 2: I know that. Yeah, you know who I'm talking about.

1580
01:12:19,680 --> 01:12:25,080
Speaker 2: It's weird as fuck and it's not your business. Yes,

1581
01:12:25,080 --> 01:12:28,880
Speaker 2: it's not your business, but I couldn't see myself me personally,

1582
01:12:28,960 --> 01:12:31,200
Speaker 2: you know what I mean? Taking somebody serious who don't

1583
01:12:31,240 --> 01:12:34,639
Speaker 2: publicly acknowledge their child. It's one thing to not want

1584
01:12:34,760 --> 01:12:35,920
Speaker 2: to post your child.

1585
01:12:36,640 --> 01:12:37,240
Speaker 1: That's fine.

1586
01:12:37,320 --> 01:12:38,880
Speaker 2: A lot of people don't like to post what their

1587
01:12:38,960 --> 01:12:41,599
Speaker 2: child look like because people are weird those But to hide,

1588
01:12:41,880 --> 01:12:44,240
Speaker 2: to like hide the fact that you have a child,

1589
01:12:44,840 --> 01:12:47,240
Speaker 2: that's some whole other shit, and that's weirdest fuck to me.

1590
01:12:47,320 --> 01:12:50,280
Speaker 2: It's like, you're right, why are you hiding it? Especially

1591
01:12:50,280 --> 01:12:52,040
Speaker 2: if you're not a deadbie dad. You're taking care of

1592
01:12:52,080 --> 01:12:54,080
Speaker 2: your kid. Obviously, you in your mom, You and your

1593
01:12:54,080 --> 01:12:57,760
Speaker 2: baby mom be texting. Y'all have a relationship. But let

1594
01:12:57,800 --> 01:13:00,840
Speaker 2: me also say this. She says she's reaking with this guy.

1595
01:13:01,479 --> 01:13:04,240
Speaker 2: They've been talking for three months and they're both twenty four.

1596
01:13:04,520 --> 01:13:08,320
Speaker 2: So you didn't specify if y'all were serious or not.

1597
01:13:08,439 --> 01:13:10,200
Speaker 2: Maybe he just don't take you serious and he don't

1598
01:13:10,240 --> 01:13:14,040
Speaker 2: care what you know. Honestly, I'm not saying that that's okay, yeah,

1599
01:13:14,080 --> 01:13:16,040
Speaker 2: because I mean, what the fuck I gotta know you

1600
01:13:16,240 --> 01:13:17,880
Speaker 2: like that to know you gotta keep I mean that

1601
01:13:18,000 --> 01:13:18,880
Speaker 2: is some top secretion.

1602
01:13:19,160 --> 01:13:20,479
Speaker 1: No, it's like, but if we just.

1603
01:13:20,560 --> 01:13:22,360
Speaker 2: Fucking and I don't fuck with you like that and

1604
01:13:22,439 --> 01:13:25,439
Speaker 2: we're not having conversations, bro, I don't give a fuck

1605
01:13:25,520 --> 01:13:28,040
Speaker 2: if I'm not saying that it's okay. But to me,

1606
01:13:28,439 --> 01:13:30,680
Speaker 2: if you're first of all you felt the need to

1607
01:13:30,720 --> 01:13:33,040
Speaker 2: go through his laptop and his socials, obviously you don't

1608
01:13:33,040 --> 01:13:34,920
Speaker 2: even trust him. So if I feel like I gotta

1609
01:13:34,920 --> 01:13:36,680
Speaker 2: go through your shit, I don't even need. I don't

1610
01:13:36,720 --> 01:13:39,000
Speaker 2: need to be with you anyway. That's the first red

1611
01:13:39,040 --> 01:13:39,400
Speaker 2: place and.

1612
01:13:39,439 --> 01:13:40,360
Speaker 1: Wish I will say.

1613
01:13:40,439 --> 01:13:43,120
Speaker 2: In the situation I was in, it wasn't like like

1614
01:13:43,200 --> 01:13:45,479
Speaker 2: I didn't go through the person in socials to find

1615
01:13:45,520 --> 01:13:48,519
Speaker 2: out they had a kid like that literally like told

1616
01:13:48,600 --> 01:13:50,880
Speaker 2: you they or like they were on the phone yeah

1617
01:13:51,160 --> 01:13:53,760
Speaker 2: while I was around, and I was like right, right, right,

1618
01:13:54,000 --> 01:13:56,880
Speaker 2: wait what but yeah, so I but to me, this is,

1619
01:13:57,280 --> 01:13:58,599
Speaker 2: oh shit, this is sneaky.

1620
01:13:59,280 --> 01:14:02,880
Speaker 1: It is Yeah, that's no.

1621
01:14:03,080 --> 01:14:04,960
Speaker 2: I wouldn't know because I would never hide my flicking

1622
01:14:05,040 --> 01:14:09,080
Speaker 2: kid like that's weird. It's fuck it's weird.

1623
01:14:09,280 --> 01:14:11,600
Speaker 1: It is weird, but I'm not making an excuse, and

1624
01:14:11,680 --> 01:14:14,080
Speaker 1: I wouldn't fuck with nothing like that. That's what I'm saying.

1625
01:14:14,080 --> 01:14:17,360
Speaker 2: I feel like you need to like reevaluate because honestly,

1626
01:14:17,960 --> 01:14:20,160
Speaker 2: your first red flag was that you felt the need

1627
01:14:20,240 --> 01:14:21,920
Speaker 2: to go through his phone, Like, why are we going

1628
01:14:21,920 --> 01:14:23,640
Speaker 2: through people's phones at this age if y'all are not

1629
01:14:23,720 --> 01:14:27,240
Speaker 2: in an exclusive relationship, which even if y'all are an

1630
01:14:27,280 --> 01:14:30,759
Speaker 2: exclusive relationship, going through people's phone is such an invasion

1631
01:14:30,800 --> 01:14:33,040
Speaker 2: of privacy. If you feel like you have to do

1632
01:14:33,160 --> 01:14:34,800
Speaker 2: that because you don't trust someone, you don't need to

1633
01:14:34,840 --> 01:14:37,600
Speaker 2: be with that person anyway. So you already violated this

1634
01:14:37,720 --> 01:14:40,320
Speaker 2: man's privacy first off, because you don't trust him.

1635
01:14:40,680 --> 01:14:42,439
Speaker 1: So let that go.

1636
01:14:42,760 --> 01:14:44,800
Speaker 2: Just off of that alone, But not only that, you

1637
01:14:44,920 --> 01:14:47,479
Speaker 2: found out some information that you didn't like, and now

1638
01:14:47,720 --> 01:14:49,560
Speaker 2: you like, oh, I don't girl, let that shit go.

1639
01:14:49,800 --> 01:14:51,880
Speaker 1: And you brought up having kids and shit, and he

1640
01:14:52,120 --> 01:14:53,479
Speaker 1: still didn't say nothing.

1641
01:14:53,640 --> 01:14:54,639
Speaker 2: Girl bad?

1642
01:14:55,320 --> 01:14:58,040
Speaker 1: You know the answer, girl bad? All right?

1643
01:14:58,240 --> 01:15:00,880
Speaker 2: I am just disgusted at these men. I am girl

1644
01:15:00,960 --> 01:15:04,280
Speaker 2: by I'm disgusted. Why is you hiding your kids? But

1645
01:15:04,360 --> 01:15:07,400
Speaker 2: why is you going through that niggaphone? If I fall

1646
01:15:07,439 --> 01:15:08,880
Speaker 2: asleep and a nigga go through my phone.

1647
01:15:08,920 --> 01:15:09,679
Speaker 1: He gonna be sick.

1648
01:15:12,280 --> 01:15:15,240
Speaker 2: He gonna see Garfield all up and down, that all

1649
01:15:15,360 --> 01:15:17,760
Speaker 2: up and down in my messages, say man, all right?

1650
01:15:18,439 --> 01:15:21,439
Speaker 2: Question three? What's ub lix and Drea? I have been

1651
01:15:21,479 --> 01:15:23,800
Speaker 2: hooked on the show for about a year now. I

1652
01:15:23,920 --> 01:15:27,040
Speaker 2: have a podcast based out of Columbus, Ohio, and I've

1653
01:15:27,120 --> 01:15:29,960
Speaker 2: recently found myself in space where I don't know what's next.

1654
01:15:30,320 --> 01:15:33,080
Speaker 2: I went back to school, got my MBA, and I'm

1655
01:15:33,160 --> 01:15:36,240
Speaker 2: still working at a poor ass job making poor ass money.

1656
01:15:36,280 --> 01:15:37,719
Speaker 1: Y'all like, what the fuck?

1657
01:15:38,040 --> 01:15:40,479
Speaker 2: I recently had a meeting with the CEO and marketing

1658
01:15:40,520 --> 01:15:43,640
Speaker 2: who basically told me and told me my content and

1659
01:15:43,760 --> 01:15:45,960
Speaker 2: my podcast is what is stopping me from getting the

1660
01:15:46,080 --> 01:15:49,599
Speaker 2: jobs I'm applying for. I've heard the stories of y'all's

1661
01:15:49,680 --> 01:15:53,080
Speaker 2: journeys in school, career search, and starting y'all's podcasts. I

1662
01:15:53,160 --> 01:15:55,000
Speaker 2: want to know what advice you would get someone who

1663
01:15:55,120 --> 01:15:57,880
Speaker 2: is passionate about their business and brand and making it

1664
01:15:57,960 --> 01:16:00,680
Speaker 2: their main source of income, but also someone who is

1665
01:16:00,720 --> 01:16:02,479
Speaker 2: in a place where they are dealing with family and

1666
01:16:02,600 --> 01:16:05,920
Speaker 2: others encourage them to encouraging them to focus on a

1667
01:16:06,080 --> 01:16:09,479
Speaker 2: more more on career growth and pulling back from what

1668
01:16:09,600 --> 01:16:10,679
Speaker 2: truly makes them happen.

1669
01:16:10,840 --> 01:16:13,439
Speaker 1: Whirl, we got a lot to say about that. I don't,

1670
01:16:13,880 --> 01:16:15,120
Speaker 1: Yeah you do. I really don't.

1671
01:16:15,160 --> 01:16:17,200
Speaker 2: I feel like you do because I feel like you've

1672
01:16:17,280 --> 01:16:18,920
Speaker 2: dealt with I mean, well, I don't know if you

1673
01:16:19,000 --> 01:16:20,400
Speaker 2: have a lot to say, but I feel like these

1674
01:16:20,439 --> 01:16:23,519
Speaker 2: are all things that, yeah, we both have been through.

1675
01:16:24,320 --> 01:16:28,599
Speaker 1: Like girl fucked them people like, fuck, what's y'all family?

1676
01:16:28,680 --> 01:16:28,800
Speaker 4: Think?

1677
01:16:28,920 --> 01:16:30,360
Speaker 2: I'll be hating to say that because I feel like

1678
01:16:30,400 --> 01:16:32,799
Speaker 2: this sounds so harsh to tell y'all. Fuck y'all family,

1679
01:16:33,520 --> 01:16:36,280
Speaker 2: because I'm cool with my family. I'll fuck with them,

1680
01:16:36,320 --> 01:16:38,240
Speaker 2: but when it comes to like what I want to

1681
01:16:38,280 --> 01:16:40,240
Speaker 2: do with my life and the decisions that I make,

1682
01:16:41,640 --> 01:16:45,600
Speaker 2: fuck y'all right if they even if they ever see this.

1683
01:16:45,720 --> 01:16:47,200
Speaker 2: I mean, that's how I feel about you, Like I'm

1684
01:16:47,200 --> 01:16:49,360
Speaker 2: a grown ass with me like I'm gonna do what

1685
01:16:49,520 --> 01:16:53,080
Speaker 2: I want to do. And as far as like not

1686
01:16:53,280 --> 01:16:59,080
Speaker 2: making money, podcasting is not a lucrative business until you

1687
01:16:59,240 --> 01:17:02,400
Speaker 2: start getting them to. That's just really what it is,

1688
01:17:02,560 --> 01:17:04,800
Speaker 2: you know what I mean. Unfortunately, I'm not gonna even

1689
01:17:04,800 --> 01:17:06,800
Speaker 2: sit here in sugarcoat. The shit didn't lie about it,

1690
01:17:06,960 --> 01:17:09,880
Speaker 2: Like it's not lucrative. You not about to make kill

1691
01:17:09,880 --> 01:17:13,120
Speaker 2: of money until you start getting thousands of listeners.

1692
01:17:15,160 --> 01:17:17,439
Speaker 3: But I do feel like you should follow your dreams.

1693
01:17:18,120 --> 01:17:21,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, I guess I just have to say, like I

1694
01:17:21,920 --> 01:17:24,840
Speaker 2: feel like if this is your true passion, like this

1695
01:17:25,040 --> 01:17:27,120
Speaker 2: is what you really really want to do, like you

1696
01:17:27,240 --> 01:17:29,360
Speaker 2: have to be sure about your passions. And I will

1697
01:17:29,439 --> 01:17:32,800
Speaker 2: say I knew from when I was younger that I

1698
01:17:32,920 --> 01:17:35,960
Speaker 2: was meant to entertain people. I didn't know how. No,

1699
01:17:36,040 --> 01:17:38,120
Speaker 2: I'm serious, I didn't know how what I wanted to do.

1700
01:17:38,200 --> 01:17:41,000
Speaker 2: I told you, bitch, I was in the studio rapping, singing,

1701
01:17:41,520 --> 01:17:44,080
Speaker 2: I would try to dance, Bitch, I was trying to

1702
01:17:44,120 --> 01:17:46,360
Speaker 2: do anything because I didn't know how I was supposed

1703
01:17:46,360 --> 01:17:48,640
Speaker 2: to entertain people. I didn't but I knew I was

1704
01:17:48,640 --> 01:17:52,120
Speaker 2: supposed to do something that made people feel good and laugh.

1705
01:17:52,640 --> 01:17:53,960
Speaker 1: So I never questioned that.

1706
01:17:54,520 --> 01:17:58,000
Speaker 2: I never questioned my how I was going to if

1707
01:17:58,040 --> 01:18:00,520
Speaker 2: I was I never questioned if I was gonna be successful.

1708
01:18:00,640 --> 01:18:03,000
Speaker 2: I just questioned how I was gonna get there. So

1709
01:18:03,160 --> 01:18:05,920
Speaker 2: I feel like, if you know that this is your passion,

1710
01:18:06,000 --> 01:18:06,840
Speaker 2: this is what you want to do.

1711
01:18:06,920 --> 01:18:07,479
Speaker 1: Girl, do it.

1712
01:18:08,120 --> 01:18:11,639
Speaker 2: And not only that, nothing distracts you from what you're

1713
01:18:11,640 --> 01:18:13,760
Speaker 2: trying to do for real, Like you gotta make your money,

1714
01:18:13,760 --> 01:18:16,320
Speaker 2: you gotta make ends meet. But that's honestly, the difference

1715
01:18:16,360 --> 01:18:19,960
Speaker 2: between successful people and people who aren't is your ambition,

1716
01:18:20,400 --> 01:18:23,080
Speaker 2: your consistency, and your drive. And I agree with Lex,

1717
01:18:23,160 --> 01:18:25,960
Speaker 2: you know what I mean, Like you, stuff just has

1718
01:18:26,040 --> 01:18:28,200
Speaker 2: to be Oh, something just has to be your passion

1719
01:18:28,240 --> 01:18:30,439
Speaker 2: in order for you to be successful at it. Because

1720
01:18:30,479 --> 01:18:33,160
Speaker 2: like even with me, I never necessarily thought I was

1721
01:18:33,200 --> 01:18:36,880
Speaker 2: gonna be an entertainer, but I just always knew I

1722
01:18:36,920 --> 01:18:38,920
Speaker 2: wanted to be an entrepreneur and be like a boss

1723
01:18:39,120 --> 01:18:41,439
Speaker 2: and work for myself because I ain't never liked the

1724
01:18:41,479 --> 01:18:43,439
Speaker 2: working for people, Like it's just never.

1725
01:18:43,360 --> 01:18:44,519
Speaker 1: Been something that was for me.

1726
01:18:44,680 --> 01:18:46,519
Speaker 2: So I knew I had to figure out something to

1727
01:18:46,600 --> 01:18:48,720
Speaker 2: where I can make a living for myself and be

1728
01:18:48,840 --> 01:18:51,080
Speaker 2: in control of my schedule and control of how much

1729
01:18:51,120 --> 01:18:53,200
Speaker 2: money I make and all those types of things, cause

1730
01:18:53,200 --> 01:18:55,120
Speaker 2: I just never liked people telling me what to do.

1731
01:18:56,000 --> 01:18:58,640
Speaker 2: So I do feel like you need to figure out

1732
01:18:58,640 --> 01:19:03,439
Speaker 2: if it's your passion, because if it is, I would

1733
01:19:03,439 --> 01:19:06,800
Speaker 2: say keep going after it while all Saul's just still working,

1734
01:19:06,840 --> 01:19:08,160
Speaker 2: because I mean, that's what you're gonna have to do.

1735
01:19:08,320 --> 01:19:09,880
Speaker 2: To make sure you could pay your bills and stuff

1736
01:19:09,920 --> 01:19:13,280
Speaker 2: until your podcast take off. But if it's not your passion,

1737
01:19:14,040 --> 01:19:16,519
Speaker 2: then I don't see a reason why you should be

1738
01:19:16,560 --> 01:19:20,760
Speaker 2: missing out on opportunities to make more money in a

1739
01:19:20,880 --> 01:19:24,640
Speaker 2: field that you've already gotten your NBA in to do

1740
01:19:24,760 --> 01:19:26,519
Speaker 2: a podcast. Cause not only that, I feel like if

1741
01:19:26,520 --> 01:19:29,439
Speaker 2: you're trying to get into podcasting or doing anything strictly

1742
01:19:29,520 --> 01:19:32,560
Speaker 2: for the money, you're not gonna see success because in

1743
01:19:32,760 --> 01:19:36,040
Speaker 2: anything that's great, you're not gonna be making millions of

1744
01:19:36,080 --> 01:19:37,120
Speaker 2: dollars right off the bat.

1745
01:19:37,960 --> 01:19:39,480
Speaker 1: So it take consistency.

1746
01:19:39,560 --> 01:19:42,080
Speaker 2: And you know, we can speak on that because it's frustrating,

1747
01:19:42,240 --> 01:19:44,679
Speaker 2: because it's like, even when we was making no money

1748
01:19:44,800 --> 01:19:47,559
Speaker 2: for like two years, we still did the show every

1749
01:19:47,640 --> 01:19:49,160
Speaker 2: week for our first years.

1750
01:19:49,240 --> 01:19:51,320
Speaker 1: Our first checked that we got for four miles eighty dollars,

1751
01:19:52,000 --> 01:19:52,799
Speaker 1: and I was happy.

1752
01:19:53,200 --> 01:19:55,720
Speaker 2: We was happy because we had finally even though it

1753
01:19:55,840 --> 01:19:58,840
Speaker 2: wasn't nothing. Even though it wasn't nothing, it couldn't even

1754
01:19:58,880 --> 01:20:02,280
Speaker 2: pay my phone bill, it was still it showed me though,

1755
01:20:02,360 --> 01:20:04,880
Speaker 2: like it's like, damn, people listening to this show, you

1756
01:20:04,920 --> 01:20:06,720
Speaker 2: could really make money from this, you know what I

1757
01:20:06,800 --> 01:20:08,439
Speaker 2: mean if you keep going, And I mean we did

1758
01:20:08,600 --> 01:20:10,960
Speaker 2: keep going and now here we are.

1759
01:20:11,080 --> 01:20:12,880
Speaker 1: So I mean, you could obviously do the same thing.

1760
01:20:13,640 --> 01:20:16,000
Speaker 2: So we all got twenty four hours in the day.

1761
01:20:16,600 --> 01:20:18,680
Speaker 2: I'm just saying she could do the same thing if

1762
01:20:18,720 --> 01:20:23,240
Speaker 2: it's her passion. So question number four, Hey, poor minds.

1763
01:20:23,720 --> 01:20:26,160
Speaker 2: I'm twenty one years old and will be graduating college

1764
01:20:26,240 --> 01:20:28,680
Speaker 2: next year. My freshman year, I was going through a

1765
01:20:28,720 --> 01:20:31,720
Speaker 2: heartbreak with my first love, Boom. I met my now

1766
01:20:31,800 --> 01:20:34,120
Speaker 2: boyfriend my sophomore year of college and we have been

1767
01:20:34,160 --> 01:20:36,840
Speaker 2: together ever since. He is the best boyfriend I have

1768
01:20:36,960 --> 01:20:40,640
Speaker 2: been with as a person, trips, taking care of me

1769
01:20:40,720 --> 01:20:43,679
Speaker 2: when I was sick, picking up my medicine. The issue

1770
01:20:43,880 --> 01:20:48,439
Speaker 2: is with him is his penis is small. I tried

1771
01:20:48,479 --> 01:20:50,639
Speaker 2: to look past that, but now I'm at a point

1772
01:20:50,640 --> 01:20:53,040
Speaker 2: where it's becoming an issue for me. I want to

1773
01:20:53,120 --> 01:20:55,560
Speaker 2: keep him around, but the size is killing me. I

1774
01:20:55,680 --> 01:20:58,080
Speaker 2: tell myself to stay because what if I never meet

1775
01:20:58,160 --> 01:21:00,840
Speaker 2: a man that treats me like he does? But then

1776
01:21:00,920 --> 01:21:03,639
Speaker 2: I tell myself I'm young and I shouldn't settle just yet.

1777
01:21:04,000 --> 01:21:06,639
Speaker 2: Can y'all give me advice on this girl.

1778
01:21:08,720 --> 01:21:11,760
Speaker 1: Talked about ed maybe he got maybe he got ed.

1779
01:21:12,640 --> 01:21:16,120
Speaker 2: But then also, at twenty one years old, I'm always

1780
01:21:16,280 --> 01:21:19,880
Speaker 2: going to tell y'all these like, you can't find another

1781
01:21:20,000 --> 01:21:25,200
Speaker 2: guy like you can unless you just but he first love,

1782
01:21:27,320 --> 01:21:30,120
Speaker 2: but she really really likes him, So I will say,

1783
01:21:30,120 --> 01:21:32,960
Speaker 2: there are some alternatives you can try before leaving him.

1784
01:21:33,479 --> 01:21:34,920
Speaker 1: You can incorporate toys.

1785
01:21:34,960 --> 01:21:37,040
Speaker 2: There's certain things that he can do and he can

1786
01:21:37,200 --> 01:21:41,519
Speaker 2: use and you as well to increase the satisfaction on

1787
01:21:42,120 --> 01:21:44,880
Speaker 2: both ends. I agree with all of that, but I'm

1788
01:21:45,040 --> 01:21:48,280
Speaker 2: just not a person that's like I mean, because everything

1789
01:21:48,360 --> 01:21:51,639
Speaker 2: you just said is giving, Like your settling is giving

1790
01:21:51,720 --> 01:21:52,720
Speaker 2: that that's not what you want.

1791
01:21:52,840 --> 01:21:54,120
Speaker 1: She's settling sexually.

1792
01:21:54,520 --> 01:21:59,519
Speaker 2: Okay, that's still settling, but hasn't tried other options. Nobody

1793
01:21:59,600 --> 01:22:01,759
Speaker 2: want to be sucking a nigga with a penis extendo.

1794
01:22:03,680 --> 01:22:05,800
Speaker 2: I don't want to fuck nigga with an extendo clip

1795
01:22:05,920 --> 01:22:06,160
Speaker 2: on his.

1796
01:22:08,720 --> 01:22:11,720
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna like you, bro, I'm not going to

1797
01:22:11,960 --> 01:22:12,920
Speaker 1: like you. Don't knock it.

1798
01:22:15,160 --> 01:22:19,080
Speaker 2: I haven't needed to, Okay, so exactly, so, how you

1799
01:22:19,160 --> 01:22:21,080
Speaker 2: gonna try to give somebody advice on something like this

1800
01:22:21,240 --> 01:22:23,439
Speaker 2: and you ain't head because you don't even know what

1801
01:22:23,560 --> 01:22:26,320
Speaker 2: that feels like inside your pussy. It might feel good,

1802
01:22:26,600 --> 01:22:33,400
Speaker 2: it might toys, toys feel like I said sees. At

1803
01:22:33,439 --> 01:22:36,240
Speaker 2: the end of the day, this is always just our opinions,

1804
01:22:36,520 --> 01:22:39,320
Speaker 2: our advice. Lex think you should try toys with your men.

1805
01:22:39,880 --> 01:22:44,040
Speaker 2: I think you settling if he don't make you happy sexually.

1806
01:22:44,200 --> 01:22:47,960
Speaker 2: Sex is a very important part a relationship. We both

1807
01:22:48,040 --> 01:22:51,680
Speaker 2: say that all the time. So if that dick ain't right,

1808
01:22:52,320 --> 01:22:53,679
Speaker 2: the relationship ain't tight.

1809
01:22:57,000 --> 01:22:59,280
Speaker 1: Okay. So that's what I'm saying. So you can't tell

1810
01:22:59,400 --> 01:23:02,719
Speaker 1: somebody that to extend it. They might it might work,

1811
01:23:03,479 --> 01:23:04,759
Speaker 1: It might work.

1812
01:23:05,000 --> 01:23:07,840
Speaker 2: I'm just saying, she's twenty one, like she said. Like, girl,

1813
01:23:07,880 --> 01:23:10,200
Speaker 2: you haven't even really dated nobody yet for real. Like

1814
01:23:10,240 --> 01:23:12,000
Speaker 2: And at the end of the day, give b B

1815
01:23:12,200 --> 01:23:14,200
Speaker 2: energy though, And one thing about these niggas. You always

1816
01:23:14,200 --> 01:23:17,160
Speaker 2: try to spend them life, honestly. Oh hey, might come back, girl,

1817
01:23:17,760 --> 01:23:19,519
Speaker 2: try the toys. If the toys don't work and you

1818
01:23:19,560 --> 01:23:21,639
Speaker 2: want to keep him around for the meantime, girl, just cheat,

1819
01:23:22,920 --> 01:23:23,519
Speaker 2: That's what I do.

1820
01:23:24,240 --> 01:23:28,160
Speaker 1: And now do not cheat. Girl, Just go day other niggas, Go.

1821
01:23:28,280 --> 01:23:30,519
Speaker 2: Fuck another nigga, and you're gonna be happy as fuck

1822
01:23:30,560 --> 01:23:32,320
Speaker 2: when he gets home because you ain't even gonna kill

1823
01:23:32,360 --> 01:23:35,360
Speaker 2: his dig little You're gonna be having a grand old time.

1824
01:23:35,479 --> 01:23:39,320
Speaker 2: Oh So as always, send your questions in to ask

1825
01:23:39,479 --> 01:23:43,600
Speaker 2: poor Minds at gmail dot com if you know you

1826
01:23:43,720 --> 01:23:45,920
Speaker 2: have any questions or if you would like to send

1827
01:23:46,040 --> 01:23:47,920
Speaker 2: us a test timonial.

1828
01:23:49,360 --> 01:23:55,960
Speaker 1: Amen you ready to see? Draga has been asking to

1829
01:23:56,040 --> 01:24:01,600
Speaker 1: sing this song. I have not you love, bro. I

1830
01:24:01,760 --> 01:24:02,160
Speaker 1: just told you.

1831
01:24:02,240 --> 01:24:04,360
Speaker 2: I don't. Don't act like you don't love this, bro,

1832
01:24:04,560 --> 01:24:07,000
Speaker 2: because I'm not you. You were trying to make it

1833
01:24:07,080 --> 01:24:10,000
Speaker 2: seem like I'll be so geeked to see you ain't

1834
01:24:10,000 --> 01:24:14,559
Speaker 2: geeked to sing this. No, Bro, that's why you're drinking

1835
01:24:14,640 --> 01:24:16,720
Speaker 2: that water, trying to wet your with it.

1836
01:24:16,840 --> 01:24:24,720
Speaker 1: I am okay, man, let's go. I'm I can't just

1837
01:24:24,960 --> 01:24:27,439
Speaker 1: but it's like we normally have an intro. I feel

1838
01:24:27,479 --> 01:24:30,040
Speaker 1: like I just can't jump in. I'm the intro. I'm snapping.

1839
01:24:30,760 --> 01:24:35,160
Speaker 1: M you ready? Am I stepping on beat?

1840
01:24:35,280 --> 01:24:35,320
Speaker 2: No?

1841
01:24:36,479 --> 01:24:39,840
Speaker 1: What's the beat? I don't know. As a matter of fact,

1842
01:24:39,880 --> 01:24:44,960
Speaker 1: there was someone who said it was about eight years ago.

1843
01:24:45,520 --> 01:24:48,000
Speaker 1: Don't act like you don't know. We were sitting at

1844
01:24:48,040 --> 01:24:51,000
Speaker 1: home and your mama's living room because I couldn't be

1845
01:24:51,240 --> 01:24:52,759
Speaker 1: alone see your mama.

1846
01:24:52,920 --> 01:24:55,080
Speaker 3: Now, that was something else. She knew how I felt

1847
01:24:55,520 --> 01:24:57,000
Speaker 3: back when we were in school.

1848
01:24:57,360 --> 01:25:01,080
Speaker 1: That was your favorite excuse growing if I was a fool,

1849
01:25:01,320 --> 01:25:03,120
Speaker 1: I can lie I'm missing you.

1850
01:25:05,080 --> 01:25:05,320
Speaker 2: I know.

1851
01:25:07,040 --> 01:25:10,640
Speaker 1: Listen and don't trip think I need a bottle with

1852
01:25:10,840 --> 01:25:13,439
Speaker 1: a genie. And here's my wish.

1853
01:25:14,960 --> 01:25:19,360
Speaker 4: I would create a heart change in love. I'll take

1854
01:25:19,439 --> 01:25:24,240
Speaker 4: your love and feel it all. But I don't need

1855
01:25:24,360 --> 01:25:26,840
Speaker 4: a lot of wishes because I'll be okay.

1856
01:25:26,960 --> 01:25:30,560
Speaker 1: If I an one. If I had one wish, we

1857
01:25:30,800 --> 01:25:37,439
Speaker 1: would be best friends. Love it would just be. If

1858
01:25:37,520 --> 01:25:42,280
Speaker 1: I had one wish, you would be my boot. Promise

1859
01:25:42,400 --> 01:25:45,160
Speaker 1: to love you. Trust me, I trust you.

1860
01:25:45,680 --> 01:25:50,320
Speaker 5: If I had wish, we would run her way, making

1861
01:25:50,479 --> 01:25:56,160
Speaker 5: love our day, have us a baby. If I had wish,

1862
01:25:57,280 --> 01:26:00,200
Speaker 5: I'll make you my whole life and you will be

1863
01:26:00,360 --> 01:26:01,160
Speaker 5: my wife.

1864
01:26:01,560 --> 01:26:04,759
Speaker 1: Make you right this time. If I had one.

1865
01:26:04,720 --> 01:26:12,280
Speaker 5: Wish, one wish, one wish, one wish, one wish, one wish,

1866
01:26:12,520 --> 01:26:13,760
Speaker 5: one wish.

1867
01:26:17,000 --> 01:26:22,920
Speaker 1: One wish, wish, one wish, one wish, one wish, one

1868
01:26:23,080 --> 01:26:43,760
Speaker 1: wish away like nasally to me, the only way you

1869
01:26:43,840 --> 01:26:45,599
Speaker 1: gotta you gotta come through.

1870
01:26:45,520 --> 01:26:50,360
Speaker 2: Your nose, honestly, right Jack, you need to go to jail,

1871
01:26:51,320 --> 01:26:52,599
Speaker 2: right Jack, This is a good song.

1872
01:26:52,680 --> 01:26:55,840
Speaker 1: Though he was dancing in the ray, he was giving

1873
01:26:55,880 --> 01:26:58,080
Speaker 1: the girls the way he wanted. This was a good song.

1874
01:26:58,600 --> 01:27:02,560
Speaker 1: We can run away. You have a babe bye? You

1875
01:27:02,680 --> 01:27:04,639
Speaker 1: know how serious you mean that? He didn't say baby,

1876
01:27:04,680 --> 01:27:08,439
Speaker 1: he said baye bye. He meant that ship. I like it,

1877
01:27:08,600 --> 01:27:10,240
Speaker 1: he said, Would you be my best friend?

1878
01:27:17,760 --> 01:27:18,880
Speaker 2: What the fuck.

1879
01:27:20,600 --> 01:27:20,760
Speaker 1: Here?

1880
01:27:21,560 --> 01:27:21,680
Speaker 2: Bro?

1881
01:27:22,680 --> 01:27:26,200
Speaker 1: This song is so good? You know what? We gotta

1882
01:27:26,240 --> 01:27:29,360
Speaker 1: do another ray Ja song? Should just myself all over again?

1883
01:27:29,920 --> 01:27:33,320
Speaker 1: Would you be my b Thank you so much for

1884
01:27:33,400 --> 01:27:38,960
Speaker 1: tuning in. We'll see y'all next week. And Raycon bye, y'all.

1885
01:27:39,439 --> 01:27:43,120
Speaker 1: We used to promote Raycon. I like them. I know

1886
01:27:43,280 --> 01:27:46,519
Speaker 1: that's right. That's the week.