1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:04,680 Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys 2 00:00:04,760 --> 00:00:06,720 Speaker 1: online at Advocateslaw dot com. 3 00:00:07,120 --> 00:00:08,920 Speaker 2: Matthew was on the phone today for a first ad 4 00:00:08,960 --> 00:00:11,360 Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Selena. 5 00:00:11,400 --> 00:00:13,000 Speaker 2: So in a few minutes we're gonna call her and 6 00:00:13,000 --> 00:00:14,560 Speaker 2: see if she tell us why she's ghosting him and 7 00:00:14,600 --> 00:00:16,840 Speaker 2: maybe get him another day. But first, Matthew, how long 8 00:00:16,880 --> 00:00:18,239 Speaker 2: has it been since you heard from Selena? 9 00:00:19,680 --> 00:00:20,319 Speaker 3: About a week? 10 00:00:21,160 --> 00:00:23,560 Speaker 4: Okay? Have you been hitting her up to try to 11 00:00:23,600 --> 00:00:24,319 Speaker 4: get a hold of her. 12 00:00:26,079 --> 00:00:28,920 Speaker 3: I'm to ask over day was a going about rigo, 13 00:00:29,720 --> 00:00:32,760 Speaker 3: she's so busy. I kind of checked it after that 14 00:00:32,880 --> 00:00:36,960 Speaker 3: one more time for she had some availability coming up, responded, 15 00:00:37,240 --> 00:00:38,960 Speaker 3: and I'm not gonna like keep paying on. 16 00:00:39,560 --> 00:00:42,559 Speaker 4: Yeah, it can get creepy real quick with that. 17 00:00:44,200 --> 00:00:44,960 Speaker 3: I'm not trying to do that. 18 00:00:45,520 --> 00:00:49,920 Speaker 1: Crush your soul the more times you don't get Yeah, okay, well, 19 00:00:49,960 --> 00:00:51,680 Speaker 1: how is the date though? Must have been great if 20 00:00:51,680 --> 00:00:52,720 Speaker 1: you want to get a hold of her. 21 00:00:53,400 --> 00:00:55,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I thought it went great. It might 22 00:00:55,520 --> 00:00:58,920 Speaker 3: at work. I work in the department, so I did 23 00:01:00,720 --> 00:01:03,960 Speaker 3: as any come executive. I helped probably some computer issues 24 00:01:03,960 --> 00:01:08,240 Speaker 3: at work. We had some chemistry. I felt like pretty 25 00:01:08,240 --> 00:01:10,760 Speaker 3: obvious right from the get go. I worked up a 26 00:01:10,880 --> 00:01:12,679 Speaker 3: nerve to ask her out. She said like she was 27 00:01:12,680 --> 00:01:16,200 Speaker 3: into it. She told me she liked lemons on Martini's, 28 00:01:16,400 --> 00:01:21,040 Speaker 3: so I know it's a perfect spot. It's a really 29 00:01:21,080 --> 00:01:25,600 Speaker 3: cool spots got old Hollywood vibe, which I always always 30 00:01:25,680 --> 00:01:29,280 Speaker 3: liked a lot. We had some drinks. I did not 31 00:01:29,400 --> 00:01:33,240 Speaker 3: have a lemon drop. I had them dried Martini, but 32 00:01:33,520 --> 00:01:36,120 Speaker 3: but she had some some kind of big well and 33 00:01:36,160 --> 00:01:39,959 Speaker 3: everything we talked about dreams features stuff like that, kind 34 00:01:39,959 --> 00:01:42,959 Speaker 3: of in a lfehearted way. I mean it felt really 35 00:01:43,000 --> 00:01:45,600 Speaker 3: good and I was I was really slightly had a 36 00:01:45,640 --> 00:01:49,400 Speaker 3: pretty intensive makeout session in the dark corner we were. 37 00:01:49,480 --> 00:01:52,320 Speaker 3: I mean it felt like you know, kids in school. 38 00:01:52,400 --> 00:01:55,560 Speaker 3: I mean a lot of that kind of giggly energy 39 00:01:56,440 --> 00:01:59,480 Speaker 3: and sat. We had the date split up. That was 40 00:01:59,800 --> 00:02:05,080 Speaker 3: pretty much. I thought it looked really good. I was 41 00:02:05,120 --> 00:02:07,120 Speaker 3: little to get hold of her. I would like to understand, 42 00:02:07,280 --> 00:02:08,560 Speaker 3: you know, I've got to kind of undessarly how it 43 00:02:08,600 --> 00:02:11,440 Speaker 3: cass on her for a while. So I was pretty 44 00:02:11,440 --> 00:02:13,440 Speaker 3: broke up that she, you know, doesn't seem to be 45 00:02:14,400 --> 00:02:15,880 Speaker 3: willing to respond at least. 46 00:02:16,200 --> 00:02:18,560 Speaker 2: Anything happened on the date that you think could be 47 00:02:18,560 --> 00:02:19,919 Speaker 2: a reason she's not calling you back. 48 00:02:21,080 --> 00:02:22,600 Speaker 3: I mean, the only thing I can think of is 49 00:02:22,600 --> 00:02:25,200 Speaker 3: I actually did just get let go from the job 50 00:02:25,600 --> 00:02:29,000 Speaker 3: that we worked together. So she said at the end 51 00:02:29,040 --> 00:02:31,079 Speaker 3: of the state, you know, see it work, and I 52 00:02:31,080 --> 00:02:33,280 Speaker 3: had to be like, I don't even gonna be the salce. 53 00:02:33,320 --> 00:02:35,160 Speaker 3: So I told her that I actually, you know, wasn't 54 00:02:35,160 --> 00:02:37,480 Speaker 3: working there anymore, which I kind of thought would actually 55 00:02:37,520 --> 00:02:40,000 Speaker 3: be a good thing because it removes the possibility of like, 56 00:02:40,080 --> 00:02:42,160 Speaker 3: you know, the office politics and that sort of thing. 57 00:02:42,280 --> 00:02:45,240 Speaker 3: Takes the pressure off of that. That's really the only 58 00:02:45,320 --> 00:02:47,720 Speaker 3: thing I could think of that might have gone wrong 59 00:02:47,760 --> 00:02:51,640 Speaker 3: with it, unless I was just totally misread, you know, 60 00:02:52,000 --> 00:02:55,079 Speaker 3: the signals. And I guess this is always a possibility, 61 00:02:55,120 --> 00:02:57,040 Speaker 3: But that's only one thing I can think of, is 62 00:02:57,080 --> 00:02:58,680 Speaker 3: it I got let go? 63 00:02:59,240 --> 00:03:01,360 Speaker 1: Does she feel like kind of a shallow person that 64 00:03:01,360 --> 00:03:03,720 Speaker 1: would be like, I am not dating your guys who's unemployed? 65 00:03:04,240 --> 00:03:06,400 Speaker 3: I mean, maybe don't. I didn't get that buy from 66 00:03:06,400 --> 00:03:08,440 Speaker 3: her at all. I mean, she seemed pretty down to 67 00:03:08,480 --> 00:03:11,640 Speaker 3: earth and like, you know, I mean that strikes me 68 00:03:11,639 --> 00:03:14,400 Speaker 3: as just being kind of short of sighted and so 69 00:03:14,680 --> 00:03:16,560 Speaker 3: shouldn't starting that way off. But I mean, I guess 70 00:03:16,560 --> 00:03:17,320 Speaker 3: it is a possibility. 71 00:03:17,639 --> 00:03:20,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, did you guys kiss and stuff at the 72 00:03:20,080 --> 00:03:21,680 Speaker 2: end they made out in the dark. 73 00:03:22,560 --> 00:03:24,240 Speaker 3: But you were making out, you know, we made out 74 00:03:24,280 --> 00:03:27,000 Speaker 3: the bar at the very hand or I said that, no, 75 00:03:27,560 --> 00:03:30,919 Speaker 3: but yeah, maybe that was a warning sign or some sort. 76 00:03:31,040 --> 00:03:34,160 Speaker 3: But did you guys another like finalist good Bob. We 77 00:03:34,280 --> 00:03:37,600 Speaker 3: definitely talked about seeing an older in the day. Yeah, 78 00:03:37,800 --> 00:03:39,200 Speaker 3: I mean that was on the table for sure. 79 00:03:39,720 --> 00:03:41,600 Speaker 2: Okay, Well, we'll see if we can figure it out 80 00:03:41,640 --> 00:03:43,880 Speaker 2: for you. Then we'll play a song, come back and 81 00:03:43,920 --> 00:03:45,640 Speaker 2: call her and social talk so why she's ghosting you 82 00:03:45,680 --> 00:03:46,600 Speaker 2: and maybe get you another date. 83 00:03:46,640 --> 00:03:48,720 Speaker 4: Okay, okay, so did all right? 84 00:03:48,760 --> 00:03:50,520 Speaker 2: Cool, we'll play a song, come back and get your 85 00:03:50,520 --> 00:04:11,240 Speaker 2: first a follow up next if you're just joining us 86 00:04:11,240 --> 00:04:13,360 Speaker 2: for today's first date follow up. Matthew is on the 87 00:04:13,360 --> 00:04:15,320 Speaker 2: phone and he's getting ghosted by Selena. So in a 88 00:04:15,360 --> 00:04:16,920 Speaker 2: few minutes we're gonna call her and see if she'll 89 00:04:16,920 --> 00:04:18,680 Speaker 2: tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him 90 00:04:18,680 --> 00:04:20,800 Speaker 2: another date. But before we do that, Matthew, why don't 91 00:04:20,800 --> 00:04:22,839 Speaker 2: you refresh our memory on your date with Selena? 92 00:04:23,720 --> 00:04:25,920 Speaker 3: Well, yeah, so I thought it went really well. We 93 00:04:25,960 --> 00:04:30,080 Speaker 3: had some chemistry from when we worked together. That the 94 00:04:30,480 --> 00:04:34,800 Speaker 3: date was great, good drinks, good vibe. We made out 95 00:04:35,160 --> 00:04:39,040 Speaker 3: it seem much. It was some definite intensity. I thought 96 00:04:39,080 --> 00:04:41,880 Speaker 3: things were going great. We started talking about next time, 97 00:04:42,000 --> 00:04:45,960 Speaker 3: next meetings, next dates. And the one thing I could 98 00:04:45,960 --> 00:04:47,719 Speaker 3: think of that went wrong is at the end, I 99 00:04:47,720 --> 00:04:49,480 Speaker 3: had to tell her that I was no longer with 100 00:04:49,560 --> 00:04:53,240 Speaker 3: the company that we worked at together, and that that's 101 00:04:53,560 --> 00:04:56,800 Speaker 3: my guests as to why she's decided ghost that's just 102 00:04:56,839 --> 00:04:57,400 Speaker 3: a guest though. 103 00:04:57,800 --> 00:04:59,839 Speaker 4: All right, are you ready for us to call her? 104 00:05:00,880 --> 00:05:03,119 Speaker 3: Sure? I'd love to have another shot. 105 00:05:03,240 --> 00:05:17,920 Speaker 4: All right, here we go. Man, Hello, him, I askeweak 106 00:05:17,920 --> 00:05:18,840 Speaker 4: to Selena. Please. 107 00:05:19,760 --> 00:05:20,600 Speaker 5: This is Selena. 108 00:05:20,760 --> 00:05:22,560 Speaker 4: Hey, Selena, how are you? My name is Jewbel. I'm 109 00:05:22,600 --> 00:05:25,279 Speaker 4: calling from radio show. It's called the Jebel Show. Hi, Selena, 110 00:05:25,320 --> 00:05:27,480 Speaker 4: the whole show's here. I'm Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria. 111 00:05:27,600 --> 00:05:29,200 Speaker 5: Oh my god, Hi, Hi. 112 00:05:29,720 --> 00:05:29,840 Speaker 3: Hi. 113 00:05:30,600 --> 00:05:31,479 Speaker 4: You listen to the show? 114 00:05:32,680 --> 00:05:35,039 Speaker 5: I do. I'm a fan. This is exciting. 115 00:05:35,279 --> 00:05:37,640 Speaker 4: Oh sweet, thank you? Well, do you have any idea 116 00:05:37,680 --> 00:05:38,480 Speaker 4: while we're calling you? 117 00:05:39,640 --> 00:05:40,960 Speaker 5: I'm a little bit scared. 118 00:05:41,080 --> 00:05:44,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, this is the first date follow up. 119 00:05:44,480 --> 00:05:46,360 Speaker 2: So you went on a date with somebody recently and 120 00:05:46,400 --> 00:05:48,120 Speaker 2: have been ghosting them, and they emailed us, do you 121 00:05:48,120 --> 00:05:49,440 Speaker 2: know who would email us about you? 122 00:05:50,400 --> 00:05:52,159 Speaker 5: I have a pretty good idea. 123 00:05:52,400 --> 00:05:55,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, you want to take a shot at it. 124 00:05:55,160 --> 00:05:56,280 Speaker 5: Is it Matthew? 125 00:05:57,200 --> 00:06:02,640 Speaker 2: Yes, it is Matthew. You are correct. Know told us 126 00:06:02,640 --> 00:06:04,320 Speaker 2: he really liked you and told us about your date. 127 00:06:04,920 --> 00:06:06,960 Speaker 2: But he says, you've been ghosting for over a week now. 128 00:06:07,240 --> 00:06:07,960 Speaker 4: What happened? 129 00:06:08,279 --> 00:06:15,039 Speaker 5: Yeah, Oh man, I feel bad I'm ghosting Matthew because 130 00:06:15,080 --> 00:06:22,960 Speaker 5: he told me that he wants to live in a treehouse. Yeah, 131 00:06:23,000 --> 00:06:25,400 Speaker 5: like for his real house, I think, And like he 132 00:06:25,680 --> 00:06:27,080 Speaker 5: he told me we worked. I don't know if he 133 00:06:27,120 --> 00:06:30,200 Speaker 5: told you, but we worked at the same company and 134 00:06:30,839 --> 00:06:33,920 Speaker 5: he told me that, like towards the end of the day, 135 00:06:34,040 --> 00:06:35,440 Speaker 5: I said, like, oh, see you at work, and he 136 00:06:35,520 --> 00:06:38,599 Speaker 5: told me that he had lost his job there, which 137 00:06:38,640 --> 00:06:41,560 Speaker 5: was fine, like that that's a that's yeah. I felt 138 00:06:41,600 --> 00:06:44,920 Speaker 5: really bad for him that that happened. But he just 139 00:06:45,000 --> 00:06:47,880 Speaker 5: had like he said, he has no plan, and he 140 00:06:48,000 --> 00:06:50,000 Speaker 5: was like, you know, I'm sure everything's everything's going to 141 00:06:50,040 --> 00:06:54,280 Speaker 5: be fine, and I living in a treehouse sounds perfect, 142 00:06:54,400 --> 00:06:56,440 Speaker 5: And like he he did that he wanted to live 143 00:06:56,440 --> 00:06:58,120 Speaker 5: in like one of the fans. He wants like the 144 00:06:58,160 --> 00:07:01,840 Speaker 5: glamping kind of situation. Treehouse. But at the same time, 145 00:07:02,760 --> 00:07:05,000 Speaker 5: I feel like, I mean, I I definitely am not 146 00:07:05,080 --> 00:07:07,720 Speaker 5: interested in living in a treehouse, and I'm looking for 147 00:07:07,760 --> 00:07:10,320 Speaker 5: like a serious partner. And like, at first I thought 148 00:07:10,320 --> 00:07:13,600 Speaker 5: he was joking, because you know, I mean, that's like 149 00:07:13,600 --> 00:07:15,520 Speaker 5: a funny thing to say. But then he like actually 150 00:07:15,520 --> 00:07:17,480 Speaker 5: went into this whole thing about his friend and how 151 00:07:17,480 --> 00:07:20,119 Speaker 5: his friend lives in a treehouse, and how his friend 152 00:07:20,160 --> 00:07:22,880 Speaker 5: like had saved him so much money and he has 153 00:07:22,960 --> 00:07:25,880 Speaker 5: like no more like drama, and you know, he's like 154 00:07:25,920 --> 00:07:29,240 Speaker 5: a volunteer at different schools and he's playing music and 155 00:07:29,920 --> 00:07:32,280 Speaker 5: like that's all well and good for like a you know, 156 00:07:32,800 --> 00:07:33,840 Speaker 5: like a burning man type. 157 00:07:33,920 --> 00:07:38,080 Speaker 1: Like to me, I'm kind of interested, but I don't 158 00:07:38,080 --> 00:07:39,560 Speaker 1: think that feels stressful. 159 00:07:39,640 --> 00:07:42,120 Speaker 4: And when it comes to like a relationship, though. 160 00:07:42,320 --> 00:07:44,239 Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm like, what where am I going to plug 161 00:07:44,240 --> 00:07:45,280 Speaker 5: in my blow dart? You know what I mean? 162 00:07:48,040 --> 00:07:50,160 Speaker 1: Do they have like fancy treehouses? I mean it does 163 00:07:50,160 --> 00:07:52,400 Speaker 1: sound kind of at least like anyone that you could 164 00:07:52,840 --> 00:07:53,720 Speaker 1: Can you live in them? 165 00:07:54,560 --> 00:07:55,480 Speaker 4: A treehouse? For sure? 166 00:07:55,800 --> 00:07:58,680 Speaker 5: Really, you guys look in a treehouse, but like you 167 00:07:58,720 --> 00:08:01,000 Speaker 5: can't have like kids, you know what i mean. I'm like, 168 00:08:01,040 --> 00:08:03,720 Speaker 5: long term, I'm like this is going nowhere, but like you. 169 00:08:03,640 --> 00:08:06,920 Speaker 2: Have you know, yeah, you probably can. I'm pretty sure 170 00:08:06,920 --> 00:08:09,360 Speaker 2: there are treos that have showers and stuff. Actually there are. 171 00:08:09,960 --> 00:08:12,800 Speaker 4: I think you could build like technically a real house 172 00:08:13,200 --> 00:08:15,560 Speaker 4: in the tree. Well, I don't know how big of 173 00:08:15,560 --> 00:08:16,720 Speaker 4: a house he's trying to build in. 174 00:08:16,680 --> 00:08:19,200 Speaker 1: The tree, right, but you know that could Well that's 175 00:08:19,240 --> 00:08:20,800 Speaker 1: a good point though, if you're starting to really fast 176 00:08:20,840 --> 00:08:23,200 Speaker 1: forward kids, you imagine your kids running around in a treehouse. 177 00:08:24,160 --> 00:08:24,720 Speaker 5: Amazing. 178 00:08:27,240 --> 00:08:29,200 Speaker 1: I have to build some kind of like what do 179 00:08:29,280 --> 00:08:31,360 Speaker 1: you call it, hammock net underneath of it. 180 00:08:33,400 --> 00:08:35,520 Speaker 2: Okay, Well, thank you for being honest with us. I 181 00:08:35,520 --> 00:08:38,800 Speaker 2: appreciate that. Yeah, and I don't know if you remember 182 00:08:38,880 --> 00:08:41,480 Speaker 2: or not, Selena, but during these first day follow ups, 183 00:08:42,160 --> 00:08:44,559 Speaker 2: the person that emailed us is on the phone. So 184 00:08:44,600 --> 00:08:46,240 Speaker 2: Matthew has been listening this whole time and is on 185 00:08:46,240 --> 00:08:52,880 Speaker 2: the phone and wants to talk to you. 186 00:08:48,760 --> 00:09:00,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, you were cool. And remember you saying that 187 00:09:00,880 --> 00:09:04,080 Speaker 3: you always wanted to spend the night in one, so 188 00:09:04,200 --> 00:09:04,679 Speaker 3: it would be. 189 00:09:04,640 --> 00:09:12,280 Speaker 5: Like right like that, yeah, like for for vacation. I'm like, 190 00:09:12,320 --> 00:09:14,160 Speaker 5: I'm I don't want to live in a treehouse, Matthew, 191 00:09:14,840 --> 00:09:16,199 Speaker 5: Like I want to like kind of a venture in 192 00:09:16,240 --> 00:09:17,880 Speaker 5: a treehouse and then I want, like to go back 193 00:09:17,920 --> 00:09:19,319 Speaker 5: to reality, like go back to my life. 194 00:09:19,360 --> 00:09:21,800 Speaker 3: You know, I'm not like urging it to live in 195 00:09:21,840 --> 00:09:26,400 Speaker 3: a treehouse or planning the one that I want. It 196 00:09:26,440 --> 00:09:28,480 Speaker 3: was just sort of a there's something we could do. 197 00:09:28,679 --> 00:09:31,400 Speaker 3: I don't know. It was just like talk. 198 00:09:32,200 --> 00:09:34,120 Speaker 4: It's kind of a good sign though, Matthew, she really 199 00:09:34,200 --> 00:09:35,880 Speaker 4: like fast forward to see the future with you. 200 00:09:37,040 --> 00:09:38,719 Speaker 5: Yeah, And I guess I just mean like so, I 201 00:09:38,720 --> 00:09:40,360 Speaker 5: mean it's like beyond the I'm just like you had 202 00:09:40,400 --> 00:09:42,720 Speaker 5: no plan, Like I'm just like living in a treehouse 203 00:09:42,760 --> 00:09:44,960 Speaker 5: with no plan. It's just like to me, I was like, oh, 204 00:09:45,080 --> 00:09:45,839 Speaker 5: big red flag. 205 00:09:46,440 --> 00:09:48,480 Speaker 3: Well so that I don't have a plan. I just 206 00:09:48,559 --> 00:09:51,240 Speaker 3: have as a means to take some time and figure 207 00:09:51,240 --> 00:09:53,240 Speaker 3: out what I'm going to do next. I don't really 208 00:09:53,280 --> 00:09:56,079 Speaker 3: actually have to work. I just do it because I 209 00:09:56,480 --> 00:09:59,640 Speaker 3: like it. So if I'm not feeling it, I don't. 210 00:10:00,160 --> 00:10:03,400 Speaker 3: But there's the same thing as I'm not having a plan. 211 00:10:04,520 --> 00:10:06,200 Speaker 5: Are you like some what do you mean, like, are 212 00:10:06,240 --> 00:10:09,040 Speaker 5: you like a secret billionaire or something like you don't 213 00:10:09,040 --> 00:10:09,600 Speaker 5: have to work. 214 00:10:09,960 --> 00:10:13,480 Speaker 3: I mean I'm not a billionaire, but I have some money. 215 00:10:13,520 --> 00:10:15,319 Speaker 3: I'm independently well be able to. 216 00:10:15,240 --> 00:10:18,800 Speaker 4: Say, Oh, so it would probably be a very nice treehouse. 217 00:10:18,840 --> 00:10:23,360 Speaker 3: D Yeah. I got to say for me, it's out. 218 00:10:23,440 --> 00:10:25,800 Speaker 3: You're not like what Grandpa made in the backyard and 219 00:10:26,040 --> 00:10:28,599 Speaker 3: a kid. I'm talking about like a house that's in 220 00:10:28,679 --> 00:10:34,440 Speaker 3: a tree not okay with plumbing and showers and you know, 221 00:10:35,320 --> 00:10:39,400 Speaker 3: you could plug in your phone charger for sure. But 222 00:10:39,600 --> 00:10:41,520 Speaker 3: I mean if you don't want that, that's that's fine. 223 00:10:42,000 --> 00:10:44,760 Speaker 3: I don't know exactly what the next maybe year has 224 00:10:44,840 --> 00:10:46,840 Speaker 3: more in terms of plans, but I mean all I 225 00:10:46,880 --> 00:10:49,520 Speaker 3: know is I definitely would like to have the opportunity 226 00:10:49,559 --> 00:10:50,920 Speaker 3: to the more time explain something. 227 00:10:50,960 --> 00:10:52,760 Speaker 2: I would you like to go out with Matthew again? 228 00:10:52,840 --> 00:10:54,200 Speaker 2: We'll pay for it. 229 00:10:54,520 --> 00:10:58,640 Speaker 5: I mean, so you would be willing to like live 230 00:10:58,640 --> 00:10:59,960 Speaker 5: in a house how. 231 00:11:02,200 --> 00:11:05,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean we could. I would be wanting to 232 00:11:05,040 --> 00:11:09,280 Speaker 3: live in a house with not a tree in sight, and. 233 00:11:09,280 --> 00:11:12,200 Speaker 1: You got enough money to cut him down. It sounds like, yeah, 234 00:11:12,520 --> 00:11:14,920 Speaker 1: it's true. I mean it sounds like you guys really 235 00:11:15,000 --> 00:11:17,240 Speaker 1: like each other. There's a lot of negotiating happening here. 236 00:11:18,040 --> 00:11:20,800 Speaker 3: Yeah. I mean, if that's a sticking point that can be, 237 00:11:21,000 --> 00:11:22,960 Speaker 3: that can be, that's that's negotiable. 238 00:11:23,559 --> 00:11:29,360 Speaker 4: What do you think Selena. One more shot, Selena, he's rich, Nina. 239 00:11:32,960 --> 00:11:34,920 Speaker 5: Yeah, I would be willing to give it another shot. 240 00:11:35,360 --> 00:11:38,360 Speaker 5: I think I had a different orderstanding. What you. 241 00:11:40,000 --> 00:11:42,680 Speaker 4: Okay? Congratulations Matthew, you got another date? 242 00:11:44,280 --> 00:11:49,079 Speaker 3: Agree? Hey Selene, I'm so glad that you're wanting to 243 00:11:49,120 --> 00:11:52,360 Speaker 3: give another shot. You can appreciate why I wouldn't like 244 00:11:52,480 --> 00:11:56,160 Speaker 3: lead with money just bought the top. But yeah, I 245 00:11:56,200 --> 00:11:59,120 Speaker 3: mean or three houses was just for fun. So I'm 246 00:11:59,120 --> 00:12:00,400 Speaker 3: going to ran another shot. Thank you. 247 00:12:01,400 --> 00:12:08,400 Speaker 4: Money got her back in, though I don't know Juble's 248 00:12:08,400 --> 00:12:09,640 Speaker 4: first date follow up