1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:03,840 Speaker 1: My coworker's diet is too restrictive, so I didn't invite 2 00:00:03,880 --> 00:00:06,600 Speaker 1: her to my wedding. I'm getting married in a few 3 00:00:06,680 --> 00:00:09,640 Speaker 1: months and I'm currently finalizing the guest list. I work 4 00:00:09,680 --> 00:00:12,280 Speaker 1: in a small office and we're a pretty tight knit group, 5 00:00:12,440 --> 00:00:15,240 Speaker 1: so I decided to invite most of my coworkers. There's 6 00:00:15,440 --> 00:00:18,200 Speaker 1: one coworker, let's call her Jane, who I get along 7 00:00:18,239 --> 00:00:20,880 Speaker 1: with well enough, but we're not super close. By the way. 8 00:00:20,920 --> 00:00:23,520 Speaker 1: This comes from Unlucky Girl on the Best of redditor 9 00:00:23,640 --> 00:00:26,680 Speaker 1: Updates subreddit, So he is the thing. Jane has a 10 00:00:26,680 --> 00:00:31,240 Speaker 1: lot of very specific diet restrictions. She's vegan, gluten free, 11 00:00:31,280 --> 00:00:34,200 Speaker 1: and allergic to a bunch of common ingredients like soy 12 00:00:34,280 --> 00:00:37,160 Speaker 1: and nuts. Dude, this is literally my mom that's tough 13 00:00:37,200 --> 00:00:39,720 Speaker 1: to be vegan and also allergic to soy. Whenever we 14 00:00:39,800 --> 00:00:42,559 Speaker 1: have office lunches or potlucks, it's always a bit of 15 00:00:42,560 --> 00:00:45,280 Speaker 1: a challenge to accommodate her, and sometimes she just brings 16 00:00:45,280 --> 00:00:47,600 Speaker 1: her own food because it's easier. When I was working 17 00:00:47,640 --> 00:00:49,880 Speaker 1: with my caterer to plan the menu for the wedding, 18 00:00:49,960 --> 00:00:52,920 Speaker 1: I realized how difficult and expensive it would be to 19 00:00:52,960 --> 00:00:55,720 Speaker 1: create a dish that Jane could eat. I was already 20 00:00:55,800 --> 00:00:58,400 Speaker 1: stretching my budget, and the thought of spending extra money 21 00:00:58,400 --> 00:01:02,360 Speaker 1: to accommodate just one guest felt overwhelming. This is ridiculous. 22 00:01:02,440 --> 00:01:04,319 Speaker 1: I don't think Opea's in the right here. I'm goka 23 00:01:04,440 --> 00:01:06,920 Speaker 1: now I'm gonna go on. So I made the decision 24 00:01:07,080 --> 00:01:09,920 Speaker 1: not to invite Jane. I felt bad, but I rationalized 25 00:01:09,920 --> 00:01:12,400 Speaker 1: that we're not that close and i'd rather avoid the 26 00:01:12,440 --> 00:01:15,720 Speaker 1: stress and additional cost. I didn't mention anything at work, 27 00:01:15,800 --> 00:01:17,760 Speaker 1: but word got out that I was inviting other co 28 00:01:17,920 --> 00:01:21,000 Speaker 1: workers and Jane noticed she wasn't included. She confronted me 29 00:01:21,040 --> 00:01:23,480 Speaker 1: about it and seemed really hurt. You said she thought 30 00:01:23,520 --> 00:01:25,360 Speaker 1: we were friends and that she would have been happy 31 00:01:25,360 --> 00:01:28,320 Speaker 1: to bring her own food, which she's done before, if 32 00:01:28,360 --> 00:01:31,000 Speaker 1: that was an issue. Now some of my coworkers are 33 00:01:31,040 --> 00:01:33,160 Speaker 1: giving me the cold shoulder, and I'm wondering if I 34 00:01:33,240 --> 00:01:36,040 Speaker 1: really messed up. I didn't want to make her feel excluded, 35 00:01:36,080 --> 00:01:37,760 Speaker 1: but I also didn't think she'd want to come if 36 00:01:37,800 --> 00:01:40,600 Speaker 1: I couldn't accommodate her diet. Am Ida hole for not 37 00:01:40,680 --> 00:01:43,399 Speaker 1: inviting Jane to my wedding because of her diet restrictions. 38 00:01:43,480 --> 00:01:45,160 Speaker 1: What's your thoughts? John, because I have thoughts. 39 00:01:45,319 --> 00:01:46,639 Speaker 2: Ooh, we have so many thoughts. 40 00:01:46,680 --> 00:01:52,480 Speaker 3: I am wondering why op couldn't have said in the invite, like, hey, 41 00:01:52,520 --> 00:01:55,480 Speaker 3: it might be hard with all the planning and everything 42 00:01:55,520 --> 00:01:58,760 Speaker 3: we're doing to like be able to put together something 43 00:01:58,840 --> 00:02:01,560 Speaker 3: that like has a full accompt nations. You're obviously welcome 44 00:02:01,720 --> 00:02:04,360 Speaker 3: to do whatever you'd like, but obviously wanted to extend 45 00:02:04,760 --> 00:02:07,080 Speaker 3: the invitation if you're still down and would like to 46 00:02:08,280 --> 00:02:08,800 Speaker 3: OPI is. 47 00:02:08,800 --> 00:02:10,960 Speaker 1: The ahole, and Opie should have said what you just said. 48 00:02:11,000 --> 00:02:13,399 Speaker 1: I'm saying, I'm going to invite her and then say, hey, 49 00:02:13,400 --> 00:02:15,560 Speaker 1: we don't have it in our budget to support you know, 50 00:02:15,720 --> 00:02:18,880 Speaker 1: specifically your dietary restrictions, but I would love to still 51 00:02:18,960 --> 00:02:21,880 Speaker 1: have you there. But instead op he was like, oh, 52 00:02:22,000 --> 00:02:24,880 Speaker 1: that's actually harder, so let me just not invite her 53 00:02:24,919 --> 00:02:28,480 Speaker 1: in our small workplace where obviously it's got to get 54 00:02:28,480 --> 00:02:31,480 Speaker 1: out that she's not she's the only person not invited. 55 00:02:31,600 --> 00:02:33,440 Speaker 4: But what if you are about to get married and 56 00:02:33,480 --> 00:02:35,880 Speaker 4: you have a coworker that can only eat seafood and 57 00:02:35,919 --> 00:02:36,840 Speaker 4: you hate seafood? 58 00:02:36,880 --> 00:02:41,200 Speaker 1: I can they only eat seafood? What is ridiculous? 59 00:02:41,560 --> 00:02:42,480 Speaker 5: What do you do with them? 60 00:02:43,160 --> 00:02:46,040 Speaker 1: You invite them, and you say, hey, we can't afford. 61 00:02:45,680 --> 00:02:50,240 Speaker 4: To and seafood would kill me, Like Riley can't invite you, 62 00:02:50,440 --> 00:02:55,880 Speaker 4: I eat other things. Oh, I wasn't talking about you. 63 00:02:53,160 --> 00:02:56,960 Speaker 4: You're literally zoomed. 64 00:02:57,120 --> 00:02:58,920 Speaker 5: They just don't invite them for the safety of your 65 00:02:58,960 --> 00:02:59,720 Speaker 5: own well being. 66 00:03:00,600 --> 00:03:04,240 Speaker 1: No, what you just don't have that food at the wedding. 67 00:03:04,320 --> 00:03:06,440 Speaker 5: But they can only eat seafood, No they can't. 68 00:03:07,160 --> 00:03:07,880 Speaker 3: Wrong, what if? 69 00:03:08,040 --> 00:03:11,000 Speaker 4: What if the person's wedding they are all about protein 70 00:03:11,240 --> 00:03:12,840 Speaker 4: and they're like, Okay, this person won't have a lot 71 00:03:12,840 --> 00:03:14,880 Speaker 4: of protein there, let's get them seafood. But I will 72 00:03:14,919 --> 00:03:17,440 Speaker 4: die buy seafood if they don't like tofu or the 73 00:03:17,480 --> 00:03:18,280 Speaker 4: idea of tofu. 74 00:03:18,639 --> 00:03:20,440 Speaker 1: Too bad that they bring their own food. 75 00:03:20,560 --> 00:03:22,519 Speaker 5: But what if you're afraid that it would kill them? 76 00:03:23,880 --> 00:03:25,240 Speaker 5: Theoretical just in a. 77 00:03:25,200 --> 00:03:27,920 Speaker 1: World just trying to what if me and you're little, 78 00:03:28,120 --> 00:03:31,880 Speaker 1: I'm not anywhere. You literally just said what if? 79 00:03:31,919 --> 00:03:35,960 Speaker 4: Like kids, please, but this is a relatable story that 80 00:03:36,000 --> 00:03:37,120 Speaker 4: I'm afraid. 81 00:03:37,360 --> 00:03:41,640 Speaker 1: Relatable story Opius the ale it's cotton dry? Oh my god, 82 00:03:41,760 --> 00:03:44,120 Speaker 1: And I'm going to read the relevant comments. Who I 83 00:03:44,120 --> 00:03:48,000 Speaker 1: bet agree with me? Ali qv says info. Did you 84 00:03:48,000 --> 00:03:50,200 Speaker 1: think Jane was somehow not going to find out she 85 00:03:50,280 --> 00:03:53,600 Speaker 1: was the only one not invited. Dole Advantage says this, 86 00:03:54,040 --> 00:03:56,960 Speaker 1: especially in a small office, there was no way another 87 00:03:57,000 --> 00:04:00,520 Speaker 1: coworker wouldn't mention the upcoming wedding in a conversation. Reasonable 88 00:04:00,600 --> 00:04:03,200 Speaker 1: raccoon says, I didn't want to make her feel excluded, 89 00:04:03,320 --> 00:04:07,080 Speaker 1: so you excluded her. Why didn't you just talk to her? Seriously, 90 00:04:07,240 --> 00:04:10,440 Speaker 1: this was such an easy conversation, Jane. My caterers are 91 00:04:10,440 --> 00:04:12,520 Speaker 1: going to charge a fortune to prepare one meal you 92 00:04:12,520 --> 00:04:14,320 Speaker 1: can eat. Can I just give you twenty bucks and 93 00:04:14,360 --> 00:04:15,200 Speaker 1: you bring your own food? 94 00:04:15,320 --> 00:04:15,600 Speaker 2: Wow? 95 00:04:15,920 --> 00:04:18,560 Speaker 1: WHOA? I wonder how people think they're mature enough to 96 00:04:18,560 --> 00:04:21,360 Speaker 1: get married but not communicate a simple issue like this 97 00:04:21,560 --> 00:04:24,560 Speaker 1: and rather just treat someone like crap, you're the a hole. 98 00:04:24,680 --> 00:04:26,480 Speaker 2: Now I have a question, Yes, before we get into 99 00:04:26,480 --> 00:04:26,960 Speaker 2: this updates. 100 00:04:27,200 --> 00:04:31,360 Speaker 3: If Op was like great friends, best he's even with 101 00:04:31,400 --> 00:04:34,479 Speaker 3: the other coworkers, but not with Jane, would she then 102 00:04:34,600 --> 00:04:37,600 Speaker 3: be within her right to not invite her to the wedding? 103 00:04:37,640 --> 00:04:39,680 Speaker 1: And why I think that you, I mean, have a 104 00:04:39,760 --> 00:04:42,320 Speaker 1: right to not invite anyone. Yeah, and if you, let's say, 105 00:04:42,320 --> 00:04:44,520 Speaker 1: you're friends with literally everyone else in the office, but 106 00:04:44,560 --> 00:04:46,800 Speaker 1: you're like, I'm not really fun, not that close with Jane, 107 00:04:46,920 --> 00:04:49,680 Speaker 1: or you have a right but office politics. If you 108 00:04:49,720 --> 00:04:52,560 Speaker 1: invite everyone else, if every other kid in the class 109 00:04:52,600 --> 00:04:54,760 Speaker 1: gets a piece of candy and you say, oh, I 110 00:04:54,760 --> 00:04:57,160 Speaker 1: didn't bring one kid piece of candy, teacher to get 111 00:04:57,160 --> 00:04:57,719 Speaker 1: a bit Maddie. 112 00:04:57,720 --> 00:05:00,440 Speaker 3: If she didn't actually enjoy Jane, would she be a hole? 113 00:05:00,440 --> 00:05:03,280 Speaker 3: Which we concluded not. But it's like you like this person, 114 00:05:03,320 --> 00:05:05,760 Speaker 3: it's only for Why would you not want to invite 115 00:05:05,760 --> 00:05:07,240 Speaker 3: her to making it hard for you for her? 116 00:05:07,600 --> 00:05:09,839 Speaker 1: You're just gonna look like the a hole in the office. 117 00:05:10,120 --> 00:05:13,960 Speaker 1: You're the office a hole. Update. I've realized I was 118 00:05:14,000 --> 00:05:16,359 Speaker 1: the a hole. Oh First, I want to thank you 119 00:05:16,440 --> 00:05:19,360 Speaker 1: all for your honest opinions on my original post. It's 120 00:05:19,400 --> 00:05:21,560 Speaker 1: been a few days since I posted, and I've had 121 00:05:21,560 --> 00:05:24,320 Speaker 1: some time to reflect on the situation and your responses. 122 00:05:24,480 --> 00:05:27,440 Speaker 1: After reading through the comments and honestly, after sitting with 123 00:05:27,480 --> 00:05:30,160 Speaker 1: my own thoughts, I've come to the conclusion that, yes, 124 00:05:30,480 --> 00:05:32,800 Speaker 1: I was the a hole in this situation. You were. 125 00:05:32,920 --> 00:05:35,560 Speaker 1: I won't lie. It's not easy to admit this. When 126 00:05:35,560 --> 00:05:37,880 Speaker 1: I first made the decision not to invite Jane, I 127 00:05:38,080 --> 00:05:41,080 Speaker 1: genuinely thought I was being practical. I convinced myself that 128 00:05:41,120 --> 00:05:43,720 Speaker 1: since we weren't that close, it wouldn't matter much to her. 129 00:05:43,760 --> 00:05:46,920 Speaker 1: But in doing so, I completely overlooked the fact that 130 00:05:46,960 --> 00:05:49,680 Speaker 1: this isn't just about logistics or budgets. It's about a 131 00:05:49,720 --> 00:05:53,159 Speaker 1: relationship and how our actions, even those we think are small, 132 00:05:53,400 --> 00:05:58,640 Speaker 1: can have significant impact on others. Shocking. Jubby's just now 133 00:05:58,720 --> 00:05:59,719 Speaker 1: learning what consitution? 134 00:06:00,200 --> 00:06:03,240 Speaker 3: Huh, She's like, wow, kindness, I thought everyone was in 135 00:06:03,360 --> 00:06:04,720 Speaker 3: numbers in a spread cheet. 136 00:06:04,920 --> 00:06:08,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, my actions have consequences. 137 00:06:09,000 --> 00:06:12,000 Speaker 3: What I mean, I will told me I will at 138 00:06:12,120 --> 00:06:14,960 Speaker 3: least be like, Okay, at least Opie is. 139 00:06:16,839 --> 00:06:19,440 Speaker 1: I realize now that by not inviting her, I wasn't 140 00:06:19,520 --> 00:06:22,159 Speaker 1: just excluding her from a celebration. I was sending a 141 00:06:22,160 --> 00:06:25,839 Speaker 1: message that she wasn't worth the effort, and that's not 142 00:06:25,960 --> 00:06:28,120 Speaker 1: the kind of person I want to be. And here 143 00:06:28,160 --> 00:06:30,640 Speaker 1: I was making her feel unwelcome because I didn't want 144 00:06:30,680 --> 00:06:32,880 Speaker 1: to deal with a bit of extra planning. After the post, 145 00:06:32,920 --> 00:06:35,800 Speaker 1: I decided to reach out to Jane directly. I apologized 146 00:06:35,880 --> 00:06:38,479 Speaker 1: for not inviting her and explained that I was wrong 147 00:06:38,560 --> 00:06:41,000 Speaker 1: to let my stress and budget concerns get in the 148 00:06:41,040 --> 00:06:44,800 Speaker 1: way of our friendship. Jane was surprisingly understanding and appreciated 149 00:06:44,800 --> 00:06:47,080 Speaker 1: the apology. We had a good talk, and while I'm 150 00:06:47,080 --> 00:06:48,960 Speaker 1: not sure if I can undo the hurd I caused, 151 00:06:49,040 --> 00:06:51,520 Speaker 1: I'm hoping we can move forward from this. I've also 152 00:06:51,600 --> 00:06:54,840 Speaker 1: realized that sometimes the effort we put into our relationships, 153 00:06:55,000 --> 00:06:58,640 Speaker 1: especially during significant moments like weddings, is what truly matters. 154 00:06:58,839 --> 00:07:01,320 Speaker 1: It's not just about who's closest to us, but also 155 00:07:01,400 --> 00:07:04,920 Speaker 1: about making people feel valued and included. So for anyone 156 00:07:04,960 --> 00:07:07,320 Speaker 1: out there planning a wedding or another big event, take 157 00:07:07,360 --> 00:07:09,640 Speaker 1: it from me, don't get so caught up in the 158 00:07:09,680 --> 00:07:12,360 Speaker 1: details that you lose sight of the people who matter. 159 00:07:12,480 --> 00:07:15,120 Speaker 1: Thanks again, everyone for helping me see this more clearly. 160 00:07:15,280 --> 00:07:18,200 Speaker 1: I'll do better from now on, and that is the 161 00:07:18,320 --> 00:07:21,239 Speaker 1: end of that story. I guess we're on the right track. 162 00:07:21,600 --> 00:07:24,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, so how we feel op did twitch up? 163 00:07:24,080 --> 00:07:26,160 Speaker 2: How are you now feeling about op Sylvia? 164 00:07:26,320 --> 00:07:29,240 Speaker 1: I think Ope wos stupid, But I think that I 165 00:07:29,360 --> 00:07:32,520 Speaker 1: will allow everyone a second chance if they're willing to 166 00:07:32,720 --> 00:07:33,360 Speaker 1: put in the work. 167 00:07:33,520 --> 00:07:33,720 Speaker 2: Now. 168 00:07:34,160 --> 00:07:38,640 Speaker 3: Question, if someone accuses you of wanting to bring deadly 169 00:07:38,720 --> 00:07:40,720 Speaker 3: food items, could you then forgive. 170 00:07:40,440 --> 00:07:41,520 Speaker 1: That personality chance? 171 00:07:41,600 --> 00:07:42,880 Speaker 2: Non think I could. 172 00:07:42,880 --> 00:07:44,360 Speaker 1: I don't think I would give them a second chance. 173 00:07:44,400 --> 00:07:45,760 Speaker 2: Hard line, hard line yeah. 174 00:07:45,800 --> 00:07:48,360 Speaker 5: Wow, why would you in the first place bring deadly 175 00:07:48,400 --> 00:07:49,240 Speaker 5: thanks to a wedding? 176 00:07:49,320 --> 00:07:51,880 Speaker 1: So yeah, biowarfare? 177 00:07:53,680 --> 00:07:56,400 Speaker 3: Am I the ale for committing biological warfare at my 178 00:07:56,440 --> 00:07:59,600 Speaker 3: friend's wedding? Riley Chats invited to your wedding? Right? I 179 00:07:59,600 --> 00:07:59,920 Speaker 3: could live? 180 00:08:00,400 --> 00:08:00,600 Speaker 1: Yeah? 181 00:08:00,720 --> 00:08:03,440 Speaker 2: Right, we got to just find someone to switch. 182 00:08:03,800 --> 00:08:05,160 Speaker 5: Yeah, figure that out. 183 00:08:05,240 --> 00:08:07,520 Speaker 1: One's Bradley has to produce his own wedding. 184 00:08:08,360 --> 00:08:09,440 Speaker 5: Don't give me a challenge. 185 00:08:10,080 --> 00:08:11,000 Speaker 2: Don't get it started. 186 00:08:11,040 --> 00:08:12,480 Speaker 5: I'll have Ai Riley do it. 187 00:08:12,600 --> 00:08:14,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, you have years to figure it out. 188 00:08:14,360 --> 00:08:17,280 Speaker 3: How many likes on this episode? Uh for you to 189 00:08:17,320 --> 00:08:21,080 Speaker 3: invite chat to your wedding, I'm not gonna say ten thousand. 190 00:08:20,760 --> 00:08:23,880 Speaker 1: One hundred thousand. That's not that many, big or go home? 191 00:08:23,920 --> 00:08:26,040 Speaker 5: Well, do you know if I'm gonna get married right now? Yes, 192 00:08:26,040 --> 00:08:27,000 Speaker 5: you are right now? 193 00:08:27,040 --> 00:08:28,920 Speaker 3: If we get a million life, the thing is Riley 194 00:08:28,920 --> 00:08:29,560 Speaker 3: has to get married. 195 00:08:29,640 --> 00:08:32,880 Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying, is right now. If we plan 196 00:08:33,040 --> 00:08:35,720 Speaker 1: you know, let's say your wedding happens in like ten years. 197 00:08:35,760 --> 00:08:37,120 Speaker 5: Wow, thanks, it's open. 198 00:08:37,200 --> 00:08:40,319 Speaker 1: Five three is like a normal age to get married. 199 00:08:40,400 --> 00:08:44,400 Speaker 1: Dude got married. Die my dad got married at like 200 00:08:44,480 --> 00:08:45,000 Speaker 1: thirty three. 201 00:08:45,200 --> 00:08:47,800 Speaker 5: Okay, Well he's Californian. I'm a North. 202 00:08:47,640 --> 00:08:48,960 Speaker 1: Korea, but now you are California. 203 00:08:49,000 --> 00:08:51,240 Speaker 4: You know how many years behind I am getting married? 204 00:08:51,640 --> 00:08:54,880 Speaker 4: Five I'm five years behind. I'm most get married. He's 205 00:08:54,920 --> 00:08:57,040 Speaker 4: not the point I should have three kids by now. 206 00:08:57,160 --> 00:09:00,480 Speaker 1: Oh fine, Let's say you get married in five years. 207 00:09:00,600 --> 00:09:00,920 Speaker 5: Thank you. 208 00:09:01,240 --> 00:09:05,280 Speaker 1: That leaves five years for the likes on this video 209 00:09:05,600 --> 00:09:08,320 Speaker 1: to accumulate. So I feel like you should you should 210 00:09:08,320 --> 00:09:09,240 Speaker 1: give a harder goal. 211 00:09:09,120 --> 00:09:11,120 Speaker 3: With all the whole shows and plans that we have. 212 00:09:11,280 --> 00:09:12,199 Speaker 3: I like, one hundred thousand. 213 00:09:12,200 --> 00:09:15,120 Speaker 1: One hundred thousand's not that much though, that's really easily achievable. 214 00:09:15,200 --> 00:09:17,000 Speaker 5: No one's gonna like come back at this was. 215 00:09:17,040 --> 00:09:19,800 Speaker 1: Just as they will. You don't think that they're gonna 216 00:09:19,800 --> 00:09:22,079 Speaker 1: clip this when you say, oh, I'm getting married. 217 00:09:21,840 --> 00:09:24,640 Speaker 3: All right, one hundred thousand, yes or more finally answer 218 00:09:25,320 --> 00:09:26,840 Speaker 3: one hundred hundred thousand. 219 00:09:26,920 --> 00:09:28,600 Speaker 1: I like, Riley really wants you. It is Bunny. 220 00:09:28,720 --> 00:09:31,400 Speaker 3: That's That's what I'm saying. Bring chat, Bring chat, Bob's 221 00:09:31,400 --> 00:09:31,760 Speaker 3: in the chat. 222 00:09:31,760 --> 00:09:32,079 Speaker 1: That's what. 223 00:09:34,000 --> 00:09:36,840 Speaker 2: All Right, enough torture Riley. 224 00:09:37,679 --> 00:09:39,920 Speaker 5: Let's get into the next story. 225 00:09:40,480 --> 00:09:43,040 Speaker 3: So my monster in law is going to destroy my 226 00:09:43,080 --> 00:09:45,040 Speaker 3: wedding because she hates the catering. 227 00:09:44,920 --> 00:09:46,240 Speaker 1: All these catering stories. 228 00:09:46,360 --> 00:09:49,440 Speaker 3: I'm getting married and I have an insane mother in law, 229 00:09:49,679 --> 00:09:52,040 Speaker 3: like got kicked out of hospitals. 230 00:09:51,480 --> 00:09:53,680 Speaker 2: For abusing her cancer doctor. Crazy. 231 00:09:53,800 --> 00:09:56,719 Speaker 3: Oh interesting, and she always complains about having to go 232 00:09:56,760 --> 00:09:59,320 Speaker 3: to a restaurant that has gluten free options that aren't 233 00:09:59,400 --> 00:10:02,240 Speaker 3: a salad. By the way, this comes from count of 234 00:10:02,320 --> 00:10:05,439 Speaker 3: my mounty crickles on ursaus. Okay, storytime for us your name. 235 00:10:05,480 --> 00:10:08,040 Speaker 3: She's paying for their rehearsal dinner, and we gave her 236 00:10:08,120 --> 00:10:11,240 Speaker 3: a long list of places where there are gluten free options, 237 00:10:11,400 --> 00:10:13,440 Speaker 3: all in a good price range. She doesn't know any 238 00:10:13,520 --> 00:10:15,960 Speaker 3: of the restaurants where I live, not a single one 239 00:10:16,120 --> 00:10:18,840 Speaker 3: except the list we gave her. She bitshed my fiance 240 00:10:18,960 --> 00:10:21,360 Speaker 3: about it so badly that he straight up said that 241 00:10:21,400 --> 00:10:23,719 Speaker 3: he wouldn't invite her if she was going to do 242 00:10:23,760 --> 00:10:25,800 Speaker 3: these kinds of things to me broad vo to him, 243 00:10:25,840 --> 00:10:28,280 Speaker 3: he literally has to tell his mom, I'm gonna uninvite 244 00:10:28,320 --> 00:10:30,280 Speaker 3: you from the wedding if you keep treating. 245 00:10:29,960 --> 00:10:32,319 Speaker 1: My You're not coming to my birthday party. If you're 246 00:10:32,320 --> 00:10:34,120 Speaker 1: gonna treat me and my fiance like this. 247 00:10:34,600 --> 00:10:37,680 Speaker 3: She always makes sure literally tells it to my face 248 00:10:37,679 --> 00:10:41,720 Speaker 3: that I am a huge inconvenience. I am literally the bride. 249 00:10:41,840 --> 00:10:45,240 Speaker 3: It sounds like you're an inconvenience mom. Yeah, added, my 250 00:10:45,360 --> 00:10:47,800 Speaker 3: friends and my family decided, if she makes us go 251 00:10:48,000 --> 00:10:50,800 Speaker 3: somewhere I can't eat, we're all going to get drinks 252 00:10:50,840 --> 00:10:51,960 Speaker 3: somewhere and hang out. 253 00:10:52,200 --> 00:10:53,520 Speaker 2: Everyone is on board. 254 00:10:54,640 --> 00:10:57,559 Speaker 1: Wait waitute question, Oh he's the gluten free person. 255 00:10:57,640 --> 00:10:59,120 Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah, hold on, I thought it was the 256 00:10:59,120 --> 00:11:01,240 Speaker 3: mother in law. I thought that too, So we're we're 257 00:11:01,320 --> 00:11:03,839 Speaker 3: running it back, real quick, run it back. She always 258 00:11:03,880 --> 00:11:07,160 Speaker 3: complains about having to go to Okay, it was worded 259 00:11:07,280 --> 00:11:09,559 Speaker 3: very confusingly, and I was with you as well. So 260 00:11:09,920 --> 00:11:12,400 Speaker 3: she's not complaining like, hey, make sure we go to 261 00:11:12,480 --> 00:11:14,440 Speaker 3: a gluten free restaurant. She's like, oh my god, we 262 00:11:14,480 --> 00:11:19,000 Speaker 3: always have to go to because of OP. That makes 263 00:11:19,160 --> 00:11:19,880 Speaker 3: a lot more. 264 00:11:19,760 --> 00:11:20,760 Speaker 1: To get it now, dude. 265 00:11:21,000 --> 00:11:24,120 Speaker 2: Wow, hey, thanks, welcome to the to the bad reading. 266 00:11:24,120 --> 00:11:24,800 Speaker 2: Comprehend your crew. 267 00:11:24,960 --> 00:11:27,960 Speaker 3: Ah boom, got him because we don't get it? 268 00:11:27,960 --> 00:11:29,600 Speaker 2: Okay, nothing, god heathing. 269 00:11:29,920 --> 00:11:33,520 Speaker 3: So added, my friends and family decided, if she makes 270 00:11:33,600 --> 00:11:35,520 Speaker 3: us go somewhere I can't eat, we're all going to 271 00:11:35,559 --> 00:11:37,640 Speaker 3: get drinks somewhere and hang out. Low key. Maybe it's 272 00:11:37,640 --> 00:11:40,600 Speaker 3: a financial thing, but why even let her do that. Yeah, 273 00:11:40,720 --> 00:11:42,640 Speaker 3: I'm like, I would rather set up my house and 274 00:11:42,679 --> 00:11:43,720 Speaker 3: make tacos with my homies. 275 00:11:43,800 --> 00:11:46,599 Speaker 1: Literally. I also just don't eat out that much, like 276 00:11:46,679 --> 00:11:48,560 Speaker 1: I prefer to eat ere and make food. 277 00:11:49,280 --> 00:11:51,560 Speaker 2: Make tacos are great tacos. 278 00:11:52,200 --> 00:11:54,760 Speaker 5: I knew she was gonna say that, what would you say? 279 00:11:54,920 --> 00:11:57,320 Speaker 2: Said got him? 280 00:11:57,440 --> 00:11:59,760 Speaker 3: So everyone is on board and happy to make sure 281 00:11:59,840 --> 00:12:01,719 Speaker 3: that she doesn't come near me during the wedding, the 282 00:12:01,800 --> 00:12:03,880 Speaker 3: evil monster in law, mother in law. I am not 283 00:12:04,000 --> 00:12:06,400 Speaker 3: going to let a narcissist ruin our wedding, and my 284 00:12:06,480 --> 00:12:08,000 Speaker 3: friends are on board to keep her away. 285 00:12:08,240 --> 00:12:11,439 Speaker 2: I will say hello and goodbye hello, but if she 286 00:12:11,559 --> 00:12:11,920 Speaker 2: tries to. 287 00:12:11,960 --> 00:12:14,400 Speaker 3: Say anything more, I'm going to walk away and talk 288 00:12:14,440 --> 00:12:16,400 Speaker 3: to someone else. If she makes a scene at my wedding, 289 00:12:16,559 --> 00:12:18,439 Speaker 3: well I'll watch her make a fool of herself and 290 00:12:18,480 --> 00:12:21,080 Speaker 3: embarrass yourself in front of everyone and enjoy the show 291 00:12:21,440 --> 00:12:24,160 Speaker 3: because no one is ever on her side because of 292 00:12:24,240 --> 00:12:25,080 Speaker 3: the way she acts. 293 00:12:25,120 --> 00:12:25,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, no one likes her. 294 00:12:26,160 --> 00:12:28,600 Speaker 2: No one likes you likes you can't sit with us. 295 00:12:28,760 --> 00:12:31,200 Speaker 1: You can't freaking sit with us or come to this wedding. 296 00:12:31,960 --> 00:12:33,959 Speaker 3: Uninvite mother in law to the wedding. 297 00:12:34,240 --> 00:12:36,680 Speaker 1: I think it might cause a lot of drama. Yeah, 298 00:12:36,880 --> 00:12:39,559 Speaker 1: but maybe just saying well, I think the husband could 299 00:12:39,600 --> 00:12:41,360 Speaker 1: do that. I think the husband if he's more like. 300 00:12:41,640 --> 00:12:44,079 Speaker 2: Yeah, ask like go through whatever channels you. 301 00:12:44,480 --> 00:12:45,959 Speaker 1: If he's like, I don't want my mom to come, 302 00:12:46,040 --> 00:12:47,040 Speaker 1: then that's his decision. 303 00:12:47,240 --> 00:12:47,440 Speaker 2: Yeah. 304 00:12:47,520 --> 00:12:49,319 Speaker 1: But I think at this point just being like, you 305 00:12:49,400 --> 00:12:51,560 Speaker 1: know what, let's exclude her from all of the planning 306 00:12:51,800 --> 00:12:54,080 Speaker 1: and like give her a babysitter at the wedding. 307 00:12:54,240 --> 00:12:58,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, planning for sure. And it seems also that OPI 308 00:12:59,200 --> 00:13:01,120 Speaker 3: has a mean of like being able to handle it 309 00:13:01,160 --> 00:13:04,360 Speaker 3: pretty well. Because of that, I think like, okay, you can, 310 00:13:04,640 --> 00:13:08,200 Speaker 3: but if it got if it escalated anymore, then maybe like. 311 00:13:08,600 --> 00:13:11,520 Speaker 5: Ye, did you do the trustee? Mother gets a friend 312 00:13:11,640 --> 00:13:12,440 Speaker 5: or a pal for the day. 313 00:13:12,520 --> 00:13:14,360 Speaker 1: That's what I was saying. A babysitter at the wedding. 314 00:13:14,400 --> 00:13:16,240 Speaker 4: How do they not catch on though, Well, if you're 315 00:13:16,559 --> 00:13:18,760 Speaker 4: just given with a bunch of attention, I think they 316 00:13:18,800 --> 00:13:19,079 Speaker 4: catch on. 317 00:13:19,160 --> 00:13:20,000 Speaker 5: Well, they won't catch on. 318 00:13:20,080 --> 00:13:22,120 Speaker 3: They won't catch on, right, Yeah, they're just they're like 319 00:13:22,200 --> 00:13:23,600 Speaker 3: an undercover babysitter. 320 00:13:23,800 --> 00:13:27,439 Speaker 1: Yeah, you're like, oh, mom, just come over here, tell 321 00:13:27,480 --> 00:13:28,559 Speaker 1: me about Oh what's that? 322 00:13:28,880 --> 00:13:30,280 Speaker 3: Tell me about your latest crochet? 323 00:13:30,559 --> 00:13:33,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, tell me about your your gluten full recipes. 324 00:13:34,080 --> 00:13:37,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, tell me about your gluten hate group. Yeah, gluten 325 00:13:37,240 --> 00:13:37,800 Speaker 3: free hate group. 326 00:13:37,840 --> 00:13:39,240 Speaker 5: I should say, why do you think we bought your 327 00:13:39,280 --> 00:13:40,240 Speaker 5: girlfriend of the Potlucks? 328 00:13:40,960 --> 00:13:43,440 Speaker 1: Oh, she's your babysitter, John, What your girlfriend is your 329 00:13:43,480 --> 00:13:45,320 Speaker 1: babysitter at potlucks? That's what really is. 330 00:13:45,280 --> 00:13:47,200 Speaker 5: Saying, we don't want your old man in the place. 331 00:13:47,360 --> 00:13:49,920 Speaker 2: I just got so lost right there. 332 00:13:50,440 --> 00:13:54,760 Speaker 1: Also, this isn't one of the apps Riley. 333 00:13:57,400 --> 00:14:02,640 Speaker 3: Focus on star. Oh my god, I literally I just 334 00:14:02,720 --> 00:14:04,839 Speaker 3: have to put like dangle a piece of shrimp in 335 00:14:04,960 --> 00:14:06,360 Speaker 3: front of the screen with the star that. 336 00:14:10,679 --> 00:14:12,880 Speaker 2: Oh my god, put her on a shredmill with a 337 00:14:12,920 --> 00:14:14,920 Speaker 2: shrimp hanging on it. Oh my god. 338 00:14:15,040 --> 00:14:16,959 Speaker 3: Anyways, let's get into these relevant comments. 339 00:14:17,080 --> 00:14:21,120 Speaker 2: Ladies and gentlemen. Pluto is playing, says you behavior. 340 00:14:21,280 --> 00:14:23,280 Speaker 3: You don't let her be involved in any part of 341 00:14:23,360 --> 00:14:26,040 Speaker 3: the planning, In that part of the planning, or any 342 00:14:26,120 --> 00:14:27,680 Speaker 3: if that feels right to you, and she's going to 343 00:14:27,720 --> 00:14:30,480 Speaker 3: act like that, it's literally your wedding. I hope you 344 00:14:30,800 --> 00:14:34,360 Speaker 3: have absolutely delicious gluten free meal ifought was like a 345 00:14:34,440 --> 00:14:38,200 Speaker 3: girlfriend meal, absolutely delicious gluten free meal with your loved 346 00:14:38,240 --> 00:14:41,600 Speaker 3: ones and a great wedding. Opie says, I didn't even 347 00:14:41,640 --> 00:14:44,400 Speaker 3: really want to rehearsal dinner because I feel guilty about 348 00:14:44,440 --> 00:14:45,240 Speaker 3: someone else paying. 349 00:14:45,520 --> 00:14:46,040 Speaker 5: Yeah, you don't. 350 00:14:46,080 --> 00:14:48,480 Speaker 3: You don't really have to have that? Yeah, I guess 351 00:14:48,720 --> 00:14:51,080 Speaker 3: is that I guess a big tradition rehearsal dinner. 352 00:14:51,240 --> 00:14:53,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, everyone has a rehearsal dinner. Okay, most people, I 353 00:14:53,720 --> 00:14:54,440 Speaker 1: won't say everyone. 354 00:14:54,560 --> 00:14:56,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, a lot of people, A lot of people, at 355 00:14:56,160 --> 00:15:00,960 Speaker 3: least two Yeah, two people a specific yeah, and I 356 00:15:01,160 --> 00:15:02,880 Speaker 3: sort of don't want to have one again again? 357 00:15:03,440 --> 00:15:04,480 Speaker 1: Why would you have another one? 358 00:15:04,640 --> 00:15:04,800 Speaker 3: Oh? 359 00:15:05,080 --> 00:15:05,280 Speaker 5: Yeah? 360 00:15:05,360 --> 00:15:05,560 Speaker 3: Wait? 361 00:15:06,240 --> 00:15:07,200 Speaker 5: Are you married this? 362 00:15:07,680 --> 00:15:07,880 Speaker 2: Yeah? 363 00:15:08,080 --> 00:15:09,920 Speaker 3: I don't know what's going on here. Deep Crater says, 364 00:15:10,520 --> 00:15:12,600 Speaker 3: she just sounds like an awful person. I don't think 365 00:15:12,640 --> 00:15:14,840 Speaker 3: it has anything to do with your celiac, which is 366 00:15:14,880 --> 00:15:16,080 Speaker 3: why she can't have the gluten. 367 00:15:16,240 --> 00:15:16,800 Speaker 1: The gluten. 368 00:15:17,120 --> 00:15:19,640 Speaker 2: You're the bride, You're the prize. I said that, not 369 00:15:19,920 --> 00:15:20,320 Speaker 2: the writer. 370 00:15:20,720 --> 00:15:20,840 Speaker 4: Uh. 371 00:15:20,920 --> 00:15:23,800 Speaker 3: The number one priority is you and your partner. Op says, 372 00:15:24,040 --> 00:15:26,440 Speaker 3: thank you. I've been so low maintenance, frugal and just 373 00:15:26,520 --> 00:15:29,600 Speaker 3: focusing on people having fun. My bff keeps having to 374 00:15:29,680 --> 00:15:32,240 Speaker 3: remind me I am the bride. I think he thinks 375 00:15:32,320 --> 00:15:32,960 Speaker 3: it's her wedding. 376 00:15:33,160 --> 00:15:35,720 Speaker 2: Who are you really? Says yes, she's awful. 377 00:15:35,800 --> 00:15:37,680 Speaker 3: Next time she's rude to your face, tell her she 378 00:15:37,840 --> 00:15:41,160 Speaker 3: needs to remember the lessons from her parents' generation. If 379 00:15:41,200 --> 00:15:43,160 Speaker 3: you don't have anything nice to say, don't say it 380 00:15:43,240 --> 00:15:45,120 Speaker 3: at all and grin and Barrett. 381 00:15:45,840 --> 00:15:51,280 Speaker 1: Ain't that the truth? Amen's sister, Ama sister, don't invite her. 382 00:15:51,560 --> 00:15:53,560 Speaker 3: I think right now I'm gonna say no because no, 383 00:15:53,880 --> 00:15:56,240 Speaker 3: yeah yeah, Op's like I have a way to kind 384 00:15:56,280 --> 00:15:56,920 Speaker 3: of like laugh at off. 385 00:15:57,080 --> 00:15:59,120 Speaker 1: Yeah. I think they've had I think they have their 386 00:15:59,160 --> 00:16:00,240 Speaker 1: own solutions right now. 387 00:16:00,400 --> 00:16:02,360 Speaker 3: Yes, we have an update. Maybe the wedding has already happened. 388 00:16:02,880 --> 00:16:05,760 Speaker 3: Let's see, well the situation has been fixed. Oh oh wow, 389 00:16:05,960 --> 00:16:08,080 Speaker 3: but I think I almost gave my mother in law stroke. 390 00:16:08,200 --> 00:16:10,160 Speaker 5: I thought I read that and I was like, there 391 00:16:10,200 --> 00:16:11,560 Speaker 5: was a situation has been fixed. 392 00:16:14,360 --> 00:16:16,600 Speaker 3: Bye bye, yeah, red flag right. 393 00:16:17,280 --> 00:16:19,360 Speaker 2: I was like, wasn't that bad? 394 00:16:20,040 --> 00:16:20,880 Speaker 1: Fixed the situation? 395 00:16:21,040 --> 00:16:25,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, we got it handled. Okay. She had a little stroke, 396 00:16:25,880 --> 00:16:30,440 Speaker 3: had a spill. She got a lot more controlling than 397 00:16:30,560 --> 00:16:33,360 Speaker 3: just the restaurant surprise surprise. First, she called me and 398 00:16:33,520 --> 00:16:35,880 Speaker 3: screamed that no one in her family can eat at 399 00:16:35,920 --> 00:16:37,920 Speaker 3: the restaurant we chose, and that they all looked at 400 00:16:37,960 --> 00:16:40,200 Speaker 3: the menu and said they all want pizza. 401 00:16:40,440 --> 00:16:43,800 Speaker 2: They told me, told me somewhere. I've been glutened before. 402 00:16:44,200 --> 00:16:45,120 Speaker 1: She's been glutened. 403 00:16:45,320 --> 00:16:46,200 Speaker 2: She's been glutened. 404 00:16:46,360 --> 00:16:47,240 Speaker 3: That's I love. 405 00:16:48,400 --> 00:16:49,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's amazing. 406 00:16:49,400 --> 00:16:52,960 Speaker 3: She said, No one in my entire family can Everyone 407 00:16:53,040 --> 00:16:56,080 Speaker 3: will be sick. They all ate it, by the way, 408 00:16:56,160 --> 00:16:57,440 Speaker 3: not giving a crap about my family. 409 00:16:57,520 --> 00:16:58,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, I've been meeted before. 410 00:16:59,000 --> 00:16:59,480 Speaker 2: It's tough. 411 00:17:00,720 --> 00:17:02,880 Speaker 5: Recently. No, good, good good. 412 00:17:03,200 --> 00:17:05,200 Speaker 1: I knew what it would sound like, and I wanted 413 00:17:05,600 --> 00:17:07,720 Speaker 1: to make you laugh, but I actually read it. 414 00:17:07,840 --> 00:17:08,879 Speaker 3: No, it was great. I loved it. 415 00:17:09,080 --> 00:17:09,480 Speaker 1: Okay, good. 416 00:17:09,640 --> 00:17:10,720 Speaker 5: Was the last time you've been meeted? 417 00:17:11,400 --> 00:17:12,000 Speaker 1: Months ago? 418 00:17:12,440 --> 00:17:13,480 Speaker 5: Months ago? Yeah? 419 00:17:13,600 --> 00:17:15,199 Speaker 1: Someone had what's it called bacon? 420 00:17:15,400 --> 00:17:18,760 Speaker 5: Oh, bacon and the MACARONI wait, was that my girlfriend 421 00:17:18,800 --> 00:17:19,240 Speaker 5: meted you? 422 00:17:20,240 --> 00:17:20,280 Speaker 3: No? 423 00:17:21,240 --> 00:17:24,040 Speaker 5: Oh, no, my girlfriend non vegan. Someone she brought maca 424 00:17:24,080 --> 00:17:24,920 Speaker 5: cheese and had milk in it. 425 00:17:25,000 --> 00:17:27,920 Speaker 1: And someone to I'm not I'm I'm vegan. I'm not vegan. 426 00:17:28,040 --> 00:17:30,080 Speaker 5: No no, no, she she did something else to someone else. 427 00:17:30,480 --> 00:17:32,560 Speaker 2: Back to the story, she said, no one in my 428 00:17:32,920 --> 00:17:34,120 Speaker 2: entire family can eat there. 429 00:17:34,160 --> 00:17:35,679 Speaker 3: Everyone will be sick. They will all hate it, by 430 00:17:35,720 --> 00:17:37,760 Speaker 3: the way, not giving a crap about my family. So 431 00:17:37,960 --> 00:17:41,399 Speaker 3: basically not this family doesn't say that so I decided 432 00:17:41,440 --> 00:17:43,520 Speaker 3: to call each and every one of her family members 433 00:17:43,560 --> 00:17:45,440 Speaker 3: that are coming to the rehearsal and ask if they're 434 00:17:45,520 --> 00:17:48,159 Speaker 3: fine with eating what we picked. Turns out mother in 435 00:17:48,240 --> 00:17:51,159 Speaker 3: law had called everyone trying to get them to agree 436 00:17:51,320 --> 00:17:52,840 Speaker 3: with her about getting pizza. 437 00:17:53,080 --> 00:17:55,760 Speaker 1: She's she's doing like the what do they call like 438 00:17:55,800 --> 00:17:57,960 Speaker 1: the politics calls? When you call it the calls? 439 00:17:58,160 --> 00:18:02,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, when you're saying to convince someone like. 440 00:18:02,560 --> 00:18:04,720 Speaker 1: It, yeah, are you interested in voting for this person? 441 00:18:04,880 --> 00:18:07,199 Speaker 3: And they're both doing it yeah, like to each other. 442 00:18:07,280 --> 00:18:10,000 Speaker 3: So so we got, hey, uh, you don't want to 443 00:18:10,040 --> 00:18:11,639 Speaker 3: eat this place, right, like you want a pizza? Like, 444 00:18:11,680 --> 00:18:12,800 Speaker 3: oh yeah, pizza sounds good. 445 00:18:12,920 --> 00:18:16,239 Speaker 1: Yeah, And then up and says you hate that pizza place, right, 446 00:18:16,400 --> 00:18:18,080 Speaker 1: you would be really down for this other place, right, 447 00:18:19,080 --> 00:18:22,400 Speaker 1: Like I actually am voting third party? 448 00:18:22,560 --> 00:18:25,360 Speaker 2: Yeah right, yeah, yeah, I'm an independent. I feel bad 449 00:18:25,400 --> 00:18:26,359 Speaker 2: for the people in the middle. 450 00:18:26,400 --> 00:18:28,280 Speaker 3: Honestly, they all said they told her they wanted the 451 00:18:28,320 --> 00:18:31,959 Speaker 3: place we picked, and half of them couldn't even eat pizza. 452 00:18:32,160 --> 00:18:33,960 Speaker 2: Boom, that gang in a house. 453 00:18:35,400 --> 00:18:38,480 Speaker 3: So she flat out lied, flat out like a pizza 454 00:18:38,600 --> 00:18:41,600 Speaker 3: lied and she just really wants pizza. 455 00:18:41,760 --> 00:18:44,480 Speaker 1: Well, you can get pizza any day. Any day of 456 00:18:44,600 --> 00:18:45,000 Speaker 1: a month. 457 00:18:45,040 --> 00:18:45,360 Speaker 3: You can't. 458 00:18:45,440 --> 00:18:48,040 Speaker 2: You can't spend literally one night without getting pizza. 459 00:18:48,800 --> 00:18:49,520 Speaker 1: She needs pizza. 460 00:18:50,119 --> 00:18:53,720 Speaker 3: She even started inviting and uninviting whoever she wanted. 461 00:18:54,560 --> 00:18:56,000 Speaker 4: What what what? 462 00:18:57,000 --> 00:18:59,760 Speaker 3: She was cutting people out of the dinner who actually 463 00:19:00,040 --> 00:19:04,040 Speaker 3: eight participating in the rehearsal, and adding people in who weren't. 464 00:19:04,080 --> 00:19:06,560 Speaker 1: So she's like, how how is she getting away with this? 465 00:19:06,720 --> 00:19:06,840 Speaker 4: Bro? 466 00:19:07,160 --> 00:19:09,800 Speaker 1: Is she cold calling them? Oh my god, I was 467 00:19:09,880 --> 00:19:12,800 Speaker 1: letting her just invite, Like, why does she have the authority. 468 00:19:12,400 --> 00:19:12,720 Speaker 4: To do this? 469 00:19:12,880 --> 00:19:13,960 Speaker 2: I think she's just doing it. 470 00:19:14,080 --> 00:19:19,600 Speaker 1: She's just calling. She's like that bad news op wants done. 471 00:19:19,680 --> 00:19:22,880 Speaker 1: Invite you don't talk to her. Don't confirm this though. 472 00:19:23,040 --> 00:19:25,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, no that you be out of her life completely. 473 00:19:25,560 --> 00:19:28,639 Speaker 1: Yeah, she'll hate you. You don't need to follow up 474 00:19:28,680 --> 00:19:29,800 Speaker 1: on that. Wow. Wow, wobbsy. 475 00:19:30,359 --> 00:19:33,040 Speaker 3: You called two weeks ago and snapped, we're getting pizza 476 00:19:33,280 --> 00:19:35,040 Speaker 3: and you have no choice. 477 00:19:35,840 --> 00:19:37,520 Speaker 1: Literally get pizza every other day. 478 00:19:37,880 --> 00:19:40,560 Speaker 2: You have no choice, batman, what are you going to do? 479 00:19:41,440 --> 00:19:42,720 Speaker 2: Save the people in houspital? 480 00:19:43,040 --> 00:19:43,800 Speaker 1: Eat the pizza. 481 00:19:45,520 --> 00:19:48,040 Speaker 3: So I told her, I'm paying for the rehearsal, now, 482 00:19:48,320 --> 00:19:50,800 Speaker 3: not you. We are going to go where we want. 483 00:19:51,080 --> 00:19:52,119 Speaker 2: You can go get pizza. 484 00:19:52,600 --> 00:19:55,840 Speaker 3: Yeah. This seventy six year old woman responded by screaming. 485 00:19:56,000 --> 00:19:59,920 Speaker 3: She didn't stream no or actual words. He just screamed 486 00:20:00,080 --> 00:20:01,440 Speaker 3: at the top of her lungs. 487 00:20:04,400 --> 00:20:07,800 Speaker 1: And she's like, we're getting pizza. Piays no, and she goes, 488 00:20:11,000 --> 00:20:11,359 Speaker 1: you can have. 489 00:20:11,320 --> 00:20:14,040 Speaker 5: A sweet potato pizza. Those are cool. I've got a 490 00:20:14,080 --> 00:20:15,399 Speaker 5: call a sweet potato crust. 491 00:20:15,680 --> 00:20:17,879 Speaker 1: I've got a cauliflower crust pizza, which is pretty good. 492 00:20:17,920 --> 00:20:18,560 Speaker 3: I need to try that. 493 00:20:18,680 --> 00:20:19,760 Speaker 5: I'll make it for you brother. 494 00:20:20,320 --> 00:20:20,600 Speaker 2: Thanks. 495 00:20:20,720 --> 00:20:21,159 Speaker 1: I want that. 496 00:20:21,560 --> 00:20:22,720 Speaker 5: I might meet it, though what. 497 00:20:23,760 --> 00:20:24,879 Speaker 1: You're meeting the crust? 498 00:20:25,040 --> 00:20:26,119 Speaker 2: He might meet my crust. 499 00:20:26,280 --> 00:20:27,119 Speaker 5: No, meet the pizza. 500 00:20:27,320 --> 00:20:29,720 Speaker 1: Okay, well meet don't meet it, you can. 501 00:20:29,680 --> 00:20:32,560 Speaker 3: Meet my pizza. Y, she screamed at the top of 502 00:20:32,600 --> 00:20:34,440 Speaker 3: her lungs. I hung up and blocked her number. My 503 00:20:34,520 --> 00:20:37,359 Speaker 3: significant other is amazing, and that night sent her a 504 00:20:37,440 --> 00:20:39,680 Speaker 3: text telling her she is no longer a part of 505 00:20:39,760 --> 00:20:41,240 Speaker 3: the rehearsal or wedding planning. 506 00:20:41,400 --> 00:20:43,679 Speaker 1: Makes sense? Oh, does that still mean she's coming. 507 00:20:43,560 --> 00:20:45,200 Speaker 2: To the webbing still means I think she's coming to 508 00:20:45,240 --> 00:20:45,560 Speaker 2: the wedding. 509 00:20:45,600 --> 00:20:47,840 Speaker 1: I think at this point I could see maybe uninviting her. 510 00:20:48,000 --> 00:20:49,159 Speaker 2: I think I think so. 511 00:20:49,440 --> 00:20:53,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, he's been ignoring her text since obviously checking for emergencies, 512 00:20:53,359 --> 00:20:55,560 Speaker 3: but it's just her saying mean craft to him. I'm 513 00:20:55,640 --> 00:20:57,720 Speaker 3: so glad to live three hundred and fifty miles away 514 00:20:57,760 --> 00:21:00,320 Speaker 3: from the psycho. I just wanted to eat. What the f? 515 00:21:00,400 --> 00:21:01,320 Speaker 2: How dare you, bob? 516 00:21:02,080 --> 00:21:04,680 Speaker 1: You just want to eat? Well, guess what you ate? 517 00:21:05,200 --> 00:21:09,919 Speaker 3: Oh got them and you got us because you can 518 00:21:10,000 --> 00:21:12,320 Speaker 3: join us every weekday, three pm on youtubeer We'll love 519 00:21:12,400 --> 00:21:14,760 Speaker 3: us every week day. Come in, but let's close out 520 00:21:14,760 --> 00:21:17,560 Speaker 3: with some relevant comments, because that's all it's left. Rey 521 00:21:17,640 --> 00:21:19,919 Speaker 3: Jane and any six says, if she as bad as 522 00:21:20,440 --> 00:21:22,600 Speaker 3: you say she is, and you don't want her at 523 00:21:22,600 --> 00:21:25,480 Speaker 3: the wedding anymore, higher security, I've seen too many posts 524 00:21:25,480 --> 00:21:27,760 Speaker 3: and other subs about it. It's great when you're waffling 525 00:21:27,840 --> 00:21:30,320 Speaker 3: on how to delicately approach the situation and they go 526 00:21:30,480 --> 00:21:34,480 Speaker 3: nuclear and solves it for you, isn't it? Four Bass says. 527 00:21:34,840 --> 00:21:37,679 Speaker 3: In some locales, you can call the local police non 528 00:21:37,760 --> 00:21:40,920 Speaker 3: emergency line or drop into the local station and ask 529 00:21:40,960 --> 00:21:43,720 Speaker 3: about hiring an off duty officer in uniform. If you 530 00:21:43,760 --> 00:21:46,399 Speaker 3: wish to provide security presents at the wedding and reception, 531 00:21:47,240 --> 00:21:50,080 Speaker 3: be sure to say they'll get free food too. Whoa 532 00:21:50,640 --> 00:21:53,440 Speaker 3: swift food, good old plate. They may refer to you 533 00:21:53,760 --> 00:21:56,399 Speaker 3: as their local FOP. Don't know what that is, but 534 00:21:56,560 --> 00:21:59,000 Speaker 3: young officers are always looking to pick up the odd 535 00:21:59,040 --> 00:22:01,280 Speaker 3: security job. Here are they to make some extra pay. 536 00:22:01,720 --> 00:22:04,280 Speaker 3: Their presence tends to be tends to have a calming 537 00:22:04,280 --> 00:22:07,680 Speaker 3: effect on troublemakers. Good luck and best witches, Opie says, Oh, 538 00:22:07,920 --> 00:22:08,680 Speaker 3: this is good to know. 539 00:22:09,240 --> 00:22:09,960 Speaker 2: I if you not. 540 00:22:10,119 --> 00:22:12,800 Speaker 3: My entire family is ready to kick her out physically, 541 00:22:13,119 --> 00:22:15,760 Speaker 3: but I don't want them to have to spoil their time. 542 00:22:15,920 --> 00:22:18,639 Speaker 2: An officer would be better. And dang, it'll be funny 543 00:22:18,920 --> 00:22:20,600 Speaker 2: when she makes a scene. 544 00:22:21,280 --> 00:22:24,240 Speaker 3: Only thing I will say to that is, is it 545 00:22:24,400 --> 00:22:27,480 Speaker 3: not easier to just uninvite her from the wedding altogether? 546 00:22:27,720 --> 00:22:29,640 Speaker 1: If you think she's gonna make a scene, maybe. 547 00:22:29,520 --> 00:22:32,119 Speaker 5: Just don't better because a family already doesn't like her, right, No. 548 00:22:32,119 --> 00:22:35,040 Speaker 3: One, rather literally no one likes her. Everyone's like ready, 549 00:22:35,119 --> 00:22:36,880 Speaker 3: like Tommy, when I'll kick her. 550 00:22:36,760 --> 00:22:39,359 Speaker 5: Out, kick her out, Just don't kick her in. 551 00:22:39,600 --> 00:22:41,560 Speaker 3: We'll hire some security maybe just to make sure she 552 00:22:41,600 --> 00:22:45,159 Speaker 3: doesn't come and make a scene. Agreed, But hopefully we can. 553 00:22:45,359 --> 00:22:47,639 Speaker 3: You can only hope you tell her, hey, you're not invited, 554 00:22:47,680 --> 00:22:49,480 Speaker 3: and she's like all right, scop you guys and screw 555 00:22:49,600 --> 00:22:50,159 Speaker 3: you guys.