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Nobody should be able to destroy your confidence 0:02:26.560 --> 0:02:28.640 because that's the first thing you got to have in 0:02:28.760 --> 0:02:31.480 order to play it. In the get go right, the 0:02:31.520 --> 0:02:34.160 first thing you got to have. You got to be 0:02:34.200 --> 0:02:36.040 confident what you do. You got to be confident in 0:02:36.080 --> 0:02:40.880 your abilities. No matter what nobody say. I had words 0:02:40.880 --> 0:02:42.640 gonna destroy your confidence. I don't get I don't care 0:02:42.680 --> 0:02:46.080 who it comes from, whether it be coaches, whether it 0:02:46.080 --> 0:02:49.240 be partners, where it be fans. Nobody should be able 0:02:49.240 --> 0:02:51.360 to get to you. As long as you believe in 0:02:51.400 --> 0:02:53.919 your craft and your game and you work on it. 0:02:54.240 --> 0:02:58.320 That's it. The back and forth Prime defending his son, 0:02:59.680 --> 0:03:05.160 that's that's the time. That's life. That's in general, and 0:03:05.200 --> 0:03:07.040 it's the It had nothing to do with the coaches 0:03:07.080 --> 0:03:10.080 and the players. That's in life in general. If someone 0:03:10.160 --> 0:03:12.359 says something to your daughters and your sons, you defend them. 0:03:12.520 --> 0:03:15.080 If somebody said something my daughters and my sons, or 0:03:15.080 --> 0:03:17.919 people say something about me, you know, they defend me. Well, 0:03:17.919 --> 0:03:19.320 I'm one I don't care. They ain't got to say 0:03:19.320 --> 0:03:21.480 nothing about me. Get I don't even care. But in general, 0:03:21.680 --> 0:03:24.560 just for my kid, you you protect your kids, sure 0:03:24.639 --> 0:03:28.799 that the kids normally nine said nine times out of ten. 0:03:29.000 --> 0:03:32.000 Protect the parents. That's that's all. That was. 0:03:32.960 --> 0:03:33.400 That's it. 0:03:34.880 --> 0:03:37.920 You know, a time time said something very interesting. He 0:03:38.000 --> 0:03:40.480 was on all the Smoke podcasts and he said that 0:03:41.040 --> 0:03:45.520 he thought the people that that he loved the most 0:03:45.680 --> 0:03:47.880 and the people that he spoke the highest of. 0:03:49.600 --> 0:03:50.440 Would protect him. 0:03:51.880 --> 0:03:55.880 Those are the people that's been most outspoken against him. 0:03:56.040 --> 0:03:59.480 But that's that's us. Yeah, that's yeah. Always, it's always 0:03:59.480 --> 0:03:59.920 been that way. 0:04:00.200 --> 0:04:03.560 You you've never heard Pat McAfee say anything negative about 0:04:03.600 --> 0:04:04.120 Joe Rogan. 0:04:05.440 --> 0:04:06.600 You never heard Joe Rogan. 0:04:06.680 --> 0:04:09.760 So it's anything negative about Pat McAfee and so forth 0:04:09.800 --> 0:04:10.000 and so. 0:04:10.880 --> 0:04:14.360 But it's us. It's us. I'm saying that. 0:04:14.400 --> 0:04:17.479 That you when have you ever heard somebody say something 0:04:17.480 --> 0:04:19.840 negative about Joe Rogan. Joe Rogan has been at the 0:04:19.839 --> 0:04:25.640 top of the food chain for that game. Look how 0:04:25.640 --> 0:04:31.200 many guys left Alabama in the transfer a portal. Guys 0:04:31.240 --> 0:04:35.120 leave all the time. Guys have left Coach Safe while 0:04:35.160 --> 0:04:37.360 Coach Sable was there. Now, if you want to say Shannon, 0:04:37.400 --> 0:04:39.840 this is our lived. Coach Saban is leaving. They feel 0:04:39.880 --> 0:04:41.520 things are going to be different. They want to go somewhere. 0:04:41.880 --> 0:04:44.799 I will grant you that. But a lot of guys 0:04:44.839 --> 0:04:50.359 have left Coach Saban and gone into the portal. But 0:04:50.440 --> 0:04:53.160 it just seems Look and I and and the thing 0:04:53.240 --> 0:04:55.320 that I told and I talked with Time today and 0:04:55.400 --> 0:04:57.440 I talked to him from time to time. No, I 0:04:57.480 --> 0:05:00.560 won't get too specifically what we talked about. Say Time, 0:05:01.040 --> 0:05:05.400 this ain't about your kids. This is about you. It's 0:05:05.400 --> 0:05:10.320 about you. If your door played like he played and 0:05:10.360 --> 0:05:15.200 his dad was Joe Lampshad, he wouldn't receive this bitch yall. 0:05:17.880 --> 0:05:20.960 Oh no at all, not at all. 0:05:20.839 --> 0:05:21.159 You know what. 0:05:21.240 --> 0:05:23.920 But I would have loved to have seen I want 0:05:23.920 --> 0:05:26.760 to see Peyton Manning and see how they would have 0:05:26.760 --> 0:05:28.720 responded to Peyton or. 0:05:28.640 --> 0:05:31.360 Eli knowing that his dad was fight was Archie. 0:05:33.440 --> 0:05:35.159 I just want I just because that's what I like 0:05:35.200 --> 0:05:37.240 to see, because I like to have It's hard to 0:05:37.279 --> 0:05:41.600 say what it's like without having a compa a comparison. 0:05:41.920 --> 0:05:46.440 You know what I'm saying, Yes, sir, but I. 0:05:46.400 --> 0:05:49.280 Don't well, I don't think Peyton has social media. I 0:05:49.279 --> 0:05:52.200 don't think what you call him has a ELI had 0:05:52.240 --> 0:05:55.559 social media. So if it's really if it's really hard 0:05:55.600 --> 0:05:59.960 to say, but I know we're the hardest on people that. 0:06:00.320 --> 0:06:04.120 Like yeah, always and so it's always been that way. 0:06:04.240 --> 0:06:06.920 It probably will always be that way until. 0:06:06.680 --> 0:06:07.839 We're all in one accord. 0:06:07.880 --> 0:06:10.640 And the most difficult part in trying to get us 0:06:10.680 --> 0:06:13.440 all on one accord because we all marstered the beat 0:06:13.480 --> 0:06:14.239 of our own drum. 0:06:14.560 --> 0:06:16.000 We all think we're always right. 0:06:16.200 --> 0:06:20.200 We always always have an opinion on how we should 0:06:20.240 --> 0:06:22.080 have done things, or how we would have done things 0:06:22.240 --> 0:06:25.680 if the opportunity presented itself, or if we were in 0:06:25.720 --> 0:06:31.240 that individual shoes. Always. I mean, it's it's listen, it's unfortunate, 0:06:31.960 --> 0:06:35.719 but it's always been the nature of our people in general. 0:06:36.320 --> 0:06:39.240 You know, it is what it is. You just get 0:06:39.279 --> 0:06:43.599 to a point. For me, I listened to people's opinions, 0:06:44.160 --> 0:06:48.760 some good, some bad. Some I remember, some I don't. 0:06:49.440 --> 0:06:52.720 Most of the time, it's people that have never been 0:06:53.680 --> 0:06:58.640 in a position that always have the wildest ideas and 0:06:58.720 --> 0:07:01.000 thoughts on what they would have done if they were 0:07:01.200 --> 0:07:02.120 in said position. 0:07:03.240 --> 0:07:05.400 Everybody got great ideas with your money. 0:07:06.400 --> 0:07:08.480 Man, don't don't get me started on that. 0:07:09.120 --> 0:07:11.920 Cab got great idea. Man, this is what you should do. Okay, 0:07:12.000 --> 0:07:13.200 let me ask you a question. What you're doing with 0:07:13.240 --> 0:07:13.760 your money? 0:07:13.960 --> 0:07:14.200 Nah? 0:07:14.240 --> 0:07:16.680 Man, I'm just saying, if I had your money, No, 0:07:17.120 --> 0:07:18.960 tell me what you because here's the thing. 0:07:19.200 --> 0:07:22.280 If you blow your money, you to blown mind. If 0:07:22.320 --> 0:07:23.040 you can't help. 0:07:23.200 --> 0:07:26.760 What makes you think, if you can't handle twenty thousand, 0:07:27.040 --> 0:07:33.120 fifty thousand, that you can have a five million? Because 0:07:33.120 --> 0:07:39.040 see bad see small habits turning the large habits. That's 0:07:39.080 --> 0:07:43.040 why you correct mistakes, small things so they don't become 0:07:43.120 --> 0:07:47.080 big fans. So this notion, man, if I had that, 0:07:47.280 --> 0:07:49.080 I'm looking at you right now. I already know how 0:07:49.120 --> 0:07:53.920 to be, but I've never been. When I look and 0:07:53.960 --> 0:07:59.360 I see guys around, I'm motivated by their success. 0:07:59.360 --> 0:08:01.400 I'm not in being of it. 0:08:01.640 --> 0:08:06.320 I'm motivating. I'm like, man, I can do that. I 0:08:06.360 --> 0:08:06.760 can do that. 0:08:09.000 --> 0:08:09.120 Uh. 0:08:10.720 --> 0:08:14.560 And like, for the first time in a very long time, 0:08:14.680 --> 0:08:17.440 I had somebody that looked like me to help me. 0:08:18.720 --> 0:08:19.640 That's Stephen AYI. 0:08:21.200 --> 0:08:24.880 He had them to build graphics to show club shape shape. 0:08:25.280 --> 0:08:28.920 He talks about club shape, he talks about nightcap. They 0:08:28.960 --> 0:08:32.360 build graphic let that sink in. They have nothing. They 0:08:32.360 --> 0:08:36.160 don't distribute anything club. It is your nightcap. But he 0:08:36.320 --> 0:08:38.720 had them do that for me. When I was on 0:08:38.760 --> 0:08:41.440 the network that was distributing it. They did nothing. They 0:08:41.440 --> 0:08:43.960 didn't even mention that, they didn't advertise it. 0:08:46.280 --> 0:08:46.880 He did that. 0:08:48.520 --> 0:08:53.840 He did that. I'm not envious of his success. He's 0:08:53.880 --> 0:08:58.040 not envious of my success. The first thing he told 0:08:58.080 --> 0:09:03.360 me said, bro, be you be you you know more football? 0:09:03.440 --> 0:09:04.840 I can that possibly, No. 0:09:06.200 --> 0:09:09.760 That's dope, that's live. You don't, man, you don't get 0:09:09.760 --> 0:09:10.679 too many people like that. 0:09:10.760 --> 0:09:16.720 Now Hell no like that, hell to the now. No, nope. 0:09:17.280 --> 0:09:21.480 But you know when guys like, okay, what do I 0:09:21.480 --> 0:09:25.880 I help? I mean if I can help, Okay, this 0:09:25.960 --> 0:09:28.079 is what you do. You know, cam cam like, hey, 0:09:28.160 --> 0:09:30.320 I need I want to talk to you about Okay, fine, 0:09:30.720 --> 0:09:32.760 what's up? I said, Well, this is this is kind 0:09:32.800 --> 0:09:34.040 of how we do it. We do it like this, 0:09:34.240 --> 0:09:36.200 kind of do it like that because I want all 0:09:36.200 --> 0:09:37.280 of us to be successful. 0:09:39.440 --> 0:09:40.160 I'm not. I'm not. 0:09:40.240 --> 0:09:42.160 I don't worry about anybody else. Well what about look, 0:09:42.200 --> 0:09:44.480 we do what we do. Y'all do what y'all do? 0:09:44.920 --> 0:09:46.520 Oh what you're not gonna do what we do on 0:09:46.679 --> 0:09:48.360 night cap? I'm gonna do what I do on Club 0:09:48.400 --> 0:09:50.920 Shay shape and we're gonna keep it moving. But I 0:09:50.960 --> 0:09:53.760 don't I don't get envious of anybody that you know, 0:09:53.840 --> 0:09:59.079 stephen A and I look at think about it, stephen A, HBCU, myself, HBCU, 0:09:59.400 --> 0:10:03.880 straight hand, HBC three of the most prominent places voices 0:10:03.960 --> 0:10:10.560 on television, HBCU myself, Barkley, Rural South, Rural South, Georgia. 0:10:10.600 --> 0:10:13.880 Rule Alabama, Well, ain't nothing but rule. Ain't no city 0:10:13.880 --> 0:10:18.040 at Alabama. Everything is rule at Alabama. Think about it. 0:10:18.200 --> 0:10:20.560 If somebody from what they call you, they call you 0:10:20.600 --> 0:10:25.719 a Bama. They don't call anybody else the dada Obama. 0:10:26.000 --> 0:10:28.560 What's Obama? So all y'all go back to jump in 0:10:28.559 --> 0:10:32.880 the chap man. You know what about Birmingham country rule anyway, 0:10:33.679 --> 0:10:38.200 look at look at Barkley, heavy cloaqual dollect myself, talk 0:10:38.280 --> 0:10:43.560 with a list, bro, you can do it. I don't, 0:10:43.760 --> 0:10:46.880 like I said, I'm happy. I'm excited for anybody that 0:10:47.000 --> 0:10:51.760 looks like me that can have success. I understand because see, 0:10:51.880 --> 0:10:53.760 oh you already know what I'm see. If you understand 0:10:53.800 --> 0:10:55.840 the rules, you can be good at any games. Already 0:10:55.880 --> 0:10:58.840 know what I'm working Like that, I don't make excuses. 0:10:58.880 --> 0:11:01.720 I go get it done. See, I'm gonna make it 0:11:01.760 --> 0:11:04.640 so we're gonna have so many of you. We're gonna 0:11:04.679 --> 0:11:07.000 have so many downloads. The sponsor is gonna have no 0:11:07.120 --> 0:11:09.480 choice but to come for you. Advertise is gonna have 0:11:09.520 --> 0:11:11.760 no choice but to come for you. How can they not? 0:11:13.440 --> 0:11:15.960 That's what we do. That's our job. That's on me 0:11:16.000 --> 0:11:20.040 and you. If you build, they will come. 0:11:20.280 --> 0:11:20.840 That is. 0:11:22.840 --> 0:11:23.400 That is. 0:11:25.800 --> 0:11:28.839 Oh Joe, Yes, sir, this woman has a very interesting 0:11:28.920 --> 0:11:31.560 request for her man. Let's take a listen to what 0:11:31.600 --> 0:11:32.200 she had to say. 0:11:33.840 --> 0:11:35.880 How much money does he have to make per year? 0:11:36.440 --> 0:11:40.200 At least one hundred thousand to fifty fifty or someone 0:11:40.240 --> 0:11:43.800 who fully provides, fully priv What does. 0:11:43.679 --> 0:11:46.920 That mean to you that I would have an allowance? 0:11:47.320 --> 0:11:49.360 How much would that look like for you? 0:11:49.559 --> 0:11:52.720 I would say like seven thousand, five thousand. 0:11:52.760 --> 0:11:56.720 A month for a year. She needs five to seven 0:11:56.800 --> 0:11:58.320 thousand a month a month month. 0:11:59.280 --> 0:12:01.120 Yeah, wait a minute, but she said the guy has 0:12:01.160 --> 0:12:03.599 to make at least one hundred thousand a year. So 0:12:03.720 --> 0:12:05.400 if you only make it a hundred thousand a year 0:12:05.600 --> 0:12:07.760 and he had to give you seven seven thousand and 0:12:07.760 --> 0:12:10.320 five thousand a month, now I ain't no guy there 0:12:10.400 --> 0:12:14.040 math major, but he ain't gonna have ship left over 0:12:14.840 --> 0:12:18.920 to do now. See, I love I love I love 0:12:19.040 --> 0:12:24.360 I love her ideas, I love her her enthusiasm. But 0:12:24.480 --> 0:12:27.680 at some point, delusion and reality is going to set in. 0:12:29.360 --> 0:12:31.520 Delusion and reality is going to set in at some point. 0:12:31.880 --> 0:12:35.000 There are certain there are certain women that can command 0:12:35.040 --> 0:12:41.240 and warrant that type of what's the word I'm looking for, 0:12:41.440 --> 0:12:42.760 that can warrant that type of. 0:12:43.440 --> 0:12:44.360 That kind of stipend. 0:12:44.840 --> 0:12:47.679 Yeah, yeah, yeah, they're oh they oh, they're they out there, 0:12:48.240 --> 0:12:51.120 They're they're they're out there. But at some at some 0:12:51.320 --> 0:12:56.080 point in like huh, not her, Yeah, not her. I didn't. 0:12:56.120 --> 0:12:57.439 I didn't. I didn't. I didn't know. I didn't know 0:12:57.480 --> 0:13:00.839 how to say it in a nice way. I would tryumph, 0:13:00.880 --> 0:13:04.280 I was trying to. You got to guide me here. 0:13:04.520 --> 0:13:06.080 I'm trying not to. I don't want to piss nobody 0:13:06.120 --> 0:13:07.839 else say yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. 0:13:08.360 --> 0:13:10.559 Let's let's be all the way one hundred think about it. 0:13:11.240 --> 0:13:13.480 A guy that makes that effect, Okay, let's just say, 0:13:13.520 --> 0:13:15.720 for the sake of argument, a hundred thousands that's gonna 0:13:15.720 --> 0:13:18.200 put him somewhere into twenty to twenty four percent tax second. 0:13:18.520 --> 0:13:20.520 So in other words, he's gonna So he's making one 0:13:20.600 --> 0:13:22.920 hundred thousand. If I put him in the twenty percent 0:13:22.960 --> 0:13:25.560 tax bracket, that's twenty thousand dollars that he's already lost. 0:13:25.559 --> 0:13:26.800 So now he's down to eighty thousand. 0:13:27.000 --> 0:13:29.280 If I put him in the twenty four percent tax bracket, 0:13:29.320 --> 0:13:32.600 that's eighty four thousand. That's a twenty four thousand, So 0:13:32.640 --> 0:13:34.840 he's down to seventy six thousand. Let's just say, for 0:13:34.880 --> 0:13:37.360 the sake of argument, I give her five thousand a month, 0:13:37.720 --> 0:13:39.520 five times twelve, that's sixty. 0:13:40.080 --> 0:13:42.400 So now he's down to sixteen thousand. 0:13:42.520 --> 0:13:45.320 Now he's supposed to pay his bills, his mortgage, or 0:13:45.320 --> 0:13:49.160 his rent a car payment, make his make ends, meat 0:13:49.240 --> 0:13:52.120 for him on sixteen thousand. Now, how big of a 0:13:52.200 --> 0:13:53.440 damn food does she sound? 0:13:53.520 --> 0:13:54.360 Yeah? I don't. 0:13:54.360 --> 0:13:55.920 They don't break it down the way he just broke 0:13:55.920 --> 0:13:58.040 it down. It's just the thought of it. It's the 0:13:58.200 --> 0:14:00.360 thought of he has to make this much, and this 0:14:00.400 --> 0:14:02.560 is how much I want. I don't think women in 0:14:02.679 --> 0:14:07.080 general actually break down their figures. They just see a 0:14:07.120 --> 0:14:10.560 set amount and want said set amount, and just you 0:14:10.640 --> 0:14:12.719 got to figure out everything else on your own. But 0:14:12.760 --> 0:14:17.320 the chances the chances of these hypotheticals actually happening, because, 0:14:17.320 --> 0:14:19.240 for one, you got to be able to get a 0:14:19.280 --> 0:14:23.960 guy that's in that bracket or that one percent to 0:14:24.040 --> 0:14:24.560 deal with you. 0:14:25.360 --> 0:14:26.280 That's the hard part. 0:14:27.280 --> 0:14:30.160 And if you do get them, how you keep them 0:14:30.600 --> 0:14:32.320 to get them to be able to do some of 0:14:32.360 --> 0:14:33.360 the things that you want to do. 0:14:33.800 --> 0:14:35.080 That shit is difficult. 0:14:35.960 --> 0:14:40.880 Oh Joe, what's the likelihood of her spending five to 0:14:40.960 --> 0:14:44.800 seven thousand a month? You're asking for something you don't 0:14:44.800 --> 0:14:46.680 even do for your damn self. You see what I'm 0:14:46.680 --> 0:14:49.840 talking about, don't Joe? Everybody have about it? Oh I 0:14:49.920 --> 0:14:52.920 want this. You buy your own self a Perkin. You 0:14:52.960 --> 0:14:58.280 buy your own self a big body beatings Bentley Lambeau truck. 0:14:58.560 --> 0:15:00.960 Oh well you live it up with you living a 0:15:00.960 --> 0:15:01.840 million dollar condo. 0:15:02.440 --> 0:15:02.680 But you. 0:15:02.920 --> 0:15:06.240 But that's the expectation based on what Now I need 0:15:06.240 --> 0:15:09.440 to hello on, tell me what you're bringing to the table? Now, Nia, 0:15:09.480 --> 0:15:10.880 if you come into the picnic, I need you to 0:15:10.880 --> 0:15:12.239 bring something more than your appetite. 0:15:12.960 --> 0:15:13.880 What does she bring? 0:15:13.880 --> 0:15:18.960 The napkins bring something but you? But what's that? But See, 0:15:18.960 --> 0:15:21.520 here's the thing, the expectations. Let's be all the way 0:15:21.600 --> 0:15:23.600 real with this now let's have a real, all the 0:15:23.720 --> 0:15:28.880 candid conversation. Now, I don't have a problem. Okay, well Shanny, 0:15:28.880 --> 0:15:31.240 look look this is what I you know, blah blah blah. 0:15:31.240 --> 0:15:33.920 I need this, I need this. Okay, fine, let's be 0:15:34.120 --> 0:15:41.600 reasonable about this. I got you know, I do good, Shannon, 0:15:41.680 --> 0:15:44.280 do good for myself. I've taken care of my right right. 0:15:45.920 --> 0:15:50.600 But bro, I'm like, hold on, wait a minute. Now, 0:15:51.120 --> 0:15:56.360 the way I operate I like to give. I'm a 0:15:56.400 --> 0:15:59.320 givea same. That's why I'm a I'm gonna provide. 0:15:59.680 --> 0:16:02.400 I'm gid Sam, but. 0:16:02.400 --> 0:16:04.640 I need to know it's appreciate it. Because the one thing, 0:16:05.080 --> 0:16:07.000 the one thing that I hate from a person more 0:16:07.040 --> 0:16:08.440 than anything is ungrateful. 0:16:08.520 --> 0:16:08.720 Yeah. 0:16:09.840 --> 0:16:12.120 Now, if you won't, hey, if you want to see 0:16:12.120 --> 0:16:16.320 shell school, let me think for one second. 0:16:17.160 --> 0:16:18.840 You're being ungrateful for what I'm doing. 0:16:21.920 --> 0:16:23.480 And I'm gonna give it. I'm gonna give her to 0:16:23.520 --> 0:16:26.720 an extent because what you can't do is you can't 0:16:26.760 --> 0:16:34.320 come in my world and then outspend the way I spend. Yeah, 0:16:34.320 --> 0:16:37.680 that makes sense. What I'm gonna do is is what 0:16:37.760 --> 0:16:40.720 I do every month is I have a monthly budget. 0:16:41.600 --> 0:16:43.680 I have a monthly budget. I did this even when 0:16:43.680 --> 0:16:46.240 I was in the league. I had a monthly budget. 0:16:46.600 --> 0:16:50.240 As crazy as it may sound, I'm not going over 0:16:50.320 --> 0:16:52.880 that budget, come hell of high water. 0:16:53.000 --> 0:16:54.520 I don't care it is. 0:16:55.880 --> 0:16:59.560 Ever Now, if if I don't go over that budget, 0:16:59.640 --> 0:17:02.960 let's say in September and that married, and that that 0:17:03.040 --> 0:17:06.800 money carry over like some minutes like you you know 0:17:06.800 --> 0:17:12.919 you used to have, they roll over the next month. Okay, 0:17:13.040 --> 0:17:16.240 now boom baby, Look here I got a little extra. 0:17:16.640 --> 0:17:19.000 I ain't really go over budget last month, so here 0:17:19.080 --> 0:17:21.600 go whoop the whoop or whatever it may be. Now 0:17:21.640 --> 0:17:23.920 I can't deal with you. You got some women again, 0:17:23.960 --> 0:17:26.720 I say it all the time, and fellas you get 0:17:26.720 --> 0:17:29.359 you understand who you're dealing with. Know what you're dealing with. 0:17:29.800 --> 0:17:32.920 There's some women that are salary cap casualties, and you'll 0:17:32.960 --> 0:17:35.439 try to force yourself dealing with certain women, and you 0:17:35.480 --> 0:17:38.320 think spinning and spending and spending and spending just to 0:17:38.400 --> 0:17:42.040 garner their attention, get the way to go. But all 0:17:42.040 --> 0:17:47.200 you're doing is you're running yourself ragging in the ground, 0:17:49.280 --> 0:17:54.439 and you're fucking up the cap space. You you messing 0:17:54.480 --> 0:18:01.720 up the cap space. You know, chasing after a liability. 0:18:00.000 --> 0:18:04.800 Apples it apples. Oh yo, be this all you make? 0:18:04.920 --> 0:18:08.040 Ex amount? What that gotta do with you? You? 0:18:08.119 --> 0:18:10.360 Notice what you said? Oh Joe, I told, I told 0:18:10.400 --> 0:18:12.119 what I said. You don't think about what you What 0:18:12.160 --> 0:18:14.439 did you just said? I said, You've been ex amount? 0:18:14.560 --> 0:18:15.160 Say that again. 0:18:15.200 --> 0:18:19.160 I want you to say it slowly? You who is you? 0:18:19.480 --> 0:18:19.560 Me? 0:18:20.080 --> 0:18:21.679 Not you? Yeah? 0:18:22.080 --> 0:18:23.119 I mean it's listen. 0:18:23.600 --> 0:18:25.159 How about the game is? 0:18:25.240 --> 0:18:27.760 The game has always been the game? The game has 0:18:27.800 --> 0:18:30.960 always been a game. And no matter who you are, 0:18:31.119 --> 0:18:35.000 no matter how you try to say it or splice 0:18:35.040 --> 0:18:37.560 it or make it, you gotta you gotta. You gotta 0:18:37.600 --> 0:18:40.560 pay to play the game. You gotta you gotta pay 0:18:40.560 --> 0:18:43.440 to play, no matter what, whether it be a you 0:18:43.480 --> 0:18:46.000 don't care what time do you put relationship, Oh my 0:18:46.080 --> 0:18:50.840 boyfriend girlfriend? You have to pay to play. It's just 0:18:50.880 --> 0:18:52.480 the way it is, idiot. 0:18:52.560 --> 0:18:55.560 But sit here, thing, oh man, First of all, you 0:18:55.720 --> 0:18:59.959 paying directly, and directly you take it out to eat. 0:19:00.280 --> 0:19:03.560 You paying for something, because if she laying with you 0:19:03.760 --> 0:19:06.080 and you're not doing with her, she a bigger damn 0:19:06.119 --> 0:19:09.400 food than I thought she was. Yeah, because ain't no 0:19:09.640 --> 0:19:13.040 a he got Hey, I tell my daughters all the time, 0:19:13.160 --> 0:19:15.680 he gotta do something. I'm not saying he got to 0:19:15.720 --> 0:19:17.320 be able to do for you like I am, because 0:19:17.359 --> 0:19:19.880 clearly the likelihood of him being in the same position, 0:19:20.160 --> 0:19:21.480 but he gotta do something. 0:19:21.400 --> 0:19:22.560 Right, right right? 0:19:24.040 --> 0:19:27.000 Yeah, I know it's it's well listen, I like what 0:19:27.080 --> 0:19:30.359 she said is I don't want to call a delusion, 0:19:30.800 --> 0:19:33.760 but it's not realistic. Now. What she can do, which 0:19:33.800 --> 0:19:36.480 most do on Twitter, is they obviously say some of 0:19:36.560 --> 0:19:38.960 these same things. They're not They're not going fifty to 0:19:38.960 --> 0:19:41.800 fifty with no man. Well you're not going fifty fifty 0:19:41.840 --> 0:19:44.119 fifty with no man, but then that means you're paying 0:19:44.320 --> 0:19:48.720 one hundred percent of everything. So I mean that that 0:19:48.880 --> 0:19:49.600 makes no sense. 0:19:49.920 --> 0:19:52.720 Oh, you keep talking. I gotta go back. I gotta 0:19:52.000 --> 0:19:52.920 go back down. 0:19:53.280 --> 0:19:56.840 Okay, Chat, what y'all chat? What y'all think about the 0:19:56.840 --> 0:20:01.879 fifty fifty situation? Women, ladies in the chat? Yes, no, 0:20:02.560 --> 0:20:04.480 how you feel about it, because if you're not willing 0:20:04.520 --> 0:20:08.680 to go fifty to fifty and understanding that, I think 0:20:08.800 --> 0:20:11.960 both of you working in unison as one to find 0:20:12.000 --> 0:20:14.919 a common goal to be able to live comfortable instead 0:20:14.960 --> 0:20:17.040 of putting all the onus and pressure on a guy 0:20:17.760 --> 0:20:20.879 depending on his status and what he's bringing in as 0:20:20.880 --> 0:20:24.320 far as revenue is concerned month to month or every 0:20:24.320 --> 0:20:27.880 two weeks, or have you get paid acted? I would, 0:20:28.000 --> 0:20:31.919 I would hope you you would want to. You know, 0:20:33.320 --> 0:20:36.280 hold you're into the bargain. But you know some can 0:20:36.320 --> 0:20:38.280 do that and some some don't. There are some women 0:20:38.400 --> 0:20:40.879 that probably don't have to pay anything, They don't have 0:20:40.920 --> 0:20:44.119 to pay any bills. And if you're fortunate to be 0:20:44.119 --> 0:20:47.600 in that situation, no kudos do you? Kudos? 0:20:47.600 --> 0:20:47.800 Do you? 0:20:48.320 --> 0:20:51.480 I think it's dope, but I don't. I don't see 0:20:51.520 --> 0:20:54.399 anything well, I don't see anything wrong with going fifty 0:20:54.400 --> 0:20:57.520 to fifty, but just having the guide do everything, it 0:20:57.560 --> 0:20:59.960