WEBVTT - The Breakfast Club REWIND (Swizz Beatz Interview, Eboni K. Williams Interview, Joe Clair Interview, Should You Look For Love And Not Wealth?) 0:00:00.200 --> 0:00:07.520 This radio shows any other mainstreams media outlet. Breakfast Club, 0:00:07.880 --> 0:00:09.480 take you go, take it. 0:00:09.600 --> 0:00:11.360 I'm gonna get break. 0:00:11.240 --> 0:00:13.240 The time you then will come here when it stay 0:00:13.880 --> 0:00:16.840 DJ Nvy and Charlamagne the guy being here. 0:00:16.720 --> 0:00:18.080 Next to all of you guys. 0:00:18.200 --> 0:00:20.479 It's really it's one of my favorite shows to do, 0:00:20.840 --> 0:00:22.320 just because you'll always. 0:00:22.000 --> 0:00:24.560 Keeping one honey, y'all keep it real. But what better 0:00:24.600 --> 0:00:27.400 place than than here? I think everybody should go on 0:00:27.480 --> 0:00:30.880 the Breakfast Club and start out. You want to shake 0:00:30.920 --> 0:00:34.559 it up for me? Is it your time to get 0:00:34.560 --> 0:00:36.000 it off your chest? 0:00:35.440 --> 0:00:39.080 Way up, whether you're mad or blast, time to get 0:00:39.200 --> 0:00:41.839 up and get some Call him now eight hundred five 0:00:41.920 --> 0:00:43.080 eighty five one oh five to one. 0:00:43.200 --> 0:00:46.160 We want to hear from you on the Breakfast Club. Hello, 0:00:46.240 --> 0:00:48.440 this this is actually. 0:00:48.320 --> 0:00:51.800 Hey Ashley, good morning. Where you calling them from Columbus, Columbus? 0:00:51.800 --> 0:00:53.920 Okay him, get it off your chest, mama. 0:00:54.040 --> 0:00:54.360 Okay. 0:00:54.400 --> 0:00:56.840 So I'm a stay at home mom, but I also 0:00:56.880 --> 0:00:58.840 have my business on the site, and I just feel 0:00:58.840 --> 0:01:02.240 like my husband is just so it's considerate half the 0:01:02.280 --> 0:01:04.080 time that he doesn't understand. 0:01:03.920 --> 0:01:04.600 What I really do. 0:01:05.480 --> 0:01:07.880 You know, like in a lot of what that actually did? 0:01:08.000 --> 0:01:10.480 You know, how you can fix that, Ashley, Ye go 0:01:10.560 --> 0:01:13.640 away for a day watching them six kids. 0:01:13.920 --> 0:01:16.840 When I go away for a day, my kids they 0:01:16.880 --> 0:01:17.240 called me. 0:01:17.880 --> 0:01:18.759 I was like, who's your dad. 0:01:18.800 --> 0:01:20.039 They'll be like, oh, he's in the groove. 0:01:20.640 --> 0:01:20.840 Now. 0:01:20.880 --> 0:01:23.120 You turn off your phone for one day that and 0:01:23.240 --> 0:01:25.479 let him have to deal with feeding them kids, washing 0:01:25.520 --> 0:01:27.360 those kids, taking the kids out. 0:01:27.440 --> 0:01:31.360 Why are you giving this bad but that's down. Turned 0:01:31.360 --> 0:01:32.840 off her phone for one day, you'd have a fit, 0:01:33.400 --> 0:01:35.080 But turn your phone. 0:01:35.120 --> 0:01:36.760 Actually, he doesn't appreciate her. 0:01:36.840 --> 0:01:38.600 So she's saying that she's a stay at home mom 0:01:38.800 --> 0:01:39.600 and we've. 0:01:39.440 --> 0:01:40.760 Been together since high school. 0:01:40.840 --> 0:01:42.440 Like he's the only man I've ever been with. 0:01:42.560 --> 0:01:44.240 Like I really give everything. 0:01:43.840 --> 0:01:49.000 And all my time to everybody. Turn my kids, help your. 0:01:48.800 --> 0:01:50.360 Flax and let him have to take care of the kids. 0:01:50.400 --> 0:01:52.240 And I bet you when you come back, he'd be like, baby, 0:01:52.280 --> 0:01:54.480 please don't leave. Baby, Baby, don't turn your phone off 0:01:54.480 --> 0:01:55.080 for your husband. 0:01:55.080 --> 0:01:57.400 Man, because the envy would have a fit if Ye 0:01:57.600 --> 0:01:59.960 turned off the phone for him out. 0:02:00.120 --> 0:02:01.080 But I was training my wife. 0:02:01.120 --> 0:02:02.840 I know how hard it is if six kids, you 0:02:02.880 --> 0:02:04.600 still would have a fit if she turned her phone 0:02:04.600 --> 0:02:06.720 off for a day. Imagine calling your wife. Imagine how 0:02:06.720 --> 0:02:08.120 many times we call our wife a day and we 0:02:08.160 --> 0:02:08.960 can't get in touch with On. 0:02:09.000 --> 0:02:11.040 The twenty five, he don't respect his wife, so he 0:02:11.160 --> 0:02:12.040 cut it out respect. 0:02:12.320 --> 0:02:14.280 I agree he did that, but she's speaking for her 0:02:14.720 --> 0:02:17.000 and you're speaking for you. So you respect your wife, 0:02:17.040 --> 0:02:18.880 but that doesn't speak to how she feel about what 0:02:18.919 --> 0:02:22.079 you present them. So he could think he's respecting her 0:02:22.320 --> 0:02:23.600 and she may not feel it. 0:02:23.760 --> 0:02:24.160 That's true. 0:02:24.280 --> 0:02:27.040 But I wished that too, because I do understand that 0:02:27.080 --> 0:02:29.400 communication that's key, and I wished that. 0:02:29.440 --> 0:02:31.680 And I'll be like, well, I just want this, so 0:02:31.800 --> 0:02:33.239 I just want that, and I'll. 0:02:33.120 --> 0:02:36.079 Be like, okay, like in the morning, don't wake me 0:02:36.160 --> 0:02:38.079 up and be like, well, I want And I was 0:02:38.520 --> 0:02:40.840 about six months old. I would like. 0:02:40.919 --> 0:02:42.280 Tonight like I. 0:02:46.000 --> 0:02:48.840 Respecting subjectives though I was gonna say that to respect 0:02:48.880 --> 0:02:49.520 and subjective. 0:02:49.560 --> 0:02:52.480 So I got to know what her definition of feeling disrespected. 0:02:52.919 --> 0:02:56.480 She just told, you know what I'm saying, That's what 0:02:56.680 --> 0:02:57.760 I'm like. 0:02:57.919 --> 0:03:02.400 Especially I cantered away. I had five other orders besides 0:03:02.480 --> 0:03:05.600 the wedding this weekend, and I was just exhausted up 0:03:05.639 --> 0:03:06.480 every hour with the. 0:03:06.560 --> 0:03:09.200 Baby, you know, and he's also on the weekends. 0:03:09.280 --> 0:03:10.959 But he didn't get up and help me. But he 0:03:10.960 --> 0:03:12.320 didn't want to try to wake me up. And then 0:03:12.360 --> 0:03:14.480 but the attitude when I'm like, no, get out my face. 0:03:15.919 --> 0:03:17.200 You might just have to wake him up at three 0:03:17.240 --> 0:03:18.639 o'clock in the morning, sit on his face and be 0:03:18.680 --> 0:03:19.280 like how does it feel? 0:03:19.320 --> 0:03:23.760 Now? That's you might have to do that. Thank you. 0:03:24.639 --> 0:03:29.440 That's not disrespect men, you know what I'm saying in 0:03:29.520 --> 0:03:32.840 the morning, poor man, poor woman with the baby all night. 0:03:33.120 --> 0:03:35.480 I get it, but that's not It might be inconsiderate, 0:03:35.560 --> 0:03:41.119 but disrespect. There we go and considerate you love disrespectful 0:03:41.120 --> 0:03:44.240 to go the other way right? Something right. So it's 0:03:44.320 --> 0:03:46.560 like I'm bringing it to your radio bill, it's real 0:03:46.640 --> 0:03:49.640 talking Hello, who's this good? 0:03:49.680 --> 0:03:49.840 Good? 0:03:49.840 --> 0:03:50.960 Good? Get it off your chest, mama. 0:03:52.160 --> 0:03:54.960 I am really upset a lot of them this morning 0:03:55.240 --> 0:03:59.360 because I had accidentally finding and when he changed. 0:03:59.200 --> 0:04:03.080 Up a car never carried over rental. So now I'm 0:04:03.200 --> 0:04:07.080 having to freaking like get up brother in the morning 0:04:07.080 --> 0:04:11.200 and dropped my release and we can't have the trouble 0:04:11.280 --> 0:04:14.160 all week because of his if he like he's just like. 0:04:14.480 --> 0:04:23.560 Damn, feels like everybody this morning that we can't really 0:04:23.600 --> 0:04:25.200 hear you because you're so upset that you're yelling. But 0:04:25.279 --> 0:04:27.000 all like we can hear is that you're mad at 0:04:27.000 --> 0:04:29.240 your husband something about a rental car. He didn't give 0:04:29.279 --> 0:04:30.320 it back and now you have to do it and 0:04:30.320 --> 0:04:31.320 you would to Wilid. 0:04:31.080 --> 0:04:31.719 On his app. 0:04:33.120 --> 0:04:33.400 Thank you. 0:04:34.440 --> 0:04:36.880 No, yeah, no, I got into a car accident on Friday. 0:04:37.040 --> 0:04:39.640 It was my fault because I was rushing. But like 0:04:39.960 --> 0:04:42.360 when he turned over, like when we chased cards, he 0:04:42.480 --> 0:04:45.320 never put friends, Like how do you have on the 0:04:45.400 --> 0:04:49.640 insurance with I don't know? No one figure out how 0:04:49.680 --> 0:04:51.719 to get to work back and forth and we weren't 0:04:51.720 --> 0:04:54.080 opposite wait and opposite schedules. 0:04:54.200 --> 0:04:57.200 Also he got he got the rental and you don't 0:04:57.279 --> 0:04:57.600 have one. 0:04:58.000 --> 0:05:02.200 You He never put rental when he changed over cards. 0:05:03.600 --> 0:05:07.200 Don't you know when you get into an accident and 0:05:07.279 --> 0:05:08.920 you have rental insurance. 0:05:08.960 --> 0:05:12.320 Oh got you to the car, so you gotta pay 0:05:12.360 --> 0:05:12.680 for the car. 0:05:14.480 --> 0:05:16.000 Yeah, and it's like and. 0:05:16.040 --> 0:05:19.039 It's like we gotta pay for like bathing cheap. 0:05:19.360 --> 0:05:22.000 Well you should have got into accident, figured out, you know, 0:05:22.279 --> 0:05:23.600 you shouldn't have gotten into an accident. 0:05:23.720 --> 0:05:24.680 Man, it was your fault. 0:05:24.760 --> 0:05:27.680 You said that, but you know what, Okay, yeah, it 0:05:27.800 --> 0:05:31.040 was my fault. But however, this is why we have insurance. 0:05:31.080 --> 0:05:33.160 This is why we put options on there? What if 0:05:33.200 --> 0:05:34.000 somebody would have hit me? 0:05:34.600 --> 0:05:35.200 It's not like all. 0:05:36.320 --> 0:05:37.920 It sound like both of y'all blaming each other for 0:05:38.040 --> 0:05:40.320 things that out of y'all control. And that's why I 0:05:40.360 --> 0:05:41.920 mean they should have put you should have put insurance 0:05:41.960 --> 0:05:43.200 on your car. When people do that because they be like, 0:05:43.200 --> 0:05:44.640 I'm never gonna get an accent. Why I got paid 0:05:44.680 --> 0:05:47.000 his extra? That's what insurance and then saying, way, you 0:05:47.000 --> 0:05:49.120 shouldn't have got into an accident. He probably should have 0:05:49.160 --> 0:05:50.480 had insurance. But it's no need for y'all to be 0:05:50.520 --> 0:05:51.440 pointing the finger at each other. 0:05:51.600 --> 0:05:54.080 I understand that. But like now, our kids have to 0:05:54.839 --> 0:05:57.080 kids have to be yes to go and drop me 0:05:57.160 --> 0:05:57.600 if that work. 0:05:57.640 --> 0:05:59.600 That's not saying you gotta figure it out though, that's life, 0:05:59.640 --> 0:06:00.880 you know what I'm saying, You got to figure out 0:06:00.880 --> 0:06:02.040 how to pivot in sometimes in life. 0:06:02.160 --> 0:06:05.680 So y'all arguing, now have a go with mama, get 0:06:05.720 --> 0:06:08.000 it off your chest. Eight hundrenk five eight five one 0:06:08.040 --> 0:06:09.479 oh five one. If you need to vent hit us 0:06:09.520 --> 0:06:12.760 up now. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club, 0:06:16.680 --> 0:06:17.320 right right. 0:06:17.320 --> 0:06:20.480 Ray yo charloa man, yamfy, what up are we losing 0:06:20.760 --> 0:06:22.320 this is your time to get it off your chest. 0:06:22.400 --> 0:06:25.480 I got an indoor pool pool. We want to hear 0:06:25.480 --> 0:06:26.640 from you on the breakfast club. 0:06:26.839 --> 0:06:28.600 Get on the phone right now, He'll tell you what 0:06:28.720 --> 0:06:28.920 it is. 0:06:29.400 --> 0:06:29.839 We lie. 0:06:30.880 --> 0:06:31.520 Hello, who's this? 0:06:32.200 --> 0:06:32.360 Oh? 0:06:32.600 --> 0:06:34.120 This is a game's up. 0:06:36.480 --> 0:06:40.560 I'm just pad at the older generation expecting that the 0:06:40.680 --> 0:06:44.000 younger generation should have retire the same age as because 0:06:44.000 --> 0:06:46.280 I'm at work and I see these guys, you know, 0:06:46.760 --> 0:06:50.920 six something years years old working and they old. 0:06:51.080 --> 0:06:51.279 Man. 0:06:51.400 --> 0:06:54.320 I'm just like, man, I can't be that old when 0:06:54.360 --> 0:06:54.960 I retired. 0:06:55.279 --> 0:06:56.760 Well you know what they say, Well, somebody told me 0:06:56.800 --> 0:06:59.160 back in the day, retirement is not an age, it's 0:06:59.240 --> 0:07:01.880 an income. I don't even know if I believe that anymore, 0:07:01.880 --> 0:07:03.920 because there's people I know that make mad money, but 0:07:04.000 --> 0:07:04.960 they just love what they do. 0:07:05.200 --> 0:07:06.960 Yeah, a lot of people love to work, and then 0:07:07.000 --> 0:07:10.160 a lot of people, you know, honestly don't know how 0:07:10.240 --> 0:07:12.240 to prepare for the future. You also got to think, 0:07:12.280 --> 0:07:14.720 you know, this is the generation where we're starting to 0:07:14.800 --> 0:07:17.600 learn more about financial freedom. So a lot of times, 0:07:17.920 --> 0:07:20.240 you know that the generation before us didn't actually know 0:07:20.440 --> 0:07:22.760 how to retire, didn't know how to save so they 0:07:22.800 --> 0:07:23.400 can retire. 0:07:23.520 --> 0:07:25.240 So some people still have to work. 0:07:25.280 --> 0:07:27.360 That's why when you see sometimes when you go into 0:07:27.360 --> 0:07:29.120 those supermarkets and you go to those places and you 0:07:29.160 --> 0:07:31.040 see an older person working, you got to give them 0:07:31.080 --> 0:07:34.000 patience and help them out because sometimes they're there because 0:07:34.040 --> 0:07:35.280 they have to and they're just trying to, you know, 0:07:35.360 --> 0:07:36.440 get by like everybody else. 0:07:36.720 --> 0:07:38.520 Yeah, and you know what they say when when you 0:07:38.600 --> 0:07:41.320 stop moving, you know, you start to die. Yeah, some 0:07:41.360 --> 0:07:43.320 people don't want to keep some people want to keep moving. 0:07:43.680 --> 0:07:45.760 I guess that's maybe the professional I'm in right I'm 0:07:45.840 --> 0:07:49.800 an electrician. I'm in a trade out of Vegas right now. 0:07:50.720 --> 0:07:53.840 And I mean these guys just don't want to retire. 0:07:54.480 --> 0:07:56.360 They feel like if they retire, they're gonna die. 0:07:56.840 --> 0:07:58.160 Yeah, I mean that could be a chance. 0:07:58.800 --> 0:08:00.720 And I'll be honest, I'd rather the mess with the 0:08:00.800 --> 0:08:04.240 older electrician or older mechanic or older doctor because a 0:08:04.280 --> 0:08:06.400 lot of times they didn't see everything, they didn't been 0:08:06.440 --> 0:08:06.680 through it. 0:08:06.760 --> 0:08:09.440 You know, Like that about your president, you feel like, 0:08:11.400 --> 0:08:11.760 I feel like. 0:08:11.760 --> 0:08:14.640 This should be an age president, just like they got time. 0:08:15.400 --> 0:08:15.920 You had me. 0:08:18.040 --> 0:08:19.960 Y'all want y'all want everything else. 0:08:20.040 --> 0:08:23.000 Age. You want your cognact age, your electrician age. But 0:08:23.080 --> 0:08:24.640 when it comes to your president. You don't want your 0:08:24.680 --> 0:08:25.200 own president. 0:08:25.240 --> 0:08:27.840 You using a mechanic or electrician like they've been through 0:08:27.960 --> 0:08:30.080 everything to see what works and what doesn't work. And 0:08:30.080 --> 0:08:33.280 a lot of this new generation they rely on AI 0:08:33.600 --> 0:08:36.000 or computers to see what's wrong I rather than tell me. 0:08:36.080 --> 0:08:39.560 But for president, he keeps falling. Your president definitely keeps falling. 0:08:39.600 --> 0:08:42.000 Tell you the president need a care Give Hello, who's 0:08:42.040 --> 0:08:44.760 this morning? I can hear you. Now, come on and mama, 0:08:44.800 --> 0:08:45.520 get it off your chest. 0:08:48.840 --> 0:08:49.080 Drive. 0:08:54.320 --> 0:08:55.960 I'm a post the picture. That's right. Yeah, I ran 0:08:56.000 --> 0:08:58.560 into you at the airport. We were heading into Aruba, 0:08:58.679 --> 0:09:01.679 right right? How you doing man? You're being safe out there? 0:09:01.720 --> 0:09:03.080 This is our bus driver from the Bronx. 0:09:03.679 --> 0:09:05.319 Yeah, I'm doing this. 0:09:05.440 --> 0:09:06.600 School does say good morning. 0:09:07.280 --> 0:09:08.280 You just called this SA good morning? 0:09:08.360 --> 0:09:08.480 Right? 0:09:08.520 --> 0:09:13.200 You be saying every day is something different in the Bronx. 0:09:13.160 --> 0:09:15.079 Especially in the Bronx. 0:09:16.559 --> 0:09:18.360 The Bronx will be safe out there morning. 0:09:21.160 --> 0:09:21.319 Yeah. 0:09:21.360 --> 0:09:23.240 But then you be the same person screaming BX at 0:09:23.240 --> 0:09:26.280 the show. No I don't. 0:09:28.320 --> 0:09:34.000 I'm duck when it's X, and they say I'm like yes, yes, 0:09:36.160 --> 0:09:37.200 but get it off your chest. 0:09:37.280 --> 0:09:39.360 Eight hundred and five eight five one oh five one. 0:09:39.440 --> 0:09:40.920 If you need to vent hit us up now, it's 0:09:40.920 --> 0:09:44.079 the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club. 0:09:47.240 --> 0:09:50.280 Longas State. You know there was a shooting there recently. Yes, uh, 0:09:50.440 --> 0:09:52.640 you guys have canceled the homecoming and there was a 0:09:52.720 --> 0:09:54.920 lot going on. So have you reached back out to 0:09:54.960 --> 0:09:55.319 the school. 0:09:55.360 --> 0:09:55.880 How how is. 0:09:55.840 --> 0:09:57.760 Everything happening now? Because I know you're you're big when 0:09:57.800 --> 0:09:59.760 it comes to giving back to that school. 0:09:59.800 --> 0:10:03.040 So I was supposed to actually host our homecoming gala, 0:10:03.120 --> 0:10:05.440 which is the biggest fundraiser of the year. Our host 0:10:05.520 --> 0:10:08.719 the gaily Year's shirt you know, tuxedo out, and that 0:10:08.920 --> 0:10:13.440 got postponed to December the eighth. The official homecoming got canceled, 0:10:14.080 --> 0:10:18.280 but Black people homecoming went on as planning. Oh they 0:10:18.320 --> 0:10:21.160 were still party. They called it because the homecoming got canceled. 0:10:21.240 --> 0:10:24.640 Brunch because the homegum got canceled. Day party because the 0:10:24.720 --> 0:10:27.000 home So we you know, you have thousands of people 0:10:27.040 --> 0:10:29.000 who were looking forward to this weekend. So they came 0:10:29.080 --> 0:10:32.320 down and had a great time and showed solidarity after 0:10:32.400 --> 0:10:32.880 the shooting. 0:10:32.960 --> 0:10:35.320 You had mothers. There was a group of mothers who 0:10:35.440 --> 0:10:36.520 got together. 0:10:36.480 --> 0:10:39.959 Who didn't have kids in school, who came up just 0:10:40.040 --> 0:10:43.080 to show support for kids who were far away from home. 0:10:43.120 --> 0:10:45.720 Who needed a mom, If you need a hug, if 0:10:45.720 --> 0:10:48.520 you need to ask a mom question real quick, we're 0:10:48.520 --> 0:10:52.040 standing right here. And so while the tragedy happened, and 0:10:52.280 --> 0:10:54.719 you know, our prayers are with those students and their 0:10:54.840 --> 0:10:59.960 families and everybody affected, there's also this gigantic push of solidarity, 0:11:00.120 --> 0:11:04.120 this gigantic push of unity. This is a new Morgan state, 0:11:04.160 --> 0:11:06.839 and we're gonna stand together to shake off some of 0:11:06.920 --> 0:11:11.240 the old reputation and move in a new positive way. 0:11:11.840 --> 0:11:14.520 When things like this pop up, it throws a monkey 0:11:14.640 --> 0:11:17.079 rich into the we're a new Morgan thing. So we 0:11:17.200 --> 0:11:18.559 came out even stronger. 0:11:19.040 --> 0:11:21.839 That's why I've been I've been orange and blue since 0:11:22.000 --> 0:11:22.480 that day. 0:11:22.600 --> 0:11:24.440 You know, my kids are walking around with the hats 0:11:24.440 --> 0:11:26.800 and everything else, and I'm screaming it out as much 0:11:26.840 --> 0:11:30.480 as I possibly can. These institutions. You know, I don't 0:11:30.520 --> 0:11:32.040 have to come on here and appreciate to you what 0:11:32.120 --> 0:11:36.040 an hby means for our community. So you know, at 0:11:36.120 --> 0:11:38.160 this time in my life, I'm happy to be able 0:11:38.240 --> 0:11:39.960 to be there for my school. 0:11:40.120 --> 0:11:40.920 Whatever they need. 0:11:41.120 --> 0:11:43.520 They call me for anything, if the students need anything, 0:11:43.600 --> 0:11:46.120 my frat brothers need anything, they hit me up and like, 0:11:46.600 --> 0:11:47.800 let's go do X, Y and Z. 0:11:47.920 --> 0:11:49.360 Do you think they should have canceled on coming. 0:11:49.559 --> 0:11:52.040 I think it was a good call by doctor Wilson 0:11:52.080 --> 0:11:56.080 is an incredible leader for that school. And let's imagine 0:11:56.080 --> 0:11:59.439 if he didn't cancer this black Mama ain't canceled, it's 0:11:59.440 --> 0:12:02.400 a tragedy. So he did the smart thing, he did 0:12:02.440 --> 0:12:06.959 the thing that someone in academia should do. Let's cancel this. 0:12:07.440 --> 0:12:10.120 Everybody else though, we went and partied and everybody had 0:12:10.120 --> 0:12:10.640 a great time. 0:12:11.120 --> 0:12:15.240 All the events around homecomings. Yeah, none of that. You ain't. 0:12:15.480 --> 0:12:16.960 You ain't canceling rare essence. 0:12:17.559 --> 0:12:20.120 You ain't canceling the go go because you know, you're 0:12:20.160 --> 0:12:21.800 not even supposed to have a go go in Baltimore 0:12:21.840 --> 0:12:24.000 in the first place. So the fact that you got 0:12:24.120 --> 0:12:26.720 a go go in Baltimore or we coming, and you're 0:12:26.760 --> 0:12:30.720 not canceling that you can't Baltimore. It's too old Baltimore. 0:12:31.360 --> 0:12:33.880 Most of the country doesn't really doesn't know that. There 0:12:34.080 --> 0:12:38.880 is a unspoken rivalry between the African American community and 0:12:39.000 --> 0:12:41.720 Baltimore and the African American community in DC. 0:12:42.280 --> 0:12:45.760 They got their own language. They and so we have too. 0:12:46.040 --> 0:12:49.000 We grew up with two different Like you said, culches, 0:12:49.400 --> 0:12:54.679 different accents, music, food, we did, way we dress and 0:12:54.760 --> 0:12:55.800 the and the like. 0:12:56.360 --> 0:12:59.439 So when I got to Baltimore, there was no go go. 0:12:59.760 --> 0:13:02.520 But so ever you did not don't even don't even 0:13:02.559 --> 0:13:05.800 bring that up in Baltimore now because of I think, 0:13:05.880 --> 0:13:08.160 because of the twenty thirty is that DC has been 0:13:08.240 --> 0:13:11.400 heavy going to Morgan State making alliances in the city. 0:13:11.440 --> 0:13:12.959 My wife is from the west side. First, let me 0:13:13.040 --> 0:13:15.080 say that my wife is from the West side of Baltimore. 0:13:15.679 --> 0:13:19.080 And when I married a Baltimore woman, the DC women. 0:13:18.880 --> 0:13:24.080 Like, hold on, ah, y'all, no, that's not what we're doing. 0:13:24.200 --> 0:13:28.360 I was like, Oh, that's what we do. You ain't. 0:13:31.000 --> 0:13:35.360 You don't sleep with her, you haven't had some of 0:13:35.440 --> 0:13:37.520 that that old bait that she served. 0:13:38.120 --> 0:13:43.120 She's got a crab boy for your ass that you 0:13:44.160 --> 0:13:47.040 you don't know nothing about. And so I think that 0:13:47.120 --> 0:13:50.240 there's slowly, but surely there's there's an alliance that has 0:13:50.320 --> 0:13:53.599 been coming between Baltimore and DC. At least the the 0:13:54.120 --> 0:13:56.160 hard line has been softened. I won't say that is 0:13:56.160 --> 0:13:58.199 an alliance, but the hard line has been softened. But 0:13:58.360 --> 0:14:02.199 you never hear about this rivalry that we had that 0:14:02.320 --> 0:14:04.559 goes on. I think it's the stupidest thing ever. I 0:14:04.679 --> 0:14:09.040 think that the two communities, African American communities in those 0:14:09.160 --> 0:14:11.520 major cities. D C's a major city, Baltimore is a 0:14:11.559 --> 0:14:12.040 major city. 0:14:12.080 --> 0:14:13.079 I think we need to come. 0:14:13.280 --> 0:14:15.640 Yeah, anything that brings you all together, I would think, 0:14:15.760 --> 0:14:19.080 like comedy, right, because I think your comedy underrated comedy 0:14:19.160 --> 0:14:21.960 is an underrated comedy scene in Baltimore, DC. 0:14:22.480 --> 0:14:26.880 You got Dave, you got Donall so here quick, just hilarious. 0:14:26.960 --> 0:14:29.720 So here's how we feel about that. The same applies. 0:14:30.120 --> 0:14:33.000 So it's like this growing up. Anything coming out of Baltimore, 0:14:33.000 --> 0:14:36.320 you just automatically x and if you in Baltimore, anything 0:14:36.400 --> 0:14:38.560 coming out of DC, you just automatically x NA. 0:14:39.280 --> 0:14:42.680 You don't know them. I learned that from my my 0:14:42.840 --> 0:14:43.760 Baltimore gooons. 0:14:44.160 --> 0:14:47.200 What's up with y'all? I ain't saying no name, what's 0:14:47.280 --> 0:14:49.600 up a y'all? But I know some straight goods, and 0:14:49.920 --> 0:14:52.080 you know Baltimore. You know, the wire was real. 0:14:54.280 --> 0:14:55.920 Let's let's let's keep let's keep it the buck. The 0:14:56.040 --> 0:15:01.680 wire was real, and the climate in Baltimore, it's it's serious, 0:15:02.080 --> 0:15:03.400 it's very very serious. 0:15:03.520 --> 0:15:06.960 So it's gonna take thirty forty years for that alliance 0:15:07.040 --> 0:15:07.600 to pop off. 0:15:08.800 --> 0:15:11.400 It was talking about black folks who are setting their ways. 0:15:11.560 --> 0:15:14.400 Black folks are very very slow to change, and unless 0:15:14.480 --> 0:15:18.600 you have a reason to change, a very straightforward reason 0:15:18.680 --> 0:15:21.480 to change, ain't ain't gonna be that much change when 0:15:21.480 --> 0:15:23.360 we come back with Kicking It with Joe Claire, so 0:15:23.440 --> 0:15:23.840 don't move. 0:15:23.920 --> 0:15:29.800 It's the Breakfast Club, Good Morning, the Breakfast Club, wanting 0:15:29.840 --> 0:15:31.720 everybody's DJ n V. 0:15:31.920 --> 0:15:34.480 Charlomagne the guy we are the Breakfast Club, but kicking 0:15:34.520 --> 0:15:37.080 it with Joe Clair, of course from Rap City Charlomagne. 0:15:37.320 --> 0:15:39.880 Another thing too, I was watching the doc Man, I've 0:15:39.960 --> 0:15:42.000 always loved the interview you did with Big. 0:15:42.320 --> 0:15:45.760 That's that's the iconic in the Biggie and I knew 0:15:45.800 --> 0:15:47.920 that was Big. I couldn't. I knew that was Big 0:15:48.120 --> 0:15:50.800 last interview. It was his last television interview. I think 0:15:51.000 --> 0:15:52.560 I think I think swave might have been his last 0:15:52.600 --> 0:15:54.520 radio and he was going, he went to the radio. 0:15:54.880 --> 0:15:57.280 Now did y'all shoot that in La? Shot it in La. 0:15:57.440 --> 0:15:58.960 That's what we was laying like in the park, right 0:15:59.560 --> 0:16:02.120 we sit in So we really were on a sound. 0:16:01.960 --> 0:16:05.920 Stage and they were shooting the hypnotized video. The dance 0:16:05.960 --> 0:16:09.480 scenes were going on in there. So they took a break. 0:16:09.360 --> 0:16:13.080 From that, sat us outside and that's how that interview 0:16:13.120 --> 0:16:13.640 popped off. 0:16:14.000 --> 0:16:16.640 Always wondered, were you concerned for your safety shooting out 0:16:16.680 --> 0:16:17.920 in LA at the time, because it was all the 0:16:17.920 --> 0:16:19.360 East Coast West Coast beef and all of that. 0:16:19.960 --> 0:16:23.520 I'm concerned for my safety every day, so my head 0:16:23.600 --> 0:16:25.480 is always on a swivel. So I didn't feel any 0:16:25.560 --> 0:16:28.200 more concern than I normally feel when I go to La. 0:16:28.720 --> 0:16:30.920 I just know, like doing Rap City. 0:16:31.440 --> 0:16:33.000 The thing that I knew was when you go to 0:16:33.120 --> 0:16:35.800 somebody hood, when you go to a city, you abide 0:16:35.840 --> 0:16:36.400 by they rules. 0:16:36.480 --> 0:16:38.840 You shut your mouth, don't start no shit, won't be 0:16:38.960 --> 0:16:39.320 no sea. 0:16:39.640 --> 0:16:42.080 So nah, I didn't have any extra concerns for my 0:16:42.160 --> 0:16:45.280 safety that day. We had plenty of security ANIMI civilian. 0:16:45.600 --> 0:16:46.000 Yeah. 0:16:46.160 --> 0:16:47.680 Then I sit and I do the interview. It's a 0:16:47.720 --> 0:16:50.720 great day season Junior Mafia right behind us. The dancing 0:16:50.800 --> 0:16:53.000 girls are over there. Of course, then Big City. You 0:16:53.000 --> 0:16:56.680 want to smoke something, day just got better. I'm not 0:16:56.800 --> 0:16:57.320 a smoker, but. 0:16:57.280 --> 0:16:59.160 If you're gonna smoke with somebody, you're gonna smoke with 0:16:59.480 --> 0:16:59.960 biggie smoke. 0:17:00.600 --> 0:17:02.440 So I had to catch a red eye that night 0:17:02.560 --> 0:17:06.320 because I was going out on the Deaf Comedy Jam tour. 0:17:06.480 --> 0:17:09.040 This was the first night, so I had to fly 0:17:09.240 --> 0:17:12.800 home Wednesday after getting the interview, pack my bags, get 0:17:12.880 --> 0:17:14.960 on the tour buses coming from Kid and pre Little 0:17:15.040 --> 0:17:17.280 Jersey coming down to DC, pick me up, and then we. 0:17:17.359 --> 0:17:19.119 Drive to Dallas. We do the show in Dallas. The 0:17:19.119 --> 0:17:21.040 next night we go to Houston. Do the show in Houston. 0:17:21.720 --> 0:17:24.480 Had a ball and three thirty four o'clock in the morning, 0:17:24.720 --> 0:17:28.320 Kid called my phone, like, Yo, they say, biggie guy's shot. 0:17:28.920 --> 0:17:30.320 You know, it's four o'clock in the morning. You've been 0:17:30.400 --> 0:17:33.359 out drinking, like whatever, you know, it's just some more 0:17:33.440 --> 0:17:35.800 hip hop here say book. Then my girlfriend at the 0:17:35.840 --> 0:17:36.359 time called me. 0:17:36.480 --> 0:17:38.760 She was like, they say, biggie guys shot. Let me 0:17:39.200 --> 0:17:41.600 turn on Headline News, y'all member Headline News. 0:17:41.760 --> 0:17:44.920 Then every half hour first story rapper Christopher Wallace has 0:17:45.359 --> 0:17:45.920 gunned down. 0:17:46.520 --> 0:17:48.680 At this point, the interview wasn't out. Interview's not out. 0:17:48.800 --> 0:17:52.680 I just was this is Sunday morning. I just was 0:17:52.800 --> 0:17:56.600 dead Wednesday. This is Sunday morning at six in the morning, 0:17:57.040 --> 0:17:59.440 So nah, no interview out. They ain't get time to try. 0:17:59.480 --> 0:18:03.000 They still a party and just those next couple of 0:18:03.480 --> 0:18:06.080 weeks when I got to reflect on it, I realized 0:18:06.119 --> 0:18:09.960 I was just numb because Tupac had just died and 0:18:10.080 --> 0:18:11.400 now Biggie got killed. 0:18:11.480 --> 0:18:14.120 I was like, we cannot be that dumb? 0:18:14.560 --> 0:18:14.840 Are we? 0:18:15.400 --> 0:18:18.159 Black folks were really not that stupid? Are we? Is 0:18:18.240 --> 0:18:22.440 this who we are? Tim and Sean that unfortunately it's sad. 0:18:22.600 --> 0:18:22.760 It was. 0:18:22.920 --> 0:18:25.200 It was one of those times Charlemagne and Envy where 0:18:25.280 --> 0:18:27.439 I really just I'm very us. 0:18:27.840 --> 0:18:30.440 I was like, man, I man a lot of that, 0:18:30.640 --> 0:18:33.200 so a lot of the like hanging out and I 0:18:33.320 --> 0:18:36.920 just did not want to do like because I don't 0:18:36.960 --> 0:18:39.520 know what you on. And then and I watched cats, 0:18:39.600 --> 0:18:42.520 I knew some of the most righteous dudes. Next thing 0:18:42.600 --> 0:18:45.440 I know, he he come with the chain and he 0:18:45.520 --> 0:18:49.280 gotta get his swaged together. You you, you've been made 0:18:49.359 --> 0:18:52.080 since you was nineteen years and ten years old. 0:18:52.160 --> 0:18:52.720 You've been made. 0:18:52.960 --> 0:18:54.800 You've been a man. I know your family, I know 0:18:54.880 --> 0:18:57.560 what you staying on you switching up because you think 0:18:57.640 --> 0:19:00.920 this is what the coach a dog man and has 0:19:01.200 --> 0:19:02.600 colored how I see us. 0:19:02.960 --> 0:19:05.080 Since then, nothing has changed your mind about us. 0:19:05.560 --> 0:19:08.000 I mean remember, leading up to that, I sat in 0:19:08.040 --> 0:19:10.960 the middle of the East coast West coast thing. Every week, 0:19:11.240 --> 0:19:13.879 every day, every rapper's got something to say about the 0:19:14.160 --> 0:19:14.720 other coast. 0:19:15.080 --> 0:19:17.840 That what made you start saying East Coast, West Coast worldwide. 0:19:18.000 --> 0:19:19.520 I took it straight from the Lost Boys. 0:19:19.760 --> 0:19:21.960 Yes, we really need to we really need to do 0:19:22.080 --> 0:19:24.480 this big shout out to Mac ten and Fat Joe 0:19:24.560 --> 0:19:26.639 because I don't know if you guys remember they did 0:19:26.720 --> 0:19:29.800 a movie Thinking and Water Up something like that. And 0:19:29.880 --> 0:19:32.800 then and Fat Joe realized and Fat Joe used to 0:19:32.840 --> 0:19:35.240 be coming up to this show like man that I'm 0:19:35.359 --> 0:19:37.680 keeping the flame going on this East Coast West Coast. 0:19:38.000 --> 0:19:41.160 After that, I see Joe and he's like, now they cool. 0:19:41.600 --> 0:19:43.679 And then as you used to see mac ten and mactin. 0:19:43.480 --> 0:19:45.960 Like nah, they cool, They're super cool. And then you 0:19:46.080 --> 0:19:49.440 found out it really wasn't the East Coast versus. It 0:19:49.600 --> 0:19:52.639 was the media making in and it was Park against 0:19:52.760 --> 0:19:54.960 Biggie and they used to be best friends. And now 0:19:55.000 --> 0:19:57.760 we're looking at really this came down the two best 0:19:57.800 --> 0:20:01.879 friends fell out. Now they have other influences and that 0:20:02.119 --> 0:20:03.680 just got bigger and bigger and bigger. 0:20:04.119 --> 0:20:05.119 The control you know, we have. 0:20:05.240 --> 0:20:07.240 We have conversations on the Breakfast Club that have ended 0:20:07.320 --> 0:20:10.160 up confrontational did y'all have any of those on Rap City? 0:20:10.200 --> 0:20:14.040 That y'all y'all the only person who ever like tried 0:20:14.040 --> 0:20:16.040 to sum me he sum me one time. It was 0:20:16.119 --> 0:20:19.560 my first live taping and I'm interviewing Pete Rock and 0:20:19.640 --> 0:20:20.479 cl Smooth. 0:20:20.720 --> 0:20:22.320 Oh my heroes. 0:20:22.880 --> 0:20:22.920 My. 0:20:23.200 --> 0:20:25.800 I know they album back to backward and forward. I 0:20:25.880 --> 0:20:26.359 know everything. 0:20:26.480 --> 0:20:29.040 I know every syllable of that album. So it's like 0:20:29.359 --> 0:20:32.160 five four three two go. I'm like, ah, it's Rap City, 0:20:32.200 --> 0:20:34.280 Joe play here, blah blah blah blah blah blah blahn do. 0:20:34.280 --> 0:20:36.720 My thing, So what's up with you? 0:20:37.160 --> 0:20:39.639 And then I don't get nothing from cl He's pretty 0:20:40.960 --> 0:20:42.080 So then the cameras cut off. 0:20:42.200 --> 0:20:46.800 He's like, Yo, son, you mad extra? I SA said, 0:20:46.840 --> 0:20:48.920 what what you mean? He's like, yo, over the top, 0:20:49.200 --> 0:20:53.040 He like mad extras? Yo, bring it down a little bit. 0:20:53.359 --> 0:20:54.639 Five four three two. 0:20:54.960 --> 0:20:57.440 All right, y'age man, Joe Clear here on Rap City, 0:20:58.280 --> 0:20:58.879 I Got Bigger? 0:20:58.960 --> 0:20:59.639 How do you hear that? 0:20:59.760 --> 0:21:00.480 End? For me? 0:21:00.600 --> 0:21:02.840 I took it as a vet somebody who was in 0:21:02.960 --> 0:21:06.639 the industry showing me what he thought I should be. 0:21:07.440 --> 0:21:09.400 No skin off my, you know that's what you think 0:21:09.440 --> 0:21:12.960 I should be already? No Joe Cliar and if it's nothing, 0:21:13.240 --> 0:21:15.480 I know Joe. I know what Joe Clin do and 0:21:16.760 --> 0:21:19.680 I stayed extra for five years. 0:21:21.680 --> 0:21:22.760 I appreciate y'all. 0:21:24.280 --> 0:21:27.040 This conversation, oh man, And we just let me get 0:21:27.080 --> 0:21:28.480 there's a few things I like to get on my chest. 0:21:28.600 --> 0:21:29.200 Make sure you follow. 0:21:29.320 --> 0:21:31.560 Make sure you follow me at Joe Clare on all 0:21:32.160 --> 0:21:36.159 social media platforms. If you are in the d m 0:21:36.280 --> 0:21:39.680 V watch me every day at three o'clock on Fox five. 0:21:39.760 --> 0:21:43.000 It's called the d m V Zone. 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We're 0:22:38.480 --> 0:22:40.800 talking about this interview that Tyler Perry said, and Tyler 0:22:40.840 --> 0:22:42.199 Perry said this in the interview. 0:22:42.520 --> 0:22:45.879 In our society right now, black women are making a 0:22:45.920 --> 0:22:48.040 lot more money for the most part than black men. 0:22:48.280 --> 0:22:49.920 Right There are a lot of black men who are successful, 0:22:49.920 --> 0:22:51.920 but for the most part, black women are making the money. 0:22:51.960 --> 0:22:54.800 So you, if you can find love, if that man 0:22:55.200 --> 0:22:58.879 works at whatever job and it's a good man, and 0:22:59.000 --> 0:23:02.280 it's good to you and honors and honors the house 0:23:02.359 --> 0:23:05.840 and honors white and does what he can because his 0:23:06.400 --> 0:23:09.240 gift may not be your gift exactly. That is okay, 0:23:09.840 --> 0:23:12.479 that's not somebody who's beneath you. That's somebody who came 0:23:12.560 --> 0:23:15.160 to love you at your work, right and as long 0:23:15.200 --> 0:23:17.879 as he's secure in himself to know that, yep, she 0:23:18.040 --> 0:23:19.760 makes more of the money. All I can pay is 0:23:19.760 --> 0:23:22.160 the light deal. As long as she's comfortable enough to say, 0:23:22.160 --> 0:23:24.040 I'm gonna cover the mortgage and all the other stuff 0:23:24.240 --> 0:23:25.800 you've handed the light deil baby, you can take me 0:23:25.840 --> 0:23:26.959 to dinner and every now and then. 0:23:27.440 --> 0:23:28.439 That is fine. 0:23:28.640 --> 0:23:32.240 Yeah, that love, that support that I got your babe, 0:23:32.280 --> 0:23:33.199 it's a beautiful thing. 0:23:33.520 --> 0:23:36.560 So we're asking eight hundred five eight five one five one. 0:23:36.600 --> 0:23:38.720 We're talking to women out there, are black women out there. 0:23:39.640 --> 0:23:41.360 Do you believe what he says? Do you believe where 0:23:41.400 --> 0:23:43.320 you know? You should stop looking for a pockets and 0:23:43.640 --> 0:23:46.120 look more for love. I definitely think everybody should stop 0:23:46.200 --> 0:23:47.840 looking for pockets. You should definitely look for love. You 0:23:47.880 --> 0:23:50.399 should look for a person that's got good character. You look, 0:23:50.440 --> 0:23:52.679 you should look for a person that's got a good spirit. 0:23:52.840 --> 0:23:54.680 You know what I'm saying, Like somebody that's gonna hold 0:23:54.720 --> 0:23:57.920 you down, you know, as a human, like because finances 0:23:58.000 --> 0:24:00.600 go up, finances go down. Like, it's not always gonna 0:24:00.600 --> 0:24:03.359 be about money. If if, if all, if all it 0:24:03.480 --> 0:24:05.800 takes is money, what are you you hope. 0:24:07.720 --> 0:24:11.479 Matter now? It takes money? Response up here? 0:24:11.600 --> 0:24:13.720 Okay, but keep in mind, as much as you're telling 0:24:13.920 --> 0:24:16.640 us to go look for deeper than just the wallets, 0:24:17.240 --> 0:24:18.840 some people just don't have any depth. 0:24:19.480 --> 0:24:20.760 There's nothing else to them. 0:24:20.920 --> 0:24:22.199 Well, I don't think you have any depth of all 0:24:22.240 --> 0:24:27.520 you're looking forward to money? No, I don't think if 0:24:27.560 --> 0:24:29.200 all you're saying is I wanted somebody with money. 0:24:29.240 --> 0:24:30.479 What if he checks all the boxes. 0:24:30.520 --> 0:24:33.280 He's a great guy, he treats you well, he's you 0:24:33.320 --> 0:24:35.040 can see him being a great father. 0:24:35.440 --> 0:24:38.600 He does everything except financially. 0:24:38.680 --> 0:24:42.800 It could be friends because for me, No, look for me, 0:24:43.080 --> 0:24:48.880 I'm just saying ambition, like that's more important than money, Richie. 0:24:48.680 --> 0:24:51.680 So ambition equates the wealth, like you have to have 0:24:51.840 --> 0:24:56.800 wealth to be ambitious. No, no, no, no, that makes 0:24:56.920 --> 0:24:58.879 zero sense. But let's let's let's let's go to the 0:24:58.920 --> 0:25:01.040 phone lines. A lot of people that he's filling women 0:25:01.040 --> 0:25:03.200 in a pair of tough boy and that's what he's saying. 0:25:04.160 --> 0:25:05.639 Hello, who is hi? 0:25:05.840 --> 0:25:09.080 I'm Jocelyn, Hey, Jocely, good morning, good morning. Now let's 0:25:09.160 --> 0:25:11.240 let's talk about what Tyler Perry said. What's your thoughts. 0:25:11.640 --> 0:25:14.879 I think Tyler Perry's statement is rooted and idealism, Like 0:25:15.320 --> 0:25:18.640 we're not talking about millionaire salaries. We're talking about average salaries. 0:25:19.200 --> 0:25:21.240 And even if it's two hundred thousand or three hundred 0:25:21.240 --> 0:25:23.119 thousand and eight dollars a year that a woman is 0:25:23.200 --> 0:25:28.480 making men contribute different things to a relationship as you women. 0:25:28.840 --> 0:25:30.359 So a man who doesn't make a lot of money 0:25:30.720 --> 0:25:32.040 is not going to come in the house and cook 0:25:32.080 --> 0:25:34.840 and clean and you know, show up a nice launderie 0:25:34.880 --> 0:25:35.840 and do all those things. 0:25:36.040 --> 0:25:39.880 Why would I be wearing en? They still? Why would 0:25:39.880 --> 0:25:44.159 I do? I would cook and I would clean. You 0:25:44.200 --> 0:25:47.480 know what I'm saying, You're acting person. 0:25:50.400 --> 0:25:52.720 They've always been apt to settle, and then when they 0:25:52.880 --> 0:25:56.320 fall and their salaries full and they fall into financial situation, 0:25:56.600 --> 0:25:58.320 it's like, why do you marry that, brokelyn? Why do 0:25:58.359 --> 0:26:00.320 you marry a man who keeps that too? 0:26:00.760 --> 0:26:01.800 And you attract what you are? 0:26:02.920 --> 0:26:04.719 Always realistic? 0:26:05.359 --> 0:26:08.080 Settle? Now, I don't think this is settling. I really 0:26:08.119 --> 0:26:09.040 don't think this is settling. 0:26:09.119 --> 0:26:11.600 I think that you know, you shouldn't asked for anything 0:26:12.000 --> 0:26:14.040 in somebody else that you don't have in yourself. Don't 0:26:14.080 --> 0:26:17.160 look for nothing in anyone that you don't have in yourself. Now, see, 0:26:17.200 --> 0:26:18.760 I really feel like, can you make those kind of 0:26:18.760 --> 0:26:19.280 demands in me? 0:26:19.400 --> 0:26:22.080 I really feel like when when I think things got worse, 0:26:22.119 --> 0:26:25.280 when people started concentrating on money, right, and I just looked. 0:26:25.119 --> 0:26:29.280 Back at my parents, my aunts, my uncles, my grandparents. 0:26:29.320 --> 0:26:31.520 They didn't have money. It was just it was about love. 0:26:31.600 --> 0:26:33.520 My dad was a police officer, my mom worked at 0:26:33.520 --> 0:26:34.920 an insurance compan They wasn't money. 0:26:34.960 --> 0:26:35.720 They just fell in love. 0:26:35.880 --> 0:26:37.399 But then I also think about you know, when I 0:26:37.480 --> 0:26:39.760 met my wife, I was fifteen sixty, it wasn't about money. 0:26:39.880 --> 0:26:40.760 We didn't have any money. 0:26:40.800 --> 0:26:42.600 Can you imagine being this is this thing about you 0:26:42.680 --> 0:26:45.320 broke as hell, but you like I don't want nobody 0:26:45.400 --> 0:26:46.120 but a rich man. 0:26:46.520 --> 0:26:47.600 You broke. 0:26:48.160 --> 0:26:51.240 Why would that rich man want you? Brookie shouldn't be dating. 0:26:51.720 --> 0:26:54.120 I don't believe that either. Where are these stupid rules 0:26:54.160 --> 0:26:54.600 coming from? 0:26:54.680 --> 0:26:54.880 Hello? 0:26:55.240 --> 0:26:58.159 Hello, Hey, what's your day? Hey? What's your thoughts to 0:26:58.200 --> 0:26:59.280 what Tyler Perry said? Mama. 0:26:59.760 --> 0:27:02.480 I I do understand where he's coming from, and I 0:27:02.560 --> 0:27:05.120 do also understand where Tarva, Maine is coming from, because 0:27:05.119 --> 0:27:07.120 I steel that way as well. But I don't think 0:27:07.160 --> 0:27:10.120 he's say, lord, your standards. I'm just I think he's 0:27:10.160 --> 0:27:12.680 just speaking on if you are with someone who just 0:27:12.760 --> 0:27:15.280 works a regular nine to five, and he's affecting that, 0:27:15.359 --> 0:27:17.360 he's treating you right. He's taking care of the things 0:27:17.400 --> 0:27:19.840 that he can take care of with. If you're working, 0:27:19.920 --> 0:27:23.520 you can take care of something, and it's a genuine person. 0:27:24.080 --> 0:27:26.600 Don't try to look for someone who makes all of 0:27:26.720 --> 0:27:29.360 this money just for you, not to receive other things 0:27:29.400 --> 0:27:33.040 that's important as well, like don't necessarily worry about finances. 0:27:33.200 --> 0:27:35.040 But I do understand where Scharla Maine is coming from. 0:27:35.080 --> 0:27:38.400 With women, they do cand to always say they want 0:27:38.440 --> 0:27:40.320 to stand with so much money and all these things, 0:27:40.440 --> 0:27:42.320 but they don't have as much money as well. They 0:27:42.359 --> 0:27:44.000 want a man with all these fancy cars if they 0:27:44.000 --> 0:27:44.920 don't have none at all. 0:27:45.359 --> 0:27:48.480 Right, so right, because why would a rich man want 0:27:48.520 --> 0:27:50.080 a broke woman? Why would I want a woman who 0:27:50.160 --> 0:27:51.960 just wants me for my money? You know what I'm 0:27:51.960 --> 0:27:53.720 saying that I'm gonna end up giving you half of 0:27:53.840 --> 0:27:57.160 everything that I've ever acquired when this relationship is over. 0:27:57.280 --> 0:28:00.320 For what now? Victoria, somebody else that works pair just 0:28:00.400 --> 0:28:03.159 came and she came in here so dominican. Just now, 0:28:03.560 --> 0:28:04.520 she came in here, very mean. 0:28:04.680 --> 0:28:06.960 She was so Dominican when she walked in this room. 0:28:07.280 --> 0:28:08.880 Tell him to say exactly how you said it when 0:28:08.880 --> 0:28:09.600 you walked in the room. 0:28:09.800 --> 0:28:12.080 I said, we can't be two Broki's together. 0:28:12.280 --> 0:28:13.960 And I said, yes, you can't. No, we can. 0:28:14.240 --> 0:28:16.199 And sometimes you might just have to be. There might 0:28:16.240 --> 0:28:18.520 not be any other choice, but y'all might come up together. 0:28:20.160 --> 0:28:22.520 But when we get into that situation of like, oh, 0:28:22.560 --> 0:28:24.879 I'm not happy, Like but you knew what he was 0:28:24.960 --> 0:28:26.399 when you met him, and now you were sitting here 0:28:26.440 --> 0:28:27.959 telling me I need to rock with the brokes, makes 0:28:27.960 --> 0:28:28.400 you think you're. 0:28:28.280 --> 0:28:29.280 Gonna be happy with the rich man. 0:28:29.320 --> 0:28:31.200 The rich man gonna probably treat you worse because the 0:28:31.280 --> 0:28:33.200 rich man is like, you don't bring nothing. 0:28:32.920 --> 0:28:39.800 To the table. You keep saying financially So what is 0:28:39.880 --> 0:28:43.240 financially stable? I just said, someone that's able to take 0:28:43.280 --> 0:28:43.920 me out as well. 0:28:43.960 --> 0:28:46.720 I'm not asking for no boogie sever anything. 0:28:47.760 --> 0:28:49.480 Give me a number. What's financially stable to you? 0:28:50.040 --> 0:28:51.959 Salary rise? I would like for her to be at 0:28:52.040 --> 0:28:53.080 least like eighty thousand. 0:28:53.160 --> 0:28:54.120 Okay, I like that. 0:28:54.240 --> 0:28:56.640 So if you're just joining us now with a collective 0:28:56.720 --> 0:29:00.720 up pair our producers that work in the back and waterfalls, 0:29:03.120 --> 0:29:05.600 that is Victoria. You came in here, a little spicy Victor. 0:29:06.000 --> 0:29:09.040 Now for God treats you well, that's everything he's supposed 0:29:09.040 --> 0:29:11.760 to do. He's not cheating, know how to sucer. 0:29:15.240 --> 0:29:15.560 What is it? 0:29:15.720 --> 0:29:22.320 But does not have much money? Do you still date them? 0:29:22.600 --> 0:29:24.880 Yeah, as long as you're not too broke. 0:29:27.120 --> 0:29:28.680 But that's all. That's all I'm saying. 0:29:28.720 --> 0:29:30.960 I just don't want you to stop looking for love, man, 0:29:31.520 --> 0:29:33.320 something for good character in people. 0:29:33.480 --> 0:29:33.640 Man? 0:29:33.800 --> 0:29:34.360 What happened to? 0:29:34.600 --> 0:29:36.920 So y'all don't want to go against what managed supposed 0:29:36.960 --> 0:29:38.880 to provide and everything else, y'all want to go against that. 0:29:39.280 --> 0:29:42.080 What is it supposed to provide? We work hard, some 0:29:42.280 --> 0:29:44.160 some some what they can. 0:29:44.920 --> 0:29:46.880 All I'm saying is me where I'm at. That's all 0:29:46.880 --> 0:29:47.280 I'm saying. 0:29:47.280 --> 0:29:47.760 And that's all. 0:29:47.840 --> 0:29:50.360 I don't look for nothing in anybody you don't have 0:29:50.440 --> 0:29:52.000 in yourself each other. 0:29:52.640 --> 0:29:53.360 That's all I'm saying. 0:29:53.680 --> 0:29:55.240 Well, if he's a good guy, blah blah blah, but 0:29:55.360 --> 0:29:56.760 he's not at the level that I'm at. 0:29:56.920 --> 0:29:59.200 No, no, no, But I want you, first of all, 0:29:59.200 --> 0:30:01.920 I would encourage people never detailer because she's a terrible person. 0:30:05.320 --> 0:30:15.760 Human means very Never want to a woman like that. 0:30:16.800 --> 0:30:18.240 I'm going to challenge you. 0:30:18.360 --> 0:30:19.000 That's what it is. 0:30:19.560 --> 0:30:23.760 So let's go to the phone. The Philly women are crazy. Hello, 0:30:23.840 --> 0:30:25.720 who's this Eric? 0:30:25.920 --> 0:30:26.520 How you doing? 0:30:26.760 --> 0:30:28.680 Good morning? What do you think of what Tyler Perry said? 0:30:29.080 --> 0:30:32.040 I think she was wrong, I honestly do it's in 0:30:32.120 --> 0:30:37.280 the Bible. I mean to get out and man, I'm 0:30:37.400 --> 0:30:41.959 just saying read the Bible like that's that's the hierarchy. 0:30:42.040 --> 0:30:46.680 I think the man is supposed to protect and provide, like, yes, 0:30:46.920 --> 0:30:48.880 I gotta take you might just. 0:30:49.200 --> 0:30:49.960 Be one of my kids. 0:30:50.640 --> 0:30:53.840 Doesn't necessarily mean by chingel bags and burkings and cars. 0:30:53.920 --> 0:30:56.720 That means food and make sure you're safe. And you 0:30:56.840 --> 0:30:58.960 think a man can't protect and provide for you just 0:30:59.000 --> 0:31:00.760 because you got more money, But then. 0:31:00.760 --> 0:31:02.760 Why am I making more money in the first place? 0:31:02.920 --> 0:31:05.000 Is the question? If you're supposed to be I mean. 0:31:04.920 --> 0:31:06.240 A real man is not going to take that. 0:31:06.360 --> 0:31:07.280 A real that's not true. 0:31:08.120 --> 0:31:08.680 The household. 0:31:08.720 --> 0:31:11.440 Now, I wish men thought that men. If men thought 0:31:11.560 --> 0:31:13.440 like this, women wouldn't. Who would have been Who would 0:31:13.440 --> 0:31:13.760 women be? 0:31:13.880 --> 0:31:14.560 With women? 0:31:15.480 --> 0:31:17.080 I'm actually thought this. 0:31:17.200 --> 0:31:19.680 Some cultures they don't even allow their women to work. 0:31:19.760 --> 0:31:21.480 I'm not I'm not agreeing with that because I'm. 0:31:21.320 --> 0:31:24.160 An independent woman married an independent woman. But at the 0:31:24.240 --> 0:31:27.560 same time, I believe the man is supposed to hold 0:31:27.600 --> 0:31:30.000 everything down. A woman is supposed to hold down the kids, 0:31:30.120 --> 0:31:35.240 the household, him mentally, physically, emotionally, And why I have 0:31:35.360 --> 0:31:37.840 to do all of that and provide the money as well. 0:31:38.240 --> 0:31:39.200 Well, let me ask you a question. 0:31:39.320 --> 0:31:41.760 If you already got the money as a woman, if 0:31:41.760 --> 0:31:44.600 you rich already, there's only one other thing to have, 0:31:44.800 --> 0:31:45.440 and that's love. 0:31:46.400 --> 0:31:47.960 It one other thing to have. That's a man that's 0:31:48.000 --> 0:31:50.520 gonna hold you down, to protect you and care for you. 0:31:50.960 --> 0:31:51.280 That's it. 0:31:51.720 --> 0:31:53.320 But how do we love himself? 0:31:53.400 --> 0:31:56.600 If he's an adequate to provide financially, he might. 0:31:56.560 --> 0:32:05.240 Have twelve inches. Whoa, he may have, that's what you need. Second, 0:32:05.600 --> 0:32:09.640 the man might have twelve inches man, the man nobody 0:32:09.680 --> 0:32:13.800 want that wants that. Y'all want twelve inches. Y'all want money. 0:32:15.200 --> 0:32:17.720 I don't know what y'all of the story. We know 0:32:17.800 --> 0:32:18.160 what you want. 0:32:18.240 --> 0:32:20.840 The story is just simple for me. Don't look for 0:32:20.960 --> 0:32:23.760 nothing in anybody you don't have in yourself. And everybody 0:32:23.800 --> 0:32:26.040 got to stop looking at finances. That's the reason to 0:32:26.120 --> 0:32:28.080 be with somebody. So at the end of the day, 0:32:28.160 --> 0:32:30.720 finances ain't gonna keep you all together. Love is gonna 0:32:30.760 --> 0:32:32.560 keep you all together, you know, because you gotta grow 0:32:32.600 --> 0:32:35.160 old with this person. You gotta actually like this person. 0:32:35.600 --> 0:32:38.040 You know what I'm saying. If y'all don't have that, 0:32:38.120 --> 0:32:38.880 I don't know what to tell you. 0:32:39.000 --> 0:32:41.280 He also needs a four oh one k Jesus. 0:32:41.520 --> 0:32:45.920 All right, well, sure, nice person, right, you know what 0:32:46.000 --> 0:32:46.440 I'm saying. 0:32:46.720 --> 0:32:48.880 There's plenty of rich men that will treat y'all terribly. 0:32:49.080 --> 0:32:51.000 How we're gonna grow old together? If you can't afford 0:32:51.040 --> 0:32:51.960 to grow old together? 0:32:52.280 --> 0:32:55.440 Damn making what I'm talking about right now? I just know. 0:32:56.000 --> 0:32:57.680 Tell me why rich man would want to broke woman? 0:32:57.720 --> 0:32:59.640 Nobody can ever rich? 0:33:00.040 --> 0:33:02.600 Okay, Why would a financially stable person want a woman 0:33:02.600 --> 0:33:08.360 who's not financially stable? Why would a financially stable man 0:33:08.880 --> 0:33:11.200 want a woman who's not financially stable? 0:33:11.440 --> 0:33:11.800 I can't. 0:33:12.080 --> 0:33:12.800 I agree with you. 0:33:14.840 --> 0:33:17.040 You know, they like the church, but that's also their 0:33:17.120 --> 0:33:19.120 ego to that's a girl. 0:33:19.280 --> 0:33:21.840 A lot of times, a lot of guys want to. 0:33:22.040 --> 0:33:23.360 I know a lot of guys that want to be 0:33:23.480 --> 0:33:26.160 able to make more than the woman for their ego standpoint, 0:33:26.240 --> 0:33:27.120 not necessarily like. 0:33:27.840 --> 0:33:29.000 And I would tell you that's not the type of 0:33:29.040 --> 0:33:31.600 man y'all should be doing. All right, well, I will 0:33:31.640 --> 0:33:33.320 tell you, I would tell you run from that type 0:33:33.320 --> 0:33:34.880 of guy. It's the breakfast leg of morning. 0:33:35.840 --> 0:33:36.920 The breakfast club. 0:33:39.480 --> 0:33:43.760 Everybody, Charlamagne's god, we are the breakfast club. We have 0:33:43.840 --> 0:33:46.240 Laura La Rose to hear our special guest host, and 0:33:46.320 --> 0:33:47.840 we got a special guest with us today. 0:33:48.280 --> 0:33:50.680 We had a topic talking about some statements that she said, 0:33:50.760 --> 0:33:53.920 Ladies and gentlemen Williams, don't nobody stir it up, like 0:33:55.240 --> 0:34:00.840 what's up envy, what's up? Charge more NB. 0:34:00.920 --> 0:34:02.840 I was going to be very very pissed and disappointed 0:34:02.880 --> 0:34:06.040 if you weren't stucking in. So why well, because I 0:34:06.040 --> 0:34:07.680 didn't know if I'd ever be back up here to. 0:34:07.720 --> 0:34:11.799 Be candid why it was? It was it was tight 0:34:12.040 --> 0:34:14.000 last Yeah, but God is good. 0:34:14.040 --> 0:34:17.160 I came with my God le on, God Leon. 0:34:17.480 --> 0:34:20.239 We're good. It's really God is good. I would say this. 0:34:20.440 --> 0:34:22.840 You know, every time we have a conversation, we're always 0:34:22.880 --> 0:34:25.160 not going to agree, but you're always invited up here regardless. 0:34:25.200 --> 0:34:27.160 I mean, we're not gonna agree on everything, but the 0:34:27.239 --> 0:34:29.160 best thing about it is just having a conversation. So 0:34:29.280 --> 0:34:31.080 never think that you can't come up here for something. 0:34:31.120 --> 0:34:33.280 You say, No, that's what these conversations and these platforms 0:34:33.280 --> 0:34:33.640 are about. 0:34:34.040 --> 0:34:36.200 I'm half playing, but it's a good point and it's 0:34:36.239 --> 0:34:37.239 it's worth saying out loud. 0:34:37.360 --> 0:34:39.359 So I appreciate that, and I love you, sister. I don't. 0:34:39.400 --> 0:34:40.640 I don't want you to think I don't love you. 0:34:40.760 --> 0:34:43.040 I love you for real, like I appreciate everything that 0:34:43.080 --> 0:34:43.239 you do. 0:34:43.480 --> 0:34:45.279 And it's just like anything else. You go hardest in 0:34:45.360 --> 0:34:47.880 the pain with your family, So in the paint and 0:34:48.000 --> 0:34:49.120 in the paint that's on your face. 0:34:49.160 --> 0:34:49.880 And shut up. 0:34:50.560 --> 0:34:51.399 I'm happy here. 0:34:51.680 --> 0:34:51.960 Thank you. 0:34:52.680 --> 0:34:54.399 I would love to have a conversation with you about 0:34:54.400 --> 0:34:54.719 the video. 0:34:54.960 --> 0:34:57.279 Now, what's the topic of conversation. I feel like this 0:34:57.400 --> 0:34:59.560 is a conversation that men shouldn't even be involved in. 0:35:00.200 --> 0:35:01.560 What is the gist of the conversation. 0:35:01.719 --> 0:35:03.600 It's not for you, Charlamagne. So I'm glad that you 0:35:03.680 --> 0:35:07.120 said that this is a conversation for ladies. And I 0:35:07.239 --> 0:35:09.680 texted my good friend Charlemagne. I said, it's a friend 0:35:09.719 --> 0:35:12.839 of the show. I heard the conversation yesterday. I appreciated 0:35:12.920 --> 0:35:15.759 the critique and the constructive nature of it, and I said, 0:35:15.800 --> 0:35:17.359 you know, since I'm down the street on the train, 0:35:17.640 --> 0:35:19.840 let me pull up and I want to hear from you, 0:35:20.239 --> 0:35:22.960 Lauren about what you agree with and what you disagree 0:35:23.000 --> 0:35:25.320 with and have a lady's conversation. 0:35:24.920 --> 0:35:25.640 About let's do it. 0:35:25.960 --> 0:35:29.320 Yeah, So I think for me, I'll start with the 0:35:29.440 --> 0:35:30.239 what I disagree with. 0:35:30.400 --> 0:35:32.320 Let's go come first for people that don't know you 0:35:32.360 --> 0:35:33.719 want to you want to play the clip of of 0:35:33.840 --> 0:35:34.760 what went viral. 0:35:34.760 --> 0:35:37.480 So people understand that clip to bring everybody up this red. 0:35:37.480 --> 0:35:40.160 You got the clip, Let's play the clip, right. The 0:35:40.280 --> 0:35:40.960 reality is. 0:35:41.160 --> 0:35:45.840 That our marriage and partnership market value is depreciating with 0:35:46.040 --> 0:35:49.080 every passing year. No matter how good we look, no 0:35:49.200 --> 0:35:52.799 matter how fit we are, men are still seeing primarily 0:35:53.239 --> 0:35:56.440 our presumed dwindling fertility. 0:35:56.360 --> 0:35:59.080 As a knock against us. So here's my advice. 0:35:59.520 --> 0:36:02.279 If you are a young Black woman in college and 0:36:02.440 --> 0:36:05.360 you know in your heart and in your head that 0:36:05.520 --> 0:36:09.120 you want to prioritize family, I suggest that you simultaneously 0:36:09.200 --> 0:36:12.640 pursue that mrs degree right along with that BA or JD. 0:36:13.160 --> 0:36:15.760 Because a handful of black college age men that actually 0:36:15.920 --> 0:36:18.839 do desire to get married soon, and they do share 0:36:18.880 --> 0:36:21.879 that value system and family is a priority for them too. 0:36:22.680 --> 0:36:22.879 Y'all. 0:36:22.960 --> 0:36:25.520 That is an incredibly small pool, and it's shrinking as 0:36:25.600 --> 0:36:28.000 you get older, and by the time you reach my 0:36:28.160 --> 0:36:32.200 age forty, you will be faced with different choices relating 0:36:32.239 --> 0:36:34.480 to life, partnership, and motherhood. 0:36:36.360 --> 0:36:40.000 So I think, all right, So breaking it down into 0:36:40.080 --> 0:36:42.120 what I agree and what I disagree with. So the 0:36:42.239 --> 0:36:45.560 disagreeing for me came with the starting with the infertility 0:36:45.920 --> 0:36:50.960 and the the market value they're appreciating. So with the infertility, 0:36:51.000 --> 0:36:53.560 I know, I said this yesterday. Some stuff is science, right, 0:36:53.600 --> 0:36:55.839 you can't get around that. But I feel like when 0:36:55.880 --> 0:36:57.840 you start with that and you lead with that, it 0:36:57.960 --> 0:37:00.400 then makes people get defensive and they don't even hear 0:37:00.480 --> 0:37:02.200 the rest of it. I know, when I first listened 0:37:02.200 --> 0:37:04.480 to it, I was like, oh God, this is going 0:37:04.520 --> 0:37:06.880 to be another one of those conversations where like someone's 0:37:06.920 --> 0:37:09.160 telling me, as a woman, by the time you get 0:37:09.200 --> 0:37:11.759 this age, your life is over. And you know when 0:37:11.800 --> 0:37:14.400 you're when you're like trying to figure things out and 0:37:14.480 --> 0:37:16.719 you're like, I'm thirty one years old, right, Like I'm 0:37:16.840 --> 0:37:18.719 recently out of a very long relationship. 0:37:19.200 --> 0:37:20.440 You want to feel not. 0:37:21.160 --> 0:37:30.000 Charlamade Jesus, but I feel there's life after go ahead. 0:37:31.239 --> 0:37:32.319 But that's my point. 0:37:32.400 --> 0:37:35.800 It's like for me, I made a very conscious decision 0:37:35.880 --> 0:37:38.040 with a lot of things in my life going to college, 0:37:38.480 --> 0:37:40.520 being in the relationship that I was in, not being 0:37:40.560 --> 0:37:42.960 in that relationship. Even with my like recent you know, 0:37:43.280 --> 0:37:45.640 back and forth to East coast, West coast, like I've 0:37:45.680 --> 0:37:48.040 always had to be very conscious and cognizant of the 0:37:48.120 --> 0:37:50.560 fact that, like you know, as a woman, as a 0:37:50.719 --> 0:37:52.800 black woman, right, especially working in the space that I 0:37:52.880 --> 0:37:55.319 work in, I might not get that that other chance, 0:37:55.360 --> 0:37:57.279 Like I gotta do it right the first time. And 0:37:57.320 --> 0:38:01.200 I think talking about professionally, professionally and personally, okay, and 0:38:01.360 --> 0:38:02.440 only because that's. 0:38:02.440 --> 0:38:04.320 What are your personal goals? Just so we're clear. Do 0:38:04.520 --> 0:38:05.360 you want marriage? 0:38:06.080 --> 0:38:06.720 I want marriage? 0:38:06.840 --> 0:38:07.200 I want you. 0:38:07.960 --> 0:38:10.320 Yes, family foundation, I want all of that. 0:38:11.080 --> 0:38:12.719 I don't even have a number of kids. Once we start, 0:38:12.760 --> 0:38:17.960 we start just yeah, but yes, I'm going to be 0:38:18.239 --> 0:38:20.320 an amazing mom. But I just feel like when you 0:38:20.480 --> 0:38:23.280 lead with the stuff that you lead with, it instantly 0:38:23.320 --> 0:38:25.839 turns the conversation negative, and for someone like me who 0:38:25.960 --> 0:38:29.200 is watching and learning and listening to you, it makes 0:38:29.239 --> 0:38:30.800 it where now I am defensive. 0:38:31.000 --> 0:38:32.520 I don't want to watch, listen and learn. 0:38:32.680 --> 0:38:34.279 I don't hear the rest of what you're saying, So 0:38:34.360 --> 0:38:36.239 now I'm not being taught, and I should feel like 0:38:36.680 --> 0:38:38.600 I can listen to you and learn from you and 0:38:38.760 --> 0:38:41.319 not feel like you're the op right, And that's how 0:38:41.400 --> 0:38:44.920 it starts off when you instantly are telling me everything 0:38:45.040 --> 0:38:47.719 negative about what I already am facing every single day, 0:38:47.760 --> 0:38:49.239 and I think that that's a big part of it too. 0:38:49.280 --> 0:38:51.040 It's like when you put certain troops in front of people, 0:38:51.400 --> 0:38:53.719 it hurts, people don't want to hear it. But beyond that, 0:38:54.000 --> 0:38:56.040 like you can't get around the infertility. The second thing 0:38:56.200 --> 0:38:59.240 was the market value, right. I don't agree. 0:38:59.480 --> 0:38:59.560 Right. 0:38:59.640 --> 0:39:01.719 I don't know where you were at thirty one, But 0:39:01.840 --> 0:39:04.520 for me, I feel like I'm just now getting to 0:39:04.600 --> 0:39:06.600 the space where like the people that I'm able to 0:39:07.040 --> 0:39:08.920 or not even able to, but the people that I'm dating, 0:39:09.320 --> 0:39:11.680 the life experiences that I'm experiencing that are teaching me 0:39:11.760 --> 0:39:14.160 what I want, what I don't want. I'm right now 0:39:14.239 --> 0:39:16.239 in the best space that I've ever been in. And 0:39:16.440 --> 0:39:18.080 that wasn't me in college. I didn't know what I 0:39:18.160 --> 0:39:19.920 wanted in college. I didn't know who I was. In college, 0:39:19.960 --> 0:39:22.719 I seen nothing, haven't done anything. I also, I didn't 0:39:22.719 --> 0:39:23.200 agree with that. 0:39:24.040 --> 0:39:27.560 But yeah, asist because you put two big ones out 0:39:27.600 --> 0:39:30.360 and let's break them down before we get ahead of ourselves. Okay, 0:39:30.480 --> 0:39:34.120 so you're thirty one years old, a college educated woman 0:39:34.880 --> 0:39:38.560 enjoying a very successful career in a high profile space. 0:39:39.320 --> 0:39:40.840 I'm going to put my hands together for all of that. 0:39:41.440 --> 0:39:45.080 Now, when I say market value depreciating, Lauren, did you 0:39:45.120 --> 0:39:47.000 hear what I said before that? Did you hear the 0:39:47.040 --> 0:39:49.840 specificity of the particular marketplace I'm speaking about? 0:39:50.360 --> 0:39:51.040 No, which was that? 0:39:51.280 --> 0:39:53.040 Okay, So I want to just go back actually to 0:39:53.080 --> 0:39:55.280 your first point, Laurd, which I think you are conceding 0:39:55.680 --> 0:40:00.200 that you had a reaction to my commentary that it's 0:40:00.239 --> 0:40:03.480 so visceral in nature that you actually shut down your 0:40:03.520 --> 0:40:04.800 listening comprehension skills. 0:40:05.239 --> 0:40:05.719 He said that. 0:40:06.520 --> 0:40:10.080 So because of that, though, right, I'm not gonna sit 0:40:10.120 --> 0:40:13.200 in a posture of ownership because you made a choice 0:40:13.680 --> 0:40:16.240 to be limited in the way in which you received 0:40:16.280 --> 0:40:17.360 and process the information. 0:40:17.719 --> 0:40:20.560 Now, you are grown women, and you have a time in. 0:40:20.560 --> 0:40:22.759 Me over what you choose to consume and what you 0:40:22.920 --> 0:40:24.360 choose to not consume. 0:40:24.800 --> 0:40:29.000 So, when I was giving the advice the strategy the 0:40:29.080 --> 0:40:31.319 game putting, you know, certain people up on some game, 0:40:31.680 --> 0:40:35.480 I'm talking to a very limited pool of young black ladies, 0:40:36.160 --> 0:40:40.400 the ones that are currently in school or immediately following 0:40:40.440 --> 0:40:43.399 school or graduate school. And then the other caveat, I'll say, 0:40:43.440 --> 0:40:47.240 the other place this information is in real time relevant 0:40:47.280 --> 0:40:51.440 to are the mothers or even the fathers of those 0:40:51.640 --> 0:40:52.160 young women. 0:40:52.480 --> 0:40:53.320 That's who this is for. 0:40:53.760 --> 0:40:56.200 So you, this is actually not even applicable to you, Lauren, 0:40:56.440 --> 0:40:57.399 So no, no, let. 0:40:57.360 --> 0:41:00.319 Me finish, nor I have to finish because no, wait wait, 0:41:02.520 --> 0:41:04.600 I just want to wait before you finish your thoughts. 0:41:05.000 --> 0:41:07.640 I just want to, like, let's rewind a little bit, 0:41:07.680 --> 0:41:10.799 because I also think to the reason why people also 0:41:10.840 --> 0:41:12.560 because not just me or the people, because even the 0:41:12.600 --> 0:41:14.120 people it's meant for, I'm sure some of them did 0:41:14.200 --> 0:41:15.080 the same exact thing as. 0:41:15.040 --> 0:41:17.120 Well as not right and some did not because I 0:41:17.200 --> 0:41:19.439 did not right, because you read all the comments. 0:41:19.160 --> 0:41:19.680 Right, yeah I did. 0:41:19.840 --> 0:41:22.600 But I think what happens is with you and I 0:41:23.560 --> 0:41:26.120 saying this in the most respectful way. I think that 0:41:26.280 --> 0:41:29.000 the way that you approach things like even this conversation 0:41:29.160 --> 0:41:33.440 right now, it can make it does that it dilutes 0:41:33.560 --> 0:41:36.640 the whole point of like you for you talking to 0:41:36.719 --> 0:41:40.440 me specifically, I agree with certain parts of it, but 0:41:40.520 --> 0:41:43.120 I think that the my whole point of what I'm 0:41:43.120 --> 0:41:45.480 saying right because right now I feel like you're taking 0:41:45.600 --> 0:41:47.759 what I didn't agree with and the fact that I 0:41:47.840 --> 0:41:49.560 don't remember specific words or whatever. 0:41:49.600 --> 0:41:50.479 I'm not Lauren. 0:41:50.560 --> 0:41:52.840 Really, I really think this would be better served and 0:41:52.960 --> 0:41:55.200 more productive if just like I, it's kind of like 0:41:55.239 --> 0:41:58.000 an opening statement in a court of law. I gave 0:41:58.040 --> 0:42:00.319 you a good amount of time to lay out two 0:42:00.480 --> 0:42:04.040 prongs of disagreement, and I respect and appreciate both of 0:42:04.120 --> 0:42:06.840 your positions. I'm not saying they are wrong, Okay, and 0:42:07.000 --> 0:42:11.160 be messy. I'm not saying they're wrong at all, But 0:42:11.280 --> 0:42:16.320 I am saying that I don't know how productive it 0:42:16.440 --> 0:42:18.800 is to be the time manner and delivery police. 0:42:19.040 --> 0:42:19.200 Right. 0:42:19.440 --> 0:42:22.920 So when we talk about and also the nature of 0:42:23.080 --> 0:42:25.600 this work that we all do in this space of 0:42:25.760 --> 0:42:27.880 media and journalists, whatever we want to call it, right, 0:42:28.080 --> 0:42:31.239 it's very subjective in nature. So for everybody Lauren that 0:42:31.360 --> 0:42:34.080 takes your position, which is very valid, it was visceral 0:42:34.160 --> 0:42:34.320 to me. 0:42:34.520 --> 0:42:37.720 I found it triggering. It felt hurtful. I felt attacked, 0:42:37.719 --> 0:42:39.520 I felt policed, I felt hurt it. 0:42:39.600 --> 0:42:43.799 On whatever it is, there's also a whole nother contingency 0:42:44.280 --> 0:42:47.520 of black women that felt seen by that commentary that 0:42:47.640 --> 0:42:48.280 fell heard. 0:42:48.600 --> 0:42:49.880 I had sores coming up to me. 0:42:49.920 --> 0:42:52.160 We had a fundraiser shout out to the pi Kappa 0:42:52.280 --> 0:42:55.880 Maga chapter of Alphakappa offic already incorporated SKI. We had 0:42:55.880 --> 0:42:58.680 a fundraiser that very night that that commentary dropped and 0:42:58.800 --> 0:43:01.000 I had sores coming up to me, who are more 0:43:01.080 --> 0:43:03.000 in my age group, right, Because that's the first thing 0:43:03.040 --> 0:43:04.800 we need to acknowledge. Lauren and I are not the 0:43:04.880 --> 0:43:07.120 same age. There's a good ten years between me and 0:43:07.200 --> 0:43:10.320 this lovely young lady. So I'm speaking from a purview 0:43:10.480 --> 0:43:13.960 of experience that looks a bit different, not vastly so, 0:43:14.400 --> 0:43:17.480 but a bit different. I agree, And my peers who 0:43:17.560 --> 0:43:20.600 are fortying up are like I wish someone would have 0:43:20.680 --> 0:43:23.480 told me. And the fact that you are doing the 0:43:23.640 --> 0:43:27.719 labor ebany, you are doing the service of letting young 0:43:27.800 --> 0:43:31.440 girls that are currently in position to put themselves in 0:43:31.600 --> 0:43:35.000 best practices because they are currently in school or graduate 0:43:35.080 --> 0:43:40.160 school or shortly thereafter matters. And it's good that somebody 0:43:40.320 --> 0:43:42.640 is rolling up their sleeves and doing the work and 0:43:42.800 --> 0:43:48.680 having the conversation publicly that quiet as kept many pockets 0:43:48.800 --> 0:43:53.000 of black elite culture are having with their children generationally 0:43:53.120 --> 0:43:55.400 every day. Many of my peers long when I went 0:43:55.400 --> 0:43:57.520 to UNC Chapel Hill, who were black just like me, 0:43:57.600 --> 0:44:00.120 and you, right, they were taught going into the a 0:44:00.160 --> 0:44:03.360 front end of freshman year, keep your eyes open, you know, 0:44:03.480 --> 0:44:06.080 get those grades get that degree, I expect you to 0:44:06.120 --> 0:44:08.520 go to medical school or law school or PhD. And 0:44:08.800 --> 0:44:12.040 also if you want the traditional model, and that's a 0:44:12.080 --> 0:44:14.319 big if. This is going to be the best time 0:44:14.600 --> 0:44:19.200 to be surrounded by the highest concentration of black men 0:44:19.320 --> 0:44:23.279 that are also pursuing the educational and fiscal model that 0:44:23.480 --> 0:44:24.880 you are and you desire. 0:44:25.280 --> 0:44:27.239 And it's really no more or less than that. I 0:44:27.560 --> 0:44:29.520 don't On the one second, guys. 0:44:29.719 --> 0:44:32.120 On the one second, ladies, we got to take a break, 0:44:32.239 --> 0:44:33.839 so we'll come back, and we also want to take 0:44:33.880 --> 0:44:36.960 some calls eight hundred and five five one, And if 0:44:37.000 --> 0:44:39.160 you're just join us, that's Laurena Roster. She's our special 0:44:39.200 --> 0:44:41.359 guest host today and Ebony Kay Williams is up here. 0:44:41.520 --> 0:44:43.000 And I think a very important when we come back, 0:44:43.080 --> 0:44:45.359 let's talk about what we agree with in this Yeah. 0:44:45.400 --> 0:44:47.000 I want to coret to that too, because I don't 0:44:47.000 --> 0:44:49.920 want you to feel like because what yeah, we're doing? 0:44:50.000 --> 0:44:52.680 Come back, all right, it's the Breakfast Club. Good morning morning. 0:44:52.760 --> 0:44:55.960 Everybody is DJ NV Charlamagne to God. We are the 0:44:56.000 --> 0:44:58.200 Breakfast Club. On this Friday, we have Laura la Rossa, 0:44:58.200 --> 0:45:00.480 our special guest host, and we have Ebny Kay Williams 0:45:00.560 --> 0:45:03.000 joining us this morning, and we're taking your calls as well. 0:45:03.080 --> 0:45:05.040 Eight hundred and five eight five, one oh five one. 0:45:05.080 --> 0:45:07.839 Now we're discussing some comments that ebide K Williams made 0:45:07.840 --> 0:45:10.839 that went viral yesterday. So now right before we left, 0:45:11.040 --> 0:45:12.480 I cut both of you guys off so we can 0:45:12.719 --> 0:45:14.680 pay some bills and get some musical on. So I know, 0:45:14.760 --> 0:45:16.200 ebidy K Williams, you were talking. 0:45:16.480 --> 0:45:19.880 I was so I was acknowledging Lauren's right right to 0:45:20.040 --> 0:45:24.400 consume content that she enjoys and feels comfortable with and 0:45:24.440 --> 0:45:26.760 also reject that what she does that because her critique 0:45:26.880 --> 0:45:28.759 at this point, I understand is is a bit about 0:45:28.800 --> 0:45:31.080 my It's about my delivery as much as the substance 0:45:31.120 --> 0:45:31.759 of what I'm saying. 0:45:32.000 --> 0:45:34.120 I think that the disagreement again comes in with how 0:45:34.200 --> 0:45:36.080 you say it, and we don't get that vulnerability right. 0:45:36.200 --> 0:45:38.320 So me sitting here with you right now is like, 0:45:38.640 --> 0:45:40.279 this is what I want to feel when I see 0:45:40.280 --> 0:45:41.840 the content. I might not always get that though, and 0:45:41.920 --> 0:45:43.480 maybe it's not like you said. It wasn't for me, 0:45:43.560 --> 0:45:45.040 it was for the girls that's still in college, right, 0:45:45.320 --> 0:45:47.680 But at the same time it's placed on my timeline. 0:45:47.680 --> 0:45:48.600 So I get it, and I feel it, and I 0:45:48.680 --> 0:45:50.880 stop and I listen either way, but I'm. 0:45:50.719 --> 0:45:52.400 Glad you do. Shout out to the team at the grille, 0:45:52.480 --> 0:45:53.920 go ahead, but you agree with you. 0:45:54.280 --> 0:45:55.680 But I was going to get to that. 0:45:56.000 --> 0:45:58.200 But what I did agree with was the fact, like 0:45:58.239 --> 0:46:01.400 when you started talking about a pool of men getting smaller, 0:46:01.480 --> 0:46:03.480 when it comes to those men who men who will 0:46:03.520 --> 0:46:05.360 be honest about what they want when it comes to 0:46:05.520 --> 0:46:09.239 the family a woman, they are actually worth the time, 0:46:09.440 --> 0:46:12.439 the energy. It's it's consistent, you're getting the same energy 0:46:12.480 --> 0:46:14.640 that you're putting out. It does get smaller as you 0:46:14.760 --> 0:46:16.800 get older. And like now that I'm out here in 0:46:16.880 --> 0:46:18.520 the dating world, I'm like, oh okay, and. 0:46:18.600 --> 0:46:21.719 Keep in mind you're only thirty thirty one, so it's 0:46:21.840 --> 0:46:25.120 like as you get to forty, the pole the pool 0:46:25.160 --> 0:46:27.520 has shrunk further, fifty even more so. 0:46:27.960 --> 0:46:30.600 And I've dated, I'm having a million from fifty, I'm 0:46:30.680 --> 0:46:31.200 having a menack. 0:46:31.360 --> 0:46:33.280 Listen, I'm not even I got. 0:46:35.239 --> 0:46:37.120 I actually believe in the power of the tongue. So 0:46:37.360 --> 0:46:37.960 I believe. 0:46:38.200 --> 0:46:40.880 So you speak, so you you have and you will desire. 0:46:41.080 --> 0:46:42.879 I do want to speak to the fertility park because 0:46:42.880 --> 0:46:45.000 it's very important. It is as I sit here with 0:46:45.080 --> 0:46:48.920 y'all today, you know I'm literally onso fertility drugs. I 0:46:48.960 --> 0:46:52.560 am preparing for my embryo transfer in the next few weeks. Now, 0:46:52.640 --> 0:46:54.480 I am forty years old. Just turned forty a couple 0:46:54.520 --> 0:46:56.759 of weeks ago. Y'all know I've been very transparent about 0:46:56.800 --> 0:47:00.200 my motherhood journey. I'm doing it solo by choice. Our 0:47:00.239 --> 0:47:01.879 froze eggs at thirty four years old. 0:47:02.120 --> 0:47:02.640 I'm doing this. 0:47:02.719 --> 0:47:05.200 I'm excited to be a mom. I'm scared as hell. 0:47:05.239 --> 0:47:06.480 I know it's going to be the hardest thing I've 0:47:06.480 --> 0:47:08.239 ever done in my life, and yet I cannot wait 0:47:08.320 --> 0:47:12.839 to enter this mother era of my life. And Also, Lauren, 0:47:12.840 --> 0:47:14.600 I don't think this is how most black women want. 0:47:14.440 --> 0:47:14.680 To do it. 0:47:15.280 --> 0:47:18.760 I don't why solo by choice? Well, several reasons. 0:47:18.880 --> 0:47:22.719 Number one, I'm no longer willing to wait to activate 0:47:23.520 --> 0:47:25.960 my pursuit of motherhood. I'm no longer willing to wait. 0:47:26.000 --> 0:47:28.360 I've been married and divorced in my late twenties. I 0:47:28.480 --> 0:47:31.400 had also a long term relationship many years ago. I 0:47:31.600 --> 0:47:35.400 ended up engagement during the pandemic. I'm ready for my baby. 0:47:35.640 --> 0:47:38.480 I am ready to pour into someone other than me. Finally, 0:47:38.560 --> 0:47:40.200 it took me very long time to get here. But 0:47:40.640 --> 0:47:42.279 when she ready, she ready. 0:47:42.400 --> 0:47:42.640 Okay. 0:47:43.160 --> 0:47:47.080 Now, I don't think that most women, most black women, 0:47:47.560 --> 0:47:50.040 desire doing this journey alone. 0:47:50.440 --> 0:47:50.839 I don't. 0:47:51.160 --> 0:47:53.960 It's very important. And I know that you mentioned yesterday 0:47:54.239 --> 0:47:56.800 the egg freezing, so let's talk about that because I 0:47:56.880 --> 0:47:59.200 think that that is marketed, not just you, Lauren, I 0:47:59.239 --> 0:48:02.600 think in general, that is in a lot of these comments. Right, well, girl, 0:48:02.760 --> 0:48:04.719 just freeze your eggs and don't worry about the rest. 0:48:04.960 --> 0:48:07.120 That's some bulls, because I'm here to tell you because 0:48:07.120 --> 0:48:07.600 I'm living it. 0:48:07.840 --> 0:48:07.960 Right. 0:48:08.280 --> 0:48:09.520 I froze eggs at thirty four. 0:48:09.560 --> 0:48:11.680 I never thought in a million years I would need 0:48:11.760 --> 0:48:14.399 to use them, right because why, I was at a loving, 0:48:14.440 --> 0:48:19.120 committed relationship. These were my spare Have you frozen eggs 0:48:19.120 --> 0:48:19.799 at this point, dude? 0:48:19.880 --> 0:48:21.520 No, I thought about doing it last year. I thought 0:48:21.520 --> 0:48:22.520 about starting the process. 0:48:22.560 --> 0:48:25.600 Okay, So let me just and this is not investigative, 0:48:25.680 --> 0:48:27.360 this is I'm just trying to see something here. Do 0:48:27.440 --> 0:48:31.040 you know how many eggs on average a woman should 0:48:31.120 --> 0:48:35.560 have on ice on reserve frozen for a probability of 0:48:35.719 --> 0:48:37.080 one live birth. 0:48:37.400 --> 0:48:38.920 No, I don't about twenty. 0:48:39.560 --> 0:48:42.759 Then if I say, okay, how many egg retrievals are 0:48:42.800 --> 0:48:45.799 required to get about twenty eggs and a woman that's 0:48:45.800 --> 0:48:47.799 say thirty five and up, the answer is. 0:48:47.760 --> 0:48:51.400 At least two. What's the cost average of an egg retrieval? 0:48:51.520 --> 0:48:54.200 Amy probably knows this, but he knows it's between twelve 0:48:54.239 --> 0:48:57.960 and fifteen thousand dollars per retrieval cycle. 0:48:58.520 --> 0:48:59.759 Most assurances don't cover. 0:49:00.200 --> 0:49:02.760 Most insurances do not cover unless you're working at Google 0:49:02.840 --> 0:49:04.680 or Amazon. And by the way, you probably need to 0:49:04.719 --> 0:49:07.320 be married for them to cover it. Otherwise they consider 0:49:07.360 --> 0:49:10.680 it elective. They don't recognize it as infertility in the 0:49:10.760 --> 0:49:13.800 way that married couples that struggle to conceive half. So 0:49:13.960 --> 0:49:16.880 what I'm saying is the egg freezing route, the single 0:49:16.960 --> 0:49:21.640 motherhood by Choice route, the IVF route are amazing technological tools, Lauren, 0:49:21.760 --> 0:49:23.320 but they are wealthy women tools. 0:49:23.920 --> 0:49:26.440 Period. Let's be very clear. It's just more to it 0:49:26.560 --> 0:49:27.400 than just freezing it. 0:49:27.640 --> 0:49:28.919 I get you, I think with that part. 0:49:29.040 --> 0:49:31.400 For me, I was speaking from my own personal experience, 0:49:31.440 --> 0:49:34.080 and I think that like hearing you respond to it, 0:49:34.320 --> 0:49:37.040 I can understand your response to what I said, but 0:49:37.280 --> 0:49:38.880 I think maybe I should have been a little bit 0:49:38.920 --> 0:49:40.080 more clear because. 0:49:39.800 --> 0:49:42.880 For me, at that still freezing though you have the money. 0:49:42.800 --> 0:49:44.719 At that time when I was thinking about doing it, 0:49:44.800 --> 0:49:46.640 it was because the insurance that I was getting through 0:49:46.640 --> 0:49:50.560 my employer supported that to a certain extent where anything like, yes, 0:49:50.640 --> 0:49:52.560 it is expensive, but I would have been able to 0:49:52.600 --> 0:49:53.720 figure it out, so I would. 0:49:53.560 --> 0:49:55.279 Think you should still do it. I want that to 0:49:55.440 --> 0:49:57.800 I don't want that missed here. I'm still encouraging you 0:49:57.920 --> 0:49:58.400 to do I. 0:49:58.400 --> 0:49:59.800 Will say, I got a little bit, I got like 0:50:00.040 --> 0:50:02.279 garret out of it, a little bit only be cares 0:50:02.360 --> 0:50:04.440 out of God, don't do that. But but more so 0:50:04.560 --> 0:50:06.480 because of what like MV shared with me, what you 0:50:06.680 --> 0:50:08.439 talked about, like going through all. 0:50:08.400 --> 0:50:10.000 Of that and then it I'll go with you to 0:50:10.120 --> 0:50:11.360 not work right, I'll go with you. 0:50:11.800 --> 0:50:12.760 We can talk about I'm. 0:50:12.680 --> 0:50:15.120 Very serious, I really so. So I'm saying two things here, 0:50:15.160 --> 0:50:17.440 and this is important in this conversation, y'all. People have 0:50:17.520 --> 0:50:20.040 got I encourage people, I'll say, to hold space for 0:50:20.160 --> 0:50:21.439 more than one thing at one time. 0:50:21.600 --> 0:50:23.120 Now, I feel like whatever you just said now is 0:50:23.200 --> 0:50:25.440 very important. All Ebony is saying is this is an 0:50:25.560 --> 0:50:27.120 ideal and you don't want it. 0:50:27.160 --> 0:50:28.920 It's not. It's not you don't want folks to have 0:50:29.040 --> 0:50:30.440 to necessarily go through this for me. 0:50:31.680 --> 0:50:33.640 Let me just reiterate that, because that's very important because 0:50:33.640 --> 0:50:35.759 this is this is these these stakes are very high, Lauren. 0:50:35.960 --> 0:50:40.600 I'm fifty thousand dollars into IVF Journey by myself, so 0:50:40.640 --> 0:50:42.399 I don't have a husband splitting that with me, which 0:50:42.440 --> 0:50:44.719 I which there's reasons why that's preferable for me. 0:50:45.120 --> 0:50:46.560 But I really need people to hear that. 0:50:46.880 --> 0:50:48.840 And I'm taking shots and I'm giving them to myself, 0:50:48.840 --> 0:50:51.319 and I'm doing all this to bring life into this world. 0:50:51.719 --> 0:50:53.520 And I don't take it lightly because it's a very 0:50:53.560 --> 0:50:54.160 serious thing. 0:50:54.520 --> 0:50:56.680 So I think when we were very cavalier, not not 0:50:56.840 --> 0:50:59.600 just you, right, but in general with O just IVF 0:50:59.680 --> 0:51:03.319 for oh, just marry outside the race obviously been there, 0:51:03.400 --> 0:51:03.879 done that too. 0:51:04.520 --> 0:51:08.080 That that well, I heard some snow no king commentary. 0:51:13.360 --> 0:51:15.319 Hold on, guys, Hold guys. We got to take some calls. 0:51:15.520 --> 0:51:17.520 We got to take some calls. We got to take 0:51:17.600 --> 0:51:22.000 some calls eight hundred because this one five you watch 0:51:22.040 --> 0:51:23.960 if you listen. Okay, let's go. We gotta take some 0:51:24.000 --> 0:51:25.160 calls when we come back. And I just want to 0:51:25.160 --> 0:51:26.719 say this. I just want to say this. 0:51:26.880 --> 0:51:29.400 Most people don't know what what Ebany's going through right 0:51:29.440 --> 0:51:32.160 now with the with the viture the fertility. No, because 0:51:32.320 --> 0:51:34.720 because most people haven't been through it, and the fact. 0:51:34.520 --> 0:51:38.600 That the people that listen to the whole the court, 0:51:38.640 --> 0:51:39.680 they every day. 0:51:40.080 --> 0:51:42.040 But the fact that she has to do it by herself, 0:51:42.600 --> 0:51:43.080 it's a lot. 0:51:43.239 --> 0:51:45.200 Like she has to put them shots in her stomach 0:51:45.280 --> 0:51:48.040 and and and all that by herself, thank you. Most 0:51:48.040 --> 0:51:49.839 people don't know it, Like I can't even imagine if 0:51:49.840 --> 0:51:51.480 my wife had to do it by herself, or a 0:51:51.520 --> 0:51:53.600 woman having to do it by herself and goes through 0:51:53.600 --> 0:51:54.560 those doctors appointments. 0:51:54.600 --> 0:51:56.520 So it is a lot room by yourself. 0:51:56.640 --> 0:51:57.120 It's a lot. 0:51:57.360 --> 0:51:58.200 I can't imagine that. 0:51:58.640 --> 0:52:01.279 Transform who talks will take some calls when we come back. 0:52:01.280 --> 0:52:02.680 I got to talk about this stuff that we agreed 0:52:02.680 --> 0:52:04.200 with too, because a lot of people agree with somethings 0:52:04.239 --> 0:52:04.600 that you said. 0:52:04.600 --> 0:52:06.040 The callers probably get to some of it, but but. 0:52:06.200 --> 0:52:07.279 You cain't got all that much time. 0:52:07.360 --> 0:52:07.560 Guys. 0:52:07.920 --> 0:52:10.880 Eight hundred five five one five one, let's go. It's breakfast. 0:52:10.960 --> 0:52:12.000 Let morning, everybody. 0:52:12.040 --> 0:52:15.399 It's dj n B charlamagneaud We are the Breakfast Club. 0:52:15.440 --> 0:52:17.360 Our special guest host Laura La Rosa is here and 0:52:17.480 --> 0:52:20.600 Ebony K. Williams is still here. We're having a growing 0:52:20.680 --> 0:52:22.879 up discussion this morning, and we're opening up the phone line. 0:52:22.880 --> 0:52:25.279 The're gonna let h you guys out there get a 0:52:25.360 --> 0:52:26.719 chance to chop it up with Ebony K. 0:52:26.920 --> 0:52:27.320 Williams. 0:52:27.360 --> 0:52:29.879 All right, eight hundred five a five one oh five 0:52:29.920 --> 0:52:31.480 to one, and we just want to say, it's a 0:52:31.560 --> 0:52:32.520 respectful conversation. 0:52:32.640 --> 0:52:34.840 So as soon as the disrespect happens, we're banging on 0:52:34.920 --> 0:52:38.480 that right much. Right now. Okay, let rovigate has happened. 0:52:38.480 --> 0:52:41.759 We're on to something else. Now you stop at Charlemagne. Hello, 0:52:41.880 --> 0:52:44.919 who's this? Hey Alicia? Good morning? 0:52:45.200 --> 0:52:46.560 Hey, how are you good? 0:52:46.600 --> 0:52:48.560 Good? Good? Ebony K. Williams to say, hey, you gotta 0:52:48.560 --> 0:52:49.520 you got a question comment? 0:52:49.880 --> 0:52:51.799 Oh well, I just kind of wanted to agree with her. 0:52:51.880 --> 0:52:54.600 First of all, she stated that if this is what 0:52:54.760 --> 0:52:56.480 you want, and you're like, this is what I suggest, 0:52:56.600 --> 0:52:58.120 So she was not pushing. 0:52:57.880 --> 0:52:58.600 That on anyone. 0:52:59.080 --> 0:53:01.320 But if we're there on it, that's when our counterparts 0:53:01.360 --> 0:53:03.840 teach their girls so go to college and find a husband. 0:53:03.880 --> 0:53:06.719 The education is almost sicking thear to especially white thither 0:53:06.840 --> 0:53:08.880 women's So I don't see a problem with this. 0:53:09.400 --> 0:53:09.879 Is that true? 0:53:10.000 --> 0:53:11.640 Thank you, sister, That absolutely is true. 0:53:11.719 --> 0:53:13.640 So you know I went to UNC Chapel Hill, a 0:53:13.800 --> 0:53:17.279 very predominantly white institution in the South, as the good 0:53:17.360 --> 0:53:21.800 sister just mentioned, and that ring before Spring is serious 0:53:21.880 --> 0:53:24.680 for them what they're looking to do, because our counterparts 0:53:25.000 --> 0:53:29.080 tend to view marriage primarily through a lens of economic stability. 0:53:29.440 --> 0:53:32.080 Let's be clear, and historically we know that is the 0:53:32.200 --> 0:53:36.400 nature of marriage, correct, It's a transaction of sorts. And 0:53:36.440 --> 0:53:38.960 I know, once again, you know, the tears are going 0:53:39.040 --> 0:53:40.520 to roll when I say that out loud for some 0:53:41.120 --> 0:53:45.880 because because they they are not willing to really stand 0:53:45.960 --> 0:53:50.000 in the reality of the tenets of marriage in America today. 0:53:50.719 --> 0:53:54.160 Mortgage right, So that's that's the reality, and our counterparts 0:53:54.239 --> 0:53:55.880 do it all the time. The difference is they are 0:53:55.920 --> 0:53:58.080 not shamed when they do it. I think that when 0:53:58.640 --> 0:54:01.480 you see black girls and black young women going and 0:54:01.600 --> 0:54:05.080 making the space for marriage as as much of a 0:54:05.120 --> 0:54:07.800 priority as education, it flies in the face of a 0:54:07.880 --> 0:54:09.960 generation that told me and mine. 0:54:10.239 --> 0:54:13.000 Go to school, stay focused, don't get pregnant. 0:54:13.200 --> 0:54:16.239 Boys are a distraction, right, They're gonna throw you off 0:54:16.280 --> 0:54:20.040 your game. Get your education, get your money, get your house, 0:54:20.320 --> 0:54:23.800 get your power, figure out who you are stand in 0:54:23.920 --> 0:54:26.520 it and then go partner and get married and live 0:54:26.680 --> 0:54:29.400 happily ever after the challenge with that, because that's the 0:54:29.440 --> 0:54:32.160 model I took. I'm proud to have taken it. I 0:54:32.200 --> 0:54:34.320 had a little default starting marriage that was not for me, 0:54:34.440 --> 0:54:36.640 so I divorced him. Not a problem, great guy. 0:54:37.120 --> 0:54:37.680 Here's the thing. 0:54:38.280 --> 0:54:42.680 Here's the thing is most black women do want the 0:54:42.800 --> 0:54:46.520 traditional marital nuclear family model. And when you get to 0:54:46.600 --> 0:54:49.600 a certain level of income, as black women, a certain 0:54:49.680 --> 0:54:52.200 level of power. It's a certain level of being able 0:54:52.280 --> 0:54:54.400 to travel the world on your own dime and be 0:54:54.520 --> 0:54:58.120 in the sky lounge without some dusty sun swipe. That's okay, 0:54:58.719 --> 0:55:00.960 the shrinking happens. And also tell you what else you move, 0:55:01.040 --> 0:55:03.960 differences you move. You think your swag is on a 0:55:04.040 --> 0:55:06.440 thousand today and it's very high and I love seeing it. 0:55:06.719 --> 0:55:09.480 Wait till you wait till you're over that million dollar 0:55:09.560 --> 0:55:12.799 a year mark of income. Wait till it's like, wait 0:55:12.880 --> 0:55:15.520 till you own your your one point seven million dollar 0:55:15.600 --> 0:55:17.800 property in your own name and only your name is 0:55:17.840 --> 0:55:18.040 on the. 0:55:18.040 --> 0:55:19.200 Deed based on a true story. 0:55:20.000 --> 0:55:21.800 That's what I'm just saying you. 0:55:22.400 --> 0:55:24.479 Nobody's gonna be able to tell you unless they're coming 0:55:24.680 --> 0:55:26.839 all the way correct, period, And that's going to make 0:55:26.880 --> 0:55:28.840 that pool rather even smaller. 0:55:28.880 --> 0:55:34.160 Go ahead, yeah, yes, who's this Sophia. Hey Sophia, what's 0:55:34.200 --> 0:55:35.520 your question for Abany King Williams? 0:55:35.840 --> 0:55:38.440 Not question? Well, I guess a question. I have a 0:55:38.480 --> 0:55:42.439 few things, like how were you raised? I was saying, 0:55:42.680 --> 0:55:46.040 I've seen that you were forty I'm forty eight. I'm 0:55:46.040 --> 0:55:49.360 a black woman raised with black women. We were not 0:55:49.640 --> 0:55:52.560 raised to go look for a man. We weren't raised 0:55:52.600 --> 0:55:55.000 to just go look for a ring. Oh my god, 0:55:55.080 --> 0:55:57.560 I just have to have a man. We were raised 0:55:57.640 --> 0:56:01.279 to respect ourselves, to love God, and if God saw 0:56:01.440 --> 0:56:05.880 fit for us to be married, our husband would find us. 0:56:06.200 --> 0:56:09.440 Like it's like you put your failures on how that 0:56:09.640 --> 0:56:12.520 You seem like you failed because you didn't get a 0:56:12.600 --> 0:56:16.360 ring in college, but you putting it off on other women, 0:56:16.800 --> 0:56:19.600 especially black women. I don't know any other race, But 0:56:19.680 --> 0:56:21.120 that's not how I was raised. 0:56:21.560 --> 0:56:23.919 Okay, let any response? Oh yeah, good morning. 0:56:24.000 --> 0:56:27.120 It says so listen, I was raised by god fearing, 0:56:27.200 --> 0:56:29.880 incredible black woman named Gloria who raised me to go 0:56:29.920 --> 0:56:32.040 to school, go to more school, get the bag, and 0:56:32.080 --> 0:56:34.520 stand in my truth and power. So that's the first 0:56:34.520 --> 0:56:37.440 answer to your question. As for failure, I don't have 0:56:37.560 --> 0:56:40.040 any in the space, Dear, I actually was married. I 0:56:40.080 --> 0:56:42.560 had a beautiful cushion cut diamond on my finger until 0:56:42.560 --> 0:56:44.160 I decided to give it back because I no longer 0:56:44.200 --> 0:56:46.000 wanted to be married. So I don't have failure in 0:56:46.040 --> 0:56:47.839 the space. The only reason I'm not married is because 0:56:47.840 --> 0:56:50.560 I divorced my husband. Now, as to putting this on 0:56:50.680 --> 0:56:53.279 black women, I'm doing no such thing. What I know 0:56:53.440 --> 0:56:56.800 for fact, because I have sorority sisters, I have good friends. 0:56:56.840 --> 0:57:00.440 I have a strong global sisterhood of black women who 0:57:00.600 --> 0:57:03.960 tell me. Some of them tell me that despite their success, 0:57:04.080 --> 0:57:07.680 despite their careers, and despite their money, they in their 0:57:07.880 --> 0:57:12.440 car to hearts still desire marriage. It is something that 0:57:12.560 --> 0:57:14.920 they want. And I think we got to get rid 0:57:15.000 --> 0:57:17.600 of shaming black women for wanting what they want. For 0:57:17.720 --> 0:57:20.480 the black women that that is already a desire of 0:57:20.600 --> 0:57:23.320 their heart to be married in a timely fashion. That's 0:57:23.360 --> 0:57:25.720 who this advice is for. If you don't want that, 0:57:26.080 --> 0:57:28.400 I want nothing but what you want for yourself. 0:57:28.680 --> 0:57:30.240 I think a lot of people take the stance that 0:57:30.360 --> 0:57:32.800 she took because you literally like a lot of people 0:57:32.840 --> 0:57:34.120 don't know certain things right, they don't listen. 0:57:34.200 --> 0:57:35.600 But I also think that say they. 0:57:35.520 --> 0:57:37.600 Part one more time. They don't know certain things that 0:57:37.640 --> 0:57:38.240 they don't listen. 0:57:38.280 --> 0:57:40.680 But another important point is I think a lot of 0:57:40.720 --> 0:57:43.400 people take you just as a personality and all that 0:57:43.480 --> 0:57:46.000 you have going on as like you look and speak 0:57:46.040 --> 0:57:48.760 down on people. And I think with black women's instantly 0:57:48.840 --> 0:57:51.920 triggering because we've had that happen so much, right, And 0:57:52.040 --> 0:57:54.760 that's why that happens where she's like, well, how were 0:57:54.800 --> 0:57:56.680 you raised? Like even the way that she came into 0:57:56.720 --> 0:57:58.840 that call was like you think that you're better or 0:57:58.880 --> 0:58:01.120 do you think that you're doing something that other people 0:58:01.200 --> 0:58:01.640 have not done? 0:58:01.720 --> 0:58:01.800 Right? 0:58:01.800 --> 0:58:03.200 And I think that happens a lot with you. 0:58:03.520 --> 0:58:04.360 Yeah, it's a projection. 0:58:04.520 --> 0:58:06.600 Yeah, so I'm forty right, So none of that's new, Lauren. 0:58:06.680 --> 0:58:08.480 Just so you know, like when you walk through. 0:58:08.360 --> 0:58:11.360 The world carrying yourself the way I do, having my 0:58:11.560 --> 0:58:15.240 esthetic projections and presumptions about who I am and what 0:58:15.480 --> 0:58:17.600 my values are come with the territory. 0:58:17.800 --> 0:58:19.120 But that's also why I do the work I do. 0:58:19.160 --> 0:58:20.600 I got one hundred episodes of Holding Core. 0:58:20.640 --> 0:58:22.920 People can watch I'm on every day here locally in 0:58:22.960 --> 0:58:27.040 New York Channel fifty five eleven thirty AM Equal Justice 0:58:27.080 --> 0:58:28.880 with Judge Ebanie Yes, I'm judging you. 0:58:29.680 --> 0:58:32.960 And several other things. I got two books out of Ben. 0:58:33.000 --> 0:58:34.720 I'm like what you said, Anny, I saw equal justice 0:58:34.720 --> 0:58:35.080 in Vegas? 0:58:35.160 --> 0:58:37.720 You saw yeah, yes, naturally syndicated. I'm in eighty five 0:58:37.760 --> 0:58:40.440 percent of American home, so there's lots of content to consume. 0:58:40.560 --> 0:58:43.800 Well, let's go to another call up. Hello, who's saying Hi? 0:58:43.960 --> 0:58:44.400 My name is. 0:58:46.120 --> 0:58:47.960 Hey, Tish. What's your question for Abney King Williams. 0:58:48.480 --> 0:58:49.520 It's not really good question. 0:58:49.840 --> 0:58:52.800 I'm just saying, well, first of all, good morning and everybody. 0:58:52.880 --> 0:58:55.040 I just want to say that I am team Ebony 0:58:55.320 --> 0:58:58.000 and I don't see anything that she's saying is wrong. 0:58:58.520 --> 0:59:03.520 She blessed her uh platform, everyone who follows her know God. 0:59:03.600 --> 0:59:06.640 As an old woman, I'm just giving you advice. I've 0:59:06.680 --> 0:59:10.160 been there, I've been through college, and this is my 0:59:10.320 --> 0:59:13.080 feelings based on my experiences, and I just feel like 0:59:13.160 --> 0:59:14.560 she should be respected for it. 0:59:15.480 --> 0:59:18.400 Okay, well, thank you for calling Mama. Appreciate it, Sis 0:59:18.560 --> 0:59:21.680 than you have it for day. Let's put a button 0:59:21.760 --> 0:59:23.400 on this man because I strapped this up. 0:59:23.440 --> 0:59:26.360 I appreciate listen. I appreciate the platform. I appreciate the conversation. 0:59:26.560 --> 0:59:26.840 Lauren. 0:59:27.560 --> 0:59:29.840 I think that as black women in particular, we got 0:59:29.920 --> 0:59:32.480 to hold the space to have the difficult conversation. 0:59:32.720 --> 0:59:36.960 All right, well we appreciate you join us and Holding 0:59:37.000 --> 0:59:39.439 Court podcast. We're back with season three. Soons. 0:59:39.840 --> 0:59:40.840 Did I keep the same energy? 0:59:41.040 --> 0:59:49.120 I don't know, man, was shrunk a little bit? Ask you? 0:59:49.280 --> 0:59:50.440 I don't know why I asked you. 0:59:53.600 --> 0:59:54.960 You watch Equal Justice too? 0:59:55.160 --> 0:59:58.120 Thank you, Thank you, ladies. It's the Breakfast leg hilarious, 0:59:58.960 --> 1:00:02.120 the Breakfast Club. Your mornings will never be the same. 1:00:03.680 --> 1:00:04.160 Good news. 1:00:04.200 --> 1:00:07.400 If you're hiring, you've got help zip recruiter. Zip recruiter 1:00:07.480 --> 1:00:09.920 works for you to find great candidates fast. It's smart 1:00:09.960 --> 1:00:13.320 technology identifies qualified candidates for you and you can invite 1:00:13.320 --> 1:00:14.480 your top choices to apply. 1:00:14.840 --> 1:00:16.880 Try it for free at ZipRecruiter dot com. 1:00:17.000 --> 1:00:23.040 Slash Breakfast Donkey, Damn he hogged. 1:00:24.360 --> 1:00:25.919 It's time for Donkey of the Day. 1:00:26.480 --> 1:00:28.480 I me ain't trying to beat donkey today no more. 1:00:28.600 --> 1:00:30.800 They should be embarrassed by what they already did. I'm 1:00:30.840 --> 1:00:32.760 not making these people do these days called Donkey of 1:00:32.880 --> 1:00:35.480 the Day, and it really caught me off guard. 1:00:35.680 --> 1:00:38.400 Damn Charlamagne, who got the Donkey of the. 1:00:38.480 --> 1:00:41.920 Day today, Well that's hilarious. 1:00:42.200 --> 1:00:43.920 Donkey of to day, for which was a double donkey, 1:00:44.240 --> 1:00:46.880 it goes to thirty eighth year old Chief Chastain and 1:00:47.080 --> 1:00:49.800 the Clovis Police Department. It comes a point in time 1:00:49.880 --> 1:00:53.520 in life where we all must remember it takes to you. Okay, 1:00:53.960 --> 1:00:56.640 to you, all right, kids, gather around your uncle Sharlah 1:00:56.640 --> 1:00:58.200 would like to tell you about some things that have 1:00:58.280 --> 1:00:59.959 been going on since the nineteen hundred. 1:01:00.120 --> 1:01:03.200 Okay. One of those things is the saying it takes 1:01:03.400 --> 1:01:07.040 to you. Okay, are it takes to you to tango? 1:01:07.200 --> 1:01:11.480 That means that a situational argument involves two people and 1:01:11.720 --> 1:01:14.440 they are both therefore responsible for it. 1:01:14.560 --> 1:01:18.520 I repeat, It takes to you to tango means that 1:01:18.600 --> 1:01:21.560 a situational argument involves two people and they are both 1:01:21.640 --> 1:01:23.720 therefore responsible for it. It takes two. 1:01:23.920 --> 1:01:26.400 There's also a classic hip hop record that will make 1:01:26.480 --> 1:01:28.720 anyone with a soul who grew up in the nineteen 1:01:28.800 --> 1:01:30.640 hundreds and eighties lose their mind. 1:01:31.000 --> 1:01:31.280 Okay. 1:01:31.800 --> 1:01:33.680 The reason I'm giving you this history lesson to day 1:01:33.760 --> 1:01:36.320 is because in this donkey that I'm delivering, it absolutely 1:01:36.440 --> 1:01:40.360 took to you, all right. See, Keith was arrested ten 1:01:40.480 --> 1:01:44.760 times in one month. I repeat, Keith Chastain was arrested 1:01:45.080 --> 1:01:48.000 ten times in one month. See y'all think I'd be lying, 1:01:48.240 --> 1:01:49.959 Let's go to Fox twenty six News for the report. 1:01:50.000 --> 1:01:50.280 Place. 1:01:50.800 --> 1:01:54.560 Local law enforcement agencies say they are very familiar with 1:01:54.720 --> 1:01:57.720 thirty eight year old Keith Chastain, who has been booked 1:01:57.760 --> 1:02:02.000 in Fresnoe County Jail not once, not twice, but ten 1:02:02.160 --> 1:02:05.680 times in the last thirty one days. Chastain is from 1:02:05.760 --> 1:02:10.520 Fresno and is currently facing eighteen felonies and fifteen misdemeanors 1:02:10.800 --> 1:02:14.040 from his recent arrests. According to Clovis Police Department. His 1:02:14.240 --> 1:02:20.400 charges include stealing six vehicles, a dui, vandalism, fraud, possession 1:02:20.480 --> 1:02:24.959 of controlled substance, and more. Clovis Police Department alone says 1:02:25.040 --> 1:02:28.360 it has arrested Chastain six times in the last month. 1:02:28.680 --> 1:02:32.120 Around nine thirty Tuesday morning, Clovis Police received a call 1:02:32.200 --> 1:02:35.760 about a stolen truck that Chastain was suspected of driving. 1:02:36.360 --> 1:02:39.480 Police sayan officer found the stolen truck driving in Old 1:02:39.560 --> 1:02:43.880 Town Clovis and followed it until more officers arrived. Officers 1:02:43.920 --> 1:02:47.200 pulled Chastain over in front of Clovis Police Department and 1:02:47.400 --> 1:02:50.800 arrested him without incident. Police say he was the only 1:02:50.920 --> 1:02:53.520 person in the stolen truck and happened to be on 1:02:53.680 --> 1:02:56.520 his way to pick up his personal property from Clovis 1:02:56.600 --> 1:03:00.600 Police Department from the last time he was arrested, he 1:03:00.800 --> 1:03:02.120 was in a stolen vehicle. 1:03:05.800 --> 1:03:07.520 Now, as you just. 1:03:07.560 --> 1:03:11.640 Heard, Keith chas Dain was arrested ten times by Clovis 1:03:11.680 --> 1:03:16.200 Police six times, okay, six times by Clovers Police, and 1:03:16.400 --> 1:03:20.440 four times by other agencies. He was in a stolen 1:03:20.560 --> 1:03:23.840 vehicle on the way to pick up his items from 1:03:23.920 --> 1:03:24.320 the jail. 1:03:24.960 --> 1:03:25.240 Okay. 1:03:25.880 --> 1:03:28.360 Now, if he had gotten locked up by different agencies 1:03:28.440 --> 1:03:30.640 once or twice, I would understand. But if you get 1:03:30.680 --> 1:03:33.120 locked up by the same agency, the Clovise Police Department 1:03:33.400 --> 1:03:37.240 six times, six times, at what point does it become 1:03:37.520 --> 1:03:41.480 the police department's fault as well for constantly letting you out? 1:03:41.760 --> 1:03:43.760 At what point does it become a judge's fault for 1:03:43.840 --> 1:03:45.040 constantly grant you bail. 1:03:45.280 --> 1:03:48.680 He's facing eighteen felonies and fifteen misdemeanors, with charges including 1:03:48.720 --> 1:03:53.240 stealing six vehicles, dui vandelism, fraud, possession of a controlled substance, 1:03:53.400 --> 1:03:55.800 and a whole lot more. At some point, maybe after 1:03:55.960 --> 1:04:01.080 arrest number three, possibly after arrest number five, gurely, at 1:04:01.160 --> 1:04:04.400 arrest number six, someone at the Clovis Police Department has 1:04:04.440 --> 1:04:06.840 to say, no need to let this man out because 1:04:06.880 --> 1:04:08.040 he's just gonna come right back. 1:04:08.320 --> 1:04:08.560 Okay. 1:04:08.560 --> 1:04:11.520 If the Clovis Police Department had a customer loyalty program 1:04:11.720 --> 1:04:14.520 like Starbucks or Subway or so far, this man Keith 1:04:14.680 --> 1:04:16.200 would get his tenth arrest for free. 1:04:16.520 --> 1:04:18.640 Okay, hit the rest of nine times, get your temh 1:04:18.680 --> 1:04:21.480 for rest for free. Clearly, this man has a boyfriend 1:04:21.560 --> 1:04:24.080 behind those walls. Either that or he likes the food. Okay. 1:04:24.120 --> 1:04:26.800 When someone shows you who they are, believe them. And 1:04:26.920 --> 1:04:31.000 this man Keith has shown us he's a serial criminal. Okay, 1:04:31.080 --> 1:04:33.120 so give him what he wants, and what he wants 1:04:33.400 --> 1:04:37.400 is clearly zero bond, ten arrest in thirty one days. 1:04:38.000 --> 1:04:40.560 Insanity is doing the same thing over and over and 1:04:40.640 --> 1:04:43.680 expecting different results. So yes, Keith is insane because he 1:04:43.800 --> 1:04:46.880 keeps committing crimes in the same crimes and getting locked up, 1:04:47.040 --> 1:04:49.720 And the Clovis Police Department is insane because they keep 1:04:49.760 --> 1:04:52.520 locking Keith up for these crimes, the same crimes and 1:04:52.640 --> 1:04:55.200 letting him out. They both are to blame. So please 1:04:55.280 --> 1:04:57.960 give Keith Chastain a heat and give the Clovis Police 1:04:58.000 --> 1:05:01.680 Department a hall together. Because it takes two to give 1:05:01.760 --> 1:05:03.040 them the biggest he ha. 1:05:06.840 --> 1:05:08.560 This man wrote his name in jail. Ya, that's why 1:05:08.600 --> 1:05:08.840 he said it. 1:05:08.840 --> 1:05:10.920 Don't write you name. They don't write your name on 1:05:11.040 --> 1:05:14.680 the walls in jail. You keep coming back to that jail, Jesus. 1:05:15.480 --> 1:05:21.200 The breakfast club. It's six three six four six four 1:05:21.320 --> 1:05:24.680 six five. Now, Swiss is this your son that played 1:05:25.280 --> 1:05:26.560 soccer and then stopped? 1:05:27.000 --> 1:05:29.160 It's not all right, that's my little brother. 1:05:30.400 --> 1:05:32.160 Everybody in the house is your little something man. 1:05:33.840 --> 1:05:34.520 That's a fact. 1:05:35.520 --> 1:05:37.400 Now, as we approach the holidays, what is this time 1:05:37.440 --> 1:05:37.760 of year? 1:05:37.840 --> 1:05:39.560 Me and the youth swiss Man? 1:05:39.640 --> 1:05:44.920 Holiday times is definitely family times, Definitely time to, you know, 1:05:45.800 --> 1:05:48.320 see how other people are doing, because I know iticed 1:05:48.360 --> 1:05:50.080 like during the holiday times, I see a lot of 1:05:50.120 --> 1:05:52.800 pressure come on people with what they can do and 1:05:52.880 --> 1:05:56.200 what they can't do, and I just want to, you know, 1:05:56.240 --> 1:05:57.600 I just want people to find their balance. 1:05:57.680 --> 1:05:58.200 Absolutely. 1:05:58.320 --> 1:05:59.880 What do you find a time for a lot of 1:06:00.040 --> 1:06:03.160 stuff that you're doing because you're producing, you do versus you're. 1:06:03.120 --> 1:06:04.920 Traveling, you have kids. 1:06:05.160 --> 1:06:07.280 What do you find the time to continue to create 1:06:07.560 --> 1:06:08.800 and do all these amazing things. 1:06:10.560 --> 1:06:13.880 Everything I do is under the umbrother of creativity, So 1:06:14.080 --> 1:06:16.720 like I make the time and I need to stay busy, 1:06:17.400 --> 1:06:19.280 you know, like that's the kids like to stay busy, 1:06:19.360 --> 1:06:23.280 because I don't feel I started yet. To be honest, 1:06:23.280 --> 1:06:26.240 I feel like I'm just now starting. Although I've done 1:06:26.240 --> 1:06:27.840 a lot of things. I feel like I'm just now 1:06:27.880 --> 1:06:29.800 starting because I actually know what I'm doing now. 1:06:31.040 --> 1:06:31.720 Oh, explain that. 1:06:31.800 --> 1:06:33.440 Expand on that you know what you're doing now? 1:06:34.080 --> 1:06:36.320 Yeah, because when I started, I was you know, I'm 1:06:36.400 --> 1:06:39.680 a teenager and things was happening and moving so fast, 1:06:39.760 --> 1:06:42.360 so you don't really know what you're doing at that age. 1:06:42.400 --> 1:06:45.640 You're just having fun. I still have fun. 1:06:45.720 --> 1:06:48.120 But now that that's past, you got time to say, Okay, 1:06:48.720 --> 1:06:51.720 let me change different things, let me set different goals. 1:06:52.280 --> 1:06:55.080 I went back to school to you know, the three 1:06:55.160 --> 1:06:58.880 years to know what I'm actually doing instead of just 1:06:59.520 --> 1:07:01.840 doing with people are telling me that I'm doing or 1:07:02.360 --> 1:07:04.480 believing what somebody's telling me I'm doing it, instead of 1:07:04.560 --> 1:07:05.520 really knowing what I'm doing. 1:07:05.520 --> 1:07:06.280 It's a big difference. 1:07:06.800 --> 1:07:09.600 What's your favorite holiday memory? Is it New York and 1:07:09.680 --> 1:07:10.160 the Bronx? 1:07:10.320 --> 1:07:10.480 Is it? 1:07:11.280 --> 1:07:11.440 Now? 1:07:11.680 --> 1:07:13.520 What's what's your favorite holiday memory? 1:07:14.040 --> 1:07:16.680 It's all of them? Technically, like we we have fun 1:07:16.720 --> 1:07:18.560 as a family. We have a big family. 1:07:18.640 --> 1:07:23.720 We have fun. We tell jokes, you know, we play pranks. 1:07:23.880 --> 1:07:26.720 Play a lot of games. You know, we're very competitive 1:07:26.760 --> 1:07:28.520 with the ping pong, you know, Monopoly. 1:07:29.120 --> 1:07:30.440 Who wins a monopoly all the time? 1:07:30.480 --> 1:07:32.480 Monopoly will start an argument in my house at the 1:07:32.560 --> 1:07:35.960 last three days in my crib, same who wins. 1:07:36.120 --> 1:07:42.400 Yeah, uh, at least is very good, very strategic. Egypt. 1:07:42.560 --> 1:07:46.720 Egypt's very Egypt. He's like, he's like the monopoly man. 1:07:46.800 --> 1:07:50.240 He's like Daddy war Bucks, like he's a he loves. 1:07:50.080 --> 1:07:50.919 Money, loves guy. 1:07:51.080 --> 1:07:52.640 He gives it Mom. 1:07:52.680 --> 1:07:55.600 And Dad was just counting the paper like he's addicted 1:07:55.640 --> 1:07:59.760 to money. I'm telling like serious, he and. 1:08:00.240 --> 1:08:02.560 Do you have any what's your expectations for the holidays? 1:08:02.600 --> 1:08:05.000 Because you know, you you your dad's been doing very 1:08:05.000 --> 1:08:06.920 well for a very long time. So do you do 1:08:07.000 --> 1:08:08.000 you even have any wants? 1:08:09.720 --> 1:08:14.080 I just want I want everyone to tune in to drive. 1:08:14.160 --> 1:08:16.800 But we just made it okay, then I want I 1:08:16.920 --> 1:08:19.559 want everyone to just really cherish this time with their family, 1:08:19.640 --> 1:08:20.360 Like that's what I want. 1:08:20.400 --> 1:08:22.479 I don't really have a lot of physical needs this year. 1:08:22.560 --> 1:08:24.280 I have spiritual needs. 1:08:24.320 --> 1:08:26.360 I have family needs, and I want people to really 1:08:26.479 --> 1:08:29.760 just just cherish this time with their loved ones right now, 1:08:29.880 --> 1:08:31.840 because the state that the world is in right now 1:08:32.000 --> 1:08:32.200 is just. 1:08:32.280 --> 1:08:33.920 Really we need that. That's real. 1:08:34.400 --> 1:08:37.000 Let's talk about the show Drive, right that Drive is 1:08:37.040 --> 1:08:38.640 a call show that comes out. Most people don't know 1:08:38.720 --> 1:08:42.400 that anytime before I purchase a car, of course, Swizz, 1:08:43.400 --> 1:08:45.679 and then when I get the car, I FaceTime Squizz. 1:08:45.760 --> 1:08:48.560 So if a FaceTime ever comes up, Swizz be in 1:08:48.600 --> 1:08:50.240 the bed sleeping and he wake up. 1:08:50.320 --> 1:08:50.920 What did you get? 1:08:50.960 --> 1:08:51.080 Now? 1:08:51.439 --> 1:08:51.880 What did you get? 1:08:51.960 --> 1:08:52.000 Like? 1:08:52.240 --> 1:08:55.160 We're so excited for cars, So let's talk about Drive 1:08:55.320 --> 1:08:57.240 and what made you want to do the show Drive? 1:08:58.000 --> 1:09:01.599 Well, in Terribo, I pay six thousand for it at 1:09:01.600 --> 1:09:04.040 the time, and ever since then I've just been into 1:09:04.120 --> 1:09:07.479 cars and collecting and ended up doing car shows. So 1:09:07.560 --> 1:09:11.840 when this opportunity to community family, father and son, you know, 1:09:11.920 --> 1:09:14.799 you don't really get to see father and son bonds 1:09:14.840 --> 1:09:16.799 from from our community, that's positive. 1:09:17.200 --> 1:09:18.599 So I thought that that was a plus. 1:09:19.200 --> 1:09:22.320 And we wanted to educate people and not just show 1:09:22.439 --> 1:09:26.000 blame cars, not just putting million dollar cars up, but 1:09:26.160 --> 1:09:30.200 really showing the everyday person how they make magic as well, 1:09:30.800 --> 1:09:32.440 you know, and which I think is phenomenal. 1:09:32.720 --> 1:09:33.680 I like working with each other. 1:09:35.000 --> 1:09:39.280 Oh, my little brother, we have so much fun, Like 1:09:39.560 --> 1:09:42.960 it's not even funny, Like we don't really have we 1:09:43.640 --> 1:09:44.719 have perfect synthesis. 1:09:44.800 --> 1:09:47.519 We don't. We don't have to work with each other 1:09:47.760 --> 1:09:48.400 very very well. 1:09:49.600 --> 1:09:51.559 I was gonna ask you know what, you guys went 1:09:51.600 --> 1:09:53.479 to different markets, so you see in the car culture 1:09:53.479 --> 1:09:55.759 in New York, you know, the call coach in Houston, 1:09:56.120 --> 1:09:56.920 in California? 1:09:57.240 --> 1:10:01.840 What was your favorite car culture and why I love Japan. 1:10:02.360 --> 1:10:08.160 Japan is definitely one of my favorite episodes because the architecture, 1:10:08.240 --> 1:10:11.479 the culture there, they're like five hundred years ahead of us, right, 1:10:11.640 --> 1:10:15.320 so every single every single thing that they do there, 1:10:15.720 --> 1:10:18.280 they're so masterful with it. So when we want to 1:10:18.320 --> 1:10:20.840 go see the drifting and we want to actually go 1:10:21.000 --> 1:10:25.600 drift with the Tokyo drifters of the Drift Champion, we 1:10:25.760 --> 1:10:29.160 just saw how crazy like skillful they were for us 1:10:29.240 --> 1:10:31.280 to put our lives in their hands and for them 1:10:31.320 --> 1:10:34.720 to actually, you know, be able to handle that, You 1:10:34.800 --> 1:10:35.479 know they were good. 1:10:35.600 --> 1:10:37.680 When you say five hundred years into the future, Like 1:10:37.720 --> 1:10:38.360 what do you mean. 1:10:38.920 --> 1:10:42.240 Like you know, America is a young confident like Asia 1:10:42.360 --> 1:10:45.840 is five is way older and culturally and. 1:10:46.439 --> 1:10:49.680 I'm talking about the technology that's historically Oh no, no, 1:10:49.800 --> 1:10:50.400 we're not flying. 1:10:50.520 --> 1:10:57.519 But but and in terms of them being masterful every 1:10:57.560 --> 1:11:00.920 single thing they do, whether it's making a drink, cutting designing, 1:11:01.320 --> 1:11:05.760 doing anime, comic book sketches, architecture, painting clothes. We go 1:11:05.880 --> 1:11:09.559 there for inspiration. So being over there to go into 1:11:09.600 --> 1:11:12.280 the depth of their culture was like that was definitely 1:11:12.280 --> 1:11:13.400 one of my favorite episodes. 1:11:13.439 --> 1:11:14.080 And you'll see why. 1:11:14.800 --> 1:11:17.080 All right, Well, Saluthor Swiss Beats in his Son Nazia. 1:11:17.200 --> 1:11:18.679 And when we come back, we got more with Swiss 1:11:18.720 --> 1:11:20.280 beats and our moves to breakfast O good morning, and 1:11:20.400 --> 1:11:23.200 everybody's J and D Charlamagne the guy. 1:11:23.280 --> 1:11:25.800 We are the breakfast Club. Now last week we got 1:11:25.880 --> 1:11:27.400 a chance to chop it up with Swiss Beats in 1:11:27.439 --> 1:11:29.680 His Son Nazia, oh man. And it was so good 1:11:29.720 --> 1:11:31.800 because it was for our annual Change for Change. 1:11:32.040 --> 1:11:35.040 I got as Luca Amazon all throughout our Change for 1:11:35.160 --> 1:11:37.400 Change because they were taking care of people's holiday wishless 1:11:37.560 --> 1:11:40.559 as well as a nice event we did here last 1:11:40.560 --> 1:11:42.519 week where they gave everybody who came to the event 1:11:42.560 --> 1:11:44.479 a thousand dollars. So thank you to Amazon. 1:11:44.600 --> 1:11:46.559 All right, let's jump into our interview with Swiss Beats 1:11:46.600 --> 1:11:47.720 in the Sun, Naicia. 1:11:47.560 --> 1:11:51.280 Who's your favorite road trip partner Swiss Nazia or DMX 1:11:51.479 --> 1:11:53.160 because we always hear about the stories and you were 1:11:53.240 --> 1:11:53.800 next in the car. 1:11:53.920 --> 1:11:54.599 That's legendary. 1:11:55.040 --> 1:11:55.800 That's a hard one. 1:11:56.720 --> 1:11:57.080 I got this. 1:11:57.240 --> 1:12:01.040 I love you, but I gotta say X too, for 1:12:01.160 --> 1:12:02.560 a lot, for a lot of for a lot of 1:12:02.680 --> 1:12:08.000 other reasons. You know, X was X was very animated. 1:12:08.800 --> 1:12:10.920 Na's is laid back. He get animated when he went 1:12:10.960 --> 1:12:13.439 to but I would get to hear stories from from 1:12:13.680 --> 1:12:16.240 X that I never heard before when we're in the car, 1:12:16.880 --> 1:12:19.200 Like the last car ride we drove. I went to 1:12:19.240 --> 1:12:21.600 go visit him in like upstate New York, and he 1:12:21.680 --> 1:12:26.040 wanted to go see Scarface in Boston. And he's like, Yo, 1:12:26.240 --> 1:12:29.559 you know you know scar Faces in Boston tonight. He said, Okay, 1:12:30.160 --> 1:12:33.120 shout up to Scarface. You know, I just drove like 1:12:33.720 --> 1:12:35.640 two hours to go where he was at in the 1:12:35.720 --> 1:12:38.920 first place. And this one, I had the seven twenty 1:12:39.560 --> 1:12:42.920 mcclan so's a sports car and I used to always 1:12:42.920 --> 1:12:45.479 bring the cars up so extra drive them around when 1:12:45.560 --> 1:12:48.519 I when I visit him, and he's like hinting again, 1:12:48.920 --> 1:12:50.160 I want to go see Scarface. 1:12:50.760 --> 1:12:53.600 I'm like, you want to go? You want me to 1:12:53.640 --> 1:12:54.639 take you to see Scarface. 1:12:54.680 --> 1:12:56.960 I just drove two hours and he never really asked 1:12:57.000 --> 1:12:58.840 me for things like that, so I can tell that 1:12:58.920 --> 1:12:59.880 it was something that he really. 1:12:59.760 --> 1:13:00.280 Wanted to do. 1:13:01.080 --> 1:13:03.040 So we get in there, get in the car. We 1:13:03.200 --> 1:13:06.680 go five hours to see Scarface, and. 1:13:06.880 --> 1:13:08.639 The whole five I was in a little ass card. 1:13:08.680 --> 1:13:12.000 It wasn't escalate. It's a little call like his arm 1:13:12.080 --> 1:13:13.240 and their arms were touching. 1:13:13.240 --> 1:13:15.639 The whole rock my ass still heard from that drive. 1:13:17.000 --> 1:13:19.719 And so we're driving and he's playing old school music, 1:13:19.840 --> 1:13:24.760 old school music, and then he stops the music and 1:13:24.880 --> 1:13:27.680 he asked me to record him, which he never does, 1:13:28.400 --> 1:13:31.640 and he just like gave me his life story, like. 1:13:31.800 --> 1:13:32.880 Like I never heard it before. 1:13:33.040 --> 1:13:33.320 Wow. 1:13:33.680 --> 1:13:36.720 And that was our last drive, but it was it 1:13:36.800 --> 1:13:37.240 was epic. 1:13:37.640 --> 1:13:37.880 Wow. 1:13:38.120 --> 1:13:39.240 You still have you? Of course? You have? 1:13:39.840 --> 1:13:40.400 Absolutely? 1:13:40.640 --> 1:13:44.360 Yes, yes, Wow and uh And we went on stage 1:13:44.400 --> 1:13:47.559 and he rocked with Scarface, Wow all night. 1:13:48.479 --> 1:13:52.320 Is it time for a DMX documentary, a true DMX. 1:13:51.439 --> 1:13:56.040 Movie, It's always time to witness greatness, But I feel 1:13:56.080 --> 1:13:59.040 that it just has to be me personally. I just 1:13:59.080 --> 1:14:04.040 wanted to be shot and directed like to the standard 1:14:04.160 --> 1:14:07.679 of what he gave us. He gave us timeless moments, 1:14:07.720 --> 1:14:11.920 he gave us, you know, his his life literally and 1:14:12.000 --> 1:14:13.920 so I feel that, you know, a lot of people 1:14:13.920 --> 1:14:17.679 have been pitching, uh documentaries and movies, but they don't 1:14:17.920 --> 1:14:20.640 you know, it needs to have the right care. And 1:14:21.000 --> 1:14:22.160 I wanted to be the biggest thing. 1:14:22.120 --> 1:14:22.800 In the world for him. 1:14:24.320 --> 1:14:26.320 Now, did you learn anything about your dad that you 1:14:26.400 --> 1:14:28.960 didn't know? No, after working on this series, taking these 1:14:29.000 --> 1:14:29.960 long road trips. 1:14:30.520 --> 1:14:36.439 A thousand percent, I learned that he he doesn't go 1:14:36.640 --> 1:14:39.920 as fast as you think. He would happen to look fast, 1:14:40.120 --> 1:14:43.360 very fast cars like he actually is pretty reserved now. 1:14:44.120 --> 1:14:47.719 And uh, he just he really picks what he wants 1:14:47.760 --> 1:14:49.760 to do. He picks how fast he wants to go, 1:14:49.840 --> 1:14:51.599 He picks if he wants to get in the monster truck, 1:14:51.680 --> 1:14:53.920 he picks if he wants to go drifting like he 1:14:54.120 --> 1:14:57.400 has that Uh, that situational discernment. 1:14:57.520 --> 1:15:00.400 Now, I feel like that's pretty much discernment. I liked that. 1:15:00.640 --> 1:15:02.320 I was going to ask you, with all the artists 1:15:02.360 --> 1:15:04.880 that your dad worked with, who did you enjoy listening 1:15:04.920 --> 1:15:05.920 to and talking to the most? 1:15:08.760 --> 1:15:11.160 I have too, because I haven't really, I haven't sat 1:15:11.360 --> 1:15:12.960 down with the first one. I'm about to tell you, 1:15:13.240 --> 1:15:16.600 like on a personal personal note, but Lil Wayne is 1:15:16.680 --> 1:15:21.680 definitely one of my favorite artists ever and not my 1:15:21.800 --> 1:15:23.040 dad has collab with as well. 1:15:25.000 --> 1:15:25.840 Hurrah for real. 1:15:26.520 --> 1:15:27.640 Yeah, I remember being a. 1:15:27.680 --> 1:15:30.040 Kid and like his energy just lit up the room 1:15:30.200 --> 1:15:34.040 and he he has such a great spirit I can 1:15:34.080 --> 1:15:36.280 feel and I remember that feeling till this day. 1:15:36.960 --> 1:15:37.080 Now. 1:15:37.160 --> 1:15:38.920 You know you said for real now that this is 1:15:39.120 --> 1:15:40.040 your dad's pressure. 1:15:40.800 --> 1:15:43.840 Now, Bust a couple of probably about a month ago, 1:15:44.160 --> 1:15:48.639 said he's doing an album where Pharrell, Timberland and Swiss 1:15:48.680 --> 1:15:50.240 Beats are the EPs. 1:15:50.960 --> 1:15:52.559 How how does that happen? 1:15:53.000 --> 1:15:53.160 You know? 1:15:53.280 --> 1:15:56.439 Buster is somebody that don't back down easy. You can't 1:15:56.479 --> 1:15:59.160 tell him no. And he signed us up for his 1:15:59.320 --> 1:16:03.920 project and we just said, okay, let's do it. And 1:16:04.040 --> 1:16:07.960 he came, He's like, you know you tam for real, 1:16:08.040 --> 1:16:12.120 y'all my producers for the project. I'm like, okay, no, 1:16:12.520 --> 1:16:17.400 the executive producers okay. And then I don't know, like 1:16:17.560 --> 1:16:20.760 somehow we actually all got into a space which is 1:16:20.800 --> 1:16:23.439 a photo of us on this boat, and I'm sitting here, 1:16:23.439 --> 1:16:26.240 I'm like, yo, he really manifested this, Like we didn't 1:16:26.240 --> 1:16:27.880 even plan to be on that boat at that time. 1:16:27.920 --> 1:16:31.759 It's not like, Okay, let's have an executive producer boat ride. 1:16:31.800 --> 1:16:33.360 Like we just all ended up. 1:16:33.880 --> 1:16:37.000 Sitting there and I'm looking around like, okay, I heard 1:16:37.000 --> 1:16:38.439 the universe. Okay, I guess we're doing it. 1:16:39.000 --> 1:16:40.280 Is it done? Is it almost done? 1:16:40.960 --> 1:16:44.400 It's done and it needs to come out now, you know, 1:16:44.479 --> 1:16:47.120 because buster a hole onto the album for thirty Summer ever. 1:16:48.000 --> 1:16:50.960 Right, but this might be a stupid question. 1:16:51.040 --> 1:16:54.320 He's named after nods, right, yeah, okay, yeah, it's nods, 1:16:54.360 --> 1:16:55.400 like if God bothers. 1:16:55.880 --> 1:16:59.960 Just no, my mom's from Queen. His mother's love Nods. 1:17:00.240 --> 1:17:00.360 You know. 1:17:00.640 --> 1:17:07.439 I was kind of conflicted in a way, but yeah, man, 1:17:08.040 --> 1:17:10.200 but then I was like, I love nas too. 1:17:13.320 --> 1:17:15.479 I was salute the Swiss beats in his son Nasia, 1:17:15.600 --> 1:17:17.320 and when we come back, we got more with Swiss beats. 1:17:17.320 --> 1:17:19.240 It don't move us to breakfast Lug, good Morning, the 1:17:19.439 --> 1:17:25.160 breakfast club. So kicking it with Swiss beats in Nacia Charlaman. 1:17:25.360 --> 1:17:27.600 You know, everybody always ask about versus man, what's up 1:17:27.640 --> 1:17:29.000 with versus big things? 1:17:29.120 --> 1:17:29.639 Big things? 1:17:30.640 --> 1:17:33.519 You know, I'm happy that me and Tim was able 1:17:33.640 --> 1:17:37.120 to take the time to understand our company because when 1:17:37.160 --> 1:17:39.519 we launched it, it was during the pandemic things that 1:17:39.600 --> 1:17:42.560 is happening, Like we never got no rest, you know, 1:17:42.760 --> 1:17:47.439 like we was helping everybody else feel better and have 1:17:47.640 --> 1:17:51.000 something to go to other than the negative news and 1:17:51.400 --> 1:17:53.479 energy at that time. But we didn't take time for 1:17:53.560 --> 1:17:57.880 ourself and so things went fast and we owned the 1:17:58.160 --> 1:18:02.040 We own the company one hundred percent, which is super fresh, 1:18:02.080 --> 1:18:03.439 and we got some big announcements coming. 1:18:04.280 --> 1:18:07.040 Yeah, I wonder if it's something I mean, I know 1:18:07.120 --> 1:18:09.200 it's something artists still want to do. But you know, 1:18:09.360 --> 1:18:11.479 during the pandemic, it was more pure because it was 1:18:11.600 --> 1:18:14.120 just about the music. Now it's so much business and 1:18:14.200 --> 1:18:15.240 red tapesolve. 1:18:15.400 --> 1:18:19.160 Yeah, and naturally when something gets big like that, that happens. 1:18:19.240 --> 1:18:22.840 But you know versus and I tell people because I 1:18:22.920 --> 1:18:26.000 had people on the shows, and when you bring up verses, 1:18:26.040 --> 1:18:28.600 they're like, oh, I don't want to. And it's not 1:18:28.720 --> 1:18:33.640 a battle show. It's a show where two artists celebrating 1:18:33.720 --> 1:18:37.280 each other with their hits. Now, if you want to 1:18:37.320 --> 1:18:39.400 make it a battle, I'm not going to say, hey, 1:18:40.120 --> 1:18:43.720 don't talk tough to this guy. Right you you make 1:18:43.760 --> 1:18:46.360 it a battle, or you can make it a love fest, 1:18:47.120 --> 1:18:49.160 you know, like There's been many verses that it has 1:18:49.200 --> 1:18:52.840 been smooth and loving, but with the hip hop is 1:18:52.920 --> 1:18:53.439 just the ego. 1:18:53.760 --> 1:18:54.920 You know how it's competitive. 1:18:55.120 --> 1:18:57.200 Bro, you put the locks and Dipset on stage. 1:18:57.640 --> 1:18:59.439 Yeah, that's what I'm saying, and everybody, I think a 1:18:59.479 --> 1:19:00.720 lot of people or a dipset was. 1:19:00.720 --> 1:19:03.840 Going to take that one away. I know many people 1:19:03.920 --> 1:19:05.960 thought that the dip set was going to and then 1:19:06.000 --> 1:19:09.680 it was Jada. Yeah, you got the right hat on. 1:19:11.160 --> 1:19:14.479 What was the biggest verses for you as far as culture? 1:19:14.479 --> 1:19:15.280 Would that be the biggest? 1:19:15.479 --> 1:19:15.639 Yeah? 1:19:16.400 --> 1:19:20.720 That and Gucci Man and Jez absolutely, yeah, those two 1:19:20.760 --> 1:19:23.479 because that's what verses do it. You know, it took 1:19:24.640 --> 1:19:27.519 two guys that really went to war to the point 1:19:27.560 --> 1:19:31.040 of no return, and Versus gave them an outlet to, 1:19:32.560 --> 1:19:34.920 you know, send a different message out there to the 1:19:35.000 --> 1:19:37.120 youth today because they're not who they. 1:19:37.200 --> 1:19:38.479 Was fifteen years ago. 1:19:38.560 --> 1:19:42.040 But there's no outlets that can let you as a man, 1:19:42.320 --> 1:19:45.280 as a you know, stand on how you feel and 1:19:45.479 --> 1:19:47.800 move past from it. And this is why you know, 1:19:48.200 --> 1:19:50.560 I couldn't if I stopped Versus today, I would be 1:19:50.600 --> 1:19:52.639 fine because we won already. 1:19:52.720 --> 1:19:56.320 Like it did what it needed to do, but it 1:19:56.439 --> 1:19:56.800 needs to. 1:19:56.880 --> 1:20:00.519 Do more because versus, the people's streams go up seven 1:20:00.600 --> 1:20:04.599 hundred percent. People sell out guitars. It's so we call 1:20:04.640 --> 1:20:07.960 it the versus effect. And the artists get so much 1:20:08.040 --> 1:20:10.760 from versus. And so all the artists out there who's 1:20:10.800 --> 1:20:14.160 listening to this, please stop trying to charge us more 1:20:14.240 --> 1:20:18.160 than you ever made on your show. You know, show 1:20:18.240 --> 1:20:20.280 us the love that you showed those other outlets that 1:20:20.400 --> 1:20:23.200 you don't get nothing from it, you know. And so 1:20:24.080 --> 1:20:26.040 that was the thing that was like the hardest thing 1:20:26.160 --> 1:20:29.960 was hearing the artists trying to overdo it for no reason. 1:20:30.080 --> 1:20:31.599 I got to ask because there there's been a lot 1:20:31.600 --> 1:20:34.599 of rumors about some verses that would well hopefully will 1:20:34.640 --> 1:20:35.240 still get done. 1:20:35.479 --> 1:20:36.400 You just say yes and no. 1:20:37.320 --> 1:20:38.320 I don't want to say yes and no. 1:20:38.439 --> 1:20:40.679 Didiot Jermaine dupri Is that gonna happen? He just said 1:20:40.680 --> 1:20:41.760 he don't want to see you. I know, but I'm 1:20:41.840 --> 1:20:42.400 asking anyway. 1:20:43.000 --> 1:20:46.200 But the reason see, because I'm not scared to answer 1:20:46.240 --> 1:20:49.240 the question. By the way, But what happens is this 1:20:49.360 --> 1:20:52.800 clip right here gets played back to me and it's like, yo, 1:20:53.080 --> 1:20:55.360 I didn't really want to confirm that yet, bye blah blah, 1:20:55.400 --> 1:20:58.680 and I have to deal with this offline and say, Yo, 1:20:58.800 --> 1:21:00.760 they asked me a question. Y'all went out there and 1:21:00.800 --> 1:21:03.080 did a promo run, and y'all went out there and said, 1:21:03.120 --> 1:21:04.759 y'all wanted to do it. All I did was confirm 1:21:04.840 --> 1:21:07.000 what I said. Okay, yeah, but that was a different time. 1:21:07.040 --> 1:21:11.040 But this is the Versus documentary has been. We've been 1:21:11.080 --> 1:21:15.040 shooting a documentary since the beginning the verses, so lean 1:21:15.120 --> 1:21:19.479 away is the directing. Y'all going to see all of 1:21:19.560 --> 1:21:21.439 this when I'm telling you, I take it. 1:21:22.520 --> 1:21:26.960 You can see Drive premiering on Hulu. Driver Swiss Beats 1:21:27.040 --> 1:21:29.280 tune all the way in. All six episodes will be 1:21:29.360 --> 1:21:32.519 dropping simultaneously, so you could binge watch the whole thing. 1:21:32.920 --> 1:21:36.040 This is absolutely but we appreciate you guys for joining us. 1:21:36.080 --> 1:21:37.920 Take some noise for Swiss Beats and not see it. 1:21:41.600 --> 1:21:43.839 I've never seen the audience like this is amazing. 1:21:44.120 --> 1:21:46.680 Nah. They do these nice little events from time to time. 1:21:47.240 --> 1:21:48.120 It's not little at. 1:21:48.000 --> 1:21:49.920 All, but I heard that doing some big things today. 1:21:50.000 --> 1:21:50.559 This is cool. 1:21:50.760 --> 1:21:53.200 Yeah, So this has a change for change when we 1:21:53.280 --> 1:21:55.639 give back to people, and what people did this time 1:21:55.800 --> 1:21:57.360 is they put a wish list of things that they 1:21:57.439 --> 1:22:01.120 needed for the holidays. And shout to Amazon. They provided 1:22:01.479 --> 1:22:03.680 their wish list for a lot of people. So like, 1:22:03.800 --> 1:22:05.720 even today, since you guys are here, I think we 1:22:05.760 --> 1:22:06.519 should do something special. 1:22:06.600 --> 1:22:07.200 Charlemagne, what you. 1:22:07.240 --> 1:22:10.360 Think, I'm all for it. Now for everybody that that's 1:22:10.400 --> 1:22:10.880 what we're here for. 1:22:11.240 --> 1:22:13.639 Yeah, Now for everybody who put in the wish list 1:22:13.680 --> 1:22:15.639 and came in and put your hands up one time 1:22:15.720 --> 1:22:18.519 and then you bought a person with you, right right, 1:22:19.120 --> 1:22:21.840 So for you guys today, we're gonna give everybody that 1:22:22.000 --> 1:22:24.000 signed up one thousand dollars. 1:22:24.640 --> 1:22:28.840 That's right, Hold up where you signed up? 1:22:28.880 --> 1:22:32.040 Back? Where do we do that? 1:22:32.880 --> 1:22:36.360 But not only that, people that you came, well, we're 1:22:36.360 --> 1:22:39.760 gonna give a thousand dollars too, that's right. Hey, hey see, 1:22:40.439 --> 1:22:43.439 one of y'all didn't want to come. He one of 1:22:43.520 --> 1:22:45.559 y'all had to get begged to come here. Now, look, 1:22:45.680 --> 1:22:47.559 this is the big money show. This is the big 1:22:47.720 --> 1:22:50.840 money show. So we appreciate you guys for coming. 1:22:50.920 --> 1:22:52.400 We got a lot of cool stuff for you as well, 1:22:52.439 --> 1:22:54.200 and just say thank you guys for rocking with us 1:22:54.200 --> 1:22:54.920 and riding with us. 1:22:55.200 --> 1:22:57.519 And thank you to Amazon man, thank you for Amazon. 1:22:57.600 --> 1:23:00.439 We really appreciate you guys. We couldn't do none of 1:23:00.479 --> 1:23:03.920 this without Amazon. But thank you very much so, ladies 1:23:03.920 --> 1:23:07.000 and gentlemen, NA says Swiss Beats. 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