1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:07,520 Speaker 1: This radio shows any other mainstreams media outlet. Breakfast Club, 2 00:00:07,880 --> 00:00:09,480 Speaker 1: take you go, take it. 3 00:00:09,600 --> 00:00:11,360 Speaker 2: I'm gonna get break. 4 00:00:11,240 --> 00:00:13,240 Speaker 3: The time you then will come here when it stay 5 00:00:13,880 --> 00:00:16,840 Speaker 3: DJ Nvy and Charlamagne the guy being here. 6 00:00:16,720 --> 00:00:18,080 Speaker 2: Next to all of you guys. 7 00:00:18,200 --> 00:00:20,479 Speaker 4: It's really it's one of my favorite shows to do, 8 00:00:20,840 --> 00:00:22,320 Speaker 4: just because you'll always. 9 00:00:22,000 --> 00:00:24,560 Speaker 1: Keeping one honey, y'all keep it real. But what better 10 00:00:24,600 --> 00:00:27,400 Speaker 1: place than than here? I think everybody should go on 11 00:00:27,480 --> 00:00:30,880 Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club and start out. You want to shake 12 00:00:30,920 --> 00:00:34,559 Speaker 1: it up for me? Is it your time to get 13 00:00:34,560 --> 00:00:36,000 Speaker 1: it off your chest? 14 00:00:35,440 --> 00:00:39,080 Speaker 5: Way up, whether you're mad or blast, time to get 15 00:00:39,200 --> 00:00:41,839 Speaker 5: up and get some Call him now eight hundred five 16 00:00:41,920 --> 00:00:43,080 Speaker 5: eighty five one oh five to one. 17 00:00:43,200 --> 00:00:46,160 Speaker 1: We want to hear from you on the Breakfast Club. Hello, 18 00:00:46,240 --> 00:00:48,440 Speaker 1: this this is actually. 19 00:00:48,320 --> 00:00:51,800 Speaker 3: Hey Ashley, good morning. Where you calling them from Columbus, Columbus? 20 00:00:51,800 --> 00:00:53,920 Speaker 3: Okay him, get it off your chest, mama. 21 00:00:54,040 --> 00:00:54,360 Speaker 5: Okay. 22 00:00:54,400 --> 00:00:56,840 Speaker 6: So I'm a stay at home mom, but I also 23 00:00:56,880 --> 00:00:58,840 Speaker 6: have my business on the site, and I just feel 24 00:00:58,840 --> 00:01:02,240 Speaker 6: like my husband is just so it's considerate half the 25 00:01:02,280 --> 00:01:04,080 Speaker 6: time that he doesn't understand. 26 00:01:03,920 --> 00:01:04,600 Speaker 7: What I really do. 27 00:01:05,480 --> 00:01:07,880 Speaker 8: You know, like in a lot of what that actually did? 28 00:01:08,000 --> 00:01:10,480 Speaker 3: You know, how you can fix that, Ashley, Ye go 29 00:01:10,560 --> 00:01:13,640 Speaker 3: away for a day watching them six kids. 30 00:01:13,920 --> 00:01:16,840 Speaker 6: When I go away for a day, my kids they 31 00:01:16,880 --> 00:01:17,240 Speaker 6: called me. 32 00:01:17,880 --> 00:01:18,759 Speaker 9: I was like, who's your dad. 33 00:01:18,800 --> 00:01:20,039 Speaker 7: They'll be like, oh, he's in the groove. 34 00:01:20,640 --> 00:01:20,840 Speaker 1: Now. 35 00:01:20,880 --> 00:01:23,120 Speaker 3: You turn off your phone for one day that and 36 00:01:23,240 --> 00:01:25,479 Speaker 3: let him have to deal with feeding them kids, washing 37 00:01:25,520 --> 00:01:27,360 Speaker 3: those kids, taking the kids out. 38 00:01:27,440 --> 00:01:31,360 Speaker 10: Why are you giving this bad but that's down. Turned 39 00:01:31,360 --> 00:01:32,840 Speaker 10: off her phone for one day, you'd have a fit, 40 00:01:33,400 --> 00:01:35,080 Speaker 10: But turn your phone. 41 00:01:35,120 --> 00:01:36,760 Speaker 1: Actually, he doesn't appreciate her. 42 00:01:36,840 --> 00:01:38,600 Speaker 3: So she's saying that she's a stay at home mom 43 00:01:38,800 --> 00:01:39,600 Speaker 3: and we've. 44 00:01:39,440 --> 00:01:40,760 Speaker 7: Been together since high school. 45 00:01:40,840 --> 00:01:42,440 Speaker 11: Like he's the only man I've ever been with. 46 00:01:42,560 --> 00:01:44,240 Speaker 6: Like I really give everything. 47 00:01:43,840 --> 00:01:49,000 Speaker 11: And all my time to everybody. Turn my kids, help your. 48 00:01:48,800 --> 00:01:50,360 Speaker 3: Flax and let him have to take care of the kids. 49 00:01:50,400 --> 00:01:52,240 Speaker 3: And I bet you when you come back, he'd be like, baby, 50 00:01:52,280 --> 00:01:54,480 Speaker 3: please don't leave. Baby, Baby, don't turn your phone off 51 00:01:54,480 --> 00:01:55,080 Speaker 3: for your husband. 52 00:01:55,080 --> 00:01:57,400 Speaker 10: Man, because the envy would have a fit if Ye 53 00:01:57,600 --> 00:01:59,960 Speaker 10: turned off the phone for him out. 54 00:02:00,120 --> 00:02:01,080 Speaker 1: But I was training my wife. 55 00:02:01,120 --> 00:02:02,840 Speaker 10: I know how hard it is if six kids, you 56 00:02:02,880 --> 00:02:04,600 Speaker 10: still would have a fit if she turned her phone 57 00:02:04,600 --> 00:02:06,720 Speaker 10: off for a day. Imagine calling your wife. Imagine how 58 00:02:06,720 --> 00:02:08,120 Speaker 10: many times we call our wife a day and we 59 00:02:08,160 --> 00:02:08,960 Speaker 10: can't get in touch with On. 60 00:02:09,000 --> 00:02:11,040 Speaker 5: The twenty five, he don't respect his wife, so he 61 00:02:11,160 --> 00:02:12,040 Speaker 5: cut it out respect. 62 00:02:12,320 --> 00:02:14,280 Speaker 12: I agree he did that, but she's speaking for her 63 00:02:14,720 --> 00:02:17,000 Speaker 12: and you're speaking for you. So you respect your wife, 64 00:02:17,040 --> 00:02:18,880 Speaker 12: but that doesn't speak to how she feel about what 65 00:02:18,919 --> 00:02:22,079 Speaker 12: you present them. So he could think he's respecting her 66 00:02:22,320 --> 00:02:23,600 Speaker 12: and she may not feel it. 67 00:02:23,760 --> 00:02:24,160 Speaker 1: That's true. 68 00:02:24,280 --> 00:02:27,040 Speaker 6: But I wished that too, because I do understand that 69 00:02:27,080 --> 00:02:29,400 Speaker 6: communication that's key, and I wished that. 70 00:02:29,440 --> 00:02:31,680 Speaker 9: And I'll be like, well, I just want this, so 71 00:02:31,800 --> 00:02:33,239 Speaker 9: I just want that, and I'll. 72 00:02:33,120 --> 00:02:36,079 Speaker 6: Be like, okay, like in the morning, don't wake me 73 00:02:36,160 --> 00:02:38,079 Speaker 6: up and be like, well, I want And I was 74 00:02:38,520 --> 00:02:40,840 Speaker 6: about six months old. I would like. 75 00:02:40,919 --> 00:02:42,280 Speaker 7: Tonight like I. 76 00:02:46,000 --> 00:02:48,840 Speaker 10: Respecting subjectives though I was gonna say that to respect 77 00:02:48,880 --> 00:02:49,520 Speaker 10: and subjective. 78 00:02:49,560 --> 00:02:52,480 Speaker 1: So I got to know what her definition of feeling disrespected. 79 00:02:52,919 --> 00:02:56,480 Speaker 1: She just told, you know what I'm saying, That's what 80 00:02:56,680 --> 00:02:57,760 Speaker 1: I'm like. 81 00:02:57,919 --> 00:03:02,400 Speaker 6: Especially I cantered away. I had five other orders besides 82 00:03:02,480 --> 00:03:05,600 Speaker 6: the wedding this weekend, and I was just exhausted up 83 00:03:05,639 --> 00:03:06,480 Speaker 6: every hour with the. 84 00:03:06,560 --> 00:03:09,200 Speaker 9: Baby, you know, and he's also on the weekends. 85 00:03:09,280 --> 00:03:10,959 Speaker 6: But he didn't get up and help me. But he 86 00:03:10,960 --> 00:03:12,320 Speaker 6: didn't want to try to wake me up. And then 87 00:03:12,360 --> 00:03:14,480 Speaker 6: but the attitude when I'm like, no, get out my face. 88 00:03:15,919 --> 00:03:17,200 Speaker 3: You might just have to wake him up at three 89 00:03:17,240 --> 00:03:18,639 Speaker 3: o'clock in the morning, sit on his face and be 90 00:03:18,680 --> 00:03:19,280 Speaker 3: like how does it feel? 91 00:03:19,320 --> 00:03:23,760 Speaker 1: Now? That's you might have to do that. Thank you. 92 00:03:24,639 --> 00:03:29,440 Speaker 10: That's not disrespect men, you know what I'm saying in 93 00:03:29,520 --> 00:03:32,840 Speaker 10: the morning, poor man, poor woman with the baby all night. 94 00:03:33,120 --> 00:03:35,480 Speaker 1: I get it, but that's not It might be inconsiderate, 95 00:03:35,560 --> 00:03:41,119 Speaker 1: but disrespect. There we go and considerate you love disrespectful 96 00:03:41,120 --> 00:03:44,240 Speaker 1: to go the other way right? Something right. So it's 97 00:03:44,320 --> 00:03:46,560 Speaker 1: like I'm bringing it to your radio bill, it's real 98 00:03:46,640 --> 00:03:49,640 Speaker 1: talking Hello, who's this good? 99 00:03:49,680 --> 00:03:49,840 Speaker 10: Good? 100 00:03:49,840 --> 00:03:50,960 Speaker 1: Good? Get it off your chest, mama. 101 00:03:52,160 --> 00:03:54,960 Speaker 7: I am really upset a lot of them this morning 102 00:03:55,240 --> 00:03:59,360 Speaker 7: because I had accidentally finding and when he changed. 103 00:03:59,200 --> 00:04:03,080 Speaker 13: Up a car never carried over rental. So now I'm 104 00:04:03,200 --> 00:04:07,080 Speaker 13: having to freaking like get up brother in the morning 105 00:04:07,080 --> 00:04:11,200 Speaker 13: and dropped my release and we can't have the trouble 106 00:04:11,280 --> 00:04:14,160 Speaker 13: all week because of his if he like he's just like. 107 00:04:14,480 --> 00:04:23,560 Speaker 3: Damn, feels like everybody this morning that we can't really 108 00:04:23,600 --> 00:04:25,200 Speaker 3: hear you because you're so upset that you're yelling. But 109 00:04:25,279 --> 00:04:27,000 Speaker 3: all like we can hear is that you're mad at 110 00:04:27,000 --> 00:04:29,240 Speaker 3: your husband something about a rental car. He didn't give 111 00:04:29,279 --> 00:04:30,320 Speaker 3: it back and now you have to do it and 112 00:04:30,320 --> 00:04:31,320 Speaker 3: you would to Wilid. 113 00:04:31,080 --> 00:04:31,719 Speaker 1: On his app. 114 00:04:33,120 --> 00:04:33,400 Speaker 5: Thank you. 115 00:04:34,440 --> 00:04:36,880 Speaker 7: No, yeah, no, I got into a car accident on Friday. 116 00:04:37,040 --> 00:04:39,640 Speaker 7: It was my fault because I was rushing. But like 117 00:04:39,960 --> 00:04:42,360 Speaker 7: when he turned over, like when we chased cards, he 118 00:04:42,480 --> 00:04:45,320 Speaker 7: never put friends, Like how do you have on the 119 00:04:45,400 --> 00:04:49,640 Speaker 7: insurance with I don't know? No one figure out how 120 00:04:49,680 --> 00:04:51,719 Speaker 7: to get to work back and forth and we weren't 121 00:04:51,720 --> 00:04:54,080 Speaker 7: opposite wait and opposite schedules. 122 00:04:54,200 --> 00:04:57,200 Speaker 1: Also he got he got the rental and you don't 123 00:04:57,279 --> 00:04:57,600 Speaker 1: have one. 124 00:04:58,000 --> 00:05:02,200 Speaker 7: You He never put rental when he changed over cards. 125 00:05:03,600 --> 00:05:07,200 Speaker 7: Don't you know when you get into an accident and 126 00:05:07,279 --> 00:05:08,920 Speaker 7: you have rental insurance. 127 00:05:08,960 --> 00:05:12,320 Speaker 1: Oh got you to the car, so you gotta pay 128 00:05:12,360 --> 00:05:12,680 Speaker 1: for the car. 129 00:05:14,480 --> 00:05:16,000 Speaker 5: Yeah, and it's like and. 130 00:05:16,040 --> 00:05:19,039 Speaker 7: It's like we gotta pay for like bathing cheap. 131 00:05:19,360 --> 00:05:22,000 Speaker 10: Well you should have got into accident, figured out, you know, 132 00:05:22,279 --> 00:05:23,600 Speaker 10: you shouldn't have gotten into an accident. 133 00:05:23,720 --> 00:05:24,680 Speaker 1: Man, it was your fault. 134 00:05:24,760 --> 00:05:27,680 Speaker 7: You said that, but you know what, Okay, yeah, it 135 00:05:27,800 --> 00:05:31,040 Speaker 7: was my fault. But however, this is why we have insurance. 136 00:05:31,080 --> 00:05:33,160 Speaker 7: This is why we put options on there? What if 137 00:05:33,200 --> 00:05:34,000 Speaker 7: somebody would have hit me? 138 00:05:34,600 --> 00:05:35,200 Speaker 1: It's not like all. 139 00:05:36,320 --> 00:05:37,920 Speaker 10: It sound like both of y'all blaming each other for 140 00:05:38,040 --> 00:05:40,320 Speaker 10: things that out of y'all control. And that's why I 141 00:05:40,360 --> 00:05:41,920 Speaker 10: mean they should have put you should have put insurance 142 00:05:41,960 --> 00:05:43,200 Speaker 10: on your car. When people do that because they be like, 143 00:05:43,200 --> 00:05:44,640 Speaker 10: I'm never gonna get an accent. Why I got paid 144 00:05:44,680 --> 00:05:47,000 Speaker 10: his extra? That's what insurance and then saying, way, you 145 00:05:47,000 --> 00:05:49,120 Speaker 10: shouldn't have got into an accident. He probably should have 146 00:05:49,160 --> 00:05:50,480 Speaker 10: had insurance. But it's no need for y'all to be 147 00:05:50,520 --> 00:05:51,440 Speaker 10: pointing the finger at each other. 148 00:05:51,600 --> 00:05:54,080 Speaker 7: I understand that. But like now, our kids have to 149 00:05:54,839 --> 00:05:57,080 Speaker 7: kids have to be yes to go and drop me 150 00:05:57,160 --> 00:05:57,600 Speaker 7: if that work. 151 00:05:57,640 --> 00:05:59,600 Speaker 10: That's not saying you gotta figure it out though, that's life, 152 00:05:59,640 --> 00:06:00,880 Speaker 10: you know what I'm saying, You got to figure out 153 00:06:00,880 --> 00:06:02,040 Speaker 10: how to pivot in sometimes in life. 154 00:06:02,160 --> 00:06:05,680 Speaker 3: So y'all arguing, now have a go with mama, get 155 00:06:05,720 --> 00:06:08,000 Speaker 3: it off your chest. Eight hundrenk five eight five one 156 00:06:08,040 --> 00:06:09,479 Speaker 3: oh five one. If you need to vent hit us 157 00:06:09,520 --> 00:06:12,760 Speaker 3: up now. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club, 158 00:06:16,680 --> 00:06:17,320 Speaker 3: right right. 159 00:06:17,320 --> 00:06:20,480 Speaker 1: Ray yo charloa man, yamfy, what up are we losing 160 00:06:20,760 --> 00:06:22,320 Speaker 1: this is your time to get it off your chest. 161 00:06:22,400 --> 00:06:25,480 Speaker 1: I got an indoor pool pool. We want to hear 162 00:06:25,480 --> 00:06:26,640 Speaker 1: from you on the breakfast club. 163 00:06:26,839 --> 00:06:28,600 Speaker 5: Get on the phone right now, He'll tell you what 164 00:06:28,720 --> 00:06:28,920 Speaker 5: it is. 165 00:06:29,400 --> 00:06:29,839 Speaker 14: We lie. 166 00:06:30,880 --> 00:06:31,520 Speaker 1: Hello, who's this? 167 00:06:32,200 --> 00:06:32,360 Speaker 15: Oh? 168 00:06:32,600 --> 00:06:34,120 Speaker 1: This is a game's up. 169 00:06:36,480 --> 00:06:40,560 Speaker 16: I'm just pad at the older generation expecting that the 170 00:06:40,680 --> 00:06:44,000 Speaker 16: younger generation should have retire the same age as because 171 00:06:44,000 --> 00:06:46,280 Speaker 16: I'm at work and I see these guys, you know, 172 00:06:46,760 --> 00:06:50,920 Speaker 16: six something years years old working and they old. 173 00:06:51,080 --> 00:06:51,279 Speaker 1: Man. 174 00:06:51,400 --> 00:06:54,320 Speaker 16: I'm just like, man, I can't be that old when 175 00:06:54,360 --> 00:06:54,960 Speaker 16: I retired. 176 00:06:55,279 --> 00:06:56,760 Speaker 10: Well you know what they say, Well, somebody told me 177 00:06:56,800 --> 00:06:59,160 Speaker 10: back in the day, retirement is not an age, it's 178 00:06:59,240 --> 00:07:01,880 Speaker 10: an income. I don't even know if I believe that anymore, 179 00:07:01,880 --> 00:07:03,920 Speaker 10: because there's people I know that make mad money, but 180 00:07:04,000 --> 00:07:04,960 Speaker 10: they just love what they do. 181 00:07:05,200 --> 00:07:06,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, a lot of people love to work, and then 182 00:07:07,000 --> 00:07:10,160 Speaker 3: a lot of people, you know, honestly don't know how 183 00:07:10,240 --> 00:07:12,240 Speaker 3: to prepare for the future. You also got to think, 184 00:07:12,280 --> 00:07:14,720 Speaker 3: you know, this is the generation where we're starting to 185 00:07:14,800 --> 00:07:17,600 Speaker 3: learn more about financial freedom. So a lot of times, 186 00:07:17,920 --> 00:07:20,240 Speaker 3: you know that the generation before us didn't actually know 187 00:07:20,440 --> 00:07:22,760 Speaker 3: how to retire, didn't know how to save so they 188 00:07:22,800 --> 00:07:23,400 Speaker 3: can retire. 189 00:07:23,520 --> 00:07:25,240 Speaker 1: So some people still have to work. 190 00:07:25,280 --> 00:07:27,360 Speaker 3: That's why when you see sometimes when you go into 191 00:07:27,360 --> 00:07:29,120 Speaker 3: those supermarkets and you go to those places and you 192 00:07:29,160 --> 00:07:31,040 Speaker 3: see an older person working, you got to give them 193 00:07:31,080 --> 00:07:34,000 Speaker 3: patience and help them out because sometimes they're there because 194 00:07:34,040 --> 00:07:35,280 Speaker 3: they have to and they're just trying to, you know, 195 00:07:35,360 --> 00:07:36,440 Speaker 3: get by like everybody else. 196 00:07:36,720 --> 00:07:38,520 Speaker 10: Yeah, and you know what they say when when you 197 00:07:38,600 --> 00:07:41,320 Speaker 10: stop moving, you know, you start to die. Yeah, some 198 00:07:41,360 --> 00:07:43,320 Speaker 10: people don't want to keep some people want to keep moving. 199 00:07:43,680 --> 00:07:45,760 Speaker 16: I guess that's maybe the professional I'm in right I'm 200 00:07:45,840 --> 00:07:49,800 Speaker 16: an electrician. I'm in a trade out of Vegas right now. 201 00:07:50,720 --> 00:07:53,840 Speaker 16: And I mean these guys just don't want to retire. 202 00:07:54,480 --> 00:07:56,360 Speaker 16: They feel like if they retire, they're gonna die. 203 00:07:56,840 --> 00:07:58,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean that could be a chance. 204 00:07:58,800 --> 00:08:00,720 Speaker 3: And I'll be honest, I'd rather the mess with the 205 00:08:00,800 --> 00:08:04,240 Speaker 3: older electrician or older mechanic or older doctor because a 206 00:08:04,280 --> 00:08:06,400 Speaker 3: lot of times they didn't see everything, they didn't been 207 00:08:06,440 --> 00:08:06,680 Speaker 3: through it. 208 00:08:06,760 --> 00:08:09,440 Speaker 1: You know, Like that about your president, you feel like, 209 00:08:11,400 --> 00:08:11,760 Speaker 1: I feel like. 210 00:08:11,760 --> 00:08:14,640 Speaker 16: This should be an age president, just like they got time. 211 00:08:15,400 --> 00:08:15,920 Speaker 15: You had me. 212 00:08:18,040 --> 00:08:19,960 Speaker 1: Y'all want y'all want everything else. 213 00:08:20,040 --> 00:08:23,000 Speaker 10: Age. You want your cognact age, your electrician age. But 214 00:08:23,080 --> 00:08:24,640 Speaker 10: when it comes to your president. You don't want your 215 00:08:24,680 --> 00:08:25,200 Speaker 10: own president. 216 00:08:25,240 --> 00:08:27,840 Speaker 3: You using a mechanic or electrician like they've been through 217 00:08:27,960 --> 00:08:30,080 Speaker 3: everything to see what works and what doesn't work. And 218 00:08:30,080 --> 00:08:33,280 Speaker 3: a lot of this new generation they rely on AI 219 00:08:33,600 --> 00:08:36,000 Speaker 3: or computers to see what's wrong I rather than tell me. 220 00:08:36,080 --> 00:08:39,560 Speaker 1: But for president, he keeps falling. Your president definitely keeps falling. 221 00:08:39,600 --> 00:08:42,000 Speaker 1: Tell you the president need a care Give Hello, who's 222 00:08:42,040 --> 00:08:44,760 Speaker 1: this morning? I can hear you. Now, come on and mama, 223 00:08:44,800 --> 00:08:45,520 Speaker 1: get it off your chest. 224 00:08:48,840 --> 00:08:49,080 Speaker 17: Drive. 225 00:08:54,320 --> 00:08:55,960 Speaker 1: I'm a post the picture. That's right. Yeah, I ran 226 00:08:56,000 --> 00:08:58,560 Speaker 1: into you at the airport. We were heading into Aruba, 227 00:08:58,679 --> 00:09:01,679 Speaker 1: right right? How you doing man? You're being safe out there? 228 00:09:01,720 --> 00:09:03,080 Speaker 1: This is our bus driver from the Bronx. 229 00:09:03,679 --> 00:09:05,319 Speaker 13: Yeah, I'm doing this. 230 00:09:05,440 --> 00:09:06,600 Speaker 18: School does say good morning. 231 00:09:07,280 --> 00:09:08,280 Speaker 1: You just called this SA good morning? 232 00:09:08,360 --> 00:09:08,480 Speaker 15: Right? 233 00:09:08,520 --> 00:09:13,200 Speaker 11: You be saying every day is something different in the Bronx. 234 00:09:13,160 --> 00:09:15,079 Speaker 19: Especially in the Bronx. 235 00:09:16,559 --> 00:09:18,360 Speaker 1: The Bronx will be safe out there morning. 236 00:09:21,160 --> 00:09:21,319 Speaker 15: Yeah. 237 00:09:21,360 --> 00:09:23,240 Speaker 1: But then you be the same person screaming BX at 238 00:09:23,240 --> 00:09:26,280 Speaker 1: the show. No I don't. 239 00:09:28,320 --> 00:09:34,000 Speaker 6: I'm duck when it's X, and they say I'm like yes, yes, 240 00:09:36,160 --> 00:09:37,200 Speaker 6: but get it off your chest. 241 00:09:37,280 --> 00:09:39,360 Speaker 1: Eight hundred and five eight five one oh five one. 242 00:09:39,440 --> 00:09:40,920 Speaker 1: If you need to vent hit us up now, it's 243 00:09:40,920 --> 00:09:44,079 Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club. 244 00:09:47,240 --> 00:09:50,280 Speaker 3: Longas State. You know there was a shooting there recently. Yes, uh, 245 00:09:50,440 --> 00:09:52,640 Speaker 3: you guys have canceled the homecoming and there was a 246 00:09:52,720 --> 00:09:54,920 Speaker 3: lot going on. So have you reached back out to 247 00:09:54,960 --> 00:09:55,319 Speaker 3: the school. 248 00:09:55,360 --> 00:09:55,880 Speaker 1: How how is. 249 00:09:55,840 --> 00:09:57,760 Speaker 3: Everything happening now? Because I know you're you're big when 250 00:09:57,800 --> 00:09:59,760 Speaker 3: it comes to giving back to that school. 251 00:09:59,800 --> 00:10:03,040 Speaker 5: So I was supposed to actually host our homecoming gala, 252 00:10:03,120 --> 00:10:05,440 Speaker 5: which is the biggest fundraiser of the year. Our host 253 00:10:05,520 --> 00:10:08,719 Speaker 5: the gaily Year's shirt you know, tuxedo out, and that 254 00:10:08,920 --> 00:10:13,440 Speaker 5: got postponed to December the eighth. The official homecoming got canceled, 255 00:10:14,080 --> 00:10:18,280 Speaker 5: but Black people homecoming went on as planning. Oh they 256 00:10:18,320 --> 00:10:21,160 Speaker 5: were still party. They called it because the homecoming got canceled. 257 00:10:21,240 --> 00:10:24,640 Speaker 5: Brunch because the homegum got canceled. Day party because the 258 00:10:24,720 --> 00:10:27,000 Speaker 5: home So we you know, you have thousands of people 259 00:10:27,040 --> 00:10:29,000 Speaker 5: who were looking forward to this weekend. So they came 260 00:10:29,080 --> 00:10:32,320 Speaker 5: down and had a great time and showed solidarity after 261 00:10:32,400 --> 00:10:32,880 Speaker 5: the shooting. 262 00:10:32,960 --> 00:10:35,320 Speaker 1: You had mothers. There was a group of mothers who 263 00:10:35,440 --> 00:10:36,520 Speaker 1: got together. 264 00:10:36,480 --> 00:10:39,959 Speaker 5: Who didn't have kids in school, who came up just 265 00:10:40,040 --> 00:10:43,080 Speaker 5: to show support for kids who were far away from home. 266 00:10:43,120 --> 00:10:45,720 Speaker 5: Who needed a mom, If you need a hug, if 267 00:10:45,720 --> 00:10:48,520 Speaker 5: you need to ask a mom question real quick, we're 268 00:10:48,520 --> 00:10:52,040 Speaker 5: standing right here. And so while the tragedy happened, and 269 00:10:52,280 --> 00:10:54,719 Speaker 5: you know, our prayers are with those students and their 270 00:10:54,840 --> 00:10:59,960 Speaker 5: families and everybody affected, there's also this gigantic push of solidarity, 271 00:11:00,120 --> 00:11:04,120 Speaker 5: this gigantic push of unity. This is a new Morgan state, 272 00:11:04,160 --> 00:11:06,839 Speaker 5: and we're gonna stand together to shake off some of 273 00:11:06,920 --> 00:11:11,240 Speaker 5: the old reputation and move in a new positive way. 274 00:11:11,840 --> 00:11:14,520 Speaker 5: When things like this pop up, it throws a monkey 275 00:11:14,640 --> 00:11:17,079 Speaker 5: rich into the we're a new Morgan thing. So we 276 00:11:17,200 --> 00:11:18,559 Speaker 5: came out even stronger. 277 00:11:19,040 --> 00:11:21,839 Speaker 1: That's why I've been I've been orange and blue since 278 00:11:22,000 --> 00:11:22,480 Speaker 1: that day. 279 00:11:22,600 --> 00:11:24,440 Speaker 5: You know, my kids are walking around with the hats 280 00:11:24,440 --> 00:11:26,800 Speaker 5: and everything else, and I'm screaming it out as much 281 00:11:26,840 --> 00:11:30,480 Speaker 5: as I possibly can. These institutions. You know, I don't 282 00:11:30,520 --> 00:11:32,040 Speaker 5: have to come on here and appreciate to you what 283 00:11:32,120 --> 00:11:36,040 Speaker 5: an hby means for our community. So you know, at 284 00:11:36,120 --> 00:11:38,160 Speaker 5: this time in my life, I'm happy to be able 285 00:11:38,240 --> 00:11:39,960 Speaker 5: to be there for my school. 286 00:11:40,120 --> 00:11:40,920 Speaker 1: Whatever they need. 287 00:11:41,120 --> 00:11:43,520 Speaker 5: They call me for anything, if the students need anything, 288 00:11:43,600 --> 00:11:46,120 Speaker 5: my frat brothers need anything, they hit me up and like, 289 00:11:46,600 --> 00:11:47,800 Speaker 5: let's go do X, Y and Z. 290 00:11:47,920 --> 00:11:49,360 Speaker 1: Do you think they should have canceled on coming. 291 00:11:49,559 --> 00:11:52,040 Speaker 5: I think it was a good call by doctor Wilson 292 00:11:52,080 --> 00:11:56,080 Speaker 5: is an incredible leader for that school. And let's imagine 293 00:11:56,080 --> 00:11:59,439 Speaker 5: if he didn't cancer this black Mama ain't canceled, it's 294 00:11:59,440 --> 00:12:02,400 Speaker 5: a tragedy. So he did the smart thing, he did 295 00:12:02,440 --> 00:12:06,959 Speaker 5: the thing that someone in academia should do. Let's cancel this. 296 00:12:07,440 --> 00:12:10,120 Speaker 5: Everybody else though, we went and partied and everybody had 297 00:12:10,120 --> 00:12:10,640 Speaker 5: a great time. 298 00:12:11,120 --> 00:12:15,240 Speaker 1: All the events around homecomings. Yeah, none of that. You ain't. 299 00:12:15,480 --> 00:12:16,960 Speaker 1: You ain't canceling rare essence. 300 00:12:17,559 --> 00:12:20,120 Speaker 5: You ain't canceling the go go because you know, you're 301 00:12:20,160 --> 00:12:21,800 Speaker 5: not even supposed to have a go go in Baltimore 302 00:12:21,840 --> 00:12:24,000 Speaker 5: in the first place. So the fact that you got 303 00:12:24,120 --> 00:12:26,720 Speaker 5: a go go in Baltimore or we coming, and you're 304 00:12:26,760 --> 00:12:30,720 Speaker 5: not canceling that you can't Baltimore. It's too old Baltimore. 305 00:12:31,360 --> 00:12:33,880 Speaker 5: Most of the country doesn't really doesn't know that. There 306 00:12:34,080 --> 00:12:38,880 Speaker 5: is a unspoken rivalry between the African American community and 307 00:12:39,000 --> 00:12:41,720 Speaker 5: Baltimore and the African American community in DC. 308 00:12:42,280 --> 00:12:45,760 Speaker 1: They got their own language. They and so we have too. 309 00:12:46,040 --> 00:12:49,000 Speaker 5: We grew up with two different Like you said, culches, 310 00:12:49,400 --> 00:12:54,679 Speaker 5: different accents, music, food, we did, way we dress and 311 00:12:54,760 --> 00:12:55,800 Speaker 5: the and the like. 312 00:12:56,360 --> 00:12:59,439 Speaker 1: So when I got to Baltimore, there was no go go. 313 00:12:59,760 --> 00:13:02,520 Speaker 5: But so ever you did not don't even don't even 314 00:13:02,559 --> 00:13:05,800 Speaker 5: bring that up in Baltimore now because of I think, 315 00:13:05,880 --> 00:13:08,160 Speaker 5: because of the twenty thirty is that DC has been 316 00:13:08,240 --> 00:13:11,400 Speaker 5: heavy going to Morgan State making alliances in the city. 317 00:13:11,440 --> 00:13:12,959 Speaker 5: My wife is from the west side. First, let me 318 00:13:13,040 --> 00:13:15,080 Speaker 5: say that my wife is from the West side of Baltimore. 319 00:13:15,679 --> 00:13:19,080 Speaker 5: And when I married a Baltimore woman, the DC women. 320 00:13:18,880 --> 00:13:24,080 Speaker 1: Like, hold on, ah, y'all, no, that's not what we're doing. 321 00:13:24,200 --> 00:13:28,360 Speaker 1: I was like, Oh, that's what we do. You ain't. 322 00:13:31,000 --> 00:13:35,360 Speaker 1: You don't sleep with her, you haven't had some of 323 00:13:35,440 --> 00:13:37,520 Speaker 1: that that old bait that she served. 324 00:13:38,120 --> 00:13:43,120 Speaker 5: She's got a crab boy for your ass that you 325 00:13:44,160 --> 00:13:47,040 Speaker 5: you don't know nothing about. And so I think that 326 00:13:47,120 --> 00:13:50,240 Speaker 5: there's slowly, but surely there's there's an alliance that has 327 00:13:50,320 --> 00:13:53,599 Speaker 5: been coming between Baltimore and DC. At least the the 328 00:13:54,120 --> 00:13:56,160 Speaker 5: hard line has been softened. I won't say that is 329 00:13:56,160 --> 00:13:58,199 Speaker 5: an alliance, but the hard line has been softened. But 330 00:13:58,360 --> 00:14:02,199 Speaker 5: you never hear about this rivalry that we had that 331 00:14:02,320 --> 00:14:04,559 Speaker 5: goes on. I think it's the stupidest thing ever. I 332 00:14:04,679 --> 00:14:09,040 Speaker 5: think that the two communities, African American communities in those 333 00:14:09,160 --> 00:14:11,520 Speaker 5: major cities. D C's a major city, Baltimore is a 334 00:14:11,559 --> 00:14:12,040 Speaker 5: major city. 335 00:14:12,080 --> 00:14:13,079 Speaker 1: I think we need to come. 336 00:14:13,280 --> 00:14:15,640 Speaker 10: Yeah, anything that brings you all together, I would think, 337 00:14:15,760 --> 00:14:19,080 Speaker 10: like comedy, right, because I think your comedy underrated comedy 338 00:14:19,160 --> 00:14:21,960 Speaker 10: is an underrated comedy scene in Baltimore, DC. 339 00:14:22,480 --> 00:14:26,880 Speaker 5: You got Dave, you got Donall so here quick, just hilarious. 340 00:14:26,960 --> 00:14:29,720 Speaker 5: So here's how we feel about that. The same applies. 341 00:14:30,120 --> 00:14:33,000 Speaker 5: So it's like this growing up. Anything coming out of Baltimore, 342 00:14:33,000 --> 00:14:36,320 Speaker 5: you just automatically x and if you in Baltimore, anything 343 00:14:36,400 --> 00:14:38,560 Speaker 5: coming out of DC, you just automatically x NA. 344 00:14:39,280 --> 00:14:42,680 Speaker 1: You don't know them. I learned that from my my 345 00:14:42,840 --> 00:14:43,760 Speaker 1: Baltimore gooons. 346 00:14:44,160 --> 00:14:47,200 Speaker 5: What's up with y'all? I ain't saying no name, what's 347 00:14:47,280 --> 00:14:49,600 Speaker 5: up a y'all? But I know some straight goods, and 348 00:14:49,920 --> 00:14:52,080 Speaker 5: you know Baltimore. You know, the wire was real. 349 00:14:54,280 --> 00:14:55,920 Speaker 1: Let's let's let's keep let's keep it the buck. The 350 00:14:56,040 --> 00:15:01,680 Speaker 1: wire was real, and the climate in Baltimore, it's it's serious, 351 00:15:02,080 --> 00:15:03,400 Speaker 1: it's very very serious. 352 00:15:03,520 --> 00:15:06,960 Speaker 5: So it's gonna take thirty forty years for that alliance 353 00:15:07,040 --> 00:15:07,600 Speaker 5: to pop off. 354 00:15:08,800 --> 00:15:11,400 Speaker 1: It was talking about black folks who are setting their ways. 355 00:15:11,560 --> 00:15:14,400 Speaker 5: Black folks are very very slow to change, and unless 356 00:15:14,480 --> 00:15:18,600 Speaker 5: you have a reason to change, a very straightforward reason 357 00:15:18,680 --> 00:15:21,480 Speaker 5: to change, ain't ain't gonna be that much change when 358 00:15:21,480 --> 00:15:23,360 Speaker 5: we come back with Kicking It with Joe Claire, so 359 00:15:23,440 --> 00:15:23,840 Speaker 5: don't move. 360 00:15:23,920 --> 00:15:29,800 Speaker 1: It's the Breakfast Club, Good Morning, the Breakfast Club, wanting 361 00:15:29,840 --> 00:15:31,720 Speaker 1: everybody's DJ n V. 362 00:15:31,920 --> 00:15:34,480 Speaker 3: Charlomagne the guy we are the Breakfast Club, but kicking 363 00:15:34,520 --> 00:15:37,080 Speaker 3: it with Joe Clair, of course from Rap City Charlomagne. 364 00:15:37,320 --> 00:15:39,880 Speaker 10: Another thing too, I was watching the doc Man, I've 365 00:15:39,960 --> 00:15:42,000 Speaker 10: always loved the interview you did with Big. 366 00:15:42,320 --> 00:15:45,760 Speaker 1: That's that's the iconic in the Biggie and I knew 367 00:15:45,800 --> 00:15:47,920 Speaker 1: that was Big. I couldn't. I knew that was Big 368 00:15:48,120 --> 00:15:50,800 Speaker 1: last interview. It was his last television interview. I think 369 00:15:51,000 --> 00:15:52,560 Speaker 1: I think I think swave might have been his last 370 00:15:52,600 --> 00:15:54,520 Speaker 1: radio and he was going, he went to the radio. 371 00:15:54,880 --> 00:15:57,280 Speaker 1: Now did y'all shoot that in La? Shot it in La. 372 00:15:57,440 --> 00:15:58,960 Speaker 1: That's what we was laying like in the park, right 373 00:15:59,560 --> 00:16:02,120 Speaker 1: we sit in So we really were on a sound. 374 00:16:01,960 --> 00:16:05,920 Speaker 5: Stage and they were shooting the hypnotized video. The dance 375 00:16:05,960 --> 00:16:09,480 Speaker 5: scenes were going on in there. So they took a break. 376 00:16:09,360 --> 00:16:13,080 Speaker 1: From that, sat us outside and that's how that interview 377 00:16:13,120 --> 00:16:13,640 Speaker 1: popped off. 378 00:16:14,000 --> 00:16:16,640 Speaker 10: Always wondered, were you concerned for your safety shooting out 379 00:16:16,680 --> 00:16:17,920 Speaker 10: in LA at the time, because it was all the 380 00:16:17,920 --> 00:16:19,360 Speaker 10: East Coast West Coast beef and all of that. 381 00:16:19,960 --> 00:16:23,520 Speaker 5: I'm concerned for my safety every day, so my head 382 00:16:23,600 --> 00:16:25,480 Speaker 5: is always on a swivel. So I didn't feel any 383 00:16:25,560 --> 00:16:28,200 Speaker 5: more concern than I normally feel when I go to La. 384 00:16:28,720 --> 00:16:30,920 Speaker 1: I just know, like doing Rap City. 385 00:16:31,440 --> 00:16:33,000 Speaker 5: The thing that I knew was when you go to 386 00:16:33,120 --> 00:16:35,800 Speaker 5: somebody hood, when you go to a city, you abide 387 00:16:35,840 --> 00:16:36,400 Speaker 5: by they rules. 388 00:16:36,480 --> 00:16:38,840 Speaker 1: You shut your mouth, don't start no shit, won't be 389 00:16:38,960 --> 00:16:39,320 Speaker 1: no sea. 390 00:16:39,640 --> 00:16:42,080 Speaker 5: So nah, I didn't have any extra concerns for my 391 00:16:42,160 --> 00:16:45,280 Speaker 5: safety that day. We had plenty of security ANIMI civilian. 392 00:16:45,600 --> 00:16:46,000 Speaker 20: Yeah. 393 00:16:46,160 --> 00:16:47,680 Speaker 5: Then I sit and I do the interview. It's a 394 00:16:47,720 --> 00:16:50,720 Speaker 5: great day season Junior Mafia right behind us. The dancing 395 00:16:50,800 --> 00:16:53,000 Speaker 5: girls are over there. Of course, then Big City. You 396 00:16:53,000 --> 00:16:56,680 Speaker 5: want to smoke something, day just got better. I'm not 397 00:16:56,800 --> 00:16:57,320 Speaker 5: a smoker, but. 398 00:16:57,280 --> 00:16:59,160 Speaker 1: If you're gonna smoke with somebody, you're gonna smoke with 399 00:16:59,480 --> 00:16:59,960 Speaker 1: biggie smoke. 400 00:17:00,600 --> 00:17:02,440 Speaker 5: So I had to catch a red eye that night 401 00:17:02,560 --> 00:17:06,320 Speaker 5: because I was going out on the Deaf Comedy Jam tour. 402 00:17:06,480 --> 00:17:09,040 Speaker 5: This was the first night, so I had to fly 403 00:17:09,240 --> 00:17:12,800 Speaker 5: home Wednesday after getting the interview, pack my bags, get 404 00:17:12,880 --> 00:17:14,960 Speaker 5: on the tour buses coming from Kid and pre Little 405 00:17:15,040 --> 00:17:17,280 Speaker 5: Jersey coming down to DC, pick me up, and then we. 406 00:17:17,359 --> 00:17:19,119 Speaker 1: Drive to Dallas. We do the show in Dallas. The 407 00:17:19,119 --> 00:17:21,040 Speaker 1: next night we go to Houston. Do the show in Houston. 408 00:17:21,720 --> 00:17:24,480 Speaker 1: Had a ball and three thirty four o'clock in the morning, 409 00:17:24,720 --> 00:17:28,320 Speaker 1: Kid called my phone, like, Yo, they say, biggie guy's shot. 410 00:17:28,920 --> 00:17:30,320 Speaker 5: You know, it's four o'clock in the morning. You've been 411 00:17:30,400 --> 00:17:33,359 Speaker 5: out drinking, like whatever, you know, it's just some more 412 00:17:33,440 --> 00:17:35,800 Speaker 5: hip hop here say book. Then my girlfriend at the 413 00:17:35,840 --> 00:17:36,359 Speaker 5: time called me. 414 00:17:36,480 --> 00:17:38,760 Speaker 1: She was like, they say, biggie guys shot. Let me 415 00:17:39,200 --> 00:17:41,600 Speaker 1: turn on Headline News, y'all member Headline News. 416 00:17:41,760 --> 00:17:44,920 Speaker 5: Then every half hour first story rapper Christopher Wallace has 417 00:17:45,359 --> 00:17:45,920 Speaker 5: gunned down. 418 00:17:46,520 --> 00:17:48,680 Speaker 1: At this point, the interview wasn't out. Interview's not out. 419 00:17:48,800 --> 00:17:52,680 Speaker 5: I just was this is Sunday morning. I just was 420 00:17:52,800 --> 00:17:56,600 Speaker 5: dead Wednesday. This is Sunday morning at six in the morning, 421 00:17:57,040 --> 00:17:59,440 Speaker 5: So nah, no interview out. They ain't get time to try. 422 00:17:59,480 --> 00:18:03,000 Speaker 5: They still a party and just those next couple of 423 00:18:03,480 --> 00:18:06,080 Speaker 5: weeks when I got to reflect on it, I realized 424 00:18:06,119 --> 00:18:09,960 Speaker 5: I was just numb because Tupac had just died and 425 00:18:10,080 --> 00:18:11,400 Speaker 5: now Biggie got killed. 426 00:18:11,480 --> 00:18:14,120 Speaker 1: I was like, we cannot be that dumb? 427 00:18:14,560 --> 00:18:14,840 Speaker 20: Are we? 428 00:18:15,400 --> 00:18:18,159 Speaker 1: Black folks were really not that stupid? Are we? Is 429 00:18:18,240 --> 00:18:22,440 Speaker 1: this who we are? Tim and Sean that unfortunately it's sad. 430 00:18:22,600 --> 00:18:22,760 Speaker 2: It was. 431 00:18:22,920 --> 00:18:25,200 Speaker 1: It was one of those times Charlemagne and Envy where 432 00:18:25,280 --> 00:18:27,439 Speaker 1: I really just I'm very us. 433 00:18:27,840 --> 00:18:30,440 Speaker 5: I was like, man, I man a lot of that, 434 00:18:30,640 --> 00:18:33,200 Speaker 5: so a lot of the like hanging out and I 435 00:18:33,320 --> 00:18:36,920 Speaker 5: just did not want to do like because I don't 436 00:18:36,960 --> 00:18:39,520 Speaker 5: know what you on. And then and I watched cats, 437 00:18:39,600 --> 00:18:42,520 Speaker 5: I knew some of the most righteous dudes. Next thing 438 00:18:42,600 --> 00:18:45,440 Speaker 5: I know, he he come with the chain and he 439 00:18:45,520 --> 00:18:49,280 Speaker 5: gotta get his swaged together. You you, you've been made 440 00:18:49,359 --> 00:18:52,080 Speaker 5: since you was nineteen years and ten years old. 441 00:18:52,160 --> 00:18:52,720 Speaker 1: You've been made. 442 00:18:52,960 --> 00:18:54,800 Speaker 5: You've been a man. I know your family, I know 443 00:18:54,880 --> 00:18:57,560 Speaker 5: what you staying on you switching up because you think 444 00:18:57,640 --> 00:19:00,920 Speaker 5: this is what the coach a dog man and has 445 00:19:01,200 --> 00:19:02,600 Speaker 5: colored how I see us. 446 00:19:02,960 --> 00:19:05,080 Speaker 1: Since then, nothing has changed your mind about us. 447 00:19:05,560 --> 00:19:08,000 Speaker 5: I mean remember, leading up to that, I sat in 448 00:19:08,040 --> 00:19:10,960 Speaker 5: the middle of the East coast West coast thing. Every week, 449 00:19:11,240 --> 00:19:13,879 Speaker 5: every day, every rapper's got something to say about the 450 00:19:14,160 --> 00:19:14,720 Speaker 5: other coast. 451 00:19:15,080 --> 00:19:17,840 Speaker 1: That what made you start saying East Coast, West Coast worldwide. 452 00:19:18,000 --> 00:19:19,520 Speaker 1: I took it straight from the Lost Boys. 453 00:19:19,760 --> 00:19:21,960 Speaker 5: Yes, we really need to we really need to do 454 00:19:22,080 --> 00:19:24,480 Speaker 5: this big shout out to Mac ten and Fat Joe 455 00:19:24,560 --> 00:19:26,639 Speaker 5: because I don't know if you guys remember they did 456 00:19:26,720 --> 00:19:29,800 Speaker 5: a movie Thinking and Water Up something like that. And 457 00:19:29,880 --> 00:19:32,800 Speaker 5: then and Fat Joe realized and Fat Joe used to 458 00:19:32,840 --> 00:19:35,240 Speaker 5: be coming up to this show like man that I'm 459 00:19:35,359 --> 00:19:37,680 Speaker 5: keeping the flame going on this East Coast West Coast. 460 00:19:38,000 --> 00:19:41,160 Speaker 1: After that, I see Joe and he's like, now they cool. 461 00:19:41,600 --> 00:19:43,679 Speaker 1: And then as you used to see mac ten and mactin. 462 00:19:43,480 --> 00:19:45,960 Speaker 5: Like nah, they cool, They're super cool. And then you 463 00:19:46,080 --> 00:19:49,440 Speaker 5: found out it really wasn't the East Coast versus. It 464 00:19:49,600 --> 00:19:52,639 Speaker 5: was the media making in and it was Park against 465 00:19:52,760 --> 00:19:54,960 Speaker 5: Biggie and they used to be best friends. And now 466 00:19:55,000 --> 00:19:57,760 Speaker 5: we're looking at really this came down the two best 467 00:19:57,800 --> 00:20:01,879 Speaker 5: friends fell out. Now they have other influences and that 468 00:20:02,119 --> 00:20:03,680 Speaker 5: just got bigger and bigger and bigger. 469 00:20:04,119 --> 00:20:05,119 Speaker 1: The control you know, we have. 470 00:20:05,240 --> 00:20:07,240 Speaker 10: We have conversations on the Breakfast Club that have ended 471 00:20:07,320 --> 00:20:10,160 Speaker 10: up confrontational did y'all have any of those on Rap City? 472 00:20:10,200 --> 00:20:14,040 Speaker 5: That y'all y'all the only person who ever like tried 473 00:20:14,040 --> 00:20:16,040 Speaker 5: to sum me he sum me one time. It was 474 00:20:16,119 --> 00:20:19,560 Speaker 5: my first live taping and I'm interviewing Pete Rock and 475 00:20:19,640 --> 00:20:20,479 Speaker 5: cl Smooth. 476 00:20:20,720 --> 00:20:22,320 Speaker 1: Oh my heroes. 477 00:20:22,880 --> 00:20:22,920 Speaker 21: My. 478 00:20:23,200 --> 00:20:25,800 Speaker 1: I know they album back to backward and forward. I 479 00:20:25,880 --> 00:20:26,359 Speaker 1: know everything. 480 00:20:26,480 --> 00:20:29,040 Speaker 5: I know every syllable of that album. So it's like 481 00:20:29,359 --> 00:20:32,160 Speaker 5: five four three two go. I'm like, ah, it's Rap City, 482 00:20:32,200 --> 00:20:34,280 Speaker 5: Joe play here, blah blah blah blah blah blah blahn do. 483 00:20:34,280 --> 00:20:36,720 Speaker 1: My thing, So what's up with you? 484 00:20:37,160 --> 00:20:39,639 Speaker 5: And then I don't get nothing from cl He's pretty 485 00:20:40,960 --> 00:20:42,080 Speaker 5: So then the cameras cut off. 486 00:20:42,200 --> 00:20:46,800 Speaker 1: He's like, Yo, son, you mad extra? I SA said, 487 00:20:46,840 --> 00:20:48,920 Speaker 1: what what you mean? He's like, yo, over the top, 488 00:20:49,200 --> 00:20:53,040 Speaker 1: He like mad extras? Yo, bring it down a little bit. 489 00:20:53,359 --> 00:20:54,639 Speaker 1: Five four three two. 490 00:20:54,960 --> 00:20:57,440 Speaker 5: All right, y'age man, Joe Clear here on Rap City, 491 00:20:58,280 --> 00:20:58,879 Speaker 5: I Got Bigger? 492 00:20:58,960 --> 00:20:59,639 Speaker 1: How do you hear that? 493 00:20:59,760 --> 00:21:00,480 Speaker 15: End? For me? 494 00:21:00,600 --> 00:21:02,840 Speaker 5: I took it as a vet somebody who was in 495 00:21:02,960 --> 00:21:06,639 Speaker 5: the industry showing me what he thought I should be. 496 00:21:07,440 --> 00:21:09,400 Speaker 5: No skin off my, you know that's what you think 497 00:21:09,440 --> 00:21:12,960 Speaker 5: I should be already? No Joe Cliar and if it's nothing, 498 00:21:13,240 --> 00:21:15,480 Speaker 5: I know Joe. I know what Joe Clin do and 499 00:21:16,760 --> 00:21:19,680 Speaker 5: I stayed extra for five years. 500 00:21:21,680 --> 00:21:22,760 Speaker 1: I appreciate y'all. 501 00:21:24,280 --> 00:21:27,040 Speaker 5: This conversation, oh man, And we just let me get 502 00:21:27,080 --> 00:21:28,480 Speaker 5: there's a few things I like to get on my chest. 503 00:21:28,600 --> 00:21:29,200 Speaker 1: Make sure you follow. 504 00:21:29,320 --> 00:21:31,560 Speaker 5: Make sure you follow me at Joe Clare on all 505 00:21:32,160 --> 00:21:36,159 Speaker 5: social media platforms. If you are in the d m 506 00:21:36,280 --> 00:21:39,680 Speaker 5: V watch me every day at three o'clock on Fox five. 507 00:21:39,760 --> 00:21:43,000 Speaker 5: It's called the d m V Zone. I am on 508 00:21:44,200 --> 00:21:47,639 Speaker 5: news every day and you'll see it when you tune in. 509 00:21:47,840 --> 00:21:50,760 Speaker 5: And other than that, just follow your boy Matt shows. 510 00:21:51,000 --> 00:21:53,159 Speaker 5: I do my own shows monthly at a play at 511 00:21:53,200 --> 00:21:55,680 Speaker 5: a spot called Bowie in Bowie, Maryland. So we do 512 00:21:55,760 --> 00:22:00,119 Speaker 5: a comedy show in Bowie. Very intelligent, well to do 513 00:22:00,359 --> 00:22:03,359 Speaker 5: black crap, so I love going in there. We got 514 00:22:03,560 --> 00:22:05,560 Speaker 5: heavy hitters coming through each and every month. So just 515 00:22:05,640 --> 00:22:07,720 Speaker 5: you can just check the schedule there and then. 516 00:22:08,240 --> 00:22:11,280 Speaker 1: Let me see. I'll be at thee Claire dot com. 517 00:22:12,160 --> 00:22:16,200 Speaker 1: Just go thank you well, it's Joe Claire, ladies. And 518 00:22:16,280 --> 00:22:18,040 Speaker 1: to make sure you watch the Rap City dot Ye. 519 00:22:18,600 --> 00:22:21,720 Speaker 3: It's the Breakfast Club. Good Morning, the Breakfast Club. Your 520 00:22:21,800 --> 00:22:25,360 Speaker 3: mornings will never be the same. Are you someone who 521 00:22:25,440 --> 00:22:28,560 Speaker 3: knows you don't have to sacrifice comfort for quality, someone 522 00:22:28,640 --> 00:22:31,560 Speaker 3: who lives large in life and in the bedroom, then 523 00:22:31,680 --> 00:22:34,960 Speaker 3: live large and now dinner with new Magnum raw condoms, 524 00:22:35,160 --> 00:22:38,480 Speaker 3: the thinnest Magnum condom available where condoms are sold. We're 525 00:22:38,480 --> 00:22:40,800 Speaker 3: talking about this interview that Tyler Perry said, and Tyler 526 00:22:40,840 --> 00:22:42,199 Speaker 3: Perry said this in the interview. 527 00:22:42,520 --> 00:22:45,879 Speaker 22: In our society right now, black women are making a 528 00:22:45,920 --> 00:22:48,040 Speaker 22: lot more money for the most part than black men. 529 00:22:48,280 --> 00:22:49,920 Speaker 22: Right There are a lot of black men who are successful, 530 00:22:49,920 --> 00:22:51,920 Speaker 22: but for the most part, black women are making the money. 531 00:22:51,960 --> 00:22:54,800 Speaker 22: So you, if you can find love, if that man 532 00:22:55,200 --> 00:22:58,879 Speaker 22: works at whatever job and it's a good man, and 533 00:22:59,000 --> 00:23:02,280 Speaker 22: it's good to you and honors and honors the house 534 00:23:02,359 --> 00:23:05,840 Speaker 22: and honors white and does what he can because his 535 00:23:06,400 --> 00:23:09,240 Speaker 22: gift may not be your gift exactly. That is okay, 536 00:23:09,840 --> 00:23:12,479 Speaker 22: that's not somebody who's beneath you. That's somebody who came 537 00:23:12,560 --> 00:23:15,160 Speaker 22: to love you at your work, right and as long 538 00:23:15,200 --> 00:23:17,879 Speaker 22: as he's secure in himself to know that, yep, she 539 00:23:18,040 --> 00:23:19,760 Speaker 22: makes more of the money. All I can pay is 540 00:23:19,760 --> 00:23:22,160 Speaker 22: the light deal. As long as she's comfortable enough to say, 541 00:23:22,160 --> 00:23:24,040 Speaker 22: I'm gonna cover the mortgage and all the other stuff 542 00:23:24,240 --> 00:23:25,800 Speaker 22: you've handed the light deil baby, you can take me 543 00:23:25,840 --> 00:23:26,959 Speaker 22: to dinner and every now and then. 544 00:23:27,440 --> 00:23:28,439 Speaker 1: That is fine. 545 00:23:28,640 --> 00:23:32,240 Speaker 22: Yeah, that love, that support that I got your babe, 546 00:23:32,280 --> 00:23:33,199 Speaker 22: it's a beautiful thing. 547 00:23:33,520 --> 00:23:36,560 Speaker 3: So we're asking eight hundred five eight five one five one. 548 00:23:36,600 --> 00:23:38,720 Speaker 3: We're talking to women out there, are black women out there. 549 00:23:39,640 --> 00:23:41,360 Speaker 3: Do you believe what he says? Do you believe where 550 00:23:41,400 --> 00:23:43,320 Speaker 3: you know? You should stop looking for a pockets and 551 00:23:43,640 --> 00:23:46,120 Speaker 3: look more for love. I definitely think everybody should stop 552 00:23:46,200 --> 00:23:47,840 Speaker 3: looking for pockets. You should definitely look for love. You 553 00:23:47,880 --> 00:23:50,399 Speaker 3: should look for a person that's got good character. You look, 554 00:23:50,440 --> 00:23:52,679 Speaker 3: you should look for a person that's got a good spirit. 555 00:23:52,840 --> 00:23:54,680 Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, Like somebody that's gonna hold 556 00:23:54,720 --> 00:23:57,920 Speaker 3: you down, you know, as a human, like because finances 557 00:23:58,000 --> 00:24:00,600 Speaker 3: go up, finances go down. Like, it's not always gonna 558 00:24:00,600 --> 00:24:03,359 Speaker 3: be about money. If if, if all, if all it 559 00:24:03,480 --> 00:24:05,800 Speaker 3: takes is money, what are you you hope. 560 00:24:07,720 --> 00:24:11,479 Speaker 1: Matter now? It takes money? Response up here? 561 00:24:11,600 --> 00:24:13,720 Speaker 21: Okay, but keep in mind, as much as you're telling 562 00:24:13,920 --> 00:24:16,640 Speaker 21: us to go look for deeper than just the wallets, 563 00:24:17,240 --> 00:24:18,840 Speaker 21: some people just don't have any depth. 564 00:24:19,480 --> 00:24:20,760 Speaker 1: There's nothing else to them. 565 00:24:20,920 --> 00:24:22,199 Speaker 10: Well, I don't think you have any depth of all 566 00:24:22,240 --> 00:24:27,520 Speaker 10: you're looking forward to money? No, I don't think if 567 00:24:27,560 --> 00:24:29,200 Speaker 10: all you're saying is I wanted somebody with money. 568 00:24:29,240 --> 00:24:30,479 Speaker 1: What if he checks all the boxes. 569 00:24:30,520 --> 00:24:33,280 Speaker 3: He's a great guy, he treats you well, he's you 570 00:24:33,320 --> 00:24:35,040 Speaker 3: can see him being a great father. 571 00:24:35,440 --> 00:24:38,600 Speaker 1: He does everything except financially. 572 00:24:38,680 --> 00:24:42,800 Speaker 4: It could be friends because for me, No, look for me, 573 00:24:43,080 --> 00:24:48,880 Speaker 4: I'm just saying ambition, like that's more important than money, Richie. 574 00:24:48,680 --> 00:24:51,680 Speaker 1: So ambition equates the wealth, like you have to have 575 00:24:51,840 --> 00:24:56,800 Speaker 1: wealth to be ambitious. No, no, no, no, that makes 576 00:24:56,920 --> 00:24:58,879 Speaker 1: zero sense. But let's let's let's let's go to the 577 00:24:58,920 --> 00:25:01,040 Speaker 1: phone lines. A lot of people that he's filling women 578 00:25:01,040 --> 00:25:03,200 Speaker 1: in a pair of tough boy and that's what he's saying. 579 00:25:04,160 --> 00:25:05,639 Speaker 11: Hello, who is hi? 580 00:25:05,840 --> 00:25:09,080 Speaker 1: I'm Jocelyn, Hey, Jocely, good morning, good morning. Now let's 581 00:25:09,160 --> 00:25:11,240 Speaker 1: let's talk about what Tyler Perry said. What's your thoughts. 582 00:25:11,640 --> 00:25:14,879 Speaker 19: I think Tyler Perry's statement is rooted and idealism, Like 583 00:25:15,320 --> 00:25:18,640 Speaker 19: we're not talking about millionaire salaries. We're talking about average salaries. 584 00:25:19,200 --> 00:25:21,240 Speaker 19: And even if it's two hundred thousand or three hundred 585 00:25:21,240 --> 00:25:23,119 Speaker 19: thousand and eight dollars a year that a woman is 586 00:25:23,200 --> 00:25:28,480 Speaker 19: making men contribute different things to a relationship as you women. 587 00:25:28,840 --> 00:25:30,359 Speaker 19: So a man who doesn't make a lot of money 588 00:25:30,720 --> 00:25:32,040 Speaker 19: is not going to come in the house and cook 589 00:25:32,080 --> 00:25:34,840 Speaker 19: and clean and you know, show up a nice launderie 590 00:25:34,880 --> 00:25:35,840 Speaker 19: and do all those things. 591 00:25:36,040 --> 00:25:39,880 Speaker 1: Why would I be wearing en? They still? Why would 592 00:25:39,880 --> 00:25:44,159 Speaker 1: I do? I would cook and I would clean. You 593 00:25:44,200 --> 00:25:47,480 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, You're acting person. 594 00:25:50,400 --> 00:25:52,720 Speaker 19: They've always been apt to settle, and then when they 595 00:25:52,880 --> 00:25:56,320 Speaker 19: fall and their salaries full and they fall into financial situation, 596 00:25:56,600 --> 00:25:58,320 Speaker 19: it's like, why do you marry that, brokelyn? Why do 597 00:25:58,359 --> 00:26:00,320 Speaker 19: you marry a man who keeps that too? 598 00:26:00,760 --> 00:26:01,800 Speaker 1: And you attract what you are? 599 00:26:02,920 --> 00:26:04,719 Speaker 19: Always realistic? 600 00:26:05,359 --> 00:26:08,080 Speaker 1: Settle? Now, I don't think this is settling. I really 601 00:26:08,119 --> 00:26:09,040 Speaker 1: don't think this is settling. 602 00:26:09,119 --> 00:26:11,600 Speaker 10: I think that you know, you shouldn't asked for anything 603 00:26:12,000 --> 00:26:14,040 Speaker 10: in somebody else that you don't have in yourself. Don't 604 00:26:14,080 --> 00:26:17,160 Speaker 10: look for nothing in anyone that you don't have in yourself. Now, see, 605 00:26:17,200 --> 00:26:18,760 Speaker 10: I really feel like, can you make those kind of 606 00:26:18,760 --> 00:26:19,280 Speaker 10: demands in me? 607 00:26:19,400 --> 00:26:22,080 Speaker 3: I really feel like when when I think things got worse, 608 00:26:22,119 --> 00:26:25,280 Speaker 3: when people started concentrating on money, right, and I just looked. 609 00:26:25,119 --> 00:26:29,280 Speaker 1: Back at my parents, my aunts, my uncles, my grandparents. 610 00:26:29,320 --> 00:26:31,520 Speaker 1: They didn't have money. It was just it was about love. 611 00:26:31,600 --> 00:26:33,520 Speaker 3: My dad was a police officer, my mom worked at 612 00:26:33,520 --> 00:26:34,920 Speaker 3: an insurance compan They wasn't money. 613 00:26:34,960 --> 00:26:35,720 Speaker 1: They just fell in love. 614 00:26:35,880 --> 00:26:37,399 Speaker 3: But then I also think about you know, when I 615 00:26:37,480 --> 00:26:39,760 Speaker 3: met my wife, I was fifteen sixty, it wasn't about money. 616 00:26:39,880 --> 00:26:40,760 Speaker 1: We didn't have any money. 617 00:26:40,800 --> 00:26:42,600 Speaker 10: Can you imagine being this is this thing about you 618 00:26:42,680 --> 00:26:45,320 Speaker 10: broke as hell, but you like I don't want nobody 619 00:26:45,400 --> 00:26:46,120 Speaker 10: but a rich man. 620 00:26:46,520 --> 00:26:47,600 Speaker 2: You broke. 621 00:26:48,160 --> 00:26:51,240 Speaker 1: Why would that rich man want you? Brookie shouldn't be dating. 622 00:26:51,720 --> 00:26:54,120 Speaker 1: I don't believe that either. Where are these stupid rules 623 00:26:54,160 --> 00:26:54,600 Speaker 1: coming from? 624 00:26:54,680 --> 00:26:54,880 Speaker 23: Hello? 625 00:26:55,240 --> 00:26:58,159 Speaker 1: Hello, Hey, what's your day? Hey? What's your thoughts to 626 00:26:58,200 --> 00:26:59,280 Speaker 1: what Tyler Perry said? Mama. 627 00:26:59,760 --> 00:27:02,480 Speaker 18: I I do understand where he's coming from, and I 628 00:27:02,560 --> 00:27:05,120 Speaker 18: do also understand where Tarva, Maine is coming from, because 629 00:27:05,119 --> 00:27:07,120 Speaker 18: I steel that way as well. But I don't think 630 00:27:07,160 --> 00:27:10,120 Speaker 18: he's say, lord, your standards. I'm just I think he's 631 00:27:10,160 --> 00:27:12,680 Speaker 18: just speaking on if you are with someone who just 632 00:27:12,760 --> 00:27:15,280 Speaker 18: works a regular nine to five, and he's affecting that, 633 00:27:15,359 --> 00:27:17,360 Speaker 18: he's treating you right. He's taking care of the things 634 00:27:17,400 --> 00:27:19,840 Speaker 18: that he can take care of with. If you're working, 635 00:27:19,920 --> 00:27:23,520 Speaker 18: you can take care of something, and it's a genuine person. 636 00:27:24,080 --> 00:27:26,600 Speaker 18: Don't try to look for someone who makes all of 637 00:27:26,720 --> 00:27:29,360 Speaker 18: this money just for you, not to receive other things 638 00:27:29,400 --> 00:27:33,040 Speaker 18: that's important as well, like don't necessarily worry about finances. 639 00:27:33,200 --> 00:27:35,040 Speaker 18: But I do understand where Scharla Maine is coming from. 640 00:27:35,080 --> 00:27:38,400 Speaker 18: With women, they do cand to always say they want 641 00:27:38,440 --> 00:27:40,320 Speaker 18: to stand with so much money and all these things, 642 00:27:40,440 --> 00:27:42,320 Speaker 18: but they don't have as much money as well. They 643 00:27:42,359 --> 00:27:44,000 Speaker 18: want a man with all these fancy cars if they 644 00:27:44,000 --> 00:27:44,920 Speaker 18: don't have none at all. 645 00:27:45,359 --> 00:27:48,480 Speaker 10: Right, so right, because why would a rich man want 646 00:27:48,520 --> 00:27:50,080 Speaker 10: a broke woman? Why would I want a woman who 647 00:27:50,160 --> 00:27:51,960 Speaker 10: just wants me for my money? You know what I'm 648 00:27:51,960 --> 00:27:53,720 Speaker 10: saying that I'm gonna end up giving you half of 649 00:27:53,840 --> 00:27:57,160 Speaker 10: everything that I've ever acquired when this relationship is over. 650 00:27:57,280 --> 00:28:00,320 Speaker 1: For what now? Victoria, somebody else that works pair just 651 00:28:00,400 --> 00:28:03,159 Speaker 1: came and she came in here so dominican. Just now, 652 00:28:03,560 --> 00:28:04,520 Speaker 1: she came in here, very mean. 653 00:28:04,680 --> 00:28:06,960 Speaker 10: She was so Dominican when she walked in this room. 654 00:28:07,280 --> 00:28:08,880 Speaker 10: Tell him to say exactly how you said it when 655 00:28:08,880 --> 00:28:09,600 Speaker 10: you walked in the room. 656 00:28:09,800 --> 00:28:12,080 Speaker 2: I said, we can't be two Broki's together. 657 00:28:12,280 --> 00:28:13,960 Speaker 1: And I said, yes, you can't. No, we can. 658 00:28:14,240 --> 00:28:16,199 Speaker 10: And sometimes you might just have to be. There might 659 00:28:16,240 --> 00:28:18,520 Speaker 10: not be any other choice, but y'all might come up together. 660 00:28:20,160 --> 00:28:22,520 Speaker 21: But when we get into that situation of like, oh, 661 00:28:22,560 --> 00:28:24,879 Speaker 21: I'm not happy, Like but you knew what he was 662 00:28:24,960 --> 00:28:26,399 Speaker 21: when you met him, and now you were sitting here 663 00:28:26,440 --> 00:28:27,959 Speaker 21: telling me I need to rock with the brokes, makes 664 00:28:27,960 --> 00:28:28,400 Speaker 21: you think you're. 665 00:28:28,280 --> 00:28:29,280 Speaker 1: Gonna be happy with the rich man. 666 00:28:29,320 --> 00:28:31,200 Speaker 10: The rich man gonna probably treat you worse because the 667 00:28:31,280 --> 00:28:33,200 Speaker 10: rich man is like, you don't bring nothing. 668 00:28:32,920 --> 00:28:39,800 Speaker 1: To the table. You keep saying financially So what is 669 00:28:39,880 --> 00:28:43,240 Speaker 1: financially stable? I just said, someone that's able to take 670 00:28:43,280 --> 00:28:43,920 Speaker 1: me out as well. 671 00:28:43,960 --> 00:28:46,720 Speaker 2: I'm not asking for no boogie sever anything. 672 00:28:47,760 --> 00:28:49,480 Speaker 1: Give me a number. What's financially stable to you? 673 00:28:50,040 --> 00:28:51,959 Speaker 8: Salary rise? I would like for her to be at 674 00:28:52,040 --> 00:28:53,080 Speaker 8: least like eighty thousand. 675 00:28:53,160 --> 00:28:54,120 Speaker 1: Okay, I like that. 676 00:28:54,240 --> 00:28:56,640 Speaker 3: So if you're just joining us now with a collective 677 00:28:56,720 --> 00:29:00,720 Speaker 3: up pair our producers that work in the back and waterfalls, 678 00:29:03,120 --> 00:29:05,600 Speaker 3: that is Victoria. You came in here, a little spicy Victor. 679 00:29:06,000 --> 00:29:09,040 Speaker 3: Now for God treats you well, that's everything he's supposed 680 00:29:09,040 --> 00:29:11,760 Speaker 3: to do. He's not cheating, know how to sucer. 681 00:29:15,240 --> 00:29:15,560 Speaker 18: What is it? 682 00:29:15,720 --> 00:29:22,320 Speaker 1: But does not have much money? Do you still date them? 683 00:29:22,600 --> 00:29:24,880 Speaker 8: Yeah, as long as you're not too broke. 684 00:29:27,120 --> 00:29:28,680 Speaker 1: But that's all. That's all I'm saying. 685 00:29:28,720 --> 00:29:30,960 Speaker 10: I just don't want you to stop looking for love, man, 686 00:29:31,520 --> 00:29:33,320 Speaker 10: something for good character in people. 687 00:29:33,480 --> 00:29:33,640 Speaker 13: Man? 688 00:29:33,800 --> 00:29:34,360 Speaker 2: What happened to? 689 00:29:34,600 --> 00:29:36,920 Speaker 4: So y'all don't want to go against what managed supposed 690 00:29:36,960 --> 00:29:38,880 Speaker 4: to provide and everything else, y'all want to go against that. 691 00:29:39,280 --> 00:29:42,080 Speaker 1: What is it supposed to provide? We work hard, some 692 00:29:42,280 --> 00:29:44,160 Speaker 1: some some what they can. 693 00:29:44,920 --> 00:29:46,880 Speaker 2: All I'm saying is me where I'm at. That's all 694 00:29:46,880 --> 00:29:47,280 Speaker 2: I'm saying. 695 00:29:47,280 --> 00:29:47,760 Speaker 1: And that's all. 696 00:29:47,840 --> 00:29:50,360 Speaker 10: I don't look for nothing in anybody you don't have 697 00:29:50,440 --> 00:29:52,000 Speaker 10: in yourself each other. 698 00:29:52,640 --> 00:29:53,360 Speaker 15: That's all I'm saying. 699 00:29:53,680 --> 00:29:55,240 Speaker 4: Well, if he's a good guy, blah blah blah, but 700 00:29:55,360 --> 00:29:56,760 Speaker 4: he's not at the level that I'm at. 701 00:29:56,920 --> 00:29:59,200 Speaker 10: No, no, no, But I want you, first of all, 702 00:29:59,200 --> 00:30:01,920 Speaker 10: I would encourage people never detailer because she's a terrible person. 703 00:30:05,320 --> 00:30:15,760 Speaker 1: Human means very Never want to a woman like that. 704 00:30:16,800 --> 00:30:18,240 Speaker 2: I'm going to challenge you. 705 00:30:18,360 --> 00:30:19,000 Speaker 8: That's what it is. 706 00:30:19,560 --> 00:30:23,760 Speaker 1: So let's go to the phone. The Philly women are crazy. Hello, 707 00:30:23,840 --> 00:30:25,720 Speaker 1: who's this Eric? 708 00:30:25,920 --> 00:30:26,520 Speaker 11: How you doing? 709 00:30:26,760 --> 00:30:28,680 Speaker 1: Good morning? What do you think of what Tyler Perry said? 710 00:30:29,080 --> 00:30:32,040 Speaker 23: I think she was wrong, I honestly do it's in 711 00:30:32,120 --> 00:30:37,280 Speaker 23: the Bible. I mean to get out and man, I'm 712 00:30:37,400 --> 00:30:41,959 Speaker 23: just saying read the Bible like that's that's the hierarchy. 713 00:30:42,040 --> 00:30:46,680 Speaker 23: I think the man is supposed to protect and provide, like, yes, 714 00:30:46,920 --> 00:30:48,880 Speaker 23: I gotta take you might just. 715 00:30:49,200 --> 00:30:49,960 Speaker 24: Be one of my kids. 716 00:30:50,640 --> 00:30:53,840 Speaker 3: Doesn't necessarily mean by chingel bags and burkings and cars. 717 00:30:53,920 --> 00:30:56,720 Speaker 1: That means food and make sure you're safe. And you 718 00:30:56,840 --> 00:30:58,960 Speaker 1: think a man can't protect and provide for you just 719 00:30:59,000 --> 00:31:00,760 Speaker 1: because you got more money, But then. 720 00:31:00,760 --> 00:31:02,760 Speaker 24: Why am I making more money in the first place? 721 00:31:02,920 --> 00:31:05,000 Speaker 24: Is the question? If you're supposed to be I mean. 722 00:31:04,920 --> 00:31:06,240 Speaker 23: A real man is not going to take that. 723 00:31:06,360 --> 00:31:07,280 Speaker 1: A real that's not true. 724 00:31:08,120 --> 00:31:08,680 Speaker 24: The household. 725 00:31:08,720 --> 00:31:11,440 Speaker 10: Now, I wish men thought that men. If men thought 726 00:31:11,560 --> 00:31:13,440 Speaker 10: like this, women wouldn't. Who would have been Who would 727 00:31:13,440 --> 00:31:13,760 Speaker 10: women be? 728 00:31:13,880 --> 00:31:14,560 Speaker 1: With women? 729 00:31:15,480 --> 00:31:17,080 Speaker 19: I'm actually thought this. 730 00:31:17,200 --> 00:31:19,680 Speaker 24: Some cultures they don't even allow their women to work. 731 00:31:19,760 --> 00:31:21,480 Speaker 9: I'm not I'm not agreeing with that because I'm. 732 00:31:21,320 --> 00:31:24,160 Speaker 24: An independent woman married an independent woman. But at the 733 00:31:24,240 --> 00:31:27,560 Speaker 24: same time, I believe the man is supposed to hold 734 00:31:27,600 --> 00:31:30,000 Speaker 24: everything down. A woman is supposed to hold down the kids, 735 00:31:30,120 --> 00:31:35,240 Speaker 24: the household, him mentally, physically, emotionally, And why I have 736 00:31:35,360 --> 00:31:37,840 Speaker 24: to do all of that and provide the money as well. 737 00:31:38,240 --> 00:31:39,200 Speaker 1: Well, let me ask you a question. 738 00:31:39,320 --> 00:31:41,760 Speaker 10: If you already got the money as a woman, if 739 00:31:41,760 --> 00:31:44,600 Speaker 10: you rich already, there's only one other thing to have, 740 00:31:44,800 --> 00:31:45,440 Speaker 10: and that's love. 741 00:31:46,400 --> 00:31:47,960 Speaker 1: It one other thing to have. That's a man that's 742 00:31:48,000 --> 00:31:50,520 Speaker 1: gonna hold you down, to protect you and care for you. 743 00:31:50,960 --> 00:31:51,280 Speaker 1: That's it. 744 00:31:51,720 --> 00:31:53,320 Speaker 9: But how do we love himself? 745 00:31:53,400 --> 00:31:56,600 Speaker 24: If he's an adequate to provide financially, he might. 746 00:31:56,560 --> 00:32:05,240 Speaker 1: Have twelve inches. Whoa, he may have, that's what you need. Second, 747 00:32:05,600 --> 00:32:09,640 Speaker 1: the man might have twelve inches man, the man nobody 748 00:32:09,680 --> 00:32:13,800 Speaker 1: want that wants that. Y'all want twelve inches. Y'all want money. 749 00:32:15,200 --> 00:32:17,720 Speaker 1: I don't know what y'all of the story. We know 750 00:32:17,800 --> 00:32:18,160 Speaker 1: what you want. 751 00:32:18,240 --> 00:32:20,840 Speaker 10: The story is just simple for me. Don't look for 752 00:32:20,960 --> 00:32:23,760 Speaker 10: nothing in anybody you don't have in yourself. And everybody 753 00:32:23,800 --> 00:32:26,040 Speaker 10: got to stop looking at finances. That's the reason to 754 00:32:26,120 --> 00:32:28,080 Speaker 10: be with somebody. So at the end of the day, 755 00:32:28,160 --> 00:32:30,720 Speaker 10: finances ain't gonna keep you all together. Love is gonna 756 00:32:30,760 --> 00:32:32,560 Speaker 10: keep you all together, you know, because you gotta grow 757 00:32:32,600 --> 00:32:35,160 Speaker 10: old with this person. You gotta actually like this person. 758 00:32:35,600 --> 00:32:38,040 Speaker 10: You know what I'm saying. If y'all don't have that, 759 00:32:38,120 --> 00:32:38,880 Speaker 10: I don't know what to tell you. 760 00:32:39,000 --> 00:32:41,280 Speaker 21: He also needs a four oh one k Jesus. 761 00:32:41,520 --> 00:32:45,920 Speaker 1: All right, well, sure, nice person, right, you know what 762 00:32:46,000 --> 00:32:46,440 Speaker 1: I'm saying. 763 00:32:46,720 --> 00:32:48,880 Speaker 21: There's plenty of rich men that will treat y'all terribly. 764 00:32:49,080 --> 00:32:51,000 Speaker 21: How we're gonna grow old together? If you can't afford 765 00:32:51,040 --> 00:32:51,960 Speaker 21: to grow old together? 766 00:32:52,280 --> 00:32:55,440 Speaker 1: Damn making what I'm talking about right now? I just know. 767 00:32:56,000 --> 00:32:57,680 Speaker 1: Tell me why rich man would want to broke woman? 768 00:32:57,720 --> 00:32:59,640 Speaker 1: Nobody can ever rich? 769 00:33:00,040 --> 00:33:02,600 Speaker 10: Okay, Why would a financially stable person want a woman 770 00:33:02,600 --> 00:33:08,360 Speaker 10: who's not financially stable? Why would a financially stable man 771 00:33:08,880 --> 00:33:11,200 Speaker 10: want a woman who's not financially stable? 772 00:33:11,440 --> 00:33:11,800 Speaker 24: I can't. 773 00:33:12,080 --> 00:33:12,800 Speaker 1: I agree with you. 774 00:33:14,840 --> 00:33:17,040 Speaker 8: You know, they like the church, but that's also their 775 00:33:17,120 --> 00:33:19,120 Speaker 8: ego to that's a girl. 776 00:33:19,280 --> 00:33:21,840 Speaker 4: A lot of times, a lot of guys want to. 777 00:33:22,040 --> 00:33:23,360 Speaker 4: I know a lot of guys that want to be 778 00:33:23,480 --> 00:33:26,160 Speaker 4: able to make more than the woman for their ego standpoint, 779 00:33:26,240 --> 00:33:27,120 Speaker 4: not necessarily like. 780 00:33:27,840 --> 00:33:29,000 Speaker 5: And I would tell you that's not the type of 781 00:33:29,040 --> 00:33:31,600 Speaker 5: man y'all should be doing. All right, well, I will 782 00:33:31,640 --> 00:33:33,320 Speaker 5: tell you, I would tell you run from that type 783 00:33:33,320 --> 00:33:34,880 Speaker 5: of guy. It's the breakfast leg of morning. 784 00:33:35,840 --> 00:33:36,920 Speaker 1: The breakfast club. 785 00:33:39,480 --> 00:33:43,760 Speaker 3: Everybody, Charlamagne's god, we are the breakfast club. We have 786 00:33:43,840 --> 00:33:46,240 Speaker 3: Laura La Rose to hear our special guest host, and 787 00:33:46,320 --> 00:33:47,840 Speaker 3: we got a special guest with us today. 788 00:33:48,280 --> 00:33:50,680 Speaker 1: We had a topic talking about some statements that she said, 789 00:33:50,760 --> 00:33:53,920 Speaker 1: Ladies and gentlemen Williams, don't nobody stir it up, like 790 00:33:55,240 --> 00:34:00,840 Speaker 1: what's up envy, what's up? Charge more NB. 791 00:34:00,920 --> 00:34:02,840 Speaker 14: I was going to be very very pissed and disappointed 792 00:34:02,880 --> 00:34:06,040 Speaker 14: if you weren't stucking in. So why well, because I 793 00:34:06,040 --> 00:34:07,680 Speaker 14: didn't know if I'd ever be back up here to. 794 00:34:07,720 --> 00:34:11,799 Speaker 1: Be candid why it was? It was it was tight 795 00:34:12,040 --> 00:34:14,000 Speaker 1: last Yeah, but God is good. 796 00:34:14,040 --> 00:34:17,160 Speaker 2: I came with my God le on, God Leon. 797 00:34:17,480 --> 00:34:20,239 Speaker 1: We're good. It's really God is good. I would say this. 798 00:34:20,440 --> 00:34:22,840 Speaker 3: You know, every time we have a conversation, we're always 799 00:34:22,880 --> 00:34:25,160 Speaker 3: not going to agree, but you're always invited up here regardless. 800 00:34:25,200 --> 00:34:27,160 Speaker 3: I mean, we're not gonna agree on everything, but the 801 00:34:27,239 --> 00:34:29,160 Speaker 3: best thing about it is just having a conversation. So 802 00:34:29,280 --> 00:34:31,080 Speaker 3: never think that you can't come up here for something. 803 00:34:31,120 --> 00:34:33,280 Speaker 3: You say, No, that's what these conversations and these platforms 804 00:34:33,280 --> 00:34:33,640 Speaker 3: are about. 805 00:34:34,040 --> 00:34:36,200 Speaker 2: I'm half playing, but it's a good point and it's 806 00:34:36,239 --> 00:34:37,239 Speaker 2: it's worth saying out loud. 807 00:34:37,360 --> 00:34:39,359 Speaker 1: So I appreciate that, and I love you, sister. I don't. 808 00:34:39,400 --> 00:34:40,640 Speaker 1: I don't want you to think I don't love you. 809 00:34:40,760 --> 00:34:43,040 Speaker 1: I love you for real, like I appreciate everything that 810 00:34:43,080 --> 00:34:43,239 Speaker 1: you do. 811 00:34:43,480 --> 00:34:45,279 Speaker 14: And it's just like anything else. You go hardest in 812 00:34:45,360 --> 00:34:47,880 Speaker 14: the pain with your family, So in the paint and 813 00:34:48,000 --> 00:34:49,120 Speaker 14: in the paint that's on your face. 814 00:34:49,160 --> 00:34:49,880 Speaker 20: And shut up. 815 00:34:50,560 --> 00:34:51,399 Speaker 8: I'm happy here. 816 00:34:51,680 --> 00:34:51,960 Speaker 1: Thank you. 817 00:34:52,680 --> 00:34:54,399 Speaker 8: I would love to have a conversation with you about 818 00:34:54,400 --> 00:34:54,719 Speaker 8: the video. 819 00:34:54,960 --> 00:34:57,279 Speaker 10: Now, what's the topic of conversation. I feel like this 820 00:34:57,400 --> 00:34:59,560 Speaker 10: is a conversation that men shouldn't even be involved in. 821 00:35:00,200 --> 00:35:01,560 Speaker 10: What is the gist of the conversation. 822 00:35:01,719 --> 00:35:03,600 Speaker 14: It's not for you, Charlamagne. So I'm glad that you 823 00:35:03,680 --> 00:35:07,120 Speaker 14: said that this is a conversation for ladies. And I 824 00:35:07,239 --> 00:35:09,680 Speaker 14: texted my good friend Charlemagne. I said, it's a friend 825 00:35:09,719 --> 00:35:12,839 Speaker 14: of the show. I heard the conversation yesterday. I appreciated 826 00:35:12,920 --> 00:35:15,759 Speaker 14: the critique and the constructive nature of it, and I said, 827 00:35:15,800 --> 00:35:17,359 Speaker 14: you know, since I'm down the street on the train, 828 00:35:17,640 --> 00:35:19,840 Speaker 14: let me pull up and I want to hear from you, 829 00:35:20,239 --> 00:35:22,960 Speaker 14: Lauren about what you agree with and what you disagree 830 00:35:23,000 --> 00:35:25,320 Speaker 14: with and have a lady's conversation. 831 00:35:24,920 --> 00:35:25,640 Speaker 1: About let's do it. 832 00:35:25,960 --> 00:35:29,320 Speaker 8: Yeah, So I think for me, I'll start with the 833 00:35:29,440 --> 00:35:30,239 Speaker 8: what I disagree with. 834 00:35:30,400 --> 00:35:32,320 Speaker 3: Let's go come first for people that don't know you 835 00:35:32,360 --> 00:35:33,719 Speaker 3: want to you want to play the clip of of 836 00:35:33,840 --> 00:35:34,760 Speaker 3: what went viral. 837 00:35:34,760 --> 00:35:37,480 Speaker 8: So people understand that clip to bring everybody up this red. 838 00:35:37,480 --> 00:35:40,160 Speaker 1: You got the clip, Let's play the clip, right. The 839 00:35:40,280 --> 00:35:40,960 Speaker 1: reality is. 840 00:35:41,160 --> 00:35:45,840 Speaker 14: That our marriage and partnership market value is depreciating with 841 00:35:46,040 --> 00:35:49,080 Speaker 14: every passing year. No matter how good we look, no 842 00:35:49,200 --> 00:35:52,799 Speaker 14: matter how fit we are, men are still seeing primarily 843 00:35:53,239 --> 00:35:56,440 Speaker 14: our presumed dwindling fertility. 844 00:35:56,360 --> 00:35:59,080 Speaker 2: As a knock against us. So here's my advice. 845 00:35:59,520 --> 00:36:02,279 Speaker 14: If you are a young Black woman in college and 846 00:36:02,440 --> 00:36:05,360 Speaker 14: you know in your heart and in your head that 847 00:36:05,520 --> 00:36:09,120 Speaker 14: you want to prioritize family, I suggest that you simultaneously 848 00:36:09,200 --> 00:36:12,640 Speaker 14: pursue that mrs degree right along with that BA or JD. 849 00:36:13,160 --> 00:36:15,760 Speaker 14: Because a handful of black college age men that actually 850 00:36:15,920 --> 00:36:18,839 Speaker 14: do desire to get married soon, and they do share 851 00:36:18,880 --> 00:36:21,879 Speaker 14: that value system and family is a priority for them too. 852 00:36:22,680 --> 00:36:22,879 Speaker 1: Y'all. 853 00:36:22,960 --> 00:36:25,520 Speaker 14: That is an incredibly small pool, and it's shrinking as 854 00:36:25,600 --> 00:36:28,000 Speaker 14: you get older, and by the time you reach my 855 00:36:28,160 --> 00:36:32,200 Speaker 14: age forty, you will be faced with different choices relating 856 00:36:32,239 --> 00:36:34,480 Speaker 14: to life, partnership, and motherhood. 857 00:36:36,360 --> 00:36:40,000 Speaker 4: So I think, all right, So breaking it down into 858 00:36:40,080 --> 00:36:42,120 Speaker 4: what I agree and what I disagree with. So the 859 00:36:42,239 --> 00:36:45,560 Speaker 4: disagreeing for me came with the starting with the infertility 860 00:36:45,920 --> 00:36:50,960 Speaker 4: and the the market value they're appreciating. So with the infertility, 861 00:36:51,000 --> 00:36:53,560 Speaker 4: I know, I said this yesterday. Some stuff is science, right, 862 00:36:53,600 --> 00:36:55,839 Speaker 4: you can't get around that. But I feel like when 863 00:36:55,880 --> 00:36:57,840 Speaker 4: you start with that and you lead with that, it 864 00:36:57,960 --> 00:37:00,400 Speaker 4: then makes people get defensive and they don't even hear 865 00:37:00,480 --> 00:37:02,200 Speaker 4: the rest of it. I know, when I first listened 866 00:37:02,200 --> 00:37:04,480 Speaker 4: to it, I was like, oh God, this is going 867 00:37:04,520 --> 00:37:06,880 Speaker 4: to be another one of those conversations where like someone's 868 00:37:06,920 --> 00:37:09,160 Speaker 4: telling me, as a woman, by the time you get 869 00:37:09,200 --> 00:37:11,759 Speaker 4: this age, your life is over. And you know when 870 00:37:11,800 --> 00:37:14,400 Speaker 4: you're when you're like trying to figure things out and 871 00:37:14,480 --> 00:37:16,719 Speaker 4: you're like, I'm thirty one years old, right, Like I'm 872 00:37:16,840 --> 00:37:18,719 Speaker 4: recently out of a very long relationship. 873 00:37:19,200 --> 00:37:20,440 Speaker 8: You want to feel not. 874 00:37:21,160 --> 00:37:30,000 Speaker 2: Charlamade Jesus, but I feel there's life after go ahead. 875 00:37:31,239 --> 00:37:32,319 Speaker 8: But that's my point. 876 00:37:32,400 --> 00:37:35,800 Speaker 4: It's like for me, I made a very conscious decision 877 00:37:35,880 --> 00:37:38,040 Speaker 4: with a lot of things in my life going to college, 878 00:37:38,480 --> 00:37:40,520 Speaker 4: being in the relationship that I was in, not being 879 00:37:40,560 --> 00:37:42,960 Speaker 4: in that relationship. Even with my like recent you know, 880 00:37:43,280 --> 00:37:45,640 Speaker 4: back and forth to East coast, West coast, like I've 881 00:37:45,680 --> 00:37:48,040 Speaker 4: always had to be very conscious and cognizant of the 882 00:37:48,120 --> 00:37:50,560 Speaker 4: fact that, like you know, as a woman, as a 883 00:37:50,719 --> 00:37:52,800 Speaker 4: black woman, right, especially working in the space that I 884 00:37:52,880 --> 00:37:55,319 Speaker 4: work in, I might not get that that other chance, 885 00:37:55,360 --> 00:37:57,279 Speaker 4: Like I gotta do it right the first time. And 886 00:37:57,320 --> 00:38:01,200 Speaker 4: I think talking about professionally, professionally and personally, okay, and 887 00:38:01,360 --> 00:38:02,440 Speaker 4: only because that's. 888 00:38:02,440 --> 00:38:04,320 Speaker 1: What are your personal goals? Just so we're clear. Do 889 00:38:04,520 --> 00:38:05,360 Speaker 1: you want marriage? 890 00:38:06,080 --> 00:38:06,720 Speaker 8: I want marriage? 891 00:38:06,840 --> 00:38:07,200 Speaker 10: I want you. 892 00:38:07,960 --> 00:38:10,320 Speaker 1: Yes, family foundation, I want all of that. 893 00:38:11,080 --> 00:38:12,719 Speaker 4: I don't even have a number of kids. Once we start, 894 00:38:12,760 --> 00:38:17,960 Speaker 4: we start just yeah, but yes, I'm going to be 895 00:38:18,239 --> 00:38:20,320 Speaker 4: an amazing mom. But I just feel like when you 896 00:38:20,480 --> 00:38:23,280 Speaker 4: lead with the stuff that you lead with, it instantly 897 00:38:23,320 --> 00:38:25,839 Speaker 4: turns the conversation negative, and for someone like me who 898 00:38:25,960 --> 00:38:29,200 Speaker 4: is watching and learning and listening to you, it makes 899 00:38:29,239 --> 00:38:30,800 Speaker 4: it where now I am defensive. 900 00:38:31,000 --> 00:38:32,520 Speaker 8: I don't want to watch, listen and learn. 901 00:38:32,680 --> 00:38:34,279 Speaker 4: I don't hear the rest of what you're saying, So 902 00:38:34,360 --> 00:38:36,239 Speaker 4: now I'm not being taught, and I should feel like 903 00:38:36,680 --> 00:38:38,600 Speaker 4: I can listen to you and learn from you and 904 00:38:38,760 --> 00:38:41,319 Speaker 4: not feel like you're the op right, And that's how 905 00:38:41,400 --> 00:38:44,920 Speaker 4: it starts off when you instantly are telling me everything 906 00:38:45,040 --> 00:38:47,719 Speaker 4: negative about what I already am facing every single day, 907 00:38:47,760 --> 00:38:49,239 Speaker 4: and I think that that's a big part of it too. 908 00:38:49,280 --> 00:38:51,040 Speaker 4: It's like when you put certain troops in front of people, 909 00:38:51,400 --> 00:38:53,719 Speaker 4: it hurts, people don't want to hear it. But beyond that, 910 00:38:54,000 --> 00:38:56,040 Speaker 4: like you can't get around the infertility. The second thing 911 00:38:56,200 --> 00:38:59,240 Speaker 4: was the market value, right. I don't agree. 912 00:38:59,480 --> 00:38:59,560 Speaker 17: Right. 913 00:38:59,640 --> 00:39:01,719 Speaker 4: I don't know where you were at thirty one, But 914 00:39:01,840 --> 00:39:04,520 Speaker 4: for me, I feel like I'm just now getting to 915 00:39:04,600 --> 00:39:06,600 Speaker 4: the space where like the people that I'm able to 916 00:39:07,040 --> 00:39:08,920 Speaker 4: or not even able to, but the people that I'm dating, 917 00:39:09,320 --> 00:39:11,680 Speaker 4: the life experiences that I'm experiencing that are teaching me 918 00:39:11,760 --> 00:39:14,160 Speaker 4: what I want, what I don't want. I'm right now 919 00:39:14,239 --> 00:39:16,239 Speaker 4: in the best space that I've ever been in. And 920 00:39:16,440 --> 00:39:18,080 Speaker 4: that wasn't me in college. I didn't know what I 921 00:39:18,160 --> 00:39:19,920 Speaker 4: wanted in college. I didn't know who I was. In college, 922 00:39:19,960 --> 00:39:22,719 Speaker 4: I seen nothing, haven't done anything. I also, I didn't 923 00:39:22,719 --> 00:39:23,200 Speaker 4: agree with that. 924 00:39:24,040 --> 00:39:27,560 Speaker 14: But yeah, asist because you put two big ones out 925 00:39:27,600 --> 00:39:30,360 Speaker 14: and let's break them down before we get ahead of ourselves. Okay, 926 00:39:30,480 --> 00:39:34,120 Speaker 14: so you're thirty one years old, a college educated woman 927 00:39:34,880 --> 00:39:38,560 Speaker 14: enjoying a very successful career in a high profile space. 928 00:39:39,320 --> 00:39:40,840 Speaker 1: I'm going to put my hands together for all of that. 929 00:39:41,440 --> 00:39:45,080 Speaker 14: Now, when I say market value depreciating, Lauren, did you 930 00:39:45,120 --> 00:39:47,000 Speaker 14: hear what I said before that? Did you hear the 931 00:39:47,040 --> 00:39:49,840 Speaker 14: specificity of the particular marketplace I'm speaking about? 932 00:39:50,360 --> 00:39:51,040 Speaker 8: No, which was that? 933 00:39:51,280 --> 00:39:53,040 Speaker 14: Okay, So I want to just go back actually to 934 00:39:53,080 --> 00:39:55,280 Speaker 14: your first point, Laurd, which I think you are conceding 935 00:39:55,680 --> 00:40:00,200 Speaker 14: that you had a reaction to my commentary that it's 936 00:40:00,239 --> 00:40:03,480 Speaker 14: so visceral in nature that you actually shut down your 937 00:40:03,520 --> 00:40:04,800 Speaker 14: listening comprehension skills. 938 00:40:05,239 --> 00:40:05,719 Speaker 2: He said that. 939 00:40:06,520 --> 00:40:10,080 Speaker 14: So because of that, though, right, I'm not gonna sit 940 00:40:10,120 --> 00:40:13,200 Speaker 14: in a posture of ownership because you made a choice 941 00:40:13,680 --> 00:40:16,240 Speaker 14: to be limited in the way in which you received 942 00:40:16,280 --> 00:40:17,360 Speaker 14: and process the information. 943 00:40:17,719 --> 00:40:20,560 Speaker 2: Now, you are grown women, and you have a time in. 944 00:40:20,560 --> 00:40:22,759 Speaker 1: Me over what you choose to consume and what you 945 00:40:22,920 --> 00:40:24,360 Speaker 1: choose to not consume. 946 00:40:24,800 --> 00:40:29,000 Speaker 14: So, when I was giving the advice the strategy the 947 00:40:29,080 --> 00:40:31,319 Speaker 14: game putting, you know, certain people up on some game, 948 00:40:31,680 --> 00:40:35,480 Speaker 14: I'm talking to a very limited pool of young black ladies, 949 00:40:36,160 --> 00:40:40,400 Speaker 14: the ones that are currently in school or immediately following 950 00:40:40,440 --> 00:40:43,399 Speaker 14: school or graduate school. And then the other caveat, I'll say, 951 00:40:43,440 --> 00:40:47,240 Speaker 14: the other place this information is in real time relevant 952 00:40:47,280 --> 00:40:51,440 Speaker 14: to are the mothers or even the fathers of those 953 00:40:51,640 --> 00:40:52,160 Speaker 14: young women. 954 00:40:52,480 --> 00:40:53,320 Speaker 1: That's who this is for. 955 00:40:53,760 --> 00:40:56,200 Speaker 2: So you, this is actually not even applicable to you, Lauren, 956 00:40:56,440 --> 00:40:57,399 Speaker 2: So no, no, let. 957 00:40:57,360 --> 00:41:00,319 Speaker 4: Me finish, nor I have to finish because no, wait wait, 958 00:41:02,520 --> 00:41:04,600 Speaker 4: I just want to wait before you finish your thoughts. 959 00:41:05,000 --> 00:41:07,640 Speaker 4: I just want to, like, let's rewind a little bit, 960 00:41:07,680 --> 00:41:10,799 Speaker 4: because I also think to the reason why people also 961 00:41:10,840 --> 00:41:12,560 Speaker 4: because not just me or the people, because even the 962 00:41:12,600 --> 00:41:14,120 Speaker 4: people it's meant for, I'm sure some of them did 963 00:41:14,200 --> 00:41:15,080 Speaker 4: the same exact thing as. 964 00:41:15,040 --> 00:41:17,120 Speaker 2: Well as not right and some did not because I 965 00:41:17,200 --> 00:41:19,439 Speaker 2: did not right, because you read all the comments. 966 00:41:19,160 --> 00:41:19,680 Speaker 1: Right, yeah I did. 967 00:41:19,840 --> 00:41:22,600 Speaker 4: But I think what happens is with you and I 968 00:41:23,560 --> 00:41:26,120 Speaker 4: saying this in the most respectful way. I think that 969 00:41:26,280 --> 00:41:29,000 Speaker 4: the way that you approach things like even this conversation 970 00:41:29,160 --> 00:41:33,440 Speaker 4: right now, it can make it does that it dilutes 971 00:41:33,560 --> 00:41:36,640 Speaker 4: the whole point of like you for you talking to 972 00:41:36,719 --> 00:41:40,440 Speaker 4: me specifically, I agree with certain parts of it, but 973 00:41:40,520 --> 00:41:43,120 Speaker 4: I think that the my whole point of what I'm 974 00:41:43,120 --> 00:41:45,480 Speaker 4: saying right because right now I feel like you're taking 975 00:41:45,600 --> 00:41:47,759 Speaker 4: what I didn't agree with and the fact that I 976 00:41:47,840 --> 00:41:49,560 Speaker 4: don't remember specific words or whatever. 977 00:41:49,600 --> 00:41:50,479 Speaker 1: I'm not Lauren. 978 00:41:50,560 --> 00:41:52,840 Speaker 14: Really, I really think this would be better served and 979 00:41:52,960 --> 00:41:55,200 Speaker 14: more productive if just like I, it's kind of like 980 00:41:55,239 --> 00:41:58,000 Speaker 14: an opening statement in a court of law. I gave 981 00:41:58,040 --> 00:42:00,319 Speaker 14: you a good amount of time to lay out two 982 00:42:00,480 --> 00:42:04,040 Speaker 14: prongs of disagreement, and I respect and appreciate both of 983 00:42:04,120 --> 00:42:06,840 Speaker 14: your positions. I'm not saying they are wrong, Okay, and 984 00:42:07,000 --> 00:42:11,160 Speaker 14: be messy. I'm not saying they're wrong at all, But 985 00:42:11,280 --> 00:42:16,320 Speaker 14: I am saying that I don't know how productive it 986 00:42:16,440 --> 00:42:18,800 Speaker 14: is to be the time manner and delivery police. 987 00:42:19,040 --> 00:42:19,200 Speaker 1: Right. 988 00:42:19,440 --> 00:42:22,920 Speaker 14: So when we talk about and also the nature of 989 00:42:23,080 --> 00:42:25,600 Speaker 14: this work that we all do in this space of 990 00:42:25,760 --> 00:42:27,880 Speaker 14: media and journalists, whatever we want to call it, right, 991 00:42:28,080 --> 00:42:31,239 Speaker 14: it's very subjective in nature. So for everybody Lauren that 992 00:42:31,360 --> 00:42:34,080 Speaker 14: takes your position, which is very valid, it was visceral 993 00:42:34,160 --> 00:42:34,320 Speaker 14: to me. 994 00:42:34,520 --> 00:42:37,720 Speaker 2: I found it triggering. It felt hurtful. I felt attacked, 995 00:42:37,719 --> 00:42:39,520 Speaker 2: I felt policed, I felt hurt it. 996 00:42:39,600 --> 00:42:43,799 Speaker 14: On whatever it is, there's also a whole nother contingency 997 00:42:44,280 --> 00:42:47,520 Speaker 14: of black women that felt seen by that commentary that 998 00:42:47,640 --> 00:42:48,280 Speaker 14: fell heard. 999 00:42:48,600 --> 00:42:49,880 Speaker 2: I had sores coming up to me. 1000 00:42:49,920 --> 00:42:52,160 Speaker 14: We had a fundraiser shout out to the pi Kappa 1001 00:42:52,280 --> 00:42:55,880 Speaker 14: Maga chapter of Alphakappa offic already incorporated SKI. We had 1002 00:42:55,880 --> 00:42:58,680 Speaker 14: a fundraiser that very night that that commentary dropped and 1003 00:42:58,800 --> 00:43:01,000 Speaker 14: I had sores coming up to me, who are more 1004 00:43:01,080 --> 00:43:03,000 Speaker 14: in my age group, right, Because that's the first thing 1005 00:43:03,040 --> 00:43:04,800 Speaker 14: we need to acknowledge. Lauren and I are not the 1006 00:43:04,880 --> 00:43:07,120 Speaker 14: same age. There's a good ten years between me and 1007 00:43:07,200 --> 00:43:10,320 Speaker 14: this lovely young lady. So I'm speaking from a purview 1008 00:43:10,480 --> 00:43:13,960 Speaker 14: of experience that looks a bit different, not vastly so, 1009 00:43:14,400 --> 00:43:17,480 Speaker 14: but a bit different. I agree, And my peers who 1010 00:43:17,560 --> 00:43:20,600 Speaker 14: are fortying up are like I wish someone would have 1011 00:43:20,680 --> 00:43:23,480 Speaker 14: told me. And the fact that you are doing the 1012 00:43:23,640 --> 00:43:27,719 Speaker 14: labor ebany, you are doing the service of letting young 1013 00:43:27,800 --> 00:43:31,440 Speaker 14: girls that are currently in position to put themselves in 1014 00:43:31,600 --> 00:43:35,000 Speaker 14: best practices because they are currently in school or graduate 1015 00:43:35,080 --> 00:43:40,160 Speaker 14: school or shortly thereafter matters. And it's good that somebody 1016 00:43:40,320 --> 00:43:42,640 Speaker 14: is rolling up their sleeves and doing the work and 1017 00:43:42,800 --> 00:43:48,680 Speaker 14: having the conversation publicly that quiet as kept many pockets 1018 00:43:48,800 --> 00:43:53,000 Speaker 14: of black elite culture are having with their children generationally 1019 00:43:53,120 --> 00:43:55,400 Speaker 14: every day. Many of my peers long when I went 1020 00:43:55,400 --> 00:43:57,520 Speaker 14: to UNC Chapel Hill, who were black just like me, 1021 00:43:57,600 --> 00:44:00,120 Speaker 14: and you, right, they were taught going into the a 1022 00:44:00,160 --> 00:44:03,360 Speaker 14: front end of freshman year, keep your eyes open, you know, 1023 00:44:03,480 --> 00:44:06,080 Speaker 14: get those grades get that degree, I expect you to 1024 00:44:06,120 --> 00:44:08,520 Speaker 14: go to medical school or law school or PhD. And 1025 00:44:08,800 --> 00:44:12,040 Speaker 14: also if you want the traditional model, and that's a 1026 00:44:12,080 --> 00:44:14,319 Speaker 14: big if. This is going to be the best time 1027 00:44:14,600 --> 00:44:19,200 Speaker 14: to be surrounded by the highest concentration of black men 1028 00:44:19,320 --> 00:44:23,279 Speaker 14: that are also pursuing the educational and fiscal model that 1029 00:44:23,480 --> 00:44:24,880 Speaker 14: you are and you desire. 1030 00:44:25,280 --> 00:44:27,239 Speaker 2: And it's really no more or less than that. I 1031 00:44:27,560 --> 00:44:29,520 Speaker 2: don't On the one second, guys. 1032 00:44:29,719 --> 00:44:32,120 Speaker 3: On the one second, ladies, we got to take a break, 1033 00:44:32,239 --> 00:44:33,839 Speaker 3: so we'll come back, and we also want to take 1034 00:44:33,880 --> 00:44:36,960 Speaker 3: some calls eight hundred and five five one, And if 1035 00:44:37,000 --> 00:44:39,160 Speaker 3: you're just join us, that's Laurena Roster. She's our special 1036 00:44:39,200 --> 00:44:41,359 Speaker 3: guest host today and Ebony Kay Williams is up here. 1037 00:44:41,520 --> 00:44:43,000 Speaker 1: And I think a very important when we come back, 1038 00:44:43,080 --> 00:44:45,359 Speaker 1: let's talk about what we agree with in this Yeah. 1039 00:44:45,400 --> 00:44:47,000 Speaker 4: I want to coret to that too, because I don't 1040 00:44:47,000 --> 00:44:49,920 Speaker 4: want you to feel like because what yeah, we're doing? 1041 00:44:50,000 --> 00:44:52,680 Speaker 3: Come back, all right, it's the Breakfast Club. Good morning morning. 1042 00:44:52,760 --> 00:44:55,960 Speaker 3: Everybody is DJ NV Charlamagne to God. We are the 1043 00:44:56,000 --> 00:44:58,200 Speaker 3: Breakfast Club. On this Friday, we have Laura la Rossa, 1044 00:44:58,200 --> 00:45:00,480 Speaker 3: our special guest host, and we have Ebny Kay Williams 1045 00:45:00,560 --> 00:45:03,000 Speaker 3: joining us this morning, and we're taking your calls as well. 1046 00:45:03,080 --> 00:45:05,040 Speaker 3: Eight hundred and five eight five, one oh five one. 1047 00:45:05,080 --> 00:45:07,839 Speaker 3: Now we're discussing some comments that ebide K Williams made 1048 00:45:07,840 --> 00:45:10,839 Speaker 3: that went viral yesterday. So now right before we left, 1049 00:45:11,040 --> 00:45:12,480 Speaker 3: I cut both of you guys off so we can 1050 00:45:12,719 --> 00:45:14,680 Speaker 3: pay some bills and get some musical on. So I know, 1051 00:45:14,760 --> 00:45:16,200 Speaker 3: ebidy K Williams, you were talking. 1052 00:45:16,480 --> 00:45:19,880 Speaker 14: I was so I was acknowledging Lauren's right right to 1053 00:45:20,040 --> 00:45:24,400 Speaker 14: consume content that she enjoys and feels comfortable with and 1054 00:45:24,440 --> 00:45:26,760 Speaker 14: also reject that what she does that because her critique 1055 00:45:26,880 --> 00:45:28,759 Speaker 14: at this point, I understand is is a bit about 1056 00:45:28,800 --> 00:45:31,080 Speaker 14: my It's about my delivery as much as the substance 1057 00:45:31,120 --> 00:45:31,759 Speaker 14: of what I'm saying. 1058 00:45:32,000 --> 00:45:34,120 Speaker 4: I think that the disagreement again comes in with how 1059 00:45:34,200 --> 00:45:36,080 Speaker 4: you say it, and we don't get that vulnerability right. 1060 00:45:36,200 --> 00:45:38,320 Speaker 4: So me sitting here with you right now is like, 1061 00:45:38,640 --> 00:45:40,279 Speaker 4: this is what I want to feel when I see 1062 00:45:40,280 --> 00:45:41,840 Speaker 4: the content. I might not always get that though, and 1063 00:45:41,920 --> 00:45:43,480 Speaker 4: maybe it's not like you said. It wasn't for me, 1064 00:45:43,560 --> 00:45:45,040 Speaker 4: it was for the girls that's still in college, right, 1065 00:45:45,320 --> 00:45:47,680 Speaker 4: But at the same time it's placed on my timeline. 1066 00:45:47,680 --> 00:45:48,600 Speaker 4: So I get it, and I feel it, and I 1067 00:45:48,680 --> 00:45:50,880 Speaker 4: stop and I listen either way, but I'm. 1068 00:45:50,719 --> 00:45:52,400 Speaker 1: Glad you do. Shout out to the team at the grille, 1069 00:45:52,480 --> 00:45:53,920 Speaker 1: go ahead, but you agree with you. 1070 00:45:54,280 --> 00:45:55,680 Speaker 8: But I was going to get to that. 1071 00:45:56,000 --> 00:45:58,200 Speaker 4: But what I did agree with was the fact, like 1072 00:45:58,239 --> 00:46:01,400 Speaker 4: when you started talking about a pool of men getting smaller, 1073 00:46:01,480 --> 00:46:03,480 Speaker 4: when it comes to those men who men who will 1074 00:46:03,520 --> 00:46:05,360 Speaker 4: be honest about what they want when it comes to 1075 00:46:05,520 --> 00:46:09,239 Speaker 4: the family a woman, they are actually worth the time, 1076 00:46:09,440 --> 00:46:12,439 Speaker 4: the energy. It's it's consistent, you're getting the same energy 1077 00:46:12,480 --> 00:46:14,640 Speaker 4: that you're putting out. It does get smaller as you 1078 00:46:14,760 --> 00:46:16,800 Speaker 4: get older. And like now that I'm out here in 1079 00:46:16,880 --> 00:46:18,520 Speaker 4: the dating world, I'm like, oh okay, and. 1080 00:46:18,600 --> 00:46:21,719 Speaker 14: Keep in mind you're only thirty thirty one, so it's 1081 00:46:21,840 --> 00:46:25,120 Speaker 14: like as you get to forty, the pole the pool 1082 00:46:25,160 --> 00:46:27,520 Speaker 14: has shrunk further, fifty even more so. 1083 00:46:27,960 --> 00:46:30,600 Speaker 8: And I've dated, I'm having a million from fifty, I'm 1084 00:46:30,680 --> 00:46:31,200 Speaker 8: having a menack. 1085 00:46:31,360 --> 00:46:33,280 Speaker 2: Listen, I'm not even I got. 1086 00:46:35,239 --> 00:46:37,120 Speaker 1: I actually believe in the power of the tongue. So 1087 00:46:37,360 --> 00:46:37,960 Speaker 1: I believe. 1088 00:46:38,200 --> 00:46:40,880 Speaker 14: So you speak, so you you have and you will desire. 1089 00:46:41,080 --> 00:46:42,879 Speaker 14: I do want to speak to the fertility park because 1090 00:46:42,880 --> 00:46:45,000 Speaker 14: it's very important. It is as I sit here with 1091 00:46:45,080 --> 00:46:48,920 Speaker 14: y'all today, you know I'm literally onso fertility drugs. I 1092 00:46:48,960 --> 00:46:52,560 Speaker 14: am preparing for my embryo transfer in the next few weeks. Now, 1093 00:46:52,640 --> 00:46:54,480 Speaker 14: I am forty years old. Just turned forty a couple 1094 00:46:54,520 --> 00:46:56,759 Speaker 14: of weeks ago. Y'all know I've been very transparent about 1095 00:46:56,800 --> 00:47:00,200 Speaker 14: my motherhood journey. I'm doing it solo by choice. Our 1096 00:47:00,239 --> 00:47:01,879 Speaker 14: froze eggs at thirty four years old. 1097 00:47:02,120 --> 00:47:02,640 Speaker 1: I'm doing this. 1098 00:47:02,719 --> 00:47:05,200 Speaker 2: I'm excited to be a mom. I'm scared as hell. 1099 00:47:05,239 --> 00:47:06,480 Speaker 14: I know it's going to be the hardest thing I've 1100 00:47:06,480 --> 00:47:08,239 Speaker 14: ever done in my life, and yet I cannot wait 1101 00:47:08,320 --> 00:47:12,839 Speaker 14: to enter this mother era of my life. And Also, Lauren, 1102 00:47:12,840 --> 00:47:14,600 Speaker 14: I don't think this is how most black women want. 1103 00:47:14,440 --> 00:47:14,680 Speaker 1: To do it. 1104 00:47:15,280 --> 00:47:18,760 Speaker 2: I don't why solo by choice? Well, several reasons. 1105 00:47:18,880 --> 00:47:22,719 Speaker 14: Number one, I'm no longer willing to wait to activate 1106 00:47:23,520 --> 00:47:25,960 Speaker 14: my pursuit of motherhood. I'm no longer willing to wait. 1107 00:47:26,000 --> 00:47:28,360 Speaker 14: I've been married and divorced in my late twenties. I 1108 00:47:28,480 --> 00:47:31,400 Speaker 14: had also a long term relationship many years ago. I 1109 00:47:31,600 --> 00:47:35,400 Speaker 14: ended up engagement during the pandemic. I'm ready for my baby. 1110 00:47:35,640 --> 00:47:38,480 Speaker 14: I am ready to pour into someone other than me. Finally, 1111 00:47:38,560 --> 00:47:40,200 Speaker 14: it took me very long time to get here. But 1112 00:47:40,640 --> 00:47:42,279 Speaker 14: when she ready, she ready. 1113 00:47:42,400 --> 00:47:42,640 Speaker 1: Okay. 1114 00:47:43,160 --> 00:47:47,080 Speaker 14: Now, I don't think that most women, most black women, 1115 00:47:47,560 --> 00:47:50,040 Speaker 14: desire doing this journey alone. 1116 00:47:50,440 --> 00:47:50,839 Speaker 5: I don't. 1117 00:47:51,160 --> 00:47:53,960 Speaker 14: It's very important. And I know that you mentioned yesterday 1118 00:47:54,239 --> 00:47:56,800 Speaker 14: the egg freezing, so let's talk about that because I 1119 00:47:56,880 --> 00:47:59,200 Speaker 14: think that that is marketed, not just you, Lauren, I 1120 00:47:59,239 --> 00:48:02,600 Speaker 14: think in general, that is in a lot of these comments. Right, well, girl, 1121 00:48:02,760 --> 00:48:04,719 Speaker 14: just freeze your eggs and don't worry about the rest. 1122 00:48:04,960 --> 00:48:07,120 Speaker 14: That's some bulls, because I'm here to tell you because 1123 00:48:07,120 --> 00:48:07,600 Speaker 14: I'm living it. 1124 00:48:07,840 --> 00:48:07,960 Speaker 25: Right. 1125 00:48:08,280 --> 00:48:09,520 Speaker 1: I froze eggs at thirty four. 1126 00:48:09,560 --> 00:48:11,680 Speaker 14: I never thought in a million years I would need 1127 00:48:11,760 --> 00:48:14,399 Speaker 14: to use them, right because why, I was at a loving, 1128 00:48:14,440 --> 00:48:19,120 Speaker 14: committed relationship. These were my spare Have you frozen eggs 1129 00:48:19,120 --> 00:48:19,799 Speaker 14: at this point, dude? 1130 00:48:19,880 --> 00:48:21,520 Speaker 8: No, I thought about doing it last year. I thought 1131 00:48:21,520 --> 00:48:22,520 Speaker 8: about starting the process. 1132 00:48:22,560 --> 00:48:25,600 Speaker 14: Okay, So let me just and this is not investigative, 1133 00:48:25,680 --> 00:48:27,360 Speaker 14: this is I'm just trying to see something here. Do 1134 00:48:27,440 --> 00:48:31,040 Speaker 14: you know how many eggs on average a woman should 1135 00:48:31,120 --> 00:48:35,560 Speaker 14: have on ice on reserve frozen for a probability of 1136 00:48:35,719 --> 00:48:37,080 Speaker 14: one live birth. 1137 00:48:37,400 --> 00:48:38,920 Speaker 2: No, I don't about twenty. 1138 00:48:39,560 --> 00:48:42,759 Speaker 14: Then if I say, okay, how many egg retrievals are 1139 00:48:42,800 --> 00:48:45,799 Speaker 14: required to get about twenty eggs and a woman that's 1140 00:48:45,800 --> 00:48:47,799 Speaker 14: say thirty five and up, the answer is. 1141 00:48:47,760 --> 00:48:51,400 Speaker 2: At least two. What's the cost average of an egg retrieval? 1142 00:48:51,520 --> 00:48:54,200 Speaker 14: Amy probably knows this, but he knows it's between twelve 1143 00:48:54,239 --> 00:48:57,960 Speaker 14: and fifteen thousand dollars per retrieval cycle. 1144 00:48:58,520 --> 00:48:59,759 Speaker 1: Most assurances don't cover. 1145 00:49:00,200 --> 00:49:02,760 Speaker 14: Most insurances do not cover unless you're working at Google 1146 00:49:02,840 --> 00:49:04,680 Speaker 14: or Amazon. And by the way, you probably need to 1147 00:49:04,719 --> 00:49:07,320 Speaker 14: be married for them to cover it. Otherwise they consider 1148 00:49:07,360 --> 00:49:10,680 Speaker 14: it elective. They don't recognize it as infertility in the 1149 00:49:10,760 --> 00:49:13,800 Speaker 14: way that married couples that struggle to conceive half. So 1150 00:49:13,960 --> 00:49:16,880 Speaker 14: what I'm saying is the egg freezing route, the single 1151 00:49:16,960 --> 00:49:21,640 Speaker 14: motherhood by Choice route, the IVF route are amazing technological tools, Lauren, 1152 00:49:21,760 --> 00:49:23,320 Speaker 14: but they are wealthy women tools. 1153 00:49:23,920 --> 00:49:26,440 Speaker 2: Period. Let's be very clear. It's just more to it 1154 00:49:26,560 --> 00:49:27,400 Speaker 2: than just freezing it. 1155 00:49:27,640 --> 00:49:28,919 Speaker 8: I get you, I think with that part. 1156 00:49:29,040 --> 00:49:31,400 Speaker 4: For me, I was speaking from my own personal experience, 1157 00:49:31,440 --> 00:49:34,080 Speaker 4: and I think that like hearing you respond to it, 1158 00:49:34,320 --> 00:49:37,040 Speaker 4: I can understand your response to what I said, but 1159 00:49:37,280 --> 00:49:38,880 Speaker 4: I think maybe I should have been a little bit 1160 00:49:38,920 --> 00:49:40,080 Speaker 4: more clear because. 1161 00:49:39,800 --> 00:49:42,880 Speaker 2: For me, at that still freezing though you have the money. 1162 00:49:42,800 --> 00:49:44,719 Speaker 4: At that time when I was thinking about doing it, 1163 00:49:44,800 --> 00:49:46,640 Speaker 4: it was because the insurance that I was getting through 1164 00:49:46,640 --> 00:49:50,560 Speaker 4: my employer supported that to a certain extent where anything like, yes, 1165 00:49:50,640 --> 00:49:52,560 Speaker 4: it is expensive, but I would have been able to 1166 00:49:52,600 --> 00:49:53,720 Speaker 4: figure it out, so I would. 1167 00:49:53,560 --> 00:49:55,279 Speaker 14: Think you should still do it. I want that to 1168 00:49:55,440 --> 00:49:57,800 Speaker 14: I don't want that missed here. I'm still encouraging you 1169 00:49:57,920 --> 00:49:58,400 Speaker 14: to do I. 1170 00:49:58,400 --> 00:49:59,800 Speaker 4: Will say, I got a little bit, I got like 1171 00:50:00,040 --> 00:50:02,279 Speaker 4: garret out of it, a little bit only be cares 1172 00:50:02,360 --> 00:50:04,440 Speaker 4: out of God, don't do that. But but more so 1173 00:50:04,560 --> 00:50:06,480 Speaker 4: because of what like MV shared with me, what you 1174 00:50:06,680 --> 00:50:08,439 Speaker 4: talked about, like going through all. 1175 00:50:08,400 --> 00:50:10,000 Speaker 8: Of that and then it I'll go with you to 1176 00:50:10,120 --> 00:50:11,360 Speaker 8: not work right, I'll go with you. 1177 00:50:11,800 --> 00:50:12,760 Speaker 1: We can talk about I'm. 1178 00:50:12,680 --> 00:50:15,120 Speaker 14: Very serious, I really so. So I'm saying two things here, 1179 00:50:15,160 --> 00:50:17,440 Speaker 14: and this is important in this conversation, y'all. People have 1180 00:50:17,520 --> 00:50:20,040 Speaker 14: got I encourage people, I'll say, to hold space for 1181 00:50:20,160 --> 00:50:21,439 Speaker 14: more than one thing at one time. 1182 00:50:21,600 --> 00:50:23,120 Speaker 10: Now, I feel like whatever you just said now is 1183 00:50:23,200 --> 00:50:25,440 Speaker 10: very important. All Ebony is saying is this is an 1184 00:50:25,560 --> 00:50:27,120 Speaker 10: ideal and you don't want it. 1185 00:50:27,160 --> 00:50:28,920 Speaker 1: It's not. It's not you don't want folks to have 1186 00:50:29,040 --> 00:50:30,440 Speaker 1: to necessarily go through this for me. 1187 00:50:31,680 --> 00:50:33,640 Speaker 14: Let me just reiterate that, because that's very important because 1188 00:50:33,640 --> 00:50:35,759 Speaker 14: this is this is these these stakes are very high, Lauren. 1189 00:50:35,960 --> 00:50:40,600 Speaker 14: I'm fifty thousand dollars into IVF Journey by myself, so 1190 00:50:40,640 --> 00:50:42,399 Speaker 14: I don't have a husband splitting that with me, which 1191 00:50:42,440 --> 00:50:44,719 Speaker 14: I which there's reasons why that's preferable for me. 1192 00:50:45,120 --> 00:50:46,560 Speaker 1: But I really need people to hear that. 1193 00:50:46,880 --> 00:50:48,840 Speaker 14: And I'm taking shots and I'm giving them to myself, 1194 00:50:48,840 --> 00:50:51,319 Speaker 14: and I'm doing all this to bring life into this world. 1195 00:50:51,719 --> 00:50:53,520 Speaker 2: And I don't take it lightly because it's a very 1196 00:50:53,560 --> 00:50:54,160 Speaker 2: serious thing. 1197 00:50:54,520 --> 00:50:56,680 Speaker 14: So I think when we were very cavalier, not not 1198 00:50:56,840 --> 00:50:59,600 Speaker 14: just you, right, but in general with O just IVF 1199 00:50:59,680 --> 00:51:03,319 Speaker 14: for oh, just marry outside the race obviously been there, 1200 00:51:03,400 --> 00:51:03,879 Speaker 14: done that too. 1201 00:51:04,520 --> 00:51:08,080 Speaker 2: That that well, I heard some snow no king commentary. 1202 00:51:13,360 --> 00:51:15,319 Speaker 1: Hold on, guys, Hold guys. We got to take some calls. 1203 00:51:15,520 --> 00:51:17,520 Speaker 1: We got to take some calls. We got to take 1204 00:51:17,600 --> 00:51:22,000 Speaker 1: some calls eight hundred because this one five you watch 1205 00:51:22,040 --> 00:51:23,960 Speaker 1: if you listen. Okay, let's go. We gotta take some 1206 00:51:24,000 --> 00:51:25,160 Speaker 1: calls when we come back. And I just want to 1207 00:51:25,160 --> 00:51:26,719 Speaker 1: say this. I just want to say this. 1208 00:51:26,880 --> 00:51:29,400 Speaker 3: Most people don't know what what Ebany's going through right 1209 00:51:29,440 --> 00:51:32,160 Speaker 3: now with the with the viture the fertility. No, because 1210 00:51:32,320 --> 00:51:34,720 Speaker 3: because most people haven't been through it, and the fact. 1211 00:51:34,520 --> 00:51:38,600 Speaker 2: That the people that listen to the whole the court, 1212 00:51:38,640 --> 00:51:39,680 Speaker 2: they every day. 1213 00:51:40,080 --> 00:51:42,040 Speaker 1: But the fact that she has to do it by herself, 1214 00:51:42,600 --> 00:51:43,080 Speaker 1: it's a lot. 1215 00:51:43,239 --> 00:51:45,200 Speaker 3: Like she has to put them shots in her stomach 1216 00:51:45,280 --> 00:51:48,040 Speaker 3: and and and all that by herself, thank you. Most 1217 00:51:48,040 --> 00:51:49,839 Speaker 3: people don't know it, Like I can't even imagine if 1218 00:51:49,840 --> 00:51:51,480 Speaker 3: my wife had to do it by herself, or a 1219 00:51:51,520 --> 00:51:53,600 Speaker 3: woman having to do it by herself and goes through 1220 00:51:53,600 --> 00:51:54,560 Speaker 3: those doctors appointments. 1221 00:51:54,600 --> 00:51:56,520 Speaker 2: So it is a lot room by yourself. 1222 00:51:56,640 --> 00:51:57,120 Speaker 23: It's a lot. 1223 00:51:57,360 --> 00:51:58,200 Speaker 8: I can't imagine that. 1224 00:51:58,640 --> 00:52:01,279 Speaker 1: Transform who talks will take some calls when we come back. 1225 00:52:01,280 --> 00:52:02,680 Speaker 4: I got to talk about this stuff that we agreed 1226 00:52:02,680 --> 00:52:04,200 Speaker 4: with too, because a lot of people agree with somethings 1227 00:52:04,239 --> 00:52:04,600 Speaker 4: that you said. 1228 00:52:04,600 --> 00:52:06,040 Speaker 2: The callers probably get to some of it, but but. 1229 00:52:06,200 --> 00:52:07,279 Speaker 1: You cain't got all that much time. 1230 00:52:07,360 --> 00:52:07,560 Speaker 14: Guys. 1231 00:52:07,920 --> 00:52:10,880 Speaker 1: Eight hundred five five one five one, let's go. It's breakfast. 1232 00:52:10,960 --> 00:52:12,000 Speaker 1: Let morning, everybody. 1233 00:52:12,040 --> 00:52:15,399 Speaker 3: It's dj n B charlamagneaud We are the Breakfast Club. 1234 00:52:15,440 --> 00:52:17,360 Speaker 3: Our special guest host Laura La Rosa is here and 1235 00:52:17,480 --> 00:52:20,600 Speaker 3: Ebony K. Williams is still here. We're having a growing 1236 00:52:20,680 --> 00:52:22,879 Speaker 3: up discussion this morning, and we're opening up the phone line. 1237 00:52:22,880 --> 00:52:25,279 Speaker 3: The're gonna let h you guys out there get a 1238 00:52:25,360 --> 00:52:26,719 Speaker 3: chance to chop it up with Ebony K. 1239 00:52:26,920 --> 00:52:27,320 Speaker 1: Williams. 1240 00:52:27,360 --> 00:52:29,879 Speaker 3: All right, eight hundred five a five one oh five 1241 00:52:29,920 --> 00:52:31,480 Speaker 3: to one, and we just want to say, it's a 1242 00:52:31,560 --> 00:52:32,520 Speaker 3: respectful conversation. 1243 00:52:32,640 --> 00:52:34,840 Speaker 1: So as soon as the disrespect happens, we're banging on 1244 00:52:34,920 --> 00:52:38,480 Speaker 1: that right much. Right now. Okay, let rovigate has happened. 1245 00:52:38,480 --> 00:52:41,759 Speaker 1: We're on to something else. Now you stop at Charlemagne. Hello, 1246 00:52:41,880 --> 00:52:44,919 Speaker 1: who's this? Hey Alicia? Good morning? 1247 00:52:45,200 --> 00:52:46,560 Speaker 11: Hey, how are you good? 1248 00:52:46,600 --> 00:52:48,560 Speaker 1: Good? Good? Ebony K. Williams to say, hey, you gotta 1249 00:52:48,560 --> 00:52:49,520 Speaker 1: you got a question comment? 1250 00:52:49,880 --> 00:52:51,799 Speaker 11: Oh well, I just kind of wanted to agree with her. 1251 00:52:51,880 --> 00:52:54,600 Speaker 11: First of all, she stated that if this is what 1252 00:52:54,760 --> 00:52:56,480 Speaker 11: you want, and you're like, this is what I suggest, 1253 00:52:56,600 --> 00:52:58,120 Speaker 11: So she was not pushing. 1254 00:52:57,880 --> 00:52:58,600 Speaker 18: That on anyone. 1255 00:52:59,080 --> 00:53:01,320 Speaker 11: But if we're there on it, that's when our counterparts 1256 00:53:01,360 --> 00:53:03,840 Speaker 11: teach their girls so go to college and find a husband. 1257 00:53:03,880 --> 00:53:06,719 Speaker 11: The education is almost sicking thear to especially white thither 1258 00:53:06,840 --> 00:53:08,880 Speaker 11: women's So I don't see a problem with this. 1259 00:53:09,400 --> 00:53:09,879 Speaker 1: Is that true? 1260 00:53:10,000 --> 00:53:11,640 Speaker 2: Thank you, sister, That absolutely is true. 1261 00:53:11,719 --> 00:53:13,640 Speaker 14: So you know I went to UNC Chapel Hill, a 1262 00:53:13,800 --> 00:53:17,279 Speaker 14: very predominantly white institution in the South, as the good 1263 00:53:17,360 --> 00:53:21,800 Speaker 14: sister just mentioned, and that ring before Spring is serious 1264 00:53:21,880 --> 00:53:24,680 Speaker 14: for them what they're looking to do, because our counterparts 1265 00:53:25,000 --> 00:53:29,080 Speaker 14: tend to view marriage primarily through a lens of economic stability. 1266 00:53:29,440 --> 00:53:32,080 Speaker 14: Let's be clear, and historically we know that is the 1267 00:53:32,200 --> 00:53:36,400 Speaker 14: nature of marriage, correct, It's a transaction of sorts. And 1268 00:53:36,440 --> 00:53:38,960 Speaker 14: I know, once again, you know, the tears are going 1269 00:53:39,040 --> 00:53:40,520 Speaker 14: to roll when I say that out loud for some 1270 00:53:41,120 --> 00:53:45,880 Speaker 14: because because they they are not willing to really stand 1271 00:53:45,960 --> 00:53:50,000 Speaker 14: in the reality of the tenets of marriage in America today. 1272 00:53:50,719 --> 00:53:54,160 Speaker 14: Mortgage right, So that's that's the reality, and our counterparts 1273 00:53:54,239 --> 00:53:55,880 Speaker 14: do it all the time. The difference is they are 1274 00:53:55,920 --> 00:53:58,080 Speaker 14: not shamed when they do it. I think that when 1275 00:53:58,640 --> 00:54:01,480 Speaker 14: you see black girls and black young women going and 1276 00:54:01,600 --> 00:54:05,080 Speaker 14: making the space for marriage as as much of a 1277 00:54:05,120 --> 00:54:07,800 Speaker 14: priority as education, it flies in the face of a 1278 00:54:07,880 --> 00:54:09,960 Speaker 14: generation that told me and mine. 1279 00:54:10,239 --> 00:54:13,000 Speaker 1: Go to school, stay focused, don't get pregnant. 1280 00:54:13,200 --> 00:54:16,239 Speaker 14: Boys are a distraction, right, They're gonna throw you off 1281 00:54:16,280 --> 00:54:20,040 Speaker 14: your game. Get your education, get your money, get your house, 1282 00:54:20,320 --> 00:54:23,800 Speaker 14: get your power, figure out who you are stand in 1283 00:54:23,920 --> 00:54:26,520 Speaker 14: it and then go partner and get married and live 1284 00:54:26,680 --> 00:54:29,400 Speaker 14: happily ever after the challenge with that, because that's the 1285 00:54:29,440 --> 00:54:32,160 Speaker 14: model I took. I'm proud to have taken it. I 1286 00:54:32,200 --> 00:54:34,320 Speaker 14: had a little default starting marriage that was not for me, 1287 00:54:34,440 --> 00:54:36,640 Speaker 14: so I divorced him. Not a problem, great guy. 1288 00:54:37,120 --> 00:54:37,680 Speaker 1: Here's the thing. 1289 00:54:38,280 --> 00:54:42,680 Speaker 14: Here's the thing is most black women do want the 1290 00:54:42,800 --> 00:54:46,520 Speaker 14: traditional marital nuclear family model. And when you get to 1291 00:54:46,600 --> 00:54:49,600 Speaker 14: a certain level of income, as black women, a certain 1292 00:54:49,680 --> 00:54:52,200 Speaker 14: level of power. It's a certain level of being able 1293 00:54:52,280 --> 00:54:54,400 Speaker 14: to travel the world on your own dime and be 1294 00:54:54,520 --> 00:54:58,120 Speaker 14: in the sky lounge without some dusty sun swipe. That's okay, 1295 00:54:58,719 --> 00:55:00,960 Speaker 14: the shrinking happens. And also tell you what else you move, 1296 00:55:01,040 --> 00:55:03,960 Speaker 14: differences you move. You think your swag is on a 1297 00:55:04,040 --> 00:55:06,440 Speaker 14: thousand today and it's very high and I love seeing it. 1298 00:55:06,719 --> 00:55:09,480 Speaker 14: Wait till you wait till you're over that million dollar 1299 00:55:09,560 --> 00:55:12,799 Speaker 14: a year mark of income. Wait till it's like, wait 1300 00:55:12,880 --> 00:55:15,520 Speaker 14: till you own your your one point seven million dollar 1301 00:55:15,600 --> 00:55:17,800 Speaker 14: property in your own name and only your name is 1302 00:55:17,840 --> 00:55:18,040 Speaker 14: on the. 1303 00:55:18,040 --> 00:55:19,200 Speaker 1: Deed based on a true story. 1304 00:55:20,000 --> 00:55:21,800 Speaker 2: That's what I'm just saying you. 1305 00:55:22,400 --> 00:55:24,479 Speaker 14: Nobody's gonna be able to tell you unless they're coming 1306 00:55:24,680 --> 00:55:26,839 Speaker 14: all the way correct, period, And that's going to make 1307 00:55:26,880 --> 00:55:28,840 Speaker 14: that pool rather even smaller. 1308 00:55:28,880 --> 00:55:34,160 Speaker 1: Go ahead, yeah, yes, who's this Sophia. Hey Sophia, what's 1309 00:55:34,200 --> 00:55:35,520 Speaker 1: your question for Abany King Williams? 1310 00:55:35,840 --> 00:55:38,440 Speaker 26: Not question? Well, I guess a question. I have a 1311 00:55:38,480 --> 00:55:42,439 Speaker 26: few things, like how were you raised? I was saying, 1312 00:55:42,680 --> 00:55:46,040 Speaker 26: I've seen that you were forty I'm forty eight. I'm 1313 00:55:46,040 --> 00:55:49,360 Speaker 26: a black woman raised with black women. We were not 1314 00:55:49,640 --> 00:55:52,560 Speaker 26: raised to go look for a man. We weren't raised 1315 00:55:52,600 --> 00:55:55,000 Speaker 26: to just go look for a ring. Oh my god, 1316 00:55:55,080 --> 00:55:57,560 Speaker 26: I just have to have a man. We were raised 1317 00:55:57,640 --> 00:56:01,279 Speaker 26: to respect ourselves, to love God, and if God saw 1318 00:56:01,440 --> 00:56:05,880 Speaker 26: fit for us to be married, our husband would find us. 1319 00:56:06,200 --> 00:56:09,440 Speaker 26: Like it's like you put your failures on how that 1320 00:56:09,640 --> 00:56:12,520 Speaker 26: You seem like you failed because you didn't get a 1321 00:56:12,600 --> 00:56:16,360 Speaker 26: ring in college, but you putting it off on other women, 1322 00:56:16,800 --> 00:56:19,600 Speaker 26: especially black women. I don't know any other race, But 1323 00:56:19,680 --> 00:56:21,120 Speaker 26: that's not how I was raised. 1324 00:56:21,560 --> 00:56:23,919 Speaker 1: Okay, let any response? Oh yeah, good morning. 1325 00:56:24,000 --> 00:56:27,120 Speaker 14: It says so listen, I was raised by god fearing, 1326 00:56:27,200 --> 00:56:29,880 Speaker 14: incredible black woman named Gloria who raised me to go 1327 00:56:29,920 --> 00:56:32,040 Speaker 14: to school, go to more school, get the bag, and 1328 00:56:32,080 --> 00:56:34,520 Speaker 14: stand in my truth and power. So that's the first 1329 00:56:34,520 --> 00:56:37,440 Speaker 14: answer to your question. As for failure, I don't have 1330 00:56:37,560 --> 00:56:40,040 Speaker 14: any in the space, Dear, I actually was married. I 1331 00:56:40,080 --> 00:56:42,560 Speaker 14: had a beautiful cushion cut diamond on my finger until 1332 00:56:42,560 --> 00:56:44,160 Speaker 14: I decided to give it back because I no longer 1333 00:56:44,200 --> 00:56:46,000 Speaker 14: wanted to be married. So I don't have failure in 1334 00:56:46,040 --> 00:56:47,839 Speaker 14: the space. The only reason I'm not married is because 1335 00:56:47,840 --> 00:56:50,560 Speaker 14: I divorced my husband. Now, as to putting this on 1336 00:56:50,680 --> 00:56:53,279 Speaker 14: black women, I'm doing no such thing. What I know 1337 00:56:53,440 --> 00:56:56,800 Speaker 14: for fact, because I have sorority sisters, I have good friends. 1338 00:56:56,840 --> 00:57:00,440 Speaker 14: I have a strong global sisterhood of black women who 1339 00:57:00,600 --> 00:57:03,960 Speaker 14: tell me. Some of them tell me that despite their success, 1340 00:57:04,080 --> 00:57:07,680 Speaker 14: despite their careers, and despite their money, they in their 1341 00:57:07,880 --> 00:57:12,440 Speaker 14: car to hearts still desire marriage. It is something that 1342 00:57:12,560 --> 00:57:14,920 Speaker 14: they want. And I think we got to get rid 1343 00:57:15,000 --> 00:57:17,600 Speaker 14: of shaming black women for wanting what they want. For 1344 00:57:17,720 --> 00:57:20,480 Speaker 14: the black women that that is already a desire of 1345 00:57:20,600 --> 00:57:23,320 Speaker 14: their heart to be married in a timely fashion. That's 1346 00:57:23,360 --> 00:57:25,720 Speaker 14: who this advice is for. If you don't want that, 1347 00:57:26,080 --> 00:57:28,400 Speaker 14: I want nothing but what you want for yourself. 1348 00:57:28,680 --> 00:57:30,240 Speaker 4: I think a lot of people take the stance that 1349 00:57:30,360 --> 00:57:32,800 Speaker 4: she took because you literally like a lot of people 1350 00:57:32,840 --> 00:57:34,120 Speaker 4: don't know certain things right, they don't listen. 1351 00:57:34,200 --> 00:57:35,600 Speaker 8: But I also think that say they. 1352 00:57:35,520 --> 00:57:37,600 Speaker 2: Part one more time. They don't know certain things that 1353 00:57:37,640 --> 00:57:38,240 Speaker 2: they don't listen. 1354 00:57:38,280 --> 00:57:40,680 Speaker 4: But another important point is I think a lot of 1355 00:57:40,720 --> 00:57:43,400 Speaker 4: people take you just as a personality and all that 1356 00:57:43,480 --> 00:57:46,000 Speaker 4: you have going on as like you look and speak 1357 00:57:46,040 --> 00:57:48,760 Speaker 4: down on people. And I think with black women's instantly 1358 00:57:48,840 --> 00:57:51,920 Speaker 4: triggering because we've had that happen so much, right, And 1359 00:57:52,040 --> 00:57:54,760 Speaker 4: that's why that happens where she's like, well, how were 1360 00:57:54,800 --> 00:57:56,680 Speaker 4: you raised? Like even the way that she came into 1361 00:57:56,720 --> 00:57:58,840 Speaker 4: that call was like you think that you're better or 1362 00:57:58,880 --> 00:58:01,120 Speaker 4: do you think that you're doing something that other people 1363 00:58:01,200 --> 00:58:01,640 Speaker 4: have not done? 1364 00:58:01,720 --> 00:58:01,800 Speaker 15: Right? 1365 00:58:01,800 --> 00:58:03,200 Speaker 8: And I think that happens a lot with you. 1366 00:58:03,520 --> 00:58:04,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a projection. 1367 00:58:04,520 --> 00:58:06,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, so I'm forty right, So none of that's new, Lauren. 1368 00:58:06,680 --> 00:58:08,480 Speaker 2: Just so you know, like when you walk through. 1369 00:58:08,360 --> 00:58:11,360 Speaker 14: The world carrying yourself the way I do, having my 1370 00:58:11,560 --> 00:58:15,240 Speaker 14: esthetic projections and presumptions about who I am and what 1371 00:58:15,480 --> 00:58:17,600 Speaker 14: my values are come with the territory. 1372 00:58:17,800 --> 00:58:19,120 Speaker 1: But that's also why I do the work I do. 1373 00:58:19,160 --> 00:58:20,600 Speaker 1: I got one hundred episodes of Holding Core. 1374 00:58:20,640 --> 00:58:22,920 Speaker 14: People can watch I'm on every day here locally in 1375 00:58:22,960 --> 00:58:27,040 Speaker 14: New York Channel fifty five eleven thirty AM Equal Justice 1376 00:58:27,080 --> 00:58:28,880 Speaker 14: with Judge Ebanie Yes, I'm judging you. 1377 00:58:29,680 --> 00:58:32,960 Speaker 1: And several other things. I got two books out of Ben. 1378 00:58:33,000 --> 00:58:34,720 Speaker 1: I'm like what you said, Anny, I saw equal justice 1379 00:58:34,720 --> 00:58:35,080 Speaker 1: in Vegas? 1380 00:58:35,160 --> 00:58:37,720 Speaker 14: You saw yeah, yes, naturally syndicated. I'm in eighty five 1381 00:58:37,760 --> 00:58:40,440 Speaker 14: percent of American home, so there's lots of content to consume. 1382 00:58:40,560 --> 00:58:43,800 Speaker 1: Well, let's go to another call up. Hello, who's saying Hi? 1383 00:58:43,960 --> 00:58:44,400 Speaker 10: My name is. 1384 00:58:46,120 --> 00:58:47,960 Speaker 1: Hey, Tish. What's your question for Abney King Williams. 1385 00:58:48,480 --> 00:58:49,520 Speaker 11: It's not really good question. 1386 00:58:49,840 --> 00:58:52,800 Speaker 9: I'm just saying, well, first of all, good morning and everybody. 1387 00:58:52,880 --> 00:58:55,040 Speaker 9: I just want to say that I am team Ebony 1388 00:58:55,320 --> 00:58:58,000 Speaker 9: and I don't see anything that she's saying is wrong. 1389 00:58:58,520 --> 00:59:03,520 Speaker 9: She blessed her uh platform, everyone who follows her know God. 1390 00:59:03,600 --> 00:59:06,640 Speaker 9: As an old woman, I'm just giving you advice. I've 1391 00:59:06,680 --> 00:59:10,160 Speaker 9: been there, I've been through college, and this is my 1392 00:59:10,320 --> 00:59:13,080 Speaker 9: feelings based on my experiences, and I just feel like 1393 00:59:13,160 --> 00:59:14,560 Speaker 9: she should be respected for it. 1394 00:59:15,480 --> 00:59:18,400 Speaker 1: Okay, well, thank you for calling Mama. Appreciate it, Sis 1395 00:59:18,560 --> 00:59:21,680 Speaker 1: than you have it for day. Let's put a button 1396 00:59:21,760 --> 00:59:23,400 Speaker 1: on this man because I strapped this up. 1397 00:59:23,440 --> 00:59:26,360 Speaker 2: I appreciate listen. I appreciate the platform. I appreciate the conversation. 1398 00:59:26,560 --> 00:59:26,840 Speaker 1: Lauren. 1399 00:59:27,560 --> 00:59:29,840 Speaker 14: I think that as black women in particular, we got 1400 00:59:29,920 --> 00:59:32,480 Speaker 14: to hold the space to have the difficult conversation. 1401 00:59:32,720 --> 00:59:36,960 Speaker 1: All right, well we appreciate you join us and Holding 1402 00:59:37,000 --> 00:59:39,439 Speaker 1: Court podcast. We're back with season three. Soons. 1403 00:59:39,840 --> 00:59:40,840 Speaker 8: Did I keep the same energy? 1404 00:59:41,040 --> 00:59:49,120 Speaker 1: I don't know, man, was shrunk a little bit? Ask you? 1405 00:59:49,280 --> 00:59:50,440 Speaker 2: I don't know why I asked you. 1406 00:59:53,600 --> 00:59:54,960 Speaker 1: You watch Equal Justice too? 1407 00:59:55,160 --> 00:59:58,120 Speaker 3: Thank you, Thank you, ladies. It's the Breakfast leg hilarious, 1408 00:59:58,960 --> 01:00:02,120 Speaker 3: the Breakfast Club. Your mornings will never be the same. 1409 01:00:03,680 --> 01:00:04,160 Speaker 1: Good news. 1410 01:00:04,200 --> 01:00:07,400 Speaker 10: If you're hiring, you've got help zip recruiter. Zip recruiter 1411 01:00:07,480 --> 01:00:09,920 Speaker 10: works for you to find great candidates fast. 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I'm 1419 01:00:30,840 --> 01:00:32,760 Speaker 1: not making these people do these days called Donkey of 1420 01:00:32,880 --> 01:00:35,480 Speaker 1: the Day, and it really caught me off guard. 1421 01:00:35,680 --> 01:00:38,400 Speaker 2: Damn Charlamagne, who got the Donkey of the. 1422 01:00:38,480 --> 01:00:41,920 Speaker 1: Day today, Well that's hilarious. 1423 01:00:42,200 --> 01:00:43,920 Speaker 10: Donkey of to day, for which was a double donkey, 1424 01:00:44,240 --> 01:00:46,880 Speaker 10: it goes to thirty eighth year old Chief Chastain and 1425 01:00:47,080 --> 01:00:49,800 Speaker 10: the Clovis Police Department. It comes a point in time 1426 01:00:49,880 --> 01:00:53,520 Speaker 10: in life where we all must remember it takes to you. Okay, 1427 01:00:53,960 --> 01:00:56,640 Speaker 10: to you, all right, kids, gather around your uncle Sharlah 1428 01:00:56,640 --> 01:00:58,200 Speaker 10: would like to tell you about some things that have 1429 01:00:58,280 --> 01:00:59,959 Speaker 10: been going on since the nineteen hundred. 1430 01:01:00,120 --> 01:01:03,200 Speaker 1: Okay. One of those things is the saying it takes 1431 01:01:03,400 --> 01:01:07,040 Speaker 1: to you. Okay, are it takes to you to tango? 1432 01:01:07,200 --> 01:01:11,480 Speaker 10: That means that a situational argument involves two people and 1433 01:01:11,720 --> 01:01:14,440 Speaker 10: they are both therefore responsible for it. 1434 01:01:14,560 --> 01:01:18,520 Speaker 1: I repeat, It takes to you to tango means that 1435 01:01:18,600 --> 01:01:21,560 Speaker 1: a situational argument involves two people and they are both 1436 01:01:21,640 --> 01:01:23,720 Speaker 1: therefore responsible for it. It takes two. 1437 01:01:23,920 --> 01:01:26,400 Speaker 10: There's also a classic hip hop record that will make 1438 01:01:26,480 --> 01:01:28,720 Speaker 10: anyone with a soul who grew up in the nineteen 1439 01:01:28,800 --> 01:01:30,640 Speaker 10: hundreds and eighties lose their mind. 1440 01:01:31,000 --> 01:01:31,280 Speaker 1: Okay. 1441 01:01:31,800 --> 01:01:33,680 Speaker 10: The reason I'm giving you this history lesson to day 1442 01:01:33,760 --> 01:01:36,320 Speaker 10: is because in this donkey that I'm delivering, it absolutely 1443 01:01:36,440 --> 01:01:40,360 Speaker 10: took to you, all right. See, Keith was arrested ten 1444 01:01:40,480 --> 01:01:44,760 Speaker 10: times in one month. I repeat, Keith Chastain was arrested 1445 01:01:45,080 --> 01:01:48,000 Speaker 10: ten times in one month. See y'all think I'd be lying, 1446 01:01:48,240 --> 01:01:49,959 Speaker 10: Let's go to Fox twenty six News for the report. 1447 01:01:50,000 --> 01:01:50,280 Speaker 1: Place. 1448 01:01:50,800 --> 01:01:54,560 Speaker 25: Local law enforcement agencies say they are very familiar with 1449 01:01:54,720 --> 01:01:57,720 Speaker 25: thirty eight year old Keith Chastain, who has been booked 1450 01:01:57,760 --> 01:02:02,000 Speaker 25: in Fresnoe County Jail not once, not twice, but ten 1451 01:02:02,160 --> 01:02:05,680 Speaker 25: times in the last thirty one days. Chastain is from 1452 01:02:05,760 --> 01:02:10,520 Speaker 25: Fresno and is currently facing eighteen felonies and fifteen misdemeanors 1453 01:02:10,800 --> 01:02:14,040 Speaker 25: from his recent arrests. According to Clovis Police Department. His 1454 01:02:14,240 --> 01:02:20,400 Speaker 25: charges include stealing six vehicles, a dui, vandalism, fraud, possession 1455 01:02:20,480 --> 01:02:24,959 Speaker 25: of controlled substance, and more. Clovis Police Department alone says 1456 01:02:25,040 --> 01:02:28,360 Speaker 25: it has arrested Chastain six times in the last month. 1457 01:02:28,680 --> 01:02:32,120 Speaker 25: Around nine thirty Tuesday morning, Clovis Police received a call 1458 01:02:32,200 --> 01:02:35,760 Speaker 25: about a stolen truck that Chastain was suspected of driving. 1459 01:02:36,360 --> 01:02:39,480 Speaker 25: Police sayan officer found the stolen truck driving in Old 1460 01:02:39,560 --> 01:02:43,880 Speaker 25: Town Clovis and followed it until more officers arrived. Officers 1461 01:02:43,920 --> 01:02:47,200 Speaker 25: pulled Chastain over in front of Clovis Police Department and 1462 01:02:47,400 --> 01:02:50,800 Speaker 25: arrested him without incident. Police say he was the only 1463 01:02:50,920 --> 01:02:53,520 Speaker 25: person in the stolen truck and happened to be on 1464 01:02:53,680 --> 01:02:56,520 Speaker 25: his way to pick up his personal property from Clovis 1465 01:02:56,600 --> 01:03:00,600 Speaker 25: Police Department from the last time he was arrested, he 1466 01:03:00,800 --> 01:03:02,120 Speaker 25: was in a stolen vehicle. 1467 01:03:05,800 --> 01:03:07,520 Speaker 1: Now, as you just. 1468 01:03:07,560 --> 01:03:11,640 Speaker 10: Heard, Keith chas Dain was arrested ten times by Clovis 1469 01:03:11,680 --> 01:03:16,200 Speaker 10: Police six times, okay, six times by Clovers Police, and 1470 01:03:16,400 --> 01:03:20,440 Speaker 10: four times by other agencies. He was in a stolen 1471 01:03:20,560 --> 01:03:23,840 Speaker 10: vehicle on the way to pick up his items from 1472 01:03:23,920 --> 01:03:24,320 Speaker 10: the jail. 1473 01:03:24,960 --> 01:03:25,240 Speaker 1: Okay. 1474 01:03:25,880 --> 01:03:28,360 Speaker 10: Now, if he had gotten locked up by different agencies 1475 01:03:28,440 --> 01:03:30,640 Speaker 10: once or twice, I would understand. But if you get 1476 01:03:30,680 --> 01:03:33,120 Speaker 10: locked up by the same agency, the Clovise Police Department 1477 01:03:33,400 --> 01:03:37,240 Speaker 10: six times, six times, at what point does it become 1478 01:03:37,520 --> 01:03:41,480 Speaker 10: the police department's fault as well for constantly letting you out? 1479 01:03:41,760 --> 01:03:43,760 Speaker 1: At what point does it become a judge's fault for 1480 01:03:43,840 --> 01:03:45,040 Speaker 1: constantly grant you bail. 1481 01:03:45,280 --> 01:03:48,680 Speaker 10: He's facing eighteen felonies and fifteen misdemeanors, with charges including 1482 01:03:48,720 --> 01:03:53,240 Speaker 10: stealing six vehicles, dui vandelism, fraud, possession of a controlled substance, 1483 01:03:53,400 --> 01:03:55,800 Speaker 10: and a whole lot more. At some point, maybe after 1484 01:03:55,960 --> 01:04:01,080 Speaker 10: arrest number three, possibly after arrest number five, gurely, at 1485 01:04:01,160 --> 01:04:04,400 Speaker 10: arrest number six, someone at the Clovis Police Department has 1486 01:04:04,440 --> 01:04:06,840 Speaker 10: to say, no need to let this man out because 1487 01:04:06,880 --> 01:04:08,040 Speaker 10: he's just gonna come right back. 1488 01:04:08,320 --> 01:04:08,560 Speaker 1: Okay. 1489 01:04:08,560 --> 01:04:11,520 Speaker 10: If the Clovis Police Department had a customer loyalty program 1490 01:04:11,720 --> 01:04:14,520 Speaker 10: like Starbucks or Subway or so far, this man Keith 1491 01:04:14,680 --> 01:04:16,200 Speaker 10: would get his tenth arrest for free. 1492 01:04:16,520 --> 01:04:18,640 Speaker 1: Okay, hit the rest of nine times, get your temh 1493 01:04:18,680 --> 01:04:21,480 Speaker 1: for rest for free. Clearly, this man has a boyfriend 1494 01:04:21,560 --> 01:04:24,080 Speaker 1: behind those walls. Either that or he likes the food. Okay. 1495 01:04:24,120 --> 01:04:26,800 Speaker 10: When someone shows you who they are, believe them. And 1496 01:04:26,920 --> 01:04:31,000 Speaker 10: this man Keith has shown us he's a serial criminal. Okay, 1497 01:04:31,080 --> 01:04:33,120 Speaker 10: so give him what he wants, and what he wants 1498 01:04:33,400 --> 01:04:37,400 Speaker 10: is clearly zero bond, ten arrest in thirty one days. 1499 01:04:38,000 --> 01:04:40,560 Speaker 10: Insanity is doing the same thing over and over and 1500 01:04:40,640 --> 01:04:43,680 Speaker 10: expecting different results. So yes, Keith is insane because he 1501 01:04:43,800 --> 01:04:46,880 Speaker 10: keeps committing crimes in the same crimes and getting locked up, 1502 01:04:47,040 --> 01:04:49,720 Speaker 10: And the Clovis Police Department is insane because they keep 1503 01:04:49,760 --> 01:04:52,520 Speaker 10: locking Keith up for these crimes, the same crimes and 1504 01:04:52,640 --> 01:04:55,200 Speaker 10: letting him out. They both are to blame. So please 1505 01:04:55,280 --> 01:04:57,960 Speaker 10: give Keith Chastain a heat and give the Clovis Police 1506 01:04:58,000 --> 01:05:01,680 Speaker 10: Department a hall together. Because it takes two to give 1507 01:05:01,760 --> 01:05:03,040 Speaker 10: them the biggest he ha. 1508 01:05:06,840 --> 01:05:08,560 Speaker 1: This man wrote his name in jail. Ya, that's why 1509 01:05:08,600 --> 01:05:08,840 Speaker 1: he said it. 1510 01:05:08,840 --> 01:05:10,920 Speaker 10: Don't write you name. They don't write your name on 1511 01:05:11,040 --> 01:05:14,680 Speaker 10: the walls in jail. You keep coming back to that jail, Jesus. 1512 01:05:15,480 --> 01:05:21,200 Speaker 1: The breakfast club. It's six three six four six four 1513 01:05:21,320 --> 01:05:24,680 Speaker 1: six five. Now, Swiss is this your son that played 1514 01:05:25,280 --> 01:05:26,560 Speaker 1: soccer and then stopped? 1515 01:05:27,000 --> 01:05:29,160 Speaker 15: It's not all right, that's my little brother. 1516 01:05:30,400 --> 01:05:32,160 Speaker 1: Everybody in the house is your little something man. 1517 01:05:33,840 --> 01:05:34,520 Speaker 15: That's a fact. 1518 01:05:35,520 --> 01:05:37,400 Speaker 1: Now, as we approach the holidays, what is this time 1519 01:05:37,440 --> 01:05:37,760 Speaker 1: of year? 1520 01:05:37,840 --> 01:05:39,560 Speaker 15: Me and the youth swiss Man? 1521 01:05:39,640 --> 01:05:44,920 Speaker 20: Holiday times is definitely family times, Definitely time to, you know, 1522 01:05:45,800 --> 01:05:48,320 Speaker 20: see how other people are doing, because I know iticed 1523 01:05:48,360 --> 01:05:50,080 Speaker 20: like during the holiday times, I see a lot of 1524 01:05:50,120 --> 01:05:52,800 Speaker 20: pressure come on people with what they can do and 1525 01:05:52,880 --> 01:05:56,200 Speaker 20: what they can't do, and I just want to, you know, 1526 01:05:56,240 --> 01:05:57,600 Speaker 20: I just want people to find their balance. 1527 01:05:57,680 --> 01:05:58,200 Speaker 15: Absolutely. 1528 01:05:58,320 --> 01:05:59,880 Speaker 3: What do you find a time for a lot of 1529 01:06:00,040 --> 01:06:03,160 Speaker 3: stuff that you're doing because you're producing, you do versus you're. 1530 01:06:03,120 --> 01:06:04,920 Speaker 1: Traveling, you have kids. 1531 01:06:05,160 --> 01:06:07,280 Speaker 3: What do you find the time to continue to create 1532 01:06:07,560 --> 01:06:08,800 Speaker 3: and do all these amazing things. 1533 01:06:10,560 --> 01:06:13,880 Speaker 20: Everything I do is under the umbrother of creativity, So 1534 01:06:14,080 --> 01:06:16,720 Speaker 20: like I make the time and I need to stay busy, 1535 01:06:17,400 --> 01:06:19,280 Speaker 20: you know, like that's the kids like to stay busy, 1536 01:06:19,360 --> 01:06:23,280 Speaker 20: because I don't feel I started yet. To be honest, 1537 01:06:23,280 --> 01:06:26,240 Speaker 20: I feel like I'm just now starting. Although I've done 1538 01:06:26,240 --> 01:06:27,840 Speaker 20: a lot of things. I feel like I'm just now 1539 01:06:27,880 --> 01:06:29,800 Speaker 20: starting because I actually know what I'm doing now. 1540 01:06:31,040 --> 01:06:31,720 Speaker 15: Oh, explain that. 1541 01:06:31,800 --> 01:06:33,440 Speaker 1: Expand on that you know what you're doing now? 1542 01:06:34,080 --> 01:06:36,320 Speaker 20: Yeah, because when I started, I was you know, I'm 1543 01:06:36,400 --> 01:06:39,680 Speaker 20: a teenager and things was happening and moving so fast, 1544 01:06:39,760 --> 01:06:42,360 Speaker 20: so you don't really know what you're doing at that age. 1545 01:06:42,400 --> 01:06:45,640 Speaker 15: You're just having fun. I still have fun. 1546 01:06:45,720 --> 01:06:48,120 Speaker 20: But now that that's past, you got time to say, Okay, 1547 01:06:48,720 --> 01:06:51,720 Speaker 20: let me change different things, let me set different goals. 1548 01:06:52,280 --> 01:06:55,080 Speaker 20: I went back to school to you know, the three 1549 01:06:55,160 --> 01:06:58,880 Speaker 20: years to know what I'm actually doing instead of just 1550 01:06:59,520 --> 01:07:01,840 Speaker 20: doing with people are telling me that I'm doing or 1551 01:07:02,360 --> 01:07:04,480 Speaker 20: believing what somebody's telling me I'm doing it, instead of 1552 01:07:04,560 --> 01:07:05,520 Speaker 20: really knowing what I'm doing. 1553 01:07:05,520 --> 01:07:06,280 Speaker 15: It's a big difference. 1554 01:07:06,800 --> 01:07:09,600 Speaker 3: What's your favorite holiday memory? Is it New York and 1555 01:07:09,680 --> 01:07:10,160 Speaker 3: the Bronx? 1556 01:07:10,320 --> 01:07:10,480 Speaker 1: Is it? 1557 01:07:11,280 --> 01:07:11,440 Speaker 23: Now? 1558 01:07:11,680 --> 01:07:13,520 Speaker 1: What's what's your favorite holiday memory? 1559 01:07:14,040 --> 01:07:16,680 Speaker 20: It's all of them? Technically, like we we have fun 1560 01:07:16,720 --> 01:07:18,560 Speaker 20: as a family. We have a big family. 1561 01:07:18,640 --> 01:07:23,720 Speaker 15: We have fun. We tell jokes, you know, we play pranks. 1562 01:07:23,880 --> 01:07:26,720 Speaker 17: Play a lot of games. You know, we're very competitive 1563 01:07:26,760 --> 01:07:28,520 Speaker 17: with the ping pong, you know, Monopoly. 1564 01:07:29,120 --> 01:07:30,440 Speaker 1: Who wins a monopoly all the time? 1565 01:07:30,480 --> 01:07:32,480 Speaker 3: Monopoly will start an argument in my house at the 1566 01:07:32,560 --> 01:07:35,960 Speaker 3: last three days in my crib, same who wins. 1567 01:07:36,120 --> 01:07:42,400 Speaker 17: Yeah, uh, at least is very good, very strategic. Egypt. 1568 01:07:42,560 --> 01:07:46,720 Speaker 17: Egypt's very Egypt. He's like, he's like the monopoly man. 1569 01:07:46,800 --> 01:07:50,240 Speaker 17: He's like Daddy war Bucks, like he's a he loves. 1570 01:07:50,080 --> 01:07:50,919 Speaker 15: Money, loves guy. 1571 01:07:51,080 --> 01:07:52,640 Speaker 1: He gives it Mom. 1572 01:07:52,680 --> 01:07:55,600 Speaker 20: And Dad was just counting the paper like he's addicted 1573 01:07:55,640 --> 01:07:59,760 Speaker 20: to money. I'm telling like serious, he and. 1574 01:08:00,240 --> 01:08:02,560 Speaker 10: Do you have any what's your expectations for the holidays? 1575 01:08:02,600 --> 01:08:05,000 Speaker 10: Because you know, you you your dad's been doing very 1576 01:08:05,000 --> 01:08:06,920 Speaker 10: well for a very long time. So do you do 1577 01:08:07,000 --> 01:08:08,000 Speaker 10: you even have any wants? 1578 01:08:09,720 --> 01:08:14,080 Speaker 15: I just want I want everyone to tune in to drive. 1579 01:08:14,160 --> 01:08:16,800 Speaker 17: But we just made it okay, then I want I 1580 01:08:16,920 --> 01:08:19,559 Speaker 17: want everyone to just really cherish this time with their family, 1581 01:08:19,640 --> 01:08:20,360 Speaker 17: Like that's what I want. 1582 01:08:20,400 --> 01:08:22,479 Speaker 15: I don't really have a lot of physical needs this year. 1583 01:08:22,560 --> 01:08:24,280 Speaker 15: I have spiritual needs. 1584 01:08:24,320 --> 01:08:26,360 Speaker 17: I have family needs, and I want people to really 1585 01:08:26,479 --> 01:08:29,760 Speaker 17: just just cherish this time with their loved ones right now, 1586 01:08:29,880 --> 01:08:31,840 Speaker 17: because the state that the world is in right now 1587 01:08:32,000 --> 01:08:32,200 Speaker 17: is just. 1588 01:08:32,280 --> 01:08:33,920 Speaker 15: Really we need that. That's real. 1589 01:08:34,400 --> 01:08:37,000 Speaker 3: Let's talk about the show Drive, right that Drive is 1590 01:08:37,040 --> 01:08:38,640 Speaker 3: a call show that comes out. Most people don't know 1591 01:08:38,720 --> 01:08:42,400 Speaker 3: that anytime before I purchase a car, of course, Swizz, 1592 01:08:43,400 --> 01:08:45,679 Speaker 3: and then when I get the car, I FaceTime Squizz. 1593 01:08:45,760 --> 01:08:48,560 Speaker 3: So if a FaceTime ever comes up, Swizz be in 1594 01:08:48,600 --> 01:08:50,240 Speaker 3: the bed sleeping and he wake up. 1595 01:08:50,320 --> 01:08:50,920 Speaker 1: What did you get? 1596 01:08:50,960 --> 01:08:51,080 Speaker 20: Now? 1597 01:08:51,439 --> 01:08:51,880 Speaker 1: What did you get? 1598 01:08:51,960 --> 01:08:52,000 Speaker 5: Like? 1599 01:08:52,240 --> 01:08:55,160 Speaker 3: We're so excited for cars, So let's talk about Drive 1600 01:08:55,320 --> 01:08:57,240 Speaker 3: and what made you want to do the show Drive? 1601 01:08:58,000 --> 01:09:01,599 Speaker 20: Well, in Terribo, I pay six thousand for it at 1602 01:09:01,600 --> 01:09:04,040 Speaker 20: the time, and ever since then I've just been into 1603 01:09:04,120 --> 01:09:07,479 Speaker 20: cars and collecting and ended up doing car shows. So 1604 01:09:07,560 --> 01:09:11,840 Speaker 20: when this opportunity to community family, father and son, you know, 1605 01:09:11,920 --> 01:09:14,799 Speaker 20: you don't really get to see father and son bonds 1606 01:09:14,840 --> 01:09:16,799 Speaker 20: from from our community, that's positive. 1607 01:09:17,200 --> 01:09:18,599 Speaker 15: So I thought that that was a plus. 1608 01:09:19,200 --> 01:09:22,320 Speaker 20: And we wanted to educate people and not just show 1609 01:09:22,439 --> 01:09:26,000 Speaker 20: blame cars, not just putting million dollar cars up, but 1610 01:09:26,160 --> 01:09:30,200 Speaker 20: really showing the everyday person how they make magic as well, 1611 01:09:30,800 --> 01:09:32,440 Speaker 20: you know, and which I think is phenomenal. 1612 01:09:32,720 --> 01:09:33,680 Speaker 1: I like working with each other. 1613 01:09:35,000 --> 01:09:39,280 Speaker 17: Oh, my little brother, we have so much fun, Like 1614 01:09:39,560 --> 01:09:42,960 Speaker 17: it's not even funny, Like we don't really have we 1615 01:09:43,640 --> 01:09:44,719 Speaker 17: have perfect synthesis. 1616 01:09:44,800 --> 01:09:47,519 Speaker 15: We don't. We don't have to work with each other 1617 01:09:47,760 --> 01:09:48,400 Speaker 15: very very well. 1618 01:09:49,600 --> 01:09:51,559 Speaker 3: I was gonna ask you know what, you guys went 1619 01:09:51,600 --> 01:09:53,479 Speaker 3: to different markets, so you see in the car culture 1620 01:09:53,479 --> 01:09:55,759 Speaker 3: in New York, you know, the call coach in Houston, 1621 01:09:56,120 --> 01:09:56,920 Speaker 3: in California? 1622 01:09:57,240 --> 01:10:01,840 Speaker 27: What was your favorite car culture and why I love Japan. 1623 01:10:02,360 --> 01:10:08,160 Speaker 27: Japan is definitely one of my favorite episodes because the architecture, 1624 01:10:08,240 --> 01:10:11,479 Speaker 27: the culture there, they're like five hundred years ahead of us, right, 1625 01:10:11,640 --> 01:10:15,320 Speaker 27: so every single every single thing that they do there, 1626 01:10:15,720 --> 01:10:18,280 Speaker 27: they're so masterful with it. So when we want to 1627 01:10:18,320 --> 01:10:20,840 Speaker 27: go see the drifting and we want to actually go 1628 01:10:21,000 --> 01:10:25,600 Speaker 27: drift with the Tokyo drifters of the Drift Champion, we 1629 01:10:25,760 --> 01:10:29,160 Speaker 27: just saw how crazy like skillful they were for us 1630 01:10:29,240 --> 01:10:31,280 Speaker 27: to put our lives in their hands and for them 1631 01:10:31,320 --> 01:10:34,720 Speaker 27: to actually, you know, be able to handle that, You 1632 01:10:34,800 --> 01:10:35,479 Speaker 27: know they were good. 1633 01:10:35,600 --> 01:10:37,680 Speaker 1: When you say five hundred years into the future, Like 1634 01:10:37,720 --> 01:10:38,360 Speaker 1: what do you mean. 1635 01:10:38,920 --> 01:10:42,240 Speaker 17: Like you know, America is a young confident like Asia 1636 01:10:42,360 --> 01:10:45,840 Speaker 17: is five is way older and culturally and. 1637 01:10:46,439 --> 01:10:49,680 Speaker 10: I'm talking about the technology that's historically Oh no, no, 1638 01:10:49,800 --> 01:10:50,400 Speaker 10: we're not flying. 1639 01:10:50,520 --> 01:10:57,519 Speaker 17: But but and in terms of them being masterful every 1640 01:10:57,560 --> 01:11:00,920 Speaker 17: single thing they do, whether it's making a drink, cutting designing, 1641 01:11:01,320 --> 01:11:05,760 Speaker 17: doing anime, comic book sketches, architecture, painting clothes. We go 1642 01:11:05,880 --> 01:11:09,559 Speaker 17: there for inspiration. So being over there to go into 1643 01:11:09,600 --> 01:11:12,280 Speaker 17: the depth of their culture was like that was definitely 1644 01:11:12,280 --> 01:11:13,400 Speaker 17: one of my favorite episodes. 1645 01:11:13,439 --> 01:11:14,080 Speaker 15: And you'll see why. 1646 01:11:14,800 --> 01:11:17,080 Speaker 3: All right, Well, Saluthor Swiss Beats in his Son Nazia. 1647 01:11:17,200 --> 01:11:18,679 Speaker 3: And when we come back, we got more with Swiss 1648 01:11:18,720 --> 01:11:20,280 Speaker 3: beats and our moves to breakfast O good morning, and 1649 01:11:20,400 --> 01:11:23,200 Speaker 3: everybody's J and D Charlamagne the guy. 1650 01:11:23,280 --> 01:11:25,800 Speaker 1: We are the breakfast Club. Now last week we got 1651 01:11:25,880 --> 01:11:27,400 Speaker 1: a chance to chop it up with Swiss Beats in 1652 01:11:27,439 --> 01:11:29,680 Speaker 1: His Son Nazia, oh man. And it was so good 1653 01:11:29,720 --> 01:11:31,800 Speaker 1: because it was for our annual Change for Change. 1654 01:11:32,040 --> 01:11:35,040 Speaker 10: I got as Luca Amazon all throughout our Change for 1655 01:11:35,160 --> 01:11:37,400 Speaker 10: Change because they were taking care of people's holiday wishless 1656 01:11:37,560 --> 01:11:40,559 Speaker 10: as well as a nice event we did here last 1657 01:11:40,560 --> 01:11:42,519 Speaker 10: week where they gave everybody who came to the event 1658 01:11:42,560 --> 01:11:44,479 Speaker 10: a thousand dollars. So thank you to Amazon. 1659 01:11:44,600 --> 01:11:46,559 Speaker 1: All right, let's jump into our interview with Swiss Beats 1660 01:11:46,600 --> 01:11:47,720 Speaker 1: in the Sun, Naicia. 1661 01:11:47,560 --> 01:11:51,280 Speaker 10: Who's your favorite road trip partner Swiss Nazia or DMX 1662 01:11:51,479 --> 01:11:53,160 Speaker 10: because we always hear about the stories and you were 1663 01:11:53,240 --> 01:11:53,800 Speaker 10: next in the car. 1664 01:11:53,920 --> 01:11:54,599 Speaker 1: That's legendary. 1665 01:11:55,040 --> 01:11:55,800 Speaker 15: That's a hard one. 1666 01:11:56,720 --> 01:11:57,080 Speaker 1: I got this. 1667 01:11:57,240 --> 01:12:01,040 Speaker 20: I love you, but I gotta say X too, for 1668 01:12:01,160 --> 01:12:02,560 Speaker 20: a lot, for a lot of for a lot of 1669 01:12:02,680 --> 01:12:08,000 Speaker 20: other reasons. You know, X was X was very animated. 1670 01:12:08,800 --> 01:12:10,920 Speaker 20: Na's is laid back. He get animated when he went 1671 01:12:10,960 --> 01:12:13,439 Speaker 20: to but I would get to hear stories from from 1672 01:12:13,680 --> 01:12:16,240 Speaker 20: X that I never heard before when we're in the car, 1673 01:12:16,880 --> 01:12:19,200 Speaker 20: Like the last car ride we drove. I went to 1674 01:12:19,240 --> 01:12:21,600 Speaker 20: go visit him in like upstate New York, and he 1675 01:12:21,680 --> 01:12:26,040 Speaker 20: wanted to go see Scarface in Boston. And he's like, Yo, 1676 01:12:26,240 --> 01:12:29,559 Speaker 20: you know you know scar Faces in Boston tonight. He said, Okay, 1677 01:12:30,160 --> 01:12:33,120 Speaker 20: shout up to Scarface. You know, I just drove like 1678 01:12:33,720 --> 01:12:35,640 Speaker 20: two hours to go where he was at in the 1679 01:12:35,720 --> 01:12:38,920 Speaker 20: first place. And this one, I had the seven twenty 1680 01:12:39,560 --> 01:12:42,920 Speaker 20: mcclan so's a sports car and I used to always 1681 01:12:42,920 --> 01:12:45,479 Speaker 20: bring the cars up so extra drive them around when 1682 01:12:45,560 --> 01:12:48,519 Speaker 20: I when I visit him, and he's like hinting again, 1683 01:12:48,920 --> 01:12:50,160 Speaker 20: I want to go see Scarface. 1684 01:12:50,760 --> 01:12:53,600 Speaker 15: I'm like, you want to go? You want me to 1685 01:12:53,640 --> 01:12:54,639 Speaker 15: take you to see Scarface. 1686 01:12:54,680 --> 01:12:56,960 Speaker 20: I just drove two hours and he never really asked 1687 01:12:57,000 --> 01:12:58,840 Speaker 20: me for things like that, so I can tell that 1688 01:12:58,920 --> 01:12:59,880 Speaker 20: it was something that he really. 1689 01:12:59,760 --> 01:13:00,280 Speaker 15: Wanted to do. 1690 01:13:01,080 --> 01:13:03,040 Speaker 20: So we get in there, get in the car. We 1691 01:13:03,200 --> 01:13:06,680 Speaker 20: go five hours to see Scarface, and. 1692 01:13:06,880 --> 01:13:08,639 Speaker 3: The whole five I was in a little ass card. 1693 01:13:08,680 --> 01:13:12,000 Speaker 3: It wasn't escalate. It's a little call like his arm 1694 01:13:12,080 --> 01:13:13,240 Speaker 3: and their arms were touching. 1695 01:13:13,240 --> 01:13:15,639 Speaker 20: The whole rock my ass still heard from that drive. 1696 01:13:17,000 --> 01:13:19,719 Speaker 20: And so we're driving and he's playing old school music, 1697 01:13:19,840 --> 01:13:24,760 Speaker 20: old school music, and then he stops the music and 1698 01:13:24,880 --> 01:13:27,680 Speaker 20: he asked me to record him, which he never does, 1699 01:13:28,400 --> 01:13:31,640 Speaker 20: and he just like gave me his life story, like. 1700 01:13:31,800 --> 01:13:32,880 Speaker 15: Like I never heard it before. 1701 01:13:33,040 --> 01:13:33,320 Speaker 1: Wow. 1702 01:13:33,680 --> 01:13:36,720 Speaker 15: And that was our last drive, but it was it 1703 01:13:36,800 --> 01:13:37,240 Speaker 15: was epic. 1704 01:13:37,640 --> 01:13:37,880 Speaker 20: Wow. 1705 01:13:38,120 --> 01:13:39,240 Speaker 1: You still have you? Of course? You have? 1706 01:13:39,840 --> 01:13:40,400 Speaker 15: Absolutely? 1707 01:13:40,640 --> 01:13:44,360 Speaker 20: Yes, yes, Wow and uh And we went on stage 1708 01:13:44,400 --> 01:13:47,559 Speaker 20: and he rocked with Scarface, Wow all night. 1709 01:13:48,479 --> 01:13:52,320 Speaker 3: Is it time for a DMX documentary, a true DMX. 1710 01:13:51,439 --> 01:13:56,040 Speaker 20: Movie, It's always time to witness greatness, But I feel 1711 01:13:56,080 --> 01:13:59,040 Speaker 20: that it just has to be me personally. I just 1712 01:13:59,080 --> 01:14:04,040 Speaker 20: wanted to be shot and directed like to the standard 1713 01:14:04,160 --> 01:14:07,679 Speaker 20: of what he gave us. He gave us timeless moments, 1714 01:14:07,720 --> 01:14:11,920 Speaker 20: he gave us, you know, his his life literally and 1715 01:14:12,000 --> 01:14:13,920 Speaker 20: so I feel that, you know, a lot of people 1716 01:14:13,920 --> 01:14:17,679 Speaker 20: have been pitching, uh documentaries and movies, but they don't 1717 01:14:17,920 --> 01:14:20,640 Speaker 20: you know, it needs to have the right care. And 1718 01:14:21,000 --> 01:14:22,160 Speaker 20: I wanted to be the biggest thing. 1719 01:14:22,120 --> 01:14:22,800 Speaker 15: In the world for him. 1720 01:14:24,320 --> 01:14:26,320 Speaker 10: Now, did you learn anything about your dad that you 1721 01:14:26,400 --> 01:14:28,960 Speaker 10: didn't know? No, after working on this series, taking these 1722 01:14:29,000 --> 01:14:29,960 Speaker 10: long road trips. 1723 01:14:30,520 --> 01:14:36,439 Speaker 17: A thousand percent, I learned that he he doesn't go 1724 01:14:36,640 --> 01:14:39,920 Speaker 17: as fast as you think. He would happen to look fast, 1725 01:14:40,120 --> 01:14:43,360 Speaker 17: very fast cars like he actually is pretty reserved now. 1726 01:14:44,120 --> 01:14:47,719 Speaker 17: And uh, he just he really picks what he wants 1727 01:14:47,760 --> 01:14:49,760 Speaker 17: to do. He picks how fast he wants to go, 1728 01:14:49,840 --> 01:14:51,599 Speaker 17: He picks if he wants to get in the monster truck, 1729 01:14:51,680 --> 01:14:53,920 Speaker 17: he picks if he wants to go drifting like he 1730 01:14:54,120 --> 01:14:57,400 Speaker 17: has that Uh, that situational discernment. 1731 01:14:57,520 --> 01:15:00,400 Speaker 15: Now, I feel like that's pretty much discernment. I liked that. 1732 01:15:00,640 --> 01:15:02,320 Speaker 3: I was going to ask you, with all the artists 1733 01:15:02,360 --> 01:15:04,880 Speaker 3: that your dad worked with, who did you enjoy listening 1734 01:15:04,920 --> 01:15:05,920 Speaker 3: to and talking to the most? 1735 01:15:08,760 --> 01:15:11,160 Speaker 17: I have too, because I haven't really, I haven't sat 1736 01:15:11,360 --> 01:15:12,960 Speaker 17: down with the first one. I'm about to tell you, 1737 01:15:13,240 --> 01:15:16,600 Speaker 17: like on a personal personal note, but Lil Wayne is 1738 01:15:16,680 --> 01:15:21,680 Speaker 17: definitely one of my favorite artists ever and not my 1739 01:15:21,800 --> 01:15:23,040 Speaker 17: dad has collab with as well. 1740 01:15:25,000 --> 01:15:25,840 Speaker 1: Hurrah for real. 1741 01:15:26,520 --> 01:15:27,640 Speaker 15: Yeah, I remember being a. 1742 01:15:27,680 --> 01:15:30,040 Speaker 17: Kid and like his energy just lit up the room 1743 01:15:30,200 --> 01:15:34,040 Speaker 17: and he he has such a great spirit I can 1744 01:15:34,080 --> 01:15:36,280 Speaker 17: feel and I remember that feeling till this day. 1745 01:15:36,960 --> 01:15:37,080 Speaker 14: Now. 1746 01:15:37,160 --> 01:15:38,920 Speaker 1: You know you said for real now that this is 1747 01:15:39,120 --> 01:15:40,040 Speaker 1: your dad's pressure. 1748 01:15:40,800 --> 01:15:43,840 Speaker 3: Now, Bust a couple of probably about a month ago, 1749 01:15:44,160 --> 01:15:48,639 Speaker 3: said he's doing an album where Pharrell, Timberland and Swiss 1750 01:15:48,680 --> 01:15:50,240 Speaker 3: Beats are the EPs. 1751 01:15:50,960 --> 01:15:52,559 Speaker 1: How how does that happen? 1752 01:15:53,000 --> 01:15:53,160 Speaker 14: You know? 1753 01:15:53,280 --> 01:15:56,439 Speaker 20: Buster is somebody that don't back down easy. You can't 1754 01:15:56,479 --> 01:15:59,160 Speaker 20: tell him no. And he signed us up for his 1755 01:15:59,320 --> 01:16:03,920 Speaker 20: project and we just said, okay, let's do it. And 1756 01:16:04,040 --> 01:16:07,960 Speaker 20: he came, He's like, you know you tam for real, 1757 01:16:08,040 --> 01:16:12,120 Speaker 20: y'all my producers for the project. I'm like, okay, no, 1758 01:16:12,520 --> 01:16:17,400 Speaker 20: the executive producers okay. And then I don't know, like 1759 01:16:17,560 --> 01:16:20,760 Speaker 20: somehow we actually all got into a space which is 1760 01:16:20,800 --> 01:16:23,439 Speaker 20: a photo of us on this boat, and I'm sitting here, 1761 01:16:23,439 --> 01:16:26,240 Speaker 20: I'm like, yo, he really manifested this, Like we didn't 1762 01:16:26,240 --> 01:16:27,880 Speaker 20: even plan to be on that boat at that time. 1763 01:16:27,920 --> 01:16:31,759 Speaker 15: It's not like, Okay, let's have an executive producer boat ride. 1764 01:16:31,800 --> 01:16:33,360 Speaker 15: Like we just all ended up. 1765 01:16:33,880 --> 01:16:37,000 Speaker 20: Sitting there and I'm looking around like, okay, I heard 1766 01:16:37,000 --> 01:16:38,439 Speaker 20: the universe. Okay, I guess we're doing it. 1767 01:16:39,000 --> 01:16:40,280 Speaker 1: Is it done? Is it almost done? 1768 01:16:40,960 --> 01:16:44,400 Speaker 20: It's done and it needs to come out now, you know, 1769 01:16:44,479 --> 01:16:47,120 Speaker 20: because buster a hole onto the album for thirty Summer ever. 1770 01:16:48,000 --> 01:16:50,960 Speaker 1: Right, but this might be a stupid question. 1771 01:16:51,040 --> 01:16:54,320 Speaker 10: He's named after nods, right, yeah, okay, yeah, it's nods, 1772 01:16:54,360 --> 01:16:55,400 Speaker 10: like if God bothers. 1773 01:16:55,880 --> 01:16:59,960 Speaker 15: Just no, my mom's from Queen. His mother's love Nods. 1774 01:17:00,240 --> 01:17:00,360 Speaker 15: You know. 1775 01:17:00,640 --> 01:17:07,439 Speaker 20: I was kind of conflicted in a way, but yeah, man, 1776 01:17:08,040 --> 01:17:10,200 Speaker 20: but then I was like, I love nas too. 1777 01:17:13,320 --> 01:17:15,479 Speaker 3: I was salute the Swiss beats in his son Nasia, 1778 01:17:15,600 --> 01:17:17,320 Speaker 3: and when we come back, we got more with Swiss beats. 1779 01:17:17,320 --> 01:17:19,240 Speaker 3: It don't move us to breakfast Lug, good Morning, the 1780 01:17:19,439 --> 01:17:25,160 Speaker 3: breakfast club. So kicking it with Swiss beats in Nacia Charlaman. 1781 01:17:25,360 --> 01:17:27,600 Speaker 10: You know, everybody always ask about versus man, what's up 1782 01:17:27,640 --> 01:17:29,000 Speaker 10: with versus big things? 1783 01:17:29,120 --> 01:17:29,639 Speaker 15: Big things? 1784 01:17:30,640 --> 01:17:33,519 Speaker 20: You know, I'm happy that me and Tim was able 1785 01:17:33,640 --> 01:17:37,120 Speaker 20: to take the time to understand our company because when 1786 01:17:37,160 --> 01:17:39,519 Speaker 20: we launched it, it was during the pandemic things that 1787 01:17:39,600 --> 01:17:42,560 Speaker 20: is happening, Like we never got no rest, you know, 1788 01:17:42,760 --> 01:17:47,439 Speaker 20: like we was helping everybody else feel better and have 1789 01:17:47,640 --> 01:17:51,000 Speaker 20: something to go to other than the negative news and 1790 01:17:51,400 --> 01:17:53,479 Speaker 20: energy at that time. But we didn't take time for 1791 01:17:53,560 --> 01:17:57,880 Speaker 20: ourself and so things went fast and we owned the 1792 01:17:58,160 --> 01:18:02,040 Speaker 20: We own the company one hundred percent, which is super fresh, 1793 01:18:02,080 --> 01:18:03,439 Speaker 20: and we got some big announcements coming. 1794 01:18:04,280 --> 01:18:07,040 Speaker 10: Yeah, I wonder if it's something I mean, I know 1795 01:18:07,120 --> 01:18:09,200 Speaker 10: it's something artists still want to do. But you know, 1796 01:18:09,360 --> 01:18:11,479 Speaker 10: during the pandemic, it was more pure because it was 1797 01:18:11,600 --> 01:18:14,120 Speaker 10: just about the music. Now it's so much business and 1798 01:18:14,200 --> 01:18:15,240 Speaker 10: red tapesolve. 1799 01:18:15,400 --> 01:18:19,160 Speaker 20: Yeah, and naturally when something gets big like that, that happens. 1800 01:18:19,240 --> 01:18:22,840 Speaker 20: But you know versus and I tell people because I 1801 01:18:22,920 --> 01:18:26,000 Speaker 20: had people on the shows, and when you bring up verses, 1802 01:18:26,040 --> 01:18:28,600 Speaker 20: they're like, oh, I don't want to. And it's not 1803 01:18:28,720 --> 01:18:33,640 Speaker 20: a battle show. It's a show where two artists celebrating 1804 01:18:33,720 --> 01:18:37,280 Speaker 20: each other with their hits. Now, if you want to 1805 01:18:37,320 --> 01:18:39,400 Speaker 20: make it a battle, I'm not going to say, hey, 1806 01:18:40,120 --> 01:18:43,720 Speaker 20: don't talk tough to this guy. Right you you make 1807 01:18:43,760 --> 01:18:46,360 Speaker 20: it a battle, or you can make it a love fest, 1808 01:18:47,120 --> 01:18:49,160 Speaker 20: you know, like There's been many verses that it has 1809 01:18:49,200 --> 01:18:52,840 Speaker 20: been smooth and loving, but with the hip hop is 1810 01:18:52,920 --> 01:18:53,439 Speaker 20: just the ego. 1811 01:18:53,760 --> 01:18:54,920 Speaker 15: You know how it's competitive. 1812 01:18:55,120 --> 01:18:57,200 Speaker 1: Bro, you put the locks and Dipset on stage. 1813 01:18:57,640 --> 01:18:59,439 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what I'm saying, and everybody, I think a 1814 01:18:59,479 --> 01:19:00,720 Speaker 3: lot of people or a dipset was. 1815 01:19:00,720 --> 01:19:03,840 Speaker 20: Going to take that one away. I know many people 1816 01:19:03,920 --> 01:19:05,960 Speaker 20: thought that the dip set was going to and then 1817 01:19:06,000 --> 01:19:09,680 Speaker 20: it was Jada. Yeah, you got the right hat on. 1818 01:19:11,160 --> 01:19:14,479 Speaker 1: What was the biggest verses for you as far as culture? 1819 01:19:14,479 --> 01:19:15,280 Speaker 1: Would that be the biggest? 1820 01:19:15,479 --> 01:19:15,639 Speaker 15: Yeah? 1821 01:19:16,400 --> 01:19:20,720 Speaker 20: That and Gucci Man and Jez absolutely, yeah, those two 1822 01:19:20,760 --> 01:19:23,479 Speaker 20: because that's what verses do it. You know, it took 1823 01:19:24,640 --> 01:19:27,519 Speaker 20: two guys that really went to war to the point 1824 01:19:27,560 --> 01:19:31,040 Speaker 20: of no return, and Versus gave them an outlet to, 1825 01:19:32,560 --> 01:19:34,920 Speaker 20: you know, send a different message out there to the 1826 01:19:35,000 --> 01:19:37,120 Speaker 20: youth today because they're not who they. 1827 01:19:37,200 --> 01:19:38,479 Speaker 15: Was fifteen years ago. 1828 01:19:38,560 --> 01:19:42,040 Speaker 20: But there's no outlets that can let you as a man, 1829 01:19:42,320 --> 01:19:45,280 Speaker 20: as a you know, stand on how you feel and 1830 01:19:45,479 --> 01:19:47,800 Speaker 20: move past from it. And this is why you know, 1831 01:19:48,200 --> 01:19:50,560 Speaker 20: I couldn't if I stopped Versus today, I would be 1832 01:19:50,600 --> 01:19:52,639 Speaker 20: fine because we won already. 1833 01:19:52,720 --> 01:19:56,320 Speaker 15: Like it did what it needed to do, but it 1834 01:19:56,439 --> 01:19:56,800 Speaker 15: needs to. 1835 01:19:56,880 --> 01:20:00,519 Speaker 20: Do more because versus, the people's streams go up seven 1836 01:20:00,600 --> 01:20:04,599 Speaker 20: hundred percent. People sell out guitars. It's so we call 1837 01:20:04,640 --> 01:20:07,960 Speaker 20: it the versus effect. And the artists get so much 1838 01:20:08,040 --> 01:20:10,760 Speaker 20: from versus. And so all the artists out there who's 1839 01:20:10,800 --> 01:20:14,160 Speaker 20: listening to this, please stop trying to charge us more 1840 01:20:14,240 --> 01:20:18,160 Speaker 20: than you ever made on your show. You know, show 1841 01:20:18,240 --> 01:20:20,280 Speaker 20: us the love that you showed those other outlets that 1842 01:20:20,400 --> 01:20:23,200 Speaker 20: you don't get nothing from it, you know. And so 1843 01:20:24,080 --> 01:20:26,040 Speaker 20: that was the thing that was like the hardest thing 1844 01:20:26,160 --> 01:20:29,960 Speaker 20: was hearing the artists trying to overdo it for no reason. 1845 01:20:30,080 --> 01:20:31,599 Speaker 3: I got to ask because there there's been a lot 1846 01:20:31,600 --> 01:20:34,599 Speaker 3: of rumors about some verses that would well hopefully will 1847 01:20:34,640 --> 01:20:35,240 Speaker 3: still get done. 1848 01:20:35,479 --> 01:20:36,400 Speaker 1: You just say yes and no. 1849 01:20:37,320 --> 01:20:38,320 Speaker 15: I don't want to say yes and no. 1850 01:20:38,439 --> 01:20:40,679 Speaker 1: Didiot Jermaine dupri Is that gonna happen? He just said 1851 01:20:40,680 --> 01:20:41,760 Speaker 1: he don't want to see you. I know, but I'm 1852 01:20:41,840 --> 01:20:42,400 Speaker 1: asking anyway. 1853 01:20:43,000 --> 01:20:46,200 Speaker 20: But the reason see, because I'm not scared to answer 1854 01:20:46,240 --> 01:20:49,240 Speaker 20: the question. By the way, But what happens is this 1855 01:20:49,360 --> 01:20:52,800 Speaker 20: clip right here gets played back to me and it's like, yo, 1856 01:20:53,080 --> 01:20:55,360 Speaker 20: I didn't really want to confirm that yet, bye blah blah, 1857 01:20:55,400 --> 01:20:58,680 Speaker 20: and I have to deal with this offline and say, Yo, 1858 01:20:58,800 --> 01:21:00,760 Speaker 20: they asked me a question. Y'all went out there and 1859 01:21:00,800 --> 01:21:03,080 Speaker 20: did a promo run, and y'all went out there and said, 1860 01:21:03,120 --> 01:21:04,759 Speaker 20: y'all wanted to do it. All I did was confirm 1861 01:21:04,840 --> 01:21:07,000 Speaker 20: what I said. Okay, yeah, but that was a different time. 1862 01:21:07,040 --> 01:21:11,040 Speaker 20: But this is the Versus documentary has been. We've been 1863 01:21:11,080 --> 01:21:15,040 Speaker 20: shooting a documentary since the beginning the verses, so lean 1864 01:21:15,120 --> 01:21:19,479 Speaker 20: away is the directing. Y'all going to see all of 1865 01:21:19,560 --> 01:21:21,439 Speaker 20: this when I'm telling you, I take it. 1866 01:21:22,520 --> 01:21:26,960 Speaker 17: You can see Drive premiering on Hulu. Driver Swiss Beats 1867 01:21:27,040 --> 01:21:29,280 Speaker 17: tune all the way in. All six episodes will be 1868 01:21:29,360 --> 01:21:32,519 Speaker 17: dropping simultaneously, so you could binge watch the whole thing. 1869 01:21:32,920 --> 01:21:36,040 Speaker 1: This is absolutely but we appreciate you guys for joining us. 1870 01:21:36,080 --> 01:21:37,920 Speaker 1: Take some noise for Swiss Beats and not see it. 1871 01:21:41,600 --> 01:21:43,839 Speaker 15: I've never seen the audience like this is amazing. 1872 01:21:44,120 --> 01:21:46,680 Speaker 1: Nah. They do these nice little events from time to time. 1873 01:21:47,240 --> 01:21:48,120 Speaker 1: It's not little at. 1874 01:21:48,000 --> 01:21:49,920 Speaker 15: All, but I heard that doing some big things today. 1875 01:21:50,000 --> 01:21:50,559 Speaker 15: This is cool. 1876 01:21:50,760 --> 01:21:53,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, So this has a change for change when we 1877 01:21:53,280 --> 01:21:55,639 Speaker 3: give back to people, and what people did this time 1878 01:21:55,800 --> 01:21:57,360 Speaker 3: is they put a wish list of things that they 1879 01:21:57,439 --> 01:22:01,120 Speaker 3: needed for the holidays. And shout to Amazon. They provided 1880 01:22:01,479 --> 01:22:03,680 Speaker 3: their wish list for a lot of people. So like, 1881 01:22:03,800 --> 01:22:05,720 Speaker 3: even today, since you guys are here, I think we 1882 01:22:05,760 --> 01:22:06,519 Speaker 3: should do something special. 1883 01:22:06,600 --> 01:22:07,200 Speaker 15: Charlemagne, what you. 1884 01:22:07,240 --> 01:22:10,360 Speaker 1: Think, I'm all for it. Now for everybody that that's 1885 01:22:10,400 --> 01:22:10,880 Speaker 1: what we're here for. 1886 01:22:11,240 --> 01:22:13,639 Speaker 3: Yeah, Now for everybody who put in the wish list 1887 01:22:13,680 --> 01:22:15,639 Speaker 3: and came in and put your hands up one time 1888 01:22:15,720 --> 01:22:18,519 Speaker 3: and then you bought a person with you, right right, 1889 01:22:19,120 --> 01:22:21,840 Speaker 3: So for you guys today, we're gonna give everybody that 1890 01:22:22,000 --> 01:22:24,000 Speaker 3: signed up one thousand dollars. 1891 01:22:24,640 --> 01:22:28,840 Speaker 1: That's right, Hold up where you signed up? 1892 01:22:28,880 --> 01:22:32,040 Speaker 15: Back? Where do we do that? 1893 01:22:32,880 --> 01:22:36,360 Speaker 1: But not only that, people that you came, well, we're 1894 01:22:36,360 --> 01:22:39,760 Speaker 1: gonna give a thousand dollars too, that's right. Hey, hey see, 1895 01:22:40,439 --> 01:22:43,439 Speaker 1: one of y'all didn't want to come. He one of 1896 01:22:43,520 --> 01:22:45,559 Speaker 1: y'all had to get begged to come here. Now, look, 1897 01:22:45,680 --> 01:22:47,559 Speaker 1: this is the big money show. This is the big 1898 01:22:47,720 --> 01:22:50,840 Speaker 1: money show. So we appreciate you guys for coming. 1899 01:22:50,920 --> 01:22:52,400 Speaker 3: We got a lot of cool stuff for you as well, 1900 01:22:52,439 --> 01:22:54,200 Speaker 3: and just say thank you guys for rocking with us 1901 01:22:54,200 --> 01:22:54,920 Speaker 3: and riding with us. 1902 01:22:55,200 --> 01:22:57,519 Speaker 1: And thank you to Amazon man, thank you for Amazon. 1903 01:22:57,600 --> 01:23:00,439 Speaker 1: We really appreciate you guys. We couldn't do none of 1904 01:23:00,479 --> 01:23:03,920 Speaker 1: this without Amazon. But thank you very much so, ladies 1905 01:23:03,920 --> 01:23:07,000 Speaker 1: and gentlemen, NA says Swiss Beats. We are the Breakfast Club. 1906 01:23:10,840 --> 01:23:11,320 Speaker 1: Once again. 1907 01:23:11,400 --> 01:23:13,320 Speaker 10: Thank you to Swiss Beach and NA saying salute the 1908 01:23:13,360 --> 01:23:16,439 Speaker 10: Amazon Man and that Black Business Initiative. 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Are you someone 1916 01:23:36,200 --> 01:23:38,679 Speaker 3: who knows you don't have to sacrifice comfort for quality, 1917 01:23:39,240 --> 01:23:41,960 Speaker 3: Someone who lives large in life and in the bedroom, 1918 01:23:42,400 --> 01:23:45,960 Speaker 3: then live large and now thinner with new Magnum Raw condoms, 1919 01:23:46,160 --> 01:23:48,960 Speaker 3: the thinnest Magnum condom available where condoms are sold. 1920 01:23:53,160 --> 01:23:57,080 Speaker 1: Are you getting to the yam? Since Thanksgiving? Sweet, we 1921 01:23:57,200 --> 01:23:59,160 Speaker 1: got more coming up with the best of the Breakfast Club. 1922 01:23:59,280 --> 01:24:00,320 Speaker 1: The Breakfast Club