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Speaker 1: I've ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the

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Speaker 1: Fred Show. Hey, Sophia, welcome to the show. Good morning,

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Speaker 1: Good morning. All right, what's going on with this guy Hunter?

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Speaker 1: Fill us in? How did you meet? Tell us about

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Speaker 1: any dates that you've gone on already and where things

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: So I met him on the dating apps. We connected

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Speaker 3: online and then he had asked me out. And I

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Speaker 3: have to tell you, honestly, was the best date I've

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Speaker 3: ever had. I have never felt so free to be

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Speaker 3: myself with somebody, especially on a first date. And I

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Speaker 3: mean we talked about everything. I mean it was like,

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Speaker 3: oh my gosh, I've finally met somebody who.

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Speaker 2: Was, you know, like me.

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Speaker 3: You know, we have a lot in common, lots to

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Speaker 3: share a lot of opinions on things, And I mean,

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Speaker 3: I don't know the sparks for flying on my end

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Speaker 3: for sure, and I thought it was equal, but now

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Speaker 3: I don't know. I haven't heard from him, so I

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and that's frustrating. I'm sure we can all relate

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Speaker 1: to meeting somebody. It's hard to meet people, and then

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Speaker 1: you meet someone and then you think it's going one direction,

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Speaker 1: and then you know you leave optimistic and hopeful, and

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Speaker 1: now you have not heard from this person at all,

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Speaker 1: and you look back on this date and you really

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Speaker 1: you said it was the best date ever. I mean,

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Speaker 1: you feel that strongly about it. Is that dramatic or

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Speaker 1: is that you really feel like that?

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Speaker 3: No? I really feel like that, and I thought it

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Speaker 3: was reciprocated. There was no indication that anything was off

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Speaker 1: Okay, well let's call this guy right now, this guy Hunter,

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Speaker 1: and see if we can figure it out.

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Speaker 2: Good luck.

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Speaker 1: Hello, Hi is his Hunter? Yeah, hey Hunter, good morning.

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Speaker 1: My name is Fred. I'm calling for the Fred's Show.

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Speaker 1: It's the morning radio show, and I have to tell

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Speaker 1: I would need your permission to continue with the call.

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Speaker 2: Can we chat for just a second. You can hang

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Speaker 2: up anytime.

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Speaker 4: Sure, But what's going on?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: No, I will get right to it, and thank you

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Speaker 1: for that. We're calling on behalf of a woman who

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Speaker 1: met you online. You guys met Her name is Sophia,

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Speaker 1: and you recently went on a date. Do you remember her?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I remember Sophia.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so what's that reaction about? Because she reached out

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Speaker 1: to us and told us about you, and I really

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Speaker 1: excited to hear from you again to go on another date.

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Speaker 1: And she says that you haven't reached out and you're

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Speaker 2: So what happened? What's going on? No? Yeah, no, Sophia.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, So we met on an app and went out

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Speaker 4: to dinner, and it honestly was a fantastic date. Like,

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Speaker 4: she was super cool. I really dug her vibe. The

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Speaker 2: Man.

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Speaker 4: It's a bummer, but I just I just can't do it,

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Speaker 4: you know what I mean?

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Speaker 2: Wait? Whoa, whoa, Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so you love the date, you thought Sophia was great,

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Speaker 1: It's very possible it has nothing to do with her.

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Speaker 2: It's not it's not about who's fault it is.

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Speaker 4: It's just I've been with so many girls with daddy

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Speaker 4: I mean, it's not really anything on her. She was great,

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Speaker 1: You say that? How can you say, Hunter, she's great?

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Speaker 1: I mean everything was great. I was super into it.

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Speaker 2: What's that y'all have in fun of me?

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Speaker 4: But like this daddy issue thing is for real? You know,

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Speaker 1: Look there may be something to relationship familial issues and

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Speaker 3: Oh, you need a second to pick my jaw up

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Speaker 1: I mean, what whatsics does he even have? I mean, like,

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Speaker 1: what is the deal? So you guys been talking about family.

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Speaker 3: No, pretty much that I just said, you know, my

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Speaker 4: Dad in like ten years, dude, that's a lot. And

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Speaker 4: I was like, yeah, he's alive somewhere.

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Speaker 2: If it'd have been more like five than.

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Speaker 3: Deal with I mean like that's not your business, Like

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we're talking about it, and like if we think

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Speaker 4: That's the thing with like the family dynamic. That's why

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Speaker 2: Know me, I got this.

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Speaker 2: I mean, what are you? Like? Who are you?

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Speaker 1: Who is this large group of people? But universally, you know,

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Speaker 4: I mean, like I can rattle off names if you want.

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Speaker 2: I don't know what does that matter to me? I

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Speaker 1: I'm just trying to find what cliche group of people

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Speaker 2: Every single you're talking to one right now.

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Speaker 1: Every single you're talking to you're talking to a girl

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Speaker 4: Right now, that's right, Fred, I probably wouldn't vibe. I mean,

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Speaker 4: just saying I like y'all's program, but like you know,

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Speaker 4: but like if that seems a little suck to me

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Speaker 1: Of Okay, So first it was daddy issues. Now it's

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Speaker 4: Well, daddy issues are like trust issues, and then it

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I got them all, you know what I mean? Yeah,

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Speaker 4: Like w's been like you know, not actually being direct

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Speaker 4: there's one issue in your childhood that you haven't resolved,

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Speaker 1: we also hunter haven't gotten into your stuff yet.

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Speaker 2: Either. Let's talk. Why don't you have a seat.

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Speaker 4: I feel like I'm pretty cool.

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Speaker 2: But of course, of course you feel you know, so

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Speaker 4: We've all got hang ups. Like I hate this sound,

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Speaker 2: And like, well, he's you know, like you don't have

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Speaker 4: I'm a bad texterer. I'm good at phone call, like

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Speaker 4: the phone calls, but like texting. Oh okay, cool, you know, yeah, okay,

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Speaker 4: time out. You're saying, I'm judging you harshly, But I

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Speaker 2: That's the difference. Yeah, he's right, you're judgmental.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think you're you're really being hard on this woman,

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Speaker 1: but and for something that again we were not We

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Speaker 1: reminding me something that she has control over. Or this

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Speaker 1: is my head's exploding, Sophia, I'll yeah, I assume after

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Speaker 1: this you don't want to go out with him anyway.

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Speaker 1: I mean, he has made his statement, but there's there's

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Speaker 3: Hearing him talk, it's a completely different person that I

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Speaker 1: It's not a good look. But Hunter, a look has

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Speaker 1: the right to live. How don't I want to live?

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Speaker 1: I just I think it's extremely closed minded. But Hunter,

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Speaker 1: thank you for your time, thanks for answering, And Sophia,

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Speaker 1: good luck out there.

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, peace in love. I got it. Thank you,