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Speaker 1: It's the Fresh Show. This is what's trending. Who is

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Speaker 1: out there like me? Eight five five five one three five.

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Speaker 1: Most people who are like me don't want to admit it,

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Speaker 1: but lay it as right here. Seventeen ten Americans confess

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Speaker 1: to holding their poop in all public areas to avoid

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Speaker 1: using a public restroom. Not I. I do everything in

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Speaker 1: my power not to use a public restroom for number

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Speaker 1: one or number two, but certainly not number two. We

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Speaker 1: need to be in a dire situation. Not even number

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Speaker 1: one go to the bathroom. I try not to go

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Speaker 1: in there. I think it's gross.

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Speaker 2: Why do you stand?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you still got to touch the door, You still

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Speaker 1: got touch stuff.

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Speaker 2: It really matter.

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Speaker 1: Take you with your foot like everybody else does. Has

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Speaker 1: a code on it. I So they talked to two

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Speaker 1: thousand people about this. They asked about their bathroom preferences.

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Speaker 1: They found the seventy percent hate going in public so

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Speaker 1: much that they hold it until they can be in

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Speaker 1: a comfort of their own home. Men were more likely

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Speaker 1: to agree with this mindset than women. However, it was

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Speaker 1: like seventy four percent men sixty five percent of women.

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Speaker 1: On average, Americans are holding it in for two and

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Speaker 1: a half hours in order to poop at home? Whoa,

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Speaker 1: and the men are willing to wait three hours compared

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Speaker 1: to two hours for women. Why put yourself into this discomfort?

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Speaker 1: The survey found that sixty four percent of respondents agree

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Speaker 1: that they're just uncomfortable using a public restroom when going

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Speaker 1: number two. They also ask people about the most important

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Speaker 1: points of public restroom etiquette and found that people peeping

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Speaker 1: through the gaps in the doors is the biggest violation.

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Speaker 1: Who is doing that?

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Speaker 3: Sick?

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Speaker 2: What the hell? What is wrong?

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Speaker 4: I mean I do it on the reverse and when

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 4: When you hear someone come into the bathroom, you got

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Speaker 4: to make sure, like your feet are certain ways so

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Speaker 4: you don't know what to you and you're looking to make.

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Speaker 1: Sure shoes, Yeah, kin shoes, And that's that could be

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Speaker 1: useful because I were, you know, very distinguishing every day

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Speaker 1: look at it too. But if it's a situation where

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Speaker 1: I need to do that, I hide my feet, oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: because I don't want anyone to know that I'm the

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Speaker 1: one who's freaking havoc in the place. That's why you

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Speaker 1: have to borrow my shoes all the time. We have

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Speaker 1: the same sh it's the same shoes, so it doesn't

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Speaker 1: do me any good. It's like it's not a size fifteen.

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Speaker 1: Someone could look at it like, oh, that's a side

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Speaker 1: set of the half. That's Rufio taking it looking at

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Speaker 1: whoever's coping. That's weird.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I can't front.

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Speaker 5: I've been hanging out with a guy before and holding

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Speaker 5: toots in and then like he leaves and it's like

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Speaker 5: the longest.

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Speaker 2: It's like, oh God, that's me every day.

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Speaker 1: How does it go that in me?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 7: You know where you go to the other room to

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Speaker 7: let it out real quick.

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Speaker 2: And you're like, oh, I just want to fart.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'll feel like you just lost ten pounds. That's

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Speaker 1: just the Alexandra. Yeah, hello, good morning, Alexandra. Are you

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Speaker 1: feeling me here? And this is something that people have

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Speaker 1: known about me for years? But I don't like to

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Speaker 1: use public restrooms. I really don't like it, and I

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Speaker 8: So I'm about to graduate nursing school and we're taught

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Speaker 8: if you gotta go, you gotta go because if you

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Speaker 8: hold it, there's gonna be some unfavorable, and I can

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Speaker 8: tell your sorry, you gotta go. You gotta go next

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Speaker 8: to you in the stalls, not trying to care who

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Speaker 8: you are, where you're from, what you're doing. Two hours

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Speaker 8: later to I forget that you're.

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Speaker 1: About the message. It's not about I don't necessarily care

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Speaker 1: what other people think. It's about my comfort level, i'd say.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I guess I do kind of care. I

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Speaker 1: like I just did that, you know what I mean? Like,

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Speaker 1: oh boy, yeah, I just I want to do in

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Speaker 1: the privacy of my own I'm I'm home, I'm more comfortable.

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Speaker 1: I got my I got you know, my supplies. I

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Speaker 2: Yeah, take your time.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, more supplies. Oh my god, well I got my

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Speaker 1: I got my wife. My wife's okay, I don't carry

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Speaker 2: Wait, how do you hide your feet?

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Speaker 1: I know if I'm like if I'm I just, I

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Speaker 1: just I just kind of like put them closer to

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Speaker 2: Come on, Yeah, I've gotten forward with it. If I

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Speaker 2: really like the door.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you can't really do that with a dog

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Speaker 1: because it like it would wind up touching. Yeah, the

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Speaker 1: floor thank you, Alexander. Have a good day.

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Speaker 2: You're peeing while you're pooping.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, when you poop.

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Speaker 2: I didn't know guys did that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, oh yeah, pee when you poop, can all come

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Speaker 1: out at the same time. Yeah, push it down and

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Speaker 1: pee and poop. I mean there's really no like not

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Speaker 1: like digit it't happen, but it can happen at this

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Speaker 1: exact time. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, you took it between ship.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, god, hey Lauren, Yeah, look at this's mind

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Speaker 1: was just blown by Lauren. So it turns out that

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Speaker 1: most people are just like me, Like seventy percent of folks.

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Speaker 1: They don't want to go number to it in public

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Speaker 1: at the office, in public. They don't want to do it.

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Speaker 6: Yeah mind, well issues in public.

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Speaker 9: Mind.

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Speaker 10: I needed to day.

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Speaker 1: That you got, Lauren. She's one of those people with

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Speaker 1: two toilets warms. Lauren, is that in the west wing

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Speaker 1: of your home or the east wing or both?

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Speaker 2: You can buy them?

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Speaker 1: I know. Thank you, Lauren, have a good day.

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Speaker 2: And I hear you.

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Speaker 1: I hear you. I got those. I got those dude wipes,

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Speaker 1: and I don't buy them. I don't buy the dude

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Speaker 1: wipes because they say dude like I don't care. I

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Speaker 1: way they smell. They're like the least baby smelling to me.

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Speaker 1: But I got those at home. I'm not carrying those

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Speaker 1: I take a shower afterwards if I want to, Like,

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Speaker 1: that's the that's the best case scenario. By the way,

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Speaker 1: there's nothing. There's nothing that upsets me more Lauren than

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Speaker 1: when I when that happens after I just took a shower,

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Speaker 1: It's like, ah, what a waste of a shower? Maybe

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Speaker 1: maybe so shower. Thank you, Lauren. Have a good day.

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Speaker 5: Yes, for we wash our butts.

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Speaker 1: Right after every single day that he talks. I feel

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Speaker 1: worse for Jess, like every single day until the good enough,

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Speaker 1: good enough? Okay, all right, Ashley, Hi, Hi, how you doing?

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Speaker 1: You feel me on this?

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Speaker 9: Yes?

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Speaker 6: I think public restrooms are the most disgusting thing ever.

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Speaker 6: I got traumatized as a child, but I had to

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Speaker 6: go really bad and I walked in a public restroom

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Speaker 6: and there was everywhere.

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Speaker 1: I just don't do it. Yeah, yeah, I'm with you.

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Speaker 1: I do the very best I can to get home

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Speaker 1: and plan my day around it too. Thank you. Ashley. Yeah, yeah, okay, Cassie, Hi, Cassie,

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Speaker 1: how you doing.

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Speaker 11: I'm good?

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Speaker 1: How are you good? Thank you? This is becoming even

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Speaker 1: more of an issue because you know, I know the

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Speaker 1: pandemic is not over, but if we're on the sort

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Speaker 1: of back half of it and offices are reopening, people

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Speaker 1: were used to a certain level of for the last

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Speaker 1: two years just doing what they got to do. When

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Speaker 1: they do it, you know what I'm saying, Like at home,

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Speaker 1: they just they take care of the business, and now

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Speaker 1: they got to go back to the office and they

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Speaker 1: got to start thinking about this stuff again. Cassie, what's

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Speaker 12: See, I'm very picky about the bathrooms just because I

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Speaker 12: agree they're disgusting, and like back when I was younger,

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Speaker 12: also I refused to use it just because I had

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Speaker 12: store when I was like sixteen, and I walked in

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Speaker 12: and it was just it smelled horrible. There was like

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Speaker 12: two broken toilets, and I was like, I'm not taking

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Speaker 12: my chances, and so I have walked in the store. Well,

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Speaker 12: I didn't realize how bad. I just needed to go

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Speaker 12: I just started going on, oh.

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Speaker 1: House, oh my god, Cash, whoa all right, Cassie, thank you?

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Speaker 1: Whoa Cassie, whoa you too.

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Speaker 4: I had to take in the water bottles that she

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Speaker 1: Oh man, what did I do? I'm so clumsy? He kara, Carra,

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Speaker 1: Oh and you know what? And that's what it says

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Speaker 1: to He even put that in there, and I didn't

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Speaker 1: Paulina usually takes like a name that's obvious and then

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Speaker 1: screws it up with the spong.

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Speaker 7: I try.

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Speaker 13: What he's doing.

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Speaker 1: Jason Brown does know what he's doing, and it's my fault.

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Speaker 1: And I love how Paulina refers to herself and the

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Speaker 1: third person around here. It's unbelievable, like it's who am

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Speaker 1: I working with? Seriously, all my body says this. Paulina

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Speaker 1: says that, okay, so what did you want to say?

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Speaker 1: Good morning?

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Speaker 14: Hi?

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Speaker 1: Hi.

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Speaker 11: So I had little kids and potty training has been

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Speaker 11: a nightmare with public restroom. But we've discovered the potty cover,

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Speaker 11: which is this amazing thing. It goes on top of

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Speaker 11: the toilet seat. It's got longside so nothing touches on

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Speaker 11: the side in a long front. So I hate public

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Speaker 11: restroom and if I really really have to go, I

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Speaker 11: can use a potty cover and it makes everything better.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, do you carry this with you?

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Speaker 11: Oh yeah, I have life covers in my desk at

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Speaker 11: work and potty covers all day.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, fair enough, thank you, thank you.

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Speaker 15: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I mean you guys carry like bags so you can

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Speaker 1: have supplies and stuff in there like we don't have that.

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Speaker 1: It's a good point, my buddy, He goes, Wait till

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Speaker 1: you have to bring two daughters into the men's room

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Speaker 1: to pee when your wife isn't available, crap sprayed everywhere?

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Speaker 1: Oh oh yeah, I believe it. How come people can't

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Speaker 1: aim I'm just trying.

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Speaker 2: To figure that out.

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Speaker 1: I believe it. But you know what's interesting is that

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Speaker 1: the and I was actually surprised by this somewhat. But

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Speaker 1: the people I know who've worked in the service industry,

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Speaker 1: I worked in retail, so I had to clean bathrooms too.

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Speaker 5: No, yours always smells like you guys need to drink

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Speaker 5: No, we can, but it just seems a little more

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we can do that double dip. But it's facts

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean it goes every which way depending on how.

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Speaker 1: No, this is also true. Okay, learned a lot today.

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Speaker 1: Maybe fourteens? And reference was clearly indicated at what age?

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Speaker 1: I don't I don't even think people parents would know that?

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Speaker 1: Pre K four? Also easy? Does your kid like school?

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Speaker 1: Do you like steen? You can plain me all the time.

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Speaker 1: I guess it's like, have you ever chatted with your

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Speaker 1: Id you? I don't know? It sounds bad.

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Speaker 16: I know these answers about you guys, and you're not

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Speaker 1: I will say, I think in many cases, you've got

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Speaker 1: Or maybe dads are just cont I want to say, complacent.

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Speaker 2: I don't think it's a male female thing because I

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Speaker 2: Then he's like, where's his Rabi's forms. I'm like, uh,

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Speaker 5: It's not gender, he said, whoever's not the default parent,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, there you go. That makes sense. That's because I suppose,

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Speaker 1: But I don't know, Like my mom would be able

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Speaker 1: just he never did any of this stuff, you know,

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Speaker 1: But here's the thing. I go to the doctor, that'll

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Speaker 17: Him?

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Speaker 1: Like, I don't know. Like I had a good mom,

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Speaker 16: And I was like, yeah, he doesn't know your middle name.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, which it is. Text.

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Speaker 2: Lord knows what he's doing.

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Speaker 1: You worry about probably you own a house and Troy

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Speaker 1: do you not know Ryan? Hi? Ryan, good morning? Welcome?

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Speaker 1: How are you Ryan? Great? Are you a dad?

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Speaker 1: I mean, I guess that makes sense. Yeah, it sounds

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Speaker 1: know what what vaccinations did your kid? Head? He's up

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Speaker 1: thank you, have a good day. He does have white feet,

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Speaker 1: How old are you now? It's nowadays? This is so good.

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Speaker 1: This happened to my daughter and husband. The doctor asked

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Speaker 18: I'm like, what in the world, how are you?

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Speaker 9: Like?

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Speaker 18: How is this kid?

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Speaker 1: For you?

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Speaker 11: Fifteen years?

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Speaker 3: They get mad at us because we don't know the nickname.

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Speaker 14: Why isn't the word?

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Speaker 1: How are you Noway?

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Speaker 3: I think Rufiel is one of the good DADSK.

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Speaker 1: I appreciate here you go, Thank you, Lexi.

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Speaker 18: You have a good day.

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Speaker 3: I love you too.

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Speaker 1: Now, No, this is absolutely true, and I hate to

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Speaker 1: make it funny. Emily. So do you was this about you?

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Speaker 7: my mom for like reassurance and again we're thirty one

441
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Speaker 7: and twenty seven. But also I work in a medical

442
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Speaker 7: setting in pediatrics, and it's great when the when the

443
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Speaker 7: dad bring the kids because I'll ask them like follow

444
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Speaker 7: up questions and I always be like, you'll have to

445
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Speaker 7: talk to my wife about that, or I'm not sure,

446
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Speaker 7: can you call my wife? I'm really not sure.

447
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Speaker 1: Geez. It's really funny. Wow, I think I feel like

448
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Speaker 1: my mom always made she always took me to the

449
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Speaker 1: doctor's appointment. Still, like maybe it was like a comfort

450
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Speaker 1: thing or like a I don't know. I guess my

451
00:20:14,440 --> 00:20:16,080
Speaker 1: dad never handled that because he probably would have been

452
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Speaker 1: like shut up, stop complaining, you know, like there would

453
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Speaker 1: have been very little empathy because my dad's a tough guy.

454
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Speaker 1: But yeah, thank you, Emily, have a good day. Thanks,

455
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Speaker 1: suck it up, kid, Like what they're about to pull

456
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Speaker 1: all my teeth out, Dan and suck it up. I

457
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Speaker 1: don't know, you won't hurt it's a time's hey Debbie.

458
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Speaker 1: Hi there, Hi Debbie. Good morning. So this guy on

459
00:20:37,720 --> 00:20:40,520
Speaker 1: TikTok he posted this about himself, but he took his

460
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Speaker 1: kid to the doctor and he couldn't answer any of

461
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Speaker 1: the questions about his own kid. It's gone viral. Can

462
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Speaker 1: you relate?

463
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Speaker 14: Yeah, because my ex husband almost drove my daughter to

464
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Speaker 14: the wrong school one morning.

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Speaker 1: Oh how.

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Speaker 14: I have no idea. She was in middle school and

467
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Speaker 14: she's like, you're supposed to turn that way, and he's like, well,

468
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Speaker 14: which school do you go to?

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Speaker 2: And let me say, he's a great dad.

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Speaker 11: He's an amazing dad.

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Speaker 14: But I think it's one of those things he knows

472
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Speaker 14: I'm going to handle it like I got it.

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Speaker 9: You know.

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Speaker 14: And one other story along with that, she had a

475
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Speaker 14: doctor appointment and he offered to take her okay, cool,

476
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Speaker 14: and she had to tell him.

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Speaker 17: Where to go, where the park, which floor it was on.

478
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Speaker 14: So she's, you know, I mean again, he's an amazing dad,

479
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Speaker 14: but I got the important thing.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, clearly, Thank you so much. Have a good day.

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Speaker 18: Yeah you too.

482
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Speaker 1: Glad you called. Hey Katie? Yes, Hi, Hi, Katie's okay.

483
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Speaker 1: So this is the opposite, right, We were talking about

484
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Speaker 1: how maybe it's not gender. But you go to work

485
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Speaker 1: and he stays at home, and so he knows more.

486
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Speaker 18: Good extent.

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Speaker 15: By the way, I'm from Chicago, I moved away.

488
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Speaker 6: So listen to you, guys. I love you.

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Speaker 17: Guys are awesome.

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Speaker 1: Well, thank you, but but wait because we may have

491
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Speaker 1: to petition to go on there. Now where what city

492
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Speaker 1: are you in?

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Speaker 9: Uh?

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Speaker 19: Columbia, South Carolina?

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Speaker 1: All right, Well, fire up, guys. Who's on there? I

496
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Speaker 1: don't know, fire them, it's for us. No, I don't know.

497
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Speaker 1: Don't fire them. I hope they I hope they leave

498
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Speaker 1: on their own. That's Jason's favor. University out there.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, the cos Carolina.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah. Anyway, So Katie, enough about enough at expect

501
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Speaker 1: to us. So, yeah, so you he knows a lot,

502
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Speaker 1: but he knows more about some things.

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Speaker 15: Yes, So I work for the Department of Mental Health,

504
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Speaker 15: so I'm gone pretty much all day and he stays

505
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Speaker 15: at home.

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Speaker 6: We've got three.

507
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Speaker 15: Babies at home, and uh, he knows exactly they had,

508
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Speaker 15: you know, three poopy diapers, two wet diapers in the morning,

509
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Speaker 15: and how many out of the bottles they all have?

510
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Speaker 6: And I, uh, one time.

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Speaker 15: I took them to the doctor and they'd asked me that,

512
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Speaker 15: and I've got a good background in childcare as well,

513
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Speaker 15: but I was thinking to myself, I'm like, oh my gosh,

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Speaker 15: I have no idea. I was just like, well, yeah,

515
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Speaker 15: about the standard of mounts, and I don't know how

516
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Speaker 15: many bottles are they having. I'm like, oh my goodness,

517
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Speaker 15: I'm such an awful mom.

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Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, but I mean, you're not doing

519
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Speaker 1: that day to day, so I guess maybe you wouldn't know.

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Speaker 1: But if you didn't know their birthday, that would be

521
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Speaker 1: that's that's concerned. Do you know their birthday?

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Speaker 19: Oh?

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Speaker 3: God, yeah, because you were.

524
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Speaker 1: You were present for that in a big way, so

525
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Speaker 1: I figured that would be a day you might remember.

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Speaker 6: It's kind of funny.

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Speaker 15: They all looked just like my husband too. And I'm

528
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Speaker 15: always saying, you know, if I wasn't there, I wouldn't

529
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Speaker 15: think they were.

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Speaker 17: Mind.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but that's funny that you, Katie. Have a great day.

532
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Speaker 1: You two guys, glad you called? Uh Stacy? Good morning, Stacy?

533
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Speaker 1: How are you good?

534
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Speaker 14: Are are you?

535
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Speaker 1: Say? This is your own dad and what does he

536
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Speaker 1: know about you anything?

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Speaker 10: Yeah, probably knows my first and middle name and my birthday.

538
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Speaker 10: But he just generally can't remember anything, like my parents

539
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Speaker 10: are snow birds now. And someone asked his phone number

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Speaker 10: and he looked up my mom and he's had this

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Speaker 10: phone number, had a phone.

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Speaker 1: Oh so he doesn't know his own phone number. Oh yeah,

543
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Speaker 1: that's my dad.

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Speaker 4: Yeah that phone to look Yeah, he looks up his

545
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Speaker 4: own name in the context, like.

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Speaker 1: I didn't get the number on this thing. Me you

547
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Speaker 1: know what I want to put myself in.

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Speaker 7: He's just a surprise.

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Speaker 15: When we're opening the guests all, I'm like, well, your

550
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Speaker 15: name is on it.

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Speaker 1: Now that is one hundred percent effect in our house.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah. My mom does all the shopping and then

553
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Speaker 1: puts my dad's name on stuff. And he's like, I'm

554
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Speaker 1: like thanks, Daddy's like you got it. It's no idea,

555
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Speaker 1: thank you who.

556
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Speaker 2: Got it for you?

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Speaker 1: You did? Thank you? Hold on, Oh this is good.

558
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Speaker 1: Hey Shannon, Okay, so this is about parents who don't

559
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Speaker 1: know their kids as well as we think maybe they should.

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Speaker 1: What happened?

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Speaker 9: Yeah, so you know you used to go get your

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Speaker 9: pictures ticket like the little Ola mill, then go.

563
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Speaker 1: Pick up the photos later.

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Speaker 8: And my mom set my daddy go pick up pictures

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Speaker 8: of my little brother and.

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Speaker 18: He comes call and my mom says, so, what do

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Speaker 18: you think.

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Speaker 1: He's a good picture. She's like, no, no, right, she goes, well,

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Speaker 1: it's not our kid.

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Speaker 13: I didn't recognize the outfit, not.

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Speaker 1: Even the right child. No, God, thank you, have a

572
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Speaker 1: good day. Oh my god, how are you nowadays? So good?

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Speaker 2: Who was that?

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Speaker 1: Who was that? That was me? I looked at the

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Speaker 1: man in the room. I want to know who was

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Speaker 1: over going. I'm sorry, friend, I mean I didn't know

577
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Speaker 1: that kind of noise to come out of you. Marvin.

578
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Speaker 1: Wait a minute, now, the truth's coming out the same person.

579
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Speaker 1: All this time, I wondered why Marvin was always with

580
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Speaker 1: you when I would call and you'd go, hold on

581
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Speaker 1: one second, her, it's Marvin. I have your power bowl tigger. Yeah, wow,

582
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Speaker 1: it was a girl. I don't know what it is

583
00:26:16,080 --> 00:26:18,960
Speaker 1: around your eyes. Maybe it's just because we're trained, trained monkeys.

584
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Speaker 1: But like anyone, anytime everyone makes a noise of any kind,

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Speaker 1: it has to be done into the microphone. Like anytime

586
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Speaker 1: someone has something to say, it has to be done

587
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Speaker 1: into the mic. It can't be like hey Fred over here,

588
00:26:31,880 --> 00:26:34,159
Speaker 1: it has to be like right right here. So no

589
00:26:34,160 --> 00:26:38,200
Speaker 1: matter what's going on, it's getting on whatever we're recording

590
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Speaker 1: or whatever else. Yeah, no more freadshell next. Okay. I

591
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Speaker 1: have a lot of thoughts about this, but I don't

592
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Speaker 1: know if they're linear thoughts. I don't know if they're

593
00:26:48,240 --> 00:26:50,800
Speaker 1: going to make any sense. But engagement ring sales are

594
00:26:50,840 --> 00:26:54,480
Speaker 1: down so failed romances due to the coronavirus pandemic have

595
00:26:54,560 --> 00:26:57,560
Speaker 1: impacted the wedding industry, resulting in a nose dive in

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Speaker 1: the sales of engagement rings. To get back to pre

597
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Speaker 1: pandemic levels, engagement ring sales for jewelers that include sales

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Speaker 1: Jared Kay Diamonds Direct would need to increase by twenty

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Speaker 1: five percent by twenty twenty six. It's not just engagement

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Speaker 1: rings taking a hip with the pandemic resulting in brides

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Speaker 1: moving away from traditional weddings and dresses. Last week, David's

602
00:27:18,040 --> 00:27:20,879
Speaker 1: Bridal filed for bankruptcy, resulting in more than nine thousand

603
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Speaker 1: jobs being lost nationwide. Data from the CDC earlier this

604
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Speaker 1: year noted that weddings weren't yet back to pre pandemic

605
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Speaker 1: levels either, as fewer couples are deciding to tie the knot.

606
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Speaker 1: And I would love to know what people think about this.

607
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Speaker 1: You can call any time by the way eight five,

608
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Speaker 1: five five nine one three five. Okay, here's my thing

609
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Speaker 1: about engagement rings. I don't know if this is going

610
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Speaker 1: to make any sense, So engagement rings. You know, however,

611
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Speaker 1: many years ago, De Beer's convinced everybody that what was

612
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Speaker 1: truly considered like a junk rock was the thing that

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Speaker 1: everybody wanted. Yeah, right, you had to have a diamond

614
00:27:55,440 --> 00:27:58,040
Speaker 1: that everyone right, every woman wanted a diamond, So it

615
00:27:58,080 --> 00:28:00,800
Speaker 1: became a status symbol, right, And the bigger the diamond,

616
00:28:00,960 --> 00:28:04,200
Speaker 1: typically the more you were loved slash, the more money

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00:28:04,200 --> 00:28:06,360
Speaker 1: that somebody was willing to spend. But I think it's

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Speaker 1: fair to say, can we all agree that for the

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Speaker 1: longest time, a diamond was a status symbol, and the

620
00:28:11,680 --> 00:28:13,960
Speaker 1: size of the diamond was also a status symbol, whether

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Speaker 1: that's fair or not. I know rich people who wear

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00:28:16,400 --> 00:28:19,000
Speaker 1: an heirloom diamond, or rich people who are now rich

623
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Speaker 1: that were not rich when they were proposed to. So

624
00:28:20,880 --> 00:28:23,520
Speaker 1: the diamond's small, and they still wear that because it

625
00:28:23,560 --> 00:28:27,960
Speaker 1: has sentimental value. Okay, So now they have the lab

626
00:28:28,000 --> 00:28:32,639
Speaker 1: grown diamonds, right, which are a fraction of the price.

627
00:28:33,200 --> 00:28:35,960
Speaker 1: So I can now go get a three four, I

628
00:28:35,960 --> 00:28:40,040
Speaker 1: can get a gigantic monster diamond for my fiance, and

629
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Speaker 1: I'm not spending anywhere near what I would have spent before,

630
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Speaker 1: So I feel like that in some ways removes the

631
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Speaker 1: status symbol. I'm not saying that a big diamond that's

632
00:28:49,120 --> 00:28:52,320
Speaker 1: manufactured is any less great or or any less beautiful,

633
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Speaker 1: but it's not as expensive. So it's like, now when

634
00:28:54,720 --> 00:28:57,920
Speaker 1: you look at someone's ring, are you really as concerned

635
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Speaker 1: about how much it costs? Because it used to be,

636
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Speaker 1: oh my god, that's a jalo diamond that was a

637
00:29:01,680 --> 00:29:03,920
Speaker 1: million dollars. Now you might look at it and now

638
00:29:03,920 --> 00:29:05,680
Speaker 1: you realize, well, it doesn't have to be a million

639
00:29:05,720 --> 00:29:08,160
Speaker 1: dollars anymore. So then I asked myself the question of

640
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Speaker 1: why diamonds at all, Like at that point, why don't

641
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Speaker 1: we Why does it have to be a diamond? Why

642
00:29:13,160 --> 00:29:14,960
Speaker 1: does it have to be huge? Why does it have

643
00:29:15,040 --> 00:29:18,720
Speaker 1: to be anything? Because I can go buy a beautiful,

644
00:29:18,760 --> 00:29:21,880
Speaker 1: flawless diamond it was grown in a lab for like

645
00:29:21,920 --> 00:29:24,280
Speaker 1: a I don't know a fraction of what I would

646
00:29:24,280 --> 00:29:27,120
Speaker 1: have had to pay twenty years ago, So it doesn't

647
00:29:27,200 --> 00:29:29,960
Speaker 1: really say anything about how much money you do or

648
00:29:29,960 --> 00:29:32,760
Speaker 1: don't have. It never really did, because think about I

649
00:29:32,800 --> 00:29:36,200
Speaker 1: know people that have huge rings and they're the women

650
00:29:36,320 --> 00:29:38,520
Speaker 1: are making the payments on the ring because that's what

651
00:29:38,600 --> 00:29:41,040
Speaker 1: they wanted and the dude couldn't afford it, but they

652
00:29:41,200 --> 00:29:45,520
Speaker 1: wanted something, and so it was like or dude went

653
00:29:45,560 --> 00:29:48,560
Speaker 1: out and financed a gigantic ring and then lost his job,

654
00:29:48,920 --> 00:29:50,560
Speaker 1: and then they wind up taking this on as like

655
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Speaker 1: a joint household expert. I'm just saying the whole thing

656
00:29:52,720 --> 00:29:57,200
Speaker 1: is crazy. So what I wonder is there, does everybody

657
00:29:57,200 --> 00:30:01,400
Speaker 1: still want a gigantic tradition diamond ring or are we

658
00:30:01,440 --> 00:30:03,960
Speaker 1: at this point going, well, it doesn't necessarily say anything

659
00:30:04,000 --> 00:30:05,800
Speaker 1: about anything, So why does it have to be that?

660
00:30:06,040 --> 00:30:09,800
Speaker 1: It could be anything? You don't feel this.

661
00:30:09,760 --> 00:30:12,280
Speaker 2: Way, No, absolutely not. It needs to be a.

662
00:30:12,200 --> 00:30:14,680
Speaker 1: Diamond, and you want a big ass diamond.

663
00:30:14,680 --> 00:30:16,160
Speaker 2: It doesn't have to be big, but it has to be.

664
00:30:16,200 --> 00:30:16,920
Speaker 2: It has to fit me.

665
00:30:17,400 --> 00:30:19,040
Speaker 1: Do you care about what's growing in the ground or

666
00:30:19,080 --> 00:30:20,920
Speaker 1: in the laboratory?

667
00:30:20,800 --> 00:30:22,760
Speaker 2: That just don't tell me. Don't tell me the difference.

668
00:30:22,760 --> 00:30:24,160
Speaker 2: I wouldn't know if you gave.

669
00:30:24,080 --> 00:30:25,800
Speaker 1: Me some cubics or cronium. No.

670
00:30:25,800 --> 00:30:25,880
Speaker 9: No.

671
00:30:26,400 --> 00:30:29,360
Speaker 2: The thing with me is like I have to walk

672
00:30:29,400 --> 00:30:31,680
Speaker 2: around and wear this, so I have to like it

673
00:30:31,960 --> 00:30:35,760
Speaker 2: and it also represents me, so like I have to

674
00:30:36,320 --> 00:30:37,840
Speaker 2: like it. That's all I care about is that I

675
00:30:37,880 --> 00:30:39,640
Speaker 2: have to like the diamond. I have to like it.

676
00:30:39,680 --> 00:30:42,720
Speaker 2: But I definitely think women still want rings, we still

677
00:30:42,720 --> 00:30:43,440
Speaker 2: want diamonds.

678
00:30:43,640 --> 00:30:45,480
Speaker 1: I just feel like people used to stay in their head.

679
00:30:45,640 --> 00:30:47,640
Speaker 1: And I'm making the sub kind of but people used

680
00:30:47,640 --> 00:30:49,400
Speaker 1: to stay in their head, you know, I don't know

681
00:30:49,600 --> 00:30:52,360
Speaker 1: ten thousand dollars a carrot, fifteen thousand do whatever it

682
00:30:52,520 --> 00:30:54,800
Speaker 1: is in their minds. They'd be like, oh, that's two carrots.

683
00:30:54,840 --> 00:30:57,480
Speaker 1: He spent twenty k on that. WHOA. Well, now you

684
00:30:57,480 --> 00:31:00,240
Speaker 1: don't know, and it shouldn't have ever been that way.

685
00:31:00,520 --> 00:31:02,160
Speaker 1: But if I'm going to make a splash on a

686
00:31:02,200 --> 00:31:05,120
Speaker 1: status symbol, I don't know it'll if it'll be that anymore,

687
00:31:05,160 --> 00:31:06,440
Speaker 1: because I don't really know what it means.

688
00:31:07,680 --> 00:31:10,040
Speaker 2: But most people can't tell if it was grown in

689
00:31:10,080 --> 00:31:12,880
Speaker 2: a lab or you don't know.

690
00:31:13,280 --> 00:31:16,400
Speaker 1: But at some point, I trust me. I'm trying to

691
00:31:16,400 --> 00:31:19,640
Speaker 1: grow diamonds in my and people are like manufactured diamonds

692
00:31:19,680 --> 00:31:22,680
Speaker 1: or flawless. Yes they are. They're They're significantly less expensive

693
00:31:22,720 --> 00:31:26,040
Speaker 1: though than so it doesn't it doesn't. It doesn't mean

694
00:31:26,080 --> 00:31:28,480
Speaker 1: what you think it means. Anymore, I don't think so.

695
00:31:28,520 --> 00:31:30,920
Speaker 1: At that point, it's like, well, why why would I

696
00:31:30,960 --> 00:31:33,600
Speaker 1: go out and spend all this money on a flawless

697
00:31:33,640 --> 00:31:36,120
Speaker 1: natural diamond when I can get a cheaper one this way?

698
00:31:36,320 --> 00:31:38,040
Speaker 1: Or I could go get it get they're getting so big,

699
00:31:38,080 --> 00:31:40,400
Speaker 1: I could just go get a fake one and most

700
00:31:40,440 --> 00:31:42,800
Speaker 1: people wouldn't know the difference. Again, jewelers are listening to me.

701
00:31:42,840 --> 00:31:45,480
Speaker 1: Now I'm going no, I don't say that, and I'm

702
00:31:45,480 --> 00:31:47,720
Speaker 1: not saying that you get whatever, get whatever you want,

703
00:31:48,520 --> 00:31:50,280
Speaker 1: but I don't know. I'm just thinking, like, what if

704
00:31:50,320 --> 00:31:52,680
Speaker 1: I go out and I go buy some crazy expensive

705
00:31:52,760 --> 00:31:55,760
Speaker 1: Tiffany ring for somebody, and then somebody else goes and

706
00:31:55,800 --> 00:31:58,120
Speaker 1: gets another ring that looks exactly the same, that was

707
00:31:58,800 --> 00:32:01,080
Speaker 1: a tenth of the price. Well, and if I were

708
00:32:01,080 --> 00:32:04,480
Speaker 1: a status guy, we're the same, I guess, which means

709
00:32:04,600 --> 00:32:05,880
Speaker 1: why do I spend so much money?

710
00:32:06,040 --> 00:32:08,000
Speaker 2: But you're not the same because you know that you

711
00:32:08,120 --> 00:32:09,080
Speaker 2: spent a real.

712
00:32:08,880 --> 00:32:10,720
Speaker 1: Bad the rest of the world doesn't.

713
00:32:10,880 --> 00:32:13,480
Speaker 2: Well, if we pulled out the diamond tester, no.

714
00:32:12,920 --> 00:32:14,800
Speaker 1: No, okay, because ye I guess you know me, I'm

715
00:32:14,800 --> 00:32:17,640
Speaker 1: always carry around a diamond. Oh congratulations when you're engaged,

716
00:32:17,680 --> 00:32:23,240
Speaker 1: But give me that thing you crazy. Yeah, Hey, Stephanie,

717
00:32:23,240 --> 00:32:24,479
Speaker 1: Good morning, Stephanie. How are you.

718
00:32:25,640 --> 00:32:26,600
Speaker 9: I'm good, how are you?

719
00:32:27,000 --> 00:32:29,000
Speaker 1: Hi? What did you want to say? Welcome? Thanks for listening.

720
00:32:31,080 --> 00:32:32,960
Speaker 9: So I just wanted to say, you know, like I

721
00:32:33,080 --> 00:32:36,400
Speaker 9: was a woman who got engaged in December of twenty twenty,

722
00:32:36,480 --> 00:32:40,080
Speaker 9: so like right after COVID, I don't have the biggest diamond,

723
00:32:40,120 --> 00:32:42,440
Speaker 9: but it's the diamond ring that fits me. It's my

724
00:32:42,560 --> 00:32:45,040
Speaker 9: single stone in the center and a nice halo and

725
00:32:45,400 --> 00:32:48,320
Speaker 9: diamond John the band. It did not cost an arm.

726
00:32:48,200 --> 00:32:48,560
Speaker 2: In a leg.

727
00:32:48,720 --> 00:32:52,160
Speaker 9: I know exactly what it costed. So for me, it's

728
00:32:52,160 --> 00:32:55,040
Speaker 9: not about the diamond. My fiance went in and he

729
00:32:55,160 --> 00:32:55,720
Speaker 9: picked the ring.

730
00:32:56,040 --> 00:32:56,880
Speaker 2: We looked at him.

731
00:32:56,800 --> 00:33:00,400
Speaker 9: Together, and he went back and got the side that

732
00:33:01,040 --> 00:33:03,840
Speaker 9: he felt that fit me, which to me is more

733
00:33:04,400 --> 00:33:06,960
Speaker 9: of a token of the love and the relationship than

734
00:33:07,080 --> 00:33:08,240
Speaker 9: just like a status symbol.

735
00:33:08,320 --> 00:33:10,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, he was listening. He got what he could afford,

736
00:33:11,000 --> 00:33:13,280
Speaker 1: he got what he knew you would want exactly. Yeah,

737
00:33:13,320 --> 00:33:14,240
Speaker 1: that's the point, right.

738
00:33:15,720 --> 00:33:15,920
Speaker 12: Right.

739
00:33:16,200 --> 00:33:19,560
Speaker 9: And I'm a bartender at a hall on the weekend

740
00:33:19,920 --> 00:33:24,160
Speaker 9: poor weddings, and there has definitely been a decrease in

741
00:33:24,240 --> 00:33:28,560
Speaker 9: the amount of weddings that have been happening back when

742
00:33:28,560 --> 00:33:31,480
Speaker 9: I started, they were almost every single weekend. I went

743
00:33:31,520 --> 00:33:34,720
Speaker 9: an entire month in July of twenty twenty one not

744
00:33:34,840 --> 00:33:39,400
Speaker 9: bartending one wedding, and I mean, it was definitely a

745
00:33:39,480 --> 00:33:43,040
Speaker 9: decrease from where we saw the year before. And I

746
00:33:43,200 --> 00:33:47,520
Speaker 9: just we're still not married, we're still engaged, but we

747
00:33:48,240 --> 00:33:50,800
Speaker 9: don't know if we want to spend that money on

748
00:33:50,960 --> 00:33:53,320
Speaker 9: a wedding for one night when we could go and

749
00:33:53,400 --> 00:33:57,479
Speaker 9: spend maybe getting married at a courthouse or eloping with

750
00:33:57,520 --> 00:34:01,880
Speaker 9: our family and friends to like a nice, longer vacation. Yeah,

751
00:34:02,000 --> 00:34:03,720
Speaker 9: kind of edge about it.

752
00:34:03,400 --> 00:34:05,240
Speaker 1: Makes a lot of sense. Thank you, Stephanie. Have a

753
00:34:05,240 --> 00:34:08,279
Speaker 1: great day, and congratulations you too. I guess all I'm

754
00:34:08,280 --> 00:34:10,120
Speaker 1: saying is I don't care what you spend. I just

755
00:34:10,160 --> 00:34:13,200
Speaker 1: think that maybe this is like the equalizer different different products,

756
00:34:13,200 --> 00:34:16,080
Speaker 1: different trends. Now, it's like the equals like, well, maybe

757
00:34:16,080 --> 00:34:18,640
Speaker 1: the standard is changing now and I could spend less

758
00:34:18,640 --> 00:34:20,840
Speaker 1: on a ring and more on something else like a

759
00:34:20,880 --> 00:34:24,480
Speaker 1: honeymoon or or or maybe we've learned during the pandemic

760
00:34:24,480 --> 00:34:25,839
Speaker 1: that we didn't need to have a wedding at all,

761
00:34:26,160 --> 00:34:30,359
Speaker 1: like this, lady, you know, Hey, Liz, Hey, high Liz,

762
00:34:30,360 --> 00:34:33,719
Speaker 1: Good morning, good morning. I love you guys, Hey, love

763
00:34:33,760 --> 00:34:34,879
Speaker 1: you to what did you want to say?

764
00:34:36,600 --> 00:34:39,839
Speaker 19: I actually got engaged just before the pandemic hit and

765
00:34:39,920 --> 00:34:42,080
Speaker 19: we had started to wedding plan and it was driving

766
00:34:42,160 --> 00:34:44,440
Speaker 19: us crazy, and the guest list and most price was

767
00:34:44,520 --> 00:34:47,440
Speaker 19: just going up and up, and then the pandemic.

768
00:34:47,080 --> 00:34:49,840
Speaker 8: Hit and we were ultimately so whole relieved because it

769
00:34:49,880 --> 00:34:51,000
Speaker 8: gave us an excuse to.

770
00:34:51,160 --> 00:34:53,640
Speaker 19: Elope and nobody could be mad at us for it,

771
00:34:53,680 --> 00:34:55,479
Speaker 19: and we spent all our money on It's a great trip,

772
00:34:55,640 --> 00:34:58,000
Speaker 19: just us and two friends and my mom and it

773
00:34:58,080 --> 00:34:58,840
Speaker 19: was really ideal.

774
00:34:59,160 --> 00:35:03,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, good for you and congratulations, thank you.

775
00:35:03,160 --> 00:35:05,320
Speaker 18: And we also got staff fire instead of a diamond.

776
00:35:05,440 --> 00:35:07,319
Speaker 1: See yeah, that's what I'm saying, Like, maybe you like

777
00:35:07,400 --> 00:35:09,600
Speaker 1: something else better and so it doesn't have to be

778
00:35:09,640 --> 00:35:11,560
Speaker 1: the same as everybody else or as big or smaller.

779
00:35:11,600 --> 00:35:13,520
Speaker 1: It doesn't really matter. Thank you, Liz, have a good day.

780
00:35:14,040 --> 00:35:14,200
Speaker 9: Yeah.

781
00:35:14,320 --> 00:35:17,359
Speaker 1: Thanks. I mean, still go buy something, I guess you know.

782
00:35:17,680 --> 00:35:19,680
Speaker 1: Do we have any adjewelers on the air. I don't know. Yeah,

783
00:35:19,760 --> 00:35:22,400
Speaker 1: go buy from them if we do. Omar Hi.

784
00:35:23,880 --> 00:35:24,920
Speaker 13: Big more than everyone.

785
00:35:25,000 --> 00:35:27,560
Speaker 1: Hey, oh Mari, Hi, good morning, thanks for listening. So yeah,

786
00:35:27,719 --> 00:35:30,680
Speaker 1: it turns out that the whole wedding industry is still

787
00:35:30,719 --> 00:35:35,080
Speaker 1: sort of down from pre pandemic levels. Engagement ring sales

788
00:35:35,120 --> 00:35:36,640
Speaker 1: are down, all of that stuff. What do you think.

789
00:35:37,960 --> 00:35:40,799
Speaker 13: So, yeah, you know, I actually married to my high

790
00:35:40,800 --> 00:35:43,400
Speaker 13: school sweetheart. We got engaged in the year before the

791
00:35:43,400 --> 00:35:46,960
Speaker 13: pandemic hit, and we went ring shopping, and you know,

792
00:35:47,680 --> 00:35:51,680
Speaker 13: we were thinking about whether we should have a court

793
00:35:51,719 --> 00:35:54,400
Speaker 13: gat or a whole reception. We ended up having, you know,

794
00:35:54,440 --> 00:35:58,000
Speaker 13: deciding on reception. We had our down payment and everything,

795
00:35:58,080 --> 00:36:01,239
Speaker 13: and then pandemic hit. We lost our our you know,

796
00:36:01,360 --> 00:36:04,080
Speaker 13: our deposit for the place for the venue. The venue

797
00:36:04,080 --> 00:36:07,600
Speaker 13: actually ended up shutting down. But at that point, you know,

798
00:36:07,719 --> 00:36:09,840
Speaker 13: we were still looking for rings and stuff, and I decided,

799
00:36:09,880 --> 00:36:12,960
Speaker 13: you know, I'll go get her something. I ended up

800
00:36:12,960 --> 00:36:16,080
Speaker 13: getting her a nice diamond ring which is you know,

801
00:36:16,560 --> 00:36:19,120
Speaker 13: with his which is her birth zone. So there was

802
00:36:19,120 --> 00:36:19,920
Speaker 13: no going around that.

803
00:36:21,120 --> 00:36:24,919
Speaker 1: Yeah. Well yeah, so but.

804
00:36:24,920 --> 00:36:27,240
Speaker 13: No, you know, we ended up getting married in court,

805
00:36:27,360 --> 00:36:30,080
Speaker 13: and we were actually on the fence about even continuing,

806
00:36:30,560 --> 00:36:33,400
Speaker 13: you know, if we should look for a venue, and

807
00:36:33,440 --> 00:36:34,920
Speaker 13: we were like, you know what, we already got buried

808
00:36:34,920 --> 00:36:36,839
Speaker 13: in court. Let's just live with your parent. We're still

809
00:36:36,840 --> 00:36:37,480
Speaker 13: living with their parents.

810
00:36:37,480 --> 00:36:38,160
Speaker 1: Not at that point.

811
00:36:38,239 --> 00:36:40,160
Speaker 13: We were, you know, kind of fresh out of college

812
00:36:40,200 --> 00:36:43,279
Speaker 13: and uh, you know, just deciding what our plan was

813
00:36:43,280 --> 00:36:45,719
Speaker 13: because the pandemic kind of just threw a wrench into everything.

814
00:36:46,360 --> 00:36:49,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, I heard that. I heard that about the pandemic. Yeah,

815
00:36:49,080 --> 00:36:51,640
Speaker 1: it did kind of kind of message stuff up for people.

816
00:36:52,040 --> 00:36:54,120
Speaker 1: Omar Man, congratulations, thank you for calling.

817
00:36:55,080 --> 00:36:56,000
Speaker 13: Thank you, thanks so much.

818
00:36:56,080 --> 00:36:59,399
Speaker 1: Yeah, the pandemic was that was whacky with that whole thing,

819
00:37:00,800 --> 00:37:01,560
Speaker 1: is it, mesh.

820
00:37:04,360 --> 00:37:04,400
Speaker 19: H?

821
00:37:05,320 --> 00:37:07,480
Speaker 1: I said, right, mish miss, Is that it right? Oh? Hi,

822
00:37:07,600 --> 00:37:09,759
Speaker 1: Hi mish H, Yes.

823
00:37:09,480 --> 00:37:12,439
Speaker 17: Good morning. I was just calling a chair. So I'm

824
00:37:12,480 --> 00:37:15,000
Speaker 17: one of the girls that you know, likes the big sparklee,

825
00:37:15,120 --> 00:37:17,120
Speaker 17: but I also feel like I have a good head

826
00:37:17,160 --> 00:37:19,400
Speaker 17: on my shoulders, and you know, I wasn't expecting my

827
00:37:20,040 --> 00:37:23,040
Speaker 17: husband don fiance to pay the price of a car

828
00:37:23,160 --> 00:37:25,719
Speaker 17: for a ring that I want. We did a lot

829
00:37:25,760 --> 00:37:29,520
Speaker 17: of investigating and we decided to go with something alternative,

830
00:37:30,320 --> 00:37:35,040
Speaker 17: which was Moys Night. So still Sparkley still looks like

831
00:37:35,080 --> 00:37:39,200
Speaker 17: a diamond, but they're actually harder, and so I was

832
00:37:39,239 --> 00:37:41,200
Speaker 17: able to get a ring that I liked, but in

833
00:37:41,239 --> 00:37:43,319
Speaker 17: a price point that worked for us, and you know,

834
00:37:43,360 --> 00:37:45,920
Speaker 17: we can still have afford a wedding that yeah.

835
00:37:46,080 --> 00:37:48,279
Speaker 1: So that makes a lot of sense. I guess that's

836
00:37:48,320 --> 00:37:50,359
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, is like, maybe that that's what's going

837
00:37:50,360 --> 00:37:51,759
Speaker 1: on here is the whole thing is just sort of

838
00:37:51,760 --> 00:37:54,880
Speaker 1: bringing to light the fact that there's there's plenty of

839
00:37:54,920 --> 00:37:58,160
Speaker 1: other things to spend money on, other than other than that. Actually,

840
00:37:58,960 --> 00:37:59,680
Speaker 1: thank you so much.

841
00:38:00,080 --> 00:38:03,240
Speaker 17: The day it's getting married to somebody you love, you're welcome.

842
00:38:03,880 --> 00:38:05,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, No, I wish you a lifetime of happiness, not

843
00:38:05,920 --> 00:38:08,120
Speaker 1: the average seventy eight years that most people get. I

844
00:38:08,160 --> 00:38:10,600
Speaker 1: want you to have the whole damn thing. Okay, unless

845
00:38:10,600 --> 00:38:13,120
Speaker 1: you get tired of him. Unless you get tired of him,

846
00:38:13,120 --> 00:38:14,920
Speaker 1: then drop his ass and move on. It's okay, no

847
00:38:14,960 --> 00:38:19,799
Speaker 1: one's judging. Okay, day, Okay, thank you. She's like, no,

848
00:38:19,960 --> 00:38:21,879
Speaker 1: I just want you to know I support you either way.

849
00:38:22,280 --> 00:38:23,960
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