1 00:00:06,840 --> 00:00:08,399 Speaker 1: She asked me if I want to have a glass 2 00:00:08,400 --> 00:00:11,720 Speaker 1: of rose. I said absolutely, because he turned down Julia 3 00:00:11,800 --> 00:00:13,720 Speaker 1: Roberts in a glass of rose. And we ended up 4 00:00:13,720 --> 00:00:17,880 Speaker 1: finishing off a bottle of rose and it was fantastic. 5 00:00:18,200 --> 00:00:20,880 Speaker 1: Every year I sent her a case of rose. I 6 00:00:20,880 --> 00:00:22,560 Speaker 1: don't know if he drinks it or not, but you 7 00:00:22,600 --> 00:00:26,200 Speaker 1: know I send it to her. 8 00:00:26,280 --> 00:00:28,240 Speaker 2: We have a living legend on the Bobby Cast Today, 9 00:00:28,320 --> 00:00:30,800 Speaker 2: super Bowl Champion with the New York Giants. He's a 10 00:00:30,840 --> 00:00:33,960 Speaker 2: Hall of Famer. He's co anchor of Good Morning America. 11 00:00:34,360 --> 00:00:37,600 Speaker 2: I'm gonna talk to Michael Strahan from setting a single 12 00:00:37,640 --> 00:00:40,920 Speaker 2: season sack record, he flew in Space with Blue Origin, 13 00:00:41,240 --> 00:00:43,800 Speaker 2: which we'll talk about. Like he's all over the place. 14 00:00:43,880 --> 00:00:46,479 Speaker 2: He also has a collection and it's called The Collection 15 00:00:46,560 --> 00:00:50,400 Speaker 2: by Michael Strahan. It suits, It's in one hundred Belk 16 00:00:50,440 --> 00:00:53,680 Speaker 2: stores and it's online. And I love this guy. I've 17 00:00:53,680 --> 00:00:55,520 Speaker 2: been able to work with them a couple of times 18 00:00:55,560 --> 00:00:57,360 Speaker 2: beyond Good Morning America, and he was so nice. We 19 00:00:57,400 --> 00:00:59,480 Speaker 2: talk about that and we talked football on TV and 20 00:00:59,520 --> 00:01:04,880 Speaker 2: business space and everything in between. If you don't know him, well, 21 00:01:05,000 --> 00:01:07,120 Speaker 2: you're about to love him. Here he is. My conversation 22 00:01:07,240 --> 00:01:10,760 Speaker 2: with Michael Strahan. Michael Strahan, what's up, man? 23 00:01:11,200 --> 00:01:13,600 Speaker 1: What's up? Man? I'm so hungry. I'm on here eating 24 00:01:14,440 --> 00:01:15,280 Speaker 1: from Starburst. 25 00:01:16,319 --> 00:01:19,720 Speaker 2: You eat Starburst. I'm surprised that you, for two reasons, 26 00:01:19,720 --> 00:01:20,760 Speaker 2: would eat Starbursts. 27 00:01:21,200 --> 00:01:23,520 Speaker 1: Probably had him in years, but and that's why they're 28 00:01:23,560 --> 00:01:25,319 Speaker 1: probably harder than a rock. They're all kind of harder 29 00:01:25,319 --> 00:01:28,280 Speaker 1: than a rock right now, but I mean, deferate times 30 00:01:28,360 --> 00:01:29,160 Speaker 1: off for different. 31 00:01:30,360 --> 00:01:32,280 Speaker 2: Is it that desperate you gotta eat old Starburst? 32 00:01:32,880 --> 00:01:34,280 Speaker 1: I'm not desperate right now. 33 00:01:37,319 --> 00:01:39,720 Speaker 2: Let me just say it's been it's been a few minutes. 34 00:01:39,880 --> 00:01:41,480 Speaker 2: I don't even know if you remember me, but I 35 00:01:41,480 --> 00:01:45,440 Speaker 2: have a couple of Michael Strahan stories. Once once I 36 00:01:45,520 --> 00:01:46,880 Speaker 2: was in New York for something else, and I got 37 00:01:46,880 --> 00:01:49,160 Speaker 2: a call going, hey, will you go up to GMA 38 00:01:49,280 --> 00:01:52,720 Speaker 2: and talk to Michael Strahan about Old Town Road? And 39 00:01:52,760 --> 00:01:55,320 Speaker 2: I was like, yeah, sure, So I threw on some 40 00:01:55,400 --> 00:01:57,560 Speaker 2: g I literally threw on some jeans and a B 41 00:01:57,680 --> 00:02:00,000 Speaker 2: plus shirt and went up and talking about Oldtown Road 42 00:02:00,200 --> 00:02:02,640 Speaker 2: whenever Lolana's X was blowing up. Now it's kind of 43 00:02:02,640 --> 00:02:05,000 Speaker 2: fun because you're just the easiest got to be around. 44 00:02:05,000 --> 00:02:06,640 Speaker 2: And then obviously when I you know, I want to 45 00:02:06,680 --> 00:02:08,200 Speaker 2: dancing with the Stars. That was kind of odd that 46 00:02:08,360 --> 00:02:10,640 Speaker 2: that was a fun one too. But uh, I always 47 00:02:10,680 --> 00:02:12,680 Speaker 2: tell people like, you're a big dude, but you're a 48 00:02:12,760 --> 00:02:14,919 Speaker 2: very warm guy. You feel like you've always been that 49 00:02:14,960 --> 00:02:15,720 Speaker 2: way towards people. 50 00:02:16,000 --> 00:02:19,920 Speaker 1: Uh yeah, yeah, I appreciate that. I appreciate that, and 51 00:02:20,000 --> 00:02:25,200 Speaker 1: I remember meeting you every time. So yeah, I've always 52 00:02:25,240 --> 00:02:29,880 Speaker 1: felt like people are important. I was always growing up 53 00:02:29,919 --> 00:02:31,960 Speaker 1: as a kid, was kind of had those jobs that 54 00:02:32,000 --> 00:02:34,320 Speaker 1: you weren't the scene person in when you're cutting the 55 00:02:34,360 --> 00:02:38,320 Speaker 1: grass or you're moving furniture and people just don't see you. 56 00:02:38,320 --> 00:02:41,680 Speaker 1: You're kind of just there. So for me, it's always 57 00:02:41,680 --> 00:02:45,400 Speaker 1: about being warm and making people feel seen. So and 58 00:02:45,800 --> 00:02:48,240 Speaker 1: I like people, so yeah, I always I feel like 59 00:02:48,240 --> 00:02:52,000 Speaker 1: I'm that guy except for the football field. Outside of that, 60 00:02:52,040 --> 00:02:53,360 Speaker 1: I'm actually pretty nice. 61 00:02:53,919 --> 00:02:54,920 Speaker 2: Was that a switch? 62 00:02:56,400 --> 00:02:59,240 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, Oh yeah, you gotta have a switch. You 63 00:02:59,320 --> 00:03:02,000 Speaker 1: have to be a It's weird when I was a 64 00:03:02,200 --> 00:03:05,440 Speaker 1: kid kid, being like twenty one in the first year 65 00:03:05,520 --> 00:03:08,880 Speaker 1: in the league. You have to you think for years, 66 00:03:08,880 --> 00:03:10,960 Speaker 1: like I got to be mad at that guy. I 67 00:03:11,040 --> 00:03:14,080 Speaker 1: gotta be mad he said something about my mama, Like 68 00:03:14,120 --> 00:03:17,799 Speaker 1: you're creating all these scenarios in your head. But as 69 00:03:17,800 --> 00:03:21,000 Speaker 1: I got older, it was, hey, we can have the 70 00:03:21,080 --> 00:03:24,000 Speaker 1: conversation right now. Like to hold on, Bobby, put my 71 00:03:24,040 --> 00:03:26,480 Speaker 1: helmet on, run out there, look at the guy, Smile 72 00:03:26,520 --> 00:03:28,600 Speaker 1: at him, beat him up a little bit, come back, 73 00:03:28,639 --> 00:03:31,080 Speaker 1: put the helmet down, and continue the conversation. It was 74 00:03:31,080 --> 00:03:34,280 Speaker 1: more about learning how to control your aggression and how 75 00:03:34,320 --> 00:03:37,960 Speaker 1: to control your focus. And it took me some years 76 00:03:38,000 --> 00:03:40,720 Speaker 1: to do it, but it made the game easier, made 77 00:03:40,720 --> 00:03:44,760 Speaker 1: it more relaxed, made it more fun, less stressful. So yeah, 78 00:03:44,880 --> 00:03:48,240 Speaker 1: I definitely felt like you have to have a switch. 79 00:03:48,280 --> 00:03:50,360 Speaker 1: If you don't, you'll burn yourself out quickly. 80 00:03:50,800 --> 00:03:53,240 Speaker 2: I think it's been pretty amazing to watch the new 81 00:03:53,320 --> 00:03:56,440 Speaker 2: professional identity you've created. But I do, and I work 82 00:03:56,440 --> 00:03:58,040 Speaker 2: for the NFL, and I work with Matt Cassel, who 83 00:03:58,080 --> 00:03:59,840 Speaker 2: was a quarterback, and we talked a lot about athletes 84 00:03:59,840 --> 00:04:01,920 Speaker 2: when they leave, they kind of have to figure out 85 00:04:02,000 --> 00:04:04,640 Speaker 2: who they are because all they've ever done is be 86 00:04:04,920 --> 00:04:08,120 Speaker 2: that was that you know mentally for you? Was that 87 00:04:08,200 --> 00:04:08,720 Speaker 2: a struggle? 88 00:04:08,960 --> 00:04:11,760 Speaker 1: Absolutely? I knew I had a job with Fox when 89 00:04:11,760 --> 00:04:14,800 Speaker 1: I retired, I mean that was that was done. I'd 90 00:04:14,800 --> 00:04:16,600 Speaker 1: already had a deal that signed and put in a 91 00:04:16,680 --> 00:04:19,160 Speaker 1: drawer and the first year of that deal went by, 92 00:04:19,200 --> 00:04:21,640 Speaker 1: and I still I went back to the Giants. It 93 00:04:21,680 --> 00:04:24,280 Speaker 1: wasn't about having a job. It was about having a 94 00:04:25,080 --> 00:04:28,080 Speaker 1: you know, being comfortable. And my first year at Fox, 95 00:04:28,160 --> 00:04:30,880 Speaker 1: first three weeks, I was thinking I should have gone 96 00:04:30,960 --> 00:04:35,880 Speaker 1: back to play football. This TV stuff is not for me. 97 00:04:35,960 --> 00:04:39,400 Speaker 1: It's hard. It's a lot harder than it looks. But 98 00:04:39,440 --> 00:04:41,560 Speaker 1: once I got it down, I love it. But yeah, 99 00:04:41,600 --> 00:04:44,279 Speaker 1: football was just it's something we've done on our whole lives, 100 00:04:44,920 --> 00:04:47,680 Speaker 1: and how do you transition out of that? And you 101 00:04:47,720 --> 00:04:49,719 Speaker 1: walk into a room and you feel like that's all 102 00:04:49,839 --> 00:04:53,440 Speaker 1: everybody sees as the football player. They don't see the 103 00:04:53,520 --> 00:04:56,279 Speaker 1: human being. They don't see someone who has other interest 104 00:04:57,200 --> 00:05:00,120 Speaker 1: someone who is more rounded than what they expected an 105 00:05:00,160 --> 00:05:02,680 Speaker 1: athlete to be. So yeah, that was a big adjustment 106 00:05:02,720 --> 00:05:04,280 Speaker 1: for me. Even though I knew I had a job, 107 00:05:04,320 --> 00:05:05,200 Speaker 1: it still was tough. 108 00:05:05,640 --> 00:05:07,160 Speaker 2: Did you feel like when you would go into a 109 00:05:07,240 --> 00:05:10,080 Speaker 2: room that you would try to prove you were more 110 00:05:10,120 --> 00:05:12,240 Speaker 2: of what you actually were, but try to be more 111 00:05:12,240 --> 00:05:14,719 Speaker 2: of that so people would take you as that instead 112 00:05:14,720 --> 00:05:15,560 Speaker 2: of just an athlete. 113 00:05:16,160 --> 00:05:23,200 Speaker 1: I think at some point probably probably, But I remember 114 00:05:23,600 --> 00:05:27,719 Speaker 1: I was talking to a movie guy, movie producer, and 115 00:05:27,800 --> 00:05:29,960 Speaker 1: I remember saying to him, Yeah, you know, I feel 116 00:05:30,000 --> 00:05:32,159 Speaker 1: like I go into these things because I thought I 117 00:05:32,160 --> 00:05:35,479 Speaker 1: wanted to be an actur at that point. So I'm like, yeah, 118 00:05:35,480 --> 00:05:37,039 Speaker 1: I go to these auditions and I feel like I 119 00:05:37,120 --> 00:05:39,200 Speaker 1: walk in and they just go. Hear the football player 120 00:05:39,480 --> 00:05:41,279 Speaker 1: and he said, people will see you as you see 121 00:05:41,320 --> 00:05:45,480 Speaker 1: yourself and he said that, and it kind of like, Okay, 122 00:05:45,839 --> 00:05:48,640 Speaker 1: I got to take myself out of just that football 123 00:05:48,680 --> 00:05:51,599 Speaker 1: player of mentality. And once I did that, it's like 124 00:05:51,640 --> 00:05:53,800 Speaker 1: a lot of different things start to happen. I think 125 00:05:53,839 --> 00:05:56,640 Speaker 1: people did see me in a different light. I think 126 00:05:58,240 --> 00:06:02,160 Speaker 1: being just taking advantage of opportunity, and by that I 127 00:06:02,279 --> 00:06:05,800 Speaker 1: mean getting over the fear of failure, to feel your 128 00:06:06,240 --> 00:06:08,039 Speaker 1: fear of being in front of a group of people 129 00:06:08,040 --> 00:06:11,039 Speaker 1: and something not working out, just saying yes to something 130 00:06:11,240 --> 00:06:13,960 Speaker 1: just for the experience of it, and see where that led. 131 00:06:14,080 --> 00:06:16,599 Speaker 1: And I look back now and I'm so grateful that 132 00:06:16,680 --> 00:06:19,760 Speaker 1: I kind of got over the fear of the failure, 133 00:06:19,920 --> 00:06:23,880 Speaker 1: the fear of feeling like you're you're you're gonna look 134 00:06:23,920 --> 00:06:26,120 Speaker 1: stupid if you do something, and just get rid of 135 00:06:26,160 --> 00:06:28,720 Speaker 1: all that stuff, drop your ego at the door, and 136 00:06:29,240 --> 00:06:32,200 Speaker 1: go to work. And that's what I did, and it's 137 00:06:32,240 --> 00:06:33,240 Speaker 1: worked out. 138 00:06:33,600 --> 00:06:35,760 Speaker 2: How early did you start doing Live with Kelly and 139 00:06:35,800 --> 00:06:37,720 Speaker 2: Michael from after you retired. 140 00:06:38,480 --> 00:06:43,600 Speaker 1: Think a fourth year out of football? Yeah, I think 141 00:06:43,680 --> 00:06:44,600 Speaker 1: my fourth year out. 142 00:06:45,000 --> 00:06:46,479 Speaker 2: Did you feel like you were ready for that or 143 00:06:46,480 --> 00:06:48,919 Speaker 2: do you feel like that was training camp for what 144 00:06:48,920 --> 00:06:49,479 Speaker 2: you're doing now? 145 00:06:50,120 --> 00:06:53,919 Speaker 1: Oh? No, I was ready for that because coming from Fox, 146 00:06:55,080 --> 00:06:57,800 Speaker 1: got four other guys that have to listen to and 147 00:06:57,800 --> 00:07:03,000 Speaker 1: pay attention to. That was tough. Live was probably the 148 00:07:03,000 --> 00:07:05,000 Speaker 1: easiest show I've ever done, to be honest with you, 149 00:07:05,040 --> 00:07:08,920 Speaker 1: because it was more personality driven. It was more you know, 150 00:07:09,080 --> 00:07:13,760 Speaker 1: paid by celebrity driven, more fun and upbeat. So that 151 00:07:14,040 --> 00:07:17,320 Speaker 1: was just kind of natural to me, and I enjoyed it. 152 00:07:17,360 --> 00:07:19,360 Speaker 1: I loved it. It was It was really a lot 153 00:07:19,360 --> 00:07:22,480 Speaker 1: of fun. And GMA is a little bit of that, 154 00:07:22,560 --> 00:07:24,720 Speaker 1: but you have the news and you have other components, 155 00:07:24,800 --> 00:07:26,760 Speaker 1: so it required for you to have a different range 156 00:07:26,760 --> 00:07:30,840 Speaker 1: and much more and much more rounded range and Live. 157 00:07:31,360 --> 00:07:34,560 Speaker 1: But I felt like I was ready for Live. GMA 158 00:07:34,960 --> 00:07:37,760 Speaker 1: and Football were the two that when I first started, 159 00:07:38,040 --> 00:07:41,680 Speaker 1: I was a little overwhelmed. Live felt natural. It was 160 00:07:41,720 --> 00:07:42,320 Speaker 1: just a good fit. 161 00:07:42,480 --> 00:07:44,640 Speaker 2: Did you feel like playing football you would get more 162 00:07:44,680 --> 00:07:47,800 Speaker 2: scrutiny like film or once you started doing GMA when 163 00:07:47,840 --> 00:07:50,760 Speaker 2: they were Were you getting scrutiny from you know, producers 164 00:07:51,840 --> 00:07:52,840 Speaker 2: or executives. 165 00:07:53,440 --> 00:07:57,400 Speaker 1: No, it's it's weird producers and executives in a lot 166 00:07:57,440 --> 00:08:00,080 Speaker 1: of ways. You need people around you outside of that 167 00:08:00,280 --> 00:08:02,680 Speaker 1: who we're going to tell you the truth. And not 168 00:08:02,760 --> 00:08:04,240 Speaker 1: that they don't tell you the truth, but I think 169 00:08:04,280 --> 00:08:06,360 Speaker 1: a lot of them is so afraid to upset what 170 00:08:06,400 --> 00:08:12,240 Speaker 1: they call the talent, so they they will go around 171 00:08:12,720 --> 00:08:15,200 Speaker 1: and try to hopefully get around that gets to you 172 00:08:15,320 --> 00:08:18,720 Speaker 1: around the bend, not directly to your face, but coming 173 00:08:18,720 --> 00:08:20,880 Speaker 1: from football, I'm used to it, like a coach cursing 174 00:08:20,920 --> 00:08:25,400 Speaker 1: you out, screaming at you, talking about everything about you. 175 00:08:25,400 --> 00:08:27,520 Speaker 1: You just got to take it, or you just got 176 00:08:27,560 --> 00:08:29,160 Speaker 1: to tough en up. And I'm being on the field 177 00:08:29,200 --> 00:08:31,240 Speaker 1: and having guys do that or being in to have 178 00:08:31,320 --> 00:08:33,120 Speaker 1: the media do that to you have to have a 179 00:08:33,160 --> 00:08:36,440 Speaker 1: bad game or bad season. So I was pretty tough 180 00:08:36,520 --> 00:08:40,000 Speaker 1: from the football aspect of it. I think that the 181 00:08:40,240 --> 00:08:43,640 Speaker 1: other criticism that you get, I think I was. I 182 00:08:43,720 --> 00:08:47,000 Speaker 1: judge myself a lot harder than anybody in the newspaper 183 00:08:47,040 --> 00:08:50,439 Speaker 1: is going to judge me. So I just learned when 184 00:08:50,440 --> 00:08:52,560 Speaker 1: I played football, and I remember telling one of the 185 00:08:52,600 --> 00:08:55,600 Speaker 1: reporters this after he had kind of pissed me off, 186 00:08:56,040 --> 00:09:00,360 Speaker 1: I said, well, you know what I learned, I'm not 187 00:09:00,440 --> 00:09:02,480 Speaker 1: gonna let take that. I'm not gonna let the opinion 188 00:09:02,520 --> 00:09:04,920 Speaker 1: of someone upset me who the last time they put 189 00:09:04,960 --> 00:09:07,040 Speaker 1: on a football uniform is when their mom took them 190 00:09:07,040 --> 00:09:09,720 Speaker 1: trick or treating. And it's very easy for me to 191 00:09:09,760 --> 00:09:11,880 Speaker 1: criticize what you do. I can't do what you do, 192 00:09:12,760 --> 00:09:14,720 Speaker 1: but I know one thing I could do what those 193 00:09:14,720 --> 00:09:16,520 Speaker 1: guys were doing. They couldn't do what I was doing 194 00:09:16,559 --> 00:09:19,480 Speaker 1: at the time. So I used to always look at 195 00:09:19,480 --> 00:09:23,080 Speaker 1: it and think, no one is more. People want to 196 00:09:23,800 --> 00:09:28,440 Speaker 1: our people want to see succeed, but most people, you know, 197 00:09:28,559 --> 00:09:30,920 Speaker 1: sometime they don't. But then if they don't and you 198 00:09:30,960 --> 00:09:33,240 Speaker 1: have a comeback, they like that too. And being in 199 00:09:33,280 --> 00:09:35,480 Speaker 1: New York to have that thick skin, so I developed 200 00:09:35,480 --> 00:09:37,440 Speaker 1: it here man, and it's worked great for me. 201 00:09:37,960 --> 00:09:40,520 Speaker 2: It's weird. You bring up a great point, like our 202 00:09:40,600 --> 00:09:43,440 Speaker 2: culture is funny because they love to build you up. 203 00:09:44,320 --> 00:09:46,120 Speaker 2: They don't always love to see you stay up there 204 00:09:46,160 --> 00:09:48,439 Speaker 2: because then they love to knock you down, and then 205 00:09:48,480 --> 00:09:50,720 Speaker 2: they love to see you build yourself back up again 206 00:09:50,800 --> 00:09:52,800 Speaker 2: after they've built you up and knocked you down. It's 207 00:09:52,800 --> 00:09:59,800 Speaker 2: almost like they want to yo yo you. That's exactly what. 208 00:10:01,120 --> 00:10:03,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, But I will tell you, if you could build 209 00:10:03,760 --> 00:10:07,720 Speaker 1: yourself back up after getting knocked down, then you almost 210 00:10:07,720 --> 00:10:10,200 Speaker 1: feel like nothing could take you down again, you know, 211 00:10:10,800 --> 00:10:15,319 Speaker 1: unless you do something to sabotage yourself. But I enjoy that. 212 00:10:15,520 --> 00:10:18,920 Speaker 1: I enjoy channing and being challenged. I enjoy people doubting. 213 00:10:19,200 --> 00:10:21,040 Speaker 1: I think that's what motivates for me, to be honest 214 00:10:21,080 --> 00:10:22,839 Speaker 1: with you, to keep on doing all these things that 215 00:10:23,080 --> 00:10:26,800 Speaker 1: no one expected this football guy to do. So I'll 216 00:10:26,880 --> 00:10:29,080 Speaker 1: take it as motivation and I take it as fuel. 217 00:10:29,760 --> 00:10:32,640 Speaker 1: I don't feel like I have anything to prove anymore 218 00:10:32,679 --> 00:10:35,280 Speaker 1: to anybody, and now I do things that I love 219 00:10:35,320 --> 00:10:37,040 Speaker 1: to do, and I enjoy doing it and just trying 220 00:10:37,040 --> 00:10:39,040 Speaker 1: to prove to myself that I can accomplish and be 221 00:10:39,080 --> 00:10:39,720 Speaker 1: good at something. 222 00:10:39,920 --> 00:10:41,120 Speaker 2: What time do you wake up in the morning? 223 00:10:41,679 --> 00:10:44,640 Speaker 1: Five am? Oh, that ain't so bad, not so bad, 224 00:10:45,000 --> 00:10:49,040 Speaker 1: you know, Like George wakes up at three three thirty 225 00:10:49,760 --> 00:10:53,000 Speaker 1: and Robin's like four four point thirty, and they're like, oh, 226 00:10:53,000 --> 00:10:55,640 Speaker 1: we meditate. I'm like, well I do too, it's called sleep. 227 00:10:58,720 --> 00:11:03,720 Speaker 1: Why why so I wake up at five and it's 228 00:11:03,760 --> 00:11:06,320 Speaker 1: it's a great job, man. I love it. I actually 229 00:11:06,600 --> 00:11:09,960 Speaker 1: enjoy going in. I think moving our studios all the 230 00:11:09,960 --> 00:11:12,360 Speaker 1: way downtown has brought a different kind of vibe and 231 00:11:12,400 --> 00:11:16,400 Speaker 1: feeling to it and has reinvigorated everybody there. So it's 232 00:11:16,440 --> 00:11:17,079 Speaker 1: a lot of fun. 233 00:11:17,400 --> 00:11:21,440 Speaker 2: Do you have any moments with Good Morning America? And 234 00:11:21,480 --> 00:11:23,160 Speaker 2: I'll just compare it out for a week, I went 235 00:11:23,160 --> 00:11:24,920 Speaker 2: and I hosted The Today Show. I hope that's not a. 236 00:11:24,840 --> 00:11:26,600 Speaker 1: Bad word, but I want to know not at all. 237 00:11:26,720 --> 00:11:27,319 Speaker 1: I love them. 238 00:11:27,520 --> 00:11:29,640 Speaker 2: I hosted The Today Show and Queen Elizabeth died one 239 00:11:29,679 --> 00:11:31,120 Speaker 2: of the days that I was doing it, and so 240 00:11:31,160 --> 00:11:34,040 Speaker 2: it just it threw everything off, meaning it was like, Okay, 241 00:11:34,080 --> 00:11:37,040 Speaker 2: we had all this planned, but now we're going straight coverage. 242 00:11:37,120 --> 00:11:39,760 Speaker 2: It's Queen Elizabeth. Has have any of those big world 243 00:11:39,760 --> 00:11:41,520 Speaker 2: events happened to you where you've had to go all 244 00:11:41,600 --> 00:11:43,679 Speaker 2: right time to you know, just tighten up and we 245 00:11:43,760 --> 00:11:44,800 Speaker 2: got to change. 246 00:11:44,520 --> 00:11:47,600 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, absolutely every day. I mean, we we got 247 00:11:47,640 --> 00:11:49,839 Speaker 1: a situation going on and you're on right now. So 248 00:11:49,880 --> 00:11:52,480 Speaker 1: it's like you're in the middle of something and something 249 00:11:52,520 --> 00:11:54,679 Speaker 1: happened and it's breaking news and you got to break 250 00:11:54,679 --> 00:11:57,480 Speaker 1: in the show. Get thrown in flux and when you 251 00:11:57,559 --> 00:12:00,320 Speaker 1: first start, oh man, you don't know what's going on, 252 00:12:00,400 --> 00:12:03,440 Speaker 1: your mind just spinning because you've never experienced it. But 253 00:12:03,640 --> 00:12:06,800 Speaker 1: now you kind of get used to it. It's not 254 00:12:06,840 --> 00:12:09,960 Speaker 1: that it's easy, but you're able to calm yourself down 255 00:12:10,040 --> 00:12:14,320 Speaker 1: and process everything to get through it. And that's what's 256 00:12:14,360 --> 00:12:17,320 Speaker 1: kind of fun about is the unpredictability of it, because 257 00:12:17,360 --> 00:12:20,040 Speaker 1: if every day is just the same, after a while 258 00:12:20,080 --> 00:12:21,320 Speaker 1: you can go in there and be a robot and 259 00:12:21,360 --> 00:12:23,200 Speaker 1: do the job. I'm like, okay, you guys can just 260 00:12:23,240 --> 00:12:26,760 Speaker 1: ai me and I'll stay home. You still get this 261 00:12:26,880 --> 00:12:29,480 Speaker 1: job done. But yeah, you got to be able to 262 00:12:29,520 --> 00:12:32,760 Speaker 1: just move and flex and be flexible with everything. Sometimes 263 00:12:33,160 --> 00:12:35,200 Speaker 1: one of the worst is went out like we're talking, 264 00:12:35,720 --> 00:12:39,319 Speaker 1: all of a sudden, you're remote messes up and then Cara, 265 00:12:39,440 --> 00:12:43,720 Speaker 1: You're like, we got to probably be right back. The 266 00:12:43,760 --> 00:12:47,120 Speaker 1: panic is real, But it's fun. Man. That's the interesting 267 00:12:47,160 --> 00:12:49,560 Speaker 1: part about my job is that I get to talk 268 00:12:49,600 --> 00:12:52,960 Speaker 1: to interesting people like yourself, get to meet a ton 269 00:12:53,000 --> 00:12:57,360 Speaker 1: of people, get to cover world events. So my highlights 270 00:12:57,440 --> 00:13:01,920 Speaker 1: I went to to when they coordinate King Charles, I 271 00:13:01,960 --> 00:13:04,320 Speaker 1: did the coordination for ABC. I let the coverage so 272 00:13:04,400 --> 00:13:07,000 Speaker 1: I'm throwing all the raw experts and I have to 273 00:13:07,000 --> 00:13:10,320 Speaker 1: be an expert on the subject myself to go to 274 00:13:10,360 --> 00:13:13,920 Speaker 1: places like Easter Island and cover the Mai statues and 275 00:13:14,520 --> 00:13:17,600 Speaker 1: the ecosystem there. So it's like all these interesting places 276 00:13:17,600 --> 00:13:19,600 Speaker 1: I get to go around the world to cover different 277 00:13:19,640 --> 00:13:23,640 Speaker 1: things and topics and people and animals and everything. 278 00:13:23,679 --> 00:13:28,200 Speaker 2: It's fantastic the documentary you did about your daughter's fight 279 00:13:28,240 --> 00:13:29,959 Speaker 2: against cancer, and I believe that's even in the title 280 00:13:29,960 --> 00:13:35,160 Speaker 2: of it, that's that's professional, but it's extremely personal. And 281 00:13:35,640 --> 00:13:38,559 Speaker 2: this is a professional question. But I'm assuming in final 282 00:13:38,559 --> 00:13:40,280 Speaker 2: cuts when you get the decision of what's going to 283 00:13:40,320 --> 00:13:42,439 Speaker 2: be shown, like you're having a balance. This is your 284 00:13:42,520 --> 00:13:46,359 Speaker 2: daughter's journey, and yet it's also being made as a documentary. 285 00:13:47,160 --> 00:13:50,199 Speaker 2: To me, what seemed like to allow people to see 286 00:13:50,240 --> 00:13:53,320 Speaker 2: they're not alone, and like to also to show you 287 00:13:53,360 --> 00:13:54,840 Speaker 2: know what had happened, but that a lot of folks 288 00:13:54,880 --> 00:13:56,400 Speaker 2: are like, how did you balance that? 289 00:13:57,120 --> 00:13:59,320 Speaker 1: Well, that's all unheard. I'll be honest with you. My 290 00:13:59,400 --> 00:14:04,160 Speaker 1: daughter the main because I when when we got the 291 00:14:04,240 --> 00:14:06,880 Speaker 1: diagnosis and she was going through what she was going through, 292 00:14:07,000 --> 00:14:12,280 Speaker 1: she couldn't find anybody her age to to communicate with. 293 00:14:12,480 --> 00:14:16,400 Speaker 1: To to share, to be comfortable with. So that's why 294 00:14:16,440 --> 00:14:19,240 Speaker 1: she wanted to reach out and like post all these 295 00:14:19,280 --> 00:14:21,960 Speaker 1: blog blogs and do all blogs and do all these things. 296 00:14:22,840 --> 00:14:25,920 Speaker 1: And when they came to when we thought about doing 297 00:14:25,960 --> 00:14:29,000 Speaker 1: the doc, I'll be honest with you, Bobby, I've never 298 00:14:29,040 --> 00:14:29,400 Speaker 1: seen it. 299 00:14:30,160 --> 00:14:33,200 Speaker 2: Oh still still because it because you lived it or too. 300 00:14:33,240 --> 00:14:34,120 Speaker 2: It's too hard that much. 301 00:14:34,640 --> 00:14:37,720 Speaker 1: I lived it, and it's too hard to watch and 302 00:14:39,200 --> 00:14:41,200 Speaker 1: be in there every day and senend it every day. 303 00:14:41,480 --> 00:14:44,120 Speaker 1: That is one the one project where I said, okay, 304 00:14:44,160 --> 00:14:45,640 Speaker 1: if you want to do this, I told her you 305 00:14:45,680 --> 00:14:47,480 Speaker 1: don't have to do this. She wanted to do this 306 00:14:47,520 --> 00:14:50,760 Speaker 1: because she wanted to help other people. So I was 307 00:14:50,760 --> 00:14:52,640 Speaker 1: a one project. So I said handed it to the 308 00:14:52,680 --> 00:14:56,960 Speaker 1: team and said, here you go. This is this is 309 00:14:57,080 --> 00:15:01,240 Speaker 1: my baby. Take care of my baby. But I can't. 310 00:15:01,640 --> 00:15:05,360 Speaker 1: I can't be involved on a daily and look at this. 311 00:15:06,160 --> 00:15:10,880 Speaker 1: But she's been remission, she's you know, checkups are great, 312 00:15:10,960 --> 00:15:14,040 Speaker 1: she's back in college. But yeah, it's a very hard. 313 00:15:14,160 --> 00:15:15,920 Speaker 1: That was a very hard time because I have to 314 00:15:15,960 --> 00:15:18,000 Speaker 1: go to work every day and put on a brave, 315 00:15:18,080 --> 00:15:20,280 Speaker 1: happy face, but yet I know when I go home, 316 00:15:20,320 --> 00:15:22,680 Speaker 1: I'm dealing with a daughter who I have to take 317 00:15:22,720 --> 00:15:25,560 Speaker 1: to get radiation treatments, or I got to go to 318 00:15:25,560 --> 00:15:28,040 Speaker 1: give her you should take her to do her chemo treatment. 319 00:15:28,200 --> 00:15:30,960 Speaker 1: So it was, it was it was tough, you know, 320 00:15:31,040 --> 00:15:33,240 Speaker 1: rushing to the hospital at night if she gets the fever, 321 00:15:33,720 --> 00:15:35,640 Speaker 1: and then you know, showing up in the morning and 322 00:15:35,680 --> 00:15:38,360 Speaker 1: acting and being in a way in which, okay that 323 00:15:38,520 --> 00:15:43,200 Speaker 1: I can't let my personal side interact with my professional side. 324 00:15:43,480 --> 00:15:47,200 Speaker 1: But her putting it out there really did help me 325 00:15:47,280 --> 00:15:49,240 Speaker 1: in a sense that I didn't feel like I feel 326 00:15:49,280 --> 00:15:51,560 Speaker 1: like I could express what was going on with the 327 00:15:51,560 --> 00:15:53,320 Speaker 1: people that were close to me, and I feel like 328 00:15:53,320 --> 00:15:56,600 Speaker 1: I had to hold something back. And because she didn't 329 00:15:56,640 --> 00:15:58,440 Speaker 1: want the world to know, she wanted the world to 330 00:15:58,440 --> 00:16:00,200 Speaker 1: know because she felt it was a good way to 331 00:16:00,200 --> 00:16:01,600 Speaker 1: to help other people in the world. 332 00:16:02,000 --> 00:16:03,400 Speaker 2: How did you compartmentalize that? 333 00:16:04,080 --> 00:16:07,360 Speaker 1: You know, it's kind of like football a switch. Be 334 00:16:07,440 --> 00:16:10,680 Speaker 1: honest with you, It's like a switch. And it's a 335 00:16:10,720 --> 00:16:15,280 Speaker 1: gift in a curse because I can have something serious 336 00:16:15,280 --> 00:16:16,840 Speaker 1: and I can block it out and do it, can 337 00:16:16,920 --> 00:16:18,240 Speaker 1: do in a moment, and I can go right back 338 00:16:18,280 --> 00:16:19,440 Speaker 1: to it, and I can block it out and go 339 00:16:19,520 --> 00:16:21,760 Speaker 1: do other things. It's a gift in a curse. But 340 00:16:21,800 --> 00:16:25,000 Speaker 1: in this case it was the gift. And yeah, it 341 00:16:25,040 --> 00:16:29,560 Speaker 1: was just compartmentalized then. And I think playing sports, playing 342 00:16:29,600 --> 00:16:33,640 Speaker 1: football and having to develop that skill helped in this case. 343 00:16:34,680 --> 00:16:37,320 Speaker 3: Let's take a quick pause for a message from our sponsor, 344 00:16:47,680 --> 00:16:49,880 Speaker 3: and we're back on the Bobby Cast. 345 00:16:50,400 --> 00:16:52,560 Speaker 2: And I spent time going up in Germany. I'd never 346 00:16:52,560 --> 00:16:55,680 Speaker 2: been until recently, and I stopped in Munich and I 347 00:16:55,720 --> 00:16:58,120 Speaker 2: got a hot dog, and I really put I put 348 00:16:58,160 --> 00:17:00,480 Speaker 2: a lot of pressure on that hot dog being good, 349 00:17:00,600 --> 00:17:03,160 Speaker 2: just because you got a broathw was I got it? Yes, 350 00:17:03,240 --> 00:17:06,119 Speaker 2: and so at high, hopes high and I got and 351 00:17:06,160 --> 00:17:09,639 Speaker 2: it met every expectation that I could have ever had. Yes, 352 00:17:10,040 --> 00:17:12,480 Speaker 2: And I talk about it. If anybody's like, you ever 353 00:17:12,520 --> 00:17:14,560 Speaker 2: been to Germany, I'm like, not only have I been 354 00:17:14,600 --> 00:17:16,480 Speaker 2: to Germany, let me tell you about this hot dog 355 00:17:16,600 --> 00:17:19,160 Speaker 2: at a street fair? It was abroad. There's definitely a broade. 356 00:17:19,200 --> 00:17:21,320 Speaker 2: So what ages were you there? 357 00:17:21,640 --> 00:17:24,159 Speaker 1: I was. We moved in Germany and when I was nine, 358 00:17:25,119 --> 00:17:27,640 Speaker 1: and then I came back to the States for half 359 00:17:27,680 --> 00:17:31,320 Speaker 1: of my senior year to play football and lived with 360 00:17:31,359 --> 00:17:35,000 Speaker 1: my uncle in Houston for five months, got one football 361 00:17:35,000 --> 00:17:37,760 Speaker 1: scholarship the Texas Southern, got back on the plane in 362 00:17:37,800 --> 00:17:40,800 Speaker 1: December for Christmas and flew back to Germany and graduated 363 00:17:40,880 --> 00:17:44,240 Speaker 1: high school there. So I was there from nine till seventeen, 364 00:17:44,280 --> 00:17:48,280 Speaker 1: eighteen years old. My parents stayed until I was twenty seven. 365 00:17:49,080 --> 00:17:51,240 Speaker 1: I was in the NFL for a six seven years 366 00:17:51,280 --> 00:17:53,920 Speaker 1: before my parents moved back, So I would still go back. 367 00:17:53,960 --> 00:17:57,159 Speaker 1: I'd go see my family. Obviously, I felt when I 368 00:17:57,200 --> 00:17:59,280 Speaker 1: first came back here for high school for that half 369 00:17:59,280 --> 00:18:01,800 Speaker 1: of my senior year, I felt more a German and 370 00:18:01,960 --> 00:18:07,240 Speaker 1: European than I felt the American that was home. And yeah, 371 00:18:07,280 --> 00:18:12,080 Speaker 1: it was. It was definitely a culture shock to come 372 00:18:12,119 --> 00:18:13,000 Speaker 1: back to the States. 373 00:18:13,200 --> 00:18:15,400 Speaker 2: Did you only play American football then? For one year? 374 00:18:16,400 --> 00:18:18,919 Speaker 1: I played one year in high school. Yeah, I had 375 00:18:18,920 --> 00:18:20,520 Speaker 1: no idea what I was doing. Man, I was just 376 00:18:20,560 --> 00:18:24,800 Speaker 1: like running around getting the guy with the ball just whoever. 377 00:18:25,000 --> 00:18:29,080 Speaker 1: I had no idea. I knew no technique. I watched 378 00:18:29,080 --> 00:18:31,840 Speaker 1: the game on TV. You know, you just tackle the 379 00:18:31,880 --> 00:18:34,880 Speaker 1: guy with the ball. So if I could do that, 380 00:18:35,080 --> 00:18:37,800 Speaker 1: I got one scholarship and then from there I figured 381 00:18:37,800 --> 00:18:40,080 Speaker 1: it out and I learned, you know, I really learned 382 00:18:40,119 --> 00:18:42,720 Speaker 1: a lot about how to do it. I watched TV, man, 383 00:18:43,400 --> 00:18:46,679 Speaker 1: I would watch NFL games on Sunday. Even when I 384 00:18:46,720 --> 00:18:48,879 Speaker 1: was in college, I'd watch NFL games on Sunday, and 385 00:18:48,920 --> 00:18:50,919 Speaker 1: I'm just watching a guy and what he's doing and 386 00:18:50,960 --> 00:18:54,760 Speaker 1: how he's successful at different things. And I remember reading 387 00:18:54,800 --> 00:18:58,879 Speaker 1: in those something and these magazines that needs to have 388 00:18:58,960 --> 00:19:02,800 Speaker 1: the players their size, their weight, all these things, and 389 00:19:02,840 --> 00:19:05,720 Speaker 1: I remember going, I need to be six five two fifty. 390 00:19:06,280 --> 00:19:08,879 Speaker 1: I need to be six five two fifty. And my 391 00:19:08,920 --> 00:19:12,280 Speaker 1: brothers aren't big guys really, And I ended up being 392 00:19:12,320 --> 00:19:14,920 Speaker 1: like sixty five at times in my career, a little 393 00:19:14,920 --> 00:19:18,720 Speaker 1: bit over to fifty other big bone but but by 394 00:19:18,760 --> 00:19:20,600 Speaker 1: the end it up. But by by the end of 395 00:19:20,680 --> 00:19:23,280 Speaker 1: the day, I ended up being would always imagine I 396 00:19:23,320 --> 00:19:26,240 Speaker 1: needed to be in order to be successful in the NFL. 397 00:19:26,400 --> 00:19:27,080 Speaker 1: It's crazy. 398 00:19:27,480 --> 00:19:30,040 Speaker 2: Is there a person, both in sports and in your 399 00:19:30,200 --> 00:19:33,120 Speaker 2: we'll call it your second life in media who believed 400 00:19:33,160 --> 00:19:34,840 Speaker 2: in you and you look at that person and go, man, 401 00:19:34,880 --> 00:19:36,320 Speaker 2: if it wasn't for that person, I don't know if 402 00:19:36,359 --> 00:19:36,920 Speaker 2: I'd be here. 403 00:19:37,520 --> 00:19:40,040 Speaker 1: I think it's it's two people at different favors than 404 00:19:40,040 --> 00:19:43,560 Speaker 1: my life. Number one is my dad. My dad, Major 405 00:19:43,680 --> 00:19:48,240 Speaker 1: Jean Willie Strahan Senior, passed away a few years ago, 406 00:19:48,840 --> 00:19:52,399 Speaker 1: but incredibly great, great father and a great man, and 407 00:19:52,480 --> 00:19:57,960 Speaker 1: my dad growing up would always say when not if so? 408 00:19:57,960 --> 00:19:59,879 Speaker 1: He said, when you do this, when you do that, 409 00:20:00,040 --> 00:20:02,160 Speaker 1: when you go back to this day with your uncle 410 00:20:02,400 --> 00:20:05,800 Speaker 1: and get the scholarship, when you make it to the pros, 411 00:20:06,000 --> 00:20:08,600 Speaker 1: when I mean everything was when never if so? In 412 00:20:08,640 --> 00:20:11,280 Speaker 1: my mind, I believe anything was possible. I never had 413 00:20:11,320 --> 00:20:14,840 Speaker 1: any doubt. So my dad was that growing up. And 414 00:20:16,320 --> 00:20:20,760 Speaker 1: then once football was over, my business partner, Constant Swarts, 415 00:20:20,880 --> 00:20:24,000 Speaker 1: it was like Constance kind of picked up the baton 416 00:20:25,240 --> 00:20:27,560 Speaker 1: and I'll never forget the first time I did live 417 00:20:27,760 --> 00:20:30,679 Speaker 1: I was a guest host. I was nervous as all 418 00:20:30,760 --> 00:20:33,960 Speaker 1: could be. I do it. We get backstage and she 419 00:20:34,000 --> 00:20:36,119 Speaker 1: looks at me and go, this is what you're gonna do. 420 00:20:36,680 --> 00:20:38,960 Speaker 1: This is your next job, this is your next get. 421 00:20:39,080 --> 00:20:41,240 Speaker 1: This type of business is what you're gonna do. And 422 00:20:41,280 --> 00:20:44,359 Speaker 1: from there to everything that I do now on the 423 00:20:44,400 --> 00:20:49,040 Speaker 1: business side to the television side, it's all because Constance 424 00:20:49,080 --> 00:20:52,719 Speaker 1: has taken over the role that my dad had all 425 00:20:52,760 --> 00:20:56,080 Speaker 1: those years growing up. And yeah, between the two of them, 426 00:20:56,800 --> 00:20:59,720 Speaker 1: they have really taken care of me. 427 00:21:00,200 --> 00:21:02,600 Speaker 2: This may be a really corny question, but what was 428 00:21:02,600 --> 00:21:03,400 Speaker 2: it like in space? 429 00:21:04,280 --> 00:21:09,720 Speaker 1: Oh? Amazing? Well, I tell you. People will ask me that, 430 00:21:10,119 --> 00:21:12,280 Speaker 1: and I could sit here and take our whole time 431 00:21:12,320 --> 00:21:16,080 Speaker 1: together to describe it to you. But in essence, the 432 00:21:16,119 --> 00:21:19,359 Speaker 1: whole thing was twelve minutes up and down twelve minutes. 433 00:21:20,000 --> 00:21:27,880 Speaker 1: But because you're so hyper aware of every sound, every feeling, everything, 434 00:21:28,200 --> 00:21:31,280 Speaker 1: it feels like it was ours. When you're sitting in 435 00:21:31,320 --> 00:21:33,960 Speaker 1: that capsule and you're watching that screen and it's telling 436 00:21:34,000 --> 00:21:37,359 Speaker 1: you the countdown clock, and then they added more time 437 00:21:37,400 --> 00:21:39,680 Speaker 1: to our countdown clock, which makes you go, huh, why 438 00:21:39,680 --> 00:21:43,359 Speaker 1: did they do that wrong? And they're coming on they're like, no, 439 00:21:43,560 --> 00:21:46,600 Speaker 1: nothing's wrong or okay, and you're watching that countdown clock, 440 00:21:46,640 --> 00:21:49,000 Speaker 1: and once you get to two and a half minutes, 441 00:21:49,600 --> 00:21:52,000 Speaker 1: then it goes on the computer. You're locked in. So 442 00:21:52,240 --> 00:21:54,600 Speaker 1: until then you got two things you can say one 443 00:21:55,560 --> 00:21:59,199 Speaker 1: time out, which means they'll come on and try to say, okay, Bobby, 444 00:21:59,240 --> 00:22:02,760 Speaker 1: you can do this, you got it, or I don't 445 00:22:02,760 --> 00:22:05,280 Speaker 1: want to fly today. Then they'll just come take you off. 446 00:22:05,920 --> 00:22:08,560 Speaker 1: And I'm looking at the countdown clock and I'm like, ooh, 447 00:22:08,720 --> 00:22:11,399 Speaker 1: is anybody on here gonna say they don't want to 448 00:22:11,480 --> 00:22:14,639 Speaker 1: party to break? And if they do, will I go 449 00:22:14,720 --> 00:22:17,760 Speaker 1: with them? And once you get past that threshold where 450 00:22:17,800 --> 00:22:20,160 Speaker 1: you realize you're locked in and you have no other 451 00:22:20,200 --> 00:22:23,160 Speaker 1: option but to do it. It is such a calming 452 00:22:23,359 --> 00:22:27,520 Speaker 1: piece over your body. You're not even scared. It's a piece. 453 00:22:28,480 --> 00:22:32,160 Speaker 1: And once we took off and the thing is moving up, 454 00:22:32,680 --> 00:22:37,000 Speaker 1: everybody just screamed, like unprompted screen because it was like 455 00:22:37,040 --> 00:22:42,680 Speaker 1: all this joy and press are relieved and you're flying. Man, 456 00:22:42,760 --> 00:22:44,679 Speaker 1: I mean you look up there to screen, it's like, oh, 457 00:22:44,680 --> 00:22:47,760 Speaker 1: we're forty thousand square feet I mean forty feet thousand 458 00:22:47,760 --> 00:22:49,920 Speaker 1: feet in the air and we have we're going three 459 00:22:50,000 --> 00:22:52,320 Speaker 1: hundred mileths per hour. You're like, okay, cars that due 460 00:22:52,320 --> 00:22:54,520 Speaker 1: three hundred and forty thousand. I've been on a plane. 461 00:22:54,880 --> 00:22:56,480 Speaker 1: Next thing, you know, you look up, you're like two 462 00:22:56,560 --> 00:22:59,560 Speaker 1: hundred thousand feet in the air doing two thousand mileths 463 00:22:59,560 --> 00:23:03,320 Speaker 1: per hour. And you were in the light looking at 464 00:23:03,320 --> 00:23:05,600 Speaker 1: the darkness. Now you're in the dark looking back at 465 00:23:05,640 --> 00:23:09,400 Speaker 1: the light. And the first time you realize that they 466 00:23:09,440 --> 00:23:12,560 Speaker 1: released the main rocket and you go like that and 467 00:23:12,560 --> 00:23:16,480 Speaker 1: you go, oh my gosh, my arms are floating. Then 468 00:23:16,520 --> 00:23:19,520 Speaker 1: once you release your seat belts, you put them, you 469 00:23:19,600 --> 00:23:22,080 Speaker 1: take them off, You push yourself with the pressure of 470 00:23:22,080 --> 00:23:24,360 Speaker 1: holding up a cell phone with two fingers. That's it. 471 00:23:24,640 --> 00:23:27,800 Speaker 1: Don't ever use your left You'll break your neck. Don't 472 00:23:27,800 --> 00:23:31,360 Speaker 1: blow like the cartoon. You're not gonna move anywhere. Don't 473 00:23:31,400 --> 00:23:33,560 Speaker 1: do that. You're not going anywhere. It doesn't work that way. 474 00:23:34,119 --> 00:23:37,040 Speaker 1: But you push off of that seat and you're just floating. 475 00:23:37,680 --> 00:23:40,320 Speaker 1: You're doing spinning, and you're looking out the window and 476 00:23:40,680 --> 00:23:43,000 Speaker 1: it looks like you know, when you leave your phone, 477 00:23:43,080 --> 00:23:46,560 Speaker 1: your TV on the iPhone and I mean the apple 478 00:23:46,840 --> 00:23:50,200 Speaker 1: and the circular screen and just looking back at the planet. 479 00:23:50,240 --> 00:23:54,439 Speaker 1: It makes you realize how insignificant we are to the 480 00:23:54,480 --> 00:23:59,080 Speaker 1: grand scheme of everything here, and it gives you a 481 00:23:59,119 --> 00:24:03,560 Speaker 1: different sense of what your life is, your family like 482 00:24:03,640 --> 00:24:08,520 Speaker 1: you start you get become peaceful with the fact of 483 00:24:08,680 --> 00:24:10,920 Speaker 1: death when you're getting ready to take off, because you 484 00:24:10,960 --> 00:24:13,720 Speaker 1: realize this could go awry. But then you know, I 485 00:24:13,720 --> 00:24:15,399 Speaker 1: don't want to leave my family. I don't want them 486 00:24:15,400 --> 00:24:20,280 Speaker 1: to leave me. And you realize how much love that 487 00:24:20,359 --> 00:24:24,000 Speaker 1: there is that you have inside of you, uh, and 488 00:24:24,040 --> 00:24:26,720 Speaker 1: but how insignificant the grand scheme of the world you are. 489 00:24:26,760 --> 00:24:28,959 Speaker 1: At the same time, it's just the most unique feeling 490 00:24:29,359 --> 00:24:30,800 Speaker 1: I've ever ever felt. 491 00:24:30,800 --> 00:24:32,359 Speaker 2: Man, And you didn't take it all to yell, I 492 00:24:32,400 --> 00:24:33,000 Speaker 2: don't want to do it. 493 00:24:33,040 --> 00:24:33,399 Speaker 1: You were in. 494 00:24:33,440 --> 00:24:34,080 Speaker 2: You were locked in. 495 00:24:34,560 --> 00:24:36,760 Speaker 1: Absolutely. I thought I didn't want to do it. You know, 496 00:24:38,040 --> 00:24:40,119 Speaker 1: when I got the call to do what I had, 497 00:24:40,560 --> 00:24:42,760 Speaker 1: I was at I went to the first launch that 498 00:24:42,840 --> 00:24:47,360 Speaker 1: Bethos dead. Jeff and his brother Mark and I went 499 00:24:47,359 --> 00:24:49,400 Speaker 1: for gm A and I'm like, okay, you know I'm 500 00:24:49,400 --> 00:24:52,240 Speaker 1: gonna watch these guys go up in a spaceship. I'm 501 00:24:52,240 --> 00:24:55,080 Speaker 1: not a space guy. I watched it, and I said, 502 00:24:55,080 --> 00:24:57,040 Speaker 1: this is the coolest thing. When the rocket came back 503 00:24:57,080 --> 00:25:00,680 Speaker 1: and landed on the pad by itself there you can't 504 00:25:00,680 --> 00:25:02,280 Speaker 1: see that. I'm thinking, I'll just see them up there 505 00:25:02,320 --> 00:25:04,360 Speaker 1: and they'll come down like a roller coaster. That's really hot. 506 00:25:04,440 --> 00:25:04,560 Speaker 2: Hot. 507 00:25:04,680 --> 00:25:08,280 Speaker 1: No, they were gone, then they come down. I talked 508 00:25:08,280 --> 00:25:12,040 Speaker 1: to them. It was the most unbridled joy I've ever 509 00:25:12,040 --> 00:25:14,440 Speaker 1: seen out of human being in my life. Everybody who 510 00:25:14,440 --> 00:25:17,239 Speaker 1: did it, and I said, this is the coolest thing 511 00:25:17,240 --> 00:25:19,679 Speaker 1: I've ever seen. When that rocket land I think this 512 00:25:19,720 --> 00:25:23,280 Speaker 1: is like Iron Man cool. A few weeks later, I 513 00:25:23,320 --> 00:25:26,760 Speaker 1: get invited to dinner with them and another couple and 514 00:25:26,800 --> 00:25:28,600 Speaker 1: I got there late because I was doing Thursday night 515 00:25:28,600 --> 00:25:31,480 Speaker 1: football at that point for Fox, and I'm eating my 516 00:25:31,600 --> 00:25:34,560 Speaker 1: cold left the cold leftovers that they left me, and 517 00:25:35,000 --> 00:25:38,159 Speaker 1: I said, you know that rocket thing. I would say 518 00:25:38,200 --> 00:25:40,959 Speaker 1: I would never do that, but I would do that. 519 00:25:40,960 --> 00:25:43,040 Speaker 1: That was one of the coolest thing that I've ever seen. 520 00:25:43,480 --> 00:25:45,560 Speaker 1: A few days later, I'm playing golf and I get 521 00:25:45,600 --> 00:25:47,920 Speaker 1: a call and it's Jeff and he goes, I think 522 00:25:47,960 --> 00:25:51,359 Speaker 1: you know what this is about. I'm like, yeah, And 523 00:25:51,400 --> 00:25:54,240 Speaker 1: I was so excited for you. I'm in, man, I'm in. 524 00:25:54,280 --> 00:26:01,879 Speaker 1: A week before I was like, maybe I got COVID maybe, dude. 525 00:26:02,200 --> 00:26:04,200 Speaker 1: I was scared to death. I was like, what did 526 00:26:04,359 --> 00:26:06,960 Speaker 1: I sign up for? Because then the interim you got 527 00:26:06,960 --> 00:26:09,120 Speaker 1: to get your paperwork in order, you know. I'm like, 528 00:26:09,600 --> 00:26:12,840 Speaker 1: this could be the last week I'd see my family 529 00:26:12,880 --> 00:26:15,159 Speaker 1: and friends. It could be it. But it ended up 530 00:26:15,160 --> 00:26:18,520 Speaker 1: being magnificent. And by the time you get on that ship, 531 00:26:18,560 --> 00:26:22,240 Speaker 1: they've explained everything to you. You sat with the engineers 532 00:26:22,240 --> 00:26:24,679 Speaker 1: who built the rocket, you set with other astronauts who 533 00:26:24,680 --> 00:26:27,240 Speaker 1: have gone in the space. They do an incredible job 534 00:26:27,280 --> 00:26:29,160 Speaker 1: of educating you. So when you get on the ship, 535 00:26:29,480 --> 00:26:32,200 Speaker 1: you feel confident you're ready to go. My family cried. 536 00:26:32,680 --> 00:26:34,359 Speaker 1: I don't know if they were crying because they wanted 537 00:26:34,359 --> 00:26:36,560 Speaker 1: me back or they didn't, but they said they cried 538 00:26:37,119 --> 00:26:39,640 Speaker 1: and I had the best time, the best time. 539 00:26:40,000 --> 00:26:42,840 Speaker 2: I want to ask about the coach vic experience as 540 00:26:42,840 --> 00:26:46,119 Speaker 2: a kid growing up, love Michael Vicker Virginia Tech, like 541 00:26:46,160 --> 00:26:49,280 Speaker 2: he was that dude. I read the commercials, the Mike 542 00:26:49,359 --> 00:26:52,239 Speaker 2: vic Experience commercial on the roller coaster, you know, so 543 00:26:52,280 --> 00:26:54,360 Speaker 2: the rise of Mike Vick and then you know when 544 00:26:54,359 --> 00:26:56,640 Speaker 2: he went to prison and he's back at So I've 545 00:26:56,720 --> 00:26:59,040 Speaker 2: just kind of seen Mike Vick, the roller coaster of 546 00:26:59,119 --> 00:27:01,280 Speaker 2: Mike Vick. And I wonder now, because I don't know 547 00:27:01,359 --> 00:27:04,080 Speaker 2: him and he's coaching now, like, what did you take 548 00:27:04,119 --> 00:27:06,600 Speaker 2: away from Mike Vic as an adult and as a 549 00:27:06,640 --> 00:27:07,840 Speaker 2: coach and as a leader of men. 550 00:27:08,920 --> 00:27:11,440 Speaker 1: Well, one thing I will say about Mike. I've known 551 00:27:11,440 --> 00:27:14,840 Speaker 1: Mike a long time and I have so much respect 552 00:27:14,920 --> 00:27:19,080 Speaker 1: for him because he realized what got him in trouble 553 00:27:19,359 --> 00:27:21,560 Speaker 1: back in the day and the way that he was 554 00:27:21,600 --> 00:27:24,320 Speaker 1: living his life back in the day, that was the 555 00:27:24,320 --> 00:27:26,280 Speaker 1: wrong way to live his life. And here's the guy 556 00:27:26,280 --> 00:27:30,359 Speaker 1: who grew up in a certain way, doing certain things 557 00:27:30,359 --> 00:27:32,639 Speaker 1: that seem normal for the community that he came from, 558 00:27:32,920 --> 00:27:35,000 Speaker 1: but they weren't and they weren't right. So he paid 559 00:27:35,000 --> 00:27:38,320 Speaker 1: his debt, he went to prison, came out of prison, 560 00:27:38,960 --> 00:27:41,159 Speaker 1: got back on the football field, but also had a 561 00:27:41,200 --> 00:27:44,080 Speaker 1: lot of you know, he owed a lot of money 562 00:27:44,080 --> 00:27:46,200 Speaker 1: to a lot of people, but he didn't found bankruptc 563 00:27:46,200 --> 00:27:49,240 Speaker 1: and ripped everybody off. He paid people back. So I 564 00:27:49,280 --> 00:27:50,760 Speaker 1: look at Mike and I think Mike had a lot 565 00:27:50,800 --> 00:27:54,359 Speaker 1: of honor. I think as a coach, I don't know 566 00:27:54,400 --> 00:27:58,120 Speaker 1: if there's any other player I would listen, I would 567 00:27:58,119 --> 00:28:01,959 Speaker 1: be amazed look at Mike and I look at Dion. 568 00:28:02,080 --> 00:28:03,639 Speaker 1: I mean, the'se got some of the goats of what 569 00:28:03,760 --> 00:28:05,800 Speaker 1: they did. And they both are the guys who were 570 00:28:05,880 --> 00:28:09,320 Speaker 1: signature like they's so incredible at the time. They're one 571 00:28:09,320 --> 00:28:11,119 Speaker 1: of the few football players at the top with their 572 00:28:11,160 --> 00:28:13,760 Speaker 1: own shoes which are on a parel line through Nike, 573 00:28:13,880 --> 00:28:16,040 Speaker 1: Like we didn't get that as football players. That's how 574 00:28:16,040 --> 00:28:18,720 Speaker 1: exceptional these two were. And I love Mike as a 575 00:28:18,800 --> 00:28:21,880 Speaker 1: coach because I think he's had some life experiences that 576 00:28:22,880 --> 00:28:25,440 Speaker 1: other kids, these kids need to hear. The kids need 577 00:28:25,480 --> 00:28:28,000 Speaker 1: to experience someone who's been on top, who's been on 578 00:28:28,040 --> 00:28:31,120 Speaker 1: the bottom, who's making their way back. And I think 579 00:28:31,160 --> 00:28:34,439 Speaker 1: as a coach, it is so much, probably more than 580 00:28:34,480 --> 00:28:37,200 Speaker 1: he thought it was going to be. It's a lot 581 00:28:37,240 --> 00:28:39,320 Speaker 1: to bite off. It's a lot of work, there's a 582 00:28:39,360 --> 00:28:41,760 Speaker 1: lot of time away from your family. They're the reason 583 00:28:41,800 --> 00:28:43,760 Speaker 1: I got into TV, because I wouldn't want to be 584 00:28:43,800 --> 00:28:46,840 Speaker 1: a coach. So I think that Mike is a great 585 00:28:46,880 --> 00:28:49,960 Speaker 1: example of resilience. I think he's a great example paying 586 00:28:49,960 --> 00:28:52,240 Speaker 1: your debt to society and getting back on your feet. 587 00:28:52,680 --> 00:28:55,480 Speaker 1: And I hopefully he can turn Norfolk State back around 588 00:28:56,160 --> 00:28:58,080 Speaker 1: because last year was a rough year. But I think 589 00:28:58,120 --> 00:29:02,320 Speaker 1: he's also learning along with these kids as the coach, 590 00:29:02,360 --> 00:29:05,760 Speaker 1: and I think they're learning from him as men. 591 00:29:06,240 --> 00:29:07,600 Speaker 2: Do you think you could have played another year? 592 00:29:07,960 --> 00:29:11,200 Speaker 1: Yeah? Absolutely? Why? Yeah? Why didn't I say I walked 593 00:29:11,200 --> 00:29:15,080 Speaker 1: off to field, Bobby, I didn't lent Okay, why and 594 00:29:15,240 --> 00:29:17,640 Speaker 1: we won a super Bowl? Man? I had fifteen years. 595 00:29:17,760 --> 00:29:19,120 Speaker 1: I did everything I wanted to do. 596 00:29:19,400 --> 00:29:20,280 Speaker 2: There was nothing left to do. 597 00:29:20,400 --> 00:29:23,040 Speaker 1: What was I'd won every awards, I'd done all the 598 00:29:23,120 --> 00:29:26,520 Speaker 1: individual stuff, and after so many years of that, you 599 00:29:26,640 --> 00:29:29,440 Speaker 1: kind of go, this is not really fulfilling. The only 600 00:29:29,520 --> 00:29:31,480 Speaker 1: thing I hadn't done was one of Super Bowl. So 601 00:29:31,600 --> 00:29:35,360 Speaker 1: once that happened, it's like, why am I sticking around 602 00:29:35,160 --> 00:29:37,760 Speaker 1: for the money to blow my knee? Out and the 603 00:29:37,840 --> 00:29:40,000 Speaker 1: next thing, I got something that's going to mess me 604 00:29:40,080 --> 00:29:42,000 Speaker 1: up for the rest of my life for a few bucks, 605 00:29:42,640 --> 00:29:45,720 Speaker 1: and I just kind of felt confident enough that I 606 00:29:45,720 --> 00:29:48,240 Speaker 1: could make something happen outside of the game of football. 607 00:29:48,600 --> 00:29:51,480 Speaker 1: And thankfully I've been able to do that. But yeah, 608 00:29:51,520 --> 00:29:53,720 Speaker 1: I could have played another year. Physically, I felt great. 609 00:29:53,800 --> 00:29:55,400 Speaker 1: There are days I wake up now and I feel 610 00:29:55,400 --> 00:29:56,520 Speaker 1: like I can give him another year. 611 00:29:58,440 --> 00:30:00,640 Speaker 2: Did you have good financial life? 612 00:30:01,960 --> 00:30:08,040 Speaker 1: Yeah? And not because not because it was because I 613 00:30:08,200 --> 00:30:12,400 Speaker 1: had a chance encounter with the guy who ended up 614 00:30:12,440 --> 00:30:14,320 Speaker 1: being like one of my He is one of my 615 00:30:14,360 --> 00:30:17,719 Speaker 1: best friends and my brother who has looked out for 616 00:30:17,760 --> 00:30:20,560 Speaker 1: me over the years, and it was like a ten 617 00:30:20,640 --> 00:30:23,240 Speaker 1: year age No, it'st well, hold on, yeah, it's like 618 00:30:23,360 --> 00:30:27,000 Speaker 1: twelve year age difference. We met on a golf trip 619 00:30:27,040 --> 00:30:29,280 Speaker 1: when neither of us played golf. We ended up being 620 00:30:29,360 --> 00:30:32,680 Speaker 1: like sweet mates and we just really hit it off. 621 00:30:33,440 --> 00:30:38,240 Speaker 1: In nineteen ninety four and he got into an accident 622 00:30:38,280 --> 00:30:40,920 Speaker 1: in the city and call and his wife called me, 623 00:30:41,040 --> 00:30:43,560 Speaker 1: who was nine months pregnant at the time in her 624 00:30:43,640 --> 00:30:47,840 Speaker 1: mid forties, which is back then the very risky pregnancy. 625 00:30:49,000 --> 00:30:51,640 Speaker 1: And I went to the hospital and saw him and 626 00:30:51,760 --> 00:30:53,440 Speaker 1: made sure that she had nothing to worry about and 627 00:30:53,480 --> 00:30:55,440 Speaker 1: took care of him, made sure I got all the 628 00:30:55,480 --> 00:30:58,200 Speaker 1: doctors I made that happen. And his promise to me 629 00:30:58,440 --> 00:30:59,960 Speaker 1: was you took care of my wife and my own 630 00:31:00,160 --> 00:31:03,360 Speaker 1: born son, who is now mid twenties and works a 631 00:31:03,400 --> 00:31:09,120 Speaker 1: big head fun. I can't teach you. I want to 632 00:31:09,120 --> 00:31:11,400 Speaker 1: do something for you. So I can't teach you football, 633 00:31:11,760 --> 00:31:14,080 Speaker 1: and I'm like, yeah, because from the accident when you 634 00:31:14,120 --> 00:31:17,160 Speaker 1: gotta hit roy roller blader, you can't take ahead, so 635 00:31:18,360 --> 00:31:21,360 Speaker 1: it was pretty bad how you look. So I want 636 00:31:21,400 --> 00:31:23,880 Speaker 1: to teach you about money. I don't want to invest 637 00:31:23,920 --> 00:31:26,120 Speaker 1: your money. I don't want to control your money. I 638 00:31:26,160 --> 00:31:28,440 Speaker 1: don't want any say over your money. I just want 639 00:31:28,480 --> 00:31:31,400 Speaker 1: you to bring me every deal that anyone brings to 640 00:31:31,480 --> 00:31:33,560 Speaker 1: you and all the things that you've done before you've 641 00:31:33,600 --> 00:31:35,040 Speaker 1: met me, and I want to make sure we go 642 00:31:35,080 --> 00:31:36,760 Speaker 1: through it. I wanted to teach you how to look 643 00:31:36,800 --> 00:31:38,680 Speaker 1: at money. I want to teach you how to value money. 644 00:31:38,680 --> 00:31:41,120 Speaker 1: I will teach you how to understand it, what question 645 00:31:41,280 --> 00:31:44,000 Speaker 1: to ask when people want it, like everything, And that 646 00:31:44,200 --> 00:31:48,040 Speaker 1: was the life lesson of the best financial literacy that 647 00:31:48,080 --> 00:31:50,480 Speaker 1: anybody can have as someone who's in that business. In 648 00:31:50,520 --> 00:31:54,320 Speaker 1: the finance world, who takes you under their wing for nothing, 649 00:31:54,640 --> 00:31:58,360 Speaker 1: never charge me one penny, and has been that guy 650 00:31:58,400 --> 00:32:01,880 Speaker 1: for me for over thirty years. So I got very lucky, 651 00:32:02,040 --> 00:32:04,160 Speaker 1: very fortunate in relationships. 652 00:32:05,000 --> 00:32:17,880 Speaker 4: The Bobby Cast will be right back. This is the 653 00:32:17,920 --> 00:32:18,640 Speaker 4: Bobby Cast. 654 00:32:19,680 --> 00:32:21,200 Speaker 2: I'm gonna ask you a question that I've asked a 655 00:32:21,200 --> 00:32:23,240 Speaker 2: few people recently. I don't have any kids yet. My 656 00:32:23,240 --> 00:32:26,400 Speaker 2: wife's about to have our first kid, so thank you 657 00:32:26,480 --> 00:32:30,240 Speaker 2: very much. Vegas. Could be like, give me some advice. 658 00:32:31,160 --> 00:32:33,240 Speaker 1: Well, when the baby's born, you come home, they don't 659 00:32:33,280 --> 00:32:39,560 Speaker 1: give you a manual, but don't panic. I think that 660 00:32:40,120 --> 00:32:42,160 Speaker 1: first of all, you'll know what you're doing without even 661 00:32:42,160 --> 00:32:44,040 Speaker 1: knowing what you're doing, and you'll figure it out. And 662 00:32:44,120 --> 00:32:48,840 Speaker 1: kids aren't as delicate as you think they are. They 663 00:32:48,880 --> 00:32:50,280 Speaker 1: were off, I mean, we were all kids and ran 664 00:32:50,320 --> 00:32:52,240 Speaker 1: and fell and hit our head on coffee tables and 665 00:32:52,280 --> 00:32:55,840 Speaker 1: everything else, and look at us, we're functioning somewhat. So 666 00:32:56,400 --> 00:33:01,960 Speaker 1: I would say, you're gonna love your kid more than 667 00:33:02,000 --> 00:33:06,920 Speaker 1: you ever thought you can love anything, including yourself, because 668 00:33:07,400 --> 00:33:09,320 Speaker 1: I tell my kids all the time, because I'm that 669 00:33:09,400 --> 00:33:13,000 Speaker 1: annoying dad who's sending them, you know, stuff, fuf Instagram 670 00:33:13,280 --> 00:33:15,400 Speaker 1: watch out for this when you're in an uber do 671 00:33:15,520 --> 00:33:17,920 Speaker 1: this and they're like, oh dad, you're going to take 672 00:33:17,920 --> 00:33:20,600 Speaker 1: self defense because oh Dad, I'm like, you don't understand 673 00:33:20,640 --> 00:33:24,920 Speaker 1: when you're not with me, my heart lives outside of 674 00:33:24,960 --> 00:33:28,480 Speaker 1: my body. You're my heart now, So wherever you go 675 00:33:28,560 --> 00:33:32,040 Speaker 1: and whatever you do is me. And that's the thing 676 00:33:32,080 --> 00:33:34,400 Speaker 1: about having kids. It makes you realize that your life 677 00:33:34,440 --> 00:33:36,920 Speaker 1: is a lot bigger than whatever you do for a living. 678 00:33:37,120 --> 00:33:40,600 Speaker 1: And you know, whatever car you drive and how many 679 00:33:40,640 --> 00:33:44,480 Speaker 1: people you know doesn't matter. Kids are the krem to 680 00:33:44,680 --> 00:33:47,000 Speaker 1: krem of what life is about. If you have them, 681 00:33:47,360 --> 00:33:52,480 Speaker 1: and you'll be fine, don't be nervous, and you'll you'll 682 00:33:52,480 --> 00:33:54,560 Speaker 1: crush it and whatever they most, for the most part, 683 00:33:54,600 --> 00:33:58,000 Speaker 1: whatever they learn in life, I think it's Fathers were 684 00:33:58,040 --> 00:34:00,280 Speaker 1: always told that, you know what I mean, you got 685 00:34:00,280 --> 00:34:02,920 Speaker 1: a baby, what are we supposed to really do? And 686 00:34:02,960 --> 00:34:04,720 Speaker 1: I'd read I read a book of years ago that 687 00:34:04,800 --> 00:34:06,520 Speaker 1: said the first three years of your kid's life are 688 00:34:06,520 --> 00:34:09,920 Speaker 1: the most important of the father because we always get 689 00:34:09,960 --> 00:34:12,600 Speaker 1: this idea that oh, I'm not breast freeding, I'm not 690 00:34:12,640 --> 00:34:16,520 Speaker 1: doing this, I'm not doing that, but being there, your 691 00:34:16,560 --> 00:34:20,719 Speaker 1: rhythm of your heart, the smell like everything and your 692 00:34:20,840 --> 00:34:22,640 Speaker 1: kids could get as at tapped to you as they 693 00:34:22,640 --> 00:34:25,279 Speaker 1: can to anybody. And I'm telling you, man, it's going 694 00:34:25,320 --> 00:34:26,840 Speaker 1: to be magical. I can't wait. Do you talk to 695 00:34:26,880 --> 00:34:29,360 Speaker 1: you in a few months or a year and you're like, Michael, 696 00:34:29,680 --> 00:34:31,879 Speaker 1: this is the most amazing thing ever. And I'm having 697 00:34:31,920 --> 00:34:33,200 Speaker 1: a second one. 698 00:34:36,320 --> 00:34:39,719 Speaker 2: I got three final questions for you. I love when 699 00:34:39,760 --> 00:34:42,960 Speaker 2: people do like lines of clothes because there's a lot 700 00:34:42,960 --> 00:34:45,719 Speaker 2: of like themselves in it. And I know that you 701 00:34:45,800 --> 00:34:48,480 Speaker 2: have at Belk stores. You have is it suits? Like 702 00:34:48,520 --> 00:34:50,400 Speaker 2: what do you have? And how much of it is 703 00:34:50,440 --> 00:34:51,200 Speaker 2: like your style? 704 00:34:51,480 --> 00:34:54,720 Speaker 1: It's all of it's my style everything. So we have suits, 705 00:34:54,760 --> 00:34:58,799 Speaker 1: we have belts, we have all the men accessories. So 706 00:34:59,200 --> 00:35:02,120 Speaker 1: everything that you need to get suited and booted is 707 00:35:02,480 --> 00:35:04,480 Speaker 1: what we got and it's all my style. I don't 708 00:35:04,520 --> 00:35:06,479 Speaker 1: wear everything. Every time you see me in a suit, 709 00:35:06,880 --> 00:35:10,320 Speaker 1: it's my suit. See me in his shirt, it's my shirt. 710 00:35:10,760 --> 00:35:13,279 Speaker 1: I don't go out and buy something else and wear 711 00:35:13,440 --> 00:35:16,120 Speaker 1: and try to say, oh yeah, this is mine everything, 712 00:35:16,440 --> 00:35:18,880 Speaker 1: because I believe if I'm gonna put my name on, 713 00:35:18,880 --> 00:35:22,080 Speaker 1: it's got to be me. And but I am kind 714 00:35:22,120 --> 00:35:25,879 Speaker 1: of a I'm not a bougie guy. If that's a 715 00:35:25,960 --> 00:35:29,920 Speaker 1: word like, I'm not this fancy, hoity toity guy because 716 00:35:29,960 --> 00:35:35,799 Speaker 1: my suits are affordable, but they're nice and there's a 717 00:35:35,800 --> 00:35:37,920 Speaker 1: lot of thought that goes into them, and I would 718 00:35:37,960 --> 00:35:41,400 Speaker 1: touch every fabric. Oh, I like this pocket, I like 719 00:35:41,480 --> 00:35:45,280 Speaker 1: that lapel, like obsessing over it because I didn't want someone. 720 00:35:45,440 --> 00:35:49,719 Speaker 1: If something the success and you're getting credit for it 721 00:35:49,760 --> 00:35:52,920 Speaker 1: and you were really really invested, you can feel good 722 00:35:52,960 --> 00:35:56,759 Speaker 1: about it. If it were success and I had nothing 723 00:35:56,800 --> 00:35:58,120 Speaker 1: to do with it and they're giving a lot of 724 00:35:58,120 --> 00:35:59,880 Speaker 1: credit to me, I would feel bad just like it 725 00:36:00,080 --> 00:36:03,480 Speaker 1: fit the failure and I didn't put anything into it. 726 00:36:03,560 --> 00:36:05,480 Speaker 1: Then I'm mad at myself because maybe I could have 727 00:36:05,480 --> 00:36:07,880 Speaker 1: made it success by investing. But if it's the failure 728 00:36:07,920 --> 00:36:10,040 Speaker 1: and I put everything intwo of it, I could live 729 00:36:10,040 --> 00:36:14,000 Speaker 1: with that. At least I try. So everything is me everything, 730 00:36:14,160 --> 00:36:17,440 Speaker 1: So I love the business. It's organic to me and 731 00:36:17,719 --> 00:36:21,040 Speaker 1: organic to my life. And being a football player, we 732 00:36:21,160 --> 00:36:23,239 Speaker 1: had to dress up. I love getting on the road 733 00:36:23,239 --> 00:36:25,360 Speaker 1: trips because you would see some of the most interesting 734 00:36:25,360 --> 00:36:30,040 Speaker 1: outfits you'd ever see. A chameleon suit that changed colors 735 00:36:30,040 --> 00:36:33,439 Speaker 1: with every freaking way you walk, to suits that looked 736 00:36:33,520 --> 00:36:37,319 Speaker 1: like skittles bags with yellow, green and purple and everything else. 737 00:36:37,360 --> 00:36:39,680 Speaker 1: So yeah, interesting life. 738 00:36:39,880 --> 00:36:42,040 Speaker 2: Okay, two questions left. This one's probably gonna be tough, 739 00:36:42,040 --> 00:36:44,759 Speaker 2: but I got if you could go one through three, like, 740 00:36:44,880 --> 00:36:47,399 Speaker 2: who have you been able to interview that you were 741 00:36:48,080 --> 00:36:50,319 Speaker 2: starstruck by when you sat down with them? 742 00:36:50,880 --> 00:36:51,320 Speaker 3: Wow? 743 00:36:54,480 --> 00:37:00,799 Speaker 1: Julia Roberts. Julia Roberts, how about that go first time? Fantastic. 744 00:37:01,400 --> 00:37:04,839 Speaker 1: I interviewed her at the Beverly Wilster Hotel the anniversary 745 00:37:04,840 --> 00:37:07,360 Speaker 1: of Pretty Woman, and I interviewed her in the suite 746 00:37:07,440 --> 00:37:10,640 Speaker 1: where they shot the movie. And when we finished the interview, 747 00:37:10,960 --> 00:37:12,520 Speaker 1: she asked me if I want to have a glass 748 00:37:12,520 --> 00:37:16,759 Speaker 1: of rose? So I said absolutely, because who turns down 749 00:37:16,840 --> 00:37:19,319 Speaker 1: Julia Roberts in a glass of rose? And we ended 750 00:37:19,400 --> 00:37:22,080 Speaker 1: up finishing off a bottle of rose and it was 751 00:37:22,640 --> 00:37:25,319 Speaker 1: It was fantastic. And her birthday is the same as 752 00:37:25,320 --> 00:37:28,600 Speaker 1: my twins, so you know, every year I sent her 753 00:37:28,640 --> 00:37:30,880 Speaker 1: a case of rose. I don't know if she drinks 754 00:37:30,880 --> 00:37:32,839 Speaker 1: it or not, but you know, I send it to her. 755 00:37:33,080 --> 00:37:35,520 Speaker 1: But yeah, Julia Roberts was one. 756 00:37:37,040 --> 00:37:37,320 Speaker 2: Man. 757 00:37:39,960 --> 00:37:42,640 Speaker 1: It's so weird because I've interviewed people multiple times now, 758 00:37:42,680 --> 00:37:46,040 Speaker 1: so I'm not really as nervous. Oh, I had Nicole 759 00:37:46,120 --> 00:37:50,960 Speaker 1: Kidman yesterday and Jamie Lee Curtis. 760 00:37:50,600 --> 00:37:54,160 Speaker 2: Nicole Kidman is so nice. She lives here, like yeah, 761 00:37:54,200 --> 00:37:56,640 Speaker 2: and I know she's local and I know her, and 762 00:37:56,680 --> 00:37:58,520 Speaker 2: I knew her and Keith when they were together, and 763 00:37:58,520 --> 00:38:00,960 Speaker 2: I knew them both really well. She's so nice, Like 764 00:38:00,960 --> 00:38:03,239 Speaker 2: she shouldn't be that nice, you know what. 765 00:38:03,440 --> 00:38:07,480 Speaker 1: She's so nice. And Jamie Lee and her, of course 766 00:38:07,520 --> 00:38:09,600 Speaker 1: complimented each other, and I love the way in which 767 00:38:09,600 --> 00:38:13,759 Speaker 1: they met and they're working on this project together, and 768 00:38:14,600 --> 00:38:18,719 Speaker 1: so I Jamie Lee said how nice she was, and 769 00:38:19,200 --> 00:38:22,040 Speaker 1: you could just see it. She's a gentle soul man. 770 00:38:22,160 --> 00:38:25,160 Speaker 1: So she kind of intimidated me because I love her work, 771 00:38:25,280 --> 00:38:27,360 Speaker 1: like I love everything she does. I think she just 772 00:38:28,440 --> 00:38:33,200 Speaker 1: is fantastic. And the last one who would be number three? 773 00:38:33,760 --> 00:38:36,880 Speaker 2: You stop? What about it? We're gonna stop it, Like 774 00:38:36,920 --> 00:38:40,160 Speaker 2: what about an athletic? When I interviewed Derek Jeter, thought 775 00:38:40,160 --> 00:38:42,359 Speaker 2: that was pretty cool? Or it's usually anybody from when 776 00:38:42,400 --> 00:38:44,279 Speaker 2: I was a kid that I looked up to, because 777 00:38:44,280 --> 00:38:46,439 Speaker 2: when I meet them, I'm like, this is crazy, because 778 00:38:46,440 --> 00:38:48,239 Speaker 2: I still have that inside of me, even if I 779 00:38:48,280 --> 00:38:50,920 Speaker 2: know everything's like real and you know, people are people, 780 00:38:51,160 --> 00:38:52,719 Speaker 2: but like when I meet somebody from when I was 781 00:38:52,760 --> 00:38:54,640 Speaker 2: a kid. I still have those feelings. 782 00:38:55,040 --> 00:38:58,520 Speaker 1: I mean, you know what, the guy that they're really 783 00:38:58,560 --> 00:39:00,680 Speaker 1: good like, Jeter's my buddy. I mean, I don't get 784 00:39:00,680 --> 00:39:04,960 Speaker 1: me started on that knucklehead, but I love it. The 785 00:39:05,040 --> 00:39:07,320 Speaker 1: one guy who I loved too is a good friend 786 00:39:07,440 --> 00:39:11,040 Speaker 1: and everything else, but you see him and you're still like, 787 00:39:11,200 --> 00:39:13,239 Speaker 1: WHOA what. I remember the first time I interviewed him 788 00:39:13,960 --> 00:39:17,000 Speaker 1: with first year he got into NASCAR, and I was like, 789 00:39:17,760 --> 00:39:22,600 Speaker 1: Michael Jordan. I mean, MJ is still MJ. And so 790 00:39:22,840 --> 00:39:25,319 Speaker 1: that was like the one guy. And as a kid, 791 00:39:25,360 --> 00:39:27,120 Speaker 1: I started trying to walk a little bow legged and 792 00:39:27,239 --> 00:39:30,440 Speaker 1: stuff like that, and wish I had grown to six 793 00:39:30,600 --> 00:39:33,200 Speaker 1: six and about two fifteen so I could have played basketball, 794 00:39:33,239 --> 00:39:34,880 Speaker 1: but that didn't quite work out, so I had to 795 00:39:34,880 --> 00:39:38,719 Speaker 1: go to football. But MJ. MJ is like one of 796 00:39:38,719 --> 00:39:41,080 Speaker 1: those athletes that I look at I'm like, Okay, this 797 00:39:41,280 --> 00:39:43,520 Speaker 1: is Michael Jordan. This is the guy who I still 798 00:39:43,560 --> 00:39:46,640 Speaker 1: get a bunch of highlights on Instagram for my buddies. 799 00:39:47,480 --> 00:39:50,120 Speaker 3: Let's take a quick pause for a message from our sponsor, 800 00:40:01,520 --> 00:40:04,160 Speaker 3: and we're back on the Bobby Cast. 801 00:40:04,880 --> 00:40:08,080 Speaker 2: Final question for you. You've done many things, and you've 802 00:40:08,080 --> 00:40:12,040 Speaker 2: been successful at many things like what's the key? What's 803 00:40:12,120 --> 00:40:14,360 Speaker 2: the key to people doing things and making it. 804 00:40:16,680 --> 00:40:21,719 Speaker 1: Really enjoyed and having through the athm for it. Just 805 00:40:21,760 --> 00:40:25,799 Speaker 1: don't show up at mail in mail it in. Be interested. 806 00:40:26,719 --> 00:40:28,440 Speaker 1: I think that's the thing a lot of people do 807 00:40:28,480 --> 00:40:30,560 Speaker 1: things because then we've all done things like oh, I'm 808 00:40:30,560 --> 00:40:33,240 Speaker 1: gonna make a lot of money. But you just don't 809 00:40:33,680 --> 00:40:35,320 Speaker 1: jump into something and make a lot of money. You 810 00:40:35,400 --> 00:40:37,200 Speaker 1: got to build up to those things. But the only 811 00:40:37,239 --> 00:40:38,640 Speaker 1: way you're going to build up to it if you 812 00:40:38,640 --> 00:40:42,640 Speaker 1: have an interest and to stay in it. And I've 813 00:40:42,680 --> 00:40:46,200 Speaker 1: always been interested in things and that I've done. I 814 00:40:46,239 --> 00:40:48,279 Speaker 1: think I try to do things that really make me 815 00:40:48,440 --> 00:40:51,880 Speaker 1: want to do them, and that's just has seemed to 816 00:40:51,920 --> 00:40:54,560 Speaker 1: be the magic. On top of just being nice to people. 817 00:40:56,800 --> 00:40:59,600 Speaker 1: I think that is like the greatest thing for me 818 00:40:59,719 --> 00:41:02,839 Speaker 1: is just people being nice to people, understanding people, having 819 00:41:02,840 --> 00:41:05,360 Speaker 1: a feeling for people, like I said earlier, making people 820 00:41:05,400 --> 00:41:08,680 Speaker 1: feel seen, because if you treat people in that way, 821 00:41:08,840 --> 00:41:13,799 Speaker 1: people were going to be around you. We never have 822 00:41:13,840 --> 00:41:15,839 Speaker 1: you ever seen somebody walks in a room and you're 823 00:41:15,920 --> 00:41:18,560 Speaker 1: like oh, man, or somebody walks in the room and 824 00:41:18,640 --> 00:41:21,680 Speaker 1: you're like hey, And I think that's just from the 825 00:41:21,760 --> 00:41:23,719 Speaker 1: vibe and energy that you give off. So for me, 826 00:41:23,760 --> 00:41:26,160 Speaker 1: I've just tried to give off the vibe of you know, 827 00:41:26,160 --> 00:41:28,000 Speaker 1: I'm easy. I don't want anything from anybody. I don't 828 00:41:28,000 --> 00:41:30,360 Speaker 1: need anything from anybody. I just want to truly be 829 00:41:30,440 --> 00:41:33,960 Speaker 1: friends with people. I think there's so much more fun 830 00:41:34,000 --> 00:41:38,000 Speaker 1: in that than always having an angle. So yeah, show up, 831 00:41:38,080 --> 00:41:42,560 Speaker 1: be authentic, be interested, and do the best you can 832 00:41:42,640 --> 00:41:42,920 Speaker 1: at it. 833 00:41:43,719 --> 00:41:47,200 Speaker 2: Life ain't that complicated. I'm gonna check out. I'm gonna 834 00:41:47,239 --> 00:41:48,600 Speaker 2: check out the suits. If those are the ones you're 835 00:41:48,600 --> 00:41:50,160 Speaker 2: wearing on TV. I'm gonna check out the suits. 836 00:41:50,160 --> 00:41:50,920 Speaker 1: Then that's it. 837 00:41:51,080 --> 00:41:51,600 Speaker 2: You let me know. 838 00:41:51,680 --> 00:41:54,480 Speaker 1: I'll sing you some man. I got you now, nobody 839 00:41:54,480 --> 00:41:55,360 Speaker 1: get your sizes. 840 00:41:55,480 --> 00:41:59,240 Speaker 2: We'll shit you some suits, all right, all right, apper 841 00:41:59,360 --> 00:42:02,160 Speaker 2: dad man, I appreciate that. Like I said, I'm not 842 00:42:02,200 --> 00:42:04,399 Speaker 2: just saying it because you know we're on Netflix now 843 00:42:04,520 --> 00:42:07,319 Speaker 2: or whatever. It's like you were always so kind to me, 844 00:42:07,880 --> 00:42:09,800 Speaker 2: even if you didn't know you were, Like you naturally 845 00:42:09,880 --> 00:42:11,960 Speaker 2: were that guy that you're talking about right now, Like 846 00:42:12,040 --> 00:42:14,480 Speaker 2: that's who you were to me. And that is always 847 00:42:14,520 --> 00:42:16,800 Speaker 2: the impression when people ask about someone like you, or 848 00:42:16,840 --> 00:42:19,160 Speaker 2: even someone like Dion, who I know like it's like 849 00:42:19,239 --> 00:42:21,600 Speaker 2: people make you feel a certain way when you're around them, 850 00:42:21,719 --> 00:42:23,279 Speaker 2: and you were that guy. So I really appreciate you 851 00:42:23,360 --> 00:42:24,120 Speaker 2: being so nice to me. 852 00:42:24,760 --> 00:42:27,760 Speaker 1: No, you kidding me. You've a great man and ana 853 00:42:27,840 --> 00:42:30,960 Speaker 1: and we've talked about it today. Dance with the Stars, 854 00:42:31,000 --> 00:42:36,359 Speaker 1: by the way, congratulations again every athlete that I've talked 855 00:42:36,400 --> 00:42:39,200 Speaker 1: to who's done it, and Emmitt Smith won the first 856 00:42:39,280 --> 00:42:40,839 Speaker 1: year he came to New York and I took him 857 00:42:40,880 --> 00:42:43,680 Speaker 1: to dinner and literally we couldn't walk in the restaurant 858 00:42:43,719 --> 00:42:45,680 Speaker 1: like women getting up from each table we passed, and 859 00:42:45,719 --> 00:42:47,279 Speaker 1: he'd have to dance with each one of them to 860 00:42:47,320 --> 00:42:50,319 Speaker 1: get just to the table. Can we just eat hungry? 861 00:42:50,800 --> 00:42:54,839 Speaker 1: But every athlete I talked to you said, man, that 862 00:42:55,000 --> 00:42:59,840 Speaker 1: is the freaking hardest thing we've ever done. I said, 863 00:43:00,120 --> 00:43:01,879 Speaker 1: That's why I'll never be on the show. I don't 864 00:43:01,880 --> 00:43:05,440 Speaker 1: want to work that hard boy. See you go on 865 00:43:05,800 --> 00:43:08,560 Speaker 1: and not what I'm dancing background or anything. That's what 866 00:43:08,600 --> 00:43:11,319 Speaker 1: I loved about it, man, And it's how tough. I 867 00:43:11,400 --> 00:43:13,719 Speaker 1: know it is because I've been around everybody's been on 868 00:43:13,719 --> 00:43:14,840 Speaker 1: that show. And for you to go out there and 869 00:43:14,880 --> 00:43:17,359 Speaker 1: crush it like that, I was fun to see man. 870 00:43:17,440 --> 00:43:19,040 Speaker 1: So congrats again, Champion. 871 00:43:19,520 --> 00:43:21,960 Speaker 2: I appreciate that. I'll end on this since you brought 872 00:43:22,040 --> 00:43:24,279 Speaker 2: up Emma. This is my favorite Emma Smith story. I 873 00:43:24,280 --> 00:43:27,000 Speaker 2: didn't know Emmett at the time. It's the finale and 874 00:43:27,239 --> 00:43:28,839 Speaker 2: you know, and you've judged Dancing with the Stars, right, 875 00:43:28,880 --> 00:43:31,880 Speaker 2: You've like you've been up there and you soudge. Yeah. 876 00:43:31,920 --> 00:43:36,680 Speaker 2: So on the finale, everybody's super tight because you're just 877 00:43:36,760 --> 00:43:38,600 Speaker 2: trying to do your best. There's everybody's trying to win. 878 00:43:38,680 --> 00:43:41,640 Speaker 2: You're doing multiple dances. I'm in the back and I've 879 00:43:41,680 --> 00:43:43,279 Speaker 2: got one more dance to do. I did not know 880 00:43:43,280 --> 00:43:44,960 Speaker 2: what I was doing the whole season, like I was 881 00:43:45,000 --> 00:43:47,480 Speaker 2: just every week. I was just piecing it together. And 882 00:43:47,560 --> 00:43:49,799 Speaker 2: I run into Emmett in the back. There was like 883 00:43:49,840 --> 00:43:52,920 Speaker 2: the craft service is the catering thing, and he sees me, 884 00:43:53,440 --> 00:43:55,920 Speaker 2: I'm a little bit outside my mind, and he also 885 00:43:56,000 --> 00:43:57,480 Speaker 2: knows what it's like to be in that spot because 886 00:43:57,520 --> 00:43:59,040 Speaker 2: he won the show, and he said he came up 887 00:43:59,040 --> 00:44:00,919 Speaker 2: to me and he said, how you feel one? And 888 00:44:01,080 --> 00:44:03,680 Speaker 2: I was a little too just wired for the show 889 00:44:03,800 --> 00:44:05,480 Speaker 2: to go, holy crap, this is EMMITTT. 890 00:44:05,480 --> 00:44:05,760 Speaker 1: Smith. 891 00:44:06,000 --> 00:44:07,920 Speaker 2: And so I was just talking to Emmett another a 892 00:44:08,000 --> 00:44:10,239 Speaker 2: champion of Dancing on the Stars. I said, I'm doing 893 00:44:10,280 --> 00:44:12,440 Speaker 2: pretty good and he said, he said, look look at 894 00:44:12,480 --> 00:44:14,600 Speaker 2: me in the eyes, and so I like focused on 895 00:44:14,719 --> 00:44:16,200 Speaker 2: for a second. He put his hand on my shoulder 896 00:44:16,480 --> 00:44:20,400 Speaker 2: and he said, look, you have worked every bit as hard, 897 00:44:20,560 --> 00:44:22,799 Speaker 2: if not more than any single person to be here. 898 00:44:22,840 --> 00:44:24,480 Speaker 2: You have one more dance to do. That dance is 899 00:44:24,520 --> 00:44:26,560 Speaker 2: already done. You haven't done it yet, but it's already 900 00:44:26,560 --> 00:44:28,640 Speaker 2: done because of all the work that you've put in. 901 00:44:29,120 --> 00:44:31,600 Speaker 2: Just go out there and exist. You're gonna win this show. 902 00:44:31,840 --> 00:44:33,319 Speaker 2: And then I went out and I'll never forget that. 903 00:44:33,480 --> 00:44:35,239 Speaker 2: And after I won, the first person to hop up 904 00:44:35,280 --> 00:44:37,320 Speaker 2: on stage with me was Emmett to take a picture 905 00:44:37,600 --> 00:44:39,319 Speaker 2: like he gave. He gave me the go get one 906 00:44:39,320 --> 00:44:41,040 Speaker 2: for the giver's speech right before I won. 907 00:44:43,880 --> 00:44:46,080 Speaker 1: I love it. Hey, I kind of got some chills 908 00:44:46,080 --> 00:44:46,719 Speaker 1: down on me. 909 00:44:47,120 --> 00:44:51,399 Speaker 2: Tell them the make me do me doo. Uh, Mike, 910 00:44:51,560 --> 00:44:53,640 Speaker 2: thank you, thank you so much for the time and 911 00:44:53,760 --> 00:44:57,120 Speaker 2: uh continued successes and hopefully our pats will cross again soon. 912 00:44:57,680 --> 00:45:00,319 Speaker 1: I hope. So man, anything for you, Bobby love it. 913 00:45:00,360 --> 00:45:03,120 Speaker 1: I appreciate you man, and continue success and everything you 914 00:45:03,239 --> 00:45:05,680 Speaker 1: do and the honor and pleasure to do this with you, 915 00:45:05,800 --> 00:45:06,440 Speaker 1: so thank you. Man. 916 00:45:06,440 --> 00:45:07,920 Speaker 2: I'm gonna get a couple of those suits, even if 917 00:45:07,960 --> 00:45:09,200 Speaker 2: I gotta buy them, I'm gonna get them and I'm 918 00:45:09,200 --> 00:45:11,160 Speaker 2: gonna wear them all. We got you, all right, We 919 00:45:11,360 --> 00:45:13,959 Speaker 2: got you all right. Thank you, Mike, Thanks brother, see 920 00:45:13,960 --> 00:45:14,279 Speaker 2: you later. 921 00:45:15,280 --> 00:45:17,800 Speaker 4: Thanks for listening to a Bobby Cast production.