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Speaker 1: Two Teas in a Pod with Teddy Mellencamp and camera

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Speaker 2: Hi, guys, welcome to another episode of two Teas in

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Speaker 2: a Pod, but today it is not to teas. We

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Speaker 2: couldn't really come up with a good acronym, so we

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Speaker 2: thought twags instead of twats, I mean, G, T and

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Speaker 2: G in a pod. I am here with Gerty from Miami.

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Speaker 2: I am so happy to have you here.

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Speaker 3: Cheered life to.

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Speaker 2: Health, health ish and doing the best that we can

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Speaker 2: I have to. I mean, we're going to start the

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Speaker 2: podcast mainly just talking about your journey and then we'll

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Speaker 2: get into all of the shit talking and that feels like.

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Speaker 4: A better flow than shop talking that you know, then.

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Speaker 5: Should talk with talk ship whichever way you want to be.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm here, okay, all right, So just to give

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Speaker 2: y'all a little backstory, Gertie, you moved to Paris with

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Speaker 2: your family at the age of one, and then your

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Speaker 2: parents decided to move to Miami. You quickly fell in

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Speaker 2: love with everything about Miami and you've been there ever since.

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Speaker 3: Ever since. Absolutely, so I am Miami to La die.

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Speaker 4: And you met your husband when you were seventeen years.

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Speaker 3: Old sixteen seventeen ish, I can't remember it so long ago.

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Speaker 3: It was twenty eight years ago.

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Speaker 4: Oh shit, I like you were in the same classroom.

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Speaker 3: No, never in the same class A really interesting We

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Speaker 3: met actually while we were playing volleyball, and.

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Speaker 5: I thought he was cute, like on the beach or

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Speaker 5: in high school.

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Speaker 3: So he was a basketball player. I was always a

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Speaker 3: volleyball player. Our coach had the broad idea of recruiting

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Speaker 3: basketball players who play volleyball because they were tall. Okay,

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Speaker 3: so here comes Russell dragging his feet to the gym,

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Speaker 3: and I'm like, oh my god, this guy's so freaking cute.

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Speaker 5: And you knew right away, and you right away.

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Speaker 3: But I had a boyfriend, so I'm like, cute for

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Speaker 3: day away. And then literally a few years after is

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Speaker 3: when I broke up my boyfriend, the whole thing, and

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Speaker 3: we get together and YadA, YadA, YadA.

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Speaker 4: And the reason I bring him up is because a

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Speaker 4: lot of when you were showing your journey.

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Speaker 2: Yeah with first and foremost, you are cancer free at

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Speaker 2: this point in time.

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Speaker 3: Thank you, Jesus.

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Speaker 2: I think thank you like it's I'm so like watching

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Speaker 2: your story made me so emotional, but also made me

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Speaker 2: think about your support system with your husband and things

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Speaker 2: that kind of I paralleled to myself, like, did you

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Speaker 2: when you found out you had cancer, did.

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Speaker 4: You have life insurance?

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Speaker 2: Of course?

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Speaker 4: See I didn't, girl, and I can't get it.

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Speaker 3: Before you get a burken get yourself life insurance, baby.

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Speaker 4: Damn it. I should have told my husband.

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Speaker 3: You See that is so important and so right now

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Speaker 3: I literally tell people, do you have insurance, just basic insurance,

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Speaker 3: make sure you have cancer in it, because one in

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Speaker 3: three people, unfortunately, are gonna get cancer, and when in

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Speaker 3: eight will have breast cancer. It's intense, this whole thing.

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Speaker 2: And until it directly affects who you really don't know you.

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Speaker 2: Of course, it's something that your heart always goes out

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Speaker 2: to somebody else that's struggling with it. But unless it

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Speaker 2: directly affects your family, you don't know those things. So

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Speaker 2: that is my first big tip. But also when you

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Speaker 2: and your husband started having these conversations and times were

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Speaker 2: getting scary for.

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Speaker 4: You, did you talk about what would happen if you

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Speaker 5: Never?

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Speaker 3: Never talked about it. I don't know why, because I

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Speaker 3: knew I was gonna make it. And the thing about

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Speaker 3: it is that people are like, oh, she only has

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Speaker 3: stage one it's no big deal, okay. And it was

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Speaker 3: then a dcis which is not invasive. And so the

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Speaker 3: thing is that I don't even want to talk about

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Speaker 3: the future impossibilities. But cancer doesn't do what you wanted

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Speaker 3: to do. You can come back, it cannot, and when

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Speaker 3: it comes back, you could be more aggressive. The one

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Speaker 3: is to chemo and everything in between, everything is a

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Speaker 3: I was like literally like sitting here, and Russell was like,

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Speaker 3: let me get a nurse because you don't know. Cancer

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Speaker 3: is not a perfect science or a perfect mathematical equation.

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Speaker 2: And something that I just noticed the second that you

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Speaker 2: started talking about what stage your cancer was, I heard

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Speaker 2: your tone change in your voice. And I think it's

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Speaker 2: because in the world of social media or when you're

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Speaker 2: on a platform like this, I've even you know, gotten it,

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Speaker 2: I'm like, and I didn't even have breast cancer. I

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Speaker 2: I know but that, but we I know it's because

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Speaker 3: People want you to say, no, you're okay, stop making

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Speaker 3: a big deal. Don't make it about you. You're weaponizing it.

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Speaker 3: My thing right now is about people saying I weaponized it. Okay,

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Speaker 3: you want you want to you want me to say

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Speaker 3: that I weaponized it. Guess what, I saved more than

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Speaker 3: four hundred fucking lives by people, by people, not right.

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Speaker 3: These are the people who wrote to me and said, Gertie,

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Speaker 3: I never wanted to even go get checked, but because

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Speaker 3: I saw your story, I went I did have it,

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Speaker 3: and now I'm on treatment because of you. You saved

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Speaker 3: my life. So call it whatever you want, weaponizing it,

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Speaker 3: whatever it is. No, that's not what happened. But if

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Speaker 3: it makes you sleep at night, okay, I weaponized cancer.

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Speaker 2: So if we're gonna if we're gonna lean into the

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Speaker 4: Why did you tell Larsa first?

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Speaker 3: Larca was not the first person in the group to know.

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Speaker 3: She was the fourth person. And I say this at

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Speaker 3: the luncheon. So what happened was I came to the

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Speaker 3: luncheon with Larsa to talk about our issues as friends.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna give you a little exclusive, which is that

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Speaker 3: her and I, via text message already had talked about

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Speaker 3: why I called her fake. However, when we filmed, she

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Speaker 3: began to rehatch that question again, and that's how the

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Speaker 3: whole season began. Listen, my health is my story, it's

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Speaker 3: my life. It's not a storyline. It got mixed into

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Speaker 5: It's emotional. Cancer is emotional.

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Speaker 3: You know that probably you don't know what you're gonna

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Speaker 2: And that was like, wait, one, don't tell me what

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Speaker 2: to do, thank you, And two, you don't know what

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Speaker 5: Thank you, so you don't put me in a box.

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Speaker 3: And one thing with me, my trigger is when people

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Speaker 3: what is she wearing? Oh what language is that? We

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Speaker 3: don't understand you. What is your last what is your name?

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Speaker 3: I don't understand how to say that. It was always

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Speaker 3: who you are. No, I'm not anymore.

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Speaker 5: This is who I am. Get on fucking board or not.

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Speaker 5: And that's it.

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Speaker 2: And I think what I when I noticed watching this

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Speaker 4: Instead of her being able to.

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Speaker 2: Have that feeling of this is what Gertie's going through,

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Speaker 2: she immediately went to, oh my gosh, we filmed a

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Speaker 4: And that's and that is where the disconnect.

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Speaker 2: Came, because you guys haven't actually been able to say

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Speaker 2: don't think that Larsa misses the capacity of knowing how

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Speaker 4: But in that moment, she thought, sure, I'm being produced.

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Speaker 5: And this sure one hundred percent.

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Speaker 3: It was an intense scene and we were back at it,

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Speaker 3: back and forth for thirty minutes, talking about our friendship,

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Speaker 3: and then it became a whole thing about like stop,

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Speaker 2: It's like when someone tells me relax, yeah, Like who

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Speaker 4: Not about you, and how do you know?

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Speaker 5: And all the it went bad and I really felt bad.

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Speaker 3: For her, and that's why you see me stop and

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Speaker 3: looking at her like, okay, compose yourself, Laursa, like you

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Speaker 3: have something else that you may want to.

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Speaker 5: Say, like I'm not better.

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Speaker 4: I'm literally to just.

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Speaker 3: Say nothing to say, taken aback. But it went really south.

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Speaker 3: The good news is that you know at the reunion

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Speaker 3: that's movementlet's fast forward. You see the opportunity for it

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Speaker 3: to maybe get better in the future. So we'll have

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Speaker 3: to see what happens.

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Speaker 2: Do you What I noticed at the reunion is what

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Speaker 2: you just said pretty much all the other women just

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Speaker 2: said was conversations that are happening off camera with Larsa.

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Speaker 2: And for me as a viewer, now that is very

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Speaker 2: hard for me because I don't understand how things happened.

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Speaker 2: If they're happening off camera, Is that something that she's

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Speaker 2: done from the beginning since you met her, Like, there's

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Speaker 2: that in terms of what like reaching out and having

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Speaker 4: When you guys are on cameras, you.

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Speaker 3: Know, I don't have righty other capacity to think about

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Speaker 3: little my new details and so forth.

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Speaker 5: One thing I will say for the cast is that.

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Speaker 3: I think a lot of people said, you know, oh

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Speaker 3: the girls are you know, they're not good friends, Curty,

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Speaker 3: they weren't there for you.

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Speaker 5: No, that's not true at all.

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Speaker 3: Marysol and Alexia called me four times a week or

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Speaker 5: Kiki. All the girls came through. To be honest.

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Speaker 3: The only two that I felt were not good friends

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Speaker 3: To be honest, Russell really was a lifesaver for me

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Speaker 3: You know, you cannot be fake. And he will never

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Speaker 3: Like, oh, he already knows that he knows all my

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Speaker 3: I mean it's a general I think advice, which is

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Speaker 3: I'm so ugit today. No say thank you, you know,

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Speaker 5: So it's it's my new stick.

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Speaker 2: And you find out what it is that you like

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Speaker 4: I mean, that's that's the only way that.

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Speaker 5: Power of no. And people we respect you for it.

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Speaker 3: Oh, Gertie, we would be so amazing if you could

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Speaker 3: It is the funniest thing ever. I have pictures of

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Speaker 3: And so that whole I see you, you see me

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Speaker 2: Well, I could I could feel that you had an

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Speaker 4: I stand out, yeah, and Nicole is like, no, listen,

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Speaker 2: This is her personality type and me and Tamar talk

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Speaker 2: she is where she'll and then she gets over it

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Speaker 3: Yep.

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Speaker 4: I can't. I can't let things like lingeringer.

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Speaker 2: I can't. I cannot do it. I need it immediately.

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Speaker 3: The wrong perspective, you know what I mean. It's like,

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, because we have not seen you guys having fun together.

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Speaker 4: We're very Oh we just had her on.

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Speaker 4: Do you think they're going to make Kiki a housewife?

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Speaker 5: I hope, I hope they do.

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Speaker 3: Why?

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Speaker 4: I don't know. I just have the spot.

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Speaker 2: It was rough for me because I wouldn't mind all

442
00:19:10,000 --> 00:19:14,159
Speaker 2: the props if I felt legitimate friendships between her and

443
00:19:14,200 --> 00:19:14,920
Speaker 2: everybody else.

444
00:19:14,960 --> 00:19:16,320
Speaker 4: But I don't feel it.

445
00:19:16,520 --> 00:19:21,160
Speaker 2: Really, No, then I need to see Adrian because right

446
00:19:21,160 --> 00:19:23,760
Speaker 2: now what we're seeing is Adriana Judge Julia. Yeah, you're

447
00:19:23,760 --> 00:19:25,960
Speaker 2: seeing her with Julia, which it doesn't you know, you

448
00:19:25,960 --> 00:19:30,119
Speaker 2: see them making jam or whatever, but like there or

449
00:19:30,200 --> 00:19:32,760
Speaker 2: we see her performing and you guys going there and

450
00:19:32,800 --> 00:19:33,280
Speaker 2: it seems like.

451
00:19:33,320 --> 00:19:35,399
Speaker 4: You guys are going there begrudgingly.

452
00:19:35,880 --> 00:19:38,480
Speaker 3: No, like they're just as a character.

453
00:19:38,600 --> 00:19:41,280
Speaker 5: Man. She is so fun to be around.

454
00:19:41,520 --> 00:19:46,359
Speaker 3: She's very resentful sometimes when things you know happen and

455
00:19:46,400 --> 00:19:48,040
Speaker 3: so forth, and I can I always try to give

456
00:19:48,080 --> 00:19:50,760
Speaker 3: her like an ear because she really is in the

457
00:19:50,760 --> 00:19:52,679
Speaker 3: feelings about a lot of things. She's very hurt. I

458
00:19:52,680 --> 00:19:55,400
Speaker 3: think with the relationship that they all had between Mary, Saul,

459
00:19:55,560 --> 00:20:00,000
Speaker 3: Alexia and herself and so that breakage and her being out,

460
00:20:00,400 --> 00:20:02,600
Speaker 3: you know, outcasted, I think she still holds that deer

461
00:20:02,600 --> 00:20:04,240
Speaker 3: and that's where you see her continue to come for

462
00:20:04,520 --> 00:20:06,840
Speaker 3: alexas she just wants attention. She's like the kid who stump.

463
00:20:07,119 --> 00:20:09,520
Speaker 2: But does she actually care about the friendship being done

464
00:20:09,640 --> 00:20:11,280
Speaker 2: or does she want to be on the show.

465
00:20:11,480 --> 00:20:14,919
Speaker 3: They've been friends for over thirteen years, if I can't remember,

466
00:20:14,960 --> 00:20:17,600
Speaker 3: they've been friends forever before the show. So I think

467
00:20:17,600 --> 00:20:20,399
Speaker 3: that there's just a lot of reaction to the hurt

468
00:20:20,520 --> 00:20:23,080
Speaker 3: and pain, and some people react in such a manner

469
00:20:23,119 --> 00:20:24,359
Speaker 3: like Adriana, so you know.

470
00:20:24,520 --> 00:20:27,440
Speaker 2: But I think also we have to be friends can

471
00:20:27,480 --> 00:20:31,080
Speaker 2: be used loosely like who actually hangs out.

472
00:20:31,160 --> 00:20:33,679
Speaker 3: They were at her wedding. There were bridesmaids at her

473
00:20:33,760 --> 00:20:35,760
Speaker 3: wedding on camera, it wasn't camera.

474
00:20:35,880 --> 00:20:36,760
Speaker 4: That's the difference.

475
00:20:37,480 --> 00:20:40,200
Speaker 2: Kyle was in Camille's wedding for Pete's sakes.

476
00:20:40,240 --> 00:20:46,199
Speaker 3: Okay, okayche touche. However you do see Mary so also say, listen,

477
00:20:46,280 --> 00:20:48,240
Speaker 3: we've been friends forever. Da da da dada. So they're

478
00:20:48,240 --> 00:20:50,560
Speaker 3: all saying the same song. Whether it's for camera or not,

479
00:20:50,640 --> 00:20:52,719
Speaker 3: that's on them. But to me, I do believe there

480
00:20:52,800 --> 00:20:55,760
Speaker 3: is a love there. There's a hurt there, and that's

481
00:20:55,800 --> 00:20:59,040
Speaker 3: the reason why you see all of this uh mess there.

482
00:20:59,440 --> 00:21:02,760
Speaker 2: And then I had Marisol and Alexia on the pod,

483
00:21:02,960 --> 00:21:06,960
Speaker 2: but I'm pretty sure Marisol said or Marisol alluded, and

484
00:21:07,000 --> 00:21:11,280
Speaker 2: then Alexia spoke for Marisol that doctor Nicole is the

485
00:21:11,600 --> 00:21:13,359
Speaker 2: most inauthentic of the group.

486
00:21:13,840 --> 00:21:15,320
Speaker 4: That's the reason is we could.

487
00:21:15,520 --> 00:21:19,000
Speaker 3: I could. I've shared so much on camera and one

488
00:21:19,080 --> 00:21:21,400
Speaker 3: third of it made it so, you know, so it's

489
00:21:21,400 --> 00:21:22,720
Speaker 3: not up to us at the end of the day.

490
00:21:23,400 --> 00:21:26,440
Speaker 3: To be honest, Nicole, I know so much about her.

491
00:21:26,440 --> 00:21:29,120
Speaker 3: Her mother's on camera, her father's on camera, her kid,

492
00:21:29,320 --> 00:21:32,000
Speaker 3: her husband, she's pregnant her, I mean, what else?

493
00:21:32,320 --> 00:21:34,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, to share her job like everything?

494
00:21:34,480 --> 00:21:36,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, and again her job can't be because

495
00:21:36,520 --> 00:21:39,760
Speaker 3: it's definitely so you see the FaceTime she's in her

496
00:21:39,760 --> 00:21:41,639
Speaker 3: scrubs and so forth, and.

497
00:21:41,520 --> 00:21:44,160
Speaker 5: She she talks truth to power.

498
00:21:43,840 --> 00:21:46,280
Speaker 3: In a sense, I think she's like the person who's like, hey, guys,

499
00:21:46,680 --> 00:21:48,679
Speaker 3: let's try to do this and try to be a

500
00:21:48,720 --> 00:21:50,800
Speaker 3: positive force in the group. At the reunion, I think

501
00:21:50,800 --> 00:21:53,600
Speaker 3: she really helped to sway, you know, the group into

502
00:21:53,640 --> 00:21:55,440
Speaker 3: a positive vibe in a sense.

503
00:21:55,480 --> 00:21:56,640
Speaker 5: So I don't know, but.

504
00:21:56,600 --> 00:22:01,119
Speaker 4: She seems to me like she's the what she's like,

505
00:22:01,359 --> 00:22:03,360
Speaker 4: not the mediator of the group, but she's a voice

506
00:22:03,359 --> 00:22:03,720
Speaker 4: of reason.

507
00:22:03,760 --> 00:22:05,440
Speaker 5: What's a reason? A lot of times she is.

508
00:22:05,480 --> 00:22:08,280
Speaker 3: But you know, there's something there between her and Alexia,

509
00:22:08,400 --> 00:22:10,640
Speaker 3: and I think that hopefully I have hope for them

510
00:22:11,040 --> 00:22:13,760
Speaker 3: that they're gonna come together and finally see each other

511
00:22:14,000 --> 00:22:17,199
Speaker 3: because they're very similar in many ways, and so I

512
00:22:17,200 --> 00:22:19,240
Speaker 3: don't know, like even when we travel on the airport,

513
00:22:19,240 --> 00:22:21,639
Speaker 3: they're both coming like a full white outfit, like they

514
00:22:21,720 --> 00:22:23,720
Speaker 3: have the same luggage. I'm like, shit, you guys, that

515
00:22:23,720 --> 00:22:25,680
Speaker 3: should be best friends by that, you know, But but do.

516
00:22:25,640 --> 00:22:27,760
Speaker 2: You think that's the case of like two alphas that

517
00:22:28,000 --> 00:22:28,840
Speaker 2: just can't.

518
00:22:28,760 --> 00:22:29,639
Speaker 5: Could be for sure?

519
00:22:29,760 --> 00:22:31,720
Speaker 3: I mean, you know, this whole Barbie, who's the Barbie

520
00:22:31,760 --> 00:22:34,400
Speaker 3: of them all that I can't me? Or Mary around

521
00:22:34,400 --> 00:22:35,760
Speaker 3: the wall, who's the Barbie you have them all?

522
00:22:35,800 --> 00:22:37,320
Speaker 5: I don't know, girl, I don't know anymore.

523
00:22:37,359 --> 00:22:41,280
Speaker 3: Shit, I have no idea, but we could have two

524
00:22:41,359 --> 00:22:43,879
Speaker 3: barbies about there's lots of barbies.

525
00:22:44,560 --> 00:22:47,800
Speaker 4: There is lots of barbies. And then we got to

526
00:22:47,800 --> 00:22:49,399
Speaker 4: get a little bit more. But we got to get

527
00:22:49,440 --> 00:22:51,959
Speaker 4: back into Larsa. Okay, well first we got to get

528
00:22:52,000 --> 00:22:52,720
Speaker 4: into Marcus.

529
00:22:52,840 --> 00:22:53,840
Speaker 5: Okay, let's do it.

530
00:22:54,000 --> 00:22:56,679
Speaker 2: Marcus saying that he would do anything to be on

531
00:22:56,680 --> 00:23:03,320
Speaker 2: that couch right now, that was a lie.

532
00:23:03,920 --> 00:23:05,080
Speaker 4: I mean a lot.

533
00:23:05,600 --> 00:23:07,159
Speaker 3: If I was slap Russell, I'll be like, what the

534
00:23:07,200 --> 00:23:11,480
Speaker 3: fuck are you doing? Like all this here?

535
00:23:12,080 --> 00:23:14,840
Speaker 2: Honestly, I was expecting all the husbands to come out

536
00:23:14,920 --> 00:23:18,240
Speaker 2: and sit behind you guys, because why are they there? Russell?

537
00:23:18,240 --> 00:23:19,120
Speaker 3: We never I don't think.

538
00:23:19,160 --> 00:23:19,520
Speaker 1: I don't know.

539
00:23:19,560 --> 00:23:22,080
Speaker 4: I don't think if he was brought into the drama

540
00:23:22,400 --> 00:23:23,800
Speaker 4: and some like.

541
00:23:23,760 --> 00:23:26,960
Speaker 2: On some franchises they will have and a lot of

542
00:23:26,960 --> 00:23:32,440
Speaker 2: other franchises, Jersey often to Atlanta Listen, Russell didn't sign

543
00:23:32,520 --> 00:23:33,600
Speaker 2: the contract to be on this show.

544
00:23:33,680 --> 00:23:37,640
Speaker 3: Russell is a casualty to this.

545
00:23:39,640 --> 00:23:40,840
Speaker 5: You know, he's he's been.

546
00:23:40,800 --> 00:23:43,440
Speaker 3: Dragged by the collar, you know, but he's here from

547
00:23:43,480 --> 00:23:46,240
Speaker 3: me and he is my you know, he's my soul

548
00:23:46,320 --> 00:23:48,440
Speaker 3: and he's part of my story. So naturally, he's on

549
00:23:48,480 --> 00:23:50,680
Speaker 3: because of me, and obviously last season more than ever

550
00:23:50,720 --> 00:23:51,640
Speaker 3: because of the cancer.

551
00:23:51,680 --> 00:23:52,520
Speaker 5: He's my caretaker.

552
00:23:52,880 --> 00:23:55,720
Speaker 3: But you know what, honestly, never would he ever be

553
00:23:56,200 --> 00:23:59,919
Speaker 3: on stage talking back with women, talking about women like that.

554
00:24:00,200 --> 00:24:03,520
Speaker 3: One incident with Larsa at the last episode, it was

555
00:24:03,560 --> 00:24:06,399
Speaker 3: an inevitable because we're trying to get away from the

556
00:24:06,440 --> 00:24:09,119
Speaker 3: situation and he's you know, when she kept going on,

557
00:24:09,200 --> 00:24:11,879
Speaker 3: He's like, just be respectful, like chill, like enough and

558
00:24:12,000 --> 00:24:12,280
Speaker 3: try to.

559
00:24:12,280 --> 00:24:14,000
Speaker 5: Pull me out of there. So that was his bit.

560
00:24:14,680 --> 00:24:16,600
Speaker 5: He didn't like it. He didn't like to be involved

561
00:24:16,600 --> 00:24:18,320
Speaker 5: in that in that sense. But you know, but he.

562
00:24:18,320 --> 00:24:20,560
Speaker 4: Wasn't necessarily coming for He was just trying to.

563
00:24:20,560 --> 00:24:22,119
Speaker 3: No, he wasn't trying to be like, let me be

564
00:24:22,400 --> 00:24:22,800
Speaker 3: in the.

565
00:24:22,960 --> 00:24:24,720
Speaker 4: He was trying to diffuse the situation.

566
00:24:24,840 --> 00:24:27,840
Speaker 2: I think there's a difference between diffusing and adding like

567
00:24:28,560 --> 00:24:30,160
Speaker 2: whatever to the fire or whatever.

568
00:24:30,160 --> 00:24:32,520
Speaker 3: I mean, we have nine housewives at this point, so

569
00:24:32,600 --> 00:24:35,800
Speaker 3: we have enough. We don't need another couch member. We're good.

570
00:24:36,280 --> 00:24:38,359
Speaker 4: But why were him and Jody there? Are you guys

571
00:24:38,400 --> 00:24:40,520
Speaker 4: allowed to bring whoever you want to your reunion?

572
00:24:40,800 --> 00:24:43,639
Speaker 3: We are I mean my lamb and nothing but my glamb,

573
00:24:43,760 --> 00:24:44,800
Speaker 3: So help me God.

574
00:24:45,000 --> 00:24:48,000
Speaker 2: And I would like to give you a little kudos today.

575
00:24:48,000 --> 00:24:51,119
Speaker 2: You're one of the first housewives to arrive on.

576
00:24:51,119 --> 00:24:53,520
Speaker 4: Time and without an entire team with you.

577
00:24:53,800 --> 00:24:57,200
Speaker 3: I am a grown ass woman, okay, and I mean listen,

578
00:24:57,200 --> 00:24:59,160
Speaker 3: I'm a producer in my home, own head, but by

579
00:24:59,160 --> 00:25:01,639
Speaker 3: producing events, so I already know get this done, do

580
00:25:01,760 --> 00:25:02,280
Speaker 3: that be there?

581
00:25:02,320 --> 00:25:05,000
Speaker 5: Ba ba ba done? No, no big to dos here.

582
00:25:05,040 --> 00:25:08,520
Speaker 2: So I appreciated that because I was sometime to me, Yeah,

583
00:25:08,560 --> 00:25:10,200
Speaker 2: good job, good job.

584
00:25:13,720 --> 00:25:15,239
Speaker 4: I was like, hold on, where's her?

585
00:25:15,480 --> 00:25:16,280
Speaker 3: To the team?

586
00:25:16,359 --> 00:25:19,760
Speaker 2: I was like waiting for forty two people walking behind you.

587
00:25:19,920 --> 00:25:21,440
Speaker 4: I was like, oh, here it goes again.

588
00:25:21,480 --> 00:25:22,120
Speaker 5: Oh my god.

589
00:25:22,200 --> 00:25:25,040
Speaker 3: No, But listen, I mean I think that first of all,

590
00:25:25,160 --> 00:25:27,720
Speaker 3: I'm more of a personality than most people think or

591
00:25:27,800 --> 00:25:30,520
Speaker 3: see me yet. So like I'm there's a lot of

592
00:25:30,520 --> 00:25:33,760
Speaker 3: this onion, a lot of layers, and it just got started.

593
00:25:33,960 --> 00:25:37,760
Speaker 2: Well, you're naturally very high energy, which I now I

594
00:25:37,800 --> 00:25:39,720
Speaker 2: have to force myself to be high energy.

595
00:25:39,800 --> 00:25:41,160
Speaker 5: It feels like it don't even need coffee.

596
00:25:41,840 --> 00:25:47,399
Speaker 3: Hello, where are we? What are we doing today? My

597
00:25:47,480 --> 00:25:49,600
Speaker 3: kids are like ship like, they're like freaked out. My

598
00:25:49,680 --> 00:25:51,399
Speaker 3: oldest son he's like, looks at me and he gives me,

599
00:25:51,440 --> 00:25:53,440
Speaker 3: this stare like, and I'm like too.

600
00:25:53,400 --> 00:25:55,480
Speaker 4: Much, well because keeping it real.

601
00:25:55,560 --> 00:25:58,399
Speaker 2: Sometimes watching it, I'm like, oh gosh, I thought you

602
00:25:58,400 --> 00:25:59,760
Speaker 2: were putting on a show a little bit.

603
00:26:00,040 --> 00:26:02,199
Speaker 3: I swear to God this is how I am. And

604
00:26:02,240 --> 00:26:04,160
Speaker 3: then even by the way I speak right, so people

605
00:26:04,160 --> 00:26:05,600
Speaker 3: are like, why don't you use these big words and

606
00:26:05,600 --> 00:26:08,160
Speaker 3: so forth. Girl. When I was in France we're talking

607
00:26:08,160 --> 00:26:11,199
Speaker 3: about nineteen eighty seven, the way I learned English was

608
00:26:11,200 --> 00:26:15,640
Speaker 3: in a cassette and he was like the English in English, literally,

609
00:26:16,920 --> 00:26:19,359
Speaker 3: how do you do? Comota levu? How do you do?

610
00:26:19,800 --> 00:26:23,320
Speaker 3: This is me? How do you do? I'm very well,

611
00:26:23,440 --> 00:26:27,920
Speaker 3: thank you. So I literally came to America in Miami

612
00:26:28,119 --> 00:26:32,040
Speaker 3: in nineteen eighty seven, literally wearing freaking like raids or

613
00:26:32,119 --> 00:26:34,800
Speaker 3: church dress because my father was a pastor, looking crazy

614
00:26:35,280 --> 00:26:39,000
Speaker 3: like a giraffe. I was age nine, Hey, hey, hey,

615
00:26:39,040 --> 00:26:39,560
Speaker 3: what's up?

616
00:26:39,720 --> 00:26:40,119
Speaker 5: What's up?

617
00:26:40,200 --> 00:26:41,200
Speaker 3: What is up?

618
00:26:41,240 --> 00:26:42,160
Speaker 5: What is up? Oh?

619
00:26:42,200 --> 00:26:44,480
Speaker 3: How are you? I'm very well, thank you?

620
00:26:44,760 --> 00:26:45,719
Speaker 5: A fucking loser.

621
00:26:46,240 --> 00:26:48,719
Speaker 3: So you have to understand that my mind is like

622
00:26:48,760 --> 00:26:51,440
Speaker 3: I'm being I was traumatized at nine, and now it's

623
00:26:51,440 --> 00:26:54,200
Speaker 3: hard for me to pull back all these like words

624
00:26:54,240 --> 00:26:56,440
Speaker 3: and so forth. So it's not like, oh, I'm trying

625
00:26:56,480 --> 00:26:58,440
Speaker 3: to be like fancy or bougie. I swear to God

626
00:26:58,560 --> 00:27:03,199
Speaker 3: is learning parents fucked up? And the English version of

627
00:27:03,240 --> 00:27:05,439
Speaker 3: English versus the American version of English. So I'm like,

628
00:27:07,119 --> 00:27:08,000
Speaker 3: such a loser.

629
00:27:08,680 --> 00:27:08,960
Speaker 6: You know what?

630
00:27:09,080 --> 00:27:09,480
Speaker 4: It is me?

631
00:27:09,720 --> 00:27:13,359
Speaker 5: It is me, and I am okay, you know what now?

632
00:27:13,480 --> 00:27:16,120
Speaker 2: I really you've made me laugh multiple times and it's

633
00:27:16,119 --> 00:27:17,159
Speaker 2: pretty hard to do so.

634
00:27:17,359 --> 00:27:21,199
Speaker 5: And then the facial expressions, that's another thing. Literally, no,

635
00:27:21,240 --> 00:27:22,240
Speaker 5: you're like, and I don't give it.

636
00:27:22,480 --> 00:27:22,960
Speaker 3: That's how I am.

637
00:27:23,000 --> 00:27:23,760
Speaker 5: I'm like this, wait.

638
00:27:25,520 --> 00:27:29,399
Speaker 3: That you tell me, Gertie stop doing verbal confirmation, so

639
00:27:29,440 --> 00:27:31,840
Speaker 3: like when you're speaking of like, oh really, uh huh

640
00:27:31,880 --> 00:27:34,879
Speaker 3: and apparently like you sucking up our scenes girl, so

641
00:27:35,000 --> 00:27:37,920
Speaker 3: shut the fuck up and let them speak, and then

642
00:27:38,000 --> 00:27:39,879
Speaker 3: you answer it. And I'm like, oh, sorry, because I

643
00:27:40,320 --> 00:27:43,040
Speaker 3: like when people abnomlinge me when I sentence by sentence,

644
00:27:43,119 --> 00:27:45,240
Speaker 3: let me know you're listening girls, And they were like.

645
00:27:45,160 --> 00:27:48,119
Speaker 2: No, bitch, just well this is what Tamora does to me, Okay,

646
00:27:48,160 --> 00:27:49,960
Speaker 2: so start talking for a second.

647
00:27:50,160 --> 00:27:53,439
Speaker 3: So anyway, yesterday I was like, wait, I have a

648
00:27:53,440 --> 00:27:55,520
Speaker 3: best friend that does that, and I'm like, what the

649
00:27:55,520 --> 00:27:56,120
Speaker 3: hell are you doing?

650
00:27:56,200 --> 00:27:58,320
Speaker 4: I'm like, why are you I'm like, why are you

651
00:27:58,359 --> 00:28:01,320
Speaker 4: moving your mouth? Or me like, do you think I'm

652
00:28:01,359 --> 00:28:02,480
Speaker 4: gonna say what you're gonna say?

653
00:28:02,520 --> 00:28:06,000
Speaker 7: Like she's like, I have a best friend that literally

654
00:28:06,119 --> 00:28:09,480
Speaker 7: is with me going like this, and I'm like, is

655
00:28:09,520 --> 00:28:11,560
Speaker 7: this a new game show that we're doing like articulately

656
00:28:11,560 --> 00:28:13,680
Speaker 7: by not no sound, but I mean it.

657
00:28:13,840 --> 00:28:16,240
Speaker 2: When we're together, it's so much worse than when we're

658
00:28:16,240 --> 00:28:18,040
Speaker 2: in the zoom because she'll be like a lot of.

659
00:28:18,040 --> 00:28:18,760
Speaker 3: People do that.

660
00:28:21,840 --> 00:28:23,520
Speaker 5: You, Oh, I have a loss suit of mask, like

661
00:28:23,560 --> 00:28:25,160
Speaker 5: this is that's annoying.

662
00:28:25,600 --> 00:28:28,199
Speaker 2: Well, I'm now kind to the point where I like,

663
00:28:28,320 --> 00:28:30,760
Speaker 2: I'm like, don't look at her mouth, because then.

664
00:28:30,800 --> 00:28:35,840
Speaker 3: I feel like everybody's best friend, Like you're you and

665
00:28:36,600 --> 00:28:38,719
Speaker 3: are best friends you and kind of best friends.

666
00:28:39,120 --> 00:28:40,040
Speaker 5: Right, here's the thing.

667
00:28:40,080 --> 00:28:43,400
Speaker 4: I don't like many people, and I do like they're

668
00:28:43,440 --> 00:28:43,960
Speaker 4: my people.

669
00:28:44,120 --> 00:28:45,800
Speaker 3: I love it and me too. I think I like,

670
00:28:45,840 --> 00:28:47,760
Speaker 3: I like a lot of people, but I'm not for everyone.

671
00:28:47,800 --> 00:28:50,840
Speaker 3: So you know, what big mistake if you don't give

672
00:28:50,880 --> 00:28:52,840
Speaker 3: me a chance. You know a lot of people are like,

673
00:28:52,840 --> 00:28:54,400
Speaker 3: oh my gosh, it's too much. What does that mean

674
00:28:54,440 --> 00:28:57,240
Speaker 3: she's too much? What does that mean that you're not enough?

675
00:28:57,400 --> 00:28:58,240
Speaker 3: Or what's happening.

676
00:28:58,440 --> 00:29:03,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it just for me. I have to

677
00:29:03,360 --> 00:29:06,680
Speaker 2: feel like a genuine connection. I can force the connection

678
00:29:06,720 --> 00:29:07,760
Speaker 2: if I'm being paid.

679
00:29:09,440 --> 00:29:12,120
Speaker 5: Here, paid partnership.

680
00:29:12,160 --> 00:29:19,920
Speaker 3: But to you, bye shradio, I love it, that's truthful.

681
00:29:19,960 --> 00:29:20,400
Speaker 5: I like that.

682
00:29:20,480 --> 00:29:23,479
Speaker 2: But I do when there is an actual person that

683
00:29:23,600 --> 00:29:26,320
Speaker 2: I really connect with, I will I ride.

684
00:29:26,200 --> 00:29:26,800
Speaker 4: Or die for them.

685
00:29:27,120 --> 00:29:27,800
Speaker 5: I'm not that too.

686
00:29:27,920 --> 00:29:30,360
Speaker 4: Like you are to a fault, to a fault to

687
00:29:30,360 --> 00:29:30,880
Speaker 4: the point.

688
00:29:30,680 --> 00:29:32,680
Speaker 6: Where they'll be like you're doing someone says dirty work,

689
00:29:32,720 --> 00:29:33,680
Speaker 6: You're a fault.

690
00:29:34,160 --> 00:29:37,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, I binge on Beverly Hills recently. Actually, and I

691
00:29:37,400 --> 00:29:41,600
Speaker 3: thought that you were a very important piece of the

692
00:29:41,640 --> 00:29:46,320
Speaker 3: puzzle in many revelations, big big moments really honestly, so

693
00:29:46,520 --> 00:29:48,440
Speaker 3: could I see you, whether people like it or not,

694
00:29:49,240 --> 00:29:52,600
Speaker 3: very important in revealing a lot of bullshit or truth,

695
00:29:52,640 --> 00:29:55,200
Speaker 3: so whatever it was in those particular seasons.

696
00:29:55,440 --> 00:29:56,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean.

697
00:29:59,080 --> 00:30:01,640
Speaker 3: That's why you're sitting right here, because you and you

698
00:30:01,720 --> 00:30:03,800
Speaker 3: observe it and you call it out. Yeah, And not

699
00:30:03,880 --> 00:30:05,120
Speaker 3: everybody likes to be called out.

700
00:30:05,160 --> 00:30:06,600
Speaker 4: Not everybody likes to be called out.

701
00:30:07,680 --> 00:30:11,400
Speaker 2: Well, speaking of being called out, do you know the

702
00:30:11,480 --> 00:30:12,760
Speaker 2: name of Lars's tequila?

703
00:30:14,240 --> 00:30:16,880
Speaker 3: Oh god, oh ooh.

704
00:30:19,080 --> 00:30:21,800
Speaker 5: No, because that's my but it was good when I

705
00:30:21,840 --> 00:30:23,640
Speaker 5: had it. I had a shot at the end. So

706
00:30:23,760 --> 00:30:24,720
Speaker 5: what is your question?

707
00:30:25,040 --> 00:30:25,920
Speaker 3: My question is.

708
00:30:25,880 --> 00:30:28,360
Speaker 2: We saw it on camera like eighty two times and

709
00:30:28,400 --> 00:30:29,800
Speaker 2: I was like, but where's the name?

710
00:30:30,160 --> 00:30:33,040
Speaker 3: Oh oh, partict Placemiper, no name.

711
00:30:33,200 --> 00:30:35,320
Speaker 4: That's what I was thinking, like, this is this was

712
00:30:35,360 --> 00:30:37,080
Speaker 4: a mistake, Like how did we not?

713
00:30:37,360 --> 00:30:40,400
Speaker 2: I know that I know that the emblem kind of

714
00:30:40,440 --> 00:30:44,440
Speaker 2: looks like a vagina, but I don't know the name.

715
00:30:44,720 --> 00:30:46,720
Speaker 3: I don't know, but it's not vagina.

716
00:30:47,080 --> 00:30:49,320
Speaker 5: It's not it's not vagina. Tequila.

717
00:30:49,760 --> 00:30:50,720
Speaker 4: Oh allus you?

718
00:30:51,520 --> 00:30:56,640
Speaker 3: Oh aluho oh the chase silent Teddy.

719
00:30:59,200 --> 00:31:01,040
Speaker 4: My Clumbian husband's gonna kill me.

720
00:31:01,520 --> 00:31:04,040
Speaker 3: And you right next to Cabo. You're right there, girl.

721
00:31:04,120 --> 00:31:06,320
Speaker 5: You have been way too many times to be a

722
00:31:06,400 --> 00:31:06,840
Speaker 5: new shoe.

723
00:31:07,520 --> 00:31:11,960
Speaker 3: Alujah, my husbands.

724
00:31:12,000 --> 00:31:14,120
Speaker 2: So when we when you hear our voicemail wing your

725
00:31:14,120 --> 00:31:16,520
Speaker 2: stuff homephones and we first got married and be.

726
00:31:16,520 --> 00:31:19,240
Speaker 6: Like, Hi, you've reached the boys called the Aria the

727
00:31:19,320 --> 00:31:25,600
Speaker 6: ari Javes. He's like to please, can you say, like

728
00:31:27,000 --> 00:31:32,120
Speaker 6: give me some slack? Hi, you reached the ari Javes.

729
00:31:32,480 --> 00:31:36,400
Speaker 3: Dosh, Charlie Dosh, Charlie Bari put down the milk.

730
00:31:36,760 --> 00:31:56,680
Speaker 2: Come on, Papa, what were your thoughts on the Super

731
00:31:56,680 --> 00:31:57,400
Speaker 2: Bowl breakup.

732
00:32:00,320 --> 00:32:04,280
Speaker 3: Oh, I was busy doing a partnership during that time

733
00:32:04,320 --> 00:32:08,080
Speaker 3: that I had to post simultaneously as a breakup was happening.

734
00:32:08,600 --> 00:32:10,640
Speaker 3: I felt like the breakup was as as short as

735
00:32:10,640 --> 00:32:13,920
Speaker 3: a Super Bowl, you know, halftime show, and they were

736
00:32:13,960 --> 00:32:16,560
Speaker 3: back together by the time you knew it, So you

737
00:32:16,680 --> 00:32:18,920
Speaker 3: know it was a misunderstanding and had a breakup.

738
00:32:18,920 --> 00:32:19,760
Speaker 5: That's what I call it.

739
00:32:20,120 --> 00:32:21,240
Speaker 3: How we're back together right away.

740
00:32:21,320 --> 00:32:23,760
Speaker 2: Have you and your husband throughout these past twenty eight

741
00:32:23,800 --> 00:32:24,800
Speaker 2: years ever broken up?

742
00:32:24,840 --> 00:32:27,320
Speaker 5: No, we don't believe in the d world.

743
00:32:27,360 --> 00:32:29,720
Speaker 3: We don't throw it out like bitch you said for thickness,

744
00:32:29,800 --> 00:32:32,479
Speaker 3: your sickness, and in help you said for good or bad,

745
00:32:32,960 --> 00:32:35,360
Speaker 3: let's ride we ride a dog, you know.

746
00:32:35,400 --> 00:32:37,200
Speaker 5: So I don't believe in that at all.

747
00:32:37,240 --> 00:32:39,320
Speaker 3: We argue, of course all the time, but like there

748
00:32:39,360 --> 00:32:44,680
Speaker 3: is no threats of any action happening except for action happening.

749
00:32:44,760 --> 00:32:47,960
Speaker 4: Nay, are you having How many times are you having?

750
00:32:48,040 --> 00:32:48,160
Speaker 6: Well?

751
00:32:48,280 --> 00:32:50,360
Speaker 3: Girl, let me give you some tea. I just had

752
00:32:50,400 --> 00:32:53,000
Speaker 3: it hysurrected me two weeks ago, so I'm down for

753
00:32:53,080 --> 00:32:55,560
Speaker 3: the next six more weeks. It was eight weeks in total,

754
00:32:55,600 --> 00:32:57,000
Speaker 3: so getting creative with it.

755
00:32:56,960 --> 00:32:58,480
Speaker 4: You know you're going to be giving lots of blood,

756
00:32:59,560 --> 00:33:00,440
Speaker 4: maybe the him.

757
00:33:03,880 --> 00:33:05,840
Speaker 5: Everything. But she knows how to keep a man, that's

758
00:33:05,880 --> 00:33:08,840
Speaker 5: for sure. Oh excuse me, missus, keep a man.

759
00:33:09,000 --> 00:33:12,320
Speaker 4: Thank you, missus keep a man right now.

760
00:33:12,360 --> 00:33:15,800
Speaker 5: I'm so fucking stupid. Marsha pain please, and I'm not

761
00:33:15,840 --> 00:33:17,080
Speaker 5: even tipsy at all. Promise.

762
00:33:17,240 --> 00:33:20,120
Speaker 2: I were like, well, this is the story of my life,

763
00:33:20,160 --> 00:33:24,720
Speaker 2: saying things that ultimately get me in some kind of trouble.

764
00:33:24,840 --> 00:33:25,320
Speaker 3: It's fine.

765
00:33:27,160 --> 00:33:32,800
Speaker 2: We already talked about Adriana, we talked about Kiki.

766
00:33:33,320 --> 00:33:34,600
Speaker 4: We want her to be full time.

767
00:33:35,080 --> 00:33:37,040
Speaker 2: Oh also, could you maybe tell me because I said

768
00:33:37,080 --> 00:33:38,640
Speaker 2: I was going to figure out in twenty four hours,

769
00:33:38,640 --> 00:33:39,760
Speaker 2: but I didn't.

770
00:33:40,040 --> 00:33:41,720
Speaker 4: Who is dating my guess?

771
00:33:41,840 --> 00:33:44,280
Speaker 2: Oh no, you're not gonna have to share this, But

772
00:33:44,360 --> 00:33:45,880
Speaker 2: can you at least confirm or deny?

773
00:33:46,320 --> 00:33:50,719
Speaker 3: Is he a plastic surgeon? I can't confirm or deny?

774
00:33:51,160 --> 00:33:51,840
Speaker 3: Next question?

775
00:33:52,040 --> 00:33:54,280
Speaker 4: But Teddy is a mind reader.

776
00:33:54,840 --> 00:33:58,000
Speaker 3: Teddy's a mind reader. I knew that Teddy's a mind reader.

777
00:33:58,080 --> 00:33:58,760
Speaker 3: So what does that mean?

778
00:33:59,160 --> 00:34:00,840
Speaker 5: No, you knew? What are you talking about?

779
00:34:00,880 --> 00:34:02,080
Speaker 4: That he is a plastic service?

780
00:34:02,160 --> 00:34:04,000
Speaker 3: I didn't know he's not. I don't know anything.

781
00:34:04,280 --> 00:34:07,000
Speaker 4: Okay, you're not a good liarer, I right, go up

782
00:34:07,040 --> 00:34:07,360
Speaker 4: and down?

783
00:34:07,440 --> 00:34:08,759
Speaker 5: Do they but down?

784
00:34:08,760 --> 00:34:11,440
Speaker 3: Because I didn't get no? Both dogs of fillners. Hello,

785
00:34:13,840 --> 00:34:14,520
Speaker 3: can you do it?

786
00:34:14,920 --> 00:34:16,560
Speaker 5: Let's do it?

787
00:34:16,600 --> 00:34:19,719
Speaker 2: Done for the first time and not on her time ever,

788
00:34:19,840 --> 00:34:20,879
Speaker 2: like the first time in the year.

789
00:34:21,160 --> 00:34:22,000
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, it's time.

790
00:34:22,120 --> 00:34:25,080
Speaker 3: No, no, no, I can't confirm or deny, but I

791
00:34:25,120 --> 00:34:27,799
Speaker 3: think that she's happy currently and you know what, she

792
00:34:28,080 --> 00:34:28,400
Speaker 3: likes it.

793
00:34:28,440 --> 00:34:29,440
Speaker 5: I fucking love it.

794
00:34:29,680 --> 00:34:31,319
Speaker 4: I know. I want to see more of her. I

795
00:34:31,320 --> 00:34:32,799
Speaker 4: want to see the kids. I want to see your

796
00:34:32,840 --> 00:34:34,879
Speaker 4: relationship with her mom. I want to see all of that.

797
00:34:34,880 --> 00:34:37,239
Speaker 3: She's got an eighteen year old son. She's got an

798
00:34:37,280 --> 00:34:39,200
Speaker 3: eighteen year old son.

799
00:34:40,120 --> 00:34:42,640
Speaker 4: About it, the names of them she's studied.

800
00:34:42,680 --> 00:34:45,000
Speaker 5: Right before the reunion, that's question.

801
00:34:44,880 --> 00:34:49,719
Speaker 4: Was coming, yeat, do you think we're going to keep

802
00:34:49,719 --> 00:34:50,520
Speaker 4: hearing about Lenny.

803
00:34:51,760 --> 00:34:54,320
Speaker 3: I think it was a consensus that we made it

804
00:34:54,400 --> 00:34:57,160
Speaker 3: very clear that we were onwards, right, So I don't

805
00:34:57,160 --> 00:34:59,279
Speaker 3: think so, and I hope we don't. It thought it

806
00:34:59,320 --> 00:35:01,560
Speaker 3: should be about her her. We want to know about Lisa.

807
00:35:01,719 --> 00:35:04,480
Speaker 3: You know her come up from Lenny's. You know the ashes.

808
00:35:04,520 --> 00:35:05,680
Speaker 5: It's a phoenix. I tell her all the time.

809
00:35:05,680 --> 00:35:08,439
Speaker 3: You're a phoenix girl, Rise above it all. Don't fit

810
00:35:08,480 --> 00:35:09,680
Speaker 3: into the bs.

811
00:35:09,520 --> 00:35:12,400
Speaker 2: And who what would you say your vibe was from

812
00:35:12,560 --> 00:35:13,960
Speaker 2: Lenny when you first met him.

813
00:35:13,840 --> 00:35:14,719
Speaker 4: Like did you get the egg?

814
00:35:15,120 --> 00:35:15,319
Speaker 5: Yes?

815
00:35:15,440 --> 00:35:18,400
Speaker 3: Of course you knew right away the eck a one

816
00:35:18,480 --> 00:35:20,879
Speaker 3: hundred percent everybody did. And you know, you beat your

817
00:35:20,920 --> 00:35:22,960
Speaker 3: respectful and you sit there and you're like, Okay, you

818
00:35:23,000 --> 00:35:25,040
Speaker 3: know she that's her, that's her. Man. You can't. You

819
00:35:25,080 --> 00:35:27,640
Speaker 3: can't bad mouth someone who's going to be around you,

820
00:35:27,640 --> 00:35:30,359
Speaker 3: you know, by default, you know, through Lisa. So when

821
00:35:30,440 --> 00:35:33,160
Speaker 3: when she was, you know, realizing that all this stuff

822
00:35:33,200 --> 00:35:36,040
Speaker 3: was happening, and then she was in a position to say, okay,

823
00:35:36,120 --> 00:35:39,080
Speaker 3: now this all everything that was happening to me was true.

824
00:35:39,120 --> 00:35:40,600
Speaker 5: I wasn't listening da da da.

825
00:35:40,800 --> 00:35:42,640
Speaker 3: Now you're on her back and saying yeah, yeah when

826
00:35:42,640 --> 00:35:44,200
Speaker 3: we knew this, and we didn't we didn't want to

827
00:35:44,239 --> 00:35:45,640
Speaker 3: tell you this. So it's it's just a lot of

828
00:35:45,719 --> 00:35:48,399
Speaker 3: stuff happening. But I think she's in a better place.

829
00:35:48,400 --> 00:35:51,840
Speaker 3: And JODI's a really good guy, honestly, and I think

830
00:35:51,880 --> 00:35:54,319
Speaker 3: that the future looks really bright for Lisa Oll.

831
00:35:54,360 --> 00:35:55,399
Speaker 4: That's good for sure.

832
00:35:55,480 --> 00:35:56,720
Speaker 5: I mean, Jody's amazing.

833
00:35:56,840 --> 00:35:59,360
Speaker 4: So other than Nicole, who would you say you're closest.

834
00:35:59,000 --> 00:36:04,279
Speaker 5: To Alexia and I at the union.

835
00:36:04,360 --> 00:36:05,719
Speaker 3: Did you see how the two of us all of

836
00:36:05,760 --> 00:36:08,919
Speaker 3: a sudden, I'm like, yes, like she you know again,

837
00:36:08,920 --> 00:36:11,600
Speaker 3: I'm trying to like get people to get out of

838
00:36:11,640 --> 00:36:14,640
Speaker 3: the hypnotism, right, you know. So I thought that that

839
00:36:14,760 --> 00:36:16,799
Speaker 3: was really kind of powerful for her to step out

840
00:36:16,800 --> 00:36:20,480
Speaker 3: of that, and you know, the O G click versus

841
00:36:20,320 --> 00:36:22,480
Speaker 3: the new BN really stood in her truth.

842
00:36:22,560 --> 00:36:23,439
Speaker 5: So that was really cool.

843
00:36:23,480 --> 00:36:26,279
Speaker 3: So I'm really excited about my relationship with Alexia for

844
00:36:26,320 --> 00:36:27,000
Speaker 3: sure in the future.

845
00:36:27,400 --> 00:36:30,239
Speaker 2: And what are your thoughts on Julia coming in hot

846
00:36:30,280 --> 00:36:31,440
Speaker 2: this season to stir.

847
00:36:31,280 --> 00:36:33,520
Speaker 4: It like every do you? But and the way she

848
00:36:33,600 --> 00:36:36,080
Speaker 4: does it, like she acts like she doesn't know she does.

849
00:36:36,719 --> 00:36:37,600
Speaker 4: She's pretty smart.

850
00:36:37,640 --> 00:36:39,840
Speaker 3: Oh no, she knows what she's doing. But it's the

851
00:36:39,880 --> 00:36:41,680
Speaker 3: way she does it with the accent. I call it

852
00:36:41,719 --> 00:36:42,280
Speaker 3: Betty Booby.

853
00:36:42,320 --> 00:36:42,879
Speaker 5: So it's like.

854
00:36:43,360 --> 00:36:46,360
Speaker 3: Marys Madison, you know, you always and you can't be

855
00:36:46,360 --> 00:36:48,000
Speaker 3: mad at her. It's kind of like tap me just

856
00:36:48,040 --> 00:36:49,759
Speaker 3: out of my business. But like, so the way she

857
00:36:49,800 --> 00:36:50,560
Speaker 3: says and you're like.

858
00:36:50,640 --> 00:36:52,000
Speaker 5: Fuck, like you can't be mad at her.

859
00:36:52,080 --> 00:36:52,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, you know.

860
00:36:52,719 --> 00:36:56,440
Speaker 3: So she's she's got a nice little a little power

861
00:36:56,520 --> 00:36:58,680
Speaker 3: to her, you know, superpowerful, and she let it.

862
00:36:58,719 --> 00:37:02,480
Speaker 2: Bounce right off of her when whenever anybody says anything

863
00:37:03,080 --> 00:37:05,920
Speaker 2: like whether Lars is like you like Penis like, She's.

864
00:37:05,760 --> 00:37:09,160
Speaker 3: Like yeah, whatever, exactly you have any.

865
00:37:11,239 --> 00:37:11,719
Speaker 5: I die?

866
00:37:11,800 --> 00:37:16,600
Speaker 3: She's clever, Yeah, she's She's pretty funny and dynamic is incredible, right,

867
00:37:16,640 --> 00:37:17,480
Speaker 3: Like Miami.

868
00:37:17,440 --> 00:37:18,440
Speaker 4: Miami is a favorite.

869
00:37:18,480 --> 00:37:21,359
Speaker 2: It used to be Potomac and an exciting news because

870
00:37:21,400 --> 00:37:23,600
Speaker 2: Tamra is out of town. Gerty is going to be

871
00:37:23,680 --> 00:37:27,440
Speaker 2: recapping Potomac and Housewife headlines with me and Tomorrow's pod.

872
00:37:28,160 --> 00:37:33,279
Speaker 4: But Potomac was my favorite, and then Miami has to take.

873
00:37:33,400 --> 00:37:37,920
Speaker 2: I mean, have we really the lifestyle all of the

874
00:37:38,040 --> 00:37:40,920
Speaker 2: different looks, how different everybody.

875
00:37:40,560 --> 00:37:42,800
Speaker 4: Is, But then how you guys can actually have fun?

876
00:37:43,440 --> 00:37:46,600
Speaker 4: I really am moving forward and move forward forward.

877
00:37:46,480 --> 00:37:47,799
Speaker 3: Is the key, I think you know right?

878
00:37:48,440 --> 00:37:51,200
Speaker 2: What is your thought on watching back? Do you wish

879
00:37:51,239 --> 00:37:53,560
Speaker 2: you wouldn't have said anything about the now?

880
00:37:53,560 --> 00:37:55,520
Speaker 4: I'm in a blank? Is it a VBL or a

881
00:37:55,520 --> 00:37:58,160
Speaker 4: BBL or something I clearly don't have?

882
00:37:58,400 --> 00:37:59,279
Speaker 3: Well I don't have it either.

883
00:37:59,400 --> 00:38:00,719
Speaker 5: I just had a tough me talking to my boobs.

884
00:38:00,760 --> 00:38:03,280
Speaker 2: Job, boob job, that's it, listen, I've had a neckleft,

885
00:38:03,280 --> 00:38:03,920
Speaker 2: my boob's done.

886
00:38:04,000 --> 00:38:06,320
Speaker 3: I'm I just had both very open about it.

887
00:38:06,360 --> 00:38:07,600
Speaker 5: I mean, what is the problem.

888
00:38:07,800 --> 00:38:10,239
Speaker 3: I was just making a comparison, like, don't say you

889
00:38:10,280 --> 00:38:12,880
Speaker 3: too when it's like my face is still my face, Like,

890
00:38:13,040 --> 00:38:14,959
Speaker 3: let's not do it before and I'm a picture, let's

891
00:38:15,000 --> 00:38:15,480
Speaker 3: not do that.

892
00:38:15,920 --> 00:38:19,640
Speaker 2: What is your thought on people not sharing when if

893
00:38:19,640 --> 00:38:22,000
Speaker 2: they're in the public eye, not sharing if they've had

894
00:38:22,000 --> 00:38:24,359
Speaker 2: plastic surgery, because I knew, I know people that are

895
00:38:24,480 --> 00:38:26,839
Speaker 2: very against it that are on these shows, and I've

896
00:38:26,880 --> 00:38:28,439
Speaker 2: always had to it is what it is.

897
00:38:28,960 --> 00:38:32,240
Speaker 5: Like, No, you didn't have anything, only your lips job done?

898
00:38:32,360 --> 00:38:35,160
Speaker 3: Okay, Like if it's a whole different If your phone

899
00:38:35,160 --> 00:38:37,880
Speaker 3: can even recognize you, what I'm that's the key, right,

900
00:38:38,080 --> 00:38:40,920
Speaker 3: here's the key, the key to say to the public

901
00:38:41,040 --> 00:38:43,520
Speaker 3: if you had anything done or not. If your phone

902
00:38:43,520 --> 00:38:46,000
Speaker 3: can even recognize you, that would be the key, right. Yeah,

903
00:38:46,000 --> 00:38:47,680
Speaker 3: And I'm talking to you just generally speaking, not to

904
00:38:47,680 --> 00:38:50,279
Speaker 3: anybody particular. So it's like I had nothing done to

905
00:38:50,320 --> 00:38:52,759
Speaker 3: my face. I literally use half of a syringer of

906
00:38:52,840 --> 00:38:55,799
Speaker 3: filler and it's for my smellline because I'm a happy guy.

907
00:38:56,120 --> 00:38:57,280
Speaker 5: I snapped him match.

908
00:38:59,400 --> 00:38:59,600
Speaker 3: Yeah.

909
00:39:00,320 --> 00:39:02,040
Speaker 4: You know, to each your own what you want to share.

910
00:39:02,120 --> 00:39:03,799
Speaker 2: But I think you have to Also, you can't be

911
00:39:03,880 --> 00:39:07,279
Speaker 2: annoyed if somebody is sure going to bring it up.

912
00:39:07,360 --> 00:39:09,920
Speaker 2: That's like and if you're in a conversation where you

913
00:39:10,080 --> 00:39:13,120
Speaker 2: want to share or you can say listen. I think

914
00:39:13,160 --> 00:39:15,120
Speaker 2: she could have shut it all down if she were

915
00:39:15,160 --> 00:39:17,640
Speaker 2: to just say listen, guys, of course I've had work done.

916
00:39:17,640 --> 00:39:19,040
Speaker 4: I'm not talking about it exactly.

917
00:39:19,040 --> 00:39:21,480
Speaker 3: But by the way, by the way, this is all

918
00:39:21,560 --> 00:39:24,399
Speaker 3: based on this Page six Live podcast in New York.

919
00:39:25,320 --> 00:39:27,640
Speaker 3: It was a fireside chat thing. We're like, okay, we'll

920
00:39:27,719 --> 00:39:30,360
Speaker 3: ask you some quick question. The question is okay. It

921
00:39:30,440 --> 00:39:31,480
Speaker 3: was a bunch of questions.

922
00:39:31,480 --> 00:39:32,160
Speaker 5: One of them was.

923
00:39:32,080 --> 00:39:35,840
Speaker 3: Who's the fakest S S T? So, yeah, I'm fake

924
00:39:36,160 --> 00:39:39,719
Speaker 3: in my boob and whatever, Adriana mean whatever, everybody is fake.

925
00:39:39,760 --> 00:39:42,400
Speaker 3: But then they said the fake ist and so in comparison,

926
00:39:42,760 --> 00:39:47,120
Speaker 3: I just said question and that was it was a

927
00:39:47,120 --> 00:39:49,440
Speaker 3: stupid game. So all of a sudden, it became like

928
00:39:49,719 --> 00:39:51,640
Speaker 3: you call me fake and you and it's like, why

929
00:39:51,680 --> 00:39:54,680
Speaker 3: we standing in this stupid you know, little back and

930
00:39:54,719 --> 00:39:57,359
Speaker 3: forth when like there's bigger issues to you know, deal with,

931
00:39:57,480 --> 00:39:59,920
Speaker 3: especially health, you know, Like so that was my whole perspective,

932
00:40:00,120 --> 00:40:02,000
Speaker 3: like why are we making this a bigger deal and

933
00:40:02,040 --> 00:40:04,600
Speaker 3: making it a whole storyline about that, you know. So

934
00:40:05,320 --> 00:40:07,520
Speaker 3: I just don't get it. But you know, have you

935
00:40:07,560 --> 00:40:08,120
Speaker 3: read nothing?

936
00:40:08,360 --> 00:40:10,880
Speaker 4: How much do you give your kids an allowance?

937
00:40:11,320 --> 00:40:11,440
Speaker 3: Oh?

938
00:40:11,440 --> 00:40:12,320
Speaker 5: They don't get allowance?

939
00:40:13,600 --> 00:40:15,319
Speaker 3: What do you want? What do you want? Okay?

940
00:40:15,600 --> 00:40:19,000
Speaker 5: Amazon? Okay, okay, it's coming tomorrow on Amazon Prime. That's it.

941
00:40:19,040 --> 00:40:22,480
Speaker 3: Like, but my kids are young, they are what? Oh no,

942
00:40:22,560 --> 00:40:24,200
Speaker 3: my kids are I have a sixteen year old and

943
00:40:26,560 --> 00:40:27,120
Speaker 3: is that wrong?

944
00:40:27,200 --> 00:40:28,800
Speaker 5: I don't give them an allowance.

945
00:40:29,400 --> 00:40:32,239
Speaker 3: My kids they play Christmas. We give them so much

946
00:40:32,239 --> 00:40:33,600
Speaker 3: gifts that like, they don't need it for the next

947
00:40:33,680 --> 00:40:34,120
Speaker 3: six months.

948
00:40:34,160 --> 00:40:34,759
Speaker 4: So I don't know.

949
00:40:34,920 --> 00:40:37,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, well, because we have the reunion we heard and

950
00:40:37,360 --> 00:40:39,280
Speaker 2: I have boys twenty five hundred dollars.

951
00:40:39,520 --> 00:40:41,440
Speaker 3: But it's a girl. So you know her hair, I mean,

952
00:40:41,480 --> 00:40:44,160
Speaker 3: have you seen how beautiful and thick? Yeah, Sophia's hair

953
00:40:44,200 --> 00:40:46,680
Speaker 3: is Sophia. And also she's a model and so she

954
00:40:46,800 --> 00:40:48,960
Speaker 3: needs upkeeping in many ways. And girls they get the

955
00:40:49,000 --> 00:40:51,839
Speaker 3: nails done that. I have boys and they're still young.

956
00:40:51,920 --> 00:40:54,920
Speaker 2: So my kids, I mean, all they wants is like

957
00:40:55,360 --> 00:40:59,960
Speaker 2: me to give him roadblocks and a roadbox or whatever, right,

958
00:41:00,400 --> 00:41:02,160
Speaker 2: roadbucks and like sports?

959
00:41:02,239 --> 00:41:03,800
Speaker 5: Right, sounds very simple.

960
00:41:03,880 --> 00:41:05,200
Speaker 3: But you know, if I had a girl, I think

961
00:41:05,239 --> 00:41:07,120
Speaker 3: that she would definitely want to be like mommy and

962
00:41:07,160 --> 00:41:09,399
Speaker 3: do all that stuff. So I can I can see it. Yeah,

963
00:41:09,400 --> 00:41:09,920
Speaker 3: I can see it.

964
00:41:10,239 --> 00:41:12,600
Speaker 2: And is there anything about watching the season back that

965
00:41:12,640 --> 00:41:13,720
Speaker 2: you change.

966
00:41:13,640 --> 00:41:14,520
Speaker 5: That I'll change.

967
00:41:17,960 --> 00:41:19,520
Speaker 3: I don't know if I'll change it. It's just that

968
00:41:19,600 --> 00:41:21,960
Speaker 3: I was misunderstood a lot of times when you know,

969
00:41:22,000 --> 00:41:23,839
Speaker 3: when you have cancer or something like that, Like when

970
00:41:23,880 --> 00:41:25,480
Speaker 3: I wanted to go to a luncheon with the girls

971
00:41:25,520 --> 00:41:27,279
Speaker 3: or whatever, do you think I want to lead my

972
00:41:27,840 --> 00:41:30,000
Speaker 3: entrance to be like I have to go and get

973
00:41:30,080 --> 00:41:33,040
Speaker 3: surgery tomorrow. Guys? What when? Like who wants to be

974
00:41:33,080 --> 00:41:35,000
Speaker 3: a Debbie Downer? So my whole goal was to be like,

975
00:41:35,360 --> 00:41:38,000
Speaker 3: let me normalize my life, let me put this aside,

976
00:41:38,120 --> 00:41:39,839
Speaker 3: let me have fun with my girls. And then when

977
00:41:39,840 --> 00:41:42,400
Speaker 3: the girls started talking bullshit and just kind of like

978
00:41:42,840 --> 00:41:45,680
Speaker 3: nippicky over the small stuff, it was like on three

979
00:41:45,760 --> 00:41:48,120
Speaker 3: two one three two one, guys, yeah, I gotta get

980
00:41:48,120 --> 00:41:49,640
Speaker 3: a surgery if I get tomorrow, and you guys are

981
00:41:49,640 --> 00:41:50,200
Speaker 3: talking about this.

982
00:41:50,400 --> 00:41:51,320
Speaker 5: So it was all about.

983
00:41:51,280 --> 00:41:53,799
Speaker 4: Almost like quit wasting my time with this pettition.

984
00:41:53,640 --> 00:41:56,279
Speaker 3: About my time, but just like appreciate what you have

985
00:41:56,400 --> 00:41:59,160
Speaker 3: appreciate your health. All this doesn't matter because you never

986
00:41:59,200 --> 00:42:01,759
Speaker 3: know what's gonna happen to moral. That's where that came from.

987
00:42:01,960 --> 00:42:05,040
Speaker 3: And for some and it's always Twitter people, not Instagram people, whatever.

988
00:42:05,080 --> 00:42:07,520
Speaker 3: It's always the people are like, you know, the cyberbullies,

989
00:42:07,520 --> 00:42:10,160
Speaker 3: and you weaponize the cancer.

990
00:42:10,000 --> 00:42:11,400
Speaker 5: Okay, like, of course not.

991
00:42:11,520 --> 00:42:14,080
Speaker 3: I'm just trying to normalize my life until I can't anymore,

992
00:42:14,160 --> 00:42:16,160
Speaker 3: until you push my buttons, until it's kind of like

993
00:42:16,200 --> 00:42:18,440
Speaker 3: I could have stayed home and dealt with my bullshit

994
00:42:18,560 --> 00:42:21,279
Speaker 3: with cancer, then dealing with this bullshit about you said

995
00:42:21,280 --> 00:42:23,800
Speaker 3: this and take it back and all that minute stuff,

996
00:42:23,840 --> 00:42:25,600
Speaker 3: you know what I mean. So that's where I always

997
00:42:25,640 --> 00:42:27,719
Speaker 3: came from. And that's where you see this outburst when

998
00:42:27,760 --> 00:42:30,640
Speaker 3: I'm pushing to a corner emotionally to like like be

999
00:42:30,800 --> 00:42:34,560
Speaker 3: like focus. That's bigger fish to fry. That was the

1000
00:42:34,600 --> 00:42:37,280
Speaker 3: goal the whole time. And that's where people are taking

1001
00:42:37,280 --> 00:42:39,400
Speaker 3: it out of context. Some people, not most people obviously

1002
00:42:39,440 --> 00:42:42,799
Speaker 3: understood because one in three again have cancer or will

1003
00:42:42,800 --> 00:42:47,640
Speaker 3: have cancer. So my support system, the fans, I just

1004
00:42:47,680 --> 00:42:51,480
Speaker 3: don't even have words for it. I get hundreds thousands

1005
00:42:51,680 --> 00:42:53,960
Speaker 3: a day, a week, a month, is unbelievable.

1006
00:42:54,080 --> 00:42:55,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, and I try.

1007
00:42:55,160 --> 00:42:56,719
Speaker 5: To answer, you know the best I can.

1008
00:42:56,800 --> 00:42:59,080
Speaker 2: You know, but you've changed a lot of people's lives,

1009
00:42:59,080 --> 00:43:02,560
Speaker 2: and you also just being authentic with the highs and

1010
00:43:02,600 --> 00:43:05,359
Speaker 2: lows of what you're going through when something is out

1011
00:43:05,400 --> 00:43:09,440
Speaker 2: of your control. I'm not even just saying cancer anything anything,

1012
00:43:10,080 --> 00:43:13,640
Speaker 2: whether it's illness or relationship wise.

1013
00:43:13,840 --> 00:43:15,000
Speaker 4: When things are out of your.

1014
00:43:14,880 --> 00:43:19,360
Speaker 2: Control, we sometimes act in a way that isn't our norm.

1015
00:43:19,520 --> 00:43:21,760
Speaker 3: And in this room alone, we have a few people

1016
00:43:21,800 --> 00:43:23,920
Speaker 3: producers and the two of us. You don't know what

1017
00:43:24,000 --> 00:43:26,600
Speaker 3: people are going through. So when you want to judge someone,

1018
00:43:26,760 --> 00:43:30,520
Speaker 3: take a beat and say, maybe something's off. Maybe let

1019
00:43:30,520 --> 00:43:33,560
Speaker 3: me let her say, give her safe space, safe space

1020
00:43:33,800 --> 00:43:34,520
Speaker 3: or what about.

1021
00:43:34,280 --> 00:43:36,760
Speaker 4: Even ask questions and then listen to the answer.

1022
00:43:37,280 --> 00:43:40,000
Speaker 3: That would be nice, But that's not how this word

1023
00:43:40,080 --> 00:43:42,879
Speaker 3: is a judgmental world, and they want to they want

1024
00:43:42,920 --> 00:43:45,000
Speaker 3: to fix it and ser bend it right away. What's

1025
00:43:45,000 --> 00:43:46,600
Speaker 3: wrong with you? While you with that face, Oh you

1026
00:43:46,640 --> 00:43:49,239
Speaker 3: think you better than It's like, whoa, I just went

1027
00:43:49,280 --> 00:43:51,399
Speaker 3: through this and that's why this is happening. And it's

1028
00:43:51,400 --> 00:43:53,680
Speaker 3: funny how people are saying I weaponized cancer when people

1029
00:43:54,120 --> 00:43:55,920
Speaker 3: for two three years have been you know, on the

1030
00:43:55,960 --> 00:43:59,400
Speaker 3: same journey whatever that is, and you know, we accept it,

1031
00:43:59,400 --> 00:44:02,080
Speaker 3: whether it's divorce, whether it's you know, anything. So like,

1032
00:44:02,600 --> 00:44:05,799
Speaker 3: everyone has their journey and let them live it out

1033
00:44:05,840 --> 00:44:07,719
Speaker 3: loud and let them heal from it the way they

1034
00:44:07,760 --> 00:44:08,799
Speaker 3: need to. That's it.

1035
00:44:08,880 --> 00:44:11,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, would they rather you not speak about it at all?

1036
00:44:11,239 --> 00:44:12,440
Speaker 4: And then it was.

1037
00:44:12,400 --> 00:44:14,640
Speaker 3: Literally one season, it's over. Do you think I want

1038
00:44:14,640 --> 00:44:18,400
Speaker 3: to talk about my cancer? No, I'm on onwards. Up, up, up, up,

1039
00:44:18,480 --> 00:44:20,560
Speaker 3: up is all I am all about. Next vibration.

1040
00:44:20,920 --> 00:44:23,320
Speaker 2: Well, we appreciate you so much for coming on, and guys,

1041
00:44:23,320 --> 00:44:25,759
Speaker 2: make sure you tune in tomorrow because we'll be recapping

1042
00:44:25,840 --> 00:44:29,080
Speaker 2: Real Housewives of Potomac and doing all of our Housewives headlines.

1043
00:44:29,160 --> 00:44:30,719
Speaker 4: Thank you, Gerty, love you, thank you,