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Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone.

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Speaker 2: It's the Fred Show.

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Speaker 3: Good morning, Christopher, good morning, Welcome to our show. We

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Speaker 3: call this waiting by the phone. Of course, let's hear

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Speaker 3: about Mila. How you met any days that you've been

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Speaker 3: on where things are now?

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Speaker 2: Well we met, now, I think pretty much everybody meets

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Speaker 2: these days. We met on tender well, you know, just.

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Speaker 3: Now hold on cinder. That's like that's a bang bang

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Speaker 3: app now, isn't it?

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Speaker 4: Like?

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Speaker 3: Cause I guess I thought there were like different you

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Speaker 3: know hinge I thought was the respectable one. I don't

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Speaker 3: know what you were after, but you guys met there.

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Speaker 3: Then what happened?

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Speaker 1: Well, so we met, We just you know, exchanged numbers,

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Speaker 1: sected for a hot second, and said, hey, you know

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Speaker 1: you want to meet in person. So we went to

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Speaker 1: those one of those those COVID friendly outdoor igloo things,

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Speaker 1: you know.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah exactly.

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Speaker 1: I mean it's cold outside, so I'm not going to

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Speaker 1: sit outdoors, but I can't sit indoor, so yeah. But yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean I thought everything was pretty normal, no red

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Speaker 1: flags on my part or on her parting. Everything went

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Speaker 1: pretty good. And so now you know, nastional ghost in

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Speaker 1: me and I'm pretty in.

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Speaker 2: The dark here.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Well that's where we come in. We're gonna call

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Speaker 3: her Miela. We'll see if we can get her on

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Speaker 3: the phone, ask some questions on your behalf. You'll be

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Speaker 3: on the phone too, and you can jump in at

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Speaker 3: any point, but give us a couple of seconds to

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Speaker 3: get some info for you. But hopefully we can straighten

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Speaker 3: all of this out, and if we can, we'll set

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Speaker 3: you guys up on another Incloo date and we'll pay

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Speaker 3: for it. Okay, can you hang on for a second.

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Speaker 3: Let's see what's going on? Part two Waiting at the

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Speaker 3: on demand and make us a pre set. Part two,

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Speaker 3: Waiting by the phone. Christopher, welcome back. Let's call Mila.

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Speaker 3: You met on Tinder. You guys texted for a little bit,

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Speaker 3: exchange numbers and then went out for drinks and you

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Speaker 3: thought everything went great. Many people often do. You're being

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Speaker 3: ghosted now you want us to figure out why and

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Speaker 3: let's do it right now. Good luck.

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Speaker 2: Thanks?

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Speaker 4: Hello?

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Speaker 3: Hi is this Mila? Yeah, Hey Meela, good morning. It's

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Speaker 3: Fred from the Fred's Show. The whole crew is here,

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Speaker 3: and I'm sorry to bother, but I do have to

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Speaker 3: tell you that we are on the radio right now.

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Speaker 3: I need your permission to continue with this call. Is

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Speaker 3: that okay?

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Speaker 4: Yes, yes, that's okay. Although I'm confused.

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Speaker 3: We appreciate that, and we can end the confusion right

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Speaker 3: now and get right to it. We're calling on behalf

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Speaker 3: of this guy named Christopher who reached out to us. Apparently,

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Speaker 3: you guys met on a dating app on Tinder and

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Speaker 3: went out for a date. Okay, I guess he was,

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Speaker 3: you know, feeling optimistic about the date after you guys

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Speaker 3: went out, Except he says that you're not responding to

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Speaker 3: any of his correspondences. He's trying to get you to

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Speaker 3: go out with him again. You're ghosting him, and so

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Speaker 3: he wanted us to figure.

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Speaker 4: Out why, and so he called a radio station.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yes, we called. Well, you know, we're more like

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Speaker 3: his friends. We're not going to be his friends until

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Speaker 3: we know what he did first. But what happened? Why

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Speaker 3: aren't you calling him?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? I mean Okay, I am. I have kind of

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Speaker 4: ghost of him, which isn't cool.

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Speaker 2: I shouldn't have done.

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Speaker 4: That, but it's just a workout. Well, I think we're

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Speaker 4: just on different pages.

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Speaker 3: And okay, you're being nice now and that's fine, But

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Speaker 3: that's like the PC answer. That's like, we still care

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Speaker 3: for each other deeply, but we're breaking up. Probably not

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Speaker 3: what actually happened that led you to not call him,

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Speaker 3: if you don't mind, I.

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Speaker 4: Just think he's gross. Boy, it's been so awkward. Okay,

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Speaker 4: we went out for some drinks safely, like I know,

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Speaker 4: things are whatever. Anyways, we went out for some drinks

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Speaker 4: and basically as soon as the drinks were served to

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Speaker 4: us out in public, he very graphically took out his

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Speaker 4: retainer while slurping and being so loud, left it on

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Speaker 4: the table for the rest.

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Speaker 2: Of the day. So what does he do.

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Speaker 3: He grabs onto this retainer and he like slurps in

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Speaker 3: any residual spit that collects on it, and then just

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Speaker 3: sets it on like a napkin or something.

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Speaker 4: Not a napkin, No, but yes, correct, you put it

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Speaker 4: right down on the little tape. Why did he not

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Speaker 4: have a case, Like if you're saying you did that too.

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Speaker 4: I'm no friends grossed out by you too, because.

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Speaker 2: Why don't you have a case because I forgot the case.

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Speaker 3: Sorry, that's Christopher. I forgot. I apologize. I forgot to mention.

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Speaker 3: I actually forgot that he was here. We're talking more

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Speaker 3: with you, so you forgot the case. There was no

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Speaker 3: subtle way to do it. I've seen people do it.

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Speaker 3: I had it in visit line too. I actually just

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Speaker 3: wouldn't wear them on dates. You know, I don't recommend it,

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Speaker 3: but but I've seen people and they're very discreened about it.

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Speaker 3: You know, they'll like take them out and kind of

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Speaker 3: like do the lean over things you don't really see,

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Speaker 3: and then they stick it in their bag. I've seen it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but I like you noticed then, like you forget

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Speaker 2: that you're wearing them. So I forgot that I was

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Speaker 2: wearing them, and I didn't want to be without them

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Speaker 2: for like, you know, four or five, six, seven, eight,

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Speaker 2: however many hours, you know what I mean. And I

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Speaker 2: was like, okay, so but I.

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Speaker 3: Never took him out to drink though. Take him out

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Speaker 3: to drink, yeah, I got I got like.

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Speaker 1: A fruit like in the top of the drink, and

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Speaker 1: I want to eat that we normalize retainers here.

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Speaker 2: Adults are getting a diss wine, not just.

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Speaker 3: For nost Yeah no, no, no, no one's making fun of you

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Speaker 3: for having a retainer. I do think there's a subtle

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Speaker 3: way to handle that, though. Probably wouldn't set it on

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Speaker 3: the table for a couple of reasons. One because I

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Speaker 3: don't think anybody wants to necessarily look at that. Too,

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Speaker 3: because I would probably forget it, like if it gets

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Speaker 3: wrapped a napkin or something like you yeah, right, he

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Speaker 3: seems to put it though he like, uh, anywhere about

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Speaker 3: the table. Yeah, I would agree with that anywhere. But

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Speaker 3: let's talk about why you're ghosting him for that reason,

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Speaker 3: Like you can't so the guy forgot his case. It's

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Speaker 3: a one time deal. You know, it sounds like that's

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Speaker 3: not his normal, you know, standard operating procedure. Would you

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Speaker 3: give him another shot? Mila?

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Speaker 4: First of all, you have no idea that's not his

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Speaker 4: standard operating procedure, Like he's just saying that we're on

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Speaker 4: the freaking radio, like for all I know he always

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Speaker 4: does that. Right. Also, it literally made me puke and

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Speaker 4: it was a one date, one time. I don't feel

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Speaker 4: like I have to be like giving him this in

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Speaker 4: depth novel about.

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Speaker 3: Why well that's another but I you know, we've had

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Speaker 3: that debate by the before, by the way, and I'm

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Speaker 3: so glad that some people need to have an answer

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Speaker 3: after one day, because that's that's sort of kept our

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Speaker 3: show afloat for a decade. But I also I kind

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Speaker 3: of agree with you that one date doesn't necessarily require,

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Speaker 3: you know, a Mia Kolpa, you know, or some sort

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Speaker 3: of narrative where I call you and tell you I'm

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Speaker 3: not going to call it one date, but I but

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Speaker 3: he wanted to know, and you told him, and you

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Speaker 3: will not give him another chance, though I will.

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Speaker 4: And I get like, it's super sweet you wanted to

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Speaker 4: call him find out, and I do at this point, See,

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Speaker 4: it should have been me just saying like, hey, it's

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Speaker 4: not gonna work out, and then you would have known.

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Speaker 4: I didn't even have to tell you. It's because it's

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Speaker 4: super disgusting with.

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Speaker 3: Your Christopher's only getting better. He's going to have really straight,

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Speaker 3: like like laser straight teeth here very very soon, and

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Speaker 3: you're going to miss out on that. On that mouth now, I.

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Speaker 4: Think it's a pant I'm well to do with Timbo.

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Speaker 3: Okay, there is a way to do it. But nonetheless,

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry Christopher and Miila. Thanks for your time and

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Speaker 3: I wish you both the best of luck. The Entertainment

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Speaker 3: his Kiki and the showdown. That money could be yours.

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