1 00:00:00,960 --> 00:00:02,960 Speaker 1: Hey, this is Buck Sexton and you're listening to the 2 00:00:03,040 --> 00:00:06,160 Speaker 1: Tutor Dixon Podcast, part of the Clay Travers and Buck 3 00:00:06,240 --> 00:00:11,600 Speaker 1: Sexton podcast Network. Welcome to the Tutor Dixon Podcast. I 4 00:00:11,640 --> 00:00:14,440 Speaker 1: am Tutor Dixon, and I'm glad you're joining me today. 5 00:00:14,720 --> 00:00:19,040 Speaker 1: I have an interesting episode for you today because today 6 00:00:19,079 --> 00:00:21,360 Speaker 1: in this podcast, we're actually going to go through a 7 00:00:21,440 --> 00:00:26,320 Speaker 1: pretty heavy topic that I think I know more about 8 00:00:26,360 --> 00:00:31,720 Speaker 1: than most people that have been in the political world 9 00:00:31,840 --> 00:00:34,319 Speaker 1: on the Republican side, I would say because I had 10 00:00:34,360 --> 00:00:38,760 Speaker 1: kind of a unique campaign, and that is because I 11 00:00:38,800 --> 00:00:42,680 Speaker 1: am one of the candidates that ran for office while 12 00:00:42,880 --> 00:00:45,559 Speaker 1: we were going through roeby Wade getting overturned. And so 13 00:00:45,640 --> 00:00:50,240 Speaker 1: today we'll be talking about abortion. Many of you probably 14 00:00:50,360 --> 00:00:54,000 Speaker 1: know that when people look back at the gubernatorial race 15 00:00:54,040 --> 00:00:57,240 Speaker 1: in Michigan, a lot of folks would say that abortion 16 00:00:57,480 --> 00:01:02,040 Speaker 1: was the deciding factor. And I think that to almost 17 00:01:02,400 --> 00:01:05,440 Speaker 1: certain extent that is the case. That's what pushed people 18 00:01:05,520 --> 00:01:07,360 Speaker 1: to the Democrat side. But I kind of want to 19 00:01:07,440 --> 00:01:12,040 Speaker 1: unpack exactly what happened in the movement and what I 20 00:01:12,080 --> 00:01:15,399 Speaker 1: see the answer is for Republicans going forward on the 21 00:01:15,480 --> 00:01:19,520 Speaker 1: discussion of abortion, because we learned a lot here in Michigan, 22 00:01:19,840 --> 00:01:22,319 Speaker 1: and I think that if you learn that much, you 23 00:01:22,440 --> 00:01:25,120 Speaker 1: certainly should share it. So let me go through a 24 00:01:25,160 --> 00:01:27,720 Speaker 1: little bit about how what it was like on my 25 00:01:27,880 --> 00:01:31,520 Speaker 1: side of the race, because in the primary, we're going 26 00:01:31,560 --> 00:01:35,880 Speaker 1: through and we're discussing where we stand on certain issues. 27 00:01:36,280 --> 00:01:40,520 Speaker 1: And of course you've all heard that I'm pro life, 28 00:01:40,560 --> 00:01:42,440 Speaker 1: and I have my reasons for that. But what you 29 00:01:42,520 --> 00:01:45,120 Speaker 1: might not know about me as a pro life person 30 00:01:45,200 --> 00:01:47,960 Speaker 1: is that I wasn't always a pro life person. I 31 00:01:48,040 --> 00:01:51,560 Speaker 1: grew up in a very liberal town, and I was 32 00:01:51,680 --> 00:01:54,560 Speaker 1: at a very liberal high school, and I like to 33 00:01:54,600 --> 00:01:58,360 Speaker 1: explain to people who don't understand folks on the pro 34 00:01:58,480 --> 00:02:01,160 Speaker 1: choice side. I like to explain what it was like 35 00:02:01,240 --> 00:02:03,480 Speaker 1: to grow up in the way that I grew up, 36 00:02:03,520 --> 00:02:06,160 Speaker 1: and that is that in my high school, we learned 37 00:02:06,320 --> 00:02:09,160 Speaker 1: about the woman's right to vote right next to the 38 00:02:09,200 --> 00:02:13,320 Speaker 1: woman's right to choose, and so people were taught, I mean, 39 00:02:13,360 --> 00:02:15,800 Speaker 1: as young women, we were taught like you're a part 40 00:02:15,800 --> 00:02:18,919 Speaker 1: of this club. These people worked really hard to make 41 00:02:18,960 --> 00:02:21,600 Speaker 1: it legal for you to vote, and make it legal 42 00:02:21,680 --> 00:02:23,800 Speaker 1: for you to make this choice about your health care. 43 00:02:24,040 --> 00:02:28,120 Speaker 1: It wasn't about killing a baby or getting rid of 44 00:02:28,120 --> 00:02:30,520 Speaker 1: a baby. It was about your healthcare. And it's a 45 00:02:30,600 --> 00:02:33,800 Speaker 1: very compelling case when you're a young woman and really 46 00:02:33,800 --> 00:02:36,399 Speaker 1: they're not explaining to you any of the details of that, 47 00:02:36,800 --> 00:02:40,040 Speaker 1: and there's a mindset of this is not really a 48 00:02:40,160 --> 00:02:43,040 Speaker 1: child until you give birth to the baby. And so 49 00:02:44,040 --> 00:02:47,320 Speaker 1: I really was manipulated by that for many years and 50 00:02:47,360 --> 00:02:51,760 Speaker 1: believed in that until I had my own miscarriage. I 51 00:02:51,760 --> 00:02:54,240 Speaker 1: would say not even you know, even going through my 52 00:02:54,320 --> 00:02:57,440 Speaker 1: first birth, I guess I hadn't really thought much about 53 00:02:58,400 --> 00:03:01,000 Speaker 1: that movement because it hadn't been something that had been 54 00:03:01,000 --> 00:03:02,960 Speaker 1: a part of my life. You know, I was busy working. 55 00:03:03,160 --> 00:03:05,120 Speaker 1: And I think this is something other people need to 56 00:03:05,200 --> 00:03:08,400 Speaker 1: recognize too. Not everybody as an activist on one side 57 00:03:08,480 --> 00:03:11,000 Speaker 1: or the other. Most people are just living their lives 58 00:03:11,120 --> 00:03:15,720 Speaker 1: and so they're getting fed information from campaigns and that's 59 00:03:16,000 --> 00:03:20,560 Speaker 1: very powerful. So for me, when I was thirty three, 60 00:03:21,120 --> 00:03:24,360 Speaker 1: I lost a baby. At eighteen weeks my baby, I 61 00:03:24,400 --> 00:03:27,080 Speaker 1: went in for my appointment and the doctor said the 62 00:03:27,120 --> 00:03:30,320 Speaker 1: baby's heartbeat wasn't beating anymore, and so she looked at 63 00:03:30,320 --> 00:03:32,120 Speaker 1: me and she said, we can go in right now 64 00:03:32,160 --> 00:03:35,080 Speaker 1: and we can do the surgery, and you know, we'll 65 00:03:35,160 --> 00:03:37,880 Speaker 1: just cut the baby out. But you won't. I mean, 66 00:03:38,240 --> 00:03:40,080 Speaker 1: it would really be cutting the baby up. You know, 67 00:03:40,120 --> 00:03:43,080 Speaker 1: you won't see the baby. It'll just be a surgical procedure. 68 00:03:43,280 --> 00:03:45,720 Speaker 1: You'll be in and out in a few hours. Or 69 00:03:46,240 --> 00:03:48,600 Speaker 1: you can go through labor, you can hold the baby, 70 00:03:48,640 --> 00:03:51,320 Speaker 1: we can see what happened to the baby. And you know, 71 00:03:51,480 --> 00:03:54,840 Speaker 1: at that time, I couldn't. I just found out that 72 00:03:54,880 --> 00:03:56,920 Speaker 1: I lost the baby, and I couldn't stand the thought 73 00:03:57,040 --> 00:03:59,560 Speaker 1: of cutting the baby up, and so I went into 74 00:03:59,560 --> 00:04:01,240 Speaker 1: the hospital. When I was in the hospital for three 75 00:04:01,320 --> 00:04:06,960 Speaker 1: days and went through labor, and actually went through labor, 76 00:04:07,080 --> 00:04:11,040 Speaker 1: held the baby, ended up having a complication after holding 77 00:04:11,040 --> 00:04:14,160 Speaker 1: the baby and going into surgery, and those are scary times. 78 00:04:14,240 --> 00:04:17,320 Speaker 1: But I think that holding a baby at eighteen weeks 79 00:04:17,680 --> 00:04:22,240 Speaker 1: was really it really tugged on my heart in a 80 00:04:22,279 --> 00:04:24,599 Speaker 1: new and different way than I had ever seen before. 81 00:04:24,960 --> 00:04:27,720 Speaker 1: But I'm also in the position of because of that, 82 00:04:28,200 --> 00:04:33,799 Speaker 1: because of not having understood that beforehand, I see how 83 00:04:34,279 --> 00:04:39,280 Speaker 1: the culture of society has changed the ideas of what 84 00:04:40,440 --> 00:04:44,440 Speaker 1: a pregnancy is and how people feel that this right 85 00:04:44,600 --> 00:04:48,200 Speaker 1: to choose is so important. So this was a really 86 00:04:48,240 --> 00:04:52,440 Speaker 1: hard thing for me during the campaign, because when you 87 00:04:52,520 --> 00:04:54,720 Speaker 1: talk about this in a campaign, you have all these 88 00:04:54,720 --> 00:04:56,359 Speaker 1: groups come to you, and they're like, we want you 89 00:04:56,440 --> 00:04:59,159 Speaker 1: to hear all of these sides, really the pro life sides. 90 00:04:59,360 --> 00:05:01,279 Speaker 1: So I had a lot of the pro life groups 91 00:05:01,279 --> 00:05:04,680 Speaker 1: come to me, and I heard so many incredible stories 92 00:05:05,200 --> 00:05:08,200 Speaker 1: and they're really hard stories to not carry along with 93 00:05:08,240 --> 00:05:11,160 Speaker 1: you the rest of your life. Of families that had 94 00:05:11,240 --> 00:05:13,560 Speaker 1: made the choice to keep their baby or to put 95 00:05:13,600 --> 00:05:16,760 Speaker 1: their baby up for adoption, and how this had changed 96 00:05:16,800 --> 00:05:20,960 Speaker 1: their whole world, and it was it helped them, it 97 00:05:21,040 --> 00:05:22,880 Speaker 1: was a good thing for them. You will hear all 98 00:05:22,920 --> 00:05:27,279 Speaker 1: of these positive stories. I was obviously on the conservative side, 99 00:05:27,320 --> 00:05:29,840 Speaker 1: so those are the stories that I'm hearing, and they 100 00:05:29,880 --> 00:05:32,320 Speaker 1: asked me to share those stories. And I was a 101 00:05:32,360 --> 00:05:35,680 Speaker 1: first time candidate, and I'm also again one of the 102 00:05:35,720 --> 00:05:39,640 Speaker 1: candidates that is running for the first time. And I 103 00:05:39,680 --> 00:05:43,080 Speaker 1: say this in all sincerity with no protection from Roe 104 00:05:43,160 --> 00:05:46,240 Speaker 1: v Wade. And I say no protection because I think 105 00:05:46,279 --> 00:05:50,680 Speaker 1: that every conservative running before twenty twenty two could say 106 00:05:50,720 --> 00:05:53,760 Speaker 1: they were pro life and not have the consequence of 107 00:05:53,960 --> 00:05:56,600 Speaker 1: Roe v. Wade being overturned. And that is just the 108 00:05:56,640 --> 00:05:59,120 Speaker 1: hard and brutal truth. And I will get a lot 109 00:05:59,120 --> 00:06:02,839 Speaker 1: of criticism for them, but people need to understand that 110 00:06:02,920 --> 00:06:06,200 Speaker 1: we for the first time realized that that was a 111 00:06:06,320 --> 00:06:10,120 Speaker 1: small battle in a very long war. And I want 112 00:06:10,160 --> 00:06:13,480 Speaker 1: you to think about this from the standpoint of fifty years. 113 00:06:13,920 --> 00:06:17,240 Speaker 1: For fifty years, women have said this is a right. 114 00:06:17,520 --> 00:06:20,040 Speaker 1: And then I think that a lot of people in 115 00:06:20,080 --> 00:06:23,520 Speaker 1: the Life movement felt that this was winning the war. 116 00:06:23,839 --> 00:06:25,960 Speaker 1: Going in there in Roe v. Wade getting overturned, that 117 00:06:26,080 --> 00:06:28,120 Speaker 1: was winning the war. It was over. There was going 118 00:06:28,200 --> 00:06:31,360 Speaker 1: to be no more abortion. But it was just a 119 00:06:31,640 --> 00:06:35,840 Speaker 1: tiny battle in the ongoing war for life. And the 120 00:06:35,880 --> 00:06:40,160 Speaker 1: war is not a war that should be happening on 121 00:06:40,320 --> 00:06:43,719 Speaker 1: just the political side. This is something that we have 122 00:06:43,920 --> 00:06:47,080 Speaker 1: lost the hearts of the people on I know I 123 00:06:47,240 --> 00:06:50,159 Speaker 1: was one of them. I totally get it, and I 124 00:06:50,200 --> 00:06:54,279 Speaker 1: think that there are so many women out there who go, yeah, 125 00:06:54,800 --> 00:06:57,320 Speaker 1: that's how I feel too. I think that because I 126 00:06:57,440 --> 00:07:00,440 Speaker 1: traveled around the entire state of Michigan and I had 127 00:07:00,480 --> 00:07:03,880 Speaker 1: strong Christian women come to me and say, you cannot 128 00:07:04,560 --> 00:07:10,640 Speaker 1: have this stance on abortion. That was really tough because 129 00:07:10,960 --> 00:07:14,760 Speaker 1: every time I would say something on the radio or 130 00:07:14,880 --> 00:07:18,760 Speaker 1: talk on a television interview and it wasn't exactly what 131 00:07:19,120 --> 00:07:21,760 Speaker 1: folks in the Life movement wanted. I would get a call, 132 00:07:22,760 --> 00:07:25,680 Speaker 1: make amends, go back, go back and tell them you 133 00:07:25,720 --> 00:07:30,520 Speaker 1: were wrong. And it was really damaging to a campaign. 134 00:07:30,840 --> 00:07:35,520 Speaker 1: But I felt that I was endorsed by these groups. 135 00:07:36,080 --> 00:07:41,000 Speaker 1: I didn't want to go against that loyalty. But I also, 136 00:07:41,080 --> 00:07:43,840 Speaker 1: I mean, I am a strong pro life person, but 137 00:07:43,920 --> 00:07:46,640 Speaker 1: I know that the country is in a different place, 138 00:07:46,680 --> 00:07:49,920 Speaker 1: and so we were asking people to go against what 139 00:07:50,440 --> 00:07:54,080 Speaker 1: their heart says. What I realized in this is something 140 00:07:54,600 --> 00:07:58,880 Speaker 1: that has been really challenging for I think all pro 141 00:07:58,960 --> 00:08:02,680 Speaker 1: life people, and that is that we are not celebrating 142 00:08:02,800 --> 00:08:07,520 Speaker 1: our wins. We have so many wins in this if 143 00:08:07,560 --> 00:08:10,320 Speaker 1: you talk about the young woman who comes to the 144 00:08:10,360 --> 00:08:14,040 Speaker 1: pregnancy center and decides that she's going to raise her 145 00:08:14,080 --> 00:08:17,559 Speaker 1: baby or give her baby up for adoption. But also, look, 146 00:08:17,600 --> 00:08:22,160 Speaker 1: the majority of the western world is at ten to 147 00:08:22,200 --> 00:08:26,440 Speaker 1: twelve weeks. This is something that I remember halfway through, 148 00:08:26,480 --> 00:08:28,640 Speaker 1: and in Michigan is kind of unique because we had 149 00:08:28,680 --> 00:08:30,840 Speaker 1: it on the ballot, and so I think people felt 150 00:08:30,840 --> 00:08:32,640 Speaker 1: that when I said, look, if you want to vote 151 00:08:32,640 --> 00:08:34,400 Speaker 1: for this, it's on the ballot, that I was also 152 00:08:34,480 --> 00:08:37,840 Speaker 1: betraying the pro life movement. But I also saw what 153 00:08:38,040 --> 00:08:40,959 Speaker 1: was happening on the ground, and I knew that people's 154 00:08:41,000 --> 00:08:44,440 Speaker 1: hearts were not where the pro life movement thought that 155 00:08:44,480 --> 00:08:49,760 Speaker 1: they were going to be. So we started talking about 156 00:08:50,600 --> 00:08:54,080 Speaker 1: what that meant with some of my folks that were 157 00:08:54,080 --> 00:08:56,800 Speaker 1: really very pro life, and I said, I really think 158 00:08:56,880 --> 00:08:59,319 Speaker 1: that there's a chance in the state of Michigan, based 159 00:08:59,320 --> 00:09:01,880 Speaker 1: on just going around to talking to people, that you 160 00:09:01,960 --> 00:09:05,559 Speaker 1: are going to go from protecting some life to protecting 161 00:09:05,640 --> 00:09:08,520 Speaker 1: no life. And they wouldn't see. They just said no, 162 00:09:08,640 --> 00:09:11,240 Speaker 1: our polling doesn't show that. This is also what you 163 00:09:11,240 --> 00:09:13,360 Speaker 1: should know about polling. It's not always going to show 164 00:09:13,400 --> 00:09:15,280 Speaker 1: you what you're really seeing. You have to be out 165 00:09:15,280 --> 00:09:18,440 Speaker 1: there hearing from people. The polling didn't show that. But 166 00:09:18,559 --> 00:09:20,839 Speaker 1: I was talking to people and I was seeing that. 167 00:09:21,840 --> 00:09:24,520 Speaker 1: I said to them, don't you think that there is 168 00:09:24,559 --> 00:09:26,880 Speaker 1: a chance that if you go to twelve weeks you 169 00:09:27,000 --> 00:09:30,840 Speaker 1: can see this as a big win. And I think 170 00:09:30,880 --> 00:09:34,160 Speaker 1: this is where the life movement needs to start thinking 171 00:09:34,200 --> 00:09:38,720 Speaker 1: about things, because the legislative path is a tiny path 172 00:09:39,040 --> 00:09:43,280 Speaker 1: in winning over the hearts of people for family, and 173 00:09:43,360 --> 00:09:47,000 Speaker 1: it has to come from many different angles. So if 174 00:09:47,040 --> 00:09:52,680 Speaker 1: I were to tell someone today, Michigan before twenty twenty 175 00:09:52,720 --> 00:09:55,560 Speaker 1: two was a Roe v. Wade state, So it was 176 00:09:55,720 --> 00:09:59,480 Speaker 1: twenty four to twenty six weeks for abortion. We could 177 00:09:59,480 --> 00:10:02,160 Speaker 1: have gone to twelve weeks. I guarantee you it would 178 00:10:02,200 --> 00:10:05,080 Speaker 1: have passed. We would have cut that in half, and 179 00:10:05,120 --> 00:10:08,120 Speaker 1: we could have celebrated that as a huge win for 180 00:10:08,160 --> 00:10:11,680 Speaker 1: the life movement. Look, you went from twenty four to 181 00:10:11,840 --> 00:10:15,280 Speaker 1: twelve weeks. That is a huge win for the life movement. 182 00:10:15,760 --> 00:10:19,760 Speaker 1: And that's just the law. There are so many things 183 00:10:19,760 --> 00:10:22,880 Speaker 1: that you can do to impact hearts and minds outside 184 00:10:22,920 --> 00:10:27,080 Speaker 1: of the law, but that wasn't acceptable at that time. 185 00:10:27,520 --> 00:10:29,760 Speaker 1: And now because of that, we have abortion up to 186 00:10:29,800 --> 00:10:32,560 Speaker 1: the moment of birth. So I am calling on the 187 00:10:32,600 --> 00:10:36,719 Speaker 1: people in the life movement to see that there are 188 00:10:37,080 --> 00:10:41,360 Speaker 1: wins along the way, because we cannot live in a 189 00:10:41,440 --> 00:10:44,439 Speaker 1: world of absolutes. And that's something that we should take 190 00:10:44,440 --> 00:10:48,960 Speaker 1: away from twenty two. In general, absolutes will never win races. 191 00:10:49,880 --> 00:10:52,760 Speaker 1: We are in a situation where we have the sides 192 00:10:53,280 --> 00:10:57,720 Speaker 1: so far apart when you really were not that far apart. 193 00:10:58,160 --> 00:11:01,960 Speaker 1: But absolutes will kill a relationship every time look at it. 194 00:11:02,040 --> 00:11:04,920 Speaker 1: I tell this story of a friend of mine who 195 00:11:04,960 --> 00:11:08,600 Speaker 1: got divorced, and I said to her, what happened? What 196 00:11:08,640 --> 00:11:11,800 Speaker 1: do you think it was that ended the relationship. And 197 00:11:11,840 --> 00:11:15,160 Speaker 1: it was funny because she's going, well, he always does this, 198 00:11:15,320 --> 00:11:17,680 Speaker 1: and he always does that, and he never does this, 199 00:11:17,800 --> 00:11:20,199 Speaker 1: and he never does that, and he thinks I always 200 00:11:20,240 --> 00:11:25,280 Speaker 1: do this always in Nevers always, and Nevers took two 201 00:11:25,360 --> 00:11:29,400 Speaker 1: people broke them apart because they lived in the absolutes, 202 00:11:29,640 --> 00:11:35,040 Speaker 1: the either sides. And so many times, our legislators, our 203 00:11:35,080 --> 00:11:39,679 Speaker 1: elected officials, our candidates are controlled by those absolutes because 204 00:11:39,720 --> 00:11:42,240 Speaker 1: you have these outside movements that come in and say no, 205 00:11:42,440 --> 00:11:45,920 Speaker 1: you have to live right here in this space. But 206 00:11:46,040 --> 00:11:50,360 Speaker 1: then I can't meet people, I can't change their hearts, 207 00:11:50,800 --> 00:11:54,360 Speaker 1: I can't help them succeed in life if I live 208 00:11:54,400 --> 00:11:58,200 Speaker 1: in the absolutes. So why are we not saying that 209 00:11:58,280 --> 00:12:02,280 Speaker 1: there's an opportunity to come together outside of that? And 210 00:12:02,320 --> 00:12:06,760 Speaker 1: I can tell you that like biblically, because so many 211 00:12:06,800 --> 00:12:09,280 Speaker 1: times I've had people that are in this position that 212 00:12:09,320 --> 00:12:11,040 Speaker 1: have said, you know, I had this movement come to 213 00:12:11,080 --> 00:12:13,040 Speaker 1: me and they said, you're not a good Christian. You're 214 00:12:13,080 --> 00:12:16,080 Speaker 1: not a good Christian. It's funny because we decided to 215 00:12:16,120 --> 00:12:19,040 Speaker 1: do this podcast and last night I got a letter 216 00:12:19,080 --> 00:12:21,199 Speaker 1: from a woman. After I talked to a pro life group, 217 00:12:21,640 --> 00:12:24,959 Speaker 1: I got a letter from a woman that was very encouraging. 218 00:12:25,520 --> 00:12:28,640 Speaker 1: And then I got a letter from someone else this 219 00:12:28,760 --> 00:12:31,440 Speaker 1: morning who was telling me, have you noticed that you 220 00:12:31,480 --> 00:12:34,719 Speaker 1: haven't been invited to certain life events? That's because you 221 00:12:34,880 --> 00:12:38,680 Speaker 1: let us down. That's because you ended up hurting our movement. 222 00:12:38,920 --> 00:12:42,200 Speaker 1: We worked for thirty years on this and in three 223 00:12:42,280 --> 00:12:45,640 Speaker 1: months you destroyed it. Let's take a quick commercial break. 224 00:12:45,679 --> 00:12:52,319 Speaker 1: We'll continue next on the Tutor Dixon Podcast. So I 225 00:12:52,400 --> 00:12:55,679 Speaker 1: would argue that it doesn't come down to one politician, 226 00:12:56,120 --> 00:13:00,079 Speaker 1: one candidate, one elected official that can tear down an 227 00:13:00,200 --> 00:13:03,760 Speaker 1: entire movement. I would say, what biblically are we being 228 00:13:03,800 --> 00:13:07,800 Speaker 1: told here? What are we missing? Because God didn't just 229 00:13:08,000 --> 00:13:10,240 Speaker 1: let this happen because he said, gosh, you know these 230 00:13:10,960 --> 00:13:13,920 Speaker 1: people running for office, they just don't get it. But 231 00:13:14,000 --> 00:13:16,040 Speaker 1: I think God would tell us that you can't live 232 00:13:16,120 --> 00:13:18,880 Speaker 1: in the absolute, because Jesus didn't live in the absolute, 233 00:13:18,880 --> 00:13:21,840 Speaker 1: and he gave us so many stories of this. He 234 00:13:21,880 --> 00:13:24,240 Speaker 1: gave us so many stories like I mean, even if 235 00:13:24,240 --> 00:13:28,079 Speaker 1: we start with Abraham and Abraham was told by God 236 00:13:28,120 --> 00:13:32,640 Speaker 1: that you will have a child, and He's like, yeah, 237 00:13:33,320 --> 00:13:36,360 Speaker 1: I can't because I'm too old. Sarah is too old. 238 00:13:36,640 --> 00:13:41,120 Speaker 1: The absolute, we are too old but God, you're telling 239 00:13:41,160 --> 00:13:43,200 Speaker 1: me this, so there must be another way that I'm 240 00:13:43,240 --> 00:13:45,040 Speaker 1: supposed to figure that out on my own. I can't 241 00:13:45,080 --> 00:13:48,720 Speaker 1: trust you on this because you think I can do 242 00:13:48,840 --> 00:13:50,920 Speaker 1: this at this age. I'm going to have to do 243 00:13:50,960 --> 00:13:54,199 Speaker 1: it my way. And so he goes out and we 244 00:13:54,240 --> 00:13:57,200 Speaker 1: have Ishmael and God says, that wasn't my plan. I 245 00:13:57,240 --> 00:13:59,760 Speaker 1: told you my plan. You lived in the absolute. Come 246 00:13:59,800 --> 00:14:02,120 Speaker 1: back to the center. There's a way to do it. 247 00:14:02,720 --> 00:14:07,480 Speaker 1: We can talk about Jacob who believed that he had 248 00:14:07,520 --> 00:14:10,880 Speaker 1: to get the blessing and trick his father into giving 249 00:14:10,960 --> 00:14:13,560 Speaker 1: him the blessing because that was the absolute. I have 250 00:14:13,640 --> 00:14:16,280 Speaker 1: to have the blessing, so I will do it my way. 251 00:14:16,559 --> 00:14:21,080 Speaker 1: And so often we are so closed to the fact 252 00:14:21,120 --> 00:14:23,640 Speaker 1: that we can come together that there is another way. 253 00:14:23,760 --> 00:14:26,480 Speaker 1: This malicious obedience to the law. I mean, that was 254 00:14:26,520 --> 00:14:29,760 Speaker 1: the Pharisees, right, If we're really being honest about this, 255 00:14:30,200 --> 00:14:33,160 Speaker 1: the Pharisees were walking around with Scripture on their arm, 256 00:14:33,280 --> 00:14:35,840 Speaker 1: pulling it open and saying no, no, no, according to 257 00:14:35,880 --> 00:14:39,680 Speaker 1: the law, you're wrong. I'm right, you are not right. 258 00:14:40,000 --> 00:14:43,400 Speaker 1: I'm better than you because I know the law. That's 259 00:14:43,440 --> 00:14:48,080 Speaker 1: what people are seeing right now when conservatives or these 260 00:14:48,120 --> 00:14:50,320 Speaker 1: some of these folks in the Life movement come out 261 00:14:50,320 --> 00:14:56,040 Speaker 1: and say you are totally wrong. They see the Pharisees 262 00:14:56,560 --> 00:14:59,360 Speaker 1: and they step away because they're like, why can never 263 00:14:59,400 --> 00:15:02,760 Speaker 1: be that good? That is us losing. So I'll go 264 00:15:02,960 --> 00:15:08,120 Speaker 1: to one more example, and that is Naomi. Naomi and Ruth. 265 00:15:09,080 --> 00:15:12,600 Speaker 1: In the Bible, Naomi loses her sons and her husband, 266 00:15:12,600 --> 00:15:15,480 Speaker 1: and she tells her daughter in laws leave you don't 267 00:15:15,480 --> 00:15:18,360 Speaker 1: want to be around me, call me Mara. I'm bitter, 268 00:15:18,760 --> 00:15:21,920 Speaker 1: I change my name. I'm never going to be happy again. 269 00:15:22,560 --> 00:15:26,360 Speaker 1: It is an absolute. I've lost my family. I am 270 00:15:26,800 --> 00:15:30,120 Speaker 1: not going to get through this. I am absolutely going 271 00:15:30,160 --> 00:15:32,400 Speaker 1: to be this way the rest of my life. You 272 00:15:32,400 --> 00:15:33,800 Speaker 1: know what, I got to say, there's a lot of 273 00:15:33,840 --> 00:15:36,240 Speaker 1: women out there that would choose the path of the 274 00:15:36,280 --> 00:15:37,920 Speaker 1: other daughter in law and be like, yeah, I'm out. 275 00:15:38,000 --> 00:15:40,480 Speaker 1: I'm really not going to hang out with my better 276 00:15:40,600 --> 00:15:42,520 Speaker 1: mother in law the rest of my life. Don't have 277 00:15:42,560 --> 00:15:44,760 Speaker 1: a lot of opportunities here because that's just how it 278 00:15:44,880 --> 00:15:47,600 Speaker 1: was back then. I'm going to leave. But Ruth was like, 279 00:15:47,800 --> 00:15:51,720 Speaker 1: stop living in the absolute. I'm not calling you Mara. 280 00:15:51,880 --> 00:15:53,840 Speaker 1: You're going to be Naomi. I'm going to take care 281 00:15:53,880 --> 00:15:57,000 Speaker 1: of you and ultimately look at the beautyful, beautiful story 282 00:15:57,000 --> 00:16:01,040 Speaker 1: that came from that. Ruth goes out, she's she's picking 283 00:16:01,160 --> 00:16:05,160 Speaker 1: up the wheat. Bo Az notices her. Naomi goes on 284 00:16:05,280 --> 00:16:07,960 Speaker 1: to become a grandmother, to have a wonderful life, to 285 00:16:08,120 --> 00:16:13,400 Speaker 1: live in a family that was wealthy and safe. And 286 00:16:13,440 --> 00:16:17,600 Speaker 1: it was because Ruth didn't say, this is the way 287 00:16:17,680 --> 00:16:20,920 Speaker 1: life is, and I no longer can be with you. 288 00:16:21,440 --> 00:16:24,320 Speaker 1: We have got to get away from these absolutes and 289 00:16:24,360 --> 00:16:27,200 Speaker 1: say there is a way to come together. And I 290 00:16:27,240 --> 00:16:29,240 Speaker 1: know there are people in the Life movement right now 291 00:16:29,280 --> 00:16:33,880 Speaker 1: saying you're saying that you're willing to let babies die. 292 00:16:35,080 --> 00:16:38,440 Speaker 1: I'm telling you, the hearts of people have been hardened 293 00:16:38,440 --> 00:16:42,760 Speaker 1: against your message. You need to take a step back 294 00:16:42,960 --> 00:16:46,760 Speaker 1: and say, what have we done wrong with this message? 295 00:16:46,800 --> 00:16:49,600 Speaker 1: And is this message just something that we want candidates 296 00:16:49,640 --> 00:16:53,040 Speaker 1: to talk about every two years, or is this something 297 00:16:53,440 --> 00:16:56,040 Speaker 1: that we want to be pushing legislation for when it 298 00:16:56,080 --> 00:17:00,800 Speaker 1: comes to adoption, when it comes to childcare, making it 299 00:17:00,840 --> 00:17:05,280 Speaker 1: easier for single moms. There are so many ways to 300 00:17:06,040 --> 00:17:09,280 Speaker 1: have those small wins. I could take Michigan from thirty 301 00:17:09,320 --> 00:17:14,560 Speaker 1: thousand abortions to twenty five to twenty with legislation. That 302 00:17:14,760 --> 00:17:17,720 Speaker 1: isn't saying this is where we stand on abortion with 303 00:17:17,840 --> 00:17:20,920 Speaker 1: legislation that is saying, this is why family is so wonderful. 304 00:17:21,560 --> 00:17:24,600 Speaker 1: A few years back, my husband and I went to 305 00:17:24,640 --> 00:17:27,800 Speaker 1: a Bible study and it was on parenting, and at 306 00:17:27,800 --> 00:17:30,120 Speaker 1: the beginning of the Bible study we learned a lot 307 00:17:30,160 --> 00:17:33,600 Speaker 1: about words of life and words of death, something I'd 308 00:17:33,640 --> 00:17:36,959 Speaker 1: never heard about before. But if you think about it, 309 00:17:36,960 --> 00:17:40,440 Speaker 1: it's interesting because if my child brings me a picture 310 00:17:40,640 --> 00:17:44,080 Speaker 1: of an elephant and I look down and I'm like, oh, 311 00:17:44,480 --> 00:17:47,320 Speaker 1: is that an ocean, and they go, no, it's an elephant, 312 00:17:47,359 --> 00:17:49,960 Speaker 1: And I say, oh, you didn't do a very good 313 00:17:50,040 --> 00:17:53,719 Speaker 1: job actually making the trunk look like an elephant. What 314 00:17:53,800 --> 00:17:57,040 Speaker 1: if I were instead to use words with my young 315 00:17:57,240 --> 00:18:00,200 Speaker 1: three year old child that is drawn an elephant, saying oh, well, 316 00:18:00,720 --> 00:18:03,920 Speaker 1: that's exciting, I can see it. I want to help 317 00:18:03,960 --> 00:18:06,119 Speaker 1: you draw more, I want to help you get better 318 00:18:06,160 --> 00:18:10,560 Speaker 1: at this. Let's keep doing this. We are on the 319 00:18:10,600 --> 00:18:14,720 Speaker 1: conservative side too often speaking words of death. I asked 320 00:18:14,720 --> 00:18:18,600 Speaker 1: a young woman the other day, if you were to 321 00:18:18,680 --> 00:18:22,359 Speaker 1: listen to the conservative movement, would you want to have kids? 322 00:18:23,160 --> 00:18:25,520 Speaker 1: And she was like, oh, that's funny. No, I mean, 323 00:18:25,760 --> 00:18:27,359 Speaker 1: even my friends are like, I don't even want to 324 00:18:27,359 --> 00:18:31,320 Speaker 1: bring kids into this world. And I thought, wow, that's awful, 325 00:18:31,880 --> 00:18:35,119 Speaker 1: because if that's what we're doing, If this conversation that 326 00:18:35,160 --> 00:18:39,040 Speaker 1: we're having about schools and how hard it is to 327 00:18:39,080 --> 00:18:42,560 Speaker 1: be a parent and the cost of things and abortion 328 00:18:43,240 --> 00:18:46,639 Speaker 1: is all driving people away from family, then we have 329 00:18:46,720 --> 00:18:49,960 Speaker 1: been speaking words of death instead of words of life. 330 00:18:50,119 --> 00:18:52,679 Speaker 1: And so when you have people saying, boy, the conservative 331 00:18:52,720 --> 00:18:55,160 Speaker 1: movement is lost on the pro life message, I would 332 00:18:55,200 --> 00:18:59,000 Speaker 1: agree we were very lost because we weren't expecting it. 333 00:18:59,400 --> 00:19:02,959 Speaker 1: Fighting for fifty years but not expecting one battle to 334 00:19:03,000 --> 00:19:06,120 Speaker 1: be won, expecting it to be the war. So when 335 00:19:06,119 --> 00:19:08,800 Speaker 1: it wasn't the war that was over, there was no 336 00:19:08,920 --> 00:19:13,160 Speaker 1: idea of what to do to continue on with more battles. 337 00:19:14,200 --> 00:19:18,040 Speaker 1: I would say that we have this situation in so 338 00:19:18,240 --> 00:19:23,320 Speaker 1: many different areas of politics. This is the time for 339 00:19:23,440 --> 00:19:26,520 Speaker 1: us to start using words of life, so to start 340 00:19:26,560 --> 00:19:28,960 Speaker 1: coming around people, meeting people where they are. The Democrats 341 00:19:29,000 --> 00:19:31,639 Speaker 1: are great at this. I mean the Democrats were great 342 00:19:31,720 --> 00:19:36,040 Speaker 1: at this with the abortion stuff. Look in Michigan, they 343 00:19:36,160 --> 00:19:39,200 Speaker 1: spliced together things that I said. There was a time 344 00:19:39,240 --> 00:19:43,320 Speaker 1: when I was asked about our proposal, which passed, which 345 00:19:43,760 --> 00:19:46,639 Speaker 1: allows abortion up to the moment of birth. It also 346 00:19:46,880 --> 00:19:50,200 Speaker 1: allows somebody to take you to an abortion clinic without 347 00:19:50,240 --> 00:19:53,680 Speaker 1: your parents knowing. It allows for a gender transition without 348 00:19:53,680 --> 00:19:59,040 Speaker 1: your parents knowing. It's almost it's almost a I mean, 349 00:19:59,080 --> 00:20:01,600 Speaker 1: what it is is really a protection for sex trafficking. 350 00:20:01,720 --> 00:20:04,320 Speaker 1: And Michigan has a sex trafficking problem. And so when 351 00:20:04,400 --> 00:20:06,199 Speaker 1: asked about this, well, how do you feel about this? 352 00:20:06,240 --> 00:20:08,440 Speaker 1: Are you really pro life? I said, when I look 353 00:20:08,440 --> 00:20:11,720 Speaker 1: at Prop three, I think Prop three is the perfect example. 354 00:20:12,160 --> 00:20:15,600 Speaker 1: And for those of you in Michigan you've heard this statement, 355 00:20:15,760 --> 00:20:19,280 Speaker 1: I know you have the perfect example. Because they spliced 356 00:20:19,320 --> 00:20:23,120 Speaker 1: it and they went they took away what I said next. 357 00:20:23,119 --> 00:20:26,200 Speaker 1: So what I said was, this is the perfect example 358 00:20:26,359 --> 00:20:29,960 Speaker 1: of why we need parental consent so abusers can't take 359 00:20:30,040 --> 00:20:33,720 Speaker 1: women to clinics over and over and over again. But 360 00:20:33,800 --> 00:20:36,080 Speaker 1: they spiced that with a point where I said, a 361 00:20:36,160 --> 00:20:40,240 Speaker 1: life is a life, and they manipulated people's minds. They 362 00:20:40,240 --> 00:20:43,320 Speaker 1: went straight to them and they made them believe that. 363 00:20:43,880 --> 00:20:46,720 Speaker 1: I think they actually created a new term for me, 364 00:20:47,880 --> 00:20:50,640 Speaker 1: something that I'd never heard before. They called me a 365 00:20:50,680 --> 00:20:54,679 Speaker 1: forced birther. She is going to force people to give birth. 366 00:20:55,600 --> 00:20:58,399 Speaker 1: I mean think about that. When you are on the 367 00:20:58,440 --> 00:21:01,320 Speaker 1: pro life side, how do you get people to come 368 00:21:01,440 --> 00:21:04,439 Speaker 1: and talk to you if you are now a forced brother? 369 00:21:04,640 --> 00:21:09,000 Speaker 1: Those scared young women and I know this because one 370 00:21:09,080 --> 00:21:12,240 Speaker 1: of my dear friends was that scared young woman at 371 00:21:12,280 --> 00:21:16,119 Speaker 1: sixteen and had a boyfriend that drove her out of 372 00:21:16,160 --> 00:21:19,040 Speaker 1: state so that she could quietly have an abortion and 373 00:21:19,119 --> 00:21:23,720 Speaker 1: no one would know that exists. Those people are out there. 374 00:21:23,880 --> 00:21:26,639 Speaker 1: Those women need to be loved. They don't need to 375 00:21:26,680 --> 00:21:29,440 Speaker 1: be told that they're wrong. They don't need someone pulling 376 00:21:29,440 --> 00:21:32,359 Speaker 1: out the scroll from their sleeve and saying I know 377 00:21:32,520 --> 00:21:35,880 Speaker 1: the law better than you. I know that you screwed up. 378 00:21:36,400 --> 00:21:39,240 Speaker 1: They need to be loved and told there are options. 379 00:21:39,280 --> 00:21:42,480 Speaker 1: They need words of life, not words of death. That's 380 00:21:42,480 --> 00:21:46,399 Speaker 1: our opportunity here is to start talking to people and 381 00:21:46,520 --> 00:21:52,520 Speaker 1: winning over families outside of election time. I had a 382 00:21:52,560 --> 00:21:56,479 Speaker 1: woman I told you, I had the message this morning 383 00:21:56,600 --> 00:21:59,600 Speaker 1: from someone who was saying, have you noticed you haven't 384 00:21:59,600 --> 00:22:03,040 Speaker 1: been invited to life events? That's because you let us down. 385 00:22:03,440 --> 00:22:06,399 Speaker 1: People are blaming you all across the state because you 386 00:22:06,480 --> 00:22:09,159 Speaker 1: let us down. And I'm like, that's so funny, because 387 00:22:09,240 --> 00:22:12,280 Speaker 1: I feel like I walked into this with no cover 388 00:22:12,440 --> 00:22:15,399 Speaker 1: it's like you're walking it. You are in the battle. 389 00:22:15,400 --> 00:22:18,199 Speaker 1: You are on the battlefield alone. And I was on 390 00:22:18,200 --> 00:22:21,360 Speaker 1: the battlefield alone because nobody this was new territory. This 391 00:22:21,440 --> 00:22:25,080 Speaker 1: is astronaut stuff. Nobody has seen a post Roe v. 392 00:22:25,160 --> 00:22:28,240 Speaker 1: Wade world. Right, So I go out there with no cover. 393 00:22:29,119 --> 00:22:31,720 Speaker 1: But I spoke last weekend to these women, and I 394 00:22:31,800 --> 00:22:35,879 Speaker 1: told this story of we cannot live in the absolutes. 395 00:22:36,440 --> 00:22:39,679 Speaker 1: We have to realize that there is a way to 396 00:22:39,840 --> 00:22:43,280 Speaker 1: talk about this that brings family back. That we can 397 00:22:43,400 --> 00:22:47,399 Speaker 1: celebrate a twelve week win. We can we can celebrate 398 00:22:47,440 --> 00:22:49,600 Speaker 1: that as a win because for fifty years we've been 399 00:22:49,600 --> 00:22:51,520 Speaker 1: at twenty four to twenty six weeks. And if you 400 00:22:51,560 --> 00:22:54,439 Speaker 1: cannot say you are glad to cut that in half, 401 00:22:54,800 --> 00:22:57,199 Speaker 1: then where are we If you have to live in 402 00:22:57,240 --> 00:23:02,119 Speaker 1: the absolute of nothing, we will get everything every single time. 403 00:23:02,240 --> 00:23:04,920 Speaker 1: And that's what happened to us. And so I had 404 00:23:04,920 --> 00:23:08,080 Speaker 1: this woman write me this letter just it just by chance. 405 00:23:08,160 --> 00:23:10,720 Speaker 1: This came in last night, even though we were planning this. 406 00:23:11,520 --> 00:23:14,919 Speaker 1: Because God is interesting like that, right, because I'm not 407 00:23:15,400 --> 00:23:18,119 Speaker 1: understanding exactly what he wants me to do with the 408 00:23:18,200 --> 00:23:22,000 Speaker 1: message that he gave me. But she says, she writes 409 00:23:22,040 --> 00:23:25,680 Speaker 1: this long letter, and she says, she says, you spoke, 410 00:23:25,760 --> 00:23:28,159 Speaker 1: and it resonated with me as a leader in the 411 00:23:28,200 --> 00:23:31,520 Speaker 1: pro life movement. She said, Furthermore, as the head of 412 00:23:31,560 --> 00:23:36,040 Speaker 1: a pregnancy care center, I find it incredibly challenging to 413 00:23:36,119 --> 00:23:40,200 Speaker 1: both fulfill our brand promise to offer non judgmental, compassionate 414 00:23:40,240 --> 00:23:44,159 Speaker 1: care and stay a political in our approach. What I 415 00:23:44,240 --> 00:23:46,679 Speaker 1: mean by that is, if our patients clients see us 416 00:23:46,720 --> 00:23:50,160 Speaker 1: as a political organization, we won't be trusted with our 417 00:23:50,160 --> 00:23:58,760 Speaker 1: brand promise. This life. This is not a political issue. 418 00:24:00,040 --> 00:24:03,320 Speaker 1: This is a heart issue. We lost the culture on this. 419 00:24:04,040 --> 00:24:08,040 Speaker 1: We were fighting wars. We were fighting these battles in court, 420 00:24:08,200 --> 00:24:10,840 Speaker 1: but we weren't on the ground. We weren't in the media. 421 00:24:11,640 --> 00:24:16,399 Speaker 1: We weren't in the television shows, in the movies and 422 00:24:16,440 --> 00:24:21,600 Speaker 1: the music, the culture, in the schools. I'm telling you 423 00:24:22,480 --> 00:24:26,800 Speaker 1: one page the women's right to vote, the next page 424 00:24:27,080 --> 00:24:30,439 Speaker 1: the woman's right to choose. You are a part of 425 00:24:30,480 --> 00:24:34,040 Speaker 1: this club, you are a woman. You must continue to 426 00:24:34,119 --> 00:24:37,160 Speaker 1: keep this message alive. That was what was being taught. 427 00:24:38,280 --> 00:24:42,720 Speaker 1: And yet our folks on the conservative side will come 428 00:24:42,760 --> 00:24:45,119 Speaker 1: to me and they will say to me, why is 429 00:24:45,160 --> 00:24:51,760 Speaker 1: it that young women want to kill their babies, like wow, wow, wow, 430 00:24:51,800 --> 00:24:54,960 Speaker 1: that's what you're going to say to people on the 431 00:24:55,000 --> 00:24:58,200 Speaker 1: other side of the aisle from you words zev death, 432 00:24:59,160 --> 00:25:01,879 Speaker 1: I mean literally of death. They're looking at you and 433 00:25:01,920 --> 00:25:05,399 Speaker 1: saying you want to kill babies. That's not That is 434 00:25:05,440 --> 00:25:08,000 Speaker 1: not the hearts of the people. The hearts of the people. 435 00:25:08,640 --> 00:25:11,080 Speaker 1: We have to protect this right, and we lost that 436 00:25:11,160 --> 00:25:15,679 Speaker 1: culture war. We have opportunities to go back and support life, 437 00:25:16,880 --> 00:25:20,080 Speaker 1: but it's going to be a series of battles. It's 438 00:25:20,119 --> 00:25:22,879 Speaker 1: going to be a series of small battles, and we 439 00:25:23,000 --> 00:25:26,760 Speaker 1: have to accept that it is okay to win battles 440 00:25:26,840 --> 00:25:30,160 Speaker 1: along the way. I will support anyone who says, look, 441 00:25:30,200 --> 00:25:33,000 Speaker 1: we went from twenty four to twenty six weeks, and 442 00:25:33,040 --> 00:25:35,440 Speaker 1: we got it down to twelve, just like we see 443 00:25:35,440 --> 00:25:38,280 Speaker 1: in most European countries. We got it down to ten. 444 00:25:38,840 --> 00:25:41,360 Speaker 1: And now we're going to offer childcare, and now we're 445 00:25:41,359 --> 00:25:43,760 Speaker 1: going to come around people with child tax credits. And 446 00:25:43,800 --> 00:25:45,520 Speaker 1: now we're going to come around people and say it's 447 00:25:45,520 --> 00:25:48,119 Speaker 1: going to be easier to adopt. And why don't we 448 00:25:48,200 --> 00:25:52,680 Speaker 1: start fighting rape because in Michigan we are the top 449 00:25:53,000 --> 00:25:57,680 Speaker 1: five for rapes per capita in the United States. How 450 00:25:57,720 --> 00:26:00,800 Speaker 1: does it help us to have the most a radical 451 00:26:00,920 --> 00:26:04,720 Speaker 1: abortion law in the country. It's like a free pass 452 00:26:04,720 --> 00:26:07,560 Speaker 1: for people to continue doing this. Why are we not 453 00:26:07,760 --> 00:26:11,040 Speaker 1: fighting back on the criminals who are going after women 454 00:26:11,240 --> 00:26:14,520 Speaker 1: and putting them in this position. But there's also that 455 00:26:14,600 --> 00:26:18,879 Speaker 1: scared teenager. There is also that woman who doesn't know 456 00:26:18,960 --> 00:26:21,560 Speaker 1: how she'll make her the ends meet with another child. 457 00:26:21,680 --> 00:26:25,959 Speaker 1: Those stories are real, and we need to understand that 458 00:26:26,000 --> 00:26:28,840 Speaker 1: we are not winning over the hearts of people by 459 00:26:28,880 --> 00:26:31,800 Speaker 1: pulling out our scroll and telling them that we know 460 00:26:31,920 --> 00:26:34,720 Speaker 1: the law better. Let's take a quick commercial break. We'll 461 00:26:34,760 --> 00:26:41,280 Speaker 1: continue next on the Tutor Dixon podcast Words of Life. 462 00:26:41,400 --> 00:26:44,720 Speaker 1: It's so important that we start talking this way, that 463 00:26:44,800 --> 00:26:48,119 Speaker 1: we change this movement in a way that we start 464 00:26:48,200 --> 00:26:51,880 Speaker 1: to win back people over for family. And I mean 465 00:26:51,920 --> 00:26:55,400 Speaker 1: it so sincerely that I think that more people will live, 466 00:26:55,520 --> 00:26:59,440 Speaker 1: more babies will live, more families will thrive if we 467 00:26:59,480 --> 00:27:02,720 Speaker 1: as conservatives come around and start speaking words of life 468 00:27:02,920 --> 00:27:06,840 Speaker 1: into this movement, support into this movement, and we say 469 00:27:06,920 --> 00:27:10,239 Speaker 1: this is going to be a heart issue, not just 470 00:27:10,280 --> 00:27:14,280 Speaker 1: a political issue. It's a tough conversation to have. I 471 00:27:14,400 --> 00:27:16,639 Speaker 1: learned a lot on the campaign trail. There was this 472 00:27:16,720 --> 00:27:21,000 Speaker 1: one point when they asked me about the abortion pill 473 00:27:21,359 --> 00:27:24,960 Speaker 1: on the radio, and I will tell you I thought 474 00:27:24,960 --> 00:27:28,679 Speaker 1: they were talking about Plan B and I said, well, 475 00:27:28,760 --> 00:27:31,480 Speaker 1: Plan B will always be available because it's a contraceptive. 476 00:27:31,960 --> 00:27:34,560 Speaker 1: And I got a call right after that radio interview. 477 00:27:34,640 --> 00:27:37,199 Speaker 1: You have to go back on the air and explain this. 478 00:27:37,359 --> 00:27:39,840 Speaker 1: Do you not know what the abortion pill is? And honestly, 479 00:27:39,920 --> 00:27:42,760 Speaker 1: I didn't, And I've talked to young women since then 480 00:27:42,800 --> 00:27:45,560 Speaker 1: who didn't know what the abortion pill was either, because 481 00:27:46,080 --> 00:27:48,879 Speaker 1: I had only ever heard of that and I'm obviously 482 00:27:49,119 --> 00:27:54,440 Speaker 1: somebody who's older now and I'm not having children at 483 00:27:54,440 --> 00:27:56,399 Speaker 1: this point in my life, so I was not aware 484 00:27:56,480 --> 00:28:00,000 Speaker 1: of what the abortion pill was. So the abortion pill 485 00:28:00,520 --> 00:28:03,280 Speaker 1: is a pill that you've seen in the news lately 486 00:28:03,280 --> 00:28:05,560 Speaker 1: because the FDA has gone back and forth on whether 487 00:28:05,680 --> 00:28:07,360 Speaker 1: or not they're going to relook at it and see 488 00:28:07,359 --> 00:28:09,840 Speaker 1: if it's truly safe. And the reason people have asked 489 00:28:09,840 --> 00:28:12,679 Speaker 1: if it's truly safe is that you can take this pills, 490 00:28:12,720 --> 00:28:15,439 Speaker 1: two pills. You can take it up to eleven weeks. 491 00:28:15,880 --> 00:28:19,200 Speaker 1: And so you take the first pill and that suffocates 492 00:28:19,200 --> 00:28:22,040 Speaker 1: and essentially kills the baby, and then you take the 493 00:28:22,080 --> 00:28:24,080 Speaker 1: second pill. And this is all at home. This is 494 00:28:24,119 --> 00:28:27,080 Speaker 1: not under the supervision of a doctor at a hospital. 495 00:28:27,200 --> 00:28:29,679 Speaker 1: This is at home. In fact, the real complaint is 496 00:28:29,720 --> 00:28:32,040 Speaker 1: that this is now legal to mail to people, and 497 00:28:32,080 --> 00:28:34,120 Speaker 1: you could mail it across state lines, but you could 498 00:28:34,160 --> 00:28:36,479 Speaker 1: just call up the doctor and have it mailed to you. 499 00:28:36,800 --> 00:28:41,160 Speaker 1: And so again you have the sex traffics sex trafficking 500 00:28:41,200 --> 00:28:43,440 Speaker 1: concern because how do we really know who this is 501 00:28:43,480 --> 00:28:46,160 Speaker 1: going to and who's taking this pill? But also you're 502 00:28:46,200 --> 00:28:49,040 Speaker 1: going into labor at home. And so I will give 503 00:28:49,120 --> 00:28:51,760 Speaker 1: Life News credit on this because they posted a video 504 00:28:51,800 --> 00:28:54,360 Speaker 1: of a young woman who explained that she didn't know 505 00:28:54,440 --> 00:28:56,720 Speaker 1: what this was going to do. She thought she would 506 00:28:56,840 --> 00:28:58,960 Speaker 1: lead and that would be it. It would be like 507 00:28:59,000 --> 00:29:02,800 Speaker 1: a period, but she said she decided she waited. She 508 00:29:02,840 --> 00:29:05,120 Speaker 1: got it at seven weeks. She was actually hoping that 509 00:29:05,160 --> 00:29:08,960 Speaker 1: her boyfriend would change his mind. And then at ten 510 00:29:09,000 --> 00:29:12,760 Speaker 1: weeks she took it. And she tells through tears that 511 00:29:12,880 --> 00:29:16,160 Speaker 1: she woke up to the stabbing pain about five am. Yeah, 512 00:29:16,280 --> 00:29:20,520 Speaker 1: because labor is incredibly painful. So she's going into labor 513 00:29:20,720 --> 00:29:23,160 Speaker 1: and she's giving birth to a baby that has dyed. 514 00:29:23,800 --> 00:29:26,320 Speaker 1: And she said she gave birth in the toilet and 515 00:29:26,360 --> 00:29:29,080 Speaker 1: looked down and was shocked to see a baby there. 516 00:29:30,760 --> 00:29:35,200 Speaker 1: It was haunting to listen to this girl tell the story. 517 00:29:36,280 --> 00:29:39,000 Speaker 1: That was what I didn't know about the abortion pill. 518 00:29:39,360 --> 00:29:41,360 Speaker 1: When they asked me about the abortion pill, I didn't 519 00:29:41,400 --> 00:29:43,040 Speaker 1: know that you could just order it in the mail. 520 00:29:43,120 --> 00:29:47,400 Speaker 1: You could have an abortion at home, under no supervision 521 00:29:47,440 --> 00:29:50,160 Speaker 1: of a doctor, as a young woman in your house. 522 00:29:50,640 --> 00:29:53,960 Speaker 1: She said. She bled for days after that and just 523 00:29:54,040 --> 00:30:00,520 Speaker 1: laid in bed. There's nothing easy about abortion. We are 524 00:30:00,560 --> 00:30:03,440 Speaker 1: in this world of absolutes. We have the one side 525 00:30:03,480 --> 00:30:06,520 Speaker 1: that says, absolutely, don't do it. You'll figure out a 526 00:30:06,560 --> 00:30:09,480 Speaker 1: way you can give your baby up. You can keep 527 00:30:09,520 --> 00:30:13,680 Speaker 1: your baby. Just keep your baby. The other side that says, 528 00:30:14,240 --> 00:30:17,400 Speaker 1: get a cake, celebrate it, have a party, talk about 529 00:30:17,440 --> 00:30:22,479 Speaker 1: your abortion. Neither of those is reality. Those people who 530 00:30:22,560 --> 00:30:27,640 Speaker 1: go through the abortion, it's hard. There's pain afterward, there's 531 00:30:27,720 --> 00:30:32,320 Speaker 1: anguish after that. The people who don't, who choose life, 532 00:30:33,320 --> 00:30:36,520 Speaker 1: they adopt out their baby, they keep their baby. It's hard. 533 00:30:37,360 --> 00:30:40,320 Speaker 1: These are hard issues that we are making light of 534 00:30:40,600 --> 00:30:43,320 Speaker 1: in elections when these are heart issues we need to 535 00:30:43,320 --> 00:30:47,240 Speaker 1: be working on in different ways. So I encourage all 536 00:30:47,280 --> 00:30:50,120 Speaker 1: of you out there, no matter what side you're on, 537 00:30:51,320 --> 00:30:55,040 Speaker 1: step away from the absolute. Hear what young women are saying, 538 00:30:55,600 --> 00:30:58,040 Speaker 1: stop going out there and saying women want to kill 539 00:30:58,040 --> 00:31:00,400 Speaker 1: their babies. And if you're on the side where you're 540 00:31:00,440 --> 00:31:03,920 Speaker 1: shouting your abortion and celebrating it, stop doing that too, 541 00:31:04,160 --> 00:31:07,719 Speaker 1: because you're giving a false idea of what this actually is, 542 00:31:08,080 --> 00:31:14,000 Speaker 1: how harmful this actually is to someone's heart. Both sides 543 00:31:14,520 --> 00:31:18,360 Speaker 1: are making a mistake. We've got to start talking about 544 00:31:18,360 --> 00:31:22,000 Speaker 1: this in a different way. And I'll end by saying this. 545 00:31:23,200 --> 00:31:27,800 Speaker 1: We have people that are making light of this and 546 00:31:27,840 --> 00:31:31,400 Speaker 1: making this a political issue. We have people on the 547 00:31:31,480 --> 00:31:37,400 Speaker 1: left who are asking folks to join them and celebrate abortions, 548 00:31:37,600 --> 00:31:39,680 Speaker 1: and we have people on the right that are asking 549 00:31:39,720 --> 00:31:43,920 Speaker 1: them to join them and say, you absolutely won't do this, 550 00:31:44,240 --> 00:31:48,760 Speaker 1: you absolutely protect this in all ways. I'm asking you, 551 00:31:49,560 --> 00:31:53,320 Speaker 1: if this is near and dear to your heart, talk 552 00:31:53,400 --> 00:31:58,000 Speaker 1: to people, talk through this. Do not make this something 553 00:31:58,040 --> 00:32:00,760 Speaker 1: that you're going to hold a candidate to. You're going 554 00:32:00,840 --> 00:32:06,920 Speaker 1: to destroy a political campaign over. I saw an article 555 00:32:06,960 --> 00:32:10,760 Speaker 1: from a life group where somebody was quoted saying, I'd 556 00:32:10,840 --> 00:32:15,000 Speaker 1: rather never see a Republican win again than have them 557 00:32:15,400 --> 00:32:21,720 Speaker 1: given incheon life. The idea that one person can stand 558 00:32:21,760 --> 00:32:25,720 Speaker 1: in the way that a human can part the sea. 559 00:32:25,840 --> 00:32:30,280 Speaker 1: On this you're wrong. It's not up to a person 560 00:32:30,600 --> 00:32:35,719 Speaker 1: to part the sea. God is asking you to listen 561 00:32:35,840 --> 00:32:40,320 Speaker 1: to the people. I promise you he wouldn't have let 562 00:32:40,400 --> 00:32:43,440 Speaker 1: Prop three pass in Michigan if he wasn't trying to 563 00:32:43,480 --> 00:32:46,560 Speaker 1: send a message that we are not winning over the hearts, 564 00:32:46,600 --> 00:32:48,640 Speaker 1: the heart and hearts of the people, and that we 565 00:32:48,680 --> 00:32:51,840 Speaker 1: need to change our approach. I'd love to talk about 566 00:32:51,880 --> 00:32:54,600 Speaker 1: it more. I know that this is probably going to 567 00:32:54,640 --> 00:32:58,360 Speaker 1: be a big shock to people out there, but it's 568 00:32:58,400 --> 00:32:59,960 Speaker 1: an issue that's going to come up in this race. 569 00:33:00,120 --> 00:33:02,720 Speaker 1: We already see people going after Donald Trump. Donald Trump, 570 00:33:03,000 --> 00:33:06,440 Speaker 1: he's the bad guy now. He's pro choice. And Ron 571 00:33:06,480 --> 00:33:09,480 Speaker 1: De Santis is six weeks that he passed the heartbeat bill. 572 00:33:09,600 --> 00:33:13,800 Speaker 1: He's right. Watch what happens. This is going to be 573 00:33:13,840 --> 00:33:19,600 Speaker 1: really interesting. Donald Trump got these justices appointed to the 574 00:33:19,640 --> 00:33:23,880 Speaker 1: Supreme Court. Everything that the pro life movement wanted was 575 00:33:23,920 --> 00:33:27,120 Speaker 1: to get these justices appointed to the Supreme Court to 576 00:33:27,280 --> 00:33:31,000 Speaker 1: overturn Roe v. Wade. But now Donald Trump is the 577 00:33:31,000 --> 00:33:33,120 Speaker 1: bad guy because he said, well, I would let the 578 00:33:33,200 --> 00:33:37,280 Speaker 1: states choose. They want somebody to come in and say, federally, 579 00:33:37,320 --> 00:33:41,120 Speaker 1: we are going to do We're going to with the 580 00:33:41,160 --> 00:33:43,880 Speaker 1: mark of a pen. With the swift move of a pen, 581 00:33:44,040 --> 00:33:47,120 Speaker 1: we are going to change the way people think about abortion. 582 00:33:47,600 --> 00:33:52,280 Speaker 1: I'm telling you it's not going to happen. There are 583 00:33:52,320 --> 00:33:54,479 Speaker 1: battles along the way. If you think you have a 584 00:33:54,520 --> 00:33:56,640 Speaker 1: savior that is going to come in and dictate this 585 00:33:56,760 --> 00:33:59,960 Speaker 1: from the White House, you may be in for an 586 00:34:00,000 --> 00:34:03,920 Speaker 1: another twenty twenty twenty twenty two. It's going to be 587 00:34:03,960 --> 00:34:08,520 Speaker 1: a rough ride, So go off into the distance. I 588 00:34:08,680 --> 00:34:11,680 Speaker 1: suggest you speak words of life. You think about when 589 00:34:11,719 --> 00:34:14,960 Speaker 1: you're speaking words of death. We come around families. It's 590 00:34:15,000 --> 00:34:18,840 Speaker 1: about time we get that back. Thank you for listening 591 00:34:18,880 --> 00:34:23,640 Speaker 1: to me on this very hard subject of abortion. As 592 00:34:23,719 --> 00:34:26,040 Speaker 1: usual for this episode and others, you can go to 593 00:34:26,200 --> 00:34:31,879 Speaker 1: the tutordisonpodcast dot com. Subscribe right there and make sure 594 00:34:31,920 --> 00:34:34,520 Speaker 1: you join us the next time on the Tutor Dixon Podcast. 595 00:34:34,600 --> 00:34:36,840 Speaker 1: Go out there and speak words of life. Everyone. Thanks