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Speaker 1: Hey guys, and welcome back to another episode of Casual Chaos.

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Speaker 1: This week, I have a super fun, exciting guest who

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Speaker 1: some of you might know from Shut the fuck up

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Speaker 1: and fuck me, Jilan Cage.

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Speaker 2: Welcome to Casual Cakay.

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Speaker 3: I'm honored to be here.

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Speaker 2: I love your setup.

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Speaker 3: Thank you, baby, did it all for you?

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Speaker 1: It's so viby. Well, it's just it's cozy. We're looking

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Speaker 1: at a snowstorm right now.

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Speaker 3: I know, and we haven't had that in a while.

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Speaker 3: And it's crazy this year.

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Speaker 2: No, I know, we had one, what two weeks ago

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Speaker 2: now this Yeah.

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Speaker 4: The first time, I was like into it because I

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Speaker 4: was like everyone's saying and it felt really nice.

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Speaker 3: But like I'm over I'm like over it.

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Speaker 2: No, no, I'm so over it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: And it's like it doesn't help with my dog either,

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Speaker 1: because I need to get her the dog shoes. But

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Speaker 1: it's the most frustrating thing ever to take her outside

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Speaker 1: after a bath and then her paws get black.

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Speaker 4: Yeah oh yeah, cause she's a white talk But that's

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Speaker 4: a good But it's good to have an animal and

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Speaker 4: times like these, I know, like.

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Speaker 2: It does make me feel like comforted, yeah.

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Speaker 3: Because I always want an animal or a boyfriend.

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Speaker 4: When it's snowing or raining, no, I agree, But when

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Speaker 4: it's funny, I'm like, good.

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Speaker 3: I were out on the Yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so let's start from the beginning, because I feel

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Speaker 1: like the come up of your career was kind of

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Speaker 1: overnight and it was crazy.

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Speaker 2: But where did you grow up?

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Speaker 4: So I grew up in Philly, and I grew up dancing,

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Speaker 4: so like my dream was to be a professional dancer,

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Speaker 4: which is where all my moves come from.

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Speaker 2: I mean, you do know how to dance.

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Speaker 1: So funny you were eating it up the whole time

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Speaker 1: on the tart trick and.

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Speaker 4: My back is always killing me. It's always killing me,

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Speaker 4: but someone has to break it, so you know. So, yeah,

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Speaker 4: I grew up in Philly and I grew up dancing,

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Speaker 4: and I went to college at Pace University for dance.

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Speaker 4: And then when I graduated, I like booked a job

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Speaker 4: on a cruise ship and I danced on a cruise

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Speaker 4: for like for six months, and then I was like this,

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Speaker 4: this is just like not for me.

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Speaker 3: Like I'm like, I like I can't do it.

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Speaker 4: Like the thought of it was nice because it kind

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Speaker 4: of felt like sweet life on deck Vibe for sure,

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Speaker 4: you know.

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Speaker 3: But like then I.

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Speaker 4: Started like panicking and being like, what the hell is

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Speaker 4: living under me?

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Speaker 1: You know, So I was we weren't getting the flight

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Speaker 1: anxiety anymore. We were getting like ship anxiety, yes.

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Speaker 3: A moving vessel.

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Speaker 4: Me and Gia had like the worst anxiety on the

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Speaker 4: private jet. You would think that we were like the

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Speaker 4: most spoiledest children.

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Speaker 3: Ever, Like I was. I didn't like it. I really no.

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Speaker 1: Listen, there was something happening on that plane as we

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Speaker 1: were flying to Turks Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I was also hungover. Yeah, and then we're on.

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Speaker 1: This JSX flight, which we were so blessed and so grateful,

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Speaker 1: like we couldn't believe we were going on tripping with tart.

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Speaker 2: But then I think it was well.

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Speaker 1: Me and Dylan made sure we were sitting on the

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Speaker 1: front of the plane on the way. Yeah, on the

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Speaker 1: way there, we were in the back of the plane.

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Speaker 2: There was something going on.

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Speaker 3: There was something going on. I felt really nauseous. And

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Speaker 3: it also the thought of it being like a smaller

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Speaker 3: plane felt like a toy.

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Speaker 2: We were feeling, you know, Yeah.

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Speaker 3: It was too much maybe if I don't.

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Speaker 1: Know, Like our stomachs were like sinking to the bottom

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Speaker 1: and ye, like Geo.

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Speaker 3: Is putting her hair up.

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Speaker 4: We were getting water like and then we just started

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Speaker 4: taking shots because at that point we were like, you

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Speaker 4: know what, we might as well. It was like everyone

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Speaker 4: was like vibing and we're like the throwing up in

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Speaker 4: the back so bad.

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Speaker 3: That's how our friendship began.

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Speaker 2: Literally we bonded over flight anxiety.

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Speaker 1: So you know, sometimes moving things can be very scary

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Speaker 1: totally when you're like in the middle of the sea

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Speaker 1: or at a higher altitude.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you never know what could happen.

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Speaker 3: I know, it's it's scary. I hate it.

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Speaker 2: But so then you decided to leave the ship.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so I left the ship and then I just

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Speaker 4: started posting myself. I think it was like three years

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Speaker 4: ago or now. It was like twenty twenty two when

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Speaker 4: I was posting myself like three times a day. And

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Speaker 4: I was mainly known for prank calling.

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Speaker 1: After the tart trip obviously, because you know, when you

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Speaker 1: get to know someone, you're like all over your then

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Speaker 1: they're all over your for you page.

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Speaker 2: Your prank calls are.

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Speaker 3: Hol they're crazy and it's.

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Speaker 1: Just so funny, like the wedding venue one killed me,

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Speaker 1: my favorite.

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Speaker 2: Then you start like fake crying on the phone.

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Speaker 4: And then I mean, like listen, I want to be

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Speaker 4: an actor, and like we need to post ourselves nowadays,

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Speaker 4: like we have a great opportunity, so why not act?

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Speaker 3: But while prank calling someone, no, it was they're amazing you.

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Speaker 4: I used to prank call all the time when I

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Speaker 4: was a kid and get in so much trouble, Like

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Speaker 4: I was the kid to like ding dong ditch and stuff.

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Speaker 3: I love that, always getting in trouble.

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Speaker 2: So do you have any siblings?

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Speaker 3: I do.

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Speaker 4: I have a twin sister, And that's so funny, my

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Speaker 4: twin sister, Like we are there. We are nothing alike.

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Speaker 4: We're like you would never think that we were twins.

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Speaker 2: Do you guys look alike? Returnal or identical?

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Speaker 4: Some people were definitely for eternal, but like I think

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Speaker 4: some people think we look alike but like the and

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Speaker 4: some people are like no, but I can see like

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Speaker 4: where we're like alike rows and shit, like that's what

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Speaker 4: looks like I think, But like she's she lives in

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Speaker 4: like Charleston, South Carolina, like country girl and I'm like

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Speaker 4: this like crazy slutty little New York.

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Speaker 2: And then wait and then what is your older sibling like.

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Speaker 4: She's like a mixture of both of us. I think

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Speaker 4: she's definitely like the gray area. Yeah, me and her

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Speaker 4: are black and white. And then it's like our older

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Speaker 4: sister she lives in Charleston, South Carolina as well, and

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Speaker 4: they're like more closer because they both like country and stuff.

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Speaker 4: Like I don't really like the country stuff.

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Speaker 2: No, like you don't even like country music.

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Speaker 4: I'm like starting to like a little bit. But like

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Speaker 4: the closest to country is like Sabena Carpenter for me,

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Speaker 4: Like that's the closest to country I'll ever go. I mean,

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Speaker 4: and I love Serena Carpenter.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she's amazing. Yeah, but that's so funny.

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Speaker 1: I did. I was not a country girl and I

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Speaker 1: really did not like country music.

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Speaker 2: But now I've grown to kind of love it like it.

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Speaker 3: I mean, this center taste buds grow too, And I really.

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Speaker 2: Do want to go to Charleston one day. I've heard

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Speaker 3: You It's amazing, It's so charming.

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Speaker 4: The food is just like there's nothing like food in

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Speaker 4: the South, Like it's just always good. And there is

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Speaker 4: just like a cute, little like town and it feels

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Speaker 4: like kind of like you're in like a movie set.

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Speaker 2: I say go, yeah, no, I want to go with you.

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Speaker 3: We'll go together. I'll show you around town.

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Speaker 2: Yeah when did you first ball up on TikTok?

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Speaker 1: Obviously now you're telling me that you were dancing on

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Speaker 1: the cruise that was your first thing, Like what did

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Speaker 4: So yeah, it was the prank calling that kind of

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Speaker 4: this could really be something. So I was just like

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Speaker 4: watching how like influencers grew and like really like studying

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Speaker 4: like how how many times do they post? And what

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Speaker 4: do they like content strategy just stuff like that. So

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Speaker 4: I learned that like in the beginning, you really can't

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Speaker 4: you don't have a big following and you're like, especially me,

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Speaker 4: like posting yourself just harassing people and being crazy like

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Speaker 4: it's like a lot.

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Speaker 3: So like most of my friends were like, Dill, what

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Speaker 4: I'm like big, like, just give me a couple of years,

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Speaker 4: give me a couple of years.

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Speaker 3: So before the shout the fuck up and fucked me.

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Speaker 4: I was just starting. I was like, okay, I need

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Speaker 4: to change my content. I'm overdoing just prime calling. I

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Speaker 4: like that will last longer and like brands would want

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Speaker 4: be iconic on the street. I'll dance sometimes and like

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Speaker 4: So I started doing that like during like Easter time,

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Speaker 4: and then people were like.

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Speaker 4: Day I was really hungover and I was like, shut

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Speaker 3: Okay, like what because it's like what no, literally like

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Speaker 4: About it, like the's just like the first time hearing that,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like where did that come from?

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Speaker 1: I don't even but it also comes from like this

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Speaker 1: like lyrical dance, and then you're like, okay.

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Speaker 3: Exactly exactly.

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Speaker 4: And the old people when the old people started walking

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Speaker 4: this is icon So I'll just find old people on

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Speaker 1: So then you were on the hunt from every old

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Speaker 4: The Yeah, like weeks just like getting videos done, like okay,

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Speaker 4: that's an iconic old person, like phone up.

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Speaker 2: Ready to go, that's hilarious.

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Speaker 1: So when obviously that video went viral, what happened after that?

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Speaker 2: Who reached out to you? Who started using your sounds? Like?

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Speaker 2: What happened after that?

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Speaker 3: So?

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Speaker 4: I mean like literally everything, like everyone just started fucking

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Speaker 4: with it. It was like I feel like I kind

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Speaker 4: of hacked TikTok a little bit because I was on

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Speaker 4: Jesus Christ, like I gotta like do something with this.

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Speaker 4: And so I remember when I got I woke up

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Speaker 4: one morning and Kylie Jenner's team reached out to me

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Speaker 4: and they were like, hey, Kylie's really interested in clapping

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Speaker 4: with you, and I'm like wait what And then they're like,

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Speaker 2: Love Like is this fake?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, like if someone's just talking and you're just like

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Speaker 3: And you want to make sure that you were remembered too.

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Speaker 4: That's like my biggest thing, Like you need to make

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Speaker 3: So we get there just like I'm like, what the

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Speaker 2: Did you go alone?

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Speaker 1: But again you're like, as much as also going into

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Speaker 4: Exactly, And also like you I also was thinking, like

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Speaker 3: Like what.

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Speaker 4: So I was like, you know what, just fucking go

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Speaker 4: up to her. So I was like, hey, love, love Love,

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Speaker 4: and I was like, let's do this video. I'm known

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Speaker 4: I'm not going to say that, but I'll give my finger,

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Speaker 4: and I'm like.

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Speaker 3: Cool, So we did it.

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Speaker 4: She gave the finger, and then I posted it right

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Speaker 4: that night. I was like, I like for one video

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Speaker 4: He's like fucking like with Chris Jenner, and now Kylie's

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Speaker 4: by her like big lips. She goes, let's do a

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Speaker 4: let's fucking do it. So we fucking filmed that. I

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Speaker 3: Everyone's like what is going on? And then Kim walks by.

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Speaker 4: I'm like Kim, and I'm just like and now it's

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Speaker 1: Now you're like, Okay, I got through Chris Jenner and Kylie,

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Speaker 1: Like my confidence level is a.

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Speaker 2: Ten, right, Yeah, they know who I am. They know

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Speaker 1: Kylie wanted to do shut the fuck up and fuck

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Speaker 4: Yes, exactly. And then after that, I just partied with

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Speaker 2: So you got Kim, did you get Chloe?

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Speaker 4: So yes, I did get Chloe. But I was really

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Speaker 2: You didn't want to post yeah, And.

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Speaker 4: I was just like I was, I was really crazy

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Speaker 3: I'm like obviously, Like.

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Speaker 1: How I'm meeting the Kardashians right now?

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Speaker 3: Olee is anyways, so listen.

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Speaker 1: It's also just like you walked in you had to

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I might have gotten a little happy with my Dela.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean I literally don't care about that stuff.

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Speaker 4: Like I'm I'm I know, I'm not that type of person.

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Speaker 4: I can't handle it, you know. Yeah, like I'll know

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Speaker 4: if I'm like too much.

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Speaker 3: But like what so, yeah, I wish a really good night.

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Speaker 2: It was the sickest night. Yeah are you kidding?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Maybe like my wedding, but like nothing, I don't think

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Speaker 2: I'm that's really hard to beat.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Then you created an iconic song with Mark Ronson, So

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Speaker 3: Okay, So I didn't create it with him?

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Speaker 5: Oh okay, I wish I did collab with him to

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Speaker 4: But it's just like it's hard to like, you know,

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Speaker 3: I mean, it's Mark Ronson, you know.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so I was like, you know what, I'm going

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Speaker 4: So we're gonna sit down and write a song really

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Speaker 4: it was like a great, perfect gay anthem song.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it was really quick too.

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Speaker 1: And so then when that happened, you obviously just took

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Speaker 2: Did Mark say anything after that?

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Speaker 4: No, he didn't, he did. I don't know if he

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Speaker 4: saw it. He probably didn't, but it's okay fine, Yeah,

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Speaker 4: definitely would love to work with him still in the

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Speaker 4: future though, Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Manifest it.

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Speaker 1: But I mean see, like that's also like very smart

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Speaker 1: on the way that you acted on that. Yeah, he

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Speaker 4: You can't you can't really rely on. The only person

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Speaker 3: So like, just don't like sit back on anything.

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Speaker 1: Obviously you're known from your shut the fuck up and

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Speaker 2: Can you be serious one? Like one, I feel like

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Like I am actually super chill. Like I so,

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Speaker 4: But like I like when you talk to me, I'm

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00:21:58,000 --> 00:21:59,200
Speaker 4: like really.

448
00:21:59,000 --> 00:22:01,280
Speaker 2: Chill, and I totally agree.

449
00:22:01,600 --> 00:22:04,520
Speaker 1: Even when I met you on the tart trip, Like obviously,

450
00:22:04,560 --> 00:22:07,600
Speaker 1: seeing your videos, I was like this is hilarious, but

451
00:22:07,680 --> 00:22:11,119
Speaker 1: then meeting you on a personal level, we were able

452
00:22:11,160 --> 00:22:13,520
Speaker 1: to talk about literally anything and everything.

453
00:22:14,000 --> 00:22:17,600
Speaker 4: No, yeah, and like everyone's like, oh, like I thought

454
00:22:17,680 --> 00:22:19,679
Speaker 4: you would be more young, like yeah, because it takes

455
00:22:19,720 --> 00:22:22,040
Speaker 4: like thirty seconds out of my life to like do

456
00:22:22,160 --> 00:22:24,520
Speaker 4: asplay and like you know, scream a at all.

457
00:22:25,160 --> 00:22:27,960
Speaker 3: But I'm not like that like every second of the day.

458
00:22:28,920 --> 00:22:32,880
Speaker 1: And again, when you are creating your brand and when

459
00:22:32,960 --> 00:22:34,840
Speaker 1: something works, you have to.

460
00:22:34,760 --> 00:22:35,960
Speaker 2: Follow that momentum.

461
00:22:36,400 --> 00:22:41,080
Speaker 1: But then that's why some people have even two accounts

462
00:22:41,080 --> 00:22:43,320
Speaker 1: on social media because they're like, this is my brand,

463
00:22:43,320 --> 00:22:46,240
Speaker 1: but then this is who I actually am. Yeah, and

464
00:22:46,560 --> 00:22:50,880
Speaker 1: there's also just different ways for eventually, you know, there's

465
00:22:50,920 --> 00:22:52,800
Speaker 1: going to be multiple ways that you're going to be

466
00:22:52,880 --> 00:22:56,520
Speaker 1: able to show your followers deeper, you know, deeper think

467
00:22:56,600 --> 00:22:59,800
Speaker 1: about yourself and more into your personality and that's all

468
00:22:59,800 --> 00:23:01,320
Speaker 1: good to come totally.

469
00:23:01,440 --> 00:23:05,359
Speaker 4: I do think, like deaf, my brand's definitely who I am,

470
00:23:05,520 --> 00:23:10,040
Speaker 4: but I can I just like to prioritize my social

471
00:23:10,080 --> 00:23:13,600
Speaker 4: media and pages like only positive stuff, Like I don't

472
00:23:13,640 --> 00:23:16,520
Speaker 4: feel like I need to like you know, express maybe

473
00:23:16,560 --> 00:23:18,560
Speaker 4: something I'm going through and if I want to, then

474
00:23:18,600 --> 00:23:22,879
Speaker 4: I will. But like I feel like my followers like

475
00:23:23,720 --> 00:23:26,120
Speaker 4: they rely on me kind of just make giving them

476
00:23:26,119 --> 00:23:27,600
Speaker 4: a smile or like you know.

477
00:23:28,520 --> 00:23:31,800
Speaker 1: And is that kind of how you always were throughout

478
00:23:31,840 --> 00:23:34,280
Speaker 1: like your life and growing up, like were you the

479
00:23:34,359 --> 00:23:37,119
Speaker 1: person and your family that just made everybody laugh and

480
00:23:37,240 --> 00:23:39,119
Speaker 1: kind of brightend up the situations.

481
00:23:39,680 --> 00:23:42,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, Like I always be like the one that's like,

482
00:23:42,560 --> 00:23:43,920
Speaker 4: let's just like turn it.

483
00:23:43,840 --> 00:23:45,480
Speaker 3: Around, you know.

484
00:23:46,520 --> 00:23:47,000
Speaker 2: I love that.

485
00:23:49,160 --> 00:23:53,359
Speaker 1: Well, one of your heroes is Paris Hilton and you

486
00:23:53,520 --> 00:23:53,920
Speaker 1: met her?

487
00:23:54,320 --> 00:23:55,199
Speaker 2: What was that like?

488
00:23:56,240 --> 00:23:59,240
Speaker 3: So Paris was the first celebrity that I met. She

489
00:24:00,119 --> 00:24:03,240
Speaker 3: met her like a couple like three years ago before

490
00:24:04,000 --> 00:24:06,360
Speaker 3: shut the fuck up and fucked me, And she knew

491
00:24:06,440 --> 00:24:08,720
Speaker 3: me from my primek calling because she loves the prime

492
00:24:08,800 --> 00:24:10,840
Speaker 3: call too, I know.

493
00:24:11,600 --> 00:24:16,280
Speaker 4: So she invited me one summer to her Alice and

494
00:24:16,280 --> 00:24:19,760
Speaker 4: Olivia Gay Pride event and that was like the first

495
00:24:19,760 --> 00:24:22,399
Speaker 4: time me like meeting like a celebrity that I like,

496
00:24:22,960 --> 00:24:26,880
Speaker 4: you know, looked looked up at. So that was that

497
00:24:26,920 --> 00:24:31,080
Speaker 4: moment was like unbelievable. And then ever since that moment,

498
00:24:31,400 --> 00:24:33,840
Speaker 4: every time she's in New York, she always invites me

499
00:24:33,920 --> 00:24:37,800
Speaker 4: to her events and like just like take such good

500
00:24:37,840 --> 00:24:41,440
Speaker 4: care of me and always like invites me backstage talks

501
00:24:41,560 --> 00:24:45,439
Speaker 4: like she's like very loyal to her fans, like she

502
00:24:45,600 --> 00:24:48,239
Speaker 4: goes up above and beyond for the people that like

503
00:24:48,440 --> 00:24:48,880
Speaker 4: love her.

504
00:24:49,000 --> 00:24:52,040
Speaker 1: It's like crazy, I was invited to one of her

505
00:24:52,680 --> 00:24:53,920
Speaker 1: her skincare events.

506
00:24:54,119 --> 00:24:55,200
Speaker 3: I know I saw you that.

507
00:24:55,400 --> 00:24:57,720
Speaker 2: Yes, oh my god, you did mind you say hi to.

508
00:24:57,680 --> 00:25:00,280
Speaker 4: Make I did?

509
00:25:02,520 --> 00:25:05,440
Speaker 3: I took a picture, Gea. I was such a fan

510
00:25:05,520 --> 00:25:07,000
Speaker 3: of you. I mean, I still it.

511
00:25:07,720 --> 00:25:09,040
Speaker 2: When did we do this?

512
00:25:09,240 --> 00:25:11,240
Speaker 1: Okay, you have to send me the picture now I'm

513
00:25:11,240 --> 00:25:12,560
Speaker 1: gonna pee my pants.

514
00:25:12,680 --> 00:25:15,400
Speaker 4: I actually first met you at a Soul de Jannio

515
00:25:15,520 --> 00:25:17,560
Speaker 4: event and I was like, Gea.

516
00:25:17,960 --> 00:25:19,119
Speaker 3: Like, I'm obsessed with you.

517
00:25:19,480 --> 00:25:21,800
Speaker 4: And then I saw you at that one, but like

518
00:25:21,880 --> 00:25:25,280
Speaker 4: you were you seemed like really busy, so I was like,

519
00:25:25,400 --> 00:25:26,960
Speaker 4: I just need to let her breathe for a sec.

520
00:25:29,640 --> 00:25:32,440
Speaker 1: Wait, I hope, But like, what was your first impression

521
00:25:32,480 --> 00:25:33,920
Speaker 1: of me? Though, I need to know this.

522
00:25:35,359 --> 00:25:38,199
Speaker 4: You were definitely a little intimidating, but I don't know

523
00:25:38,240 --> 00:25:41,800
Speaker 4: if that's because I don't know why. But then I

524
00:25:41,920 --> 00:25:44,320
Speaker 4: was like, then when I met you the second time,

525
00:25:44,359 --> 00:25:44,880
Speaker 4: I was like, oh.

526
00:25:44,800 --> 00:25:45,800
Speaker 3: My, it's so cute.

527
00:25:46,240 --> 00:25:49,720
Speaker 4: Oh okay, good, But like, I mean it's because you're hot,

528
00:25:50,000 --> 00:25:52,840
Speaker 4: you know, like who cares?

529
00:25:53,320 --> 00:25:54,560
Speaker 2: I love you?

530
00:25:54,600 --> 00:25:56,480
Speaker 1: No, But I feel like you kind of had this

531
00:25:56,520 --> 00:25:59,600
Speaker 1: similar interaction with Paris, and I need to tell you this.

532
00:25:59,680 --> 00:26:02,200
Speaker 2: So my best friend Lauren was with me at her

533
00:26:02,280 --> 00:26:05,560
Speaker 2: skincare launch and my.

534
00:26:07,000 --> 00:26:12,200
Speaker 1: Lauren loves pink, as obviously Paris does. And Lauren looks

535
00:26:12,240 --> 00:26:14,880
Speaker 1: at Paris and was like, we're taking a picture with her,

536
00:26:14,920 --> 00:26:16,199
Speaker 1: like in front of the backdrop.

537
00:26:16,720 --> 00:26:18,800
Speaker 2: And Lauren looks at her and goes.

538
00:26:19,720 --> 00:26:23,480
Speaker 1: I got a pink Comer Flemo for my birthday, and like,

539
00:26:23,560 --> 00:26:25,480
Speaker 1: I just feel like you should get a pink Comer

540
00:26:25,560 --> 00:26:29,520
Speaker 1: Limo because that's like so on brand for you. Paris

541
00:26:29,600 --> 00:26:33,439
Speaker 1: is like, oh my god, I've actually never been in

542
00:26:33,480 --> 00:26:39,280
Speaker 1: a pink Comer Limmo before, but I have a pink Bentley.

543
00:26:40,320 --> 00:26:43,440
Speaker 2: Like I'm not surprised, are you kidding?

544
00:26:43,560 --> 00:26:48,800
Speaker 1: Like, yeah, the Bentley is better than the Hummer of course,

545
00:26:48,960 --> 00:26:52,200
Speaker 1: but like who would want to have a party and

546
00:26:52,280 --> 00:26:55,000
Speaker 1: the pink.

547
00:26:56,200 --> 00:26:58,560
Speaker 2: It was just so funny And I was.

548
00:26:58,560 --> 00:27:03,240
Speaker 1: Like, wow, she is she is who she is, She

549
00:27:03,320 --> 00:27:03,840
Speaker 1: is who she.

550
00:27:03,920 --> 00:27:08,000
Speaker 3: Is, Like she's exactly who she shows herself to me.

551
00:27:08,359 --> 00:27:12,080
Speaker 2: Yes, one hundred. So what did she do? Like what

552
00:27:12,160 --> 00:27:13,480
Speaker 2: was your interaction with her?

553
00:27:14,560 --> 00:27:18,240
Speaker 3: So I was just like, oh, like at that event

554
00:27:18,280 --> 00:27:19,560
Speaker 3: as specific.

555
00:27:19,200 --> 00:27:22,520
Speaker 2: Well or no, just like you're well, I guess you guys.

556
00:27:22,320 --> 00:27:28,200
Speaker 1: Probably did something once You're once you went viral with yes.

557
00:27:28,760 --> 00:27:31,600
Speaker 4: Yes, so I so I saw her. I saw her

558
00:27:31,640 --> 00:27:33,800
Speaker 4: a couple of times after that, like she invited me

559
00:27:33,880 --> 00:27:38,160
Speaker 4: to her Motorola event just like and then I went

560
00:27:38,200 --> 00:27:41,600
Speaker 4: to her filming of Simple Life in La for like

561
00:27:41,760 --> 00:27:46,280
Speaker 4: the ten or something anniversary thing, just like stuff like that.

562
00:27:46,560 --> 00:27:50,280
Speaker 4: And then when I was going viral for shut the

563
00:27:50,280 --> 00:27:52,480
Speaker 4: fuck Up and Fucked Me, she like messaged me saying

564
00:27:52,480 --> 00:27:55,560
Speaker 4: how proud she is of me, and that like her

565
00:27:55,600 --> 00:27:58,000
Speaker 4: whole team is just so happy for me. And so

566
00:27:58,160 --> 00:28:00,840
Speaker 4: I talked to her team and they're like the nicest

567
00:28:00,840 --> 00:28:04,800
Speaker 4: people ever, like like so genuine.

568
00:28:04,400 --> 00:28:08,120
Speaker 1: And like, wait, that's amazing that she like reached out

569
00:28:08,160 --> 00:28:08,879
Speaker 1: to you after that.

570
00:28:09,119 --> 00:28:12,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, and then I saw her in Unwell, Vegas and

571
00:28:12,640 --> 00:28:15,560
Speaker 4: her team is like, come over here, she's gonna be

572
00:28:15,560 --> 00:28:18,360
Speaker 4: done DJing soon, and we just like she was just

573
00:28:18,480 --> 00:28:20,639
Speaker 4: it was just like her telling me that she's proud.

574
00:28:21,000 --> 00:28:23,480
Speaker 4: I'm like, is anyone else listening to this?

575
00:28:24,040 --> 00:28:24,159
Speaker 3: Ye?

576
00:28:25,960 --> 00:28:29,720
Speaker 1: Like I'm getting the validation from Paris Hilton right.

577
00:28:29,560 --> 00:28:33,040
Speaker 3: Now, right right? So that was really nice.

578
00:28:33,359 --> 00:28:36,959
Speaker 2: Oh well that's amazing. Would you say the videos that

579
00:28:37,040 --> 00:28:40,080
Speaker 2: you post when people meet you in person match that

580
00:28:40,160 --> 00:28:40,880
Speaker 2: same energy?

581
00:28:42,600 --> 00:28:46,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm like really nice to people when they come

582
00:28:46,280 --> 00:28:48,360
Speaker 4: up to me. I'm just because I'm just so grateful

583
00:28:48,440 --> 00:28:51,280
Speaker 4: because I don't think I would know You're not anything

584
00:28:52,000 --> 00:28:53,880
Speaker 4: that I would get if it wasn't for people who

585
00:28:53,920 --> 00:28:57,600
Speaker 4: supported me. So I'm like, when you come up to me,

586
00:28:57,640 --> 00:29:00,600
Speaker 4: I'm like, I will give it all for you.

587
00:29:00,720 --> 00:29:02,880
Speaker 1: So you want me to split down, I will sit

588
00:29:03,120 --> 00:29:05,080
Speaker 1: for you right here exactly.

589
00:29:05,520 --> 00:29:09,120
Speaker 3: Yeah. So I love it.

590
00:29:10,200 --> 00:29:14,239
Speaker 1: I love that if you didn't do social media and

591
00:29:14,280 --> 00:29:16,880
Speaker 1: if you didn't blow up, what would you be doing

592
00:29:16,960 --> 00:29:17,400
Speaker 1: right now?

593
00:29:18,480 --> 00:29:21,040
Speaker 4: That's a good question. Noan's ever asked me that before.

594
00:29:22,360 --> 00:29:26,040
Speaker 4: So I am just a true believer in Manifesto. So

595
00:29:26,200 --> 00:29:28,480
Speaker 4: I did know that this was going to happen one

596
00:29:28,480 --> 00:29:30,320
Speaker 4: way or the other. I would have made sure of it.

597
00:29:31,000 --> 00:29:34,960
Speaker 4: But I probably would have danced more.

598
00:29:35,760 --> 00:29:37,320
Speaker 1: I was going to say, because you were always in

599
00:29:37,640 --> 00:29:41,040
Speaker 1: art space, so you obviously had that talent, so maybe

600
00:29:41,080 --> 00:29:44,520
Speaker 1: you would have just who knows, man, maybe one day

601
00:29:44,520 --> 00:29:45,640
Speaker 1: you'll be on Broadway.

602
00:29:46,400 --> 00:29:48,640
Speaker 4: Well I just went to a psychic and she was like,

603
00:29:48,680 --> 00:29:52,800
Speaker 4: I see Broadway and I was like, okay, well, let's

604
00:29:52,800 --> 00:29:53,840
Speaker 4: see if you're real and.

605
00:29:55,800 --> 00:29:58,320
Speaker 2: Manifest like dancing with the stars too.

606
00:29:58,720 --> 00:30:01,000
Speaker 3: I would love to go on dance, But.

607
00:30:01,120 --> 00:30:04,040
Speaker 1: I mean, look at Whitney you know, she was obviously

608
00:30:04,120 --> 00:30:07,360
Speaker 1: on Secret Lives of Warmant Wives still is, but then

609
00:30:07,440 --> 00:30:09,200
Speaker 1: did Dancing with the Stars and now.

610
00:30:09,040 --> 00:30:10,880
Speaker 2: She's roxy on Broadway.

611
00:30:11,200 --> 00:30:11,520
Speaker 3: I know.

612
00:30:12,320 --> 00:30:15,080
Speaker 1: And same kind of thing happened to Ariano Maddox too,

613
00:30:15,200 --> 00:30:17,800
Speaker 1: Like it's just you have to manifest it.

614
00:30:17,880 --> 00:30:20,720
Speaker 3: You do. I manifest every night before I go to bed.

615
00:30:21,120 --> 00:30:22,719
Speaker 2: Do you keep the notes under your pillow?

616
00:30:23,160 --> 00:30:25,440
Speaker 4: So I like do a thing where I just like

617
00:30:25,520 --> 00:30:27,560
Speaker 4: say it out loud and I talk about it a

618
00:30:27,600 --> 00:30:29,280
Speaker 4: lot to people, so I put it out there.

619
00:30:29,440 --> 00:30:31,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're putting it into the verse.

620
00:30:31,400 --> 00:30:32,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, I believe in that.

621
00:30:34,080 --> 00:30:38,040
Speaker 4: Would you do Dancing with the Stars, Yes, of course

622
00:30:38,120 --> 00:30:41,000
Speaker 4: you would, yes, yeah, hell yeah.

623
00:30:41,160 --> 00:30:45,360
Speaker 1: Like I also just grew up doing like I was in.

624
00:30:46,120 --> 00:30:48,520
Speaker 1: I did everything. My mom put me in everything growing up.

625
00:30:48,600 --> 00:30:53,960
Speaker 1: So I was in dance, gymnastics, cheerleading. So even though

626
00:30:54,040 --> 00:30:56,160
Speaker 1: I can't like break it down on the dance floor,

627
00:30:56,160 --> 00:30:59,600
Speaker 1: if you just started playing music, I'm very good with

628
00:30:59,680 --> 00:31:01,120
Speaker 1: like choreographed work.

629
00:31:01,880 --> 00:31:03,640
Speaker 2: So if I actually was.

630
00:31:03,600 --> 00:31:07,600
Speaker 1: Taught something by obviously a professional or a dance teacher

631
00:31:07,720 --> 00:31:10,360
Speaker 1: or anything like that, I was always able to do

632
00:31:10,440 --> 00:31:13,760
Speaker 1: it up until and then I stopped. Uh, I stopped

633
00:31:13,760 --> 00:31:17,000
Speaker 1: doing competitive cheerleading when I went into college, but like

634
00:31:17,040 --> 00:31:20,800
Speaker 1: my whole life, I always was in that space, So

635
00:31:20,880 --> 00:31:23,880
Speaker 1: I think I would be able to pick it back

636
00:31:24,000 --> 00:31:26,120
Speaker 1: up if I was taught.

637
00:31:26,880 --> 00:31:28,920
Speaker 2: But I say it all the time.

638
00:31:29,000 --> 00:31:30,920
Speaker 1: I literally think I was even saying this to you

639
00:31:30,960 --> 00:31:34,080
Speaker 1: on the tart trip, Like, I want to go to

640
00:31:34,200 --> 00:31:37,800
Speaker 1: a class if this exists, where I can just learn

641
00:31:37,960 --> 00:31:39,800
Speaker 1: how to dance and look hot in the club.

642
00:31:40,280 --> 00:31:43,520
Speaker 3: Oh my god, babe, I know all my friends are

643
00:31:43,600 --> 00:31:44,680
Speaker 3: dance teachers.

644
00:31:44,880 --> 00:31:45,880
Speaker 2: Okay, so you can go.

645
00:31:46,200 --> 00:31:48,120
Speaker 3: We can take a class together.

646
00:31:48,400 --> 00:31:50,160
Speaker 2: Where they could just teach me how to look hot

647
00:31:50,200 --> 00:31:50,960
Speaker 2: on the dance floor.

648
00:31:51,080 --> 00:31:53,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, we can do a private line proof.

649
00:31:53,720 --> 00:31:57,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, wait, this is so fun.

650
00:31:57,680 --> 00:31:59,280
Speaker 3: Yeah.

651
00:31:59,360 --> 00:32:01,400
Speaker 2: It just like I think it's a combination.

652
00:32:01,640 --> 00:32:04,680
Speaker 1: You know, you have to be confident in yourself, confident

653
00:32:04,720 --> 00:32:07,120
Speaker 1: in what you're doing, and I think that's the problem

654
00:32:07,680 --> 00:32:09,880
Speaker 1: when you don't have something.

655
00:32:09,560 --> 00:32:13,040
Speaker 2: Like choreographed or whatever. Like you it's not like you

656
00:32:13,080 --> 00:32:14,120
Speaker 2: don't know what you're doing.

657
00:32:14,680 --> 00:32:17,720
Speaker 1: So I'm like, I just need to get a couple

658
00:32:17,840 --> 00:32:20,240
Speaker 1: moves down where I know that looks good and when

659
00:32:20,280 --> 00:32:23,480
Speaker 1: I'm in the club or what like, I'm like, that's

660
00:32:23,800 --> 00:32:24,320
Speaker 1: that's good.

661
00:32:24,520 --> 00:32:29,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, you just need to have like your signature party tricks, yes.

662
00:32:30,360 --> 00:32:32,160
Speaker 2: Like you obviously have them.

663
00:32:32,520 --> 00:32:35,440
Speaker 1: Then you like the people who I was looking at,

664
00:32:35,520 --> 00:32:38,600
Speaker 1: I swear like the entire Tart trip where I'm like,

665
00:32:38,920 --> 00:32:43,560
Speaker 1: you know, what the hell you're doing? Is you Christina

666
00:32:43,640 --> 00:32:48,880
Speaker 1: Kirkman and Riley Sarage.

667
00:32:47,400 --> 00:32:51,400
Speaker 2: Like you three knew how to dance?

668
00:32:51,960 --> 00:32:55,920
Speaker 1: You guys looked so hot doing it, And I'm like.

669
00:32:57,400 --> 00:32:59,200
Speaker 3: No, you're going to do that.

670
00:32:59,600 --> 00:33:01,560
Speaker 4: You know how to do it. You just need to

671
00:33:01,640 --> 00:33:04,640
Speaker 4: like let it go. Oh yeah, that's what I tell people.

672
00:33:04,760 --> 00:33:05,400
Speaker 4: Just let it go.

673
00:33:06,120 --> 00:33:07,360
Speaker 3: Don't think all right.

674
00:33:07,280 --> 00:33:08,360
Speaker 2: Well I need to do it with you.

675
00:33:08,560 --> 00:33:09,880
Speaker 3: We yeah, we'll do it together.

676
00:33:09,920 --> 00:33:14,800
Speaker 1: We're texting about this afterwards actually because it's happening, the

677
00:33:14,880 --> 00:33:16,720
Speaker 1: snow needs to melt a little bit, and then it's

678
00:33:16,760 --> 00:33:19,720
Speaker 1: happening next week and I'm not even sitting.

679
00:33:22,360 --> 00:33:24,360
Speaker 2: Wait. Also freaking huge.

680
00:33:24,520 --> 00:33:27,520
Speaker 1: You were recently in your first commercial and it was

681
00:33:27,520 --> 00:33:28,960
Speaker 1: a super Bowl commercial.

682
00:33:29,600 --> 00:33:31,120
Speaker 2: How surreal was that?

683
00:33:31,920 --> 00:33:34,160
Speaker 3: Oh my god, it was unbelievable.

684
00:33:34,360 --> 00:33:37,160
Speaker 1: I mean you were the Bunny of BioMA, like I know,

685
00:33:37,880 --> 00:33:40,440
Speaker 1: I know, main character energy.

686
00:33:40,720 --> 00:33:44,160
Speaker 4: It was like, actually one of the coolest days of

687
00:33:44,240 --> 00:33:47,480
Speaker 4: my life. I love being on set, I love acting.

688
00:33:48,200 --> 00:33:51,480
Speaker 4: I just loved the whole production of it. Like it

689
00:33:51,560 --> 00:33:53,240
Speaker 4: was just I was like, this is where I meant

690
00:33:53,240 --> 00:33:56,520
Speaker 4: to be, like doing shit like this, like being on

691
00:33:56,600 --> 00:34:00,240
Speaker 4: set like creative all the shit. Like I just was like,

692
00:34:00,320 --> 00:34:04,400
Speaker 4: this is my element. And I just like sometimes like

693
00:34:04,480 --> 00:34:06,440
Speaker 4: it takes me a while to realize, like, you know,

694
00:34:06,520 --> 00:34:09,160
Speaker 4: this is a really big deal. Yeah, and you should

695
00:34:09,200 --> 00:34:11,320
Speaker 4: be like really proud of yourself until like a couple

696
00:34:11,280 --> 00:34:12,800
Speaker 4: of weeks at I don't know why I'm.

697
00:34:12,719 --> 00:34:14,680
Speaker 2: Like that, but like no, no, no, but I am too.

698
00:34:15,200 --> 00:34:15,439
Speaker 3: Yeah.

699
00:34:15,560 --> 00:34:19,480
Speaker 1: You want to see like almost you want to see

700
00:34:19,520 --> 00:34:23,880
Speaker 1: the like the reward after or like the feedback after

701
00:34:24,120 --> 00:34:26,799
Speaker 1: to know that you did a good job and that

702
00:34:26,840 --> 00:34:28,360
Speaker 1: this is actually a big deal.

703
00:34:28,920 --> 00:34:32,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, And I think that's yeah. So I just like

704
00:34:33,000 --> 00:34:35,000
Speaker 4: I'm like I can't believe that. And it's like it's

705
00:34:35,239 --> 00:34:38,160
Speaker 4: didn't take me very long to get there, and like

706
00:34:38,280 --> 00:34:40,840
Speaker 4: all all I really had to do was just be myself,

707
00:34:41,880 --> 00:34:42,879
Speaker 4: you know, and that.

708
00:34:42,880 --> 00:34:44,399
Speaker 2: Was probably the most rewarding thing.

709
00:34:44,719 --> 00:34:47,520
Speaker 4: That's like the most rewarding thing. So it's just it's

710
00:34:47,560 --> 00:34:50,040
Speaker 4: a really I just can't wait for more.

711
00:34:50,920 --> 00:34:52,240
Speaker 2: You know, there will be more.

712
00:34:52,800 --> 00:34:54,160
Speaker 3: Thank you you too?

713
00:34:56,000 --> 00:34:58,680
Speaker 2: So are you dating? I?

714
00:34:58,800 --> 00:35:02,960
Speaker 4: Actually and every time I got on a podcast, I

715
00:35:03,120 --> 00:35:04,000
Speaker 4: always say no.

716
00:35:05,760 --> 00:35:08,560
Speaker 2: Okay, so we have to get lunch too. I feel like, okay,

717
00:35:08,680 --> 00:35:09,920
Speaker 2: dance class and lunch.

718
00:35:10,680 --> 00:35:12,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, of course we'll do happy hour after the class

719
00:35:12,960 --> 00:35:14,560
Speaker 4: so we can like really talk about it.

720
00:35:14,880 --> 00:35:15,280
Speaker 2: Perfect.

721
00:35:17,200 --> 00:35:19,000
Speaker 3: So I just went on a date with this boy

722
00:35:19,120 --> 00:35:22,680
Speaker 3: last week and he was really cute.

723
00:35:23,080 --> 00:35:25,080
Speaker 2: Wait, I love this for you.

724
00:35:25,080 --> 00:35:28,160
Speaker 4: No, he was really sweet and New York boy date. Yeah,

725
00:35:28,760 --> 00:35:31,239
Speaker 4: new York boy. I met him on Hinge. I know,

726
00:35:31,480 --> 00:35:33,080
Speaker 4: but like sometimes it just works.

727
00:35:33,480 --> 00:35:36,840
Speaker 1: No, but so funny because I was recently just talking

728
00:35:36,880 --> 00:35:40,600
Speaker 1: about this and my friend is you know, she was

729
00:35:40,640 --> 00:35:42,960
Speaker 1: always kind of on the dating apps, but like really

730
00:35:43,000 --> 00:35:48,640
Speaker 1: started like swiping recently, and I said to her, I

731
00:35:48,719 --> 00:35:54,200
Speaker 1: was like, even if you're not fully like looking or interested, like,

732
00:35:54,719 --> 00:35:59,879
Speaker 1: it also just helps because it's getting yourself out there,

733
00:36:00,040 --> 00:36:03,440
Speaker 1: even if you start having conversations with a couple people

734
00:36:03,680 --> 00:36:07,840
Speaker 1: and just kind of getting your confidence and feel uncomfortable

735
00:36:08,400 --> 00:36:11,040
Speaker 1: and then if a date happens, a date happens, and

736
00:36:11,120 --> 00:36:11,800
Speaker 1: that's great.

737
00:36:12,400 --> 00:36:15,239
Speaker 4: And I think it's like I took this one as like,

738
00:36:15,680 --> 00:36:17,600
Speaker 4: I don't I don't want to see this to sound

739
00:36:17,800 --> 00:36:19,840
Speaker 4: like a bad way, just like you know what you

740
00:36:19,840 --> 00:36:22,680
Speaker 4: need to, like you said, practice going out. Practice like

741
00:36:23,280 --> 00:36:26,120
Speaker 4: interacting with people because it's a really scary kind of

742
00:36:26,200 --> 00:36:29,239
Speaker 4: like that's like one thing I'm not confident in is

743
00:36:29,280 --> 00:36:33,880
Speaker 4: like meeting like a significant other because like all your insecurities,

744
00:36:33,920 --> 00:36:36,640
Speaker 4: I feel like, are hight end in my opinion, that's

745
00:36:36,680 --> 00:36:39,799
Speaker 4: just how im which true. But I just like I

746
00:36:39,880 --> 00:36:42,200
Speaker 4: was like, you know what, like you're fine, like just

747
00:36:42,280 --> 00:36:44,319
Speaker 4: have a good time, like relax, Like you're going out

748
00:36:44,320 --> 00:36:45,479
Speaker 4: to dinner with a cute boy.

749
00:36:45,880 --> 00:36:47,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, like hello, So.

750
00:36:47,960 --> 00:36:50,080
Speaker 4: It was just really nice and he was just like

751
00:36:50,239 --> 00:36:53,279
Speaker 4: really nice and I just haven't had a really good

752
00:36:53,360 --> 00:36:54,120
Speaker 4: date like that.

753
00:36:54,000 --> 00:36:54,520
Speaker 3: In a while.

754
00:36:55,520 --> 00:36:56,799
Speaker 2: I'm so happy for you.

755
00:36:57,920 --> 00:36:58,360
Speaker 3: Thank you.

756
00:36:59,320 --> 00:37:01,440
Speaker 1: And it's so when you like are like when it's

757
00:37:01,480 --> 00:37:04,239
Speaker 1: unexpected and you're like, okay, well this is fine, but

758
00:37:04,280 --> 00:37:06,520
Speaker 1: then you actually end up really liking the verson.

759
00:37:06,840 --> 00:37:11,280
Speaker 4: I know it is and we're planning on doing another one,

760
00:37:11,640 --> 00:37:13,560
Speaker 4: but I do have another boy that I want to

761
00:37:13,560 --> 00:37:15,200
Speaker 4: go on a date with, and like see, like I

762
00:37:15,200 --> 00:37:16,560
Speaker 4: don't want to just like jump.

763
00:37:16,320 --> 00:37:19,839
Speaker 1: In, but that's fine, except like also, don't put all

764
00:37:19,840 --> 00:37:22,360
Speaker 1: your eggs in one basket. This is the time where

765
00:37:22,640 --> 00:37:25,680
Speaker 1: you're not committed to anything, So date around, go on

766
00:37:25,760 --> 00:37:28,680
Speaker 1: a couple of dates and like just feel it out. Yeah,

767
00:37:29,080 --> 00:37:30,680
Speaker 1: so you're not tied down yet.

768
00:37:30,960 --> 00:37:34,120
Speaker 3: Yeah. I don't want to be tied down. No one

769
00:37:34,120 --> 00:37:35,000
Speaker 3: can tie me down.

770
00:37:35,400 --> 00:37:37,799
Speaker 1: I'm like, no, I'm not even gonna say it, because

771
00:37:37,840 --> 00:37:39,880
Speaker 1: maybe this boy is amazing. I was like, summer is

772
00:37:39,920 --> 00:37:41,600
Speaker 1: like kind of creeping, but it's fine.

773
00:37:41,840 --> 00:37:45,000
Speaker 4: I know I need to get to the gym that.

774
00:37:46,640 --> 00:37:50,160
Speaker 1: Like, I need to get All these snow days are

775
00:37:50,280 --> 00:37:51,000
Speaker 1: not helping.

776
00:37:51,280 --> 00:37:55,480
Speaker 3: No, I eat so much yesterday, so did I and

777
00:37:55,560 --> 00:37:56,439
Speaker 3: it was so good.

778
00:37:56,719 --> 00:37:59,920
Speaker 2: It was good. And then I did some laundry to

779
00:38:00,160 --> 00:38:01,040
Speaker 2: make myself feel better.

780
00:38:01,120 --> 00:38:03,439
Speaker 3: But yeah, yeah, that's good.

781
00:38:03,880 --> 00:38:07,200
Speaker 1: Do you have any relation to Austin Kevich, the co

782
00:38:07,320 --> 00:38:08,840
Speaker 1: founder of Locks Club.

783
00:38:09,480 --> 00:38:13,319
Speaker 4: Yes, so he's my cut, my first cousin. Our dads

784
00:38:13,320 --> 00:38:13,960
Speaker 4: are brothers.

785
00:38:14,120 --> 00:38:16,120
Speaker 2: Oh my god, that's so funny.

786
00:38:16,640 --> 00:38:20,720
Speaker 4: Yes, and we're super close. He's my closest family member

787
00:38:21,680 --> 00:38:24,720
Speaker 4: and he just moved to New York and we're actually

788
00:38:24,760 --> 00:38:27,600
Speaker 4: working on he's working on writing a TV.

789
00:38:27,400 --> 00:38:29,400
Speaker 2: Show that's amazing.

790
00:38:29,680 --> 00:38:32,640
Speaker 4: Yes, it's I don't know if you've seen this content

791
00:38:32,719 --> 00:38:34,480
Speaker 4: of me, but I used to do that. I was

792
00:38:34,520 --> 00:38:39,040
Speaker 4: called the intern where I would do like I would

793
00:38:39,040 --> 00:38:41,680
Speaker 4: be It would be like satire comedy where it's kind

794
00:38:41,719 --> 00:38:46,279
Speaker 4: of filmed like Modern Family, Okay, hilarious, and I would

795
00:38:46,360 --> 00:38:49,200
Speaker 4: just be like a really disrespectful intern. But like it

796
00:38:49,280 --> 00:38:51,680
Speaker 4: was just it was really funny. So he wants to

797
00:38:51,719 --> 00:38:57,719
Speaker 4: do like an HBO hopefully Netflix show like around that.

798
00:38:57,719 --> 00:38:59,480
Speaker 3: That's what he's working on right now.

799
00:39:00,080 --> 00:39:00,880
Speaker 2: That's incredible.

800
00:39:01,160 --> 00:39:01,759
Speaker 3: Yeah.

801
00:39:01,840 --> 00:39:05,160
Speaker 1: Wait, so, like you know, there's a lot of like

802
00:39:05,400 --> 00:39:07,120
Speaker 1: iconic people in the Kevich family.

803
00:39:07,600 --> 00:39:11,759
Speaker 3: There is. There is, like so Hayes brother was the

804
00:39:11,800 --> 00:39:13,200
Speaker 3: one who produced my song.

805
00:39:15,120 --> 00:39:15,400
Speaker 2: Wow.

806
00:39:15,640 --> 00:39:19,719
Speaker 4: Yeah. Yeah, Like it's we're very like artistic.

807
00:39:20,040 --> 00:39:23,480
Speaker 1: Yeah no, that's amazing though, And it's also great when

808
00:39:23,520 --> 00:39:27,080
Speaker 1: everyone you know specializes in a different thing and then

809
00:39:27,120 --> 00:39:29,319
Speaker 1: you all come together and create a masterpiece.

810
00:39:29,480 --> 00:39:32,879
Speaker 3: I know. That's like the most fun part about it.

811
00:39:34,200 --> 00:39:37,600
Speaker 1: But obviously, you know you go to Charleston often, your

812
00:39:37,640 --> 00:39:40,200
Speaker 1: two siblings are there. Would you ever be on Southern

813
00:39:40,239 --> 00:39:43,000
Speaker 1: Hospitality or Southern Charm So.

814
00:39:43,200 --> 00:39:46,600
Speaker 4: I'm friends with a lot of I'm friends with most

815
00:39:46,640 --> 00:39:50,520
Speaker 4: of the casts from Southern Hospitality because Emmy and my

816
00:39:50,640 --> 00:39:52,800
Speaker 4: older sister were best friends in college.

817
00:39:52,920 --> 00:39:54,920
Speaker 2: Oh wow, what a small world, I know.

818
00:39:55,120 --> 00:39:57,360
Speaker 3: And it's such a small world in Charleston.

819
00:39:57,560 --> 00:40:01,799
Speaker 4: So yeah, like everyone knows each other and I would

820
00:40:01,840 --> 00:40:04,239
Speaker 4: be I would want to be on Southern Hospitality. It's

821
00:40:04,320 --> 00:40:08,040
Speaker 4: just like younger and like more my vibe. I was

822
00:40:08,040 --> 00:40:10,320
Speaker 4: there when they were filming this summer.

823
00:40:10,480 --> 00:40:15,200
Speaker 2: So yeah, but also you're in New.

824
00:40:15,239 --> 00:40:18,600
Speaker 3: York, I know, and I could be on Next Gen

825
00:40:18,840 --> 00:40:19,440
Speaker 3: and you're.

826
00:40:19,239 --> 00:40:20,359
Speaker 2: Gon be on next Get.

827
00:40:20,680 --> 00:40:22,640
Speaker 1: I had schedule a trip to go to the Bahamas

828
00:40:22,680 --> 00:40:25,520
Speaker 1: in January to go see my dad and then literally

829
00:40:25,880 --> 00:40:29,520
Speaker 1: quite like basically the whole cast of Next Gen ended up.

830
00:40:31,719 --> 00:40:35,279
Speaker 2: And it was so much fun, but it.

831
00:40:35,320 --> 00:40:38,080
Speaker 1: Was also a lot and I you know, told this

832
00:40:38,560 --> 00:40:43,520
Speaker 1: all of them, but it was it's hard sometimes when

833
00:40:43,520 --> 00:40:47,840
Speaker 1: you're all together to not feel like you're still filming

834
00:40:48,560 --> 00:40:51,600
Speaker 1: like that you're like warped into this like reality TV show.

835
00:40:52,040 --> 00:40:53,399
Speaker 2: So like being with.

836
00:40:53,360 --> 00:40:56,000
Speaker 1: All of them in the Bahamas, I was like, oh

837
00:40:56,000 --> 00:40:58,120
Speaker 1: my god, filming just ended.

838
00:40:58,239 --> 00:41:01,960
Speaker 2: Why are we still filming? Like right on right, this

839
00:41:02,120 --> 00:41:02,800
Speaker 2: is crazy.

840
00:41:03,160 --> 00:41:05,040
Speaker 3: No, I know exactly what you mean.

841
00:41:05,280 --> 00:41:11,279
Speaker 1: It's just kind of like because that's how we always like,

842
00:41:11,360 --> 00:41:15,160
Speaker 1: that's what we do. And then obviously people who have

843
00:41:15,239 --> 00:41:18,239
Speaker 1: closer relationships and go out and you know, but when

844
00:41:18,320 --> 00:41:21,840
Speaker 1: you're all together, it's so hard to not feel like

845
00:41:21,920 --> 00:41:23,600
Speaker 1: you are still filming your show.

846
00:41:23,800 --> 00:41:26,359
Speaker 4: Oh my god, I couldn't even imagine even just like

847
00:41:26,440 --> 00:41:28,239
Speaker 4: being there. I was like, it's not it was I

848
00:41:28,239 --> 00:41:30,080
Speaker 4: don't even know if it's like a negative feeling, but

849
00:41:30,160 --> 00:41:32,479
Speaker 4: it's definitely a feeling where you're like, I need like.

850
00:41:32,440 --> 00:41:36,200
Speaker 1: Five minutes you do, and you know, it's it's rough

851
00:41:36,360 --> 00:41:39,360
Speaker 1: because it's kind of this feeling of like you always

852
00:41:39,400 --> 00:41:45,160
Speaker 1: have to be on and that's when it's exhausting. So

853
00:41:45,200 --> 00:41:47,880
Speaker 1: like when you're filming for like three straight months, like

854
00:41:48,000 --> 00:41:52,399
Speaker 1: when that rap date was coming, I was like, oh

855
00:41:52,480 --> 00:41:54,200
Speaker 1: my god, right.

856
00:41:54,400 --> 00:41:57,439
Speaker 4: No, yeah, I mean I feel like it's like it's

857
00:41:57,560 --> 00:42:01,440
Speaker 4: you're yourself. It's just always like it's always up here, yes,

858
00:42:01,840 --> 00:42:04,000
Speaker 4: because the camera's on you. Like no one wants to

859
00:42:04,000 --> 00:42:06,359
Speaker 4: watch someone just staring off into space, like you.

860
00:42:06,320 --> 00:42:08,480
Speaker 1: Know what I mean literally like at the end of

861
00:42:08,480 --> 00:42:10,640
Speaker 1: the day, you are creating a reality TV.

862
00:42:10,520 --> 00:42:13,520
Speaker 4: Show, right, yeah, like you're it's a job, you're performing

863
00:42:13,560 --> 00:42:16,439
Speaker 4: a little it's just it's a whole moment and it's

864
00:42:16,600 --> 00:42:19,680
Speaker 4: I think that's I can see why that could be

865
00:42:19,719 --> 00:42:20,640
Speaker 4: hard to navigate.

866
00:42:21,320 --> 00:42:24,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I mean you've done this for so long,

867
00:42:24,840 --> 00:42:25,759
Speaker 3: so you.

868
00:42:25,760 --> 00:42:29,680
Speaker 1: Know, and it it's something that I do love and

869
00:42:29,719 --> 00:42:31,960
Speaker 1: I love what I do and I love my job,

870
00:42:32,880 --> 00:42:38,840
Speaker 1: but you learn things about yourself every single day, even

871
00:42:38,920 --> 00:42:42,439
Speaker 1: though I've been doing this since I was eight years

872
00:42:42,480 --> 00:42:47,400
Speaker 1: old and now obviously blessed to have my own show

873
00:42:47,560 --> 00:42:50,239
Speaker 1: on Bravo with you know, other castmates.

874
00:42:51,040 --> 00:42:53,760
Speaker 2: It was so different.

875
00:42:53,440 --> 00:42:56,520
Speaker 1: To go from you know, just being my mom's daughter

876
00:42:56,600 --> 00:42:58,399
Speaker 1: on the Real House Has in New Jersey to now

877
00:42:58,440 --> 00:43:02,520
Speaker 1: being on Next Gen because they really tunnel into who

878
00:43:02,600 --> 00:43:07,000
Speaker 1: I am and what Ga is with her life, and

879
00:43:07,960 --> 00:43:11,120
Speaker 1: that was like a little bit of a shift because

880
00:43:11,200 --> 00:43:15,440
Speaker 1: I was like, I felt like, Okay, everybody knows everything

881
00:43:15,480 --> 00:43:20,280
Speaker 1: about my life anyway, because obviously, you know, my family

882
00:43:20,320 --> 00:43:24,760
Speaker 1: has really given reality TV are all throughout these past

883
00:43:24,880 --> 00:43:31,560
Speaker 1: almost like twenty years. But it was kind of just

884
00:43:31,760 --> 00:43:35,040
Speaker 1: this adjustment of no, now it's more into Gia. So

885
00:43:35,080 --> 00:43:38,560
Speaker 1: it's into Gia in what she's doing with her work,

886
00:43:38,920 --> 00:43:42,320
Speaker 1: what she's doing every day, and also into my relationship,

887
00:43:42,480 --> 00:43:48,839
Speaker 1: which was obviously different than being on my mom's show.

888
00:43:48,200 --> 00:43:50,760
Speaker 4: And kind of like when you're like a Disney Channel

889
00:43:50,840 --> 00:43:53,120
Speaker 4: star and like you kind of break out into like

890
00:43:53,160 --> 00:43:54,200
Speaker 4: your own artists.

891
00:43:54,320 --> 00:44:00,880
Speaker 1: Literally it's like Miley turning into Hannah exactly exactly, and that,

892
00:44:01,080 --> 00:44:03,480
Speaker 1: you know, that was so fun, but it was again

893
00:44:03,520 --> 00:44:07,200
Speaker 1: an adjustment. So after looking at myself back on first

894
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Speaker 1: season of Next Gen, you think to yourself, oh, I've

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Speaker 1: been doing this my whole life. I have this down

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Speaker 1: pat but then looking at yourself, and that's what I

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Speaker 1: think is the beauty about reality TV because it's literally

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Speaker 1: a mirror reflection of what who you are and what

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Speaker 1: you what you have given out.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, oh my god. Okay.

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Speaker 1: And you know, because there's some moments where I was like, ugh,

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Speaker 1: I did say that, but I wish I I've explained yep,

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Speaker 1: said it differently, explain myself better. And that's all. That's

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Speaker 1: what it comes down to. And it's all about learning

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Speaker 1: and growing on reality TV. And but in general, you know,

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Speaker 1: when you do when you do your content, you're looking

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Speaker 1: at that and you're like, Okay, well I want to

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Speaker 1: do this better now for my next video. I feel

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Speaker 1: like everything in life and as you're evolving and growing

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00:45:03,920 --> 00:45:07,760
Speaker 1: into your career, everything is a mirror image and learning

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Speaker 1: how you're going to do things better. And that's kind

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Speaker 1: of how it is on Next Gen.

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Speaker 3: Hell yes, girl, I love that.

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Speaker 4: What I do love about Next Gen and m I see,

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Speaker 4: I feel like there's so much opportunity to like really

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Speaker 4: show people what New York is about.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, which I love.

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Speaker 4: Like when I came out, I was like, this is

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Speaker 4: so this is such a good idea because there's so

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Speaker 4: many conceptions is that the right word? Misconceptions about like

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Speaker 4: New York life. And I just feel like there's so

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Speaker 4: many different people in New York and it's like we're

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Speaker 4: all living different lives but in this like little gorgeous,

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Speaker 4: disgusting place.

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Speaker 2: Literally, like we're all living in the chaos.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and then we all feel like we're so far

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Speaker 4: away but we're so close.

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Speaker 3: So it's just like super fun.

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Speaker 4: And I definitely was thinking about it because I was

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Speaker 4: like I kind of want to do that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so we'll never know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but what is your advice for my listeners who

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Speaker 1: feel stuck in their career?

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Speaker 4: My advice for people who feel stuck in their career is,

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Speaker 4: so I'm a visual learner. So if you feel stuck,

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00:46:17,440 --> 00:46:19,960
Speaker 4: so this is like the light, this is you, and

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Speaker 4: like you're always going up like this, but like you're

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Speaker 4: always gonna be like that, but like you're moving up.

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Speaker 4: So like there's some days where like my videos aren't

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Speaker 4: doing as good, but like act like they are. Act

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Speaker 4: like you're the most like successful person on the app,

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Speaker 4: on the show, wherever, and just keep fucking going for it,

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Speaker 4: Like ignore all the voices because trust me, we all

944
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Speaker 4: have them, and just prove to yourself that no matter why,

945
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Speaker 4: like you'll make everything will be cut fine because I

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00:46:50,239 --> 00:46:54,360
Speaker 4: can't speak, you'll be once you get validated and stuff

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Speaker 4: from like, keep going like then you'll know.

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Speaker 3: Hopefully that made sense.

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Speaker 2: Jesus, no, it did. Basically, think that you're the best

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Speaker 2: and you will become the best.

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Speaker 1: Well, Dylan, thank you so much for coming on Casual Chaos.

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Speaker 2: This was so much fun.

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Speaker 3: I know, I like forgot we were doing a podcast.

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Speaker 1: Love you guys, And that was all for today's episode.