Speaker 1: What I love about this question is often we're asked
Speaker 1: to reflect on you know, what was the thing that
Speaker 1: you won, What was the thing that you did that
Speaker 1: was most successful. That's usually the question people ask. But
Speaker 1: I think asking a question on happiness is even more important,
Speaker 1: even more powerful, because we want to do more of
Speaker 1: what makes us happy. Hey, everyone, welcome back to On Purpose.
Speaker 1: I am sitting here in the bedroom I grew up in.
Speaker 1: My parents laughed as I record this because I just
Speaker 1: got into London for the holidays. I am here to
Speaker 1: be with my family and I'm so lucky to be here.
Speaker 1: I feel so grateful that I could get in to
Speaker 1: see them. And as I sit here, it's been a
Speaker 1: really interesting twenty four hours that I've been back now
Speaker 1: as I'm recording this, and it's been really fascinating because
Speaker 1: I've been doing a lot of reflecting. I've only been
Speaker 1: here once in the last two years, and everywhere where
Speaker 1: I'm walking, I'm noticing the nursery that I went to,
Speaker 1: the school that I went to the bank that I
Speaker 1: opened up my first bank account. I'm noticing where I
Speaker 1: used to sit and meditate when I first started practicing,
Speaker 1: where I would read. I've got all these books that
Speaker 1: I'm surrounded by right now, books that I grew up
Speaker 1: on that change my life, that formed the way I think.
Speaker 1: It put me in a very reflective mood. It's so
Speaker 1: important at this time of year to reflect. It's so
Speaker 1: important at this time of year to take some time
Speaker 1: out to look back. And the interesting thing with us
Speaker 1: when we're reflecting is that we don't usually make as
Speaker 1: much time as we'd like. We may say that we
Speaker 1: want to reflect this Christmas or this holiday season. We
Speaker 1: may even try to take an hour out and then
Speaker 1: get distracted by Instagram or TikTok. Maybe you've been really
Speaker 1: good for it, and you've made some great progress and
Speaker 1: really put some time aside. But what I wanted to
Speaker 1: share with you today was a plan, questions and plan
Speaker 1: of how to really reflect on how this year has been.
Speaker 1: I'll share some of my reflections as well as I
Speaker 1: go along, and I'm hoping that all of you, after
Speaker 1: listening to this episode, which is going to be around
Speaker 1: thirty minutes long, I really hope that you can take
Speaker 1: out around an hour. An hour is all it will
Speaker 1: take take an hour to really reflect on these questions
Speaker 1: and give yourself the time to do that, because what
Speaker 1: I find is that the world moves so fast. The
Speaker 1: next thing, you know, it will be January first, will
Speaker 1: be busy with the next thing, the new thing, and
Speaker 1: then all of a sudden, we've forgotten about this year.
Speaker 1: And I've started to notice how much my memory is
Speaker 1: erased of years gone by, How you lose the details,
Speaker 1: and then you have to really try and search, and
Speaker 1: when you find it, you're like, wow, some amazing things
Speaker 1: happened that year. But by then you don't even have
Speaker 1: the full depth of your memory to understand it, appreciate it,
Speaker 1: recognize it. One of the first questions that I would
Speaker 1: ask myself when I'm reflecting is what made you feel
Speaker 1: most happy? And I'm going to share with you a
Speaker 1: really clever way of doing this. I hope this is
Speaker 1: going to help you, And I just did this, and
Speaker 1: so I think you'll love it. Is I went on
Speaker 1: to my photo album, like my photo reel on my
Speaker 1: phone my photos app, and I scrolled back to January first.
Speaker 1: Now I don't take pictures of everything. I'm actually terrible
Speaker 1: at documenting things because when I'm not creating for work
Speaker 1: or not thinking about an idea, I'm pretty much not
Speaker 1: on my phone, and so I don't even take that
Speaker 1: many pictures. But still I look through on my phone
Speaker 1: from jan first until today, and I was amazed to
Speaker 1: see how many beautiful things happened this year. And I
Speaker 1: don't even take pictures of everything. So if you're someone
Speaker 1: that pictures of everything, you're going to love this. And
Speaker 1: if you're someone like me who doesn't take pictures of everything,
Speaker 1: I promise you you're still going to love it. You're
Speaker 1: still going to appreciate it because even with the few
Speaker 1: memories you have, or maybe you have memories of things
Speaker 1: people sent to you, it's incredible. It's beautiful to see
Speaker 1: what you captured and what was there with you. And
Speaker 1: so I want you to do that right now when
Speaker 1: you go to photos app, I want you to look
Speaker 1: from January first, and I want you to ask yourself,
Speaker 1: what were the things that made you the most happy? Right?
Speaker 1: What were the things that made you the most happy?
Speaker 1: That's what I want you to focus on. And what
Speaker 1: I love about this question is often we're asked to
Speaker 1: reflect on, you know, what was the thing that you won,
Speaker 1: What was the thing that you did that was most successful.
Speaker 1: That's usually the question people ask, but I think asking
Speaker 1: a question on happiness is even more important, even more powerful,
Speaker 1: because we want to do more of what makes us happy.
Speaker 1: So when I think about what memory or what happened
Speaker 1: this year that made me feel the most happy, what
Speaker 1: made me feel the most happy was the quality time
Speaker 1: I spent with Rady this year. We found that in
Speaker 1: the last two years we spend more time together than
Speaker 1: ever before, and we deeply appreciated it. When I went
Speaker 1: through my photos app, I literally found just pictures and
Speaker 1: pictures of us being silly, taking fun selfies, messing around.
Speaker 1: It just made me so happy. It brought me so
Speaker 1: much joy that me and her have had so much
Speaker 1: quality time, and especially in the last month we haven't
Speaker 1: seen each other as much. She came back to London
Speaker 1: a bit earlier than I did. I was traveling a
Speaker 1: bit before that, and when I looked at that, thought, wow,
Speaker 1: that makes me so happy. I'm so joyful about the
Speaker 1: fact that we actually, for once got really quality time together.
Speaker 1: And whether it was us on a hike or whether
Speaker 1: it was us when we were trying out a new experience,
Speaker 1: we had a lot of amazing experiences together this year
Speaker 1: as well, so that was really really special. And I'm
Speaker 1: just so grateful that we we got to have this.
Speaker 1: So what made you most happy? Now? I don't want
Speaker 1: you to just ask yourself that question. You're like, I
Speaker 1: figured out what made me most happy, so what with
Speaker 1: what made you most happy? I want you now to
Speaker 1: ask yourself, how will you make more time for that
Speaker 1: this year? How will you continue to water that? It's
Speaker 1: almost like you're looking at your garden and you see
Speaker 1: that the plum tree or the rose bushes are growing beautifully.
Speaker 1: The question is how do I not forget to water
Speaker 1: that just because it's going well. So often things are
Speaker 1: going great in our lives and we're not conscious of it,
Speaker 1: and then they don't go so great next year. Let's
Speaker 1: use this as a reminder to say, continue to do this,
Speaker 1: continue to spend time with this person. It brings you joy,
Speaker 1: continue to value it, to be grateful for it. Now,
Speaker 1: the second question that I want you to answer is
Speaker 1: what made you unhappy this year? Right? What was it
Speaker 1: that took joy your way from your life this year?
Speaker 1: This is a really important question to ask, and this
Speaker 1: one you may not find in your galleries. Maybe you
Speaker 1: didn't take pictures of these times, but maybe you have
Speaker 1: them in new journals, maybe they come up in your conversations,
Speaker 1: Maybe they come up when you're talking to a loved
Speaker 1: one or a trusted person in your life. What was
Speaker 1: it that took energy away for me? There were times
Speaker 1: this year where I was completely a follower of my schedule,
Speaker 1: and I feel that there were times when I wasn't
Speaker 1: being as creative as I wanted to be. I wasn't
Speaker 1: as reflective or thoughtful as I wanted to be. I
Speaker 1: was just following my schedule because there were so many
Speaker 1: things being filled up, and I just kept doing whatever
Speaker 1: was in my schedule, and that didn't make me happy.
Speaker 1: I didn't like living a life that felt like I
Speaker 1: wasn't focusing on what my priorities were. I didn't feel
Speaker 1: like living a life where I wasn't getting time to
Speaker 1: be creative and thoughtful and reflective how I wanted to be.
Speaker 1: I wasn't feeling happy about the fact that I couldn't
Speaker 1: focus on that, which was important to me. So it's
Speaker 1: really important to analyze that because that has been one
Speaker 1: of my biggest takeaways this year, and that simple takeaway
Speaker 1: of what made me unhappy this year has made me
Speaker 1: understand now. Notice something really interesting about this question. It's
Speaker 1: very easy with this question to say someone or something
Speaker 1: else like I wasn't happy because this person broke up
Speaker 1: with me, or wasn't happy because this happened. Look for
Speaker 1: your own choice or your own learning in that. So
Speaker 1: I'll give you an example. I could say that the
Speaker 1: problem was the people creating my schedule, but the real
Speaker 1: challenges I wasn't being focused enough, I wasn't being selective enough.
Speaker 1: I wasn't being curated enough. That's really where the ownership
Speaker 1: and the responsibility lies. When we make decisions about who
Speaker 1: to date, to see, what job to take. Are we
Speaker 1: being as conscious as aware as we possibly can to
Speaker 1: make the right decision for ourselves or are we just
Speaker 1: accepting whatever comes into our life or being carried away.
Speaker 1: It's so important. So now it's not just what made
Speaker 1: you unhappy and write it down, it's actually saying, well,
Speaker 1: let me look at what is it about that? How
Speaker 1: did I end up in that situation? When you get lost,
Speaker 1: you don't just get mad at your GPS. You wonder
Speaker 1: why did you get here? How did you end up here?
Speaker 1: Maybe you didn't charge your phone, maybe you had an
Speaker 1: old version of the app. Maybe you weren't driving a
Speaker 1: car you were used to driving. What is it that
Speaker 1: you can take responsibility for, Not to judge yourself or
Speaker 1: to beat yourself up, but to use it as an
Speaker 1: opportunity to say, this is something that I'm not going
Speaker 1: to allow me to affect me again. So the third
Speaker 1: question is what was the biggest lesson you learned? Now,
Speaker 1: this question, obviously it takes hints from the first two,
Speaker 1: but really trying to ask yourself what's the biggest lesson?
Speaker 1: And imagine you were on a podcast. Imagine you were
Speaker 1: on on purpose and I asked you that question. Give
Speaker 1: the question that gravitas. You listen to the podcast, you
Speaker 1: hear the answers that our guests give. If you were
Speaker 1: on the show and I asked you what's the biggest
Speaker 1: lesson you learned in the last twelve months? How much
Speaker 1: would you care about that answer? How much would you
Speaker 1: think about it knowing that millions of people are going
Speaker 1: to hear it, But more importantly, you're saying, this is
Speaker 1: the biggest thing I learned this year. And I've been
Speaker 1: thinking about that to think about how to share that
Speaker 1: with you as well, Like, how do I tell you
Speaker 1: what's the biggest lesson I learned this year, Not the
Speaker 1: most recent lesson, not the immediate one that comes to mind,
Speaker 1: But what's the biggest lesson I learned this year? And
Speaker 1: the biggest lesson I learned this year? And sometimes it's
Speaker 1: the same lesson you learned every year, so you have
Speaker 1: to really push yourself. The biggest lesson I and this
Speaker 1: year is your schedule shows what you care about. What
Speaker 1: you do with your free time, what you do with
Speaker 1: your mornings, your evenings, your weekends shows what you care about.
Speaker 1: And if you're like, well, I don't care about any
Speaker 1: of that on my schedule, then let's try and change that.
Speaker 1: Now we all have to work, so everyone has to
Speaker 1: go to work, and we may not love what we
Speaker 1: do for work, and we may have tried, or we
Speaker 1: may be trying to shift, but that sometimes it is
Speaker 1: out of our control. But what are we doing with
Speaker 1: our evenings and weekends? Does it really show what we
Speaker 1: care about? So I realized that what I really care
Speaker 1: about is creativity. What I really care about is impact.
Speaker 1: What I really care about is helping people find their purpose,
Speaker 1: and I want my schedule to reflect that. And yes,
Speaker 1: everything I do is dedicated to that. But there are
Speaker 1: some things that are more dedicated to that than others,
Speaker 1: and I want to review that. So that's the third big,
Speaker 1: big question to ask yourself. Now. The fourth question is
Speaker 1: an interesting one. What is something you wish you did
Speaker 1: more of? What is something that you didn't make time
Speaker 1: for but you wish you made more time for. What
Speaker 1: is that one thing that you're like, you know next
Speaker 1: year this has to be part of it. This is
Speaker 1: something that I know I need to prioritize. Notice how
Speaker 1: it's not judging yourself or beating yourself up for not
Speaker 1: making time. It's recognizing this is important to me. This
Speaker 1: is a priority to me, and I want to make
Speaker 1: time for it next year. Now, when I think about this,
Speaker 1: it's dedicated creative time. I would love to have one
Speaker 1: of my work days be a day where I read
Speaker 1: and learn more and scribble and doodle and practice and
Speaker 1: play and just allow my mind to be fully expressive
Speaker 1: and creative without even wanting to create something. Often i'll
Speaker 1: write in journal to record a podcast, or I'll write
Speaker 1: in journal for my own spiritual practice, or I'll be
Speaker 1: creating something for a book that I'm working on. But
Speaker 1: I want to just create, to create, whether anyone sees
Speaker 1: it or not, hears it, finds it or not, even
Speaker 1: if it never goes out, And that's really important to me.
Speaker 1: So that's something I want to make more time for
Speaker 1: next year. What's something you want to make more time
Speaker 1: for next year? Maybe that you want to work out more,
Speaker 1: or maybe you want to exercise more. Now about this,
Speaker 1: you want to make sure that you're not just saying
Speaker 1: you want to do more of it, You're actually saying, well, realistically,
Speaker 1: how often can I do that for me? Or maybe
Speaker 1: once a month? Right? For me, one day once a
Speaker 1: month dedicated to being fully creative is realistic. What is
Speaker 1: it for you? And the fifth question is what's something
Speaker 1: you want to do less of? What's something that you
Speaker 1: did a lot this year? Are you like I definitely
Speaker 1: don't want to do a lot of that next year, Like,
Speaker 1: that's something I need to pull back on, that's something
Speaker 1: I need to let go of. And for me, this
Speaker 1: came to me probably in the last three months, and
Speaker 1: for me, the answer was TV. I think I've spoken
Speaker 1: about this a few times, but for ten years, pretty
Speaker 1: much I didn't watch TV. I watched movies in theaters
Speaker 1: or at home, but I didn't really watch TV religiously,
Speaker 1: and I found during the pandemic, I watched TV a
Speaker 1: lot of evenings, and that's not like me. And I
Speaker 1: started to realize I didn't enjoy it. I didn't enjoy
Speaker 1: myself anymore. I didn't feel like my mind was the
Speaker 1: place I wanted to live in. And I found that
Speaker 1: when I was deep in books or deep in ideas,
Speaker 1: that I feel more connected to myself. And so for me,
Speaker 1: that's something I want to do less of. And I
Speaker 1: started doing less of it in the last three months
Speaker 1: because that helps me transition over to next year, because
Speaker 1: I haven't been doing it for the last three months,
Speaker 1: so I feel pretty confident that I won't let it
Speaker 1: bleed into next year. It's really really powerful, right, what
Speaker 1: do you want to do less of? Another question that
Speaker 1: I want you to ask yourself is what was your
Speaker 1: biggest success this year? Right now we're getting into that work,
Speaker 1: that profession and all that purpose, what was your biggest
Speaker 1: success this year? And do you know what I want
Speaker 1: you to do? I want you to trace that success
Speaker 1: back to when it started, when it actually started, even
Speaker 1: as a connection. So I'll give you an example. One
Speaker 1: of our biggest successes this year for me and RADI
Speaker 1: was that we launched psalmote, something we've been working on
Speaker 1: for about a year and a half, and launching Psalmoty
Speaker 1: was a huge success. So many of you have subscribed,
Speaker 1: so many of you have joined the community. If you
Speaker 1: haven't yet, you can head over to salmote dot com
Speaker 1: and join us be a part of our tea membership
Speaker 1: and our tea community. It's been so beautiful to have
Speaker 1: all these amazing, real flavors out there in the world
Speaker 1: with functional benefits and adaptogens. It's been incredible and it's
Speaker 1: been such a big success. But listen to this. We
Speaker 1: launched psalmoty this year in fall. Let's go back to
Speaker 1: when we started with the idea for creating psalmoty January
Speaker 1: twenty twenty. Now let's go back to when I met
Speaker 1: our partners, our business partners in starting the tea company.
Speaker 1: That happened around three years ago. And now let's go
Speaker 1: back to when me and Radley got married and discovered
Speaker 1: we both loved tea. That was five years ago. And
Speaker 1: now let's go back to when we started dating and
Speaker 1: we realized we loved tea. That was eight years ago.
Speaker 1: And now let's go back to when I first was
Speaker 1: introduced to tea by my own mom when I was
Speaker 1: really young. That's probably, like, I don't know, it's a
Speaker 1: long time now. How long ago was that? Maybe like
Speaker 1: twenty five years ago, maybe more so. In one sense,
Speaker 1: Ssama Tea has been under construction for twenty five years.
Speaker 1: In one sense, it's been under construction for eight years.
Speaker 1: In one sense, it's been under construction for five years.
Speaker 1: In one sense, it's been under construction for three years,
Speaker 1: and in another been eighteen months. Now you tell me
Speaker 1: how long it's been under construction. It's fascinating, isn't it
Speaker 1: when you look at how long your biggest win, biggest
Speaker 1: success this year has been under construction. It teaches you patients,
Speaker 1: It teaches you consistent build, It teaches you connection of ideas.
Speaker 1: It teaches you growth, It teaches you commitment. It teaches
Speaker 1: from learning from every part of your life. I never
Speaker 1: once believed in my life that rather than I would
Speaker 1: have a tea community and tea company. It wasn't part
Speaker 1: of the vision, wasn't part of the journey that we
Speaker 1: thought of. But it's one of the most beautiful things
Speaker 1: we've had happened to us. This year. It's one of
Speaker 1: my biggest, biggest successes. But I want you to look
Speaker 1: at when that journey started because what that teaches you
Speaker 1: so you can start another journey this year. When you
Speaker 1: realize that one of your biggest successes was years in
Speaker 1: the making, years in construction, you'll be inspired to start
Speaker 1: a new one again. Our desire for things to happen
Speaker 1: this year and now achievable three months targets results blocks
Speaker 1: us from starting something new because you think, oh, well,
Speaker 1: this may take five to ten years. Well, let's look
Speaker 1: at it this way. Even five to ten years, you
Speaker 1: achieved your purpose and your goal. Wouldn't that be the
Speaker 1: best thing in the world. Wouldn't that be amazing? Wouldn't
Speaker 1: that be absolutely incredible? Wouldn't you love that? Well, it's possible.
Speaker 1: It's really truly possible. So that's what I want you
Speaker 1: to do with your biggest success. And now I want
Speaker 1: you to ask yourself, what is a moment that you
Speaker 1: felt you failed? When did you feel you failed this year?
Speaker 1: My moment that I failed this year when I realized
Speaker 1: I was working on a project and eleven months went
Speaker 1: by and I realized it was meant to be finished
Speaker 1: in eleven months. But I realized at eleven months that
Speaker 1: me and the person I was working with on we
Speaker 1: wanted it to be different things. And that felt like
Speaker 1: a failure because I wasted eleven months trying to make
Speaker 1: it work, not realizing that we both trying to build
Speaker 1: something totally different, and like a failure I did. I
Speaker 1: feel like, God, I just wasted eleven months. Now I've
Speaker 1: got to carry on working on this and I've got
Speaker 1: to carry on building it, and it's just set me back.
Speaker 1: But guess what, something amazing happened. I got another client
Speaker 1: that inspired me for content for that other project, and
Speaker 1: I got that client exactly at the eleven month mark.
Speaker 1: So that project is now going to be a million
Speaker 1: times better than it would have been in the last
Speaker 1: eleven months because I've met someone who I'm working on
Speaker 1: and that directly impacts that project. So it's fascinating. If
Speaker 1: I would have finished that project in eleven months, it
Speaker 1: wouldn't be as good as it's going to be now.
Speaker 1: How amazing is that? Like? Genuinely it's mind blowing to
Speaker 1: me because I wanted to finish that project in eleven
Speaker 1: months and it would have been good. It would have
Speaker 1: been really great. But now it's going to be phenomenal.
Speaker 1: Look for the blessing. Look for that crack. It is
Speaker 1: a beautiful, roomy quote where you know the light enters
Speaker 1: through the cracks. The crack is where the light enters
Speaker 1: when something's cracking, when something's breaking. Look for that light,
Speaker 1: look for that genuine moment of inspiration and you'll find it.
Speaker 1: You'll see it, and it will be better than what
Speaker 1: you imagine. It will be better than what you expected.
Speaker 1: It will be phenomenal. The next question is what is
Speaker 1: something you want to learn next year? This is a
Speaker 1: really beautiful question to ask because we often focus on goals,
Speaker 1: and I want you to focus on growth instead of
Speaker 1: goal setting. I want you to focus on growth setting
Speaker 1: goal setting. Is I want to be an author next year?
Speaker 1: I want to start a podcast? Okay, but what's your growth?
Speaker 1: I want to learn to be a writer. I want
Speaker 1: to learn how to set up a podcast. Learning how
Speaker 1: to build a podcast is better than launching a podcast.
Speaker 1: And you may say, well, part of learning is launching.
Speaker 1: Sure it is, but at least you want to learn
Speaker 1: and plan and prepare to focus on growth setting, not
Speaker 1: goal setting. What is the growth you want to have
Speaker 1: next year? When I think about my next year and
Speaker 1: the growth I want to have, one of the biggest
Speaker 1: things I want to learn is I want to go
Speaker 1: back to public speaking school, drama school. These are things
Speaker 1: I did when I was growing up, and I want
Speaker 1: to go back. I want to explore different parts of
Speaker 1: myself and different ways of expressing my purpose. I loved
Speaker 1: poetry and spoken word growing up. I want to go
Speaker 1: back and learn that art again and allow myself to
Speaker 1: be even more fulfilled by being more poetic with my
Speaker 1: words and being able to share ideas and messages. That's
Speaker 1: what I want to learn next year, and I'm sharing
Speaker 1: that with you all to be accountable to it. I'll
Speaker 1: keep you updated and I want you to keep me updated.
Speaker 1: I'm going to keep you accountable because you're in the
Speaker 1: on Purpose community, and if you've joined the Genius community,
Speaker 1: you'll be even more accountable. So really think about that.
Speaker 1: And now the final question I want to ask you
Speaker 1: is what is your favorite way to refuel? We rarely
Speaker 1: reflect on how did we best rest, how did we
Speaker 1: best refuel? How did we best feel energized? And to me,
Speaker 1: time and time again, it comes to the exercise I
Speaker 1: did working out more and doing a lot of strength training.
Speaker 1: I did a lot more weight training this year just
Speaker 1: for strength, just to build genuine inner strength as well,
Speaker 1: and that to me, did wonders for how I felt.
Speaker 1: I was doing a lot of cardio for a long time,
Speaker 1: playing a lot of tennis, but I really found that
Speaker 1: the strength training changed how I felt about my body
Speaker 1: and my mind and everything else. So that is one, two, three, four, five, six, seven, eight,
Speaker 1: nine questions, and those nine questions will be how you'll
Speaker 1: reflect for this end of this year. And to simple
Speaker 1: answer to those nine questions will help guide you to
Speaker 1: your best self. So I want you to make some
Speaker 1: time between now and the end of year to just
Speaker 1: reflect on these nine questions. I've shared with you my answers,
Speaker 1: I've shared with you my thoughts, and I really really
Speaker 1: hope that you will make some time and don't miss
Speaker 1: next week's episode. It's going to be really powerful. I'm excited.
Speaker 1: Thank you everyone for listening to on Purpose. I'm so
Speaker 1: grateful to you for being a part of this community.
Speaker 1: We have one more episode until the final episode of
Speaker 1: this year, and a couple more episodes actually, but I
Speaker 1: just want to say thank you to you, and how
Speaker 1: grateful I am to each and every one of you
Speaker 1: who have left a review. We have now seventeen thousand reviews.
Speaker 1: If you have not left one, it would mean the
Speaker 1: world to me if you go out and leave a review.
Speaker 1: This one was from Lacy. She says, can't stop listening
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Speaker 1: And then this one from Tiff says, you are truly inspiring.
Speaker 1: I love listening to you, especially on my way to
Speaker 1: work and even throughout the day. You have made me
Speaker 1: realize so many important things that have helped me to
Speaker 1: start a more healthy lifestyle mentally and physically. I appreciate
Speaker 1: this one. This one is from Tatty. I just think
Speaker 1: there's something about Jay's energy that feels genuine, and his
Speaker 1: voice in tone has become a place of comfort, not
Speaker 1: to be creepy or anything low. I gravitate towards his
Speaker 1: authenticity that means the world to me. Taddy, thank you
Speaker 1: so much. You know it's one of those things that
Speaker 1: none of us are perfect. We're always trying to figure
Speaker 1: it out. I'm always trying to show up the best
Speaker 1: I can for you, and I appreciate that you notice
Speaker 1: that I'm trying and that's all I ask for, is
Speaker 1: that just know that I'm trying my best. Ritzel says
Speaker 1: today's episode was so powerful. I love you, Jay, thank
Speaker 1: you for your mindfulness and constant support. My friend, thank you.
Speaker 1: This was from Christina Gray. I was feeling stuck. I
Speaker 1: couldn't figure out what I was doing wrong. Now I
Speaker 1: understand I wasn't celebrating myself enough and or celebrating too much.
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