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Speaker 2: Could be yours. Buckle up and hold on tight. We

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Speaker 2: got it for you here. It is Strawberry.

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Speaker 1: Letter, thanking a for you subject. Where should I sit?

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Speaker 1: There's Steven Shirley. I'm a fifty five year old married

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Speaker 1: woman and my husband is currently going through a very

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Speaker 1: disrespectful stage of life. He thinks he's a scholar and

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Speaker 1: a comedian, and he is flirtatious with younger women, my

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Speaker 1: son's girlfriend in particular. I've heard my husband congratulate my

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Speaker 1: where does she work work out? And is her mama

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Speaker 1: as fine as she is? I thought it was father

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Speaker 1: son bonding, but he has gotten worse. We had Memorial

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Speaker 1: Day get together and my son's girlfriend came over with

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Speaker 1: her little girl.

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Speaker 3: Excuse me.

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Speaker 1: The little girl was attached to me because she said

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Speaker 1: I reminded her of her grandmother. The girlfriend was walking

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Speaker 1: around with a plate on the patio and all the

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Speaker 1: seats were taken, and she asked my husband where should

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Speaker 1: I sit. My super ignorant husband said I know where

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Speaker 1: He had a dirty old man look on his face

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Speaker 1: I loudly told him to sit his ass down somewhere. Immediately,

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Speaker 1: he got bristly with me and we had a screaming

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Speaker 1: match in front of our guests. He said he wasn't

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Speaker 1: flirting and it was a joke. I took a lot.

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Speaker 1: I take a lot of mess from him, but I

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Speaker 1: don't have to tolerate this in my house. My son

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Speaker 1: is in support of his father because maybe he he

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Speaker 1: doesn't know my husband was implying something nasty when he

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Speaker 1: The girl was at our house again last night and

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Speaker 1: she was acting funny too. What's going on with my husband?

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Speaker 1: Did I overreact? Or is my husband playing me for

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Speaker 1: a fool? Please?

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Speaker 2: Help.

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Speaker 1: Well, I don't think your husband's playing you for a fool.

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Speaker 1: I don't think that. Did you overreact? Well, maybe you did,

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Speaker 1: but you know, I just tell you don't second guess

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Speaker 1: yourself if you think something was going on, if you

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Speaker 1: intuition and all of that. We know how with other

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Speaker 1: women are at our house and if they're flirting with our.

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Speaker 3: Men and all of that.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you know, you probably were right about your

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Speaker 1: husband's response to his son's disrespectful girlfriend.

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Speaker 3: Where do I sit and he goes? I know where

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Speaker 3: you can sit?

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Speaker 1: Did he show her a seat or did he just

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Speaker 1: say that you said he had a dirty old man look.

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Speaker 3: On his face.

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Speaker 1: I just think you know, it was too bad your

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Speaker 1: husband was flirting with this young lady and allowed this

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Speaker 1: kind of foolishness to go down. And the fact that

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Speaker 3: What was that about?

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Speaker 1: No, I mean, I think he was feeling guilty at

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Speaker 1: this point because he knew that he was flirting with

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Speaker 1: for you to take it except that he was low key.

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Speaker 1: I don't know kind of hitting on her. I just say,

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Speaker 1: who does this type of thing in front of their

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Speaker 1: and no, you shouldn't be expected to apologize to him.

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Speaker 1: You weren't the one who said this to the guests.

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Speaker 1: Your husband was, and he flipped it. Now you're feeling guilty.

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Speaker 1: Now you're feeling like you should apologize, and you overreacted.

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Speaker 1: I think you're dead on your spot on and I

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Speaker 4: Steve Sulmada times agree the lot of things, and Shirley

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Speaker 4: has given some answers that I have been in total

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Speaker 4: her segment on the Strawberry Letter, but sometimes she fails

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Speaker 4: in her obligation miserably, and this is the one time

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Speaker 4: that I think she has failed. Sureley, you made some

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Speaker 4: statements in this I can't believe you made it. The

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Speaker 4: girl has not been disrespectful in here at all. The

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Speaker 4: sit with not being disrespectful? Let me go through this

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Speaker 4: letter so I can save this marriage before Shirley and

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Speaker 4: another one, Oh to break up, you might as well.

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Speaker 4: Uh you fifty six years old lady, And she says

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Speaker 4: her husband's currently going through a very disrespectful stage of life.

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Speaker 4: Your son has a girlfriend, and you've heard your son,

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Speaker 4: your husband congratulate your son. I'm pulling somebody so fine,

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Speaker 4: asking questions like where she work out, and that's her.

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Speaker 4: Mama's fine as she is. Now, let me say something.

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Speaker 4: When my sons come home with a fine you know

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Speaker 4: they I'm on their Instagram with them. Dad, don't want

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Speaker 4: you to meet this girl what she look like, because

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Speaker 4: I know they know so that they got an ig

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Speaker 4: page and all this heit And I'm looking at me

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Speaker 4: and I'll live vicariously through my boys, because.

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Speaker 2: I mean, boy, I'm talking about whoo. Come on, come through, boy,

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Speaker 2: come through songs. You know I've said stuff like you

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Speaker 2: better be a hoggy show what you're working with.

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Speaker 4: Come on, boy, I see you lord and have mercy.

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Speaker 2: Girl.

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Speaker 4: I've asked a little girl, girl, you ever had thanksgiving

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Speaker 4: us some and some well off people house, you know,

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Speaker 4: stuff like that.

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Speaker 2: You know, But so I know what he's doing.

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Speaker 4: I thought it was father's son bonding, but he has

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Speaker 4: gotten worse. I had a Memorial Day gathering. Son's girlfriend

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Speaker 4: she asked my husband, where should I sit? That wasn't

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Speaker 4: being disrespectful, you said. She was walking around the patio

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Speaker 4: and all the seats were taken. She said where should

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Speaker 4: I sit? My superdignant husband said, I know where you

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Speaker 4: can sit. God, don't you almost jumped up the tackle

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Speaker 4: till we come back.

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Speaker 1: I straightened it out for you at twenty three minutes

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Speaker 1: after the hour. We'll come back to recap the Strawberry

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Speaker 1: letter right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter.

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Speaker 1: The subject is where should I sit?

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Speaker 4: This woman who's fifty five is married to this man,

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Speaker 4: she said, going through a very uh which what does

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Speaker 4: she call a disrespectful stage of life? And especially when

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Speaker 4: it comes to his son's girlfriend. And we bought over

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Speaker 4: to the house and she bang it she fine, So

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Speaker 4: he asking her questions like where you work out?

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Speaker 2: You know, you know what is your mama as fine

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Speaker 2: as she is?

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Speaker 4: Hell yeah, hell yeah, I can tell you right now, Yeah,

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Speaker 4: I can tell you right now here. Yes, you're find

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Speaker 4: And daddy thought that, and you thought it was father's

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Speaker 2: Got worse. The girl came over from Tomorrow. They bought

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Speaker 4: The little girl was attracted to her mother because the

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Speaker 4: lady wrote the letter because you minded her grandmama. And

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Speaker 4: the girlfriend was walking around with a plate on the

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Speaker 4: patio and all the seats were taken. The lady said,

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Speaker 4: all the seats was taken, So she asked, my husband,

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Speaker 4: where should I sit my super ignorant husband said, I

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Speaker 4: know where you can sit.

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Speaker 2: Oh, I know where you can sit.

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Speaker 4: I know how I said it sick, so you want

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Speaker 4: to see huh. I almost jumped up and tackled it.

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Speaker 4: He had a dirty old man look on his face,

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Speaker 4: and the girlfriend was smiling from ear to ear. He's

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Speaker 4: flattering his son's girlfriend publicly in front of everyone. Now

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Speaker 4: it's this bad judgment. Yep, it's just being done in

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Speaker 4: But he's doing it in front of everybody, so he

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Speaker 4: don't really see the harm in it. So I loudly

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Speaker 4: it was a joke. Now I believe that he wasn't flirting,

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Speaker 4: but it was a joke.

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Speaker 2: Now. Was it in poor taste? Yes?

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Speaker 4: Was the tithing of it bad, yes, But this joke

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Speaker 4: He did this in front of everybody. I take a

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Speaker 4: lot of mess from him, But I don't have to

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Speaker 4: tolerate this in my house. My son is in support

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Speaker 4: of his father because maybe he don't know my husband

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Speaker 4: applying something nasty when he said that to his girlfriend. No,

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Speaker 4: he wasn't implying something nasty. He was implying something escape.

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Speaker 4: He not being nasty with his son's girlfriend. Your husband

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Speaker 4: shouldn't have said it that way. And it's poor taste

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Speaker 4: and bad timing. But I know people that tell bad

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Speaker 4: And plus you don't know what you're not privy to

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Speaker 4: for the mothers. I can just tell y'all that right now,

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Speaker 4: what I say to Winton, Jason and Stevie that this

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Speaker 2: So he didn't let one out in front of you.

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Speaker 2: That's what happened.

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Speaker 4: Now, Shirley says, trust your heart and everything, and this

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Speaker 4: disrespectful girl walking around your the girl has done nothing.

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Speaker 4: She just walking around straight up fighting and if you

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Speaker 4: got to be penalized for being fresh? No you no,

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Speaker 4: that's exactly what you said.

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Speaker 3: Yeah I did. I did because she asked. She didn't

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Speaker 3: have to. She walking around with a plate, flouncing around.

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Speaker 3: All the seats are taken.

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Speaker 4: No, she flounced around because she fine, it ain't flouncing

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Speaker 4: it just do what it do?

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Speaker 2: Its shape like that? Could it move like that?

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Speaker 1: He flirts with younger women, and his girlfriend in particular,

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Speaker 1: so he was flirting.

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Speaker 4: No, sureley, listen, that's what the mother. The mother said,

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Speaker 4: he wasn't flirting, and it was a joke. I take

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Speaker 4: a lot of mess around, but I tolerate this a mile.

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Speaker 3: Oh whatever, No, we're not doing that.

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Speaker 2: She's sitting up that.

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Speaker 4: Made all the barbecue plates. Now, little fine mama that

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Speaker 4: Is sho apologize to her hook for loudly going off

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Speaker 2: That part she was wrong?

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Speaker 3: All right, I think we have to come back with

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Speaker 1: do a part three of the Strawberry Letter. There are

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Speaker 1: questions to the letter. The subject is where should I sit?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I can't take you when somebody else find in

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Speaker 3: What all buddy stupid?

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Speaker 2: I can't call it this your man Cedric D.

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Speaker 1: The Strawberry letter subject today was where should I Sit?

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Speaker 1: It was from a fifty five year old woman who

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Speaker 1: very flirtatious with younger women and his son's girlfriend in particular,

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Speaker 1: they had a barbecue. The young lady was there carrying

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Speaker 4: And this started a very loud fight and argument in

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Speaker 4: I know the guy that was distasteful what he said

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Speaker 1: Yeah, his house in front of his wife, is his

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Speaker 4: And in front of everybody. But then she jumped up

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Speaker 4: They had a loud screaming match. And I think that

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Speaker 4: and checked it.

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Speaker 1: But I was to say, he said what he said

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Speaker 1: in front of everyone, right, pull him to the side,

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Speaker 4: He thought he was being funny and a joke, bad timing,

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Speaker 4: poor choice of jokes, distasteful, But the way to check

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Speaker 4: him was not in front of everybody.

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Speaker 2: She was wrong.

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Speaker 3: Respect, she felt disrespected.

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Speaker 1: The wife did in front of the son is not

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Speaker 5: Around. So if the married couple had a daughter who

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Speaker 5: came with a fine boy and the boyfriend said where

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Speaker 5: should I sit? And the wife said, I know where

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Speaker 2: The That's not what this story is. That's not what

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Speaker 2: this story is.

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Speaker 1: This you guys trying to flip it it, flip it

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Speaker 1: from the world flipping it.

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Speaker 3: We're not up, Tommy, We're not flipping it at all.

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Speaker 4: See, there's no such thing as a dirty old woman,

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Speaker 4: has a such thing as a dirty old man.

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Speaker 3: Y'all don't have dirty in this letter.

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Speaker 2: That's not what y'all do.

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Speaker 3: So you do, though, what was the man?

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Speaker 1: I know where you could sit exactly? That's why he

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Speaker 1: got it right there in front of everybody.

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Speaker 3: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show