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Speaker 1: Fred Show. Hey see Ja, good morning, Welcome to the program.

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Speaker 2: I'm good, I'm all right.

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Speaker 1: How are you okay? We're doing great here we are

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Speaker 1: waiting by the phone, trying to figure out what's going

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Speaker 1: on when you and this woman Liz. You know, maybe

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Speaker 1: you've been ghosted, maybe not, So why don't you explain that,

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Speaker 1: you know, kind of kind of set it up for us,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So I met Liz at a friend's Halloween party.

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Speaker 2: We hit it off. We were chatting all kind of

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Speaker 2: I was like, I'm going to take you out then

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Speaker 2: We went out, went to dinner, and she was acting

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Speaker 2: She didn't stay very long. I was like, why didn't

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Speaker 2: I was pretty stoked. I was pretty excited about hanging

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Speaker 1: Wow wow, okay, so kind of you know, just almost

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Speaker 1: We love Yeah, okay, so let's let's do this. I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna play a song come back in a couple of minutes,

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Speaker 1: we'll call Liz. You'll be on the phone. We'll ask

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Speaker 1: bad day. Who knows what happened. We can set you

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Speaker 1: It's the Fread Show. Good morning, Taylor. It's the Fread Show.

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Speaker 1: Good morning. Almost an hour of commercial free program right now.

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Speaker 1: Hey CJ, all right, welcome back. Let's call it Liz.

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Speaker 1: You guys, you met at a party, right and then

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Speaker 1: All right, let's call her now? Good luck?

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Speaker 2: Thanks? Hi?

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Speaker 1: Is this Liz?

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Speaker 2: Uh? Yes? This is what?

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Speaker 1: Well that's what he signed up for this, So what

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Speaker 2: Like we'd said, I'm a single guy. I was I

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Speaker 1: Okay, So wow, he's owning it, because you're right, a

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Speaker 1: I mean, I would like to go out again if

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Speaker 3: No, and then you're not even using you're not even

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Speaker 1: He's not hiding it. You know, I'm saying he wasn't

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Speaker 1: c J, I don't think this is going to work out.

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Speaker 1: But Liz, I'll ask, do you want to go out again?

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Speaker 1: happy Halloween everyone, So I actually keep it up from

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Speaker 2: Missus?

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Speaker 1: Plan B Halloween.

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Speaker 1: Were you Cowboy Ken? No, he's a straight shoe. Nothing

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Speaker 1: is more fulfilling to make it. Ruby a law A

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Speaker 1: bad joke, no wonder, I think I'm funny, Liz. Thank

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Speaker 1: you for your time, CJ, best of luck to you

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Speaker 1: as well.

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Speaker 2: Sorry, dude, Hey, thanks for trying.

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Speaker 1: By Linz