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Speaker 1: Hey, guys, it's Jana and I am back with my

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Speaker 1: dating and how it's going.

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Speaker 2: For my girl.

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Speaker 1: All right, girl, let's dive back into our convo. So

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Speaker 1: whenever I ever get someone that DMS me about them

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Speaker 1: going through divorce, I'm so sad for them because I

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Speaker 1: know the feeling and we know how awful it is.

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Speaker 1: But I always end it with and I'm so excited

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Speaker 1: for you because there's going to be a brighter version,

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Speaker 1: love again, you get to receive what you really deserve

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Speaker 1: and not settle for less. But that doesn't mean that

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Speaker 1: it's not hard in the process. And that is what

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Speaker 1: we continue on with this conversation, and you know, in

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Speaker 1: our walks and our talks, and that's why you know,

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Speaker 1: I'm excited talk to you about it because it is.

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Speaker 1: Dating isn't easy, no, but it doesn't have to be

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Speaker 1: horrible exactly. So I think there's the ebbs and the

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Speaker 1: flows right, So for you now that you have because

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Speaker 1: how many years now has it been too? Two years?

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Speaker 1: So you're two years divorced. When do you think actually

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Speaker 1: it's appropriate to start dating again. I never really follow timelines. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I think it's like a feeling thing. But well, I

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Speaker 1: think you have to be honest with yourself.

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Speaker 3: I think, you know, like are we dating to mask

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Speaker 2: You know? Or maybe you know.

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Speaker 3: Somebody truly that you would really you know, like really

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Speaker 3: into your life at you know, maybe the two month mark.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I don't think there's like I don't like

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Speaker 3: I didn't even really think about it, like when I

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Speaker 3: I didn't even really.

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Speaker 2: Again.

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Speaker 3: I was just like so focused on my growing my

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Speaker 3: that's what I did. I didn't jump into dating. I

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Speaker 3: jumped into travel, right, that was my.

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Speaker 2: That's what I did.

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Speaker 3: And so I don't have an answer for that. For me,

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Speaker 3: it was it was a while, I mean, my goodness,

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Speaker 3: oh well eight months maybe or something. And it was

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Speaker 3: because of you anyway that even prompted me to entertain anything,

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Speaker 3: you know, So I probably wouldn't have like started until later.

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Speaker 1: Well, I just because I think it's one of those things,

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Speaker 1: like we said early on, it's it's a bit of

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Speaker 1: I'm actually I don't. Yeah, you know, I'm sure there's

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Speaker 1: this well feeling you get post divorce.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, and sometimes you do need like a

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Speaker 3: I whenever I did kind of start dating, I was

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Speaker 2: Men are awful.

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Speaker 3: My gosh, dating like that will never come out of

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Speaker 1: So I I think it's fun and we have some

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Speaker 2: What are the lows?

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Speaker 1: Do you think that I've said, I it's it's discouraging

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Speaker 3: I feel like, you know, any man that I've talked

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Speaker 3: Only I've only had really interesting men that like are

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Speaker 1: Do you have moments where you wonder if you'll ever

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Speaker 1: And what is because there's times when we walk and

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Speaker 1: Exactly though, because when you're like the other day you

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Speaker 3: I one thousand percent am so freaking happy in my life,

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Speaker 2: I could find a word for you. It's joyful. Feel

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Speaker 3: You know, I have this company that fills me with

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Speaker 3: such joy and you know, inspiration, and that continues to grow.

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Speaker 3: I have these beautiful children, I have the most amazing friendships.

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Speaker 3: My family's so freaking great. You know, I get to travel,

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Speaker 3: when I tell you I'm at a high, I'm really

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Speaker 3: at a high. But that doesn't mean that I don't

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Speaker 3: have space or that I don't necessarily want somebody to

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Speaker 3: I want, I totally do, and I do want that. However,

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Speaker 3: I want it, Yeah, but I really don't mean I'm

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Speaker 3: I'm happy at my home on a Saturday night with

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Speaker 2: Right.

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Speaker 1: I think it's important too, because there's no point in

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Speaker 1: why go through that again if it's not the right

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Speaker 3: And that's just where I feel so powerful and so

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Speaker 2: Is like the most powerful thing I've ever experienced in

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Speaker 3: Ask for what you want, not give a sh what

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Speaker 1: What is your biggest when you now that you're in

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Speaker 2: Well? Is it that it's Rayahs the worst? Or no?

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Speaker 3: And that's all that I've between, you know, friends introducing

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Speaker 3: I don't go out much, so I'm not meet somebody

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Speaker 2: And are you know, willing to maybe be.

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Speaker 2: What has been like? What gives you the most eck

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Speaker 2: on a date? Oh? Lord? Dating in your forties? What

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Speaker 1: You said, you like it all inclusive, and I'm auty

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Speaker 1: five hundred.

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Speaker 2: It can happen that quick, and.

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Speaker 3: So's it's a scary place sometimes because you're like, whoa

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Speaker 1: Let's do that.

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Speaker 3: I am such a detailed, curated, experiential person, Like if

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Speaker 3: be perfectly curated. And yeah, boutiky. But anyway, we digressed.

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Speaker 2: Yes, So the biggest.

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Speaker 3: Ick, Oh, I have a couple actually, so listen up.

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Speaker 3: Dudes getting drunk are having more than like two glasses

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Speaker 3: of wine or a cocktail. I mean, I remember I

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Speaker 2: It's just I'm just not about that.

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Speaker 3: I don't like it. It's a total ick to me. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: like just getting drunk in general at this age. You know,

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Speaker 3: I'm forty six years old, I'm you know, dating my

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Speaker 3: I want to be in that environment. Totally cool if

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Speaker 2: I don't have to do that. Do I want like this.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Well, I have a health and wellness coaching company

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Speaker 1: a FaceTime and you're gonna not waste your time.

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Speaker 3: No, you've helped me for that for sure. I've I've

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Speaker 3: definitely put that into my routine. You're awesome.

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Speaker 1: I gotta FaceTime you first because it's just really I mean,

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Speaker 1: that's why I'm like, hmm, blind dates, You're just.

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Speaker 2: No, I'm not interested in a blind date.

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Speaker 1: I mean at this point, it's but what I think

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Speaker 1: this summer we go to New York and we just

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Speaker 1: you know, because you got it. You gotta get out right,

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Speaker 1: got to get out, gotta gotta meet people. Let's just

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Speaker 1: find little girls weekend and you know, to anyone listening pamelin,

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Speaker 1: where can they find you? Flied into our DMS.

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Speaker 2: House of Pamelin on Instagram.

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Speaker 1: Famelin, you are the best things for being on the pod,

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Speaker 1: sharing your experience. I love you so much and I

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Speaker 1: know that you are going to get the ending that

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Speaker 1: you deserve and the love that you've always deserved to have.

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Speaker 2: Thank you, Thank you, friend, I appreciate you.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so we're going to put some info up on

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Speaker 1: our socials at I Do Part two pod, so you

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Speaker 1: can see my gorgeous friend inside and out, and I

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Speaker 1: want you to share it. So send it to your brothers,

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Speaker 1: going to try and make an actual love connection because

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Speaker 1: that is why we created this show. So let's help

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Speaker 1: my bestie find her true love.

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Speaker 2: I love you.

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Speaker 1: Thank you again for just being open to chatting about this.

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Speaker 1: I'm excited for your love journey and I'm glad you

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Speaker 1: are actually taking me along on this process now not

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Speaker 1: not how you deal with the divorce. So thank you

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Speaker 1: and listeners. Are you like Pamelin and navigating after divorce?

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Speaker 1: Call us and email us and maybe we'll work on

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