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Speaker 3: I dumped my boyfriend because he lied to see his X.

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Speaker 2: That's just gross, man. Come on.

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Speaker 3: I thirty one female, met my ex thirty nine male

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Speaker 3: in July last year. We started as spicy sleep buddies,

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Speaker 3: but after two months we moved in together. For a while,

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Speaker 3: everything was fine. We were always honest with each other.

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Speaker 3: So he told me he had a debt to his

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Speaker 3: ex and stayed in touch with her, giving her money

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Speaker 3: when she asked for different things plane tickets, hair extensions,

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Speaker 3: lip fillers to pay her back radually. Okay, she knew

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Speaker 3: about me and they never met up until one week ago.

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Speaker 3: By the way, this comes from Calm Witch seven. And

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Speaker 3: the r slash Okay Storytime, Separate it hot take. My

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Speaker 3: name is Sophia, my name is Riley.

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Speaker 4: And I'm Keon. What's your hot take?

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Speaker 2: And as Riley saying, here, you're the side piece.

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Speaker 3: I mean, he's paying for lip injection.

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Speaker 2: That's honestly, what is this debt? Yeah, honestly, this is

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Speaker 2: a good excuse of your cheating. Be like, hey, I

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Speaker 2: actually owe my ex some money, so I'm gonna like

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Speaker 2: so they'll be okay with the finances, because that's also

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Speaker 2: like a struggle between couples.

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Speaker 4: Why do you owe your ex money?

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Speaker 3: Huh, that's my question.

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Speaker 2: Get creative.

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Speaker 3: He called me after work to meet at the bank

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Speaker 3: so he could put money on the car to buy

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Speaker 3: her plane tickets. Oh okay, so suspicious. She was coming

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Speaker 3: to town and flying out the next day. Then he

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Speaker 3: told me we'd meet later because he had to go

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Speaker 3: to his boss's house to get some papers. Since I

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Speaker 3: was in no mood to stay home, I asked him

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Speaker 3: to take me with him. He generally takes me when

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Speaker 3: That's when his face turned green and he told me no.

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Speaker 2: Go home.

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Speaker 4: Got turned into the hulk.

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Speaker 3: I asked why, and he said, because you never.

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Speaker 2: Know, because his boss is his girlfriend.

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Speaker 3: Because you never know. What I said, that wasn't a

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Speaker 3: good answer, and I stormed my car. He followed behind me,

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Speaker 3: saying he'd be back in no time and asked for

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Speaker 3: a kiss. I said no, got in my car and

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Speaker 3: mumbled that we'd talk when he came home. One hour passed.

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Speaker 3: I called him twice with no answer. Then he called

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Speaker 3: me back, asking what I wanted now, calling me stressed.

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Speaker 3: I asked where he was, and he said he was

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Speaker 3: leaving and would be home in thirty minutes. Another hour passed,

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Speaker 3: so I called again. By the third call, he answered

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Speaker 3: clearly irritated. When I asked where he was, he said

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Speaker 3: He said he didn't know because he had to go

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Speaker 3: to his father's too. I told him he was a

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Speaker 3: lying since it was already ten thirty pm and his

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 3: So he needed to tell me when he'd be home.

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Speaker 3: He said, twenty minutes. Is he getting me another hour?

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Speaker 3: Or actually twenty minutes.

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Speaker 2: Yes, the help some more paper work to write some

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Speaker 2: stuff with his pin.

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Speaker 3: I'm not a jealous person, but I have a gut

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Speaker 3: feeling when something's off. He came home after another hour

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Speaker 3: and went straight to the shower.

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Speaker 2: Uh oh, cheat ting, cheat ting, Yeah, that's that's not

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Speaker 4: You got a you know they got you go that

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Speaker 4: one song? Right? Guys? Why are you coming home at

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Speaker 4: five in the morning? Can I smell your ew? It's

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Speaker 4: a song?

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Speaker 2: What effing's song is that?

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Speaker 4: Wow? You guys are so young?

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Speaker 2: Chat? Well, no, when he come out, come out? Who

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Speaker 2: sings that song?

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Speaker 4: I want to look it up right now?

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Speaker 2: I don't look it up. Also, cheaters shower. If you

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Speaker 3: Anyone who's showered.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's like the cheater song. You don't remember this.

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Speaker 3: This was like two thousands.

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Speaker 2: Wa dude, Sorry, I wasn't around two thousand. I was

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Speaker 2: being born when he got out.

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Speaker 3: I asked if he was with his ex.

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Speaker 2: He said no, he said now.

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Speaker 3: Then I asked him to show me the papers he

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Speaker 2: Uh oh, he said he.

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Speaker 3: Wasn't my child, to give explanations, and to let him

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Speaker 3: alarm for him. When I asked what time. He said,

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Speaker 2: Isn't it already like midnight right now?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like like eleven or something. I asked what

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Speaker 3: for and he said he had to drive to another

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Speaker 4: Liar, bad lie, save a good liar, terrible time frame.

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Speaker 3: I told him that wasn't valid. The drive was three

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Speaker 3: the only time this person could meet. How convenient, right,

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Speaker 3: Plus documents like that could easily be sent by career.

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Speaker 3: He insisted he needed to leave in two hours, so

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Speaker 3: I told him, fine, do what you want. But he

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Speaker 3: Then he took his perfume too.

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Speaker 2: Mmm, for your boss.

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Speaker 3: I told him no, he was lying. You can't tell

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Speaker 3: me you're driving to another town at two am. You're

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Speaker 3: gonna spend the night with your ex. I mean, honestly,

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Speaker 3: if I was so sure that that was true, I'd

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Speaker 3: break up with that person. If I was like, you're

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Speaker 3: we're breaking up? What are you doing?

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Speaker 2: I would let them go, hug them goodbye, don't kiss,

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Speaker 3: Yeah. He denied it and stormed off. At three thirty am,

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Speaker 3: I asked him to video call me, but he hung

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Speaker 3: he called me, talking all lovely, saying we'd meet in

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Speaker 3: We went up to talk, but he wouldn't bring up

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Speaker 3: This was supposedly a favor for his boss that could

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Speaker 2: You work at the library.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like, where are you traveling to?

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Speaker 2: You work at a rug store? Okay? Actually, what job

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Speaker 2: doesn't require any traveling whatsoever? Doctor nurse? Well, no, it's

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Speaker 4: Could require a job that it's work from home.

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Speaker 3: But no, maybe people here send documents by careers. So

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Speaker 3: why did he need to go there? And why the

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's weird.

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Speaker 3: I felt like he was lying. I know he's lying,

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Speaker 3: He refused saying I needed no proof and should just

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, this is girl. How much more proof.

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Speaker 5: Do you need?

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Speaker 3: You've got enough proof.

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Speaker 2: You can break up with him? Is his husband or boyfriend?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 2: Boyfriend?

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Speaker 3: Then I took the phone from his hands just to

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Speaker 3: no worries, I'd go tomorrow since we'd a had wine

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Speaker 2: Who's everyone?

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Speaker 3: Who is everyone?

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Speaker 2: Everyone that didn't read this post?

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Speaker 3: Literally? So am I wrong for leaving him because he

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Speaker 2: Oh dude. If we had a geny genie right now

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Speaker 2: and he gave me four wishes because I get one

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Speaker 2: to blow and something stupid, I would ask him to

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Speaker 2: bring us this man to sit here, and he can't move,

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Speaker 2: only his only he can talk, that's about it. And

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Speaker 2: we would interview him and ask him, why did you

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Speaker 2: do this? Why did you go to your boss? YadA

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Speaker 2: YadA YadA until we got out of him.

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Speaker 3: But he can't move or talk.

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Speaker 4: That's literally one of your wishes.

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Speaker 2: If I had four, he gave me the genie, gave

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Speaker 2: me one.

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Speaker 3: For free, and this is what you're using it on.

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Speaker 2: He said it had to be work related.

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Speaker 3: Okay, there we go. You do realize that if he's

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Speaker 3: straying or cheating, you pestering him with phone calls and

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Speaker 3: demanding he come home doesn't actually stop anything, right. This

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Speaker 3: is one of the comments that said, based only on

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Speaker 3: what you describe, you may likely be right with your suspicions.

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Speaker 3: You're a grown adult. If you think he's a lying,

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Speaker 3: cheating pos leave him and move on creating drama. Does

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Speaker 3: what Making yourself look like a lunatic is not going

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Speaker 3: to keep him from cheating if that's what he wants. Honestly,

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Speaker 3: I a little bit agree, just not like I think

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Speaker 3: it's a little bit harsh, but I think that you

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Speaker 3: know you have the proof I think we just leave him.

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Speaker 3: We say, hey, you know, I really don't appreciate that

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Speaker 3: you're treating me like this and you're lying to me,

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Speaker 3: So this.

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Speaker 3: I love pumpkin, me too, Oh, he says, well, maybe

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Speaker 3: Are you saying you paid for this guy to fly

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Speaker 3: for some absurd reason. This relationship was a mess from

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Speaker 3: in your best interest. Stop worrying what other people think.

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Speaker 3: You don't need to discuss this with people in your life.

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Speaker 3: Opie says, No, he forgot his wallet with his card

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Speaker 2: I have a hot theory real quick. Yes, what kind

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Speaker 3: Sugar daddy situation.

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Speaker 2: Remember that person we brought up on TikTok that her

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Speaker 3: Oh comment three, you are right, he's lying to you.

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Speaker 3: You need to let this cheater go back to his ex.

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Speaker 3: He doesn't need to give her money like that. If

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Speaker 3: Opie says, everyone is, including my family and friends, even

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Speaker 3: proof is enforcing my belief. Also, your comment to open

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Speaker 3: He's using that as an excuse. And there is an update, folks, Any.

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Speaker 2: Thoughts, OPI, there are better people out there for you.

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Speaker 3: Yes, who won't make you go crazy.

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Speaker 2: Yep. And being a young thirty one year old woman,

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Speaker 2: you get options. Everything's going to be great. You don't

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Speaker 3: No at all, ikey man, ikey man.

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Speaker 2: No upsides to this, no none. Just focus on yourself

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Speaker 3: I agree, and there is an update. Last night, he

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Speaker 3: It was just a hunch. At first, he denied it,

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Speaker 3: but then he admitted I was right all along there.

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Speaker 2: Sister's apartment. Yeah, what does she know about this? Oh

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Speaker 3: I I'm wondering if the X knows that he's dating someone.

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Speaker 2: Doubt it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like she probably doesn't know. I feel

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he's trying to get it on both sides, and

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Speaker 2: he's letting it be known to you. It's weird if

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean he's just being like, very very suspicious,

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Speaker 3: This is weird, he continues. When they got there, she

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Speaker 3: I thought the hiccups.

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Speaker 2: How old am I gonna supposed to know? These fu

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Speaker 3: Yeah, honestly, that's probably what's going on. He said he

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Speaker 2: Why are you believing him now that.

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Speaker 3: I don't believe him what he said He did it

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Speaker 3: just to make her feel important, knowing he had a girlfriend,

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Speaker 3: had no intentions of sleeping with her, and neither did she.

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Speaker 3: but only because she didn't want to. Yeah, he was

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Speaker 3: there at two in the morning. No way, he didn't

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Speaker 3: want to do a little stuff something. Either way, choosing

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Speaker 3: to go there was disrespectful to me. I mean, he's

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Speaker 3: emotionally cheating you. On the very least. He's a crappy

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Speaker 3: Thank you all for your input and folks, that's the

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Speaker 3: end of that story. But I agree, I agree, listen

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Speaker 2: So glad you didn't they trapped in this for any longer.

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Speaker 2: Two That is insane. He sucks, Like just submitted at

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Speaker 2: that point, don't really bringing up more lies.

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Speaker 3: I just don't understand people that like go to the

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Speaker 3: I'm like, just break up with your partner.

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Speaker 2: I wish. Oh sorry, I no, no, you're good.

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Speaker 4: I was gonna say there are people who just the

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Speaker 4: pathological liars who just love lying in line lie. I

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Speaker 4: think the best person who had that was Dakota. He

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Speaker 4: like I know that was like he was like, that

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Speaker 2: Like I feel like it should be a felony to

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Speaker 2: cheat and lie. You can only do one. You kind

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Speaker 2: of pick one and you have to have both of

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Speaker 2: them to exist. So you too bad, jail. My boyfriend

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Speaker 2: was rude while my father was saying grace, wait until after.

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Speaker 2: So I've nineteen female been dating Kevin, twenty one male

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Speaker 2: maybe ten times a year. Because of that, I thought

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Speaker 2: I might be compatible with an atheist. Oh boy. By

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Speaker 2: the way, this comes from dating an atheist. And if

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Speaker 2: the rsage Okay story timem subreddit. I'm Riley, I'm.

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Speaker 4: Sophia, and I'm not da Kilda.

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Speaker 2: I'm Keon and Opie says so anyway, On Sunday, Kevin

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Speaker 2: and I went to my parents for dinner. It was

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Speaker 2: well until we sat down to eat and my dad

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Speaker 3: That's so disrespectful. I know, I hate that. I'm sorry.

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Speaker 4: No, can you guys control your burps?

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Speaker 2: If someone yeah, if I.

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Speaker 3: Also, you just shouldn't be drinking it while the dad's

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Speaker 4: That legit is one of my pet peeves is when

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, there is a difference between like a like

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Speaker 4: It's a sneeze.

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Speaker 3: He's like hugging a drink while Yeah, that's super rude.

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Speaker 2: It's just like a minute, three minutes of someone's getting

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Speaker 2: everyone has to do supper at a little family reunion

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Speaker 2: and they really have a lot to say on their mind.

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Speaker 3: I just think, like, be respectful.

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Speaker 2: Those get to me. You don't have to pray for

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Speaker 2: ten minutes. Everyone's starving.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, my.

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Speaker 4: Aunt, food's getting cold.

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Speaker 3: We'll do like a whole thing. Gotta go. Everyone's gotta go.

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Speaker 2: Around, and they say, yeah, can we can we do that?

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Speaker 3: We're so hungry. That's why I like. I like regular grace,

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Speaker 3: where you just go, bless the Lord and these I

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Speaker 3: and then you're done.

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Speaker 4: Damn. That's that. That Remember that?

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Speaker 2: Oh oh I still do it, right dad?

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Speaker 3: It makes us do it every night.

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Speaker 2: That's Thanksgiving.

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Speaker 4: I remember I did it with you guys.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Thanksgiving we do pray, but before that we also

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Speaker 2: can we at least get our food going?

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Speaker 3: Thankful for this food?

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Speaker 2: Gonna be in my mouth right now exactly. My dad

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Speaker 2: stopped saying grace to look at Kevin. My dad's mouth

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Speaker 2: was hanging wide open, but he didn't say anything. Kevin

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Speaker 2: did he even say excuse me or anything. So my

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Speaker 3: This isn't even anything to do with him being an atheist.

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Speaker 3: He's just rude, disrespectful, just disrespectful.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Like, imagine if someone take religion out of it. Imagine

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Speaker 2: Is, you know, the monster, take the monster.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, imagine someone's just giving a speech at dinner and

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Speaker 3: saying like, hey, thank you guys for coming out. I really.

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Speaker 2: That would be rude.

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Speaker 3: You'd be like, what what are you doing? Just stop?

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Speaker 3: Just stop.

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh. They would pray for thirty minutes before

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Speaker 2: you had breakfast.

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00:18:47,119 --> 00:18:48,480
Speaker 3: Needo, that's terrible.

442
00:18:48,480 --> 00:18:49,119
Speaker 2: That's a crime.

443
00:18:49,280 --> 00:18:49,840
Speaker 3: That's a crime.

444
00:18:49,920 --> 00:18:55,240
Speaker 2: That's a crime. Oh my gosh. Anyways, anyways, that's so funny.

445
00:18:55,480 --> 00:18:59,760
Speaker 2: The dinner itself was painfully awkward. No one acknowledged what happened,

446
00:18:59,800 --> 00:19:02,240
Speaker 2: but my parents seem pretty annoyed with Kevin, so they

447
00:19:02,280 --> 00:19:05,080
Speaker 2: made small talk about the weather he was taking in school,

448
00:19:05,119 --> 00:19:07,800
Speaker 2: et cetera. After we finished eating. I made an excuse

449
00:19:07,800 --> 00:19:09,879
Speaker 2: for us to leave, and I drove Kevin home. On

450
00:19:09,920 --> 00:19:12,399
Speaker 2: the way home, asked Kevin what his problem was and

451
00:19:12,400 --> 00:19:14,560
Speaker 2: why he was acting so rude during dinner. I first,

452
00:19:14,600 --> 00:19:16,720
Speaker 2: he didn't seem to know what I was talking about, said,

453
00:19:16,720 --> 00:19:19,600
Speaker 2: it's rude to drink during grace, never mind burping as

454
00:19:19,640 --> 00:19:22,600
Speaker 2: loud as you can. Afterwards, he said he's an atheist,

455
00:19:22,680 --> 00:19:25,480
Speaker 2: so he doesn't have to wait for that kind of thing.

456
00:19:25,560 --> 00:19:28,040
Speaker 3: I don't like this guy, Like, I'm sorry, I'm no

457
00:19:28,080 --> 00:19:31,639
Speaker 3: longer religious. I also do how to be respectful, especially

458
00:19:31,680 --> 00:19:33,399
Speaker 3: another person in another person's home.

459
00:19:33,320 --> 00:19:35,080
Speaker 4: That hasn't Yeah, that has something to do with religion.

460
00:19:35,200 --> 00:19:37,040
Speaker 3: That you're just disrespectful, dude.

461
00:19:37,280 --> 00:19:39,439
Speaker 2: Yeah. Also, I have a lot of thoughts on this.

462
00:19:39,480 --> 00:19:42,800
Speaker 3: But want your partner's parents to like you? Yeah, dude, Like,

463
00:19:42,800 --> 00:19:44,960
Speaker 3: wouldn't you want to endear yourself to them?

464
00:19:45,320 --> 00:19:47,159
Speaker 2: Do you feel good that you like stuck it to

465
00:19:47,200 --> 00:19:47,680
Speaker 2: the big man?

466
00:19:47,840 --> 00:19:50,439
Speaker 3: Like, oh, good job, dude. Like if I had a

467
00:19:50,440 --> 00:19:53,240
Speaker 3: partner who was, I don't know, like a different religion,

468
00:19:53,359 --> 00:19:55,280
Speaker 3: their parents were like maybe. Like, let's say if I

469
00:19:55,280 --> 00:19:56,560
Speaker 3: had a partner who's Jewish.

470
00:19:56,240 --> 00:19:58,040
Speaker 2: Pick a fun one Jewish, Come on, pick a fun,

471
00:19:58,160 --> 00:20:01,679
Speaker 2: like a different one out there, Hindu Hindu. Yeah, and

472
00:20:01,760 --> 00:20:03,240
Speaker 2: they were doing like Daoism.

473
00:20:03,520 --> 00:20:05,480
Speaker 3: Sure, they were tallised. I don't know what.

474
00:20:05,800 --> 00:20:08,480
Speaker 2: I though, just like the kind of.

475
00:20:08,680 --> 00:20:10,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I don't know if they have any like.

476
00:20:10,280 --> 00:20:11,920
Speaker 2: Even better, you don't even know what's going on there.

477
00:20:12,040 --> 00:20:14,760
Speaker 3: Okay, Well, well with Judaism there there are like different

478
00:20:14,760 --> 00:20:16,639
Speaker 3: parts and stuff that you could do. My point is,

479
00:20:16,800 --> 00:20:19,720
Speaker 3: if they're doing something and I'm like, well, I'm not Jewish, s,

480
00:20:19,840 --> 00:20:22,680
Speaker 3: I'm gonna be like if you yeah, I'm gonna eat

481
00:20:22,680 --> 00:20:26,480
Speaker 3: my feet, like stop, yeah, be respectful. Yeah, as long

482
00:20:26,480 --> 00:20:29,479
Speaker 3: as they're not forcing you to join their religion and

483
00:20:29,520 --> 00:20:32,359
Speaker 3: they're not and they're being respectful of you, then be

484
00:20:32,480 --> 00:20:33,280
Speaker 3: respectful to them.

485
00:20:33,440 --> 00:20:36,320
Speaker 2: I agree as a Christian, like even if you are

486
00:20:36,320 --> 00:20:37,960
Speaker 2: at someone's house and they're saying grace, you have to

487
00:20:38,000 --> 00:20:40,320
Speaker 2: be respectful and mindful of it. You can't just do

488
00:20:40,359 --> 00:20:42,800
Speaker 2: this either. But this, I don't know it. Honestly, it's

489
00:20:42,840 --> 00:20:45,600
Speaker 2: just a disrespect thing. I honestly, it is about religion.

490
00:20:45,600 --> 00:20:47,600
Speaker 2: But again it's not that makes sense. He said, he's

491
00:20:47,600 --> 00:20:49,320
Speaker 2: an atheist. He doesn't have to wait for that kind

492
00:20:49,359 --> 00:20:52,240
Speaker 2: of thing. I said, that's ridiculous, as he is still

493
00:20:52,280 --> 00:20:54,920
Speaker 2: a guest in my parents' home and he should follow

494
00:20:54,960 --> 00:20:57,640
Speaker 2: the rules. He went off, saying those rules are bs

495
00:20:57,960 --> 00:21:00,400
Speaker 2: kept going on about how religion is the worst, saying.

496
00:21:01,000 --> 00:21:02,080
Speaker 3: I really don't like this guy.

497
00:21:02,240 --> 00:21:04,119
Speaker 2: By the time I dropped him off, I was pretty

498
00:21:04,119 --> 00:21:06,360
Speaker 2: pissed and wanted nothing to do with him. I haven't

499
00:21:06,400 --> 00:21:08,520
Speaker 2: talked to him since, but breaking it up with him

500
00:21:08,760 --> 00:21:10,960
Speaker 2: is a given. That's not why I'm here. I'm here

501
00:21:11,000 --> 00:21:12,919
Speaker 2: because one of the things he said to me was,

502
00:21:12,960 --> 00:21:15,240
Speaker 2: why are you dating an atheist if you expect him

503
00:21:15,240 --> 00:21:18,440
Speaker 2: to act religious? I didn't think simply not eating or

504
00:21:18,480 --> 00:21:22,840
Speaker 2: drinking until after Grace was acting religious not But now

505
00:21:22,920 --> 00:21:25,920
Speaker 2: I'm questioning that. I know Reddit is very pro atheist,

506
00:21:26,040 --> 00:21:28,640
Speaker 2: so I want to get opinions from other atheists. I've

507
00:21:28,640 --> 00:21:31,480
Speaker 2: never dated one before Kevin, so I don't know. He

508
00:21:31,560 --> 00:21:34,800
Speaker 2: says any self respecting atheist would do the same thing.

509
00:21:35,040 --> 00:21:37,000
Speaker 2: Is that true or is he just an a hole?

510
00:21:37,119 --> 00:21:39,879
Speaker 2: My cousin had warned me about dating an atheist, but

511
00:21:40,160 --> 00:21:43,160
Speaker 2: considering I don't take religion too seriously, I didn't think

512
00:21:43,160 --> 00:21:45,439
Speaker 2: it would be an issue. Maybe I was wrong and

513
00:21:45,520 --> 00:21:46,320
Speaker 2: not compatible.

514
00:21:46,359 --> 00:21:47,720
Speaker 3: You're not compatible with this guy.

515
00:21:48,040 --> 00:21:50,120
Speaker 4: No, no, no, this guy's just rude. It's the same

516
00:21:50,160 --> 00:21:52,040
Speaker 4: thing as like you go to a sports event or

517
00:21:52,080 --> 00:21:52,879
Speaker 4: like any sporting.

518
00:21:52,600 --> 00:21:54,879
Speaker 2: Event and they do the national anthem.

519
00:21:54,720 --> 00:21:59,919
Speaker 4: National anthem and someone's like eating, walking or like talking loudly.

520
00:22:00,600 --> 00:22:02,160
Speaker 4: That's the same kind of mindset.

521
00:22:02,440 --> 00:22:04,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think there was. You know, there's a lot

522
00:22:04,720 --> 00:22:06,879
Speaker 3: of people who do not like hold their hand of

523
00:22:06,920 --> 00:22:10,240
Speaker 3: their hearts. Yeah, but there is just a general respect

524
00:22:10,440 --> 00:22:14,359
Speaker 3: that like there are moments just culturally or religiously where

525
00:22:14,480 --> 00:22:16,760
Speaker 3: it's suppose you're supposed to have silence, supposed to be

526
00:22:16,800 --> 00:22:21,320
Speaker 3: a prayer anything. You never have to involve yourself in

527
00:22:21,359 --> 00:22:22,840
Speaker 3: that in the sense of like you don't have to

528
00:22:22,840 --> 00:22:24,760
Speaker 3: speak you don't understand if that's what you don't want

529
00:22:24,760 --> 00:22:27,399
Speaker 3: to do, but be respectful of other people in the

530
00:22:27,560 --> 00:22:32,199
Speaker 3: area who are participating. This has nothing to do with atheists, Like,

531
00:22:32,480 --> 00:22:34,119
Speaker 3: I think that's such a stupid Like I don't like

532
00:22:34,160 --> 00:22:36,040
Speaker 3: that your friends were saying, oh, you can't be dating

533
00:22:36,040 --> 00:22:38,720
Speaker 3: an atheists. You should have expected It's like, no, just

534
00:22:38,800 --> 00:22:42,000
Speaker 3: find someone who's respectful and who's not an ahole, because

535
00:22:42,000 --> 00:22:42,679
Speaker 3: this guy's.

536
00:22:42,440 --> 00:22:45,000
Speaker 2: Just being rude. Yeah, I do think, you know, as

537
00:22:45,000 --> 00:22:48,080
Speaker 2: a Christian, dating someone that isn't a Christian or doesn't

538
00:22:48,080 --> 00:22:49,960
Speaker 2: believe the same beliefs as you. It, it will be

539
00:22:50,040 --> 00:22:51,920
Speaker 2: harder and it will be tougher because you guys don't

540
00:22:51,920 --> 00:22:54,720
Speaker 2: really have the same values or boundaries. But I think

541
00:22:54,720 --> 00:22:56,520
Speaker 2: it's more of the question of can you find someone

542
00:22:56,560 --> 00:23:01,640
Speaker 2: that will respect you as a human and as a joleman? Yeah,

543
00:23:01,080 --> 00:23:02,960
Speaker 2: and he doesn't have that for you.

544
00:23:03,160 --> 00:23:05,200
Speaker 4: And you know, I want to see how this guy

545
00:23:05,280 --> 00:23:09,000
Speaker 4: acts in just arguments too. Oh my gosh, I bus

546
00:23:09,000 --> 00:23:11,080
Speaker 4: if this is how he's arguing things, he's.

547
00:23:11,040 --> 00:23:13,439
Speaker 2: Oh dude, I could not. I could not.

548
00:23:13,760 --> 00:23:16,159
Speaker 4: Oh I'm to do with him being an atheist. It

549
00:23:16,160 --> 00:23:17,640
Speaker 4: has nothing to do with him being an agist. It's

550
00:23:17,640 --> 00:23:20,040
Speaker 4: just the common decency of like, oh, okay.

551
00:23:19,880 --> 00:23:23,160
Speaker 2: Respect, Yeah, exactly so relevant comments. No with the red

552
00:23:23,359 --> 00:23:25,800
Speaker 2: Kevin didn't behave that way because he's an atheist. He

553
00:23:25,840 --> 00:23:28,359
Speaker 2: behaved that way because he's a rude little crap. He says,

554
00:23:28,440 --> 00:23:31,040
Speaker 2: any self respecting atheists would do the same. No, No,

555
00:23:31,280 --> 00:23:34,720
Speaker 2: they wouldn't. He did get a rise and acts somehow superior.

556
00:23:34,880 --> 00:23:39,160
Speaker 2: Kevin's an idiot source atheist that has sat through many prayers,

557
00:23:39,200 --> 00:23:43,040
Speaker 2: graces and weird spiritual moments other people have. I keep

558
00:23:43,040 --> 00:23:45,480
Speaker 2: my mouth shut and usually just think about food or

559
00:23:46,320 --> 00:23:49,520
Speaker 2: what adult soda I want, sometimes cool movies. Op says,

560
00:23:49,520 --> 00:23:52,359
Speaker 2: thinks I know you're right, but Kevin has this way

561
00:23:52,359 --> 00:23:54,880
Speaker 2: of talking that makes him seem like everything he says

562
00:23:55,040 --> 00:23:57,639
Speaker 2: is correct, and I guess it made me self doubt. Also,

563
00:23:57,680 --> 00:24:00,520
Speaker 2: don't be with someone that can't have a conversation with you.

564
00:24:00,680 --> 00:24:02,800
Speaker 3: And who makes every time you have a conversation, they're

565
00:24:02,840 --> 00:24:06,480
Speaker 3: like no, no, no, no, that's not right. You're wrong, right,

566
00:24:07,119 --> 00:24:09,760
Speaker 3: Like stop, shut up, you're not fun. I like you.

567
00:24:09,800 --> 00:24:12,359
Speaker 2: Please give us an update after you've punted that urge

568
00:24:12,400 --> 00:24:14,479
Speaker 2: to the curb. He has a lot of growing up

569
00:24:14,520 --> 00:24:16,960
Speaker 2: to do. I can't imagine how awful you must have

570
00:24:17,000 --> 00:24:19,920
Speaker 2: felt in that moment. Thankfully it's only been a few months, hope,

571
00:24:19,920 --> 00:24:23,040
Speaker 2: he says, not much of an update, but reading the comments,

572
00:24:23,040 --> 00:24:25,240
Speaker 2: maybe realize just how much of an a hole he is.

573
00:24:25,440 --> 00:24:28,160
Speaker 2: Started to think about pastimes where he refused to think

574
00:24:28,200 --> 00:24:30,600
Speaker 2: he was wrong. He's very arrogant. I don't know why

575
00:24:30,600 --> 00:24:33,240
Speaker 2: I didn't realize that until now. I was already planning

576
00:24:33,280 --> 00:24:35,440
Speaker 2: on breaking up with him. So I sent a little

577
00:24:35,440 --> 00:24:38,400
Speaker 2: text a while ago saying it's over. His response was.

578
00:24:38,560 --> 00:24:41,200
Speaker 4: Whatever, yeah again, Yeah, called it out. Yeah, this guy

579
00:24:41,760 --> 00:24:43,120
Speaker 4: just how he acts. He is high and mighty.

580
00:24:43,240 --> 00:24:46,040
Speaker 2: Dude. Put the prayer hands emojis go back to him.

581
00:24:46,080 --> 00:24:46,399
Speaker 3: Prayers.

582
00:24:46,480 --> 00:24:46,640
Speaker 1: Yeah.

583
00:24:46,720 --> 00:24:49,040
Speaker 4: Also, Red Bull has a comment for you, right, all.

584
00:24:49,000 --> 00:24:51,760
Speaker 2: Right, hope, he continues, thank you everyone for the responses.

585
00:24:51,920 --> 00:24:54,280
Speaker 2: You're absolutely right. This is a matter of Kevin being

586
00:24:54,320 --> 00:24:58,200
Speaker 2: a knucklead. Nothing about atheists. Hi, I'm Arrows, says, show

587
00:24:58,280 --> 00:25:00,600
Speaker 2: Kevin the comments on this post. He's not gonna care, hope,

588
00:25:00,640 --> 00:25:02,440
Speaker 2: he says, not worth my time, to be honest, he

589
00:25:02,480 --> 00:25:04,560
Speaker 2: said whatever. When Op broke up with him, He's not

590
00:25:04,560 --> 00:25:06,640
Speaker 2: gonna care. She says, I'm done with him, and he'll

591
00:25:06,680 --> 00:25:09,000
Speaker 2: have to figure out just how arrogant he is on

592
00:25:09,040 --> 00:25:11,680
Speaker 2: his own. We got an update six weeks later.

593
00:25:12,000 --> 00:25:14,840
Speaker 3: I hope it's just that you stayed broken up. Yeah,

594
00:25:14,880 --> 00:25:15,320
Speaker 3: that's it.

595
00:25:15,520 --> 00:25:18,360
Speaker 2: I hope this doesn't turn anything creepy or like he's

596
00:25:18,400 --> 00:25:19,479
Speaker 2: stalking you or something.

597
00:25:19,600 --> 00:25:21,680
Speaker 3: I really hope not. That would be bad.

598
00:25:22,080 --> 00:25:24,760
Speaker 4: And like I remember when we did say grace at

599
00:25:25,000 --> 00:25:27,720
Speaker 4: one dinner and someone was like talking he didn't know,

600
00:25:27,760 --> 00:25:30,720
Speaker 4: he genuinely didn't know. Yeah, And that's okay to be like, hey,

601
00:25:30,760 --> 00:25:31,480
Speaker 4: this is the time to.

602
00:25:31,480 --> 00:25:34,240
Speaker 3: Like yeah, okay, yeah, you can be like, hey, you know,

603
00:25:34,320 --> 00:25:34,720
Speaker 3: we're just.

604
00:25:34,840 --> 00:25:35,440
Speaker 2: Like, oh my bad.

605
00:25:35,680 --> 00:25:37,480
Speaker 4: The fact that he knew, he's like, I don't care,

606
00:25:37,840 --> 00:25:38,400
Speaker 4: you didn't care.

607
00:25:38,960 --> 00:25:41,239
Speaker 3: But it's not even like, uh oh, I know, I

608
00:25:41,240 --> 00:25:45,440
Speaker 3: didn't know I needed to be silent. Belching in general

609
00:25:45,600 --> 00:25:50,080
Speaker 3: in front of your girlfriend's parents is never really okay

610
00:25:50,160 --> 00:25:52,840
Speaker 3: unless you know you have that type of relationship, which

611
00:25:52,880 --> 00:25:53,639
Speaker 3: clearly they.

612
00:25:53,520 --> 00:25:55,320
Speaker 4: Don't, and not saying excuse me.

613
00:25:55,359 --> 00:25:56,800
Speaker 3: It's not saying excuse me.

614
00:25:56,960 --> 00:25:58,840
Speaker 4: Like like acting like it's my dude.

615
00:25:59,119 --> 00:26:01,240
Speaker 3: I would be so embarrassed if I had a partner

616
00:26:01,240 --> 00:26:03,800
Speaker 3: who like belched in front of my parents, you know,

617
00:26:03,800 --> 00:26:05,399
Speaker 3: one of the first times they met them. I'd be like,

618
00:26:05,520 --> 00:26:06,240
Speaker 3: I'm so sorry.

619
00:26:06,400 --> 00:26:09,040
Speaker 4: It's the same time like when say Opie's I was

620
00:26:09,040 --> 00:26:12,800
Speaker 4: telling a story and he belches, He's the same notion. Yeah,

621
00:26:13,000 --> 00:26:15,160
Speaker 4: she's like, oh my bad, like not even my bad.

622
00:26:15,240 --> 00:26:17,360
Speaker 2: We got an update six weeks later. First of all,

623
00:26:17,440 --> 00:26:19,920
Speaker 2: I want to thank everyone, and that made really see

624
00:26:19,960 --> 00:26:22,960
Speaker 2: how wrong Kevin was. Kevin I broke up right after

625
00:26:23,000 --> 00:26:25,320
Speaker 2: that incident made me realize a lot of things about

626
00:26:25,320 --> 00:26:28,240
Speaker 2: a relationship that I guess I wasn't seen clearly before.

627
00:26:28,480 --> 00:26:31,360
Speaker 2: It was really arrogant and manipulative. He had this way

628
00:26:31,359 --> 00:26:33,359
Speaker 2: of saying things that made it sound like he was

629
00:26:33,480 --> 00:26:36,080
Speaker 2: right one hundred percent of the time and that anything

630
00:26:36,240 --> 00:26:37,680
Speaker 2: I said was stupid.

631
00:26:37,920 --> 00:26:40,240
Speaker 3: And he probably also had this kind of view of

632
00:26:40,320 --> 00:26:43,800
Speaker 3: like because OPI was religious, that automatically made her like

633
00:26:43,880 --> 00:26:46,439
Speaker 3: stupid and naive. Oh yeah, because I feel like sometimes

634
00:26:46,520 --> 00:26:48,840
Speaker 3: you can get people who are more academic and like,

635
00:26:49,280 --> 00:26:52,600
Speaker 3: I'm an atheist and everyone who has religion is an idiot.

636
00:26:52,680 --> 00:26:54,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, like I said, you could, I've read this guy

637
00:26:54,560 --> 00:26:55,480
Speaker 4: like a freaking book.

638
00:26:55,720 --> 00:26:58,040
Speaker 3: It's like, no, let's be respectful. You cannot believe in

639
00:26:58,080 --> 00:26:59,280
Speaker 3: it and still be respectful.

640
00:27:00,320 --> 00:27:02,639
Speaker 4: You're not an atheist, you don't believe that.

641
00:27:02,840 --> 00:27:05,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're lower than haven't you heard about science?

642
00:27:06,040 --> 00:27:08,639
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like you would treat them like children, and

643
00:27:08,640 --> 00:27:09,640
Speaker 3: it's so disrespectful.

644
00:27:09,760 --> 00:27:12,760
Speaker 2: Thankfully, I haven't encountered that at all. Oh my gosh. Okay.

645
00:27:12,920 --> 00:27:15,159
Speaker 2: It wasn't until after I read all the comments that

646
00:27:15,280 --> 00:27:17,919
Speaker 2: overwhelming link said he was in the wrong that I

647
00:27:18,000 --> 00:27:21,600
Speaker 2: just realized how manipulative he was. Maybe I shouldn't mention

648
00:27:21,640 --> 00:27:24,120
Speaker 2: that Kevin was really hot, like really hot.

649
00:27:26,119 --> 00:27:30,480
Speaker 3: Okay, you can't blame day Alright, it's all right.

650
00:27:30,640 --> 00:27:33,000
Speaker 2: She gave it to the tentation of the flesh. You know,

651
00:27:33,440 --> 00:27:35,720
Speaker 2: it happens. It happens to the best of us. So

652
00:27:35,800 --> 00:27:37,919
Speaker 2: maybe that's why I didn't realize how much of a

653
00:27:37,920 --> 00:27:39,480
Speaker 2: butt he was until later.

654
00:27:39,680 --> 00:27:39,960
Speaker 5: Lomo.

655
00:27:40,160 --> 00:27:44,040
Speaker 2: Anyway, this isn't so much as an update as our relationship.

656
00:27:44,400 --> 00:27:46,479
Speaker 2: It's just a funny story I heard. But I've been

657
00:27:46,520 --> 00:27:48,439
Speaker 2: working a summer job for the past while in my

658
00:27:48,440 --> 00:27:50,840
Speaker 2: hometown where both Kevin and I live. It's not a

659
00:27:50,880 --> 00:27:53,399
Speaker 2: tiny town where everyone knows each other, but it's not

660
00:27:53,480 --> 00:27:56,520
Speaker 2: huge either. Okay, it's like, hey, Green, North Carolina. Anyway,

661
00:27:56,960 --> 00:27:59,400
Speaker 2: at work, I was talking with some of my coworkers

662
00:27:59,440 --> 00:28:02,200
Speaker 2: on a break and the conversation of terrible excess came up.

663
00:28:02,400 --> 00:28:05,439
Speaker 2: The story that my coworker decided to share was about

664
00:28:05,720 --> 00:28:11,919
Speaker 2: you guessed it, Keviny he keeps showing up, Kevin, Kevin stopping.

665
00:28:12,880 --> 00:28:14,000
Speaker 4: We forgot about Kevin.

666
00:28:15,040 --> 00:28:16,000
Speaker 2: Kevin off of up.

667
00:28:16,480 --> 00:28:17,800
Speaker 4: I was thinking Kevin from home alone.

668
00:28:17,880 --> 00:28:20,080
Speaker 3: I was thinking Kevin from ben Ten.

669
00:28:20,400 --> 00:28:22,879
Speaker 4: I like how we had three different Kevin.

670
00:28:23,080 --> 00:28:24,720
Speaker 2: What Kevin are you thinking about right now?

671
00:28:24,760 --> 00:28:24,960
Speaker 1: Yeah?

672
00:28:25,000 --> 00:28:28,199
Speaker 2: Putting the commas, Belore Costner, thank you now, Begon you

673
00:28:28,240 --> 00:28:31,800
Speaker 2: lost you can think of a Kevin in time. Apparently

674
00:28:31,840 --> 00:28:34,080
Speaker 2: they did it about a year ago. A co worker,

675
00:28:34,160 --> 00:28:37,000
Speaker 2: let's call her Brenda, that's my grandmother's name, had to

676
00:28:37,000 --> 00:28:39,640
Speaker 2: go to her cousin's wedding and Kevin was a plus one.

677
00:28:39,800 --> 00:28:43,040
Speaker 2: During the ceremony, Kevin got really bored and decided to

678
00:28:43,080 --> 00:28:45,960
Speaker 2: let everybody know. Apparently he's sort of saying stuff like,

679
00:28:46,240 --> 00:28:50,760
Speaker 2: oh my gosh, this is taking so long and is

680
00:28:50,800 --> 00:28:53,600
Speaker 2: it almost over yet, kept going on and on. He

681
00:28:53,800 --> 00:28:55,840
Speaker 2: wasn't so loud that everyone could hear him, but the

682
00:28:55,880 --> 00:28:58,120
Speaker 2: people around him definitely could. Brenda said a lot of

683
00:28:58,160 --> 00:29:00,479
Speaker 2: people were turning their heads to look at him, and

684
00:29:00,560 --> 00:29:03,320
Speaker 2: she was super embarrassed. Apparently they got into a huge

685
00:29:03,320 --> 00:29:06,080
Speaker 2: fight between the ceremony and reception, and that was, you know,

686
00:29:06,120 --> 00:29:07,200
Speaker 2: the relationship that.

687
00:29:07,160 --> 00:29:10,000
Speaker 3: Would be so satisfying to hear. You'd be like, oh

688
00:29:10,040 --> 00:29:12,000
Speaker 3: my goodnesss that's my.

689
00:29:12,120 --> 00:29:14,000
Speaker 4: Ex I wouldn't even be proud of it.

690
00:29:14,200 --> 00:29:16,760
Speaker 2: Lol. I couldn't help but laugh when I heard that story.

691
00:29:16,960 --> 00:29:21,440
Speaker 2: Sounds exactly like something Kevin would do. And Yeah, my

692
00:29:21,640 --> 00:29:24,480
Speaker 2: sister's dog was named Kevin. My brother Kevin who looked

693
00:29:24,480 --> 00:29:26,840
Speaker 2: like Kevin from home alone when we were kids. Kevin

694
00:29:26,840 --> 00:29:28,080
Speaker 2: Owens that's a good one.

695
00:29:28,120 --> 00:29:30,440
Speaker 3: But yeah, I think you had definitely made the right

696
00:29:30,520 --> 00:29:34,000
Speaker 3: choice in breaking out with this guy. Stinks. And anytime,

697
00:29:34,120 --> 00:29:37,160
Speaker 3: if you ever have a partner who makes you feel stupid,

698
00:29:37,640 --> 00:29:40,080
Speaker 3: maybe not a good partner to have. They shouldn't make

699
00:29:40,120 --> 00:29:40,920
Speaker 3: you feel stupid.

700
00:29:41,040 --> 00:29:41,920
Speaker 2: Don't tell Angie that.

701
00:29:42,280 --> 00:29:46,000
Speaker 3: Even if they're smart, you make it Angie feel stupid.

702
00:29:46,240 --> 00:29:48,960
Speaker 2: No, I just well, we just do stupid stuff together

703
00:29:49,000 --> 00:29:51,520
Speaker 2: and I'm like, you're too stupid, and then she's like,

704
00:29:52,000 --> 00:29:56,680
Speaker 2: then she bunches me. But it's like, a ah, we're

705
00:29:56,720 --> 00:29:58,720
Speaker 2: just playful that way. Yeah, but she'll do that to

706
00:29:58,760 --> 00:29:59,520
Speaker 2: me all the time too.

707
00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:03,000
Speaker 3: No, I'm yeah, no, like, just don't. I should never

708
00:30:03,040 --> 00:30:06,280
Speaker 3: have a person who's like, it's this in a relationship

709
00:30:06,320 --> 00:30:08,400
Speaker 3: like that's you don't want that, or someone's like make

710
00:30:08,480 --> 00:30:11,520
Speaker 3: you feel bad. No, even if they know more about

711
00:30:11,680 --> 00:30:15,000
Speaker 3: things like certain things than you, it should never be

712
00:30:15,080 --> 00:30:17,400
Speaker 3: like a rude thing. They just want to inform you.

713
00:30:17,760 --> 00:30:20,680
Speaker 2: Hope, he says. Anyway, that's it for my update. Things

714
00:30:20,720 --> 00:30:23,400
Speaker 2: are going well for me. I'm currently enjoying the single life,

715
00:30:23,520 --> 00:30:25,760
Speaker 2: just working and hanging out with friends. One of the

716
00:30:25,760 --> 00:30:28,600
Speaker 2: things that Kevin said that really bothered me was that

717
00:30:28,680 --> 00:30:31,880
Speaker 2: religion never does anything good. That really bothered me, so

718
00:30:32,080 --> 00:30:34,440
Speaker 2: I started volunteering with the charity that my church helps

719
00:30:34,520 --> 00:30:37,440
Speaker 2: run once a week, just organizing stuff that's been donated.

720
00:30:37,640 --> 00:30:39,360
Speaker 2: Maybe I'll let him get to me, but it feels

721
00:30:39,360 --> 00:30:41,880
Speaker 2: good to help out. I don't hold anything against atheists.

722
00:30:41,960 --> 00:30:44,120
Speaker 2: You guys totally convinced me that the problem was Kevin

723
00:30:44,560 --> 00:30:47,760
Speaker 2: and that many atheists are cool. So thank you for that.

724
00:30:48,160 --> 00:30:50,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's a lot of you like you guys in chat. Yeah,

725
00:30:50,400 --> 00:30:51,560
Speaker 4: a lot of people in CHET were like, I'm an

726
00:30:51,600 --> 00:30:53,200
Speaker 4: atheist and that's crazy.

727
00:30:53,360 --> 00:30:55,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's super rude. We got one relevant comment. The

728
00:30:55,880 --> 00:30:59,320
Speaker 2: Amos brother says, what well, it's John og Host. We're

729
00:30:59,320 --> 00:31:01,120
Speaker 2: gonna back to this story, but a quick free minute

730
00:31:01,120 --> 00:31:03,880
Speaker 2: break of ads from our sponsors. Was your family's response

731
00:31:03,920 --> 00:31:05,680
Speaker 2: to the dumping hope, he says, ha ha, I guess

732
00:31:05,720 --> 00:31:07,680
Speaker 2: I shouldn't have left that part out. My parents were

733
00:31:07,680 --> 00:31:10,400
Speaker 2: shocked by his behavior. Apparently they spent a long time

734
00:31:10,440 --> 00:31:12,440
Speaker 2: talking about whether they should bring it up with me.

735
00:31:12,760 --> 00:31:15,480
Speaker 2: They are both non, very confrontational type of people, and

736
00:31:15,480 --> 00:31:17,640
Speaker 2: they've always said that they would try to not pass

737
00:31:17,760 --> 00:31:20,160
Speaker 2: judgment on who I date. Kevin was just too much

738
00:31:20,200 --> 00:31:22,160
Speaker 2: for them, and they were planning on telling me what

739
00:31:22,200 --> 00:31:24,200
Speaker 2: they thought of them. Fortunately for my parents, by the

740
00:31:24,240 --> 00:31:26,640
Speaker 2: next time I talked to them, we already broken up.

741
00:31:26,760 --> 00:31:30,280
Speaker 2: Ha ha ha, So they were definitely relieved. That's sweet

742
00:31:30,320 --> 00:31:32,760
Speaker 2: of the parents. And I just got more comments about

743
00:31:32,760 --> 00:31:35,959
Speaker 2: people being atheists and how they feel about it. So yeah,

744
00:31:36,320 --> 00:31:36,760
Speaker 2: there you go.

745
00:31:37,120 --> 00:31:39,600
Speaker 3: You figured it out, you solved the problem, you got

746
00:31:39,640 --> 00:31:40,120
Speaker 3: right of them.

747
00:31:40,520 --> 00:31:44,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, and dude, I'm just being around someone that's always right.

748
00:31:45,120 --> 00:31:46,880
Speaker 2: This just mention my brain hurt.

749
00:31:47,320 --> 00:31:49,000
Speaker 3: Well, think they think they're always right.

750
00:31:50,040 --> 00:31:53,600
Speaker 4: They think they're better than you. Ah, because of your views,

751
00:31:54,040 --> 00:31:56,040
Speaker 4: especially your religious views is wild.

752
00:31:56,680 --> 00:31:59,400
Speaker 2: Also, I've read this book. Hopefully I can implement it

753
00:31:59,400 --> 00:32:01,280
Speaker 2: into my life. I read a little of this book

754
00:32:01,280 --> 00:32:03,400
Speaker 2: called How Not to Give an F And apparently you

755
00:32:03,440 --> 00:32:06,200
Speaker 2: have like a limited amount of fs to give every day.

756
00:32:06,400 --> 00:32:09,160
Speaker 2: So if you start handing out your f's that you're giving,

757
00:32:09,400 --> 00:32:10,840
Speaker 2: then you're gonna run out and then you're gonna be

758
00:32:10,920 --> 00:32:11,480
Speaker 2: stressed out.

759
00:32:11,680 --> 00:32:12,720
Speaker 4: Oh I'm giving fs.

760
00:32:12,800 --> 00:32:15,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, but like, but like you have you can do.

761
00:32:15,120 --> 00:32:16,800
Speaker 2: You can do that. But if you give too many,

762
00:32:16,920 --> 00:32:18,680
Speaker 2: then that your day's taken up. You can only give

763
00:32:18,720 --> 00:32:20,680
Speaker 2: so many, So keep that in mind. How many f's

764
00:32:20,720 --> 00:32:21,920
Speaker 2: do you have in your pocket? And how many are

765
00:32:21,960 --> 00:32:24,560
Speaker 2: you handing out today? For example, there was there was

766
00:32:24,640 --> 00:32:26,600
Speaker 2: chicken on the counter, and that was about to be like,

767
00:32:26,680 --> 00:32:28,200
Speaker 2: whose chicken is this today?

768
00:32:28,240 --> 00:32:30,760
Speaker 3: There's chicken on the counter yesterday? Yeah, whose chicken was? Well,

769
00:32:30,760 --> 00:32:31,800
Speaker 3: they were defrosting it, no.

770
00:32:31,920 --> 00:32:34,080
Speaker 2: I know, but like they could have defrosted somewhere else.

771
00:32:34,080 --> 00:32:35,440
Speaker 2: But I guess what. I didn't give an F and

772
00:32:35,480 --> 00:32:37,400
Speaker 2: I just decided to go on with my day. Well, guys,

773
00:32:37,440 --> 00:32:39,200
Speaker 2: we got another story for you. Guys, we got another

774
00:32:39,240 --> 00:32:42,160
Speaker 2: atheist story with Kevin. We have so many more of those.

775
00:32:42,320 --> 00:32:43,840
Speaker 2: It's your favorite and we love it.

776
00:32:44,040 --> 00:32:47,920
Speaker 3: My girlfriend is obsessed with this new family she just met.

777
00:32:48,480 --> 00:32:49,760
Speaker 2: At least she has a family now.

778
00:32:50,160 --> 00:32:53,040
Speaker 3: I figured I should ask for advice because this situation

779
00:32:53,640 --> 00:32:56,480
Speaker 3: is really weird and I have no idea how to

780
00:32:56,520 --> 00:32:59,160
Speaker 3: handle it. My girlfriend, Maggie and I have been together

781
00:32:59,240 --> 00:33:02,280
Speaker 3: for just three months, so our relationship is still very new.

782
00:33:02,440 --> 00:33:05,520
Speaker 3: Things have been going well aside from this problem. By

783
00:33:05,560 --> 00:33:07,920
Speaker 3: the way, this comes from ardnerk And if you want

784
00:33:07,960 --> 00:33:09,640
Speaker 3: to smit your own stories, go to the r slash

785
00:33:09,720 --> 00:33:13,720
Speaker 3: Okay storytime separate it. So I'm Sophia, I'm.

786
00:33:13,560 --> 00:33:16,600
Speaker 2: Riley I'm keon, and Op says.

787
00:33:17,040 --> 00:33:19,840
Speaker 3: A few weeks ago, Maggie started a new job and

788
00:33:19,960 --> 00:33:24,120
Speaker 3: quickly became friends with her new coworker, Joe. For the record,

789
00:33:24,160 --> 00:33:27,239
Speaker 3: I have no problem with Maggie having male friends. I

790
00:33:27,280 --> 00:33:29,520
Speaker 3: have female friends, and I don't think there's anything wrong

791
00:33:29,560 --> 00:33:32,800
Speaker 3: with that. But Maggie and Joe seemed unusually close. After

792
00:33:32,840 --> 00:33:36,120
Speaker 3: a very short amount of time, Maggie was telling me

793
00:33:36,200 --> 00:33:38,760
Speaker 3: that she was scoping out her coworkers to see who

794
00:33:38,880 --> 00:33:41,240
Speaker 3: was all business and who she could joke around with

795
00:33:41,320 --> 00:33:43,640
Speaker 3: and maybe become better friends with. She said it would

796
00:33:43,680 --> 00:33:45,960
Speaker 3: be pretty easy, though, because Joe was telling her who

797
00:33:46,000 --> 00:33:49,560
Speaker 3: was cool. But Maggie barely knows Joe, so why does

798
00:33:49,600 --> 00:33:50,760
Speaker 3: she trust him so much.

799
00:33:51,080 --> 00:33:57,280
Speaker 2: Sometimes when someone gives you some dignity or delicious donuts

800
00:33:57,600 --> 00:34:02,280
Speaker 2: or some definite good times, uh, you, you get a

801
00:34:02,280 --> 00:34:03,120
Speaker 2: lot of trust out of him.

802
00:34:03,160 --> 00:34:05,040
Speaker 4: I'd only trust him if his last name was Jonas.

803
00:34:05,200 --> 00:34:08,279
Speaker 3: Maggie and Joe were hanging out so much outside of

804
00:34:08,280 --> 00:34:11,040
Speaker 3: work that I actually did feel a little weird about it.

805
00:34:11,120 --> 00:34:13,640
Speaker 3: I then found out that aside from work, they usually

806
00:34:13,680 --> 00:34:16,800
Speaker 3: hung out with Joe's wife and kids, which made cheating unlikely,

807
00:34:16,880 --> 00:34:18,920
Speaker 3: but was still really weird. Oh, he just wants to

808
00:34:18,920 --> 00:34:19,560
Speaker 3: be included.

809
00:34:19,760 --> 00:34:20,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, now I'm confused.

810
00:34:21,000 --> 00:34:24,320
Speaker 3: Oh, he's like, she's hanging out with Joe and his family,

811
00:34:24,360 --> 00:34:25,959
Speaker 3: and I want to hang out with her.

812
00:34:26,320 --> 00:34:29,520
Speaker 2: The next thing I would ask is, does oh what's

813
00:34:29,520 --> 00:34:32,160
Speaker 2: this girl's name? Just girl for Maggie, Maggie. Does Maggie

814
00:34:32,239 --> 00:34:34,360
Speaker 2: have a family? Did she? Was she raise an orphan?

815
00:34:34,560 --> 00:34:34,880
Speaker 4: Yeah?

816
00:34:35,040 --> 00:34:37,920
Speaker 3: Is this like a while you were sleeping kind of situation? Oh?

817
00:34:38,239 --> 00:34:41,080
Speaker 3: I love that movie a coke or it could also

818
00:34:41,120 --> 00:34:42,720
Speaker 3: be a Deer of Enhansoon situation?

819
00:34:42,920 --> 00:34:44,040
Speaker 4: Oh no, not that one.

820
00:34:44,640 --> 00:34:45,439
Speaker 3: That would be a lot worse.

821
00:34:45,880 --> 00:34:47,000
Speaker 2: Yeah.

822
00:34:46,760 --> 00:34:48,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, hopefully it's while you're sleeping.

823
00:34:48,560 --> 00:34:50,000
Speaker 2: I'm sad now.

824
00:34:50,000 --> 00:34:51,440
Speaker 3: Hopefully Maggie is Sandra Bullock.

825
00:34:51,600 --> 00:34:53,279
Speaker 2: I'm sad now, and you're responsible.

826
00:34:53,719 --> 00:34:56,440
Speaker 3: Most people don't have near strangers hanging out with their

827
00:34:56,480 --> 00:34:59,040
Speaker 3: little kids that much. Maggie has been putting this family

828
00:34:59,080 --> 00:35:03,520
Speaker 3: above other friends. For example, she waited on rsvping to

829
00:35:03,560 --> 00:35:06,400
Speaker 3: a friend's party until she could nail down other plans

830
00:35:06,400 --> 00:35:09,360
Speaker 3: with Joe and his family. The plans with Joe's family

831
00:35:09,360 --> 00:35:12,760
Speaker 3: were very vague and haven't been decided yet, but Maggie

832
00:35:12,800 --> 00:35:15,200
Speaker 3: was willing to miss her friend's party if it was

833
00:35:15,239 --> 00:35:17,360
Speaker 3: the only time Joe's family was available.

834
00:35:17,560 --> 00:35:19,080
Speaker 2: How does Joe feel about this?

835
00:35:19,320 --> 00:35:22,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's Joe, Like, I love this girl, she's my sibling.

836
00:35:23,000 --> 00:35:26,440
Speaker 2: Basically, Wait, were they a pineapple couple?

837
00:35:27,239 --> 00:35:29,799
Speaker 3: Hope? Not for real, be sick. I met them for

838
00:35:29,840 --> 00:35:33,400
Speaker 3: the first time and it was very bizarre. Maggie isn't

839
00:35:33,440 --> 00:35:35,440
Speaker 3: a big fan of kids, oh, but she was all

840
00:35:35,520 --> 00:35:38,160
Speaker 3: over Joe's kid. Well. Sometimes I feel like sometimes there

841
00:35:38,200 --> 00:35:41,359
Speaker 3: are people that aren't kid people, but they have those

842
00:35:41,440 --> 00:35:43,640
Speaker 3: one you know, that one or a couple kids that

843
00:35:43,680 --> 00:35:45,840
Speaker 3: they're like, yeah, these kids are cool. Sometimes that happens.

844
00:35:45,840 --> 00:35:47,239
Speaker 4: It's the same thing with like the dad's like I

845
00:35:47,280 --> 00:35:48,080
Speaker 4: don't want a dog.

846
00:35:48,280 --> 00:35:51,319
Speaker 3: Yeah, and then you find that one. She got down

847
00:35:51,440 --> 00:35:55,120
Speaker 3: with me. It's my mom with babies. She loved us.

848
00:35:55,160 --> 00:35:56,920
Speaker 3: She's like the only kids I like her, my own kids.

849
00:35:57,160 --> 00:35:59,120
Speaker 4: Really, I would hope. So she liked you guys.

850
00:35:59,400 --> 00:36:01,920
Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah. She got down on the floor and crawled

851
00:36:01,920 --> 00:36:04,480
Speaker 3: around with the baby. The older kid was very shy

852
00:36:04,600 --> 00:36:06,960
Speaker 3: and didn't seem that comfortable with me, but she got

853
00:36:07,120 --> 00:36:10,279
Speaker 3: very excited when she saw Maggie and climbed into Maggie's lap.

854
00:36:10,360 --> 00:36:13,040
Speaker 2: Okay, maybe Maggie's trying to get into the babysitting business.

855
00:36:13,080 --> 00:36:15,840
Speaker 3: I honestly don't. I feel like this is kind of okay,

856
00:36:16,280 --> 00:36:20,160
Speaker 3: unless unless he feels like he's being excluded excluded or

857
00:36:20,200 --> 00:36:23,120
Speaker 3: feels like she's not spending enough time with him, which

858
00:36:23,160 --> 00:36:25,319
Speaker 3: is that, Like that needs to be addressed. But I

859
00:36:25,360 --> 00:36:27,279
Speaker 3: feel like she's just hanging out with this family that

860
00:36:27,320 --> 00:36:29,759
Speaker 3: she really bonded with. I don't know so far, I'm like,

861
00:36:29,840 --> 00:36:32,640
Speaker 3: this is not really an issue. So Maggie has obviously

862
00:36:32,680 --> 00:36:35,279
Speaker 3: spent a lot of time with the family in the

863
00:36:35,280 --> 00:36:38,560
Speaker 3: past few weeks. Kids called Maggie Auntie. Maggie once told

864
00:36:38,600 --> 00:36:41,120
Speaker 3: me she didn't like babysitting and always tries to get

865
00:36:41,160 --> 00:36:43,439
Speaker 3: out of it, But apparently she has babysad for them,

866
00:36:43,480 --> 00:36:46,319
Speaker 3: and she refuses to take money for babysitting. Maybe she

867
00:36:46,520 --> 00:36:49,360
Speaker 3: just likes these kids with that crazy.

868
00:36:49,080 --> 00:36:51,120
Speaker 2: There goes my theory out the window.

869
00:36:51,560 --> 00:36:54,120
Speaker 3: This is just so out of character for her. They

870
00:36:54,120 --> 00:36:56,480
Speaker 3: also make weird jokes about Maggie coming to live in

871
00:36:56,520 --> 00:36:59,560
Speaker 3: their basement. They just like Maggie and Maggie likes them.

872
00:37:00,080 --> 00:37:02,719
Speaker 3: I honestly don't see anything wrong. They're just they just

873
00:37:02,800 --> 00:37:03,960
Speaker 3: love each other as a family.

874
00:37:04,480 --> 00:37:05,880
Speaker 2: Were you Raisin as an orphan.

875
00:37:06,239 --> 00:37:07,920
Speaker 3: Oh, I have loving parents.

876
00:37:08,160 --> 00:37:10,359
Speaker 2: Okay, everyone, let's get a pull up. Is this weird

877
00:37:10,440 --> 00:37:12,759
Speaker 2: or not? I think everyone's saying it's weird. I need

878
00:37:12,760 --> 00:37:14,640
Speaker 2: more context. I think it's kind of weird.

879
00:37:14,680 --> 00:37:15,320
Speaker 3: I think it's okay.

880
00:37:15,400 --> 00:37:16,520
Speaker 2: I think it's Weirdly, I don't like.

881
00:37:16,480 --> 00:37:19,239
Speaker 3: It, which was really weird in combination with everything else

882
00:37:19,280 --> 00:37:22,600
Speaker 3: that's going on. Hopefully that was just a joke. For Thanksgiving,

883
00:37:22,640 --> 00:37:25,800
Speaker 3: we decided to just celebrate with our own families because

884
00:37:25,800 --> 00:37:28,200
Speaker 3: we haven't been together that long. Joe and his family

885
00:37:28,239 --> 00:37:30,760
Speaker 3: weren't able to travel far to meet their own family,

886
00:37:30,880 --> 00:37:34,440
Speaker 3: so Maggie invited them to her parents' house. That's very kind.

887
00:37:34,719 --> 00:37:36,719
Speaker 3: But it was a couple of hours away and they

888
00:37:36,760 --> 00:37:40,319
Speaker 3: all slept over, so it wasn't a casual trip. Yeah,

889
00:37:40,360 --> 00:37:43,360
Speaker 3: I mean, they're not they're not casual friends. Some pictures

890
00:37:43,400 --> 00:37:46,520
Speaker 3: were taken, including a post one of Maggie and Joe's

891
00:37:46,560 --> 00:37:50,040
Speaker 3: family with the older kid hugging Maggie's shoulders. Maggie made

892
00:37:50,040 --> 00:37:52,360
Speaker 3: a comment about how she was glad her chosen family

893
00:37:52,400 --> 00:37:53,440
Speaker 3: could come to Thanksgiving.

894
00:37:53,640 --> 00:37:54,800
Speaker 2: That's not that crazy.

895
00:37:55,160 --> 00:37:57,000
Speaker 3: These are her chosen family. What's wrong with that?

896
00:37:57,440 --> 00:38:00,680
Speaker 2: Like, some people have mentors that they're not really close

897
00:38:00,719 --> 00:38:03,239
Speaker 2: with and then they kind of have a close relationship.

898
00:38:03,239 --> 00:38:05,400
Speaker 2: Maybe you can have a mentor, but in a family

899
00:38:05,440 --> 00:38:06,520
Speaker 2: aspect in that kind of year.

900
00:38:06,640 --> 00:38:10,440
Speaker 3: So yeah, it is beyond bizarre. She barely knows these people.

901
00:38:10,520 --> 00:38:13,160
Speaker 3: I feel like that's unfair to say. She's been hanging

902
00:38:13,160 --> 00:38:16,000
Speaker 3: out with them so much, and the kids call her auntie.

903
00:38:16,080 --> 00:38:18,839
Speaker 3: Kids don't just call a random lady auntie like that,

904
00:38:19,080 --> 00:38:22,000
Speaker 3: like they're friends, they're close friends. She doesn't barely know them.

905
00:38:22,200 --> 00:38:24,280
Speaker 3: She has been in the job just under two months

906
00:38:24,280 --> 00:38:27,399
Speaker 3: and somehow become absorbed into this random family. It feels like, oh,

907
00:38:27,440 --> 00:38:30,480
Speaker 3: he is so jealous. Yeah, this isn't crazy.

908
00:38:30,600 --> 00:38:31,680
Speaker 2: I can give you a family.

909
00:38:31,960 --> 00:38:34,440
Speaker 3: Also, this is so out of character. She told me

910
00:38:34,480 --> 00:38:36,560
Speaker 3: once that she hates it when people she doesn't know

911
00:38:36,680 --> 00:38:40,080
Speaker 3: well insist on hugging her or how cheaply some people say,

912
00:38:40,080 --> 00:38:42,360
Speaker 3: I love you. But she's taking this up to eleven.

913
00:38:42,480 --> 00:38:45,160
Speaker 3: She's fretting right now because the oldest kid's birthday is

914
00:38:45,160 --> 00:38:47,720
Speaker 3: coming and Maggie apparently needs to get that kid a gift,

915
00:38:48,000 --> 00:38:50,839
Speaker 3: a Christmas gift, and a Christmas gift for the baby too.

916
00:38:51,200 --> 00:38:53,560
Speaker 3: The only gift I've ever gotten a coworker's kid is

917
00:38:53,560 --> 00:38:55,960
Speaker 3: when they had a baby shower at work. Okay, what's

918
00:38:55,960 --> 00:38:58,600
Speaker 3: the poll shine Right now, most people are saying not weird,

919
00:38:58,640 --> 00:39:01,960
Speaker 3: which is yeah, I agree, Okay, I feel like she's

920
00:39:02,080 --> 00:39:05,359
Speaker 3: just have this like really cute bond with this family. Yeah,

921
00:39:05,760 --> 00:39:08,080
Speaker 3: it's not like she's cheating. It's not like you know,

922
00:39:08,320 --> 00:39:10,880
Speaker 3: they're anything. Really weird is going on?

923
00:39:11,000 --> 00:39:12,640
Speaker 4: Kind like spicies?

924
00:39:13,000 --> 00:39:16,000
Speaker 3: No, literally, she's hanging out with these kids and their parents,

925
00:39:16,239 --> 00:39:20,160
Speaker 3: and she feels like she's found this family. Think anything's wrong?

926
00:39:21,160 --> 00:39:23,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, I just want to know it's not culty.

927
00:39:24,080 --> 00:39:26,640
Speaker 2: Has she said why? She just likes to hang out.

928
00:39:26,760 --> 00:39:28,560
Speaker 3: She just likes them, Okay, yeah.

929
00:39:28,600 --> 00:39:29,440
Speaker 4: Very nice people.

930
00:39:29,600 --> 00:39:32,480
Speaker 3: Nina Nelson says, this isn't about a coworker. They're friends, now,

931
00:39:32,560 --> 00:39:34,720
Speaker 3: that's what I keep Yeah, it's like OP keep saying

932
00:39:34,880 --> 00:39:36,920
Speaker 3: she doesn't even know them, she doesn't even know like

933
00:39:37,160 --> 00:39:38,640
Speaker 3: they're obviously friends.

934
00:39:38,680 --> 00:39:41,200
Speaker 2: Now, yeah, you can be friends with someone pretty quick.

935
00:39:41,440 --> 00:39:43,879
Speaker 3: I agree. I don't even know how to bring this up.

936
00:39:44,120 --> 00:39:46,600
Speaker 3: I know her friendships aren't really my business, but this

937
00:39:46,719 --> 00:39:49,680
Speaker 3: is so strange. It's making me uncomfortable. Why so I

938
00:39:49,680 --> 00:39:51,480
Speaker 3: feel like I have to say something, But I don't

939
00:39:51,480 --> 00:39:53,920
Speaker 3: even know what to say. Maggie cheating on me with

940
00:39:54,040 --> 00:39:57,640
Speaker 3: Joe would actually make more sense than this any advice.

941
00:39:57,840 --> 00:40:01,359
Speaker 3: This isn't normal, right, I literally like you are overthinking

942
00:40:01,400 --> 00:40:05,120
Speaker 3: this unless like something crazy comes out, but like, truly

943
00:40:05,239 --> 00:40:06,319
Speaker 3: you're overthinking this.

944
00:40:06,440 --> 00:40:09,080
Speaker 2: I know, like Reddit is about to like be on

945
00:40:09,120 --> 00:40:11,480
Speaker 2: the say this is so weird, this is what's going on?

946
00:40:11,600 --> 00:40:14,760
Speaker 2: Not Yeah, I know for a fact they are definitely are, dude.

947
00:40:14,880 --> 00:40:18,040
Speaker 3: My advice to you that is good advice, And don't

948
00:40:18,080 --> 00:40:20,040
Speaker 3: listen to anyone else on Reddit who saying otherwise, go

949
00:40:20,160 --> 00:40:20,960
Speaker 3: meet the family.

950
00:40:21,080 --> 00:40:21,400
Speaker 2: You can go.

951
00:40:21,440 --> 00:40:23,000
Speaker 4: You took the words right out of my love them.

952
00:40:23,560 --> 00:40:25,120
Speaker 3: You're like, who are these people?

953
00:40:25,800 --> 00:40:29,000
Speaker 2: Because they're probably Yeah, they're probably as lovely as if

954
00:40:29,000 --> 00:40:31,799
Speaker 2: you think your girlfriend is lovely, really lovely people, and

955
00:40:32,040 --> 00:40:34,560
Speaker 2: you appreciate her company and her thoughts and you know,

956
00:40:34,719 --> 00:40:37,440
Speaker 2: presence on her take on things, and you probably will

957
00:40:37,480 --> 00:40:38,520
Speaker 2: love her take on this family.

958
00:40:38,680 --> 00:40:41,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, I really think that you, Like truly, there's nothing

959
00:40:41,560 --> 00:40:44,120
Speaker 3: that you could say that doesn't sound weird from you,

960
00:40:44,560 --> 00:40:46,400
Speaker 3: unless it's okay. I would love to meet them. You

961
00:40:46,400 --> 00:40:47,200
Speaker 3: talk so much about them.

962
00:40:47,280 --> 00:40:49,759
Speaker 4: If they were like I'm changing my last name to theirs.

963
00:40:49,520 --> 00:40:51,759
Speaker 3: That would be weird, but them joking about her living

964
00:40:51,800 --> 00:40:54,880
Speaker 3: in their basement is obviously a joke because she spends

965
00:40:54,920 --> 00:40:55,960
Speaker 3: a lot of time with them. That's it.

966
00:40:56,040 --> 00:40:56,239
Speaker 2: Yeah.

967
00:40:56,440 --> 00:40:59,000
Speaker 3: Common one says, like, I've made a lot of jokes

968
00:40:59,000 --> 00:41:01,880
Speaker 3: about certain friends. I'm like, you should move into my closet,

969
00:41:02,000 --> 00:41:05,160
Speaker 3: you should move into the spare bedroom. That's a joke.

970
00:41:05,200 --> 00:41:06,520
Speaker 4: They're not gonna be I'm gonna keep you.

971
00:41:07,560 --> 00:41:10,640
Speaker 3: Common one. I've got two theories on this. Number one,

972
00:41:10,880 --> 00:41:13,440
Speaker 3: Maggie has a bad home life and is inserting herself

973
00:41:13,480 --> 00:41:17,879
Speaker 3: into this family because it's the life she wishes she had. However, yeah,

974
00:41:17,880 --> 00:41:18,520
Speaker 3: what was your thinging?

975
00:41:18,600 --> 00:41:19,399
Speaker 2: Oh? That that?

976
00:41:19,680 --> 00:41:21,839
Speaker 3: Oh? I think I think that's possible. But I don't

977
00:41:21,880 --> 00:41:24,880
Speaker 3: like the word inserting because it sounds like she's unwanted.

978
00:41:25,080 --> 00:41:27,440
Speaker 3: She's not inserting that they've they've welcomed her.

979
00:41:27,880 --> 00:41:28,080
Speaker 2: Yeah.

980
00:41:28,400 --> 00:41:30,719
Speaker 3: Two, Maggie is into Joe. I knew a girl who

981
00:41:30,719 --> 00:41:33,479
Speaker 3: befriended a married couple just so that when things went bad,

982
00:41:33,600 --> 00:41:36,239
Speaker 3: she would swoop in and take the husband. Does that

983
00:41:36,280 --> 00:41:38,520
Speaker 3: seems like o' reach? No one saw it coming, but

984
00:41:38,640 --> 00:41:41,080
Speaker 3: it happened. It was like her master plan. After two

985
00:41:41,120 --> 00:41:44,240
Speaker 3: years of waiting. Common two says, honestly, this is probably

986
00:41:44,280 --> 00:41:46,879
Speaker 3: her character and not out of character like you say.

987
00:41:47,080 --> 00:41:48,920
Speaker 3: You even said that you guys have been dating for

988
00:41:48,960 --> 00:41:49,760
Speaker 3: three months?

989
00:41:49,920 --> 00:41:52,239
Speaker 2: Oh oh my three months?

990
00:41:52,440 --> 00:41:55,560
Speaker 3: Wait? Oh sorry, you've been dating for three months? You

991
00:41:55,680 --> 00:41:57,680
Speaker 3: think you know everything about her character?

992
00:41:58,000 --> 00:41:59,600
Speaker 2: It was it's been like a year.

993
00:42:00,160 --> 00:42:03,480
Speaker 3: Not so because he's He's like, this is show unlike her.

994
00:42:03,520 --> 00:42:04,720
Speaker 3: You've been dating for three months.

995
00:42:04,840 --> 00:42:06,480
Speaker 2: Have you been friends for longer than that? Or you

996
00:42:06,480 --> 00:42:08,359
Speaker 2: guys just known each other for like four to three months?

997
00:42:08,440 --> 00:42:12,560
Speaker 3: Guys, jelly, they've been dating for three months. She's known

998
00:42:12,600 --> 00:42:15,799
Speaker 3: this family for two. He's only been a month longer here.

999
00:42:16,040 --> 00:42:17,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh he's jelly.

1000
00:42:17,880 --> 00:42:21,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, oh absolutely, it's so obvious. Three months is the

1001
00:42:21,200 --> 00:42:23,960
Speaker 3: first milestone to make a decision about moving the relationship

1002
00:42:23,960 --> 00:42:26,600
Speaker 3: forward or not, so you have a responsibility here to

1003
00:42:26,680 --> 00:42:30,000
Speaker 3: objectively assess your relationship. One thought that crossed my mind

1004
00:42:30,120 --> 00:42:32,040
Speaker 3: would be Joe's family would love for her to live

1005
00:42:32,040 --> 00:42:34,560
Speaker 3: in their basement as a childcare provider, so they may

1006
00:42:34,600 --> 00:42:37,160
Speaker 3: be taking advantage of her for their benefit. Your girlfriend

1007
00:42:37,200 --> 00:42:38,920
Speaker 3: may be trying to show off in front of you

1008
00:42:38,960 --> 00:42:41,560
Speaker 3: to show that she is lovable and respected by people.

1009
00:42:41,800 --> 00:42:45,440
Speaker 3: Many possibilities. I would advise you cool down the relationship,

1010
00:42:45,560 --> 00:42:47,759
Speaker 3: give her space to make decisions about her life and

1011
00:42:47,800 --> 00:42:50,200
Speaker 3: a relationship. If she actively chooses to spend more and

1012
00:42:50,280 --> 00:42:52,600
Speaker 3: more time with Joe's family, you have your answer. Three

1013
00:42:52,640 --> 00:42:55,279
Speaker 3: months is time to decide the future of the relationship.

1014
00:42:55,360 --> 00:42:58,200
Speaker 3: Like I said previously, good luck. Remind yourself what you

1015
00:42:58,280 --> 00:43:00,960
Speaker 3: deserve in a girlfriend better than this? What do you

1016
00:43:01,040 --> 00:43:02,000
Speaker 3: mean better than this?

1017
00:43:02,320 --> 00:43:03,600
Speaker 2: I knew read it was gonna fiell this game.

1018
00:43:03,640 --> 00:43:08,239
Speaker 3: I'm sorry. We have literally zero proof that she is

1019
00:43:08,600 --> 00:43:11,920
Speaker 3: neglecting Ope. We've heard that she, like you know, is

1020
00:43:11,960 --> 00:43:13,759
Speaker 3: not going to friends things because she wants to hang

1021
00:43:13,760 --> 00:43:15,319
Speaker 3: out with Joe and his family. But we have no

1022
00:43:15,440 --> 00:43:17,839
Speaker 3: proof that OPI said, you know, she's never hanging out

1023
00:43:17,880 --> 00:43:20,480
Speaker 3: with me. She never wants to see me. She's always

1024
00:43:20,480 --> 00:43:21,560
Speaker 3: with Joe and his family.

1025
00:43:21,960 --> 00:43:24,600
Speaker 2: Zero two takes so what are you?

1026
00:43:24,680 --> 00:43:24,919
Speaker 3: Yeah?

1027
00:43:25,000 --> 00:43:27,319
Speaker 2: Two takes one. If John and Sam were doing this,

1028
00:43:27,400 --> 00:43:29,799
Speaker 2: they would have a very different conclusion than we would too.

1029
00:43:30,600 --> 00:43:34,160
Speaker 2: I think this guy would. I was just I feel

1030
00:43:34,200 --> 00:43:36,160
Speaker 2: like it was like two different people than they might have,

1031
00:43:36,200 --> 00:43:37,000
Speaker 2: like different thoughts on her.

1032
00:43:37,040 --> 00:43:37,640
Speaker 3: Got you okay?

1033
00:43:37,800 --> 00:43:41,680
Speaker 2: Two? It sounds like Opie kind of maybe the comments

1034
00:43:41,719 --> 00:43:43,560
Speaker 2: maybe feel this way. Maybe he isn't this way, but

1035
00:43:43,560 --> 00:43:46,840
Speaker 2: he's kind of feeling a little controlling thing. We're trying

1036
00:43:46,880 --> 00:43:50,319
Speaker 2: to sway how she moves outside of their relationship.

1037
00:43:50,520 --> 00:43:52,560
Speaker 3: He wants to. He's like, yeah, I know it's not

1038
00:43:52,680 --> 00:43:54,960
Speaker 3: my business, but I want to bring up that this

1039
00:43:55,160 --> 00:43:58,600
Speaker 3: bothers me, that she's got this family that she loves

1040
00:43:58,640 --> 00:43:59,440
Speaker 3: spending time with.

1041
00:43:59,600 --> 00:44:02,640
Speaker 2: I don't think it should bother you. You can bring

1042
00:44:02,719 --> 00:44:05,239
Speaker 2: it up and be more curious about it or try

1043
00:44:05,280 --> 00:44:07,719
Speaker 2: to get more inside on it. I just don't think

1044
00:44:07,760 --> 00:44:10,040
Speaker 2: you have the full context of what's happening to because

1045
00:44:10,040 --> 00:44:12,279
Speaker 2: you're not there at work with them. You're not there

1046
00:44:12,280 --> 00:44:13,320
Speaker 2: hanging out with the family.

1047
00:44:13,520 --> 00:44:15,640
Speaker 3: I think, just like, I really don't like I dislike

1048
00:44:15,719 --> 00:44:17,799
Speaker 3: his comments about saying you don't know them, which is

1049
00:44:17,800 --> 00:44:21,120
Speaker 3: what Nina Nilson brings up, and oh they're strangers, blah

1050
00:44:21,160 --> 00:44:24,440
Speaker 3: blah blah. Yeah they're just coworkers. Clearly that's no longer

1051
00:44:24,480 --> 00:44:26,840
Speaker 3: the case. So I don't know why you think that's relevant.

1052
00:44:26,840 --> 00:44:27,640
Speaker 2: Do you already thank you on?

1053
00:44:28,000 --> 00:44:31,680
Speaker 4: I mean, there's again, from what we've talked about and

1054
00:44:31,680 --> 00:44:34,520
Speaker 4: what we've gotten from a mope, nothing seems out of

1055
00:44:34,640 --> 00:44:37,960
Speaker 4: line like there was, like she's not flirting with Joe.

1056
00:44:38,200 --> 00:44:40,600
Speaker 4: It just seems like, at least from what we're getting again,

1057
00:44:41,000 --> 00:44:43,880
Speaker 4: is she we don't know, but she's been also dating

1058
00:44:43,880 --> 00:44:44,640
Speaker 4: you the same time.

1059
00:44:45,280 --> 00:44:47,880
Speaker 2: It just it's true. It's true. I feel like the

1060
00:44:47,960 --> 00:44:49,680
Speaker 2: girlfriend's gonna break up with him and he's going to

1061
00:44:49,760 --> 00:44:50,560
Speaker 2: be having a powerful and.

1062
00:44:50,560 --> 00:44:52,360
Speaker 4: Guess what he's going to be like it's a family.

1063
00:44:52,600 --> 00:44:55,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, And it's like, no, it's you. Update. I figured

1064
00:44:55,920 --> 00:44:58,359
Speaker 3: out what was going on, and I feel like, hey, John, Ogi,

1065
00:44:58,440 --> 00:44:58,839
Speaker 3: hoist here.

1066
00:44:58,880 --> 00:45:00,799
Speaker 2: We're gonna get back to this episode. But a quick

1067
00:45:00,840 --> 00:45:02,840
Speaker 2: three minute break of ads from a sponsor's keeping the

1068
00:45:02,880 --> 00:45:03,400
Speaker 2: show alive.

1069
00:45:04,000 --> 00:45:04,760
Speaker 3: Huge idiot?

1070
00:45:04,960 --> 00:45:08,640
Speaker 2: Oh you should what was it?

1071
00:45:08,719 --> 00:45:10,040
Speaker 3: She should feel like a huge idiot.

1072
00:45:10,120 --> 00:45:11,080
Speaker 2: Maggie was an orphan.

1073
00:45:11,320 --> 00:45:13,600
Speaker 3: I went to see Maggie to ask for an explanation

1074
00:45:13,800 --> 00:45:15,719
Speaker 3: and figured, if I didn't like what I heard, I'd

1075
00:45:15,760 --> 00:45:18,279
Speaker 3: break up with her because either she was cheating or

1076
00:45:18,320 --> 00:45:21,160
Speaker 3: had an emotional issue I couldn't handle, or she just

1077
00:45:21,320 --> 00:45:22,120
Speaker 3: liked this family.

1078
00:45:22,440 --> 00:45:23,839
Speaker 2: I mean fair, If you didn't like what you heard,

1079
00:45:23,840 --> 00:45:24,719
Speaker 2: you could break up with her.

1080
00:45:24,960 --> 00:45:27,320
Speaker 3: I had the opportunity when I saw the gifts Maggie

1081
00:45:27,360 --> 00:45:29,799
Speaker 3: had gotten for Joan and Kate's kids. It seems so

1082
00:45:29,840 --> 00:45:32,359
Speaker 3: strange for someone who doesn't really like kids that much

1083
00:45:32,400 --> 00:45:34,879
Speaker 3: to go so overboard for kids she just met.

1084
00:45:35,080 --> 00:45:37,000
Speaker 4: Again, you haven't met this family.

1085
00:45:37,080 --> 00:45:38,280
Speaker 3: What are you talking about?

1086
00:45:38,640 --> 00:45:41,000
Speaker 4: If you actually, this is my thing with OPI if

1087
00:45:41,000 --> 00:45:44,400
Speaker 4: you actually try to meet the gamily, engage with them

1088
00:45:44,440 --> 00:45:46,200
Speaker 4: and be like, oh, why are you so into this

1089
00:45:46,320 --> 00:45:48,879
Speaker 4: like family? Like, oh my god, they're so sweet, they're

1090
00:45:48,920 --> 00:45:49,440
Speaker 4: so nice.

1091
00:45:49,640 --> 00:45:51,840
Speaker 3: Like I remember Sam and I made these friends like

1092
00:45:52,000 --> 00:45:54,520
Speaker 3: months ago, and literally we're like, these people are so

1093
00:45:54,760 --> 00:45:56,319
Speaker 3: cool there, Like I want to hang out with them

1094
00:45:56,360 --> 00:45:57,000
Speaker 3: all the time.

1095
00:45:57,400 --> 00:46:00,439
Speaker 2: No one, you know, I will say, I will love

1096
00:46:00,800 --> 00:46:03,640
Speaker 2: some grandparents here in LA. I would if you know

1097
00:46:03,719 --> 00:46:07,200
Speaker 2: anyone in the LA area that needs odd jobs done

1098
00:46:07,280 --> 00:46:10,480
Speaker 2: on Saturday mornings, it would feed me something. Oh my gosh,

1099
00:46:10,520 --> 00:46:12,319
Speaker 2: she's called year.

1100
00:46:12,360 --> 00:46:14,759
Speaker 3: Yeah, my grandparents can't do that. They're too old. My

1101
00:46:14,800 --> 00:46:15,760
Speaker 3: grandma has dementia.

1102
00:46:15,880 --> 00:46:18,360
Speaker 2: Did they add jobs? Done? They pay cash? That's what

1103
00:46:18,360 --> 00:46:18,960
Speaker 2: I'm looking for.

1104
00:46:19,239 --> 00:46:22,480
Speaker 3: I asked Maggie why she gave the kids such special treatment,

1105
00:46:22,600 --> 00:46:25,160
Speaker 3: even though she doesn't really like kids that much. Maggie

1106
00:46:25,200 --> 00:46:27,799
Speaker 3: explained that she felt differently about these kids because she

1107
00:46:27,840 --> 00:46:30,279
Speaker 3: had been around to watch them grow and was close

1108
00:46:30,320 --> 00:46:32,160
Speaker 3: to Joan and Kate, so the kids are more like

1109
00:46:32,280 --> 00:46:34,880
Speaker 3: family to her, been around to watch them grow. Sounds

1110
00:46:34,880 --> 00:46:38,120
Speaker 3: like she's been around them for a while. Okay, so

1111
00:46:38,200 --> 00:46:39,600
Speaker 3: did he just get the time wrong.

1112
00:46:39,960 --> 00:46:41,720
Speaker 2: Have they known each other for two years?

1113
00:46:42,000 --> 00:46:43,800
Speaker 3: I feel like he's got the time wrong.

1114
00:46:44,120 --> 00:46:46,279
Speaker 2: They Yeah, he probably got the time wrong because I

1115
00:46:46,320 --> 00:46:48,200
Speaker 2: thought you guys were dating for two years and she's

1116
00:46:48,239 --> 00:46:50,200
Speaker 2: only known them for three months or something. But what

1117
00:46:50,239 --> 00:46:51,799
Speaker 2: if it was a flip. She's known them for two

1118
00:46:51,840 --> 00:46:53,240
Speaker 2: years and he's only been around for three.

1119
00:46:53,120 --> 00:46:55,600
Speaker 3: Months, which means she treats them differently than other kids

1120
00:46:55,640 --> 00:46:58,359
Speaker 3: and they're the exception to the rule. Maggie said she'd

1121
00:46:58,360 --> 00:47:00,719
Speaker 3: probably tone it down eventually, but since they were so young,

1122
00:47:00,840 --> 00:47:03,480
Speaker 3: she wanted them to get something nice for Christmas. I

1123
00:47:03,520 --> 00:47:05,960
Speaker 3: wasn't really sure what to say next because it seems

1124
00:47:06,000 --> 00:47:08,440
Speaker 3: so irrational, But then Maggie said that she used to

1125
00:47:08,480 --> 00:47:11,160
Speaker 3: exchange Christmas gifts with Joe and Kate two but they

1126
00:47:11,160 --> 00:47:14,440
Speaker 3: had all decided it was too much trouble and unnecessary.

1127
00:47:14,719 --> 00:47:18,319
Speaker 3: So it definitely is more than two months because she's

1128
00:47:18,360 --> 00:47:22,080
Speaker 3: talking about multiple Christmas gifts. You stupid dude, You got

1129
00:47:22,080 --> 00:47:22,799
Speaker 3: the time wrong.

1130
00:47:22,920 --> 00:47:24,600
Speaker 2: Man, You got some facts wrong.

1131
00:47:24,680 --> 00:47:26,520
Speaker 3: You got the facts wrong. Even if you have the

1132
00:47:26,560 --> 00:47:29,319
Speaker 3: facts right, you still would be wrong. But you're absolutely

1133
00:47:29,360 --> 00:47:30,080
Speaker 3: wrong right now.

1134
00:47:30,200 --> 00:47:32,759
Speaker 2: What if this whole time, your girlfriend has been hanging

1135
00:47:32,760 --> 00:47:34,800
Speaker 2: out with these people and has been doing it for years,

1136
00:47:34,880 --> 00:47:37,840
Speaker 2: but you now have been caught catching up, and he's like,

1137
00:47:37,920 --> 00:47:39,920
Speaker 2: oh man, this is so weird. She keeps doing this

1138
00:47:39,960 --> 00:47:42,200
Speaker 2: thing is so new. No, it's been here forever.

1139
00:47:41,960 --> 00:47:44,840
Speaker 3: And you didn't ask any questions. So these days she

1140
00:47:44,960 --> 00:47:47,080
Speaker 3: usually bakes them something or gets them a nice bottle

1141
00:47:47,120 --> 00:47:49,960
Speaker 3: of wine. I realized I was missing something important. If

1142
00:47:50,000 --> 00:47:53,520
Speaker 3: Maggie had other Christmases with Joe's family, she couldn't have

1143
00:47:53,800 --> 00:47:56,160
Speaker 3: just met them like I thought. I had thought that

1144
00:47:56,200 --> 00:47:58,800
Speaker 3: Maggie might have emotional issues that made her attach herself

1145
00:47:58,800 --> 00:48:01,160
Speaker 3: to people she barely knew, but I didn't think Maggie

1146
00:48:01,239 --> 00:48:03,800
Speaker 3: was actually crazy enough to imagine that she knew them before.

1147
00:48:04,080 --> 00:48:07,040
Speaker 3: I didn't want to ask, so I acted normally until

1148
00:48:07,080 --> 00:48:09,279
Speaker 3: I left. You literally could just be like, how long

1149
00:48:09,280 --> 00:48:09,919
Speaker 3: have you known them?

1150
00:48:10,080 --> 00:48:10,400
Speaker 2: Dude?

1151
00:48:10,440 --> 00:48:12,880
Speaker 5: He didn't want to be proven himself wrong. Yeah, you

1152
00:48:13,080 --> 00:48:16,000
Speaker 5: pride silly, You were too prideful. When I got home,

1153
00:48:16,080 --> 00:48:19,439
Speaker 5: I went through Maggie's Facebook. She wasn't lying and she's

1154
00:48:19,480 --> 00:48:21,799
Speaker 5: not crazy. This is so frustrating.

1155
00:48:22,000 --> 00:48:25,319
Speaker 3: He literally thought his girlfriend was lying and crazy, and

1156
00:48:25,400 --> 00:48:28,120
Speaker 3: instead of like having any proof of that, he.

1157
00:48:28,560 --> 00:48:32,600
Speaker 4: Didn't read it posts. He literally put it on the

1158
00:48:32,600 --> 00:48:35,720
Speaker 4: red posts like, oh figured it out, yeah.

1159
00:48:35,640 --> 00:48:37,600
Speaker 3: Instead of being like, maybe I should ask her how

1160
00:48:37,640 --> 00:48:40,120
Speaker 3: long she's known them because she seems so close.

1161
00:48:40,200 --> 00:48:41,480
Speaker 2: And all he had to do was prove himself wrong

1162
00:48:41,560 --> 00:48:43,480
Speaker 2: was to go to her Facebook. That's all you had.

1163
00:48:43,320 --> 00:48:46,480
Speaker 4: To do was ask a simple question, and then you

1164
00:48:46,280 --> 00:48:47,920
Speaker 4: have I gotta get to the bottom of this.

1165
00:48:48,000 --> 00:48:50,840
Speaker 3: Let me go to the internet, an idiot, Oh my gosh,

1166
00:48:51,440 --> 00:48:53,880
Speaker 3: she wasn't lying and she's not crazy. I found a

1167
00:48:53,920 --> 00:48:56,680
Speaker 3: ton of photos with Joan and Kate going back a decade.

1168
00:48:56,880 --> 00:48:58,880
Speaker 4: You moron, You're so stupid.

1169
00:48:59,080 --> 00:48:59,840
Speaker 2: What the heck?

1170
00:49:00,239 --> 00:49:02,960
Speaker 3: I'm so glad that I was right about this. From

1171
00:49:03,000 --> 00:49:05,520
Speaker 3: what I can figure out, they all went to college together.

1172
00:49:05,640 --> 00:49:07,000
Speaker 2: You're so stupid.

1173
00:49:07,640 --> 00:49:11,440
Speaker 3: How did you not know that her closest family and friends,

1174
00:49:11,640 --> 00:49:14,040
Speaker 3: You know, this family that she's so close to that

1175
00:49:14,160 --> 00:49:16,799
Speaker 3: even you realized she was close to she's known them

1176
00:49:16,840 --> 00:49:19,160
Speaker 3: from college. Did you never ask that question?

1177
00:49:19,200 --> 00:49:21,080
Speaker 4: You thought she knew him for too much?

1178
00:49:21,200 --> 00:49:23,520
Speaker 3: You never asked that question, you dummy?

1179
00:49:23,680 --> 00:49:26,040
Speaker 2: This guy knows he's dumb, he knows he's stupid. You

1180
00:49:26,120 --> 00:49:28,520
Speaker 2: better he's like, oh.

1181
00:49:28,280 --> 00:49:31,520
Speaker 3: Man, oop, sorry, guys. Joe and Maggie were a big

1182
00:49:31,560 --> 00:49:34,120
Speaker 3: brother and little sister and a co ed fratt and sorority,

1183
00:49:34,200 --> 00:49:37,200
Speaker 3: and Maggie and Kate were roommates. I also found pictures

1184
00:49:37,239 --> 00:49:40,240
Speaker 3: of Maggie as a bridesmaid in Joe and Kate's wedding.

1185
00:49:41,000 --> 00:49:44,120
Speaker 4: You're a dumb ass, stupid.

1186
00:49:43,800 --> 00:49:47,319
Speaker 3: You didn't like, God, my god, he almost broke up

1187
00:49:47,360 --> 00:49:50,800
Speaker 3: with his girlfriend for something that he could have googled.

1188
00:49:51,239 --> 00:49:53,680
Speaker 2: Dude, didn't you let go through your girl's instagram for

1189
00:49:53,680 --> 00:49:54,040
Speaker 2: you guys?

1190
00:49:54,080 --> 00:49:57,160
Speaker 3: Didn't you stalk her on Instagram and Facebook, you dummy.

1191
00:49:56,920 --> 00:49:58,840
Speaker 2: And see all of her friends and everything you?

1192
00:49:59,000 --> 00:50:01,839
Speaker 3: I hate this man. What is happening Joe and Kate's

1193
00:50:01,840 --> 00:50:04,920
Speaker 3: wedding and pictures of Maggie holding their newborn children, so

1194
00:50:04,960 --> 00:50:07,359
Speaker 3: they are obviously close friends who have known each other

1195
00:50:07,360 --> 00:50:10,040
Speaker 3: for a long time. All of Maggie's behavior makes perfect

1196
00:50:10,080 --> 00:50:11,360
Speaker 3: sense now that I know all this.

1197
00:50:11,520 --> 00:50:13,320
Speaker 2: I can't I can't give this Opie.

1198
00:50:13,520 --> 00:50:14,680
Speaker 3: I like him.

1199
00:50:15,320 --> 00:50:15,960
Speaker 2: You're stupid.

1200
00:50:16,000 --> 00:50:17,680
Speaker 3: She should break up with you for being stupid.

1201
00:50:17,800 --> 00:50:20,319
Speaker 4: I hope she reads this and like I would break

1202
00:50:20,360 --> 00:50:20,960
Speaker 4: up with op.

1203
00:50:21,040 --> 00:50:23,279
Speaker 3: I would break if I read that my boyfriend was

1204
00:50:23,320 --> 00:50:25,919
Speaker 3: thinking about breaking up with me because he felt weird

1205
00:50:25,960 --> 00:50:28,160
Speaker 3: about me having a relationship with this family. And then

1206
00:50:28,160 --> 00:50:30,680
Speaker 3: I was like, that's so weird. Why would he say that?

1207
00:50:30,880 --> 00:50:33,120
Speaker 3: And then I find out that he just didn't listen

1208
00:50:33,160 --> 00:50:35,879
Speaker 3: to me, dude, and didn't think to ask me any

1209
00:50:35,960 --> 00:50:38,000
Speaker 3: questions and was just going to break up with me.

1210
00:50:38,239 --> 00:50:39,800
Speaker 3: I'd be like, you know what, you're dumb.

1211
00:50:39,840 --> 00:50:41,840
Speaker 2: Bye, this is wild.

1212
00:50:42,239 --> 00:50:44,799
Speaker 4: I don't think he had insecure wow.

1213
00:50:44,600 --> 00:50:50,480
Speaker 3: Dumb insecure wow? Wow, No, there's more. I think this

1214
00:50:50,600 --> 00:50:52,000
Speaker 3: whole thing is my fault.

1215
00:50:52,160 --> 00:50:56,040
Speaker 2: Oh, you're a minute, You're wrong.

1216
00:50:57,239 --> 00:51:00,200
Speaker 3: I have ADHD and I don't handle it well.

1217
00:51:00,480 --> 00:51:02,759
Speaker 4: Don't use that excuse.

1218
00:51:03,080 --> 00:51:06,240
Speaker 2: No, No, you just didn't ask your girlfriend enough questions.

1219
00:51:06,400 --> 00:51:09,160
Speaker 2: And even if you had AHD, you knew you were

1220
00:51:09,200 --> 00:51:11,360
Speaker 2: almost wrong and you should have just asked your question

1221
00:51:11,480 --> 00:51:13,200
Speaker 2: rather than not saying anything. Dude.

1222
00:51:13,360 --> 00:51:15,480
Speaker 3: I have had many times where people have told me

1223
00:51:15,520 --> 00:51:18,000
Speaker 3: things and I immediately forget and I just ask them.

1224
00:51:18,160 --> 00:51:19,320
Speaker 3: I just ask them again.

1225
00:51:19,680 --> 00:51:21,359
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh.

1226
00:51:21,440 --> 00:51:23,719
Speaker 3: I've had issues when people are talking to me for

1227
00:51:23,760 --> 00:51:26,120
Speaker 3: a while where I start zoning them out. I've been

1228
00:51:26,120 --> 00:51:29,280
Speaker 3: called out for this before. Dude, I get it. It happens.

1229
00:51:29,520 --> 00:51:32,960
Speaker 3: This happens to me. I ask questions. If I didn't

1230
00:51:33,000 --> 00:51:36,840
Speaker 3: hear the answer, I asked questions. If I'm confused by something,

1231
00:51:37,040 --> 00:51:38,160
Speaker 3: I ask questions.

1232
00:51:38,239 --> 00:51:40,520
Speaker 2: If someone had an ADHD, they'd be a little bit

1233
00:51:40,520 --> 00:51:43,239
Speaker 2: more like like what do you call it, like perspective

1234
00:51:43,360 --> 00:51:48,040
Speaker 2: or like what's the word curious? Like they see things observant,

1235
00:51:48,120 --> 00:51:49,239
Speaker 2: they'd be more observant.

1236
00:51:50,400 --> 00:51:52,759
Speaker 3: I think it's pretty likely that Maggie did tell me

1237
00:51:52,760 --> 00:51:55,080
Speaker 3: about Joan Kate and I just wasn't listening.

1238
00:51:55,280 --> 00:51:57,799
Speaker 4: The more and more you write this, OpEd, the more

1239
00:51:57,840 --> 00:51:59,120
Speaker 4: and more I hate you.

1240
00:51:59,120 --> 00:52:01,880
Speaker 3: You're the a hold Now, Yeah, pieces is I have ADHD,

1241
00:52:01,920 --> 00:52:03,680
Speaker 3: and it makes me a good investigator. If there are

1242
00:52:03,680 --> 00:52:05,640
Speaker 3: things that I don't know, I will try and find

1243
00:52:05,640 --> 00:52:07,680
Speaker 3: the answer to them, and then if I can't find it,

1244
00:52:07,800 --> 00:52:09,560
Speaker 3: I will ask them again and say, hey, I know

1245
00:52:09,600 --> 00:52:11,880
Speaker 3: you probably told me this, but what was that answered?

1246
00:52:12,200 --> 00:52:12,439
Speaker 5: Yeah?

1247
00:52:12,680 --> 00:52:13,240
Speaker 3: So easy.

1248
00:52:13,320 --> 00:52:16,640
Speaker 2: This is just someone going through their mind, finally picking

1249
00:52:16,719 --> 00:52:18,760
Speaker 2: up on something, getting it all in their head and

1250
00:52:18,840 --> 00:52:21,799
Speaker 2: in this big story, and then finding the truth. Yeah.

1251
00:52:21,800 --> 00:52:23,920
Speaker 3: It's just like so not an excuse because again, this

1252
00:52:24,000 --> 00:52:25,839
Speaker 3: happens to me all the time Sam calls me out

1253
00:52:25,840 --> 00:52:27,120
Speaker 3: on this because I zone out a lot.

1254
00:52:27,239 --> 00:52:28,920
Speaker 2: I feel like you zone out whenever Sam talks to you.

1255
00:52:29,239 --> 00:52:31,360
Speaker 2: Sometimes you zone out whenever I talk to you.

1256
00:52:31,520 --> 00:52:33,120
Speaker 4: Sometimes I sound out whenever you talk.

1257
00:52:34,040 --> 00:52:37,080
Speaker 3: Really but you, but you notice when I zone out.

1258
00:52:37,560 --> 00:52:40,839
Speaker 4: I feel like that's when everyone like a you thing.

1259
00:52:41,120 --> 00:52:42,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I guess I done out too.

1260
00:52:43,239 --> 00:52:45,239
Speaker 4: Sometimes the days are long. It's okay, it's not you

1261
00:52:45,600 --> 00:52:47,360
Speaker 4: when it's important, Riley, I listen to you.

1262
00:52:47,520 --> 00:52:50,520
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, really, it's in everyone thing.

1263
00:52:50,920 --> 00:52:52,400
Speaker 3: You just have to wave keys in front of me.

1264
00:52:52,680 --> 00:52:55,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, you have to say something really outland. You have

1265
00:52:55,960 --> 00:52:58,320
Speaker 4: my full attention, which is literally.

1266
00:52:59,040 --> 00:53:00,759
Speaker 2: I'm just thinking about all the things that I have said.

1267
00:53:01,080 --> 00:53:03,160
Speaker 2: I tried not to use a lot of words. Maybe

1268
00:53:03,160 --> 00:53:04,680
Speaker 2: I'm just using too many words, Riley.

1269
00:53:04,719 --> 00:53:06,680
Speaker 3: You would have known if I zoned out. If you

1270
00:53:06,719 --> 00:53:07,800
Speaker 3: can't think of times.

1271
00:53:08,440 --> 00:53:08,960
Speaker 2: To zone out?

1272
00:53:09,200 --> 00:53:10,680
Speaker 4: Yes, yes, okay.

1273
00:53:12,360 --> 00:53:14,880
Speaker 3: All sometimes yeah.

1274
00:53:14,440 --> 00:53:20,360
Speaker 2: Sometimes ADHDA No, I don't, Yes, I just vibe. I

1275
00:53:20,480 --> 00:53:22,920
Speaker 2: just vibe whatever the vibe is. I'll vibe to that, Riley.

1276
00:53:22,920 --> 00:53:24,759
Speaker 4: We all have ADHD because we grew up in that

1277
00:53:24,920 --> 00:53:26,720
Speaker 4: generation of like, here's a screen.

1278
00:53:26,960 --> 00:53:31,440
Speaker 2: Nope, No, I didn't have his screen till I was eighteen.

1279
00:53:31,719 --> 00:53:33,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, I didn't have until fifth grade, and I definitely

1280
00:53:33,520 --> 00:53:38,240
Speaker 3: had problems before. Anyway, Maggie hasn't actually done anything wrong

1281
00:53:38,440 --> 00:53:40,560
Speaker 3: or creepy, so I think it's more likely that I

1282
00:53:40,640 --> 00:53:43,680
Speaker 3: wasn't listening when Maggie explained, instead of this being a trick.

1283
00:53:44,960 --> 00:53:48,919
Speaker 3: I think it's insane that he's saying. I think it's

1284
00:53:48,960 --> 00:53:52,760
Speaker 3: more like like he's still doubting it. He has ten

1285
00:53:52,960 --> 00:53:54,160
Speaker 3: years of proof.

1286
00:53:54,360 --> 00:53:56,759
Speaker 2: I bet you this guy would rather stab himself in

1287
00:53:56,800 --> 00:53:58,959
Speaker 2: the leg than to prove that he was wrong.

1288
00:53:59,080 --> 00:53:59,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, I agree.

1289
00:54:00,120 --> 00:54:00,680
Speaker 2: I agree.

1290
00:54:00,719 --> 00:54:02,759
Speaker 3: This was a pretty big wake up call for me.

1291
00:54:03,000 --> 00:54:06,040
Speaker 3: I've been ignoring my problem because I didn't want to

1292
00:54:06,080 --> 00:54:08,960
Speaker 3: face facts that it was serious. But I know I

1293
00:54:09,040 --> 00:54:11,200
Speaker 3: need to do something before I make any more mistakes.

1294
00:54:11,280 --> 00:54:13,960
Speaker 3: I'm gonna start off by looking for a therapist. Good,

1295
00:54:14,480 --> 00:54:16,520
Speaker 3: because I can't believe you almost broke up with your

1296
00:54:16,560 --> 00:54:20,680
Speaker 3: girlfriend because you weren't listening and you still can't admit that.

1297
00:54:20,760 --> 00:54:24,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, therapists ADHD meds. If that's like, if you're really.

1298
00:54:24,000 --> 00:54:26,399
Speaker 3: Yeah, if you're really struggling with this and you can't

1299
00:54:26,400 --> 00:54:28,560
Speaker 3: listen to your girlfriend when she tells you things, and

1300
00:54:28,600 --> 00:54:30,440
Speaker 3: then you can't even admit you're wrong.

1301
00:54:30,480 --> 00:54:32,640
Speaker 4: And you blame it on the ADHD. Yeah.

1302
00:54:33,160 --> 00:54:35,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, Miss Kitty cuts is what's the scariest When you're

1303
00:54:35,200 --> 00:54:36,919
Speaker 3: driving and you zone out and you have no idea

1304
00:54:36,960 --> 00:54:39,160
Speaker 3: how you got to your destination without dying. I go

1305
00:54:39,239 --> 00:54:40,160
Speaker 3: on autopilot.

1306
00:54:40,360 --> 00:54:40,640
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1307
00:54:40,840 --> 00:54:42,800
Speaker 4: Have you guys done that? Yeah, like a long drive.

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Speaker 4: You've never done that.

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Speaker 2: I did it once when I was very sleep deprived,

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Speaker 2: but I was.

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Speaker 3: Also, oh, it's just really it's not even like I'm

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Speaker 3: not I'm not sleepy.

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Speaker 2: It's a brain off.

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Speaker 3: It's like, yeah, your brain turns off, and then you're like, oh.

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Speaker 4: That drive was really short.

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Speaker 3: Yeah no, I yes, I know how that feels. It's

1317
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Speaker 3: like you're not sleepy at all, and you're totally focused,

1318
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Speaker 3: but you're so focused that you you lose.

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Speaker 4: You don't you're not you're not hungry, you're not thirsty.

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Speaker 4: You're not even thinking. No thoughts, literal zero thoughts are empty.

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Speaker 2: Drive drive.

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Speaker 3: You go on autopilot and head like, I've never run

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Speaker 3: a red light or anything. You just go on autopilot. No.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's crazy.

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Speaker 3: It's a weird sensation. That's the end of that story

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Speaker 3: and the end of that episode. If you love us,

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