1 00:00:01,840 --> 00:00:04,160 Speaker 1: Hey, welcome back to Battery Happy Hour. I'm Joe and 2 00:00:05,160 --> 00:00:07,440 Speaker 1: we are here with some very exciting new some very 3 00:00:07,480 --> 00:00:11,960 Speaker 1: exciting guests Bachelor Nation, please welcome the newlyweds mister and 4 00:00:12,039 --> 00:00:18,040 Speaker 1: Missus Bowers. Thank you for that, Sarah, congrats. We just 5 00:00:18,079 --> 00:00:21,200 Speaker 1: watched your wedding video, which listeners you can now watch 6 00:00:21,239 --> 00:00:24,680 Speaker 1: on bachel Nation's YouTube channel. You guys just watch it 7 00:00:24,720 --> 00:00:27,640 Speaker 1: back for the first time. How do you feel it 8 00:00:27,680 --> 00:00:28,200 Speaker 1: was moved? 9 00:00:28,320 --> 00:00:30,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, it was just honestly, it was just a special 10 00:00:30,800 --> 00:00:33,760 Speaker 2: and amazing and I don't know as as I remember 11 00:00:33,800 --> 00:00:35,800 Speaker 2: it like, it was just it was awesome. 12 00:00:36,040 --> 00:00:40,600 Speaker 3: Also with the throwback, like the throw We've had such 13 00:00:40,600 --> 00:00:43,040 Speaker 3: a big year, and I think it's been you know, 14 00:00:43,120 --> 00:00:46,519 Speaker 3: about a year since we spoke with y'all, but I 15 00:00:46,560 --> 00:00:48,760 Speaker 3: mean just so many things have happened, and so that 16 00:00:48,840 --> 00:00:50,720 Speaker 3: was really cool to see it all kind of summed up. 17 00:00:51,360 --> 00:00:53,519 Speaker 1: Officially, how long have you guys been together? 18 00:00:54,760 --> 00:00:57,600 Speaker 4: Oh, well, we were official. 19 00:00:57,680 --> 00:01:00,680 Speaker 3: I mean we were in six exclusive the first trip 20 00:01:00,720 --> 00:01:03,400 Speaker 3: of meeting each other, so and half. 21 00:01:04,240 --> 00:01:07,200 Speaker 1: And how long has it been? And then when did 22 00:01:07,200 --> 00:01:14,240 Speaker 1: you meet your daughter? I mean, yes, I'm better from 23 00:01:14,280 --> 00:01:17,160 Speaker 1: the beginning the way I phrased that as I was 24 00:01:17,200 --> 00:01:17,919 Speaker 1: saying it, I'm. 25 00:01:17,800 --> 00:01:20,080 Speaker 4: Like, I got you. 26 00:01:20,120 --> 00:01:20,720 Speaker 1: I know what you mean. 27 00:01:21,480 --> 00:01:22,920 Speaker 3: It was my it was my birthday. So it was 28 00:01:22,920 --> 00:01:25,199 Speaker 3: October nineteenth, two times ago. 29 00:01:26,319 --> 00:01:31,080 Speaker 5: Okay, for those listening, you should go watch the video. 30 00:01:31,120 --> 00:01:33,360 Speaker 5: You don't have to, but you should go watch the 31 00:01:33,440 --> 00:01:35,920 Speaker 5: video before listening to this podcast. 32 00:01:36,080 --> 00:01:39,280 Speaker 6: It's beautiful. It was shot by Blakelee. 33 00:01:40,200 --> 00:01:45,120 Speaker 3: Yes, so she just turned eight and yeah, so we'll 34 00:01:45,120 --> 00:01:47,680 Speaker 3: get into more details about how the wedding happened and 35 00:01:47,760 --> 00:01:50,160 Speaker 3: like why we did how we how we did it, 36 00:01:50,200 --> 00:01:52,960 Speaker 3: why we did it that way, but just know that 37 00:01:53,160 --> 00:01:57,160 Speaker 3: I wasn't we We have like so many professional photos, 38 00:01:57,200 --> 00:01:59,440 Speaker 3: even like styled, like we've done engagement shoots where I 39 00:01:59,440 --> 00:02:02,320 Speaker 3: was like wearing my wedding dress and actually the dress 40 00:02:02,320 --> 00:02:04,640 Speaker 3: that I was wearing at the wedding was from a 41 00:02:04,640 --> 00:02:06,919 Speaker 3: photo that we did. So we have these really baller 42 00:02:07,080 --> 00:02:09,280 Speaker 3: like photos that we've taken together. 43 00:02:09,320 --> 00:02:10,040 Speaker 6: And so I was like, you. 44 00:02:09,960 --> 00:02:12,200 Speaker 3: Know, this is going to be so much less like 45 00:02:12,280 --> 00:02:14,560 Speaker 3: style than that. Like we always doing my makeup in 46 00:02:14,600 --> 00:02:17,799 Speaker 3: the car from getting our marriage certificate, and I was like, 47 00:02:17,840 --> 00:02:19,120 Speaker 3: stuff at Target, I need. 48 00:02:18,960 --> 00:02:20,320 Speaker 4: Flowers and eyelashes. 49 00:02:21,120 --> 00:02:23,079 Speaker 3: So I was like, I'm not really worried about the 50 00:02:23,080 --> 00:02:25,400 Speaker 3: photos because they're going to be so much less than. 51 00:02:25,280 --> 00:02:26,240 Speaker 4: What we've done already. 52 00:02:26,400 --> 00:02:29,000 Speaker 3: And for me, but then I was like, wait, no, 53 00:02:29,440 --> 00:02:30,639 Speaker 3: I need photos, I need video. 54 00:02:30,680 --> 00:02:34,080 Speaker 4: Blakely, can you be for us? And she loves doing that, 55 00:02:34,120 --> 00:02:35,120 Speaker 4: so she she took it. 56 00:02:35,120 --> 00:02:38,320 Speaker 3: Up and and uh that that was her doing and 57 00:02:38,360 --> 00:02:39,120 Speaker 3: she loved doing it. 58 00:02:39,160 --> 00:02:39,840 Speaker 4: I did have her. 59 00:02:39,880 --> 00:02:42,000 Speaker 3: If you've noticed, if you do watch the video, I 60 00:02:42,080 --> 00:02:44,400 Speaker 3: noticed that she or if you might notice that she 61 00:02:44,440 --> 00:02:48,000 Speaker 3: has switched positions because from the beginning you can see 62 00:02:48,040 --> 00:02:50,120 Speaker 3: all the cars in the background, and I'm mid before 63 00:02:50,160 --> 00:02:50,840 Speaker 3: we did our kiss, I. 64 00:02:50,800 --> 00:02:53,760 Speaker 4: Was like, real quick, can you actually change the other side? Likely? 65 00:02:53,840 --> 00:02:56,040 Speaker 4: I really don't want that in the background. So she 66 00:02:56,120 --> 00:02:56,880 Speaker 4: did great. 67 00:02:57,320 --> 00:03:00,120 Speaker 2: And for me, you got so many cool like like 68 00:03:00,160 --> 00:03:01,799 Speaker 2: she said, we did so many cool style shoots. Like 69 00:03:01,800 --> 00:03:04,000 Speaker 2: for me, it was like, I don't know, I just 70 00:03:04,040 --> 00:03:06,240 Speaker 2: wanted a special moment and it was like I feel 71 00:03:06,240 --> 00:03:07,280 Speaker 2: like that's really what we had. 72 00:03:07,520 --> 00:03:09,760 Speaker 1: So it was it was really cool. I mean for 73 00:03:09,840 --> 00:03:12,400 Speaker 1: me personally, I find I find a video like this 74 00:03:12,560 --> 00:03:19,240 Speaker 1: more engaging in photos that are more organic than like stylistic, 75 00:03:19,480 --> 00:03:22,959 Speaker 1: you know, photographed photos. 76 00:03:23,639 --> 00:03:26,600 Speaker 5: Yeah, no, there's something like super genuine or organic about 77 00:03:26,639 --> 00:03:28,920 Speaker 5: the video because it is shot by your daughter, and 78 00:03:29,000 --> 00:03:31,440 Speaker 5: it's yeah, it's like kind of it's giving like modern 79 00:03:31,520 --> 00:03:33,440 Speaker 5: day camcorder, you know what I mean, Like it's not 80 00:03:33,560 --> 00:03:35,520 Speaker 5: an iPhone, but she's like moving. 81 00:03:35,320 --> 00:03:38,400 Speaker 1: Around and like now I even feel like professional videographers 82 00:03:38,440 --> 00:03:40,880 Speaker 1: will shoot an HD video and try to turn it 83 00:03:40,920 --> 00:03:44,680 Speaker 1: into what this is. Yeah right, yeah, like make it. 84 00:03:44,600 --> 00:03:46,320 Speaker 4: You know, like a filter's a filter for that. 85 00:03:46,600 --> 00:03:46,800 Speaker 3: Yeah. 86 00:03:46,880 --> 00:03:49,960 Speaker 1: We literally they're gonna call it the Blakely filter. 87 00:03:50,080 --> 00:03:54,280 Speaker 4: Blakeley filter. That'll do. Yeah. She was like a smacking 88 00:03:54,280 --> 00:03:55,280 Speaker 4: the screen atterwards. She's like a. 89 00:03:55,360 --> 00:03:58,720 Speaker 2: Plause so and it was such a switch to from 90 00:03:58,720 --> 00:04:00,600 Speaker 2: how she was feeling prior to go out there, like 91 00:04:00,640 --> 00:04:03,640 Speaker 2: she was like she was Tommy was actually hurting pretty bad. 92 00:04:03,640 --> 00:04:05,280 Speaker 2: Like I picked her up from school and we had 93 00:04:05,320 --> 00:04:06,760 Speaker 2: like told her we were getting married that day, like 94 00:04:06,760 --> 00:04:09,480 Speaker 2: we had already talked about it. And then like she 95 00:04:09,600 --> 00:04:11,840 Speaker 2: was like Tommy really hurts them and I'm like, okay, 96 00:04:11,840 --> 00:04:13,320 Speaker 2: we'll just wrap you up in a blanket. And then 97 00:04:13,480 --> 00:04:15,640 Speaker 2: we gave her some like you know, some tummy medicine 98 00:04:15,640 --> 00:04:17,719 Speaker 2: and by the time she got there, she was like 99 00:04:17,800 --> 00:04:18,440 Speaker 2: ready to party. 100 00:04:18,760 --> 00:04:20,279 Speaker 6: Yesh, that's so exciting. 101 00:04:20,360 --> 00:04:22,560 Speaker 1: All right, let's go back to let's go to the beginning. 102 00:04:22,640 --> 00:04:24,279 Speaker 1: How did this decision come to be? 103 00:04:24,560 --> 00:04:27,840 Speaker 5: Yeah, so you get engaged. What was your initial vision 104 00:04:28,240 --> 00:04:29,840 Speaker 5: of your wedding? 105 00:04:30,600 --> 00:04:33,640 Speaker 3: Okay, so great question. So we got engaged very publicly. 106 00:04:33,960 --> 00:04:36,520 Speaker 3: We've spoke on this, but it was you know, I 107 00:04:36,560 --> 00:04:39,440 Speaker 3: was so surprised it was I mean, it was just magical. 108 00:04:39,480 --> 00:04:42,240 Speaker 3: It was so everything I could have dreamed in more 109 00:04:42,920 --> 00:04:45,599 Speaker 3: and public also. 110 00:04:45,400 --> 00:04:48,160 Speaker 5: Yes, for those who are listening in case you missed it, 111 00:04:48,200 --> 00:04:50,719 Speaker 5: which I'm sure you didn't, but they got engaged last 112 00:04:50,800 --> 00:04:55,160 Speaker 5: year at the Golden Bachelor wedding on TV. 113 00:04:56,240 --> 00:04:58,839 Speaker 6: It was beautiful. We chatted with you guys. It was great. 114 00:04:59,640 --> 00:05:02,719 Speaker 3: Yes, so as far as you know, you guys have 115 00:05:02,760 --> 00:05:05,640 Speaker 3: been there engaged. And then the questions are when's the wedding, 116 00:05:05,640 --> 00:05:08,680 Speaker 3: when's the wedding? When's the wedding? And so I was 117 00:05:08,720 --> 00:05:11,440 Speaker 3: just like, man, I don't know, like we're were. We 118 00:05:11,480 --> 00:05:13,920 Speaker 3: moved in right after the wedding. That was the plan, 119 00:05:14,000 --> 00:05:16,000 Speaker 3: even before we got engaged. He had his truck packed up. 120 00:05:16,040 --> 00:05:19,200 Speaker 3: We were making the drive from California to Tennessee. And 121 00:05:19,400 --> 00:05:22,760 Speaker 3: you know that's an event in itself, like moving in together. 122 00:05:22,920 --> 00:05:23,680 Speaker 4: So I don't know. 123 00:05:23,880 --> 00:05:27,880 Speaker 3: I also used to be an event planner, wedding planner, 124 00:05:28,240 --> 00:05:31,520 Speaker 3: so I know how much goes into it, and so 125 00:05:31,640 --> 00:05:33,280 Speaker 3: I was like, I really want to dedicate time. 126 00:05:33,360 --> 00:05:35,159 Speaker 4: So we didn't really hop on like the whole like 127 00:05:35,240 --> 00:05:37,320 Speaker 4: let's plan a wedding thing right away. 128 00:05:37,440 --> 00:05:39,200 Speaker 2: But once we did, and that's kind of when we 129 00:05:39,240 --> 00:05:41,560 Speaker 2: got overwhelmed because it's like my family's all in San Diego. 130 00:05:41,960 --> 00:05:44,160 Speaker 2: Her family's kind of scattered, they're in Tennessee, they're in 131 00:05:44,279 --> 00:05:46,320 Speaker 2: New Jersey, you know, North Carolina. 132 00:05:46,320 --> 00:05:48,599 Speaker 7: So it's like we have all these people from different areas. 133 00:05:48,720 --> 00:05:51,320 Speaker 2: Like trying to find a location that we wanted to 134 00:05:51,320 --> 00:05:52,960 Speaker 2: get married and was going to be difficult. And then 135 00:05:52,960 --> 00:05:55,080 Speaker 2: when we were looking at like pricing for it and 136 00:05:55,120 --> 00:05:56,880 Speaker 2: planning and like, oh, if I invite this person, I 137 00:05:56,880 --> 00:05:58,680 Speaker 2: have to invite this person, and then like you know, 138 00:05:58,760 --> 00:06:00,960 Speaker 2: we're gonna spend so much time like trying to pick 139 00:06:00,960 --> 00:06:02,760 Speaker 2: out flowers and pick out all this stuff, and it 140 00:06:02,880 --> 00:06:05,160 Speaker 2: just like we started like doing all this planning and 141 00:06:05,720 --> 00:06:07,800 Speaker 2: it really started to feel like the planning was for 142 00:06:07,839 --> 00:06:09,640 Speaker 2: everyone else and not really for us. And it was 143 00:06:09,720 --> 00:06:11,279 Speaker 2: like when we were thinking about it, it's like, you know, 144 00:06:11,320 --> 00:06:13,360 Speaker 2: we're the ones that are jumping into this commitment like, 145 00:06:13,839 --> 00:06:16,240 Speaker 2: you know, it's a promise between the two of us, 146 00:06:16,320 --> 00:06:18,440 Speaker 2: and you know it's also going to affect Blakely, And 147 00:06:18,480 --> 00:06:20,560 Speaker 2: it was like, you know, so the three people that 148 00:06:20,640 --> 00:06:22,919 Speaker 2: needed to be there were us three, and it was 149 00:06:22,960 --> 00:06:24,680 Speaker 2: like we wanted it to be a special moment that 150 00:06:24,760 --> 00:06:27,080 Speaker 2: was just for us and you know, just like our 151 00:06:27,120 --> 00:06:29,040 Speaker 2: promise to each other, and you know, kind of just 152 00:06:29,080 --> 00:06:31,240 Speaker 2: taking a moment to recognize that. And you know, I 153 00:06:31,320 --> 00:06:32,960 Speaker 2: had but I had a couple of friends that, like 154 00:06:33,000 --> 00:06:35,760 Speaker 2: I went to their weddings and over the last year, 155 00:06:35,800 --> 00:06:37,520 Speaker 2: and like often times I talk to them like, oh, like, 156 00:06:37,600 --> 00:06:38,880 Speaker 2: you know, are you so glad you did it that? 157 00:06:38,960 --> 00:06:40,080 Speaker 2: Because I was asking, I was like, you know, what 158 00:06:40,120 --> 00:06:41,520 Speaker 2: do you think, like should we go and do this 159 00:06:41,520 --> 00:06:44,200 Speaker 2: big thing? And they often told me they're like, you know, 160 00:06:44,360 --> 00:06:47,800 Speaker 2: it's just they they forgot. Like it was like, yeah, 161 00:06:47,839 --> 00:06:49,640 Speaker 2: they just remember like a couple of things about the wedding, 162 00:06:49,640 --> 00:06:51,680 Speaker 2: but the whole thing it was just gone in a flash, 163 00:06:51,839 --> 00:06:53,440 Speaker 2: and it was like they kind of forgot the whole 164 00:06:53,480 --> 00:06:55,600 Speaker 2: event itself and they went back home and nothing really 165 00:06:55,640 --> 00:06:57,919 Speaker 2: felt super different. And I don't know if that's the 166 00:06:57,920 --> 00:06:59,279 Speaker 2: case for everyone. I know it's not the case for 167 00:06:59,360 --> 00:07:01,200 Speaker 2: a lot of people. But like, the thing that was 168 00:07:01,200 --> 00:07:02,800 Speaker 2: so amazing is when we got married and the way 169 00:07:02,800 --> 00:07:05,479 Speaker 2: we got married. It was like afterwards it did feel 170 00:07:05,480 --> 00:07:07,200 Speaker 2: like there was a big difference because it was like 171 00:07:07,680 --> 00:07:08,480 Speaker 2: we didn't let. 172 00:07:08,440 --> 00:07:10,040 Speaker 4: Like felt the weight of the commitment. 173 00:07:10,160 --> 00:07:14,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, it was like the amazement in awe of like weddings. 174 00:07:14,320 --> 00:07:17,240 Speaker 2: I like, it didn't like take away from people. 175 00:07:17,000 --> 00:07:20,160 Speaker 3: Being in town and because we're being on like we 176 00:07:20,280 --> 00:07:22,840 Speaker 3: want the guest experience, like if we're doing something like 177 00:07:22,880 --> 00:07:24,880 Speaker 3: even if we just have people in town staying with us, 178 00:07:24,920 --> 00:07:26,720 Speaker 3: like we just did for Christmas, like we want to 179 00:07:26,760 --> 00:07:29,520 Speaker 3: make sure like our un divide attention is with them, 180 00:07:29,640 --> 00:07:31,480 Speaker 3: making sure like everything's perfect. 181 00:07:31,520 --> 00:07:34,080 Speaker 4: You know, the napkins are Swans and like you know, 182 00:07:34,160 --> 00:07:37,160 Speaker 4: little things like that, which I I mean, I know how. 183 00:07:37,000 --> 00:07:38,840 Speaker 3: Crazy I get about that, and I know that like 184 00:07:38,880 --> 00:07:41,640 Speaker 3: you're the same way too, and so we would probably 185 00:07:41,680 --> 00:07:43,960 Speaker 3: be attending to them, and so we love doing that. 186 00:07:44,000 --> 00:07:46,000 Speaker 4: And that's the thing we wouldn't It wouldn't. 187 00:07:45,640 --> 00:07:47,360 Speaker 3: Be it chore, but it's like, okay, well it would 188 00:07:47,360 --> 00:07:49,480 Speaker 3: be less about us, and so I don't know, I 189 00:07:49,760 --> 00:07:51,360 Speaker 3: love the way we did it. 190 00:07:50,880 --> 00:07:52,040 Speaker 4: It was really awesome. 191 00:07:52,080 --> 00:07:54,920 Speaker 3: Also, it was twelve twelve, twenty four, so that date 192 00:07:55,040 --> 00:07:55,680 Speaker 3: was pretty cool. 193 00:07:56,880 --> 00:08:02,560 Speaker 1: Talls one of my lucky numbers. Lucky there, Yeah, that's 194 00:08:02,560 --> 00:08:05,480 Speaker 1: one of my roulette numbers. Yeah. 195 00:08:04,280 --> 00:08:04,440 Speaker 3: Yeah. 196 00:08:05,800 --> 00:08:08,160 Speaker 2: When we were talking to the minister because we called 197 00:08:08,160 --> 00:08:09,680 Speaker 2: like an on call or dating minister. 198 00:08:11,240 --> 00:08:12,760 Speaker 4: Morning, yeah, morning. 199 00:08:12,760 --> 00:08:15,360 Speaker 3: We were actually like running around doing some chores for 200 00:08:15,760 --> 00:08:18,360 Speaker 3: this video I had to make, and literally it was 201 00:08:18,400 --> 00:08:20,480 Speaker 3: for We'll just go and say it was like for this, 202 00:08:20,480 --> 00:08:23,760 Speaker 3: this TV had to be in this video for our 203 00:08:23,920 --> 00:08:25,880 Speaker 3: social media and the TV. 204 00:08:26,000 --> 00:08:27,640 Speaker 4: We we hooked it up. We went through all the 205 00:08:27,640 --> 00:08:28,400 Speaker 4: process of like. 206 00:08:28,360 --> 00:08:30,000 Speaker 3: Hanging it up, and I'm like, we really don't have 207 00:08:30,040 --> 00:08:32,720 Speaker 3: to do this right now, Like we have a wedding today, 208 00:08:32,760 --> 00:08:34,600 Speaker 3: Like shouldn't we just go get our marriage license because 209 00:08:34,600 --> 00:08:35,920 Speaker 3: we hadn't done that yet. We did it day of 210 00:08:36,559 --> 00:08:38,199 Speaker 3: and we plug it in. We're like, no, it's just 211 00:08:38,240 --> 00:08:39,600 Speaker 3: be nice to get it done. So we plug it 212 00:08:39,600 --> 00:08:41,800 Speaker 3: in and it was crap, like the screen had been cracked. 213 00:08:41,800 --> 00:08:44,880 Speaker 4: So then we're like, oh, but oh. 214 00:08:44,880 --> 00:08:46,439 Speaker 8: That was the first We took it down that day. 215 00:08:46,440 --> 00:08:47,200 Speaker 7: We bought a fixed one. 216 00:08:47,240 --> 00:08:49,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, we took down the broken one and we replaced 217 00:08:49,360 --> 00:08:51,600 Speaker 2: the broken one with the new on this we had 218 00:08:51,640 --> 00:08:52,160 Speaker 2: to go to. 219 00:08:52,240 --> 00:08:55,400 Speaker 3: Like different targets around town, Like we went to one 220 00:08:55,440 --> 00:08:57,440 Speaker 3: that was ended up being forty minutes away after already 221 00:08:57,440 --> 00:08:59,880 Speaker 3: going to several others that said they had that TV 222 00:09:00,080 --> 00:09:01,480 Speaker 3: stock to go get that TV. 223 00:09:01,720 --> 00:09:03,640 Speaker 6: This is the day that you were getting married. 224 00:09:03,559 --> 00:09:05,600 Speaker 3: The day up and then yeah, and then we came 225 00:09:05,640 --> 00:09:07,120 Speaker 3: back and I was like, okay, so we got. 226 00:09:07,000 --> 00:09:08,560 Speaker 4: It, and he's like, no, this is what I was, 227 00:09:08,640 --> 00:09:09,560 Speaker 4: this is what I was remembering. 228 00:09:09,720 --> 00:09:11,280 Speaker 3: You were like, we have to put it up right 229 00:09:11,320 --> 00:09:13,160 Speaker 3: now because it's gonna be like in my head, is 230 00:09:13,200 --> 00:09:14,080 Speaker 3: it cracked also? 231 00:09:14,240 --> 00:09:15,640 Speaker 4: And so he was like, okay, we have to at. 232 00:09:15,559 --> 00:09:18,760 Speaker 6: Least again, Yeah, focused on marriage this TV. 233 00:09:19,520 --> 00:09:23,720 Speaker 7: I need the TV to not be cracked for signed. 234 00:09:23,480 --> 00:09:27,120 Speaker 3: For me and had called on call officiants on call 235 00:09:27,160 --> 00:09:28,959 Speaker 3: dot com or whatever, and she was like, yeah, just 236 00:09:29,040 --> 00:09:31,000 Speaker 3: let me know like where to meet you and what time. 237 00:09:31,040 --> 00:09:34,000 Speaker 3: We're like, all right, TVD And then so she kept 238 00:09:34,000 --> 00:09:36,880 Speaker 3: texting and we're like putting this TV up and getting 239 00:09:36,880 --> 00:09:38,440 Speaker 3: out of the box and it's like huge we're having 240 00:09:38,480 --> 00:09:40,440 Speaker 3: I'm like, I just I don't want to sweat. I 241 00:09:40,440 --> 00:09:42,720 Speaker 3: need to do my I hadn't done my makeup at all. 242 00:09:43,200 --> 00:09:45,240 Speaker 3: That video that's in the video that you guys should 243 00:09:45,280 --> 00:09:47,880 Speaker 3: watch is in the beginning of it where we have 244 00:09:47,880 --> 00:09:50,200 Speaker 3: our marriage license. You can definitely see I have zero 245 00:09:50,280 --> 00:09:53,720 Speaker 3: makeup on, and I was like, what do I wear? 246 00:09:54,000 --> 00:09:54,720 Speaker 4: You know, sweatpants. 247 00:09:54,720 --> 00:09:56,679 Speaker 3: It ended up the dress that I was wearing was 248 00:09:56,840 --> 00:09:58,640 Speaker 3: from a style shoot we had already done, so I 249 00:09:58,679 --> 00:10:00,000 Speaker 3: had no clue what I was gonna wear. 250 00:10:00,360 --> 00:10:03,160 Speaker 4: The jackets from Target, not Spuns or a Target yet 251 00:10:03,200 --> 00:10:03,959 Speaker 4: by the way, but. 252 00:10:10,000 --> 00:10:12,160 Speaker 1: Most I feel like most people will listen to this 253 00:10:12,200 --> 00:10:15,360 Speaker 1: and be like this is crazy, But you are talking 254 00:10:15,400 --> 00:10:17,120 Speaker 1: to two people that woke up and got married, like 255 00:10:17,160 --> 00:10:20,360 Speaker 1: we were going to get coffee, like we will wait. 256 00:10:21,240 --> 00:10:24,480 Speaker 5: So we got married a year before our wedding at 257 00:10:24,520 --> 00:10:26,240 Speaker 5: the courthouse, and. 258 00:10:26,440 --> 00:10:29,200 Speaker 6: We treated it very similarly to you guys. 259 00:10:29,280 --> 00:10:32,920 Speaker 5: Like I I had bought some dress from Ritzia that 260 00:10:33,200 --> 00:10:35,079 Speaker 5: I owned already, and I was like, I was buy 261 00:10:35,200 --> 00:10:35,680 Speaker 5: some white and. 262 00:10:35,679 --> 00:10:36,719 Speaker 6: I'll throw it. And I threw it on. It was 263 00:10:36,760 --> 00:10:37,760 Speaker 6: a completely see through. 264 00:10:38,320 --> 00:10:40,720 Speaker 5: So I put on like faux leather pants and like 265 00:10:40,760 --> 00:10:43,160 Speaker 5: a card. Again, it's like, really not my best outfit. 266 00:10:43,320 --> 00:10:44,960 Speaker 1: I was like dressed to go to the gym after. 267 00:10:45,040 --> 00:10:46,560 Speaker 1: I was like, I gotta go to the gym after. 268 00:10:46,800 --> 00:10:48,360 Speaker 7: Yeah, that's awesome. 269 00:10:49,000 --> 00:10:51,640 Speaker 6: Yeah, it was so nice too. 270 00:10:52,200 --> 00:10:52,839 Speaker 4: That's awesome. 271 00:10:53,920 --> 00:10:55,400 Speaker 8: I didn't know that about your guys' story. That is 272 00:10:55,400 --> 00:10:55,880 Speaker 8: so awesome. 273 00:10:55,880 --> 00:10:56,480 Speaker 4: I didn't either. 274 00:10:57,000 --> 00:11:00,280 Speaker 5: Yeah, when did so? When was the deciding moment when 275 00:11:00,320 --> 00:11:02,640 Speaker 5: you you get engaged? You like, you know, we know 276 00:11:02,679 --> 00:11:04,400 Speaker 5: how much a wedding is going to be. Let's just 277 00:11:04,440 --> 00:11:07,400 Speaker 5: like think on it and figure it out later. 278 00:11:07,920 --> 00:11:10,679 Speaker 1: Before keep keep that going. But I just want to 279 00:11:10,720 --> 00:11:13,640 Speaker 1: jump in real quick, just because I think it's it's 280 00:11:13,720 --> 00:11:16,240 Speaker 1: much more different for guys. So I take me and 281 00:11:16,240 --> 00:11:18,880 Speaker 1: Branden out of the equation. But Christina, when you were 282 00:11:18,920 --> 00:11:21,880 Speaker 1: a young girl, did you picture did you always want 283 00:11:21,920 --> 00:11:24,000 Speaker 1: a big wedding? Because I know that's like a thing. 284 00:11:24,040 --> 00:11:27,439 Speaker 3: The problem is with me having planned hundreds of weddings 285 00:11:28,240 --> 00:11:32,040 Speaker 3: for other people and the no, no, no longer. 286 00:11:32,240 --> 00:11:32,960 Speaker 4: But I won't. 287 00:11:33,840 --> 00:11:35,640 Speaker 3: I'll urge you to not take Bread out of the equation. 288 00:11:36,000 --> 00:11:39,800 Speaker 3: Because he was very excited originally he wanted. 289 00:11:39,520 --> 00:11:42,760 Speaker 2: This, Okay, I got I got excited about like a party. 290 00:11:42,840 --> 00:11:44,440 Speaker 2: So I was thinking, we'll have a food truck, we'll 291 00:11:44,440 --> 00:11:47,400 Speaker 2: have a man that has was like I'm thinking like 292 00:11:47,480 --> 00:11:49,520 Speaker 2: the reception, I'm not thinking the actual like. 293 00:11:51,640 --> 00:11:53,840 Speaker 1: When I'm saying when we're younger, like like as a 294 00:11:53,880 --> 00:11:56,640 Speaker 1: boy growing up, I don't picture my wedding right where 295 00:11:56,640 --> 00:11:58,839 Speaker 1: I like to, like for a young girl. That's kind 296 00:11:58,840 --> 00:12:00,640 Speaker 1: of like a thing no on for me. 297 00:12:00,880 --> 00:12:04,480 Speaker 3: And this this is gonna be sound weird because I, 298 00:12:04,520 --> 00:12:06,760 Speaker 3: you know, was on the same show all of us, 299 00:12:06,800 --> 00:12:10,200 Speaker 3: all of us were, you know, with our I feel 300 00:12:10,240 --> 00:12:12,520 Speaker 3: weird about doing like kissing and stuff in front. 301 00:12:12,320 --> 00:12:13,000 Speaker 4: Of my family. 302 00:12:13,760 --> 00:12:15,599 Speaker 3: I think as a child, that was always what was 303 00:12:15,640 --> 00:12:17,960 Speaker 3: in my head. I'm like, there's no way I'm gonna 304 00:12:18,000 --> 00:12:18,920 Speaker 3: kiss in front of my family. 305 00:12:19,480 --> 00:12:22,520 Speaker 6: That's so funny. But over that, this show actually took 306 00:12:22,600 --> 00:12:24,680 Speaker 6: that away for me. 307 00:12:25,920 --> 00:12:27,199 Speaker 4: Yeah, because I was. 308 00:12:27,200 --> 00:12:29,599 Speaker 6: Like, you've seen me like straight up making out in 309 00:12:29,640 --> 00:12:30,480 Speaker 6: a hot tub, Like. 310 00:12:30,440 --> 00:12:31,439 Speaker 4: But that's a great okay. 311 00:12:31,520 --> 00:12:33,959 Speaker 3: So I have no questions though, I know, like how 312 00:12:34,000 --> 00:12:35,760 Speaker 3: did everyone deal with that with their families? I feel 313 00:12:35,760 --> 00:12:37,600 Speaker 3: like that's an interesting question, Like where you do you guys, 314 00:12:37,640 --> 00:12:39,240 Speaker 3: like don't watch because I told my family, I'm like, 315 00:12:39,480 --> 00:12:41,200 Speaker 3: do what you want, I'm not gonna watch it with you, 316 00:12:41,280 --> 00:12:43,080 Speaker 3: but like at your own. 317 00:12:43,160 --> 00:12:46,240 Speaker 5: I just I was living at home and because it 318 00:12:46,280 --> 00:12:48,320 Speaker 5: was COVID and I was like locked in the house 319 00:12:48,360 --> 00:12:51,240 Speaker 5: with my family, So I was watching every week with 320 00:12:51,240 --> 00:12:53,720 Speaker 5: my parents and my sister. I think I was just 321 00:12:53,760 --> 00:12:55,720 Speaker 5: like watching your own risk, Like if you see something 322 00:12:55,760 --> 00:12:57,920 Speaker 5: you don't like, like, that's not my fault. Like it 323 00:12:58,040 --> 00:13:00,920 Speaker 5: is a dating show and you know that I kissed him, 324 00:13:01,000 --> 00:13:03,640 Speaker 5: so like I'll try to warn you of like anything 325 00:13:03,679 --> 00:13:07,040 Speaker 5: that may be a little scandy, but like not like 326 00:13:07,320 --> 00:13:09,200 Speaker 5: you know, yeah, watching your own risk, and if this 327 00:13:09,280 --> 00:13:12,120 Speaker 5: gets too weird, then like we'll watch separately. But I 328 00:13:12,160 --> 00:13:13,640 Speaker 5: was more just like let's just not talk about it, 329 00:13:13,720 --> 00:13:14,360 Speaker 5: Like let's. 330 00:13:14,160 --> 00:13:16,080 Speaker 6: Just keep moving, keep moving. You know. 331 00:13:16,440 --> 00:13:18,240 Speaker 3: It's like if you're watching a regular, you know, any 332 00:13:18,280 --> 00:13:20,280 Speaker 3: kind of movie, and then something comes on you're like, 333 00:13:20,320 --> 00:13:21,720 Speaker 3: just don't address it, Let's keep rolling. 334 00:13:23,080 --> 00:13:23,280 Speaker 7: Yeah. 335 00:13:23,320 --> 00:13:25,000 Speaker 2: It reminded me when I watched it with my family 336 00:13:25,000 --> 00:13:26,400 Speaker 2: of like when I was a kid, Like how I 337 00:13:26,480 --> 00:13:28,280 Speaker 2: used to cover my eyes, Like my aunt and my 338 00:13:28,360 --> 00:13:30,000 Speaker 2: mom when they were watching, We're covering their eyes is 339 00:13:30,040 --> 00:13:32,800 Speaker 2: screaming like like they just didn't want to see me 340 00:13:32,880 --> 00:13:34,520 Speaker 2: kissing anyone. And so it was like super loud in 341 00:13:34,559 --> 00:13:36,240 Speaker 2: my house every night that the show aired. 342 00:13:36,640 --> 00:13:38,120 Speaker 6: My parents definitely said it was weird. 343 00:13:38,200 --> 00:13:41,360 Speaker 5: They're like, I've never because not only do our parents 344 00:13:41,400 --> 00:13:43,160 Speaker 5: not watch us like make out with people most of 345 00:13:43,200 --> 00:13:47,319 Speaker 5: the time, but most I've never for us, at least 346 00:13:47,320 --> 00:13:48,680 Speaker 5: the title. 347 00:13:49,480 --> 00:13:49,920 Speaker 8: Yeah. 348 00:13:52,160 --> 00:13:55,280 Speaker 5: Also, just don't watch you like interact in the early 349 00:13:55,280 --> 00:13:58,600 Speaker 5: stages of a relationship, like you're like, they're like if 350 00:13:58,679 --> 00:14:01,600 Speaker 5: you're seeing you like flirt with someone, and you know 351 00:14:01,720 --> 00:14:02,480 Speaker 5: all these things. 352 00:14:02,559 --> 00:14:08,040 Speaker 1: So yeah, absolutely, but now we we never even had this. 353 00:14:08,120 --> 00:14:10,760 Speaker 1: I have, I haven't had this conversation with my family. 354 00:14:12,240 --> 00:14:14,600 Speaker 1: All I would do after episodes was I just wanted 355 00:14:14,840 --> 00:14:17,520 Speaker 1: an assessment on how I came across. 356 00:14:17,240 --> 00:14:19,800 Speaker 6: I looked physically, like how, like how how. 357 00:14:20,920 --> 00:14:22,440 Speaker 1: And they would just be like you were great. I'd 358 00:14:22,440 --> 00:14:23,560 Speaker 1: be like that's all I needed to hear. 359 00:14:24,200 --> 00:14:24,400 Speaker 2: Yeah. 360 00:14:24,600 --> 00:14:26,640 Speaker 7: My family was My aunt was like you're the villain. 361 00:14:26,800 --> 00:14:28,680 Speaker 7: You're the villain, and I'm like, oh my god. 362 00:14:29,000 --> 00:14:29,640 Speaker 1: Yeah. 363 00:14:30,200 --> 00:14:31,320 Speaker 6: So okay, So. 364 00:14:32,840 --> 00:14:35,880 Speaker 5: Taking it back to my question, knowing all the factors 365 00:14:35,880 --> 00:14:37,600 Speaker 5: that went into this decision, you didn't want to kiss 366 00:14:37,600 --> 00:14:39,680 Speaker 5: in front of your family. You guys are mega hosts, 367 00:14:39,680 --> 00:14:42,000 Speaker 5: and you wanted, you know, it to be focused on 368 00:14:42,040 --> 00:14:44,560 Speaker 5: you and your love story versus like hosting other people. 369 00:14:45,360 --> 00:14:48,040 Speaker 5: What was the turning point of like, Okay, we're doing this, 370 00:14:48,040 --> 00:14:49,240 Speaker 5: this is this is what we're gonna do. 371 00:14:49,920 --> 00:14:51,840 Speaker 2: Yeah. Honestly, our Thanksgiving trip, like we went back to 372 00:14:51,840 --> 00:14:54,120 Speaker 2: San Diego to see my family for Thanksgiving, and it 373 00:14:54,240 --> 00:14:55,920 Speaker 2: was like it was it was an amazing trip. 374 00:14:56,040 --> 00:14:58,520 Speaker 3: It was like before I had been totally sold on, 375 00:14:58,680 --> 00:15:02,120 Speaker 3: like let's do that, let's go a lope or just 376 00:15:02,200 --> 00:15:04,240 Speaker 3: like run away with the with the exception of we 377 00:15:04,280 --> 00:15:06,040 Speaker 3: always knew that Blakely wanted to be there or she 378 00:15:06,040 --> 00:15:07,880 Speaker 3: would be very upset, and. 379 00:15:07,840 --> 00:15:09,640 Speaker 2: So I was I mean, for me, it was kind 380 00:15:09,640 --> 00:15:11,200 Speaker 2: of just like when I went home to see my family, 381 00:15:11,200 --> 00:15:12,680 Speaker 2: it was like it was an amazing trip. We had 382 00:15:12,720 --> 00:15:16,400 Speaker 2: an amazing time together, and it was just I don't know, 383 00:15:16,440 --> 00:15:17,800 Speaker 2: it was so hard for everyone to get into town. 384 00:15:17,840 --> 00:15:19,160 Speaker 2: It was so hard for everyone to get together. And 385 00:15:19,200 --> 00:15:20,400 Speaker 2: it was like when I was thinking about it, I 386 00:15:20,400 --> 00:15:23,680 Speaker 2: was like, it's just gonna be so difficult to arrange it, 387 00:15:23,800 --> 00:15:25,680 Speaker 2: like arrange this and make this happen. 388 00:15:25,440 --> 00:15:27,080 Speaker 4: And then not able to spend the time with it, 389 00:15:27,400 --> 00:15:28,760 Speaker 4: and then exactly. 390 00:15:28,480 --> 00:15:29,800 Speaker 7: And then not even be able to spend the time 391 00:15:29,800 --> 00:15:30,040 Speaker 7: with them. 392 00:15:30,080 --> 00:15:32,600 Speaker 2: And so it was like I was enjoying just partying 393 00:15:32,600 --> 00:15:34,600 Speaker 2: with my family and partying with Christina and partying with 394 00:15:34,800 --> 00:15:35,960 Speaker 2: and it was just like it was so much fun 395 00:15:36,000 --> 00:15:37,640 Speaker 2: to have a care free environment where we were just 396 00:15:37,640 --> 00:15:39,920 Speaker 2: getting together and celebrating the holidays and just like partying 397 00:15:39,960 --> 00:15:42,520 Speaker 2: together and having fun. And it was like, I just 398 00:15:42,680 --> 00:15:44,880 Speaker 2: I was like, I don't need the ceremony with all them. 399 00:15:44,920 --> 00:15:47,760 Speaker 2: I'll just we'll do a big celebration and we can 400 00:15:47,800 --> 00:15:50,920 Speaker 2: have this of just like this care free like environment 401 00:15:51,480 --> 00:15:54,080 Speaker 2: and that would be so much more special to me. 402 00:15:54,000 --> 00:15:55,080 Speaker 7: You know what I mean. And so it was like, 403 00:15:55,120 --> 00:15:55,840 Speaker 7: I mean, we could have like. 404 00:15:55,840 --> 00:15:58,360 Speaker 8: Oh, yeah, this is our anniversary or one year anniversary party. 405 00:15:58,360 --> 00:16:00,360 Speaker 2: But at the same time, it's like, but it's not 406 00:16:00,400 --> 00:16:02,440 Speaker 2: necessarily like we're going to be sitting down and you know, 407 00:16:02,480 --> 00:16:04,040 Speaker 2: doing our pictures and visits and stuff like that. 408 00:16:04,120 --> 00:16:06,600 Speaker 7: It's going to be just like hanging out and just casual. 409 00:16:06,800 --> 00:16:08,840 Speaker 3: We kind of just allowed ourselves to make decision to 410 00:16:08,880 --> 00:16:10,840 Speaker 3: be like selfish, and it was, you know, a bit 411 00:16:10,920 --> 00:16:13,120 Speaker 3: selfish of us, but yeah. 412 00:16:13,000 --> 00:16:14,400 Speaker 4: We did We did it. 413 00:16:14,600 --> 00:16:15,440 Speaker 7: She did it, I felt. 414 00:16:15,480 --> 00:16:17,680 Speaker 2: I mean, it was it was hard to like, I mean, 415 00:16:17,800 --> 00:16:20,120 Speaker 2: we we waited till the holidays to tell everyone too, 416 00:16:20,160 --> 00:16:22,120 Speaker 2: so it was kind of like, I mean, ahead of time, they. 417 00:16:22,040 --> 00:16:23,840 Speaker 7: Knew we were like planning to get married, and may. 418 00:16:26,000 --> 00:16:27,600 Speaker 2: Likely didn't really tell anyone either, and then we kind 419 00:16:27,600 --> 00:16:29,280 Speaker 2: of just told everyone during Christmas. 420 00:16:29,000 --> 00:16:30,800 Speaker 8: Like, yeah, so we got married guys, and they're like, well. 421 00:16:31,360 --> 00:16:34,160 Speaker 5: Did you have anyone that expressed frustrations about that or 422 00:16:34,240 --> 00:16:35,560 Speaker 5: felt like they got jiffed? 423 00:16:36,640 --> 00:16:38,240 Speaker 7: Not I mean not necessarily I think that. 424 00:16:38,360 --> 00:16:42,160 Speaker 1: I mean, I mean, according to Christina's face, there was someone. 425 00:16:42,840 --> 00:16:45,880 Speaker 2: I mean yeah, yeah, no, I mean no, it was 426 00:16:46,080 --> 00:16:48,480 Speaker 2: it was definitely. I mean I understood expected. 427 00:16:48,640 --> 00:16:49,280 Speaker 8: Let's it was. 428 00:16:49,360 --> 00:16:52,600 Speaker 2: It wasn't it wasn't bad, Like it wasn't like they 429 00:16:52,640 --> 00:16:55,160 Speaker 2: were actually upset. They were they wanted to be there. 430 00:16:55,160 --> 00:16:57,200 Speaker 2: It was more like it was more like they were bummed. 431 00:16:57,240 --> 00:16:58,640 Speaker 2: We waited so long to tell them, which is a 432 00:16:58,640 --> 00:17:01,360 Speaker 2: totally understandable. I mean we waited, we waited two weeks 433 00:17:01,360 --> 00:17:03,040 Speaker 2: to kind of like share the news with everyone because 434 00:17:03,040 --> 00:17:04,119 Speaker 2: in our head we're like, oh, we'll share it on 435 00:17:04,200 --> 00:17:07,320 Speaker 2: Christmas and like it'll be special. But so I understand 436 00:17:07,359 --> 00:17:09,520 Speaker 2: like that, like I if the only thing that maybe 437 00:17:09,520 --> 00:17:11,320 Speaker 2: I might have told him, I might have told him sooner, 438 00:17:11,960 --> 00:17:13,720 Speaker 2: because I mean, but we just got so caught up 439 00:17:13,720 --> 00:17:16,439 Speaker 2: because life just like you know, but night. Yeah, like 440 00:17:16,480 --> 00:17:18,960 Speaker 2: it wasn't like life stopped for us getting married. It 441 00:17:19,000 --> 00:17:20,280 Speaker 2: was like we got married and then like you know, 442 00:17:20,320 --> 00:17:21,560 Speaker 2: we went right back to it. Like, you know, we 443 00:17:21,560 --> 00:17:24,119 Speaker 2: had Blakely has school, she does piano, she does basketball. 444 00:17:24,200 --> 00:17:26,280 Speaker 8: You know, I have my work, I'm going back to school. 445 00:17:26,400 --> 00:17:28,159 Speaker 2: Like there's a bunch of things that we got going on, 446 00:17:28,240 --> 00:17:30,080 Speaker 2: and so it was just like we just got you know, 447 00:17:30,240 --> 00:17:32,200 Speaker 2: we got to have our special moment and we still 448 00:17:32,240 --> 00:17:34,199 Speaker 2: got to celebrate it and enjoy between us. But it 449 00:17:34,240 --> 00:17:36,360 Speaker 2: was like it was like finding the time to sit 450 00:17:36,440 --> 00:17:38,719 Speaker 2: down and call everyone and tell everyone. We just you know, 451 00:17:38,880 --> 00:17:42,159 Speaker 2: it got pushed back person yeah, because the last thing 452 00:17:42,200 --> 00:17:43,800 Speaker 2: I wanted is like to tell one person and then 453 00:17:43,840 --> 00:17:45,800 Speaker 2: have them tell someone else. I was like, okay, when 454 00:17:45,840 --> 00:17:47,640 Speaker 2: we call and tell everyone, we have to sit down 455 00:17:47,680 --> 00:17:49,960 Speaker 2: and call everyone because if someone else finds out, someone 456 00:17:50,000 --> 00:17:50,880 Speaker 2: else is going to be better. 457 00:17:53,119 --> 00:17:55,399 Speaker 1: It's just one witness you need, right, Your daughter was 458 00:17:55,400 --> 00:17:56,200 Speaker 1: that actually. 459 00:17:55,960 --> 00:17:59,160 Speaker 4: Didn't need need one. Thought it ten. 460 00:18:00,280 --> 00:18:03,000 Speaker 3: Wanted if there if there needed to be one, I don't 461 00:18:03,000 --> 00:18:04,160 Speaker 3: think she would have counted as a human. 462 00:18:04,280 --> 00:18:05,520 Speaker 2: Well, and we thought we were going to need a 463 00:18:05,520 --> 00:18:07,479 Speaker 2: witness too, and we had we had people lined up 464 00:18:07,520 --> 00:18:09,760 Speaker 2: to kind of like be there and be witnesses. 465 00:18:09,800 --> 00:18:11,040 Speaker 7: But then we ended up playing. 466 00:18:10,760 --> 00:18:14,760 Speaker 2: Our head not like telling them yeah, but we ended 467 00:18:14,840 --> 00:18:15,320 Speaker 2: up being good. 468 00:18:15,359 --> 00:18:18,480 Speaker 5: So were you worried at all because you said that 469 00:18:18,880 --> 00:18:22,800 Speaker 5: you found your minister on like a random sight online 470 00:18:22,840 --> 00:18:25,520 Speaker 5: where you like, damn, hopefully this girl's good. 471 00:18:25,600 --> 00:18:27,520 Speaker 6: Like she did a great job honestly. 472 00:18:27,119 --> 00:18:29,000 Speaker 5: Like I really loved what she said about like the 473 00:18:29,040 --> 00:18:31,480 Speaker 5: hands and everything and your she shows Oh. 474 00:18:31,320 --> 00:18:33,679 Speaker 3: Wait, she's Two things that we need to mention is 475 00:18:33,680 --> 00:18:35,800 Speaker 3: one about the the in the video you can see 476 00:18:35,840 --> 00:18:38,600 Speaker 3: the certificate. And then two that she when she showed up, 477 00:18:38,640 --> 00:18:40,600 Speaker 3: she had she recognized him. She's like, do you ever 478 00:18:40,680 --> 00:18:41,960 Speaker 3: get the what she's say? 479 00:18:42,359 --> 00:18:44,720 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, she one second, guess one second, sorry, my 480 00:18:44,760 --> 00:18:46,880 Speaker 2: dog is running around. 481 00:18:46,920 --> 00:18:49,000 Speaker 3: So she shows up, so we called it on call. 482 00:18:49,480 --> 00:18:51,520 Speaker 3: We're literally in the target parking line. He's like, well, 483 00:18:51,600 --> 00:18:53,000 Speaker 3: let me just search, and he searched it. I'm like 484 00:18:53,040 --> 00:18:54,480 Speaker 3: that's not going to work, like I know, word of 485 00:18:54,520 --> 00:18:57,080 Speaker 3: mouth or like you know, let's go get a preacher 486 00:18:57,160 --> 00:18:58,760 Speaker 3: or something like go and walk into a church or 487 00:18:58,880 --> 00:19:03,240 Speaker 3: we'll find somebody. And so he finds this girl. She's like, yeah, 488 00:19:03,280 --> 00:19:05,080 Speaker 3: I can do it today. I'll show up there. Yeah, 489 00:19:05,200 --> 00:19:08,000 Speaker 3: gives us the price. We're like, awesome, like TVD on 490 00:19:08,520 --> 00:19:09,919 Speaker 3: when we're going to be doing it. So so we 491 00:19:10,000 --> 00:19:12,720 Speaker 3: ended up telling her we passed by on the way 492 00:19:12,720 --> 00:19:14,320 Speaker 3: to get the marriage to be at this gazebo that 493 00:19:14,359 --> 00:19:16,119 Speaker 3: we ended up doing it at right now. 494 00:19:15,960 --> 00:19:17,800 Speaker 6: So you just found it like on the way to target. 495 00:19:17,800 --> 00:19:19,600 Speaker 3: Well, I mean we passed by it often, but we 496 00:19:19,680 --> 00:19:21,080 Speaker 3: were like they had put red bows on it for 497 00:19:21,160 --> 00:19:22,680 Speaker 3: Christmas and I'm like, that looks thick. 498 00:19:23,080 --> 00:19:23,680 Speaker 4: Let's get there. 499 00:19:23,720 --> 00:19:25,600 Speaker 1: Oh, so you didn't have that, You didn't have that 500 00:19:25,680 --> 00:19:27,879 Speaker 1: spot like pre planned like a week prior. 501 00:19:29,040 --> 00:19:30,400 Speaker 7: He knew that so ahead of time. 502 00:19:30,560 --> 00:19:32,119 Speaker 8: So when when we went home. 503 00:19:32,000 --> 00:19:34,879 Speaker 2: As soon as we're like hey, as soon as we 504 00:19:34,880 --> 00:19:36,240 Speaker 2: got back from the trip, we're like, hey, we want 505 00:19:36,280 --> 00:19:38,280 Speaker 2: to get there, like let's do this thing that we. 506 00:19:38,320 --> 00:19:40,280 Speaker 4: Kind of like on this trail like maybe there. 507 00:19:40,560 --> 00:19:43,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, We're like we're like but we were in our head, 508 00:19:43,720 --> 00:19:45,360 Speaker 2: We're like, we just want to get married. Let's sit 509 00:19:45,400 --> 00:19:47,600 Speaker 2: down and like let's actually talk about just getting married. 510 00:19:47,760 --> 00:19:50,560 Speaker 1: Where are you guys from. There's there's this patch on 511 00:19:50,720 --> 00:19:54,280 Speaker 1: this trail that we like it there. 512 00:19:55,000 --> 00:19:56,000 Speaker 8: It's actually a cute bench. 513 00:19:56,040 --> 00:19:58,360 Speaker 2: It's like so there's like this park trail and there's 514 00:19:58,359 --> 00:20:00,800 Speaker 2: this single red bench and like oftentimes I'll go on 515 00:20:00,840 --> 00:20:02,920 Speaker 2: walks and I'll walk over there and there's like cardinals 516 00:20:02,960 --> 00:20:04,960 Speaker 2: that are flying around, and it's like it's so cool 517 00:20:04,960 --> 00:20:07,200 Speaker 2: because it's the only red in the entire area. 518 00:20:07,280 --> 00:20:09,879 Speaker 3: Yeah, like half a mile walk for the poor woman 519 00:20:09,920 --> 00:20:11,760 Speaker 3: to cut. Like we too were like no, probably not 520 00:20:11,880 --> 00:20:14,000 Speaker 3: so anyway, we see the gazebo or like this is 521 00:20:14,000 --> 00:20:16,000 Speaker 3: that's how we find it. So anyway, so we're it's 522 00:20:16,080 --> 00:20:18,320 Speaker 3: kind of a walk from even where we parked. Anyways, 523 00:20:18,680 --> 00:20:21,960 Speaker 3: and so play back the video. And I didn't know 524 00:20:22,000 --> 00:20:25,280 Speaker 3: this until yesterday. I was yesterday years old. You're like, oh, 525 00:20:25,320 --> 00:20:27,320 Speaker 3: you got it on video. I'm like, got one on video. 526 00:20:28,080 --> 00:20:31,520 Speaker 3: The marriage certificate had fallen out of his back pocket 527 00:20:31,520 --> 00:20:34,600 Speaker 3: while he was carrying Blakely to the gazebo, and I 528 00:20:34,640 --> 00:20:36,880 Speaker 3: was just like videoing him walking and you could see 529 00:20:36,880 --> 00:20:38,640 Speaker 3: it like right there on the ground plane his day. 530 00:20:38,680 --> 00:20:41,040 Speaker 3: And I didn't realize this this had even happened. And 531 00:20:41,119 --> 00:20:44,359 Speaker 3: so when the woman had walked up, she walks up, 532 00:20:44,359 --> 00:20:46,399 Speaker 3: she's like, hey, do you guys need this? So she 533 00:20:46,400 --> 00:20:47,680 Speaker 3: had picked it up and found it. 534 00:20:47,880 --> 00:20:50,960 Speaker 6: No way, that is really lucky. That could have fully 535 00:20:50,960 --> 00:20:52,480 Speaker 6: blown away for sure. 536 00:20:52,520 --> 00:20:54,560 Speaker 4: And so then I mean she knew your name. 537 00:20:54,560 --> 00:20:56,440 Speaker 3: Maybe she was just saying it that way, but she said, 538 00:20:56,440 --> 00:20:58,320 Speaker 3: do you ever get or maybe she didn't. 539 00:20:58,040 --> 00:20:59,720 Speaker 7: Know break, No, she didn't know who I was. 540 00:20:59,760 --> 00:21:00,800 Speaker 8: So she was she knew your. 541 00:21:00,800 --> 00:21:02,160 Speaker 4: Name, but she didn't know the guy from the show's 542 00:21:02,200 --> 00:21:02,760 Speaker 4: name or something. 543 00:21:02,840 --> 00:21:04,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, well she knew my name, but she didn't know 544 00:21:04,280 --> 00:21:05,800 Speaker 2: the guy from the show's name. And so she's like, 545 00:21:06,000 --> 00:21:08,000 Speaker 2: she's like, have you ever gotten it that you look 546 00:21:08,119 --> 00:21:12,320 Speaker 2: like the guy from the bachelor's show, like from Paradise 547 00:21:12,359 --> 00:21:14,239 Speaker 2: he wore those crazy earrings. She's like, I mean, you 548 00:21:14,240 --> 00:21:16,120 Speaker 2: have earrings, but you're not wearing like you're just wearing 549 00:21:16,119 --> 00:21:16,600 Speaker 2: studs right now. 550 00:21:16,640 --> 00:21:17,760 Speaker 7: You're not wearing like crazy ones. 551 00:21:17,800 --> 00:21:19,840 Speaker 8: And I'm like, like, are you teasing me right now? 552 00:21:19,840 --> 00:21:20,760 Speaker 8: And she's like, no, what do you mean. 553 00:21:20,840 --> 00:21:23,119 Speaker 2: I'm like, well that was me and she's like and 554 00:21:23,160 --> 00:21:25,480 Speaker 2: then she was like, I get to marry you guys, 555 00:21:25,560 --> 00:21:28,720 Speaker 2: and I'm like, well, I know she had done like 556 00:21:28,840 --> 00:21:30,000 Speaker 2: married at first night. 557 00:21:30,280 --> 00:21:32,760 Speaker 3: Which we had no clue when when they were in Nashville. 558 00:21:32,840 --> 00:21:34,679 Speaker 3: So yeah, she was like, I know what to do, 559 00:21:35,040 --> 00:21:36,360 Speaker 3: Like she got it and she. 560 00:21:36,560 --> 00:21:37,440 Speaker 7: And she did amazing. 561 00:21:37,560 --> 00:21:40,720 Speaker 2: She made it, so I mean it was like even 562 00:21:40,760 --> 00:21:45,119 Speaker 2: what she wrote, yeah, it was funny. She She's like, 563 00:21:45,119 --> 00:21:46,400 Speaker 2: can we get a picture and I'm like, we're like yeah, 564 00:21:46,400 --> 00:21:47,760 Speaker 2: We're like and she's like, don't worry, I won't post it. 565 00:21:47,760 --> 00:21:49,000 Speaker 7: She's like, this is just for me, and so it 566 00:21:49,080 --> 00:21:50,240 Speaker 7: was actually it was really cool. 567 00:21:50,800 --> 00:21:52,359 Speaker 2: And then like when she went to drop off the 568 00:21:52,359 --> 00:21:55,200 Speaker 2: marriage certificate, she sent us a picture like it's official, guys, 569 00:21:55,359 --> 00:21:56,800 Speaker 2: and so it was just it was really cool. 570 00:21:57,280 --> 00:22:02,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, that worked out. 571 00:22:04,440 --> 00:22:07,400 Speaker 1: So when you were walking to the gazebo with Blakely, 572 00:22:07,440 --> 00:22:09,520 Speaker 1: did you know at in that moment that she was 573 00:22:09,600 --> 00:22:12,359 Speaker 1: gonna film it or was that a I do that 574 00:22:12,359 --> 00:22:12,840 Speaker 1: all the time. 575 00:22:13,080 --> 00:22:16,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, she is so Christina, And I think that people 576 00:22:16,200 --> 00:22:19,439 Speaker 2: need to understand this. So growing up Christina because her 577 00:22:19,520 --> 00:22:20,040 Speaker 2: mom would be. 578 00:22:19,960 --> 00:22:22,800 Speaker 3: On the road often like three hundred days of the 579 00:22:22,880 --> 00:22:24,639 Speaker 3: year when I was growing up, So I had like 580 00:22:24,680 --> 00:22:28,280 Speaker 3: a Kelly, my babysitter that lived with us. She was 581 00:22:28,320 --> 00:22:32,160 Speaker 3: like her assignment was video cameracord Christina. So the mom 582 00:22:32,160 --> 00:22:34,080 Speaker 3: can watch it and have these videos. And so it's 583 00:22:34,119 --> 00:22:35,440 Speaker 3: twenty first time I'll be like video of me and 584 00:22:35,480 --> 00:22:36,440 Speaker 3: I'll be like dancing. 585 00:22:36,680 --> 00:22:38,320 Speaker 4: It's like, hey, look at me. You know how everyone's 586 00:22:38,359 --> 00:22:39,760 Speaker 4: like kids are like look at me, look at me. 587 00:22:39,840 --> 00:22:42,840 Speaker 3: Do this. It's like and so yes, such me all 588 00:22:42,840 --> 00:22:44,840 Speaker 3: the time now and it's it's. 589 00:22:44,640 --> 00:22:46,400 Speaker 2: So cute, but it's like, I mean, you guys would 590 00:22:46,400 --> 00:22:48,840 Speaker 2: have to see, like we have, there's boxes of like 591 00:22:48,920 --> 00:22:50,920 Speaker 2: film footage that she has from her growing up and 592 00:22:51,000 --> 00:22:51,440 Speaker 2: so it's like. 593 00:22:52,160 --> 00:22:54,040 Speaker 3: Blakely it's like anything. I'm like, oh my god, that's 594 00:22:54,080 --> 00:22:54,800 Speaker 3: cereal you're eating. 595 00:22:54,840 --> 00:22:56,080 Speaker 4: It's so cute. 596 00:22:56,200 --> 00:22:58,240 Speaker 2: And it's like so she like she literally records everything. 597 00:22:58,320 --> 00:23:00,320 Speaker 2: So for me, it's like, you know, it wasn't like 598 00:23:00,440 --> 00:23:02,080 Speaker 2: a lot of times the video. She records it just 599 00:23:02,119 --> 00:23:03,679 Speaker 2: for her, you know what I mean. Like again, like 600 00:23:03,760 --> 00:23:05,720 Speaker 2: she wants to save these special moments that she can 601 00:23:05,720 --> 00:23:07,000 Speaker 2: go and look back, and like we can go and 602 00:23:07,040 --> 00:23:07,639 Speaker 2: look back together. 603 00:23:07,760 --> 00:23:09,520 Speaker 8: So it's like in that moment, it was like, oh, 604 00:23:09,600 --> 00:23:10,840 Speaker 8: she's like, I do want to get a recording. 605 00:23:10,920 --> 00:23:11,440 Speaker 7: She's like I don't. 606 00:23:11,560 --> 00:23:13,919 Speaker 8: She's like I didn't know it. She's like, not do it, 607 00:23:13,960 --> 00:23:15,320 Speaker 8: and I'm not going to post it. 608 00:23:15,520 --> 00:23:16,640 Speaker 6: You know you did the right thing. 609 00:23:16,680 --> 00:23:18,800 Speaker 5: You I feel you would have regretted not having any 610 00:23:18,920 --> 00:23:20,600 Speaker 5: video or photo footage. 611 00:23:20,200 --> 00:23:20,920 Speaker 6: Out at all. 612 00:23:21,400 --> 00:23:23,159 Speaker 3: So that was our first time watching it back in 613 00:23:23,240 --> 00:23:26,199 Speaker 3: the video with you with you all, but Braden had 614 00:23:26,280 --> 00:23:28,600 Speaker 3: let me know, let me know yesterday the day before 615 00:23:28,800 --> 00:23:30,920 Speaker 3: she was like he was said that Blakely didn't. 616 00:23:30,720 --> 00:23:34,320 Speaker 4: Get the vowels. I was like, what cause, like you said, 617 00:23:34,359 --> 00:23:34,600 Speaker 4: like you. 618 00:23:34,560 --> 00:23:37,399 Speaker 3: Kind of rarely watched that your own videos, and I 619 00:23:37,400 --> 00:23:39,200 Speaker 3: don't know, like even hearing my own voice, I'm like, 620 00:23:39,200 --> 00:23:39,800 Speaker 3: EO cringe. 621 00:23:40,400 --> 00:23:42,680 Speaker 4: But I was like, she didn't get the vowels because 622 00:23:42,680 --> 00:23:44,000 Speaker 4: we wrote our own vowels. 623 00:23:44,000 --> 00:23:46,879 Speaker 3: It was the day of but when he went to 624 00:23:46,880 --> 00:23:48,760 Speaker 3: go pick up likely from school, that's when we did. 625 00:23:48,920 --> 00:23:51,600 Speaker 3: That's when I wrote mine, and so we did it 626 00:23:51,640 --> 00:23:54,199 Speaker 3: and it was really special and I love both of 627 00:23:54,240 --> 00:23:55,600 Speaker 3: ours and it's just gone. 628 00:23:55,680 --> 00:23:57,440 Speaker 4: But that's fine. Honestly, it's not fine. 629 00:23:57,520 --> 00:23:59,119 Speaker 2: It's not gone because it's you know, we have it 630 00:23:59,160 --> 00:24:01,280 Speaker 2: and like what I think is actually kind of makes 631 00:24:01,320 --> 00:24:02,080 Speaker 2: that kind of special too. 632 00:24:02,200 --> 00:24:04,920 Speaker 8: Is it kind of lets us still keep something for ourselves. 633 00:24:04,920 --> 00:24:05,560 Speaker 8: Does that make sense? 634 00:24:05,600 --> 00:24:07,720 Speaker 2: Like, but I didn't realize it was like, I mean 635 00:24:07,720 --> 00:24:09,560 Speaker 2: we have everything that you know, people everyone gets to 636 00:24:09,560 --> 00:24:11,639 Speaker 2: see it, but that's like it's kind of like it 637 00:24:11,680 --> 00:24:11,919 Speaker 2: for me. 638 00:24:13,040 --> 00:24:13,920 Speaker 7: Yeah, it makes it special. 639 00:24:13,960 --> 00:24:15,679 Speaker 2: It's like, you know, that's our promise that like is 640 00:24:15,680 --> 00:24:17,360 Speaker 2: between us, and so it's like it kind of makes 641 00:24:17,400 --> 00:24:19,119 Speaker 2: it like I don't know more there you. 642 00:24:20,680 --> 00:24:23,520 Speaker 5: Maybe way to go skipping out on the vow she knew. 643 00:24:23,720 --> 00:24:27,040 Speaker 5: She knew that was the she didn't know, Braid, But 644 00:24:27,280 --> 00:24:29,600 Speaker 5: did you guys write your vows down because you could 645 00:24:29,640 --> 00:24:32,800 Speaker 5: always like have them like printed out or something in 646 00:24:32,800 --> 00:24:33,120 Speaker 5: a book. 647 00:24:33,160 --> 00:24:34,880 Speaker 3: So in that fifteen minutes that he went to grab 648 00:24:34,920 --> 00:24:37,720 Speaker 3: her from school, I wrote down the first part in 649 00:24:37,760 --> 00:24:39,760 Speaker 3: my phone and then I was like, that's that's gonna 650 00:24:39,800 --> 00:24:41,200 Speaker 3: get me started. Then I'm gonna wing the rest because 651 00:24:41,200 --> 00:24:44,359 Speaker 3: don't have much time. So I have the first part. 652 00:24:44,800 --> 00:24:48,800 Speaker 1: There you go, Braden, What were you more nervous for 653 00:24:48,840 --> 00:24:53,000 Speaker 1: it to do? Was it the engagement or getting married? 654 00:24:54,240 --> 00:24:57,080 Speaker 2: I think the engagement, like for me, getting married was 655 00:24:57,119 --> 00:24:59,359 Speaker 2: something that like, once I proposed, I knew I wanted 656 00:24:59,359 --> 00:25:01,879 Speaker 2: to get married, So it was like that though it 657 00:25:01,920 --> 00:25:03,639 Speaker 2: was story was overs, just like how we were going 658 00:25:03,720 --> 00:25:04,679 Speaker 2: to do it, you know what I mean. And so 659 00:25:04,800 --> 00:25:06,159 Speaker 2: like for me, that's where I was at. I was like, 660 00:25:06,200 --> 00:25:07,680 Speaker 2: I just I just want to marry this woman, you 661 00:25:07,680 --> 00:25:09,280 Speaker 2: know what I mean? And it was like and again 662 00:25:09,320 --> 00:25:12,000 Speaker 2: like marriage, I think, at least for me, like marriage 663 00:25:12,000 --> 00:25:14,680 Speaker 2: is something that is very like it has a very 664 00:25:14,680 --> 00:25:16,800 Speaker 2: special meaning. It's like I hold in high regard and 665 00:25:16,840 --> 00:25:19,800 Speaker 2: it's like it's that commitment, It's that it's that person 666 00:25:19,880 --> 00:25:22,520 Speaker 2: knowing that beyond just like a yeah we're gonna get 667 00:25:22,520 --> 00:25:24,680 Speaker 2: married and say no, I'm spending the rest of my life. 668 00:25:24,680 --> 00:25:26,760 Speaker 2: I'm not just saying and I'm backing it with my actions. 669 00:25:26,800 --> 00:25:27,680 Speaker 2: I'm bringing it all. 670 00:25:27,600 --> 00:25:28,760 Speaker 4: In life, not going anywhere. 671 00:25:28,880 --> 00:25:29,920 Speaker 7: Yeah, I'm not going anywhere. 672 00:25:29,960 --> 00:25:32,240 Speaker 2: And so that's what I wanted to bring to our relationship, 673 00:25:32,280 --> 00:25:34,880 Speaker 2: where it's like, you know, we already knew that, but. 674 00:25:35,200 --> 00:25:36,480 Speaker 7: It takes it a step even further. 675 00:25:36,760 --> 00:25:38,800 Speaker 3: Well, like I said before, I felt the weight of 676 00:25:38,920 --> 00:25:41,080 Speaker 3: for sure, like in a good way and a great 677 00:25:41,080 --> 00:25:42,840 Speaker 3: way of like the difference. 678 00:25:43,000 --> 00:25:45,360 Speaker 4: And I think, you know, without all the. 679 00:25:45,359 --> 00:25:48,720 Speaker 3: Other for us chaotic as it sounded like that that 680 00:25:48,840 --> 00:25:51,399 Speaker 3: day was. It really was the least chaos that it 681 00:25:51,440 --> 00:25:53,000 Speaker 3: would have been. Also, that was just like a normal 682 00:25:53,080 --> 00:25:55,400 Speaker 3: day for us. And I think that we really got 683 00:25:55,400 --> 00:25:58,440 Speaker 3: to feel the difference and ill you know, still feel 684 00:25:58,480 --> 00:26:00,000 Speaker 3: the difference because I mean. 685 00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:01,040 Speaker 4: You know, you guys are a couple. 686 00:26:01,160 --> 00:26:03,399 Speaker 3: We have you know, I don't want to say like fights, 687 00:26:03,400 --> 00:26:07,320 Speaker 3: but yeah, fights, I mean disagreements, I mean happened very often, 688 00:26:07,320 --> 00:26:08,280 Speaker 3: and so I mean even. 689 00:26:08,080 --> 00:26:10,720 Speaker 4: Just the way very often, very often. 690 00:26:10,520 --> 00:26:11,960 Speaker 1: Like very often. 691 00:26:12,400 --> 00:26:12,960 Speaker 7: I know, I'm. 692 00:26:14,320 --> 00:26:16,760 Speaker 1: You know, as it happened way too much. 693 00:26:17,840 --> 00:26:21,960 Speaker 4: Every second of every day, save me, no what's helped me. 694 00:26:25,359 --> 00:26:27,840 Speaker 3: But I mean, yeah, just to know like okay, like 695 00:26:27,920 --> 00:26:30,239 Speaker 3: we have like we're going to figure this out, like 696 00:26:30,320 --> 00:26:33,240 Speaker 3: there's no kind of yeah, we're not going anywhere, I 697 00:26:33,240 --> 00:26:35,080 Speaker 3: think was the big one and so for me. 698 00:26:35,240 --> 00:26:37,160 Speaker 2: And so with that it was marriage was more something 699 00:26:37,200 --> 00:26:39,520 Speaker 2: I was looking forward to extremely The engagement I was 700 00:26:39,600 --> 00:26:42,640 Speaker 2: very nervous about. And I wasn't this I mean it 701 00:26:42,680 --> 00:26:44,639 Speaker 2: was it wasn't that I wasn't looking forward to it, 702 00:26:44,680 --> 00:26:46,960 Speaker 2: but it was very much like I'm very nervous to 703 00:26:47,000 --> 00:26:50,600 Speaker 2: go do this. I I mean ahead of time, like 704 00:26:50,640 --> 00:26:52,520 Speaker 2: there was I knew I was going to get some 705 00:26:52,560 --> 00:26:54,720 Speaker 2: flat because again it was at a wedding, but I 706 00:26:54,720 --> 00:26:56,760 Speaker 2: mean I had permission and I had spoken to you know, 707 00:26:56,800 --> 00:26:59,240 Speaker 2: both Gary and Thereesa beforehand. So it was like, I mean, 708 00:26:59,240 --> 00:27:01,000 Speaker 2: for me, it was like you know, I I was 709 00:27:01,040 --> 00:27:03,679 Speaker 2: a little bit more nervous about the engagement and I 710 00:27:03,800 --> 00:27:07,320 Speaker 2: was more looking forward to getting married and just doing 711 00:27:07,359 --> 00:27:08,840 Speaker 2: it and like having that for us. 712 00:27:08,880 --> 00:27:10,800 Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying, Yeah, I guess when you're 713 00:27:10,840 --> 00:27:13,359 Speaker 5: proposing to like you knew she wasn't gonna say no, 714 00:27:13,520 --> 00:27:15,840 Speaker 5: but it's still that like, but what if she's. 715 00:27:17,720 --> 00:27:19,439 Speaker 6: At the wedding, like you know, you're. 716 00:27:19,400 --> 00:27:22,879 Speaker 1: Well, not necessarily that's the wedding's the last chance to 717 00:27:22,960 --> 00:27:23,960 Speaker 1: back out totally. 718 00:27:24,000 --> 00:27:25,440 Speaker 6: But like the odds are way less. 719 00:27:25,640 --> 00:27:27,480 Speaker 5: The odds are way less because it's like she didn't 720 00:27:27,520 --> 00:27:29,000 Speaker 5: know he was going to propose to her, but she 721 00:27:29,080 --> 00:27:30,360 Speaker 5: knew she was getting married that day. 722 00:27:30,640 --> 00:27:34,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, and also beyond this too, like what people I know, hopefully, 723 00:27:34,920 --> 00:27:37,040 Speaker 2: but that day that we were getting engaged, when we 724 00:27:37,040 --> 00:27:39,000 Speaker 2: were getting our nails done, she decided to tell me 725 00:27:39,040 --> 00:27:41,399 Speaker 2: a story about this girl that she had been watching 726 00:27:41,480 --> 00:27:44,040 Speaker 2: and oh, no, her best friend was getting proposed to. 727 00:27:44,280 --> 00:27:47,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, I was getting proposed to in Australia the same day, 728 00:27:47,040 --> 00:27:48,960 Speaker 3: which I knew, which kind of distracted me from what's 729 00:27:48,960 --> 00:27:51,760 Speaker 3: going on where we were, and so I was like 730 00:27:52,520 --> 00:27:55,680 Speaker 3: so like talking to her twin sister, like helping her 731 00:27:55,960 --> 00:27:58,080 Speaker 3: with anything that I could from where I was, and 732 00:27:58,119 --> 00:28:01,640 Speaker 3: so like really paying attention to that. And he jokingly 733 00:28:01,640 --> 00:28:03,359 Speaker 3: says like, oh, do you think she's gonna say yes? 734 00:28:03,400 --> 00:28:07,479 Speaker 3: And I'm like, or I said, I wonder what she's 735 00:28:07,520 --> 00:28:09,880 Speaker 3: gonna say, because I meant like she's gonna freak out 736 00:28:09,920 --> 00:28:12,680 Speaker 3: because her whole family planed and I mean, like she's 737 00:28:13,080 --> 00:28:15,080 Speaker 3: not expecting this at all. Like I wonder what she's 738 00:28:15,080 --> 00:28:18,000 Speaker 3: gonna say, and he meant, well, he said, well, she's 739 00:28:18,000 --> 00:28:19,720 Speaker 3: gonna say yes, right, Like, well, that's not what I 740 00:28:19,760 --> 00:28:20,639 Speaker 3: really meant. 741 00:28:20,720 --> 00:28:23,920 Speaker 4: But while we're on the topic, I think that. 742 00:28:24,000 --> 00:28:27,800 Speaker 3: Girls should be more vocal and like, well willing to 743 00:28:27,840 --> 00:28:30,760 Speaker 3: say no because it's such a meaningful, like once in 744 00:28:30,760 --> 00:28:34,400 Speaker 3: a lifetime moment for most women, and like they just think, like, oh, 745 00:28:34,440 --> 00:28:36,720 Speaker 3: why don't you say yes? And then you'll tell them 746 00:28:36,720 --> 00:28:39,320 Speaker 3: no later, But like whoever they end up marrying later 747 00:28:39,520 --> 00:28:41,479 Speaker 3: is probably gonna see it. Like imagine if there's cameras 748 00:28:41,600 --> 00:28:43,320 Speaker 3: or something like, they'll see that video. 749 00:28:43,960 --> 00:28:45,320 Speaker 4: And I'm just like going on and on. 750 00:28:45,400 --> 00:28:47,920 Speaker 6: I'm like, I'm totally with you on what you're saying. 751 00:28:47,960 --> 00:28:51,040 Speaker 6: By the way, I used to watch these videos. That's 752 00:28:51,160 --> 00:28:52,200 Speaker 6: what you're saying to. 753 00:28:52,520 --> 00:28:54,920 Speaker 3: These videos like on Facebook or YouTube or whatever where 754 00:28:54,920 --> 00:28:57,160 Speaker 3: it's compilation of like girls saying no and it's like 755 00:28:57,200 --> 00:28:59,480 Speaker 3: a flash mob in the mall and then she's. 756 00:28:59,360 --> 00:28:59,920 Speaker 4: Like saying no. 757 00:29:00,040 --> 00:29:01,560 Speaker 3: And back in the day, I'd be like, why didn't 758 00:29:01,560 --> 00:29:03,880 Speaker 3: you just say yes? And like, save everyone the embarrassment. 759 00:29:03,920 --> 00:29:06,160 Speaker 3: But now I'm like, no, good for you girl, like 760 00:29:06,360 --> 00:29:07,600 Speaker 3: you're and I'm sitting there. 761 00:29:07,480 --> 00:29:09,640 Speaker 2: Like I'm sitting there like, dear God, I'm gonna get 762 00:29:09,680 --> 00:29:12,680 Speaker 2: turned now that big I'm gonna make a fool of 763 00:29:12,720 --> 00:29:13,480 Speaker 2: myself right now. 764 00:29:13,520 --> 00:29:16,360 Speaker 8: I'm like, yeah, I zero. 765 00:29:16,800 --> 00:29:18,719 Speaker 3: I had no knowledge of what was going on. I 766 00:29:18,720 --> 00:29:21,720 Speaker 3: was so surprised. But I'm like, yeah, I can't imagine. 767 00:29:21,760 --> 00:29:22,200 Speaker 4: Poor guy. 768 00:29:22,600 --> 00:29:23,719 Speaker 6: I give with you kept it in. 769 00:29:23,840 --> 00:29:25,560 Speaker 5: Joe would have told me, like, if Joe and I 770 00:29:25,560 --> 00:29:27,200 Speaker 5: are said to get the nail slot and we're having 771 00:29:27,200 --> 00:29:30,400 Speaker 5: that conversation, you would have been like, all right. 772 00:29:30,320 --> 00:29:33,120 Speaker 6: So yeah, I have to talk to you about it. 773 00:29:33,400 --> 00:29:35,280 Speaker 6: Yeah that's true. 774 00:29:35,840 --> 00:29:37,320 Speaker 1: All right, this is I think this is a good 775 00:29:37,320 --> 00:29:40,840 Speaker 1: place to end Part one. Thank you guys so much 776 00:29:40,880 --> 00:29:43,560 Speaker 1: for tuning into Better Happy Hour. We were going to 777 00:29:43,640 --> 00:29:45,520 Speaker 1: pick it up with these two for part two. We're 778 00:29:45,520 --> 00:29:49,120 Speaker 1: gonna get into what they got going on now, Honeymoon Talks, 779 00:29:50,520 --> 00:29:52,840 Speaker 1: what's next, So make sure you stay tuned. 780 00:29:52,960 --> 00:29:54,760 Speaker 6: Thank you for listening, and don't get subscribed. 781 00:29:54,840 --> 00:29:55,120 Speaker 3: Bye.