1 00:00:01,040 --> 00:00:03,040 Speaker 1: This one is from Erica and Newark. 2 00:00:03,720 --> 00:00:07,560 Speaker 2: Erica says, I am fifty and going through menopause. I 3 00:00:07,600 --> 00:00:10,240 Speaker 2: am afraid that my husband is not getting his needs 4 00:00:10,280 --> 00:00:13,240 Speaker 2: met and will cheat on me. I haven't been in 5 00:00:13,280 --> 00:00:16,239 Speaker 2: the mood for intimacy in a while. He told me 6 00:00:16,360 --> 00:00:19,279 Speaker 2: he's fine and he supports me during this time. But 7 00:00:19,400 --> 00:00:22,480 Speaker 2: he's coming home later, and he's been out on Saturdays 8 00:00:22,480 --> 00:00:25,439 Speaker 2: with his friends more than normal. I feel like he 9 00:00:25,520 --> 00:00:28,200 Speaker 2: is being more distant. Should I ask him if he's 10 00:00:28,240 --> 00:00:29,120 Speaker 2: got someone else? 11 00:00:29,520 --> 00:00:35,839 Speaker 3: Well, you can ask, but I can assure you he 12 00:00:35,960 --> 00:00:36,560 Speaker 3: gonna say no. 13 00:00:37,520 --> 00:00:39,360 Speaker 1: Well, yeah, so. 14 00:00:40,840 --> 00:00:43,879 Speaker 3: I don't know what y'all hoping to get. But his 15 00:00:44,120 --> 00:00:46,280 Speaker 3: only response is absolutely not. 16 00:00:46,800 --> 00:00:47,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, I support you. 17 00:00:48,280 --> 00:00:50,720 Speaker 4: Now, I don't know what menopause is. I don't really 18 00:00:50,840 --> 00:00:53,040 Speaker 4: understand this, so I'm staying off that subject. 19 00:00:53,280 --> 00:00:55,360 Speaker 3: But obviously it got you feel in some kind of 20 00:00:55,400 --> 00:00:56,520 Speaker 3: way out yourself. 21 00:00:56,600 --> 00:00:58,280 Speaker 4: So let's just lead at at that. 22 00:00:58,680 --> 00:01:02,600 Speaker 3: And I don't want to start nothing on this show, 23 00:01:02,280 --> 00:01:06,360 Speaker 3: so let's just leave that right there. Here we go, 24 00:01:06,959 --> 00:01:10,040 Speaker 3: because I ain't said nothing, but I will say this, 25 00:01:10,640 --> 00:01:13,080 Speaker 3: There has been a lot of fan and on this 26 00:01:13,280 --> 00:01:14,319 Speaker 3: show before. 27 00:01:16,920 --> 00:01:17,880 Speaker 1: We fans. 28 00:01:18,640 --> 00:01:23,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, so she can ask him but she's 29 00:01:23,360 --> 00:01:25,000 Speaker 2: not going to get the truth, is what you're. 30 00:01:24,920 --> 00:01:25,480 Speaker 4: Saying, Lady. 31 00:01:25,840 --> 00:01:28,960 Speaker 3: Ain't the way in the world. He's gonna tell you that. Yeah, 32 00:01:29,000 --> 00:01:30,920 Speaker 3: and he may not be so no. 33 00:01:31,840 --> 00:01:36,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, well, hopefully she can get some meds to deal 34 00:01:36,880 --> 00:01:37,640 Speaker 2: with her menopause. 35 00:01:37,680 --> 00:01:39,360 Speaker 1: And how said not be. 36 00:01:40,959 --> 00:01:41,440 Speaker 2: I said that? 37 00:01:42,040 --> 00:01:43,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, I certainly said it. 38 00:01:43,720 --> 00:01:44,559 Speaker 4: I didn't say that. 39 00:01:44,959 --> 00:01:47,319 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's okay. If you said it, it's okay. 40 00:01:47,640 --> 00:01:50,480 Speaker 4: No, it's not it would be okay. Well, let me 41 00:01:50,560 --> 00:01:52,520 Speaker 4: just say this. If there is some. 42 00:01:52,600 --> 00:01:55,440 Speaker 1: Meds there is there are there is, I would. 43 00:01:55,160 --> 00:01:57,040 Speaker 4: Buy them and have them on me at all. 44 00:01:57,040 --> 00:02:00,920 Speaker 1: Time as a man for when and when. 45 00:02:00,720 --> 00:02:03,600 Speaker 4: You started tripping. I take it. 46 00:02:05,120 --> 00:02:08,720 Speaker 3: Y'all need something too, uh huh, hell yeah to deal 47 00:02:08,760 --> 00:02:09,200 Speaker 3: with y'all. 48 00:02:09,400 --> 00:02:14,640 Speaker 2: Oh no, anyway, No, all right, we have time for 49 00:02:14,680 --> 00:02:18,880 Speaker 2: another one, Steve. This one's from Destiny in Colombia. Destiny says, 50 00:02:19,000 --> 00:02:22,200 Speaker 2: my boyfriend is nine years older than I am. He's 51 00:02:22,240 --> 00:02:24,920 Speaker 2: divorced and brings his two children on a lot of 52 00:02:24,960 --> 00:02:27,520 Speaker 2: our dates. He has them two weekends a month, and 53 00:02:27,560 --> 00:02:30,239 Speaker 2: when he's not with the kids, he wants to go clubbing, 54 00:02:30,720 --> 00:02:32,640 Speaker 2: So I only get to hang out with him when 55 00:02:32,680 --> 00:02:35,200 Speaker 2: he's got the kids. He has left them. He has 56 00:02:35,280 --> 00:02:37,320 Speaker 2: left them with me a few times and they don't 57 00:02:37,320 --> 00:02:40,360 Speaker 2: even know me. Am I his girlfriend or a convenient 58 00:02:40,400 --> 00:02:42,239 Speaker 2: babysitter when he's got his kids. 59 00:02:42,919 --> 00:02:46,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, you just feeling you, just feeling the void because 60 00:02:46,919 --> 00:02:48,519 Speaker 3: when he ain't with him, he go club. 61 00:02:48,919 --> 00:02:49,440 Speaker 4: And if that. 62 00:02:49,440 --> 00:02:52,000 Speaker 1: Ain't with you, Yeah. 63 00:02:51,400 --> 00:02:54,000 Speaker 4: Girl, you need to know your role. Bye. 64 00:02:54,120 --> 00:02:56,400 Speaker 3: He had found somebody to take care of the kids 65 00:02:57,200 --> 00:02:59,800 Speaker 3: and leave them with you while he go do something else. 66 00:03:00,440 --> 00:03:02,760 Speaker 3: And when he don't have the weekends with the kids, 67 00:03:02,760 --> 00:03:04,239 Speaker 3: he go club and without you. 68 00:03:04,680 --> 00:03:06,919 Speaker 4: Come on, Destiny, girl, what's. 69 00:03:06,720 --> 00:03:09,480 Speaker 3: The matter with you? You don't see that. We saw it 70 00:03:09,520 --> 00:03:11,960 Speaker 3: in this little moment right here. We just heard it. 71 00:03:12,240 --> 00:03:17,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, yep, come on, Destiny, you could do better. Seriously. 72 00:03:17,880 --> 00:03:22,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, it'll be. 73 00:03:22,360 --> 00:03:24,519 Speaker 4: A rap though soon as you hear you ain't my mama? 74 00:03:24,720 --> 00:03:27,000 Speaker 1: Yeah? Who are you? 75 00:03:27,160 --> 00:03:27,400 Speaker 4: Yeah? 76 00:03:27,440 --> 00:03:29,760 Speaker 1: She said they don't even know her. She said, the 77 00:03:29,840 --> 00:03:30,680 Speaker 1: kids don't even know. 78 00:03:31,440 --> 00:03:34,400 Speaker 4: I've had I've had it. I've had a child say that. 79 00:03:34,320 --> 00:03:35,880 Speaker 1: To me before, not one of your. 80 00:03:38,680 --> 00:03:40,880 Speaker 4: No, no, no, why well where are that though? 81 00:03:44,200 --> 00:03:44,680 Speaker 2: I'm here? 82 00:03:45,240 --> 00:03:47,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, this little boy was six years old. You ain't 83 00:03:47,160 --> 00:03:48,320 Speaker 4: my daddy? Well where at. 84 00:03:50,720 --> 00:03:53,040 Speaker 3: Because according to your mama, you ain't never met him before. 85 00:03:53,120 --> 00:04:00,000 Speaker 3: So oh, little mouth hanging over. I tried to sting it. 86 00:04:04,360 --> 00:04:06,080 Speaker 3: You gonna wait to let mama go in the kitchen, 87 00:04:06,080 --> 00:04:07,440 Speaker 3: come talking about you ain't my daddy? 88 00:04:07,440 --> 00:04:07,480 Speaker 2: What? 89 00:04:07,880 --> 00:04:10,360 Speaker 4: What the hell is it according to. 90 00:04:10,320 --> 00:04:13,200 Speaker 3: You, mamma, you ain't never met him, So I might 91 00:04:13,280 --> 00:04:14,680 Speaker 3: be your daddy and you don't even know it. 92 00:04:14,760 --> 00:04:19,680 Speaker 4: So off to therapy for you. 93 00:04:22,520 --> 00:04:28,320 Speaker 2: That's so crazy. Yeah, so Destiny please, you are a 94 00:04:28,400 --> 00:04:33,200 Speaker 2: convenient babysitter. You answered your own question in your own question. Yeah, 95 00:04:33,240 --> 00:04:33,640 Speaker 2: for sure. 96 00:04:33,720 --> 00:04:36,200 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show