1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:06,240 Speaker 1: Quest Love Supreme is a production of iHeartRadio. All Right, y'all, 2 00:00:06,240 --> 00:00:09,560 Speaker 1: welcome back to another QLs. All right, So last week, 3 00:00:09,600 --> 00:00:13,480 Speaker 1: you remember, Jennifer Lewis came on Court Love Supreme and 4 00:00:13,560 --> 00:00:17,760 Speaker 1: the accomplished actress talked about traveling the world, mental health, 5 00:00:17,800 --> 00:00:21,119 Speaker 1: and sex addiction. She even sang me a song on 6 00:00:21,200 --> 00:00:26,000 Speaker 1: the piano. All right, here's part two. Jennifer gives a 7 00:00:26,000 --> 00:00:29,280 Speaker 1: powerful life advice touches on her new book, which is 8 00:00:29,320 --> 00:00:32,400 Speaker 1: called Walking in My Joy in These Streets, which is 9 00:00:32,400 --> 00:00:33,120 Speaker 1: out now. 10 00:00:34,159 --> 00:00:37,320 Speaker 2: You know, as I said before, this is probably one of. 11 00:00:37,360 --> 00:00:41,640 Speaker 1: The best interviews we've ever done on this podcast, So listen. 12 00:00:42,120 --> 00:00:44,840 Speaker 1: This is probably the only interview in which I didn't 13 00:00:44,880 --> 00:00:46,600 Speaker 1: ask one question. 14 00:00:46,320 --> 00:00:49,519 Speaker 2: That I was planning on. Just she took over. I 15 00:00:49,560 --> 00:00:50,400 Speaker 2: hope you enjoyed it. 16 00:00:50,479 --> 00:00:59,800 Speaker 1: All right, Okay, I'm gonna take this a little bit 17 00:00:59,800 --> 00:01:02,200 Speaker 1: to the creative because this is what I admire about 18 00:01:02,240 --> 00:01:05,040 Speaker 1: you the most. How can you get and this is 19 00:01:06,000 --> 00:01:07,839 Speaker 1: I know we're gonna step I know that the answer 20 00:01:07,880 --> 00:01:11,160 Speaker 1: is going to be an hour, but how can you 21 00:01:11,840 --> 00:01:16,760 Speaker 1: truly one of the things that I hope to finally 22 00:01:16,959 --> 00:01:19,600 Speaker 1: rid myself of, and if I could rid myself of 23 00:01:19,640 --> 00:01:24,880 Speaker 1: this it's curtains, and that is how do you rid 24 00:01:24,959 --> 00:01:34,200 Speaker 1: yourself of the chip that overthinks people pleasing or other people. 25 00:01:33,920 --> 00:01:38,679 Speaker 2: Are gonna think, or giving a fuck about what other 26 00:01:38,680 --> 00:01:39,200 Speaker 2: people think. 27 00:01:39,200 --> 00:01:44,200 Speaker 1: Because I still old habits die hard, and I know, 28 00:01:44,920 --> 00:01:47,600 Speaker 1: like the thing, the one struggle I have in the 29 00:01:47,760 --> 00:01:52,760 Speaker 1: last like the one thing I've not completed in my transformation, 30 00:01:54,320 --> 00:01:59,560 Speaker 1: is my need to pause and think about what other 31 00:01:59,600 --> 00:02:02,600 Speaker 1: people think, think before what I think. 32 00:02:03,200 --> 00:02:03,960 Speaker 2: Need for approval. 33 00:02:04,280 --> 00:02:05,240 Speaker 3: I got you, Pumpkin. 34 00:02:06,040 --> 00:02:08,880 Speaker 1: The reason why my mouth is a gape at every 35 00:02:08,919 --> 00:02:15,840 Speaker 1: answer that you're giving is because I truly envy the 36 00:02:16,000 --> 00:02:19,440 Speaker 1: fact that I don't have this level of freedom. 37 00:02:20,639 --> 00:02:24,240 Speaker 4: Ask yourself this, This won't be an our answer. This 38 00:02:24,320 --> 00:02:26,919 Speaker 4: is a brief one because this is an easy one 39 00:02:27,000 --> 00:02:30,519 Speaker 4: for me. I've never given a fuck what people think 40 00:02:30,520 --> 00:02:33,160 Speaker 4: about me. I'm like, bitch, step your ass aside, I'm 41 00:02:33,200 --> 00:02:39,640 Speaker 4: coming through. Now listen, ask yourself this, Oh, if you 42 00:02:39,680 --> 00:02:44,200 Speaker 4: were laying in the hospital on your deathbed, would that 43 00:02:44,440 --> 00:02:48,360 Speaker 4: person who is giving who you are giving a fuck about, 44 00:02:48,960 --> 00:02:53,440 Speaker 4: who probably don't even give a fuck about you, would 45 00:02:53,440 --> 00:02:55,760 Speaker 4: they coming to that hospital and say. 46 00:02:55,680 --> 00:03:01,600 Speaker 3: To you, let me die for you? Quest who? 47 00:03:02,440 --> 00:03:05,120 Speaker 4: Now listen to the end of it. And if they're 48 00:03:05,200 --> 00:03:09,600 Speaker 4: not willing to die for you, why are you living 49 00:03:09,760 --> 00:03:10,480 Speaker 4: for them? 50 00:03:11,280 --> 00:03:16,600 Speaker 2: H God, damn. 51 00:03:16,720 --> 00:03:19,480 Speaker 5: Shit, I thought he was gonna go off the rails. 52 00:03:20,000 --> 00:03:24,640 Speaker 1: No, that that shit hit me so hard in the gut. 53 00:03:24,760 --> 00:03:27,679 Speaker 2: Man, what that. 54 00:03:27,639 --> 00:03:32,519 Speaker 4: Person that you're sitting there obsessing over come in there 55 00:03:32,560 --> 00:03:36,680 Speaker 4: and say, oh, let me die for you know they 56 00:03:36,800 --> 00:03:40,640 Speaker 4: won't because they can't get into reality. 57 00:03:40,760 --> 00:03:44,000 Speaker 3: Quest, I'll come for your ass. 58 00:03:43,640 --> 00:03:49,800 Speaker 4: Don't you dare? Don't you dare? Don't you dare? Not 59 00:03:50,080 --> 00:03:52,320 Speaker 4: that one, that's an easy one. 60 00:03:53,040 --> 00:03:55,360 Speaker 5: Oh damn shit was hard. 61 00:03:55,600 --> 00:03:57,720 Speaker 3: If they are not willing. 62 00:03:57,440 --> 00:04:01,680 Speaker 4: To die for you, why are you living for them? 63 00:04:01,880 --> 00:04:04,360 Speaker 5: If they are not willing to die, it's an affirmation. 64 00:04:04,320 --> 00:04:07,200 Speaker 3: And the story. Next question, next question? 65 00:04:07,320 --> 00:04:10,560 Speaker 2: Please, Yeah, y'all gotta handle it. I got I gotta ponder. 66 00:04:10,880 --> 00:04:12,720 Speaker 2: I literally had to remember that. 67 00:04:12,840 --> 00:04:14,720 Speaker 1: You remember the Matthew nos woman where I had to 68 00:04:14,720 --> 00:04:17,800 Speaker 1: take time out Right, I'm having one of the moments 69 00:04:17,880 --> 00:04:18,200 Speaker 1: right now. 70 00:04:18,320 --> 00:04:18,840 Speaker 2: They are not. 71 00:04:18,800 --> 00:04:20,560 Speaker 5: Willing to die for you, a man, Why are you 72 00:04:20,640 --> 00:04:21,320 Speaker 5: living for them? 73 00:04:21,360 --> 00:04:21,800 Speaker 3: I got this? 74 00:04:21,839 --> 00:04:26,440 Speaker 5: Okay, here's my question? What is joy to you? 75 00:04:26,480 --> 00:04:26,680 Speaker 6: Oh? 76 00:04:27,760 --> 00:04:30,960 Speaker 5: Please please bring please It's one of my favorite words. 77 00:04:31,080 --> 00:04:35,680 Speaker 3: It is a brief answer. Also, mm hmm, the day 78 00:04:35,839 --> 00:04:40,120 Speaker 3: I touched Bliss. Nobody uses that word. 79 00:04:41,120 --> 00:04:45,680 Speaker 4: Who the fuck goes around talking about it's a luxury? 80 00:04:45,839 --> 00:04:50,480 Speaker 4: Fucking word probably comes up once all over the universe 81 00:04:50,600 --> 00:04:52,720 Speaker 4: once Bliss. 82 00:04:53,120 --> 00:04:55,840 Speaker 3: Listen to me the day I touched Bliss? 83 00:04:55,920 --> 00:05:00,720 Speaker 4: What's the day I took responsibility for every choice I 84 00:05:00,839 --> 00:05:04,880 Speaker 4: had made, was going to make, and the choice I 85 00:05:04,960 --> 00:05:10,599 Speaker 4: was making at that moment to learn, Oh that I 86 00:05:10,640 --> 00:05:15,520 Speaker 4: am responsible. You can point the finger and blame all. 87 00:05:15,440 --> 00:05:16,840 Speaker 3: The fuck you want. 88 00:05:18,120 --> 00:05:20,880 Speaker 4: And even if you're laying next to somebody at night, 89 00:05:21,000 --> 00:05:28,760 Speaker 4: your headache is your own. So stand up, stand in 90 00:05:28,800 --> 00:05:31,680 Speaker 4: your joy. When you don't know what to. 91 00:05:31,720 --> 00:05:32,760 Speaker 3: Do, do nothing. 92 00:05:34,680 --> 00:05:37,279 Speaker 4: Stick your ass in central park of where the fuck 93 00:05:37,360 --> 00:05:41,880 Speaker 4: you lives. You go, find a tree, You sit down 94 00:05:42,080 --> 00:05:49,360 Speaker 4: and hush, Be still, Be still and know this is 95 00:05:49,440 --> 00:05:54,720 Speaker 4: your life. You are the center of it. You are 96 00:05:54,800 --> 00:05:58,800 Speaker 4: the master of your universe. All of those planets and 97 00:05:58,880 --> 00:06:04,160 Speaker 4: stars that you see, the Milky Way, the nebulas. 98 00:06:03,720 --> 00:06:08,840 Speaker 3: They're in you. How dare you. 99 00:06:07,960 --> 00:06:17,039 Speaker 4: Not stand up and appreciate mighty fighters, trees, jocarondas and 100 00:06:17,120 --> 00:06:25,200 Speaker 4: crape myrtles and aga panthers and grass itself. Oh, come on, jesus, grass, 101 00:06:25,480 --> 00:06:26,680 Speaker 4: what about grass? 102 00:06:27,839 --> 00:06:28,359 Speaker 3: Ah? 103 00:06:28,360 --> 00:06:31,800 Speaker 4: Shah Naa. We don't even look at it. We just 104 00:06:31,839 --> 00:06:39,000 Speaker 4: take it for granted. And yet who and yet there 105 00:06:39,080 --> 00:06:44,160 Speaker 4: are more stars in the universe than there are grains 106 00:06:44,200 --> 00:06:49,440 Speaker 4: of sand, and that includes every beach on this planet. 107 00:06:52,000 --> 00:06:55,920 Speaker 4: Take that shit in. I don't even know if it's true, 108 00:06:55,960 --> 00:06:57,760 Speaker 4: but somebody told me that she want that. 109 00:07:00,120 --> 00:07:02,640 Speaker 2: And I have a line. 110 00:07:03,400 --> 00:07:07,360 Speaker 4: I have a line in my new book, Oh Good, 111 00:07:09,440 --> 00:07:16,880 Speaker 4: and it says, let me enjoy this moment, let me 112 00:07:17,080 --> 00:07:23,400 Speaker 4: laugh as loud as I want, because I believe just 113 00:07:24,520 --> 00:07:28,560 Speaker 4: it just might be true. But it's not gonna hurt 114 00:07:28,600 --> 00:07:35,040 Speaker 4: me to imagine this. My laughter, the energy from my 115 00:07:35,320 --> 00:07:44,440 Speaker 4: laughter may reach a nebula and hold my consciousness to 116 00:07:44,560 --> 00:07:47,320 Speaker 4: it to create its life. Don't fuck with me, y'all. 117 00:07:48,600 --> 00:07:52,760 Speaker 4: Don't fuck with me. I'm thinking about nebulas for the 118 00:07:52,840 --> 00:07:59,520 Speaker 4: next generation. We don't know if human beings we just 119 00:07:59,680 --> 00:08:03,560 Speaker 4: you night, we could have pushed back. 120 00:08:03,680 --> 00:08:04,160 Speaker 3: Katrina. 121 00:08:05,680 --> 00:08:06,000 Speaker 5: Hmm. 122 00:08:07,440 --> 00:08:10,880 Speaker 3: You take that in. There's your metaphor for how powerful 123 00:08:10,920 --> 00:08:11,360 Speaker 3: you are. 124 00:08:11,760 --> 00:08:16,000 Speaker 4: I believe in mankind, these are not dark times with 125 00:08:16,080 --> 00:08:17,520 Speaker 4: the bullshit that's going on. 126 00:08:17,720 --> 00:08:19,760 Speaker 3: These are awakening times. 127 00:08:20,120 --> 00:08:25,680 Speaker 4: So wake the fuck before this bitch becomes a Nazi state. 128 00:08:26,240 --> 00:08:28,880 Speaker 6: You're gonna just ride out no matter what happens here. 129 00:08:29,360 --> 00:08:31,120 Speaker 6: You know, one of these people considering like I'm gonna 130 00:08:31,160 --> 00:08:31,720 Speaker 6: go somewhere. 131 00:08:31,920 --> 00:08:33,080 Speaker 3: Let me tell you something. 132 00:08:33,080 --> 00:08:37,000 Speaker 4: Okay, it's it's ours, we built it. Let me tell 133 00:08:37,040 --> 00:08:43,240 Speaker 4: you something. If that motherfucker is elected. Mm hmm, I 134 00:08:43,280 --> 00:08:48,600 Speaker 4: will personally fly to dcord. 135 00:08:49,120 --> 00:08:49,560 Speaker 3: Listen to me. 136 00:08:49,679 --> 00:08:53,480 Speaker 4: I ain't watching ship. Listen to me. I don't watch ship, 137 00:08:53,920 --> 00:08:54,280 Speaker 4: all right. 138 00:08:55,160 --> 00:08:55,599 Speaker 3: Listen to me. 139 00:08:56,520 --> 00:09:03,719 Speaker 4: Ah, I will personally fly to Washington, d C. And 140 00:09:03,760 --> 00:09:07,400 Speaker 4: I will climb that fence and take this fuck it right. 141 00:09:07,840 --> 00:09:08,440 Speaker 3: Listen to me. 142 00:09:08,559 --> 00:09:12,240 Speaker 4: Listen to me carefully. I will take that bullet for 143 00:09:12,360 --> 00:09:13,320 Speaker 4: the next generation. 144 00:09:14,840 --> 00:09:16,079 Speaker 3: If me going. 145 00:09:16,000 --> 00:09:21,720 Speaker 4: Down will make you motherfucker's rods, I'll take that bullet. 146 00:09:23,240 --> 00:09:25,920 Speaker 3: You understand, darling. I've lived. 147 00:09:26,320 --> 00:09:28,840 Speaker 4: My little nephew came running over to me because we 148 00:09:28,840 --> 00:09:31,520 Speaker 4: were sitting around talking about death at the beginning of COVID, 149 00:09:31,559 --> 00:09:35,360 Speaker 4: because everybody contemplated their death during that time, because we 150 00:09:35,400 --> 00:09:36,600 Speaker 4: didn't know about it at the beginning. 151 00:09:36,720 --> 00:09:40,560 Speaker 3: My little nephrew washed over. He said, tea, Jenny, you're 152 00:09:40,600 --> 00:09:44,640 Speaker 3: not You're not afraid to die. I said, no, baby, 153 00:09:44,679 --> 00:09:49,640 Speaker 3: I'm not. He said why. I said, because I've lived. 154 00:09:52,440 --> 00:09:56,040 Speaker 3: Don't fuck with me. Yeah, Am I scared? Listen to me, 155 00:09:56,200 --> 00:09:58,560 Speaker 3: Am I scared? No? 156 00:09:58,720 --> 00:09:59,840 Speaker 2: You are not to me? 157 00:10:00,080 --> 00:10:03,840 Speaker 4: Yeah, but no, I'm scared, but I'm not afraid. See 158 00:10:04,040 --> 00:10:07,880 Speaker 4: to be scared. It's okay. We're human. These motherfuckers are 159 00:10:07,920 --> 00:10:12,400 Speaker 4: shooting out children in the back. Yeah, I'm scared. These 160 00:10:12,480 --> 00:10:16,040 Speaker 4: motherfuckers have gone crazy. Yeah I'm scared. But am I 161 00:10:16,080 --> 00:10:19,840 Speaker 4: am afraid? Am I afraid? Shoot me, bitch? 162 00:10:20,280 --> 00:10:21,280 Speaker 3: You live with it. 163 00:10:21,960 --> 00:10:23,480 Speaker 5: That's the freedom's friend. 164 00:10:24,480 --> 00:10:27,439 Speaker 4: You want to know the real freedom? 165 00:10:27,520 --> 00:10:34,720 Speaker 3: Not even me can stop me. That's how powerful. That's 166 00:10:34,760 --> 00:10:37,600 Speaker 3: how powerful the gift is. Shoot me, bitch. I'm gonna 167 00:10:37,640 --> 00:10:41,080 Speaker 3: live forever, or you will. I'm gonna live for ever. 168 00:10:41,320 --> 00:10:42,680 Speaker 3: In that, let me tell you. 169 00:10:42,720 --> 00:10:43,080 Speaker 4: In that. 170 00:10:44,640 --> 00:10:47,319 Speaker 3: You remember the matrix they dodged the bullets? 171 00:10:47,400 --> 00:10:52,000 Speaker 4: Yes, yes, well I can kick my leg up still, 172 00:10:52,080 --> 00:10:52,560 Speaker 4: but I. 173 00:10:52,440 --> 00:10:55,200 Speaker 3: Can't been back like I used to. But guess what. 174 00:10:59,280 --> 00:10:59,719 Speaker 5: What what? 175 00:11:01,760 --> 00:11:06,560 Speaker 4: There is nothing on this planet. That's why Trump can't 176 00:11:06,559 --> 00:11:13,280 Speaker 4: do nothing with Obama. Love is the greatest weapon. Don't 177 00:11:13,320 --> 00:11:17,440 Speaker 4: ever forget that. That's why I feel sorry for him 178 00:11:17,440 --> 00:11:21,280 Speaker 4: in many ways because Obama led with love. 179 00:11:22,960 --> 00:11:24,000 Speaker 3: You can't destroy that. 180 00:11:24,160 --> 00:11:26,240 Speaker 4: I do'ni fuck what you do gonna take Frederick Douglas 181 00:11:26,360 --> 00:11:30,080 Speaker 4: and doctor King out of your goddamn books. Those people 182 00:11:30,160 --> 00:11:33,600 Speaker 4: will live forever. You can't erace love, you dumb son 183 00:11:33,679 --> 00:11:34,360 Speaker 4: of a bitches. 184 00:11:35,840 --> 00:11:41,120 Speaker 3: You cannot you love, You can't. Baby. I wished the 185 00:11:41,240 --> 00:11:43,760 Speaker 3: bitch would let me tell you what happened to me. 186 00:11:43,800 --> 00:11:46,240 Speaker 3: I couldn't believe it. But I'm pulling up. 187 00:11:46,800 --> 00:11:50,200 Speaker 4: White woman, white woman, Karen, God bless her. I never 188 00:11:50,280 --> 00:11:52,000 Speaker 4: thought I would experience it. 189 00:11:52,480 --> 00:11:53,040 Speaker 3: She told me. 190 00:11:53,120 --> 00:11:55,760 Speaker 4: She asked me to back up. She's she pushed her hand. 191 00:11:55,800 --> 00:11:57,880 Speaker 4: I went, okay, so I backed up. She did it again, 192 00:11:58,040 --> 00:12:00,200 Speaker 4: back up it And she didn't say that, but I 193 00:12:00,200 --> 00:12:01,840 Speaker 4: felt that. But I backed up anyway. 194 00:12:02,320 --> 00:12:04,000 Speaker 3: And then then she got out of a car and 195 00:12:04,040 --> 00:12:07,520 Speaker 3: I went, is this half way? May y'all? 196 00:12:07,559 --> 00:12:12,800 Speaker 4: I said, is this happening? And I sat there. I 197 00:12:12,800 --> 00:12:16,800 Speaker 4: said to myself, don't do it, Jenny, Jenny, don't do it. 198 00:12:16,960 --> 00:12:17,439 Speaker 3: Don't do it. 199 00:12:17,520 --> 00:12:21,240 Speaker 4: Jenny didn't work. I got out of that fucking car. 200 00:12:21,760 --> 00:12:24,920 Speaker 4: He's not me, but watch out, how y'all. I went 201 00:12:24,920 --> 00:12:27,400 Speaker 4: over to her. I said, what's wrong? 202 00:12:27,480 --> 00:12:27,840 Speaker 2: Baby? 203 00:12:28,760 --> 00:12:31,440 Speaker 3: She said, I need you to back up. I live 204 00:12:31,640 --> 00:12:35,800 Speaker 3: south of the boulevard. I can't. I said, okay. I 205 00:12:35,840 --> 00:12:40,000 Speaker 3: did not hold on. I said, hold on, baby, I said, 206 00:12:40,080 --> 00:12:41,040 Speaker 3: guess what, Hold on. 207 00:12:41,000 --> 00:12:44,000 Speaker 4: A minute, hold on, fuck that bitch up, I said, 208 00:12:44,000 --> 00:12:47,080 Speaker 4: hold on, baby, I. 209 00:12:47,000 --> 00:12:51,559 Speaker 3: Said, guess what? She said? What I said? We're too 210 00:12:51,600 --> 00:12:53,960 Speaker 3: beautiful to do this. I said, look at you. You're 211 00:12:54,040 --> 00:12:55,319 Speaker 3: gorgeous and. 212 00:12:55,160 --> 00:12:58,000 Speaker 4: So am I I had on my robe and a mask, 213 00:12:58,760 --> 00:13:02,600 Speaker 4: but I said, look how beautiful you are. I said, girl, 214 00:13:02,640 --> 00:13:03,240 Speaker 4: we don't. 215 00:13:03,040 --> 00:13:05,199 Speaker 3: Need to do this. We're fabulous. 216 00:13:06,400 --> 00:13:11,160 Speaker 4: For two seconds, a smile came on her face, like really, 217 00:13:12,320 --> 00:13:16,560 Speaker 4: I am beautiful. But she couldn't hold it because she 218 00:13:16,720 --> 00:13:20,400 Speaker 4: hadn't practiced walking in a joy. So you gotta have 219 00:13:20,520 --> 00:13:23,960 Speaker 4: it in you to balance it when the bullshit presents itself. 220 00:13:24,000 --> 00:13:25,320 Speaker 5: Oh, I know that I got. 221 00:13:25,520 --> 00:13:30,720 Speaker 4: I guess some of that bad bitch skinded rubber. But see, 222 00:13:31,160 --> 00:13:37,440 Speaker 4: because you gotta love me. But because for those two 223 00:13:37,600 --> 00:13:46,480 Speaker 4: seconds she became human, I learned, Jenny, this is how 224 00:13:46,640 --> 00:13:50,720 Speaker 4: you must face it. You must face it with love, darling. 225 00:13:51,160 --> 00:13:54,520 Speaker 4: Don't fight them. You're sixty five, your titties almost down 226 00:13:54,559 --> 00:13:57,200 Speaker 4: to your navel. God leave, I'm kidding. 227 00:13:57,720 --> 00:14:02,200 Speaker 3: I'm so cute. That was a job. This is great. 228 00:14:02,480 --> 00:14:04,360 Speaker 2: You know I you know I. 229 00:14:04,280 --> 00:14:06,800 Speaker 4: Look good, honey. You know I know I'm cute my mama. 230 00:14:06,840 --> 00:14:08,959 Speaker 4: I look good like my mama. My mama was so pretty. 231 00:14:09,520 --> 00:14:12,199 Speaker 4: But you know, I never I gotta tell y'all, never 232 00:14:12,240 --> 00:14:15,360 Speaker 4: paid attention to my looks. You know you'll see me 233 00:14:15,400 --> 00:14:18,160 Speaker 4: on the red car. But I'm very casual. And I 234 00:14:18,280 --> 00:14:22,200 Speaker 4: say this with great humility. I got so much fucking telling, 235 00:14:22,480 --> 00:14:25,840 Speaker 4: get fuck out, I look, I'm coming in the room, bitch. 236 00:14:26,000 --> 00:14:26,960 Speaker 3: I know who I am. 237 00:14:27,360 --> 00:14:29,760 Speaker 6: Although, can I just say you look matters? Not to 238 00:14:29,760 --> 00:14:32,440 Speaker 6: throw back to the book, though, but I appreciate this. 239 00:14:32,440 --> 00:14:34,480 Speaker 6: This the part where you talk about why the afro 240 00:14:34,680 --> 00:14:37,320 Speaker 6: is so important and every hairstyle that you kind of 241 00:14:37,360 --> 00:14:39,479 Speaker 6: showcased on Black Ish, because. 242 00:14:39,640 --> 00:14:42,440 Speaker 3: Listen, but didn't I say that ship, Yes. 243 00:14:42,320 --> 00:14:43,560 Speaker 5: You said that shites. 244 00:14:43,600 --> 00:14:44,760 Speaker 3: My hair is the. 245 00:14:44,640 --> 00:14:49,200 Speaker 4: Only thing on this planet that defies gravity. Good God, Yes, 246 00:14:50,920 --> 00:14:52,320 Speaker 4: I'm in my fucking hair. 247 00:14:52,760 --> 00:14:55,720 Speaker 3: Look at my hair. I got out of here with 248 00:14:55,760 --> 00:14:59,440 Speaker 3: that and these and these. I ain't tend us to 249 00:14:59,520 --> 00:15:03,040 Speaker 3: God antennas. Look at your hair. 250 00:15:03,680 --> 00:15:07,200 Speaker 4: It's an intenna for God's fake. It's curly like an antenna. 251 00:15:07,520 --> 00:15:10,960 Speaker 4: You need your not for hair, so that you can 252 00:15:11,200 --> 00:15:13,880 Speaker 4: hear and live and. 253 00:15:13,920 --> 00:15:19,000 Speaker 3: Feel the wisdom of the ages. You think man ain't 254 00:15:19,040 --> 00:15:23,720 Speaker 3: talking to me. You think Gandhi and and and who else? 255 00:15:23,720 --> 00:15:26,240 Speaker 2: Did I at all of them? 256 00:15:26,440 --> 00:15:27,080 Speaker 3: All of them? 257 00:15:27,480 --> 00:15:29,120 Speaker 2: This is not the first time I heard that. 258 00:15:29,600 --> 00:15:33,720 Speaker 4: I told y'all, I tug on so journalists skirt when 259 00:15:33,760 --> 00:15:35,720 Speaker 4: I have to get up sometime and don't want to. 260 00:15:36,840 --> 00:15:37,440 Speaker 2: I like that. 261 00:15:38,200 --> 00:15:40,720 Speaker 4: Hear you got a tug on their skirts. Don't pull 262 00:15:40,760 --> 00:15:42,000 Speaker 4: them too hard. 263 00:15:42,760 --> 00:15:45,680 Speaker 3: They did not quit, just a little toul. 264 00:15:45,480 --> 00:15:46,280 Speaker 5: Something, just like. 265 00:15:47,720 --> 00:15:50,200 Speaker 3: That's just a little bit, Mistruth. 266 00:15:50,680 --> 00:15:56,560 Speaker 4: Mistruth, I need you this morning, if you will just 267 00:15:56,720 --> 00:15:59,520 Speaker 4: help me get out of this bed. And she ain't 268 00:15:59,520 --> 00:16:03,880 Speaker 4: never told me no, Ala. 269 00:16:07,440 --> 00:16:15,200 Speaker 1: Most show hosts that are interviewers often dream of that 270 00:16:15,280 --> 00:16:19,120 Speaker 1: segment in their interview in which they ask the question 271 00:16:20,560 --> 00:16:25,720 Speaker 1: that will really penetrate and break their guests into tears, 272 00:16:26,040 --> 00:16:28,520 Speaker 1: you know, like the Barbara Walters He's gonna go on. 273 00:16:29,160 --> 00:16:29,680 Speaker 3: Of course. 274 00:16:29,760 --> 00:16:31,960 Speaker 1: I think this is the first show in history in 275 00:16:32,080 --> 00:16:37,880 Speaker 1: which the interviewer like, I've received absolutely everything you said, 276 00:16:38,520 --> 00:16:42,040 Speaker 1: but I'm still so fucked up about why are you 277 00:16:42,120 --> 00:16:45,400 Speaker 1: living for other people? I'm still fucked up from what 278 00:16:45,480 --> 00:16:48,720 Speaker 1: you told me twenty minutes ago that I'm sitting here 279 00:16:48,840 --> 00:16:49,600 Speaker 1: literally like. 280 00:16:49,680 --> 00:16:52,120 Speaker 5: They won't die for you. Why are you living? 281 00:16:52,600 --> 00:16:52,880 Speaker 3: Right? 282 00:16:52,920 --> 00:16:55,480 Speaker 1: But I'm sitting here like, no, you're not gonna cry 283 00:16:55,520 --> 00:16:57,000 Speaker 1: right now, man, You're not gonna cry on your own 284 00:16:57,040 --> 00:16:58,720 Speaker 1: goddamn show, Like do. 285 00:16:58,680 --> 00:17:01,040 Speaker 5: Whatever you want to you is it a black man? 286 00:17:01,120 --> 00:17:01,480 Speaker 3: Remember? 287 00:17:01,840 --> 00:17:04,439 Speaker 1: I know, But I'm just like this, this is an 288 00:17:04,480 --> 00:17:08,159 Speaker 1: anomaly where the host is literally. 289 00:17:09,320 --> 00:17:10,800 Speaker 2: Just flat. You know. 290 00:17:10,880 --> 00:17:12,840 Speaker 1: Maybe it's maybe it's the day, maybe it's lining. You know, 291 00:17:12,880 --> 00:17:16,240 Speaker 1: it's also lions Gate. It's it's it's August eleventh. 292 00:17:16,840 --> 00:17:19,560 Speaker 2: Okay. Yes, I'm very much into Pleatian culture. 293 00:17:19,720 --> 00:17:26,320 Speaker 1: And what's okay, I'm sorry, I forget tonight. 294 00:17:26,440 --> 00:17:29,960 Speaker 2: Tonight as of this recording, it's it's a full. 295 00:17:29,720 --> 00:17:31,959 Speaker 3: Moon, okay. 296 00:17:32,280 --> 00:17:39,200 Speaker 7: Okay, And especially in this age that we're in, what 297 00:17:39,359 --> 00:17:41,879 Speaker 7: they call Lionsgate is where the start, the way that 298 00:17:41,920 --> 00:17:43,960 Speaker 7: the stars aligned in August. 299 00:17:45,080 --> 00:17:48,080 Speaker 1: This is where this is kind of from from the 300 00:17:48,160 --> 00:17:51,640 Speaker 1: eighth of August probably until the thirteenth. 301 00:17:52,359 --> 00:17:53,919 Speaker 2: This week is where. 302 00:17:55,320 --> 00:18:00,680 Speaker 1: Most people we'll try to manifest or or or bringing 303 00:18:00,720 --> 00:18:04,800 Speaker 1: their abundance in or they work on getting rid of 304 00:18:05,600 --> 00:18:09,920 Speaker 1: old habits. So I'm again working on the ladder of 305 00:18:12,200 --> 00:18:17,640 Speaker 1: getting rid of old habits, you know. And so I'm 306 00:18:17,680 --> 00:18:19,159 Speaker 1: one that simplifies that. 307 00:18:20,680 --> 00:18:21,960 Speaker 3: I just you know what I do. 308 00:18:23,200 --> 00:18:23,720 Speaker 2: What are you doing. 309 00:18:24,520 --> 00:18:26,680 Speaker 4: I can give the moon a little sugar every night. 310 00:18:28,600 --> 00:18:30,879 Speaker 4: I send the kids up there. I said, how you doing, baby? 311 00:18:31,720 --> 00:18:32,359 Speaker 3: You all right? 312 00:18:33,480 --> 00:18:38,359 Speaker 4: I want to thank you for balancing us out. You're 313 00:18:38,359 --> 00:18:42,040 Speaker 4: doing all right. And when I go to the toilet, 314 00:18:42,119 --> 00:18:46,119 Speaker 4: let me tell you what I do. When I'm sitting 315 00:18:46,119 --> 00:18:50,919 Speaker 4: on the toilet, sometimes I will project myself to the 316 00:18:50,920 --> 00:18:56,159 Speaker 4: moon ha ha, And I look down on myself. I 317 00:18:56,200 --> 00:18:59,840 Speaker 4: look down on the United States. I say, where's you know, 318 00:19:00,160 --> 00:19:02,359 Speaker 4: Ed States? Oh, there it is, Wor's California. Oh there 319 00:19:02,400 --> 00:19:04,640 Speaker 4: it is, Wor's Los Angeles. There it is, wors There 320 00:19:04,680 --> 00:19:07,720 Speaker 4: it is. And then I start to laugh. 321 00:19:08,000 --> 00:19:12,560 Speaker 3: Huh, and I say there I am. 322 00:19:12,600 --> 00:19:16,159 Speaker 4: Oh there you are, Jenny, Look at you, Look at 323 00:19:16,200 --> 00:19:22,679 Speaker 4: you laughing? You Okay, So you gotta make friends with 324 00:19:22,840 --> 00:19:26,199 Speaker 4: fucking Saturn, that bitch up there spinning us. 325 00:19:26,240 --> 00:19:28,840 Speaker 3: The prettiest bitch out there. Say hello. 326 00:19:29,160 --> 00:19:34,320 Speaker 4: Sometimes say hello to a tree, thank her for a 327 00:19:34,440 --> 00:19:36,080 Speaker 4: fucking shade. 328 00:19:36,359 --> 00:19:37,520 Speaker 3: That's our life too. 329 00:19:38,720 --> 00:19:43,960 Speaker 4: These bitches stand in the seasons, vulnerable with no leaves, 330 00:19:44,480 --> 00:19:46,520 Speaker 4: ice and snow coming down on it. 331 00:19:47,119 --> 00:19:48,800 Speaker 3: And then that bitch bus. 332 00:19:48,960 --> 00:19:53,960 Speaker 4: The reason she takes in the winter, it's because she 333 00:19:54,119 --> 00:19:58,320 Speaker 4: knows that spring is coming. So she stands there and 334 00:19:58,400 --> 00:20:01,960 Speaker 4: winter's alone. Thank you very much. M hm, you'll see 335 00:20:02,480 --> 00:20:06,080 Speaker 4: it's the seasons. I know about the seasons because depression 336 00:20:06,560 --> 00:20:12,560 Speaker 4: is seasonal, right. I know about joy because I'm aware 337 00:20:13,680 --> 00:20:20,240 Speaker 4: to incorporate color into my life. I wish I could 338 00:20:20,240 --> 00:20:21,320 Speaker 4: show y'all my home. 339 00:20:22,480 --> 00:20:24,840 Speaker 5: I see the green, I see them, beautiful green, A. 340 00:20:24,920 --> 00:20:27,679 Speaker 3: Number of colors on my wall. Happy, ain't nothing sad or. 341 00:20:29,200 --> 00:20:32,520 Speaker 4: Nobody tried to sell me an African mask with the 342 00:20:32,560 --> 00:20:34,480 Speaker 4: bitch had I said, bitch, I want that ship. 343 00:20:34,359 --> 00:20:34,919 Speaker 3: In my house. 344 00:20:35,680 --> 00:20:36,919 Speaker 2: I need people's smile. 345 00:20:38,280 --> 00:20:40,359 Speaker 4: I want that sad bitch over there. I get that 346 00:20:40,400 --> 00:20:41,679 Speaker 4: sad bitch off my wall. 347 00:20:42,000 --> 00:20:45,160 Speaker 3: Ship. Put a bitch up there with some teeth. Fuck 348 00:20:45,200 --> 00:20:47,919 Speaker 3: out of here. With that, you don't get them sent 349 00:20:48,040 --> 00:20:49,720 Speaker 3: up and watch sad ass movies. 350 00:20:49,920 --> 00:20:51,280 Speaker 5: You're gonna get arious. 351 00:20:51,600 --> 00:21:01,719 Speaker 8: This is what Okay, days after us, Okay, it's all, 352 00:21:02,000 --> 00:21:02,840 Speaker 8: it's really. 353 00:21:03,280 --> 00:21:03,800 Speaker 3: What do you feel? 354 00:21:05,080 --> 00:21:05,320 Speaker 2: Okay? 355 00:21:06,119 --> 00:21:10,280 Speaker 1: Twenty Both she and I are are January twentieth. Yeah, okay, 356 00:21:10,400 --> 00:21:14,119 Speaker 1: here's the deal. My ex and I guess this is 357 00:21:14,160 --> 00:21:17,960 Speaker 1: the first time I'm ignowed. Yes, the look on's face 358 00:21:18,040 --> 00:21:18,640 Speaker 1: right now. 359 00:21:19,080 --> 00:21:22,560 Speaker 2: Why he is? Even though Grace and I are very 360 00:21:22,600 --> 00:21:24,440 Speaker 2: amicable yeah. 361 00:21:24,800 --> 00:21:28,200 Speaker 3: We okay too, how old? 362 00:21:28,560 --> 00:21:29,240 Speaker 2: I'm fifty one? 363 00:21:30,080 --> 00:21:34,000 Speaker 3: All right, new weekend day? You want to day, let's go, 364 00:21:34,280 --> 00:21:35,040 Speaker 3: let's go, let's go. 365 00:21:35,760 --> 00:21:39,439 Speaker 5: No, don't kill him. I don't think he's ready. 366 00:21:39,359 --> 00:21:40,800 Speaker 2: I said, She did say she still did. 367 00:21:41,359 --> 00:21:43,400 Speaker 3: Y'all are y'all recording from New York? 368 00:21:45,600 --> 00:21:48,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I'm currently recording in New York right now. 369 00:21:48,640 --> 00:21:51,119 Speaker 4: Okay, of cuss, I'm gonna call you when I get there. 370 00:21:51,119 --> 00:21:56,560 Speaker 4: We're gonna go out on the day. Okay to so, 371 00:21:56,760 --> 00:21:57,880 Speaker 4: y'all leave him alone. 372 00:21:57,880 --> 00:22:00,000 Speaker 3: I'm gonna get him in New York. Y'all leave us alone. 373 00:22:00,040 --> 00:22:02,280 Speaker 2: Okay, let me get my point out. 374 00:22:02,720 --> 00:22:03,239 Speaker 5: I'm here. 375 00:22:03,359 --> 00:22:07,840 Speaker 1: So the one thing for face right now, the one 376 00:22:07,920 --> 00:22:10,160 Speaker 1: thing that she would always do. 377 00:22:11,720 --> 00:22:13,360 Speaker 2: That you know, and I've. 378 00:22:13,160 --> 00:22:19,000 Speaker 1: Been very, uh, extremely clairvoyant on you know, just on 379 00:22:19,880 --> 00:22:24,639 Speaker 1: what our relationship was, but I did. I was like, okay, 380 00:22:24,760 --> 00:22:27,040 Speaker 1: what do you feel it's necessary to talk to all 381 00:22:27,080 --> 00:22:31,480 Speaker 1: the trees on the property and the plants and everything? 382 00:22:32,080 --> 00:22:35,400 Speaker 3: Just why don't be don't go craze and no, no, no, But. 383 00:22:35,359 --> 00:22:37,280 Speaker 2: I mean she talked to every tree. 384 00:22:37,960 --> 00:22:43,439 Speaker 1: But you know, I I was like, okay, well, okay, 385 00:22:43,560 --> 00:22:44,600 Speaker 1: well we'll acknowledge. 386 00:22:44,840 --> 00:22:47,720 Speaker 4: Leave alone. Leave alone. Let us talk as many trees 387 00:22:47,760 --> 00:22:47,920 Speaker 4: as you. 388 00:22:49,040 --> 00:22:51,119 Speaker 2: But but to hear you say that, I was like, 389 00:22:51,280 --> 00:22:52,560 Speaker 2: all right, now. 390 00:22:52,600 --> 00:22:55,040 Speaker 3: No, you can't talk to every motherfucking tree. You can't 391 00:22:55,080 --> 00:22:56,640 Speaker 3: be crazy. And I'm not putting her down. 392 00:22:57,040 --> 00:22:58,879 Speaker 2: No, no, no, she doesn't talk to every tree. 393 00:22:59,080 --> 00:23:04,840 Speaker 1: But okay, that's her level, her level of joy and 394 00:23:04,880 --> 00:23:09,359 Speaker 1: life appreciation. Her whole thing was like in gratitude, like 395 00:23:09,480 --> 00:23:12,639 Speaker 1: she will say, oh, I love that color of red, 396 00:23:12,880 --> 00:23:15,080 Speaker 1: I love that, I love that, and I love that, 397 00:23:15,119 --> 00:23:17,840 Speaker 1: and I love like. She was always in a constant 398 00:23:17,880 --> 00:23:23,359 Speaker 1: state of gratitude and joy. But there was a point where, like, 399 00:23:24,760 --> 00:23:27,240 Speaker 1: you know, I'd look at at we we have a 400 00:23:27,320 --> 00:23:31,520 Speaker 1: large tree in our apartment. I was just like, well, no, 401 00:23:31,640 --> 00:23:33,320 Speaker 1: I don't know if I'm gonna talk to the tree 402 00:23:33,359 --> 00:23:34,280 Speaker 1: the way she speaks. 403 00:23:34,280 --> 00:23:38,040 Speaker 5: So but I just let's see if the tree right. 404 00:23:38,240 --> 00:23:42,680 Speaker 1: But she yeah, I mean now that you've doubled down 405 00:23:42,720 --> 00:23:45,359 Speaker 1: on it, now I have a different relationship with the 406 00:23:45,400 --> 00:23:46,400 Speaker 1: tree inside my house. 407 00:23:46,600 --> 00:23:48,440 Speaker 3: So well, here's the thing. 408 00:23:49,480 --> 00:23:52,600 Speaker 4: Whatever you're looking, whatever you're looking at is what and 409 00:23:52,640 --> 00:23:55,199 Speaker 4: who you are. Who's over in front of you, that's 410 00:23:55,240 --> 00:23:57,880 Speaker 4: who you are. There's a reflection of yourself, whether it's 411 00:23:57,920 --> 00:24:03,840 Speaker 4: a tree or a fucking ant. Okay, if it's a fuck, 412 00:24:03,880 --> 00:24:06,320 Speaker 4: what it is? You know, I just got back from 413 00:24:06,359 --> 00:24:12,280 Speaker 4: Safari eight eight fucking lioness coming towards me with them 414 00:24:12,400 --> 00:24:16,800 Speaker 4: fucking claws and paws. I went, okay, damn, but it 415 00:24:16,960 --> 00:24:21,879 Speaker 4: was me. It was me coming see we see what 416 00:24:22,040 --> 00:24:26,400 Speaker 4: you know? The beautiful thing about life is you have 417 00:24:26,480 --> 00:24:30,600 Speaker 4: to be ready to adhere to the music of the 418 00:24:30,800 --> 00:24:36,480 Speaker 4: symphony that is being played. This, like I said to say, 419 00:24:36,560 --> 00:24:42,199 Speaker 4: no fucking rehearsal, y'all, this is miles, This is mold art. 420 00:24:43,200 --> 00:24:47,560 Speaker 4: It is the music that is the answer. The music 421 00:24:47,920 --> 00:24:48,440 Speaker 4: is the. 422 00:24:48,560 --> 00:24:52,880 Speaker 3: Pumping of the heart. That's why we when we hear don't. 423 00:24:54,520 --> 00:24:59,120 Speaker 4: We got to move because that's what's pumping in us. 424 00:25:00,240 --> 00:25:06,480 Speaker 4: Don't get it twisted. Allow people to be who they are. 425 00:25:07,400 --> 00:25:10,760 Speaker 4: You have to answer the call and say is that 426 00:25:10,880 --> 00:25:19,320 Speaker 4: a reflection of me? And if it's not, uh, maybe 427 00:25:19,320 --> 00:25:22,719 Speaker 4: you got more summers left than me. I don't let 428 00:25:22,840 --> 00:25:26,040 Speaker 4: no drama in my life no more. There's enough of 429 00:25:26,080 --> 00:25:29,040 Speaker 4: it outside of my home. Somebody walking my home and 430 00:25:29,080 --> 00:25:31,760 Speaker 4: don't say this is beautiful, you earned it. I say, 431 00:25:31,800 --> 00:25:34,480 Speaker 4: I got to go because I don't want. 432 00:25:34,320 --> 00:25:35,159 Speaker 3: To be with that person. 433 00:25:35,480 --> 00:25:41,359 Speaker 4: You be nice, be present and be nice and if 434 00:25:41,440 --> 00:25:43,159 Speaker 4: there's drama, you show got to go. 435 00:25:43,240 --> 00:25:45,359 Speaker 3: I just fired my entire team. 436 00:25:45,720 --> 00:25:48,159 Speaker 1: I was going to say now that this is going 437 00:25:48,200 --> 00:25:53,359 Speaker 1: to be completely a life advice episode. How And that's 438 00:25:53,640 --> 00:25:56,120 Speaker 1: one thing that I had to do. I fired more 439 00:25:56,200 --> 00:25:58,960 Speaker 1: people in the last year. 440 00:25:59,440 --> 00:26:05,000 Speaker 9: In competent and I hate I hate I and again 441 00:26:05,040 --> 00:26:08,639 Speaker 9: that old old Demir is shutting off and I hate confrontation, 442 00:26:09,800 --> 00:26:11,680 Speaker 9: I hate not manning up. 443 00:26:11,880 --> 00:26:13,480 Speaker 2: But yeah, I run this organization. 444 00:26:13,760 --> 00:26:17,040 Speaker 1: And again I was in the thin line of Hey, 445 00:26:17,040 --> 00:26:17,880 Speaker 1: I'm everyone's friend. 446 00:26:17,920 --> 00:26:19,720 Speaker 2: I want people to like me, but I also have 447 00:26:19,760 --> 00:26:20,760 Speaker 2: to be their boss. 448 00:26:21,200 --> 00:26:26,280 Speaker 1: How do you spring clean your life? 449 00:26:27,240 --> 00:26:30,800 Speaker 4: You have to pay attention and journal in the morning 450 00:26:30,880 --> 00:26:34,080 Speaker 4: and at night. What did that kid do today? Is 451 00:26:34,119 --> 00:26:38,119 Speaker 4: the assistant doing their job. I shouldn't have to go 452 00:26:38,160 --> 00:26:40,520 Speaker 4: over there and tell you to write that email. Bitch, 453 00:26:40,600 --> 00:26:44,440 Speaker 4: do your fucking job. All this money I'm paying your ass. 454 00:26:44,560 --> 00:26:48,040 Speaker 4: The millennials, I love the millennials. They're my heart and soul. 455 00:26:48,440 --> 00:26:50,960 Speaker 4: But they came up with technology. They don't know anything 456 00:26:51,000 --> 00:26:55,119 Speaker 4: about social skills and matters. They don't know nothing about manners. 457 00:26:55,400 --> 00:26:58,920 Speaker 4: You cannot have them. You need young people to work 458 00:26:58,960 --> 00:27:01,000 Speaker 4: for you. Because you don't have the energy you used 459 00:27:01,000 --> 00:27:03,879 Speaker 4: to have. You have to be very selective. I have 460 00:27:03,960 --> 00:27:07,960 Speaker 4: a new assistant. You met her, Cecily. She's loveless, she's smart. 461 00:27:08,520 --> 00:27:11,840 Speaker 4: My last assistant wanted to lounge. It was like a 462 00:27:12,400 --> 00:27:15,040 Speaker 4: therapy session. I'm like, nigga, ain't got time to shrink you. 463 00:27:17,440 --> 00:27:18,199 Speaker 2: It's wrong with you. 464 00:27:22,960 --> 00:27:26,480 Speaker 4: I'm gonna sit up here and shrink you motherfuckers all day. 465 00:27:26,760 --> 00:27:28,840 Speaker 3: The chef, my little chef hats. 466 00:27:28,880 --> 00:27:30,359 Speaker 6: I'm about to say you need to put that on 467 00:27:30,400 --> 00:27:32,320 Speaker 6: a T shirt because I know everybody wants him shrinking. 468 00:27:32,480 --> 00:27:35,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, wait a minute, a minute, my chef would come 469 00:27:35,680 --> 00:27:37,480 Speaker 4: in here, that bitch would start drumming. 470 00:27:37,520 --> 00:27:41,600 Speaker 3: I'm like, bitch cooking, lame the fuck out? Are no 471 00:27:42,680 --> 00:27:43,240 Speaker 3: the chef? 472 00:27:43,720 --> 00:27:48,560 Speaker 4: And then here comes the fucking assistant. For a minute, 473 00:27:48,960 --> 00:27:52,920 Speaker 4: Here comes the fucking assistant and oh he got in 474 00:27:53,000 --> 00:27:57,480 Speaker 4: a fight with his lover. Bitch is good to watch it. 475 00:27:57,560 --> 00:28:08,520 Speaker 4: Write the check too. Come here comes the housekeeper. I said, baby, 476 00:28:08,560 --> 00:28:12,439 Speaker 4: can you get that brass sink? It's only one in 477 00:28:12,520 --> 00:28:13,400 Speaker 4: the little powder room. 478 00:28:13,640 --> 00:28:14,200 Speaker 3: I go in there. 479 00:28:14,240 --> 00:28:16,520 Speaker 4: That bitch ain't this ship, but put a little comment 480 00:28:16,560 --> 00:28:17,359 Speaker 4: on that motherfucker. 481 00:28:17,560 --> 00:28:19,600 Speaker 3: I'm like, girl, get yours out of hair. 482 00:28:19,960 --> 00:28:23,760 Speaker 4: If I've done that women, if I'd done that ship 483 00:28:23,800 --> 00:28:25,879 Speaker 4: without little Girl, my mother would have threw my ass 484 00:28:25,920 --> 00:28:28,680 Speaker 4: out the house, show ass out of here. I come 485 00:28:28,680 --> 00:28:32,200 Speaker 4: from another generation. We don't play. You clean this ship 486 00:28:32,320 --> 00:28:36,600 Speaker 4: up because what you don't know that I know. If 487 00:28:36,640 --> 00:28:41,200 Speaker 4: it's your house is dirty, then so are you now 488 00:28:41,360 --> 00:28:45,400 Speaker 4: back that ass up? You listen to me, You listen 489 00:28:45,480 --> 00:28:48,520 Speaker 4: to me. This is something my therapist used to tell me. 490 00:28:50,960 --> 00:28:55,160 Speaker 4: Oh that bitch, but anyway, No, no, I hate that bitch. 491 00:28:55,360 --> 00:28:58,120 Speaker 4: I've been with it eighty years. No you know, oh 492 00:28:58,160 --> 00:29:00,840 Speaker 4: you still win her? Okay, the girl the fuck up? 493 00:29:00,880 --> 00:29:01,520 Speaker 3: I love her. 494 00:29:01,640 --> 00:29:05,880 Speaker 4: You kidnap bitch, help torch. Yeah, well you's the one, listen. 495 00:29:05,960 --> 00:29:08,440 Speaker 4: That's the one that wasn't scared. That's why I stayed 496 00:29:08,480 --> 00:29:08,680 Speaker 4: with that. 497 00:29:08,800 --> 00:29:09,160 Speaker 2: Yeah I was. 498 00:29:09,400 --> 00:29:11,200 Speaker 6: When you finished, I wanted you to ask about how 499 00:29:11,240 --> 00:29:13,280 Speaker 6: you find your good therapist, because you had you had 500 00:29:13,320 --> 00:29:14,480 Speaker 6: a point you was making. 501 00:29:14,800 --> 00:29:17,520 Speaker 4: No, that's who who's holding that point? Because it was 502 00:29:17,520 --> 00:29:19,720 Speaker 4: a good one. All right, somebody remembered. If you don't, 503 00:29:19,840 --> 00:29:22,760 Speaker 4: we weren't sus. Stay, let me tell you about how therapist. Yeah, 504 00:29:22,840 --> 00:29:26,160 Speaker 4: my therapist. I raged in a session once and I 505 00:29:26,320 --> 00:29:30,120 Speaker 4: was screaming so loud. Oh my god, remembering it gives 506 00:29:30,120 --> 00:29:30,760 Speaker 4: me chills. 507 00:29:32,080 --> 00:29:33,040 Speaker 3: And when I got. 508 00:29:32,880 --> 00:29:38,239 Speaker 4: To the door to leave, I looked at her and 509 00:29:38,280 --> 00:29:43,000 Speaker 4: I had the tears going out, like I'm really, really 510 00:29:43,160 --> 00:29:48,200 Speaker 4: really sorry, I mean rage so much. 511 00:29:48,800 --> 00:29:49,480 Speaker 3: She looked at me. 512 00:29:49,600 --> 00:29:54,400 Speaker 4: She said, Jennifer, I see you two times a week. 513 00:29:55,320 --> 00:29:58,640 Speaker 4: That's two hours. The rest of the time, you got 514 00:29:58,640 --> 00:30:08,560 Speaker 4: to live with yourself. I wouldn't good, damn live with myself. 515 00:30:10,240 --> 00:30:15,880 Speaker 4: What a fucking what I paid attention that jumped out? 516 00:30:17,960 --> 00:30:23,520 Speaker 4: I live with myself. Isn't that something? Now let's see 517 00:30:23,600 --> 00:30:28,920 Speaker 4: now what is that self? Well, I'll be damned. I 518 00:30:28,920 --> 00:30:29,560 Speaker 4: don't think I know. 519 00:30:29,640 --> 00:30:31,200 Speaker 3: See, this was early therapy. 520 00:30:32,280 --> 00:30:35,800 Speaker 4: So I wrote, y'all, and I wrote, and I wrote, 521 00:30:35,840 --> 00:30:37,200 Speaker 4: and I wrote, and I lived. 522 00:30:37,760 --> 00:30:40,000 Speaker 3: I lived on purpose, I experienced. 523 00:30:40,240 --> 00:30:42,800 Speaker 4: I listened. That was a big one for me. I 524 00:30:42,840 --> 00:30:44,480 Speaker 4: ain't listening to nobody. I'm like, bitch, I know what 525 00:30:44,480 --> 00:30:47,520 Speaker 4: I'm doing. And then i'd be at the bottom of 526 00:30:47,560 --> 00:30:50,480 Speaker 4: a grand canyon. I fell almost fell off that motherfucker, 527 00:30:50,640 --> 00:30:53,120 Speaker 4: the Grand Canyon. I sure did, honey. I went out 528 00:30:53,120 --> 00:30:55,800 Speaker 4: of Oh honey, I went out on that bluff and 529 00:30:55,880 --> 00:30:59,360 Speaker 4: a wind came up. I thought I could go out 530 00:30:59,400 --> 00:31:01,480 Speaker 4: there because I saw another man out there. 531 00:31:01,680 --> 00:31:05,800 Speaker 3: What. Unbeknownst to me, he had his arm around a 532 00:31:05,960 --> 00:31:10,520 Speaker 3: rock and he was taking a picture. Didn't have no rock, baby. 533 00:31:10,560 --> 00:31:14,760 Speaker 4: When that breeze came up, I slid a flat. You know, 534 00:31:14,800 --> 00:31:17,960 Speaker 4: you gotta go flat because the ben came. Go you 535 00:31:17,960 --> 00:31:20,600 Speaker 4: if you're down, baby. My friends were over there talking. 536 00:31:20,640 --> 00:31:23,360 Speaker 4: They didn't even know shit had happened. I crawled, I 537 00:31:23,560 --> 00:31:25,120 Speaker 4: crawled back to safety. 538 00:31:25,160 --> 00:31:25,800 Speaker 3: Crawled. 539 00:31:26,560 --> 00:31:26,880 Speaker 2: Wow. 540 00:31:27,200 --> 00:31:28,240 Speaker 3: I was nearly. 541 00:31:28,040 --> 00:31:31,640 Speaker 4: Drowned in the Pacific Ocean when that third wave came 542 00:31:31,720 --> 00:31:33,600 Speaker 4: and smacked the shit out of me, and I'd have 543 00:31:33,760 --> 00:31:37,800 Speaker 4: no air in my lungs. I heard a voice, and 544 00:31:37,920 --> 00:31:39,920 Speaker 4: I was drowning, and I was in shock. I was 545 00:31:40,000 --> 00:31:43,520 Speaker 4: actually pulled to shore and giving uh whatever it's called 546 00:31:43,600 --> 00:31:45,960 Speaker 4: CPR and pump water out of me. 547 00:31:46,000 --> 00:31:48,320 Speaker 3: About ten gallons of water came out of me. 548 00:31:49,080 --> 00:31:53,080 Speaker 4: What but our voice came to me as I was 549 00:31:53,120 --> 00:31:56,920 Speaker 4: being tossed around in that big wave. There was a 550 00:31:57,040 --> 00:32:01,800 Speaker 4: hurricane off the Baja Mexico and the waves were tall 551 00:32:01,880 --> 00:32:04,520 Speaker 4: as the Alps that day. And like a damn fool, 552 00:32:04,560 --> 00:32:07,640 Speaker 4: I went out there on a boogie board, dumb ass. 553 00:32:08,400 --> 00:32:12,520 Speaker 4: So I heard a big voice come inside of me 554 00:32:12,560 --> 00:32:13,480 Speaker 4: because I knew it was over. 555 00:32:13,480 --> 00:32:15,600 Speaker 3: I knew I was dead. I had no air. 556 00:32:18,360 --> 00:32:25,360 Speaker 4: And it said, thank you God, I had a great time, 557 00:32:26,720 --> 00:32:29,880 Speaker 4: and I did, and I was ready to go. That 558 00:32:30,040 --> 00:32:33,640 Speaker 4: was a huge moment for me. I didn't mind dying 559 00:32:34,080 --> 00:32:35,600 Speaker 4: because I was having such. 560 00:32:35,400 --> 00:32:39,720 Speaker 3: A good time. And if you gotta go, bitch, go 561 00:32:39,880 --> 00:32:41,440 Speaker 3: with a smile on your face. 562 00:32:42,560 --> 00:32:45,280 Speaker 4: I was fussing about something on my bike the other day, 563 00:32:45,320 --> 00:32:48,120 Speaker 4: you know, I cycle. I was, you know, I said, 564 00:32:48,160 --> 00:32:50,000 Speaker 4: get it out, Jenny, you're on your bike, just get 565 00:32:50,040 --> 00:32:53,280 Speaker 4: it out. And I started huffing and puffing about some shit. 566 00:32:53,960 --> 00:32:56,800 Speaker 4: And then I stopped. You see, I Shane and I 567 00:32:56,880 --> 00:33:00,640 Speaker 4: watched this one. I said to myself, is what happened? 568 00:33:00,720 --> 00:33:02,920 Speaker 4: Let me give it to you. A big truck went by, 569 00:33:03,520 --> 00:33:09,560 Speaker 4: and it did. It reminded me of the north Ridge earthquake. 570 00:33:11,520 --> 00:33:15,920 Speaker 4: See so when that happened, I realized that it could 571 00:33:15,920 --> 00:33:17,760 Speaker 4: have been an earthquake and I could have died on 572 00:33:17,800 --> 00:33:22,000 Speaker 4: that bike. There's your five minutes. And I said to myself, 573 00:33:22,040 --> 00:33:25,040 Speaker 4: you're gonna go down like this? Is that how you're 574 00:33:25,040 --> 00:33:28,560 Speaker 4: gonna go down? Jenny, huffing and puffing about some bullshit 575 00:33:29,040 --> 00:33:32,680 Speaker 4: after all the work you've done what if it was 576 00:33:32,760 --> 00:33:36,320 Speaker 4: five minutes? Silly girl, Now, let's get a smile on 577 00:33:36,360 --> 00:33:41,120 Speaker 4: your face and pump this heel. But you can't do 578 00:33:41,360 --> 00:33:45,400 Speaker 4: that if you haven't practiced balance. 579 00:33:47,760 --> 00:33:49,960 Speaker 3: You have to understand. Some shit's coming, y'all. 580 00:33:49,960 --> 00:33:53,040 Speaker 4: The phone's gonna ring, somebody gonna be dead. 581 00:33:53,320 --> 00:33:54,560 Speaker 3: It's coming. It's called life. 582 00:33:55,920 --> 00:33:59,560 Speaker 4: There's a line from The Untouchables with Kevin Costner and 583 00:33:59,640 --> 00:34:03,760 Speaker 4: Sean Connery when Sean Connery has been stabbed down, near 584 00:34:03,840 --> 00:34:07,920 Speaker 4: to death, oh, or shot, He looks at Kevin Costner 585 00:34:09,239 --> 00:34:13,520 Speaker 4: and says, because he's he can't catch his killer. He 586 00:34:13,600 --> 00:34:17,239 Speaker 4: knows John Connery knows Kevin Costner can go and take 587 00:34:17,280 --> 00:34:20,160 Speaker 4: care of this man who has shot him. And he 588 00:34:20,239 --> 00:34:23,480 Speaker 4: looks at Kevin Costner with blood coming out of his mouth, 589 00:34:23,920 --> 00:34:26,799 Speaker 4: and he says, what. 590 00:34:26,880 --> 00:34:33,000 Speaker 3: Are you prepared to do? What are you prepared for? 591 00:34:33,360 --> 00:34:37,720 Speaker 4: So if you have been prepared and you still using 592 00:34:37,800 --> 00:34:43,200 Speaker 4: the same fucking ingredients that made you depressed. Instead of 593 00:34:43,480 --> 00:34:45,680 Speaker 4: some sugar, why don't you put just a little cayenne 594 00:34:45,719 --> 00:34:49,400 Speaker 4: on it instead of south Why don't you put just 595 00:34:49,480 --> 00:34:56,800 Speaker 4: a little coup on it? Change the recipe, Change the recipe, baby. 596 00:34:57,080 --> 00:34:59,239 Speaker 4: But you can't do it if you don't do the 597 00:34:59,280 --> 00:35:02,320 Speaker 4: groundwork because it won't fill you up. You'll be filled 598 00:35:02,360 --> 00:35:05,839 Speaker 4: with the same thoughts day after day after day after day. 599 00:35:06,840 --> 00:35:09,560 Speaker 4: And the last thing I want to say is help somebody. 600 00:35:11,320 --> 00:35:14,080 Speaker 4: You go help somebody, even if it's helping. 601 00:35:13,800 --> 00:35:17,200 Speaker 3: On an old woman across the street. You know why. 602 00:35:18,440 --> 00:35:22,520 Speaker 4: Uh, it's gonna make you feel good. It'll make you 603 00:35:22,560 --> 00:35:26,000 Speaker 4: feel good just to do a little good deed every 604 00:35:26,080 --> 00:35:29,000 Speaker 4: day because it don't cost nothing. Of course, that old 605 00:35:29,040 --> 00:35:31,319 Speaker 4: woman may stab the ship. I'd even established it. You 606 00:35:31,360 --> 00:35:32,640 Speaker 4: may shoot. 607 00:35:33,680 --> 00:35:35,759 Speaker 3: I would you know what? Look, I wish I could 608 00:35:35,800 --> 00:35:38,239 Speaker 3: tell you about the book. The book is so. 609 00:35:38,360 --> 00:35:42,879 Speaker 4: Good I forget about Digmatized, but well, you know thetized. 610 00:35:42,960 --> 00:35:47,600 Speaker 4: I can't talk about this Dictimized. It's about the con artists, romantic. 611 00:35:49,760 --> 00:35:52,759 Speaker 6: You know, I tell it all, And you told I 612 00:35:52,760 --> 00:35:54,520 Speaker 6: didn't even know you was the one that told TMZ. 613 00:35:54,719 --> 00:35:59,319 Speaker 4: I was like, I called the next day to get 614 00:35:59,320 --> 00:36:02,520 Speaker 4: his picture on the air, because I knew if I 615 00:36:02,560 --> 00:36:05,480 Speaker 4: was in as much pain as I was, what with 616 00:36:05,600 --> 00:36:07,920 Speaker 4: all the work I've done, I knew what other women 617 00:36:07,960 --> 00:36:09,840 Speaker 4: would be suffering. And I knew that son of a 618 00:36:09,840 --> 00:36:11,880 Speaker 4: bitch was still loose. He's in jail now. You know 619 00:36:11,960 --> 00:36:13,480 Speaker 4: I got to make years eight. 620 00:36:14,840 --> 00:36:15,920 Speaker 5: Thank you for your service. 621 00:36:15,960 --> 00:36:18,920 Speaker 4: Wait listen, y'all, I kept in private own that motherfucker 622 00:36:18,960 --> 00:36:19,800 Speaker 4: for five years. 623 00:36:20,160 --> 00:36:21,239 Speaker 5: That's as expensive. 624 00:36:21,360 --> 00:36:24,200 Speaker 3: Wow, goddamn straight. What else I'm gonna do with my money? 625 00:36:24,200 --> 00:36:26,800 Speaker 4: But try to help somebody with its? 626 00:36:27,880 --> 00:36:32,680 Speaker 2: What do you still at this stage in your life? 627 00:36:33,560 --> 00:36:36,920 Speaker 2: Do you still believe in love? 628 00:36:38,760 --> 00:36:42,680 Speaker 1: I believe love is seasonal as far as partners going 629 00:36:43,080 --> 00:36:43,839 Speaker 1: that sort of thing. 630 00:36:44,000 --> 00:36:45,440 Speaker 3: Look at her, look at me. 631 00:36:46,480 --> 00:36:47,160 Speaker 2: I'm looking at you. 632 00:36:48,000 --> 00:36:52,279 Speaker 3: I believe in love. I believe in love of. 633 00:36:54,160 --> 00:36:54,239 Speaker 2: You. 634 00:36:54,280 --> 00:36:54,360 Speaker 6: Know. 635 00:36:54,400 --> 00:36:58,239 Speaker 3: I gotta tell you some Let me be honest. I 636 00:36:58,320 --> 00:37:01,880 Speaker 3: live alone. My nephew lives down in the lower level. 637 00:37:02,000 --> 00:37:03,160 Speaker 3: What the drag, queen was? 638 00:37:05,040 --> 00:37:07,759 Speaker 4: I have a beautiful, little cute dog that has me 639 00:37:07,800 --> 00:37:12,440 Speaker 4: by the nose. I have loved four men in my life. 640 00:37:13,760 --> 00:37:15,080 Speaker 4: I was gaged to all. 641 00:37:14,960 --> 00:37:18,120 Speaker 3: Four of them, but I didn't get married. 642 00:37:19,840 --> 00:37:22,240 Speaker 4: Because I didn't want anybody to think that they were 643 00:37:22,320 --> 00:37:26,400 Speaker 4: in control of me. I'm too I'm too much of 644 00:37:26,440 --> 00:37:27,080 Speaker 4: an alpha. 645 00:37:27,520 --> 00:37:32,680 Speaker 3: I just am. You don't try what the got me? 646 00:37:35,200 --> 00:37:37,560 Speaker 3: I get the fuck out here with that. I want 647 00:37:37,560 --> 00:37:38,719 Speaker 3: to do what I want to do. What I want 648 00:37:38,760 --> 00:37:41,800 Speaker 3: to do it, I don't want to do it. Until 649 00:37:41,840 --> 00:37:42,839 Speaker 3: God says that's enough. 650 00:37:42,840 --> 00:37:45,520 Speaker 4: The girls to jass down, and I can go sit 651 00:37:45,560 --> 00:37:47,680 Speaker 4: down too, because my tarma is instant. 652 00:37:48,560 --> 00:37:50,680 Speaker 3: God, Baby, they'll suck the air out. 653 00:37:50,560 --> 00:37:53,839 Speaker 4: Of my lungs if I if I turn this around to. 654 00:37:55,360 --> 00:37:56,320 Speaker 3: The dark side. 655 00:37:57,680 --> 00:37:59,759 Speaker 4: I have this joke where God is up in heaven 656 00:37:59,800 --> 00:38:02,560 Speaker 4: and she looks down, she calls she sees me, and 657 00:38:02,600 --> 00:38:05,160 Speaker 4: then she calls one of her cronies over and she says, 658 00:38:05,480 --> 00:38:08,400 Speaker 4: you see that one, And the crony says, wait, the 659 00:38:08,440 --> 00:38:10,800 Speaker 4: one right there. She says, no, the one with the mouth. 660 00:38:12,640 --> 00:38:16,080 Speaker 4: And then God says to her sister girl, she says, 661 00:38:16,120 --> 00:38:19,359 Speaker 4: we better get her on our side or we're gonna 662 00:38:19,400 --> 00:38:20,279 Speaker 4: lose this thing. 663 00:38:22,360 --> 00:38:24,440 Speaker 3: Y'all hear me talking. 664 00:38:24,760 --> 00:38:28,640 Speaker 4: My life is dedicated to the next generation that they 665 00:38:28,719 --> 00:38:33,319 Speaker 4: have rights to the American dream that I did. I 666 00:38:33,360 --> 00:38:36,239 Speaker 4: have lived the American dream. I have lived the spectrum. 667 00:38:37,760 --> 00:38:43,760 Speaker 4: I told one journalist, I've had my day in the sun. 668 00:38:44,040 --> 00:38:48,560 Speaker 4: Now I am the sun. Call me arrogant, call me 669 00:38:48,600 --> 00:38:49,560 Speaker 4: anything you want. 670 00:38:49,760 --> 00:38:50,879 Speaker 5: Now that's true, that's true. 671 00:38:50,920 --> 00:38:53,680 Speaker 4: But I ain't doing nothing but trying to lead with love. 672 00:38:54,280 --> 00:38:56,520 Speaker 4: I really truly am, Like I told y'all. My shit 673 00:38:56,640 --> 00:39:00,919 Speaker 4: thinks I'm far from perfect. But damn, it feels good 674 00:39:00,960 --> 00:39:01,959 Speaker 4: to feel this good. 675 00:39:02,200 --> 00:39:03,920 Speaker 3: It really does. I get a little. 676 00:39:03,719 --> 00:39:07,480 Speaker 4: Scared of my joy sometimes because not a lot of 677 00:39:07,480 --> 00:39:11,399 Speaker 4: people have it, so you feel like, damn. 678 00:39:10,760 --> 00:39:13,279 Speaker 3: Press motherfuckers, but got to guard it. 679 00:39:13,480 --> 00:39:15,359 Speaker 4: That's when I try to help them too, because I 680 00:39:15,400 --> 00:39:17,520 Speaker 4: know what they're struggling against. 681 00:39:18,160 --> 00:39:22,759 Speaker 1: The see And I actually like the fact that we 682 00:39:22,800 --> 00:39:26,960 Speaker 1: did an entire episode of Quest of Supreme where we 683 00:39:27,239 --> 00:39:29,680 Speaker 1: absolutely positively. 684 00:39:30,440 --> 00:39:34,480 Speaker 2: Talked about nothing professional, good, good. 685 00:39:34,440 --> 00:39:38,000 Speaker 1: And you know, and for our listeners, I will hope 686 00:39:38,000 --> 00:39:42,040 Speaker 1: that you appreciated this as much as we did. But 687 00:39:42,120 --> 00:39:45,480 Speaker 1: I felt the way the episode was going this is 688 00:39:45,520 --> 00:39:50,120 Speaker 1: these are gems and pearls of wisdom that I wouldn't 689 00:39:50,160 --> 00:39:52,799 Speaker 1: get by it just asking what's your favorite movie or 690 00:39:52,920 --> 00:39:56,759 Speaker 1: you know your your creative process. But I do want 691 00:39:56,800 --> 00:40:02,560 Speaker 1: to least close with one professional question. You know, I 692 00:40:03,080 --> 00:40:11,319 Speaker 1: come from a generation in which I guess probably one 693 00:40:11,360 --> 00:40:18,200 Speaker 1: of the most monumental shows on television the The The 694 00:40:18,239 --> 00:40:25,200 Speaker 1: Infamacy Word on NBC. I never thought that that show 695 00:40:25,360 --> 00:40:30,680 Speaker 1: could be topped by a country mile and I was 696 00:40:30,760 --> 00:40:36,920 Speaker 1: gladly proven wrong because you know the way that you guys, 697 00:40:38,040 --> 00:40:45,000 Speaker 1: in these eight years on Blackish have conquered almost every 698 00:40:46,160 --> 00:40:52,840 Speaker 1: I mean, you've conquered almost every taboo subject that I 699 00:40:52,840 --> 00:40:55,200 Speaker 1: don't think any other, including good time, like you know, 700 00:40:55,880 --> 00:41:00,600 Speaker 1: it's some precedent in it now that it's over, and 701 00:41:00,800 --> 00:41:02,120 Speaker 1: I knew that you can't stop. 702 00:41:03,200 --> 00:41:07,000 Speaker 2: Are there any professional. 703 00:41:08,120 --> 00:41:13,080 Speaker 1: Endeavors or in an itch that you want to scratch 704 00:41:14,320 --> 00:41:15,560 Speaker 1: that you have yet to do? 705 00:41:17,120 --> 00:41:17,200 Speaker 8: Not? 706 00:41:17,360 --> 00:41:20,400 Speaker 3: Really, they know, not really? 707 00:41:20,520 --> 00:41:22,839 Speaker 2: No, I mean, yeah, it took me tim to read 708 00:41:22,920 --> 00:41:24,640 Speaker 2: your entire resume. 709 00:41:24,760 --> 00:41:29,160 Speaker 4: So I'm going to tell you why. You know, Kenya 710 00:41:29,200 --> 00:41:33,719 Speaker 4: Barris offered me my own show. I'm beyonest with you. 711 00:41:33,719 --> 00:41:37,279 Speaker 4: I don't want to work that hard. I want I 712 00:41:37,360 --> 00:41:39,040 Speaker 4: want to travel and enjoy myself. 713 00:41:39,400 --> 00:41:42,080 Speaker 5: Thank you for that honesty too. Oh oh no, honey. 714 00:41:42,080 --> 00:41:44,200 Speaker 4: If they had offered to me when I was forty, 715 00:41:44,239 --> 00:41:44,880 Speaker 4: I would have been. 716 00:41:44,760 --> 00:41:46,439 Speaker 3: Oh hey, yeah, but. 717 00:41:46,400 --> 00:41:49,680 Speaker 4: No, no, no, I'm sixty five and no, no, no, no. 718 00:41:49,760 --> 00:41:52,400 Speaker 4: I know the work it takes to be the star 719 00:41:52,760 --> 00:41:56,080 Speaker 4: of a show. Although I know Lawrence, I loved working 720 00:41:56,120 --> 00:41:58,840 Speaker 4: with him, and he and I would have been brilliant 721 00:41:58,960 --> 00:42:00,920 Speaker 4: on a show called Oldish. 722 00:42:01,000 --> 00:42:04,160 Speaker 2: But and I'm glad you guys got married. At the end. 723 00:42:04,360 --> 00:42:06,200 Speaker 3: I love yeah, I love them. 724 00:42:06,360 --> 00:42:12,800 Speaker 4: But listen with his schedule and mind and COVID. COVID 725 00:42:12,920 --> 00:42:16,040 Speaker 4: was the thing that really stopped it. But I was 726 00:42:16,160 --> 00:42:20,200 Speaker 4: not willing to work that hard anymore. Even the new series. 727 00:42:20,239 --> 00:42:24,040 Speaker 4: I'm on, I love that for you. I am the 728 00:42:24,080 --> 00:42:27,280 Speaker 4: third lead and I like that. Just let a nigga 729 00:42:27,360 --> 00:42:29,800 Speaker 4: come in and say one line, take the shit over. 730 00:42:29,640 --> 00:42:33,080 Speaker 3: And go home. Yes, that's all right, Leave me the 731 00:42:33,120 --> 00:42:34,160 Speaker 3: fuck alone. I ain't got it. 732 00:42:34,280 --> 00:42:36,520 Speaker 4: I don't need two lines, bitch to steal the whole guy. 733 00:42:37,480 --> 00:42:39,600 Speaker 4: That a bitch come in and go home and send 734 00:42:39,600 --> 00:42:40,840 Speaker 4: a cabbage anyway. 735 00:42:40,920 --> 00:42:44,640 Speaker 5: So I'm just saying, these are definitions of freedom. 736 00:42:44,640 --> 00:42:47,880 Speaker 3: People are y'all listening it? It is freedom. Let me 737 00:42:47,920 --> 00:42:50,360 Speaker 3: tell you something. And I love my freedom. 738 00:42:50,719 --> 00:42:53,399 Speaker 4: I loved eating when I want to eat as much 739 00:42:53,480 --> 00:42:55,279 Speaker 4: as I want to eat, ar it's little I want 740 00:42:55,280 --> 00:42:57,680 Speaker 4: to eat without somebody saying you're gonna. 741 00:42:57,440 --> 00:42:59,000 Speaker 3: Eat all that. Motherfucker. 742 00:43:02,520 --> 00:43:02,680 Speaker 5: Yo. 743 00:43:03,160 --> 00:43:08,880 Speaker 4: I'm standing on a ship between with the hold on 744 00:43:08,920 --> 00:43:10,640 Speaker 4: a minute, with. 745 00:43:10,719 --> 00:43:14,719 Speaker 3: The moon coming up on my left. I'm standing at 746 00:43:14,719 --> 00:43:15,880 Speaker 3: the bow of the ship. 747 00:43:17,000 --> 00:43:19,560 Speaker 4: The moon is rising on my left and the sign 748 00:43:19,680 --> 00:43:23,360 Speaker 4: is setting on my right, and I'm standing there. 749 00:43:23,200 --> 00:43:27,000 Speaker 3: In the arms of the car on my way to Komodo. 750 00:43:27,120 --> 00:43:31,560 Speaker 4: Island to hang out with the with the motherfuckers over there, 751 00:43:31,840 --> 00:43:33,160 Speaker 4: the prehistoric mothers. 752 00:43:35,200 --> 00:43:36,160 Speaker 3: I love myself. 753 00:43:38,160 --> 00:43:40,360 Speaker 4: You think I'm gonna have somebody come out of the 754 00:43:40,440 --> 00:43:46,160 Speaker 4: presidential suite and stay to me through the French doors 755 00:43:46,680 --> 00:43:48,719 Speaker 4: that he had difficulty opening. 756 00:43:50,360 --> 00:43:57,120 Speaker 3: You ready to go eat? 757 00:43:58,719 --> 00:44:02,920 Speaker 4: I'm sorry, girl, I have I've worked myself out of 758 00:44:02,960 --> 00:44:05,399 Speaker 4: the game, and that's all right with me. I'm sixty five. 759 00:44:05,480 --> 00:44:07,400 Speaker 4: I don't need all that, honey, with that sex addiction. 760 00:44:07,760 --> 00:44:11,440 Speaker 4: I've had enough sex to get me through eighteen lifetime. 761 00:44:12,680 --> 00:44:14,520 Speaker 5: Are you ain't through? 762 00:44:15,160 --> 00:44:15,440 Speaker 3: Oh? 763 00:44:15,520 --> 00:44:18,279 Speaker 2: No, all right, you already know sheen hardy through. 764 00:44:18,360 --> 00:44:18,520 Speaker 7: Yeah. 765 00:44:18,840 --> 00:44:19,759 Speaker 5: I wanted to hear say it. 766 00:44:19,840 --> 00:44:21,200 Speaker 3: Wait, man, I will tell you this. 767 00:44:21,719 --> 00:44:24,600 Speaker 4: Ha motherfucker better come in here and look and sound 768 00:44:24,680 --> 00:44:26,240 Speaker 4: like Obama if he's coming. 769 00:44:27,239 --> 00:44:30,080 Speaker 3: I don't want nothing less. Fuck you get. 770 00:44:29,920 --> 00:44:33,240 Speaker 2: Out, manifested. Yeah, your mouth to God's ears. 771 00:44:33,400 --> 00:44:35,880 Speaker 5: Yeah, well, a whole bunch of Obamas for all of us. 772 00:44:36,160 --> 00:44:38,960 Speaker 4: I gotta tell y'all. I gotta tell y'all something. I 773 00:44:39,239 --> 00:44:44,439 Speaker 4: love life, I love people. I love making them laugh. 774 00:44:44,480 --> 00:44:46,640 Speaker 4: I've been making them laugh since I was five years old. 775 00:44:47,440 --> 00:44:53,800 Speaker 4: We gonna be all right if we stand as the people. 776 00:44:55,160 --> 00:44:56,520 Speaker 3: Do you understand. 777 00:44:57,680 --> 00:44:58,160 Speaker 2: We have to. 778 00:45:00,160 --> 00:45:04,319 Speaker 4: We have to love each other and be kind to 779 00:45:04,440 --> 00:45:09,680 Speaker 4: each other. We are so fragile. We are fragile creatures, 780 00:45:11,120 --> 00:45:17,440 Speaker 4: we are, but we are so powerful. Be kind to 781 00:45:17,480 --> 00:45:21,400 Speaker 4: your bodies. Look at what you're putting inside of it. 782 00:45:21,560 --> 00:45:22,720 Speaker 4: See it as a temple. 783 00:45:23,000 --> 00:45:26,879 Speaker 3: It is yours. So are you got? Are you take 784 00:45:26,920 --> 00:45:29,879 Speaker 3: care of it so you can enjoy. 785 00:45:30,480 --> 00:45:34,040 Speaker 4: And maybe one day you'll be in the Himalayans, and 786 00:45:34,080 --> 00:45:38,160 Speaker 4: one day maybe you'll be at petra H. Go on 787 00:45:38,400 --> 00:45:42,160 Speaker 4: and live and live well. Leave people alone. Stop trying 788 00:45:42,160 --> 00:45:45,759 Speaker 4: to change people all that dumb shit. When you find 789 00:45:45,800 --> 00:45:48,640 Speaker 4: your life. This morning, I had an interview and then 790 00:45:48,640 --> 00:45:51,239 Speaker 4: we couldn't get on the zoom and it was MSNBC. 791 00:45:51,520 --> 00:45:54,200 Speaker 4: That's important. I don't like to be late, and I 792 00:45:54,239 --> 00:45:56,880 Speaker 4: was just getting ready to just go off, like what 793 00:45:57,040 --> 00:45:57,520 Speaker 4: the you know? 794 00:45:57,880 --> 00:46:03,359 Speaker 3: But guess what I said? Be still all right? They'll wait. 795 00:46:04,719 --> 00:46:06,640 Speaker 3: You can't. 796 00:46:07,400 --> 00:46:10,719 Speaker 4: The party can't start for you until you get there. 797 00:46:11,320 --> 00:46:14,720 Speaker 4: And if you're in a hurry, you will be rude. 798 00:46:15,560 --> 00:46:18,359 Speaker 4: So don't be in a hurry. Leave a little, give 799 00:46:18,400 --> 00:46:21,120 Speaker 4: a little extra time so you don't run people off 800 00:46:21,120 --> 00:46:25,680 Speaker 4: the road, and ship pay attention right down. Shit like 801 00:46:25,719 --> 00:46:29,160 Speaker 4: I'm gonna drive safe today. I'm gonna be careful that 802 00:46:29,239 --> 00:46:32,040 Speaker 4: I don't hit a car that's got children in it 803 00:46:32,200 --> 00:46:35,480 Speaker 4: because I'm mad at somebody or because I'm drunk. 804 00:46:36,800 --> 00:46:38,680 Speaker 3: You watch your step in this world. 805 00:46:39,320 --> 00:46:43,360 Speaker 4: It's a beautiful planet and you had a black president 806 00:46:44,040 --> 00:46:44,759 Speaker 4: act like it. 807 00:46:45,360 --> 00:46:50,680 Speaker 1: Two turns, motherfucking drop, Jennifer Lewis, Ladies and gentlemen, this 808 00:46:51,800 --> 00:46:56,879 Speaker 1: thank you so much. This was my personal top three 809 00:46:56,920 --> 00:47:01,920 Speaker 1: episodes a Quest of Supreme. I've spoken the least of 810 00:47:01,960 --> 00:47:06,320 Speaker 1: all these episodes. I asked no questions on my interview 811 00:47:06,360 --> 00:47:11,000 Speaker 1: list like I need this episode. I thank you that 812 00:47:11,200 --> 00:47:17,080 Speaker 1: this was beyond my expectations. So just know that we're 813 00:47:17,120 --> 00:47:19,240 Speaker 1: going to have to have you back on the show 814 00:47:19,320 --> 00:47:22,480 Speaker 1: eventually talk about her that week because I would like 815 00:47:22,520 --> 00:47:27,760 Speaker 1: to actually hear of of your canon and and your journey, 816 00:47:27,800 --> 00:47:31,800 Speaker 1: because this is also a resume like yours is unprecedented, 817 00:47:32,080 --> 00:47:35,000 Speaker 1: and you know I want to celebrate that. 818 00:47:35,120 --> 00:47:37,320 Speaker 2: No, thank you very much, my pleasure. 819 00:47:37,920 --> 00:47:41,239 Speaker 1: Uh and on behalf of fan Tickeelow and Laya and 820 00:47:41,360 --> 00:47:43,719 Speaker 1: Sugar Steve and Unpaid Bill. 821 00:47:43,960 --> 00:47:46,840 Speaker 2: You guys missed a monster this episode. 822 00:47:47,600 --> 00:47:49,440 Speaker 1: We will see you on the next go round of 823 00:47:49,480 --> 00:47:52,640 Speaker 1: Quest Love Supreme, Ladies and gentlemen, I'm gonna grab me 824 00:47:52,680 --> 00:48:01,160 Speaker 1: a tition because I need. 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