1 00:00:00,320 --> 00:00:02,920 Speaker 1: Until I found you on kiss seacrest here. Thanks for 2 00:00:03,000 --> 00:00:06,280 Speaker 1: listening to us. So you want to just do the 3 00:00:06,240 --> 00:00:08,720 Speaker 1: trending reply, I have fifty minutes of NonStop kiss lined up. 4 00:00:08,760 --> 00:00:10,160 Speaker 2: I've got more Dodger tickets. 5 00:00:10,640 --> 00:00:15,280 Speaker 1: But you said that Katy Perry had a real post 6 00:00:15,320 --> 00:00:16,640 Speaker 1: on Instagram that you just loved. 7 00:00:16,960 --> 00:00:17,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, because I. 8 00:00:17,520 --> 00:00:19,919 Speaker 3: Feel like when you're scrolling through Instagram, it's really easy 9 00:00:20,040 --> 00:00:24,000 Speaker 3: to see like a lot of fluff, you know, like 10 00:00:24,040 --> 00:00:26,040 Speaker 3: you're the love of my life. I love when you 11 00:00:26,120 --> 00:00:29,480 Speaker 3: wake me up with rose petals, and like you see 12 00:00:29,520 --> 00:00:33,680 Speaker 3: all of that on Instagram. And Katy Perry really kept 13 00:00:33,680 --> 00:00:35,519 Speaker 3: it real on this post, and I just loved it 14 00:00:35,560 --> 00:00:38,559 Speaker 3: because she kind of equated being in a relationship to fighting. 15 00:00:39,120 --> 00:00:41,480 Speaker 3: And so Katy Perry and Orlando Bloom have been dating 16 00:00:41,479 --> 00:00:44,360 Speaker 3: since twenty sixteen, so they've been together for seven years now. 17 00:00:44,520 --> 00:00:46,880 Speaker 3: And she posted this caption with a series of photos 18 00:00:46,880 --> 00:00:49,559 Speaker 3: of her in Orlando. She said, find yourself a partner 19 00:00:49,680 --> 00:00:52,080 Speaker 3: that will go to the mat with you and get 20 00:00:52,120 --> 00:00:56,560 Speaker 3: back up every time. I love you, my fighter, Orlando Bloom. 21 00:00:57,240 --> 00:01:00,280 Speaker 3: And I love that she did that because because I 22 00:01:00,360 --> 00:01:02,960 Speaker 3: just feel like it is, you know, like being in 23 00:01:02,960 --> 00:01:06,399 Speaker 3: a relationship is a commitment to commitment, and I think 24 00:01:06,520 --> 00:01:08,080 Speaker 3: that's kind of what it is at the end of 25 00:01:08,120 --> 00:01:11,000 Speaker 3: the day, because compromising isn't easy for anybody to do. 26 00:01:11,200 --> 00:01:14,720 Speaker 3: And so I don't know, I just feel like I 27 00:01:14,800 --> 00:01:17,440 Speaker 3: like that Katy Perry keeps it real, like this isn't 28 00:01:17,440 --> 00:01:19,160 Speaker 3: the first time she's done this too, she did it 29 00:01:19,200 --> 00:01:21,640 Speaker 3: one other time before, and just talking about how it 30 00:01:21,680 --> 00:01:24,040 Speaker 3: is a choice and you make it every day, And 31 00:01:24,959 --> 00:01:26,760 Speaker 3: I don't know, it just really struck a chord with me. 32 00:01:28,240 --> 00:01:34,320 Speaker 2: Have you had that ever before in a relationship, Tanya. 33 00:01:33,240 --> 00:01:37,120 Speaker 3: No, I don't think i've ever. I've never been in 34 00:01:37,120 --> 00:01:39,800 Speaker 3: such a serious, committed relationship. But I also think too, 35 00:01:40,080 --> 00:01:42,959 Speaker 3: the longer that you're single, the harder it is to 36 00:01:43,120 --> 00:01:45,679 Speaker 3: be in a relationship because you're so used to doing 37 00:01:45,720 --> 00:01:48,040 Speaker 3: things your way, on your time when you want to. 38 00:01:49,200 --> 00:01:53,480 Speaker 1: You've become a little selfish, and you've become un well, difficult. 39 00:01:52,960 --> 00:01:56,160 Speaker 3: To change, adaptable, less adaptable, and I think being in 40 00:01:56,200 --> 00:01:59,400 Speaker 3: a relationship is being able to be adaptable. So yeah, 41 00:01:59,400 --> 00:02:01,880 Speaker 3: it's been like a lot of like kind of growing 42 00:02:02,000 --> 00:02:06,160 Speaker 3: through that together. And so yeah, I've never see what's. 43 00:02:05,960 --> 00:02:08,200 Speaker 2: Your perspective on it? Be married for so many. 44 00:02:08,120 --> 00:02:10,320 Speaker 4: Years, I think it's super important to be able to 45 00:02:10,360 --> 00:02:13,040 Speaker 4: have your arguments and still be able to work through them. 46 00:02:13,080 --> 00:02:13,960 Speaker 2: And I don't. 47 00:02:14,000 --> 00:02:16,440 Speaker 4: I don't think it's a being in a relationship and 48 00:02:16,480 --> 00:02:19,600 Speaker 4: bottling stuff up inside is the answer. And people that 49 00:02:19,680 --> 00:02:21,640 Speaker 4: say like, oh, we never fight, I'm just like I 50 00:02:21,800 --> 00:02:22,919 Speaker 4: question those people. 51 00:02:23,200 --> 00:02:25,440 Speaker 2: Like you should trust them. 52 00:02:25,520 --> 00:02:28,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm like, you should let it out because maybe 53 00:02:28,320 --> 00:02:32,200 Speaker 3: one of the one of the two just always concedes, and. 54 00:02:32,200 --> 00:02:35,680 Speaker 1: That I just don't think that's How about people that like, 55 00:02:35,720 --> 00:02:38,280 Speaker 1: every time you're with them, they go on and on 56 00:02:38,320 --> 00:02:41,840 Speaker 1: about how great their relationship and their partner is. It's like, okay, guy, Like, 57 00:02:42,400 --> 00:02:45,240 Speaker 1: I mean at some point, I don't trust you, Like 58 00:02:45,280 --> 00:02:46,079 Speaker 1: it's too much. 59 00:02:46,560 --> 00:02:51,200 Speaker 2: It can't be that rosy and that sunflowery every single day, right, 60 00:02:51,360 --> 00:02:53,080 Speaker 2: can it. I mean maybe it can, but I start 61 00:02:53,120 --> 00:02:53,840 Speaker 2: to not trust you. 62 00:02:54,520 --> 00:02:57,400 Speaker 4: It definitely can be in the in the beginning, but 63 00:02:58,280 --> 00:02:59,960 Speaker 4: eventually reality hits. 64 00:03:01,080 --> 00:03:05,880 Speaker 2: So just be aware of these so good we have it, 65 00:03:06,080 --> 00:03:08,320 Speaker 2: Yeah we got it. It's all happy for a red flag. 66 00:03:10,240 --> 00:03:12,359 Speaker 1: But you know we're talking about when we play it, 67 00:03:12,440 --> 00:03:15,400 Speaker 1: So locket, that show makes progress. 68 00:03:16,160 --> 00:03:18,000 Speaker 2: Fifteen minutes of NonStop kisses. Next