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Speaker 1: Welcome back to another week of Good Mom's Bad Choices.

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Speaker 1: Except this week is a very special week because I

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Speaker 1: have a special episode for you. I'm sharing with you

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Speaker 1: my other podcast with my love called love Like. This

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Speaker 1: is all about love, the beginning, the middle of the end,

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Speaker 1: how to investigate long term healthy love. This episode is

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Speaker 1: featuring to hear in Far and more and before I go,

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Speaker 1: I have a very special announcement. This weekend, Saturday, July

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Speaker 1: sixth is my birthday celebration. If you're in the LA area,

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Speaker 1: click the link of this episode description. We are teaming

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Speaker 1: up with Susia NYC for another play party. It's Midsummer

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Speaker 1: night themed, It's magical, it's mystical. DJ Lizzie Jeff will

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Speaker 1: be on the ones and twoes. Come have fun, come dance,

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Speaker 1: come drink, and I hope to see you there.

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Speaker 2: Enjoy Bye, my.

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Speaker 3: Like this. By the way, the MMF was, it was just.

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Speaker 2: It was another question that she was there but not

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Speaker 2: really not in my mind. Did you get compersion? I

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Speaker 2: was like, honestly, I wasn't really paying at.

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Speaker 4: She was like selfish, caught up in the moment. Anyway,

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Speaker 4: what's good, y'all? Welcome back to another episode of love

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Speaker 4: like this. I'm the one and only, big did bad

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Speaker 4: bitch Orlando Roy singing across from me is my beautiful

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Speaker 4: almost to be your wife, the one? And Nolan Mila

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Speaker 4: maps Hi baby Hi.

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Speaker 5: That's a beautiful fucking intro. Hilarious.

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Speaker 4: Oh you want to hear on my a ks? Yes,

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Speaker 4: it's actually an art. Okay, welcome back, everybody. I'm Orlando

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Speaker 4: Roy a ka Orlando a Kate, A big did bad

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Speaker 4: bitch A ka nick a.

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Speaker 6: K a.

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Speaker 4: O.

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Speaker 6: Don't me laugh, don't me laugh, don't.

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Speaker 4: Be laugh the big dave bad bitch think nick nick

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Speaker 4: I'm the CEO of HO and I'm backpacking the circumcised cracking.

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Speaker 3: Yeah that's that's that face, right. But you know what's crazy?

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Speaker 3: The same ship that makes you do.

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Speaker 7: That now, the same ship that made him holler because

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Speaker 7: I like that.

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Speaker 2: I said he's weird. He's a weird one.

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Speaker 8: I still feel the same way he's like.

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Speaker 6: I guess I still give.

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Speaker 2: Somebody.

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Speaker 1: It seemed to come highly recommended.

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Speaker 4: She got she got a direct review from this girl

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Speaker 4: that I used to be working with.

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Speaker 6: The girl was.

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Speaker 4: Basically on some like so I think he's trying to

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Speaker 4: have a threesome right here, but you know, he hadn't

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Speaker 4: been fucking me in a while because he don't want

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Speaker 4: to really commit. Basically, they were best friends that she

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Speaker 4: just snapped and went crazy on Mila on the first

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Speaker 4: meeting of Mila, like, I don't know what you're trying

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Speaker 4: to do, but me and ORLANDA been fucking around, so

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Speaker 4: I think he's trying to.

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Speaker 6: Have a three.

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Speaker 4: So it was like, whoa, how did you just switch

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Speaker 4: up on me like this, I'm gonna find out what

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Speaker 4: that dick doing.

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Speaker 3: And it was like, looks for.

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Speaker 5: The invite, Thanks for the update.

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Speaker 1: No thanks, I'm going to get it on a different name,

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Speaker 1: but now that you mentioned it, I am going to

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Speaker 1: get it.

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Speaker 5: Get weird ass Nick number twenty seven, The two Dude.

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Speaker 3: B DBB.

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Speaker 1: A little strange but seems okay.

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Speaker 4: And we want to introduce some really good friends that

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Speaker 4: I personally have just recently met since I came to LA.

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Speaker 6: But we've been hanging out. We've been chilling.

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Speaker 4: They have been entertaining and hilarious to hear and farn more.

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Speaker 6: Please give a round of a plus.

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Speaker 5: Thank you.

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Speaker 2: Lord to the Story podcast.

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Speaker 6: How You're doing today? How are y'all doing?

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Speaker 5: I'm good like y'all. Just being around y'all, that's always

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Speaker 5: a good time. Yes, I'm falling in love. I'm happy

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Speaker 5: with this has happened.

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Speaker 1: I agree, I agree, I can hang out with them.

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Speaker 1: You know, it's so hard to find adult friends. And

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Speaker 1: then also it's it's hard to find like couples that

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Speaker 1: are cool because if you a lot of couples are

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Speaker 1: not happy, so then you be around happy couples and

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Speaker 1: then it just like it's not a good combination. And

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Speaker 1: also high energy couples because these niggas here.

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Speaker 3: I have a lot of energy.

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Speaker 2: In particular. I mean me and fair In are pretty

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Speaker 2: high energy ourselves.

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Speaker 3: Yes, very chill.

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Speaker 2: Yes, I got sul. I just realized you're a cool cat.

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Speaker 4: He's a cool because I definitely went out with to

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Speaker 4: here before until he was like, yeah, I'm going to

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Speaker 4: another spot. I'm gonna go see a friend. You want

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Speaker 4: to come with it? I was like sure by the

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Speaker 4: time we leave that spot. So what happened was I

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Speaker 4: know a DJ at this other spot that we can

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Speaker 4: go to, so you down, I'm all right, fuck it.

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Speaker 6: You know after we leave this spot, do you know

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Speaker 6: another friend?

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna just stop by and say, Hi, maybe drink

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Speaker 4: after we are done with that.

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Speaker 6: I ain't done yet.

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Speaker 4: After we are done with that, he goes, you know,

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Speaker 4: back at the last spot we just left from.

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Speaker 3: I think we just it's something to eat.

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Speaker 7: I'm a good hold said, you're ready to go. I

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Speaker 7: can get your car and you back, but I gotta

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Speaker 7: make this one more to roll.

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Speaker 3: Let's do it.

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Speaker 7: Listen, look, wait, listen. We ain't gonna wait to know lunes.

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Speaker 7: I don't do lunes.

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Speaker 3: We're gonna eat good, We're gonna drink. We listen, We're

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Speaker 3: gonna have a good time.

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Speaker 5: Man, I do good, eating good.

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Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. It was it was a

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Speaker 3: good time.

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Speaker 2: Me and by.

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Speaker 1: I was like, he's gonna be right back because ain't

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Speaker 1: nothing going on in La. So I was like, whatever,

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Speaker 1: he go out, because you're going to be right back

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Speaker 1: home to mama. Two thirty in the morning.

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Speaker 4: Fine without me, right the boys are out.

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Speaker 5: I'm so used to it.

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Speaker 7: I just has the biggest case of oh yeah.

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Speaker 5: I don't like to be left out, but I'm used

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Speaker 5: to being left out.

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Speaker 7: Even if she got something else to do, she has

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Speaker 7: a whole advent that she'll be in you without me

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Speaker 7: you went without nigga you at work.

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Speaker 5: You should have canceled to fit me.

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Speaker 2: I agree, I agree. See she gets it, I do.

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Speaker 2: But I appreciate you, guys. I appreciate her.

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Speaker 1: You found the double date friendships and and and the

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Speaker 1: and the bromance. That's happening because many friends many.

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Speaker 3: Hard to make friends. I told you I thought Landa

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Speaker 3: was trying to.

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Speaker 4: Fuck I do be treating my home boys like I'm

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Speaker 4: trying to his niggas be cooking, and you want to come.

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Speaker 3: You hungry, my brother, you want to.

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Speaker 1: He was concerned you was trying to fun, like you

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Speaker 1: trying to feel like a couple is like a swinging thing.

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Speaker 9: But I thought he was just I thought he thought

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Speaker 9: I was cute, and then he's just been a good friend.

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Speaker 7: I was like a little bit like, bitch, I'm cute.

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Speaker 3: Why are you trying to fuck.

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Speaker 2: Nig in the city.

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Speaker 4: You're not gonna cook for me and send me home

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Speaker 4: this nigga, Why nigga?

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Speaker 3: I brought two bottles away because I'm cute.

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Speaker 4: You know I don't cook with a shirt on too,

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Speaker 4: so everybody him and Duranto, but like, yeah, come on,

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Speaker 4: we're gonna cook chefing it for god.

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Speaker 2: Boys hungry, I'm gonna die. I eat this salad.

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Speaker 1: I came back, I said, where do you see.

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Speaker 4: Sal You smitched at the smellad. You wasn't gonna eat

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Speaker 4: the sud like you thought you was gonna eat the South.

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Speaker 7: I doubled back for the salad, though, Remember it was

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Speaker 7: when it was you and Duran. I doubled back for

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Speaker 7: some more sound when I got the reup on it.

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Speaker 6: You ain't initially go for the salad first.

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Speaker 3: All you wanted to show off. Anyway, The point is

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Speaker 3: my shortcomings, niggas.

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Speaker 4: That's how you gotta make friends. Man, you gotta your friends.

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Speaker 4: I caught my friends like that. And when I was

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Speaker 4: in Brooklyn, it was always I was always asking my homeboys, Yo,

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Speaker 4: I want to go to movies like we out, I'll

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Speaker 4: be in the movie theater like this. Niggas always outroas

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Speaker 4: you see one of my niggas.

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Speaker 7: Learn how to be a better friend from firing. Because

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Speaker 7: I didn't court my friends. I impressed them and then

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Speaker 7: I became elusive, like I wanted every time we hung

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Speaker 7: out and to be a thing. So like I was

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Speaker 7: show you an amazing time, and then you wouldn't hear

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Speaker 7: from me for like a.

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Speaker 5: Moment, and it was like no deep conversations ever, so

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Speaker 5: he wouldn't even really know anything about it. You wouldn't

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Speaker 5: know anything about him. And oh my god, we buffed

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Speaker 5: hand over that quite a bit.

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Speaker 1: I wonder how many niggas are hanging out with niggas

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Speaker 1: for like a significant amount of time and don't know

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Speaker 1: really about them, but they're going through.

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Speaker 7: We hang out in the bar or something like that.

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Speaker 7: We don't have the relationship. We just like the music

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Speaker 7: louds I'll use that as a cover. We can't really

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Speaker 7: talk here because me and Ortlanda, we.

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Speaker 6: Said at the bar, we got to the third spot,

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Speaker 6: so let's go over there. We're gonna talk.

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Speaker 10: Every playing.

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Speaker 7: Yeah you got yeah about me, I'm gonna get.

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Speaker 3: Put the music up loud.

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Speaker 5: Car not killing oh my, oh my.

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Speaker 6: God, because I was definitely in that car.

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Speaker 4: And it's funny it was talking about this MF conversation

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Speaker 4: because I was in the car with to hear, and

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Speaker 4: I was like, you know, for some reason, actually turns

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Speaker 4: down for saying, you know, it's kind of hard when

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Speaker 4: I think about it, to bring in another guy, but

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Speaker 4: I think it's much easier to bring another girl, what

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Speaker 4: you think conversation.

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Speaker 3: Thing, And I was like, I guess we're gonna be friends.

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Speaker 2: I'm glad that you were.

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Speaker 1: You were having personal conversations about my my endeavor.

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Speaker 5: Your ambition.

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Speaker 7: But you know what, it's necessary because it's it's very difficult,

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Speaker 7: like you said, to find adult friends, especially when you

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Speaker 7: don't have a traditional job. So when you are like

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Speaker 7: running past people, uh, seeing them randomly and stuff like that,

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Speaker 7: to take the next step and invite somebody over for

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Speaker 7: dinner or invite them out for drinks or something like that,

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Speaker 7: it takes a lot of energy, takes a lot of courage,

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Speaker 7: it takes a lot of vulnerability. And then to build

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Speaker 7: on that if you you know, from those interactions you

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Speaker 7: find that you guys have similarities, to build on that

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Speaker 7: takes even more energy and effort on both sides. So like,

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Speaker 7: if it's not reciprocated, it's like it's embarrassing, it's hurtful.

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Speaker 5: It's all that, Yeah, don't make somebody a priority. That's

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Speaker 5: making me up.

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Speaker 7: So to go from that, and then to be in

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Speaker 7: the all life space, it's even more vulnerable, especially with guys,

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Speaker 7: because there's always that masculinity hurdle that we have to

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Speaker 7: get over it. But in the all life, it's like

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Speaker 7: you have to acknowledge the masculinity, but you can't like

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Speaker 7: that can't be your defining characteristic, Like you'll never be

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Speaker 7: able to have an MMF if you have somebody that's

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Speaker 7: too masculine or hybridmaskm Like, ain't no motherfucker doing all this.

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Speaker 3: Open to that idea.

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Speaker 7: So like it it's dope to hear that from another

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Speaker 5: Yeah, because you don't have to be one or the other.

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Speaker 5: And that's where the it comes in at, like I

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Speaker 5: and women are the same way around other women, Like

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Speaker 5: it's not it displays different from us, but we it's

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Speaker 5: for the same reasons, like that feeling like oh, I'm

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Speaker 5: talking about some chick to your dude, you know, because

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Speaker 5: stuff like that, So like, yeah, it happens on both sides.

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Speaker 2: That's true.

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Speaker 1: And just for the people listening, old life means alternative,

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Speaker 3: Just for the people listening means alternative.

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Speaker 2: I'm trying to be an expert. I'm trying to be

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Speaker 5: You just cut that part out.

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Speaker 4: Don't give it a sensor bleaf for mad takes all life.

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Speaker 3: It's gonna be great.

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Speaker 4: Your sexylogist, Ben, you ain't got nothing approval there you go.

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Speaker 2: You know I'm the B D, S, M and kink lifestyle. No,

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Speaker 1: I believe the A K is like an East Coast thing.

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Speaker 1: I don't think that's like I'm just Mila.

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Speaker 4: That's just pussy, that's just statty Caddies. I am Fatty Caddy,

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Speaker 4: Statty Caddies and that, and you live up to that name.

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Speaker 3: In the middle of.

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Speaker 6: Heavy pussy.

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Speaker 1: You know what, they don't have panties. This is a

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Speaker 1: real issue. We need a p s A for this.

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Speaker 1: They don't really make panties with like with where the

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Speaker 5: It's like what the fun I used to be laying

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Speaker 7: And he'll be like, what are your pussy lips out?

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Speaker 3: They both they don't stay because.

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Speaker 1: Sady caddy panty And that's I'm really I'm pushing that

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Speaker 5: But also just not wearing them to act. That's what

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Speaker 5: I advocate for.

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Speaker 1: Back to what you were saying about. Okay, so you guys,

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Speaker 1: we went to farn And to hear in the lifestyle.

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Speaker 1: If you haven't noticed there, if.

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Speaker 4: You haven't noticed by his shorts crop top, if you

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Speaker 4: if you haven't judged the book.

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Speaker 3: I was first sing in college, first single in college.

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Speaker 7: Ain't nobody ask you shirts?

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Speaker 2: No, I'm just saying because they said it.

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Speaker 1: When you meet another man in the alt life, you

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Speaker 1: know you're standing the big words, you know, the cool words.

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Speaker 6: So let's start from the beginning. How does how did y'all? Like? Well,

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Speaker 6: first of how did y'all meet? Right? How does meeting

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Speaker 5: We went to college together.

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Speaker 3: She needed some change for that's the fuck up.

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Speaker 5: Every time he tells the story, he tells his bullshit

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Speaker 5: and I just asked.

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Speaker 7: Him He's like, I can't just give it, but like what.

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Speaker 3: I got a back course and need some sweeping sexual turn.

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Speaker 3: I was like, no, no, just laid off the housekeeper.

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Speaker 2: He came.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, he just came over to me, introduced himself and

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Speaker 5: invited me. Yes, in Saint Louis invited me to a

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Speaker 3: Yeah, she didn't come.

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Speaker 5: I did not go, and I was like, uh he,

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Speaker 5: I won't even know this. And then he saw me again.

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Speaker 3: Hey, hey, hey, take my number down. Call a real nigga. Right.

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Speaker 3: She didn't call again. I was like, give me your

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Speaker 3: motherfuck number.

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Speaker 5: He gave me the same day.

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Speaker 3: Hello, yeah, can that be the fair?

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Speaker 10: No?

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Speaker 3: Patrice Patrese, Who pat that's a middle Patrese who? I

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Speaker 3: was like, did she give me a motherfucking the house?

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Speaker 3: I was a ball smash.

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Speaker 5: I was catching the bus to school.

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Speaker 3: You think I got a cell phone.

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Speaker 5: In two thousand and five, that was a luxury.

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Speaker 3: I had a lot of stuff.

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Speaker 7: I had my own place. So we started hanging out.

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Speaker 7: Two weeks in. I spend those why.

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Speaker 3: Yes, she was like I need to talk and I'm like, oh,

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Speaker 3: she's finish telling me. She love to daughter two weeks,

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Speaker 3: she was like, I'm too much pregnant.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, wow, nice And.

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Speaker 3: Because some people missed the response.

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Speaker 5: Like he was like, oh okay, well that don't change

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Speaker 5: the way I feel about you.

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Speaker 3: I had already took care of another niggas baby, so

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Speaker 3: I was already presnant.

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Speaker 2: Told me about that.

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Speaker 10: I know just what to do, catching what they need,

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Speaker 10: like you need a.

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Speaker 2: And she was honest about it.

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Speaker 3: We hadn't even had sex at this point.

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Speaker 1: You became sexually active in your relationships while you're pregnant

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Speaker 1: while I was pregnant, So did you have a relationship

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Speaker 1: with the dad at all?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 5: So, actually we split up before I even found out

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Speaker 5: I was pregnant, and then it was like ship, I

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Speaker 5: don't feel like dealing with this nigga. So I was

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Speaker 5: on the fence about whether or not I was going

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Speaker 5: two weeks to even tell him is because I was

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Speaker 5: still in limbo and it was like, Okay, this is

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Speaker 5: decision I've made, so I need to tell Yeah, so

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Speaker 5: I need to tell him. So after that, told him,

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Speaker 5: told my mom, told my aunt, and I was like

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Speaker 5: anybody else after that, Uh, you find out when the

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Speaker 5: you find you see the pictures?

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Speaker 2: So and then he did you expect him to be like,

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Speaker 2: I'm done?

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Speaker 5: I didn't. I was prepared for all of it, Like

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Speaker 5: I try not to ask questions that I'm not prepared

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Speaker 5: to be disappointed in the answer. So yeah, I was

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Speaker 5: fully prepared for it to go either way. And even

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Speaker 5: after that, I'm like, he don't really understand what he's

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Speaker 5: signing up for, because I don't even understand what the

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Speaker 5: fuck I just signed up for. So I kept trying

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Speaker 5: to push him away and he was not having.

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Speaker 3: How about that stud the fact that he was already.

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Speaker 9: Funny as he was cute, you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 9: I was like, she's checking these boxes like a motherfuck.

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Speaker 9: I can see the puzzy like motherfuck. I was like,

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Speaker 9: what's it pledge to stay a little bit.

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Speaker 2: Check daddy?

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Speaker 3: I could do that.

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Speaker 7: I can.

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Speaker 5: Oh god, oh my god.

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Speaker 4: I hold very similar too, because I was like, yes,

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Speaker 4: this single mom cool.

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Speaker 6: I actually told me that. I was like, you know,

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Speaker 6: I don't do moms, right, are you cool?

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Speaker 3: Tho?

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Speaker 6: I'll hang out with you and chi like that.

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Speaker 3: Oh.

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Speaker 6: I had taste of that thing, and then I had

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Speaker 6: it again. Then I had about three more times that week.

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Speaker 6: I was like, hey, hey, what what you trying?

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Speaker 4: Means she want karaoke? You think it's annoying? She got

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Speaker 4: to get the karaoke. Baby was gonna have to understand. Listen,

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Speaker 4: that little girl of Christmas right then and there putting

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Speaker 4: it on me.

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Speaker 6: Was you talking about yeah, it'll do it to you? Man?

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Speaker 6: Oh my gosh, yep.

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Speaker 5: He's the only day I thought she knows I was.

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Speaker 5: He was there, she was family.

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Speaker 2: Did your fan did your family judge you? Or anybody

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Speaker 2: say anything to you? Because I feel like, you know.

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Speaker 7: People's a couple of guys in my argus because I

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Speaker 3: Louis a couple of people like you know, they gonna

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Speaker 3: think that was your your fuck right. I don't care

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Speaker 3: like I wear suits to school for this ship. I

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Speaker 3: wear suits, motherfucker.

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Speaker 7: Or I had four jobs in college and I was

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Speaker 7: taking full credit hours. I been since I was fourteen

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Speaker 7: years old. I'm grown, nigga, man, I got I got

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Speaker 7: She fine as fuck.

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Speaker 6: That's a fucking fact.

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Speaker 4: Because I was walking around calling myself the big, big

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Speaker 4: bad bitch, being a step dad is not niggas worries

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Speaker 3: Big, big bad bitch is wild as fun. I'm gonna

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Speaker 3: put it out there every time you roll your eyes.

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Speaker 5: It's not my fame, it's not your favorite.

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Speaker 7: It's like I love hate it, and I love the

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Speaker 7: fact that he's just like confident in that. You're like, yeah,

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Speaker 4: Do it.

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Speaker 6: It's fire, but do I want to?

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Speaker 3: That's for him. That's I would take bad bitches like

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Speaker 3: I always got to be dressed up. You can't, never can.

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Speaker 3: I would go down with it. He's a bad bits

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Speaker 3: like I'm mad whatever I.

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Speaker 6: Got anything, anything, Anything I put on.

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Speaker 4: Nothings the foundation I look the best naked, so anything

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Speaker 4: I put on as a bonus.

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Speaker 6: Talk about it.

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Speaker 3: The door.

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Speaker 6: Bitch, talk about you know what is standing on this.

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Speaker 5: Listen, listen stupid. So to sum it up, that's how

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Speaker 2: How have you guys been together?

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Speaker 3: Now?

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Speaker 5: The first seven years was like on and on twelve

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Speaker 5: five to twelve, I.

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Speaker 3: Was talking about the little well since two thousand.

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Speaker 5: And five, and we officially was like, okay, we're going

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Speaker 7: As our church and I was in town doing a project.

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Speaker 7: And after I found it, we did not not spend

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Speaker 5: Every day we were together every second after that, I.

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Speaker 7: Told my roommate the time, just getting serious. I think

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Speaker 7: you're gonna move out here. He's like, cool, we can

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Speaker 7: keep the place.

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Speaker 2: Already moved out here.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, he had moved out here like three years before

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Speaker 5: I did.

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Speaker 7: Found a place and where we're at now and saved

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Speaker 3: And you know there's been rockets, is there?

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Speaker 4: So when would you say that, y'all love became like

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Speaker 4: Because honestly, if a man telling me that, I told him,

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Speaker 4: I've seen you many times, but now he's living first sight.

448
00:24:06,440 --> 00:24:08,280
Speaker 4: So when it's like the love and being in love

449
00:24:08,320 --> 00:24:11,560
Speaker 4: with each other becoming thing, wow, I think.

450
00:24:12,200 --> 00:24:17,560
Speaker 5: We were very drawn to each other, like immediately immediately,

451
00:24:17,720 --> 00:24:24,160
Speaker 5: but it's so crazy because we never made it official ever,

452
00:24:24,600 --> 00:24:27,639
Speaker 5: So it was very much like you see him, you

453
00:24:27,760 --> 00:24:29,160
Speaker 5: see me type situation.

454
00:24:29,680 --> 00:24:31,840
Speaker 7: But the.

455
00:24:33,720 --> 00:24:40,000
Speaker 5: The love came when yeah, when I realized.

456
00:24:40,720 --> 00:24:43,680
Speaker 7: I think it was like that first call you made

457
00:24:43,800 --> 00:24:47,280
Speaker 7: that you were in the grocery store and you were

458
00:24:48,880 --> 00:24:52,440
Speaker 7: asking me what I wanted you to buy to have

459
00:24:52,640 --> 00:24:55,960
Speaker 7: at your house for me. He was like, you like

460
00:24:56,000 --> 00:24:58,359
Speaker 7: those cookies, right, because I know you'd be craving those cookies.

461
00:24:58,400 --> 00:24:59,720
Speaker 7: I saw you you ate a lot of those.

462
00:25:00,320 --> 00:25:04,360
Speaker 5: And and I always had water with me, like water

463
00:25:04,480 --> 00:25:05,680
Speaker 5: was the only thing I ever drank.

464
00:25:06,560 --> 00:25:11,960
Speaker 7: And for what was that our first Valentine's Day, he

465
00:25:12,040 --> 00:25:13,920
Speaker 7: got me a gallon of water, but he used to

466
00:25:14,040 --> 00:25:16,159
Speaker 7: keep water at his place.

467
00:25:16,000 --> 00:25:18,720
Speaker 5: For me all the time like that.

468
00:25:20,560 --> 00:25:21,880
Speaker 6: Because I know how much you love water.

469
00:25:23,960 --> 00:25:31,080
Speaker 5: It had a balloon on it. Simple but right, Oh

470
00:25:31,200 --> 00:25:31,960
Speaker 5: my goodness.

471
00:25:33,040 --> 00:25:37,600
Speaker 7: But yeah, I was, like you said, it was always

472
00:25:37,680 --> 00:25:40,280
Speaker 7: drawn to I just really enjoyed the time m hm

473
00:25:40,640 --> 00:25:41,480
Speaker 7: we spent together.

474
00:25:41,640 --> 00:25:42,440
Speaker 3: It was like it was.

475
00:25:42,680 --> 00:25:44,760
Speaker 7: It was when I was probably the happiest because I

476
00:25:44,840 --> 00:25:46,520
Speaker 7: was going through I was I was dealing with a

477
00:25:46,560 --> 00:25:48,600
Speaker 7: lot of ship at the time. This is shortly after

478
00:25:48,640 --> 00:25:51,480
Speaker 7: I found out the kid wasn't mine and so I was,

479
00:25:51,680 --> 00:25:53,840
Speaker 7: I was, I was damaged good, but around her I

480
00:25:54,200 --> 00:25:55,520
Speaker 7: felt enough.

481
00:25:56,200 --> 00:25:58,560
Speaker 3: So it was just it was just like I loved

482
00:25:58,640 --> 00:26:00,080
Speaker 3: that feeling and and.

483
00:26:01,560 --> 00:26:03,560
Speaker 7: Yeah, I gave it the keys to my car and

484
00:26:03,680 --> 00:26:06,679
Speaker 7: my apartment because he would have a break in classes.

485
00:26:06,760 --> 00:26:07,920
Speaker 3: So I was like, you just go to the crib

486
00:26:08,119 --> 00:26:09,680
Speaker 3: and you know, rest and eat and all of that

487
00:26:09,760 --> 00:26:10,280
Speaker 3: type of stuff.

488
00:26:10,320 --> 00:26:13,280
Speaker 7: So uh, it was definitely like an and not an

489
00:26:13,359 --> 00:26:16,680
Speaker 7: instant trust, but like an instant familiar feeling with the

490
00:26:16,720 --> 00:26:17,440
Speaker 7: whole situation.

491
00:26:17,560 --> 00:26:20,119
Speaker 3: She had me dancing at her pastor's wedding and a

492
00:26:20,200 --> 00:26:27,240
Speaker 3: leotard to it was a one piece. It was a

493
00:26:27,320 --> 00:26:27,800
Speaker 3: one piece.

494
00:26:29,280 --> 00:26:31,560
Speaker 6: Yo, women will be having you doing some ship.

495
00:26:31,640 --> 00:26:41,360
Speaker 7: Brolray dancing, slow interpretive dance, fluid motions, laid kicked out

496
00:26:41,560 --> 00:26:43,879
Speaker 7: all of this type of ship at the church in

497
00:26:43,920 --> 00:26:47,320
Speaker 7: front of this whole church ship knowing I sell drugs.

498
00:26:48,119 --> 00:26:49,040
Speaker 3: It was wild as fun.

499
00:26:54,359 --> 00:26:55,840
Speaker 6: Women have you doing some ship?

500
00:26:56,119 --> 00:26:59,720
Speaker 4: The first week I met me, Look, I drove so

501
00:27:00,119 --> 00:27:03,880
Speaker 4: if anybody doesn't know the valley, yeah, I drove from

502
00:27:04,040 --> 00:27:07,159
Speaker 4: one side of the valley North Hollywood to Tapanga, the

503
00:27:07,240 --> 00:27:09,920
Speaker 4: other side of the valley, to get an ingredient to

504
00:27:10,080 --> 00:27:13,440
Speaker 4: cook iki in selfish from Mela. The whole time, I'm

505
00:27:13,480 --> 00:27:15,879
Speaker 4: on the phone arguing with a girl that i'm dating

506
00:27:16,080 --> 00:27:20,080
Speaker 4: back in New York, right, and she's like, you're on Instagram.

507
00:27:20,440 --> 00:27:23,320
Speaker 4: You're showing up some bitch on Instagram NonStop. You keep

508
00:27:23,359 --> 00:27:25,199
Speaker 4: calling me telling me you're gonna tell me what's up.

509
00:27:25,240 --> 00:27:27,520
Speaker 4: I keep calling texting this girl like, Yo, it's little

510
00:27:27,520 --> 00:27:29,119
Speaker 4: over here. I'm having a great time in La.

511
00:27:29,440 --> 00:27:31,000
Speaker 6: I mayna hit you back to tell you tell you

512
00:27:31,080 --> 00:27:31,440
Speaker 6: the story.

513
00:27:31,640 --> 00:27:33,200
Speaker 4: You keep calling me telling me a story, and I

514
00:27:33,320 --> 00:27:36,560
Speaker 4: keep going on Instagram and you're taking pictures with some bitch, right.

515
00:27:37,440 --> 00:27:39,160
Speaker 4: I thought you was going there to do the podcast.

516
00:27:39,520 --> 00:27:41,160
Speaker 4: I'm on the other phone like, why are you even

517
00:27:41,240 --> 00:27:43,159
Speaker 4: acting like this? I'm chilling.

518
00:27:43,320 --> 00:27:43,960
Speaker 3: It's a good time.

519
00:27:44,000 --> 00:27:45,159
Speaker 10: It's sunny California.

520
00:27:45,760 --> 00:27:48,399
Speaker 4: Hey, my brother with an aki at. She's like, are

521
00:27:48,440 --> 00:27:50,920
Speaker 4: you cooking? I'm like, I'm just in the store, Yeah,

522
00:27:50,960 --> 00:27:51,679
Speaker 4: in the sawfish too.

523
00:27:51,960 --> 00:27:53,639
Speaker 3: Are you making this bitch dinner.

524
00:27:55,359 --> 00:27:57,440
Speaker 10: I'm on the phone like we gotta eat.

525
00:28:08,000 --> 00:28:08,040
Speaker 3: That.

526
00:28:08,359 --> 00:28:11,960
Speaker 1: This is a testimony though, niggas know when they like

527
00:28:12,080 --> 00:28:14,000
Speaker 1: someone and what they want. But just be like really

528
00:28:14,119 --> 00:28:18,360
Speaker 1: chasing niggas and doing the most improving yourself and honestly

529
00:28:19,080 --> 00:28:21,879
Speaker 1: that is the worst. That's like the worst direction to go,

530
00:28:22,960 --> 00:28:25,000
Speaker 1: because that's how you just run into some ship. You

531
00:28:25,119 --> 00:28:28,200
Speaker 1: don't need trying to force niggas, because even men know

532
00:28:28,280 --> 00:28:29,960
Speaker 1: when they like like some shit, and if they don't know,

533
00:28:30,240 --> 00:28:33,080
Speaker 1: they're not mature enough to want it and let them go. Anyway,

534
00:28:33,640 --> 00:28:35,560
Speaker 1: Even when I was single, I am I have never

535
00:28:35,640 --> 00:28:38,880
Speaker 1: been a press bitch for a relationship. Like I'm almost like, yeah,

536
00:28:38,960 --> 00:28:43,360
Speaker 1: stay away. I'm like, I'll be a hope for life

537
00:28:43,400 --> 00:28:44,000
Speaker 1: and I'll be fine.

538
00:28:44,000 --> 00:28:45,720
Speaker 2: I have to a long term hose.

539
00:28:47,480 --> 00:28:49,120
Speaker 1: I'm like, if I'm going to be in a relationship,

540
00:28:49,240 --> 00:28:53,400
Speaker 1: you have to explicitly choose me, and I have to

541
00:28:53,600 --> 00:28:56,600
Speaker 1: like you, which are both two things that you rarely see,

542
00:28:57,240 --> 00:29:00,760
Speaker 1: you know, like niggas acting right and also like me.

543
00:29:00,880 --> 00:29:03,960
Speaker 1: Liking you is like it requires a lot to want

544
00:29:03,960 --> 00:29:07,200
Speaker 1: to be around somebody. It feels better and lighter and

545
00:29:07,360 --> 00:29:09,760
Speaker 1: like it's actually fun and funny and I don't feel

546
00:29:09,840 --> 00:29:12,720
Speaker 1: bored to death and yes, but never.

547
00:29:12,800 --> 00:29:13,880
Speaker 3: Want to hang around.

548
00:29:15,200 --> 00:29:23,200
Speaker 5: Okay, oh yes, boring as ship, right, that's why you

549
00:29:23,400 --> 00:29:26,080
Speaker 5: end up playing like you guys something like.

550
00:29:27,800 --> 00:29:28,800
Speaker 6: Tell us about yourself.

551
00:29:28,840 --> 00:29:30,600
Speaker 2: Going to sleep at night. I'm like, oh, I can't

552
00:29:30,640 --> 00:29:33,920
Speaker 2: do this. For the rest of my life. He went

553
00:29:34,000 --> 00:29:37,840
Speaker 2: about eight thirty three nights in a row. He's old.

554
00:29:37,960 --> 00:29:38,320
Speaker 4: I don't know.

555
00:29:40,040 --> 00:29:45,080
Speaker 3: I think you got an early morning. Wait six am. Ons.

556
00:29:45,720 --> 00:29:48,160
Speaker 2: One time, this nigga I was dating, poor thing.

557
00:29:48,640 --> 00:29:50,680
Speaker 1: We went to Palm Springs and we had done like

558
00:29:50,880 --> 00:29:53,000
Speaker 1: some mushrooms or I don't know what the funk we did.

559
00:29:53,320 --> 00:29:57,080
Speaker 1: This nigga passes out and like right on the concrete

560
00:29:57,120 --> 00:29:59,400
Speaker 1: in front of like about to slide open the door,

561
00:29:59,680 --> 00:30:02,040
Speaker 1: and I'm like holding his head and I was like all.

562
00:30:01,960 --> 00:30:03,920
Speaker 2: I could think. I was like, this is a liability.

563
00:30:07,200 --> 00:30:11,360
Speaker 1: Was like, I don't have enough space for this. I

564
00:30:11,400 --> 00:30:15,920
Speaker 1: already have a child, obviously a little old. He's passed out.

565
00:30:17,800 --> 00:30:19,640
Speaker 5: This is a lie. This is a lot for me.

566
00:30:19,880 --> 00:30:21,720
Speaker 2: I was like, this is why I don't like niggas.

567
00:30:22,240 --> 00:30:28,760
Speaker 2: That's too much. O. God, I'm a bitch. I'm a bitch.

568
00:30:28,880 --> 00:30:30,120
Speaker 2: I probably don't deserve love.

569
00:30:30,600 --> 00:30:35,720
Speaker 5: No, no, I mean no, you're just not afraid I

570
00:30:35,800 --> 00:30:39,760
Speaker 5: mean of saying what people honestly think. I had a

571
00:30:39,920 --> 00:30:43,240
Speaker 5: similar situation and I had to take up somebody to

572
00:30:43,320 --> 00:30:51,280
Speaker 5: the hospital and while I was high, and I was like, shit,

573
00:30:52,480 --> 00:30:57,920
Speaker 5: like if this goes south, the ship storm that would happen,

574
00:30:58,200 --> 00:31:00,920
Speaker 5: like I just need everything to be okay. I don't

575
00:31:00,960 --> 00:31:03,520
Speaker 5: have time for this ship. I'm thinking about all the

576
00:31:03,640 --> 00:31:04,560
Speaker 5: repercussions on.

577
00:31:04,800 --> 00:31:09,240
Speaker 1: Me, especially as a mom, like I'm already worried about

578
00:31:09,280 --> 00:31:11,520
Speaker 1: I already have a human to care about. So it's

579
00:31:11,600 --> 00:31:13,080
Speaker 1: just like I have to really funk with you to

580
00:31:13,440 --> 00:31:16,080
Speaker 1: also extend my care. And that's why it has to

581
00:31:16,120 --> 00:31:18,160
Speaker 1: be someone that has to really choose you, like I

582
00:31:18,200 --> 00:31:18,800
Speaker 1: don't care about that.

583
00:31:18,880 --> 00:31:19,760
Speaker 2: I don't care you too much.

584
00:31:19,800 --> 00:31:23,040
Speaker 1: Pregnant, I don't care your moving in right hey, no, no,

585
00:31:23,120 --> 00:31:25,480
Speaker 1: we're together, it's really going.

586
00:31:25,480 --> 00:31:26,120
Speaker 2: Hard right now.

587
00:31:28,600 --> 00:31:31,640
Speaker 4: Or you're a single mom, great, I'm single, I'm a

588
00:31:31,720 --> 00:31:34,160
Speaker 4: dad now it's late now.

589
00:31:35,640 --> 00:31:39,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, just like, stop going against yourself ladies by choosing

590
00:31:39,680 --> 00:31:41,160
Speaker 1: niggas that are not choosing you.

591
00:31:44,640 --> 00:31:47,360
Speaker 5: Women, be knowing too that we just don't be trusting

592
00:31:47,400 --> 00:31:48,080
Speaker 5: ourselves now.

593
00:31:48,160 --> 00:31:51,480
Speaker 2: And also, him being a nice guy is not not enough.

594
00:31:52,280 --> 00:31:52,920
Speaker 3: It's not enough.

595
00:31:53,080 --> 00:31:55,560
Speaker 1: If he could be a nice guy and not be

596
00:31:55,680 --> 00:31:57,720
Speaker 1: your nigga, and that's fine, he could be still boring.

597
00:31:58,120 --> 00:32:01,160
Speaker 1: Stop trying to force nice niggas to be your nigga

598
00:32:01,160 --> 00:32:03,160
Speaker 1: because you think the niggas are slip chickens.

599
00:32:03,520 --> 00:32:05,520
Speaker 2: They are, but the more you think that, the more

600
00:32:05,640 --> 00:32:06,000
Speaker 2: they will be.

601
00:32:09,240 --> 00:32:11,880
Speaker 7: Always the best bad either I know, I know, women

602
00:32:12,360 --> 00:32:15,920
Speaker 7: or some women are typically drawn to safety because that

603
00:32:16,640 --> 00:32:20,719
Speaker 7: provides shelter, provide security, provides stability.

604
00:32:20,520 --> 00:32:23,320
Speaker 3: But it all also provides going to be eight o'clock.

605
00:32:23,880 --> 00:32:25,000
Speaker 2: It will also resentment.

606
00:32:26,000 --> 00:32:27,520
Speaker 3: I want to go out, don't you want to go out?

607
00:32:27,600 --> 00:32:27,640
Speaker 6: Like?

608
00:32:29,120 --> 00:32:33,080
Speaker 7: We got five thousand, three count sheets in there, in

609
00:32:33,200 --> 00:32:37,880
Speaker 7: these wickering sheets and this goddamn twenty I got a

610
00:32:37,920 --> 00:32:38,680
Speaker 7: six a year run.

611
00:32:40,960 --> 00:32:43,040
Speaker 2: You got to be clear about what your needs are

612
00:32:43,080 --> 00:32:43,920
Speaker 2: in a relationship.

613
00:32:44,240 --> 00:32:47,760
Speaker 1: You do for wild ass niggas are there right now

614
00:32:47,920 --> 00:32:52,280
Speaker 1: because we belong together, you two and us, these four people.

615
00:32:52,600 --> 00:32:55,600
Speaker 2: You Yes, niggas, you're wild.

616
00:32:56,840 --> 00:33:00,560
Speaker 5: I say all the time, especially Bang and the in

617
00:33:00,680 --> 00:33:05,440
Speaker 5: the lifestyle when we're coming across people who aren't in it.

618
00:33:07,120 --> 00:33:10,160
Speaker 5: I'm not trying to I'm not trying to sell you

619
00:33:10,360 --> 00:33:15,360
Speaker 5: on it or force it or anything, right.

620
00:33:15,480 --> 00:33:20,240
Speaker 7: Right, Yeah, teaching, because a lot of people, when you

621
00:33:20,400 --> 00:33:23,720
Speaker 7: don't know something about something, you automatically, for the most part,

622
00:33:23,840 --> 00:33:24,600
Speaker 7: go to the extremes.

623
00:33:25,120 --> 00:33:30,000
Speaker 3: People hear lifestyle, you're just everybody right right, You've been

624
00:33:30,080 --> 00:33:31,960
Speaker 3: wanting to fuck me this whole time.

625
00:33:36,440 --> 00:33:39,880
Speaker 5: I've brought it up to say, like if somebody doesn't

626
00:33:39,960 --> 00:33:43,080
Speaker 5: get it or it's not their thing, then that's fine.

627
00:33:43,080 --> 00:33:45,720
Speaker 5: I'm not trying to force anything on you. I'm not

628
00:33:45,800 --> 00:33:49,120
Speaker 5: trying to force the situation because guess what, there's other

629
00:33:49,200 --> 00:33:53,680
Speaker 5: people like who will willingly do it. And to that's

630
00:33:53,720 --> 00:33:56,480
Speaker 5: to your point of stop trying to force people who

631
00:33:56,520 --> 00:33:57,160
Speaker 5: don't fit you.

632
00:33:57,400 --> 00:33:58,800
Speaker 3: To be with you.

633
00:33:59,080 --> 00:34:01,360
Speaker 5: It's like, no, if they ain't fitting what you need,

634
00:34:01,880 --> 00:34:04,600
Speaker 5: then they ain't for you, like to find somebody else,

635
00:34:04,720 --> 00:34:07,479
Speaker 5: Like I just I'm just with you. I ain't never

636
00:34:07,560 --> 00:34:08,120
Speaker 5: been pressed.

637
00:34:09,160 --> 00:34:11,279
Speaker 1: And honestly, I think a part of it people don't

638
00:34:11,280 --> 00:34:15,160
Speaker 1: feel comfortable being themselves, especially women, like we haven't been

639
00:34:15,239 --> 00:34:18,160
Speaker 1: It hasn't been safe to be like free in your fantasies,

640
00:34:18,760 --> 00:34:23,040
Speaker 1: even in insecurities and like I need reassurance or you know,

641
00:34:23,120 --> 00:34:24,600
Speaker 1: like these are the things that I need and want

642
00:34:24,760 --> 00:34:26,960
Speaker 1: or like I do have a fantasy of getting sucked

643
00:34:27,000 --> 00:34:30,840
Speaker 1: by two men, what do you think? Like usually that

644
00:34:30,920 --> 00:34:33,160
Speaker 1: means they're not gonna fuck with you anymore because now

645
00:34:33,200 --> 00:34:34,000
Speaker 1: you're a slut.

646
00:34:36,040 --> 00:34:39,920
Speaker 7: But like then you're not my person, You're out, you know,

647
00:34:40,360 --> 00:34:41,719
Speaker 7: damn if I.

648
00:34:41,719 --> 00:34:42,520
Speaker 2: Should have ruined it.

649
00:34:42,719 --> 00:34:48,040
Speaker 5: I definitely right after we got engaged, like when and

650
00:34:48,280 --> 00:34:50,439
Speaker 5: on an even deeper like, I need you to really

651
00:34:50,600 --> 00:34:53,120
Speaker 5: know what you signed up for because we were only

652
00:34:53,680 --> 00:34:57,080
Speaker 5: officially a couple for a few months before we got engaged.

653
00:34:57,120 --> 00:34:59,719
Speaker 1: Okay, so tell me when did you guys get engaged

654
00:34:59,760 --> 00:35:01,160
Speaker 1: and get married and how long had you known each

655
00:35:01,160 --> 00:35:01,799
Speaker 1: other at that point.

656
00:35:02,680 --> 00:35:06,040
Speaker 5: By the time we got married, it had been eight years.

657
00:35:06,680 --> 00:35:10,040
Speaker 7: So when she moved out June second, the third second,

658
00:35:10,239 --> 00:35:14,400
Speaker 7: June second, proposed July twenty seventh, married March seventeenth.

659
00:35:14,520 --> 00:35:17,759
Speaker 1: Oh shit, so after that point, after you were like

660
00:35:17,840 --> 00:35:19,640
Speaker 1: were official, you moved out, then it was a wrap.

661
00:35:20,040 --> 00:35:22,000
Speaker 7: I wasn't moving home out to be no girlfriend. I

662
00:35:22,080 --> 00:35:25,239
Speaker 7: knew how important family was to her, like family.

663
00:35:25,040 --> 00:35:26,759
Speaker 1: Is everything in her And at that point when she

664
00:35:26,840 --> 00:35:28,640
Speaker 1: moved it was eight guys known each other eight years,

665
00:35:28,640 --> 00:35:30,080
Speaker 1: and you had been living in LA for three.

666
00:35:30,640 --> 00:35:32,800
Speaker 7: This is whenever, like right after we had reconnected. We

667
00:35:32,880 --> 00:35:35,360
Speaker 7: reconnected I think January.

668
00:35:35,760 --> 00:35:39,640
Speaker 5: Like eighth, right after the New year founder we.

669
00:35:39,760 --> 00:35:40,680
Speaker 3: Was together the whole time.

670
00:35:40,719 --> 00:35:42,880
Speaker 7: Time went back to La, told my roommate and all

671
00:35:42,920 --> 00:35:46,640
Speaker 7: that shit flew back out there. Told her my roommate

672
00:35:46,719 --> 00:35:48,960
Speaker 7: was that I'm moving started looking for an apartment. She

673
00:35:49,080 --> 00:35:51,439
Speaker 7: came out, checked out the apartment that we first moved into.

674
00:35:52,440 --> 00:35:54,080
Speaker 7: She went back home to get everything together.

675
00:35:54,239 --> 00:35:54,799
Speaker 3: She flew out.

676
00:35:54,920 --> 00:35:56,719
Speaker 7: I was like, I had already talked to her family

677
00:35:56,800 --> 00:35:59,279
Speaker 7: about like Rain's ezzes and all of that. So I

678
00:35:59,320 --> 00:36:02,640
Speaker 7: waited till my team, your Anversy High school reunion went

679
00:36:02,680 --> 00:36:04,480
Speaker 7: to that. I was a class president, so I had

680
00:36:04,520 --> 00:36:07,120
Speaker 7: put everything together, got the band and the singers and

681
00:36:07,160 --> 00:36:10,040
Speaker 7: all of that. They sing our favorite song proposed right there,

682
00:36:10,560 --> 00:36:13,600
Speaker 7: Boom started playing for the wedding. Sister got us a

683
00:36:13,600 --> 00:36:16,040
Speaker 7: wedding planner. Because we did the wedding in Saint Louis.

684
00:36:16,400 --> 00:36:18,759
Speaker 7: We're all living in LA, so when we flew to town,

685
00:36:18,920 --> 00:36:21,439
Speaker 7: everything was already set. We spent the whole day taking

686
00:36:21,480 --> 00:36:23,440
Speaker 7: pictures because I had book a photographer the whole day.

687
00:36:24,080 --> 00:36:26,560
Speaker 7: And then we did the wedding, did a wishing well,

688
00:36:26,600 --> 00:36:29,960
Speaker 7: give us money us no gifts, flew back to LA

689
00:36:30,080 --> 00:36:31,080
Speaker 7: went straight to the honeymoon.

690
00:36:31,440 --> 00:36:34,080
Speaker 5: It was just like that, actually went straight to your audition.

691
00:36:34,560 --> 00:36:38,319
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, ladies and gentlemen, a real man.

692
00:36:40,880 --> 00:36:44,719
Speaker 7: That whole ship five thousand dollars, everything, flights included, dress

693
00:36:44,760 --> 00:36:45,600
Speaker 7: included everything.

694
00:36:45,920 --> 00:36:48,640
Speaker 3: I called it, every fucking favorite. The most of most

695
00:36:48,760 --> 00:36:51,520
Speaker 3: expensive thing was a photographer. It was on thousand dollars.

696
00:36:51,560 --> 00:36:56,160
Speaker 3: Everything else I got hook ups for Hello, listen.

697
00:36:56,400 --> 00:37:02,240
Speaker 1: Absolutely Resourcaul is expensive.

698
00:37:04,800 --> 00:37:08,240
Speaker 7: Right right back to theb. It's like, give us money,

699
00:37:09,239 --> 00:37:12,279
Speaker 7: give us money. I have vlogged the whole thing. So

700
00:37:12,360 --> 00:37:15,200
Speaker 7: I was recording, like this is the ring, got this

701
00:37:15,360 --> 00:37:17,879
Speaker 7: room specifically, it's got the jacuzzie in the room.

702
00:37:18,560 --> 00:37:20,200
Speaker 3: I've blogged home, it's actually on YouTube.

703
00:37:20,360 --> 00:37:23,960
Speaker 6: So it was, dope, we need to do. What do

704
00:37:24,000 --> 00:37:25,279
Speaker 6: you thing a reaction video?

705
00:37:28,600 --> 00:37:31,120
Speaker 1: Getting into the lifestyle. How was that conversation and how

706
00:37:31,160 --> 00:37:32,719
Speaker 1: long have you been in it since being married?

707
00:37:33,400 --> 00:37:36,800
Speaker 5: So the part of the story I was about to

708
00:37:36,920 --> 00:37:42,560
Speaker 5: tell No, I did it the after we got engaged.

709
00:37:42,800 --> 00:37:47,520
Speaker 5: That night, we just I told him that, you know,

710
00:37:47,680 --> 00:37:54,600
Speaker 5: I'm attracted to women. I've had a threesome. I like,

711
00:37:56,160 --> 00:37:59,759
Speaker 5: infidelity is not an issue for me. It's honesty that is,

712
00:38:00,239 --> 00:38:04,440
Speaker 5: you know. So it's like if you traveling out on

713
00:38:04,560 --> 00:38:07,880
Speaker 5: the road, I'm not tripping, you know, just stay safe,

714
00:38:07,920 --> 00:38:10,680
Speaker 5: don't bring no shit home and keeping it. He was

715
00:38:10,760 --> 00:38:16,839
Speaker 5: like no to that, but yes to threesome and so yeah,

716
00:38:17,320 --> 00:38:21,600
Speaker 5: and fast forward, like we kept like touching on the

717
00:38:21,840 --> 00:38:26,040
Speaker 5: conversation for like the next five four or five years,

718
00:38:26,360 --> 00:38:34,919
Speaker 5: and then eventually we decided to try being open separate. Yeah,

719
00:38:35,200 --> 00:38:38,200
Speaker 5: and that was yeah, that was the beginning.

720
00:38:38,640 --> 00:38:42,959
Speaker 4: Yeah, I saw like, I like seeing the this part

721
00:38:43,520 --> 00:38:46,320
Speaker 4: of like the work that's being done, because this is

722
00:38:46,400 --> 00:38:48,640
Speaker 4: the fun part, right. People don't realize that there is

723
00:38:48,960 --> 00:38:52,800
Speaker 4: a plethora of like conversations and like situation that you

724
00:38:52,880 --> 00:38:54,920
Speaker 4: have to be in before you get to the partents

725
00:38:55,040 --> 00:38:57,359
Speaker 4: like oh, y'all look like y'all having a good time.

726
00:39:00,080 --> 00:39:02,000
Speaker 7: Though, the work had to be put in for anybody

727
00:39:02,120 --> 00:39:05,600
Speaker 7: watching and toil with the idea. If you're going through

728
00:39:05,840 --> 00:39:08,719
Speaker 7: something in your relationship, this isn't gonna save it without

729
00:39:08,760 --> 00:39:14,040
Speaker 7: putting the work of communication, transparency, vulnerability, fellas. If you

730
00:39:14,120 --> 00:39:17,200
Speaker 7: have a hard time expressing yourself emotionally or mentally or whatever,

731
00:39:17,719 --> 00:39:18,840
Speaker 7: this is not gonna help it.

732
00:39:19,000 --> 00:39:20,879
Speaker 3: You have to work through those hurdles first.

733
00:39:21,200 --> 00:39:23,120
Speaker 7: You have to be able to have a conversation without

734
00:39:23,160 --> 00:39:25,360
Speaker 7: getting mad to storming off, a punching the wall andything

735
00:39:25,440 --> 00:39:25,600
Speaker 7: like that.

736
00:39:25,920 --> 00:39:27,480
Speaker 3: You have to be not saying I punched the wall,

737
00:39:27,520 --> 00:39:29,480
Speaker 3: but I would walk off. I would walk off, And I.

738
00:39:29,560 --> 00:39:32,360
Speaker 7: Require to be ten dollars for the next three four days,

739
00:39:32,600 --> 00:39:34,080
Speaker 7: and you have to work through that shit before you

740
00:39:34,160 --> 00:39:36,920
Speaker 7: try to do something like this, because this requires.

741
00:39:37,280 --> 00:39:41,680
Speaker 3: So much case, so much trans so so much forthcoming.

742
00:39:41,760 --> 00:39:43,279
Speaker 7: You can't be like, oh, I'm just ain't gonna tell

743
00:39:43,280 --> 00:39:45,800
Speaker 7: her that, no, because if you finds out then it

744
00:39:45,880 --> 00:39:49,120
Speaker 7: puts everything else to risk. So it requires so much

745
00:39:49,600 --> 00:39:52,160
Speaker 7: talking and communication transports. You have to do the work

746
00:39:52,239 --> 00:39:54,279
Speaker 7: prior to getting to this, and then it's still gonna

747
00:39:54,320 --> 00:39:59,080
Speaker 7: be work to do. But the preliminary is essential for

748
00:39:59,520 --> 00:40:00,400
Speaker 7: this found foundation.

749
00:40:01,080 --> 00:40:03,600
Speaker 1: For this to work, you really have to have like

750
00:40:03,680 --> 00:40:06,239
Speaker 1: a great relationship. You have to yours has to be

751
00:40:06,320 --> 00:40:08,719
Speaker 1: in like pristine placement. You have to be like a

752
00:40:08,800 --> 00:40:11,600
Speaker 1: great point in your relationship. You really love each other,

753
00:40:12,080 --> 00:40:14,759
Speaker 1: everything's going great, and this is like huh, you know,

754
00:40:14,880 --> 00:40:17,840
Speaker 1: it's like there should be really no core issues and

755
00:40:17,960 --> 00:40:21,799
Speaker 1: trust and communication and vulnerability or else it probably won't work.

756
00:40:22,080 --> 00:40:24,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, you don't want to get into some ship and

757
00:40:24,640 --> 00:40:27,520
Speaker 4: then afterwards like you're tight, like or even if you are,

758
00:40:27,760 --> 00:40:28,960
Speaker 4: you want to know how to like work.

759
00:40:28,800 --> 00:40:33,360
Speaker 2: Through it and exactly situations. And I was tight and

760
00:40:33,560 --> 00:40:35,200
Speaker 2: that is not. Yeah, you.

761
00:40:37,680 --> 00:40:40,560
Speaker 3: Can't see I'm the whole.

762
00:40:40,520 --> 00:40:58,360
Speaker 8: Relationship I have real right, right, I can't it's.

763
00:40:58,440 --> 00:41:03,200
Speaker 2: Herited yeah, I'm through generational trauma.

764
00:41:03,880 --> 00:41:06,200
Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, that is still my.

765
00:41:07,840 --> 00:41:10,319
Speaker 7: Immediate go to is like, oh I feel a way

766
00:41:10,719 --> 00:41:16,000
Speaker 7: yeah yeah, oh yeah, And then it's like where, why from?

767
00:41:16,040 --> 00:41:18,560
Speaker 5: Why? Where is it coming from? And once I talk

768
00:41:18,719 --> 00:41:21,560
Speaker 5: myself through it, then all of a sudden, I'm sitting

769
00:41:21,640 --> 00:41:23,160
Speaker 5: there cool as hell, like.

770
00:41:23,280 --> 00:41:24,840
Speaker 3: Let me, but we still gotta have to talk about it.

771
00:41:25,239 --> 00:41:27,680
Speaker 5: But yeah, we don't talk about it. And that's another thing.

772
00:41:27,800 --> 00:41:29,400
Speaker 7: When I was like, you're still gonna be work to do,

773
00:41:30,120 --> 00:41:33,280
Speaker 7: Like when you have the fun nights or the trips

774
00:41:33,440 --> 00:41:38,240
Speaker 7: or anything like that, we always have a debrief afterwards.

775
00:41:38,440 --> 00:41:40,440
Speaker 3: Listen, and I don't forget. I'm like, yeah, yeah, yeah.

776
00:41:40,520 --> 00:41:45,719
Speaker 3: She was like, you're ready the brief? Oh yeah, what

777
00:41:45,840 --> 00:41:48,279
Speaker 3: did you like? You like? What would you change? All

778
00:41:48,320 --> 00:41:48,440
Speaker 3: of that?

779
00:41:48,760 --> 00:41:52,560
Speaker 7: And it feels very tedious at times, but it is

780
00:41:52,760 --> 00:41:56,520
Speaker 7: essential because if you don't use that time to really

781
00:41:56,640 --> 00:41:59,200
Speaker 7: voice your opinion about what you like, what you didn't like,

782
00:41:59,320 --> 00:42:01,520
Speaker 7: what you may I want to try again a way,

783
00:42:01,719 --> 00:42:03,759
Speaker 7: you need to have a couple more times before you

784
00:42:03,800 --> 00:42:06,800
Speaker 7: can make an honest opinion about how you felt about it.

785
00:42:07,320 --> 00:42:09,759
Speaker 3: Then you'll find yourself in a situation that you don't

786
00:42:09,760 --> 00:42:10,160
Speaker 3: want to be in.

787
00:42:10,360 --> 00:42:12,719
Speaker 7: Because you were honest and we're coming about that, and

788
00:42:12,840 --> 00:42:15,759
Speaker 7: you didn't take the opportunity to be more transparent about

789
00:42:15,760 --> 00:42:16,200
Speaker 7: like y'all.

790
00:42:16,160 --> 00:42:16,919
Speaker 3: Wasn't feeling this shit.

791
00:42:17,080 --> 00:42:18,279
Speaker 7: I don't like, I don't need to do this shit

792
00:42:18,360 --> 00:42:20,680
Speaker 7: no more. But now this person like all right, cool,

793
00:42:20,680 --> 00:42:24,279
Speaker 7: well we're gonna do it again next week. But that's

794
00:42:24,320 --> 00:42:26,080
Speaker 7: why you still have to do the work with Yeah,

795
00:42:26,280 --> 00:42:31,680
Speaker 7: until that same point, like even headed there to a

796
00:42:31,920 --> 00:42:35,279
Speaker 7: party a situation we were at recently, it was like,

797
00:42:37,120 --> 00:42:39,360
Speaker 7: what's yours?

798
00:42:39,600 --> 00:42:42,480
Speaker 5: What scenarios do you want to see? What do you

799
00:42:42,600 --> 00:42:46,200
Speaker 5: want to experience? What are your expectations? We talked about

800
00:42:46,239 --> 00:42:50,560
Speaker 5: that on the way there, So it's like just asking

801
00:42:50,680 --> 00:42:53,239
Speaker 5: all the questions. Don't sit there just thinking about it,

802
00:42:53,239 --> 00:42:56,600
Speaker 5: and if you got questions, you asking yourself, ask your

803
00:42:56,680 --> 00:42:59,799
Speaker 5: partner be so that you know and open that communication.

804
00:43:00,760 --> 00:43:02,239
Speaker 7: I didn't even think about that, but like you made

805
00:43:02,239 --> 00:43:04,799
Speaker 7: a good point about like hit it there, because how

806
00:43:04,840 --> 00:43:06,799
Speaker 7: I say, I'm like, yeah, I think maybe I want

807
00:43:06,840 --> 00:43:10,719
Speaker 7: to try to experience maybe this, and that might be

808
00:43:10,800 --> 00:43:12,600
Speaker 7: something where I might be a little more reluctant to

809
00:43:13,480 --> 00:43:16,320
Speaker 7: you know, try to find somebody or whatever.

810
00:43:16,480 --> 00:43:18,560
Speaker 3: But you know, women have a.

811
00:43:18,719 --> 00:43:23,960
Speaker 7: Keen system may so like, if I'm honest about what

812
00:43:24,080 --> 00:43:27,040
Speaker 7: I may want to try something like which is still difficult.

813
00:43:26,560 --> 00:43:29,040
Speaker 3: For me even at my big age, and still be like,

814
00:43:34,680 --> 00:43:42,600
Speaker 3: I got it, face weird? Is that weird? Like it's

815
00:43:42,600 --> 00:43:45,400
Speaker 3: not fucking weird. Let's do it and then they'll find somebody.

816
00:43:45,920 --> 00:43:48,360
Speaker 7: But if I don't say that, if I'm not forthcoming,

817
00:43:48,760 --> 00:43:51,120
Speaker 7: then she won't know how to help me in that

818
00:43:51,200 --> 00:43:55,239
Speaker 7: situation and vice versa. So yeah, it's very important to

819
00:43:55,239 --> 00:43:56,800
Speaker 7: have those conversations, but I still get nervous.

820
00:43:57,560 --> 00:43:58,320
Speaker 2: Well, most of us have.

821
00:43:58,800 --> 00:44:00,600
Speaker 1: Most of us haven't been given in the space to

822
00:44:00,680 --> 00:44:05,000
Speaker 1: a talk about sex, be to be forthright about our

823
00:44:05,040 --> 00:44:08,040
Speaker 1: fantasies and our kinks and then say them aloud, especially

824
00:44:08,160 --> 00:44:11,880
Speaker 1: being women, especially like you could be a freak privately, right,

825
00:44:11,960 --> 00:44:13,120
Speaker 1: but you're not supposed to be a freak with the

826
00:44:13,160 --> 00:44:15,480
Speaker 1: person that you're married to or that you that you like,

827
00:44:15,640 --> 00:44:18,920
Speaker 1: which is absolutely ridiculous. Or we all do like have

828
00:44:19,040 --> 00:44:21,879
Speaker 1: this idea that like even masturbation or whatever you type

829
00:44:21,920 --> 00:44:24,800
Speaker 1: in on your porn category is something private and shameful,

830
00:44:25,200 --> 00:44:27,160
Speaker 1: and so if you can't come up out of that shame,

831
00:44:27,520 --> 00:44:29,920
Speaker 1: you're never going to say the thing. But all these

832
00:44:30,000 --> 00:44:33,279
Speaker 1: things are fucking necessary and essential if you want to

833
00:44:33,760 --> 00:44:36,920
Speaker 1: basically like maximize your pleasure in this lifetime and be

834
00:44:37,040 --> 00:44:41,320
Speaker 1: in a partnered space, because if not, you are signing

835
00:44:41,400 --> 00:44:44,240
Speaker 1: up to be with a partner who is not also

836
00:44:44,360 --> 00:44:47,080
Speaker 1: committing to your pleasure, you know. And if there are

837
00:44:47,200 --> 00:44:50,000
Speaker 1: things that you want to continue to experience throughout your

838
00:44:50,040 --> 00:44:53,359
Speaker 1: fucking sexual lifetime, you're gonna have to share that shit

839
00:44:53,719 --> 00:44:55,279
Speaker 1: or else it's gonna be a surprise. Then you're gonna

840
00:44:55,320 --> 00:44:57,040
Speaker 1: get you know, you're gonna cheat and all these other things.

841
00:44:57,080 --> 00:44:58,560
Speaker 1: And this is what happens to people is they don't

842
00:44:58,560 --> 00:45:01,359
Speaker 1: say who the fuck they are, like this nasty ship, Hey,

843
00:45:01,400 --> 00:45:03,000
Speaker 1: I like this, Hey I want to role play this,

844
00:45:03,480 --> 00:45:06,440
Speaker 1: And then you're secretly going to do it and len secrecy.

845
00:45:06,960 --> 00:45:08,800
Speaker 1: But then it doesn't really then you get caught and

846
00:45:08,880 --> 00:45:10,200
Speaker 1: you're like, who the fuck are you?

847
00:45:11,360 --> 00:45:15,359
Speaker 3: It wasn't easy way, Yeah, Like a couple of things.

848
00:45:15,360 --> 00:45:16,839
Speaker 3: I was eleven person, say the thing.

849
00:45:17,120 --> 00:45:19,320
Speaker 7: It's a video that people are using the intro of

850
00:45:19,840 --> 00:45:21,359
Speaker 7: and it's a white shit shed like say the thing

851
00:45:22,000 --> 00:45:25,600
Speaker 7: to say, right, you said, say the thing?

852
00:45:25,680 --> 00:45:28,520
Speaker 3: I was like, use the fucking search on porn sites.

853
00:45:28,960 --> 00:45:33,680
Speaker 3: It makes it so much easier. This is POV creamy

854
00:45:34,239 --> 00:45:34,759
Speaker 3: b b W.

855
00:45:36,360 --> 00:45:37,640
Speaker 5: Always use the search.

856
00:45:38,000 --> 00:45:43,920
Speaker 3: I just go through the fucking thing automated specific thing like.

857
00:45:44,000 --> 00:45:46,280
Speaker 2: One one thing that comes up from the search specific.

858
00:45:46,560 --> 00:45:51,360
Speaker 3: I go down to like the quality of the video

859
00:45:51,680 --> 00:45:53,920
Speaker 3: and the lift of it. So I utilize the space bar.

860
00:45:54,040 --> 00:45:57,240
Speaker 3: Then I use the sub category. I am very efficient

861
00:45:57,280 --> 00:45:57,520
Speaker 3: with you.

862
00:45:57,600 --> 00:45:58,480
Speaker 6: Are cultured man.

863
00:46:00,560 --> 00:46:02,440
Speaker 7: When she was talking and she was also like, uh,

864
00:46:02,760 --> 00:46:04,920
Speaker 7: then you end up cheating and you get called you

865
00:46:05,040 --> 00:46:08,160
Speaker 7: feel bad like, but also you you potentially miss the

866
00:46:08,400 --> 00:46:12,480
Speaker 7: easier route for doing something like like I said, I

867
00:46:12,600 --> 00:46:13,120
Speaker 7: a p O V.

868
00:46:13,520 --> 00:46:16,000
Speaker 3: I like creamy, and I like it when it's a

869
00:46:16,120 --> 00:46:17,560
Speaker 3: super duper mess down there.

870
00:46:17,800 --> 00:46:21,040
Speaker 7: And then I said this to her because you know,

871
00:46:21,120 --> 00:46:23,400
Speaker 7: every every every every woman is different than what their

872
00:46:23,440 --> 00:46:24,719
Speaker 7: body produces and things like that.

873
00:46:25,280 --> 00:46:26,920
Speaker 3: So she was like, oh, we can just find some

874
00:46:27,080 --> 00:46:28,959
Speaker 3: loop that does and I was like, wait, there's loop

875
00:46:29,000 --> 00:46:29,480
Speaker 3: that does that.

876
00:46:30,040 --> 00:46:34,160
Speaker 7: There's just something now it's not like, oh, man, I

877
00:46:34,239 --> 00:46:37,239
Speaker 7: gotta find somebody that's creamy the potentially play with and

878
00:46:37,360 --> 00:46:38,239
Speaker 7: now that's a weird question.

879
00:46:38,400 --> 00:46:43,520
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, so you so. But like it's such an

880
00:46:43,560 --> 00:46:45,319
Speaker 3: easy figure. Sometimes it just it just.

881
00:46:45,440 --> 00:46:48,239
Speaker 7: Takes like being open and honest and transparent about what

882
00:46:48,440 --> 00:46:51,160
Speaker 7: you like, what are your kinks and the helps? But

883
00:46:51,520 --> 00:46:54,360
Speaker 7: also be careful because I've heard that that does it

884
00:46:54,440 --> 00:46:55,359
Speaker 7: can throw your pH off.

885
00:46:55,440 --> 00:47:00,920
Speaker 3: So just it's an extra greety in that, so be

886
00:47:01,000 --> 00:47:01,440
Speaker 3: careful with that.

887
00:47:02,080 --> 00:47:03,600
Speaker 2: And also I think a lot.

888
00:47:03,480 --> 00:47:07,000
Speaker 1: Of men are not willing to be the wingman for

889
00:47:07,080 --> 00:47:09,680
Speaker 1: their women to like a lot and even a lot

890
00:47:09,719 --> 00:47:13,320
Speaker 1: of women have the idea that if my man aids

891
00:47:13,400 --> 00:47:15,400
Speaker 1: me in this kink, then he doesn't respect me or

892
00:47:15,440 --> 00:47:17,640
Speaker 1: love me, you know what I mean. There's an idea too.

893
00:47:17,719 --> 00:47:19,359
Speaker 1: It's like, are do you love me? If you're willing

894
00:47:19,480 --> 00:47:21,000
Speaker 1: to like participate in this book?

895
00:47:21,320 --> 00:47:22,719
Speaker 5: You know what a man?

896
00:47:23,120 --> 00:47:23,719
Speaker 2: You share me?

897
00:47:23,880 --> 00:47:26,120
Speaker 5: Even though I ask for it, but you know what

898
00:47:26,320 --> 00:47:31,440
Speaker 5: to your point about ship, I lost it?

899
00:47:32,280 --> 00:47:36,640
Speaker 3: Aid me? Do you still love me? If does this

900
00:47:36,760 --> 00:47:37,160
Speaker 3: man love me?

901
00:47:37,239 --> 00:47:41,200
Speaker 5: If he's aid oh yes, you were talking about your

902
00:47:42,160 --> 00:47:45,920
Speaker 5: just people focusing on their own pleasure, And what was

903
00:47:45,960 --> 00:47:48,640
Speaker 5: going through my head is like, don't you also want

904
00:47:48,680 --> 00:47:52,840
Speaker 5: to please your partner? So it's like I get pleasure

905
00:47:52,960 --> 00:47:56,279
Speaker 5: from from pleasing him, and so it's like, what can

906
00:47:56,360 --> 00:48:02,400
Speaker 5: I do to to basically serve towards your happiness? Like

907
00:48:02,560 --> 00:48:07,000
Speaker 5: how and if that's something? And I ain't tripping about it.

908
00:48:07,080 --> 00:48:09,840
Speaker 5: It's like, let's do it. That's all you gotta do

909
00:48:10,000 --> 00:48:12,880
Speaker 5: is communicate to me, point them out to tell me

910
00:48:13,280 --> 00:48:13,719
Speaker 5: I'm good.

911
00:48:14,360 --> 00:48:19,280
Speaker 1: So yeah, And there's something super beautiful and like honestly

912
00:48:19,440 --> 00:48:25,000
Speaker 1: like frequency changing when you can, like when you can

913
00:48:25,239 --> 00:48:28,880
Speaker 1: participate in experience pleasure with your partner's aid and then

914
00:48:28,960 --> 00:48:31,840
Speaker 1: go home together and talk about it and sharing it

915
00:48:32,160 --> 00:48:33,759
Speaker 1: and then be like you trust me and I trust

916
00:48:33,800 --> 00:48:36,480
Speaker 1: you with the bomb we did that, You get right,

917
00:48:36,800 --> 00:48:37,279
Speaker 1: like I can't.

918
00:48:37,880 --> 00:48:44,880
Speaker 2: We don't have to cheat because you were there. High five.

919
00:48:46,400 --> 00:48:48,719
Speaker 3: That you car you and your partner on that level.

920
00:48:48,800 --> 00:48:52,640
Speaker 7: Like we were in Vegas one time for coincidentally another

921
00:48:52,920 --> 00:48:55,160
Speaker 7: one of my it was my twin high school reunions

922
00:48:55,680 --> 00:48:57,480
Speaker 7: and we're at a pool party. You know, we had

923
00:48:57,520 --> 00:49:00,440
Speaker 7: got a cabana, me and a couple of my former

924
00:49:00,520 --> 00:49:02,399
Speaker 7: classmateson and friends there.

925
00:49:02,520 --> 00:49:05,000
Speaker 3: So me and Fair and her just being us. This

926
00:49:05,160 --> 00:49:07,600
Speaker 3: chick walks up to me she was like your white brother.

927
00:49:08,040 --> 00:49:10,360
Speaker 3: I was like, yeah, that's right there. She was like

928
00:49:12,040 --> 00:49:16,200
Speaker 3: that was a lifestyle. I had never had contact with

929
00:49:16,239 --> 00:49:19,560
Speaker 3: the chick before, and I was like, what makes you

930
00:49:19,600 --> 00:49:21,160
Speaker 3: say that? She was like, y'all just got energy, like

931
00:49:21,239 --> 00:49:22,600
Speaker 3: y'all this whole party.

932
00:49:25,440 --> 00:49:26,320
Speaker 2: But you know what it was.

933
00:49:26,440 --> 00:49:30,000
Speaker 7: I think it was us walking like together and like

934
00:49:31,160 --> 00:49:33,280
Speaker 7: kind of chatting and scoping.

935
00:49:32,880 --> 00:49:36,120
Speaker 2: Out the whole the whole crowd.

936
00:49:37,080 --> 00:49:42,239
Speaker 5: Yes, came in straight, a little predatory now that I

937
00:49:42,280 --> 00:49:44,520
Speaker 5: think about it, but it came in straight, like.

938
00:49:45,760 --> 00:49:46,759
Speaker 6: I ain't scene people.

939
00:49:48,280 --> 00:49:50,920
Speaker 3: We got this motherfucker sweet. Listen, we're trying to have

940
00:49:51,040 --> 00:49:53,760
Speaker 3: a real Vegas weekend. Vegas.

941
00:49:56,719 --> 00:50:00,520
Speaker 2: My mother time, Vegas is org.

942
00:50:05,239 --> 00:50:06,800
Speaker 3: I will saying Vegas.

943
00:50:09,640 --> 00:50:14,799
Speaker 5: If you see all four, all four of us in Vegas, Yeah,

944
00:50:14,840 --> 00:50:15,719
Speaker 5: that's the world.

945
00:50:20,760 --> 00:50:21,360
Speaker 3: We traveled.

946
00:50:23,320 --> 00:50:25,600
Speaker 5: Was it that the same trip? We actually did have

947
00:50:25,760 --> 00:50:29,840
Speaker 5: a We had a situation we met up with with

948
00:50:30,040 --> 00:50:31,960
Speaker 5: someone in Vegas during that trip.

949
00:50:33,680 --> 00:50:34,000
Speaker 3: Vegas.

950
00:50:34,640 --> 00:50:37,040
Speaker 7: We listen and we were like check to the Yeah,

951
00:50:37,080 --> 00:50:39,840
Speaker 7: we stopped, we drove in, stopped at the liquor store.

952
00:50:40,000 --> 00:50:42,000
Speaker 7: We had one of my homeboys and his wife rode

953
00:50:42,040 --> 00:50:44,279
Speaker 7: with us, like boom, we're gonna drop y' all here,

954
00:50:44,320 --> 00:50:46,840
Speaker 7: we gotta go take this business room together.

955
00:50:47,600 --> 00:50:49,240
Speaker 3: We fucking chicked.

956
00:50:49,320 --> 00:50:52,040
Speaker 7: It was a little bug because, like people had asked

957
00:50:52,080 --> 00:50:54,799
Speaker 7: for this trip and not as many people came.

958
00:50:54,840 --> 00:50:56,760
Speaker 3: But it was a perfect fucking amount.

959
00:50:57,560 --> 00:50:58,200
Speaker 6: That's what it is.

960
00:50:58,600 --> 00:51:00,080
Speaker 3: Perfect amount we ain't.

961
00:50:59,880 --> 00:51:02,200
Speaker 7: Do you know what I'm saying, Like we kept business pleasures,

962
00:51:02,400 --> 00:51:04,000
Speaker 7: but it was like when we were partying with him,

963
00:51:04,040 --> 00:51:06,239
Speaker 7: it was great, and then we went to the.

964
00:51:06,200 --> 00:51:11,200
Speaker 3: Bag and it was like it was like, where did

965
00:51:11,200 --> 00:51:12,680
Speaker 3: you get that role from? I always eded on.

966
00:51:20,000 --> 00:51:23,560
Speaker 2: Y envision.

967
00:51:23,640 --> 00:51:25,880
Speaker 6: It's got to be.

968
00:51:26,440 --> 00:51:32,040
Speaker 3: It was crazy, Yeah, crazy kicked it like we did.

969
00:51:32,760 --> 00:51:33,040
Speaker 3: I was.

970
00:51:34,280 --> 00:51:37,600
Speaker 4: I will say one thing that's really uh got us

971
00:51:37,719 --> 00:51:39,960
Speaker 4: like into the groove of like our communication and things,

972
00:51:40,120 --> 00:51:40,880
Speaker 4: just like the practice.

973
00:51:41,480 --> 00:51:45,080
Speaker 6: What was I just about to say? I just had it.

974
00:51:46,719 --> 00:51:49,960
Speaker 3: Back for a second, I'm sayings.

975
00:51:50,280 --> 00:51:51,880
Speaker 4: The point the point of me saying this in the

976
00:51:51,920 --> 00:51:54,560
Speaker 4: communication is like it's so healing doing all of this

977
00:51:54,680 --> 00:51:57,120
Speaker 4: and the communication and being honest even with all the

978
00:51:57,200 --> 00:52:03,640
Speaker 4: sexual things happening. Because for me, when my uh my

979
00:52:03,800 --> 00:52:07,200
Speaker 4: dad was married, when he started talking to my mom

980
00:52:07,239 --> 00:52:09,239
Speaker 4: and then had me, so I was a child of

981
00:52:09,400 --> 00:52:10,240
Speaker 4: like out of wedlock.

982
00:52:11,239 --> 00:52:11,680
Speaker 6: Is that what it is?

983
00:52:14,080 --> 00:52:16,080
Speaker 4: The point is there was so much lying and cheating

984
00:52:16,160 --> 00:52:20,160
Speaker 4: going on in my youth that now honesty is what

985
00:52:20,280 --> 00:52:23,040
Speaker 4: turns me on. And so like when you when we

986
00:52:23,120 --> 00:52:24,920
Speaker 4: were talking about like having this kind of relationship and

987
00:52:24,960 --> 00:52:28,200
Speaker 4: having this kind of communication when we're so honest with

988
00:52:28,320 --> 00:52:30,600
Speaker 4: each other. That's where I get the compersion from. So

989
00:52:30,680 --> 00:52:33,120
Speaker 4: there's no need for the lying or like the sneakiness

990
00:52:33,320 --> 00:52:36,040
Speaker 4: or when you're saying like infidelity doesn't get you, doesn't

991
00:52:36,040 --> 00:52:36,239
Speaker 4: get you.

992
00:52:36,360 --> 00:52:37,399
Speaker 6: It's honesty that does.

993
00:52:38,120 --> 00:52:40,040
Speaker 4: When you When we're being so honest with each other

994
00:52:40,400 --> 00:52:42,719
Speaker 4: and forthcoming and then honest right in front of each

995
00:52:42,719 --> 00:52:45,600
Speaker 4: other's face, that's what like really turns me on and

996
00:52:45,640 --> 00:52:49,200
Speaker 4: gets me going. So like this MMF when she's like, well,

997
00:52:49,920 --> 00:52:53,239
Speaker 4: I think something can happen tonight, and I'm like, what

998
00:52:53,480 --> 00:52:54,040
Speaker 4: can happen?

999
00:52:55,520 --> 00:52:56,560
Speaker 3: Say it out loud?

1000
00:52:58,120 --> 00:53:01,200
Speaker 5: She was like, just what do you want?

1001
00:53:03,440 --> 00:53:13,680
Speaker 3: Like I was thinking of with everything out her me,

1002
00:53:14,600 --> 00:53:15,080
Speaker 3: I'm you.

1003
00:53:16,000 --> 00:53:19,520
Speaker 7: With other people, I can be like I'm the person,

1004
00:53:19,600 --> 00:53:21,680
Speaker 7: but with her, like and this, this just kind of

1005
00:53:21,760 --> 00:53:25,280
Speaker 7: goes back to like even before we were in the space,

1006
00:53:25,520 --> 00:53:28,040
Speaker 7: like my idea of marriage, it was basically like.

1007
00:53:28,520 --> 00:53:31,320
Speaker 3: Happy wife, happy life. And she hated that ship. She

1008
00:53:31,480 --> 00:53:33,320
Speaker 3: hate that ship, and my thing is like, hey, I

1009
00:53:33,440 --> 00:53:34,479
Speaker 3: just want my wife to be happy.

1010
00:53:34,520 --> 00:53:36,640
Speaker 7: So just dude, you know, I just go along with it,

1011
00:53:37,200 --> 00:53:41,719
Speaker 7: and uh, the road switch almost like she I let

1012
00:53:41,800 --> 00:53:43,640
Speaker 7: her be dominant because I was I just like, I

1013
00:53:43,719 --> 00:53:46,160
Speaker 7: don't want no problem at the crib. I just want

1014
00:53:46,160 --> 00:53:47,360
Speaker 7: to be able to go to fuck to sleep with

1015
00:53:47,440 --> 00:53:49,560
Speaker 7: everybody already go to funk to sleep, like I don't

1016
00:53:49,600 --> 00:53:53,400
Speaker 7: want no now outside the world and fuck you, fuck you,

1017
00:53:54,000 --> 00:53:57,920
Speaker 7: but at home, I don't want to like this my

1018
00:53:58,080 --> 00:54:01,120
Speaker 7: life partner. And so like it's still is taking something

1019
00:54:01,120 --> 00:54:02,800
Speaker 7: like That's why I said, like sometimes it's still like

1020
00:54:03,280 --> 00:54:04,640
Speaker 7: kind of like awkward with me saying you know, I.

1021
00:54:04,680 --> 00:54:07,239
Speaker 3: Just want somebody sit on my face, you know what

1022
00:54:07,280 --> 00:54:08,799
Speaker 3: I'm saying real quick before I leave.

1023
00:54:10,960 --> 00:54:14,080
Speaker 7: Yeah, it's still like there's those moments when I still

1024
00:54:14,160 --> 00:54:16,160
Speaker 7: struggle with with that.

1025
00:54:16,520 --> 00:54:19,160
Speaker 3: So it's good to see that it could it could

1026
00:54:19,200 --> 00:54:22,160
Speaker 3: still be both sides and the Yeah, I'm not the

1027
00:54:22,239 --> 00:54:23,320
Speaker 3: only one in that situation.

1028
00:54:23,400 --> 00:54:25,680
Speaker 4: That situation, Yeah, and it gets kind of fun and

1029
00:54:25,840 --> 00:54:28,920
Speaker 4: like in a very masculine dominant type of way because

1030
00:54:29,080 --> 00:54:31,440
Speaker 4: then when you're the facilitator and controller of it all.

1031
00:54:31,680 --> 00:54:34,879
Speaker 6: And really I just took the reins because right here,

1032
00:54:35,080 --> 00:54:36,600
Speaker 6: this one right here is so scary.

1033
00:54:36,520 --> 00:54:37,200
Speaker 3: With the m m F.

1034
00:54:38,320 --> 00:54:40,480
Speaker 4: She's like, I don't I'm like, if you don't go

1035
00:54:41,000 --> 00:54:43,319
Speaker 4: just take a shot into killing and spinning in his mouth,

1036
00:54:44,800 --> 00:54:47,080
Speaker 4: I'm gonna come over there with you, right so I'm

1037
00:54:47,160 --> 00:54:47,879
Speaker 4: laying there with another girl.

1038
00:54:47,960 --> 00:54:49,239
Speaker 2: She's come over there with you.

1039
00:54:49,400 --> 00:54:50,960
Speaker 6: I didn't say it in my head. I'm like, I'm

1040
00:54:51,040 --> 00:54:51,719
Speaker 6: come over there with you?

1041
00:54:51,800 --> 00:54:51,920
Speaker 3: Right.

1042
00:54:52,120 --> 00:54:53,560
Speaker 4: So he was over there, and I brought the little

1043
00:54:53,600 --> 00:54:55,799
Speaker 4: other girl out that was there, and we were sitting

1044
00:54:55,800 --> 00:54:57,759
Speaker 4: next to each other, me and her, countling, and then

1045
00:54:57,840 --> 00:54:59,919
Speaker 4: I gave like meal as space, because you know, she tiny.

1046
00:55:00,040 --> 00:55:01,800
Speaker 4: I give a space of like coming, and she just

1047
00:55:02,000 --> 00:55:04,120
Speaker 4: does the it takes a shot and it spits in

1048
00:55:04,160 --> 00:55:05,120
Speaker 4: his mouth and makes out with him.

1049
00:55:05,160 --> 00:55:10,800
Speaker 6: I'm like, here you go. I need I told you

1050
00:55:10,960 --> 00:55:11,960
Speaker 6: she could do it. I need she could do it.

1051
00:55:13,200 --> 00:55:13,960
Speaker 7: So proud of it?

1052
00:55:14,239 --> 00:55:14,759
Speaker 2: All right?

1053
00:55:15,120 --> 00:55:17,840
Speaker 1: Oh well, because there's still the nervousness even to what

1054
00:55:17,960 --> 00:55:20,120
Speaker 1: you said far And it's like with all of these

1055
00:55:20,200 --> 00:55:22,719
Speaker 1: with all these conversations that most of us have never had,

1056
00:55:22,760 --> 00:55:25,480
Speaker 1: because you've never you've never seen it. It's like there's

1057
00:55:25,560 --> 00:55:28,000
Speaker 1: always going to be this programming that comes up and

1058
00:55:28,080 --> 00:55:29,640
Speaker 1: you like, go off, kill him.

1059
00:55:29,719 --> 00:55:31,200
Speaker 2: He wants to be with her, you know what I mean.

1060
00:55:31,280 --> 00:55:33,879
Speaker 1: Like there's these these little like voices in your head

1061
00:55:33,960 --> 00:55:36,279
Speaker 1: like do not you know, like he doesn't really mean that,

1062
00:55:36,440 --> 00:55:37,080
Speaker 1: you know what I mean?

1063
00:55:37,480 --> 00:55:39,759
Speaker 2: So you have to actively be like Okay, do I

1064
00:55:39,880 --> 00:55:40,400
Speaker 2: care about this?

1065
00:55:41,239 --> 00:55:41,480
Speaker 5: Does this?

1066
00:55:41,680 --> 00:55:42,400
Speaker 2: Does this mean we.

1067
00:55:42,400 --> 00:55:43,839
Speaker 1: Don't love each other? Does this mean we're not gonna

1068
00:55:43,880 --> 00:55:45,399
Speaker 1: be together? Does this mean we're not right?

1069
00:55:45,760 --> 00:55:47,440
Speaker 2: What do these things actually mean?

1070
00:55:47,880 --> 00:55:50,120
Speaker 7: Let me ask you this, because that brings a good point,

1071
00:55:50,280 --> 00:55:53,200
Speaker 7: Like in that moment when you're in that moment, like

1072
00:55:53,280 --> 00:55:55,720
Speaker 7: if he was right here with someone and he's talking

1073
00:55:55,800 --> 00:56:00,480
Speaker 7: that ship like it's so good whatever, and you're earshot

1074
00:56:00,640 --> 00:56:03,200
Speaker 7: or close and he did like reaches back like like

1075
00:56:03,480 --> 00:56:06,400
Speaker 7: just that touch. Is that reassuring enough? Or do you

1076
00:56:07,360 --> 00:56:09,719
Speaker 7: you have to work that through on your own in

1077
00:56:09,840 --> 00:56:12,399
Speaker 7: your own head, or can that touch be well?

1078
00:56:13,760 --> 00:56:17,360
Speaker 1: I mean, I appreciate a reassuring touch always, but I

1079
00:56:17,480 --> 00:56:20,120
Speaker 1: do think that if we're that far in it, at that.

1080
00:56:20,200 --> 00:56:24,520
Speaker 2: Point, I've already like gone, I've already gone through the thoughts.

1081
00:56:24,719 --> 00:56:26,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, but like I said, I've been We've

1082
00:56:26,360 --> 00:56:29,279
Speaker 1: been in positions where things have got popping and I've

1083
00:56:29,360 --> 00:56:31,680
Speaker 1: changed my mind and I didn't say anything. I mean

1084
00:56:31,719 --> 00:56:34,760
Speaker 1: I did say something, but like I didn't leave the situation,

1085
00:56:35,160 --> 00:56:37,799
Speaker 1: and like I had to like really come to terms

1086
00:56:37,880 --> 00:56:40,120
Speaker 1: with my with with me and me. And that's really

1087
00:56:40,160 --> 00:56:42,319
Speaker 1: what people fail to realize. It's like at the end

1088
00:56:42,360 --> 00:56:44,360
Speaker 1: of the day, what is your dialogue with yourself? And

1089
00:56:44,440 --> 00:56:46,239
Speaker 1: most of us are not in dialogue with their self

1090
00:56:46,400 --> 00:56:50,200
Speaker 1: enough to really work through all of the things because

1091
00:56:50,320 --> 00:56:52,000
Speaker 1: most of the issue is not with someone else.

1092
00:56:52,120 --> 00:56:54,480
Speaker 2: The issues are you, Yeah, what is it that you

1093
00:56:54,520 --> 00:56:55,279
Speaker 2: think is going to happen?

1094
00:56:55,360 --> 00:56:58,440
Speaker 1: And generally in situations lifestyle situations, when you're opening your

1095
00:56:58,440 --> 00:57:00,759
Speaker 1: relationship up in any capacity that they're there or not,

1096
00:57:00,880 --> 00:57:03,880
Speaker 1: it's like, is this person gonna leave me? That's literally

1097
00:57:04,040 --> 00:57:07,239
Speaker 1: usually the bottom, the bottom basis of the fear. Are

1098
00:57:07,280 --> 00:57:09,120
Speaker 1: you gonna fall in love with this new pissy so

1099
00:57:09,280 --> 00:57:11,160
Speaker 1: much and you're gonna be fucking me thinking about this

1100
00:57:11,280 --> 00:57:13,640
Speaker 1: new bitch? And so most people just close that door

1101
00:57:13,680 --> 00:57:15,640
Speaker 1: immediately and say that's not even gonna be an option,

1102
00:57:16,080 --> 00:57:17,560
Speaker 1: that you ain't getting no other pussy.

1103
00:57:17,720 --> 00:57:23,240
Speaker 7: But I feel so much stronger and secure in our

1104
00:57:23,320 --> 00:57:30,280
Speaker 7: relationship because I can I can see that and still

1105
00:57:30,480 --> 00:57:35,280
Speaker 7: know that we're good. I know my husband and I

1106
00:57:35,520 --> 00:57:39,040
Speaker 7: know he ain't going nowhere, So it's like this is

1107
00:57:39,160 --> 00:57:41,760
Speaker 7: just something that makes him happy, like shit ride the

1108
00:57:41,880 --> 00:57:44,120
Speaker 7: roller coaster, Like is he gonna leave me for the

1109
00:57:44,160 --> 00:57:45,000
Speaker 7: fucking roller coaster?

1110
00:57:46,640 --> 00:57:47,000
Speaker 3: Real quick?

1111
00:57:47,040 --> 00:57:48,920
Speaker 7: And for the people that might be watching it like girl,

1112
00:57:48,960 --> 00:57:53,200
Speaker 7: you don't know that, yes she did, do let me

1113
00:58:00,160 --> 00:58:01,240
Speaker 7: find another her.

1114
00:58:01,800 --> 00:58:05,880
Speaker 3: I don't want to. I don't have any fucking inclination to.

1115
00:58:06,480 --> 00:58:09,880
Speaker 7: That will never be another her, and that seat will

1116
00:58:09,960 --> 00:58:12,920
Speaker 7: never be feeling for any reason it didn't work out.

1117
00:58:13,360 --> 00:58:15,640
Speaker 7: Be on the fucking lookout because I'm on the proud

1118
00:58:15,760 --> 00:58:20,320
Speaker 7: I will never fucking settle down again. A no redudes,

1119
00:58:20,880 --> 00:58:24,400
Speaker 7: there'll no Unlet's this time to be different, and none

1120
00:58:24,440 --> 00:58:28,840
Speaker 7: of that ship going down. It's her or bus. So

1121
00:58:28,880 --> 00:58:31,240
Speaker 7: if I me and you think I'm gonna take no,

1122
00:58:31,720 --> 00:58:34,760
Speaker 7: the fuck you're not. You're never going to.

1123
00:58:35,280 --> 00:58:36,280
Speaker 3: It's not what I want.

1124
00:58:36,440 --> 00:58:38,960
Speaker 7: I don't give a fuck about nobody's birthday, don't give

1125
00:58:38,960 --> 00:58:41,440
Speaker 7: a fuck about another favorite color. I'm not interested in

1126
00:58:41,520 --> 00:58:44,000
Speaker 7: meeting your fans, of your family. I'm not doing any

1127
00:58:44,080 --> 00:58:46,240
Speaker 7: of that ship ever fucking again.

1128
00:58:46,800 --> 00:58:47,800
Speaker 3: I have a family.

1129
00:58:48,440 --> 00:58:50,520
Speaker 7: I know her favorite color, I know what she likes.

1130
00:58:50,680 --> 00:58:53,920
Speaker 7: It took years to get this. I'm not starting for

1131
00:58:54,000 --> 00:58:56,640
Speaker 7: fucking again ever again.

1132
00:58:57,000 --> 00:58:57,919
Speaker 3: It will never happen.

1133
00:58:58,520 --> 00:59:02,320
Speaker 4: Just so y'all know y parallel conversation and you know

1134
00:59:02,440 --> 00:59:05,040
Speaker 4: the funny thing about reassurance. I give reassurance like an

1135
00:59:05,040 --> 00:59:07,200
Speaker 4: annoyed Jamaican man. Right, It's like, if you don't get

1136
00:59:07,240 --> 00:59:08,480
Speaker 4: the funk out of my face and go over there

1137
00:59:08,480 --> 00:59:09,760
Speaker 4: and suck that, they can leave me alone.

1138
00:59:11,160 --> 00:59:12,160
Speaker 5: Yeah, you don't have that.

1139
00:59:12,280 --> 00:59:15,400
Speaker 4: And then if you've been talking about month leave me alone,

1140
00:59:15,560 --> 00:59:17,440
Speaker 4: go fuck him. If you're gonna go Actually, if you're

1141
00:59:17,440 --> 00:59:19,320
Speaker 4: gonna go, do it. Your teams say about go and

1142
00:59:19,440 --> 00:59:19,720
Speaker 4: go do it.

1143
00:59:20,360 --> 00:59:21,040
Speaker 3: Don't have to do it.

1144
00:59:21,240 --> 00:59:22,680
Speaker 4: You've been talking about the ship, go ahead, let me

1145
00:59:22,680 --> 00:59:23,360
Speaker 4: see if you're gonna do it.

1146
00:59:23,440 --> 00:59:41,200
Speaker 6: I get that's my right, and so I guess ship's bad.

1147
00:59:41,600 --> 00:59:42,360
Speaker 5: She really thought it.

1148
00:59:42,640 --> 00:59:43,360
Speaker 6: I'll talk too much.

1149
00:59:43,640 --> 00:59:46,040
Speaker 3: Now, look at her monster.

1150
00:59:47,480 --> 00:59:49,960
Speaker 4: I really did make a monster too, because afterwards she

1151
00:59:50,000 --> 00:59:52,320
Speaker 4: started to starting to get like out of her mind

1152
00:59:52,360 --> 00:59:54,680
Speaker 4: and she was like, you know, there was somebody else.

1153
00:59:54,720 --> 00:59:55,200
Speaker 6: I was like, hold on.

1154
00:59:58,920 --> 01:00:01,080
Speaker 5: She was like, let's you do this one.

1155
01:00:02,640 --> 01:00:03,080
Speaker 3: Person.

1156
01:00:09,040 --> 01:00:10,720
Speaker 6: But there's a lot of fun.

1157
01:00:10,920 --> 01:00:13,360
Speaker 4: And going back to what you were saying about happy wife,

1158
01:00:13,360 --> 01:00:15,640
Speaker 4: half your life, I actually literally wrote down for this

1159
01:00:15,720 --> 01:00:17,520
Speaker 4: episode that was going to bring up that was going

1160
01:00:17,600 --> 01:00:19,800
Speaker 4: to change that terminology because for me, it was like

1161
01:00:19,880 --> 01:00:22,600
Speaker 4: pleasured wife, happy life, and it's like if we get

1162
01:00:22,640 --> 01:00:24,400
Speaker 4: our pleasures out the way and it doesn't even have

1163
01:00:24,480 --> 01:00:28,160
Speaker 4: to be intercourse or sexual it's just finding out and

1164
01:00:28,320 --> 01:00:30,880
Speaker 4: exploring these pleasures and doing these things and even when

1165
01:00:30,920 --> 01:00:34,479
Speaker 4: there isn't another person and doing like MMFs type things

1166
01:00:34,880 --> 01:00:37,280
Speaker 4: just because we do like it, like you you were saying,

1167
01:00:38,400 --> 01:00:41,480
Speaker 4: getting the lube or whatever, right, And she Mila was

1168
01:00:41,960 --> 01:00:44,280
Speaker 4: once talking about in the early stage of our relationship,

1169
01:00:44,360 --> 01:00:45,000
Speaker 4: like you know, doing.

1170
01:00:44,880 --> 01:00:46,560
Speaker 6: An MTh and like what it would look like.

1171
01:00:46,880 --> 01:00:48,520
Speaker 4: And so when we would have her toys, we're just

1172
01:00:48,720 --> 01:00:51,440
Speaker 4: like MMF type things, and she would mention the things.

1173
01:00:51,240 --> 01:00:54,120
Speaker 1: That she is like, so like just knowing practice is

1174
01:00:54,280 --> 01:01:00,960
Speaker 1: practice and coming simulation a lot. There are a lot

1175
01:01:01,040 --> 01:01:04,080
Speaker 1: of simulations that had to happen before the real thing,

1176
01:01:04,240 --> 01:01:05,840
Speaker 1: Like it was like drills like don't.

1177
01:01:05,640 --> 01:01:12,200
Speaker 3: Go right.

1178
01:01:14,640 --> 01:01:15,120
Speaker 2: Looking like.

1179
01:01:20,080 --> 01:01:22,280
Speaker 6: Hands, I told you your personal record.

1180
01:01:25,320 --> 01:01:29,320
Speaker 3: We're trying to do any environment up twists Jesus and.

1181
01:01:29,560 --> 01:01:32,720
Speaker 2: You know you're ready to say serious, not ready, You're

1182
01:01:32,720 --> 01:01:35,439
Speaker 2: not ready, you know, Oh my god.

1183
01:01:36,120 --> 01:01:37,800
Speaker 6: Those simulations are really what it is.

1184
01:01:38,000 --> 01:01:41,280
Speaker 4: And it's great because our way of like keeping ship

1185
01:01:41,400 --> 01:01:44,440
Speaker 4: like fun in our relationship is role playing anyway, role

1186
01:01:44,480 --> 01:01:47,680
Speaker 4: playing anyway, and so the thing about doing like sexual

1187
01:01:47,760 --> 01:01:50,000
Speaker 4: things when it comes to like adding another human being

1188
01:01:50,240 --> 01:01:50,440
Speaker 4: is that.

1189
01:01:50,680 --> 01:01:53,800
Speaker 6: And I also realize that with like people in the lifestyle.

1190
01:01:53,880 --> 01:01:56,439
Speaker 4: I'm about to start calling the pleasure pressure pleasure style

1191
01:01:56,840 --> 01:02:00,440
Speaker 4: pleasure lifestyle alternative lifestyle is way more pleasurable than all alternative.

1192
01:02:00,960 --> 01:02:04,840
Speaker 4: But the thing about finding out all these pleasures is

1193
01:02:04,920 --> 01:02:06,880
Speaker 4: you find out what works for y'all. It's not a

1194
01:02:06,960 --> 01:02:09,080
Speaker 4: matter of like when you said earlier, people just think like, oh,

1195
01:02:09,120 --> 01:02:13,720
Speaker 4: y'all just fucking everybody. It's like no, Actually, smaller intimate

1196
01:02:13,800 --> 01:02:16,080
Speaker 4: spaces work for us, not necessarily. Play parties will do

1197
01:02:16,240 --> 01:02:18,400
Speaker 4: like little things, but it's just not our thing, like

1198
01:02:18,520 --> 01:02:21,480
Speaker 4: having our own thing in a space where shit is bright,

1199
01:02:21,680 --> 01:02:27,000
Speaker 4: colorful or cooler people because I think I don't I

1200
01:02:27,000 --> 01:02:29,880
Speaker 4: don't know for Mela separately, but for me, I can

1201
01:02:30,120 --> 01:02:31,760
Speaker 4: go into it like I could see somebody and we

1202
01:02:31,800 --> 01:02:33,320
Speaker 4: could just fuck without even knowing each other.

1203
01:02:33,680 --> 01:02:35,439
Speaker 6: But together, I feel like we're more.

1204
01:02:35,480 --> 01:02:37,720
Speaker 4: Like sopio sexual, like we want to get to know

1205
01:02:37,880 --> 01:02:40,680
Speaker 4: somebody before like even entering their energy. And I just

1206
01:02:40,760 --> 01:02:45,360
Speaker 4: find I just find that relationship wise, our pleasure and

1207
01:02:45,400 --> 01:02:48,720
Speaker 4: compatible pleasure compatibility is so much different than when it's

1208
01:02:48,800 --> 01:02:50,560
Speaker 4: just me alone, And I actually like it.

1209
01:02:51,240 --> 01:02:53,600
Speaker 6: When it's us together then when it's just me alone.

1210
01:02:54,560 --> 01:02:55,600
Speaker 6: That was my two piece.

1211
01:02:55,400 --> 01:02:57,720
Speaker 3: About that's great.

1212
01:02:57,880 --> 01:03:07,120
Speaker 7: I wish I would more uh like physical driven, because

1213
01:03:07,120 --> 01:03:09,200
Speaker 7: I can see somebody super fine, but I.

1214
01:03:12,640 --> 01:03:13,160
Speaker 3: Don't like it.

1215
01:03:13,400 --> 01:03:16,160
Speaker 7: I also have to hear sometimes your voice because you

1216
01:03:18,200 --> 01:03:20,880
Speaker 7: off like I got that should have thrown you off.

1217
01:03:20,920 --> 01:03:22,959
Speaker 7: I gotta make you, you know, a dumb ass because

1218
01:03:23,040 --> 01:03:26,040
Speaker 7: like you know, like this is an alternative life, because

1219
01:03:26,080 --> 01:03:28,640
Speaker 7: scent is very big, and like I need to see

1220
01:03:28,720 --> 01:03:30,640
Speaker 7: certain things that makes you like if I see anything

1221
01:03:30,720 --> 01:03:32,760
Speaker 7: that was like, bitch, you crazy, now I'm good. I

1222
01:03:32,840 --> 01:03:35,400
Speaker 7: mean like so for me, I mean, you know, granted,

1223
01:03:35,440 --> 01:03:37,200
Speaker 7: if you're in that space, more than likely that person

1224
01:03:37,320 --> 01:03:41,000
Speaker 7: is already acclimated with us surround against behavior of such pastille,

1225
01:03:41,040 --> 01:03:43,080
Speaker 7: you know what I mean, Like I want to do

1226
01:03:43,240 --> 01:03:45,400
Speaker 7: more of that, but I also just be like I

1227
01:03:45,560 --> 01:03:48,720
Speaker 7: just I'm missing a side to right here. What can

1228
01:03:48,800 --> 01:03:49,920
Speaker 7: you show me that's embarrassing?

1229
01:03:51,360 --> 01:03:54,880
Speaker 3: I need to know you're a real person. This mola done? Bitch?

1230
01:03:54,960 --> 01:03:58,880
Speaker 3: What what you got? What you bring it? To make human?

1231
01:03:59,040 --> 01:04:01,600
Speaker 7: I need to I need see this because it's always

1232
01:04:01,640 --> 01:04:03,560
Speaker 7: like the fantasy and ship like that, but I like

1233
01:04:03,760 --> 01:04:06,040
Speaker 7: I need to, like I need to find that level

1234
01:04:06,120 --> 01:04:08,240
Speaker 7: ground with you to be able to be like, Okay,

1235
01:04:08,360 --> 01:04:10,080
Speaker 7: now I can do this because.

1236
01:04:10,160 --> 01:04:13,440
Speaker 1: Like my dig be like no same, Like I like

1237
01:04:13,520 --> 01:04:15,240
Speaker 1: you a little bit, just a little, a little bit.

1238
01:04:15,640 --> 01:04:17,640
Speaker 1: Don't even for you to fuck my man, like I

1239
01:04:17,760 --> 01:04:19,880
Speaker 1: need to like you like I need to. I need

1240
01:04:19,920 --> 01:04:21,520
Speaker 1: to know who you are, bitch. I need you to

1241
01:04:21,640 --> 01:04:24,280
Speaker 1: know I'm number one. I need to I need to

1242
01:04:24,560 --> 01:04:27,640
Speaker 1: feel like we're friends. You know there are levels to

1243
01:04:27,760 --> 01:04:28,400
Speaker 1: this ship or.

1244
01:04:28,440 --> 01:04:31,160
Speaker 7: I need to know, like even if I don't like

1245
01:04:31,240 --> 01:04:33,640
Speaker 7: your voice, so I don't like hanging it's not somebody

1246
01:04:33,680 --> 01:04:35,600
Speaker 7: there would be long term I need to be able

1247
01:04:35,640 --> 01:04:38,520
Speaker 7: to like gauge that like, Okay, this this is just

1248
01:04:38,600 --> 01:04:41,480
Speaker 7: a fun I wouldn't ever want to like hang out

1249
01:04:41,520 --> 01:04:43,280
Speaker 7: and this would be a fuck if like just for me,

1250
01:04:43,320 --> 01:04:45,240
Speaker 7: I wouldn't bring her around comparenting like this.

1251
01:04:45,840 --> 01:04:47,480
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna bring it around a group. The groups

1252
01:04:47,560 --> 01:04:48,640
Speaker 3: is gonna destroy this.

1253
01:04:49,520 --> 01:04:52,080
Speaker 7: So it's like, okay, where do you fit also in

1254
01:04:52,160 --> 01:04:53,680
Speaker 7: that So like for me, I have to have a

1255
01:04:53,800 --> 01:04:58,080
Speaker 7: little bit more than just because like like the moment

1256
01:04:58,200 --> 01:05:01,320
Speaker 7: you open the mouth and I know immediately she says,

1257
01:05:01,360 --> 01:05:09,120
Speaker 7: I'm dumb man, this is.

1258
01:05:09,160 --> 01:05:12,680
Speaker 6: What you that's the quality, that's what you think we do.

1259
01:05:14,760 --> 01:05:17,200
Speaker 5: Like I don't need to I don't need to feel

1260
01:05:17,280 --> 01:05:25,160
Speaker 5: like friends. It's just that if you're around what I

1261
01:05:25,200 --> 01:05:28,320
Speaker 5: don't know, I don't I don't need. I don't need friendship,

1262
01:05:28,520 --> 01:05:33,680
Speaker 5: but sce conversations be like do you prefer like short

1263
01:05:33,760 --> 01:05:34,960
Speaker 5: socks along socks?

1264
01:05:36,240 --> 01:05:36,760
Speaker 3: Do you like.

1265
01:05:38,840 --> 01:05:45,840
Speaker 7: Super surface super like? It's getting not at all, It's

1266
01:05:46,040 --> 01:05:51,120
Speaker 7: just like you you ever learned to swim? So it's

1267
01:05:51,240 --> 01:05:53,560
Speaker 7: it's like it's stuff like that.

1268
01:05:53,840 --> 01:05:57,720
Speaker 5: So I don't need I don't need friendship. But what

1269
01:05:57,920 --> 01:06:03,280
Speaker 5: I do need, though, it's like security that they're vetted

1270
01:06:03,440 --> 01:06:06,240
Speaker 5: enough to not go start some ship right And see,

1271
01:06:06,280 --> 01:06:07,120
Speaker 5: that's what that is for me.

1272
01:06:07,320 --> 01:06:10,480
Speaker 7: That is the vetting process of like, okay, cool, where

1273
01:06:10,560 --> 01:06:12,200
Speaker 7: is this person fit in our life?

1274
01:06:12,280 --> 01:06:15,200
Speaker 3: And the and the equation? Is she someone that I

1275
01:06:15,280 --> 01:06:15,840
Speaker 3: feel like? Fair?

1276
01:06:15,920 --> 01:06:18,400
Speaker 7: Because whoever, if I was to meet someone who talks

1277
01:06:18,400 --> 01:06:21,240
Speaker 7: about she's gonna know, like I'm gonna tell her and everything.

1278
01:06:21,280 --> 01:06:22,120
Speaker 3: I'm like, Okay, this is.

1279
01:06:22,120 --> 01:06:22,560
Speaker 4: Who it is.

1280
01:06:22,960 --> 01:06:24,920
Speaker 7: Oh, this who it is I think y'all should meet,

1281
01:06:25,280 --> 01:06:26,919
Speaker 7: or this is who it is. I think this person

1282
01:06:27,000 --> 01:06:29,920
Speaker 7: is cool, and I'll be like why so then I

1283
01:06:29,960 --> 01:06:32,440
Speaker 7: gotta come with this. That's why I do the checkl Okay, Well,

1284
01:06:32,560 --> 01:06:34,600
Speaker 7: when we had a conversation she said this. I was like, oh, yeah,

1285
01:06:35,280 --> 01:06:36,000
Speaker 7: she liked this too.

1286
01:06:37,680 --> 01:06:38,520
Speaker 3: I have to do that.

1287
01:06:38,760 --> 01:06:40,720
Speaker 7: But you know, it's it's different with the back and

1288
01:06:40,840 --> 01:06:43,680
Speaker 7: forth with us between us, but yeah, I'm I'm like that.

1289
01:06:43,800 --> 01:06:47,240
Speaker 7: I'm very much like with the vetting and knowing where

1290
01:06:47,280 --> 01:06:50,080
Speaker 7: this person fits and uh, it's just somebody that because

1291
01:06:50,120 --> 01:06:52,280
Speaker 7: if I'm gonna put forth the effort and like getting

1292
01:06:52,280 --> 01:06:54,080
Speaker 7: to know a person like okay, cool, at least I

1293
01:06:54,240 --> 01:06:57,120
Speaker 7: know where they fit. Like I don't the one that,

1294
01:06:57,360 --> 01:07:01,000
Speaker 7: like I had to this day made at my big

1295
01:07:01,080 --> 01:07:04,320
Speaker 7: age forty, I may have had outside of like Jamaica,

1296
01:07:05,240 --> 01:07:05,800
Speaker 7: you may have.

1297
01:07:05,920 --> 01:07:11,240
Speaker 2: Had like two what Night says, because you you like

1298
01:07:11,280 --> 01:07:11,959
Speaker 2: to keep your people.

1299
01:07:12,160 --> 01:07:14,000
Speaker 7: It's not even just keeping it, it's more so like

1300
01:07:15,040 --> 01:07:17,680
Speaker 7: I can't just I can't perform on command like I

1301
01:07:17,720 --> 01:07:20,160
Speaker 7: could in college. But I was ruined then and it

1302
01:07:20,320 --> 01:07:22,720
Speaker 7: was like more getting back at women for this chick

1303
01:07:22,840 --> 01:07:23,680
Speaker 7: lying about the space.

1304
01:07:24,040 --> 01:07:26,080
Speaker 3: So I don't give a fuck about you like this

1305
01:07:26,200 --> 01:07:27,479
Speaker 3: dick an, I'm gonna suck your friend.

1306
01:07:28,040 --> 01:07:28,400
Speaker 6: One chick.

1307
01:07:28,400 --> 01:07:31,640
Speaker 7: I apologize many times to her, but her her cousin

1308
01:07:31,760 --> 01:07:33,320
Speaker 7: and her aunt. I was like, you shouldn't have brought

1309
01:07:33,360 --> 01:07:35,200
Speaker 7: me to the family, your bitch. You know, I'm charming,

1310
01:07:36,160 --> 01:07:43,919
Speaker 7: charming as fuck, serious and everybody getting fucked you lucky

1311
01:07:44,080 --> 01:07:44,680
Speaker 7: was just the three.

1312
01:07:47,600 --> 01:07:48,240
Speaker 3: So I can't.

1313
01:07:48,440 --> 01:07:50,880
Speaker 7: I can't do that without going back into that dark place,

1314
01:07:50,960 --> 01:07:53,200
Speaker 7: and that allows other things to creep in, and so

1315
01:07:53,400 --> 01:07:55,640
Speaker 7: like for me, I have to do a little vetting.

1316
01:07:55,960 --> 01:07:56,560
Speaker 3: Ye know what.

1317
01:07:56,680 --> 01:07:57,720
Speaker 2: I like something about you?

1318
01:07:57,960 --> 01:07:58,160
Speaker 7: Yeah?

1319
01:07:59,120 --> 01:07:59,320
Speaker 6: Are you?

1320
01:07:59,560 --> 01:08:02,640
Speaker 2: Are you friends with his girlfriend?

1321
01:08:03,560 --> 01:08:10,120
Speaker 5: Yes? So yeah, we like super cool FaceTime, like immediately,

1322
01:08:11,120 --> 01:08:14,400
Speaker 5: and she's been nothing but consistent, like because I was

1323
01:08:14,480 --> 01:08:18,479
Speaker 5: also worried, worried that she was gonna come out like

1324
01:08:18,920 --> 01:08:22,120
Speaker 5: just being super just fake. And then I was like

1325
01:08:22,479 --> 01:08:25,360
Speaker 5: true color is gonna show. And she actually came to

1326
01:08:25,479 --> 01:08:27,320
Speaker 5: me and was like I was nervous about meeting you,

1327
01:08:28,000 --> 01:08:29,760
Speaker 5: she was like, but I was like, I'm just gonna

1328
01:08:29,760 --> 01:08:33,400
Speaker 5: be myself. It's like and this is so dope, Like

1329
01:08:33,520 --> 01:08:36,439
Speaker 5: I'm just so comfortable around you. And I was like, yay,

1330
01:08:37,320 --> 01:08:39,639
Speaker 5: that's what I want. I wanted you to be comfortable,

1331
01:08:39,680 --> 01:08:42,920
Speaker 5: but also me like your comfortability like.

1332
01:08:43,000 --> 01:08:43,439
Speaker 3: Who you are.

1333
01:08:44,400 --> 01:08:47,960
Speaker 7: Picture. The first time she came out, I had to

1334
01:08:48,040 --> 01:08:51,880
Speaker 7: do something. So we took both cars and fars like,

1335
01:08:52,120 --> 01:08:54,120
Speaker 7: oh good because this is a week car and she

1336
01:08:54,200 --> 01:08:56,120
Speaker 7: was like yes, and I was like, yeah, do that

1337
01:08:56,200 --> 01:09:02,200
Speaker 7: shit over there being smoked to my vehicle clicked immediately off.

1338
01:09:03,720 --> 01:09:07,320
Speaker 5: But we would leave his ass in the room a

1339
01:09:07,400 --> 01:09:09,639
Speaker 5: house and be sitting outside just smoking.

1340
01:09:11,680 --> 01:09:13,519
Speaker 3: We got a house, I got a house.

1341
01:09:15,280 --> 01:09:21,080
Speaker 7: We smoking, chopping it up. She's a she has just

1342
01:09:21,240 --> 01:09:23,200
Speaker 7: one daughter. I got just one daughter.

1343
01:09:23,360 --> 01:09:25,759
Speaker 5: We just going back and forth. She close with her family.

1344
01:09:25,800 --> 01:09:26,400
Speaker 5: I'm close with my.

1345
01:09:26,479 --> 01:09:29,320
Speaker 6: Family about more than socks.

1346
01:09:29,520 --> 01:09:34,120
Speaker 1: Asking her yes, I want to know that She's okay, Like, yeah,

1347
01:09:36,680 --> 01:09:38,960
Speaker 1: that's wonderful to get to the place to have that

1348
01:09:39,080 --> 01:09:42,280
Speaker 1: type of you know, just trust. It's really trust and

1349
01:09:42,400 --> 01:09:46,080
Speaker 1: boundaries and know what you're actually looking for in companionship

1350
01:09:46,280 --> 01:09:49,200
Speaker 1: and you know, just having a discussion with your husband.

1351
01:09:49,920 --> 01:09:54,559
Speaker 5: I was very surprised that he committed to someone else, though,

1352
01:09:54,800 --> 01:09:59,400
Speaker 5: because he like, like you just said the not wanting

1353
01:09:59,439 --> 01:10:03,400
Speaker 5: to get to know all the things. And I'm also

1354
01:10:03,720 --> 01:10:06,639
Speaker 5: surprised that I was finally okay with it, because when

1355
01:10:06,640 --> 01:10:08,840
Speaker 5: we talked about it years ago, I was like, nope,

1356
01:10:08,880 --> 01:10:12,080
Speaker 5: butchers don't understand their place. I'm number one. I agree

1357
01:10:12,560 --> 01:10:13,840
Speaker 5: that leave them.

1358
01:10:16,080 --> 01:10:16,559
Speaker 3: Just to help.

1359
01:10:16,680 --> 01:10:17,880
Speaker 7: So I don't know if I would have did it

1360
01:10:17,960 --> 01:10:21,040
Speaker 7: if we had been in the same city, like the

1361
01:10:21,120 --> 01:10:23,559
Speaker 7: fact that she's because I am a very much.

1362
01:10:24,080 --> 01:10:28,519
Speaker 3: I need my space person. Like during the pandemic, I

1363
01:10:28,640 --> 01:10:28,760
Speaker 3: was like.

1364
01:10:28,800 --> 01:10:30,320
Speaker 7: I can't, I can't say in this house. I was like, Hey,

1365
01:10:30,320 --> 01:10:32,360
Speaker 7: I'm getting I'm getting a hotel for this weekend. You

1366
01:10:32,360 --> 01:10:34,360
Speaker 7: can get a hotel the next weekend. That way we

1367
01:10:34,439 --> 01:10:36,320
Speaker 7: both have time to miss each other, and we both

1368
01:10:36,400 --> 01:10:38,519
Speaker 7: have a time where we're not responsible.

1369
01:10:38,000 --> 01:10:38,639
Speaker 3: For the household.

1370
01:10:38,640 --> 01:10:40,560
Speaker 7: You ain't gotta worry about make sure dinner's good. I

1371
01:10:40,720 --> 01:10:43,240
Speaker 7: gotta call it head like, hey, y'all want to grab something.

1372
01:10:43,920 --> 01:10:46,280
Speaker 7: We need that space because I'm I'm used to I've

1373
01:10:46,280 --> 01:10:48,639
Speaker 7: been touring. I've been on the road since two thousand

1374
01:10:48,680 --> 01:10:51,600
Speaker 7: and seven, but very little breaks in between, like and

1375
01:10:51,680 --> 01:10:54,280
Speaker 7: I'm talking about like like there have been years where

1376
01:10:54,479 --> 01:10:56,400
Speaker 7: I toured eight months out of the year. That were

1377
01:10:56,600 --> 01:10:58,479
Speaker 7: years where I toured like three months out of the year,

1378
01:10:58,800 --> 01:11:01,599
Speaker 7: but consistently from then to now, there have only been

1379
01:11:01,720 --> 01:11:03,960
Speaker 7: three years when I was not on tour. So I'm

1380
01:11:04,200 --> 01:11:07,200
Speaker 7: used to fucking having at least a hotel room to

1381
01:11:07,280 --> 01:11:09,600
Speaker 7: myself at some point, and I need that shit Like

1382
01:11:09,680 --> 01:11:13,240
Speaker 7: that's how I de compressed, That's how I think about stuff,

1383
01:11:13,400 --> 01:11:15,280
Speaker 7: and it's hard to do sometimes when I'm at home,

1384
01:11:15,360 --> 01:11:18,160
Speaker 7: because they are such a like you said, our energy

1385
01:11:18,240 --> 01:11:21,480
Speaker 7: is very much like a ah. And when I'm not reciprocating,

1386
01:11:21,520 --> 01:11:22,760
Speaker 7: it's like why you hate me?

1387
01:11:24,479 --> 01:11:24,679
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1388
01:11:24,680 --> 01:11:27,240
Speaker 6: When I'm in the house and I'm not joking joking,

1389
01:11:27,320 --> 01:11:28,880
Speaker 6: everybody's like this tight.

1390
01:11:30,439 --> 01:11:31,960
Speaker 3: It's like, now, this is just how I process.

1391
01:11:32,200 --> 01:11:34,320
Speaker 7: And sometimes, like when I'm going through something that things

1392
01:11:34,360 --> 01:11:36,400
Speaker 7: take longer the process, things take longer to deal with,

1393
01:11:36,760 --> 01:11:39,960
Speaker 7: And so moving myself to a different space makes it

1394
01:11:40,080 --> 01:11:43,479
Speaker 7: easier for me to process that process that faster because

1395
01:11:43,479 --> 01:11:45,439
Speaker 7: I don't have to keep stalking like no, no, y'all

1396
01:11:45,439 --> 01:11:48,200
Speaker 7: are good, Okay, I gonna do this when I gotta

1397
01:11:48,280 --> 01:11:51,040
Speaker 7: break that concentration to deal with that to make sure

1398
01:11:51,040 --> 01:11:55,080
Speaker 7: that y'all are good, it messages with me and it prolongs.

1399
01:11:54,600 --> 01:11:57,280
Speaker 3: The process too, So you know, I need that space.

1400
01:11:57,520 --> 01:12:02,599
Speaker 4: And also how in that space and having I guess

1401
01:12:03,400 --> 01:12:06,280
Speaker 4: your personal life like personal like not you and fan,

1402
01:12:06,400 --> 01:12:09,840
Speaker 4: but you yourself comfortable, then it makes it easier to

1403
01:12:10,200 --> 01:12:14,160
Speaker 4: live the old pleasure lifestyle because you've got your own

1404
01:12:14,320 --> 01:12:17,000
Speaker 4: boundaries aside from pleasure, aside from sex that makes you

1405
01:12:17,120 --> 01:12:19,680
Speaker 4: comfortable and happy. And then when it comes to doing

1406
01:12:19,720 --> 01:12:22,599
Speaker 4: the pleasurable stuff. It's like, oh, I had a whole

1407
01:12:22,680 --> 01:12:25,519
Speaker 4: week and away from you, I'm ready to threesome you now.

1408
01:12:30,080 --> 01:12:32,160
Speaker 4: And I will say that the one thing that makes

1409
01:12:32,200 --> 01:12:37,800
Speaker 4: it hard to even do anything away from my relationship

1410
01:12:38,240 --> 01:12:41,960
Speaker 4: is because it's more pleasurable seeing me La happy, like.

1411
01:12:42,120 --> 01:12:44,120
Speaker 6: When she's enjoying it.

1412
01:12:44,439 --> 01:12:47,960
Speaker 4: Oh, this is way better than if I was just

1413
01:12:48,120 --> 01:12:50,519
Speaker 4: like doing some fun shit or she was, or if

1414
01:12:50,560 --> 01:12:52,439
Speaker 4: she was doing some shit just because she wants to

1415
01:12:52,479 --> 01:12:53,880
Speaker 4: try and make me pleased or happy.

1416
01:12:54,000 --> 01:12:55,600
Speaker 3: But it's not gonna work for me.

1417
01:12:57,120 --> 01:13:02,240
Speaker 6: So there is a part of our UH podcasts that

1418
01:13:03,040 --> 01:13:05,000
Speaker 6: when we have people on, we call this a double

1419
01:13:05,080 --> 01:13:08,559
Speaker 6: date that we like to ask y'all.

1420
01:13:09,040 --> 01:13:12,639
Speaker 4: Y'all role play where I roll up and you tell

1421
01:13:12,760 --> 01:13:15,559
Speaker 4: me how you keep your relationship playful, whether it's fun

1422
01:13:15,720 --> 01:13:19,080
Speaker 4: or sexy or anything like that. But since you brought

1423
01:13:19,120 --> 01:13:20,720
Speaker 4: a pre roll already in, I'm just go ahead and

1424
01:13:20,760 --> 01:13:29,760
Speaker 4: smoke while you're telling us. But yeah, yeah, what is

1425
01:13:29,880 --> 01:13:32,479
Speaker 4: what is one thing from each of y'all how you

1426
01:13:32,600 --> 01:13:34,479
Speaker 4: keep your relationship fun or playful?

1427
01:13:35,760 --> 01:13:37,920
Speaker 5: We just always try and stuff.

1428
01:13:38,880 --> 01:13:40,360
Speaker 3: We I mean, it's.

1429
01:13:42,120 --> 01:13:47,519
Speaker 5: We always leave room to laugh at everything, but we

1430
01:13:47,760 --> 01:13:50,439
Speaker 5: just we just try stuff we still send each other

1431
01:13:50,760 --> 01:13:58,400
Speaker 5: videos that we see that turn us on. Yeah, we

1432
01:13:58,600 --> 01:14:04,200
Speaker 5: still ship. Will sit to get to get ready. It's

1433
01:14:04,320 --> 01:14:07,960
Speaker 5: like okay, I'm I'm gonna pick the porn this time,

1434
01:14:08,320 --> 01:14:15,080
Speaker 5: and mine is usually some I don't know and she

1435
01:14:15,240 --> 01:14:20,040
Speaker 5: needs and doctor puts on some hintime monster situation.

1436
01:14:23,000 --> 01:14:26,840
Speaker 3: She doesn't sound on with hers. I like music, so

1437
01:14:28,240 --> 01:14:30,040
Speaker 3: you find a video off on the playfo.

1438
01:14:30,280 --> 01:14:35,160
Speaker 5: Just open to just constantly just playing with things.

1439
01:14:35,840 --> 01:14:41,599
Speaker 3: I'm very setting the move, like it was a couple

1440
01:14:41,600 --> 01:14:42,040
Speaker 3: of weeks.

1441
01:14:42,000 --> 01:14:44,080
Speaker 5: Oh my god, when I was giving you head and

1442
01:14:44,280 --> 01:14:46,800
Speaker 5: you was like, wait a minute, this nigga left the

1443
01:14:46,920 --> 01:14:49,400
Speaker 5: room to go like an incense to bring into the

1444
01:14:49,520 --> 01:14:52,560
Speaker 5: room because he was like, I got the music, the

1445
01:14:52,720 --> 01:14:53,639
Speaker 5: lighting's perfect.

1446
01:14:53,960 --> 01:15:00,240
Speaker 7: I just need thistivated if we got the time to

1447
01:15:00,320 --> 01:15:02,760
Speaker 7: do it, like hold on, this did gonna be right here?

1448
01:15:03,080 --> 01:15:06,000
Speaker 7: Like did you just light a fucking incent? And then

1449
01:15:06,080 --> 01:15:07,559
Speaker 7: afterwards I saw her shaking the head.

1450
01:15:07,600 --> 01:15:09,080
Speaker 3: I was like, you think about the incent. It's like

1451
01:15:09,200 --> 01:15:11,000
Speaker 3: you stopped to go get inside. I was like, I

1452
01:15:11,160 --> 01:15:14,439
Speaker 3: wanted all my senses to be activated at that time.

1453
01:15:14,520 --> 01:15:17,599
Speaker 4: I'm very much about the construction of pleasure, Like how

1454
01:15:18,120 --> 01:15:19,840
Speaker 4: where does the camera need?

1455
01:15:19,960 --> 01:15:21,880
Speaker 6: This is some only fan shit. Also, where does the

1456
01:15:21,960 --> 01:15:23,200
Speaker 6: camera need to be for recording?

1457
01:15:23,360 --> 01:15:24,720
Speaker 4: With the camera need to be that if we were

1458
01:15:24,760 --> 01:15:27,120
Speaker 4: to rewatch this, we can get the most out of

1459
01:15:27,200 --> 01:15:30,040
Speaker 4: this experience. Right, what smell does need to be here

1460
01:15:30,400 --> 01:15:34,479
Speaker 4: for which specific video so that it feels really good?

1461
01:15:34,840 --> 01:15:37,360
Speaker 6: How low does the music have to be? Do the

1462
01:15:37,439 --> 01:15:40,640
Speaker 6: porn have to be the brightness of the projector in

1463
01:15:40,720 --> 01:15:41,320
Speaker 6: the dark room?

1464
01:15:41,439 --> 01:15:46,360
Speaker 3: Max Fuck and Make Love playlist. I have multiple ones.

1465
01:15:47,520 --> 01:15:51,320
Speaker 7: I got like, all right, this is a good vibe

1466
01:15:51,400 --> 01:15:54,320
Speaker 7: to get some shit going playlist because it's slow, but

1467
01:15:54,400 --> 01:15:57,559
Speaker 7: it's not just talking about fucking, it's just talking about

1468
01:15:57,680 --> 01:16:00,800
Speaker 7: chilling and relaxing, and it makes people come. So whereas

1469
01:16:00,880 --> 01:16:03,000
Speaker 7: you might be sitting on a chair like this, all

1470
01:16:03,040 --> 01:16:06,760
Speaker 7: the cous like this, this music encourages this. Right, So

1471
01:16:06,920 --> 01:16:09,719
Speaker 7: now you're open to somebody sitting next to you, versus

1472
01:16:10,680 --> 01:16:13,400
Speaker 7: you feel stand office you're blocking any type of interaction.

1473
01:16:13,439 --> 01:16:19,240
Speaker 3: You're blocking you keeping your energy to yourself that same right,

1474
01:16:19,840 --> 01:16:22,400
Speaker 3: I'm very big on like setting the mood, like you said.

1475
01:16:22,439 --> 01:16:25,400
Speaker 5: That's why I didn't even get like afan dead or upset.

1476
01:16:25,439 --> 01:16:30,320
Speaker 5: It was just like classic you. It was a very

1477
01:16:30,520 --> 01:16:31,560
Speaker 5: hymn thing to do.

1478
01:16:32,680 --> 01:16:34,760
Speaker 3: I'm very intention like go get the towd or get

1479
01:16:34,800 --> 01:16:38,720
Speaker 3: the blanket. Get the blanket. It's gonna be It's gonna be.

1480
01:16:38,760 --> 01:16:40,000
Speaker 3: A Louie situation.

1481
01:16:44,160 --> 01:16:45,320
Speaker 2: Is important.

1482
01:16:45,720 --> 01:16:50,960
Speaker 7: Yeah, but I don't think there's any one thing. The

1483
01:16:51,120 --> 01:16:54,000
Speaker 7: one thing that we did that really was.

1484
01:16:54,080 --> 01:16:58,280
Speaker 5: Pivotal for us was going to hedonism. That was that

1485
01:16:58,520 --> 01:17:03,800
Speaker 5: was pivotal, and and like just taking ours our communication

1486
01:17:04,360 --> 01:17:05,679
Speaker 5: to a whole new level.

1487
01:17:06,000 --> 01:17:08,599
Speaker 7: Vacations in general was a big thing for me because

1488
01:17:08,760 --> 01:17:11,040
Speaker 7: I didn't vacation as a kid.

1489
01:17:12,200 --> 01:17:15,680
Speaker 3: I love working, Oh my god, I love it.

1490
01:17:15,880 --> 01:17:18,960
Speaker 7: I work myself to the grave, like ninety years old,

1491
01:17:19,040 --> 01:17:21,040
Speaker 7: still doing what I love to do, because I love

1492
01:17:21,439 --> 01:17:22,200
Speaker 7: to do what I do.

1493
01:17:22,960 --> 01:17:26,519
Speaker 3: And so for me, it was like take time off.

1494
01:17:27,200 --> 01:17:28,880
Speaker 7: Like the first one we did was like as soon

1495
01:17:28,920 --> 01:17:30,599
Speaker 7: as we had moved into our new place a week

1496
01:17:30,680 --> 01:17:35,800
Speaker 7: later or maybe five days later, we went to airbnbat.

1497
01:17:35,840 --> 01:17:38,080
Speaker 3: In a desert on the desert, and I'm like, why

1498
01:17:38,120 --> 01:17:39,639
Speaker 3: are we going here? Why are we spending this money?

1499
01:17:39,640 --> 01:17:39,880
Speaker 5: Again?

1500
01:17:39,960 --> 01:17:42,840
Speaker 7: She was like to get you away from everything and

1501
01:17:42,960 --> 01:17:45,160
Speaker 7: put you in a different environment to relax. And I

1502
01:17:45,240 --> 01:17:47,280
Speaker 7: still took my laptop and I still did some work,

1503
01:17:47,479 --> 01:17:51,000
Speaker 7: but I did you know when I listened to a

1504
01:17:51,040 --> 01:17:54,799
Speaker 7: book on tape, I watched Hamilton with them. We created

1505
01:17:54,920 --> 01:17:57,879
Speaker 7: all day Bacon like it was. It was the beginning

1506
01:17:58,080 --> 01:18:01,360
Speaker 7: of a monster for me because I was like, I

1507
01:18:01,560 --> 01:18:04,720
Speaker 7: like this ship, so that vacation really did it for me.

1508
01:18:05,120 --> 01:18:07,519
Speaker 2: What's your son in your areas?

1509
01:18:10,280 --> 01:18:10,800
Speaker 3: Yeah? Man?

1510
01:18:12,479 --> 01:18:12,599
Speaker 5: Right?

1511
01:18:12,840 --> 01:18:15,639
Speaker 4: Fire and water wash all over your Fire and water

1512
01:18:15,720 --> 01:18:19,120
Speaker 4: is always into interesting combination. One thing I wanted to

1513
01:18:19,200 --> 01:18:20,920
Speaker 4: ask before we got out of here in the essence

1514
01:18:20,960 --> 01:18:22,639
Speaker 4: of time, because I know y'all busy and got ship

1515
01:18:22,720 --> 01:18:26,360
Speaker 4: to do. If y'all can get any dedication to our listeners,

1516
01:18:26,439 --> 01:18:29,519
Speaker 4: A dedication is just really just some advice back to

1517
01:18:29,560 --> 01:18:34,120
Speaker 4: the listeners, if you could think of any relationship advice, sorry,

1518
01:18:34,160 --> 01:18:36,280
Speaker 4: your relationship advice. I also asked us at the end

1519
01:18:36,360 --> 01:18:41,719
Speaker 4: because I get high. Yes, but anyway, some relationship advice

1520
01:18:41,800 --> 01:18:42,479
Speaker 4: back to the people.

1521
01:18:42,960 --> 01:18:48,080
Speaker 5: I think we would say the same thing communication, like

1522
01:18:48,840 --> 01:18:53,920
Speaker 5: just like over communicate. What questions would you have if

1523
01:18:53,960 --> 01:18:59,840
Speaker 5: somebody said what you just said to you, Like, that's

1524
01:19:00,320 --> 01:19:02,840
Speaker 5: just go ahead and answer them in the in the

1525
01:19:02,920 --> 01:19:08,400
Speaker 5: communication like just and vulnerability. If this is your person,

1526
01:19:09,040 --> 01:19:11,519
Speaker 5: y'all supposed to be together, you should be able to

1527
01:19:11,640 --> 01:19:17,439
Speaker 5: say and experience anything even your darkest thoughts. You should

1528
01:19:17,479 --> 01:19:18,360
Speaker 5: be able to say it.

1529
01:19:18,880 --> 01:19:23,280
Speaker 7: You should create a worksheet that like has twenty ten

1530
01:19:23,400 --> 01:19:26,120
Speaker 7: or twenty questions you should ask or know about your

1531
01:19:26,160 --> 01:19:30,320
Speaker 7: spouse off like simple shit that we don't even think about.

1532
01:19:32,040 --> 01:19:32,080
Speaker 4: That.

1533
01:19:32,600 --> 01:19:33,719
Speaker 3: And I'm not even kidding.

1534
01:19:33,800 --> 01:19:36,479
Speaker 7: I was literally about to say that, because before we

1535
01:19:36,640 --> 01:19:40,040
Speaker 7: went Polly, we were, like I said, we were just

1536
01:19:40,120 --> 01:19:43,200
Speaker 7: open and we just knew we both like fore, but

1537
01:19:43,280 --> 01:19:45,680
Speaker 7: we didn't know what each other like. We had a

1538
01:19:45,800 --> 01:19:51,280
Speaker 7: conversation one night while we were intoxicated on some stuff

1539
01:19:51,360 --> 01:19:54,560
Speaker 7: and we were just like, let's have a conversation that

1540
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Speaker 7: stays right here. You created us safe space and in

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01:19:59,240 --> 01:20:02,240
Speaker 7: that conversation and we learned so much. And this was

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01:20:02,280 --> 01:20:04,759
Speaker 7: a couple of days before Jamaica, so coming off.

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Speaker 5: The couple, sure, no, before we it was the night

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Speaker 5: that we booked the trip because we were like full,

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01:20:12,720 --> 01:20:15,600
Speaker 5: like you know what, man, let's go all in. We

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01:20:15,760 --> 01:20:18,560
Speaker 5: know we're gonna be okay afterwards. Let's just have a

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01:20:18,640 --> 01:20:20,920
Speaker 5: great time. And so we booked the trip that night

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01:20:20,960 --> 01:20:22,600
Speaker 5: when we had that conversation.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, and it changed everything for us. We learned so

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01:20:27,760 --> 01:20:30,160
Speaker 7: much about each other. What type of porn you're like,

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01:20:30,600 --> 01:20:32,600
Speaker 7: what would you do in this situation? What would you

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01:20:32,680 --> 01:20:36,040
Speaker 7: do in that situation? What is your darkest fantasy that

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01:20:36,120 --> 01:20:39,519
Speaker 7: you never shared with anyone? What's your darkest sexual fantasy

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01:20:39,640 --> 01:20:41,000
Speaker 7: that you've never shared with anyone.

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01:20:42,080 --> 01:20:44,800
Speaker 3: If you had the power to kill some people, would

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01:20:44,840 --> 01:20:46,640
Speaker 3: you do it? What would you not do it? Like

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01:20:46,800 --> 01:20:48,640
Speaker 3: if you got money for it, would you do it?

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01:20:48,680 --> 01:20:49,679
Speaker 3: If it was a random person?

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01:20:49,960 --> 01:20:52,040
Speaker 7: Like all of these type of questions like help you

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01:20:52,080 --> 01:20:54,920
Speaker 7: get your know your person and fellas, I would say this,

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01:20:55,160 --> 01:20:59,760
Speaker 7: be honest about what makes you anxious? And conversations on

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01:21:00,280 --> 01:21:03,200
Speaker 7: the conversations I know the on the running joke is

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01:21:03,280 --> 01:21:07,760
Speaker 7: like we need to talk or call me immediately, Like

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01:21:07,920 --> 01:21:11,760
Speaker 7: those things just create anxiousness and gods, so like like

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01:21:12,120 --> 01:21:14,600
Speaker 7: like verbalize that, be like hey, when you do this,

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01:21:14,800 --> 01:21:18,400
Speaker 7: it makes me feel a certain way, and then explore

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01:21:18,479 --> 01:21:20,120
Speaker 7: why it makes you feel that way, and then if

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01:21:20,160 --> 01:21:23,479
Speaker 7: it's still makes sure how you can change it to

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01:21:23,960 --> 01:21:28,960
Speaker 7: still get to lower that alarm, alarm, that urgency that

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01:21:29,080 --> 01:21:31,280
Speaker 7: you feel. Like because that's what we had to do,

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01:21:31,400 --> 01:21:34,599
Speaker 7: because I would always be like we need to talk

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01:21:34,920 --> 01:21:38,120
Speaker 7: or I want to talk later or whatever, and he would.

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01:21:37,960 --> 01:21:40,360
Speaker 3: Justly, what's up, what's up?

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01:21:40,479 --> 01:21:41,760
Speaker 7: She's like aren't you filming? I was like, a step

1575
01:21:41,920 --> 01:21:43,679
Speaker 7: up set, what's going on? What we need to talk about?

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01:21:43,720 --> 01:21:48,439
Speaker 7: Because she found a different way to communicate. Hey, later on,

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01:21:49,040 --> 01:21:51,080
Speaker 7: I was thinking about this. You might have we set

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01:21:51,120 --> 01:21:53,240
Speaker 7: some timers out. So when you say, Hey, this is

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01:21:53,280 --> 01:21:55,160
Speaker 7: what I kind of want to talk about, it kind

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01:21:55,200 --> 01:22:00,040
Speaker 7: of gives us a break on freaking out because okay.

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01:21:59,680 --> 01:22:01,760
Speaker 3: This It's a lot of times it would just be

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01:22:01,840 --> 01:22:02,719
Speaker 3: some regular ship.

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01:22:03,120 --> 01:22:05,120
Speaker 7: Hey, I was thinking about trying off this, this food

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01:22:05,160 --> 01:22:08,040
Speaker 7: delivery system, and I'm fucking.

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01:22:07,840 --> 01:22:10,639
Speaker 3: Freaking out on set, like what the funk happened? What's

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01:22:10,680 --> 01:22:10,960
Speaker 3: going on?

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01:22:12,280 --> 01:22:14,639
Speaker 7: Creating all of these false narratives and all of these

1588
01:22:15,080 --> 01:22:19,760
Speaker 7: unrealistic conversations in my head because I'm just searching for it.

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01:22:19,920 --> 01:22:24,080
Speaker 7: Because guys, we're trying to we solve the problem, you

1590
01:22:24,120 --> 01:22:25,439
Speaker 7: know what I'm saying. That's why a lot of ladies

1591
01:22:25,479 --> 01:22:27,400
Speaker 7: talk to ladies. They don't talk to guys, because guys

1592
01:22:27,439 --> 01:22:28,080
Speaker 7: are fucking fixing.

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01:22:28,120 --> 01:22:29,760
Speaker 3: We'll be like, what did you think about this? If

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01:22:29,760 --> 01:22:32,000
Speaker 3: you tried this? And that's why I might immediately go

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01:22:32,240 --> 01:22:33,719
Speaker 3: to when we see those.

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01:22:33,560 --> 01:22:38,760
Speaker 5: Words so and even to that point when he gets

1597
01:22:38,880 --> 01:22:39,960
Speaker 5: like that, I'd be like, I don't need you to

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01:22:40,040 --> 01:22:44,360
Speaker 5: fix it. I just need to bed right now, And

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01:22:44,479 --> 01:22:48,720
Speaker 5: you're like, oh, okay, I'm gonnahut the relax.

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Speaker 4: You know what The funny thing is, it always makes

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01:22:51,080 --> 01:22:52,479
Speaker 4: it easier for me when I don't got to give

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01:22:52,720 --> 01:22:53,240
Speaker 4: advice back.

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01:22:53,680 --> 01:22:55,800
Speaker 6: And I don't know why every time. It's just in

1604
01:22:55,920 --> 01:22:57,720
Speaker 6: our nature to just always give from.

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01:22:59,120 --> 01:23:02,160
Speaker 7: And we're supposed to be the protectors and the gatherers

1606
01:23:02,920 --> 01:23:06,120
Speaker 7: protected historically, that's how we've been raised, that's how we

1607
01:23:06,240 --> 01:23:09,080
Speaker 7: were taught. Protect your lady, you do this, you you

1608
01:23:09,280 --> 01:23:11,519
Speaker 7: protect the family, provide for the fact. So we just

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01:23:11,680 --> 01:23:13,840
Speaker 7: instantly go into particular the mot.

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01:23:13,800 --> 01:23:17,600
Speaker 5: But people need to think communication is part of protecting

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01:23:18,120 --> 01:23:21,480
Speaker 5: that it's at the core of it. So like communications

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01:23:21,560 --> 01:23:22,479
Speaker 5: at the core of everything.

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01:23:23,000 --> 01:23:23,840
Speaker 3: Yep, I agree.

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01:23:25,760 --> 01:23:28,799
Speaker 1: Communicating even the things you think are silly and stupid

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01:23:30,080 --> 01:23:34,639
Speaker 1: and ridiculous, and even if you know they're ridiculous or uncomfortable.

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01:23:34,680 --> 01:23:37,880
Speaker 3: That's another thing. Run towards uncomfortable conversations.

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01:23:38,040 --> 01:23:41,720
Speaker 7: Uncomforble conversations are like clouds in your relationship. So the

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01:23:41,800 --> 01:23:43,680
Speaker 7: more you have them, the quicker chance you have of

1619
01:23:43,760 --> 01:23:46,960
Speaker 7: removing the cloudy areas in your relationship. And ain't always

1620
01:23:46,960 --> 01:23:49,160
Speaker 7: gonna be pretty a lot of times. It ain't gonna

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01:23:49,160 --> 01:23:53,880
Speaker 7: be fun. It may not be easy. The easier it

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01:23:54,080 --> 01:23:57,000
Speaker 7: becomes to address those things, the easier it gets to

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01:23:57,120 --> 01:24:00,559
Speaker 7: have those conversations. It's never fun, but you get better

1624
01:24:00,720 --> 01:24:03,000
Speaker 7: at doing it. Taking the trash out at fun, but

1625
01:24:03,200 --> 01:24:04,720
Speaker 7: like it at least if I take it out.

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01:24:04,720 --> 01:24:06,719
Speaker 3: It ain't gonna smell like this. It ain't gonna be full.

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01:24:06,840 --> 01:24:08,560
Speaker 7: I ain't gonna be mad when it pop up, Like

1628
01:24:08,840 --> 01:24:12,679
Speaker 7: it gets easier to do the act. It's never something

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01:24:12,720 --> 01:24:15,120
Speaker 7: that you want to do, but it does get easier

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01:24:15,200 --> 01:24:15,400
Speaker 7: to do.

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01:24:16,680 --> 01:24:20,439
Speaker 4: I told me that after she graduated from Tantra School

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01:24:20,720 --> 01:24:23,920
Speaker 4: that one of the things I realized is that, you know,

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01:24:24,080 --> 01:24:28,519
Speaker 4: we don't stop arguing, but it's faster to get back

1634
01:24:28,560 --> 01:24:31,320
Speaker 4: to our normal. Yes, we get back to our normal

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01:24:31,439 --> 01:24:32,840
Speaker 4: so so much quicker.

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01:24:33,120 --> 01:24:38,080
Speaker 5: Yes, right. We we pointed that out about ourselves a

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01:24:38,120 --> 01:24:40,519
Speaker 5: little while ago, a few months ago. It was like,

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01:24:41,000 --> 01:24:44,439
Speaker 5: it's just getting faster and faster, like just talk it

1639
01:24:44,520 --> 01:24:48,200
Speaker 5: out and then the next minute we like joking about

1640
01:24:48,240 --> 01:24:53,280
Speaker 5: some silly shit, or he's sending me some stupid Instagram video, Yeah.

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01:24:55,080 --> 01:24:57,439
Speaker 3: Very much. Yeah, look at you.

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01:25:03,240 --> 01:25:05,800
Speaker 4: You know how now is because usually I'll be like

1643
01:25:05,920 --> 01:25:08,400
Speaker 4: so ready to be jokingly and witty, and I'm really

1644
01:25:08,560 --> 01:25:11,960
Speaker 4: taking in this like loving moment. I'm really feeling the

1645
01:25:12,040 --> 01:25:15,640
Speaker 4: energy above, and I'm loving that we had to we

1646
01:25:15,760 --> 01:25:17,320
Speaker 4: have this space so we can have these type of

1647
01:25:17,400 --> 01:25:19,760
Speaker 4: conversations that people can hear, because I think it's like

1648
01:25:19,880 --> 01:25:24,599
Speaker 4: dope and important to hear multiple healthy couples talk about

1649
01:25:25,120 --> 01:25:29,120
Speaker 4: how you can do so many things, so many different

1650
01:25:29,160 --> 01:25:34,160
Speaker 4: ways in your relationship and realizing now with how there's

1651
01:25:34,200 --> 01:25:37,519
Speaker 4: an open mindness to the different type of relationships out there,

1652
01:25:37,560 --> 01:25:41,120
Speaker 4: whether you're like poly or non monogamous or monogamous, just

1653
01:25:41,360 --> 01:25:44,240
Speaker 4: showing people how relationships are meant to be customized, not

1654
01:25:44,439 --> 01:25:47,479
Speaker 4: under like one that or like one title that's just

1655
01:25:47,520 --> 01:25:48,240
Speaker 4: supposed to stay too.

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01:25:48,360 --> 01:25:50,439
Speaker 5: So your relationship is what you make it.

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01:25:50,720 --> 01:25:50,960
Speaker 6: Yeah.

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01:25:51,160 --> 01:25:53,280
Speaker 4: Yeah, So I really love that we have this space

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01:25:53,320 --> 01:25:57,160
Speaker 4: and we can have specifically a couple like y'all that

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01:25:57,560 --> 01:26:00,680
Speaker 4: not only have like a very specific type of relationship

1661
01:26:01,200 --> 01:26:05,760
Speaker 4: and pleasurable lifestyle, but also are just as entertaining it.

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01:26:08,120 --> 01:26:13,200
Speaker 3: I appreciate you'all having together on the calending.

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01:26:13,360 --> 01:26:17,160
Speaker 6: I mean, yeah, so where can they find y'all give

1664
01:26:17,160 --> 01:26:18,760
Speaker 6: all the information and that stuff?

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01:26:18,840 --> 01:26:33,280
Speaker 3: Our only fans listen if I have so many noticeable,

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01:26:33,800 --> 01:26:39,640
Speaker 3: notable tattoos. We probably would those, we would put our

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01:26:39,680 --> 01:26:48,120
Speaker 3: faces in. But like I got yeah tattoos, multiple ones.

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Speaker 5: That three yeah wait it's three, oh ship, it is three. Yeah,

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01:26:52,400 --> 01:26:54,000
Speaker 5: we have three matching tattoos.

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01:26:56,280 --> 01:27:00,679
Speaker 3: Yeah, one but it looks like a blood drops here week.

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Speaker 6: Rick and they find you.

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01:27:06,400 --> 01:27:12,080
Speaker 5: Sorry, we both have YouTube pages. You fine, You're hot.

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01:27:14,680 --> 01:27:15,559
Speaker 2: We were so unique.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god.

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01:27:23,200 --> 01:27:28,600
Speaker 5: Yes on YouTube, fair and more to hear more and

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Speaker 5: everywhere else is just to hear more.

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01:27:30,479 --> 01:27:34,679
Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, listen find us everywhere. This is love

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Speaker 6: Thank you for coming.

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01:27:48,200 --> 01:27:51,160
Speaker 4: This is our second ever double date episode, so I

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01:27:51,320 --> 01:27:52,240
Speaker 4: really appreciate you all.

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01:27:52,280 --> 01:27:53,960
Speaker 6: This is fantastic.

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01:27:55,479 --> 01:27:58,880
Speaker 4: Thank you for listening to Love Like This Love Cast, before, during,

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