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Speaker 1: And here's the part that I want to give to

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Speaker 1: All right. I'm trying. I'm trying to be nice to

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Speaker 1: What's what? What is this any like? Bigger? Huh? What

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to stop calling me man, mister darnel. I'm

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Speaker 1: still trying to help you get through this situation. Okay,

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Speaker 1: are you willing to come in for a consultation? At

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Speaker 1: least we're coming in for a consultation. We can get

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Speaker 1: your further on where you are. Are you listening to me?

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Speaker 1: The only consultation we're gonna have is my sister in

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Speaker 1: your face? Did you call me again to tell you what?

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Speaker 1: I will come in for a consultation. Give me give

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Speaker 1: me your address and everything like that, all your information,

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Speaker 1: and I will come down for a consultation. You're gonna

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Speaker 1: be there. I'm here, I'm here, I'm here the first

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Speaker 1: eight hours of the day, sir. What I want to

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Speaker 1: me call my wife. I don't need no damn procedures.

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Speaker 1: Give me your info and you got to work out

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Speaker 1: here from us. No more? Okay, right now? Sure to

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Speaker 1: get up. I don't want to hang up on you.

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Speaker 1: And I understand you're trying to do your job. You're small.

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Speaker 1: You're small, and I'm trying to make you bigger. You. Hey, sir,

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Speaker 1: you know what I'm trying to person. That's a little

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Speaker 1: small guy and I'm trying to help you with your problem. Now.

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Speaker 1: If you're not gonna be appreciative of it, then I

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Speaker 1: don't even understand why. Your wife knows you're having your address?

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Speaker 1: Why and we can have this conversation face to face.

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Speaker 1: You don't know what your wife here. It doesn't matter.

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Speaker 1: If I can get on the line, I can figure

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Speaker 1: out why she calls you because you're coming adequate many sir, sir,

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Speaker 1: here's the problem. You're tiny and you don't want to

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Speaker 1: admit it. I ain't even getting you know me, man,

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Speaker 1: You never see me. You don't know anything about me.

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Speaker 1: I can't even believe my wife would even call you.

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Speaker 1: But just this is just how you do business. You

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Speaker 1: don't call me and call me. I'm tiny, sir, I'm

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Speaker 1: come to you. I'm not only the president, but I'm

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Speaker 1: also a client. Sir. I don't give up what you

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Speaker 1: are Okay, okay, And there are some other things that

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Speaker 1: let us know as well. What the would that mean?

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Speaker 1: She also wanted me to tell you that this is

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Speaker 1: Nephew Tommy from Steve Harvey Morning Show. Your wife just

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Speaker 1: prayed for called you bad man's funny man. I'm on

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Speaker 1: here over here looking at us in the mirror. Kind

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Speaker 1: of I thought I was good, but I got a

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Speaker 1: little nervous. Man, what's the baddest radio show in the land?

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Speaker 1: Come on now, you know it's a Stee Harvey radio show. Man.

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Speaker 1: How y'all felt about it? Wow? You want to make

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Speaker 1: shore Knoxville, Tennessee. Friday, April nineteen, The Nephew and Bruce

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Speaker 1: Bruce will be in town at Knoxville Civic Auditorium. Tickets

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Speaker 1: on sale right now. Laying in the cut, it's Virginia Beach,

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Speaker 1: Virginia Beach Comedy Club. May second through the If that's it,

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Speaker 1: I'm coming up at the top of the hour while

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Speaker 1: they fight it out. Entertainment news right after this, you're

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Speaker 1: listening to show coming up at twenty after the hour,

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Speaker 1: we're going to talk about celebrities, family members, friends, fans.

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Speaker 1: They all paid their final respects to Nipsey Hustle at

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Speaker 1: a celebration of life memorial service yesterday at the Staples Center.

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Speaker 1: But first in today's entertainment news, Wendy Williams has filed

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Speaker 1: for divorce from her husband, Kevin Hunter. Yeah. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: a lot of people were wondering if she was ever

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Speaker 1: going to do it, and here it is. The split

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Speaker 1: comes after nearly twenty two years of marriage and most

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Speaker 1: recently Kevin's alleged mistress, Sharena Hudson having a baby. Wendy's

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Speaker 1: been going through a rough patch. She's been going through

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Speaker 1: a lot lately, living at a sober house and getting

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Speaker 1: round the clock help to deal with addiction issues. Wendy

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Speaker 1: and Kevin, who's also been her manager, you're for quite

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Speaker 1: a while, have been married for more than twenty years,

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Speaker 1: as I mentioned, twenty two. They have one son together. Wow.

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Speaker 1: Who they be married twenty do you? Yeah? No? No,

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Speaker 1: Wendy been married not clarity, Clarity, who've been married? In him? No,

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Speaker 1: Wendy's been married? Wow. Yeah. If this was another celebrity,

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Speaker 1: she would be talking about it big time, right about it.

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Speaker 1: She would be. That's that's what she does. And I

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Speaker 1: also warned on TMZ, Shirley, did you hear this that

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Speaker 1: the papers were served to Kevin on the set of

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Speaker 1: the show? Oh? No, I didn't, because he's manager. He

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Speaker 1: was a producer EP. Yeah, he's an EP manager. And

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Speaker 1: they said they had extra security there just in case,

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Speaker 1: you know, he was upset or you know, who are

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Speaker 1: you gonna trip with? Huh? I don't. But but let

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Speaker 1: me just say this, it's hard. It's easier. It's hard

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Speaker 1: to talk about yourself. It's way easier. I'm sure to

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Speaker 1: talk about other people's problems, but to talk about Lord,

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Speaker 1: I don't wish that on anyone. We're here the best

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Speaker 1: hope she comes out on the other side a better

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Speaker 1: person and actress Lori Laughlin didn't anticipate getting jail time

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Speaker 1: in the college admission scandal. Excuse me. Yeah, Now that

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Speaker 1: she and her husband Massimo are facing up to forty

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Speaker 1: years behind bars, she's freaking out. She's also kicking herself

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Speaker 1: for not taking the deal that Felicity Huffman took. Turns

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Speaker 1: out that, yeah, Laurie Laughlin thought prosecutors were bluffing the

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Speaker 1: whole jail time thing. Who was the plea deal that

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Speaker 1: other ladyship four to ten months? Something like that? Four

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Speaker 1: to ten months? Yeah, I don't think they get in

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Speaker 1: a sentencing Parma. But she did plead guilty. We do

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Speaker 1: know that. Yeah, But have y'all not looked at y'all

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Speaker 1: keys and realize what they're not gonna be? Have y'all

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Speaker 1: not realized? Am I the only one? Have you not

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Speaker 1: looked at your kids? And do you not fens to

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Speaker 1: be president? I got a couple of that I know

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Speaker 1: ain't gonna be president. You ain't been to be a

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Speaker 1: doctor or lawyer? I see that. So I'm not gonna

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Speaker 1: spend a half a million on you for something I

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Speaker 1: know you're not fensed to be. Why would I do that?

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Speaker 1: Why would I do Why would I? Why would I

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Speaker 1: invest in that? You're not fensed to be that? You're

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Speaker 1: just keeping it real If you're not, you ain't your doctor,

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Speaker 1: white doctor, stupid? You ain't fensed to be nothing other

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Speaker 1: than that? Wow? Wow, Well, anyway, she's seeing the light now,

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Speaker 1: Thank god, she's taking it seriously now forty forty years

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Speaker 1: and uh, she and her legal team are looking at

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Speaker 1: things quite differently. Now, Steve, what does she think though?

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Speaker 1: I guess that you know, if what you if if

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Speaker 1: you up with some charges and the crime could hold

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Speaker 1: up to forty years, at what point do you start

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Speaker 1: thinking foe of them would be well yeah, yeah fo

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Speaker 1: days don't. But if you've been getting by and paying

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Speaker 1: for things and being rich and living this fabulous life,

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Speaker 1: I mean that's her world. So Dame, all right, we

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Speaker 1: gotta get to uh, why why I can't be rich

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Speaker 1: with your dumb ass Keith? Why can't we got ladies

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Speaker 1: and gentlemen, miss and trip. Thank you very much everybody.

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Speaker 1: This is a trip with the news. President Trump held

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Speaker 1: talks at the White House yesterday with South Korea's president,

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Speaker 1: and after their discussions, both of you are stressed the

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Speaker 1: need for diplomacy, especially where it concerns getting nuclear talks

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Speaker 1: back on track between the US and North Korea. However,

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Speaker 1: the President made it clear that any renewed discussions on

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Speaker 1: the North nuclear arsenal would not involve lessening of any sanctions.

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Speaker 1: Want sanctions to remain in place, and frankly, I had

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Speaker 1: the option of significantly increasing them. I didn't want to

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Speaker 1: do that because of my relationship with Kim Jong un.

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Speaker 1: I did not want to do that. I didn't think

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Speaker 1: it was necessary, as you know, a couple of weeks ago,

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Speaker 1: I held it back. Trump added the quote, good things

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Speaker 1: came out of February's talks with North Korea's leader Kim John.

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Speaker 1: I guess we'll have to see that. By the way,

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Speaker 1: it looks like the Trump administration is still bent on

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Speaker 1: training the eyes of the nation on out of space.

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Speaker 1: From you, I guess not. This president wants to establish

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Speaker 1: a sixth branch of the military that he wants to

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Speaker 1: call Space Force, and his job would be to protect

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Speaker 1: us interest from above real life, your emission to explore strength.

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Speaker 1: That was Acting Secretary of Defense. I was trying to

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Speaker 1: get him, Patrick Shanahan, he was testifying before the sent

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Speaker 1: He want to hear what he said. Every member of

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Speaker 1: this committee has access to the classified threat picture. But

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Speaker 1: the bottom line is the next major conflict maybe one

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Speaker 1: or lost in space. That's what he says. That was

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Speaker 1: Acting Secretary of Defense Patrick Shanahan testifying before the Senate

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Speaker 1: Armed Services Committee about a sixth branch of the military

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Speaker 1: that the president wants to call Space Force. The City

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Speaker 1: of Chicago suiting actor Jesse Smallest. Shytown lawyers followed the

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Speaker 1: civil suit against the TV stars, seeking to recoup the

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Speaker 1: money spent on the investigation into his claim that he

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Speaker 1: was taunted an assaulted by two men because he's both

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Speaker 1: black and gay and attacked that the Chicago Police insists

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Speaker 1: never happened. Charges would drop, but he does have to

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Speaker 1: do some community service and he did have to forfeit

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Speaker 1: his bail. The US State departments come out with a

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Speaker 1: new list of thirty five countries Americans are being warned

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Speaker 1: to stay away from. They're the usual suspects like Iran, Iraq,

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Speaker 1: and Libya, but Trindad and Tobago was on that list. Finally,

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Speaker 1: some twenty one thousand people in Los Angeles Staples Center,

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Speaker 1: along with tens of thousands of others all over social media,

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Speaker 1: said goodbye yesterday the rapper, businessman, community activist Nipsey Hustle,

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Speaker 1: including his fiance his Lady Love actress Lauren London, who

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Speaker 1: expressed both the heartfelt grief and gratefulness that she felt

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Speaker 1: love him my life. You know what it is. I'm

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Speaker 1: so grateful that I had you. I love you beyond

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Speaker 1: this earth and until we meet again. The marathon continues.

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Speaker 1: Back to Steve Harvey Morning Show You're listening to show

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Speaker 1: Fansville Staples Center on Thursday morning to pay their final

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Speaker 1: respects to Nipsey Hustle. The underlying message of Nipseys celebration

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Speaker 1: of life was that the marathon continues. That was also

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Speaker 1: the name of his clothing store. Of family and friends

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Speaker 1: took the stage to share memories of him. Nipsey's girlfriend

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Speaker 1: Lauren London spoke during the family tribute's portion, as did

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Speaker 1: Nipsey's mother. His brother Sam also Snoop Dogg, and Minister

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Speaker 1: Lewis Farcon spoke. Among the twenty one in attendance were

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Speaker 1: Nip's famous friends like Kendrick Lamar, Chance the Rapper, Cassie

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Speaker 1: master P and Romeo and President Obama sent a heartfelt

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Speaker 1: letter and Stevie Wonder spoke and he spoke about gun control.

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Speaker 1: Take a listen, stronger guns. It's unacceptable. It's almost like

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Speaker 1: the world is becoming blind. I pray that we will grow.

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Speaker 1: I pray that the leaders who have a responsibility to

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Speaker 1: perpetuate life, we'll do it by making sure that the

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Speaker 1: laws will make it so very hard for people to

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Speaker 1: have guns and to take their frustrations out to kill life.

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Speaker 1: I'm very happy that in his short life he was

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Speaker 1: able to motivate people, and I hope that it motivates

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Speaker 1: you enough to say, listen, enough of people being killed

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Speaker 1: by guns and violence. I hope that we don't just

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Speaker 1: talk about it, but we be about it to make

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Speaker 1: a difference for our future. Wow. Powerful and so true.

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Speaker 1: You know, Look, look, man, to get the gun laws

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Speaker 1: in place, we're going to have to change so many things.

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Speaker 1: The number one thing is the NIA cannot be one

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Speaker 1: of the number one contributors to the Republican Party. You

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Speaker 1: don't understand that they are one of the top contributors,

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Speaker 1: if not the top contributor to the Republican Party. They

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Speaker 1: back Republican candidates. If you come out and speak against

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Speaker 1: the right to carry in arms in this country, they

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Speaker 1: pull the money from you. Not only do they pull

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Speaker 1: it from you, they put it behind your opponent. And

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Speaker 1: these people are not willing to give up their power,

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Speaker 1: position or money to save nobody like that. Right. There

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Speaker 1: is the ugly, ugly truth of this country. Because we're not,

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Speaker 1: by any stretch of imagination, largest country in the world,

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Speaker 1: but we have the most gun violence depths of any

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Speaker 1: of them, and we have the most inmates of any

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Speaker 1: of them. And we're making mistakes, man, we are making mistakes. Yeah.

630
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Speaker 1: Here were the number one drug using country. Yeah, I

631
00:40:17,960 --> 00:40:21,759
Speaker 1: don't know, nobody use more drugs than us. Yeah, all right,

632
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Speaker 1: Coming up at thirty four after the hours Steve Lauren

633
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Speaker 1: London's beautiful speech about the love of her life. We'll

634
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Speaker 1: listen to that when we come back right after this.

635
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Speaker 1: You're listening to Lauren London, Nipsey Hustle's love and mother

636
00:40:38,000 --> 00:40:41,120
Speaker 1: of his children, of his child gave a beautiful speech

637
00:40:41,120 --> 00:40:44,120
Speaker 1: about the love of her life Nipsey Hustle at a

638
00:40:44,200 --> 00:40:48,680
Speaker 1: celebration of life memorial service. Um, it was a beautiful service.

639
00:40:49,719 --> 00:40:54,000
Speaker 1: His brother Sam spoke very eloquently. I loved what he

640
00:40:54,040 --> 00:40:58,160
Speaker 1: said about his little brother Snoop dog. I mean, so

641
00:40:58,200 --> 00:41:02,640
Speaker 1: many wonderful speakers. Know Sureley, I'll say this, I've never

642
00:41:02,719 --> 00:41:10,200
Speaker 1: lost you know, my wife, my lover, and she lost

643
00:41:10,200 --> 00:41:13,160
Speaker 1: her man hellover, you got to be an incredibly strong

644
00:41:13,280 --> 00:41:17,840
Speaker 1: person to talk at that funeral. Yes, lord, this is

645
00:41:17,840 --> 00:41:20,880
Speaker 1: what Lauren London said. Take a listen. You've given me

646
00:41:20,920 --> 00:41:24,719
Speaker 1: the opportunity to really love a man. You've been with

647
00:41:24,760 --> 00:41:28,360
Speaker 1: me while I've been sick. Through all my fears, you

648
00:41:28,440 --> 00:41:32,560
Speaker 1: have encouraged me and inspired me to reach higher. I've

649
00:41:32,640 --> 00:41:36,759
Speaker 1: learned so much about myself with you. You've been my

650
00:41:36,840 --> 00:41:40,520
Speaker 1: turn up and my church. I wouldn't want to go

651
00:41:40,560 --> 00:41:44,000
Speaker 1: through this journey with anyone but you. I look up

652
00:41:44,000 --> 00:41:45,800
Speaker 1: to you in a lot of ways, and I'll strive

653
00:41:45,920 --> 00:41:49,640
Speaker 1: to educate myself more like you have. And when we

654
00:41:49,680 --> 00:41:53,319
Speaker 1: are at odds, I feel defeated and sad knowing that

655
00:41:53,360 --> 00:41:56,399
Speaker 1: we are so much better than that. I just want

656
00:41:56,440 --> 00:41:58,880
Speaker 1: you to know that you've been You've been the greatest

657
00:41:58,920 --> 00:42:02,399
Speaker 1: boyfriend to me. You weren't perfect, but I would never

658
00:42:02,480 --> 00:42:06,160
Speaker 1: ask you to be. You and I work, we fit,

659
00:42:07,080 --> 00:42:10,160
Speaker 1: and you're the coolest guy in the world to me. Still,

660
00:42:11,000 --> 00:42:14,879
Speaker 1: I love you so much, unconditionally. My truth is this,

661
00:42:15,600 --> 00:42:18,880
Speaker 1: I'm never gonna give up on you. My love and

662
00:42:18,960 --> 00:42:22,840
Speaker 1: my devotion is to you. And I sent that January

663
00:42:22,880 --> 00:42:39,560
Speaker 1: twenty first, twenty nineteen. I had to write something because

664
00:42:39,640 --> 00:42:43,520
Speaker 1: I've never felt this type of pain before. But I

665
00:42:43,600 --> 00:42:48,319
Speaker 1: know that God is alive. But bear with me. All

666
00:42:51,200 --> 00:42:55,279
Speaker 1: his soul was majestic. He was the strongest man that

667
00:42:55,320 --> 00:43:00,160
Speaker 1: I ever knew, a gentle father, a patient leader, a

668
00:43:00,280 --> 00:43:07,120
Speaker 1: divine light. He was brilliant. He researched everything, completely self taught,

669
00:43:07,760 --> 00:43:11,960
Speaker 1: constantly seeking knowledge. He would he would go to bed

670
00:43:11,960 --> 00:43:15,239
Speaker 1: and listen to these audio books and his headphones, and

671
00:43:15,280 --> 00:43:18,000
Speaker 1: I would tease him, but that really is what I

672
00:43:18,040 --> 00:43:21,840
Speaker 1: thought was the coolest ever about him. And he would

673
00:43:21,840 --> 00:43:23,719
Speaker 1: wake up in the morning and play music for the

674
00:43:23,840 --> 00:43:27,080
Speaker 1: kids and light a sage and burn it around the

675
00:43:27,120 --> 00:43:31,280
Speaker 1: house and just make sure that our energy going outside

676
00:43:31,320 --> 00:43:34,520
Speaker 1: would be uplifted and that we could handle the day.

677
00:43:37,239 --> 00:43:41,359
Speaker 1: You know, my pain is for my two year old

678
00:43:41,400 --> 00:43:48,640
Speaker 1: that probably won't remember how much his dad loved him. Um,

679
00:43:49,200 --> 00:43:53,040
Speaker 1: this is something that you know, I never I don't

680
00:43:53,080 --> 00:43:55,799
Speaker 1: really understand, but I know that aramis always used sets

681
00:43:55,960 --> 00:44:01,680
Speaker 1: people that you experienced them, and I'm so honored and

682
00:44:01,719 --> 00:44:06,520
Speaker 1: blessed that I got to experience such a man. I

683
00:44:06,640 --> 00:44:10,040
Speaker 1: know everyone is hurting, but I'd like to say something

684
00:44:10,080 --> 00:44:14,640
Speaker 1: to my city, Los Angeles. Y'all from our LA stand up,

685
00:44:20,920 --> 00:44:25,759
Speaker 1: because this pain is really ours. You know, we know

686
00:44:25,840 --> 00:44:29,320
Speaker 1: what it meant to us. We lost an incredible soul.

687
00:44:30,239 --> 00:44:33,280
Speaker 1: We lost someone very rare to us, and we lost

688
00:44:33,280 --> 00:44:36,600
Speaker 1: a real one and we won't ever be the same

689
00:44:37,640 --> 00:44:40,319
Speaker 1: but in Hustle's words, because he used to always say this,

690
00:44:41,200 --> 00:44:44,919
Speaker 1: the game is gonna test you. Never fold, stay tin

691
00:44:45,000 --> 00:44:48,799
Speaker 1: toes down. It's not on you. It's in you. And

692
00:44:48,960 --> 00:44:51,399
Speaker 1: what's in you they can't take away. And he's in

693
00:44:51,440 --> 00:45:03,440
Speaker 1: all of us. It's an Airmy is the love of

694
00:45:03,520 --> 00:45:07,719
Speaker 1: my life. You know what it is. Grief is the

695
00:45:07,760 --> 00:45:11,200
Speaker 1: final act of love. My heart hears you. I feel

696
00:45:11,239 --> 00:45:15,799
Speaker 1: you everywhere. I'm so grateful that I had you. I

697
00:45:15,920 --> 00:45:19,520
Speaker 1: love you beyond this earth and until we meet again.

698
00:45:20,400 --> 00:45:31,200
Speaker 1: The marathon continued. You're listening, all right, guys. Coming up

699
00:45:31,200 --> 00:45:33,799
Speaker 1: at the top of the hour, right about four minutes after,

700
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Speaker 1: it's my Strawberry letter for today, the subject What's wrong

701
00:45:37,400 --> 00:45:40,520
Speaker 1: with her? Chipping in? But right now the nephew is

702
00:45:40,560 --> 00:45:43,560
Speaker 1: here with today's frank phone call. What you got? Neff?

703
00:45:44,040 --> 00:45:45,880
Speaker 1: You know what I ain't gonna I ain't gonna like

704
00:45:46,000 --> 00:45:48,680
Speaker 1: really make this all that. I ain't gonna do that.

705
00:45:49,320 --> 00:45:52,520
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna say it like this, this my dad's favorite.

706
00:45:52,880 --> 00:45:58,279
Speaker 1: Oh can I have your kid? Man? That's all I'm

707
00:45:58,280 --> 00:45:59,960
Speaker 1: gonna say that. You know what I'm saying. I ain't

708
00:46:00,000 --> 00:46:09,840
Speaker 1: don't go into detail, just can I have your kidding? Hello. Hello,

709
00:46:09,880 --> 00:46:12,879
Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach a brother, Conny. This is kind

710
00:46:12,880 --> 00:46:16,040
Speaker 1: of how you're doing. Brother. This is Deacon Patterson called

711
00:46:16,080 --> 00:46:19,920
Speaker 1: him from the church. How you doing today, Uh, Deacon Patterson. Yeah,

712
00:46:20,080 --> 00:46:23,359
Speaker 1: just doing fun and yourself, sir, I'm doing good, doing good.

713
00:46:23,360 --> 00:46:25,279
Speaker 1: And you know the churches behind you on what you're

714
00:46:25,280 --> 00:46:27,520
Speaker 1: going through. When we were praying for you, man, we

715
00:46:27,680 --> 00:46:29,920
Speaker 1: know all about the you know you're going in the

716
00:46:29,960 --> 00:46:33,080
Speaker 1: surgeon on Friday to get your get your prancers removed.

717
00:46:33,080 --> 00:46:35,480
Speaker 1: So I wanted to give you a call, man, have

718
00:46:35,520 --> 00:46:37,000
Speaker 1: a word of prayer and let you know that we

719
00:46:37,120 --> 00:46:40,080
Speaker 1: all are pulling for you, and we know that that

720
00:46:40,160 --> 00:46:43,480
Speaker 1: the man upstairs are gonna pull you through this successful. Well.

721
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Speaker 1: God blessing keep you, uh that, deacon, God blessing keep

722
00:46:47,000 --> 00:46:48,879
Speaker 1: you because I tell you I'm going through something here.

723
00:46:49,200 --> 00:46:51,080
Speaker 1: Me and my wife, we've been talking about it and

724
00:46:51,400 --> 00:46:53,440
Speaker 1: we've been praying on it and it she was a

725
00:46:53,480 --> 00:46:55,880
Speaker 1: wonderful thing to know that your church is with you

726
00:46:55,960 --> 00:46:59,239
Speaker 1: and and y'all thinking about me and prayer. I've really

727
00:46:59,239 --> 00:47:01,759
Speaker 1: had to take this, this to the Lord. This is

728
00:47:01,760 --> 00:47:04,200
Speaker 1: a serious thing with me and I ain't never had

729
00:47:04,239 --> 00:47:06,680
Speaker 1: an operation before in my life, and a right. I

730
00:47:06,800 --> 00:47:08,960
Speaker 1: know I needed my wife and made it clear. The

731
00:47:09,000 --> 00:47:11,120
Speaker 1: doctor made it clear that I believe I'm ready to

732
00:47:11,120 --> 00:47:13,960
Speaker 1: go forward because it was that Deacon Patterson. Yes, yes,

733
00:47:14,040 --> 00:47:16,879
Speaker 1: that's right, Dicon Proteron. I haven't I haven't been. I've

734
00:47:16,880 --> 00:47:19,640
Speaker 1: been in the church probably about probably about eight months now.

735
00:47:19,680 --> 00:47:21,759
Speaker 1: You've pretty much been out most of the time. Yes,

736
00:47:22,040 --> 00:47:25,440
Speaker 1: I have been out of you. Yeah. Yeah, so I've

737
00:47:25,520 --> 00:47:27,160
Speaker 1: seen you a couple of times. But I wanted to

738
00:47:27,160 --> 00:47:29,840
Speaker 1: call and and and and put a word in for

739
00:47:30,000 --> 00:47:31,360
Speaker 1: you and let him and you know, let you know

740
00:47:31,440 --> 00:47:33,479
Speaker 1: that we're all praying for you to church. He's the Lord.

741
00:47:33,600 --> 00:47:36,200
Speaker 1: Can't you get back? And and we know out for Friday.

742
00:47:36,239 --> 00:47:39,080
Speaker 1: It's gonna definitely be a great success. Yes, and we're

743
00:47:39,080 --> 00:47:43,319
Speaker 1: gonna give the victory to who the victory. Yes, he's

744
00:47:43,360 --> 00:47:46,120
Speaker 1: the victory. Yet, let me let me have a word

745
00:47:46,120 --> 00:47:47,839
Speaker 1: of prayer with your brother Conlin, if you don't mind,

746
00:47:48,640 --> 00:47:50,600
Speaker 1: just about your head from me. Father God, we as

747
00:47:50,680 --> 00:47:53,840
Speaker 1: right now, We asked right now that you touch brother

748
00:47:53,920 --> 00:47:56,919
Speaker 1: Connelly as he goes in on Friday, please put your

749
00:47:56,920 --> 00:47:59,640
Speaker 1: hands on him. We ask Father that you hold on

750
00:48:00,280 --> 00:48:02,359
Speaker 1: to the doctor that's getting ready to go and lay

751
00:48:02,480 --> 00:48:05,839
Speaker 1: to put surgery on. Yes, we asked that you make

752
00:48:05,920 --> 00:48:09,719
Speaker 1: sure that the doctor it's got a strong eye on

753
00:48:09,880 --> 00:48:12,400
Speaker 1: that morning walk with him. We asked that that that

754
00:48:12,440 --> 00:48:15,200
Speaker 1: he got a steady hand when he got the scalpel

755
00:48:15,360 --> 00:48:17,800
Speaker 1: in his hand. We asked that you hold own to

756
00:48:18,120 --> 00:48:21,000
Speaker 1: him please as it goes into a surgeon, because we

757
00:48:21,080 --> 00:48:25,320
Speaker 1: know comes side the mor the victory gonna belong to

758
00:48:25,440 --> 00:48:28,320
Speaker 1: brother Connley and the Lord. Lord. We know all of this.

759
00:48:28,480 --> 00:48:30,840
Speaker 1: But we we asked that you take that pincress and

760
00:48:30,920 --> 00:48:34,440
Speaker 1: you remove it out successfuly, close him back up like

761
00:48:34,520 --> 00:48:37,279
Speaker 1: it will never been into the end before walk with Nick.

762
00:48:37,520 --> 00:48:39,520
Speaker 1: That's what we're asking, we ask your Lord. At the

763
00:48:39,560 --> 00:48:43,200
Speaker 1: same time that they're removing this pincreus. Lord, we asked

764
00:48:43,440 --> 00:48:46,960
Speaker 1: that your reach around his backside and we asked that

765
00:48:47,040 --> 00:48:50,640
Speaker 1: you touch his kidney. Lord, touch his kidney and make

766
00:48:50,680 --> 00:48:53,120
Speaker 1: it hold. Make it a hundred and ten percent. We

767
00:48:53,200 --> 00:48:55,640
Speaker 1: want you to make that that kidney like it's been

768
00:48:55,719 --> 00:49:01,680
Speaker 1: that best kidneys. Deacon, that's deacon, Deacon whoop, pat Deacon passing. Yes,

769
00:49:01,920 --> 00:49:04,239
Speaker 1: you know you say they do, sir, They're just nothing

770
00:49:04,239 --> 00:49:07,160
Speaker 1: wrong with my kidney, Deacon. I'm doing I'm doing fine.

771
00:49:07,200 --> 00:49:09,560
Speaker 1: The Lord is Lord has denated, Well, he's gonna work

772
00:49:09,600 --> 00:49:12,839
Speaker 1: on my pancris. That's what the doctors operating the then

773
00:49:13,320 --> 00:49:15,839
Speaker 1: me forward and that's what they're playing to remove. So really,

774
00:49:15,960 --> 00:49:18,080
Speaker 1: my kidnes is fine. They did what they called when

775
00:49:18,080 --> 00:49:20,560
Speaker 1: they'm in my eyes and everything else is fine. They

776
00:49:20,560 --> 00:49:23,480
Speaker 1: ain't working on nothing but my pancres, sir, right right right,

777
00:49:24,200 --> 00:49:25,520
Speaker 1: Let me let me say I'm glad you brought it

778
00:49:25,600 --> 00:49:28,120
Speaker 1: up with this. This this when we want to call you.

779
00:49:29,080 --> 00:49:30,640
Speaker 1: What I want to ask you, and I know we

780
00:49:30,800 --> 00:49:33,120
Speaker 1: we you know we've never met. What I was gonna

781
00:49:33,160 --> 00:49:36,359
Speaker 1: ask you was yeah, and I know this is. I

782
00:49:36,400 --> 00:49:38,120
Speaker 1: hate to come at you in the final out and

783
00:49:38,200 --> 00:49:39,799
Speaker 1: you're getting ready to go out, sir and all that,

784
00:49:40,040 --> 00:49:42,359
Speaker 1: But if you don't mind it when they go in

785
00:49:42,520 --> 00:49:46,279
Speaker 1: on Friday morning and remove that pancres out, do you

786
00:49:46,440 --> 00:49:49,799
Speaker 1: think that they could go in and get one of

787
00:49:49,840 --> 00:49:53,360
Speaker 1: your kidneys? Because I need one? Hold hold on, just

788
00:49:53,400 --> 00:49:57,160
Speaker 1: met deacon up? What did you say? What you say?

789
00:49:57,280 --> 00:50:00,000
Speaker 1: See see see what else? I've been going through myself

790
00:50:00,040 --> 00:50:03,359
Speaker 1: up with a little ailment. And I'm wondering if if

791
00:50:03,400 --> 00:50:05,440
Speaker 1: if I need a kidney, and I'm wondering if you

792
00:50:05,480 --> 00:50:07,200
Speaker 1: can give me one of yours when they go in

793
00:50:07,239 --> 00:50:09,360
Speaker 1: and get your pankers. They're going already to have you open.

794
00:50:09,800 --> 00:50:12,160
Speaker 1: Did you say you wanted him to take one of

795
00:50:12,160 --> 00:50:14,319
Speaker 1: my kidneys? Yeah, and give it to me because I

796
00:50:14,400 --> 00:50:17,560
Speaker 1: need one. You need a kidney? Yeah? What what was

797
00:50:17,640 --> 00:50:20,040
Speaker 1: I mean? You already gonna be landing the open? Wait

798
00:50:20,040 --> 00:50:22,759
Speaker 1: a minute, mister, you need a kidney? I need help

799
00:50:22,760 --> 00:50:24,719
Speaker 1: with my packers. You will call me with some back

800
00:50:24,800 --> 00:50:27,359
Speaker 1: that man, this ain't no work in the Lord. Now

801
00:50:27,400 --> 00:50:31,280
Speaker 1: you say you're a deacon like I said, Dickon Patterson

802
00:50:31,360 --> 00:50:35,680
Speaker 1: my name, But see what I'm asking you? What you are? Man?

803
00:50:36,200 --> 00:50:39,000
Speaker 1: Brother Connin What harm is it if you already open

804
00:50:39,080 --> 00:50:40,719
Speaker 1: and land on the table. Oh you ain't heard a

805
00:50:41,120 --> 00:50:44,120
Speaker 1: danger I saying? Have you? I say, I'll be man,

806
00:50:44,160 --> 00:50:47,000
Speaker 1: you're crazy. It's hell. Now what I'm gonna have to do.

807
00:50:47,080 --> 00:50:49,600
Speaker 1: I'm gonna need to call the pastor because here's something

808
00:50:49,960 --> 00:50:53,200
Speaker 1: going on here. You say you knew you managed to

809
00:50:53,440 --> 00:50:56,319
Speaker 1: mister man, you too do to know who you're talking to.

810
00:50:56,480 --> 00:50:59,640
Speaker 1: What what I'm saying is you have took two Look

811
00:50:59,680 --> 00:51:01,320
Speaker 1: like you as you say they did the Mr. You

812
00:51:01,680 --> 00:51:04,239
Speaker 1: don't give up what I said they did? Man, I

813
00:51:04,360 --> 00:51:06,560
Speaker 1: got two kidneys. You got to one of yours bad.

814
00:51:06,600 --> 00:51:09,480
Speaker 1: That's your problem, mister. Let me tell you something. I'm

815
00:51:09,520 --> 00:51:12,360
Speaker 1: trying to get well, and you calling with this. You

816
00:51:12,480 --> 00:51:15,160
Speaker 1: say you're a new beacons, you show ills and you

817
00:51:15,200 --> 00:51:17,239
Speaker 1: won't be at the church long. I tell you that,

818
00:51:17,280 --> 00:51:19,600
Speaker 1: because if I ever get good to your sister, we

819
00:51:19,760 --> 00:51:21,719
Speaker 1: got some reston to do. What is it gonna hurt

820
00:51:21,760 --> 00:51:23,160
Speaker 1: for you to give me one of them kidnings and

821
00:51:23,239 --> 00:51:25,640
Speaker 1: both them? If both them kidness is good, it ain't

822
00:51:25,680 --> 00:51:28,279
Speaker 1: gonna hit them. Thinks you ain't getting my kidney? Man,

823
00:51:28,600 --> 00:51:31,719
Speaker 1: ain't gonna h what's wrong with you? Say? Man? All

824
00:51:31,760 --> 00:51:33,480
Speaker 1: I'm saying is if you're gonna be olden and laying

825
00:51:33,520 --> 00:51:36,799
Speaker 1: on the table, what is it gonna hurt? Old man?

826
00:51:36,840 --> 00:51:39,239
Speaker 1: You're gonna kill I'm open laying on the table. What

827
00:51:39,400 --> 00:51:42,440
Speaker 1: kind of a tell you in charge of? Mister? Let

828
00:51:42,440 --> 00:51:44,279
Speaker 1: me tell you something. Obviously I need to meet you

829
00:51:44,320 --> 00:51:46,200
Speaker 1: for I get to the hospital and then I can

830
00:51:46,239 --> 00:51:49,000
Speaker 1: hit the pick kitten in yours and I can tell

831
00:51:49,040 --> 00:51:52,840
Speaker 1: you that we out you're gonna feel them? How about that?

832
00:51:53,200 --> 00:51:55,439
Speaker 1: It's too many games going on in the church to day.

833
00:51:55,600 --> 00:51:57,960
Speaker 1: I'll be you're gonna call and talk to me out

834
00:51:57,960 --> 00:52:00,680
Speaker 1: of one of my kitteness. Man, I'm trying to live

835
00:52:00,760 --> 00:52:02,960
Speaker 1: just like you, trying to let the Lord take care

836
00:52:03,000 --> 00:52:04,400
Speaker 1: of me, because what you're talking about it ain't got

837
00:52:04,440 --> 00:52:06,799
Speaker 1: a thing to do with Jesus. You can kiss my

838
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Speaker 1: and get off my phone. That's what you can do.

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Speaker 1: Can I say one more thing to you? What is

840
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Speaker 1: you listening to me? Man? And don't listen to you

841
00:52:15,560 --> 00:52:18,319
Speaker 1: and you ain't talking about nothing that's got nothing to

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Speaker 1: do with what's going on with me. Mister, you're running

843
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Speaker 1: the game. If I could get to y'all put Lord

844
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Speaker 1: in your But can I just say one more thing

845
00:52:25,440 --> 00:52:27,160
Speaker 1: and then I'm gonna let you go? Is you listening

846
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Speaker 1: for what this is? Nephew timing from the Steve Harby

847
00:52:31,520 --> 00:52:37,800
Speaker 1: Morning Show. You just got franked by your daughter. Oh Lord,

848
00:52:38,040 --> 00:52:42,640
Speaker 1: have them that girl. Lord have mercy, Lord have much

849
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Speaker 1: Jesus you all right? Please forgive me Lord him mercy. Whoa, y'all.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to Lord him Mersus. My heart is

851
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Speaker 1: power peton hill, Lord Him, Mercy, Jesus, Brother, Commy, I

852
00:52:55,040 --> 00:52:57,799
Speaker 1: gotta ask you one more thing, man, what is the

853
00:52:57,840 --> 00:53:03,320
Speaker 1: baddest I'm talking about the baddest radio show in the land.

854
00:53:06,920 --> 00:53:11,200
Speaker 1: That's my dad's favorite right there. Now, wow, that's Papa

855
00:53:11,239 --> 00:53:14,319
Speaker 1: my favorite right down, Baby, you did that? I have

856
00:53:14,960 --> 00:53:20,319
Speaker 1: your kids all that is why? Why why why they

857
00:53:20,400 --> 00:53:23,719
Speaker 1: got you open? Yeah? Yeah, if you don't mind, can

858
00:53:23,800 --> 00:53:27,560
Speaker 1: they can they reach around and grab one of your kidneys?

859
00:53:27,560 --> 00:53:34,920
Speaker 1: Because I need you one. He ain't nothing wrong with

860
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Speaker 1: my kid it's my pancre. It's pagan you talking in

861
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Speaker 1: the prayer? You put that boy? Oh man, that's classic

862
00:53:46,719 --> 00:53:49,680
Speaker 1: right there. Knoxville, Tennessee. The Nephews coming to town Friday,

863
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Speaker 1: April to nineteenth at the Knoxville Civic AUDITORI is Me

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Speaker 1: and the one and only Bruce Bruce. Tickets are on

865
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Speaker 1: sale right now, so get your tickets because Ignorance is

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Speaker 1: coming to town. Laying in the cut May second through

867
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Speaker 1: the fourth, Virginia Beach Comedy Club. The Nephew is on

868
00:54:06,160 --> 00:54:08,880
Speaker 1: the way. That is May second through the fourth. The

869
00:54:09,000 --> 00:54:11,960
Speaker 1: Nephew is coming to town. I'm through, I'm through. I

870
00:54:11,960 --> 00:54:15,200
Speaker 1: didn't say it enough, alright, nephew, alright, nephew, can I

871
00:54:15,280 --> 00:54:18,560
Speaker 1: reach around and get one of your Coming up next?

872
00:54:18,880 --> 00:54:23,279
Speaker 1: It's the Strawberry letter subject what's wrong with her? Chipping in?

873
00:54:24,120 --> 00:54:27,040
Speaker 1: We'll get into it. Right after this, you're listening to

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00:54:27,440 --> 00:54:30,560
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, it's time now for

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00:54:30,760 --> 00:54:36,560
Speaker 1: today's Strawberry Letter, and listen. If you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting,

876
00:54:36,640 --> 00:54:40,600
Speaker 1: and more, please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve Harvey

877
00:54:40,600 --> 00:54:45,840
Speaker 1: FM and click submit Strawberry Letter. Okay, we could be

878
00:54:45,880 --> 00:54:48,160
Speaker 1: reading yours live on the air, just like we're reading

879
00:54:48,160 --> 00:54:51,520
Speaker 1: this one right now. Buckle up, hold on tight. We

880
00:54:51,600 --> 00:54:57,399
Speaker 1: got it for you. Here it is. That's straw very alright,

881
00:55:00,040 --> 00:55:02,600
Speaker 1: was kind of prank callish. All right, here we go.

882
00:55:03,600 --> 00:55:06,399
Speaker 1: What's wrong with her chipping in? Is the subject? What's

883
00:55:06,440 --> 00:55:10,759
Speaker 1: wrong with her chipping in? Here's Stephen Shirley. I'm a

884
00:55:10,800 --> 00:55:14,719
Speaker 1: hard working man. I worked from sun up to sundown,

885
00:55:14,960 --> 00:55:17,920
Speaker 1: and I do well for myself. Two years ago, I

886
00:55:18,040 --> 00:55:21,520
Speaker 1: met a very beautiful woman who I can see myself

887
00:55:21,600 --> 00:55:24,640
Speaker 1: being with for the rest of my life. About a

888
00:55:24,719 --> 00:55:28,480
Speaker 1: year into the relationship, we moved in together and started

889
00:55:28,480 --> 00:55:31,600
Speaker 1: planning for the future. I was recently laid off from

890
00:55:31,640 --> 00:55:34,080
Speaker 1: my job and I had to find a new one.

891
00:55:34,480 --> 00:55:37,760
Speaker 1: She was not working at the time. Money was getting tight,

892
00:55:38,080 --> 00:55:41,040
Speaker 1: so I took a pay cut. I asked my girlfriend

893
00:55:41,080 --> 00:55:43,200
Speaker 1: if she could get a part time job just to

894
00:55:43,239 --> 00:55:48,040
Speaker 1: help out with expenses. She said, you know you are

895
00:55:48,080 --> 00:55:51,239
Speaker 1: the man, therefore you're the one that's supposed to provide.

896
00:55:51,880 --> 00:55:56,160
Speaker 1: I wanted to do fifty fifty, but she says no roommate.

897
00:55:56,640 --> 00:56:00,400
Speaker 1: So I did the worst thing and would says she's yeah, oh,

898
00:56:00,440 --> 00:56:02,880
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, right. I didn't think that sounded right. I

899
00:56:02,920 --> 00:56:05,880
Speaker 1: wanted to do fifty fifty, but she says she's no roommates.

900
00:56:06,280 --> 00:56:08,880
Speaker 1: So I did the worst thing and went to Facebook

901
00:56:08,920 --> 00:56:12,800
Speaker 1: for advice. It backfired and I got called a little boy.

902
00:56:13,360 --> 00:56:15,759
Speaker 1: There are a lot of single women who feel this way.

903
00:56:16,239 --> 00:56:20,439
Speaker 1: I thought relationships or marriages were partnerships. I don't make

904
00:56:20,520 --> 00:56:23,480
Speaker 1: six figures, surely, and I'm not going to be this

905
00:56:23,560 --> 00:56:29,920
Speaker 1: girl's father. Please help. Okay, Okay, if you don't make

906
00:56:29,960 --> 00:56:33,280
Speaker 1: six figures, that's okay. It's whatever works for you, guys,

907
00:56:33,400 --> 00:56:37,360
Speaker 1: in your relationship. And clearly this is not working because

908
00:56:37,480 --> 00:56:40,799
Speaker 1: you're the only one working. You are working, though you

909
00:56:40,880 --> 00:56:42,759
Speaker 1: may not make as much as you used to make.

910
00:56:42,800 --> 00:56:44,840
Speaker 1: You said you took a pay cut, but she's not

911
00:56:44,920 --> 00:56:48,279
Speaker 1: working at all. Now, you guys have to develop set

912
00:56:48,320 --> 00:56:53,759
Speaker 1: up some ground rules, some boundaries here. Now she's not

913
00:56:53,800 --> 00:56:56,239
Speaker 1: gonna work at all? Is she able to work? Is

914
00:56:56,280 --> 00:57:00,240
Speaker 1: she capable of working? I mean, I get the whole.

915
00:57:00,440 --> 00:57:02,879
Speaker 1: You know, you're the man, you're the provider type thing

916
00:57:03,080 --> 00:57:09,560
Speaker 1: in a marriage. I mean that that's biblical. But does

917
00:57:09,560 --> 00:57:12,479
Speaker 1: she expect you just to take care of her? She's

918
00:57:12,520 --> 00:57:14,759
Speaker 1: not going to work at all? What does you mean,

919
00:57:15,320 --> 00:57:18,200
Speaker 1: like she that doesn't even enter? How she going to

920
00:57:18,280 --> 00:57:21,480
Speaker 1: take care of herself if you weren't around. I'm not

921
00:57:21,600 --> 00:57:24,800
Speaker 1: really understanding this. Is she just going to get another

922
00:57:24,840 --> 00:57:27,439
Speaker 1: man to take care of her and provide for her?

923
00:57:27,600 --> 00:57:32,120
Speaker 1: Is that where she's at with it? You know, you

924
00:57:32,120 --> 00:57:35,960
Speaker 1: guys are starting off this relationship on the wrong foot.

925
00:57:36,320 --> 00:57:39,000
Speaker 1: You'll never make it to the future that you want

926
00:57:39,040 --> 00:57:43,080
Speaker 1: to see with this kind of lack of communication and

927
00:57:43,160 --> 00:57:46,800
Speaker 1: just lack of partnership. A marriage and a relationship is

928
00:57:46,840 --> 00:57:49,800
Speaker 1: a partnership. Two of you have to agree on something

929
00:57:49,880 --> 00:57:52,400
Speaker 1: and you're this is very very basic. If you can't

930
00:57:52,400 --> 00:57:55,840
Speaker 1: agree on this, then you guys aren't gonna make it. Really,

931
00:57:55,880 --> 00:58:03,520
Speaker 1: you're not, Steve, what's wrong with her? Chipping in? It's

932
00:58:03,560 --> 00:58:08,840
Speaker 1: so many things wrong in this letter, man. And I'm

933
00:58:08,880 --> 00:58:12,200
Speaker 1: a hard working man. I work from SunUp sundown. I

934
00:58:12,400 --> 00:58:15,400
Speaker 1: do well for myself. That's nice, brother, appreciate you telling

935
00:58:15,480 --> 00:58:18,680
Speaker 1: us that, you know, two years ago, I met a

936
00:58:18,800 --> 00:58:22,280
Speaker 1: very beautiful woman who I can see myself being with

937
00:58:22,640 --> 00:58:24,960
Speaker 1: for the rest of my life. Now, that's an interesting

938
00:58:25,000 --> 00:58:28,280
Speaker 1: statement to make. Before he tell us what's happening in

939
00:58:28,320 --> 00:58:31,360
Speaker 1: this letter, he says he's a hard working man, works

940
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Speaker 1: sell him sometimes, but he had to met a beautiful

941
00:58:33,440 --> 00:58:35,640
Speaker 1: woman that he can see himself with the rest of

942
00:58:35,680 --> 00:58:39,320
Speaker 1: his life. That's what he said. By the year ago

943
00:58:39,320 --> 00:58:43,120
Speaker 1: into the relationship, we moved in together. Now you're so

944
00:58:43,200 --> 00:58:46,280
Speaker 1: happy with her, you to move in whatever she that

945
00:58:46,360 --> 00:58:49,840
Speaker 1: beautiful dog I got you and we started playing for

946
00:58:49,880 --> 00:58:52,160
Speaker 1: the future because because you said you want to be

947
00:58:52,200 --> 00:58:54,360
Speaker 1: with her the rest of our life, you saw you

948
00:58:54,440 --> 00:58:59,200
Speaker 1: scooped up. Bam. Now you casually mentioned I was recently

949
00:58:59,280 --> 00:59:04,160
Speaker 1: laid off from my job, okay, and I had to

950
00:59:04,200 --> 00:59:08,360
Speaker 1: find a new one. Well, she was not working at

951
00:59:08,360 --> 00:59:11,080
Speaker 1: the time. See that? Do you all see the gap

952
00:59:11,160 --> 00:59:14,680
Speaker 1: in here? Now? She wasn't working at the time or

953
00:59:14,800 --> 00:59:17,360
Speaker 1: was he? Was he working when she first met him,

954
00:59:17,520 --> 00:59:20,320
Speaker 1: because all he wanted was this beautiful woman and they

955
00:59:20,360 --> 00:59:22,720
Speaker 1: moved in together. So I don't know if the woman

956
00:59:22,800 --> 00:59:25,440
Speaker 1: was once working and she stopped working. But I do

957
00:59:25,600 --> 00:59:28,280
Speaker 1: know he was working and said he was recently laid

958
00:59:28,360 --> 00:59:31,480
Speaker 1: off and I had to find a new job. She

959
00:59:31,640 --> 00:59:34,800
Speaker 1: was not working at the time. Money was getting tight,

960
00:59:35,120 --> 00:59:37,880
Speaker 1: so I took a pay cut. That don't make no

961
00:59:38,040 --> 00:59:43,360
Speaker 1: damn sense. The money was getting tight, so I took

962
00:59:43,400 --> 00:59:46,240
Speaker 1: a pay cut. What that means was he said he

963
00:59:46,320 --> 00:59:49,560
Speaker 1: took another job because they was laid off. Now money

964
00:59:49,600 --> 00:59:52,040
Speaker 1: was getting light because he took a pay job. Now

965
00:59:52,120 --> 00:59:54,200
Speaker 1: block money was getting late. You ain't take a pay cut.

966
00:59:54,240 --> 00:59:57,400
Speaker 1: You went to work, right, this is what this job paid.

967
00:59:57,680 --> 01:00:00,040
Speaker 1: You ain't take a pay cut. You went to I

968
01:00:00,160 --> 01:00:02,120
Speaker 1: got a company to pay less because it's better to

969
01:00:02,160 --> 01:00:05,400
Speaker 1: have something than nothing, exactly. So that's what that means. Bro.

970
01:00:06,160 --> 01:00:08,480
Speaker 1: I asked my girlfriend if she can get a part

971
01:00:08,520 --> 01:00:15,440
Speaker 1: time job just to help out with explosion. She said, yeah.

972
01:00:15,440 --> 01:00:17,560
Speaker 1: You the man that for you, the one that's supposed

973
01:00:17,600 --> 01:00:21,200
Speaker 1: to provide. You know why, because that's what you made

974
01:00:21,200 --> 01:00:26,640
Speaker 1: her think. You made her think that dog because remember

975
01:00:26,680 --> 01:00:29,120
Speaker 1: you never mentioned that she wasn't working in the beginning.

976
01:00:29,560 --> 01:00:31,600
Speaker 1: You said at the time when you got laid off,

977
01:00:31,680 --> 01:00:34,840
Speaker 1: she wasn't working either. Now she had the house with you,

978
01:00:35,760 --> 01:00:37,800
Speaker 1: she ain't knowing you to make a move. You the man.

979
01:00:38,880 --> 01:00:41,760
Speaker 1: So now you made a move and it wasn't enough.

980
01:00:41,840 --> 01:00:45,160
Speaker 1: Now you want her to go to work. Then she say, oh,

981
01:00:45,320 --> 01:00:48,800
Speaker 1: she called you on it. Now I understand what you're saying.

982
01:00:48,840 --> 01:00:51,640
Speaker 1: But here where your mistake you keep making. I wanted

983
01:00:51,720 --> 01:00:54,680
Speaker 1: to do fifty to fifty, but she said she ain't

984
01:00:54,680 --> 01:00:59,480
Speaker 1: no roommate. Hold on, man, You invite the woman into

985
01:00:59,520 --> 01:01:03,240
Speaker 1: your house to get a house together because she beautifully

986
01:01:03,240 --> 01:01:06,320
Speaker 1: you can see yourself spend the rest of lightwooll. Then

987
01:01:06,320 --> 01:01:08,440
Speaker 1: when stuff got hard, you want her to chip in.

988
01:01:08,800 --> 01:01:10,480
Speaker 1: She says she didn't want to chip in. Now she

989
01:01:10,560 --> 01:01:14,480
Speaker 1: wrong for that. She did wrong for that. But then

990
01:01:14,600 --> 01:01:18,440
Speaker 1: you said you wanted to do fifty fifty. Now you

991
01:01:18,480 --> 01:01:21,720
Speaker 1: want to turn her into your woman, your wife, and

992
01:01:21,840 --> 01:01:23,720
Speaker 1: the one you could spend the rest of your life with.

993
01:01:24,000 --> 01:01:27,040
Speaker 1: To a fifty fifty roommate. I don't blame the girl

994
01:01:27,040 --> 01:01:31,000
Speaker 1: for saying ain't your roommate. So I did the worst thing.

995
01:01:31,200 --> 01:01:33,520
Speaker 1: Here you go, see now you keep stacking on stupid.

996
01:01:34,680 --> 01:01:37,000
Speaker 1: So I did the worst thing. I went to Facebook

997
01:01:37,000 --> 01:01:41,240
Speaker 1: for advice. Who the hell knows something on faithbook? You

998
01:01:41,360 --> 01:01:46,800
Speaker 1: went to social media for some advice? Well, hate him up.

999
01:01:47,040 --> 01:01:53,520
Speaker 1: Boy boy, you went to social media for some advice.

1000
01:01:54,280 --> 01:01:56,960
Speaker 1: Who you think on social media? Man? Have you read

1001
01:01:57,000 --> 01:02:01,240
Speaker 1: the comments that be on social media? I wouldn't they asked.

1002
01:02:01,280 --> 01:02:06,120
Speaker 1: They asked an opinion of nothing, because you're not gonna

1003
01:02:06,160 --> 01:02:09,600
Speaker 1: get a general consensus of nothing. All right, Steve, hang

1004
01:02:09,680 --> 01:02:13,640
Speaker 1: on to your response. We'll have part two coming up

1005
01:02:13,640 --> 01:02:16,640
Speaker 1: at twenty three after the hour, subject what's wrong with

1006
01:02:16,680 --> 01:02:20,520
Speaker 1: her chipping in? We'll be back right after this. You're

1007
01:02:20,560 --> 01:02:26,040
Speaker 1: listening show, all right? Come on, Steve, let's recap today's

1008
01:02:26,080 --> 01:02:30,120
Speaker 1: Strawberry letter, and the subject is what's wrong with her

1009
01:02:30,200 --> 01:02:34,720
Speaker 1: chipping in? With that woman? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, she's so fine.

1010
01:02:34,960 --> 01:02:36,880
Speaker 1: You could see yourself living with her the rest of

1011
01:02:36,920 --> 01:02:41,160
Speaker 1: your life. A year too, it y'all? Moving everything? Grave, man,

1012
01:02:42,120 --> 01:02:44,600
Speaker 1: you work some up to sundown. You're working, man. You

1013
01:02:44,680 --> 01:02:46,920
Speaker 1: never mentioned she was working anhe but all of a

1014
01:02:46,920 --> 01:02:49,680
Speaker 1: sudden you tell me that you got laid off. So

1015
01:02:49,760 --> 01:02:52,160
Speaker 1: when you got re laid off, you had to find

1016
01:02:52,160 --> 01:02:56,280
Speaker 1: a new job. She wasn't working. Money was getting tight,

1017
01:02:56,360 --> 01:02:58,360
Speaker 1: so I took a pay cut. I mean, you wouldn't

1018
01:02:58,360 --> 01:03:01,880
Speaker 1: take a job to pay left? I asked my girlfriend

1019
01:03:02,000 --> 01:03:03,880
Speaker 1: she could get a part time job, just to help

1020
01:03:03,920 --> 01:03:10,720
Speaker 1: out with expecially she said, I ain't gonna do this. Here,

1021
01:03:10,720 --> 01:03:12,680
Speaker 1: you the man that for you, the one that's supposed

1022
01:03:12,720 --> 01:03:16,840
Speaker 1: to provide. Then you said, here, what you got stupid

1023
01:03:16,840 --> 01:03:20,439
Speaker 1: in the matter? I want to do fifty fifty. But

1024
01:03:20,560 --> 01:03:24,320
Speaker 1: she says she ain't no roommate, and I can understand

1025
01:03:24,400 --> 01:03:26,720
Speaker 1: she's right for that. That she was wrong for teking.

1026
01:03:26,920 --> 01:03:29,000
Speaker 1: She ain't taking no part time job to pitch in.

1027
01:03:29,440 --> 01:03:33,640
Speaker 1: That was wrong. So then you got stupid in then

1028
01:03:34,240 --> 01:03:38,880
Speaker 1: and you went on Facebook for advice? Boy? Boy, what

1029
01:03:39,080 --> 01:03:42,720
Speaker 1: is wrong with you? You went to social media for

1030
01:03:42,800 --> 01:03:46,800
Speaker 1: some advice? Do you have any idea? Who owns social media?

1031
01:03:47,160 --> 01:03:50,439
Speaker 1: I do. I do an interview, I get talked about

1032
01:03:50,520 --> 01:03:52,880
Speaker 1: like a dog. I jump around doing a que hot.

1033
01:03:53,040 --> 01:04:01,120
Speaker 1: I get a praise life and I'm so dad. Yeah,

1034
01:04:01,160 --> 01:04:07,000
Speaker 1: I'm I do a cute hot on a video and

1035
01:04:07,040 --> 01:04:10,000
Speaker 1: I get praised. Hold up? Can I just say that

1036
01:04:10,120 --> 01:04:12,880
Speaker 1: video gave me life? Yeah? I just say that. But

1037
01:04:13,080 --> 01:04:20,520
Speaker 1: ain't he the same? Yeah? Boy? I love that video. Boy,

1038
01:04:20,640 --> 01:04:25,440
Speaker 1: But you think, let's see you you you gotta understand

1039
01:04:25,480 --> 01:04:29,600
Speaker 1: what it is, so sir, Then you say you went

1040
01:04:29,600 --> 01:04:33,280
Speaker 1: to Facebook for advice. It backfired and I got called

1041
01:04:33,280 --> 01:04:37,160
Speaker 1: a little boy. Well, you know why backfired because you

1042
01:04:37,240 --> 01:04:40,400
Speaker 1: thought everybody were gonna be in agreement with you, but

1043
01:04:40,560 --> 01:04:43,400
Speaker 1: they wasn't. And you know what, man, a lot of

1044
01:04:43,400 --> 01:04:47,040
Speaker 1: these women technically are correct. Even though I feel she

1045
01:04:47,160 --> 01:04:49,120
Speaker 1: was wrong for saying I'm not getting no part times,

1046
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Speaker 1: I'll help you with no experence. I felt that was filed.

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01:04:52,080 --> 01:04:56,880
Speaker 1: I really did, but don't. Yeah, you ain't doing everything

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01:04:57,000 --> 01:05:00,400
Speaker 1: you can do to step up. You really not. And

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01:05:00,520 --> 01:05:03,280
Speaker 1: I just thank you coming up short. A lot of

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01:05:03,320 --> 01:05:06,560
Speaker 1: single women who feel this way. I thought relationships or

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01:05:06,640 --> 01:05:09,360
Speaker 1: marriages were partnerships. You ever said. I want you to

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01:05:09,440 --> 01:05:12,320
Speaker 1: understand what you think the partnership is. Let's go back

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01:05:12,320 --> 01:05:14,720
Speaker 1: to what your idea of what you wanted to do.

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01:05:14,960 --> 01:05:18,960
Speaker 1: You said you wanted to do fifty fifty. I'm married.

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01:05:19,040 --> 01:05:23,280
Speaker 1: Can I explain something to you on behalf of Shirley

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01:05:23,400 --> 01:05:30,960
Speaker 1: and Carlin and Tommy. Marriage is never fifty fifty. I

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01:05:31,000 --> 01:05:34,600
Speaker 1: don't know who told that to you, but it's not.

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01:05:35,800 --> 01:05:41,680
Speaker 1: Marriage is eighty five fifteen, and you're gonna be damn

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01:05:41,760 --> 01:05:44,520
Speaker 1: lucky with that fifteen because most days is you get

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01:05:44,560 --> 01:05:51,680
Speaker 1: anywhere from nine to twelve percent. That's what marriage really is.

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01:05:52,200 --> 01:05:58,240
Speaker 1: Fellas you don't get to be fifty fifty. Stop thinking

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01:05:58,600 --> 01:06:02,520
Speaker 1: you're getting into a relationship and it's gonna be fifty fifty.

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01:06:02,680 --> 01:06:04,200
Speaker 1: And you want me to tell you why it's not

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01:06:04,360 --> 01:06:07,600
Speaker 1: fifty fifty and it will never ever be fifty fifty

1065
01:06:07,640 --> 01:06:10,919
Speaker 1: because you can't do what a woman does. It's why

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01:06:10,920 --> 01:06:14,800
Speaker 1: it can't be fifty fifty. Let me just shut the

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01:06:14,960 --> 01:06:20,280
Speaker 1: argument down before you're stupid behind tries to make warm.

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01:06:20,480 --> 01:06:29,520
Speaker 1: They can make babies, they can bring human life into

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01:06:29,600 --> 01:06:34,760
Speaker 1: this world. You can't. I don't care if you can

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01:06:34,880 --> 01:06:41,040
Speaker 1: make six figures a year, you can't make a single baby.

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01:06:42,840 --> 01:06:45,920
Speaker 1: You can't tell me your children ain't worth a hundred thousand.

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01:06:46,600 --> 01:06:48,560
Speaker 1: You can't tell me your child Somebody told me I'll

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01:06:48,560 --> 01:06:51,080
Speaker 1: give you a million dollars I take your child from you.

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01:06:51,080 --> 01:06:54,480
Speaker 1: You wouldn't even entertain that, not no decent person would.

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01:06:55,240 --> 01:06:58,880
Speaker 1: So now guess what, Since you can't make a baby,

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01:06:59,240 --> 01:07:05,720
Speaker 1: how to hell is it fifty fifty? How help me? Brothers,

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01:07:06,200 --> 01:07:10,920
Speaker 1: it's not fifty fifty. Just from that thing along, and

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01:07:11,120 --> 01:07:14,440
Speaker 1: all of you that have children must respect that fact.

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01:07:14,720 --> 01:07:16,600
Speaker 1: And if you don't have a child, and one day

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01:07:16,640 --> 01:07:19,280
Speaker 1: you will respect that fact. But I got news for

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01:07:19,320 --> 01:07:21,440
Speaker 1: you where all of us can respect. You wouldn't be

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01:07:21,440 --> 01:07:23,880
Speaker 1: here if it wasn't for a woman. They ain't a

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01:07:24,040 --> 01:07:26,960
Speaker 1: dude living would be here if it wasn't for a woman.

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01:07:27,520 --> 01:07:30,600
Speaker 1: It's a woman gave you life somewhere. Well, y'all get

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01:07:30,600 --> 01:07:33,640
Speaker 1: this fifty fifty from bros. Just ain't how this work.

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01:07:34,600 --> 01:07:37,680
Speaker 1: It's eighty five fifteen on a good day. You'll never

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01:07:37,720 --> 01:07:40,240
Speaker 1: get more than fifteen. And you have to take this

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01:07:40,400 --> 01:07:43,919
Speaker 1: fifteen and put your pants on and be a man

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01:07:44,240 --> 01:07:47,680
Speaker 1: and accept the fifteenth. And it's a good thing. Fifteen

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Speaker 1: percent from a woman who gives you so much is

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01:07:51,080 --> 01:07:54,920
Speaker 1: an outstanding Because you're eighty five is the equivalent of fifteen.

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01:07:54,960 --> 01:07:57,320
Speaker 1: That go, you're fifty fifty right now? That go your

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01:07:57,320 --> 01:08:00,960
Speaker 1: fifty fifty right there, partner, And it's good. The fact

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01:08:01,480 --> 01:08:04,880
Speaker 1: that they can give you the loving you need to

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01:08:04,920 --> 01:08:07,800
Speaker 1: get out there and make it through another day. That

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01:08:08,040 --> 01:08:12,480
Speaker 1: right there, that's a nub. I'll tell you what. That's

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01:08:12,520 --> 01:08:16,479
Speaker 1: the way if she stopped giving you this item that

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01:08:16,560 --> 01:08:20,880
Speaker 1: you have to have to survive as a heterosexual male,

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01:08:21,360 --> 01:08:23,840
Speaker 1: that thing that you have to have to survive, if

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01:08:23,880 --> 01:08:26,800
Speaker 1: she stopped giving it to you, what's that worth to you?

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01:08:27,080 --> 01:08:32,599
Speaker 1: Six figures eighty five fifteen. What is worth? It's worth whatever.

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01:08:33,320 --> 01:08:38,080
Speaker 1: She's not giving zero in this letter though he's sleeping

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01:08:38,160 --> 01:08:42,720
Speaker 1: with her. She wrong for not wanting to help out

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01:08:43,160 --> 01:08:45,479
Speaker 1: and wrong for Tim to to you that way. But

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01:08:45,640 --> 01:08:47,680
Speaker 1: you double wrong if you think this thing fit to

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01:08:47,720 --> 01:08:50,800
Speaker 1: be fifty fifty. Now advice I have for you since

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01:08:50,840 --> 01:08:52,599
Speaker 1: you don't want to Facebook and now you don't, can't

1108
01:08:52,640 --> 01:08:54,240
Speaker 1: to a straw bad letter if you do it every

1109
01:08:54,320 --> 01:08:57,920
Speaker 1: thing we're talking to God. You need to break up. Yeah,

1110
01:08:59,439 --> 01:09:01,360
Speaker 1: you need to bring come and start over until you

1111
01:09:01,400 --> 01:09:04,559
Speaker 1: get an understanding. And that's all I got to say. Peel,

1112
01:09:04,600 --> 01:09:06,679
Speaker 1: how you want to feel about me? I ain't on faithbook.

1113
01:09:06,680 --> 01:09:10,160
Speaker 1: You called me feel all right? Thank you, sir. You

1114
01:09:10,200 --> 01:09:12,719
Speaker 1: can post your thoughts on Today's Strawberry Letter at Steve

1115
01:09:14,800 --> 01:09:18,720
Speaker 1: f M and then check out our Strawberry Letter podcast

1116
01:09:18,880 --> 01:09:22,240
Speaker 1: on demand. Okay, now, coming up in ten minutes, Steve

1117
01:09:22,400 --> 01:09:27,080
Speaker 1: is here with his tax tips. All right, Steve's tax

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01:09:27,400 --> 01:09:32,439
Speaker 1: Yes better? Who better? This Monday is April fifteenth, you know,

1119
01:09:32,840 --> 01:09:39,840
Speaker 1: and that is tax day? Yes? Have you filed yet?

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Speaker 1: We'll be back right after this. You're listening to the

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01:09:44,000 --> 01:09:48,200
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. The White House is pushing back

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01:09:48,240 --> 01:09:52,120
Speaker 1: at the Democrats quest their request and quest to have

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Speaker 1: Donald Trump's tax returns released. Last week, House democrats requested

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Speaker 1: the release of the last six years of Trump's personal

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Speaker 1: and business tax returns. In an interview with Fox News,

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01:10:04,200 --> 01:10:08,040
Speaker 1: White House Acting Chief of Staff mc mulvaney was asked

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01:10:08,040 --> 01:10:12,960
Speaker 1: whether Congress should get access to Trump's tax returns. He responded, no, never,

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01:10:13,880 --> 01:10:17,280
Speaker 1: you know what, Never you know what. Let me tell

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01:10:17,320 --> 01:10:20,479
Speaker 1: you something, man, I don't care anymore about his tax

1130
01:10:20,520 --> 01:10:23,360
Speaker 1: returns because I already know what it's gonna say, and

1131
01:10:23,439 --> 01:10:26,240
Speaker 1: it's not going to stop the people from voting from him,

1132
01:10:26,320 --> 01:10:29,719
Speaker 1: that's voting for him. They're gonna think, like he said,

1133
01:10:30,040 --> 01:10:34,320
Speaker 1: he's a really smart guy. And guess what what he's

1134
01:10:34,360 --> 01:10:38,439
Speaker 1: done is probably legal. I could almost guarantee you that

1135
01:10:39,240 --> 01:10:42,760
Speaker 1: it's just he has manipulated the loopholes to what they

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01:10:42,760 --> 01:10:45,599
Speaker 1: fit perfectly into what he's doing. And even if it's

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01:10:45,680 --> 01:10:50,719
Speaker 1: not legal, they're aren't gonna care. Nobody, Yeah, nobody cares.

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01:10:51,000 --> 01:10:55,160
Speaker 1: They just want him in office. Mulvaney continued, Steve saying

1139
01:10:55,200 --> 01:10:58,599
Speaker 1: Democrats are demanding that the Irs turn over the document.

1140
01:10:58,840 --> 01:11:00,720
Speaker 1: This is not going to happen, and then they know it.

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01:11:00,920 --> 01:11:03,200
Speaker 1: This is a political stunt. The President gave a brief

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01:11:03,479 --> 01:11:06,800
Speaker 1: explanation as to why his taxes are being scrutinized by

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01:11:06,800 --> 01:11:09,439
Speaker 1: the I R S. Take a listen. I'm always under

1144
01:11:09,520 --> 01:11:12,120
Speaker 1: ordered a change, but I've been under ordered for many

1145
01:11:12,200 --> 01:11:16,160
Speaker 1: years because the the numbers are big. And I guess

1146
01:11:16,200 --> 01:11:22,360
Speaker 1: when you have a name, you you're ordered it. Okay, Yeah,

1147
01:11:22,400 --> 01:11:25,639
Speaker 1: there's that up. Everybody cool with that? Now? Yes, yeah,

1148
01:11:25,640 --> 01:11:29,920
Speaker 1: it's not gonna because you have a name, you're ordered it.

1149
01:11:30,080 --> 01:11:32,439
Speaker 1: How about let's get a candidate that could beat him.

1150
01:11:32,479 --> 01:11:35,360
Speaker 1: How about that? You know what? I had Van Jones

1151
01:11:35,400 --> 01:11:38,640
Speaker 1: on my show. He's gonna appear on the show. And uh,

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01:11:38,920 --> 01:11:42,519
Speaker 1: you know. He took a lot of flak from quote

1153
01:11:42,600 --> 01:11:47,200
Speaker 1: unquote black Twitter. Yes, there is no such thing as

1154
01:11:47,280 --> 01:11:51,160
Speaker 1: black Twitter because Twitter is on by white folks. Is

1155
01:11:51,200 --> 01:11:58,160
Speaker 1: just black folks tweeter, which is crazy. Yeah, and he

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01:11:58,280 --> 01:12:01,479
Speaker 1: said he didn't care. And I listened to him talk man,

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01:12:02,040 --> 01:12:05,400
Speaker 1: and he was an interesting guy. He's very very smart

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01:12:05,439 --> 01:12:08,240
Speaker 1: with what he did. And what President Trump did was

1159
01:12:09,120 --> 01:12:11,519
Speaker 1: he passed this bill. I can't think of the name

1160
01:12:11,560 --> 01:12:13,320
Speaker 1: of the bill, but let me give you the numbers.

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01:12:13,960 --> 01:12:18,599
Speaker 1: Four thousand inmates will be released this year. Okay, twenty

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01:12:18,600 --> 01:12:23,200
Speaker 1: five thousand inmates will have their sentences shortened. These are

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01:12:23,200 --> 01:12:26,160
Speaker 1: people who are in there for nonviolent drug related offenses.

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01:12:26,840 --> 01:12:30,800
Speaker 1: One hundred thousand women who are incarcerated will be able

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01:12:30,880 --> 01:12:34,000
Speaker 1: to have their babies in prison without being shackle to

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01:12:34,080 --> 01:12:36,960
Speaker 1: the bed. Do you know that if an inmate has

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01:12:37,000 --> 01:12:42,320
Speaker 1: a baby in prison, the shackle to the bed. Yeah,

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01:12:42,520 --> 01:12:45,559
Speaker 1: they had to pass a law to stop that. And

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01:12:45,640 --> 01:12:48,000
Speaker 1: he went and he kept meeting, meeting with Trump's people,

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01:12:48,400 --> 01:12:50,320
Speaker 1: and at first he was against it, and then he

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01:12:50,439 --> 01:12:53,040
Speaker 1: understood what Van was saying and he gave it to

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01:12:53,120 --> 01:12:56,600
Speaker 1: him and they passed the law. Well, just like Mary Ellis,

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01:12:56,640 --> 01:13:00,200
Speaker 1: you know, with the help of Kim Kardashian got out out.

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01:13:00,520 --> 01:13:03,240
Speaker 1: So this is going to be a trend. You're saying,

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01:13:03,280 --> 01:13:07,679
Speaker 1: more and more people are going to get out. What's

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01:13:07,720 --> 01:13:11,200
Speaker 1: what's the bigger part of it is what Van Jones

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01:13:11,280 --> 01:13:15,960
Speaker 1: did because now he has it as a law, it's

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01:13:16,000 --> 01:13:20,679
Speaker 1: a law that these people are going to get out.

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01:13:21,280 --> 01:13:22,920
Speaker 1: I don't have to tell you how many of them

1180
01:13:22,960 --> 01:13:27,400
Speaker 1: people it's us. Oh yeah, you number for this now, well,

1181
01:13:27,439 --> 01:13:31,080
Speaker 1: four thousand of getting out this year. Twenty five thousand

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01:13:31,080 --> 01:13:35,000
Speaker 1: had their sentences this reduced. I mean they were getting

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01:13:35,000 --> 01:13:37,479
Speaker 1: some crazy because these was prison times from the eighties.

1184
01:13:37,760 --> 01:13:40,360
Speaker 1: You know when that crazy crack law came out. Yeah,

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01:13:40,920 --> 01:13:45,920
Speaker 1: you know that Clinton did. Did Did he say why?

1186
01:13:46,680 --> 01:13:50,479
Speaker 1: I think it? Did he say why Donald Trump is

1187
01:13:50,520 --> 01:13:53,160
Speaker 1: so into this? Yeah? He said because he wants to

1188
01:13:53,160 --> 01:13:56,120
Speaker 1: do something right. I mean that was Van Jones's thing.

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01:13:56,200 --> 01:13:58,960
Speaker 1: He said he wants to do something right. You think

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01:13:59,000 --> 01:14:01,479
Speaker 1: that's right? Stick, I think you want to do something right.

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01:14:01,640 --> 01:14:04,920
Speaker 1: You think that's the reason. You mean, do you really

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01:14:04,960 --> 01:14:09,519
Speaker 1: think he wants to do something right? Well, if he's

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01:14:09,560 --> 01:14:13,680
Speaker 1: doing it, what what difference do it make to us? Why?

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01:14:13,840 --> 01:14:17,400
Speaker 1: See why he doing it? Because sometimes you know, in

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01:14:17,560 --> 01:14:22,280
Speaker 1: trying to reach a peace with an enemy. Uh, the

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01:14:22,479 --> 01:14:27,439
Speaker 1: why he wants peace ain't really the other side's part.

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01:14:27,560 --> 01:14:29,360
Speaker 1: As long as we get to be as long as

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Speaker 1: we each country stopped bombing each other. I'm pretty sure

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Speaker 1: that's what. Now, what's his motive behind it? I have

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01:14:38,040 --> 01:14:40,439
Speaker 1: no idea. You don't know that. I can assure you

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01:14:40,479 --> 01:14:44,519
Speaker 1: it has something to do with re election, Yes, because

1202
01:14:44,560 --> 01:14:48,800
Speaker 1: I could assure you he wants to say this. Oh yeah,

1203
01:14:48,360 --> 01:14:51,120
Speaker 1: and you know what, and and he has every right

1204
01:14:51,160 --> 01:14:53,040
Speaker 1: to do it because he's the one that did it.

1205
01:14:54,360 --> 01:14:57,920
Speaker 1: You know, so I'm pretty sure of that. But what

1206
01:14:57,920 --> 01:15:01,200
Speaker 1: difference do it make? We don't have time because Van

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01:15:01,320 --> 01:15:06,280
Speaker 1: Jones said, he said, all the inmates he interviewed, all

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01:15:06,320 --> 01:15:10,720
Speaker 1: the ones he interviewed, hundreds thousands, he said, not one

1209
01:15:10,760 --> 01:15:13,880
Speaker 1: of them said a man, don't get me out. Wild

1210
01:15:13,880 --> 01:15:18,080
Speaker 1: Trump is okay, thank you, he said, not one of

1211
01:15:18,080 --> 01:15:20,439
Speaker 1: them people say, hey, man, don't get me out, wild

1212
01:15:20,479 --> 01:15:22,960
Speaker 1: trumping office. I don't want him getting credit for that.

1213
01:15:23,960 --> 01:15:30,800
Speaker 1: They just won't out. They need to be out. And man,

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01:15:30,840 --> 01:15:34,240
Speaker 1: he said some stuff that was like amazing. Man, he

1215
01:15:34,280 --> 01:15:36,479
Speaker 1: told me some stuff I'm not gonna repeat. I'm gonna

1216
01:15:36,479 --> 01:15:40,880
Speaker 1: just let y'all watch it. We'll tell everybody when it'll air.

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Speaker 1: All right, perfect, all right, Well, um, before we get

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01:15:44,840 --> 01:15:46,760
Speaker 1: out of here, Steve, you're not gonna get out of

1219
01:15:46,760 --> 01:15:49,679
Speaker 1: here without giving us at least a couple of tacks tips. Now,

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01:15:50,040 --> 01:15:54,679
Speaker 1: all right, here we go. Number one. Pale send them people.

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01:15:54,760 --> 01:15:58,160
Speaker 1: They damn play with these people, tells you in the Bible,

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01:15:58,200 --> 01:16:00,920
Speaker 1: gives Caesar his dude. Come on, no, I don't know what.

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Speaker 1: All I'm telling you is better pay people, right, yeah, man,

1224
01:16:09,200 --> 01:16:12,920
Speaker 1: they are the one people who can get your check

1225
01:16:13,280 --> 01:16:16,920
Speaker 1: and your bank account. They the one person. Yeah, yeah,

1226
01:16:18,760 --> 01:16:21,840
Speaker 1: get your check and your bank account. I've had my

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01:16:21,920 --> 01:16:26,280
Speaker 1: account frozen. Oh oh dog, We're gonna freeze it to

1228
01:16:26,360 --> 01:16:28,320
Speaker 1: your pay us. I paid him. It was six weeks

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01:16:28,360 --> 01:16:32,080
Speaker 1: for the own frozen. So they freeze it. And they

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01:16:32,080 --> 01:16:35,760
Speaker 1: thought out later how they do it. Slow ass thought,

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01:16:36,160 --> 01:16:43,120
Speaker 1: the freeze is quick. I've had that happens to him.

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01:16:43,280 --> 01:16:48,679
Speaker 1: The frost is real, just like thirst. All right, listen

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Speaker 1: coming up at the top of the hour, All eyes

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01:16:51,040 --> 01:16:57,760
Speaker 1: are still on Tiger Woods. Right after this you're listening show,

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01:17:00,040 --> 01:17:02,679
Speaker 1: All right, Steve, all eyes are still on Tiger Woods.

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01:17:02,720 --> 01:17:06,240
Speaker 1: The Master's Golf Tournament has started, and it's an unusual

1237
01:17:06,280 --> 01:17:09,639
Speaker 1: sporting event because the most famous athlete in the tournament

1238
01:17:09,680 --> 01:17:13,560
Speaker 1: by far is Tiger Woods, who happens to be considered

1239
01:17:13,600 --> 01:17:17,360
Speaker 1: now an older golfer. Imagine that, yeah, imagine that right,

1240
01:17:17,520 --> 01:17:21,519
Speaker 1: he started so young. Other than hardcore golf fans, nobody

1241
01:17:21,560 --> 01:17:25,639
Speaker 1: really cares about the young golfers. Everyone is focused on Tiger.

1242
01:17:26,240 --> 01:17:29,400
Speaker 1: Golf is that one sport that guys can compete for

1243
01:17:29,520 --> 01:17:33,280
Speaker 1: championships into their forties and even into their fifties. So

1244
01:17:33,360 --> 01:17:35,439
Speaker 1: you and nephew play golf all the time. You gave

1245
01:17:35,520 --> 01:17:38,280
Speaker 1: us tax tips last hour. How about some golfing tips

1246
01:17:38,520 --> 01:17:44,599
Speaker 1: for those who golf? Whoa Steve, No, but we want

1247
01:17:44,640 --> 01:17:47,040
Speaker 1: to hear your tips. You and your we ain't good.

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01:17:47,560 --> 01:17:51,639
Speaker 1: Oh but we are the best dressed golfer was owned

1249
01:17:51,680 --> 01:17:55,920
Speaker 1: the course. Your gears on fire? What okay you're saying

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01:17:56,080 --> 01:18:00,080
Speaker 1: we are you in agreement with that? Steve? I'm to

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Speaker 1: get golfer. I'm not a good golfer. Golf all the time. No, No,

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01:18:05,680 --> 01:18:07,479
Speaker 1: there's a lot of people golf all the time. Yeah,

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01:18:07,680 --> 01:18:10,320
Speaker 1: he go. He got Tommy golfs way more than me.

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01:18:10,840 --> 01:18:15,360
Speaker 1: He does. Oh, absolutely so Tommy goff way. I got

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01:18:15,360 --> 01:18:18,200
Speaker 1: more time to him, he got more jobs. I crushed

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01:18:18,200 --> 01:18:23,439
Speaker 1: Tommy really will say that about everything, like great, Wait

1257
01:18:23,479 --> 01:18:26,439
Speaker 1: a minute, he had a great thing. It was no

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01:18:26,680 --> 01:18:34,839
Speaker 1: he Oh oh he's club speed is outstanding. Oh this

1259
01:18:35,000 --> 01:18:41,040
Speaker 1: is another challenge. Me and Tommy played two rounds of golf,

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01:18:41,800 --> 01:18:45,240
Speaker 1: one round, not too just one. Well, you know, Tommy,

1261
01:18:45,280 --> 01:18:48,080
Speaker 1: you could just do like we always do. What you know,

1262
01:18:48,120 --> 01:18:51,200
Speaker 1: when a boy Calhoun was living, it was me Blue

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01:18:51,280 --> 01:18:56,400
Speaker 1: Calhoun was actually good and you know me Blue. You

1264
01:18:56,400 --> 01:18:58,200
Speaker 1: know we could take no off. But we played for

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01:18:58,240 --> 01:19:01,200
Speaker 1: three days when we go strong. You know. Now, me

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01:19:01,280 --> 01:19:04,639
Speaker 1: and Blue we played a two day tournament. Okay, I'll

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01:19:04,680 --> 01:19:07,160
Speaker 1: be blue by one stroke, So y'all would actually have

1268
01:19:07,200 --> 01:19:10,120
Speaker 1: a tournament. I think it should be two days because

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01:19:10,160 --> 01:19:12,280
Speaker 1: anybody can have a bad day, you know what I mean.

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01:19:12,320 --> 01:19:15,559
Speaker 1: We're gonna play. We're gonna play in Dubai because you're

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01:19:15,600 --> 01:19:17,800
Speaker 1: not gonna fly out over there and playing Dubai where

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01:19:17,840 --> 01:19:20,000
Speaker 1: you want to, man, we could play somewhere, you know,

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01:19:20,040 --> 01:19:22,120
Speaker 1: I hate dog a matter of fact, I'll come into

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01:19:22,120 --> 01:19:27,160
Speaker 1: Houston and play at your favorite course. Oh much? Yeah,

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01:19:27,200 --> 01:19:30,080
Speaker 1: I make it light on you. Junior is ready to

1276
01:19:30,120 --> 01:19:33,519
Speaker 1: put the money down. How y'all playing? Come on, timmy,

1277
01:19:33,600 --> 01:19:35,160
Speaker 1: I mean, I mean now you know what you know,

1278
01:19:35,200 --> 01:19:38,439
Speaker 1: I'm an old. I ain'timal running jumping for me. Well, listen,

1279
01:19:38,600 --> 01:19:45,320
Speaker 1: my tournament. It's September. Thirty miles are given. But we

1280
01:19:45,360 --> 01:19:46,960
Speaker 1: ain't gonna be able to play against each other that

1281
01:19:47,040 --> 01:19:49,320
Speaker 1: you know, me and you can be the same little

1282
01:19:49,360 --> 01:19:52,840
Speaker 1: team and we make it out on the same team.

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01:19:55,160 --> 01:20:01,719
Speaker 1: Golf tournament, boy, you know yeah, because in a golf tournament,

1284
01:20:01,760 --> 01:20:05,479
Speaker 1: you play basketball in a forresome. We don't have like that.

1285
01:20:05,560 --> 01:20:08,400
Speaker 1: So come on talk to stop me and you where

1286
01:20:08,400 --> 01:20:11,600
Speaker 1: you want to play. You all are so competitive. No,

1287
01:20:11,720 --> 01:20:15,599
Speaker 1: this is fine, you know, Julia, I can't run. I can't.

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01:20:15,640 --> 01:20:19,960
Speaker 1: You know you can step up the US. What course

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01:20:20,040 --> 01:20:23,320
Speaker 1: do you like going to Pelican Hills? Pelican? We can

1290
01:20:23,400 --> 01:20:27,000
Speaker 1: go to, you know, or the Marriott down in San Diego.

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01:20:27,560 --> 01:20:30,320
Speaker 1: I like golf out here because you're gonna have good weather. Well,

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01:20:30,400 --> 01:20:32,880
Speaker 1: let me let me ask this. Can we play Pebble Beach?

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01:20:34,040 --> 01:20:42,040
Speaker 1: You can't. I can only tall people play. Shut up, Julian, Hi,

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01:20:42,120 --> 01:20:45,519
Speaker 1: I can't, but you can't. What he's not tall him? What?

1295
01:20:46,600 --> 01:20:48,800
Speaker 1: It ain't got nothing to do with hy It's got

1296
01:20:48,840 --> 01:20:51,720
Speaker 1: a lot of people his hype heads off? What is it?

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01:20:52,000 --> 01:20:55,320
Speaker 1: Why can't where he got to get on the waiting list?

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01:20:57,320 --> 01:20:59,760
Speaker 1: When is you playing? I can just go down there?

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01:21:01,000 --> 01:21:06,479
Speaker 1: Oh you remember? Just what? Why I don't just go

1300
01:21:06,560 --> 01:21:08,479
Speaker 1: down there? When you go down there? Well, we ain't

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01:21:08,520 --> 01:21:10,840
Speaker 1: gonna play pepper Beach. Now, come on, it's too way

1302
01:21:10,920 --> 01:21:13,200
Speaker 1: to crowd. Let's pick somewhere where we can get on

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01:21:13,200 --> 01:21:16,479
Speaker 1: the teeth. All right, all right, well let's pick something

1304
01:21:16,479 --> 01:21:18,840
Speaker 1: in La. How about La? How about bears? Best in

1305
01:21:19,000 --> 01:21:23,559
Speaker 1: last out here? Where? What do we have your tournament at?

1306
01:21:23,640 --> 01:21:26,479
Speaker 1: Back in I'm a mon at bear best in June.

1307
01:21:26,640 --> 01:21:29,080
Speaker 1: Mountain Gate. That's what I mean. Let's do Mountain Geeah,

1308
01:21:29,080 --> 01:21:32,400
Speaker 1: Mountain get Okay, I can get us at Mountain Gate. Okay,

1309
01:21:32,479 --> 01:21:35,479
Speaker 1: all right, man. Now, f I was you, I wouldn't

1310
01:21:35,560 --> 01:21:40,479
Speaker 1: ask to play Mountain Gate because I'm Greens. They're crazy. Okay,

1311
01:21:41,600 --> 01:21:45,560
Speaker 1: you're playing the same greens an okay, So what do

1312
01:21:45,640 --> 01:21:52,800
Speaker 1: you guys need to practice? He's golfing? Okay, alright, trash talk?

1313
01:21:53,120 --> 01:21:56,240
Speaker 1: Can you trash talking golf? Well? No, I'm just saying

1314
01:21:57,920 --> 01:22:00,760
Speaker 1: because it sounds like he's trash talking. So what's the

1315
01:22:00,840 --> 01:22:05,920
Speaker 1: back gonna be? Oh, there's five dollars? Somebody just sucked

1316
01:22:05,920 --> 01:22:10,280
Speaker 1: the Yeah, okay, my Bentley for your Biley. Oh damn,

1317
01:22:11,320 --> 01:22:13,200
Speaker 1: that's my wife, and I don't know if I can

1318
01:22:13,240 --> 01:22:15,920
Speaker 1: do that. No, you can't. I'll tell you. If it's

1319
01:22:15,960 --> 01:22:23,360
Speaker 1: your wife you lost, you have to kill yourself. Yes,

1320
01:22:23,680 --> 01:22:28,680
Speaker 1: she really would, right back? Yeah, okay, okay, let's do

1321
01:22:28,760 --> 01:22:31,760
Speaker 1: We'll do foundations. Charity work. Yeah, charity work. We'll do

1322
01:22:31,920 --> 01:22:34,920
Speaker 1: charity work. Let's do. Let's do. Let's do charity work.

1323
01:22:35,760 --> 01:22:39,680
Speaker 1: You know, Harvey, if I lose five grand I pay

1324
01:22:39,800 --> 01:22:42,560
Speaker 1: to yours. If you lose funation. Yeah. If not, you

1325
01:22:42,760 --> 01:22:44,680
Speaker 1: you pay five grand of miles. Again, I don't do

1326
01:22:44,840 --> 01:22:49,840
Speaker 1: that work giving back. Ye either way, we're giving back. Yeah,

1327
01:22:50,000 --> 01:22:54,400
Speaker 1: like huh, okay, just tell me when what you wanted?

1328
01:22:55,080 --> 01:22:59,439
Speaker 1: He said, five grand? Five grand cool to each other charity. Yeah,

1329
01:23:00,200 --> 01:23:02,920
Speaker 1: I'm in five. You want to make it ten? No,

1330
01:23:03,120 --> 01:23:06,880
Speaker 1: I do not want to make I just ask say five.

1331
01:23:07,880 --> 01:23:10,559
Speaker 1: As soon as I pick a date, I just want

1332
01:23:10,600 --> 01:23:13,559
Speaker 1: to know. Can we go? We just want go down

1333
01:23:13,600 --> 01:23:15,560
Speaker 1: and drive right back. Man, let me look at my

1334
01:23:15,600 --> 01:23:20,000
Speaker 1: calendar right now, Steve, universe that has a calendar, Our

1335
01:23:20,120 --> 01:23:24,559
Speaker 1: calendars both have to work. Okay, okay, all right now

1336
01:23:24,680 --> 01:23:28,400
Speaker 1: look when ain't nobody getting mad or none of that.

1337
01:23:31,479 --> 01:23:36,840
Speaker 1: It's about topping now, man. Yeah, it's gonna be a fight.

1338
01:23:37,080 --> 01:23:39,759
Speaker 1: This is supposed to be fun. Oh, this ain't gonna

1339
01:23:39,760 --> 01:23:42,360
Speaker 1: be fun. I ain't playing. Ask a question, Steve, Can

1340
01:23:42,400 --> 01:23:45,360
Speaker 1: I ask a question? So, Tommy, you ain't gonna pull

1341
01:23:47,600 --> 01:23:51,040
Speaker 1: the injuries. You don't need to be five hours, don't

1342
01:23:51,080 --> 01:23:52,880
Speaker 1: you bet on me? No more? Oh? Can we go?

1343
01:23:53,080 --> 01:23:55,200
Speaker 1: Because I will be out there with my golf gear game.

1344
01:23:55,560 --> 01:23:59,800
Speaker 1: We're going. Yeah, we're gonna be out there. Yeah, we

1345
01:24:00,160 --> 01:24:04,080
Speaker 1: be in the golf cart at East Oh sure they

1346
01:24:04,120 --> 01:24:09,800
Speaker 1: don't do blonde hair on golf course, Yes they do. Yeah,

1347
01:24:11,160 --> 01:24:13,400
Speaker 1: minus pink. Now, by the way, hey man, I think

1348
01:24:13,439 --> 01:24:15,840
Speaker 1: we could play Tommy where you at made twenty fifth

1349
01:24:15,920 --> 01:24:18,040
Speaker 1: and twenty six. Hang on, let me take a look.

1350
01:24:18,160 --> 01:24:20,800
Speaker 1: Oh that's a Memorial Day weekend. I think I'm in Um,

1351
01:24:21,760 --> 01:24:24,000
Speaker 1: I think I'm in Memphis, doll at chuckles. I think

1352
01:24:24,000 --> 01:24:26,840
Speaker 1: I'm at Prescott Place. But let me look though. All right,

1353
01:24:26,920 --> 01:24:29,240
Speaker 1: y'all gonna get it together, work it out, work out,

1354
01:24:29,320 --> 01:24:33,800
Speaker 1: work it out. But you know what, you know what

1355
01:24:33,960 --> 01:24:37,960
Speaker 1: I get out a lead? Chuckles? All right, out work

1356
01:24:38,040 --> 01:24:40,519
Speaker 1: it out, coming out. More of the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

1357
01:24:40,640 --> 01:24:44,639
Speaker 1: We'll be back right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey

1358
01:24:44,680 --> 01:24:50,559
Speaker 1: Morning Show. Uh. Lauren London, Nipsey Hustle's love and mother

1359
01:24:50,640 --> 01:24:53,719
Speaker 1: of his children, of his child, gave a beautiful speech

1360
01:24:53,800 --> 01:24:56,760
Speaker 1: about the love of her life, Nipsey Hustle at a

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01:24:56,840 --> 01:25:01,280
Speaker 1: celebration of life memorial service. Um, it was a beautiful service.

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01:25:02,400 --> 01:25:06,640
Speaker 1: His brother Sam spoke very eloquently. I loved what he

1363
01:25:06,720 --> 01:25:10,640
Speaker 1: said about his little brother Snoop dog. I mean, so

1364
01:25:10,840 --> 01:25:14,920
Speaker 1: many wonderful speakers, you know, surely I'll say this. I've

1365
01:25:15,040 --> 01:25:20,000
Speaker 1: never lost you know, my wife, my lover, she lost

1366
01:25:20,040 --> 01:25:22,960
Speaker 1: her man hellover. You've got to be an incredibly strong

1367
01:25:23,120 --> 01:25:26,280
Speaker 1: person to talk at that funeral. Yes, Lord, she's what

1368
01:25:26,439 --> 01:25:29,719
Speaker 1: you do. This is what Lauren London said. Take a listen.

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01:25:30,120 --> 01:25:32,840
Speaker 1: You've given me the opportunity to really love a man.

1370
01:25:33,920 --> 01:25:36,800
Speaker 1: You've been with me while I've been sick through all

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01:25:36,880 --> 01:25:40,320
Speaker 1: my fears. You have encouraged me and inspired me to

1372
01:25:40,479 --> 01:25:44,439
Speaker 1: reach higher. I've learned so much about myself with you.

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01:25:46,000 --> 01:25:49,960
Speaker 1: You've been my turn up and my church. I wouldn't

1374
01:25:49,960 --> 01:25:52,240
Speaker 1: want to go through this journey with anyone but you.

1375
01:25:53,200 --> 01:25:54,960
Speaker 1: I look up to you in a lot of ways,

1376
01:25:55,040 --> 01:25:57,880
Speaker 1: and I strive to educate myself more like you have.

1377
01:25:58,880 --> 01:26:01,560
Speaker 1: And when we are at odds, I feel defeated and

1378
01:26:01,720 --> 01:26:04,560
Speaker 1: sad knowing that we are so much better than that.

1379
01:26:05,680 --> 01:26:07,840
Speaker 1: I just want you to know that you've been You've

1380
01:26:07,880 --> 01:26:11,560
Speaker 1: been the greatest boyfriend to me. You weren't perfect, but

1381
01:26:11,680 --> 01:26:14,679
Speaker 1: I would never ask you to be. You and I work,

1382
01:26:15,439 --> 01:26:18,719
Speaker 1: we fit and you're the coolest guy in the world

1383
01:26:18,760 --> 01:26:23,680
Speaker 1: to me. Still, I love you so much, unconditionally. My

1384
01:26:23,840 --> 01:26:27,439
Speaker 1: truth is this, I'm never gonna give up on you.

1385
01:26:28,200 --> 01:26:31,320
Speaker 1: My love and my devotion is to you, and I

1386
01:26:31,400 --> 01:26:46,040
Speaker 1: sent that January twenty first, twenty nineteen. I had to

1387
01:26:47,120 --> 01:26:51,799
Speaker 1: write something because I've never felt this type of pain before.

1388
01:26:52,000 --> 01:26:56,200
Speaker 1: But I know that God is alive. But bear with me.

1389
01:26:56,320 --> 01:27:02,160
Speaker 1: All his soul was majestic. He was the strongest man

1390
01:27:02,240 --> 01:27:06,840
Speaker 1: that I ever knew, A gentle father, a patient leader,

1391
01:27:07,120 --> 01:27:13,480
Speaker 1: a divine light. He was brilliant. He researched everything, completely

1392
01:27:13,520 --> 01:27:18,640
Speaker 1: self taught, constantly seeking knowledge. He would he would go

1393
01:27:18,720 --> 01:27:22,080
Speaker 1: to bed and listen to these audio books and his headphones,

1394
01:27:22,200 --> 01:27:24,800
Speaker 1: and I would tease him, but that really is what

1395
01:27:25,000 --> 01:27:28,600
Speaker 1: I thought was the coolest ever about him. And he

1396
01:27:28,640 --> 01:27:30,640
Speaker 1: would wake up in the morning and play music for

1397
01:27:30,720 --> 01:27:34,040
Speaker 1: the kids and light a sage and burn it around

1398
01:27:34,080 --> 01:27:36,840
Speaker 1: the house and just make sure that our energy going

1399
01:27:37,479 --> 01:27:41,559
Speaker 1: outside would be uplifted and that we could handle the day.

1400
01:27:44,320 --> 01:27:47,680
Speaker 1: You know, my pain is for my two year old

1401
01:27:47,800 --> 01:27:50,840
Speaker 1: that probably won't remember how much his dad loved him.

1402
01:27:52,880 --> 01:27:56,679
Speaker 1: This is something that you know, I never I don't

1403
01:27:56,720 --> 01:27:59,479
Speaker 1: really understand, but I know that aramis always used sets

1404
01:27:59,600 --> 01:28:05,280
Speaker 1: people that you experienced them, and I'm so honored and

1405
01:28:05,400 --> 01:28:09,320
Speaker 1: blessed that I got to experience such a man. I

1406
01:28:09,439 --> 01:28:12,800
Speaker 1: know everyone is hurting. But I'd like to say something

1407
01:28:12,880 --> 01:28:17,439
Speaker 1: to my city, Los Angeles. Y'all from our LA stand up,

1408
01:28:23,720 --> 01:28:28,519
Speaker 1: because this pain is really ours. You know, we know

1409
01:28:28,640 --> 01:28:32,080
Speaker 1: what it meant to us. We lost an incredible soul.

1410
01:28:33,080 --> 01:28:36,040
Speaker 1: We lost someone very rare to us, and we lost

1411
01:28:36,080 --> 01:28:39,400
Speaker 1: a real one and we won't ever be the same.

1412
01:28:40,439 --> 01:28:43,000
Speaker 1: But in Hustle's words, because he used to always say this,

1413
01:28:44,000 --> 01:28:47,720
Speaker 1: the game is gonna test you. Never fold, stay tin

1414
01:28:47,800 --> 01:28:51,600
Speaker 1: toes down. It's not on you. It's in you. And

1415
01:28:51,760 --> 01:28:54,080
Speaker 1: what's in you they can't take away. And he's in

1416
01:28:54,280 --> 01:29:06,759
Speaker 1: all of us. It's an ammis the love of my life.

1417
01:29:07,760 --> 01:29:10,760
Speaker 1: You know what it is. Grief is the final act

1418
01:29:10,800 --> 01:29:14,680
Speaker 1: of love. My heart hears you. I feel you everywhere.

1419
01:29:15,120 --> 01:29:18,600
Speaker 1: I'm so grateful that I had you. I love you

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01:29:18,680 --> 01:29:24,760
Speaker 1: beyond this earth and until we meet again. The marathon continued.

1421
01:29:29,560 --> 01:29:34,280
Speaker 1: You're listening to show, all right, Steve, Let's talk about

1422
01:29:34,320 --> 01:29:39,599
Speaker 1: something everybody knows about. Uh. That is a game of Thrones. Okay,

1423
01:29:39,800 --> 01:29:43,040
Speaker 1: Winter winters can really last a long time. Summer span

1424
01:29:43,200 --> 01:29:47,400
Speaker 1: decades too. The struggle for the Iron throne begins this Sunday.

1425
01:29:47,600 --> 01:29:51,559
Speaker 1: Stay yes, Yeah, I ain't gonna be able to watch

1426
01:29:51,600 --> 01:29:54,640
Speaker 1: it this Sunday. I gotta wait till all them over. Now,

1427
01:29:54,680 --> 01:29:57,960
Speaker 1: are you gonna called you? Full seasons behind? That's why. Yeah,

1428
01:29:57,960 --> 01:29:59,920
Speaker 1: I was just asking, are you all called I'm actual

1429
01:30:00,000 --> 01:30:04,200
Speaker 1: and caught up, sir washing, I just being washed off.

1430
01:30:04,760 --> 01:30:08,479
Speaker 1: I saw the wall go down. Yeah, I saw the

1431
01:30:08,560 --> 01:30:10,640
Speaker 1: dragon get up over there because the White Walker got

1432
01:30:10,680 --> 01:30:19,240
Speaker 1: the damn dragons, damn wall down. Everybody gotta get about here,

1433
01:30:19,280 --> 01:30:22,439
Speaker 1: the damn dragon coming. Now, the White Walkers there coming, Neil,

1434
01:30:22,520 --> 01:30:25,639
Speaker 1: I'll tell you what's gonna happen after y'all talk. Yeah,

1435
01:30:25,800 --> 01:30:32,320
Speaker 1: I can't wait to see John Snow, let's get some Yeah. Okay,

1436
01:30:32,360 --> 01:30:35,200
Speaker 1: come on, come on, and your favorite character, Steve. I

1437
01:30:35,360 --> 01:30:38,439
Speaker 1: know it's Terria Hunt. Yeah, the me and Tim Okay,

1438
01:30:39,439 --> 01:30:48,760
Speaker 1: shut up, shut up? What you know it's it's on

1439
01:30:48,920 --> 01:30:53,080
Speaker 1: the weight. That's when you know it's coming. Okay, So Steve,

1440
01:30:54,120 --> 01:30:56,519
Speaker 1: come on with your predictions. Right, hold on, let me

1441
01:30:56,560 --> 01:31:09,000
Speaker 1: get my breath. It's about to happen when we laugh left, okay,

1442
01:31:09,080 --> 01:31:13,200
Speaker 1: come on still, when we laugh left, the White Walking okay,

1443
01:31:13,520 --> 01:31:17,280
Speaker 1: went out to the lake and pull it dead, dragging

1444
01:31:17,320 --> 01:31:20,360
Speaker 1: out they did. They pull him out, and they gave

1445
01:31:20,400 --> 01:31:24,880
Speaker 1: him blue eyes. Now he dead but he on eighteen. Now,

1446
01:31:26,960 --> 01:31:31,599
Speaker 1: so the head white walker, I called him Skelly. Kelly

1447
01:31:31,640 --> 01:31:33,360
Speaker 1: got up on his back and roll his ass over

1448
01:31:33,400 --> 01:31:36,720
Speaker 1: there to the wall. White walker is trying to get

1449
01:31:36,760 --> 01:31:39,320
Speaker 1: in that wall for the beginning of time. That's right.

1450
01:31:39,920 --> 01:31:44,599
Speaker 1: They had that damn five breathing dragon, blowing blue fire,

1451
01:31:45,760 --> 01:31:49,960
Speaker 1: running that damn wall down. White folk running there, and

1452
01:31:52,520 --> 01:31:55,000
Speaker 1: I don't think who you is, black, white Latino, your

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01:31:55,040 --> 01:31:59,400
Speaker 1: ass scared of fire. Yeah, so they got out, and

1454
01:31:59,600 --> 01:32:01,439
Speaker 1: so now they're heading out, and now they got to

1455
01:32:01,479 --> 01:32:04,559
Speaker 1: go and get John Snow kneel and round up all

1456
01:32:04,600 --> 01:32:06,880
Speaker 1: the different clans because now they got to come together

1457
01:32:06,920 --> 01:32:09,320
Speaker 1: because they all got to go to walk against the whitewalker.

1458
01:32:10,760 --> 01:32:13,120
Speaker 1: So now while the whitewalkers is coming, called, they slow

1459
01:32:13,160 --> 01:32:17,799
Speaker 1: in hell, you know, they're dead, yeah, you know, try

1460
01:32:17,880 --> 01:32:21,200
Speaker 1: they're rocking. So they take a long time. So they

1461
01:32:21,600 --> 01:32:24,519
Speaker 1: own horses and stuff running here to come, here to come,

1462
01:32:24,560 --> 01:32:27,800
Speaker 1: oh Lord, here to come, and a lot of people,

1463
01:32:28,000 --> 01:32:31,000
Speaker 1: you know, and but the white walker walking, Yeah, you're

1464
01:32:31,040 --> 01:32:33,200
Speaker 1: calling white walker because take a long time away. Look

1465
01:32:33,280 --> 01:32:36,160
Speaker 1: like they're walking in white snow. Yeah, they't white runners,

1466
01:32:36,240 --> 01:32:40,400
Speaker 1: They white, white, white short. So they don't get back.

1467
01:32:41,560 --> 01:32:43,720
Speaker 1: They got to get everything together. Somebody got to go

1468
01:32:43,840 --> 01:32:46,960
Speaker 1: tell that white girl Kalisa it all. Haler broke up.

1469
01:32:47,000 --> 01:32:50,320
Speaker 1: One of her dragons is down. But he coming back

1470
01:32:50,360 --> 01:32:52,920
Speaker 1: with blue eyes because they're gonna have some witnesses from

1471
01:32:52,960 --> 01:32:55,639
Speaker 1: the wall. They're gonna tell her the dragon is hat.

1472
01:32:55,760 --> 01:33:00,280
Speaker 1: With the blue eyes dash say the dragon is hell.

1473
01:33:00,479 --> 01:33:04,439
Speaker 1: It's become a white locker. Now, John Snow now fot

1474
01:33:04,479 --> 01:33:06,639
Speaker 1: to season go out, y'all need not to. John Snow

1475
01:33:06,720 --> 01:33:12,080
Speaker 1: gonna get killed. No, everybody gonna die in this hill.

1476
01:33:12,600 --> 01:33:14,880
Speaker 1: All right, all right, listen, thank you Steve for that.

1477
01:33:15,120 --> 01:33:18,519
Speaker 1: I can't wait to watch coming up next to our

1478
01:33:18,640 --> 01:33:21,360
Speaker 1: last break of the day, and Steve will have some

1479
01:33:21,439 --> 01:33:24,400
Speaker 1: closing remarks coming up at forty nine after the hour

1480
01:33:24,640 --> 01:33:29,880
Speaker 1: right after this you're listening show. All right, Steve, Here

1481
01:33:29,920 --> 01:33:32,000
Speaker 1: we are the last break of the day, on this

1482
01:33:32,280 --> 01:33:34,840
Speaker 1: last day of the week for us, this Friday. It's

1483
01:33:34,920 --> 01:33:38,120
Speaker 1: been an impactful week, a great week. Um, leave us

1484
01:33:38,200 --> 01:33:42,080
Speaker 1: with some closing remarks, you know, Steve, Um, what I

1485
01:33:42,160 --> 01:33:46,360
Speaker 1: want to share with you is something that prevents so

1486
01:33:46,560 --> 01:33:52,120
Speaker 1: many people from becoming successful. And that thing is called excuses.

1487
01:33:53,840 --> 01:33:58,439
Speaker 1: You know, it's it's it's it's amazing how well, we

1488
01:33:58,560 --> 01:34:02,960
Speaker 1: want to justify a lack of effort, or we want

1489
01:34:03,000 --> 01:34:08,960
Speaker 1: to justify our procrastination. All we want to justify not

1490
01:34:09,200 --> 01:34:13,920
Speaker 1: doing something we said we were going to do. We

1491
01:34:14,080 --> 01:34:17,519
Speaker 1: want to justify just not getting started. We can come

1492
01:34:17,640 --> 01:34:23,880
Speaker 1: up with some pretty pretty impressive excuses. But you know

1493
01:34:24,000 --> 01:34:28,599
Speaker 1: the thing about an excuse, though, it serves no one

1494
01:34:30,280 --> 01:34:34,800
Speaker 1: except the person that's providing the excuse. The person you're

1495
01:34:34,840 --> 01:34:39,800
Speaker 1: giving the excuse too. It does nothing from them because

1496
01:34:39,880 --> 01:34:43,680
Speaker 1: their level of expectation for you was in place and

1497
01:34:43,840 --> 01:34:47,720
Speaker 1: the fact that you didn't come through. I mean, how

1498
01:34:47,760 --> 01:34:50,720
Speaker 1: can you possibly think that this person is sitting there going, wow,

1499
01:34:50,880 --> 01:34:55,360
Speaker 1: that's great, you didn't come through. Now you're here, okay,

1500
01:34:55,479 --> 01:34:59,000
Speaker 1: well I'm sorry that happened. So when will you get

1501
01:34:59,080 --> 01:35:02,920
Speaker 1: to it? Or you hear something like oh wow, man,

1502
01:35:03,000 --> 01:35:05,200
Speaker 1: I didn't know that. And when you walk a guy

1503
01:35:05,600 --> 01:35:08,560
Speaker 1: and when you walk away, that person goes, wow. I

1504
01:35:08,680 --> 01:35:12,840
Speaker 1: can't count on them. If you keep giving excuses, then

1505
01:35:12,920 --> 01:35:15,759
Speaker 1: after a while a person just goes, I don't believe

1506
01:35:15,880 --> 01:35:20,000
Speaker 1: nothing he says. And either way, man, the person that

1507
01:35:20,120 --> 01:35:23,400
Speaker 1: you gave the excuse too, I can promise you they

1508
01:35:23,439 --> 01:35:25,280
Speaker 1: don't think as much of you as they did when

1509
01:35:25,320 --> 01:35:29,920
Speaker 1: they first thought you were coming through. Folks, if you

1510
01:35:30,040 --> 01:35:34,760
Speaker 1: could learn to eliminate excuses, you know, taught me not

1511
01:35:34,920 --> 01:35:39,960
Speaker 1: to have excuses. My father follows a strong man man.

1512
01:35:40,080 --> 01:35:44,160
Speaker 1: His dude was powerful. To me. It's the greatest dude

1513
01:35:44,200 --> 01:35:47,680
Speaker 1: to have a new But he taught me about excuses.

1514
01:35:47,760 --> 01:35:50,840
Speaker 1: He says, son, don't ever give me an excuse, because

1515
01:35:50,920 --> 01:35:54,120
Speaker 1: what that ain't gonna do me no good. He said,

1516
01:35:54,160 --> 01:35:57,640
Speaker 1: we ain't got nothing. At least you could give me

1517
01:35:57,720 --> 01:36:02,080
Speaker 1: your word. He said, we ain't got nothing else. We

1518
01:36:02,160 --> 01:36:04,080
Speaker 1: ain't got too much more than a part to piss in.

1519
01:36:04,760 --> 01:36:06,559
Speaker 1: But if you're gonna give me your word and tell

1520
01:36:06,640 --> 01:36:09,040
Speaker 1: me you're gonna do something, don't give me no excuse instead,

1521
01:36:09,520 --> 01:36:12,720
Speaker 1: because now we ain't got nothing, y'all. If you could

1522
01:36:12,720 --> 01:36:19,559
Speaker 1: eliminate excuses, if you could stop the allowing yourself off

1523
01:36:19,600 --> 01:36:22,880
Speaker 1: the hook, because that's all it is. The only person

1524
01:36:23,000 --> 01:36:27,120
Speaker 1: you're hurting with these excuses is you. I'll give you

1525
01:36:27,760 --> 01:36:30,800
Speaker 1: an example of how you hurt other people with your excuse. Sister,

1526
01:36:31,560 --> 01:36:34,720
Speaker 1: If you have a child and you keep promising your

1527
01:36:34,800 --> 01:36:38,120
Speaker 1: child that you're gonna do so, if you're a dad,

1528
01:36:38,360 --> 01:36:40,400
Speaker 1: then you don't live with your child. Your boy or

1529
01:36:40,439 --> 01:36:42,640
Speaker 1: your girl. You tell them you're gonna come by. That

1530
01:36:42,880 --> 01:36:44,800
Speaker 1: child is at the window and at the doorway, and

1531
01:36:44,880 --> 01:36:47,599
Speaker 1: they got their little bag pack, they got their lunch packs.

1532
01:36:47,600 --> 01:36:50,559
Speaker 1: I'm going with my dad and man on, man on man.

1533
01:36:50,640 --> 01:36:54,080
Speaker 1: The disappointment that had that child had when you and

1534
01:36:54,160 --> 01:36:56,280
Speaker 1: then you call in against what you say. I had

1535
01:36:56,320 --> 01:36:59,679
Speaker 1: to work, sorry man, but I had to work. Well,

1536
01:37:00,000 --> 01:37:01,920
Speaker 1: I got you head to work for Guess what that

1537
01:37:02,080 --> 01:37:04,679
Speaker 1: does nothing for that child that was waiting on their dad.

1538
01:37:05,720 --> 01:37:07,439
Speaker 1: I got you got to work. But what they got

1539
01:37:07,520 --> 01:37:10,240
Speaker 1: to do that don't stop the disappointment in the child.

1540
01:37:11,280 --> 01:37:15,280
Speaker 1: See excuses, man, they go a long wait many they

1541
01:37:15,520 --> 01:37:18,479
Speaker 1: do far more damage than you can imagine. So after

1542
01:37:18,520 --> 01:37:20,439
Speaker 1: a while, if you keep doing that to that child,

1543
01:37:21,360 --> 01:37:23,519
Speaker 1: and you keep promising your child you're gonna do something,

1544
01:37:23,560 --> 01:37:29,240
Speaker 1: you never do it. Ah, think about that, man, what

1545
01:37:29,439 --> 01:37:32,960
Speaker 1: that does to that child. If you're in a relationship

1546
01:37:33,680 --> 01:37:35,759
Speaker 1: and you keep promising the person you're in a relationship

1547
01:37:35,800 --> 01:37:37,080
Speaker 1: with it you're gonna do something for him, and you

1548
01:37:37,200 --> 01:37:40,559
Speaker 1: never do it. How long you think this relationship gonna lad?

1549
01:37:41,560 --> 01:37:43,439
Speaker 1: You gotta do what you say you're gonna do. You

1550
01:37:43,560 --> 01:37:48,040
Speaker 1: can't create excuses. But then the person who really gets

1551
01:37:48,160 --> 01:37:51,960
Speaker 1: damaged is you, Because when that child grows up and

1552
01:37:52,120 --> 01:37:54,400
Speaker 1: he can now stand on his own, and he can

1553
01:37:54,479 --> 01:37:57,120
Speaker 1: take his own self somewhere, and he can buy his

1554
01:37:57,240 --> 01:38:00,920
Speaker 1: own clothes, and now you want to come around and hey,

1555
01:38:01,040 --> 01:38:04,400
Speaker 1: that's my son. And then he's old enough to ask

1556
01:38:04,479 --> 01:38:07,599
Speaker 1: you questions. Yeah, I'm your sonbol Where were you when

1557
01:38:07,640 --> 01:38:10,080
Speaker 1: I needed you? Man? Where were you when I was

1558
01:38:10,160 --> 01:38:12,240
Speaker 1: standing in the window. Where were you when I was

1559
01:38:12,280 --> 01:38:14,680
Speaker 1: sitting on the porch, man, with my lunch box, just

1560
01:38:14,840 --> 01:38:17,400
Speaker 1: looking at every card that went by, hoping that my

1561
01:38:17,560 --> 01:38:19,960
Speaker 1: daddy would finally come through to my mama finally tend

1562
01:38:20,040 --> 01:38:24,080
Speaker 1: me coming there off the porch. You see, man, Now

1563
01:38:24,840 --> 01:38:28,320
Speaker 1: you got to deal with that and all the excuses

1564
01:38:28,360 --> 01:38:30,760
Speaker 1: you was giving that boy or that little girl back then.

1565
01:38:31,200 --> 01:38:34,599
Speaker 1: It don't mean damn thing to them, you know, man,

1566
01:38:34,960 --> 01:38:38,120
Speaker 1: And it stops you so much. See, once you become

1567
01:38:38,160 --> 01:38:41,400
Speaker 1: a person that provides excuses, it ain't just to your children,

1568
01:38:41,640 --> 01:38:44,320
Speaker 1: it ain't just to your love one, your lover. It's

1569
01:38:44,400 --> 01:38:47,360
Speaker 1: to your job, it's to your career. And pretty soon

1570
01:38:47,439 --> 01:38:51,160
Speaker 1: you start giving excuses to yourself because it's a pattern

1571
01:38:51,240 --> 01:38:54,360
Speaker 1: of behavior. And you got to break that pattern of

1572
01:38:54,479 --> 01:38:58,320
Speaker 1: behavior because it's a no win situation for you. Stop

1573
01:38:58,400 --> 01:39:02,240
Speaker 1: making excuses. Man, Why don't you just simply do what

1574
01:39:02,439 --> 01:39:06,680
Speaker 1: you say you're gonna do. It's much easier to do that.

1575
01:39:08,200 --> 01:39:10,559
Speaker 1: If you say you're gonna do it, be a man

1576
01:39:10,640 --> 01:39:12,519
Speaker 1: of your word, a woman of your word, and go

1577
01:39:12,680 --> 01:39:16,240
Speaker 1: do it. Period. Now, if you're not gonna do it,

1578
01:39:17,280 --> 01:39:20,479
Speaker 1: say that. Be a man of your word on that. See,

1579
01:39:20,520 --> 01:39:23,360
Speaker 1: that's what I do. When somebody asked me to do something,

1580
01:39:24,000 --> 01:39:27,600
Speaker 1: I distinctly tell him, Amen, I'm not gonna do that.

1581
01:39:27,720 --> 01:39:30,080
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, but I won't be there that way. Ain't

1582
01:39:30,120 --> 01:39:32,559
Speaker 1: no hope of you're looking for me? Well, he said

1583
01:39:32,600 --> 01:39:34,120
Speaker 1: he wasn't coming, but I'm gonna see if he come

1584
01:39:34,200 --> 01:39:35,880
Speaker 1: them anywhere? No, no, no, if I tell you I'm

1585
01:39:35,920 --> 01:39:49,719
Speaker 1: not coming. For all Steve Every contests no purchase necessary,

1586
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1588
01:39:57,360 --> 01:40:00,880
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1589
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