1 00:00:01,520 --> 00:00:01,840 Speaker 1: All right. 2 00:00:01,880 --> 00:00:05,440 Speaker 2: This is from Elise on Steve Harvey FM. Alis says, 3 00:00:05,519 --> 00:00:08,200 Speaker 2: my husband and I have a great relationship, but I've 4 00:00:08,240 --> 00:00:12,440 Speaker 2: noticed recently that he's become increasingly secretive about his phone. 5 00:00:12,720 --> 00:00:15,360 Speaker 2: He always has it on him and never lets me 6 00:00:15,520 --> 00:00:19,320 Speaker 2: see who is texting who he's texting. I trust him 7 00:00:19,360 --> 00:00:21,640 Speaker 2: to a point, but this behavior is starting to make 8 00:00:21,680 --> 00:00:24,239 Speaker 2: me paranoid. Should I bring this up to him? Or 9 00:00:24,239 --> 00:00:26,799 Speaker 2: do you think that I'm overreacting? How far should my 10 00:00:26,880 --> 00:00:27,520 Speaker 2: trust go? 11 00:00:28,400 --> 00:00:28,639 Speaker 3: Wow? 12 00:00:32,920 --> 00:00:41,680 Speaker 4: She needs advice? I are mumbling here? What what are 13 00:00:41,720 --> 00:00:42,320 Speaker 4: you guys saying? 14 00:00:43,800 --> 00:00:45,159 Speaker 3: I can't I can't help her? 15 00:00:46,280 --> 00:00:46,480 Speaker 5: Why? 16 00:00:48,120 --> 00:00:48,360 Speaker 6: Well? 17 00:00:48,680 --> 00:00:53,640 Speaker 7: You know, look man, look, here's a deal. If he 18 00:00:53,840 --> 00:00:56,400 Speaker 7: had his phone, won't let you see it? Then you 19 00:00:56,560 --> 00:01:01,160 Speaker 7: know some moaning. Now all I can ten. 20 00:01:01,320 --> 00:01:03,960 Speaker 3: Is it's on that? 21 00:01:04,959 --> 00:01:05,200 Speaker 2: On that? 22 00:01:05,720 --> 00:01:08,200 Speaker 3: What she what? You are the woman? 23 00:01:08,520 --> 00:01:09,039 Speaker 8: Information? 24 00:01:09,640 --> 00:01:13,480 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, oh that's on that. Ain't no, ain't no 25 00:01:13,520 --> 00:01:15,360 Speaker 3: way around it ain't And I can't help you. 26 00:01:15,920 --> 00:01:17,160 Speaker 4: Okay, you can't help her? 27 00:01:17,400 --> 00:01:18,720 Speaker 6: Okay you want to. 28 00:01:19,040 --> 00:01:23,759 Speaker 8: Look, you already know she's figured it out, she knows intuition, 29 00:01:23,959 --> 00:01:25,280 Speaker 8: she knows right. 30 00:01:25,360 --> 00:01:27,480 Speaker 6: She's asking how far should her trust go? 31 00:01:27,720 --> 00:01:35,039 Speaker 8: Yeah, Tommy, you won't say that in your own phone 32 00:01:35,280 --> 00:01:39,680 Speaker 8: you have your phone, and he got his phone for me. 33 00:01:39,920 --> 00:01:42,119 Speaker 3: Why do you need to know what's in his phone? 34 00:01:42,680 --> 00:01:43,720 Speaker 3: Stay in your. 35 00:01:43,760 --> 00:01:45,280 Speaker 6: Phone because that's her husband. 36 00:01:46,040 --> 00:01:49,160 Speaker 1: Don't nobody care about who you texting and what you're doing. 37 00:01:49,280 --> 00:01:55,400 Speaker 1: Stay in your care well cares? We can oh stick 38 00:01:55,480 --> 00:02:00,160 Speaker 1: to our own stuffy phone on. 39 00:02:00,400 --> 00:02:05,360 Speaker 3: Own computer, a phone like a two brush. Just use yours. 40 00:02:06,680 --> 00:02:11,240 Speaker 6: Wow, you're married and there should be no secrets. 41 00:02:10,880 --> 00:02:11,200 Speaker 3: Right. 42 00:02:13,639 --> 00:02:13,960 Speaker 4: I went. 43 00:02:14,440 --> 00:02:16,840 Speaker 1: Ain't say nothing about sharing each other phone and stuff. 44 00:02:17,480 --> 00:02:18,960 Speaker 6: They didn't have phones. 45 00:02:20,360 --> 00:02:22,639 Speaker 5: Back in the day, back all the way back then. 46 00:02:25,639 --> 00:02:30,560 Speaker 5: You're newly wet, you have anything to contribute, Come on. 47 00:02:30,639 --> 00:02:34,560 Speaker 3: Man, say something, say something. I got mad before, I said, 48 00:02:34,560 --> 00:02:36,120 Speaker 3: should I bring it up to him? I don't like 49 00:02:36,160 --> 00:02:37,600 Speaker 3: when my boy brings stuff up to me. 50 00:02:37,919 --> 00:02:39,080 Speaker 6: Don't bring nothing up here? 51 00:02:39,800 --> 00:02:40,200 Speaker 4: Mm hmm. 52 00:02:40,760 --> 00:02:41,840 Speaker 6: So she's just supposed to. 53 00:02:41,960 --> 00:02:42,480 Speaker 1: Just do what. 54 00:02:44,080 --> 00:02:44,400 Speaker 3: Today. 55 00:02:46,639 --> 00:02:48,600 Speaker 4: So she just must have gone about her day, so 56 00:02:48,720 --> 00:02:49,520 Speaker 4: she can't say. 57 00:02:49,360 --> 00:02:51,680 Speaker 6: That's what people do doing today, go about it. 58 00:02:53,600 --> 00:02:54,720 Speaker 1: Or something to be picked up. 59 00:02:55,840 --> 00:02:56,160 Speaker 6: Answer. 60 00:02:57,160 --> 00:03:00,320 Speaker 3: Ever, when I go, I'm going with my phone your 61 00:03:00,360 --> 00:03:00,920 Speaker 3: dog on right? 62 00:03:02,760 --> 00:03:02,919 Speaker 1: Let me. 63 00:03:03,200 --> 00:03:04,920 Speaker 6: Why can't you just leave your phone? 64 00:03:06,400 --> 00:03:09,799 Speaker 3: You are business people. We have an important phone calls. 65 00:03:10,160 --> 00:03:12,520 Speaker 3: That's right, Leave my phone. 66 00:03:12,639 --> 00:03:15,480 Speaker 6: We can't leave my phone with you from your hermount 67 00:03:15,600 --> 00:03:22,239 Speaker 6: is calling the box. Yeah, CBS just any ready to 68 00:03:22,400 --> 00:03:25,240 Speaker 6: love family few. You just can't set that down. 69 00:03:26,560 --> 00:03:30,960 Speaker 3: I showed Kate, I got a friend in jail. 70 00:03:31,040 --> 00:03:31,639 Speaker 6: He might call. 71 00:03:31,760 --> 00:03:32,079 Speaker 4: I got it. 72 00:03:32,160 --> 00:03:33,080 Speaker 3: I gotta have that phone. 73 00:03:34,960 --> 00:03:37,280 Speaker 6: And when he called the next day, he's still in jail. 74 00:03:37,360 --> 00:03:39,200 Speaker 6: So you can wait. 75 00:03:39,400 --> 00:03:39,600 Speaker 3: Yeah. 76 00:03:42,000 --> 00:03:44,200 Speaker 4: Have you ever left your phone at home by mistake? 77 00:03:44,600 --> 00:03:46,640 Speaker 3: Yeah? And what got halfway working? 78 00:03:46,720 --> 00:03:48,200 Speaker 1: Called Steven, told him I wasn't gonna make it. 79 00:03:48,480 --> 00:03:51,320 Speaker 6: Went right back to the You missed the whole day 80 00:03:51,320 --> 00:03:52,000 Speaker 6: of work. 81 00:03:52,080 --> 00:03:57,960 Speaker 3: And I supported it too. Yeah, all right, man, talk 82 00:03:58,000 --> 00:03:58,800 Speaker 3: to you next week. 83 00:03:59,680 --> 00:04:00,440 Speaker 6: Next week. 84 00:04:01,800 --> 00:04:05,840 Speaker 7: Back in my prior life, if I left my phone 85 00:04:05,880 --> 00:04:10,040 Speaker 7: at the house one time, called back. Max said, I 86 00:04:10,160 --> 00:04:12,920 Speaker 7: want your cold or I'm not sending it to you. Oh, 87 00:04:13,520 --> 00:04:16,799 Speaker 7: she said, either send me your cold. I'm gonna smash 88 00:04:16,880 --> 00:04:20,320 Speaker 7: it up and I'm gonna give it to your assistant 89 00:04:20,360 --> 00:04:22,520 Speaker 7: and they'll bring it to you in a plastic bag. 90 00:04:23,640 --> 00:04:28,360 Speaker 3: Man at a work, she said, she smashed it. 91 00:04:28,640 --> 00:04:30,840 Speaker 7: I went in there, that opened up that bag, threw 92 00:04:30,880 --> 00:04:33,039 Speaker 7: it on the floor, pull let's see him card out, 93 00:04:33,520 --> 00:04:36,240 Speaker 7: and went to the riding and bought a new phone. 94 00:04:36,640 --> 00:04:38,080 Speaker 6: We'll have more of cheaters. 95 00:04:39,240 --> 00:04:40,160 Speaker 3: Why can't we come back? 96 00:04:40,440 --> 00:04:43,800 Speaker 2: Twenty minutes after, right after this, you're listening to the 97 00:04:43,920 --> 00:04:45,360 Speaker 2: Steve Harvey Morning Show