WEBVTT - One Week of the Yads 0:00:00.760 --> 0:00:05.000 Scrubbing in with Becca Tilly and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio podcast. 0:00:07.080 --> 0:00:09.840 Hello everybody, we are scrubbing it. 0:00:11.080 --> 0:00:15.320 Scrub a dub dub in a. 0:00:15.440 --> 0:00:16.880 Dip for rent. 0:00:18.680 --> 0:00:22.840 We're in the We're not in our usual spot like 0:00:22.880 --> 0:00:26.119 we're in the studio, but we're in the podcast room. 0:00:26.320 --> 0:00:27.880 Yes, we're in the room where we normally do our 0:00:27.880 --> 0:00:32.360 interviews with guests. With guests, So I'm sitting across from BT. 0:00:33.200 --> 0:00:34.360 How do I look on my camera? 0:00:35.200 --> 0:00:37.320 If I'm being honest, I can't see you, Okay because 0:00:37.479 --> 0:00:39.800 like the thing is like over your face. Okay, how 0:00:39.840 --> 0:00:40.760 do I look in my camera? 0:00:41.120 --> 0:00:45.160 I also can't see Yeah, so good luck to both 0:00:45.159 --> 0:00:45.360 of them. 0:00:45.400 --> 0:00:47.000 Yeah, let's cross our fingers and. 0:00:48.240 --> 0:00:51.080 Oh yeah, it's Friday. 0:00:51.760 --> 0:00:52.040 It is. 0:00:52.040 --> 0:00:54.959 We're doing a little pre recording for Monday because it's 0:00:55.000 --> 0:00:59.960 a Tanya has a busy weekend, so we somehow Tanya 0:01:00.280 --> 0:01:01.680 still going. 0:01:01.960 --> 0:01:03.560 Still going. You know what's crazy? 0:01:03.720 --> 0:01:05.640 Ali was texting me, She's like, are you feeling the 0:01:05.640 --> 0:01:08.000 post wedding blues? And I was like, I felt a 0:01:08.040 --> 0:01:10.679 little bit of like a come down, like on Sunday 0:01:10.720 --> 0:01:13.320 when we were packing and leaving, like that was definitely 0:01:13.600 --> 0:01:16.319 like sad, and I was like feeling sad about it 0:01:16.360 --> 0:01:18.959 being over. But I was like, I went straight into 0:01:18.959 --> 0:01:22.280 work on Monday, and I've had just literally so much 0:01:22.319 --> 0:01:24.200 going on. And then I fly to New York for 0:01:24.280 --> 0:01:26.160 Jonas Kahn, and then I come back and we go 0:01:26.200 --> 0:01:27.760 on our mini moon, and then I come back and 0:01:27.760 --> 0:01:28.240 I'm going. 0:01:28.080 --> 0:01:29.160 To Houston for another event. 0:01:29.480 --> 0:01:31.240 So it's like the next three weeks are just so 0:01:31.400 --> 0:01:32.760 jam packed, and I'm like, I don't think I have 0:01:32.800 --> 0:01:33.720 time to have the blues. 0:01:34.000 --> 0:01:38.039 You know, it's interesting, there's almost everything that you did 0:01:38.040 --> 0:01:40.080 for your wedding. I was like, I'm taking notes on 0:01:40.160 --> 0:01:43.920 like things that I also would do, except your come down, 0:01:44.400 --> 0:01:46.400 I would take at least a week off. 0:01:47.040 --> 0:01:49.960 Yeah, that was like I would say, in hindsight, my 0:01:50.040 --> 0:01:54.920 biggest regret was I wish you would have stayed in 0:01:55.480 --> 0:01:58.720 like put to me to on Sunday even come back Monday, 0:01:58.920 --> 0:02:00.880 you know, but just like had that like rest and 0:02:00.920 --> 0:02:04.320 relax instead of packing and like trying to Like our 0:02:04.440 --> 0:02:06.640 room was totally disheveled because that's where we got ready. 0:02:06.680 --> 0:02:07.720 So Robbie was like, I don't know. 0:02:07.720 --> 0:02:10.400 Where half of my stuff is, so like trying to 0:02:10.560 --> 0:02:12.280 not in a bad way, but like trying to pack 0:02:12.360 --> 0:02:15.639 and remember everything was just like hen house. 0:02:15.680 --> 0:02:16.440 It was just like. 0:02:17.919 --> 0:02:19.839 Mayhem, I know, and it was like such a gorg, 0:02:19.960 --> 0:02:21.799 Like you really didn't need to go anywhere. You could 0:02:21.840 --> 0:02:23.760 have just stayed for a couple of days and yeah, 0:02:23.880 --> 0:02:24.480 that's okay. 0:02:24.760 --> 0:02:25.560 Robbie had to get back. 0:02:25.639 --> 0:02:27.800 Robbie had He's just been so busy with work that 0:02:27.840 --> 0:02:29.720 he was like, I couldn't have stayed in one more day. 0:02:30.160 --> 0:02:31.679 Well that makes me feel a little bit better that 0:02:31.720 --> 0:02:32.840 it wasn't like just me. 0:02:33.400 --> 0:02:35.520 Right, you were in it together. Yeah, what a beautiful 0:02:35.520 --> 0:02:38.240 start to your marriage, just like together. 0:02:38.480 --> 0:02:41.760 Yeah, grinding to the top. Yeah. 0:02:42.040 --> 0:02:44.400 People are loving the wedding content. I was saying, like, 0:02:44.880 --> 0:02:49.200 between Sam's footage and bringing Ashley, who who helps you 0:02:49.240 --> 0:02:50.080 with social media? 0:02:50.680 --> 0:02:54.440 If there are any brides out there that need or 0:02:54.520 --> 0:02:57.440 are thinking about having a content creator at their wedding 0:02:58.000 --> 0:02:59.520 having Ashley was. 0:02:59.520 --> 0:03:01.240 Like, I haven't even posted that. 0:03:01.320 --> 0:03:05.000 She She's sortad of like made tiktoks and videos. It's 0:03:05.000 --> 0:03:07.920 like in like a finished thing for me from my wedding, 0:03:08.400 --> 0:03:10.160 and I've been watching those. I haven't even posted any 0:03:10.160 --> 0:03:11.919 of them because I've just been posting all the other 0:03:11.960 --> 0:03:15.160 content that I have. But yeah, I mean she was 0:03:16.560 --> 0:03:18.280 top to bottom amazing. 0:03:18.520 --> 0:03:20.680 Because even if you don't, like even if you're not 0:03:20.760 --> 0:03:23.160 a content creator like an influencer, and you're like, I 0:03:23.160 --> 0:03:25.680 don't need to share everything online. I think just having 0:03:25.760 --> 0:03:28.520 the videos and the footage to reminisce, and like she 0:03:28.639 --> 0:03:32.000 caught mo, she got so many just moments of things 0:03:32.000 --> 0:03:33.079 that happened. 0:03:32.840 --> 0:03:35.520 And like she she made a video of me, like 0:03:36.240 --> 0:03:38.520 I probably won't post it because it's like very emotional, 0:03:38.560 --> 0:03:40.600 but it was of my dad and it was like 0:03:41.360 --> 0:03:43.240 to everybody else, she's the bride, but to me, she's 0:03:43.320 --> 0:03:43.920 my baby girl. 0:03:43.960 --> 0:03:45.480 And it was like all these videos of like my. 0:03:45.480 --> 0:03:49.920 Dad throughout the weekend and like to this beautiful song, 0:03:50.120 --> 0:03:51.640 you know, and I'm like, I probably won't post that, 0:03:51.720 --> 0:03:55.600 but just having that, you know, because our videographer, I 0:03:55.640 --> 0:03:58.160 have no idea what he's gonna send me, Like do 0:03:58.200 --> 0:03:59.840 you know what I mean? I have no idea what 0:04:00.280 --> 0:04:03.400 like what I'm gonna get, uh, but I know I 0:04:03.400 --> 0:04:06.120 already have some good stuff, so like whatever. 0:04:06.000 --> 0:04:09.640 Yeah, that was it. That was a win, huge win, 0:04:09.760 --> 0:04:15.440 huge one. How's married life one week down? I know, 0:04:15.560 --> 0:04:17.479 Oh my gosh, today's your week anniversary? 0:04:17.600 --> 0:04:21.400 Yeah, he was like it'd be one week anniversary of like, cu, 0:04:21.800 --> 0:04:28.240 we did it, we made it. Married life is different really, yeah, 0:04:28.240 --> 0:04:31.960 how so I felt like after we got engaged it 0:04:32.000 --> 0:04:34.839 felt different. It's like a different level of commitment, and 0:04:34.880 --> 0:04:38.000 then marriage is like another level of commitment. So it's 0:04:38.040 --> 0:04:41.040 almost just like you feel like, I don't know, it's 0:04:41.080 --> 0:04:44.039 not safer because I always felt safe, but it's just 0:04:44.040 --> 0:04:44.279 like this. 0:04:44.960 --> 0:04:46.240 I don't know. Maybe it's just me. 0:04:46.520 --> 0:04:48.280 Well, I don't think it's just you. I always hear 0:04:48.320 --> 0:04:50.640 people say that, but I also think that was always 0:04:50.640 --> 0:04:53.720 something very important to you, was like the like safety, 0:04:54.040 --> 0:04:58.040 safety and commitment of each step of getting to where 0:04:58.080 --> 0:05:00.520 you are. Now. Yeah, once you have a baby, y'all 0:05:00.520 --> 0:05:01.520 are locked in. 0:05:01.760 --> 0:05:05.440 Yeah, locked in. I know we're talking about that now. 0:05:05.720 --> 0:05:08.960 Wow, So what's the talk Because y'all are doing your 0:05:09.000 --> 0:05:11.600 honeymoon and if you a lot of people ask do 0:05:11.640 --> 0:05:12.960 we already talk about this? A lot of people ask 0:05:13.000 --> 0:05:15.240 about honeymoon? You're doing a honeymoon. 0:05:15.400 --> 0:05:18.880 We're doing a honeymoon at the end of June, like 0:05:18.920 --> 0:05:22.919 fourth of July week. It's an easier week just work wise. Yeah, 0:05:23.160 --> 0:05:24.760 take to take time off. 0:05:25.480 --> 0:05:27.160 So we're going to do that. We're going to do 0:05:27.200 --> 0:05:27.880 a mini moon. 0:05:28.480 --> 0:05:30.919 In like two weekends, so not this weekend, but the 0:05:30.920 --> 0:05:31.480 weekend after. 0:05:31.720 --> 0:05:37.839 Where's that cavo oh where she loves Mexico. She's in Mexico, Girly. 0:05:38.720 --> 0:05:41.000 We're staying at the Waldorf. So I'm just going for 0:05:41.040 --> 0:05:41.599 two days. 0:05:43.000 --> 0:05:44.560 But I think it'll be nice because I feel like 0:05:44.720 --> 0:05:46.400 we got back from our wedding and we haven't had 0:05:46.760 --> 0:05:50.279 We haven't had We're going to have one date night 0:05:51.360 --> 0:05:52.240 until our mini moon. 0:05:53.080 --> 0:05:56.080 Whoa, because I'm going to be gone. Oh yeah, yeah 0:05:56.960 --> 0:05:57.320 I haven't. 0:05:57.360 --> 0:05:59.960 I literally was saying to Sam, like we're I'm seeing 0:06:00.480 --> 0:06:01.919 She goes, what are you doing this weekend? And I 0:06:01.920 --> 0:06:03.560 was like, I'm just hanging out with Haley, Like I 0:06:03.560 --> 0:06:06.920 haven't had like just uninterrupted, like intentional time with her 0:06:07.279 --> 0:06:11.279 in a minute. So I was like she you know, 0:06:11.600 --> 0:06:14.400 I was like, I gave all my everything I had 0:06:14.480 --> 0:06:18.360 went to Tanya and Robbie over last week, Like everything 0:06:18.400 --> 0:06:20.760 that I had in me was given to them, So 0:06:20.839 --> 0:06:25.159 she needs my she needs an attention back. Yeah. 0:06:25.200 --> 0:06:28.560 It's funny because I feel like it was all for us. 0:06:28.839 --> 0:06:30.880 Everything was for us, but we haven't spent He and 0:06:30.880 --> 0:06:33.400 I haven't spent alone time together. 0:06:33.720 --> 0:06:37.360 Like literally at all in the past two weeks. 0:06:37.760 --> 0:06:40.839 It is funny because of weddings, it's all about it's 0:06:40.920 --> 0:06:43.280 your relationship and your love and your commitment, and yet 0:06:44.160 --> 0:06:47.839 it's every so many other people involved in that process 0:06:48.120 --> 0:06:51.320 because it's like you're the host of a party. Yeah, 0:06:51.320 --> 0:06:54.120 but the party is the biggest party for yourself. 0:06:54.279 --> 0:06:55.000 Robbie made it. 0:06:55.400 --> 0:06:58.360 He always said, he was like our wedding, we are 0:06:58.440 --> 0:06:59.440 guests at our wedding. 0:07:00.120 --> 0:07:01.880 Oh, we are the guests at our wedding. 0:07:01.920 --> 0:07:04.440 We don't we are not like we don't have to 0:07:04.720 --> 0:07:08.000 uh host and make people like, you know, even though 0:07:08.000 --> 0:07:10.640 we did, we totally like wanted to like dance with everybody. 0:07:10.960 --> 0:07:11.640 I know. 0:07:12.200 --> 0:07:13.760 I mean that's just who you are. 0:07:14.120 --> 0:07:17.160 Yeah, you'll are host hosts. 0:07:16.840 --> 0:07:19.400 In your host and work. You're hosting. 0:07:19.560 --> 0:07:23.000 We're gonna lie really big Taco Thursday in a couple 0:07:23.040 --> 0:07:25.320 of weeks, and we were gonna like basically buy like 0:07:26.320 --> 0:07:28.200 not everybody that was at the wedding, but like the 0:07:28.240 --> 0:07:29.880 majority of people that were at the wedding. 0:07:30.080 --> 0:07:32.080 I was like trying to get I was like, maybe 0:07:32.080 --> 0:07:34.400 I just have Tanya send her wedding guest list and 0:07:34.440 --> 0:07:38.440 I just copy that and I'm just like, oh, Robbie's 0:07:38.480 --> 0:07:40.280 family comes. 0:07:42.480 --> 0:07:44.760 Family to her movies greeting tonight. 0:07:47.040 --> 0:07:50.800 Well, it's gonna be a mini reunion. Literally, can't wait. 0:07:52.200 --> 0:07:55.200 You're doing Jonahs Khan speaking of just Busy, You're going 0:07:55.240 --> 0:07:58.560 to Jonas Khan on Sunday. I am explain what Jonas 0:07:58.640 --> 0:08:00.640 kN is because for someone who is not in the 0:08:00.720 --> 0:08:02.120 Jonas hemisphere, so. 0:08:02.040 --> 0:08:03.760 You know what a convention is, right, So it's to 0:08:03.800 --> 0:08:11.640 celebrate their twenty year anniversary of Jonahs Brothers Jonas Brothers, right, Sam, Yeah, 0:08:11.720 --> 0:08:15.200 the Jonah like the inception of the Jonas Brothers KA. 0:08:15.960 --> 0:08:17.200 So it's their twenty year anniversary. 0:08:17.240 --> 0:08:20.239 So doing Jonas con which is basically like Jonah's Brother's convention, 0:08:21.160 --> 0:08:26.560 and it's it's a convention for the Jonas Brothers. 0:08:26.640 --> 0:08:28.960 Well it happens though like they're performing. 0:08:29.360 --> 0:08:31.480 Yeah, yeah, yeah, I mean there's gonna be like other 0:08:31.520 --> 0:08:34.560 performances too. I'm not totally in the know because I 0:08:34.600 --> 0:08:38.000 know what I'm doing, which is what I'm basically bringing 0:08:38.040 --> 0:08:42.240 them out on stage. I don't even know if what 0:08:42.280 --> 0:08:47.520 I'm doing is like shared publicly yet. Oh oh, there's 0:08:47.520 --> 0:08:54.800 gonna be Jonas Golf, Jonas Pizza, Camp, Rock Karaoke, Jonas 0:08:54.880 --> 0:09:03.640 Escape Room, Shake by the Ocean, Jonas, Trivia, Jonas Cookies, 0:09:04.000 --> 0:09:08.800 Dream Wheel, Around the Clock, and then I'm basically going 0:09:08.880 --> 0:09:12.680 to introduce them, like I'm gonna bring them out, and 0:09:13.000 --> 0:09:14.600 I don't know if I'm supposed to like share it, okay, 0:09:14.800 --> 0:09:17.080 yeah whatever, no, no, but this is airing Monday, and 0:09:17.160 --> 0:09:19.760 I'll be okay. So I'm basically bringing them out and 0:09:19.800 --> 0:09:25.160 then they're gonna play specific songs to like fans in 0:09:25.200 --> 0:09:26.920 the audience. So I'm going to be kind of like 0:09:26.960 --> 0:09:29.920 the reporter in the field with the fans asking them 0:09:30.000 --> 0:09:32.480 kind of like what the songs mean to them. So 0:09:32.559 --> 0:09:34.440 like it's not just like straight concert where there's going 0:09:34.480 --> 0:09:36.199 to keep playing song after a song. It's gonna be 0:09:36.280 --> 0:09:38.959 like fans explaining what the songs mean to them. 0:09:39.920 --> 0:09:42.199 Gotcha? And then I saw chicks in the office or 0:09:42.200 --> 0:09:43.160 doing like a live They're. 0:09:42.960 --> 0:09:44.280 Doing like a live podcast. 0:09:44.480 --> 0:09:47.600 Yeah, is this the first ever Jonas first ever? Oh wow, 0:09:48.720 --> 0:09:49.800 I can't wait to hear. 0:09:50.160 --> 0:09:52.200 I was so honored that they wanted me to do this. 0:09:52.320 --> 0:09:54.040 I was like, isn't there anybody that lives on the 0:09:54.040 --> 0:09:54.800 East Coast that. 0:09:54.840 --> 0:09:57.199 Like, Yeah, why didn't they call it Ashley I? 0:09:58.480 --> 0:10:03.200 Because Tanya rad Yad is the number one Jonas fan 0:10:03.760 --> 0:10:04.200 I'm wearing. 0:10:04.280 --> 0:10:04.679 I don't know. 0:10:04.760 --> 0:10:05.080 I think. 0:10:05.160 --> 0:10:09.520 I think Ashley beats you. I do. She's been to 0:10:09.679 --> 0:10:12.400 like double digit concerts. I think. 0:10:13.120 --> 0:10:15.439 Is she gonna be wearing an I Love Kevin shirt? 0:10:15.760 --> 0:10:16.280 I don't know. 0:10:16.440 --> 0:10:17.400 Yeah, I don't think so. 0:10:17.600 --> 0:10:20.160 But she has to be going to this. You should 0:10:20.280 --> 0:10:23.320 contact her. Yeah, she is have to be going to this. 0:10:23.520 --> 0:10:23.880 Yeah. 0:10:24.040 --> 0:10:27.040 I can't imagine her missing it. Well, that's exciting. 0:10:27.160 --> 0:10:29.680 I am excited. Just me and the bros, You and 0:10:29.720 --> 0:10:30.760 the bross. 0:10:31.000 --> 0:10:34.120 Speaking of Tanya rad Yad, you change your Instagram name. 0:10:34.320 --> 0:10:39.720 I changed my name, but not my handle, right, What 0:10:39.760 --> 0:10:40.560 are your thoughts on that? 0:10:41.640 --> 0:10:42.680 Keep the handle as it is? 0:10:42.800 --> 0:10:47.000 Right, I say, keep the handle as it is because 0:10:47.040 --> 0:10:50.480 you're still Tawny rad Yad. So Tanya Rad's still your name, right, 0:10:50.800 --> 0:10:52.400 you know it's like your middle. 0:10:52.200 --> 0:10:56.240 Name, right, no need to like. But it's also like 0:10:56.280 --> 0:11:00.360 you could just change the R to the hy Tanya. Yeah. 0:11:00.600 --> 0:11:03.840 Yeah, and no, maybe people won't even notice a difference 0:11:06.160 --> 0:11:08.520 because I just type in t A N to get 0:11:08.559 --> 0:11:10.400 your name to pop up. They're not like typing in 0:11:10.440 --> 0:11:10.920 the whole thing. 0:11:11.200 --> 0:11:13.280 Yeah, what if people type in rat to find me? 0:11:13.760 --> 0:11:18.320 It'll probably heavens I'll lose those people too risky. 0:11:19.080 --> 0:11:21.320 Yeah, I feel that feels like more of a month 0:11:21.400 --> 0:11:24.120 long into marriage decision rush. 0:11:24.240 --> 0:11:28.080 Yeah, not a weekend. How are you feeling post wedding? 0:11:28.320 --> 0:11:31.640 I feel like I'm the one who just got wet, 0:11:31.800 --> 0:11:35.280 Like I feel like I'm still recovering. But that could 0:11:35.320 --> 0:11:39.319 just be from the self induced situation that I gave 0:11:39.400 --> 0:11:40.600 myself and my body. 0:11:40.679 --> 0:11:43.959 Video of you taking the shot is diabolical. 0:11:44.240 --> 0:11:46.960 It really is, because like even I was shocked by 0:11:47.000 --> 0:11:49.959 how well I faked it, Like I even surprised myself. 0:11:50.040 --> 0:11:53.760 Robbie goes she could have made a face, but the 0:11:55.280 --> 0:11:58.679 body that she made was like, took it to a 0:11:58.679 --> 0:11:59.439 whole other level. 0:12:00.080 --> 0:12:02.280 Had to sell it, and people were like, she gave 0:12:02.320 --> 0:12:04.560 it away by not using her line. But I never 0:12:04.679 --> 0:12:08.400 used my line. Fun fact, fun fact, I never used 0:12:08.400 --> 0:12:12.080 my line. It's already it's already so bad that, like, 0:12:12.160 --> 0:12:14.440 my focus is just getting the shot down. I don't 0:12:14.440 --> 0:12:15.320 need something else. 0:12:15.440 --> 0:12:17.640 Did Sam Did you know that she had water? And 0:12:17.679 --> 0:12:19.760 that was why were you filming that? You're just filming 0:12:19.880 --> 0:12:20.840 us taking shot together? 0:12:22.440 --> 0:12:23.880 Oh my god. 0:12:23.920 --> 0:12:28.000 The best part is that so Jordan and Jojo knew 0:12:28.000 --> 0:12:31.200 how sick I was, and so they're in their seat, 0:12:31.760 --> 0:12:33.199 which we were on the dance floor. They were in 0:12:33.240 --> 0:12:34.880 their seat, which was kind of a distance, but like 0:12:34.920 --> 0:12:36.640 they had a straight shot to watch me do it. 0:12:37.160 --> 0:12:40.480 So when I finished, they were like wide eyed and 0:12:40.559 --> 0:12:43.960 like clapping for me. And I was like, I took 0:12:44.040 --> 0:12:46.600 water and they were like, no. 0:12:46.760 --> 0:12:51.240 I feel so lied to that whole day, like fully 0:12:51.320 --> 0:12:51.720 lied to. 0:12:52.440 --> 0:12:56.720 It was for the the the cause. It was for good. 0:12:57.760 --> 0:12:59.280 It was for good. All of it was for good, 0:12:59.679 --> 0:13:03.520 because I my whole intention was like, okay, you did 0:13:03.559 --> 0:13:06.240 this to yourself. It was so stupid, like why how. 0:13:06.080 --> 0:13:08.480 Did you have so much fun if you were so sick? 0:13:09.160 --> 0:13:10.760 Like you looked like you were having a good time. 0:13:10.800 --> 0:13:12.640 I had a great well by that point, I did 0:13:12.679 --> 0:13:13.280 have a great time. 0:13:13.360 --> 0:13:14.400 Oh you weren't sick anymore. 0:13:14.440 --> 0:13:17.160 At the nighttime, I was not gonna risk it, but 0:13:17.200 --> 0:13:19.760 I ate Haley's buttered noodles. That was the first thing 0:13:19.800 --> 0:13:22.680 I ate, and I was like, I need something plain. 0:13:22.880 --> 0:13:25.080 I can't risk it. So I ate the buttered noodles 0:13:25.080 --> 0:13:27.520 and a coke and then I was like I was 0:13:27.559 --> 0:13:28.160 good after that. 0:13:28.760 --> 0:13:30.079 Okay, so you weren't like. 0:13:30.080 --> 0:13:32.760 Sick, no, no, no, okay, I would say. Once we 0:13:32.800 --> 0:13:35.520 got to the ceremony part. I was okay. I think 0:13:35.600 --> 0:13:38.000 being outside and having the fresh air, I was like 0:13:38.240 --> 0:13:42.000 very relaxed and just like happy that I made it. 0:13:42.040 --> 0:13:44.360 For the relief that flooded me that I made it 0:13:44.400 --> 0:13:49.160 to that moment, oh sigh of relief. But anyways, it 0:13:49.200 --> 0:13:52.400 was like crazy waking up because I was like you, 0:13:52.679 --> 0:13:54.800 I was stewing someone the other night, like I have 0:13:55.000 --> 0:13:59.920 never used mental strength like that, where I was like, gay, 0:14:00.160 --> 0:14:04.079 your ass up, this is your best friend's wedding. You 0:14:04.120 --> 0:14:07.480 did this to yourself, figure it out, Like I was 0:14:07.520 --> 0:14:08.120 like using it. 0:14:08.160 --> 0:14:08.360 I was. 0:14:08.559 --> 0:14:10.960 There was no gentle parenting with myself. 0:14:11.360 --> 0:14:13.280 I mean, it's so crazy. 0:14:13.760 --> 0:14:17.560 Looking back on videos and stuff, I'm like, hmm, yeah, 0:14:17.600 --> 0:14:18.800 I see it now. 0:14:18.760 --> 0:14:20.280 But in the moment I didn't see it at all. 0:14:20.920 --> 0:14:22.920 Yeah. Well I didn't think you would because you had 0:14:23.080 --> 0:14:25.360 so much other Like I knew that I could get 0:14:25.400 --> 0:14:28.760 away with being a little under the radar, under the radar. 0:14:28.880 --> 0:14:31.400 Well I wasn't under the radar. I was dying laughing though, 0:14:31.440 --> 0:14:35.240 because so all my brain was thinking. Because they told 0:14:35.280 --> 0:14:37.120 us you have to be ready for photos at one 0:14:37.720 --> 0:14:39.840 and then after that we weren't needed until three point 0:14:39.840 --> 0:14:42.560 thirty on the schedule, uh huh, And so I was like, Okay, 0:14:43.160 --> 0:14:45.480 we're probably gonna finish pictures at like one thirty one 0:14:45.600 --> 0:14:48.120 forty five. I can go back to the room, just 0:14:48.320 --> 0:14:55.080 lay down and just like recharge. Kara the photographer was like, Beca, 0:14:55.160 --> 0:14:56.760 can you go put your dress on so that we 0:14:56.800 --> 0:15:00.160 can get Tanya into her dress? And I was like, oh, yeah, 0:15:00.200 --> 0:15:05.280 of course, it's just like golf corded back to the 0:15:05.400 --> 0:15:11.240 room like no, not for no, not for but yeah. 0:15:11.240 --> 0:15:13.120 I think it was also like the adrenaline and like 0:15:13.240 --> 0:15:15.840 happiness of the day helped me too. And the zo 0:15:15.840 --> 0:15:19.800 frin dangne with the zo friend dang. But anyways, Yeah, 0:15:19.840 --> 0:15:21.360 the shot video is so good. 0:15:21.560 --> 0:15:23.320 I couldn't believe we got that on film. 0:15:23.400 --> 0:15:26.720 But also I would have been so upset because if 0:15:26.760 --> 0:15:29.520 I had had tequila, I would have taken the whole thing, 0:15:29.560 --> 0:15:31.400 and you took like a baby sip. 0:15:31.720 --> 0:15:32.680 So that's my trick. 0:15:33.200 --> 0:15:35.840 Well use half. But I don't even think half went 0:15:35.880 --> 0:15:36.200 down that. 0:15:36.680 --> 0:15:40.360 I never got drunk that night. Drunk. 0:15:40.560 --> 0:15:44.120 I was tipsy, but I think it's because I take 0:15:44.160 --> 0:15:45.360 little SIPs here and there. 0:15:46.120 --> 0:15:47.080 Do you think I got drunk? 0:15:48.040 --> 0:15:50.480 I would say you were a little past tipsy, but 0:15:50.520 --> 0:15:53.880 you weren't. You weren't like slopped, like nothing. 0:15:53.760 --> 0:15:57.160 No sloppy, I remember everything, like no blackouts, no, like 0:15:57.200 --> 0:15:58.120 the perfect level. 0:15:58.240 --> 0:15:58.920 Yeah. Yeah. 0:15:59.120 --> 0:16:02.520 The trick is whoever downs in a full shot like 0:16:02.560 --> 0:16:04.160 that is like a psychopath. 0:16:04.880 --> 0:16:07.160 Those things are huge. 0:16:07.600 --> 0:16:10.320 Yeah, and I did like eight of them on Thursday night. 0:16:10.400 --> 0:16:15.280 It's crazy without eating, like everybody, from now on, we 0:16:15.320 --> 0:16:17.480 need to make a rule from now on, shots seem 0:16:17.520 --> 0:16:20.600 to be filled up halfway. A full shot glass is 0:16:20.760 --> 0:16:24.040 way too much after the age of thirty five that 0:16:24.120 --> 0:16:24.680 I agree with. 0:16:24.840 --> 0:16:26.520 Yeah, because we. 0:16:26.520 --> 0:16:29.440 Named Paulina, Like from now on, Paulina, there is a 0:16:29.520 --> 0:16:33.120 no that's that says, from now on, shot glasses to 0:16:33.120 --> 0:16:36.520 be filled halfway if you are thirty five years or older. 0:16:37.080 --> 0:16:40.200 My period part was like Paulina because it was like 0:16:40.720 --> 0:16:43.320 every shot I took, Paulina was taking a shot at 0:16:43.320 --> 0:16:48.280 that time too. It was a diabolical duo. And the 0:16:48.320 --> 0:16:50.400 next morning she was like, I'm so I'm having so 0:16:50.520 --> 0:16:52.400 much anxiety, like what did I do? What did I say? 0:16:52.440 --> 0:16:54.480 And I was like, I'm so sick. I haven't even 0:16:54.520 --> 0:16:57.400 gone to the anxiety part yet. I haven't even thought 0:16:57.400 --> 0:17:00.360 about what I said or did because I'm so ill. 0:17:02.000 --> 0:17:03.640 I had to just let that go. I had to 0:17:03.680 --> 0:17:06.240 go Whatever I said or did has to be in 0:17:06.280 --> 0:17:09.119 the past. I have to hope that I was at 0:17:09.200 --> 0:17:11.880 least charming and funny enough to get away with it. 0:17:12.000 --> 0:17:14.439 I think you were all fine, because everybody's been texting 0:17:14.480 --> 0:17:17.840 me all week saying how amazing my friends are and wow, 0:17:18.320 --> 0:17:20.240 so nos. 0:17:20.880 --> 0:17:23.120 Sorry that you have to have such great friends. 0:17:23.680 --> 0:17:24.760 No notes. 0:17:25.280 --> 0:17:29.120 I went to Rachel Kirconnell did a collab with this 0:17:29.840 --> 0:17:31.560 clothing brand called Chopo, and so. 0:17:31.480 --> 0:17:36.879 She had at my hotel with rude Rachelconnell event the 0:17:36.920 --> 0:17:39.880 week after I get married at my hotel and don't 0:17:39.880 --> 0:17:40.600 send me an invite. 0:17:40.640 --> 0:17:42.600 You know what's so funny? I was like, my best 0:17:42.600 --> 0:17:45.359 friend got engaged here and she had her bridal shower 0:17:45.400 --> 0:17:47.679 here because it was in the same area. And I 0:17:47.720 --> 0:17:50.480 was like, man, that really is just really significant for 0:17:50.640 --> 0:17:53.479 me in my life, Like no one else cares. Was 0:17:53.520 --> 0:17:56.120 She like cool, Everyone's just kind of like, oh, yeah, 0:17:56.119 --> 0:18:01.320 it's really pretty here. Okay, I've been in a bubble, 0:18:01.359 --> 0:18:03.680 I've been. 0:18:01.680 --> 0:18:03.800 In Susie cares. 0:18:04.080 --> 0:18:07.760 Susie cared, Susie would carry yeah, yeah, I love Susie. 0:18:07.840 --> 0:18:08.080 Yeah. 0:18:08.119 --> 0:18:10.080 She told me when I didn't have a videographer. She's like, 0:18:10.119 --> 0:18:11.840 I was about to dust off my camera and come 0:18:11.840 --> 0:18:12.800 out to Mexico for you. 0:18:12.920 --> 0:18:16.520 I just love her. She's so creative and she's so kind. 0:18:16.600 --> 0:18:18.199 I texted her after I saw her. I was like, 0:18:18.440 --> 0:18:20.760 you're such a breath of fresh air. Like you're so sweet, 0:18:20.760 --> 0:18:24.320 you're kind, you're warm. Yeah, she's so beautiful. 0:18:24.440 --> 0:18:26.120 Yeah, she's really warm. 0:18:26.400 --> 0:18:28.119 Yeah. It was like a bunch of bachelor girls, but 0:18:28.160 --> 0:18:30.679 I was by far the oldest. That's always like a 0:18:30.720 --> 0:18:32.879