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Speaker 1: Scrubbing in with Becca Tilly and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio podcast.

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Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing it.

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Speaker 3: Scrub a dub dub in a.

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Speaker 4: Dip for rent.

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Speaker 2: We're in the We're not in our usual spot like

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Speaker 2: we're in the studio, but we're in the podcast room.

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Speaker 3: Yes, we're in the room where we normally do our

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Speaker 3: interviews with guests. With guests, So I'm sitting across from BT.

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Speaker 2: How do I look on my camera?

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Speaker 4: If I'm being honest, I can't see you, Okay because

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Speaker 4: like the thing is like over your face. Okay, how

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Speaker 4: do I look in my camera?

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Speaker 2: I also can't see Yeah, so good luck to both

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Speaker 2: of them.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, let's cross our fingers and.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, it's Friday.

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Speaker 3: It is.

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Speaker 2: We're doing a little pre recording for Monday because it's

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Speaker 2: a Tanya has a busy weekend, so we somehow Tanya

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Speaker 2: still going.

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Speaker 4: Still going. You know what's crazy?

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Speaker 3: Ali was texting me, She's like, are you feeling the

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Speaker 3: post wedding blues? And I was like, I felt a

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Speaker 3: little bit of like a come down, like on Sunday

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Speaker 3: when we were packing and leaving, like that was definitely

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Speaker 3: like sad, and I was like feeling sad about it

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Speaker 3: being over. But I was like, I went straight into

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Speaker 3: work on Monday, and I've had just literally so much

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Speaker 3: going on. And then I fly to New York for

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Speaker 3: Jonas Kahn, and then I come back and we go

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Speaker 3: on our mini moon, and then I come back and

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Speaker 3: I'm going.

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Speaker 4: To Houston for another event.

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Speaker 3: So it's like the next three weeks are just so

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Speaker 3: jam packed, and I'm like, I don't think I have

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Speaker 3: time to have the blues.

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Speaker 2: You know, it's interesting, there's almost everything that you did

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Speaker 2: for your wedding. I was like, I'm taking notes on

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Speaker 2: like things that I also would do, except your come down,

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Speaker 2: I would take at least a week off.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that was like I would say, in hindsight, my

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Speaker 3: biggest regret was I wish you would have stayed in

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Speaker 3: like put to me to on Sunday even come back Monday,

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Speaker 3: you know, but just like had that like rest and

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Speaker 3: relax instead of packing and like trying to Like our

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Speaker 3: room was totally disheveled because that's where we got ready.

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Speaker 4: So Robbie was like, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Where half of my stuff is, so like trying to

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Speaker 3: not in a bad way, but like trying to pack

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Speaker 3: and remember everything was just like hen house.

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Speaker 4: It was just like.

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Speaker 2: Mayhem, I know, and it was like such a gorg,

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Speaker 2: Like you really didn't need to go anywhere. You could

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Speaker 2: have just stayed for a couple of days and yeah,

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Speaker 2: that's okay.

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Speaker 4: Robbie had to get back.

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Speaker 3: Robbie had He's just been so busy with work that

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Speaker 3: he was like, I couldn't have stayed in one more day.

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Speaker 4: Well that makes me feel a little bit better that

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Speaker 4: it wasn't like just me.

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Speaker 2: Right, you were in it together. Yeah, what a beautiful

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Speaker 2: start to your marriage, just like together.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, grinding to the top. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: People are loving the wedding content. I was saying, like,

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Speaker 2: with social media?

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Speaker 3: If there are any brides out there that need or

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Speaker 3: are thinking about having a content creator at their wedding

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Speaker 3: having Ashley was.

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Speaker 4: Like, I haven't even posted that.

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Speaker 3: She She's sortad of like made tiktoks and videos. It's

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Speaker 3: like in like a finished thing for me from my wedding,

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Speaker 3: and I've been watching those. I haven't even posted any

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Speaker 3: content that I have. But yeah, I mean she was

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Speaker 3: top to bottom amazing.

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Speaker 2: Because even if you don't, like even if you're not

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Speaker 2: a content creator like an influencer, and you're like, I

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Speaker 2: don't need to share everything online. I think just having

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Speaker 2: the videos and the footage to reminisce, and like she

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Speaker 2: caught mo, she got so many just moments of things

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Speaker 3: And like she she made a video of me, like

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Speaker 3: I probably won't post it because it's like very emotional,

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Speaker 3: but it was of my dad and it was like

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Speaker 3: to everybody else, she's the bride, but to me, she's

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Speaker 4: And it was like all these videos of like my.

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Speaker 3: you know, and I'm like, I probably won't post that,

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Speaker 3: but just having that, you know, because our videographer, I

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Speaker 3: have no idea what he's gonna send me, Like do

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that was it. That was a win, huge win,

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Speaker 2: huge one. How's married life one week down? I know,

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, today's your week anniversary?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he was like it'd be one week anniversary of like, cu,

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Speaker 3: we did it, we made it. Married life is different really, yeah,

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Speaker 3: how so I felt like after we got engaged it

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Speaker 3: then marriage is like another level of commitment. So it's

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Speaker 3: almost just like you feel like, I don't know, it's

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Speaker 3: not safer because I always felt safe, but it's just

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Speaker 4: I don't know. Maybe it's just me.

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Speaker 2: Well, I don't think it's just you. I always hear

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Speaker 2: people say that, but I also think that was always

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Speaker 2: something very important to you, was like the like safety,

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Speaker 2: safety and commitment of each step of getting to where

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Speaker 2: you are. Now. Yeah, once you have a baby, y'all

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Speaker 2: are locked in.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, locked in. I know we're talking about that now.

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Speaker 2: Wow, So what's the talk Because y'all are doing your

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Speaker 2: honeymoon and if you a lot of people ask do

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Speaker 2: we already talk about this? A lot of people ask

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Speaker 2: about honeymoon? You're doing a honeymoon.

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Speaker 3: We're doing a honeymoon at the end of June, like

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Speaker 3: fourth of July week. It's an easier week just work wise. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: So we're going to do that. We're going to do

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Speaker 4: a mini moon.

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Speaker 3: In like two weekends, so not this weekend, but the

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Speaker 4: Where's that cavo oh where she loves Mexico. She's in Mexico, Girly.

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Speaker 4: We're staying at the Waldorf. So I'm just going for

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Speaker 3: But I think it'll be nice because I feel like

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Speaker 3: we got back from our wedding and we haven't had

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Speaker 3: We haven't had We're going to have one date night

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Speaker 3: until our mini moon.

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Speaker 4: Whoa, because I'm going to be gone. Oh yeah, yeah

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Speaker 4: I haven't.

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Speaker 2: I literally was saying to Sam, like we're I'm seeing

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Speaker 2: She goes, what are you doing this weekend? And I

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Speaker 2: was like, I'm just hanging out with Haley, Like I

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Speaker 2: I was like, I gave all my everything I had

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Speaker 2: went to Tanya and Robbie over last week, Like everything

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Speaker 2: she needs my she needs an attention back. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: It's funny because I feel like it was all for us.

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Speaker 3: Everything was for us, but we haven't spent He and

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Speaker 3: I haven't spent alone time together.

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Speaker 4: Like literally at all in the past two weeks.

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Speaker 2: It is funny because of weddings, it's all about it's

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Speaker 2: it's every so many other people involved in that process

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Speaker 2: because it's like you're the host of a party. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: but the party is the biggest party for yourself.

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Speaker 4: Robbie made it.

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Speaker 3: He always said, he was like our wedding, we are

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Speaker 3: guests at our wedding.

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Speaker 4: Oh, we are the guests at our wedding.

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Speaker 3: We don't we are not like we don't have to

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Speaker 3: uh host and make people like, you know, even though

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Speaker 3: we did, we totally like wanted to like dance with everybody.

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Speaker 3: I know.

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Speaker 2: I mean that's just who you are.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you'll are host hosts.

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Speaker 2: In your host and work. You're hosting.

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Speaker 3: We're gonna lie really big Taco Thursday in a couple

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Speaker 3: of weeks, and we were gonna like basically buy like

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Speaker 3: not everybody that was at the wedding, but like the

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Speaker 3: majority of people that were at the wedding.

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Speaker 2: I was like trying to get I was like, maybe

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Speaker 2: I just have Tanya send her wedding guest list and

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Speaker 2: I just copy that and I'm just like, oh, Robbie's

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Speaker 2: family comes.

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Speaker 4: Family to her movies greeting tonight.

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Speaker 2: Well, it's gonna be a mini reunion. Literally, can't wait.

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Speaker 2: You're doing Jonahs Khan speaking of just Busy, You're going

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Speaker 2: to Jonas Khan on Sunday. I am explain what Jonas

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Speaker 3: You know what a convention is, right, So it's to

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Speaker 3: celebrate their twenty year anniversary of Jonahs Brothers Jonas Brothers, right, Sam, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: the Jonah like the inception of the Jonas Brothers KA.

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Speaker 4: So it's their twenty year anniversary.

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Speaker 3: So doing Jonas con which is basically like Jonah's Brother's convention,

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Speaker 3: and it's it's a convention for the Jonas Brothers.

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Speaker 2: Well it happens though like they're performing.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I mean there's gonna be like other

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Speaker 3: performances too. I'm not totally in the know because I

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Speaker 3: them out on stage. I don't even know if what

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Speaker 3: I'm doing is like shared publicly yet. Oh oh, there's

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Speaker 3: gonna be Jonas Golf, Jonas Pizza, Camp, Rock Karaoke, Jonas

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Speaker 3: Escape Room, Shake by the Ocean, Jonas, Trivia, Jonas Cookies,

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Speaker 3: Dream Wheel, Around the Clock, and then I'm basically going

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Speaker 3: to introduce them, like I'm gonna bring them out, and

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Speaker 3: I don't know if I'm supposed to like share it, okay,

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Speaker 3: yeah whatever, no, no, but this is airing Monday, and

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Speaker 3: I'll be okay. So I'm basically bringing them out and

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Speaker 3: then they're gonna play specific songs to like fans in

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Speaker 3: the reporter in the field with the fans asking them

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Speaker 3: kind of like what the songs mean to them. So

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Speaker 3: like it's not just like straight concert where there's going

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Speaker 3: to keep playing song after a song. It's gonna be

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Speaker 3: like fans explaining what the songs mean to them.

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Speaker 2: Gotcha? And then I saw chicks in the office or

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Speaker 2: doing like a live They're.

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Speaker 4: Doing like a live podcast.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, is this the first ever Jonas first ever? Oh wow,

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Speaker 2: I can't wait to hear.

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Speaker 3: I was so honored that they wanted me to do this.

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Speaker 3: I was like, isn't there anybody that lives on the

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Speaker 3: East Coast that.

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Speaker 2: Like, Yeah, why didn't they call it Ashley I?

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Speaker 3: Because Tanya rad Yad is the number one Jonas fan

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Speaker 3: I'm wearing.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I think.

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Speaker 2: I think Ashley beats you. I do. She's been to

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Speaker 2: like double digit concerts. I think.

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Speaker 4: Is she gonna be wearing an I Love Kevin shirt?

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I can't imagine her missing it. Well, that's exciting.

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Speaker 3: I am excited. Just me and the bros, You and

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Speaker 3: I changed my name, but not my handle, right, What

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Speaker 4: Keep the handle as it is?

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Speaker 2: Right, I say, keep the handle as it is because

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Speaker 2: you're still Tawny rad Yad. So Tanya Rad's still your name, right,

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Speaker 2: you know it's like your middle.

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Speaker 4: Name, right, no need to like. But it's also like

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and no, maybe people won't even notice a difference

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Speaker 3: Yeah, what if people type in rat to find me?

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Speaker 3: It'll probably heavens I'll lose those people too risky.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel that feels like more of a month

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Speaker 4: Yeah, not a weekend. How are you feeling post wedding?

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Speaker 2: I feel like I'm the one who just got wet,

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Speaker 2: Like I feel like I'm still recovering. But that could

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Speaker 3: Video of you taking the shot is diabolical.

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Speaker 2: It really is, because like even I was shocked by

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Speaker 2: Had to sell it, and people were like, she gave

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Speaker 3: Did Sam Did you know that she had water? And

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Speaker 3: that was why were you filming that? You're just filming

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Speaker 4: Oh my god.

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Speaker 2: The best part is that so Jordan and Jojo knew

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Speaker 4: I feel so lied to that whole day, like fully

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Speaker 2: It was for the the the cause. It was for good.

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Speaker 4: Did you have so much fun if you were so sick?

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Speaker 4: Oh you weren't sick anymore.

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Speaker 2: At the nighttime, I was not gonna risk it, but

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Speaker 2: I ate Haley's buttered noodles. That was the first thing

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Speaker 4: Okay, so you weren't like.

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Speaker 2: did this to yourself, figure it out, Like I was

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Speaker 3: I was.

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Speaker 2: There was no gentle parenting with myself.

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Speaker 4: I mean, it's so crazy.

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Speaker 3: Looking back on videos and stuff, I'm like, hmm, yeah,

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Speaker 4: But in the moment I didn't see it at all.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Well I didn't think you would because you had

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Speaker 2: Well I wasn't under the radar. I was dying laughing though,

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Speaker 4: I couldn't believe we got that on film.

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Speaker 2: But also I would have been so upset because if

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Speaker 4: So that's my trick.

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Speaker 2: Well use half. But I don't even think half went

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Speaker 4: I never got drunk that night. Drunk.

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Speaker 3: I was tipsy, but I think it's because I take

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Speaker 4: Do you think I got drunk?

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Speaker 2: I would say you were a little past tipsy, but

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Speaker 2: you weren't. You weren't like slopped, like nothing.

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Speaker 3: No sloppy, I remember everything, like no blackouts, no, like

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: The trick is whoever downs in a full shot like

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Speaker 4: Those things are huge.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and I did like eight of them on Thursday night.

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Speaker 3: It's crazy without eating, like everybody, from now on, we

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Speaker 3: Named Paulina, Like from now on, Paulina, there is a

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Speaker 3: no that's that says, from now on, shot glasses to

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Speaker 2: My period part was like Paulina because it was like

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Speaker 2: And I was like, I'm so sick. I haven't even

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Speaker 2: I had to just let that go. I had to

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Speaker 3: I think you were all fine, because everybody's been texting

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Speaker 3: me all week saying how amazing my friends are and wow,

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Speaker 3: so nos.

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Speaker 2: Sorry that you have to have such great friends.

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Speaker 4: No notes.

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Speaker 2: I went to Rachel Kirconnell did a collab with this

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Speaker 3: She had at my hotel with rude Rachelconnell event the

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Speaker 2: You know what's so funny? I was like, my best

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Speaker 2: She like cool, Everyone's just kind of like, oh, yeah,

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Speaker 4: In Susie cares.

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Speaker 2: Susie cared, Susie would carry yeah, yeah, I love Susie.

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Speaker 3: She told me when I didn't have a videographer. She's like,

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Speaker 2: I just love her. She's so creative and she's so kind.

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Speaker 2: I texted her after I saw her. I was like,

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Speaker 2: you're kind, you're warm. Yeah, she's so beautiful.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, she's really warm.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. It was like a bunch of bachelor girls, but

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Speaker 3: The age thing is starting to like pop up more

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Speaker 4: Oh no, and I keep sending them.

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Speaker 3: To Robbie and he's like, babe, you have to stop

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Speaker 3: sending me these. It's like, maybe that's why they keep popping.

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Speaker 4: Up my algorithm, because you're talking about it sending them

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Speaker 4: to him.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, that's how it works. That's actually exactly

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Speaker 3: So I'm feeding my own algorithm. But yeah, I like

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Speaker 4: I'm like, I like, you're.

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Speaker 2: About to start the process, so I think that it's

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Speaker 2: we'll see what happens, like you haven't even tried yet.

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Speaker 3: Correct.

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Speaker 2: But anyways, Rachel, I want her to come on the

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Speaker 2: was like a lot going on, but I tried to

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Speaker 2: not immediately like come on the pod, surety? Did? I mean?

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Speaker 2: What else is she going to say?

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Speaker 4: I mean so much, we have different perspectives, different.

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Speaker 2: Question She is so shockingly stunning in person, but you

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Speaker 2: know what's crazy? She was like, it made me realize

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Speaker 2: Instagram is such a Instagram and social media in general

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Speaker 2: is such a not reality because you see Rachel and

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Speaker 2: obviously she's doing like all these amazing things and she

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Speaker 2: I was like, you kind of forget, like she's still

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Speaker 2: going through like a really hard breakup, and it's just

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Speaker 2: she seemed happy, but there's also I was thinking about, Wow,

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Speaker 2: looks amazing, and you're almost like, wow, she's thriving, and

444
00:20:31,160 --> 00:20:34,000
Speaker 2: she is, and she's just going through something hard.

445
00:20:34,160 --> 00:20:37,920
Speaker 4: You know, she look sad, No, she seems sad.

446
00:20:38,440 --> 00:20:40,879
Speaker 2: I think she was just like I'm staying busy. She

447
00:20:40,960 --> 00:20:43,399
Speaker 2: just made the comment like I'm staying busy, and I

448
00:20:43,480 --> 00:20:46,560
Speaker 2: was like, oh, yeah, like you're literally going through something

449
00:20:46,640 --> 00:20:52,320
Speaker 2: really hard publicly and people weighing in and having opinions

450
00:20:52,400 --> 00:20:56,160
Speaker 2: on every little thing you do. But she's stunning, queen.

451
00:20:57,520 --> 00:20:59,560
Speaker 4: You know who else has opinions about every little thing

452
00:20:59,560 --> 00:21:00,000
Speaker 4: that she does?

453
00:21:00,160 --> 00:21:00,920
Speaker 2: Ellen Pompeo.

454
00:21:01,080 --> 00:21:03,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, we're gonna get into that when we come back.

455
00:21:03,280 --> 00:21:22,399
Speaker 2: Nice, all right, we're back. So Ellen Pompeo was on

456
00:21:22,520 --> 00:21:25,960
Speaker 2: call her daddy. Yes, And I don't listen. I'm not

457
00:21:26,080 --> 00:21:28,600
Speaker 2: a huge podcast girly, which I know is funny, but

458
00:21:28,720 --> 00:21:32,040
Speaker 2: like I don't listen a lot, Like I don't listen

459
00:21:32,080 --> 00:21:36,320
Speaker 2: to every Call Her Daddy podcast that same, but the

460
00:21:36,359 --> 00:21:38,879
Speaker 2: few that I've listened to have all been really good, Like,

461
00:21:38,920 --> 00:21:42,119
Speaker 2: I've been very entertained and like loved the interview. I

462
00:21:42,240 --> 00:21:45,600
Speaker 2: thought this was one of Alex Cooper's best interviews that

463
00:21:45,680 --> 00:21:50,400
Speaker 2: she conducted. Okay, I just felt like she was I

464
00:21:50,440 --> 00:21:54,000
Speaker 2: appreciated the fangirl energy because you could tell, and she

465
00:21:54,080 --> 00:21:59,040
Speaker 2: even posted I've interviewed so many people, this is the

466
00:21:59,080 --> 00:22:02,280
Speaker 2: first time I'm like really fan girling, and I was.

467
00:22:02,359 --> 00:22:05,240
Speaker 2: I really felt connected to Alex in that moment. You know,

468
00:22:05,320 --> 00:22:08,320
Speaker 2: like she's on such a massive scale of what she does,

469
00:22:08,920 --> 00:22:12,400
Speaker 2: and yet she had the same reaction to Meredith Gray

470
00:22:12,440 --> 00:22:14,120
Speaker 2: that like we would have to her, you know.

471
00:22:14,359 --> 00:22:16,119
Speaker 4: I feel like ours would be a little different.

472
00:22:17,000 --> 00:22:19,600
Speaker 2: Well, we'd have to, like I would have to pick.

473
00:22:19,520 --> 00:22:20,879
Speaker 4: My ass off the floor.

474
00:22:21,840 --> 00:22:25,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I'm saying we would. Yeah. She was maybe

475
00:22:25,320 --> 00:22:29,000
Speaker 2: a little more polished than we would be. Poised, Yeah, poised,

476
00:22:30,280 --> 00:22:33,320
Speaker 2: But I still could feel the respect and energy that

477
00:22:33,359 --> 00:22:34,040
Speaker 2: she had for her.

478
00:22:34,240 --> 00:22:35,160
Speaker 4: Yeah.

479
00:22:35,320 --> 00:22:38,320
Speaker 2: But I was so fascinated by so many parts of

480
00:22:38,320 --> 00:22:41,920
Speaker 2: the conversation because Ellen actually shared a lot more than

481
00:22:42,040 --> 00:22:45,399
Speaker 2: I expected her to, because I just what she just

482
00:22:45,400 --> 00:22:48,520
Speaker 2: talked about behind the scenes stuff and like she talked

483
00:22:48,560 --> 00:22:52,040
Speaker 2: about the money thing of how she was perceived when

484
00:22:52,080 --> 00:22:56,240
Speaker 2: she what her remember when she went in she she

485
00:22:56,280 --> 00:22:57,879
Speaker 2: asked for a raise and they gave a her and

486
00:22:57,880 --> 00:23:02,360
Speaker 2: it was I can't remember the number of episode right, No.

487
00:23:02,760 --> 00:23:07,879
Speaker 4: Not an episode or season or was like an episode

488
00:23:07,920 --> 00:23:13,000
Speaker 4: would make her like twenty how many episodes? Twenty million

489
00:23:13,000 --> 00:23:13,520
Speaker 4: a season?

490
00:23:13,800 --> 00:23:16,119
Speaker 2: Regardless, she went in and asked for and she got it,

491
00:23:16,160 --> 00:23:19,480
Speaker 2: And she said that her agent or manager was like, hey,

492
00:23:19,600 --> 00:23:23,399
Speaker 2: just to be so you're prepared. Not everyone's gonna support

493
00:23:23,440 --> 00:23:25,600
Speaker 2: you when this comes out, like you're gonna have people

494
00:23:25,600 --> 00:23:28,760
Speaker 2: that are like, you don't deserve this, why are you

495
00:23:28,800 --> 00:23:30,880
Speaker 2: getting this? And she was like, I was so grateful

496
00:23:30,920 --> 00:23:33,679
Speaker 2: that he prepared me for that, because I was like,

497
00:23:33,680 --> 00:23:35,800
Speaker 2: why wouldn't people be happy for this?

498
00:23:36,160 --> 00:23:37,640
Speaker 4: You know what I found to be interesting.

499
00:23:37,720 --> 00:23:40,600
Speaker 3: I found it interesting that she went to Shonda first

500
00:23:40,680 --> 00:23:43,760
Speaker 3: and told her how much she was.

501
00:23:43,760 --> 00:23:46,080
Speaker 4: Going to ask for. She didn't need to do that.

502
00:23:46,520 --> 00:23:49,879
Speaker 3: I thought that was really cool and like classy, you know,

503
00:23:49,920 --> 00:23:51,560
Speaker 3: because she's like, I wouldn't have I wouldn't be where

504
00:23:51,600 --> 00:23:54,119
Speaker 3: I am without Shonda.

505
00:23:53,960 --> 00:23:55,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, So I'd like that little.

506
00:23:55,240 --> 00:23:58,240
Speaker 3: Like kind of insight into it. But also I just

507
00:23:58,280 --> 00:24:01,159
Speaker 3: find it so interesting because it's like, you know, I

508
00:24:01,200 --> 00:24:03,440
Speaker 3: talk a big game of like I'm a modern woman.

509
00:24:03,480 --> 00:24:04,959
Speaker 3: I do what I want, I stand up for myself,

510
00:24:05,000 --> 00:24:07,520
Speaker 3: but like when it comes to money, I do crumble.

511
00:24:08,040 --> 00:24:11,720
Speaker 4: And I find myself like I can get bullied, and

512
00:24:11,760 --> 00:24:13,120
Speaker 4: I've been bullied.

513
00:24:12,800 --> 00:24:16,640
Speaker 3: Many many times down and like hearing them talk about it,

514
00:24:17,160 --> 00:24:21,879
Speaker 3: I'm like, I have to stand stronger in my convictions

515
00:24:22,000 --> 00:24:24,920
Speaker 3: and I have to, Like I think, as women, we

516
00:24:24,960 --> 00:24:25,640
Speaker 3: are made to.

517
00:24:25,680 --> 00:24:28,400
Speaker 4: Feel like we should be lucky to be.

518
00:24:28,400 --> 00:24:31,280
Speaker 3: Where we are and we're not given information and we're

519
00:24:31,359 --> 00:24:35,919
Speaker 3: kind of like all of these things, and it's it's

520
00:24:35,960 --> 00:24:37,959
Speaker 3: been such a hard thing because I'm like, I'm so grateful.

521
00:24:38,000 --> 00:24:40,200
Speaker 3: I love what I do, and so I've never wanted

522
00:24:40,240 --> 00:24:43,879
Speaker 3: to like push the boundary or ask and like Ellen

523
00:24:43,960 --> 00:24:46,600
Speaker 3: even Seanda even said, no one's just gonna give it

524
00:24:46,600 --> 00:24:49,720
Speaker 3: to you. You have to ask, and it's such like

525
00:24:49,760 --> 00:24:52,280
Speaker 3: a tricky thing. And I find myself like I found

526
00:24:52,320 --> 00:24:55,919
Speaker 3: myself being very inspired and like motivated from that conversation

527
00:24:56,000 --> 00:24:56,880
Speaker 3: because i feel like.

528
00:24:58,440 --> 00:25:01,120
Speaker 4: I've been very pad leading up to now.

529
00:25:02,800 --> 00:25:06,760
Speaker 2: She also talked about how Patrick Dempsey got paid a

530
00:25:06,800 --> 00:25:11,159
Speaker 2: significant amount more than her and she was like, no,

531
00:25:11,840 --> 00:25:14,359
Speaker 2: like discredit to him, like everyone knows who he is.

532
00:25:14,359 --> 00:25:16,800
Speaker 2: He had a bigger name than me. But she was like,

533
00:25:16,920 --> 00:25:21,600
Speaker 2: he had thirteen failed pilot pilots before Grace, And she

534
00:25:21,760 --> 00:25:25,160
Speaker 2: was like, and I was the name of the show,

535
00:25:25,240 --> 00:25:27,000
Speaker 2: Like my character was going to be the name of

536
00:25:27,000 --> 00:25:29,080
Speaker 2: the show. So she was like, it wasn't about what

537
00:25:29,200 --> 00:25:31,399
Speaker 2: he got. It was more so about that they didn't

538
00:25:31,480 --> 00:25:33,840
Speaker 2: value me at the same level that they valued him

539
00:25:33,920 --> 00:25:35,960
Speaker 2: when I was like coming in as the namesake of

540
00:25:36,000 --> 00:25:40,240
Speaker 2: the show. I also loved what she talked about parenthood

541
00:25:40,320 --> 00:25:45,359
Speaker 2: because she was saying that she didn't necessarily want kids

542
00:25:45,560 --> 00:25:47,680
Speaker 2: and her husband wanted kids, and she's like, well, you

543
00:25:47,680 --> 00:25:50,720
Speaker 2: should have talked to me, like before we got married.

544
00:25:51,480 --> 00:25:56,040
Speaker 2: And obviously she ended up having a baby. But she

545
00:25:56,160 --> 00:26:00,119
Speaker 2: was telling Alex because Alex was saying, you know, I

546
00:26:00,160 --> 00:26:06,040
Speaker 2: fear the process of juggling motherhood and my career, and

547
00:26:06,280 --> 00:26:09,440
Speaker 2: am I gonna be dropped in my career just because

548
00:26:09,480 --> 00:26:11,680
Speaker 2: I've become a mom and have to focus on something else.

549
00:26:11,840 --> 00:26:13,720
Speaker 4: I think that's something every woman thinks about.

550
00:26:13,800 --> 00:26:16,560
Speaker 2: I think about that too, But I loved Ellen was like,

551
00:26:16,920 --> 00:26:19,399
Speaker 2: it will make you the best version of yourself and

552
00:26:19,440 --> 00:26:21,600
Speaker 2: you can't give one hundred percent to both, like it's

553
00:26:21,600 --> 00:26:24,639
Speaker 2: impossible because we're not made to be able to do that.

554
00:26:25,080 --> 00:26:27,480
Speaker 2: But you'll figure out the balance basically. And I thought

555
00:26:27,600 --> 00:26:32,879
Speaker 2: I thought she was so she's tough, but there was

556
00:26:32,920 --> 00:26:35,159
Speaker 2: like a moment of like nurturing to Alex that I

557
00:26:35,200 --> 00:26:39,000
Speaker 2: felt a lot throughout the interview where I was like, wow,

558
00:26:39,119 --> 00:26:42,240
Speaker 2: because she even says she's she's like tough, She's not.

559
00:26:43,200 --> 00:26:46,160
Speaker 4: No, no, I imagine her being very tough.

560
00:26:48,040 --> 00:26:50,880
Speaker 3: But I think that that's something that I mean, it's

561
00:26:50,920 --> 00:26:55,000
Speaker 3: crossed my mind so many times. I haven't stepped away.

562
00:26:55,080 --> 00:27:00,679
Speaker 3: I haven't taken time off of my job, like not

563
00:27:01,720 --> 00:27:03,200
Speaker 3: I don't really know how to explain it for people

564
00:27:03,200 --> 00:27:05,480
Speaker 3: that like aren't like in it, but like I haven't

565
00:27:05,520 --> 00:27:09,080
Speaker 3: taken multiple days off of my job where like our

566
00:27:09,119 --> 00:27:10,320
Speaker 3: show isn't on vacation.

567
00:27:10,640 --> 00:27:13,920
Speaker 4: Does that make sense? Yeah, until my wedding, and I've

568
00:27:13,920 --> 00:27:16,520
Speaker 4: been doing it for fifteen years. Yeah, And so when

569
00:27:16,520 --> 00:27:17,080
Speaker 4: you have a.

570
00:27:17,000 --> 00:27:22,480
Speaker 3: Baby, you're maternity leave, you're out for months, and that's

571
00:27:22,560 --> 00:27:25,520
Speaker 3: like really weird to like wrap your head around, you know,

572
00:27:25,640 --> 00:27:27,919
Speaker 3: And like I feel like it's something that a lot

573
00:27:28,000 --> 00:27:31,520
Speaker 3: of women in the industry don't necessarily share and like

574
00:27:31,600 --> 00:27:32,359
Speaker 3: talk about.

575
00:27:32,080 --> 00:27:35,080
Speaker 4: As much because it is scary.

576
00:27:35,119 --> 00:27:38,959
Speaker 3: You're constantly being told there's somebody at the door, you're

577
00:27:39,000 --> 00:27:41,800
Speaker 3: knocking at the door waiting to take your place, you know,

578
00:27:41,920 --> 00:27:44,280
Speaker 3: somebody younger, and this and that, and.

579
00:27:44,160 --> 00:27:47,880
Speaker 4: Like it's all it's such a it's such a mindful.

580
00:27:49,119 --> 00:27:51,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean it is. I was glad that they

581
00:27:51,840 --> 00:27:52,440
Speaker 2: touched on it.

582
00:27:52,640 --> 00:27:56,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, And I can't imagine Alex probably feels that time's

583
00:27:56,320 --> 00:27:59,640
Speaker 3: am bazillian, you know what I mean.

584
00:28:01,359 --> 00:28:05,760
Speaker 2: She said that Georgia O. Malley was her hardest death, yes,

585
00:28:05,840 --> 00:28:08,800
Speaker 2: which is a lot of people sentiment. I don't necessarily agree.

586
00:28:08,880 --> 00:28:11,560
Speaker 2: It was the most like it was the first one

587
00:28:11,640 --> 00:28:15,320
Speaker 2: that felt like, oh my gosh, one of our people

588
00:28:15,440 --> 00:28:15,840
Speaker 2: is gone.

589
00:28:16,200 --> 00:28:18,320
Speaker 4: I mean I took Denny's a little bit harder, but

590
00:28:19,680 --> 00:28:20,040
Speaker 4: that is.

591
00:28:19,960 --> 00:28:20,359
Speaker 3: What it is.

592
00:28:20,400 --> 00:28:23,040
Speaker 2: Then he was like in like four episodes, so I

593
00:28:23,080 --> 00:28:27,320
Speaker 2: wasn't as touched as we know. And then she said

594
00:28:27,400 --> 00:28:31,919
Speaker 2: that Sandra O was like her biggest heart, like the

595
00:28:31,960 --> 00:28:35,800
Speaker 2: hardest episodes to film like that when she left, and

596
00:28:35,840 --> 00:28:37,800
Speaker 2: I really she thought that she was like I didn't

597
00:28:37,840 --> 00:28:39,760
Speaker 2: know that the show would go on without her, which

598
00:28:39,800 --> 00:28:43,840
Speaker 2: I thought was really interesting because no, there's been how

599
00:28:43,880 --> 00:28:48,360
Speaker 2: many seasons since then, like fifteen or ten? Like ten

600
00:28:48,440 --> 00:28:49,320
Speaker 2: seasons since her.

601
00:28:49,680 --> 00:28:51,440
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's so crazy.

602
00:28:52,960 --> 00:28:54,680
Speaker 2: I loved the interview. I thought it was amazing.

603
00:28:55,480 --> 00:28:57,200
Speaker 3: I do think it is interesting though, the things that

604
00:28:57,240 --> 00:29:01,800
Speaker 3: she said about like uh, pick me, choose me, love me,

605
00:29:01,880 --> 00:29:04,880
Speaker 3: and how she didn't want to say that line I know,

606
00:29:05,040 --> 00:29:06,160
Speaker 3: and then it ended up being like one of the

607
00:29:06,200 --> 00:29:08,240
Speaker 3: most iconic lines in Gray's anatomy history.

608
00:29:09,360 --> 00:29:14,440
Speaker 2: It's amazing because her mindset was why would she beg

609
00:29:14,520 --> 00:29:16,760
Speaker 2: for him? And I thought that was an interesting way.

610
00:29:16,600 --> 00:29:20,000
Speaker 3: Which I get and I totally understand like the idea

611
00:29:20,080 --> 00:29:24,760
Speaker 3: behind it, but also like everybody has felt that way,

612
00:29:24,920 --> 00:29:25,560
Speaker 3: do you know what I mean?

613
00:29:25,680 --> 00:29:26,560
Speaker 2: Like, Yeah, I.

614
00:29:26,480 --> 00:29:28,840
Speaker 3: Don't care who you are. I don't care how much

615
00:29:28,880 --> 00:29:30,400
Speaker 3: you want to sit here and say I would never

616
00:29:30,520 --> 00:29:32,920
Speaker 3: beg for a man. Like we've all been there. We've

617
00:29:32,960 --> 00:29:34,320
Speaker 3: all done that at some point, do you know what

618
00:29:34,360 --> 00:29:35,960
Speaker 3: I mean? So it's like so relatable.

619
00:29:36,480 --> 00:29:39,280
Speaker 2: It was so relatable, And also I think people forget

620
00:29:39,320 --> 00:29:43,120
Speaker 2: that at that time there wasn't this women empowerment movement

621
00:29:43,160 --> 00:29:46,560
Speaker 2: where it was like, don't beg for men like we are.

622
00:29:46,600 --> 00:29:49,200
Speaker 2: We have advanced so much, even though like that's still

623
00:29:49,240 --> 00:29:51,400
Speaker 2: a sentiment in something that people go through, like please

624
00:29:51,520 --> 00:29:53,240
Speaker 2: just love me, Like what can I do for you

625
00:29:53,280 --> 00:29:57,520
Speaker 2: to pick me and love me? But even back then

626
00:29:57,600 --> 00:30:00,440
Speaker 2: there wasn't really that much like it. I felt so

627
00:30:01,520 --> 00:30:06,360
Speaker 2: normalized to hear a woman be like, please choose me. Yeah,

628
00:30:06,400 --> 00:30:08,960
Speaker 2: Like I don't think I ever thought anything of it,

629
00:30:09,040 --> 00:30:11,040
Speaker 2: but now I think if I saw it, I'd be like, girl,

630
00:30:11,240 --> 00:30:12,160
Speaker 2: like come on.

631
00:30:12,800 --> 00:30:15,280
Speaker 3: No, but like, but you would say that, but like

632
00:30:15,320 --> 00:30:17,120
Speaker 3: you've all I'm sure, well, I don't know if you've

633
00:30:17,160 --> 00:30:17,680
Speaker 3: done that ever.

634
00:30:18,000 --> 00:30:20,120
Speaker 2: I mean I would think it like please choose me,

635
00:30:20,120 --> 00:30:21,720
Speaker 2: but I don't know that I would be able.

636
00:30:21,520 --> 00:30:23,560
Speaker 4: To right say that exactly.

637
00:30:23,640 --> 00:30:26,840
Speaker 2: But you felt it, Yeah, I think everyone has felt that.

638
00:30:26,840 --> 00:30:33,000
Speaker 4: I felt at times. Let us count the ways we.

639
00:30:33,000 --> 00:30:35,840
Speaker 2: Don't have to rehash because you're married, well, no, I

640
00:30:36,280 --> 00:30:37,480
Speaker 2: picked chosen.

641
00:30:37,200 --> 00:30:41,120
Speaker 4: And chosen and chosen every single day.

642
00:30:41,280 --> 00:30:41,960
Speaker 2: It's stunning.

643
00:30:42,160 --> 00:30:46,160
Speaker 4: It really is. Thirty seven years and we got here.

644
00:30:48,400 --> 00:30:50,880
Speaker 2: There's this Australian podcast in the host was asking if

645
00:30:50,920 --> 00:30:53,800
Speaker 2: you come from a guest family or an ask family.

646
00:30:54,320 --> 00:30:57,520
Speaker 2: So in a guest family you don't really directly ask

647
00:30:57,600 --> 00:30:59,880
Speaker 2: for anything ever, but instead just sneak in them and

648
00:31:00,200 --> 00:31:02,640
Speaker 2: of what you need and then in an ask family,

649
00:31:02,680 --> 00:31:04,160
Speaker 2: you ask what you need and leave it to the

650
00:31:04,200 --> 00:31:07,160
Speaker 2: other person to say yes or no. So I come

651
00:31:07,160 --> 00:31:10,840
Speaker 2: from a guest family, Like there was no direct communication.

652
00:31:10,920 --> 00:31:15,000
Speaker 2: It was kind of like let me see where the

653
00:31:15,080 --> 00:31:21,280
Speaker 2: line is, like no or just even maybe my personality.

654
00:31:21,360 --> 00:31:23,480
Speaker 2: I felt like it was like maybe they can just

655
00:31:23,680 --> 00:31:27,800
Speaker 2: guess what I need, almost like passive aggressive I guess,

656
00:31:28,000 --> 00:31:30,640
Speaker 2: h what would you what would you say?

657
00:31:30,880 --> 00:31:32,040
Speaker 4: I don't understand the question.

658
00:31:32,600 --> 00:31:34,240
Speaker 2: Did you come from a family where you could be

659
00:31:34,280 --> 00:31:37,680
Speaker 2: direct and say what you needed and you either got

660
00:31:37,720 --> 00:31:39,200
Speaker 2: a yes or no? And it was like very.

661
00:31:39,160 --> 00:31:41,560
Speaker 4: Clear, like I need a cracker, or like I need

662
00:31:41,560 --> 00:31:45,040
Speaker 4: a hug, Like I need a hug, or I think

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Speaker 4: I asked or did.

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Speaker 2: You come from a family where you were like acting.

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Speaker 4: I'm really sad, but I want you to hug me, right.

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Speaker 2: But like not say I'm not say I'm really sad,

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Speaker 2: I want you to hug me. Like that's a direct communication.

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Speaker 2: I'm saying that you act out and you're being like

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Speaker 2: moody and offensive and instead of just being like I

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Speaker 2: just need a hug, you do all the things trying

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Speaker 2: to get them to guess what you need.

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Speaker 3: So I don't really know the answer to that if

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Speaker 3: I'm being honest. But the way that I act now,

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Speaker 3: I feel like I'll do things that are like passive

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Speaker 3: aggressive sometimes to Robbie.

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Speaker 4: And I'm like, why did I just say it?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Like why did I just like ask him or

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Speaker 3: tell him exactly what I wanted. I'm better about it now, right,

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Speaker 3: but like I would be very passive aggressive in the

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Speaker 3: early days, and I'm like, why did I do that?

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Speaker 2: I still do that, but I also have been working

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Speaker 2: on it because Haley is actually very direct, so she'll

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Speaker 2: be like, this is what I'm feeling, this is what

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Speaker 2: I need to hear. Can you hug me? So I'm

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Speaker 2: just like, check, what else do you need? And then me,

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Speaker 2: I'm like, I'll act out, and then I think, what

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Speaker 2: am I trying to get her to do? I'm just

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Speaker 2: gonna try to communicate it so that I can just

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Speaker 2: get what I need and we can move on. Yes,

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Speaker 2: because it's exhausting. Is exhausting, exhausting, and I'm so glad.

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Speaker 2: I feel grateful that she isn't a guest person because.

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Speaker 4: It's what exhausts me. Yeah, so I have.

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Speaker 2: To be more intentional about not being a guest person,

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Speaker 2: because jeez, tough, tough. Okay, Tanya had some more behind

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Speaker 2: the scenes things which I really felt like we covered everything,

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Speaker 2: but you have more to share about the wedding.

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Speaker 3: Well, it's like things that happened behind the scenes the

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Speaker 3: day that I didn't find out until like today.

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Speaker 2: I love this. I don't know these so I can't

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Speaker 2: wait to hear. But first we're going to take a break.

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Speaker 2: Okay, we're back. So what happened that you didn't know about?

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Speaker 4: So we're paying the bills.

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Speaker 3: It was like so fun to do after a wedding,

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Speaker 3: but we've just kind of been like paying everything. We

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Speaker 3: have like one more like final bill to pay and

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Speaker 3: then that's it. But like Robbi and I were like,

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Speaker 3: let's go through all of our contracts with all the

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Speaker 3: vendors and make sure that they like delivered and like

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Speaker 3: what we put in our contract is what we got

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Speaker 3: type of stuff. And my wedding planner was like telling

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Speaker 3: us all these stories that happened the day of that,

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Speaker 3: Like we had no idea, like there was one thing

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Speaker 3: that we were up like that we were very uh

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Speaker 3: specific about on the at the reception we really wanted.

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Speaker 4: I did not want a buffet, and I.

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Speaker 3: Was assured that we would not have a buff that

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Speaker 3: it would be like live grilling, like live grilling.

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Speaker 4: The fish and live grilling the thing.

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Speaker 3: And when I showed up, it was like a buffet

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Speaker 3: that was literally the only thing that I noticed and

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Speaker 3: clogged at all. Everything else, in my opinion, like could

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Speaker 3: not have been. It was amazing. But it's so funny

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Speaker 3: because my wedding planner was like ted telling us all

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Speaker 3: this stuff, and I was like, oh my gosh, I

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Speaker 3: had no idea. So like apparently the flowers that came

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Speaker 3: for the welcome party were like completely different than what

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Speaker 3: we'd wanted. We asked for like eighteen bud vases, and

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Speaker 3: they only brought like eight or something we asked for,

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Speaker 3: like an arrangement, a different arrangement of candles, like all

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Speaker 3: these like little things that like obviously, even now like

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Speaker 3: looking back, I'm like, oh, yeah, I did think that

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Speaker 3: looked a little different than what we had discussed, you

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Speaker 3: know what I mean. And then apparently like my bouquet

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Speaker 3: came with like all this greenery in it, and she

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Speaker 3: made them remake it.

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Speaker 4: And all this stuff. She didn't tell me, like I

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Speaker 4: literally had no idea the day up until now. There

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Speaker 4: was something else.

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Speaker 3: She was saying that, like the the light, there was

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Speaker 3: a different vendor that was in charge of like the

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Speaker 3: music and the lighting and everything, and she said that

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Speaker 3: he was like amazing and on top of it, and.

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Speaker 4: What else.

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Speaker 3: She had to remind them, like, you know how like

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Speaker 3: when you walk down the aisle and we had like

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Speaker 3: the hoopah the arc and I don't know if you

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Speaker 3: even know, I don't even know if anybody would notice,

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Speaker 3: but I noticed it. There was all these beach chairs

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Speaker 3: and like umbrellas that were on the beach are for

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Speaker 3: the guests, but they completely cleaned the beach of all

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Speaker 3: that stuff. So it was literally just like clean beach

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Speaker 3: behind us. And I would have totally forgot to remind

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Speaker 3: them to do that. And Marjorie, my wedding planner, was like,

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Speaker 3: I had to remind them to like, you know, move

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Speaker 3: all that stuff.

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Speaker 2: WHOA, Yeah, that's so crazy you say that, because I

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Speaker 2: remember when we were walking down the stairs on the aisle,

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Speaker 2: I was like, oh my gosh, it was just like

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Speaker 2: the beat. I could see the beach.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it was just like straight beach.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah.

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Speaker 3: But if you looked the day before, there was probably

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Speaker 3: like one hundred lounge chairs and umbrellas. But they moved

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Speaker 3: everything out for the for the ceremony. Wow, which probably

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Speaker 3: takes a long time.

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Speaker 2: It's probably not easy.

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Speaker 4: No, no, easy feet. They turned it out for us.

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Speaker 2: They really did it. Yeah, I mean that's all that

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Speaker 2: the that's pretty amazing that your list, like the few

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Speaker 2: the minor things that went.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, oh my gosh, and the things that like

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Speaker 3: we like crossed our fingers and were like, hope this

817
00:39:25,960 --> 00:39:31,120
Speaker 3: works out. Worked out amazing, Like the band, the DJ

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Speaker 3: could not.

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Speaker 4: Have been more phenomenal or amazing.

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Speaker 3: The late night snacks they had at Laita, like the

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Speaker 3: chicken tenders and the friess like amazing. My only regret

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Speaker 3: is that the dessert. When we tried the dessert, it

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Speaker 3: was like orgasmic, Like I was like, I don't even

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Speaker 3: care to have a cake because these desserts are.

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Speaker 4: Like life changing.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and they came out at nine o'clock and I

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Speaker 3: don't think anybody knew they came out, and everybody's on

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Speaker 3: the dance floor. Yeah, and I wish I would have

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Speaker 3: like put them on a tray and like brought them

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Speaker 3: to people because a lot of people didn't try it.

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Speaker 4: And I've I've been talking about these desserts for like

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Speaker 4: a month. You did, yeah, and a lot of people

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Speaker 4: didn't get to try them.

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Speaker 2: When you're raging, there's no time to eat dessert.

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Speaker 3: I know, I know when you're having like the time

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Speaker 3: of your life. I literally could probably watch videos from

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Speaker 3: my wedding every day until I don't even know when

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Speaker 3: it's gonna get old.

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Speaker 2: It's amazing because normally, like when there's a lot of

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Speaker 2: content from one thing, like I feel like people are

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Speaker 2: like okay, like that's gooving on, but everyone's loving it.

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Speaker 2: They're like more and more and more. They wanted us

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Speaker 2: to do more episodes about the wedding. I'm like, I

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Speaker 2: don't know what else to say.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I still have like I still have so

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Speaker 4: much to say.

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 4: I mean just with the planning and like stuff I

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Speaker 4: could have done, like stuff that I I I would.

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Speaker 3: Tell myself before all of it, you know what I mean,

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Speaker 3: Like obviously it all worked out and I'm so happy

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Speaker 3: and I'd have no regrets, but like, yeah, there's like

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Speaker 3: I mean, there's just like so much that I learned.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I'm gonna be so good.

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Speaker 3: For you when you're time comes, because I'm just gonna

856
00:41:01,239 --> 00:41:03,640
Speaker 3: be like a wealth of knowledge, like you could literally

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Speaker 3: I'm like chat shept.

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Speaker 4: For your wedding planning. Wow, Yeah, you're welcome.

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Speaker 2: You should compile a list and maybe we do do

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Speaker 2: like a bonus episode where we talk about those things

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Speaker 2: about like the process of planning and things you would

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Speaker 2: have done differently or whatever those are, because I do

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Speaker 2: think those things are helpful, and there's so many people

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Speaker 2: that are in the thick of going through that.

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Speaker 3: But I do want to give a shout out to Lisa.

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Speaker 3: She works for the hotel that we got married at.

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Speaker 4: We got married at Susos Susios del Kota so On,

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Speaker 4: which means Whispers of the Heart.

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Speaker 2: And she.

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Speaker 3: From the minute we were like wanting to tour the space,

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Speaker 3: I remember the girl, the woman who ended up meeting

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Speaker 3: us to give us this tour a rally, who was

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Speaker 3: like our.

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Speaker 4: Hand boots on the ground girl.

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Speaker 3: She was like, uh, my coworker loves your podcast.

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Speaker 4: She's a scrubber, she's obsessed.

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Speaker 3: Lahlah, and uh, I felt like every time I came there,

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Speaker 3: they had like butterflies in the room and they just

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Speaker 3: like really were just so sweet, and she sent me

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Speaker 3: a really sweet email the morning of the wedding, and yeah,

881
00:42:10,120 --> 00:42:12,040
Speaker 3: it was just like kind of cool that, like the

882
00:42:12,120 --> 00:42:14,360
Speaker 3: venue we ended up choosing, and we didn't choose it

883
00:42:14,480 --> 00:42:16,640
Speaker 3: because obviously because of scrubber, but it's like the fact

884
00:42:16,640 --> 00:42:19,319
Speaker 3: that we chose it and that a scrubber was like

885
00:42:19,400 --> 00:42:22,040
Speaker 3: involved in all of it, and that there's like so

886
00:42:22,080 --> 00:42:25,960
Speaker 3: many butterflies on the property, it just all felt very serendipitous.

887
00:42:26,000 --> 00:42:28,720
Speaker 2: So serendipitous. Also, shout out to Lisa because she helped

888
00:42:28,719 --> 00:42:31,760
Speaker 2: with the bachelourette location as well.

889
00:42:32,000 --> 00:42:32,840
Speaker 4: Shout out Lisa.

890
00:42:32,960 --> 00:42:37,279
Speaker 2: Lisa's everything to us. Also, I just realized that, so

891
00:42:37,360 --> 00:42:40,319
Speaker 2: I posted the link to my dress. The name of

892
00:42:40,600 --> 00:42:45,200
Speaker 2: the color of my dress was Champagne butterfly. No, how crazy.

893
00:42:45,280 --> 00:42:47,600
Speaker 2: I didn't even know. People were texting me like, I don't.

894
00:42:47,440 --> 00:42:49,879
Speaker 4: Know, butterflies were on your dress when you bought it?

895
00:42:49,920 --> 00:42:52,920
Speaker 4: Is absurd. You sent me the.

896
00:42:52,960 --> 00:42:54,960
Speaker 2: Picture and I said no, and that picture but on

897
00:42:55,000 --> 00:42:56,080
Speaker 2: the website you can't see it.

898
00:42:56,120 --> 00:42:57,960
Speaker 3: When you sent me the pictures of the two options,

899
00:42:58,200 --> 00:42:59,760
Speaker 3: I was like, there's butterflies in this dress.

900
00:42:59,760 --> 00:43:01,359
Speaker 4: This is absolutely the one you have to wear.

901
00:43:01,600 --> 00:43:05,880
Speaker 2: But the name was Champagne Butterfly. Are you joking? And

902
00:43:06,120 --> 00:43:09,080
Speaker 2: I was. I was searching champagne dresses and it just

903
00:43:09,400 --> 00:43:10,399
Speaker 2: it never popped up.

904
00:43:10,640 --> 00:43:11,520
Speaker 4: I mean, it was meant to be.

905
00:43:11,560 --> 00:43:12,160
Speaker 2: It was meant to be.

906
00:43:12,200 --> 00:43:14,239
Speaker 3: And everybody was like, I took posted a selfie with

907
00:43:14,239 --> 00:43:16,480
Speaker 3: Paulina and you could see like because I bought I

908
00:43:16,520 --> 00:43:19,319
Speaker 3: bought all my bridesmaids butterfly rings and they were like,

909
00:43:19,520 --> 00:43:22,440
Speaker 3: she wore butterfly earrings. I was like, well, I kind

910
00:43:22,440 --> 00:43:26,000
Speaker 3: of bought them for them, but yes, very significant.

911
00:43:26,480 --> 00:43:26,960
Speaker 4: That's right.

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00:43:29,239 --> 00:43:32,440
Speaker 2: All right. Well, we have a guest coming on.

913
00:43:32,440 --> 00:43:33,759
Speaker 4: Thursday, Yes we do.

914
00:43:33,880 --> 00:43:36,480
Speaker 2: We have Heather ray El Musa coming in. I'm so

915
00:43:36,560 --> 00:43:40,839
Speaker 2: excited to talk to her. So don't worry, don't be sad.

916
00:43:41,000 --> 00:43:41,600
Speaker 4: Be glad.

917
00:43:41,840 --> 00:43:43,839
Speaker 2: We will be back. We love you so much.

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Speaker 4: To be continued to