1 00:00:00,440 --> 00:00:03,480 Speaker 1: I love Elvis Duran in the morning show. Hey, can 2 00:00:03,520 --> 00:00:04,840 Speaker 1: we talk about sex for a minute. I got a 3 00:00:04,840 --> 00:00:07,920 Speaker 1: couple of questions for you. Okay, we talking about sex, right, 4 00:00:08,800 --> 00:00:11,440 Speaker 1: We're not gonna get you dirty or anything, just sex 5 00:00:11,480 --> 00:00:14,920 Speaker 1: in general. Okay. Number one, the friends with benefits thing. 6 00:00:16,120 --> 00:00:18,840 Speaker 1: Has anyone in this room ever had a friend with benefits? 7 00:00:19,120 --> 00:00:19,320 Speaker 2: No? 8 00:00:19,480 --> 00:00:24,680 Speaker 1: Yes, yes, yes, and no? Did it work out for 9 00:00:24,720 --> 00:00:25,400 Speaker 1: both of you? 10 00:00:25,400 --> 00:00:25,599 Speaker 3: No? 11 00:00:26,920 --> 00:00:31,120 Speaker 1: Is it usually a problem? I think it's go ahead. 12 00:00:31,160 --> 00:00:34,640 Speaker 3: I think at some point, one person's gonna catch a feeling. 13 00:00:36,200 --> 00:00:40,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, you're you're in two separate lanes, and sometimes one 14 00:00:40,720 --> 00:00:42,640 Speaker 1: lane is gonna go faster than the other and forget 15 00:00:42,720 --> 00:00:43,160 Speaker 1: the other one. 16 00:00:43,680 --> 00:00:47,840 Speaker 2: The rom coms I watched, somebody always gets feelings. 17 00:00:48,920 --> 00:00:51,320 Speaker 1: But having a frame of benefits is actually kind of 18 00:00:51,320 --> 00:00:53,280 Speaker 1: great if that's all you need and all you want. 19 00:00:53,320 --> 00:00:55,800 Speaker 1: But you gotta both be on board, because if one 20 00:00:56,320 --> 00:00:59,720 Speaker 1: starts to get a little too you know, into you, yeah, 21 00:01:00,080 --> 00:01:03,040 Speaker 1: or you get into them, it's not friends of benefits anymore, 22 00:01:03,040 --> 00:01:08,840 Speaker 1: it's something else. Right. Another question in your you're in 23 00:01:08,840 --> 00:01:12,240 Speaker 1: a relationship, do you ever like just have board sex 24 00:01:13,760 --> 00:01:17,160 Speaker 1: like there's nothing else to do? You know, It's like 25 00:01:17,200 --> 00:01:20,680 Speaker 1: there's nothing on TV, there's nothing nowhere to go? All right, 26 00:01:20,760 --> 00:01:23,080 Speaker 1: let's I guess we'll just have sex. 27 00:01:24,120 --> 00:01:26,360 Speaker 3: I think that happens so much during COVID. Aren't there 28 00:01:26,360 --> 00:01:28,399 Speaker 3: like a bunch of COVID babies because everybody was just 29 00:01:28,400 --> 00:01:29,760 Speaker 3: stuck at home not doing anything? 30 00:01:30,000 --> 00:01:33,080 Speaker 1: I guess, yeah, absolutely right. Yeah, it's like what do 31 00:01:33,120 --> 00:01:35,319 Speaker 1: you do? But okay, now that now that we're out 32 00:01:35,360 --> 00:01:37,959 Speaker 1: of the house and we we we can actually go places, 33 00:01:38,040 --> 00:01:41,480 Speaker 1: see movies, go shopping. Yeah, there's things to do. Go 34 00:01:41,560 --> 00:01:44,000 Speaker 1: for a walk, you know, go to the mall. Do 35 00:01:44,040 --> 00:01:47,120 Speaker 1: we still go to the mall? Yes? Sometimes sometimes, Yeah, 36 00:01:47,360 --> 00:01:49,600 Speaker 1: just stay let's just have sex. 37 00:01:49,760 --> 00:01:51,200 Speaker 2: Let's just stay home and have sex. 38 00:01:51,480 --> 00:01:53,400 Speaker 3: If you pitch it that way, it sounds so terrible. 39 00:01:54,200 --> 00:01:57,640 Speaker 1: Well I don't mean for it to be terrible, but 40 00:01:57,760 --> 00:02:01,920 Speaker 1: it's just, you know, just it's it's bored sex. Yeah, 41 00:02:02,160 --> 00:02:05,880 Speaker 1: like every time you're you're going let's say you go 42 00:02:05,920 --> 00:02:08,720 Speaker 1: on vacation, you're your horny and you have sex. For 43 00:02:08,760 --> 00:02:10,519 Speaker 1: some reason, you go on vacation and you get horned of. 44 00:02:10,600 --> 00:02:12,840 Speaker 1: I don't know why, because you're out of your element. 45 00:02:12,880 --> 00:02:15,120 Speaker 3: Maybe yeah, excitement and adrenaline. 46 00:02:15,919 --> 00:02:18,640 Speaker 1: But just at home, Eh, what do you wanna do? 47 00:02:19,040 --> 00:02:21,600 Speaker 1: I'm gonna go clean the garage. Nah, let's have sex. 48 00:02:23,480 --> 00:02:24,760 Speaker 3: I think people do that. 49 00:02:24,960 --> 00:02:26,880 Speaker 2: You have a choice. We can clean the garage or 50 00:02:26,919 --> 00:02:27,760 Speaker 2: we can have sex. 51 00:02:27,960 --> 00:02:29,000 Speaker 3: Which would you rather do? 52 00:02:29,600 --> 00:02:31,280 Speaker 2: What are you You're gonna pick clean the garage? 53 00:02:31,320 --> 00:02:32,359 Speaker 3: Imagine someone picking that. 54 00:02:32,680 --> 00:02:35,200 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, yeah right, I'm gonna be in the 55 00:02:35,240 --> 00:02:35,959 Speaker 1: garage if you need me. 56 00:02:36,639 --> 00:02:37,680 Speaker 3: I'd be so insulted. 57 00:02:37,800 --> 00:02:39,080 Speaker 1: Oh my god. 58 00:02:38,440 --> 00:02:41,360 Speaker 2: Go but honey, I've been trying to clean the garage 59 00:02:41,400 --> 00:02:43,600 Speaker 2: for months. 60 00:02:42,400 --> 00:02:43,280 Speaker 3: Only jet like that. 61 00:02:44,400 --> 00:02:47,200 Speaker 1: Wow, all right, bored sex? Okay, that's that's That's all 62 00:02:47,240 --> 00:02:49,160 Speaker 1: I have for sex. Anyone want to talk about sex anyways? 63 00:02:49,880 --> 00:02:51,200 Speaker 3: I always want to talk about it. But then I 64 00:02:51,240 --> 00:02:53,440 Speaker 3: think with this show, at some point we get to 65 00:02:53,480 --> 00:02:56,240 Speaker 3: a place where we shouldn't be saying things that we say. 66 00:02:56,520 --> 00:02:59,840 Speaker 1: Well, it's obviously obviously we have to edit some things. 67 00:02:59,840 --> 00:03:00,600 Speaker 1: We can't get to. 68 00:03:00,600 --> 00:03:03,079 Speaker 2: Graphic Froggy's not here right now. 69 00:03:04,639 --> 00:03:05,040 Speaker 4: Space. 70 00:03:05,440 --> 00:03:07,240 Speaker 1: Yes, it could be a safe space. It could be 71 00:03:07,360 --> 00:03:09,400 Speaker 1: all right, Well, I offered it to you, you know, 72 00:03:09,560 --> 00:03:12,040 Speaker 1: I offered a safe space for sex. 73 00:03:12,080 --> 00:03:16,920 Speaker 3: Comed Okay, Can I ask a question? Sure, in a relationship, 74 00:03:16,960 --> 00:03:18,720 Speaker 3: whether you're married or not, and you guys see each 75 00:03:18,720 --> 00:03:20,880 Speaker 3: other all the time, how often do people do it? 76 00:03:22,120 --> 00:03:24,079 Speaker 2: I think it's different with every relationship. 77 00:03:24,320 --> 00:03:25,600 Speaker 3: And I see the average. 78 00:03:26,800 --> 00:03:28,799 Speaker 1: What what year is this, Yeah. 79 00:03:28,960 --> 00:03:29,720 Speaker 3: Twenty twenty four. 80 00:03:30,400 --> 00:03:35,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, it was president when I had sex. 81 00:03:36,200 --> 00:03:37,000 Speaker 3: Oh my gosh. 82 00:03:37,320 --> 00:03:39,240 Speaker 2: And then I also think it depends on you know, 83 00:03:39,280 --> 00:03:41,240 Speaker 2: where you are at that moment, because I think sometimes 84 00:03:41,240 --> 00:03:43,680 Speaker 2: you have more sex than you doubt other times. Do 85 00:03:43,680 --> 00:03:46,000 Speaker 2: you know what I mean? Depending on where what's going 86 00:03:46,040 --> 00:03:46,760 Speaker 2: on at the time. 87 00:03:47,400 --> 00:03:48,640 Speaker 1: Well, are you asking for a friend? 88 00:03:48,800 --> 00:03:51,080 Speaker 3: No, I'm just I'm very interesting because I'm always in 89 00:03:51,080 --> 00:03:53,560 Speaker 3: a long distance relationships. I think it's a completely different ballgame. 90 00:03:53,600 --> 00:03:56,040 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, and that guy, every time you see each other, 91 00:03:56,040 --> 00:03:56,960 Speaker 2: you better be doing it. Well. 92 00:03:57,000 --> 00:03:59,240 Speaker 3: Then I just wonder about you know, oh, people who 93 00:03:59,240 --> 00:04:00,800 Speaker 3: live together all the time time, how much are you 94 00:04:00,840 --> 00:04:02,800 Speaker 3: getting it on what's going on over there? Do you 95 00:04:02,840 --> 00:04:06,040 Speaker 3: get bored? And then it's I think people's sex drive changed, 96 00:04:06,240 --> 00:04:08,280 Speaker 3: you know, over over time. And then maybe one person 97 00:04:08,360 --> 00:04:10,520 Speaker 3: still wants a lot and one doesn't. In that case, 98 00:04:10,560 --> 00:04:11,240 Speaker 3: what do you do. 99 00:04:12,400 --> 00:04:15,280 Speaker 1: Well, there's an issue, you need to talk about it. 100 00:04:15,400 --> 00:04:19,039 Speaker 1: You can't just let it fester, as they say, you know, 101 00:04:19,520 --> 00:04:23,200 Speaker 1: open up their relationship. Yeah, about what I. 102 00:04:23,160 --> 00:04:24,680 Speaker 3: Said, do you open up the relationship. 103 00:04:25,160 --> 00:04:27,800 Speaker 1: Well, I have a conversation about it. Hey, you know 104 00:04:28,040 --> 00:04:29,080 Speaker 1: I love you. I want to be with you, but 105 00:04:29,120 --> 00:04:30,240 Speaker 1: I need to have sex if you're not going to 106 00:04:30,279 --> 00:04:32,120 Speaker 1: give me sexy. Do you have a list of names 107 00:04:32,160 --> 00:04:37,239 Speaker 1: I can't have? Can you approve any of the people? 108 00:04:38,040 --> 00:04:39,200 Speaker 1: Hold on, I've been writing some names. 109 00:04:39,240 --> 00:04:42,600 Speaker 2: Yet they'll give you my name of every ugly person 110 00:04:43,320 --> 00:04:47,840 Speaker 2: you know well that you would not be attracted to, like. 111 00:04:47,880 --> 00:04:49,919 Speaker 1: Number three here on the list. How's that? Hey? I 112 00:04:49,920 --> 00:04:51,880 Speaker 1: got Alan on line twenty. Let's go talk to Alan. 113 00:04:52,760 --> 00:04:53,839 Speaker 4: Uh? 114 00:04:54,279 --> 00:04:55,440 Speaker 1: Hey, Alan, how are. 115 00:04:55,320 --> 00:04:58,279 Speaker 4: You damn good? How are you doing doing? 116 00:04:58,320 --> 00:05:02,599 Speaker 1: Okay? So Alan says he's had or had a friend 117 00:05:02,600 --> 00:05:04,400 Speaker 1: with benefits for like two and a half years. Right, 118 00:05:04,480 --> 00:05:07,480 Speaker 1: that's a long we'll call it a relationship, but it's 119 00:05:07,520 --> 00:05:10,080 Speaker 1: it's what it is. It's a friend with benefits relationship 120 00:05:10,200 --> 00:05:11,120 Speaker 1: for two and a half years. 121 00:05:11,800 --> 00:05:14,200 Speaker 4: But something that's very unique in this relationship. 122 00:05:14,240 --> 00:05:17,080 Speaker 1: Actually, wow, really for two and a half years. But 123 00:05:17,120 --> 00:05:19,240 Speaker 1: there's something very unique about this friend with benefits you 124 00:05:19,360 --> 00:05:22,120 Speaker 1: had for two and a half years. What's that sure? 125 00:05:22,240 --> 00:05:25,559 Speaker 4: So I didn't know his name okay, the entire time, 126 00:05:25,960 --> 00:05:28,600 Speaker 4: didn't even know his name. My friends called a ups 127 00:05:28,640 --> 00:05:33,720 Speaker 4: because I would literally schedule an appointment drop off the package. 128 00:05:34,600 --> 00:05:37,280 Speaker 4: And it was about two years in. It was Christmas, 129 00:05:37,480 --> 00:05:41,279 Speaker 4: and he said Merry Christmas, Corey, and I realized he 130 00:05:41,320 --> 00:05:43,560 Speaker 4: thought my name was Corey and not Alan. 131 00:05:45,560 --> 00:05:46,520 Speaker 1: Two and a half years in. 132 00:05:47,960 --> 00:05:50,320 Speaker 4: So then I took that opportunity to say, well, thank you, 133 00:05:50,480 --> 00:05:53,320 Speaker 4: but I actually don't know your name. And so then 134 00:05:53,360 --> 00:05:55,560 Speaker 4: he told me his name was Mauricio. 135 00:05:56,400 --> 00:06:00,240 Speaker 1: So final that years his name was Mauricio nice. 136 00:06:00,480 --> 00:06:02,200 Speaker 2: Do we believe that his name was Mauricio? 137 00:06:02,440 --> 00:06:06,840 Speaker 4: Yeah, right, sure, I do, I think so. He looked 138 00:06:06,880 --> 00:06:07,679 Speaker 4: he's got the profile. 139 00:06:07,720 --> 00:06:10,360 Speaker 1: He looked like, okay, all right, all right, I don't 140 00:06:10,360 --> 00:06:13,080 Speaker 1: know they're okay, there's something. There's someone listening right now, 141 00:06:13,120 --> 00:06:15,840 Speaker 1: going okay, that's kind of hot. You had a friend 142 00:06:15,920 --> 00:06:17,760 Speaker 1: of benefits for two and a half years, never knew 143 00:06:17,760 --> 00:06:21,360 Speaker 1: their name, so obviously it was a very just what 144 00:06:21,400 --> 00:06:25,560 Speaker 1: it was, mechanical thing, right and it and okay, there 145 00:06:25,560 --> 00:06:25,840 Speaker 1: you go. 146 00:06:26,040 --> 00:06:27,240 Speaker 3: My question about this. 147 00:06:27,600 --> 00:06:29,039 Speaker 1: We've got questions going ahead. 148 00:06:29,160 --> 00:06:32,360 Speaker 3: What kept you from ever wanting to pursue a relationship 149 00:06:32,400 --> 00:06:34,040 Speaker 3: with supposedly Mauricio. 150 00:06:36,839 --> 00:06:40,440 Speaker 4: Honestly, I was just young professional. I didn't have time. 151 00:06:40,520 --> 00:06:43,640 Speaker 4: I was focused on my career in Miami. So it 152 00:06:43,760 --> 00:06:46,480 Speaker 4: was just the transactional need of what I was getting 153 00:06:46,480 --> 00:06:46,960 Speaker 4: from him. 154 00:06:47,480 --> 00:06:52,760 Speaker 1: There you go, it's Miami. Let's profile again, is horny 155 00:06:52,760 --> 00:06:56,039 Speaker 1: in Miami? You know, it's just the way it is. Well, Alan, 156 00:06:56,080 --> 00:06:58,400 Speaker 1: thanks for sharing with us, And if you see Mauricio again, 157 00:06:58,480 --> 00:07:00,000 Speaker 1: just tell him he said Hi, give him my number. 158 00:07:00,080 --> 00:07:05,960 Speaker 1: I'm kidding. Have a great day. Thanks for listening. Rob 159 00:07:06,040 --> 00:07:12,960 Speaker 1: Online nineteen was a friend with benefits with your ex. 160 00:07:13,560 --> 00:07:15,160 Speaker 1: Just tell us the story, Rob, But what's the story? 161 00:07:15,160 --> 00:07:17,880 Speaker 1: And welcome to the show. By the way, Hey. 162 00:07:17,760 --> 00:07:21,600 Speaker 5: How's it going. Basically, I reconnected with an old girlfriend 163 00:07:21,800 --> 00:07:24,240 Speaker 5: and you know, we agreed we didn't want anything serious, 164 00:07:24,280 --> 00:07:27,920 Speaker 5: and we friends with benefits for you know months. And 165 00:07:29,200 --> 00:07:31,040 Speaker 5: a few months in I realized, you know, I'm starting 166 00:07:31,040 --> 00:07:32,600 Speaker 5: to have feelings for this girl, and I didn't want 167 00:07:32,600 --> 00:07:35,840 Speaker 5: to scare away, so I kept my feelings to myself. 168 00:07:36,280 --> 00:07:39,360 Speaker 5: And then a few months later, she just comes out 169 00:07:39,400 --> 00:07:43,160 Speaker 5: and says she loves me. She didn't want to scare 170 00:07:43,200 --> 00:07:44,040 Speaker 5: me away. 171 00:07:44,080 --> 00:07:45,560 Speaker 1: She rolled the dice and took a chance. 172 00:07:45,600 --> 00:07:48,680 Speaker 5: And so what happened, Well, we dated for about two 173 00:07:48,760 --> 00:07:50,440 Speaker 5: years and then just kind of grew apart. 174 00:07:50,640 --> 00:07:53,080 Speaker 1: Shes okay, I know, but was it a fun two years. 175 00:07:53,120 --> 00:07:54,120 Speaker 1: You have a good time with each other. 176 00:07:55,400 --> 00:07:56,960 Speaker 5: I will cherish every moment. 177 00:07:58,360 --> 00:08:01,160 Speaker 1: That it was, just like is so you were just 178 00:08:01,160 --> 00:08:02,840 Speaker 1: doing each other, just to do each other? And then 179 00:08:02,880 --> 00:08:05,080 Speaker 1: what man? I think? I like you. I love that. 180 00:08:05,600 --> 00:08:10,320 Speaker 1: So no regrets whatsoever? None. I love that. All right, Rob, 181 00:08:10,720 --> 00:08:12,880 Speaker 1: thank you so much. Brother, there's hope for us all. Now, 182 00:08:16,120 --> 00:08:18,360 Speaker 1: what up, Scary? Well are we still in our sex 183 00:08:18,440 --> 00:08:22,720 Speaker 1: safe space? I have a question. Well, yeah, if you 184 00:08:22,720 --> 00:08:24,200 Speaker 1: put it that way, and I'm like, oh my god, 185 00:08:24,240 --> 00:08:25,440 Speaker 1: here lisaid, we're in the safe space. 186 00:08:25,480 --> 00:08:27,600 Speaker 6: So I just want to ask, am I the only 187 00:08:27,640 --> 00:08:29,840 Speaker 6: one who thinks about each one of you guys all 188 00:08:29,880 --> 00:08:33,640 Speaker 6: doing it? And if so, who else? Who have you 189 00:08:33,760 --> 00:08:36,679 Speaker 6: thought about doing it? Like Elvis for instance? Do you 190 00:08:36,720 --> 00:08:38,120 Speaker 6: think of all the people on the show doing it? 191 00:08:38,280 --> 00:08:41,480 Speaker 1: No? No, no, no. 192 00:08:40,679 --> 00:08:43,080 Speaker 3: No, I have not. Now you're making me do it? 193 00:08:43,240 --> 00:08:43,480 Speaker 1: I know. 194 00:08:43,600 --> 00:08:48,560 Speaker 6: No has to be well, picture of someone else in 195 00:08:48,600 --> 00:08:50,440 Speaker 6: this people that you know in this room. 196 00:08:50,640 --> 00:08:51,840 Speaker 1: No, No, with each other. 197 00:08:51,920 --> 00:08:53,360 Speaker 3: I think it's because we're so close. 198 00:08:53,400 --> 00:08:56,280 Speaker 2: We're like like brothers and sisters, not like that. 199 00:08:56,679 --> 00:08:57,360 Speaker 1: Okay, I'm weird. 200 00:08:57,480 --> 00:08:59,240 Speaker 3: I think if people have been talking about it, it'll 201 00:08:59,240 --> 00:09:00,760 Speaker 3: pop into my head, like with the image of what 202 00:09:00,800 --> 00:09:03,280 Speaker 3: you're saying is. But it's not like I don't think 203 00:09:03,280 --> 00:09:05,000 Speaker 3: about it like go home, like no, I wonder what. 204 00:09:05,200 --> 00:09:07,760 Speaker 1: But now I'm saying, you're thinking about it this morning. 205 00:09:09,040 --> 00:09:13,200 Speaker 1: I don't really like the optics here, but thanks anyway, 206 00:09:14,360 --> 00:09:16,959 Speaker 1: Brandon and Danielle and Shell Dion. I, oh my gosh, 207 00:09:17,000 --> 00:09:21,760 Speaker 1: oh my gosh, oh my god, is it good. Yeah, yeah,