1 00:00:00,840 --> 00:00:05,080 Speaker 1: Scrubbing in Tilly and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio podcast. 2 00:00:08,200 --> 00:00:08,880 Speaker 2: I'm still talking? 3 00:00:08,880 --> 00:00:10,319 Speaker 1: Why are you always talking during this? 4 00:00:11,039 --> 00:00:17,759 Speaker 3: Sorry, it's just always a little Oh, we're starting them. 5 00:00:17,800 --> 00:00:21,480 Speaker 4: Hello, everybody, we are scrubbing it. Scrub a dub dumb. 6 00:00:21,840 --> 00:00:24,280 Speaker 4: We have a very fun guest today. I was I've 7 00:00:24,320 --> 00:00:25,840 Speaker 4: been trying to get her on the podcast for a 8 00:00:25,880 --> 00:00:27,680 Speaker 4: minute now and we finally have her in studio. 9 00:00:27,800 --> 00:00:29,360 Speaker 2: Trying to get her in the podcast too. 10 00:00:30,360 --> 00:00:32,760 Speaker 4: We have been trying to get her on the podcast, 11 00:00:32,760 --> 00:00:35,000 Speaker 4: and today we have Susie Evans. 12 00:00:35,000 --> 00:00:35,200 Speaker 1: So. 13 00:00:35,240 --> 00:00:37,680 Speaker 4: Susie is known for being on season twenty six of 14 00:00:37,680 --> 00:00:40,720 Speaker 4: The Bachelor, which was Clayton Eckert. 15 00:00:41,440 --> 00:00:42,199 Speaker 1: Ekert season. 16 00:00:43,960 --> 00:00:47,480 Speaker 4: In the final episode, he chose her and she rejected him, 17 00:00:48,040 --> 00:00:49,959 Speaker 4: and then they ended up dating for a little bit, 18 00:00:49,960 --> 00:00:52,640 Speaker 4: but anyways, they broke up. She's doing her own thing. 19 00:00:52,720 --> 00:00:57,080 Speaker 4: She's a very very great at making social media content. 20 00:00:57,480 --> 00:00:58,920 Speaker 1: I love her. I love her. 21 00:00:59,000 --> 00:01:02,560 Speaker 3: I met her at the Lemon's Foundation Taylor and Taylor 22 00:01:02,640 --> 00:01:07,440 Speaker 3: and Tay Launer have their foundation gala gala gala and 23 00:01:07,640 --> 00:01:10,039 Speaker 3: I met Susie there and one of her best friends 24 00:01:10,120 --> 00:01:12,399 Speaker 3: is a giant scrubber, and we made a video for 25 00:01:12,480 --> 00:01:14,440 Speaker 3: her and she was so cute, and I felt like 26 00:01:14,520 --> 00:01:15,880 Speaker 3: Susie and I had been friends forever. 27 00:01:16,280 --> 00:01:18,920 Speaker 1: She's an amazing human and she seems like a girl's girl. 28 00:01:19,000 --> 00:01:20,640 Speaker 4: She's a girl's girl. Some today we're gonna have a 29 00:01:20,680 --> 00:01:29,080 Speaker 4: girl's girl episode. So everyone please welcome Susie. Even Susie 30 00:01:29,560 --> 00:01:31,960 Speaker 4: Evans is finally scrubbing in. 31 00:01:32,680 --> 00:01:33,199 Speaker 1: I'm here. 32 00:01:33,600 --> 00:01:36,919 Speaker 2: How does it feel to be in the O R ther? 33 00:01:37,280 --> 00:01:40,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what this is. This is the It feels good. 34 00:01:40,440 --> 00:01:44,080 Speaker 5: It's not like as sterile as like an er, but 35 00:01:44,120 --> 00:01:45,160 Speaker 5: it's very professional. 36 00:01:45,280 --> 00:01:46,319 Speaker 1: Like walking in, I was like. 37 00:01:46,480 --> 00:01:50,400 Speaker 5: I'm a professional. Yeah, and I feel very official right now. 38 00:01:50,440 --> 00:01:52,640 Speaker 1: I have a desk, yeah, and a mike and a 39 00:01:52,720 --> 00:01:56,360 Speaker 1: gold microphone. Yeah, that's right, it's a golden microphone iconic. 40 00:01:56,520 --> 00:01:58,400 Speaker 2: Yeah. Okay, good good. 41 00:01:58,440 --> 00:01:59,680 Speaker 1: We're very happy to have you. 42 00:01:59,720 --> 00:02:01,560 Speaker 4: We were saying that we have been wanting you on 43 00:02:01,560 --> 00:02:03,520 Speaker 4: the podcast for a while, and I felt like, you know, 44 00:02:03,640 --> 00:02:06,440 Speaker 4: some things take time, and it felt like this was 45 00:02:06,480 --> 00:02:07,800 Speaker 4: the right time for you to come. 46 00:02:08,040 --> 00:02:09,400 Speaker 1: It really does feel like the right time. 47 00:02:09,800 --> 00:02:12,679 Speaker 5: I feel like I'm in my cocoon era, Like I 48 00:02:13,000 --> 00:02:15,680 Speaker 5: think I'm gonna blossom soon. Like I feel like in 49 00:02:15,720 --> 00:02:19,960 Speaker 5: the next six months to a year will really be 50 00:02:20,080 --> 00:02:21,080 Speaker 5: like my time to shine. 51 00:02:21,320 --> 00:02:23,640 Speaker 1: So you guys are getting me at the point of like. 52 00:02:23,760 --> 00:02:28,519 Speaker 5: Why in the cocoon? Why why the really working on myself. 53 00:02:28,800 --> 00:02:31,960 Speaker 5: I'm just really focusing on becoming the best. 54 00:02:31,840 --> 00:02:33,840 Speaker 1: Version of myself. I'm always doing that me too. 55 00:02:33,880 --> 00:02:36,400 Speaker 5: I'm such a self help girly and that's why, that's 56 00:02:36,400 --> 00:02:40,960 Speaker 5: why the vibes are there. Yeah, but yeah, I just 57 00:02:40,960 --> 00:02:42,760 Speaker 5: feel like this is you've kept You've got me at 58 00:02:42,800 --> 00:02:44,280 Speaker 5: an interesting time in my life. 59 00:02:44,360 --> 00:02:47,480 Speaker 1: What what is? What are you working on? Is it? 60 00:02:47,919 --> 00:02:50,000 Speaker 1: What are you working on? I feel like everything. 61 00:02:50,360 --> 00:02:52,760 Speaker 5: I feel like I'm doing a lot of soul searching 62 00:02:53,200 --> 00:02:55,760 Speaker 5: and just like personal development. I feel like I've made 63 00:02:55,800 --> 00:03:01,240 Speaker 5: a lot of realizations in my in my like personal life, relationships, 64 00:03:02,120 --> 00:03:05,080 Speaker 5: my relationship with myself, even like there's so many things 65 00:03:05,080 --> 00:03:07,560 Speaker 5: that I just feel like in the past year have 66 00:03:07,680 --> 00:03:09,520 Speaker 5: kind of come to the surface and I've been like, oh, 67 00:03:09,560 --> 00:03:11,880 Speaker 5: I like really need to work on this and trying 68 00:03:11,880 --> 00:03:15,560 Speaker 5: to like figure things out. And now I'm dating somebody 69 00:03:15,639 --> 00:03:18,840 Speaker 5: and I'm like trying to like become better but also 70 00:03:18,960 --> 00:03:20,959 Speaker 5: like become a better partner. So it's like a I 71 00:03:20,960 --> 00:03:23,239 Speaker 5: feel like it's a lot happening, and I just feel 72 00:03:23,240 --> 00:03:26,640 Speaker 5: like I'm being really intentional. But it's also like the 73 00:03:26,680 --> 00:03:27,840 Speaker 5: first time in my life where I'm like, oh, I 74 00:03:27,880 --> 00:03:29,520 Speaker 5: don't know what my next step is, So it's like 75 00:03:29,600 --> 00:03:31,320 Speaker 5: it's a weird time where I'm just I feel like 76 00:03:31,320 --> 00:03:33,639 Speaker 5: I'm really just like trying to focus on myself and 77 00:03:33,960 --> 00:03:36,600 Speaker 5: in my career, but it feels like it's more about 78 00:03:36,640 --> 00:03:38,680 Speaker 5: me than my career right now, which is a weird. 79 00:03:39,400 --> 00:03:41,120 Speaker 1: I've never really had that. 80 00:03:41,360 --> 00:03:44,280 Speaker 4: When you because sometimes I feel like when you get 81 00:03:44,320 --> 00:03:48,640 Speaker 4: into relationship, you, especially when you're in a healthy relationship, 82 00:03:48,720 --> 00:03:51,440 Speaker 4: you start to notice patterns that you do that you 83 00:03:51,480 --> 00:03:53,240 Speaker 4: didn't know before because you were on your own and 84 00:03:53,240 --> 00:03:54,440 Speaker 4: you were independent and no one. 85 00:03:54,320 --> 00:03:55,440 Speaker 1: Was there to call you out on it. 86 00:03:56,080 --> 00:03:57,800 Speaker 4: And then I feel like once you get into a relationship, 87 00:03:57,840 --> 00:04:00,680 Speaker 4: you start noticing things about yourself and and it's you 88 00:04:00,720 --> 00:04:02,400 Speaker 4: can either accept it and be like, oh, this is 89 00:04:02,400 --> 00:04:04,640 Speaker 4: something where I can work on and get be better 90 00:04:05,080 --> 00:04:08,240 Speaker 4: for myself and for my partner, or you get defensive and. 91 00:04:08,200 --> 00:04:10,800 Speaker 1: Go like you don't know what I need to face 92 00:04:11,360 --> 00:04:15,920 Speaker 1: or change. Literally literally that's me, yeah for sure. 93 00:04:16,480 --> 00:04:18,600 Speaker 5: And but it's good because I feel like I do 94 00:04:18,640 --> 00:04:22,760 Speaker 5: feel like I'm in a healthy relationship and I think 95 00:04:23,200 --> 00:04:25,680 Speaker 5: it's funny because I feel like Justin came into my 96 00:04:25,800 --> 00:04:27,440 Speaker 5: life in a time where I was like kind of 97 00:04:27,480 --> 00:04:31,480 Speaker 5: going through like mentally, just like a really strenuous time 98 00:04:31,520 --> 00:04:34,520 Speaker 5: for myself. Like I just like within the first week 99 00:04:34,560 --> 00:04:36,000 Speaker 5: of us dating, I had like a ment to be 100 00:04:36,720 --> 00:04:40,200 Speaker 5: like full on crying, Like like just I was like, 101 00:04:40,279 --> 00:04:43,400 Speaker 5: and I haven't cried like that in probably years, But 102 00:04:43,520 --> 00:04:46,159 Speaker 5: that happened like a week into when we first started dating, 103 00:04:46,400 --> 00:04:49,120 Speaker 5: just based on my personal life, like what was happening 104 00:04:49,120 --> 00:04:51,320 Speaker 5: back home in my life and just. 105 00:04:51,279 --> 00:04:52,320 Speaker 1: Where I was at. 106 00:04:52,600 --> 00:04:55,560 Speaker 5: And I remember thinking, I was like, oh my gosh, 107 00:04:55,600 --> 00:04:57,120 Speaker 5: like he is going to think something is. 108 00:04:57,160 --> 00:04:58,000 Speaker 1: Very wrong with me. 109 00:04:58,480 --> 00:05:00,359 Speaker 5: And we've been friends for a long time and he 110 00:05:00,440 --> 00:05:02,880 Speaker 5: knew the things that were happening in my life, but 111 00:05:03,360 --> 00:05:04,640 Speaker 5: it was one of those moments where I was like, 112 00:05:04,680 --> 00:05:08,200 Speaker 5: this could like really freak somebody out. But he's been 113 00:05:08,360 --> 00:05:11,760 Speaker 5: just really supportive through like kind of this whole transformation 114 00:05:12,520 --> 00:05:18,000 Speaker 5: and even yeah, like the things that are positive about me, 115 00:05:18,080 --> 00:05:19,719 Speaker 5: Like one of the things is like I'm just multi 116 00:05:19,720 --> 00:05:21,560 Speaker 5: passionate and I want to do everything, but then I'm 117 00:05:21,560 --> 00:05:24,240 Speaker 5: not like focused in on certain things. And like he's 118 00:05:24,279 --> 00:05:27,480 Speaker 5: been able to kind of he's very good at being 119 00:05:27,640 --> 00:05:32,440 Speaker 5: like focused and you know, finishing a task like yeah, 120 00:05:32,440 --> 00:05:35,320 Speaker 5: and very just like we're just very different people in that. 121 00:05:35,400 --> 00:05:38,280 Speaker 5: So he's been really good about like having intentional conversations 122 00:05:38,320 --> 00:05:40,200 Speaker 5: with me, so like, and I think that there's a 123 00:05:40,240 --> 00:05:42,000 Speaker 5: part of me that could be defensive on that and 124 00:05:42,040 --> 00:05:44,880 Speaker 5: be like, well, I'm just different than you because I 125 00:05:44,920 --> 00:05:47,800 Speaker 5: want to do everything and I'm passionate about so many things. 126 00:05:47,800 --> 00:05:49,360 Speaker 5: But instead I'm like, no, this is like a good 127 00:05:49,360 --> 00:05:52,919 Speaker 5: conversation and I need to like you are offering me 128 00:05:52,960 --> 00:05:55,359 Speaker 5: good advice and I don't like I am trying and 129 00:05:55,400 --> 00:05:57,359 Speaker 5: I'm actually not being defensive, but I'm just like, no, 130 00:05:57,400 --> 00:06:00,040 Speaker 5: you're like a good mentor in many aspects. 131 00:05:59,680 --> 00:06:02,799 Speaker 1: Of my life. So it's been an interesting time. 132 00:06:03,640 --> 00:06:06,280 Speaker 3: That's cute. Yea, I refer to him as a mentor, 133 00:06:06,360 --> 00:06:08,960 Speaker 3: but I kind of like get it. I kind of 134 00:06:09,000 --> 00:06:11,159 Speaker 3: feel the same way. I totally understand. I've never like 135 00:06:11,200 --> 00:06:14,359 Speaker 3: heard that comparison before, but it's really cute. 136 00:06:14,520 --> 00:06:16,440 Speaker 5: That's good, yeah, because mentor could definitely be like a 137 00:06:16,480 --> 00:06:19,360 Speaker 5: weird and he's my mentor. 138 00:06:19,040 --> 00:06:20,159 Speaker 2: My boyfriend's my mentor. 139 00:06:20,360 --> 00:06:20,720 Speaker 1: Mentor. 140 00:06:20,920 --> 00:06:22,760 Speaker 3: It's like sweet because it's like a mentor with somebody 141 00:06:22,760 --> 00:06:25,200 Speaker 3: that kind of like guides you and helps you and 142 00:06:25,200 --> 00:06:26,080 Speaker 3: like nurtures you. 143 00:06:26,360 --> 00:06:27,240 Speaker 2: It's like really sweet. 144 00:06:27,440 --> 00:06:29,640 Speaker 5: Yeah, I feel like he's further along in some like 145 00:06:29,839 --> 00:06:32,760 Speaker 5: even like just career wise, like he's taken a more 146 00:06:32,839 --> 00:06:36,120 Speaker 5: traditional path, so I feel like he has more to 147 00:06:36,240 --> 00:06:39,080 Speaker 5: offer on the business side of things that I'm like, 148 00:06:39,400 --> 00:06:42,080 Speaker 5: I'm just an organism floating in the world. 149 00:06:42,160 --> 00:06:44,960 Speaker 1: I'm just floating around. I think there's people that are 150 00:06:45,000 --> 00:06:47,960 Speaker 1: just wired. I'm wired more like you, where I'm just 151 00:06:48,040 --> 00:06:51,040 Speaker 1: kind of like it's it's not that serious. 152 00:06:51,400 --> 00:06:55,560 Speaker 4: And also like, yeah, and Hayley's very much this is 153 00:06:55,600 --> 00:06:57,200 Speaker 4: my dream, this is why I want to accomplish it. 154 00:06:57,240 --> 00:07:01,159 Speaker 4: Like she has so much focus on her work and passion, 155 00:07:01,200 --> 00:07:05,000 Speaker 4: and I'm kind of like, we're living here, We're. 156 00:07:04,839 --> 00:07:10,800 Speaker 3: Living ge living. 157 00:07:11,800 --> 00:07:15,200 Speaker 1: Okay, so you and Justine, Okay, let's let's go back. 158 00:07:15,280 --> 00:07:22,000 Speaker 2: Let's back it up here, back up. WHOA, thank you 159 00:07:22,040 --> 00:07:22,360 Speaker 2: so much. 160 00:07:22,360 --> 00:07:24,840 Speaker 3: When I'm tired, it's some things come out of my 161 00:07:24,840 --> 00:07:25,640 Speaker 3: mouth and I'm like, just. 162 00:07:25,680 --> 00:07:29,720 Speaker 2: Go with it. Let's go back to the season of 163 00:07:29,760 --> 00:07:30,480 Speaker 2: The Bachelor that. 164 00:07:30,440 --> 00:07:34,480 Speaker 3: You were on, right, Okay, yeah, right, yeah, So you 165 00:07:34,520 --> 00:07:38,120 Speaker 3: went on the Bachelor, you were chosen. I was the 166 00:07:38,200 --> 00:07:43,680 Speaker 3: chosen on you declined politely, politely. Yeah, then you guys 167 00:07:43,760 --> 00:07:46,560 Speaker 3: kept dating, Yeah yeah, yeah, okay, and then that did 168 00:07:46,560 --> 00:07:47,160 Speaker 3: not work out. 169 00:07:47,360 --> 00:07:48,880 Speaker 2: Right. Are you guys still friends? 170 00:07:49,440 --> 00:07:49,640 Speaker 1: Yeah? 171 00:07:49,680 --> 00:07:54,640 Speaker 5: I would say we are friendly for sure. I think 172 00:07:54,760 --> 00:07:56,600 Speaker 5: we've held each other through a lot in the past 173 00:07:56,680 --> 00:07:59,040 Speaker 5: few years. He's actually going through like so much right 174 00:07:59,080 --> 00:08:02,960 Speaker 5: now still, and I stayed in touch with him through 175 00:08:03,000 --> 00:08:04,440 Speaker 5: a lot of that. We would be at the same events, 176 00:08:04,440 --> 00:08:05,760 Speaker 5: we'd catch up when we when he. 177 00:08:05,720 --> 00:08:06,239 Speaker 1: Was in town. 178 00:08:07,920 --> 00:08:09,920 Speaker 5: But now I do feel like there comes a point 179 00:08:09,920 --> 00:08:12,160 Speaker 5: when you like start a new relationship when you're like, okay, 180 00:08:12,160 --> 00:08:15,560 Speaker 5: it's like probably not super appropriate to like stay as 181 00:08:15,600 --> 00:08:18,280 Speaker 5: friendly as we were staying. So we don't really like 182 00:08:18,320 --> 00:08:20,360 Speaker 5: I don't shoot him texts or anything that we're Before 183 00:08:20,400 --> 00:08:21,920 Speaker 5: when I was single, i'd be like, hey, like I 184 00:08:22,000 --> 00:08:23,920 Speaker 5: kind of saw this, I hope you're doing. Okay, we're now. 185 00:08:24,280 --> 00:08:26,239 Speaker 5: We do like support each other on social media and whatever, 186 00:08:26,320 --> 00:08:29,080 Speaker 5: but we don't really like call each other to catch. 187 00:08:28,960 --> 00:08:31,320 Speaker 2: Up, right, Okay, So like no ill, no ill, will 188 00:08:31,440 --> 00:08:31,840 Speaker 2: not at all. 189 00:08:31,880 --> 00:08:32,560 Speaker 1: I think of anything. 190 00:08:32,600 --> 00:08:35,439 Speaker 5: We like really support and like love each other from 191 00:08:35,520 --> 00:08:36,560 Speaker 5: a friendship level. 192 00:08:36,720 --> 00:08:37,760 Speaker 2: So why didn't it work? 193 00:08:38,559 --> 00:08:41,360 Speaker 5: I think we're just so different. I think we're really 194 00:08:41,400 --> 00:08:43,440 Speaker 5: different people. I think we kind of like wanted different 195 00:08:43,480 --> 00:08:47,560 Speaker 5: things in life. And I also think that it's I 196 00:08:47,559 --> 00:08:50,520 Speaker 5: think it's almost a miracle if you make it, Like 197 00:08:50,520 --> 00:08:53,720 Speaker 5: if you're the person that ends up with the lead 198 00:08:53,800 --> 00:08:57,480 Speaker 5: on a show you barely know each other, like you 199 00:08:58,040 --> 00:09:00,800 Speaker 5: and everybody you barely know the like I feel like 200 00:09:00,800 --> 00:09:02,960 Speaker 5: the women know each other so much better than the men, 201 00:09:03,440 --> 00:09:05,760 Speaker 5: or that you know like the lead, whichever way it is, 202 00:09:05,800 --> 00:09:08,800 Speaker 5: if it's a bachelor, bachelorette, And then when you get 203 00:09:08,840 --> 00:09:11,000 Speaker 5: into the real world, like he didn't know me, I 204 00:09:11,000 --> 00:09:12,920 Speaker 5: didn't know him, and all of a sudden, we're like 205 00:09:13,000 --> 00:09:16,560 Speaker 5: living together in Virginia, and I think it's hard for him, 206 00:09:16,600 --> 00:09:19,559 Speaker 5: Like he moved into my environment like with my family 207 00:09:19,600 --> 00:09:22,400 Speaker 5: around with my friends, and it's probably really hard for 208 00:09:22,520 --> 00:09:25,560 Speaker 5: him to like build a life there and be happy. 209 00:09:26,559 --> 00:09:30,600 Speaker 5: And then for me, I think it was just like 210 00:09:30,840 --> 00:09:34,160 Speaker 5: having certain expectations of a relationship where I think I 211 00:09:34,160 --> 00:09:36,960 Speaker 5: think we just had different expectations from a partners, like 212 00:09:37,000 --> 00:09:39,960 Speaker 5: what you expect from a partner, and I just like 213 00:09:40,040 --> 00:09:42,360 Speaker 5: didn't work. And I think it would have been a 214 00:09:42,360 --> 00:09:44,360 Speaker 5: miracle if it had for anybody. Like I think it's 215 00:09:44,400 --> 00:09:46,559 Speaker 5: just you don't know each other when you come off 216 00:09:46,559 --> 00:09:48,040 Speaker 5: the show, so you're kind of like making it. I 217 00:09:48,120 --> 00:09:50,160 Speaker 5: hate to say a blind choice, but it's almost like 218 00:09:50,200 --> 00:09:51,480 Speaker 5: a blind choice, right, Like it's like. 219 00:09:51,480 --> 00:09:53,280 Speaker 3: At the end of it, you've probably gone on like 220 00:09:53,760 --> 00:09:55,120 Speaker 3: three or four dates to a yeah. 221 00:09:55,200 --> 00:09:58,079 Speaker 4: Yeah. I don't think people I don't think people watching 222 00:09:58,240 --> 00:10:01,800 Speaker 4: realize how little time you are with that person, right Like, 223 00:10:02,040 --> 00:10:04,160 Speaker 4: if you're watching this season or you're watching right now, 224 00:10:04,360 --> 00:10:06,880 Speaker 4: are you caught up? So Like the last episode, Daisy 225 00:10:06,960 --> 00:10:08,200 Speaker 4: was like, I don't know if I'm in love with him, 226 00:10:08,240 --> 00:10:10,400 Speaker 4: which is to me, I had the same thing on 227 00:10:10,440 --> 00:10:13,240 Speaker 4: my on my season. I couldn't The producers are like, 228 00:10:13,280 --> 00:10:14,040 Speaker 4: are you falling in love? 229 00:10:14,120 --> 00:10:16,600 Speaker 1: Are you in love? And I'm like no, Like I've 230 00:10:16,640 --> 00:10:17,200 Speaker 1: talked to me. 231 00:10:17,880 --> 00:10:19,040 Speaker 2: Like do I believe in love? 232 00:10:19,200 --> 00:10:23,120 Speaker 1: Yeah? Is this love thing real? Yeah? 233 00:10:23,360 --> 00:10:26,040 Speaker 4: It doesn't feel so cool, But when you're watching it, 234 00:10:26,040 --> 00:10:27,960 Speaker 4: it's like, how could you not be in love? Like, 235 00:10:28,040 --> 00:10:29,640 Speaker 4: look at all these dates your own, Look at all 236 00:10:29,679 --> 00:10:32,640 Speaker 4: this time you're spending together. But I think I made 237 00:10:32,640 --> 00:10:34,120 Speaker 4: it to the end and I would say that we 238 00:10:34,240 --> 00:10:35,400 Speaker 4: spent a total of. 239 00:10:37,040 --> 00:10:38,320 Speaker 1: Twenty four hours together. 240 00:10:38,440 --> 00:10:40,080 Speaker 2: Max. It's so crazy. 241 00:10:40,280 --> 00:10:41,080 Speaker 1: That's how I felt too. 242 00:10:41,160 --> 00:10:42,760 Speaker 5: I was like, we've known you other, like we've been 243 00:10:42,760 --> 00:10:45,679 Speaker 5: in the same vicinity for maybe twenty four hours. 244 00:10:45,800 --> 00:10:47,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, really, does that you understand that I have like 245 00:10:47,920 --> 00:10:50,000 Speaker 3: cartons of eggs in my refrigerator longer? 246 00:10:50,160 --> 00:10:54,000 Speaker 1: Yeah? Literally? Really, you know those eggs better and he 247 00:10:54,080 --> 00:10:54,400 Speaker 1: knew me. 248 00:10:54,760 --> 00:10:57,800 Speaker 3: I do know they last long far afresh. 249 00:10:58,040 --> 00:10:59,680 Speaker 2: That's a long long time. 250 00:11:00,120 --> 00:11:02,880 Speaker 1: So it was a breakup mutual for y'all. I think 251 00:11:03,400 --> 00:11:05,760 Speaker 1: I think at the at that point it was. 252 00:11:07,200 --> 00:11:09,200 Speaker 5: Technically like I'm the one that brought up the conversation, 253 00:11:09,320 --> 00:11:11,880 Speaker 5: but I think he was like, thank god the thank 254 00:11:11,920 --> 00:11:13,080 Speaker 5: god you're doing it, not me. 255 00:11:13,200 --> 00:11:13,800 Speaker 1: But I think we. 256 00:11:13,800 --> 00:11:15,440 Speaker 5: Both were at the point where we were just we 257 00:11:15,440 --> 00:11:18,280 Speaker 5: were like just getting into little fights so much, and 258 00:11:18,320 --> 00:11:22,720 Speaker 5: it was like I also think that. I also think 259 00:11:22,760 --> 00:11:26,880 Speaker 5: that I was like embraced by Bachelor Nation, like the 260 00:11:26,920 --> 00:11:30,160 Speaker 5: audience a little bit more than he was. And doesn't 261 00:11:30,160 --> 00:11:31,760 Speaker 5: mean I didn't get like a ton of hate and 262 00:11:31,800 --> 00:11:33,840 Speaker 5: like horrible messages and all the things that come with it. 263 00:11:34,360 --> 00:11:38,120 Speaker 5: But I think I was just like I say that 264 00:11:38,440 --> 00:11:42,720 Speaker 5: because I was open to the opportunities we were getting. 265 00:11:42,800 --> 00:11:45,800 Speaker 1: And I feel like at that point, like. 266 00:11:45,800 --> 00:11:49,040 Speaker 5: Clayton was very anti social media, like there was a 267 00:11:49,080 --> 00:11:50,480 Speaker 5: point where he was like, I want to like delete 268 00:11:50,480 --> 00:11:52,280 Speaker 5: my Instagram, Like I don't even want to be on 269 00:11:52,320 --> 00:11:53,640 Speaker 5: social media. I don't want to take any of these 270 00:11:53,679 --> 00:11:55,920 Speaker 5: opportunities because it was really. 271 00:11:55,640 --> 00:11:56,760 Speaker 1: Bad for his mental health. 272 00:11:57,679 --> 00:12:00,440 Speaker 5: And I totally get that, and I remember, like the 273 00:12:00,520 --> 00:12:03,600 Speaker 5: manager I was working with was like, just like encourage 274 00:12:03,679 --> 00:12:06,400 Speaker 5: him to just try, because ten years from now, he's 275 00:12:06,440 --> 00:12:08,440 Speaker 5: going to regret not seizing the moment and like taking 276 00:12:08,440 --> 00:12:13,240 Speaker 5: the opportunity. And now, like we've since had conversations where 277 00:12:13,240 --> 00:12:15,720 Speaker 5: he's like I get it. He's like, there's so many 278 00:12:15,760 --> 00:12:18,160 Speaker 5: opportunities and even if it's not about like making money 279 00:12:18,280 --> 00:12:22,480 Speaker 5: or anything, but it's about career freedom, you know, like 280 00:12:22,559 --> 00:12:24,680 Speaker 5: being able to do something that's different. He's like doing 281 00:12:24,720 --> 00:12:28,800 Speaker 5: real estate now, and he posted these dancing videos. 282 00:12:29,040 --> 00:12:31,719 Speaker 1: Yes, I honestly I think it's great, but. 283 00:12:32,080 --> 00:12:34,840 Speaker 4: Yeah, he I think he found something that he enjoys doing, 284 00:12:34,840 --> 00:12:38,520 Speaker 4: and he it seems like he's not taking it so seriously. 285 00:12:38,120 --> 00:12:40,240 Speaker 1: Right, and he's just saying, well, do dust off the 286 00:12:40,280 --> 00:12:43,120 Speaker 1: hayten because people rip him for these dance videos now. 287 00:12:43,280 --> 00:12:45,080 Speaker 5: But he's like, bring it on, because I'm selling real 288 00:12:45,120 --> 00:12:49,000 Speaker 5: estate and you're getting me views. And that's where that's 289 00:12:49,000 --> 00:12:51,280 Speaker 5: the attitude. And he's because we have sense talked and 290 00:12:51,320 --> 00:12:53,840 Speaker 5: he's like, there's such an opportunity in social media, like 291 00:12:54,240 --> 00:12:57,280 Speaker 5: I have more financial freedom, I have more freedom in 292 00:12:57,320 --> 00:13:00,320 Speaker 5: my life. Like it has blessed him in so many 293 00:13:00,360 --> 00:13:03,280 Speaker 5: ways that he now sees. But in the moment, there 294 00:13:03,320 --> 00:13:07,040 Speaker 5: was just so much heat that I even think that 295 00:13:07,080 --> 00:13:09,679 Speaker 5: was a point of friction for us because like I 296 00:13:09,760 --> 00:13:13,400 Speaker 5: wasn't like I wasn't getting as much heat, and and 297 00:13:13,480 --> 00:13:14,920 Speaker 5: he was so like I could post and it would 298 00:13:14,920 --> 00:13:15,320 Speaker 5: be received. 299 00:13:15,320 --> 00:13:16,599 Speaker 1: Well, he could post and it'd. 300 00:13:16,320 --> 00:13:21,120 Speaker 5: Be horrible, like like horrible comments, like mean stuff towards him. 301 00:13:21,920 --> 00:13:24,040 Speaker 5: And I think it was just like hard to navigate 302 00:13:24,080 --> 00:13:27,280 Speaker 5: the whole thing, not just the relationship, but like being 303 00:13:27,400 --> 00:13:30,320 Speaker 5: a public couple. Now that half the people hate you, 304 00:13:30,400 --> 00:13:32,760 Speaker 5: half the people like one of you, half people like 305 00:13:32,800 --> 00:13:33,040 Speaker 5: the other. 306 00:13:33,200 --> 00:13:35,440 Speaker 1: It's like it was so split. So it was just 307 00:13:35,440 --> 00:13:36,880 Speaker 1: a really hard thing. 308 00:13:37,040 --> 00:13:40,280 Speaker 5: So by the time it was like, oh, like by 309 00:13:40,280 --> 00:13:43,160 Speaker 5: the time the relationship was over, we really did love 310 00:13:43,200 --> 00:13:44,720 Speaker 5: and care about each other so much, but it was 311 00:13:44,760 --> 00:13:47,920 Speaker 5: like we have just been through so much and I 312 00:13:47,920 --> 00:13:51,080 Speaker 5: think we're just different people, we want different things, and 313 00:13:51,600 --> 00:13:52,480 Speaker 5: it just didn't work. 314 00:13:52,960 --> 00:13:57,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, you were working at a restaurant when it 315 00:13:57,280 --> 00:13:57,720 Speaker 4: was airing. 316 00:13:58,080 --> 00:13:59,719 Speaker 1: Yes, okay, so I heard. 317 00:13:59,720 --> 00:14:02,400 Speaker 4: I listen to Jason Tartik's podcast, so I got a 318 00:14:02,440 --> 00:14:05,560 Speaker 4: little over your backstory on this, so I know that 319 00:14:05,840 --> 00:14:10,320 Speaker 4: that's such a crazy experience to be working at the job. 320 00:14:10,440 --> 00:14:12,679 Speaker 1: Were you there before you went on the show? Yes, 321 00:14:13,080 --> 00:14:16,200 Speaker 1: I started. So I started my business a few years prior. 322 00:14:16,280 --> 00:14:19,360 Speaker 1: But it's just it's just like hard as a videographer. 323 00:14:19,360 --> 00:14:21,320 Speaker 1: There's seasons where weddings happen, seasons really don't. 324 00:14:21,320 --> 00:14:23,800 Speaker 5: So this summer before going on the show, I got 325 00:14:23,800 --> 00:14:26,160 Speaker 5: a job at Chick's Oyster Bar and then went on 326 00:14:26,200 --> 00:14:27,560 Speaker 5: the show. When I came back, I didn't have a 327 00:14:27,560 --> 00:14:29,440 Speaker 5: wedding for like three or four months. So I was like, 328 00:14:30,000 --> 00:14:32,160 Speaker 5: I really got to like make some money so I 329 00:14:32,200 --> 00:14:33,320 Speaker 5: could go back to wateresting. 330 00:14:33,520 --> 00:14:35,800 Speaker 1: So I went back into the same waitress job that 331 00:14:35,840 --> 00:14:36,440 Speaker 1: I had before. 332 00:14:36,600 --> 00:14:38,400 Speaker 4: Yeah, because I went back to my job after I 333 00:14:38,400 --> 00:14:41,240 Speaker 4: was on A two. And it was such an interesting 334 00:14:41,280 --> 00:14:44,600 Speaker 4: experience because I would be I think you mentioned this 335 00:14:44,680 --> 00:14:49,400 Speaker 4: on Jason's podcast, but every Tuesday, well every day after Monday, Yeah, 336 00:14:49,440 --> 00:14:51,640 Speaker 4: people would come in and I would be repeating the 337 00:14:51,760 --> 00:14:55,400 Speaker 4: same stories over and over again. Ask the same questions 338 00:14:55,440 --> 00:14:56,920 Speaker 4: over and over again, and in my mind, I'm like, 339 00:14:57,000 --> 00:15:00,960 Speaker 4: I know they're excited, but also this is crazy exhaust Yeah, 340 00:15:01,480 --> 00:15:03,040 Speaker 4: so that was kind of when I made that shift 341 00:15:03,080 --> 00:15:05,920 Speaker 4: of Okay, what's my next move. Did you have that 342 00:15:06,000 --> 00:15:10,240 Speaker 4: moment working at the restaurant before you moved to La Yeah. 343 00:15:09,960 --> 00:15:11,560 Speaker 1: I definitely did. Uh. 344 00:15:12,400 --> 00:15:14,800 Speaker 5: I've I've always loved working in restaurants, Like I've done 345 00:15:14,840 --> 00:15:16,960 Speaker 5: it since I was sixteen. I was like a hostess, 346 00:15:17,000 --> 00:15:19,240 Speaker 5: and all through college I did it. And then when 347 00:15:19,280 --> 00:15:21,480 Speaker 5: I started my business, I worked at a Hilton for 348 00:15:21,520 --> 00:15:23,520 Speaker 5: a bit, like in the restaurants, and then I worked 349 00:15:23,560 --> 00:15:25,840 Speaker 5: at Chicksoystupa, which is like just a fun local spot 350 00:15:25,880 --> 00:15:30,360 Speaker 5: in Virginia Beach. So I've just always loved hospitality. And 351 00:15:30,440 --> 00:15:33,440 Speaker 5: so even when I was like making more money, I 352 00:15:33,440 --> 00:15:34,560 Speaker 5: was like doing brand deals and I was like, I 353 00:15:34,560 --> 00:15:36,880 Speaker 5: still want to work like my one Wednesday shift at Chicks, 354 00:15:36,880 --> 00:15:38,800 Speaker 5: Like I just love it and the beach that it's 355 00:15:38,840 --> 00:15:40,440 Speaker 5: on it's called Chicks, That's why it's called Chicks. 356 00:15:40,440 --> 00:15:42,480 Speaker 1: And so it was just like a fun vibe. 357 00:15:42,840 --> 00:15:47,040 Speaker 5: But it started to become distracting, Like it was definitely 358 00:15:47,080 --> 00:15:49,400 Speaker 5: not like I was like, oh, like this isn't It 359 00:15:49,440 --> 00:15:51,280 Speaker 5: was probably good for the business, but it wasn't good 360 00:15:51,320 --> 00:15:54,600 Speaker 5: for like me as a waitress. Like people would people 361 00:15:54,640 --> 00:15:56,400 Speaker 5: would want pictures or they would call and be like, 362 00:15:56,440 --> 00:15:58,400 Speaker 5: as Susie working tonight and can I sit in her section? 363 00:15:58,560 --> 00:16:00,800 Speaker 5: And like it was like funny, but it was also 364 00:16:01,120 --> 00:16:04,680 Speaker 5: just like it wasn't working, and I was like how 365 00:16:04,800 --> 00:16:06,880 Speaker 5: crazy it was, Like, yeah, it was like kind of 366 00:16:06,880 --> 00:16:08,640 Speaker 5: funny because to me, I just like wanted to go 367 00:16:08,680 --> 00:16:10,800 Speaker 5: back to my life because I loved my life before 368 00:16:10,800 --> 00:16:14,160 Speaker 5: the show, Like I was living literally steps away from 369 00:16:14,200 --> 00:16:17,280 Speaker 5: the beach. I just I just like had a really 370 00:16:17,360 --> 00:16:19,280 Speaker 5: fun year the year before it was like a really 371 00:16:19,320 --> 00:16:23,920 Speaker 5: good year coming out of COVID, and then it, Yeah, 372 00:16:24,080 --> 00:16:25,640 Speaker 5: just my life was just different, and I was like, oh, 373 00:16:25,680 --> 00:16:27,640 Speaker 5: it's like not the same. Like I can't just like 374 00:16:27,720 --> 00:16:31,640 Speaker 5: have my like business and then my like side hustle job, 375 00:16:31,720 --> 00:16:33,880 Speaker 5: and it's just it just wasn't the same. So I 376 00:16:33,920 --> 00:16:36,200 Speaker 5: definitely had that realization at some point where I was 377 00:16:36,240 --> 00:16:38,280 Speaker 5: like I really can't be doing my Wednesday nights at 378 00:16:38,360 --> 00:16:42,720 Speaker 5: Chicks anymore. It's just not gonna it's just not working 379 00:16:43,000 --> 00:16:43,680 Speaker 5: for anybody. 380 00:16:43,960 --> 00:16:46,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, So that when you moved to La, Yeah, when 381 00:16:46,080 --> 00:16:48,040 Speaker 1: did you move to La So I was planning. Clayton 382 00:16:48,080 --> 00:16:49,720 Speaker 1: and I were planning to move to Arizona because I 383 00:16:49,720 --> 00:16:50,760 Speaker 1: think it was hard for him. 384 00:16:50,800 --> 00:16:52,320 Speaker 5: I don't know that he's like beach guy, you know, 385 00:16:52,880 --> 00:16:55,840 Speaker 5: oh interesting, Yeah. 386 00:16:54,920 --> 00:16:56,760 Speaker 1: But he's a scot stale guy, which like makes sense. 387 00:16:56,760 --> 00:16:59,080 Speaker 5: I feel like that works for him. His brothers lived there, 388 00:16:59,240 --> 00:17:01,560 Speaker 5: so we were like okay. I was like, I'm okay 389 00:17:01,600 --> 00:17:04,040 Speaker 5: to relocate, Like, I'm okay to pivot. I can move 390 00:17:04,080 --> 00:17:05,639 Speaker 5: my business. I went, I started doing it. 391 00:17:05,640 --> 00:17:07,880 Speaker 3: You're an organism, you can Oh, I'm on an organ 392 00:17:07,920 --> 00:17:11,560 Speaker 3: I can float. Yeah, yeah, I can float. So I 393 00:17:11,720 --> 00:17:14,439 Speaker 3: was taking no, I wasn't doing any more Virginia weddings. 394 00:17:14,440 --> 00:17:16,639 Speaker 3: I was doing only destinations, so it was taking a 395 00:17:16,680 --> 00:17:19,160 Speaker 3: lot less but they were kind of cooler, and I was. 396 00:17:19,080 --> 00:17:21,280 Speaker 5: Like, I can fly from anywhere. So we started to 397 00:17:21,320 --> 00:17:24,479 Speaker 5: make that transition and then we broke up. So then 398 00:17:24,520 --> 00:17:29,639 Speaker 5: it was like we moved out and maybe September no, 399 00:17:29,800 --> 00:17:32,080 Speaker 5: I think it was October maybe I don't know. And 400 00:17:32,880 --> 00:17:34,240 Speaker 5: I was just kind of like, well, I'm not going 401 00:17:34,280 --> 00:17:36,399 Speaker 5: to Arizona now, and so I was like, well, I 402 00:17:36,400 --> 00:17:38,720 Speaker 5: should just like do something like should I go to 403 00:17:38,760 --> 00:17:39,120 Speaker 5: New York. 404 00:17:39,119 --> 00:17:40,280 Speaker 1: I've always loved New York. 405 00:17:41,200 --> 00:17:43,320 Speaker 5: The manager that I was working with and still do, 406 00:17:43,480 --> 00:17:46,120 Speaker 5: she's amazing. And she was like, honestly, I feel like La, 407 00:17:46,359 --> 00:17:48,600 Speaker 5: Like you need to be in La. It's such a vibe. 408 00:17:48,640 --> 00:17:50,679 Speaker 5: It would just like you would fit right in. It 409 00:17:50,680 --> 00:17:53,600 Speaker 5: would suit either. So many more opportunities, like you can 410 00:17:53,640 --> 00:17:57,000 Speaker 5: build something of your yourself there, Like it's just the 411 00:17:57,080 --> 00:17:57,919 Speaker 5: land of opportunities. 412 00:17:57,960 --> 00:18:00,159 Speaker 1: And I was like, you know what, I might, I 413 00:18:00,240 --> 00:18:02,000 Speaker 1: might as well? Yeah, I did, like. 414 00:18:01,960 --> 00:18:05,159 Speaker 5: A month Subley or no, two months Subley's in Santa Monica. 415 00:18:06,160 --> 00:18:07,760 Speaker 1: Loved it. And then while I was out here, I 416 00:18:07,800 --> 00:18:10,639 Speaker 1: looked for apartments and got a spot. So is that 417 00:18:10,680 --> 00:18:13,320 Speaker 1: when you moved in with Justin and Andrew? Okay, we 418 00:18:13,440 --> 00:18:15,920 Speaker 1: never moved in together. Oh what crazy story. 419 00:18:15,920 --> 00:18:17,800 Speaker 5: I know everyone thinks we did because we were going 420 00:18:17,880 --> 00:18:22,560 Speaker 5: to all three be roommates. But then the Bachelor with 421 00:18:22,600 --> 00:18:26,440 Speaker 5: the Bachelorette came knocking on my door, and so I 422 00:18:26,480 --> 00:18:28,000 Speaker 5: took the like I went through the. 423 00:18:27,920 --> 00:18:30,120 Speaker 2: Process and they wanted you to be the Bachelorette. Yeah, 424 00:18:30,320 --> 00:18:32,240 Speaker 2: and who would it be? Whose season? Would it have been? 425 00:18:33,160 --> 00:18:34,959 Speaker 1: Charity? Yeah? So the same season as Hurt. 426 00:18:35,119 --> 00:18:40,560 Speaker 5: Yeah, so me, Justin Andrew were literally like so close 427 00:18:40,640 --> 00:18:44,679 Speaker 5: to getting an apartment altogether and becoming roommates. And I 428 00:18:44,800 --> 00:18:49,359 Speaker 5: was like in La interviewing for the Bachelorette, and I 429 00:18:49,400 --> 00:18:51,280 Speaker 5: was like, by the way, like I'm about to move 430 00:18:51,320 --> 00:18:54,159 Speaker 5: in with Andrew and justin like there's no conflict of 431 00:18:54,240 --> 00:18:56,040 Speaker 5: interest there, right, Like that's not going to be. 432 00:18:56,040 --> 00:18:58,800 Speaker 1: Like a bad look or something like. 433 00:18:59,280 --> 00:19:02,440 Speaker 5: And they were like, it's maybe not the best, Like 434 00:19:02,520 --> 00:19:04,640 Speaker 5: I can't tell you yes or non obviously, like we're 435 00:19:04,640 --> 00:19:06,520 Speaker 5: not telling you if you are the bachelorrette or not, 436 00:19:06,680 --> 00:19:09,720 Speaker 5: but like may not be the best move, like it 437 00:19:09,800 --> 00:19:11,320 Speaker 5: might ruffle feathers. 438 00:19:10,960 --> 00:19:12,440 Speaker 1: I don't know, blah blah blah. 439 00:19:12,440 --> 00:19:14,320 Speaker 5: And so I couldn't tell the guys that I was 440 00:19:14,359 --> 00:19:16,240 Speaker 5: interviewing for it, so I just had to like kind 441 00:19:16,240 --> 00:19:17,959 Speaker 5: of bail on them. And I was like, I'm so sorry, 442 00:19:18,119 --> 00:19:20,040 Speaker 5: like something has come up with work and I don't 443 00:19:20,080 --> 00:19:21,760 Speaker 5: think I'm gonna be able to do this and whatever. 444 00:19:21,880 --> 00:19:23,959 Speaker 5: They were both kind of bitter towards me. They were 445 00:19:23,960 --> 00:19:25,520 Speaker 5: both kind of like mad at me. They were like 446 00:19:25,640 --> 00:19:28,560 Speaker 5: that They're like, oh my god, like you're so flaky 447 00:19:28,640 --> 00:19:30,560 Speaker 5: kind of you know, And I felt so bad. I 448 00:19:30,600 --> 00:19:33,000 Speaker 5: couldn't tell them I was like, I feel so bad, 449 00:19:33,000 --> 00:19:34,640 Speaker 5: but if you knew what it was like, you would 450 00:19:34,640 --> 00:19:37,000 Speaker 5: of course support me because it's a huge opportunity whatever. 451 00:19:37,800 --> 00:19:39,160 Speaker 5: So it is the day I found out I didn't 452 00:19:39,160 --> 00:19:40,840 Speaker 5: get it, they were like the second or third people 453 00:19:40,880 --> 00:19:42,240 Speaker 5: I texted. I was like, by the way, like, I 454 00:19:42,280 --> 00:19:44,520 Speaker 5: feel like such an a hole, but this is why 455 00:19:44,520 --> 00:19:46,560 Speaker 5: I couldn't, Like I've been with you guys to do 456 00:19:46,600 --> 00:19:49,520 Speaker 5: a subleast, and they were like super supportive and so 457 00:19:49,640 --> 00:19:53,080 Speaker 5: understanding and stuff, and they were my friends throughout it anyways. 458 00:19:54,640 --> 00:19:56,560 Speaker 1: So yeah, we never lived together, but we all moved 459 00:19:56,560 --> 00:19:59,320 Speaker 1: to LA and subleased separately at the same time. 460 00:19:59,560 --> 00:20:02,479 Speaker 3: Wait, I need to back up. When they did they 461 00:20:02,480 --> 00:20:04,680 Speaker 3: tell you didn't get the Bachelorette after. 462 00:20:04,520 --> 00:20:06,520 Speaker 5: Yeah, but it was like several months of me just 463 00:20:06,560 --> 00:20:07,879 Speaker 5: being like in limbo. 464 00:20:08,400 --> 00:20:10,680 Speaker 2: And so when they say like, oh, sorry you didn't 465 00:20:10,680 --> 00:20:12,040 Speaker 2: get the role or like what are they say? 466 00:20:12,200 --> 00:20:15,400 Speaker 5: Yeah, they called me, and well I had called them 467 00:20:15,680 --> 00:20:18,040 Speaker 5: at one point because I was like, I am like 468 00:20:18,240 --> 00:20:21,000 Speaker 5: spending so much money saw bleasing in Santa Monica, and 469 00:20:21,040 --> 00:20:22,560 Speaker 5: I like, you need to know if I'm getting a 470 00:20:22,560 --> 00:20:25,480 Speaker 5: permanent apartment or if I'm just gonna like write like 471 00:20:25,560 --> 00:20:27,480 Speaker 5: pick up and leave in a month or whatever, and 472 00:20:27,520 --> 00:20:29,320 Speaker 5: I was kind of like, I was like, I don't 473 00:20:29,400 --> 00:20:30,160 Speaker 5: care either. 474 00:20:29,960 --> 00:20:32,000 Speaker 1: Way, just let me know, let me know. 475 00:20:32,160 --> 00:20:34,320 Speaker 5: Yeah, And so then like three days later I got 476 00:20:34,359 --> 00:20:35,720 Speaker 5: a call and they were like, hey, we've decided to 477 00:20:35,720 --> 00:20:37,800 Speaker 5: go in a different direction. And then the next Monday 478 00:20:37,840 --> 00:20:40,119 Speaker 5: it was announced and I was like, okay, cool, like 479 00:20:40,680 --> 00:20:42,679 Speaker 5: I can. I just wanted to wanted to know. I 480 00:20:42,720 --> 00:20:44,040 Speaker 5: was like, I just need to know for like my 481 00:20:44,119 --> 00:20:44,840 Speaker 5: life plans. 482 00:20:44,960 --> 00:20:45,160 Speaker 4: Right. 483 00:20:45,560 --> 00:20:47,400 Speaker 1: They did that to me too. I don't know why 484 00:20:47,440 --> 00:20:49,119 Speaker 1: they Yeah, I don't know. 485 00:20:49,240 --> 00:20:51,760 Speaker 3: I to go in a different direction is the most 486 00:20:52,040 --> 00:20:54,800 Speaker 3: annoying word that ever. 487 00:20:54,800 --> 00:20:57,240 Speaker 4: Literally, but my the other direction they went in was 488 00:20:57,280 --> 00:21:00,359 Speaker 4: on Caitlin and Bristow and Brent were the dual. 489 00:21:00,680 --> 00:21:02,480 Speaker 1: I was like, honestly, I'm glad I'm. 490 00:21:02,359 --> 00:21:05,240 Speaker 3: Not a part I hate that decided to go in 491 00:21:05,240 --> 00:21:07,239 Speaker 3: a different direction, Like really, what direction is that? 492 00:21:07,400 --> 00:21:07,480 Speaker 4: Just? 493 00:21:07,520 --> 00:21:07,800 Speaker 3: Not me? 494 00:21:08,119 --> 00:21:10,160 Speaker 1: Not my direction? Not this direction? 495 00:21:10,359 --> 00:21:13,000 Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, thank you for trying to us offten the blow. 496 00:21:13,160 --> 00:21:15,919 Speaker 4: Okay, I think we need to take a break, but 497 00:21:16,160 --> 00:21:18,720 Speaker 4: I want to ask about because you and Justin were 498 00:21:18,760 --> 00:21:22,600 Speaker 4: friends and I have some questions about that time before 499 00:21:23,119 --> 00:21:24,119 Speaker 4: it became romantic. 500 00:21:24,520 --> 00:21:45,399 Speaker 1: We'll be right back all right, we are back. 501 00:21:46,040 --> 00:21:49,600 Speaker 4: So, your current boyfriend, Justin is who we were talking 502 00:21:49,640 --> 00:21:53,920 Speaker 4: about earlier, and you were best friends with him and Andrew. 503 00:21:53,560 --> 00:21:55,000 Speaker 1: Like y'all were like a little trio. 504 00:21:55,359 --> 00:21:58,000 Speaker 4: I felt like y'all were always at events together, making 505 00:21:58,080 --> 00:21:58,840 Speaker 4: videos together. 506 00:21:59,119 --> 00:22:00,000 Speaker 2: Yeah. 507 00:22:00,160 --> 00:22:04,960 Speaker 4: So were y'all open about dating? Were y'all open about 508 00:22:04,960 --> 00:22:06,680 Speaker 4: your dating lives when y'all were just friends? 509 00:22:06,800 --> 00:22:12,360 Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, it's actually kind of weird. Now I'm like, oh, 510 00:22:12,400 --> 00:22:15,360 Speaker 1: I know too much, but I wanted to know. 511 00:22:15,640 --> 00:22:18,159 Speaker 5: Yeah, I feel like I mean I say that, but 512 00:22:18,200 --> 00:22:22,359 Speaker 5: I'm like, you just when you're friends with somebody. It 513 00:22:22,400 --> 00:22:24,600 Speaker 5: was it was a good dynamic because it was Andrew 514 00:22:24,600 --> 00:22:26,840 Speaker 5: and Justin and then me, so they were like the 515 00:22:26,840 --> 00:22:30,600 Speaker 5: besties and then I was kind of like the the 516 00:22:30,640 --> 00:22:32,639 Speaker 5: addition to the group or whatever, and it was like 517 00:22:32,880 --> 00:22:33,480 Speaker 5: it just worked. 518 00:22:33,480 --> 00:22:34,400 Speaker 1: The dynamics were well. 519 00:22:34,400 --> 00:22:36,520 Speaker 5: It was always like them too, and then me pretty 520 00:22:36,560 --> 00:22:40,600 Speaker 5: much and until Andrew left. But yeah, I had a 521 00:22:40,640 --> 00:22:44,600 Speaker 5: boyfriend for like a hot minute there, like like I think, 522 00:22:44,840 --> 00:22:46,679 Speaker 5: well he was my boyfriend. Like we called each other 523 00:22:46,760 --> 00:22:48,959 Speaker 5: boyfriend and girlfriend. It felt a little early for me. 524 00:22:49,040 --> 00:22:52,280 Speaker 1: I was like, it feels fait early, but we technically 525 00:22:52,320 --> 00:22:55,359 Speaker 1: were boyfriend and girlfriend. It was the airport line. 526 00:22:55,920 --> 00:22:59,280 Speaker 2: Yes, well he made you a airport sign. 527 00:22:59,480 --> 00:22:59,640 Speaker 4: Yeah. 528 00:23:00,240 --> 00:23:03,040 Speaker 2: When he came back to Lax, Yeah, like, Zoozie, this 529 00:23:03,080 --> 00:23:03,760 Speaker 2: is for you. 530 00:23:04,000 --> 00:23:06,680 Speaker 1: Like be my girlfriend. Yeah, that's so cute. 531 00:23:06,800 --> 00:23:10,439 Speaker 5: I know, but like if it's the right person, and 532 00:23:10,480 --> 00:23:13,600 Speaker 5: it was just a little early, I was. 533 00:23:14,440 --> 00:23:15,000 Speaker 2: Not long. 534 00:23:16,160 --> 00:23:18,000 Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know a couple of weeks, 535 00:23:18,200 --> 00:23:21,119 Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't remember. I feel bad. I 536 00:23:21,119 --> 00:23:24,520 Speaker 1: don't know something that I would. 537 00:23:24,400 --> 00:23:26,320 Speaker 2: Do, Like, that's literally something I would do. 538 00:23:26,320 --> 00:23:28,640 Speaker 1: Don't make the sun the dating. 539 00:23:28,680 --> 00:23:30,479 Speaker 3: I'm like, what's your favorite cookie? I'm gonna send you 540 00:23:30,480 --> 00:23:31,760 Speaker 3: every flavor of this side. 541 00:23:31,560 --> 00:23:34,439 Speaker 1: Of yeah west side. No, I'm the same way. I 542 00:23:34,480 --> 00:23:36,280 Speaker 1: feel like if Justin did that, I'd be like, oh, 543 00:23:36,520 --> 00:23:37,000 Speaker 1: that's so cute. 544 00:23:37,000 --> 00:23:38,600 Speaker 5: But Justin would never do that, you know what I mean, 545 00:23:38,640 --> 00:23:42,560 Speaker 5: Like he probably never be that person, but if it, yeah, 546 00:23:42,560 --> 00:23:44,920 Speaker 5: I feel like it's if it's the right person, it's 547 00:23:44,960 --> 00:23:46,840 Speaker 5: so cute. It would be so cute. I don't know 548 00:23:46,960 --> 00:23:50,119 Speaker 5: it just the vibes, yeah, off, we're off. Yeah for 549 00:23:50,240 --> 00:23:52,240 Speaker 5: vibes don't lie, Yeah, vibes don't lie. 550 00:23:52,520 --> 00:23:53,720 Speaker 1: But he would like come out. 551 00:23:53,760 --> 00:23:56,200 Speaker 5: We did like an escape room all together with the guys, 552 00:23:56,280 --> 00:23:57,760 Speaker 5: like I remember. 553 00:23:59,400 --> 00:24:00,639 Speaker 1: I met a few. 554 00:24:00,680 --> 00:24:06,240 Speaker 5: Different ladies throughout the friendship period where with from all 555 00:24:06,240 --> 00:24:08,080 Speaker 5: the different from all the different guys, Like I met 556 00:24:08,080 --> 00:24:10,000 Speaker 5: different girls that they were dating or seeing or whatever. 557 00:24:12,200 --> 00:24:14,800 Speaker 5: So I thought there was like, certainly no interest in 558 00:24:14,840 --> 00:24:18,440 Speaker 5: me on Justin's behalf, because I'm like, no way I 559 00:24:18,480 --> 00:24:19,640 Speaker 5: would be meeting. 560 00:24:19,640 --> 00:24:21,920 Speaker 1: Like, right, you know girls who's dating? Yeah, like girls 561 00:24:21,960 --> 00:24:25,240 Speaker 1: are dating if you're interested in me. But I guess 562 00:24:25,280 --> 00:24:27,040 Speaker 1: he just wasn't at the time. I don't know. 563 00:24:27,119 --> 00:24:28,240 Speaker 2: And then when did that switch? 564 00:24:29,480 --> 00:24:32,520 Speaker 5: Probably well, it was at some point after Andrew left 565 00:24:32,680 --> 00:24:36,520 Speaker 5: La and then the trio became a duo and we 566 00:24:36,520 --> 00:24:38,560 Speaker 5: were just spending so much time together. But I think 567 00:24:38,600 --> 00:24:42,359 Speaker 5: we had genuinely been just friends for so long at 568 00:24:42,400 --> 00:24:44,760 Speaker 5: that point, like coming up on a year, well coming 569 00:24:44,840 --> 00:24:46,560 Speaker 5: up on it was like, you know, eight to ten 570 00:24:46,560 --> 00:24:49,880 Speaker 5: months that we'd been like friends and doing things all 571 00:24:49,880 --> 00:24:52,600 Speaker 5: together as a group. And then it's like Justin got 572 00:24:52,600 --> 00:24:55,480 Speaker 5: his own spot and we would go look at furniture 573 00:24:55,560 --> 00:24:57,880 Speaker 5: together and we were just like hanging out all the time. 574 00:24:57,920 --> 00:24:59,480 Speaker 5: We literally go get frozen yogurt and go back to 575 00:24:59,480 --> 00:25:02,280 Speaker 5: his house watch The Bachelor The Bachelorette. On opposite end 576 00:25:02,320 --> 00:25:04,240 Speaker 5: of the couch and then after the show's every like 577 00:25:04,280 --> 00:25:06,520 Speaker 5: okay bye, Like it was literally just. 578 00:25:06,680 --> 00:25:08,000 Speaker 2: So then when did it switch? 579 00:25:10,080 --> 00:25:14,639 Speaker 5: Well, at some point it started to feel flirty and 580 00:25:15,480 --> 00:25:19,000 Speaker 5: it was in like October ish time frame, and then 581 00:25:19,000 --> 00:25:20,760 Speaker 5: we all went to Vegas and we like talk about 582 00:25:20,800 --> 00:25:23,840 Speaker 5: this sacred strawberry. When we were drunk one night and 583 00:25:23,880 --> 00:25:25,960 Speaker 5: we split the strawberry. We both both took a bite 584 00:25:25,960 --> 00:25:28,679 Speaker 5: of it, a chocolate covered strawberry, and we weren't like 585 00:25:29,080 --> 00:25:31,240 Speaker 5: crazy drunk, it was like tipsy. But I was like, 586 00:25:32,000 --> 00:25:35,840 Speaker 5: friends don't share strawberry. So I was like that was extra. 587 00:25:36,440 --> 00:25:38,600 Speaker 5: But then I went back to Virginia right after that 588 00:25:38,680 --> 00:25:41,040 Speaker 5: trip and then came back to La week went by, 589 00:25:41,119 --> 00:25:43,320 Speaker 5: so it'd been like two weeks since the strawberry incident, 590 00:25:44,000 --> 00:25:47,120 Speaker 5: and I'm like, I thought he was in love with. 591 00:25:47,080 --> 00:25:54,640 Speaker 1: Me, Like we shared a strawberry good photo. We were filming, 592 00:25:54,720 --> 00:25:57,719 Speaker 1: we were filming videos in Vegas. Oh my god, you 593 00:25:57,760 --> 00:26:05,080 Speaker 1: have I'm sweating right now. It's so intimate. 594 00:26:05,680 --> 00:26:06,760 Speaker 2: That is very intimate. 595 00:26:06,920 --> 00:26:10,680 Speaker 1: That was not a friend That was a friend thing. No, 596 00:26:10,720 --> 00:26:12,480 Speaker 1: I don't do that with my friend. Nobody does that 597 00:26:12,520 --> 00:26:13,040 Speaker 1: with their friends. 598 00:26:13,480 --> 00:26:16,080 Speaker 5: And we were a little tipsy, but that was like 599 00:26:16,720 --> 00:26:19,960 Speaker 5: that was as close as we got to kissing, which 600 00:26:19,960 --> 00:26:20,639 Speaker 5: is pretty close. 601 00:26:21,200 --> 00:26:23,880 Speaker 1: Girl's lips definitely touched. 602 00:26:24,200 --> 00:26:27,160 Speaker 5: And then we just moved on with the night like 603 00:26:27,160 --> 00:26:30,359 Speaker 5: like nothing happened, and the then life went on, and 604 00:26:30,400 --> 00:26:32,719 Speaker 5: I was like thinking, I'm like I literally thought we 605 00:26:32,720 --> 00:26:35,160 Speaker 5: were about to get married and that babies like what happened, 606 00:26:35,160 --> 00:26:37,280 Speaker 5: you know, like we shared a strawberry I don't understand. 607 00:26:38,359 --> 00:26:39,920 Speaker 1: And then like. 608 00:26:39,880 --> 00:26:42,960 Speaker 5: Two weeks later, he tries to split a Twizzler with 609 00:26:43,000 --> 00:26:45,480 Speaker 5: me and I was like no. I was like, no, 610 00:26:45,840 --> 00:26:47,800 Speaker 5: we don't get to just split twizzlers and we've had 611 00:26:47,840 --> 00:26:50,480 Speaker 5: a few drinks, like you either love me or you don't. 612 00:26:50,960 --> 00:26:53,320 Speaker 5: Like I was basically like no, I'm not gonna like 613 00:26:54,200 --> 00:26:58,480 Speaker 5: just play these games whatever. And then it just happened 614 00:26:58,520 --> 00:27:01,400 Speaker 5: like an uber was picking us up, and at that moment, 615 00:27:01,480 --> 00:27:03,080 Speaker 5: the uber arrived and we were like, okay, well I'm 616 00:27:03,080 --> 00:27:04,600 Speaker 5: going to sit in an uber for like thirty minutes 617 00:27:04,640 --> 00:27:07,040 Speaker 5: because Justin was like, no, like I actually do feel 618 00:27:07,080 --> 00:27:08,280 Speaker 5: something like I want to talk to you about it. 619 00:27:09,160 --> 00:27:12,879 Speaker 3: I just really want to just have the twiddler, yeahler, 620 00:27:14,520 --> 00:27:16,320 Speaker 3: And so then we're sitting in an awkward uber for 621 00:27:16,359 --> 00:27:19,159 Speaker 3: like thirty minutes like Okay, like, we don't want to 622 00:27:19,280 --> 00:27:20,240 Speaker 3: have this conversation here. 623 00:27:20,280 --> 00:27:21,680 Speaker 5: And then we get back to Justin's house, we sit 624 00:27:21,720 --> 00:27:26,800 Speaker 5: down and he like basically on his couch, is like 625 00:27:27,080 --> 00:27:28,840 Speaker 5: very I don't want to say professional, but it was 626 00:27:28,920 --> 00:27:31,680 Speaker 5: very professional. He was just very polite about it, where 627 00:27:31,680 --> 00:27:34,080 Speaker 5: he was like, we've been friends for a long time. 628 00:27:34,600 --> 00:27:37,080 Speaker 5: I think about the qualities and the characteristics of like 629 00:27:37,160 --> 00:27:37,960 Speaker 5: the type of person I. 630 00:27:37,920 --> 00:27:39,760 Speaker 1: Want to be with, like you have all of them. 631 00:27:39,760 --> 00:27:40,800 Speaker 2: What does he do for a living? 632 00:27:41,000 --> 00:27:41,880 Speaker 1: He was in finance. 633 00:27:42,040 --> 00:27:46,360 Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, he's like yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, true, Yeah, that's. 634 00:27:46,160 --> 00:27:47,160 Speaker 1: A good point. Yeah. 635 00:27:47,200 --> 00:27:48,600 Speaker 5: He was just like put it all out there, where 636 00:27:48,600 --> 00:27:50,400 Speaker 5: he was like, I care so much about you. 637 00:27:50,960 --> 00:27:51,600 Speaker 1: I like you. 638 00:27:51,720 --> 00:27:53,840 Speaker 5: I think I can see this as more, but I 639 00:27:53,840 --> 00:27:56,880 Speaker 5: don't want to freak you out, and I don't want 640 00:27:57,000 --> 00:27:59,199 Speaker 5: to make things weird, and I'm okay with going like 641 00:27:59,240 --> 00:28:02,600 Speaker 5: just moving forward friends, but just putting this out there 642 00:28:02,600 --> 00:28:04,200 Speaker 5: because I want to be respectful and I don't want 643 00:28:04,200 --> 00:28:06,359 Speaker 5: to like cross boundaries that you don't want to cross. 644 00:28:06,480 --> 00:28:08,800 Speaker 1: But basically what he was saying is that he's in 645 00:28:08,840 --> 00:28:09,240 Speaker 1: love with. 646 00:28:09,160 --> 00:28:14,040 Speaker 5: Me, Like that's what I heard, and so but then 647 00:28:14,080 --> 00:28:16,160 Speaker 5: in that moment, it was so funny because then we're like, oh, 648 00:28:16,359 --> 00:28:17,880 Speaker 5: like now what. 649 00:28:17,960 --> 00:28:19,280 Speaker 1: Like do you kiss me? 650 00:28:19,600 --> 00:28:21,800 Speaker 5: Or like right, because we're sitting here having a very 651 00:28:21,840 --> 00:28:26,000 Speaker 5: normal conversation, and then we did end up kissing, and 652 00:28:26,000 --> 00:28:27,920 Speaker 5: and we were like, Okay, let's just be like secret 653 00:28:27,960 --> 00:28:29,879 Speaker 5: about this because what if this all blows up in 654 00:28:29,880 --> 00:28:32,359 Speaker 5: two weeks and like then our friends feel weird about it, 655 00:28:32,359 --> 00:28:34,639 Speaker 5: so let's not tell anybody. And then we were like 656 00:28:34,720 --> 00:28:37,240 Speaker 5: lying to the public because it was just we were 657 00:28:37,240 --> 00:28:39,440 Speaker 5: then dating and then our close friends knew, but the 658 00:28:39,480 --> 00:28:41,600 Speaker 5: public didn't, and we were like, we should just keep 659 00:28:41,600 --> 00:28:44,240 Speaker 5: this as private as we can because people are going 660 00:28:44,320 --> 00:28:46,000 Speaker 5: to speculate, people are going to say things, and like 661 00:28:46,080 --> 00:28:48,000 Speaker 5: let's just like test this out for ourselves. And then 662 00:28:48,040 --> 00:28:51,520 Speaker 5: it was like basically I guess like four months in 663 00:28:51,680 --> 00:28:53,960 Speaker 5: when we finally were like, okay, let's say it to 664 00:28:54,000 --> 00:28:54,360 Speaker 5: the world. 665 00:28:54,480 --> 00:28:56,080 Speaker 1: So it felt like we had been we were kind 666 00:28:56,080 --> 00:28:56,800 Speaker 1: of established. 667 00:28:56,880 --> 00:28:59,120 Speaker 3: Right when you kiss, did you get the Fanny flutters 668 00:28:59,120 --> 00:28:59,960 Speaker 3: I was just about to ask. 669 00:29:00,640 --> 00:29:02,560 Speaker 4: I wasn't gonna ask about Fanny Potter, so I was 670 00:29:02,600 --> 00:29:04,000 Speaker 4: going to ask what the kiss. 671 00:29:03,880 --> 00:29:06,600 Speaker 1: Was, Like, No, it was so good, it was so good. 672 00:29:06,680 --> 00:29:08,960 Speaker 5: Yeah, I definitely was like I was like, oh, I 673 00:29:08,960 --> 00:29:10,680 Speaker 5: didn't expect this. Yeah. 674 00:29:10,800 --> 00:29:14,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, it was like romantic was just like a very term, very. 675 00:29:14,800 --> 00:29:17,800 Speaker 2: Like I don't call the vagina tingled. 676 00:29:18,080 --> 00:29:23,280 Speaker 1: Yeah that's a good one too. Yeah yeah, yeah it 677 00:29:23,360 --> 00:29:23,640 Speaker 1: was good. 678 00:29:23,680 --> 00:29:25,240 Speaker 4: I want to go back to when you were saying 679 00:29:25,240 --> 00:29:28,239 Speaker 4: that he when he was dating women and you were 680 00:29:28,240 --> 00:29:30,080 Speaker 4: meeting the girls he was dating. Did you at that 681 00:29:30,160 --> 00:29:32,800 Speaker 4: point where you, like, did you notice something inside of 682 00:29:32,800 --> 00:29:34,800 Speaker 4: you that you were like, oh that, like I don't 683 00:29:34,880 --> 00:29:36,880 Speaker 4: like that, Like I'm jealous. 684 00:29:37,160 --> 00:29:38,840 Speaker 1: I really I didn't. 685 00:29:39,640 --> 00:29:41,960 Speaker 5: I mean I literally, I mean I always say I'm 686 00:29:41,960 --> 00:29:43,800 Speaker 5: like I had a boyfriend at one point. You know, 687 00:29:43,800 --> 00:29:47,400 Speaker 5: there's a period it wasn't like the strongest connection. 688 00:29:47,080 --> 00:29:50,880 Speaker 1: I've had, but Sign guy. Yeah. 689 00:29:51,160 --> 00:29:56,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's sad because like that's literally me. 690 00:29:56,640 --> 00:29:58,280 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, but. 691 00:29:58,120 --> 00:30:01,000 Speaker 5: Like I feel like I would like it friendship. Yeah, 692 00:30:01,000 --> 00:30:03,520 Speaker 5: and I feel like I would be Signed girl. It's 693 00:30:03,560 --> 00:30:06,200 Speaker 5: crazy that so many things in that relationship that were 694 00:30:06,240 --> 00:30:09,880 Speaker 5: actually really really good. But I just I don't know 695 00:30:09,920 --> 00:30:13,120 Speaker 5: what it can't You can't force no when it's the 696 00:30:13,160 --> 00:30:13,720 Speaker 5: wrong guy. 697 00:30:14,800 --> 00:30:16,239 Speaker 3: Remember I didn't want to go on a second date 698 00:30:16,280 --> 00:30:18,360 Speaker 3: because a guy drank his drink through a straw. I 699 00:30:18,400 --> 00:30:21,600 Speaker 3: was like, oh that is so like sick. So I 700 00:30:21,640 --> 00:30:22,960 Speaker 3: was like, never call me again. 701 00:30:23,520 --> 00:30:23,680 Speaker 4: Poor. 702 00:30:24,720 --> 00:30:26,400 Speaker 2: I mean, I'm drinking from a straw every day. 703 00:30:27,240 --> 00:30:28,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, you are a straw girl. 704 00:30:29,680 --> 00:30:30,560 Speaker 2: I'm a straw girl. 705 00:30:30,600 --> 00:30:33,200 Speaker 4: So you'all start dating. You keep it private, but you're 706 00:30:33,200 --> 00:30:37,320 Speaker 4: filming all this content. Everyone's like, come on, yeah. Even 707 00:30:37,440 --> 00:30:39,280 Speaker 4: I saw you at the Lemon Foundation thing and I 708 00:30:40,080 --> 00:30:42,800 Speaker 4: had like something blocking our faces. 709 00:30:42,800 --> 00:30:46,880 Speaker 1: But I was like, and I told you, right, I know. 710 00:30:46,920 --> 00:30:49,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, I felt very privileged because you told me that 711 00:30:49,640 --> 00:30:50,600 Speaker 3: you were dating this guy. 712 00:30:54,320 --> 00:30:56,480 Speaker 2: But I didn't know any of the backstory. I didn't know, 713 00:30:56,480 --> 00:30:57,360 Speaker 2: like it was a secret. 714 00:30:57,440 --> 00:30:59,240 Speaker 3: I didn't know that like you were chosen on the 715 00:30:59,240 --> 00:31:01,080 Speaker 3: batchel or like I didn't know any of the backstory. 716 00:31:01,160 --> 00:31:03,240 Speaker 3: And so like a couple of weeks later or something, 717 00:31:03,320 --> 00:31:05,640 Speaker 3: I think it was that way jingle Ball. I saw 718 00:31:05,680 --> 00:31:08,239 Speaker 3: you and everybody was like, they're like Ashley. I was like, 719 00:31:08,440 --> 00:31:10,840 Speaker 3: they're totally together. I don't know what I was like, 720 00:31:11,040 --> 00:31:13,120 Speaker 3: And in my mind I was like, oh, so I 721 00:31:13,160 --> 00:31:15,200 Speaker 3: was like I was with the secret. 722 00:31:15,320 --> 00:31:16,440 Speaker 2: Was so like honored. 723 00:31:16,480 --> 00:31:19,400 Speaker 1: Wait, that's actually so funny. Now that I think about 724 00:31:19,440 --> 00:31:21,960 Speaker 1: It'm like that was so risky of me, but also. 725 00:31:21,920 --> 00:31:26,400 Speaker 4: Like you I'm taking that straight to write Seacrest And. 726 00:31:28,040 --> 00:31:30,040 Speaker 5: Wait, but that almost makes it better because you didn't 727 00:31:30,080 --> 00:31:31,040 Speaker 5: know that it was tea. 728 00:31:31,920 --> 00:31:35,080 Speaker 1: It's like one thing about she did not know his tea. 729 00:31:36,440 --> 00:31:37,680 Speaker 2: Not my side of the algorithm. 730 00:31:38,200 --> 00:31:40,920 Speaker 1: Yeah that's fair. Yeah, yeah, that's amazing. 731 00:31:41,000 --> 00:31:43,320 Speaker 4: So Okay, I have a question. This is from like 732 00:31:43,360 --> 00:31:48,400 Speaker 4: a marketing standpoint. Okay, oh yeah, because I think you're 733 00:31:48,560 --> 00:31:51,200 Speaker 4: I think you're like a brilliant content creator. 734 00:31:51,200 --> 00:31:53,400 Speaker 1: I think you're so smart, and I think like, how 735 00:31:53,520 --> 00:31:54,000 Speaker 1: y'all have. 736 00:31:56,120 --> 00:31:59,040 Speaker 4: Like the teas leading up to y'all announcing your relationship? 737 00:31:59,200 --> 00:32:02,080 Speaker 1: Was I loved it? Anyways? 738 00:32:02,560 --> 00:32:07,120 Speaker 4: Was there any intention behind when we all went public 739 00:32:07,640 --> 00:32:11,560 Speaker 4: in relation to Valentine's Day campaigns? 740 00:32:11,720 --> 00:32:13,280 Speaker 1: Okay, So that's. 741 00:32:13,240 --> 00:32:17,840 Speaker 5: That is a good question because it was right before 742 00:32:18,360 --> 00:32:21,480 Speaker 5: so Christmas time. Justin actually came to Virginia and I 743 00:32:21,520 --> 00:32:24,720 Speaker 5: went to Maryland, so we met each other's family. Yeah, 744 00:32:24,920 --> 00:32:27,840 Speaker 5: we like met each other's family over Christmas, and we 745 00:32:27,920 --> 00:32:31,120 Speaker 5: did have a Valentine's Day campaign with Sweethearts and it 746 00:32:31,160 --> 00:32:33,840 Speaker 5: was a situationship box. So it was like, suppose the 747 00:32:33,920 --> 00:32:37,120 Speaker 5: whole campaign is about like blurred lines. And at that point, 748 00:32:37,720 --> 00:32:40,280 Speaker 5: actually from the second he kissed me, I basically was like, 749 00:32:40,400 --> 00:32:43,280 Speaker 5: I'm your girlfriend, Like if you're kissing me, then like 750 00:32:43,520 --> 00:32:44,440 Speaker 5: that's my expectation. 751 00:32:44,560 --> 00:32:45,200 Speaker 1: That's just how I am. 752 00:32:45,240 --> 00:32:47,160 Speaker 5: I'm like, you can't date other people, Like yeah, I 753 00:32:47,240 --> 00:32:49,400 Speaker 5: mean I can't handle that kind of stuff. 754 00:32:49,440 --> 00:32:51,920 Speaker 1: So if you want to date me, that's cool. But 755 00:32:52,000 --> 00:32:54,360 Speaker 1: here's like I'm your girlfriend now basically, you know, like 756 00:32:54,400 --> 00:32:56,800 Speaker 1: that was kind of the vibe. Well, this isn't a situationship. 757 00:32:56,920 --> 00:32:59,240 Speaker 1: No it's not. Basically, yeah, it wasn't a situationship. 758 00:32:59,280 --> 00:33:02,840 Speaker 5: But we had been online like doing funny bits about 759 00:33:02,960 --> 00:33:07,800 Speaker 5: that kind of like blurredline relationships type stuff. So Sweethearts 760 00:33:07,800 --> 00:33:09,360 Speaker 5: reach out to us and we did do a campaign 761 00:33:09,400 --> 00:33:10,560 Speaker 5: with them. 762 00:33:10,680 --> 00:33:14,600 Speaker 2: And what is Sweethearts? 763 00:33:15,840 --> 00:33:18,160 Speaker 1: It was like such a fun They released like only. 764 00:33:18,000 --> 00:33:21,760 Speaker 5: Three of these, like yeah yeah, and we just were 765 00:33:21,800 --> 00:33:24,280 Speaker 5: like we were actually so flattered because they wanted us 766 00:33:24,280 --> 00:33:26,560 Speaker 5: to do a bit, so like we've been doing bits 767 00:33:26,640 --> 00:33:27,920 Speaker 5: and we were like, oh my god, this is like 768 00:33:28,080 --> 00:33:30,120 Speaker 5: really cool to see that we've been putting work into 769 00:33:30,160 --> 00:33:32,720 Speaker 5: like writing funny skits and like it's working and brands 770 00:33:32,760 --> 00:33:38,560 Speaker 5: want to like hire us essentially, And so over Christmas, 771 00:33:38,560 --> 00:33:41,760 Speaker 5: we were having a conversation and Justin brought up like, well, 772 00:33:41,800 --> 00:33:43,360 Speaker 5: like when do we want to announce it, and I 773 00:33:43,400 --> 00:33:44,760 Speaker 5: was kind of shocked because I feel like a lot 774 00:33:44,800 --> 00:33:47,080 Speaker 5: of times it's guys who are more apprehensive to like 775 00:33:47,200 --> 00:33:47,600 Speaker 5: keeping a. 776 00:33:47,640 --> 00:33:51,960 Speaker 1: Post, yeah, like they're like less likely to be like that. 777 00:33:52,040 --> 00:33:54,920 Speaker 5: And I was very much like, oh, I don't care, 778 00:33:55,080 --> 00:33:57,680 Speaker 5: like like we could post tomorrow, like maybe we could 779 00:33:57,680 --> 00:33:58,200 Speaker 5: do New Years. 780 00:33:58,200 --> 00:34:00,440 Speaker 1: And then Justin's like, well we do have the sweetheart 781 00:34:00,520 --> 00:34:02,360 Speaker 1: New Year new boo. Yeah exactly. 782 00:34:02,400 --> 00:34:04,440 Speaker 5: I'm like, there's so many good ones that would have 783 00:34:04,440 --> 00:34:08,520 Speaker 5: been a great one, thank you. And Justin was like 784 00:34:09,080 --> 00:34:11,000 Speaker 5: I think I actually think he kind of got his 785 00:34:11,040 --> 00:34:13,200 Speaker 5: feelings hurt because he was like, I feel like you're 786 00:34:13,239 --> 00:34:15,840 Speaker 5: not like eager to post me, and I was like, 787 00:34:15,880 --> 00:34:18,560 Speaker 5: I post you literally every day all the time, Like 788 00:34:18,920 --> 00:34:21,200 Speaker 5: if you're all over my page, you're plastered on my page, 789 00:34:21,280 --> 00:34:24,359 Speaker 5: like nobody knows we're like technically together. We haven't said it, 790 00:34:24,400 --> 00:34:27,520 Speaker 5: but like I certainly don't like hide you, you know. 791 00:34:28,920 --> 00:34:31,200 Speaker 5: But it actually was kind of a it's like funny 792 00:34:31,280 --> 00:34:33,000 Speaker 5: now when we look back, because he I think his 793 00:34:33,080 --> 00:34:34,960 Speaker 5: feelings were kind of hurt in that moment, and I 794 00:34:35,120 --> 00:34:37,640 Speaker 5: and I remember being like, oh my god, like I 795 00:34:37,880 --> 00:34:40,120 Speaker 5: promise like I would love to, but I also don't 796 00:34:40,120 --> 00:34:41,960 Speaker 5: want to put pressure on this to post if you're 797 00:34:42,000 --> 00:34:43,560 Speaker 5: if you're wanting to wait, and like. 798 00:34:43,880 --> 00:34:45,920 Speaker 2: You're like, I'm not going to respect you. Yeah, yeah, 799 00:34:45,920 --> 00:34:46,400 Speaker 2: I also. 800 00:34:46,200 --> 00:34:48,360 Speaker 1: Want to respect the brow of it all, you know, 801 00:34:48,640 --> 00:34:49,479 Speaker 1: like take your time. 802 00:34:50,239 --> 00:34:52,840 Speaker 5: But but he was like wanting to post, and I 803 00:34:52,920 --> 00:34:54,680 Speaker 5: actually thought that was like super sweet and I was 804 00:34:54,760 --> 00:34:58,760 Speaker 5: kind of like taken aback, but we did it. Ultimately 805 00:34:58,840 --> 00:35:00,920 Speaker 5: decide we're like, okay, should we just wait until after 806 00:35:01,120 --> 00:35:03,760 Speaker 5: the Sweethearts campaign because it is a situationship. 807 00:35:04,200 --> 00:35:05,800 Speaker 1: But during that conversation. 808 00:35:05,400 --> 00:35:07,000 Speaker 5: Where I felt like his feelings were her, I was like, 809 00:35:07,040 --> 00:35:09,319 Speaker 5: I don't care about any of the financial side of it. 810 00:35:09,360 --> 00:35:11,120 Speaker 1: I was like, we didn't sign anything that says we 811 00:35:11,160 --> 00:35:11,680 Speaker 1: can't come. 812 00:35:11,520 --> 00:35:13,560 Speaker 5: Out as a couple, Like we could still post the 813 00:35:13,600 --> 00:35:16,200 Speaker 5: situationship thing and the bit and like we don't have 814 00:35:16,280 --> 00:35:19,120 Speaker 5: to pretend for anything, Like we've not signed any contract 815 00:35:19,360 --> 00:35:22,160 Speaker 5: regarding our relationship, so like we need to do it's 816 00:35:22,200 --> 00:35:23,960 Speaker 5: best for us, So if we want to post on 817 00:35:23,960 --> 00:35:25,880 Speaker 5: New Year's and like we should post. But then I 818 00:35:25,960 --> 00:35:28,880 Speaker 5: just think having the conversation was good because then we 819 00:35:28,880 --> 00:35:31,240 Speaker 5: both knew it wasn't like either of us were hiding 820 00:35:31,480 --> 00:35:34,279 Speaker 5: from posting, right and then we both were like, Okay, 821 00:35:34,320 --> 00:35:36,919 Speaker 5: let's wait for the campaign to be over, and then 822 00:35:36,960 --> 00:35:39,880 Speaker 5: we did post after the campaign, but it was the 823 00:35:39,880 --> 00:35:42,560 Speaker 5: campaign was in January, so yeah, but but yeah, we 824 00:35:42,600 --> 00:35:43,919 Speaker 5: did wait until that one. 825 00:35:44,160 --> 00:35:45,879 Speaker 1: Yeah, but strictly because. 826 00:35:45,640 --> 00:35:46,920 Speaker 2: Look at back out with her sleuth. 827 00:35:47,040 --> 00:35:49,719 Speaker 4: That was a good question. Yeah, so much. Yeah, I 828 00:35:49,760 --> 00:35:51,439 Speaker 4: just thought it. I was like, that was really smart. 829 00:35:51,480 --> 00:35:52,480 Speaker 4: And then I was like, I don't even know if 830 00:35:52,480 --> 00:35:55,200 Speaker 4: they did. Maybe I'm like too deep into. 831 00:35:54,960 --> 00:35:56,640 Speaker 2: It, like smart. 832 00:35:57,000 --> 00:35:59,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, we did, and it wasn't. I guess it wasn't. 833 00:36:00,040 --> 00:36:01,040 Speaker 1: I guess it was intentional. 834 00:36:01,120 --> 00:36:04,120 Speaker 5: Ultimately, like we did talk about it, but leading up 835 00:36:04,160 --> 00:36:06,920 Speaker 5: to it, we almost didn't because I was like, I 836 00:36:07,000 --> 00:36:07,720 Speaker 5: remember being. 837 00:36:07,560 --> 00:36:08,680 Speaker 1: Like, I don't want you to think I don would 838 00:36:08,680 --> 00:36:10,960 Speaker 1: opposed to you. Yeah, that's not the case at all. 839 00:36:28,600 --> 00:36:31,160 Speaker 4: I know there was probably a level of pressure while 840 00:36:31,239 --> 00:36:35,799 Speaker 4: y'all were was a situation again, I guess secretly dating 841 00:36:35,800 --> 00:36:38,000 Speaker 4: because everyone was like, what is going on? Tellens, But 842 00:36:38,080 --> 00:36:40,640 Speaker 4: it's probably fun for y'all to kind of like, yeah, 843 00:36:40,680 --> 00:36:43,360 Speaker 4: maybe not as much pressure. Have you noticed a different 844 00:36:43,440 --> 00:36:47,360 Speaker 4: type of pressure being public now? Is there anything different? 845 00:36:48,040 --> 00:36:49,200 Speaker 2: Like do you guys have stands? 846 00:36:50,400 --> 00:36:53,239 Speaker 5: I guess maybe I guess, yeah, I guess we do. 847 00:36:53,320 --> 00:36:57,120 Speaker 5: I feel like, yeah, I guess comparatively with cleaning, people 848 00:36:57,239 --> 00:36:59,399 Speaker 5: were like rooting for us to break up, and now 849 00:36:59,440 --> 00:37:01,839 Speaker 5: people are happy that were to get me and Justin 850 00:37:01,880 --> 00:37:02,320 Speaker 5: are together. 851 00:37:03,120 --> 00:37:06,600 Speaker 1: I yeah, but. 852 00:37:06,880 --> 00:37:09,759 Speaker 5: I guess yeah, we do have people that like love 853 00:37:09,840 --> 00:37:12,080 Speaker 5: us together, which is actually really nice to get messages 854 00:37:12,120 --> 00:37:15,360 Speaker 5: that say really nice things about your partner and are like, 855 00:37:15,440 --> 00:37:17,560 Speaker 5: oh my gosh, like he's so funny, and you guys 856 00:37:17,600 --> 00:37:19,600 Speaker 5: compliment each other like that is nice to hear. So 857 00:37:20,800 --> 00:37:22,880 Speaker 5: I don't know that I feel pressure though, Like I 858 00:37:22,920 --> 00:37:26,960 Speaker 5: really don't, and I even feel like with my previous relationship, 859 00:37:27,960 --> 00:37:30,279 Speaker 5: I never felt pressure, Like I think that I'm so 860 00:37:30,440 --> 00:37:32,680 Speaker 5: resistant to that where I'm like, if anyone puts pressure 861 00:37:32,680 --> 00:37:35,560 Speaker 5: on me to do anything, I'm gonna be like absolutely not, 862 00:37:35,560 --> 00:37:37,200 Speaker 5: I'm gonna do what I want, Like that's just me, 863 00:37:37,320 --> 00:37:38,520 Speaker 5: Like I'm such a rebel. 864 00:37:38,239 --> 00:37:42,239 Speaker 1: And that's in that sense. But I don't think I 865 00:37:42,239 --> 00:37:43,799 Speaker 1: feel pressure to like be together. 866 00:37:43,640 --> 00:37:46,680 Speaker 2: Not so like you're not planning your wedding not yet. 867 00:37:49,360 --> 00:37:52,120 Speaker 1: But I do I feel like I am. 868 00:37:53,080 --> 00:37:54,160 Speaker 5: I don't know, I feel like I am at a 869 00:37:54,200 --> 00:37:57,319 Speaker 5: place where I'm intentionally dating yea, you know, like even 870 00:37:57,360 --> 00:38:01,279 Speaker 5: the boyfriend I had over the summer last year, side guy. 871 00:38:01,360 --> 00:38:03,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, like he was a really great guy, and I 872 00:38:03,880 --> 00:38:04,839 Speaker 1: think that's. 873 00:38:04,560 --> 00:38:07,480 Speaker 5: Why I was like, I really should like try to 874 00:38:07,480 --> 00:38:08,799 Speaker 5: see this too, because I felt like he was a 875 00:38:08,840 --> 00:38:10,080 Speaker 5: really quality person. 876 00:38:10,239 --> 00:38:10,919 Speaker 2: Where is he now? 877 00:38:11,040 --> 00:38:12,120 Speaker 1: You know, thriving? 878 00:38:12,400 --> 00:38:13,040 Speaker 2: Oh good? Okay? 879 00:38:13,320 --> 00:38:14,520 Speaker 1: It was everything on paper? 880 00:38:14,760 --> 00:38:17,280 Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, yeah, everything on paper kind of guy for sure, 881 00:38:18,400 --> 00:38:20,200 Speaker 5: and like quite a bit older too. I think he 882 00:38:20,320 --> 00:38:23,839 Speaker 5: was like thirty eight, which would be ideal. And now 883 00:38:23,960 --> 00:38:25,640 Speaker 5: Justin's like a year younger. And at the beginning, I 884 00:38:25,680 --> 00:38:26,799 Speaker 5: was like, I don't know if I can do this, 885 00:38:26,960 --> 00:38:29,120 Speaker 5: Like he's just a year younger than me, and then 886 00:38:29,239 --> 00:38:30,480 Speaker 5: if we break up in three years, it's not a 887 00:38:30,520 --> 00:38:31,920 Speaker 5: big deal to him, but it's a big deal to me. 888 00:38:32,239 --> 00:38:35,240 Speaker 5: Like I just was feeling that pressure, which is like scary. 889 00:38:35,360 --> 00:38:38,319 Speaker 5: Unfortunately as a woman, I hate that I feel that. 890 00:38:38,360 --> 00:38:40,200 Speaker 1: But I do sometimes. 891 00:38:41,040 --> 00:38:42,600 Speaker 5: But that was like it wasn't a big thing at 892 00:38:42,600 --> 00:38:45,400 Speaker 5: the beginning, but I remember when we were just friends 893 00:38:45,400 --> 00:38:47,040 Speaker 5: and everybody would ask I remember thinking I was like, 894 00:38:47,120 --> 00:38:48,960 Speaker 5: Justin's too young for me, Like I'm looking for a 895 00:38:49,000 --> 00:38:51,560 Speaker 5: guy that's like older and yeah, like ready to get 896 00:38:51,560 --> 00:38:54,480 Speaker 5: married and want kids the next whatever, however many years 897 00:38:55,800 --> 00:38:58,000 Speaker 5: and now. 898 00:38:57,680 --> 00:38:59,000 Speaker 1: I don't know what that looks like. 899 00:38:59,120 --> 00:39:02,719 Speaker 5: But I think I think, I mean justin knows I'm 900 00:39:03,200 --> 00:39:06,800 Speaker 5: very intentional. And he even said like when we started dating, 901 00:39:06,920 --> 00:39:08,880 Speaker 5: because I was like I asked like a thousand questions. 902 00:39:08,920 --> 00:39:10,680 Speaker 1: I was like, okay, but do you really like me? 903 00:39:10,800 --> 00:39:12,680 Speaker 1: Or like do you just thing this is like convenient? 904 00:39:12,880 --> 00:39:14,560 Speaker 5: Like you know, I was like freaked out because I 905 00:39:14,600 --> 00:39:16,680 Speaker 5: was like, I know, I'm you're like really close friend 906 00:39:16,719 --> 00:39:18,799 Speaker 5: out here, but like is this just convenient and that's 907 00:39:18,840 --> 00:39:19,520 Speaker 5: what this is? 908 00:39:19,960 --> 00:39:20,960 Speaker 2: Or like are you gonna marry me? 909 00:39:21,320 --> 00:39:22,320 Speaker 1: Like want to? 910 00:39:22,920 --> 00:39:23,200 Speaker 3: Yeah? 911 00:39:23,239 --> 00:39:24,680 Speaker 1: Like do you love me today? 912 00:39:25,400 --> 00:39:28,040 Speaker 5: And I remember him saying to me, he was like 913 00:39:28,080 --> 00:39:30,239 Speaker 5: I respect you so much, and I think coming from 914 00:39:30,280 --> 00:39:33,359 Speaker 5: friendship and like just like a really quality friendship too, 915 00:39:33,360 --> 00:39:35,080 Speaker 5: like I really feel like we cared for each other. 916 00:39:35,200 --> 00:39:37,400 Speaker 5: And we were like I don't feel like I have 917 00:39:37,440 --> 00:39:40,080 Speaker 5: a lot of best guy actually don't have best guy friends. 918 00:39:40,560 --> 00:39:43,399 Speaker 5: But when we moved out here, it's like we really 919 00:39:43,440 --> 00:39:45,919 Speaker 5: were the only people that we kind of knew and 920 00:39:45,920 --> 00:39:48,160 Speaker 5: Andrew at the time, and then you know, it's like 921 00:39:48,239 --> 00:39:50,440 Speaker 5: you we just became so close that he was like, 922 00:39:50,480 --> 00:39:54,240 Speaker 5: I like value you that I would never do anything 923 00:39:54,280 --> 00:39:57,960 Speaker 5: to jeopardize like you as a person, or compromise our friendship, 924 00:39:58,000 --> 00:40:00,440 Speaker 5: the bottom line where all this started. So like, I 925 00:40:00,480 --> 00:40:02,799 Speaker 5: do believe him in that, but it is someames. It 926 00:40:02,840 --> 00:40:04,239 Speaker 5: is scary that he's younger. 927 00:40:04,560 --> 00:40:05,279 Speaker 2: Hi one year. 928 00:40:05,480 --> 00:40:07,040 Speaker 1: I know, I know it sounds that great. 929 00:40:07,480 --> 00:40:09,920 Speaker 5: I know it sounds crazy, but I just feel like 930 00:40:09,920 --> 00:40:12,239 Speaker 5: guys have a different mentality a lot of times. 931 00:40:12,040 --> 00:40:14,080 Speaker 2: Like how old is? How old are you? I'm thirty, 932 00:40:14,160 --> 00:40:16,080 Speaker 2: it's so he's twenty nine. Same thing. 933 00:40:16,800 --> 00:40:20,320 Speaker 1: Have y'all said I love you? Yeah? Who said it first? 934 00:40:20,719 --> 00:40:22,240 Speaker 1: Actually I think he said it first. 935 00:40:23,040 --> 00:40:25,120 Speaker 4: Were you like waiting for were you like determined that 936 00:40:25,160 --> 00:40:26,800 Speaker 4: you were gonna let him say it first? No? 937 00:40:27,520 --> 00:40:30,720 Speaker 5: Wait, wait, oh my gosh. It's actually funny but really inappropriate. 938 00:40:30,800 --> 00:40:32,680 Speaker 5: So I can't tell the story. I'm so sorry, but 939 00:40:32,920 --> 00:40:36,080 Speaker 5: it happened in a really funny way. I wish I 940 00:40:36,080 --> 00:40:38,560 Speaker 5: could tell you guys, it's so funny, but it's so inappropriate, 941 00:40:39,000 --> 00:40:39,799 Speaker 5: so I can't say it. 942 00:40:39,880 --> 00:40:41,760 Speaker 1: But it was really funny. 943 00:40:42,000 --> 00:40:44,719 Speaker 5: It was really funny, and it was so sweet because 944 00:40:44,719 --> 00:40:46,600 Speaker 5: it was actually kind of early on. But I felt 945 00:40:46,680 --> 00:40:49,040 Speaker 5: like I felt like because we were so close before 946 00:40:49,080 --> 00:40:52,480 Speaker 5: we started dating. Yeah, it felt exodited literally it felt 947 00:40:52,560 --> 00:40:55,040 Speaker 5: expedited and like it wasn't even like, oh, we jumped 948 00:40:55,040 --> 00:40:57,040 Speaker 5: into things and were like staying all the time at 949 00:40:57,080 --> 00:40:58,640 Speaker 5: each other's houses and like we're. 950 00:40:58,560 --> 00:41:00,560 Speaker 1: Obsessed with each other like that even though. 951 00:41:00,440 --> 00:41:03,239 Speaker 5: I am, but like it was just more so like 952 00:41:03,280 --> 00:41:05,880 Speaker 5: we knew each other so well that when we started dating, 953 00:41:05,960 --> 00:41:08,840 Speaker 5: it was probably like like three or four weeks in 954 00:41:09,680 --> 00:41:12,400 Speaker 5: we had The way it happened was like he was 955 00:41:12,440 --> 00:41:15,319 Speaker 5: like no, I actually would say like I think I like, 956 00:41:15,360 --> 00:41:17,319 Speaker 5: I think I love you, And I was like me too, 957 00:41:17,560 --> 00:41:20,120 Speaker 5: like are we crazy? Like are we crazy that we 958 00:41:20,280 --> 00:41:23,200 Speaker 5: are this like saying that at this point, like it 959 00:41:23,239 --> 00:41:27,560 Speaker 5: felt really quick, but it I guess because we were 960 00:41:27,560 --> 00:41:28,480 Speaker 5: just so close. 961 00:41:28,200 --> 00:41:32,080 Speaker 1: That it just felt normal. Yeah. Did you are you 962 00:41:32,120 --> 00:41:33,080 Speaker 1: watching Love Is Blind? 963 00:41:33,360 --> 00:41:33,560 Speaker 3: Yes? 964 00:41:33,719 --> 00:41:37,280 Speaker 4: Okay, we were having this discussion in our earlier podcast 965 00:41:37,360 --> 00:41:42,960 Speaker 4: about Jimmy having best girlfriends Now that you have had 966 00:41:43,000 --> 00:41:46,880 Speaker 4: the friendship to lover experience, Yeah, how do you feel 967 00:41:46,920 --> 00:41:50,920 Speaker 4: about justin having close friends that are women? 968 00:41:51,760 --> 00:41:55,040 Speaker 1: So I think. 969 00:41:55,360 --> 00:41:58,000 Speaker 5: We always would say when people would ask us, even 970 00:41:58,000 --> 00:42:01,120 Speaker 5: like once we started dating, that like a relationship really 971 00:42:01,880 --> 00:42:05,359 Speaker 5: wouldn't have lasted, Like if he went and like had 972 00:42:05,360 --> 00:42:07,400 Speaker 5: a serious girlfriend, if I went and had a serious boyfriend, 973 00:42:07,920 --> 00:42:10,040 Speaker 5: Like it's not appropriate for me to like be at 974 00:42:10,120 --> 00:42:13,000 Speaker 5: his house like eating froyo, watching Bachelor on Mondays, Like 975 00:42:13,040 --> 00:42:16,279 Speaker 5: that's not appropriate, right, And I never had that while 976 00:42:16,280 --> 00:42:19,080 Speaker 5: I was dating the other guy. Like the other guy 977 00:42:19,440 --> 00:42:20,920 Speaker 5: came into the friend group and we would hang out 978 00:42:20,920 --> 00:42:22,520 Speaker 5: as friends, but I was never like one on one 979 00:42:22,520 --> 00:42:25,759 Speaker 5: with Justin while I had that boyfriend and vice versa 980 00:42:25,800 --> 00:42:28,319 Speaker 5: of Justin, he never had a serious girlfriend during the 981 00:42:28,360 --> 00:42:32,759 Speaker 5: whole time. But like it was more so like we 982 00:42:32,880 --> 00:42:35,960 Speaker 5: knew that our dynamic would have to change. 983 00:42:36,520 --> 00:42:39,520 Speaker 1: I wouldn't be comfortable if Justin had a friend as 984 00:42:39,520 --> 00:42:40,120 Speaker 1: close as me. 985 00:42:40,440 --> 00:42:44,120 Speaker 5: Yeah, it was absolutely not, Like no way in hell, 986 00:42:44,280 --> 00:42:46,640 Speaker 5: no way. And I think the relationship the Jimmy guy 987 00:42:46,960 --> 00:42:48,480 Speaker 5: with the other girls and the fact that he's like 988 00:42:48,520 --> 00:42:50,279 Speaker 5: been intimate with one of them and stuff, I'm like 989 00:42:50,400 --> 00:42:54,960 Speaker 5: absolutely not. Like I think it's okay to have friendships 990 00:42:54,960 --> 00:42:58,720 Speaker 5: of people, but I'm of different you know, sex or whatever. 991 00:42:58,719 --> 00:43:03,160 Speaker 1: But I'm like, I just feel like there's you have. 992 00:43:03,120 --> 00:43:05,760 Speaker 5: To lower the amount of opportunity there is for cheating, 993 00:43:05,760 --> 00:43:08,120 Speaker 5: Like they always say statistically, like the people that cheat 994 00:43:08,160 --> 00:43:12,200 Speaker 5: are the people that have it's more associated with like 995 00:43:12,239 --> 00:43:14,560 Speaker 5: the opportunities available to you. So if you're putting yourself 996 00:43:14,600 --> 00:43:17,239 Speaker 5: in the position to potentially cheat, then like it's more 997 00:43:17,320 --> 00:43:19,920 Speaker 5: likely to happen. Right, Obviously it comes down to your 998 00:43:19,960 --> 00:43:22,320 Speaker 5: character and choices decisions all that as well. 999 00:43:22,360 --> 00:43:24,560 Speaker 1: But I don't think it's appropriate. 1000 00:43:24,880 --> 00:43:26,839 Speaker 5: And but I feel like when we were two single 1001 00:43:26,840 --> 00:43:28,480 Speaker 5: people that moved to LA, I was like, oh, this 1002 00:43:28,600 --> 00:43:30,200 Speaker 5: is like a it's weird. 1003 00:43:30,520 --> 00:43:32,120 Speaker 1: But I'm like, Chelsea, you needs. 1004 00:43:32,000 --> 00:43:35,480 Speaker 3: To call Jimmy up and say, did you see Susie 1005 00:43:35,480 --> 00:43:37,040 Speaker 3: and Justine cases? 1006 00:43:37,480 --> 00:43:40,080 Speaker 2: This is why, this is why you need to take 1007 00:43:40,080 --> 00:43:43,279 Speaker 2: a step back. Thank you, love Chelsea XXL. 1008 00:43:42,840 --> 00:43:47,280 Speaker 4: It takes one strawberry, Yeah, it takes strawberry friends. 1009 00:43:49,080 --> 00:43:49,600 Speaker 2: Yeah. 1010 00:43:49,719 --> 00:43:50,160 Speaker 1: And this. 1011 00:43:50,400 --> 00:43:53,200 Speaker 5: We were talking with Justin's brother the other day over 1012 00:43:53,280 --> 00:43:54,880 Speaker 5: face time. We were talking about love is blind, and 1013 00:43:54,920 --> 00:43:56,680 Speaker 5: he was like, the biggest red flog is that this 1014 00:43:56,719 --> 00:44:00,719 Speaker 5: is not like a childhood best friend, Like you've been 1015 00:44:00,760 --> 00:44:02,480 Speaker 5: friends there are two years and she's your best friend 1016 00:44:02,480 --> 00:44:04,799 Speaker 5: that you text all day and she came she's the 1017 00:44:04,840 --> 00:44:06,960 Speaker 5: one that you introduced your fiance to, Like you don't 1018 00:44:06,960 --> 00:44:08,560 Speaker 5: write anybody. 1019 00:44:08,040 --> 00:44:11,360 Speaker 3: Else literally exactly what I said, and that my fiance 1020 00:44:11,480 --> 00:44:12,160 Speaker 3: said the same thing. 1021 00:44:12,239 --> 00:44:14,239 Speaker 2: He was like, these are you's known these girls for 1022 00:44:14,280 --> 00:44:14,880 Speaker 2: two years? 1023 00:44:14,920 --> 00:44:18,440 Speaker 5: Like, yeah, you don't have anybody else. Literally that's how 1024 00:44:18,480 --> 00:44:21,200 Speaker 5: I felt. I was like, that's huge red flag, right yeah. 1025 00:44:21,280 --> 00:44:24,080 Speaker 4: Yeah, like the two people he's like, they're like, okay, 1026 00:44:24,120 --> 00:44:26,040 Speaker 4: you get to pick two friends to introduce her to. 1027 00:44:26,080 --> 00:44:27,560 Speaker 1: And he's like, I got just the. 1028 00:44:27,520 --> 00:44:32,040 Speaker 3: Girls girl slept with one Like now, thanks dude. 1029 00:44:32,440 --> 00:44:32,640 Speaker 4: Yeah. 1030 00:44:32,800 --> 00:44:36,719 Speaker 1: Literally, I was gonna say the name really inappropriate, but yeah, 1031 00:44:36,880 --> 00:44:37,759 Speaker 1: just not appropriate. 1032 00:44:38,800 --> 00:44:42,880 Speaker 4: Okay, last question, this will be more of Tanya's interest 1033 00:44:42,920 --> 00:44:43,920 Speaker 4: about your relationship. 1034 00:44:44,160 --> 00:44:45,160 Speaker 1: What are your signs? 1035 00:44:45,440 --> 00:44:49,200 Speaker 5: Oh, yes, okay, I'm a Leo. Oh great, yeah, and 1036 00:44:49,320 --> 00:44:52,400 Speaker 5: justin to and Gemini. I know, it's kind of like 1037 00:44:52,440 --> 00:44:53,319 Speaker 5: a matchmate in hell. 1038 00:44:53,400 --> 00:44:55,799 Speaker 1: I think it is. 1039 00:44:57,239 --> 00:44:59,000 Speaker 2: Okay, so it's not a problem. 1040 00:44:59,120 --> 00:45:03,640 Speaker 3: It's okay, we can get through it. Because geminis they 1041 00:45:03,640 --> 00:45:05,280 Speaker 3: have two personalities. 1042 00:45:04,680 --> 00:45:09,720 Speaker 1: Yeah he does. Oh I've met both. Okay, I've met 1043 00:45:09,719 --> 00:45:11,080 Speaker 1: maybe seven or eight person. 1044 00:45:12,400 --> 00:45:14,440 Speaker 3: Because I always thought when it said like that they 1045 00:45:14,440 --> 00:45:16,000 Speaker 3: had two personalities and one was like good, one it 1046 00:45:16,080 --> 00:45:18,520 Speaker 3: was bad, but the two could also not be bad, 1047 00:45:18,520 --> 00:45:21,920 Speaker 3: Like one could be very strong willed and the one 1048 00:45:21,960 --> 00:45:23,640 Speaker 3: could be like super sensitive, you know what I mean. 1049 00:45:23,680 --> 00:45:25,000 Speaker 2: So it's not necessarily like a good and. 1050 00:45:25,000 --> 00:45:27,080 Speaker 1: Bad like a good and evil. It's not like a 1051 00:45:27,080 --> 00:45:29,439 Speaker 1: good and evil. Yeah, it's just like Houston has this, says. 1052 00:45:29,480 --> 00:45:32,759 Speaker 6: Gemini men and Leo women form surprisingly strong bonds together 1053 00:45:32,800 --> 00:45:35,640 Speaker 6: and tend to be a fantastic match. Leo will always 1054 00:45:35,640 --> 00:45:37,479 Speaker 6: take the stage in the spotlight, putting on her best 1055 00:45:37,480 --> 00:45:39,600 Speaker 6: for the world to see, where their friend or lover, 1056 00:45:39,680 --> 00:45:41,960 Speaker 6: her Gemini partner is never far behind, and acts as 1057 00:45:41,960 --> 00:45:43,239 Speaker 6: the director of her grand show. 1058 00:45:43,920 --> 00:45:47,560 Speaker 1: That is pretty good, aren't you. 1059 00:45:47,719 --> 00:45:53,239 Speaker 4: Kind of the organizative, the creative organism, and he like 1060 00:45:53,320 --> 00:45:56,320 Speaker 4: directs and plans, like he's so good at the attention 1061 00:45:56,400 --> 00:45:56,880 Speaker 4: to detail. 1062 00:45:57,280 --> 00:45:58,400 Speaker 1: But he's also an artist. 1063 00:45:58,560 --> 00:46:02,040 Speaker 5: Yeah, so, like he's so good when we've done like 1064 00:46:02,360 --> 00:46:05,120 Speaker 5: fun projects like passion projects, or we've like created videos 1065 00:46:05,120 --> 00:46:07,040 Speaker 5: together where none of us, neither of us are in it. 1066 00:46:07,920 --> 00:46:10,000 Speaker 1: I know, like a lot more of like. 1067 00:46:09,920 --> 00:46:12,759 Speaker 5: The technical side with the camera work and stuff like that. 1068 00:46:12,920 --> 00:46:15,799 Speaker 5: But Justin's really good at the like set design and 1069 00:46:15,840 --> 00:46:18,360 Speaker 5: like the head of details. So we really do have 1070 00:46:18,440 --> 00:46:20,680 Speaker 5: an interesting dynamic with that. That's a good that's a 1071 00:46:20,680 --> 00:46:21,560 Speaker 5: good little bit. 1072 00:46:21,680 --> 00:46:22,000 Speaker 2: Yeah. 1073 00:46:22,080 --> 00:46:25,319 Speaker 3: Yeah, we can get wiki pass the Gemini. Yeah, yeah, 1074 00:46:25,400 --> 00:46:26,319 Speaker 3: if he cuts me once. 1075 00:46:26,360 --> 00:46:30,399 Speaker 1: The birthday June tenth. 1076 00:46:32,640 --> 00:46:32,960 Speaker 2: Strong. 1077 00:46:33,680 --> 00:46:37,080 Speaker 5: He definitely has like I think he definitely has like 1078 00:46:37,080 --> 00:46:39,200 Speaker 5: a sensitive side. 1079 00:46:39,360 --> 00:46:41,960 Speaker 1: I heard like I like, I heard the you know, 1080 00:46:42,080 --> 00:46:44,719 Speaker 1: posting thing. Oh yeah, you know, like that was like 1081 00:46:44,719 --> 00:46:45,720 Speaker 1: a sensitive thing. 1082 00:46:46,000 --> 00:46:48,080 Speaker 5: The other day he actually painted me a picture which 1083 00:46:48,120 --> 00:46:49,759 Speaker 5: was so beautiful, and I was leaving his house in 1084 00:46:49,800 --> 00:46:52,000 Speaker 5: a rush with like a thousand things in my hands, 1085 00:46:52,200 --> 00:46:54,600 Speaker 5: and I forgot the painting and it hurt his feelings. 1086 00:46:55,080 --> 00:46:56,360 Speaker 1: I know, I felt so bad. 1087 00:46:56,880 --> 00:46:59,400 Speaker 5: But like that's like the Gemini and the portrait of 1088 00:46:59,719 --> 00:47:01,840 Speaker 5: it was a us like he painted a picture of 1089 00:47:02,160 --> 00:47:02,720 Speaker 5: so sweet? 1090 00:47:02,800 --> 00:47:03,319 Speaker 2: Can I see? 1091 00:47:03,440 --> 00:47:05,279 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's so beautiful Shu. I showed the picture that 1092 00:47:06,200 --> 00:47:08,239 Speaker 1: her phone. She was looking for it. 1093 00:47:08,320 --> 00:47:12,960 Speaker 3: But yeah, after I'll say the portrait my fiance painted 1094 00:47:13,000 --> 00:47:16,000 Speaker 3: of me, do you'll have Donald Trump? 1095 00:47:16,719 --> 00:47:22,399 Speaker 1: Oh my god? It was an artistic Yeah. Do y'all 1096 00:47:22,719 --> 00:47:24,000 Speaker 1: have similar love languages? 1097 00:47:24,239 --> 00:47:26,239 Speaker 4: Like your top because I feel like everyone needs all 1098 00:47:26,239 --> 00:47:27,680 Speaker 4: of them, but your top one. 1099 00:47:28,239 --> 00:47:31,719 Speaker 1: I think so. I feel like we're both like physical touch. 1100 00:47:31,880 --> 00:47:34,239 Speaker 1: He needs his back scratch like pretty much all. 1101 00:47:34,200 --> 00:47:38,479 Speaker 5: Day, like the whole day he's like and he's also 1102 00:47:38,480 --> 00:47:41,040 Speaker 5: the epitome of like you know, in the streets, like 1103 00:47:41,080 --> 00:47:48,839 Speaker 5: looking like some big buff guy and then inside he's like. 1104 00:47:47,560 --> 00:47:48,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, he really is. 1105 00:47:48,400 --> 00:47:49,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, he really is. 1106 00:47:50,120 --> 00:47:50,600 Speaker 2: I have power. 1107 00:47:50,760 --> 00:47:53,440 Speaker 1: You know what you're talking. That's true. Yeah, you were 1108 00:47:53,440 --> 00:47:55,040 Speaker 1: spot on. Both of y'all were spot on with this. 1109 00:47:56,520 --> 00:47:57,000 Speaker 1: And then. 1110 00:47:58,360 --> 00:48:01,320 Speaker 5: What Yeah, I would say, like we are very similar. 1111 00:48:02,719 --> 00:48:04,760 Speaker 5: We Yeah, I would say our love languages match. 1112 00:48:04,640 --> 00:48:05,960 Speaker 1: Up pretty well. 1113 00:48:06,600 --> 00:48:09,720 Speaker 5: I feel like communication is where we like have to work, 1114 00:48:09,800 --> 00:48:12,560 Speaker 5: and I've it's like the first relationship ever where I've 1115 00:48:12,600 --> 00:48:16,319 Speaker 5: just been, so I shouldn't say that I've had other 1116 00:48:16,320 --> 00:48:19,960 Speaker 5: good relationships. But he's very much like I think we 1117 00:48:20,080 --> 00:48:23,040 Speaker 5: both like want to be our best version and best 1118 00:48:23,040 --> 00:48:25,880 Speaker 5: partner to each other, and like I will see so 1119 00:48:26,000 --> 00:48:28,120 Speaker 5: often because sometimes he does get a little moody, like 1120 00:48:28,200 --> 00:48:32,239 Speaker 5: especially when he's hungry, and I've told him before, I'm like, hey, 1121 00:48:32,239 --> 00:48:35,279 Speaker 5: I understand if you're going to be moody, but like 1122 00:48:35,880 --> 00:48:38,799 Speaker 5: I just need when you're moody like that, like it can't. 1123 00:48:38,520 --> 00:48:40,960 Speaker 1: Be like directed towards me right, Like you can. 1124 00:48:40,840 --> 00:48:45,640 Speaker 5: Be moody, but like I need the love to still 1125 00:48:45,680 --> 00:48:48,680 Speaker 5: feel like you still love me right, And I will 1126 00:48:48,719 --> 00:48:52,120 Speaker 5: know sometimes now, like he will be so hungry, but 1127 00:48:52,160 --> 00:48:54,480 Speaker 5: then he'll like reach over and hold my hand and 1128 00:48:54,520 --> 00:48:56,400 Speaker 5: it means so much. It means even more than when 1129 00:48:56,440 --> 00:48:58,279 Speaker 5: he's not hungry, because I'm like, I know you're so 1130 00:48:58,320 --> 00:49:00,239 Speaker 5: angry inside right now, but you're like trying to be 1131 00:49:00,320 --> 00:49:03,319 Speaker 5: there for me. Yeah, that means so much because you 1132 00:49:03,360 --> 00:49:05,040 Speaker 5: probably like don't want anything to do with me, but 1133 00:49:05,120 --> 00:49:08,439 Speaker 5: you know it means that, Like you know, right now 1134 00:49:08,560 --> 00:49:10,560 Speaker 5: is when it like shows that you're putting an effort, 1135 00:49:10,760 --> 00:49:13,440 Speaker 5: and like that means so much. It's like crazy how 1136 00:49:13,440 --> 00:49:16,120 Speaker 5: I'm like literally like butterflies inside and meanwhile he's like 1137 00:49:16,440 --> 00:49:18,800 Speaker 5: just so angry sitting there, but we're holding hands, and I'm. 1138 00:49:18,640 --> 00:49:22,600 Speaker 1: Like, he loves me. That's so true. 1139 00:49:22,840 --> 00:49:25,160 Speaker 4: And I think expressing those things of even like I'm 1140 00:49:25,200 --> 00:49:26,879 Speaker 4: sure you tell him like that makes me feel loved, 1141 00:49:26,880 --> 00:49:29,760 Speaker 4: even though I know you're raging inside. Really you grab 1142 00:49:29,800 --> 00:49:31,120 Speaker 4: my hand because you know it's important to me. 1143 00:49:31,200 --> 00:49:33,560 Speaker 5: I literally tell him that, Like I'll literally point out 1144 00:49:33,560 --> 00:49:36,960 Speaker 5: when I know he's like feeling upset or sassy. 1145 00:49:36,480 --> 00:49:38,840 Speaker 1: Or like hungry or whatever, and I'm. 1146 00:49:38,680 --> 00:49:40,759 Speaker 5: Like, I know you're so hungry right now, but like 1147 00:49:40,960 --> 00:49:43,120 Speaker 5: you're being so sweet and I love you. 1148 00:49:44,800 --> 00:49:45,960 Speaker 1: Wow, y'all are cute. 1149 00:49:46,040 --> 00:49:46,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm really cute. 1150 00:49:47,000 --> 00:49:48,680 Speaker 1: Well, I'm so happy for you. 1151 00:49:48,880 --> 00:49:51,400 Speaker 4: It's been I mean I watched you on the Bachelor, 1152 00:49:51,480 --> 00:49:54,960 Speaker 4: loved you on the Bachelor, and love following you on 1153 00:49:55,000 --> 00:49:58,600 Speaker 4: social media, and I'm so happy that your friendship led 1154 00:49:58,640 --> 00:50:00,520 Speaker 4: to a romance where we go. 1155 00:50:00,560 --> 00:50:01,960 Speaker 2: I want to give a shout out to your friend 1156 00:50:01,960 --> 00:50:02,680 Speaker 2: that's a scrubber. 1157 00:50:02,719 --> 00:50:03,160 Speaker 1: Oh my god. 1158 00:50:03,160 --> 00:50:04,719 Speaker 5: I told her I was coming today and she's kind 1159 00:50:04,719 --> 00:50:09,640 Speaker 5: of freaking out her giant shout out Courtney, Courtney Schultz. 1160 00:50:09,719 --> 00:50:12,720 Speaker 1: We love you, We thank you for. 1161 00:50:12,600 --> 00:50:17,000 Speaker 3: Bringing me and Susie together, because I feel like she 1162 00:50:17,040 --> 00:50:18,920 Speaker 3: really brought us together, so I wanted to give her 1163 00:50:18,920 --> 00:50:19,520 Speaker 3: a big shout out. 1164 00:50:19,520 --> 00:50:21,080 Speaker 5: I literally approached to the first time I met you 1165 00:50:21,120 --> 00:50:23,840 Speaker 5: and was like, my best friend is usessed with you. 1166 00:50:23,880 --> 00:50:25,680 Speaker 5: And I was like, I'm sorry, this is creepy, but 1167 00:50:25,760 --> 00:50:30,040 Speaker 5: like I don't know you, but like my friend is obssessed. 1168 00:50:30,200 --> 00:50:31,920 Speaker 5: And then you sent her a video message on my 1169 00:50:31,920 --> 00:50:35,000 Speaker 5: phone and she like probably Peter Pants, Like if I 1170 00:50:35,040 --> 00:50:36,560 Speaker 5: had to get you, probably Peter Pants. 1171 00:50:36,600 --> 00:50:38,799 Speaker 2: When she saw it, like she so love you. 1172 00:50:39,000 --> 00:50:42,880 Speaker 3: I love you so much and just love you, Susie, 1173 00:50:42,920 --> 00:50:44,520 Speaker 3: So thank you so much for taking the time to 1174 00:50:44,640 --> 00:50:47,080 Speaker 3: like come in here physically be in here and just 1175 00:50:47,120 --> 00:50:48,120 Speaker 3: like share so much with us. 1176 00:50:48,360 --> 00:50:52,240 Speaker 2: Yes, why I love you guys, bye bye bye 1177 00:51:00,080 --> 00:51:00,160 Speaker 4: Ye