Speaker 1: I'm Tamika d. Mallory and the.
Speaker 2: Ship Boy my son in general.
Speaker 1: We are your host of T m I, t.
Speaker 2: Mika and my Son's Information, Truth, motivation and inspiration.
Speaker 1: Name new energy. What's going on, my son, Lennon.
Speaker 2: I am happy to be back, Tomail.
Speaker 1: We're back, We're back, We're back.
Speaker 2: I'm back in this.
Speaker 1: Why are you screaming that?
Speaker 2: Because you know I'm a little energy. Gotta come with
Speaker 2: a little energy. We back. Genie, always be like yo,
Speaker 2: come with you guys have doing energy. So I came
Speaker 2: with the energy today, you know, right, Jannis.
Speaker 1: And with the energy table, with your energy.
Speaker 3: Okay, just no banging, no banging, but very nice to
Speaker 3: see you, sir.
Speaker 2: Likewise, you got your head done. Yes, you look it
Speaker 2: looks like it's work.
Speaker 3: To the side, over the pillow and just get up
Speaker 3: and keep it moving. Curling it the curls was real good.
Speaker 3: It was real good curl Uh. I had a black
Speaker 3: Jamaican woman who curled my hair for Sherry Shepherd Show
Speaker 3: two days ago.
Speaker 1: She curled different. She put the perfection curls to this heir.
Speaker 2: Yes, ma'am, yes, Brenda from Sherry Sheppard Show.
Speaker 3: She is not from the Sherry shepherdow, oh my god,
Speaker 3: why are you acting like you know what? I realized
Speaker 3: that you did not know who Brenda was. Brenda is
Speaker 3: directly across from Alicia in the salon all my stuff.
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, she's Brenda.
Speaker 2: So she's the one.
Speaker 3: She Ala went to Mexico and then I said, I
Speaker 3: tried to tell her my by the way, Alicia is
Speaker 3: my hairstylas y'all for everybody who's listening, I was like, Alicia,
Speaker 3: not this week, Like you cannot have a trip to
Speaker 3: go on this week because I'm gonna be on Chevy
Speaker 3: Shepherd Show.
Speaker 1: What am I gonna do? And she was like damn.
Speaker 3: You know you could see that she really considered, like damn,
Speaker 3: I gotta do your hair.
Speaker 1: Your hair gotta be right.
Speaker 3: Till she when I saw her the next few days
Speaker 3: whatever later, I was like, yeah, now you remember, I said,
Speaker 3: what you gonna do? Because you know it's on Monday.
Speaker 3: She said, I'm going to Mexico and you gotta call Brenda.
Speaker 3: She called Brenda set up the appointment. She was like, yeah, baby,
Speaker 3: I love you, but there's always gonna be something because
Speaker 3: my hair style is everybody who she handles has something
Speaker 3: going on it's whatever it is teaching, being on TV,
Speaker 3: being in the mix.
Speaker 2: So she gotta she gotta find a little minute for herself,
Speaker 2: and I not she's gonna be putting out fires and
Speaker 2: running like a person with her hair cut off.
Speaker 3: I am very very happy for her that she got
Speaker 3: her a little bit of.
Speaker 2: Vacation and Brenda came to.
Speaker 3: The Brenda came to the rescue and came to my
Speaker 3: house at six o'clock in the morning and started with
Speaker 3: some curls, some good curves. Okay, right, and shout out
Speaker 3: to Tatiana who also was on the beat Beat.
Speaker 2: Yes.
Speaker 3: So anyway, speaking of Sherry Shepherd the Sherry Shepherd Show,
Speaker 3: first of all, let me just say that Sherry Shepherd
Speaker 3: in general is just an incredibly authentic woman. So speaking
Speaker 3: of Sherry Shepherd and the Sherry Shepherd Show, which I
Speaker 3: was very very very proud and honored to be on,
Speaker 3: you know, Sherry is a super authentic woman. I I
Speaker 3: first of all, First of all, we met because people
Speaker 3: continuously tagged us together on social media saying, y'all look
Speaker 3: so much alike it what it used to be. Keisha
Speaker 3: Knight Pulliam that I always, always, always was mistaken for
Speaker 3: and people would tag me with Keisha all the time,
Speaker 3: but l as of late, it's really been Sherry Shepherd.
Speaker 3: And so we met because you know, people were saying it.
Speaker 3: And then eventually, no matter how busy you are, no
Speaker 3: matter how many people who are following you or speaking
Speaker 3: to you, if you see if something is consistently being
Speaker 3: stated in your comment section, you're gonna see it and
Speaker 3: you being tagged to, you know, people saying look at
Speaker 3: them look alike photos. So we both saw it and
Speaker 3: somehow online we just were like, oh, you know, hey, sis,
Speaker 3: I guess we twin and you know, and that was that.
Speaker 3: But then Bevy Smith had a dinner and we were
Speaker 3: both there and that's where we had our first opportunity
Speaker 3: to actually sit and talk about this look alike piece.
Speaker 3: And then of course, you know, we took a video.
Speaker 3: We put it out and it was super cute. And
Speaker 3: I do see the resemblance between us. I don't think
Speaker 3: we look as much as you know, folks be going
Speaker 3: hard like, oh my god, I thought it was Sherry
Speaker 3: talking to Sherry. Okay, I don't know about that, yah,
Speaker 3: but there's a resemblance. You see something there. Especially it
Speaker 3: depends on the angle depends on the hair, depends on
Speaker 3: a bunch of things.
Speaker 1: So we just became, you.
Speaker 3: Know, cool, off of something where other people kind of
Speaker 3: bought us together around this idea. But once we met
Speaker 3: at the dinner, it was just like a starr in
Speaker 3: your eye, like.
Speaker 1: You know it, sis, I see you, you see me.
Speaker 1: You know we cool.
Speaker 3: So then we just seen. You know how it is.
Speaker 3: It's like a car. Once you get one or once
Speaker 3: your friend has one. Everywhere you go you see this
Speaker 3: particular brand, this making model.
Speaker 1: That's how it is.
Speaker 3: So then all of a sudden we just see each
Speaker 3: other here and there in the third and she always
Speaker 3: is just so cool and so real. She's not the
Speaker 3: type of person. It's some of these folks that you know,
Speaker 3: these uh and I want to say entertainment because she
Speaker 3: is an entertainment movies and all of that.
Speaker 1: So she's an entertainment.
Speaker 3: So I'm gonna say these entertainers that you can meet
Speaker 3: and you're like hey, and they like how you doing.
Speaker 3: I have to say I'm very, very very very privileged
Speaker 3: in that it doesn't happen to me often, even whether
Speaker 3: people know me or not generally, And I think I
Speaker 3: kind of like do the same thing on the street. Right,
Speaker 3: A lot of people are like, oh, you know, you
Speaker 3: shouldn't get out your car in this place or that
Speaker 3: place because look at those guys or look at those people.
Speaker 3: But when I approach people, just because we work in communities,
Speaker 3: I know how to have a voice and a tone
Speaker 3: that just makes people feel like, Okay, she cool.
Speaker 1: She gets me.
Speaker 3: So I jump out the car and I'm in the
Speaker 3: hood and I want to go to the store and
Speaker 3: get me some skittles or something water, whatever it is.
Speaker 3: And I see a bunch of guys in front of
Speaker 3: the store. I don't act afraid, first of all, and
Speaker 3: second of all, I just honor them, like, what's up, guys,
Speaker 3: how y'all doing? It's good to see you, and you know,
Speaker 3: usually the response is like, what's up?
Speaker 1: Sists? How you doing? You know? Cool?
Speaker 3: So the same thing with how I try to operate
Speaker 3: in any space is that when I see people, I
Speaker 3: try to give them reverence, respect. It ain't about me.
Speaker 3: I don't need you to be like, hey, I'm hi,
Speaker 3: how you doing. I'm willing to speak first. So every
Speaker 3: time I see her, it's mad love, mad love, mad love.
Speaker 3: And she said to me one day. You know, you
Speaker 3: got a book coming out, you're doing different things. Let
Speaker 3: me know how I.
Speaker 1: Can be supportive.
Speaker 3: And sure enough I was able to get on her
Speaker 3: show now, you know, and she's not she.
Speaker 1: Doesn't have anything.
Speaker 3: I don't even I think she just told her producers,
Speaker 3: who happened to be amazing black woman on this set, amazing,
Speaker 3: all kinds of people, all different types of people. They
Speaker 3: were amazing on the set, Patrick, or just a bunch
Speaker 3: of people just amazing. So I'm not saying I'm not
Speaker 3: putting this on them, but you know how hard it
Speaker 3: is for me, especially me, to be able to get
Speaker 3: in some of those mainstream spaces because you have some
Speaker 3: of the people on the teams like, oh, she's this
Speaker 3: or she's that too controversial, to this, to that and
Speaker 3: the third. And so I just expected and understood that
Speaker 3: when I was telling her, like, hey, I would love
Speaker 3: to come on this show, if she would have said
Speaker 3: I've not been I can't get it done, which I
Speaker 3: have been told that by other black people on other shows.
Speaker 3: By the way, I'm sorry, I really would love to
Speaker 3: have you on. You know, I was on Tammer Hall
Speaker 3: too during my first book. But I've had a lot
Speaker 3: of people say I want to do it, but you
Speaker 3: know the story, you know what I've heard. You know,
Speaker 3: I wish I tried, but in the meeting it turned
Speaker 3: into this, that and the third. So I don't know
Speaker 3: if she had to deal with anything. I don't know
Speaker 3: if she had to speak up for me. I have
Speaker 3: no idea. She never made it a thing any of that.
Speaker 3: She just was like, I want to have you on,
Speaker 3: and the next thing, you know, I was on and
Speaker 3: I was expecting my son to get the call from
Speaker 3: between when she told me that I was going to
Speaker 3: be on, which was weeks before, I was expecting that
Speaker 3: she would text me and say, Sis, can we talk?
Speaker 3: Cause I get that all the time, and I already
Speaker 3: know what it is. You know, whenever I'm supposed to
Speaker 3: work on a project with the celebrity or you know,
Speaker 3: in some type of space like that and they text me,
Speaker 3: can we talk? Know that they're either trying to get
Speaker 3: there talking points to go back and fight, or they're
Speaker 3: getting ready to tell me that. Unfortunately, these folks are
Speaker 3: saying whatever whatever and let me support you in a
Speaker 3: different way. So that didn't happen. It was a great conversation.
Speaker 3: She's a beautiful person. The energy in the space was amazing.
Speaker 3: The black women that's showing up for Sherry Shepherd is
Speaker 3: also extremely powerful. Just beautiful to see all those black folks,
Speaker 3: men and women. So it was just a really really
Speaker 3: good vibe.
Speaker 2: Dope, you know, it looked very amazing. Like you said,
Speaker 2: everybody there was Dope. I was happening to be there
Speaker 2: to support you, and you know she was.
Speaker 1: Not to support me on you on.
Speaker 3: You are on the payroad for the tour, so let's
Speaker 3: get that anyway.
Speaker 1: It's your job. And what I told you about the.
Speaker 3: Job, do your job because we have got to do
Speaker 3: your job.
Speaker 2: You've got to get paid, So you got to your job.
Speaker 2: You know. It was it was just an amazing energy.
Speaker 2: And like you said, it's a lot of people that don't.
Speaker 2: It's a lot of people that say, oh, we're gonna
Speaker 2: do this and yeah, you can come on the show,
Speaker 2: and then it's and but I respect the people that
Speaker 2: say I can't because that's just the reality. Look, I'm
Speaker 2: at the boss here, you know, I work for some
Speaker 2: people and they said this. But the people that pissed
Speaker 2: me off is the ones that said they gonna do
Speaker 2: it and then they don't respond your your cyst and bro,
Speaker 2: we got you, we got you, like I don't, I
Speaker 2: don't even, I don't even energy. No, it's not even
Speaker 2: a fight. It's just for me. It's like, why should
Speaker 2: I have to fight because you volunteered something and we're
Speaker 2: still in this issue because it's people. It's just it's
Speaker 2: so much fake ship in this industry, and you know,
Speaker 2: and you just I've grown past the calling out and
Speaker 2: feeling a way because I know these be the same
Speaker 2: people that you'll hug tomorrow, that see you and be like,
Speaker 2: oh yo, yeah, you call me tomorrow. It's the same
Speaker 2: shit you see them, and it's the industry. Hug the industry.
Speaker 2: You just hit me up, we're gonna do this. And
Speaker 2: then you call them, they never answer what they respond
Speaker 2: once and then you see him again they act like
Speaker 2: they never told you. They told you last time, and
Speaker 2: you just keep playing this game. And before it would
Speaker 2: pissed me off.
Speaker 1: Before I remember, because you used to pull people like
Speaker 1: you can't me.
Speaker 2: But now I realized that you know, you know that,
Speaker 2: I know that you bullshit and I know you know,
Speaker 2: so I don't have to do because you you gotta
Speaker 2: deal with that. I don't even I don't take it
Speaker 2: on myself no more because that's the world we live
Speaker 2: in this industry. But it's good to see that there
Speaker 2: are still people still a genuine and authentic and you know,
Speaker 2: it was a dope interview. The energy was dope. You know,
Speaker 2: it was fun. It wasn't you know. It dived into
Speaker 2: the book, but it had some fun things she showed
Speaker 2: you social media. It was it just was a dope.
Speaker 3: And you know what, I think that my appearance on
Speaker 3: Sherry Shepherd's show showed. It gave people the ability to
Speaker 3: see the other sides of me because I have been
Speaker 3: boxed into what I have present. I'm not trying to
Speaker 3: say that people should just out of the head imagine
Speaker 3: something other than what they continuously see that you.
Speaker 1: Promote about yourself.
Speaker 3: And what I have been very comfortable as and what
Speaker 3: I am until the death of me is an activist,
Speaker 3: an organizer, a strategist in the movement. I am absolutely
Speaker 3: that I am a protester. That's what I am. But
Speaker 3: I just want folks to be able to see that
Speaker 3: there is a human side to people that is not
Speaker 3: just in front of a bullhorn, microphone camera. You know,
Speaker 3: just being the angry black woman all the time, although
Speaker 3: I'm angry as shit, and I don't let nobody take
Speaker 3: that from me however, however, or try to weaponize that,
Speaker 3: because we should be angry about everything that is happening
Speaker 3: in our society. But I will say that I also
Speaker 3: have other things about me, and I am evolving as
Speaker 3: a person. My forty four year old self is very
Speaker 3: much different than what people met in twenty nineteen, twenty twenty,
Speaker 3: twenty twenty one. I have a whole new thing going
Speaker 3: on that I can feel rising up in me, and
Speaker 3: so I think the interview gave an opportunity for people
Speaker 3: to see those things, and it made people mad because
Speaker 3: I've already received a few dms from people I know
Speaker 3: and don't know, like those bikini pictures, like you're letting
Speaker 3: people diminish your brand.
Speaker 1: I love when they get mad about the bikini is why.
Speaker 2: Would it diminish your brand?
Speaker 1: I don't.
Speaker 2: I mean people are weird because they you know what
Speaker 2: it is people have in their mind what your brain
Speaker 2: is to them, So that means it's to you what
Speaker 2: you think it is exactly. No, my brain is not
Speaker 2: like when I say I'm gangsters woke. It's for people.
Speaker 2: Oh you can't No, I can be. You can't be.
Speaker 2: You don't get to tell me. Look, if I'm outside
Speaker 2: and you approach me in a way, I'm gonna handle
Speaker 2: it that way. When it comes to being woke, I'm
Speaker 2: gonna speak on behalf of my people. I'm going to
Speaker 2: merge both parts of me to create who I am, right,
Speaker 2: And I don't have to make you feel comfortable. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I don't have to make you feel comfortable about who
Speaker 2: I am and that's okay. And you don't have to
Speaker 2: like that part of me. You can be like you
Speaker 2: know what, they can be like Yo, you know what?
Speaker 2: To me, I don't really want to see you in
Speaker 2: the babies don't look right. Go to like you said,
Speaker 2: go to until freedom page. You're gonna see all of
Speaker 2: the business and all. But on this page, I might
Speaker 2: have on a babing suit, I might do this, I
Speaker 2: might do whatever I want on my personal page, because
Speaker 2: this is my personal life. And people gotta understand that
Speaker 2: the Internet makes people. And we love you as fans.
Speaker 2: We want you to love us for what you love
Speaker 2: us for. Right. If you just like my wraps, my
Speaker 2: YouTube page is full of raps, going in and watch
Speaker 2: my raps. If you don't like my political stance, don't
Speaker 2: come to my Instagram. Right, It's not gonna work for
Speaker 2: you because I'm gonna speak on what I think. So
Speaker 2: take the part of me that you like and enjoy it.
Speaker 2: Take it with you, but don't put the rest of
Speaker 2: the shit on me, because the other part you don't like,
Speaker 2: that's me. It's still me, and I'm not gonna change
Speaker 2: it to make you happy.
Speaker 1: I mean, that's it.
Speaker 3: So it is, it is what it is, Yes, but
Speaker 3: I am very grateful for that opportunity. And more over,
Speaker 3: and this is my thought of the day, I am
Speaker 3: grateful for the way that people are showing up on
Speaker 3: this tour now. I know in season four we talked
Speaker 3: about this as well, because the tour just began and
Speaker 3: there was so many incredible people coming out, and I
Speaker 3: said that I was just, you know, very very grateful.
Speaker 3: But I really want to kind of come at it
Speaker 3: from a different perspective today, because yes, people are showing up.
Speaker 3: And when I say showing up, it is amazing to me.
Speaker 3: It's beyond what I could have imagined. I knew that
Speaker 3: I wanted, which is why I have funded my entire
Speaker 3: tour myself, and I knew that I wanted a And
Speaker 3: by the way, funding my tour doesn't mean people haven't
Speaker 3: had to purchase tickets depending on the venues or whatever.
Speaker 3: But in terms of how I got there, the travel
Speaker 3: for the most part, ninety percent of the time, I've
Speaker 3: covered it myself. I've covered the team, different individuals who've
Speaker 3: either had to travel with me or handling different aspects
Speaker 3: of it. I've purchased books myself to give away here
Speaker 3: to give to different people. I have done as much
Speaker 3: as I can because I understand that the investment from
Speaker 3: you for you is going to be more significant. You're
Speaker 3: going to get more of a return from the investment
Speaker 3: that you put into yourself. My publishing team amazing, amazing, amazing.
Speaker 3: They have gone above and beyond to support me. But
Speaker 3: there are still limitations with a company that's working with
Speaker 3: a million authors. So if you really really want to
Speaker 3: see a product that is like a product that represents
Speaker 3: you in exactly what you want and your capabilities and
Speaker 3: your brand, you have to invest in it, right. And
Speaker 3: I know that's hard for people to hear because it's like, damn,
Speaker 3: I already struggled for you to hear what.
Speaker 2: You mean, because I had to, damn it. I'm not
Speaker 2: about this book, but just in general, I tell you
Speaker 2: believe in certain things. You're be like, wow, I don't
Speaker 2: know if people are going to come and I don't know. No,
Speaker 2: you have, you have it, you have.
Speaker 1: That particular part is different.
Speaker 3: What I'm saying is I always believe in investing in
Speaker 3: myself because no matter what we've done on this podcast,
Speaker 3: to my other businesses, to UH until Freedom, to the
Speaker 3: Justice League, and anything that we've been involved in, I
Speaker 3: have always put my credit card up with everybody else's.
Speaker 2: Let me let me I guess what I'm saying.
Speaker 3: Is but I think you're speaking to the first part
Speaker 3: of what I was saying, which is the way that
Speaker 3: people are showing up is beyond my imagination and.
Speaker 2: I told you that it shouldn't be.
Speaker 3: But but well, it's it's that people are. If you
Speaker 3: know some of the events that I have been a
Speaker 3: part of the group of people who are having it right.
Speaker 3: The host let's just say they're charging one hundred and
Speaker 3: ten dollars for a ticket because they're feeding people, giving
Speaker 3: you a drink ticket, giving you a book that's signed
Speaker 3: by me, and of course they got to pay for
Speaker 3: a venue, so they have all that going on. Sure,
Speaker 3: I get there on my own in most situations. Few
Speaker 3: times other people have paid for me to come, But
Speaker 3: for the most part I don't even ask. I let
Speaker 3: them offer, or if not, if it's something I want
Speaker 3: to do, I'm on my way because I understand that
Speaker 3: having events for somebody, and this is my book, this
Speaker 3: ain't they booked like you know what I'm saying, it's
Speaker 3: a lot. It's if venues are not cheap, dinner, drinks,
Speaker 3: whatever you have, it's not cheap. So for somebody to
Speaker 3: go in their pocket in this day and age, with
Speaker 3: all the expenses, the eggs too high, to bread to
Speaker 3: how to gas too high, the daycare, distress of what's
Speaker 3: going on on the tea, the world is a mess
Speaker 3: for them to go in there pocket and say I'm
Speaker 3: gonna spend one hundred and ten dollars on this event
Speaker 3: so I could go and be a part of something
Speaker 3: for Temiega Mallory. And it's not just one, but in
Speaker 3: most places, one hundred, one hundred and fifty two hundred,
Speaker 3: three hundred people just this past weekend, and there have
Speaker 3: been some situations where it's even more folks than that
Speaker 3: showing up to celebrate and or just to be in
Speaker 3: community with me and other people. That is amazing. It's
Speaker 3: amazing to me. Amazing to get back to.
Speaker 1: My Twitter of the day.
Speaker 3: The thing that has been eye opening to me is
Speaker 3: the creativity and the genius and the entrepreneurial spirit of
Speaker 3: folks all over this country, everywhere that I've been. You
Speaker 3: think I have a book, people have six books that
Speaker 3: they have written on education, on health, kid on serious issues,
Speaker 3: or novels or you know, the Coldest Winter Ever sequel. Right,
Speaker 3: people in there, they're in their literary bag.
Speaker 1: They're in their author bag. People with all these books.
Speaker 3: I have so many books that come back with me
Speaker 3: in my suitcase. Sometimes I have to have them ship
Speaker 3: because twenty people in a room have a book that
Speaker 3: they're giving me. Also products, right, make a lipstick, you
Speaker 3: know anything, hair care products, stuff they're making at home
Speaker 3: wanting you to test. Now, y'all can stop giving me
Speaker 3: stuff that you're making at home that you want me
Speaker 3: to test that doesn't have a seal and a label
Speaker 3: and all that, because I'm telling you right now, I'm
Speaker 3: not gonna I'm not going to test it, and I'm
Speaker 3: not gonna eat the cookie or the whatever you bringing
Speaker 3: me that you made in your house. I'm just not
Speaker 3: gonna do it. You know, I'm just being honest, so
Speaker 3: you don't even bother.
Speaker 1: And by the way, I don't.
Speaker 3: Even want I really don't don't even want anything when
Speaker 3: i'm you know, most of the time, I'm like, let
Speaker 3: me just maybe have a glass of wine, maybe a plate.
Speaker 1: I don't want anything.
Speaker 3: That has to do with that because I unfortunately I've
Speaker 3: never met you before, you don't really know me. I
Speaker 3: don't know where this stuff is coming from. I don't
Speaker 3: know what it's gonna do to my skin, and I
Speaker 3: wouldn't bring it to you and expect you to use
Speaker 3: something that you whipped up in the kitchen and people
Speaker 3: be in my ear like I did this in the
Speaker 3: kitchen this and that.
Speaker 1: I get it.
Speaker 3: I really really understand, but I'm personally not going to
Speaker 3: put it on my body.
Speaker 1: That's just my truth. Okay.
Speaker 3: Nonetheless, the jackets, the Duffel bags. The one lady in
Speaker 3: Buffalo gave me a gen Duffel bag with my name
Speaker 3: on it. All kinds black folks are making everything that
Speaker 3: we need. Everything so even the stuff that's being whipped
Speaker 3: up in the kitchen, it's going somewhere. It's going from
Speaker 3: tests to tube. You know what I'm saying. It's gonna
Speaker 3: make it there because the products this stuff is like
Speaker 3: really good.
Speaker 1: And I feel like and I love what they're doing
Speaker 1: on Easter.
Speaker 3: Pastor Bryant, Jamaal Bryant and other passes around the country
Speaker 3: are opening up their churches as vendor spaces so that
Speaker 3: people who are even in target maybe not in target,
Speaker 3: Black vendors in general, will have the opportunity to be showcased.
Speaker 3: And I just feel like a lot more of our
Speaker 3: attention has to be spent in that particular way and
Speaker 3: that area of uplifting these people who don't have platforms,
Speaker 3: but they are out here with the thing that you want.
Speaker 3: You don't I have stuff where I don't need the
Speaker 3: jacket from such and such downtown in whatever whoever makes
Speaker 3: the jackets, like, I don't need that jacket because the
Speaker 3: black people making biker jackets.
Speaker 1: So anyway, that's what I think.
Speaker 3: I think a lot more of our attention has to
Speaker 3: be on uplifting these folks who are our genius is
Speaker 3: in their own way and making sure that the rest
Speaker 3: of the world gets to see it. And the thing
Speaker 3: about social media is that the algorithm is only going
Speaker 3: to allow us to promote so much of a thing,
Speaker 3: So only what ten percent?
Speaker 1: I think.
Speaker 3: What's our brothers Isaac Hayes would say it's even less
Speaker 3: than ten percent of your following is seeing your content,
Speaker 3: the products and stuff like that.
Speaker 2: I think we have to be a lot more intentional, right,
Speaker 2: I think we have to create an algorithm because the
Speaker 2: algorithm is there, right, and I think consistency, that's what
Speaker 2: I realized about algorithm. Right. We say that the algorithm
Speaker 2: grabs this. The algorithm grabs this because it sees that
Speaker 2: there's a need for it, and especially on your page,
Speaker 2: like certain things on your page, they figure out that
Speaker 2: certain people come to your page for certain things. So
Speaker 2: when you know what your algorithm is, because when you
Speaker 2: put out these certain things, you get a bunch of comments,
Speaker 2: you get a bunch of lives, because that is the
Speaker 2: bucket they've put you. Right in order for you to
Speaker 2: break out of that bucket, you gotta get start giving
Speaker 2: them something consistent outside of that, and so it can
Speaker 2: break into a different algorithm. So it's a process to
Speaker 2: do it, but you have to be intentional. And since
Speaker 2: I think that you that's a great idea because I
Speaker 2: know during you know, during the pandemic and during when
Speaker 2: we did a lot of just promoting all black people stuff,
Speaker 2: you know, after that boycott a Nike and I started
Speaker 2: promoting black you know, brands, the algorithm picked up. They
Speaker 2: really was picking up on it because it became something
Speaker 2: that I was, you know, focused on, and then people
Speaker 2: will come to tune in for it. So I think
Speaker 2: we I think we have an algorithm for it. I
Speaker 2: think we should really start being I think you have
Speaker 2: it too, because you can. Yeah, I think, well, I
Speaker 2: know I have an algorithm for I know every.
Speaker 1: Time that you can have an algorithm.
Speaker 2: You have, the algorithm picks up on my page for
Speaker 2: certain things.
Speaker 3: I think you have an audience for the audience algorithm
Speaker 3: for Yes, it is.
Speaker 2: It's all inside the audience. Your audience is part of
Speaker 2: your algorithm. That's what it is.
Speaker 3: When your audience what the algorithm is like, it's kind
Speaker 3: of like the popularity of your content.
Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't know what anyway.
Speaker 2: It is pretty much your fan base, right, what your
Speaker 2: fan base reacts to that's your algorithm. Right, So when
Speaker 2: you when you put certain things on your page, you know,
Speaker 2: when you talk about social justice things, when you talk
Speaker 2: about certain things, you get a immediately people grab on it.
Speaker 2: You get the people to promoted, you get websites, they
Speaker 2: because that's what they want to see. Because they immediately
Speaker 2: see a lot of the other stuff that you put
Speaker 2: on there, they don't even see it because you can
Speaker 2: tell by the amount of views that you have. It's like,
Speaker 2: why is it I not this is good content, but
Speaker 2: it hasn't fit into your algorithm because it doesn't fit
Speaker 2: into what your audience normally said. So the computer doesn't
Speaker 2: send it out with the same vigor that it does.
Speaker 2: So that's what the algorithm does. The computer identifies the
Speaker 2: content you have and realize, oh, this is the content
Speaker 2: that people know how for, so they make sure that
Speaker 2: all of your followers see it. Yeah, but when you
Speaker 2: don't have that and you still putting new stuff up,
Speaker 2: the views get very low. So we gotta just build it.
Speaker 3: Of interesting information because you know, I don't really pay
Speaker 3: attention that much and I don't really know how it operates.
Speaker 3: I just post stuff and keep it moving. But there
Speaker 3: is obviously a science to it. So let's get into
Speaker 3: our t M. I the too much. You're doing too.
Speaker 2: Much, too much, getting done too much.
Speaker 3: Too much. So everybody's up and not everybody. Let me
Speaker 3: stop saying everybody, because there's a lot of people who
Speaker 3: are not up in arms about it at all.
Speaker 1: But there is a.
Speaker 3: Conversation about Marvin sat that is a re surface video,
Speaker 3: so it's not something that happened recently that someone put out.
Speaker 3: Where he is at a conference, uh. And he tells people,
Speaker 3: which is a it's a church conference, which is mostly
Speaker 3: where he is all the time, and he tells the
Speaker 3: trustees and security, lock the doors, don't let anybody out.
Speaker 3: I'm raising money. I need to raise forty thousand dollars
Speaker 3: in here. And he starts to tell people how he
Speaker 3: wants it raised. You know, he wants it twenty five dollars,
Speaker 3: twenty dollars, twenty dollars.
Speaker 1: I think was some was it?
Speaker 2: You know?
Speaker 3: Was the baseline? I think that was the baseline. I
Speaker 3: could be wrong. Yeah, so Janisi is twenty dollars, right,
Speaker 3: it was the baseline. And so again he's at a conference, right,
Speaker 3: and so he starts asking for this, and I guess
Speaker 3: they've calculated it's exceed If it's packed, then you could
Speaker 3: get to your amount by this. And so people are like, oh,
Speaker 3: you know, he's telling he's locking people in, which is
Speaker 3: kind of like holding people hostage. You know, it's like
Speaker 3: kind of like quasi kidnapping. And there you know, that's
Speaker 3: from the comments what I see. And one of the
Speaker 3: questions that was asked is like, where's the line between.
Speaker 1: Stewardship and showmanship?
Speaker 3: I think for a lot of people when they say showmanship,
Speaker 3: I think I'm just getting in other people's heads and
Speaker 3: honoring their thoughts that when you say showmanship, what you're
Speaker 3: really kind of saying is that it's so much pomp
Speaker 3: and circumstance, and then you got to raise all this
Speaker 3: money and you want to you know, to be on
Speaker 3: the stage, lock the doors and talking whatever. And people
Speaker 3: see it as performative even though and they say our
Speaker 3: work is performative too.
Speaker 1: This is a normal a word.
Speaker 3: No, So folks feel like, you know, he's wrong because
Speaker 3: he is locking people in and essentially forcing them to
Speaker 3: come up with X amount of dollars at this faith
Speaker 3: based conference. So the question then becomes, I have an opinion.
Speaker 3: I always have an opinion, and for tem I we
Speaker 3: might not always have our own opinions, but I do
Speaker 3: have an opinion. But I do I would put it
Speaker 3: out there to the world, do you know. Never mind,
Speaker 3: we're not up to the question yet. Right now, I
Speaker 3: just want to hear what you think about it. We
Speaker 3: actually never really talked about this.
Speaker 2: And I think for me, it's like anything, what did
Speaker 2: the church say, the people in the church? Did the
Speaker 2: people did somebody come forward that was at the conference,
Speaker 2: that was in the church that felt defended that? Have
Speaker 2: we heard that?
Speaker 3: Well, the video came from somebody in the church at
Speaker 3: the event.
Speaker 2: I mean, just showing the video doesn't mean that you're offended.
Speaker 2: You might just.
Speaker 3: There's been no outcry from the attendees to say, oh
Speaker 3: my god, we feel so you know, harmed by this.
Speaker 2: And I think that's telling, right. I think in any situation,
Speaker 2: like when you talk about people like that, there's always
Speaker 2: been this conversation about the past. Is you know in
Speaker 2: a collection played? And why do you need a collection plate?
Speaker 2: And I say to myself, if you don't go to
Speaker 2: that church, then you wouldn't understand if you not donating,
Speaker 2: if you're not putting your money in that collection plate,
Speaker 2: then you shouldn't have an issue what goes in that
Speaker 2: collection plate. It's always outside people that have an issue
Speaker 2: about people giving him money, grown adult people who said,
Speaker 2: you know what, I would like to put my money
Speaker 2: in this collection plate because I believe in this church,
Speaker 2: I believe in that past. I believe they're going to
Speaker 2: do something good with my money, and I'm okay with that.
Speaker 2: These are grown people making decisions. So for me, I
Speaker 2: think that every time, it's always the backlash coming from
Speaker 2: people that have nothing to do with the situation. Right,
Speaker 2: So if the people who were in the church right,
Speaker 2: who were in this conference came forward and felt like
Speaker 2: what he was doing was wrong, if his congregation was
Speaker 2: saying that he was going about something wrong, that I
Speaker 2: would understand that. Then there would be a conversation. But
Speaker 2: the fact that you just somebody looking on and you you,
Speaker 2: first of all, you're not even familiar with the culture
Speaker 2: of that church, with that preacher, with the culture of
Speaker 2: that congregation, or that that you know, that convention, you
Speaker 2: don't you're not familiar with what goes on in that
Speaker 2: So you're making an assessment and the decision based on
Speaker 2: something you know. It's like it's like a relationship. It's
Speaker 2: like seeing being mad at the way two people deal
Speaker 2: with their relationship, and they not mad at it.
Speaker 1: But if you see a man being a woman.
Speaker 2: Being a woman is different. If a man tell us woman,
Speaker 2: you'll go get me some food and she started laughing.
Speaker 2: I like when you might like, she might like the
Speaker 2: way he tell her to gets it might be role
Speaker 2: playing for them. You're paying attention to people's business and
Speaker 2: you've made an assessment that is wrong because it's not
Speaker 2: for you. That's why you ain't in that relationship. That's
Speaker 2: why you wasn't at that conference. That's why you don't
Speaker 2: go to that man's church. You go to the preacher
Speaker 2: the church that says, hey, if you have a couple
Speaker 2: of hours, can you please give it to I've been
Speaker 2: to churches.
Speaker 1: That they don't send her.
Speaker 2: They don't say but that also been to churches and
Speaker 2: not even church. I've been to mars where they say, listen,
Speaker 2: we need to raise one hundred thousand dollars, and we
Speaker 2: know a few of y'all got about five thousand dollars,
Speaker 2: got good suits on. You know what I'm saying. Don't
Speaker 2: don't leave too fast. I know you got a good
Speaker 2: suit on and we know we can get two or
Speaker 2: three of y'all to put five thousand dollars because we
Speaker 2: need to make and you know what happens, and people
Speaker 2: come out there in pockets or they don't, and then
Speaker 2: and if people are happy and they come back, every
Speaker 2: in the church is full. The monster is still full.
Speaker 2: So what I'm trying to say is people always want
Speaker 2: to have an opinion about somebody else's situation. If you're
Speaker 2: not a church person, if you don't go to that
Speaker 2: type of church, if you're not into that type of church,
Speaker 2: then find but trying to say that it's wrong because
Speaker 2: it's something not something that you would do. It's not illegal,
Speaker 2: it's not crime. Nobody's robbed anybody, nobody's filed these charges.
Speaker 2: You probably just need to go to a church that
Speaker 2: fits you. That preacher in that situation is just not
Speaker 2: for you. That's just my opinion.
Speaker 3: Well, I mean, I well, here's my opinion. I'm not
Speaker 3: even gonna get into a long drawn out thing. The
Speaker 3: bottom line is that I've been going to church since
Speaker 3: I was a little girl. And not only have I
Speaker 3: been in church since I was a little girl, I've
Speaker 3: also been in uh in organizations, civil rights organizations. Since
Speaker 3: I was a little child, and as young as five
Speaker 3: years old, my mother used to roll up whatever the
Speaker 3: money that I'm supposed to you know, that is my portion.
Speaker 3: She taught me about tithing and stewardship from a young age.
Speaker 3: From five years old, I had my own envelopes, my
Speaker 3: own number stick, my little five dollars in there. I
Speaker 3: used to save it all week so by the end
Speaker 3: of the week, you know, fifty cent, twenty five.
Speaker 1: Cent or whatever.
Speaker 3: Then she would put whatever else so that five dollars
Speaker 3: would be in my envelope. And I can remember multiple
Speaker 3: times being in church or being at a rally, or
Speaker 3: in some situation where the pastor will say, nobody move
Speaker 3: while I'm raising money, or the speaker, nobody moves while
Speaker 3: I'm raising money. Matter fact, close the door. Nobody might
Speaker 3: want nobody moving for two reasons. The first reason is
Speaker 3: just on a lighter side. You know, it's like, nah,
Speaker 3: we're gonna get this money in here today, so ain't
Speaker 3: nobody getting Now is not the time you done have
Speaker 3: your holy spirit, You done sang songs and did all
Speaker 3: the things you feel me up floor, and now when
Speaker 3: it's time to get the collection played going you finna
Speaker 3: slide on out, slip tiptoe with the one finger in
Speaker 3: the air. So that's on a lighter note, but on
Speaker 3: the serious side, when people start moving all around and
Speaker 3: money is being collected and you don't know what's going on,
Speaker 3: and pastors, just like everybody else, have the right to say,
Speaker 3: hold up, I want to.
Speaker 1: See where the moving pieces are.
Speaker 3: While I'm up here vulnerable, either collecting money or not.
Speaker 3: I know some past SAIDs that are even concerned about
Speaker 3: people running around and moving too much in the church
Speaker 3: in the spirit.
Speaker 2: Because the door you might really need.
Speaker 1: Exactly exactly.
Speaker 3: So with that being said, with that being said, and
Speaker 3: holding that on one side, that this is regular, this
Speaker 3: is this culture.
Speaker 1: And to your point, to your point, the reason.
Speaker 3: Why there are not one hundred, two hundred people even
Speaker 3: fifteen people that were in the room that day saying
Speaker 3: that was in the facility that day saying oh, I'm
Speaker 3: so offended and upset about it, is because most people
Speaker 3: that go to churches, especially at the level of Marvin Sap,
Speaker 3: Marvin Sap is not the preacher from the corner of
Speaker 3: your community. And I'm not saying that he ain't because
Speaker 3: he raised money too. The corner preacher raised money too. Okay,
Speaker 3: so let's just get that. But Marvin sap is on
Speaker 3: a totally different level. When you go to his church,
Speaker 3: it's a it's a bigger space, there's more expenses. The
Speaker 3: real question is not how he said it and whether
Speaker 3: or not to me, some other people will say, no,
Speaker 3: it does matter to me how he said it.
Speaker 1: Cool, that's that's you. But it doesn't that that's not
Speaker 1: I'm not caught up in that. What I want to
Speaker 1: know is what are.
Speaker 3: The services that the church provides from from Sunday to Saturday.
Speaker 1: That's what I want to know. I want to know
Speaker 1: after church is over, what do they do?
Speaker 3: Because I know for a fact, not because of what
Speaker 3: I think, not because of what somebody told me. But
Speaker 3: I know for a fact that Marvin Sapps specifically and
Speaker 3: his congregation are very very community oriented. I know for
Speaker 3: a fact that they feed people. I know for a
Speaker 3: fact that they're invested in housing, that they do community activities,
Speaker 3: that they are giving out scholarships, that their work, they're
Speaker 3: holding up young people. Now, I can see if all
Speaker 3: you see is the past to just rolling up, get
Speaker 3: the money, and then the church does nothing in the
Speaker 3: community cool, you need to raise that. As members of
Speaker 3: the church, you need to raise that. But I know
Speaker 3: the type of pastor he is because I know his friends.
Speaker 3: I know where he comes from. I know that Jamal
Speaker 3: Brian is one of his friends. I know that Rudy McKissick,
Speaker 3: who is one of my best friends, is one of
Speaker 3: his friends. I know who he's around and the people
Speaker 3: that are he's around. They have ministries that are deeply
Speaker 3: invested in community. So if somebody can show me where
Speaker 3: the money that's being raised is going towards vacation for
Speaker 3: not just him, before the staff and everybody to go
Speaker 3: on Monday until Friday, they go to the beach and
Speaker 3: then they come back on Saturday and they act like
Speaker 3: they just back for preparation for church, then I can
Speaker 3: tell me that. But if what you're telling me is
Speaker 3: you didn't like the way he said it, and yet
Speaker 3: the work that's being done is something that you do
Speaker 3: like I'm not acting.
Speaker 1: So that's how I feel about it. I think, y'all,
Speaker 1: I don't.
Speaker 3: I don't think Marvin Sapp is the one that was
Speaker 3: doing too much in this situation.
Speaker 1: I think the critics are doing.
Speaker 2: They always in the comments that might be a segment
Speaker 2: we need to do in the comments. In the comments, let.
Speaker 3: Us go to the next thing because Janice is gonna
Speaker 3: kill us. So our next topic today is hilarious to me.
Speaker 3: I mean, just knocked down on the floor.
Speaker 1: Just swipe, just.
Speaker 3: Screaming, hollering that you okay, I know how I'm gonna
Speaker 3: say it.
Speaker 1: I know you fucking lying that Elon Musk is out
Speaker 1: of his rabbit ass. Mine.
Speaker 3: This man is doing an interview. You posted this. He's
Speaker 3: doing this interview here where he is saying, I can't
Speaker 3: believe that people are watching my think he said, Bernie
Speaker 3: saying Tim Walls. He said, he said that Tim Walls,
Speaker 3: and it's a creep.
Speaker 2: He called him a creep. He said, what kind of creep?
Speaker 2: You know? He's he's on stage and he's parading the
Speaker 2: fall of chestless stocks, stock numbers.
Speaker 1: Right, Okay, don't don't don't do Okay, he has disabilities.
Speaker 2: I don't know if he has. He never said, I'm
Speaker 2: just I'm just speaking to He said, you know, and
Speaker 2: and he's parading, he's parading the stock for right, What
Speaker 2: kind of creep does that? What kind of creep? Praise
Speaker 2: and Happiness he's someone fall No one does that. No, no, no,
Speaker 2: you know he's a creep. He's a creep, this guy.
Speaker 2: So what I'm saying to myself, how could he be
Speaker 2: a creep when you was on the stage.
Speaker 1: I never saw this, I never saw.
Speaker 2: I never saw the man had a soul. Somebody he
Speaker 2: cutting the jobs and he was a government.
Speaker 3: And like one of them conferences with all the white
Speaker 3: people like this, but I didn't know he had He
Speaker 3: was like this, like a chainsaw.
Speaker 2: It was a fake chainsaw, but they gave him the
Speaker 2: chainsaw simulating that he.
Speaker 3: Was going to simulating.
Speaker 2: Symbolizing the same thing. I know what I'm talking about,
Speaker 2: all the ole thing. But anyway, he was simulating like
Speaker 2: he was cutting the prices, and he was cutting the jobs.
Speaker 2: So you felt felt it was a creep, right, somebody
Speaker 2: was a creep for talking about your stock prices. You're
Speaker 2: the richest man in the world, and there was a
Speaker 2: creep because they talk about how your stock prices had plummeted.
Speaker 2: But you was the good person for just cutting people's jobs,
Speaker 2: every day jobs that worked their whole life and went
Speaker 2: to school and and did everything they could to get
Speaker 2: in these federal jobs and you cut their jobs, and
Speaker 2: you made a joker. But yeah, we're cutting it all,
Speaker 2: get rid of it. But you wasn't the creep though.
Speaker 3: But not only are you cutting jobs, you're calling people
Speaker 3: parasites for needing social services. And meanwhile, you are an
Speaker 3: American welfare and recipient because every single one of your
Speaker 3: businesses you have needed American money. You have needed handouts
Speaker 3: in order to save them because they were failing. You
Speaker 3: and Trump have literally robbed the system literally to if
Speaker 3: we're going by your.
Speaker 2: Stations, think about but just think about just you got
Speaker 2: to really think about what they're telling you, right, what
Speaker 2: Social Security is right, because the average person that works
Speaker 2: every day, the tax money goes, they have the Social
Speaker 2: Security like immediately they take it out of your check.
Speaker 3: And it goes to the and it goes and social
Speaker 3: Security money does get used.
Speaker 2: So the Social Security money is every person in America
Speaker 2: that most of the people that work, that money goes
Speaker 2: into the pot to pay. So when you can't work,
Speaker 2: to when you're too old, when you have disability, when
Speaker 2: you've done all the work and you can now you
Speaker 2: get the money that you delay away. So you're telling
Speaker 2: people that delay their money away that they parasites, right,
Speaker 2: but oh no.
Speaker 1: Well that's that's social security.
Speaker 3: But and now and he what, well, I can't say
Speaker 3: he made a distinction, but I would imagine that what
Speaker 3: he would say is that he's talking more so about
Speaker 3: food stamps and uh checks and what I'm saying, I know, no,
Speaker 3: I'm not saying he hasn't attacked social security. And yes
Speaker 3: there's some specific things there, but I'm saying, well, he
Speaker 3: made the parasite comment. I just want to give credit,
Speaker 3: like not credit, but I just want to be careful
Speaker 3: to make.
Speaker 2: Sure well, he said that people who take social security, Oh.
Speaker 1: I didn't know that.
Speaker 3: I didn't because I know what I was going to
Speaker 3: try to do is and what by the way, I'm
Speaker 3: not trying to say that. I'm not trying to make
Speaker 3: it better, y'all. Wasn't trying to make it better. What
Speaker 3: I was trying to do is say, let's go with
Speaker 3: your theory. Let's not even talk about social security. Let's
Speaker 3: just go with what welfare and what's the other thing,
Speaker 3: welfare and food stamps?
Speaker 1: Right, let's just go with that.
Speaker 3: What I'm trying to say is that you were able
Speaker 3: to come to this country to build your businesses and
Speaker 3: when they failed, you turned to government assistance to get
Speaker 3: you some money to help save your businesses. If that's
Speaker 3: if that, I don't and by the way, and by
Speaker 3: the way, that's government assistance. And by the way, I'm
Speaker 3: not saying that you're a parasite. Right, well, I'm saying
Speaker 3: it now. I'm saying it now. Now I'm saying and
Speaker 3: that's the same. So now I'm now are with you,
Speaker 3: Now I'm with you that they're exactly you're a worse
Speaker 3: parasite than some of the little parasites that's getting three
Speaker 3: hundred dollars a month for food stamps.
Speaker 1: So we're talking about real parasites here.
Speaker 3: You a piranha. Okay, you're the piranha for sure. So
Speaker 3: but what I'm saying is that since you want to
Speaker 3: label people, can't why you didn't sit on the TV
Speaker 3: and just say, you know what, it's fair game, you
Speaker 3: know cool, If that's what Tim Walls want to do,
Speaker 3: that's fine. You know why, because you are not just
Speaker 3: a You're not just a narcissist. You're a diabolical, dangerous
Speaker 3: individual that you want people to feel sorry for you.
Speaker 2: Not only but no, not only that, I ain't mean
Speaker 2: to cut you off. But the man said, one of
Speaker 2: the biggest faults in America is empathy. He said, that's
Speaker 2: one of the biggest flaws that America has, is that
Speaker 2: we have empathy. Just think about the mind state of
Speaker 2: a person that says empathy is a flaw. So now
Speaker 2: you telling them, You just said it, told the whole
Speaker 2: world that America's flaws is empathy. But you want people
Speaker 2: to be empathetic that you lost your billion dollars and
Speaker 2: you got more money than anybody in the world. You
Speaker 2: want people to be empathetic that your stock is for.
Speaker 1: You know what I mean? You know what I think
Speaker 1: is so funny. I can imagine that any half.
Speaker 3: Of an adult that works around these people, any half
Speaker 3: of an adult, right, Like, let's just say Milania is
Speaker 3: half of an adult, because she don't be wanting to
Speaker 3: be around with them. She don't even be wanting fool
Speaker 3: with them jokers. But let's just say she's half of
Speaker 3: an adult. And she watches out the window of the
Speaker 3: White House, maybe if she's there or on the news
Speaker 3: while she's in New York at home with her son,
Speaker 3: who she says, I have to stay with my son
Speaker 3: because he's in college and I need to be there,
Speaker 3: which fine, says, do your thing. But if she sees
Speaker 3: them with a tesla on the lawn, like on the whatever,
Speaker 3: the pavement of the White House with these two big
Speaker 3: dummies Donald Trump and standing there.
Speaker 2: Was terrible. Trump was telling you weeks ago. It's terrible.
Speaker 2: I don't even know why. Why would anybody buy now?
Speaker 2: I love my tesla.
Speaker 3: Kilon Musk is standing there like, yeah, help me, help me,
Speaker 3: help me. They're messing with my money, help me, help me.
Speaker 3: And Donald Trump is like trying to sell it. I
Speaker 3: can imagine that this lady is just like this is
Speaker 3: so embarrassing. It is very embassing.
Speaker 2: I mean when you have any level of sanity.
Speaker 3: Because we don't know her family, right, we don't know
Speaker 3: her family, so for all we know, she's got family
Speaker 3: members that's calling her saying now.
Speaker 1: Girl, because you know she kind of brown slightly a
Speaker 1: little a little a little little bit of something that's
Speaker 1: in there. We did I need to do a little research.
Speaker 1: She probably got somebody that's like, girl, what in the world.
Speaker 1: It's a ship It's a ship show.
Speaker 2: The ship show. And speaking of a ship show, that
Speaker 2: brings me to my idom. Meet now this video has
Speaker 2: been serviced. You sent me this video, and I'm like,
Speaker 2: why would you send me this?
Speaker 3: I sent it to you for a very specific reason,
Speaker 3: but I'll wait until you finished.
Speaker 2: I'm sitting there and I just see like a little
Speaker 2: video and just tunes to this man. He happens to
Speaker 2: be a Caucasian white man, Caucasian white and all of
Speaker 2: a sudden, you just see like this little sprinkle coming
Speaker 2: from between and he's sitting on a plane. And the
Speaker 2: man is literally sitting on a plane peeing, like peeing
Speaker 2: in the seat, not in the bathroom, in the seat, Like, well,
Speaker 2: I'm so confused now. It looks like it might be
Speaker 2: something wrong with his prostate too, because he don't.
Speaker 1: Really have what are you talking about.
Speaker 2: It's like it's like the little bit of p might
Speaker 2: be peeing.
Speaker 3: On his balls, but maybe it was something else. Maybe
Speaker 3: he because we don't see his actual peepee.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you don't get to see that. The fact that
Speaker 2: it was a it wasn't. This man was peeing on plane.
Speaker 2: He was peeing. And if this was me, I would
Speaker 2: have threw water on him. I would have screamed everything, Yeah,
Speaker 2: what you're doing? He nasty mother. If I'd have called
Speaker 2: him out like that, Literally, you have to get off
Speaker 2: the plane, like it's no way that you that lazy
Speaker 2: or anything that you're sitting there peeing on a plane.
Speaker 1: But you what's going on?
Speaker 2: I just don't understand the mind state of a man
Speaker 2: that's sitting on a plane. And the thing is somebody
Speaker 2: is taping you. They across from you. He never looked
Speaker 2: to the side one time to see if anybody else
Speaker 2: was looking at him. He's literally just sitting there like this,
Speaker 2: peeing like it's the weirdest shit.
Speaker 3: But there is something, there's something about what's y'all don't
Speaker 3: get it.
Speaker 2: I don't get the man peeing on a plane. But
Speaker 2: what do you mean? But I don't get it? Do
Speaker 2: you get him being on a plane?
Speaker 1: Yeah? Because you know what, there's some freaks out here.
Speaker 3: It's people that they do exposing themselves. They are people
Speaker 3: who he might be one of those people that has
Speaker 3: a mixture of exposure.
Speaker 1: He wants to be what's call when.
Speaker 3: You expose yourself, it's called being a exhibitionist. Right, But no,
Speaker 3: but listen, he might be an exhibitionist and he likes
Speaker 3: to pee on people all in one thing like he
Speaker 3: probably is some weird ass freak. But you know what
Speaker 3: I don't get. This is what I don't get.
Speaker 2: I expect.
Speaker 3: Let me tell you what I expect. Let me tell
Speaker 3: you what I expect.
Speaker 1: Me expect.
Speaker 3: No, No, I'm not even I think the person who
Speaker 3: recorded is important because it helps supprove my point.
Speaker 1: I get it all.
Speaker 3: What I don't get is how anybody would take themselves
Speaker 3: on the plane.
Speaker 1: And sit in the seat and use the screen.
Speaker 3: The the what you call the thing, the lights, and
Speaker 3: the air conditioning, and put the seatbelt on and touch
Speaker 3: the buttons on the side when you have no way
Speaker 3: of knowing if the person before you was pissing on
Speaker 3: the plane. I clean everything that I can. I'm not
Speaker 3: saying that. I'm not saying that I am cleaning it
Speaker 3: to the point where I'm not getting I'm not touching
Speaker 3: any germs.
Speaker 1: But I tell you what I'm not gonna do.
Speaker 3: I'm definitely not putting my head the back of my
Speaker 3: hair on a headboard or the yeah, the headboard, it's
Speaker 3: not the headboard, but the head rest, the head rest
Speaker 3: of the plane, knowing that your dan drift, your sweat,
Speaker 3: your whatever is going into my head. And then I'm
Speaker 3: gonna take my head and put it in my in
Speaker 3: my in my hat, in my.
Speaker 1: Head, scar in my bed. Are you crazy?
Speaker 3: Nah, I'm wiping that down. If I have time and
Speaker 3: I get on the plane early enough, I wipe the
Speaker 3: seat from the top.
Speaker 1: Down.
Speaker 3: I pull the flaps, you know how to the flaps
Speaker 3: be back like this, I pull them and clean them.
Speaker 3: Because one time I happen to be talking to a
Speaker 3: friend who was I was in comfort, the first row
Speaker 3: of comfort, and my friend was in first class, and
Speaker 3: I leaned up.
Speaker 1: To say, hey, girl, you know, good to see you know,
Speaker 1: you're just talking somebody.
Speaker 3: You happen to bump into them on a plane, and
Speaker 3: I happened to look my head and saw that I
Speaker 3: guess they was eating food or whatever. They must have
Speaker 3: grabbed like this, and it was like ketch up and something.
Speaker 3: It was so filthy, and I'm like, I told her,
Speaker 3: don't move. Another thing that happened to me one day
Speaker 3: I was on the plane and this man was sitting.
Speaker 1: Right across and he.
Speaker 3: Was cleaning his nose and doing and he hawked into
Speaker 3: the tissue. And when the flight attendant came by, she
Speaker 3: took all the people's stuff, which she should have had
Speaker 3: her gloves on, but she didn't, and this man, knowing
Speaker 3: what was in this tissue, gave it to her in
Speaker 3: her hand. I got up and shot myself to the front,
Speaker 3: to the little area, because how do I know she
Speaker 3: gonna wash her hands in between making somebody's drink. That's
Speaker 3: why I don't drink out there. Glass would like to
Speaker 3: have a plastic cut. I mean, I don't play around.
Speaker 3: I clean, and so I don't understand anybody that gets
Speaker 3: on the plane without some wipes or something to say,
Speaker 3: let me wipe this down before I sit my ass
Speaker 3: down here and go to sleep and lay back and
Speaker 3: do all.
Speaker 1: Of this and touch the thing.
Speaker 3: And then I want to pick my own nose or
Speaker 3: rub my face or scratch somewhere. And I'm gonna take
Speaker 3: piss from a man with me and boogers and nastiness.
Speaker 2: So when you ask what boogers and nastiness?
Speaker 1: When you ask, when you say, what, you don't get?
Speaker 2: She said, boers and nastiness. Oh my god, you can't
Speaker 2: make this up. And the funny part is, y'all think
Speaker 2: she exaggerated, but she ain't even giving you the full story.
Speaker 2: The lady gets on the plane and it be to
Speaker 2: the point where they give her all of the whites.
Speaker 2: Like she goes to the person, my own wife, you
Speaker 2: have she got a bag for the wife, about three
Speaker 2: hundred of them. But she still makes sure. She goes
Speaker 2: to the flight attendant, say do you have wipes? And
Speaker 2: they don't. They stop giving them out, you know, recently
Speaker 2: some of them. And if they have them, they'll give
Speaker 2: her the whole bag. And she she's like a kid
Speaker 2: in the candy. So she lights up, her eyes light up.
Speaker 2: She puts them in the bag. She goes to her
Speaker 2: seat and she opens them up and she wipes. And
Speaker 2: if I happen to be sitting next to her, she's like, no, no, no, no,
Speaker 2: sit there, don't touch anything. What are you doing? Don't
Speaker 2: touch it? And then she'll pass you the wipe. And
Speaker 2: then if you don't do it good enough, she's like no, no, no,
Speaker 2: no no. The button's there, no no, no no, and
Speaker 2: she wipes it down, and do you be sitting there? Funny,
Speaker 2: And she wipes the whole seat down. She wipes every button,
Speaker 2: seat belt, she makes anything, and if you anything too much,
Speaker 2: she'll be like, don't touch that. It is a full movie.
Speaker 2: It is not And this is every flight. It's not
Speaker 2: like once. This is every flight. She doesn't take no
Speaker 2: days off.
Speaker 1: Yes I do, I say, am a couple of times.
Speaker 3: I can be like because the night from the night before,
Speaker 3: I feel like the germs they kind of they you know,
Speaker 3: once that plane is parked for you know, however many hours,
Speaker 3: eight hours or seven hours, and they wiped it down
Speaker 3: a little bit. When I get on at six o'clock,
Speaker 3: I'm like, I'm basically heading home to try to clean
Speaker 3: myself up.
Speaker 1: Anyways, so I'm gonna just go with it.
Speaker 3: But this this head thing, head rest, I cannot put
Speaker 3: my hair.
Speaker 1: Oh anyway, all right, thank you.
Speaker 2: It's a real thing.
Speaker 1: I am very serious about it.
Speaker 3: I just think cleanliness is next to godliness, as the
Speaker 3: Muslim community says.
Speaker 2: I agree. I agree. I mean, but you are godly
Speaker 2: necks next to godiness because if you if cleanliness now,
Speaker 2: because you it's above and beyond. Like it's above and beyond.
Speaker 2: She wants me watch you with your phone and like,
Speaker 2: did you did you wipe the phone down? Like wipe
Speaker 2: your phone off? Like she does this to everybody. She'll
Speaker 2: watch a stranger about to touch something and be like,
Speaker 2: let me.
Speaker 3: Just say this, I found my tribe. I found my
Speaker 3: people because in the comments section where the man was
Speaker 3: paying Janice, I wrote a comment and I said, I
Speaker 3: cannot believe that people sit there and they don't clean
Speaker 3: down area, and there is there are a bunch of
Speaker 3: folks in there who are saying cuss words like I
Speaker 3: don't give a shit, who don't like it? I clean everything.
Speaker 3: They gotta wait for me to clean it down. I
Speaker 3: said that what I'm talking about, get it, that's it.
Speaker 3: Those my people in the comment section. Matter of fact,
Speaker 3: I need to see who them people are so I
Speaker 3: can send every single one of them my book.
Speaker 1: I live to tell the story. Okay, lord, there we go.
Speaker 2: You with that said brings us to the end of
Speaker 2: another episode. So it definitely was a good start to
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Speaker 1: Yes, season five.
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