1 00:00:18,880 --> 00:00:22,320 Speaker 1: Hello, everyone, it's your big sister Cheeky's and you've reached 2 00:00:22,320 --> 00:00:26,320 Speaker 1: my personal voicemailbox for the Dear Cheekys podcast. I'm here 3 00:00:26,360 --> 00:00:28,560 Speaker 1: to give you a device on anything and everything you 4 00:00:28,680 --> 00:00:31,160 Speaker 1: need help with. Whether you're going through a breakup or 5 00:00:31,200 --> 00:00:33,640 Speaker 1: having issues with your family, or maybe you have a 6 00:00:33,720 --> 00:00:36,360 Speaker 1: question about my personal life. Whatever the case is, I 7 00:00:36,400 --> 00:00:39,360 Speaker 1: want to hear from you. Remember these are my thoughts 8 00:00:39,360 --> 00:00:41,640 Speaker 1: in my opinions, and if you're suffering from a serious 9 00:00:41,680 --> 00:00:45,560 Speaker 1: issue or hardship, you should seek help from a qualified professional. 10 00:00:45,960 --> 00:00:48,800 Speaker 1: All right, now, go ahead and leave your message at 11 00:00:48,800 --> 00:00:49,560 Speaker 1: the sound of the beeB. 12 00:00:51,440 --> 00:00:56,000 Speaker 2: Well, let's take care. When I started Mike monicole, this 13 00:00:56,120 --> 00:01:03,080 Speaker 2: is that they have even as soon as oh, come 14 00:01:03,120 --> 00:01:19,400 Speaker 2: on text plico so bacomplete una the pero nose gave 15 00:01:21,840 --> 00:01:22,880 Speaker 2: leus the last. 16 00:01:22,800 --> 00:01:40,040 Speaker 3: Icas quandoors list. 17 00:01:41,040 --> 00:01:41,960 Speaker 2: Glass chickies. 18 00:01:43,959 --> 00:01:51,120 Speaker 1: I mean elier mosaosna the Los Angelesa. So Nellie is 19 00:01:51,160 --> 00:01:56,040 Speaker 1: asking me, guys that she has a daughter who is 20 00:01:56,080 --> 00:01:59,640 Speaker 1: twenty years old, I believe, and she's thirty five, and 21 00:01:59,680 --> 00:02:03,520 Speaker 1: her daughter is into girls. She likes girls, and she 22 00:02:03,520 --> 00:02:05,400 Speaker 1: doesn't know how to accept it. She feels that the 23 00:02:05,400 --> 00:02:10,360 Speaker 1: more that she is resistant, the further. Her daughter slips 24 00:02:10,360 --> 00:02:13,399 Speaker 1: from her hands. You know there's space being created here, 25 00:02:13,520 --> 00:02:16,560 Speaker 1: so she's just wondering what I think and how I 26 00:02:16,600 --> 00:02:29,520 Speaker 1: can help her. Ali machino do co madrea pero prestelos, 27 00:02:29,720 --> 00:02:42,320 Speaker 1: I care record prestelos theos knows that man is madre 28 00:02:42,480 --> 00:02:52,320 Speaker 1: no de s madre, the arlous the vida prestelos process 29 00:02:53,160 --> 00:03:02,160 Speaker 1: da you know Jose quest prosy to Kiris tuvida is 30 00:03:02,720 --> 00:03:15,960 Speaker 1: ti tennis can contral la manercept reesto Marcy catoske buena 31 00:03:16,000 --> 00:03:18,520 Speaker 1: persona comb rason. 32 00:03:20,600 --> 00:03:20,920 Speaker 2: K y. 33 00:03:22,400 --> 00:03:25,600 Speaker 1: Lesbian and tens came for cents corrasson and la mo 34 00:03:26,360 --> 00:03:32,399 Speaker 1: to Kriste no in knowing Susie so su okay, yes 35 00:03:32,440 --> 00:03:39,400 Speaker 1: that our viendo no your secuse deficial maf joelov called 36 00:03:39,400 --> 00:03:45,280 Speaker 1: mer mano Johnny pero Jose Vita and talment ma mant 37 00:03:45,720 --> 00:03:50,320 Speaker 1: aspecto pero jr Ma Ma la more q let la 38 00:03:50,400 --> 00:03:57,000 Speaker 1: tis y accepta Johnnys know and mess pero lou bur 39 00:03:57,360 --> 00:04:04,600 Speaker 1: Ela mores grandees algo n compara knows yours and for 40 00:04:04,720 --> 00:04:17,320 Speaker 1: cartenesso and la mota lista to tallah yesso pero po 41 00:04:17,600 --> 00:04:22,640 Speaker 1: po de vaira cost Brando Paso por passo ta and 42 00:04:24,040 --> 00:04:32,200 Speaker 1: conversa mira amo your sec The rest in Taramo por 43 00:04:33,400 --> 00:04:39,640 Speaker 1: Vida returns to Avita Lo Yes. The Comosa Tida pero 44 00:04:39,680 --> 00:04:45,200 Speaker 1: conel t book is a our return with Aceptoo lok 45 00:04:45,680 --> 00:05:01,560 Speaker 1: leve pa flora estemundo esp Nelli tendo a you guys. 46 00:05:01,600 --> 00:05:03,640 Speaker 1: I was just telling Nelly, I'll try to be short, 47 00:05:03,720 --> 00:05:06,560 Speaker 1: but you know that I'm sure it's difficult. I'm not 48 00:05:06,640 --> 00:05:10,719 Speaker 1: a mother yet, but I have raised my siblings and Johnny, 49 00:05:10,760 --> 00:05:13,960 Speaker 1: the youngest is you know, he's gay, and I'm just 50 00:05:14,000 --> 00:05:16,000 Speaker 1: a little bit more open minded. My mom wasn't as 51 00:05:16,080 --> 00:05:18,200 Speaker 1: open minded, but I know that the love that she 52 00:05:18,400 --> 00:05:20,440 Speaker 1: had and has for her children, she was going to 53 00:05:20,560 --> 00:05:24,520 Speaker 1: accept it with time. And it was difficult because I 54 00:05:24,960 --> 00:05:27,600 Speaker 1: wasn't sure how to navigate certain things. But I told her, 55 00:05:27,720 --> 00:05:30,600 Speaker 1: we have to remember that the children that God gives 56 00:05:30,680 --> 00:05:34,920 Speaker 1: us are just borrowed. We're just a tool to bring 57 00:05:35,080 --> 00:05:38,080 Speaker 1: this life into this world, you know, this this light, 58 00:05:38,920 --> 00:05:43,000 Speaker 1: and they they're borrowed, you know, and and we're supposed 59 00:05:43,040 --> 00:05:44,600 Speaker 1: to just let them fly with their own wings and 60 00:05:44,680 --> 00:05:46,720 Speaker 1: make their own decisions. And if she wants her daughter 61 00:05:47,080 --> 00:05:49,560 Speaker 1: in her life. Then she's going to have to find 62 00:05:49,600 --> 00:05:53,039 Speaker 1: and focus more on the light that her daughter has, 63 00:05:53,440 --> 00:05:57,200 Speaker 1: the woman that she has raised, and focused on the 64 00:05:57,320 --> 00:05:59,880 Speaker 1: love part of it. Maybe right now she's not ready 65 00:06:00,120 --> 00:06:04,240 Speaker 1: to hear about details and on how she's living her life, 66 00:06:04,440 --> 00:06:06,040 Speaker 1: but at least she could say I accept you and 67 00:06:06,120 --> 00:06:08,800 Speaker 1: I love you, and I'm willing to walk this with you. 68 00:06:09,720 --> 00:06:11,840 Speaker 1: Just be patient with me as well, and that's going 69 00:06:11,920 --> 00:06:15,200 Speaker 1: to help her daughter so much. So I always say this, guys. 70 00:06:15,279 --> 00:06:17,200 Speaker 1: I know it's easier said than done, but it's true. 71 00:06:17,240 --> 00:06:17,400 Speaker 2: You know. 72 00:06:17,520 --> 00:06:19,440 Speaker 1: I think it's a little by little, step by step 73 00:06:19,560 --> 00:06:22,200 Speaker 1: and being open to it, and especially if she wants 74 00:06:22,200 --> 00:06:24,560 Speaker 1: her daughter in her life, she has to give her 75 00:06:24,640 --> 00:06:42,279 Speaker 1: daughter that space to feel safe. You an update, okay, guys. 76 00:06:42,640 --> 00:06:44,520 Speaker 1: Next question comes from Cynthia. 77 00:06:44,960 --> 00:06:47,479 Speaker 4: Alla chigi is when as not just. 78 00:06:50,080 --> 00:06:50,320 Speaker 2: Cause? 79 00:06:57,279 --> 00:07:05,680 Speaker 4: And Antolo that perro esperoke lo a Crista's passando service. Well, 80 00:07:14,080 --> 00:07:15,600 Speaker 4: Mosa never. 81 00:07:15,600 --> 00:07:16,960 Speaker 2: That Miro It is. 82 00:07:20,240 --> 00:07:26,320 Speaker 4: In spirits much the chick is yell com to the. 83 00:07:30,240 --> 00:07:36,720 Speaker 1: I think okay is be ya, there is be loss. 84 00:07:36,760 --> 00:07:46,840 Speaker 1: Then his kets is the yas miran you crook. Josel 85 00:07:47,000 --> 00:07:55,440 Speaker 1: persona came siempre lego guand no I wear my my 86 00:07:55,560 --> 00:08:03,760 Speaker 1: emotions on my sleep coueno, yeah, stido, mocha pes mi corrasson, 87 00:08:03,960 --> 00:08:09,160 Speaker 1: contola sando jo no pus is it okay your and 88 00:08:09,200 --> 00:08:12,680 Speaker 1: my families and important los los mas porke no so 89 00:08:12,960 --> 00:08:20,560 Speaker 1: no so ya see press, candola, man cosas personalists and 90 00:08:20,960 --> 00:08:26,960 Speaker 1: podcast pyes perrokets as well. But bronto or muco is 91 00:08:27,080 --> 00:08:30,600 Speaker 1: that you on the pest okay sl goore oke, todas 92 00:08:30,720 --> 00:08:36,559 Speaker 1: sufrie mos conchas must be and sufrimos conesto j vida 93 00:08:37,600 --> 00:08:44,840 Speaker 1: yes so jo mio muco s comer candolas rmonas especial 94 00:08:45,400 --> 00:08:51,120 Speaker 1: com comemos not Mexico. Mexico is the malimpia no limit 95 00:08:51,240 --> 00:08:59,400 Speaker 1: in tanta cosa uh als males pero romona rocket las romonas, 96 00:09:00,080 --> 00:09:05,840 Speaker 1: the commas commis les person mobil quer pos, suma, mainting, 97 00:09:05,960 --> 00:09:11,839 Speaker 1: portante moveil querpo, the ario sudar sino posts and p 98 00:09:12,120 --> 00:09:17,920 Speaker 1: contes man yea levas jago como la mana and talmente 99 00:09:18,840 --> 00:09:25,800 Speaker 1: spiritual mental querpo park lost, musculos, paramos moil querpo is 100 00:09:25,880 --> 00:09:33,200 Speaker 1: quandel querpo m bos you know los muscolos duros explica 101 00:09:33,360 --> 00:09:38,679 Speaker 1: opera in Portantes. The last person said, okay, z commerments 102 00:09:38,720 --> 00:09:45,800 Speaker 1: the pastel ConA yaga. Now the so c commer come 103 00:09:46,720 --> 00:09:54,400 Speaker 1: mass the embas, the us, the theta or the ma 104 00:09:54,880 --> 00:10:23,160 Speaker 1: ma is usar the oliva because it does cam isasjo 105 00:10:23,760 --> 00:10:26,760 Speaker 1: and you guys. Cynthia was just basically saying that I've 106 00:10:26,760 --> 00:10:29,280 Speaker 1: looked a little sad lately, and that she's hoping that 107 00:10:29,360 --> 00:10:31,960 Speaker 1: everything that I'm or anything that I'm going through goes 108 00:10:32,000 --> 00:10:34,520 Speaker 1: away fast. And I told her that I think everything 109 00:10:34,559 --> 00:10:37,360 Speaker 1: that's going on in the world right now just breaks 110 00:10:37,400 --> 00:10:40,520 Speaker 1: my heart. And I'm a person that wears my emotions 111 00:10:40,559 --> 00:10:43,079 Speaker 1: on my sleeve, so I said, think you about that. 112 00:10:43,200 --> 00:10:46,520 Speaker 1: And I also she's also wanting to know about any 113 00:10:46,600 --> 00:10:49,320 Speaker 1: tips that I have for weight loss, and I think 114 00:10:49,320 --> 00:10:51,800 Speaker 1: it's a conversation that a lot of us can relate to. 115 00:10:52,720 --> 00:10:55,040 Speaker 1: I just have accepted that this is my life and 116 00:10:55,120 --> 00:10:57,600 Speaker 1: this is how my my body is. If I don't 117 00:10:57,600 --> 00:11:00,840 Speaker 1: take care of it, I'm just susceptible to gaining weight. 118 00:11:00,920 --> 00:11:04,079 Speaker 1: And I just I've accepted that. So I'm learning to 119 00:11:04,920 --> 00:11:07,960 Speaker 1: listen to my body and eat smaller portions and feed 120 00:11:08,040 --> 00:11:11,679 Speaker 1: it more good stuff, green teas, and I have one 121 00:11:11,679 --> 00:11:15,600 Speaker 1: every morning because that helps. It's an antioxidant, green juices, 122 00:11:16,559 --> 00:11:19,840 Speaker 1: more white meats versus you know, red meats. Just things 123 00:11:19,880 --> 00:11:23,480 Speaker 1: that help my body. And everybody literally everybody is different. 124 00:11:24,040 --> 00:11:27,000 Speaker 1: So it's just learning your body and making good choices 125 00:11:27,040 --> 00:11:27,920 Speaker 1: and it just feels good. 126 00:11:28,000 --> 00:11:28,160 Speaker 2: You know. 127 00:11:28,360 --> 00:11:31,000 Speaker 1: Green juices are amazing. It's something for me that I 128 00:11:31,120 --> 00:11:33,040 Speaker 1: just drink in the morning and I feel so much 129 00:11:33,080 --> 00:11:35,559 Speaker 1: better the rest of the day. So just you know, 130 00:11:35,679 --> 00:11:38,559 Speaker 1: giving her some tips and more than anything, it's a 131 00:11:38,640 --> 00:11:42,440 Speaker 1: lot of hydration, a lot of water versus soda. That's 132 00:11:42,480 --> 00:11:45,840 Speaker 1: a huge one. And moving your body as much as 133 00:11:45,880 --> 00:11:47,360 Speaker 1: you can. I told her to start off with three 134 00:11:47,440 --> 00:11:49,760 Speaker 1: days out of the week, little by little, but moving 135 00:11:49,840 --> 00:11:52,120 Speaker 1: and sweating and moving the body as much as you 136 00:11:52,160 --> 00:11:54,680 Speaker 1: can because it helps you not only lose weight, helps 137 00:11:54,720 --> 00:11:59,439 Speaker 1: you mentally spiritually. Guys, sweating is so important. It's something 138 00:11:59,520 --> 00:12:02,000 Speaker 1: we have to do as much as we can. So 139 00:12:02,400 --> 00:12:12,120 Speaker 1: that's what I told her. So Cynthia be okay, guys. 140 00:12:12,400 --> 00:12:14,720 Speaker 1: Last question comes from an anonymous listener. 141 00:12:15,520 --> 00:12:19,599 Speaker 2: Hey, Chicky's how are you. There's this born girl that 142 00:12:20,040 --> 00:12:24,200 Speaker 2: she's always asking me for, like to send her money, 143 00:12:25,000 --> 00:12:25,920 Speaker 2: So I don't know what to do. 144 00:12:27,600 --> 00:12:31,400 Speaker 1: Boy, you know what to do. Okay, Wait, is she 145 00:12:31,600 --> 00:12:34,920 Speaker 1: asking you for money? And like you guys are dating. 146 00:12:36,280 --> 00:12:38,760 Speaker 1: I need a little bit more detail. But it doesn't 147 00:12:38,800 --> 00:12:40,400 Speaker 1: sound like this girl's your girlfriend, because you'd be like, oh, 148 00:12:40,440 --> 00:12:42,440 Speaker 1: my girl keeps asking me for money? Is she at 149 00:12:42,520 --> 00:12:45,160 Speaker 1: least giving you some poute? Like I need to know 150 00:12:45,920 --> 00:12:48,079 Speaker 1: why she's just asking for this money? You feel me? 151 00:12:48,760 --> 00:12:50,960 Speaker 1: I don't know and I can't say too much because 152 00:12:50,960 --> 00:12:53,520 Speaker 1: I don't have a lot of detail. But that girl 153 00:12:53,559 --> 00:12:57,560 Speaker 1: got to work like once in a while is fine. 154 00:12:57,880 --> 00:13:00,000 Speaker 1: But I just feel like I don't know. I'm feeling 155 00:13:00,200 --> 00:13:03,079 Speaker 1: like she's using you. So again, leave me another voice, No, 156 00:13:03,360 --> 00:13:05,920 Speaker 1: update me a little bit more, Let me in on 157 00:13:06,000 --> 00:13:07,679 Speaker 1: a little bit more detail, and I'll give you a 158 00:13:07,760 --> 00:13:11,520 Speaker 1: better answer. But my first instinct is stop giving her 159 00:13:11,559 --> 00:13:14,719 Speaker 1: money until you guys figure out what it is that 160 00:13:14,840 --> 00:13:19,720 Speaker 1: you guys are you know anyway? I hope that help. Okay, 161 00:13:20,040 --> 00:13:22,880 Speaker 1: I hope that helped. But thank you, guys, thank you 162 00:13:23,120 --> 00:13:24,719 Speaker 1: so much for your question. Which has it asked you? 163 00:13:24,720 --> 00:13:31,559 Speaker 1: As ANNELI A Cynthia Kensmandol I don't know his name, 164 00:13:31,640 --> 00:13:34,120 Speaker 1: but thank you guys, Thank you guys for your questions, 165 00:13:34,160 --> 00:13:35,880 Speaker 1: thank you for your time. 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