WEBVTT - Awkward Tuesday: Graduating Class of 2025 0:00:00.000 --> 0:00:02.320 Hey, welcome to your Second Date podcast, and today we've 0:00:02.360 --> 0:00:05.320 got a brand new awkward Tuesday phone call for you. Yeah, 0:00:05.440 --> 0:00:07.480 it's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. A lot of 0:00:07.520 --> 0:00:10.280 neighbor drama, a lot of neighbor drama and mom drama 0:00:10.320 --> 0:00:10.840 in this one. 0:00:11.200 --> 0:00:12.440 So sit back. 0:00:12.480 --> 0:00:14.480 I'm sure there'll be people in the comments calling out 0:00:14.480 --> 0:00:15.320 their bad neighbors. 0:00:15.400 --> 0:00:15.880 Yeah. 0:00:15.920 --> 0:00:19.919 After that, moms that have students graduating and kim relate fact. 0:00:20.360 --> 0:00:21.840 When I graduated, my mom. 0:00:21.680 --> 0:00:23.640 Goes, oh, was I supposed to throw you a party? 0:00:24.000 --> 0:00:25.120 I tell you get the money? 0:00:25.160 --> 0:00:28.960 Bruh, Like, no, it's cool, party, bounce into other people's house. 0:00:29.280 --> 0:00:29.840 So we're good. 0:00:29.840 --> 0:00:30.080 Mom. 0:00:30.200 --> 0:00:34.000 All right, what do we got for comments, Alexis Yeah, 0:00:34.080 --> 0:00:37.199 Lexi said, I finally caught up on every episode of 0:00:37.200 --> 0:00:39.199 the Second Date Update from twenty twelve. 0:00:39.360 --> 0:00:40.720 Time remember on to the full show. 0:00:41.120 --> 0:00:43.760 You guys are the best part of my dad twenty twelve. 0:00:43.840 --> 0:00:45.880 Twenty twelve, Oh. 0:00:45.600 --> 0:00:47.480 My goodness, how long does that take? 0:00:47.840 --> 0:00:48.320 I don't know? 0:00:48.400 --> 0:00:51.240 So many and now she had the full show to binge. 0:00:51.960 --> 0:00:53.600 Time you catch up to this year, we're gonna be 0:00:53.600 --> 0:00:57.040 off the air. Yeah, she's gonna be like twenty five 0:00:57.160 --> 0:00:57.800 whenever you go. 0:00:58.000 --> 0:01:00.120 Yeah, and no, we do have a full sh know, 0:01:00.200 --> 0:01:02.320 it's a full hour long if you just want to 0:01:02.360 --> 0:01:05.280 punish yourself in and get more from us. It's brand 0:01:05.280 --> 0:01:07.640 new every day, and that's on our main show podcast, 0:01:07.680 --> 0:01:09.960 which you can see if you hit that More Like 0:01:10.080 --> 0:01:12.600 Us on Spotify or just search Brooke and Jeffrey. 0:01:12.680 --> 0:01:14.240 Yeah's gotten a lot better. You may want to get 0:01:14.240 --> 0:01:15.160 into the twenty twenties. 0:01:15.240 --> 0:01:19.039 Yeah, yeah, sometimes night here at twenty twelves and I'm like. 0:01:21.360 --> 0:01:23.040 All right, let's start this podcast. 0:01:23.080 --> 0:01:24.440 It's your set. Nope, it's not. 0:01:24.640 --> 0:01:25.960 It's your awkward Tuesday phone call. 0:01:26.000 --> 0:01:27.360 It's brand new. It starts right now. 0:01:29.120 --> 0:01:34.400 There's no one more chill, more zen, more easy going 0:01:34.760 --> 0:01:38.200 than a mom planning a major celebration for her family. 0:01:40.160 --> 0:01:44.080 Are you with me, jeff Yeah, Okay, I'll admit some 0:01:44.280 --> 0:01:47.760 mothers can get a little bit uptight, little neurotic in 0:01:47.880 --> 0:01:50.960 the lead up to something big like this mom. And 0:01:51.000 --> 0:01:54.040 that's exactly the headspace one of our listeners is in 0:01:54.120 --> 0:01:58.160 right now because there's one major thing standing in the 0:01:58.160 --> 0:02:02.520 way of her son's perfect graduation party, and that thing 0:02:03.160 --> 0:02:07.520 is her next door neighbor. Wow, she needs help working 0:02:07.560 --> 0:02:11.760 out a deal without completely burning all her neighborly bridges. 0:02:11.880 --> 0:02:14.799 Oh boy, you're gonna hear it in your brand new 0:02:14.840 --> 0:02:20.080 awkward Tuesday phone call coming out right after this. It's awkward, 0:02:20.320 --> 0:02:26.320 It's Tuesday. It's awkward Tuesday phone call. Remember those old 0:02:26.440 --> 0:02:30.400 nineteen fifties TV shows where everybody lives in a perfect 0:02:30.520 --> 0:02:34.720 little suburban community and all the neighbors are friendly and 0:02:34.880 --> 0:02:37.960 helpful and they let each other borrow cups of sugar 0:02:38.400 --> 0:02:42.600 and wave from their front porch. Turns out the real 0:02:42.639 --> 0:02:49.480 world isn't always quite like that like that a lot 0:02:49.480 --> 0:02:52.200 of the times, it's more like a Cold war standoff 0:02:52.639 --> 0:02:55.880 where you're desperately trying to get your neighbor to stop 0:02:55.919 --> 0:02:59.079 parking their old sailboat on their front lawn and you 0:02:59.200 --> 0:03:02.679 maybe asked them to rotate their creepy garden. No, ma, Armie. 0:03:02.720 --> 0:03:05.519 So they're not staring directly into your bedroom window. 0:03:05.639 --> 0:03:07.760 But here where I'm front, good news, there is a 0:03:07.800 --> 0:03:08.920 bomb shelter you can go to. 0:03:09.280 --> 0:03:12.120 Oh yeah, there's like four on your block. So the 0:03:12.160 --> 0:03:16.400 point is it could be super awkward dealing with your neighbors. 0:03:16.720 --> 0:03:18.960 And that's why one of our listeners has come to 0:03:19.080 --> 0:03:21.720 us for a little bit of help today. Her name 0:03:21.800 --> 0:03:24.000 is April, So April, Welcome to the show. 0:03:24.440 --> 0:03:26.160 Hey, how's it Goingay? 0:03:26.960 --> 0:03:30.799 You sound like a friendly type. I am, but apparently 0:03:30.840 --> 0:03:33.280 something is going on with one of your neighbors that's 0:03:33.280 --> 0:03:35.200 caused an issue for you. What's happening? 0:03:35.320 --> 0:03:39.560 Yes, so, Okay, my son is graduating from high school 0:03:40.160 --> 0:03:43.480 and in a couple of weeks we have the graduation party. Okay, 0:03:43.560 --> 0:03:46.000 and my husband and I like, we're super excited, but 0:03:46.720 --> 0:03:48.320 there's one thing I'm not excited about. 0:03:48.360 --> 0:03:48.880 And I'm a. 0:03:48.800 --> 0:03:50.600 Little bit stressed out about this. 0:03:50.840 --> 0:03:53.560 Okay. We like our house to look really nice. 0:03:53.640 --> 0:03:56.960 We like to keep everything super queen. Lawn is nice 0:03:56.960 --> 0:04:00.600 and tidy, the house is painted nice, like, everything looks great. 0:04:00.800 --> 0:04:01.200 Okay. 0:04:01.240 --> 0:04:05.120 And there is a neighbor our next door to us 0:04:05.600 --> 0:04:08.200 that has not mowed his lawn for I mean, it 0:04:08.240 --> 0:04:13.120 looks like it's been years and it looks awful, and 0:04:13.200 --> 0:04:14.559 I'm just kind of embarrassed. 0:04:14.840 --> 0:04:16.120 You're embarrassed by your neighbor. 0:04:16.200 --> 0:04:17.920 You obviously don't have an ho a right or they 0:04:17.920 --> 0:04:19.400 would have made him cut. 0:04:19.760 --> 0:04:21.839 I love a messy neighbor because it makes me look 0:04:21.920 --> 0:04:25.280 so put together. I mean, honestly, the more rusted out 0:04:25.279 --> 0:04:27.800 cars you have in your front lawn, the more it 0:04:27.839 --> 0:04:30.119 looks like I am top notch. 0:04:30.320 --> 0:04:33.479 Yeah, but it makes the whole neighborhood like a little worse. 0:04:33.680 --> 0:04:36.200 It makes people coming over being like, oh God, like 0:04:36.240 --> 0:04:38.600 she bought a house here is I just. 0:04:38.560 --> 0:04:39.520 Think that you're looking at this. 0:04:39.600 --> 0:04:42.920 There's a lot of positive April. 0:04:42.920 --> 0:04:44.720 Why does it bother you so much? 0:04:44.960 --> 0:04:46.880 The thing is is it just makes the whole neighborhood 0:04:46.920 --> 0:04:49.719 like that, and it just is a reflection on my neighborhood, 0:04:49.720 --> 0:04:50.640 which I am a part of. 0:04:51.080 --> 0:04:54.279 Yeah, maybe you should start the h Okay, it sound 0:04:54.320 --> 0:04:56.680 like you sound like an h oo a president for sure. 0:04:58.040 --> 0:04:59.200 A couple of things that have happened. 0:04:59.200 --> 0:05:01.839 So I'm a little bit nervous to ask him because 0:05:01.880 --> 0:05:04.200 there was a time a couple of years ago when 0:05:04.240 --> 0:05:06.120 he asked me if I could trim one of my 0:05:06.160 --> 0:05:08.480 trees so that he could have a better view, okay, 0:05:08.520 --> 0:05:10.839 And I was really slow to get around to it. 0:05:10.880 --> 0:05:12.640 I eventually did get around to it, but it was 0:05:12.839 --> 0:05:16.120 definitely not a priority of mine. So I'm just worried 0:05:16.160 --> 0:05:20.560 that he's going to remember that and be like, I'm 0:05:20.560 --> 0:05:23.920 not going to mow my lawn anytime soon, or I'm 0:05:23.920 --> 0:05:25.760 going to wait until the day before or something. I'm 0:05:25.800 --> 0:05:29.000 just it's really stressing me out. And I'm looking back, 0:05:29.040 --> 0:05:32.560 I should have definitely gotten to that earlier. I didn't think. Okay, 0:05:32.920 --> 0:05:33.960 this is come full circle. 0:05:34.080 --> 0:05:35.880 So it sounds like you guys don't have a real 0:05:35.920 --> 0:05:38.080 close relationship you and this neighbor. 0:05:38.800 --> 0:05:41.560 No, he's nice, he's fine, he's we don't talk or 0:05:41.560 --> 0:05:44.280 get together. So I just I'm a little bit worried 0:05:44.279 --> 0:05:45.480 about asking him. 0:05:45.600 --> 0:05:46.440 And I mean, so you. 0:05:46.400 --> 0:05:48.760 Haven't even like reached out to him at all about this. 0:05:48.839 --> 0:05:51.560 You haven't texted him or anything regarding his No. 0:05:51.839 --> 0:05:53.920 Yeah, but you don't know. Maybe there's something going on 0:05:54.279 --> 0:05:56.800 for why he can't mow the lawn. Maybe the easiest 0:05:56.800 --> 0:05:58.719 solution is just to offer to do it yourself. 0:05:59.000 --> 0:06:00.000 Did your son go do it? 0:06:02.240 --> 0:06:04.000 They hired someone, but the soun's way better. 0:06:04.200 --> 0:06:06.440 Like he got to be dealing with a sickness, or 0:06:06.440 --> 0:06:08.120 he could be out of town. Like this could be 0:06:08.120 --> 0:06:10.160 a lot of different reasons. Why he's a. 0:06:10.080 --> 0:06:12.000 Young, healthy guy. He's he's young and healthy. 0:06:12.240 --> 0:06:14.599 Okay, we're imagining like an old guy. 0:06:14.720 --> 0:06:16.360 I mean I see him outside all the time. You know, 0:06:16.400 --> 0:06:18.839 he works on his car and he like he works out, 0:06:18.920 --> 0:06:20.800 and Okay, I just I am not sure what the 0:06:20.880 --> 0:06:23.920 deal is with this lawn, like why he doesn't keep 0:06:23.960 --> 0:06:24.240 it up. 0:06:24.400 --> 0:06:26.520 I see, I mean because the thing is, like, normally 0:06:26.520 --> 0:06:28.520 in this segment we would help people with like their 0:06:28.560 --> 0:06:32.599 relationship issues, but this is a really relatable problem for 0:06:32.760 --> 0:06:35.440 a lot of people who have one neighbor who they'd 0:06:35.520 --> 0:06:38.000 like to ask to like address something at their house. 0:06:38.240 --> 0:06:40.160 But it's uncomfortable to ask them to do. 0:06:40.080 --> 0:06:42.800 That, right, because it's not your house and not your business. 0:06:42.880 --> 0:06:47.359 I'm sorry, it's like it feels a little judge to 0:06:47.480 --> 0:06:49.039 be worried about the neighbor's lawn. 0:06:49.200 --> 0:06:51.760 Neighbors can be judgy. My neighbor tried to fight me 0:06:51.760 --> 0:06:54.839 because I was too loud one night, remember was with 0:06:54.920 --> 0:06:55.360 a girl. 0:06:55.520 --> 0:06:58.600 So with your awkward call here, you're looking for advice 0:06:58.800 --> 0:07:02.280 on how to call your nameabor and politely get him 0:07:02.279 --> 0:07:04.840 to agree to fix up the mess that he's made 0:07:04.880 --> 0:07:05.360 of his house. 0:07:05.520 --> 0:07:10.360 Yeah, I mean I would be insulted honestly like that. 0:07:10.560 --> 0:07:12.680 I think that's probably what you're worried about, right, It's 0:07:12.720 --> 0:07:15.200 like insulting him and saying that he's not taking good 0:07:15.200 --> 0:07:16.400 care of him some things. 0:07:17.880 --> 0:07:20.360 I don't know if I'm I think he should be 0:07:20.440 --> 0:07:23.320 cleaning everything up. Like, so I'm not worried about me 0:07:23.440 --> 0:07:26.120 being insulting. I mean, I just want him to do it. 0:07:26.720 --> 0:07:29.920 You should want a relationship with your neighbor. 0:07:30.360 --> 0:07:33.600 They don't seem to talk very much at all. 0:07:33.760 --> 0:07:35.600 And if he's going to do something that you'd like 0:07:35.640 --> 0:07:38.240 him to do, you may want to focus on kindness 0:07:38.600 --> 0:07:40.400 or you know, like positivity. 0:07:41.480 --> 0:07:43.760 Yeah, no, and I am I'm going to do that. 0:07:44.480 --> 0:07:46.200 You're going to host a big party next door and 0:07:46.240 --> 0:07:50.600 if i'd watch because yeah, and I mean I I 0:07:50.680 --> 0:07:53.560 have I have signed up all over that he's graduating. 0:07:53.600 --> 0:07:54.160 So it's like. 0:07:56.040 --> 0:08:01.240 It's probably something that doesn't embarrass him, right, Like, you're okay, but. 0:08:01.280 --> 0:08:04.239 Remember they have that. They already have the animosity built 0:08:04.320 --> 0:08:06.600 up between them from when he asked her to do 0:08:06.680 --> 0:08:09.560 a favor. Yeah, and she just ignored it for months. 0:08:09.720 --> 0:08:12.160 If she just made a giant sign that says don't 0:08:12.200 --> 0:08:13.239 look at this lawn. 0:08:13.720 --> 0:08:18.520 Yeah, with the other sign. They're looking for advice, and 0:08:18.560 --> 0:08:21.840 you said you are willing to actually doing it yourself 0:08:21.920 --> 0:08:27.280 or having your son do it for him. Yes, that's 0:08:27.320 --> 0:08:30.000 a starting point at least, so we can come back. 0:08:30.080 --> 0:08:31.800 We'll try and think of some advice to give you 0:08:31.840 --> 0:08:34.719 and let you call your neighbor and force him to 0:08:34.760 --> 0:08:39.480 clean up his dirty, disgusting front lawn. We'll do it 0:08:39.520 --> 0:08:41.640 more polite when we do it with your awkward Tuesday 0:08:41.640 --> 0:08:46.679 phone call right after this, thank you. Hold on, it's awkward. 0:08:46.920 --> 0:08:47.720 It's Tuesday. 0:08:48.600 --> 0:08:52.520 It's awkward Tuesday phone call. How do you get your 0:08:52.679 --> 0:08:56.920 neighbor to agree to make changes that you want to 0:08:57.120 --> 0:09:02.000 their house? Yes, that is a fun pretty normal because 0:09:02.160 --> 0:09:05.360 a big party is happening for our listener, April, because 0:09:05.400 --> 0:09:09.080 her son is having a graduation from his high school. 0:09:09.080 --> 0:09:12.880 He's graduating on his very first try. Oh Man, good 0:09:12.960 --> 0:09:18.240 for him. Je It's okay, but there's going to be 0:09:18.240 --> 0:09:20.800 at least fifty people at this party. They're going to 0:09:20.840 --> 0:09:23.520 be parking all down the street. And the problem is 0:09:23.559 --> 0:09:26.880 her next door neighbor's front lawn is a total eye sore, 0:09:27.640 --> 0:09:30.360 so she needs him to cut it clean it up 0:09:30.400 --> 0:09:32.960 in the next forty eight hours. And it's turned to 0:09:33.080 --> 0:09:37.400 us for advice on how to have that awkward conversation politely. 0:09:37.720 --> 0:09:41.079 I never knew someone who wanted an HOA before that 0:09:41.240 --> 0:09:41.680 she does. 0:09:41.840 --> 0:09:44.680 But since she doesn't, we're the closest thing she has broke. 0:09:44.679 --> 0:09:46.840 What's your advice to her before she calls this guy. 0:09:46.920 --> 0:09:47.560 I think it's. 0:09:47.440 --> 0:09:50.040 Pretty easy, April. I think that what you have to 0:09:50.120 --> 0:09:52.680 do is you have to invite him to the graduation 0:09:52.800 --> 0:09:56.239 party over. 0:09:56.679 --> 0:09:57.760 What do you think of that, April? 0:09:58.400 --> 0:10:00.360 I don't think that's a good idea. And he's not 0:10:00.400 --> 0:10:01.760 part of our friend group. I could make him a 0:10:01.800 --> 0:10:03.120 plate of food and bring it over. 0:10:03.400 --> 0:10:04.280 He's your neighbor. 0:10:05.120 --> 0:10:06.839 He doesn't have to be part of the friend group. 0:10:06.960 --> 0:10:07.559 He's your neighbor. 0:10:07.640 --> 0:10:10.200 Invite him over, and if he's invested in the party, 0:10:10.240 --> 0:10:12.160 then he's more likely to help you out. 0:10:12.280 --> 0:10:15.040 Yeah, but it sounds like they're just acquaintances, Like we're 0:10:15.080 --> 0:10:15.839 not friends. 0:10:15.960 --> 0:10:18.199 How do you become friends if you don't start somewhere? 0:10:18.520 --> 0:10:20.880 How do you know that I want friends? Yeah? 0:10:21.760 --> 0:10:23.600 And how do we know that this neighbor isn't going 0:10:23.679 --> 0:10:25.480 to get upset when he finds out the Sun has 0:10:25.520 --> 0:10:28.079 graduated high school. We don't know if he's graduated. It 0:10:28.160 --> 0:10:31.960 might hurt his feelings, right, Remember? Okay, so Brooke wants 0:10:32.000 --> 0:10:35.360 to education shame your neighbor. I don't know if that's great. 0:10:36.040 --> 0:10:36.920 Invite him over. 0:10:37.480 --> 0:10:40.480 Okay, that's over one. Okay, Jose, what. 0:10:40.400 --> 0:10:43.280 Do you think do something that I like to call 0:10:43.720 --> 0:10:47.959 a neighbor favor for favor. 0:10:48.840 --> 0:10:52.280 No, Jeff, not those favorites. Those could work. 0:10:52.760 --> 0:10:53.800 She said he was young. 0:10:53.920 --> 0:10:56.760 And what's your advice, jose Focus. 0:10:57.559 --> 0:10:59.880 You tell him that you have a favor to ask him, 0:11:00.080 --> 0:11:04.040 and if he says yes, then you will do any 0:11:04.080 --> 0:11:06.960 favor that he would like from you within reason. 0:11:07.200 --> 0:11:10.120 Okay, right, you get like a pre prom What do 0:11:10.120 --> 0:11:12.440 you think about that, April, I'll mow your lawn if 0:11:12.440 --> 0:11:13.200 you mowed mine. 0:11:13.440 --> 0:11:16.160 I like that neighbor favor for what is it. 0:11:16.120 --> 0:11:19.280 Called neighbor favor for favor? Trademark patent pending. 0:11:22.520 --> 0:11:23.400 Somebody told me you're. 0:11:23.240 --> 0:11:24.800 Not gonna like whatever favorite he asks. 0:11:26.040 --> 0:11:28.120 He doesn't even want to make reason. He would even 0:11:28.120 --> 0:11:28.760 come to the party. 0:11:28.920 --> 0:11:30.600 You know, you can't even invite into your house. 0:11:30.760 --> 0:11:34.720 Brook, You just got owned in your advice by I win. 0:11:35.040 --> 0:11:39.880 Education doesn't always win, brother, Okay, Brook, just be quiet. 0:11:40.280 --> 0:11:43.200 Okay, Yes, I'm actually a good neighbor. 0:11:43.240 --> 0:11:44.920 Okay, you need to swallow your pride right. 0:11:44.960 --> 0:11:47.720 Now, marinate in that bird own you. 0:11:47.720 --> 0:11:50.600 You're reflecting poorly on our entire show. So let's call 0:11:50.640 --> 0:11:51.360 this this guy. 0:11:51.559 --> 0:11:53.520 I'm growing my grass out in protests. 0:11:53.559 --> 0:11:56.280 Okay, you already do we know? Okay, here we go. 0:11:56.360 --> 0:11:58.319 I'm gonna die your neighbor for you. What's his name, 0:11:58.360 --> 0:12:02.520 by the way, April, Matt. Okay, we're calling him right now. 0:12:02.559 --> 0:12:03.880 We'll step in if we feel like you need a 0:12:03.880 --> 0:12:06.640 little help. But you got this all right, gotcha? Okay, 0:12:06.679 --> 0:12:07.120 good luck? 0:12:13.480 --> 0:12:13.760 Boo. 0:12:15.120 --> 0:12:16.120 Hi Matt. 0:12:16.240 --> 0:12:22.640 This is April, your neighbor right next door. How are you? 0:12:23.679 --> 0:12:26.400 I'm doing well, what's going on? What's what's up? What's 0:12:26.400 --> 0:12:27.240 the call? Oh? 0:12:27.400 --> 0:12:29.520 I mean I I just you know, checking in and 0:12:30.160 --> 0:12:33.200 haven't seen you out doing much lately, So I just 0:12:33.760 --> 0:12:35.200 concerned and stuff. 0:12:34.880 --> 0:12:37.880 And you're calling for welfare check on your. 0:12:37.760 --> 0:12:41.079 System, I mean, not not not so much on you, 0:12:41.120 --> 0:12:44.880 but more on your lawn. So, I mean I was 0:12:44.920 --> 0:12:46.640 just curious, like, so, well. 0:12:46.559 --> 0:12:49.520 Now, what did you just say about my wom Well. 0:12:49.840 --> 0:12:54.439 We noticed your lawn has been very overgrown, and I 0:12:54.520 --> 0:12:58.040 think it's overgrown. Huh yeah, yeah, I mean just just 0:12:58.120 --> 0:13:00.920 it's not super bad, but it just doesn't look like 0:13:00.960 --> 0:13:02.839 it's been a mode for a really long time. 0:13:04.440 --> 0:13:05.680 Two weeks ago. What's wrong with you? 0:13:06.800 --> 0:13:06.959 Oh? 0:13:07.040 --> 0:13:10.480 Did you? It's it's just really overgrown with this Yeah, 0:13:10.480 --> 0:13:12.199 you keep saying it's overgrown. But it's not. 0:13:13.800 --> 0:13:15.320 Well, I mean, if you look at it compared to 0:13:15.360 --> 0:13:18.160 any other other houses in the neighborhood, it's very different. 0:13:19.120 --> 0:13:20.760 You know, just get to the point, what do you need? 0:13:21.120 --> 0:13:23.480 Well, just hoping that you know that you would be 0:13:23.480 --> 0:13:26.199 able to kind of get it mode, because I have 0:13:26.280 --> 0:13:29.360 a big graduation party coming up for my son and 0:13:29.800 --> 0:13:31.079 all right, you know, I. 0:13:31.040 --> 0:13:33.160 Can do anything. I can get to it in a 0:13:33.200 --> 0:13:34.119 couple of weeks. 0:13:35.480 --> 0:13:39.720 Okay, Well, so the graduation party is in like three days. 0:13:40.120 --> 0:13:43.840 So what I seem to remember a favor that I 0:13:43.880 --> 0:13:46.160 asked of you a while back, and it took me 0:13:46.200 --> 0:13:47.760 about a year to do it. Do you remember that 0:13:47.800 --> 0:13:48.840 branch I asked you to cut? 0:13:49.320 --> 0:13:49.520 Yes? 0:13:49.679 --> 0:13:52.200 And I am so sorry about that. I am so sorry. 0:13:52.280 --> 0:13:55.400 That was absolutely yeah. I mean just so you know, 0:13:55.440 --> 0:13:57.600 like if you would have had a party or something happening, 0:13:57.640 --> 0:13:59.120 I absolutely would have done it right away. 0:13:59.600 --> 0:14:01.160 That's all I need to say. I got a freaking 0:14:01.240 --> 0:14:04.320 party going on over here for you to cut a branch, Yeah, 0:14:04.360 --> 0:14:05.120 oh yeah, absolutely. 0:14:05.200 --> 0:14:08.640 If it was something that was like pressing, of course, 0:14:09.280 --> 0:14:11.680 of course I would, you know, And like if there's 0:14:11.720 --> 0:14:14.679 any favor, like what neighbor favor for a favor if 0:14:15.080 --> 0:14:18.160 you have something that you need done. 0:14:18.360 --> 0:14:19.080 I will help you. 0:14:19.640 --> 0:14:22.320 Like but then reason of course, like if you need. 0:14:22.360 --> 0:14:25.240 What did you just say, a neighbor favor for a fit? What? 0:14:26.040 --> 0:14:27.480 Yeah, neighbor favor for a favor? 0:14:28.200 --> 0:14:30.160 You know what I mean? Could we could start right 0:14:30.160 --> 0:14:33.600 now with an apology for the branch? Okay? 0:14:33.960 --> 0:14:35.800 And I said I was sorry, you know I did 0:14:36.400 --> 0:14:40.840 say it again. I'm sorry. I'm very sorry. I am 0:14:41.240 --> 0:14:43.040 It's true. I should have gotten to that earlier, and 0:14:43.080 --> 0:14:44.880 in the future that will be different. 0:14:46.760 --> 0:14:49.280 All right, Well it was pretty good, I guess. I 0:14:49.280 --> 0:14:50.400 guess it can wear something out. 0:14:50.880 --> 0:14:52.840 Oh, thank you so much. 0:14:54.200 --> 0:14:56.400 Well, what I'm thinking is maybe if you, you know, 0:14:56.520 --> 0:14:58.360 if you guys want to come over cut my lawn 0:14:58.400 --> 0:15:01.640 for like six months or so, we can work something 0:15:01.680 --> 0:15:02.200 like that out. 0:15:02.360 --> 0:15:05.240 Wait, you want us to come and cut your lawn 0:15:05.320 --> 0:15:06.400 for six months? 0:15:06.760 --> 0:15:08.160 Well, doesn't have to be all of you, just one 0:15:08.240 --> 0:15:08.440 of you. 0:15:08.680 --> 0:15:12.400 Oh, you're taking advantage of the situation here. This is 0:15:12.480 --> 0:15:15.800 kind of silly, or I mean, I said, within a reason. 0:15:16.320 --> 0:15:18.560 Well, maybe we just talked it over your graduation party 0:15:18.560 --> 0:15:19.720 after you invite me to it. 0:15:19.880 --> 0:15:27.280 Oh my god, oh my god. 0:15:26.600 --> 0:15:29.160 What the hell is that is not I don't think 0:15:29.200 --> 0:15:31.160 that that's gonna happen. I can bring you over a plate. 0:15:34.040 --> 0:15:37.400 She's going with this, but yeah, wait, what is what 0:15:37.520 --> 0:15:38.080 is going on? 0:15:38.160 --> 0:15:40.640 Hey? What's up, Matt. You're on a radio show right 0:15:40.680 --> 0:15:42.440 now called Broke and Jeffrey in the Morning. 0:15:42.880 --> 0:15:46.160 We're just handling neighbor relationships, right yeah. 0:15:45.560 --> 0:15:47.440 Wait a month I'm on the radio. 0:15:47.960 --> 0:15:51.040 Yeah, there's a second movie called Awkward Tuesday phone Call, 0:15:51.400 --> 0:15:53.760 and your neighbor April reached out to us for help 0:15:53.800 --> 0:15:55.479 regarding the whole lawn situation. 0:15:55.800 --> 0:15:56.960 You've been listening to this whole time. 0:15:57.240 --> 0:15:59.680 That's aggressive fighting. 0:15:59.760 --> 0:16:02.400 I've heard it a long time, bro six months. 0:16:02.520 --> 0:16:04.440 Come on, man, you don't got to do that to her. 0:16:04.640 --> 0:16:06.320 I'm kind on his side. 0:16:07.880 --> 0:16:11.000 I was just kidding. 0:16:09.080 --> 0:16:13.040 Oh is that you Now you're on the radio and 0:16:13.040 --> 0:16:14.640 there's like millions of people listening. 0:16:15.600 --> 0:16:17.440 No, no, no, that's just my sense of humor. I 0:16:17.480 --> 0:16:18.800 was joking the whole time. 0:16:21.400 --> 0:16:23.400 One of those like angry I'm gonna yell at you 0:16:23.520 --> 0:16:24.280 sense of humor. 0:16:24.440 --> 0:16:27.080 Yeah, exactly, Come one. 0:16:27.320 --> 0:16:29.160 Did you hear that he was joking with you the 0:16:29.160 --> 0:16:29.640 whole time? 0:16:29.760 --> 0:16:32.840 I'm so earlieved he he's joking, tonnyhow I didn't believe 0:16:32.840 --> 0:16:33.320 that before. 0:16:33.600 --> 0:16:33.920 I can't. 0:16:34.800 --> 0:16:38.280 I think she's being sarcastic. I think it's sarcastic. Weird. 0:16:38.360 --> 0:16:41.640 Yeah, you guys are not communicating well in your neighborhood. 0:16:42.080 --> 0:16:44.320 No, I think you're absolutely right. I think that at 0:16:44.320 --> 0:16:45.400 the end of the day, I do want to have 0:16:45.400 --> 0:16:47.800 good neighbors. I wish we had an hoa, but we don't. 0:16:49.640 --> 0:16:51.880 I can have my son come over and mololwan if 0:16:51.920 --> 0:16:53.720 he needs that. It's totally fine for. 0:16:53.800 --> 0:16:55.120 Six months your son. 0:16:55.720 --> 0:16:57.360 No, No, for what like one time? 0:16:57.600 --> 0:16:59.920 Okay, okay, so Matt, you work here. 0:17:00.400 --> 0:17:02.200 No, I was kidding that whole time. Don't even worry 0:17:02.240 --> 0:17:04.080 about it. I'll do it today. I'll take care of it. 0:17:05.560 --> 0:17:08.240 Wait now, I mean don't do it. He didn't know 0:17:08.280 --> 0:17:11.040 he was on the radio. Give him a break. Okay, 0:17:11.320 --> 0:17:14.520 this is his radio personality is compensating. What about the 0:17:14.560 --> 0:17:15.600 invite to the party. 0:17:15.680 --> 0:17:18.520 I actually think you should go to the party. 0:17:18.960 --> 0:17:21.399 I thought that from the very beginning that would be 0:17:22.080 --> 0:17:22.879 all you're. 0:17:22.760 --> 0:17:26.640 A And he said he was kidding about everything, even 0:17:26.680 --> 0:17:27.160 coming over. 0:17:27.800 --> 0:17:30.000 Yeah, I heard that. You said you'd make me a 0:17:30.040 --> 0:17:34.159 food plate. I will take that. I would love to 0:17:34.160 --> 0:17:35.000 bring you a food plate. 0:17:35.160 --> 0:17:37.600 Totally fine, looking up. 0:17:37.760 --> 0:17:42.080 This is good neighborly compromise, good communication. All we wanted 0:17:42.080 --> 0:17:43.800 to get out of this was a mode lawn. And 0:17:43.840 --> 0:17:46.399 it sounds like now your son doesn't even have to 0:17:46.440 --> 0:17:47.560 do it for him, He's gonna do. 0:17:47.520 --> 0:17:49.119 It in shand exactly. 0:17:49.320 --> 0:17:53.159 It's perfect, smallest. 0:17:52.680 --> 0:17:53.760 Plate ever made for. 0:17:55.880 --> 0:17:59.520