1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:02,320 Speaker 1: Hey, welcome to your Second Date podcast, and today we've 2 00:00:02,360 --> 00:00:05,320 Speaker 1: got a brand new awkward Tuesday phone call for you. Yeah, 3 00:00:05,440 --> 00:00:07,480 Speaker 1: it's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. A lot of 4 00:00:07,520 --> 00:00:10,280 Speaker 1: neighbor drama, a lot of neighbor drama and mom drama 5 00:00:10,320 --> 00:00:10,840 Speaker 1: in this one. 6 00:00:11,200 --> 00:00:12,440 Speaker 2: So sit back. 7 00:00:12,480 --> 00:00:14,480 Speaker 1: I'm sure there'll be people in the comments calling out 8 00:00:14,480 --> 00:00:15,320 Speaker 1: their bad neighbors. 9 00:00:15,400 --> 00:00:15,880 Speaker 2: Yeah. 10 00:00:15,920 --> 00:00:19,919 Speaker 3: After that, moms that have students graduating and kim relate fact. 11 00:00:20,360 --> 00:00:21,840 Speaker 3: When I graduated, my mom. 12 00:00:21,680 --> 00:00:23,640 Speaker 1: Goes, oh, was I supposed to throw you a party? 13 00:00:24,000 --> 00:00:25,120 Speaker 2: I tell you get the money? 14 00:00:25,160 --> 00:00:28,960 Speaker 1: Bruh, Like, no, it's cool, party, bounce into other people's house. 15 00:00:29,280 --> 00:00:29,840 Speaker 4: So we're good. 16 00:00:29,840 --> 00:00:30,080 Speaker 3: Mom. 17 00:00:30,200 --> 00:00:34,000 Speaker 1: All right, what do we got for comments, Alexis Yeah, 18 00:00:34,080 --> 00:00:37,199 Speaker 1: Lexi said, I finally caught up on every episode of 19 00:00:37,200 --> 00:00:39,199 Speaker 1: the Second Date Update from twenty twelve. 20 00:00:39,360 --> 00:00:40,720 Speaker 3: Time remember on to the full show. 21 00:00:41,120 --> 00:00:43,760 Speaker 2: You guys are the best part of my dad twenty twelve. 22 00:00:43,840 --> 00:00:45,880 Speaker 1: Twenty twelve, Oh. 23 00:00:45,600 --> 00:00:47,480 Speaker 2: My goodness, how long does that take? 24 00:00:47,840 --> 00:00:48,320 Speaker 1: I don't know? 25 00:00:48,400 --> 00:00:51,240 Speaker 3: So many and now she had the full show to binge. 26 00:00:51,960 --> 00:00:53,600 Speaker 4: Time you catch up to this year, we're gonna be 27 00:00:53,600 --> 00:00:57,040 Speaker 4: off the air. Yeah, she's gonna be like twenty five 28 00:00:57,160 --> 00:00:57,800 Speaker 4: whenever you go. 29 00:00:58,000 --> 00:01:00,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, and no, we do have a full sh know, 30 00:01:00,200 --> 00:01:02,320 Speaker 1: it's a full hour long if you just want to 31 00:01:02,360 --> 00:01:05,280 Speaker 1: punish yourself in and get more from us. It's brand 32 00:01:05,280 --> 00:01:07,640 Speaker 1: new every day, and that's on our main show podcast, 33 00:01:07,680 --> 00:01:09,960 Speaker 1: which you can see if you hit that More Like 34 00:01:10,080 --> 00:01:12,600 Speaker 1: Us on Spotify or just search Brooke and Jeffrey. 35 00:01:12,680 --> 00:01:14,240 Speaker 2: Yeah's gotten a lot better. You may want to get 36 00:01:14,240 --> 00:01:15,160 Speaker 2: into the twenty twenties. 37 00:01:15,240 --> 00:01:19,039 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, sometimes night here at twenty twelves and I'm like. 38 00:01:21,360 --> 00:01:23,040 Speaker 2: All right, let's start this podcast. 39 00:01:23,080 --> 00:01:24,440 Speaker 1: It's your set. Nope, it's not. 40 00:01:24,640 --> 00:01:25,960 Speaker 3: It's your awkward Tuesday phone call. 41 00:01:26,000 --> 00:01:27,360 Speaker 1: It's brand new. It starts right now. 42 00:01:29,120 --> 00:01:34,400 Speaker 2: There's no one more chill, more zen, more easy going 43 00:01:34,760 --> 00:01:38,200 Speaker 2: than a mom planning a major celebration for her family. 44 00:01:40,160 --> 00:01:44,080 Speaker 2: Are you with me, jeff Yeah, Okay, I'll admit some 45 00:01:44,280 --> 00:01:47,760 Speaker 2: mothers can get a little bit uptight, little neurotic in 46 00:01:47,880 --> 00:01:50,960 Speaker 2: the lead up to something big like this mom. And 47 00:01:51,000 --> 00:01:54,040 Speaker 2: that's exactly the headspace one of our listeners is in 48 00:01:54,120 --> 00:01:58,160 Speaker 2: right now because there's one major thing standing in the 49 00:01:58,160 --> 00:02:02,520 Speaker 2: way of her son's perfect graduation party, and that thing 50 00:02:03,160 --> 00:02:07,520 Speaker 2: is her next door neighbor. Wow, she needs help working 51 00:02:07,560 --> 00:02:11,760 Speaker 2: out a deal without completely burning all her neighborly bridges. 52 00:02:11,880 --> 00:02:14,799 Speaker 2: Oh boy, you're gonna hear it in your brand new 53 00:02:14,840 --> 00:02:20,080 Speaker 2: awkward Tuesday phone call coming out right after this. It's awkward, 54 00:02:20,320 --> 00:02:26,320 Speaker 2: It's Tuesday. It's awkward Tuesday phone call. Remember those old 55 00:02:26,440 --> 00:02:30,400 Speaker 2: nineteen fifties TV shows where everybody lives in a perfect 56 00:02:30,520 --> 00:02:34,720 Speaker 2: little suburban community and all the neighbors are friendly and 57 00:02:34,880 --> 00:02:37,960 Speaker 2: helpful and they let each other borrow cups of sugar 58 00:02:38,400 --> 00:02:42,600 Speaker 2: and wave from their front porch. Turns out the real 59 00:02:42,639 --> 00:02:49,480 Speaker 2: world isn't always quite like that like that a lot 60 00:02:49,480 --> 00:02:52,200 Speaker 2: of the times, it's more like a Cold war standoff 61 00:02:52,639 --> 00:02:55,880 Speaker 2: where you're desperately trying to get your neighbor to stop 62 00:02:55,919 --> 00:02:59,079 Speaker 2: parking their old sailboat on their front lawn and you 63 00:02:59,200 --> 00:03:02,679 Speaker 2: maybe asked them to rotate their creepy garden. No, ma, Armie. 64 00:03:02,720 --> 00:03:05,519 Speaker 2: So they're not staring directly into your bedroom window. 65 00:03:05,639 --> 00:03:07,760 Speaker 1: But here where I'm front, good news, there is a 66 00:03:07,800 --> 00:03:08,920 Speaker 1: bomb shelter you can go to. 67 00:03:09,280 --> 00:03:12,120 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, there's like four on your block. So the 68 00:03:12,160 --> 00:03:16,400 Speaker 2: point is it could be super awkward dealing with your neighbors. 69 00:03:16,720 --> 00:03:18,960 Speaker 2: And that's why one of our listeners has come to 70 00:03:19,080 --> 00:03:21,720 Speaker 2: us for a little bit of help today. Her name 71 00:03:21,800 --> 00:03:24,000 Speaker 2: is April, So April, Welcome to the show. 72 00:03:24,440 --> 00:03:26,160 Speaker 3: Hey, how's it Goingay? 73 00:03:26,960 --> 00:03:30,799 Speaker 2: You sound like a friendly type. I am, but apparently 74 00:03:30,840 --> 00:03:33,280 Speaker 2: something is going on with one of your neighbors that's 75 00:03:33,280 --> 00:03:35,200 Speaker 2: caused an issue for you. What's happening? 76 00:03:35,320 --> 00:03:39,560 Speaker 3: Yes, so, Okay, my son is graduating from high school 77 00:03:40,160 --> 00:03:43,480 Speaker 3: and in a couple of weeks we have the graduation party. Okay, 78 00:03:43,560 --> 00:03:46,000 Speaker 3: and my husband and I like, we're super excited, but 79 00:03:46,720 --> 00:03:48,320 Speaker 3: there's one thing I'm not excited about. 80 00:03:48,360 --> 00:03:48,880 Speaker 5: And I'm a. 81 00:03:48,800 --> 00:03:50,600 Speaker 3: Little bit stressed out about this. 82 00:03:50,840 --> 00:03:53,560 Speaker 5: Okay. We like our house to look really nice. 83 00:03:53,640 --> 00:03:56,960 Speaker 3: We like to keep everything super queen. Lawn is nice 84 00:03:56,960 --> 00:04:00,600 Speaker 3: and tidy, the house is painted nice, like, everything looks great. 85 00:04:00,800 --> 00:04:01,200 Speaker 1: Okay. 86 00:04:01,240 --> 00:04:05,120 Speaker 3: And there is a neighbor our next door to us 87 00:04:05,600 --> 00:04:08,200 Speaker 3: that has not mowed his lawn for I mean, it 88 00:04:08,240 --> 00:04:13,120 Speaker 3: looks like it's been years and it looks awful, and 89 00:04:13,200 --> 00:04:14,559 Speaker 3: I'm just kind of embarrassed. 90 00:04:14,840 --> 00:04:16,120 Speaker 1: You're embarrassed by your neighbor. 91 00:04:16,200 --> 00:04:17,920 Speaker 4: You obviously don't have an ho a right or they 92 00:04:17,920 --> 00:04:19,400 Speaker 4: would have made him cut. 93 00:04:19,760 --> 00:04:21,839 Speaker 1: I love a messy neighbor because it makes me look 94 00:04:21,920 --> 00:04:25,280 Speaker 1: so put together. I mean, honestly, the more rusted out 95 00:04:25,279 --> 00:04:27,800 Speaker 1: cars you have in your front lawn, the more it 96 00:04:27,839 --> 00:04:30,119 Speaker 1: looks like I am top notch. 97 00:04:30,320 --> 00:04:33,479 Speaker 4: Yeah, but it makes the whole neighborhood like a little worse. 98 00:04:33,680 --> 00:04:36,200 Speaker 2: It makes people coming over being like, oh God, like 99 00:04:36,240 --> 00:04:38,600 Speaker 2: she bought a house here is I just. 100 00:04:38,560 --> 00:04:39,520 Speaker 3: Think that you're looking at this. 101 00:04:39,600 --> 00:04:42,920 Speaker 1: There's a lot of positive April. 102 00:04:42,920 --> 00:04:44,720 Speaker 2: Why does it bother you so much? 103 00:04:44,960 --> 00:04:46,880 Speaker 3: The thing is is it just makes the whole neighborhood 104 00:04:46,920 --> 00:04:49,719 Speaker 3: like that, and it just is a reflection on my neighborhood, 105 00:04:49,720 --> 00:04:50,640 Speaker 3: which I am a part of. 106 00:04:51,080 --> 00:04:54,279 Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe you should start the h Okay, it sound 107 00:04:54,320 --> 00:04:56,680 Speaker 1: like you sound like an h oo a president for sure. 108 00:04:58,040 --> 00:04:59,200 Speaker 5: A couple of things that have happened. 109 00:04:59,200 --> 00:05:01,839 Speaker 3: So I'm a little bit nervous to ask him because 110 00:05:01,880 --> 00:05:04,200 Speaker 3: there was a time a couple of years ago when 111 00:05:04,240 --> 00:05:06,120 Speaker 3: he asked me if I could trim one of my 112 00:05:06,160 --> 00:05:08,480 Speaker 3: trees so that he could have a better view, okay, 113 00:05:08,520 --> 00:05:10,839 Speaker 3: And I was really slow to get around to it. 114 00:05:10,880 --> 00:05:12,640 Speaker 3: I eventually did get around to it, but it was 115 00:05:12,839 --> 00:05:16,120 Speaker 3: definitely not a priority of mine. So I'm just worried 116 00:05:16,160 --> 00:05:20,560 Speaker 3: that he's going to remember that and be like, I'm 117 00:05:20,560 --> 00:05:23,920 Speaker 3: not going to mow my lawn anytime soon, or I'm 118 00:05:23,920 --> 00:05:25,760 Speaker 3: going to wait until the day before or something. I'm 119 00:05:25,800 --> 00:05:29,000 Speaker 3: just it's really stressing me out. And I'm looking back, 120 00:05:29,040 --> 00:05:32,560 Speaker 3: I should have definitely gotten to that earlier. I didn't think. Okay, 121 00:05:32,920 --> 00:05:33,960 Speaker 3: this is come full circle. 122 00:05:34,080 --> 00:05:35,880 Speaker 1: So it sounds like you guys don't have a real 123 00:05:35,920 --> 00:05:38,080 Speaker 1: close relationship you and this neighbor. 124 00:05:38,800 --> 00:05:41,560 Speaker 3: No, he's nice, he's fine, he's we don't talk or 125 00:05:41,560 --> 00:05:44,280 Speaker 3: get together. So I just I'm a little bit worried 126 00:05:44,279 --> 00:05:45,480 Speaker 3: about asking him. 127 00:05:45,600 --> 00:05:46,440 Speaker 5: And I mean, so you. 128 00:05:46,400 --> 00:05:48,760 Speaker 2: Haven't even like reached out to him at all about this. 129 00:05:48,839 --> 00:05:51,560 Speaker 2: You haven't texted him or anything regarding his No. 130 00:05:51,839 --> 00:05:53,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, but you don't know. Maybe there's something going on 131 00:05:54,279 --> 00:05:56,800 Speaker 1: for why he can't mow the lawn. Maybe the easiest 132 00:05:56,800 --> 00:05:58,719 Speaker 1: solution is just to offer to do it yourself. 133 00:05:59,000 --> 00:06:00,000 Speaker 3: Did your son go do it? 134 00:06:02,240 --> 00:06:04,000 Speaker 4: They hired someone, but the soun's way better. 135 00:06:04,200 --> 00:06:06,440 Speaker 1: Like he got to be dealing with a sickness, or 136 00:06:06,440 --> 00:06:08,120 Speaker 1: he could be out of town. Like this could be 137 00:06:08,120 --> 00:06:10,160 Speaker 1: a lot of different reasons. Why he's a. 138 00:06:10,080 --> 00:06:12,000 Speaker 3: Young, healthy guy. He's he's young and healthy. 139 00:06:12,240 --> 00:06:14,599 Speaker 4: Okay, we're imagining like an old guy. 140 00:06:14,720 --> 00:06:16,360 Speaker 3: I mean I see him outside all the time. You know, 141 00:06:16,400 --> 00:06:18,839 Speaker 3: he works on his car and he like he works out, 142 00:06:18,920 --> 00:06:20,800 Speaker 3: and Okay, I just I am not sure what the 143 00:06:20,880 --> 00:06:23,920 Speaker 3: deal is with this lawn, like why he doesn't keep 144 00:06:23,960 --> 00:06:24,240 Speaker 3: it up. 145 00:06:24,400 --> 00:06:26,520 Speaker 2: I see, I mean because the thing is, like, normally 146 00:06:26,520 --> 00:06:28,520 Speaker 2: in this segment we would help people with like their 147 00:06:28,560 --> 00:06:32,599 Speaker 2: relationship issues, but this is a really relatable problem for 148 00:06:32,760 --> 00:06:35,440 Speaker 2: a lot of people who have one neighbor who they'd 149 00:06:35,520 --> 00:06:38,000 Speaker 2: like to ask to like address something at their house. 150 00:06:38,240 --> 00:06:40,160 Speaker 2: But it's uncomfortable to ask them to do. 151 00:06:40,080 --> 00:06:42,800 Speaker 3: That, right, because it's not your house and not your business. 152 00:06:42,880 --> 00:06:47,359 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, it's like it feels a little judge to 153 00:06:47,480 --> 00:06:49,039 Speaker 1: be worried about the neighbor's lawn. 154 00:06:49,200 --> 00:06:51,760 Speaker 4: Neighbors can be judgy. My neighbor tried to fight me 155 00:06:51,760 --> 00:06:54,839 Speaker 4: because I was too loud one night, remember was with 156 00:06:54,920 --> 00:06:55,360 Speaker 4: a girl. 157 00:06:55,520 --> 00:06:58,600 Speaker 2: So with your awkward call here, you're looking for advice 158 00:06:58,800 --> 00:07:02,280 Speaker 2: on how to call your nameabor and politely get him 159 00:07:02,279 --> 00:07:04,840 Speaker 2: to agree to fix up the mess that he's made 160 00:07:04,880 --> 00:07:05,360 Speaker 2: of his house. 161 00:07:05,520 --> 00:07:10,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I would be insulted honestly like that. 162 00:07:10,560 --> 00:07:12,680 Speaker 1: I think that's probably what you're worried about, right, It's 163 00:07:12,720 --> 00:07:15,200 Speaker 1: like insulting him and saying that he's not taking good 164 00:07:15,200 --> 00:07:16,400 Speaker 1: care of him some things. 165 00:07:17,880 --> 00:07:20,360 Speaker 3: I don't know if I'm I think he should be 166 00:07:20,440 --> 00:07:23,320 Speaker 3: cleaning everything up. Like, so I'm not worried about me 167 00:07:23,440 --> 00:07:26,120 Speaker 3: being insulting. I mean, I just want him to do it. 168 00:07:26,720 --> 00:07:29,920 Speaker 4: You should want a relationship with your neighbor. 169 00:07:30,360 --> 00:07:33,600 Speaker 2: They don't seem to talk very much at all. 170 00:07:33,760 --> 00:07:35,600 Speaker 4: And if he's going to do something that you'd like 171 00:07:35,640 --> 00:07:38,240 Speaker 4: him to do, you may want to focus on kindness 172 00:07:38,600 --> 00:07:40,400 Speaker 4: or you know, like positivity. 173 00:07:41,480 --> 00:07:43,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, no, and I am I'm going to do that. 174 00:07:44,480 --> 00:07:46,200 Speaker 3: You're going to host a big party next door and 175 00:07:46,240 --> 00:07:50,600 Speaker 3: if i'd watch because yeah, and I mean I I 176 00:07:50,680 --> 00:07:53,560 Speaker 3: have I have signed up all over that he's graduating. 177 00:07:53,600 --> 00:07:54,160 Speaker 5: So it's like. 178 00:07:56,040 --> 00:08:01,240 Speaker 1: It's probably something that doesn't embarrass him, right, Like, you're okay, but. 179 00:08:01,280 --> 00:08:04,239 Speaker 2: Remember they have that. They already have the animosity built 180 00:08:04,320 --> 00:08:06,600 Speaker 2: up between them from when he asked her to do 181 00:08:06,680 --> 00:08:09,560 Speaker 2: a favor. Yeah, and she just ignored it for months. 182 00:08:09,720 --> 00:08:12,160 Speaker 4: If she just made a giant sign that says don't 183 00:08:12,200 --> 00:08:13,239 Speaker 4: look at this lawn. 184 00:08:13,720 --> 00:08:18,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, with the other sign. They're looking for advice, and 185 00:08:18,560 --> 00:08:21,840 Speaker 2: you said you are willing to actually doing it yourself 186 00:08:21,920 --> 00:08:27,280 Speaker 2: or having your son do it for him. Yes, that's 187 00:08:27,320 --> 00:08:30,000 Speaker 2: a starting point at least, so we can come back. 188 00:08:30,080 --> 00:08:31,800 Speaker 2: We'll try and think of some advice to give you 189 00:08:31,840 --> 00:08:34,719 Speaker 2: and let you call your neighbor and force him to 190 00:08:34,760 --> 00:08:39,480 Speaker 2: clean up his dirty, disgusting front lawn. We'll do it 191 00:08:39,520 --> 00:08:41,640 Speaker 2: more polite when we do it with your awkward Tuesday 192 00:08:41,640 --> 00:08:46,679 Speaker 2: phone call right after this, thank you. Hold on, it's awkward. 193 00:08:46,920 --> 00:08:47,720 Speaker 5: It's Tuesday. 194 00:08:48,600 --> 00:08:52,520 Speaker 2: It's awkward Tuesday phone call. How do you get your 195 00:08:52,679 --> 00:08:56,920 Speaker 2: neighbor to agree to make changes that you want to 196 00:08:57,120 --> 00:09:02,000 Speaker 2: their house? Yes, that is a fun pretty normal because 197 00:09:02,160 --> 00:09:05,360 Speaker 2: a big party is happening for our listener, April, because 198 00:09:05,400 --> 00:09:09,080 Speaker 2: her son is having a graduation from his high school. 199 00:09:09,080 --> 00:09:12,880 Speaker 2: He's graduating on his very first try. Oh Man, good 200 00:09:12,960 --> 00:09:18,240 Speaker 2: for him. Je It's okay, but there's going to be 201 00:09:18,240 --> 00:09:20,800 Speaker 2: at least fifty people at this party. They're going to 202 00:09:20,840 --> 00:09:23,520 Speaker 2: be parking all down the street. And the problem is 203 00:09:23,559 --> 00:09:26,880 Speaker 2: her next door neighbor's front lawn is a total eye sore, 204 00:09:27,640 --> 00:09:30,360 Speaker 2: so she needs him to cut it clean it up 205 00:09:30,400 --> 00:09:32,960 Speaker 2: in the next forty eight hours. And it's turned to 206 00:09:33,080 --> 00:09:37,400 Speaker 2: us for advice on how to have that awkward conversation politely. 207 00:09:37,720 --> 00:09:41,079 Speaker 1: I never knew someone who wanted an HOA before that 208 00:09:41,240 --> 00:09:41,680 Speaker 1: she does. 209 00:09:41,840 --> 00:09:44,680 Speaker 2: But since she doesn't, we're the closest thing she has broke. 210 00:09:44,679 --> 00:09:46,840 Speaker 2: What's your advice to her before she calls this guy. 211 00:09:46,920 --> 00:09:47,560 Speaker 5: I think it's. 212 00:09:47,440 --> 00:09:50,040 Speaker 1: Pretty easy, April. I think that what you have to 213 00:09:50,120 --> 00:09:52,680 Speaker 1: do is you have to invite him to the graduation 214 00:09:52,800 --> 00:09:56,239 Speaker 1: party over. 215 00:09:56,679 --> 00:09:57,760 Speaker 2: What do you think of that, April? 216 00:09:58,400 --> 00:10:00,360 Speaker 3: I don't think that's a good idea. And he's not 217 00:10:00,400 --> 00:10:01,760 Speaker 3: part of our friend group. I could make him a 218 00:10:01,800 --> 00:10:03,120 Speaker 3: plate of food and bring it over. 219 00:10:03,400 --> 00:10:04,280 Speaker 2: He's your neighbor. 220 00:10:05,120 --> 00:10:06,839 Speaker 1: He doesn't have to be part of the friend group. 221 00:10:06,960 --> 00:10:07,559 Speaker 3: He's your neighbor. 222 00:10:07,640 --> 00:10:10,200 Speaker 1: Invite him over, and if he's invested in the party, 223 00:10:10,240 --> 00:10:12,160 Speaker 1: then he's more likely to help you out. 224 00:10:12,280 --> 00:10:15,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, but it sounds like they're just acquaintances, Like we're 225 00:10:15,080 --> 00:10:15,839 Speaker 2: not friends. 226 00:10:15,960 --> 00:10:18,199 Speaker 1: How do you become friends if you don't start somewhere? 227 00:10:18,520 --> 00:10:20,880 Speaker 3: How do you know that I want friends? Yeah? 228 00:10:21,760 --> 00:10:23,600 Speaker 2: And how do we know that this neighbor isn't going 229 00:10:23,679 --> 00:10:25,480 Speaker 2: to get upset when he finds out the Sun has 230 00:10:25,520 --> 00:10:28,079 Speaker 2: graduated high school. We don't know if he's graduated. It 231 00:10:28,160 --> 00:10:31,960 Speaker 2: might hurt his feelings, right, Remember? Okay, so Brooke wants 232 00:10:32,000 --> 00:10:35,360 Speaker 2: to education shame your neighbor. I don't know if that's great. 233 00:10:36,040 --> 00:10:36,920 Speaker 1: Invite him over. 234 00:10:37,480 --> 00:10:40,480 Speaker 2: Okay, that's over one. Okay, Jose, what. 235 00:10:40,400 --> 00:10:43,280 Speaker 4: Do you think do something that I like to call 236 00:10:43,720 --> 00:10:47,959 Speaker 4: a neighbor favor for favor. 237 00:10:48,840 --> 00:10:52,280 Speaker 2: No, Jeff, not those favorites. Those could work. 238 00:10:52,760 --> 00:10:53,800 Speaker 1: She said he was young. 239 00:10:53,920 --> 00:10:56,760 Speaker 2: And what's your advice, jose Focus. 240 00:10:57,559 --> 00:10:59,880 Speaker 4: You tell him that you have a favor to ask him, 241 00:11:00,080 --> 00:11:04,040 Speaker 4: and if he says yes, then you will do any 242 00:11:04,080 --> 00:11:06,960 Speaker 4: favor that he would like from you within reason. 243 00:11:07,200 --> 00:11:10,120 Speaker 2: Okay, right, you get like a pre prom What do 244 00:11:10,120 --> 00:11:12,440 Speaker 2: you think about that, April, I'll mow your lawn if 245 00:11:12,440 --> 00:11:13,200 Speaker 2: you mowed mine. 246 00:11:13,440 --> 00:11:16,160 Speaker 3: I like that neighbor favor for what is it. 247 00:11:16,120 --> 00:11:19,280 Speaker 4: Called neighbor favor for favor? Trademark patent pending. 248 00:11:22,520 --> 00:11:23,400 Speaker 2: Somebody told me you're. 249 00:11:23,240 --> 00:11:24,800 Speaker 3: Not gonna like whatever favorite he asks. 250 00:11:26,040 --> 00:11:28,120 Speaker 2: He doesn't even want to make reason. He would even 251 00:11:28,120 --> 00:11:28,760 Speaker 2: come to the party. 252 00:11:28,920 --> 00:11:30,600 Speaker 1: You know, you can't even invite into your house. 253 00:11:30,760 --> 00:11:34,720 Speaker 2: Brook, You just got owned in your advice by I win. 254 00:11:35,040 --> 00:11:39,880 Speaker 2: Education doesn't always win, brother, Okay, Brook, just be quiet. 255 00:11:40,280 --> 00:11:43,200 Speaker 1: Okay, Yes, I'm actually a good neighbor. 256 00:11:43,240 --> 00:11:44,920 Speaker 2: Okay, you need to swallow your pride right. 257 00:11:44,960 --> 00:11:47,720 Speaker 4: Now, marinate in that bird own you. 258 00:11:47,720 --> 00:11:50,600 Speaker 2: You're reflecting poorly on our entire show. So let's call 259 00:11:50,640 --> 00:11:51,360 Speaker 2: this this guy. 260 00:11:51,559 --> 00:11:53,520 Speaker 1: I'm growing my grass out in protests. 261 00:11:53,559 --> 00:11:56,280 Speaker 2: Okay, you already do we know? Okay, here we go. 262 00:11:56,360 --> 00:11:58,319 Speaker 2: I'm gonna die your neighbor for you. What's his name, 263 00:11:58,360 --> 00:12:02,520 Speaker 2: by the way, April, Matt. Okay, we're calling him right now. 264 00:12:02,559 --> 00:12:03,880 Speaker 2: We'll step in if we feel like you need a 265 00:12:03,880 --> 00:12:06,640 Speaker 2: little help. But you got this all right, gotcha? Okay, 266 00:12:06,679 --> 00:12:07,120 Speaker 2: good luck? 267 00:12:13,480 --> 00:12:13,760 Speaker 5: Boo. 268 00:12:15,120 --> 00:12:16,120 Speaker 1: Hi Matt. 269 00:12:16,240 --> 00:12:22,640 Speaker 3: This is April, your neighbor right next door. How are you? 270 00:12:23,679 --> 00:12:26,400 Speaker 5: I'm doing well, what's going on? What's what's up? What's 271 00:12:26,400 --> 00:12:27,240 Speaker 5: the call? Oh? 272 00:12:27,400 --> 00:12:29,520 Speaker 3: I mean I I just you know, checking in and 273 00:12:30,160 --> 00:12:33,200 Speaker 3: haven't seen you out doing much lately, So I just 274 00:12:33,760 --> 00:12:35,200 Speaker 3: concerned and stuff. 275 00:12:34,880 --> 00:12:37,880 Speaker 5: And you're calling for welfare check on your. 276 00:12:37,760 --> 00:12:41,079 Speaker 3: System, I mean, not not not so much on you, 277 00:12:41,120 --> 00:12:44,880 Speaker 3: but more on your lawn. So, I mean I was 278 00:12:44,920 --> 00:12:46,640 Speaker 3: just curious, like, so, well. 279 00:12:46,559 --> 00:12:49,520 Speaker 5: Now, what did you just say about my wom Well. 280 00:12:49,840 --> 00:12:54,439 Speaker 3: We noticed your lawn has been very overgrown, and I 281 00:12:54,520 --> 00:12:58,040 Speaker 3: think it's overgrown. Huh yeah, yeah, I mean just just 282 00:12:58,120 --> 00:13:00,920 Speaker 3: it's not super bad, but it just doesn't look like 283 00:13:00,960 --> 00:13:02,839 Speaker 3: it's been a mode for a really long time. 284 00:13:04,440 --> 00:13:05,680 Speaker 5: Two weeks ago. What's wrong with you? 285 00:13:06,800 --> 00:13:06,959 Speaker 2: Oh? 286 00:13:07,040 --> 00:13:10,480 Speaker 5: Did you? It's it's just really overgrown with this Yeah, 287 00:13:10,480 --> 00:13:12,199 Speaker 5: you keep saying it's overgrown. But it's not. 288 00:13:13,800 --> 00:13:15,320 Speaker 3: Well, I mean, if you look at it compared to 289 00:13:15,360 --> 00:13:18,160 Speaker 3: any other other houses in the neighborhood, it's very different. 290 00:13:19,120 --> 00:13:20,760 Speaker 5: You know, just get to the point, what do you need? 291 00:13:21,120 --> 00:13:23,480 Speaker 3: Well, just hoping that you know that you would be 292 00:13:23,480 --> 00:13:26,199 Speaker 3: able to kind of get it mode, because I have 293 00:13:26,280 --> 00:13:29,360 Speaker 3: a big graduation party coming up for my son and 294 00:13:29,800 --> 00:13:31,079 Speaker 3: all right, you know, I. 295 00:13:31,040 --> 00:13:33,160 Speaker 5: Can do anything. I can get to it in a 296 00:13:33,200 --> 00:13:34,119 Speaker 5: couple of weeks. 297 00:13:35,480 --> 00:13:39,720 Speaker 3: Okay, Well, so the graduation party is in like three days. 298 00:13:40,120 --> 00:13:43,840 Speaker 5: So what I seem to remember a favor that I 299 00:13:43,880 --> 00:13:46,160 Speaker 5: asked of you a while back, and it took me 300 00:13:46,200 --> 00:13:47,760 Speaker 5: about a year to do it. Do you remember that 301 00:13:47,800 --> 00:13:48,840 Speaker 5: branch I asked you to cut? 302 00:13:49,320 --> 00:13:49,520 Speaker 2: Yes? 303 00:13:49,679 --> 00:13:52,200 Speaker 3: And I am so sorry about that. I am so sorry. 304 00:13:52,280 --> 00:13:55,400 Speaker 3: That was absolutely yeah. I mean just so you know, 305 00:13:55,440 --> 00:13:57,600 Speaker 3: like if you would have had a party or something happening, 306 00:13:57,640 --> 00:13:59,120 Speaker 3: I absolutely would have done it right away. 307 00:13:59,600 --> 00:14:01,160 Speaker 5: That's all I need to say. I got a freaking 308 00:14:01,240 --> 00:14:04,320 Speaker 5: party going on over here for you to cut a branch, Yeah, 309 00:14:04,360 --> 00:14:05,120 Speaker 5: oh yeah, absolutely. 310 00:14:05,200 --> 00:14:08,640 Speaker 3: If it was something that was like pressing, of course, 311 00:14:09,280 --> 00:14:11,680 Speaker 3: of course I would, you know, And like if there's 312 00:14:11,720 --> 00:14:14,679 Speaker 3: any favor, like what neighbor favor for a favor if 313 00:14:15,080 --> 00:14:18,160 Speaker 3: you have something that you need done. 314 00:14:18,360 --> 00:14:19,080 Speaker 5: I will help you. 315 00:14:19,640 --> 00:14:22,320 Speaker 3: Like but then reason of course, like if you need. 316 00:14:22,360 --> 00:14:25,240 Speaker 5: What did you just say, a neighbor favor for a fit? What? 317 00:14:26,040 --> 00:14:27,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, neighbor favor for a favor? 318 00:14:28,200 --> 00:14:30,160 Speaker 5: You know what I mean? Could we could start right 319 00:14:30,160 --> 00:14:33,600 Speaker 5: now with an apology for the branch? Okay? 320 00:14:33,960 --> 00:14:35,800 Speaker 3: And I said I was sorry, you know I did 321 00:14:36,400 --> 00:14:40,840 Speaker 3: say it again. I'm sorry. I'm very sorry. I am 322 00:14:41,240 --> 00:14:43,040 Speaker 3: It's true. I should have gotten to that earlier, and 323 00:14:43,080 --> 00:14:44,880 Speaker 3: in the future that will be different. 324 00:14:46,760 --> 00:14:49,280 Speaker 5: All right, Well it was pretty good, I guess. I 325 00:14:49,280 --> 00:14:50,400 Speaker 5: guess it can wear something out. 326 00:14:50,880 --> 00:14:52,840 Speaker 3: Oh, thank you so much. 327 00:14:54,200 --> 00:14:56,400 Speaker 5: Well, what I'm thinking is maybe if you, you know, 328 00:14:56,520 --> 00:14:58,360 Speaker 5: if you guys want to come over cut my lawn 329 00:14:58,400 --> 00:15:01,640 Speaker 5: for like six months or so, we can work something 330 00:15:01,680 --> 00:15:02,200 Speaker 5: like that out. 331 00:15:02,360 --> 00:15:05,240 Speaker 3: Wait, you want us to come and cut your lawn 332 00:15:05,320 --> 00:15:06,400 Speaker 3: for six months? 333 00:15:06,760 --> 00:15:08,160 Speaker 5: Well, doesn't have to be all of you, just one 334 00:15:08,240 --> 00:15:08,440 Speaker 5: of you. 335 00:15:08,680 --> 00:15:12,400 Speaker 3: Oh, you're taking advantage of the situation here. This is 336 00:15:12,480 --> 00:15:15,800 Speaker 3: kind of silly, or I mean, I said, within a reason. 337 00:15:16,320 --> 00:15:18,560 Speaker 5: Well, maybe we just talked it over your graduation party 338 00:15:18,560 --> 00:15:19,720 Speaker 5: after you invite me to it. 339 00:15:19,880 --> 00:15:27,280 Speaker 2: Oh my god, oh my god. 340 00:15:26,600 --> 00:15:29,160 Speaker 3: What the hell is that is not I don't think 341 00:15:29,200 --> 00:15:31,160 Speaker 3: that that's gonna happen. I can bring you over a plate. 342 00:15:34,040 --> 00:15:37,400 Speaker 5: She's going with this, but yeah, wait, what is what 343 00:15:37,520 --> 00:15:38,080 Speaker 5: is going on? 344 00:15:38,160 --> 00:15:40,640 Speaker 2: Hey? What's up, Matt. You're on a radio show right 345 00:15:40,680 --> 00:15:42,440 Speaker 2: now called Broke and Jeffrey in the Morning. 346 00:15:42,880 --> 00:15:46,160 Speaker 1: We're just handling neighbor relationships, right yeah. 347 00:15:45,560 --> 00:15:47,440 Speaker 5: Wait a month I'm on the radio. 348 00:15:47,960 --> 00:15:51,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, there's a second movie called Awkward Tuesday phone Call, 349 00:15:51,400 --> 00:15:53,760 Speaker 2: and your neighbor April reached out to us for help 350 00:15:53,800 --> 00:15:55,479 Speaker 2: regarding the whole lawn situation. 351 00:15:55,800 --> 00:15:56,960 Speaker 5: You've been listening to this whole time. 352 00:15:57,240 --> 00:15:59,680 Speaker 1: That's aggressive fighting. 353 00:15:59,760 --> 00:16:02,400 Speaker 4: I've heard it a long time, bro six months. 354 00:16:02,520 --> 00:16:04,440 Speaker 2: Come on, man, you don't got to do that to her. 355 00:16:04,640 --> 00:16:06,320 Speaker 3: I'm kind on his side. 356 00:16:07,880 --> 00:16:11,000 Speaker 5: I was just kidding. 357 00:16:09,080 --> 00:16:13,040 Speaker 4: Oh is that you Now you're on the radio and 358 00:16:13,040 --> 00:16:14,640 Speaker 4: there's like millions of people listening. 359 00:16:15,600 --> 00:16:17,440 Speaker 5: No, no, no, that's just my sense of humor. I 360 00:16:17,480 --> 00:16:18,800 Speaker 5: was joking the whole time. 361 00:16:21,400 --> 00:16:23,400 Speaker 2: One of those like angry I'm gonna yell at you 362 00:16:23,520 --> 00:16:24,280 Speaker 2: sense of humor. 363 00:16:24,440 --> 00:16:27,080 Speaker 5: Yeah, exactly, Come one. 364 00:16:27,320 --> 00:16:29,160 Speaker 2: Did you hear that he was joking with you the 365 00:16:29,160 --> 00:16:29,640 Speaker 2: whole time? 366 00:16:29,760 --> 00:16:32,840 Speaker 3: I'm so earlieved he he's joking, tonnyhow I didn't believe 367 00:16:32,840 --> 00:16:33,320 Speaker 3: that before. 368 00:16:33,600 --> 00:16:33,920 Speaker 5: I can't. 369 00:16:34,800 --> 00:16:38,280 Speaker 2: I think she's being sarcastic. I think it's sarcastic. Weird. 370 00:16:38,360 --> 00:16:41,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, you guys are not communicating well in your neighborhood. 371 00:16:42,080 --> 00:16:44,320 Speaker 3: No, I think you're absolutely right. I think that at 372 00:16:44,320 --> 00:16:45,400 Speaker 3: the end of the day, I do want to have 373 00:16:45,400 --> 00:16:47,800 Speaker 3: good neighbors. I wish we had an hoa, but we don't. 374 00:16:49,640 --> 00:16:51,880 Speaker 3: I can have my son come over and mololwan if 375 00:16:51,920 --> 00:16:53,720 Speaker 3: he needs that. It's totally fine for. 376 00:16:53,800 --> 00:16:55,120 Speaker 4: Six months your son. 377 00:16:55,720 --> 00:16:57,360 Speaker 3: No, No, for what like one time? 378 00:16:57,600 --> 00:16:59,920 Speaker 2: Okay, okay, so Matt, you work here. 379 00:17:00,400 --> 00:17:02,200 Speaker 5: No, I was kidding that whole time. Don't even worry 380 00:17:02,240 --> 00:17:04,080 Speaker 5: about it. I'll do it today. I'll take care of it. 381 00:17:05,560 --> 00:17:08,240 Speaker 2: Wait now, I mean don't do it. He didn't know 382 00:17:08,280 --> 00:17:11,040 Speaker 2: he was on the radio. Give him a break. Okay, 383 00:17:11,320 --> 00:17:14,520 Speaker 2: this is his radio personality is compensating. What about the 384 00:17:14,560 --> 00:17:15,600 Speaker 2: invite to the party. 385 00:17:15,680 --> 00:17:18,520 Speaker 1: I actually think you should go to the party. 386 00:17:18,960 --> 00:17:21,399 Speaker 2: I thought that from the very beginning that would be 387 00:17:22,080 --> 00:17:22,879 Speaker 2: all you're. 388 00:17:22,760 --> 00:17:26,640 Speaker 3: A And he said he was kidding about everything, even 389 00:17:26,680 --> 00:17:27,160 Speaker 3: coming over. 390 00:17:27,800 --> 00:17:30,000 Speaker 5: Yeah, I heard that. You said you'd make me a 391 00:17:30,040 --> 00:17:34,159 Speaker 5: food plate. I will take that. I would love to 392 00:17:34,160 --> 00:17:35,000 Speaker 5: bring you a food plate. 393 00:17:35,160 --> 00:17:37,600 Speaker 3: Totally fine, looking up. 394 00:17:37,760 --> 00:17:42,080 Speaker 2: This is good neighborly compromise, good communication. All we wanted 395 00:17:42,080 --> 00:17:43,800 Speaker 2: to get out of this was a mode lawn. And 396 00:17:43,840 --> 00:17:46,399 Speaker 2: it sounds like now your son doesn't even have to 397 00:17:46,440 --> 00:17:47,560 Speaker 2: do it for him, He's gonna do. 398 00:17:47,520 --> 00:17:49,119 Speaker 5: It in shand exactly. 399 00:17:49,320 --> 00:17:53,159 Speaker 3: It's perfect, smallest. 400 00:17:52,680 --> 00:17:53,760 Speaker 4: Plate ever made for. 401 00:17:55,880 --> 00:17:59,520 Speaker 1: Here's one kernel of corn and a single potato from 402 00:17:59,520 --> 00:18:00,280 Speaker 1: the salad. 403 00:18:01,640 --> 00:18:03,080 Speaker 2: Noodles. So generous. 404 00:18:04,160 --> 00:18:05,960 Speaker 5: By the way, I'm gluten free, so just be cool 405 00:18:06,000 --> 00:18:07,800 Speaker 5: about that. 406 00:18:07,800 --> 00:18:08,280 Speaker 2: That's fair. 407 00:18:08,600 --> 00:18:11,239 Speaker 3: It's freaking Jeffrey in the morning. 408 00:18:11,760 --> 00:18:14,760 Speaker 2: And look at that. We're helping neighbors come together, one 409 00:18:14,920 --> 00:18:16,400 Speaker 2: conversation at a time. 410 00:18:16,520 --> 00:18:18,600 Speaker 1: I am so glad I don't live in that neighborhood. 411 00:18:18,720 --> 00:18:21,760 Speaker 2: Yes, I was like, I hated it on the other 412 00:18:21,800 --> 00:18:24,120 Speaker 2: side of her house. You don't like all the passive 413 00:18:24,119 --> 00:18:25,200 Speaker 2: aggressive threats. 414 00:18:25,560 --> 00:18:27,720 Speaker 1: I hated it all, And like, why she didn't just 415 00:18:27,760 --> 00:18:31,320 Speaker 1: talk to you with person? I don't understand that with people. 416 00:18:31,440 --> 00:18:33,399 Speaker 4: This is how petty I noticed they both were, was 417 00:18:33,440 --> 00:18:35,159 Speaker 4: that she is telling him to cut his lawn. He 418 00:18:35,200 --> 00:18:39,960 Speaker 4: cut it two weeks ago, I was imagining, and he 419 00:18:40,080 --> 00:18:41,840 Speaker 4: does like a slightly. 420 00:18:41,440 --> 00:18:45,240 Speaker 1: Long your ankle. He is still hanging onto that brand 421 00:18:45,800 --> 00:18:48,640 Speaker 1: so hard that branch upset him so much. 422 00:18:48,800 --> 00:18:51,600 Speaker 2: Absolutely, but the bottom line is we stepped in and 423 00:18:51,680 --> 00:18:55,040 Speaker 2: we fixed it. Okay, everything is better now. So if 424 00:18:55,040 --> 00:18:57,879 Speaker 2: there's anybody out there who's been stealing from their neighbor 425 00:18:58,320 --> 00:19:01,480 Speaker 2: taking secret pictures of their able through a bathroom window 426 00:19:01,720 --> 00:19:05,720 Speaker 2: that's in that realm, we can help you. I want 427 00:19:05,760 --> 00:19:08,000 Speaker 2: you to reach out to us. After you listen to 428 00:19:08,119 --> 00:19:10,600 Speaker 2: all of the other awkward calls that we have up 429 00:19:10,640 --> 00:19:13,640 Speaker 2: on our YouTube at Brook and Jeffrey, check those out, 430 00:19:13,840 --> 00:19:15,480 Speaker 2: and then send us those pics that you took. 431 00:19:15,760 --> 00:19:16,879 Speaker 3: We were going to get to the picture. 432 00:19:17,600 --> 00:19:19,040 Speaker 2: It's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.