1 00:00:00,320 --> 00:00:02,320 Speaker 1: Welcome back to More to It, to show that takes 2 00:00:02,360 --> 00:00:05,320 Speaker 1: a deep dive into the biggest stories in sports, entertainment, 3 00:00:05,360 --> 00:00:07,960 Speaker 1: and culture. Start with headline news and then journey the 4 00:00:08,080 --> 00:00:11,640 Speaker 1: deeper conversations, always finding those life lessons that are presented 5 00:00:11,720 --> 00:00:17,320 Speaker 1: in every single story. I'm your host, ourself swally that dude, man, man, man, 6 00:00:18,160 --> 00:00:21,680 Speaker 1: my life has been reduced to just being a coach 7 00:00:22,160 --> 00:00:25,880 Speaker 1: and a chauffeur. Hey, not bad either, But all I 8 00:00:26,000 --> 00:00:29,000 Speaker 1: do is take any biddies all around Los Angeles crossing 9 00:00:29,080 --> 00:00:32,040 Speaker 1: state lines. Yes, I said state lines. People in LA 10 00:00:32,120 --> 00:00:33,760 Speaker 1: know what the state lines are, the four or five 11 00:00:33,800 --> 00:00:35,960 Speaker 1: one on one. That intersection right there, you cross that, 12 00:00:36,400 --> 00:00:40,720 Speaker 1: hy ya ya ya ya ya ya Oh, so Joys 13 00:00:41,840 --> 00:00:43,160 Speaker 1: is crossing state lines. 14 00:00:43,200 --> 00:00:44,279 Speaker 2: It's a different world, man. 15 00:00:44,600 --> 00:00:48,640 Speaker 1: That's the They say that's the most traffic field spot 16 00:00:49,040 --> 00:00:52,480 Speaker 1: in all of America. Like that's the busiest intersection right there, 17 00:00:52,800 --> 00:00:55,120 Speaker 1: one on one and four five, And I believe them. 18 00:00:55,520 --> 00:00:58,400 Speaker 1: So man, I had to coach my kids game and 19 00:00:58,480 --> 00:01:02,520 Speaker 1: miss my daughter's YadA recital. Both daughters, my three and 20 00:01:02,600 --> 00:01:04,759 Speaker 1: four year old, and both in it. And it's funny 21 00:01:04,760 --> 00:01:08,039 Speaker 1: because my three year old now she's fearless, like she 22 00:01:08,240 --> 00:01:10,319 Speaker 1: just don't give a damn. She just is a bundle 23 00:01:10,360 --> 00:01:14,440 Speaker 1: of joy, always smiling, giggling, messing with you like that 24 00:01:14,560 --> 00:01:16,680 Speaker 1: kind of kid. And my four year old is a 25 00:01:16,720 --> 00:01:20,039 Speaker 1: little more reserved, like calculated. You got to earn her love, 26 00:01:20,160 --> 00:01:22,119 Speaker 1: earn her trust. She ain't given the teeth from hello. 27 00:01:22,800 --> 00:01:26,280 Speaker 1: And since they're doing this recital together and they've been practicing, 28 00:01:26,600 --> 00:01:28,600 Speaker 1: the three year old is loosening up the four year old, 29 00:01:28,959 --> 00:01:31,039 Speaker 1: and then the four year old is now given to 30 00:01:31,080 --> 00:01:33,880 Speaker 1: the three year old. That like support and leadership and 31 00:01:34,480 --> 00:01:37,120 Speaker 1: little guidance, like I'm big sister here, nobody mess with 32 00:01:37,120 --> 00:01:39,679 Speaker 1: my little sister. So little sister got free reign, which 33 00:01:39,720 --> 00:01:42,200 Speaker 1: she was gonna take anyway, and then she got big 34 00:01:42,240 --> 00:01:46,560 Speaker 1: sister because her four year old sister, goodness, serena little tifa, 35 00:01:46,720 --> 00:01:50,920 Speaker 1: like my daughter is gigantic. She's like ninety nine ninety nine. 36 00:01:50,960 --> 00:01:53,480 Speaker 1: I think she's actually over one hundred and one of them, 37 00:01:53,640 --> 00:01:55,480 Speaker 1: like one hundred and three and ninety nine. Like she's 38 00:01:55,520 --> 00:01:58,240 Speaker 1: just tall and her fingers big. So she just gonna 39 00:01:58,240 --> 00:02:00,880 Speaker 1: be a big girl. So you know, I'm just coaching. 40 00:02:01,240 --> 00:02:04,880 Speaker 1: Had to coach my son's basketball game and do that 41 00:02:05,920 --> 00:02:08,239 Speaker 1: and miss the recital. So a little parental guilt, y'all know. 42 00:02:08,240 --> 00:02:11,440 Speaker 1: I always talk about it, but gotta be wed. What 43 00:02:11,480 --> 00:02:13,840 Speaker 1: else we do? Then my sister was here, my niece 44 00:02:13,919 --> 00:02:17,280 Speaker 1: was here, Hey, nay nay, and had a pool day 45 00:02:17,320 --> 00:02:19,800 Speaker 1: with the family, and everybody just came over. And what 46 00:02:19,840 --> 00:02:22,520 Speaker 1: I love about the house, and this was one of 47 00:02:22,520 --> 00:02:25,480 Speaker 1: my dreams is to be the headquarterhouse, you know, like 48 00:02:25,520 --> 00:02:29,720 Speaker 1: the one that everybody taps into friends, family, you know, 49 00:02:29,919 --> 00:02:33,200 Speaker 1: like the family reunion house, like just the house everybody 50 00:02:33,200 --> 00:02:33,799 Speaker 1: comes over. 51 00:02:33,760 --> 00:02:37,200 Speaker 2: To get some love. And so far, so good. I 52 00:02:37,240 --> 00:02:38,840 Speaker 2: wish my family could come over more. 53 00:02:39,040 --> 00:02:42,800 Speaker 1: But my sister, her foot is still not fully healed, 54 00:02:43,440 --> 00:02:46,320 Speaker 1: and she's not an athlete, so she doesn't fight through 55 00:02:46,320 --> 00:02:49,320 Speaker 1: the pain the same like, damn, you're at your foot 56 00:02:49,400 --> 00:02:52,480 Speaker 1: on December thirty first, your ass still talking about you living? 57 00:02:53,080 --> 00:02:55,079 Speaker 1: Will you couldn't play for the Chargers. They will cut 58 00:02:55,120 --> 00:02:57,600 Speaker 1: your ass. They did it to me too. But so 59 00:02:57,680 --> 00:03:01,200 Speaker 1: she's not coming as much. My dad, he's he always 60 00:03:01,200 --> 00:03:03,280 Speaker 1: saying he's coming, but you know him and the step 61 00:03:03,720 --> 00:03:06,720 Speaker 1: his step his wife. I guess my step mom. It's 62 00:03:06,760 --> 00:03:08,680 Speaker 1: weird when I'm twenty one and I meet you, you 63 00:03:08,680 --> 00:03:10,120 Speaker 1: ain't my step mom. He's just a lady and my 64 00:03:10,200 --> 00:03:13,040 Speaker 1: daddy barried. I'm too damn old because of my step mom, 65 00:03:13,160 --> 00:03:15,200 Speaker 1: so I can't even say it. But yeah, man, they 66 00:03:15,320 --> 00:03:18,560 Speaker 1: supposed to be coming back over reconciling all these issues. 67 00:03:18,919 --> 00:03:20,400 Speaker 1: I ain't gonna tell you all about that yet. I 68 00:03:20,400 --> 00:03:22,040 Speaker 1: got to wait for a topic to bring that out. 69 00:03:22,080 --> 00:03:25,119 Speaker 1: But I'm working on my healing and dealing to love 70 00:03:25,160 --> 00:03:27,560 Speaker 1: my pops to the fullest. But I gotta respect he's 71 00:03:27,560 --> 00:03:30,480 Speaker 1: married too, so you know you got to You got 72 00:03:30,520 --> 00:03:32,639 Speaker 1: caught in the middle a little bit there, Daddy, Love 73 00:03:32,680 --> 00:03:35,920 Speaker 1: you brother, See you tomorrow hopefully. And what else? We 74 00:03:36,000 --> 00:03:38,920 Speaker 1: got dinner with the parents from school. Man. 75 00:03:39,680 --> 00:03:42,880 Speaker 2: I love my kids school because of the community. It 76 00:03:43,080 --> 00:03:44,680 Speaker 2: actually gives. 77 00:03:44,440 --> 00:03:49,880 Speaker 1: Me and gives my kids tremendous families there, I mean, 78 00:03:50,000 --> 00:03:52,320 Speaker 1: just every walk of life. So you're gonna find what 79 00:03:52,360 --> 00:03:55,560 Speaker 1: you want? I mean, for real, what yep them to? Yep? 80 00:03:55,800 --> 00:03:58,680 Speaker 1: You want to find You want to find someone who's 81 00:03:58,720 --> 00:04:02,000 Speaker 1: a billionaire. You want to find somebody who's on school 82 00:04:02,320 --> 00:04:05,480 Speaker 1: financial aid, They're there. You want to find somebody from 83 00:04:05,520 --> 00:04:07,240 Speaker 1: the hood. You want to find somebody who lives at 84 00:04:07,240 --> 00:04:10,560 Speaker 1: the top of those mountains up there in Beebble Hills. Yes, 85 00:04:11,080 --> 00:04:13,240 Speaker 1: you're gonna find them there. You want to find someone 86 00:04:13,320 --> 00:04:15,600 Speaker 1: in tech, you want to find somebody in sports, you 87 00:04:15,600 --> 00:04:20,400 Speaker 1: want to find somebody in finance. Everybody's there, every color. Hey, 88 00:04:20,640 --> 00:04:23,360 Speaker 1: I give it to you. Real it's two it's families 89 00:04:23,360 --> 00:04:26,839 Speaker 1: with two moms. I'm like, what a daddy at right here? 90 00:04:27,440 --> 00:04:32,480 Speaker 1: Mama mama again? Two ladies, two dads, you know, like 91 00:04:32,880 --> 00:04:35,400 Speaker 1: two dudes raising. I'm like, damn, this school ain't playing, 92 00:04:36,000 --> 00:04:38,760 Speaker 1: you know. And they put up pride posters right and 93 00:04:38,839 --> 00:04:43,240 Speaker 1: at the same time they put up National Chinese Month 94 00:04:43,600 --> 00:04:48,960 Speaker 1: Like it's just crazy, Like everything is supported, everything is inclusive. 95 00:04:49,160 --> 00:04:53,280 Speaker 1: And what I do like is they're including the truth. 96 00:04:53,320 --> 00:04:57,719 Speaker 1: They're real, They're not promoting it, they're supporting it. And 97 00:04:57,839 --> 00:05:01,560 Speaker 1: that's what while I'm about, like, dog, I ain't got 98 00:05:01,600 --> 00:05:04,600 Speaker 1: time to be mad at anybody. I am not anything. 99 00:05:04,800 --> 00:05:09,760 Speaker 1: Put whatever you want before it povid, y'all good luck 100 00:05:09,760 --> 00:05:12,120 Speaker 1: getting me mad at you because you made your choices 101 00:05:12,160 --> 00:05:15,359 Speaker 1: in life. How do they infringe on my life? My rights? 102 00:05:15,400 --> 00:05:19,440 Speaker 1: They don't like, oh you like dudes, Okay, well there 103 00:05:19,480 --> 00:05:21,160 Speaker 1: are a lot of dudes out there. Go get them, Like, 104 00:05:21,600 --> 00:05:23,640 Speaker 1: what's the problem. Let's still have a beer, brother and 105 00:05:23,680 --> 00:05:25,520 Speaker 1: talk about life. You know what I mean, like, how 106 00:05:25,560 --> 00:05:30,640 Speaker 1: your kids? Now? We have to make sure that these 107 00:05:30,760 --> 00:05:33,560 Speaker 1: kids are understanding that they have choices to make and 108 00:05:33,600 --> 00:05:36,240 Speaker 1: they can make the proper choice, the right choice for themselves. 109 00:05:36,640 --> 00:05:39,560 Speaker 1: That's a whole different conversation, right, And I think that 110 00:05:39,640 --> 00:05:44,760 Speaker 1: people are scared and people are also being mindful of 111 00:05:45,000 --> 00:05:48,440 Speaker 1: some of these kids are being influenced into those decisions. 112 00:05:48,920 --> 00:05:53,799 Speaker 1: And exposure to it is not the influence. The greatest influence. 113 00:05:54,200 --> 00:05:57,520 Speaker 1: The greatest influence to it all is when someone tells 114 00:05:57,560 --> 00:06:01,279 Speaker 1: you to do it, right, when someone tells you, Okay, 115 00:06:01,360 --> 00:06:03,920 Speaker 1: you got two parents and they say do this kid, 116 00:06:04,000 --> 00:06:07,480 Speaker 1: And that's anything, right, I coach. They're kids out there 117 00:06:07,480 --> 00:06:10,560 Speaker 1: that don't want to play. They parents forcing them to play. 118 00:06:11,480 --> 00:06:13,920 Speaker 1: I catch them every time when they jogging through windsprings. 119 00:06:13,920 --> 00:06:14,839 Speaker 2: I'm like, why are you out here? 120 00:06:15,720 --> 00:06:19,280 Speaker 1: My dad said I gotta play. Damn you ain't gonna 121 00:06:19,360 --> 00:06:22,800 Speaker 1: last long, bro Right. And it could go any ideology, 122 00:06:22,880 --> 00:06:24,960 Speaker 1: It could go anything. It could go with sex, it 123 00:06:25,000 --> 00:06:28,560 Speaker 1: could go with gender, or go whatever. Forcing somebody to 124 00:06:28,600 --> 00:06:31,520 Speaker 1: do something that heavy influence is what we don't want, 125 00:06:31,760 --> 00:06:34,640 Speaker 1: but support. Your kid wants to play ball, your kid 126 00:06:34,760 --> 00:06:36,799 Speaker 1: is talking about Hey, you know what mama and daddy, 127 00:06:37,040 --> 00:06:39,560 Speaker 1: I'm feeling something. You gotta support them, because guess what 128 00:06:39,640 --> 00:06:42,440 Speaker 1: the alternative of not supporting the kid. And I'm not 129 00:06:42,520 --> 00:06:46,960 Speaker 1: talking about leading them to something. I'm saying supporting the kid. Y'all. 130 00:06:47,000 --> 00:06:49,799 Speaker 2: Look at the suicide rates. Y'all, look at the mental 131 00:06:49,920 --> 00:06:50,720 Speaker 2: illness rates. 132 00:06:51,600 --> 00:06:54,400 Speaker 1: Okay, So we got to get from these extremes of 133 00:06:54,880 --> 00:06:56,679 Speaker 1: force your kid to be something. Now I'm a parent. 134 00:06:56,960 --> 00:07:01,080 Speaker 1: In my house, there are rules. Hell yeah, your as 135 00:07:01,160 --> 00:07:03,680 Speaker 1: gonna get good grades, yep, your as gonna do something 136 00:07:03,680 --> 00:07:06,240 Speaker 1: extra curricular yep. And do not come up to me 137 00:07:06,320 --> 00:07:10,760 Speaker 1: talking about anything that is a life long decision while 138 00:07:10,760 --> 00:07:13,480 Speaker 1: you're in my house as a minor, as a kid. So, 139 00:07:13,560 --> 00:07:15,920 Speaker 1: if you're trying to change your gender, that ain't happening. 140 00:07:16,360 --> 00:07:18,640 Speaker 1: If you're trying to what else could happen at this 141 00:07:18,720 --> 00:07:23,120 Speaker 1: young age after your body that ain't happening. You're trying 142 00:07:23,160 --> 00:07:26,240 Speaker 1: to do these pierces and stuff that ain't happen, tattoos 143 00:07:26,280 --> 00:07:30,880 Speaker 1: that ain't happening, not work hard, that ain't happening. That's 144 00:07:31,040 --> 00:07:37,520 Speaker 1: just I'm setting a culture, an expectation, a standard, simple 145 00:07:37,560 --> 00:07:40,120 Speaker 1: as that. Now, speaking of that, because there's a culture 146 00:07:40,160 --> 00:07:43,200 Speaker 1: in women's sports that doesn't get spoken about enough. Let's 147 00:07:43,200 --> 00:07:47,120 Speaker 1: talk about pregnancy in sports and how challenging that combination 148 00:07:47,400 --> 00:07:49,240 Speaker 1: is for female professional athletes. 149 00:07:50,120 --> 00:07:51,120 Speaker 2: This is a story right here. 150 00:07:51,200 --> 00:07:54,280 Speaker 1: Pro soccer player Jess McDonald was traded across six teams 151 00:07:54,280 --> 00:07:57,400 Speaker 1: in her first five years as a single parent, making 152 00:07:57,440 --> 00:08:00,240 Speaker 1: it difficult to find, let alone a FOD child care 153 00:08:00,360 --> 00:08:03,240 Speaker 1: in new cities. She and her then eight month old 154 00:08:03,360 --> 00:08:05,360 Speaker 1: son were often forced to share a hotel room with 155 00:08:05,400 --> 00:08:07,720 Speaker 1: a teammate, and sometimes she had no choice but to 156 00:08:07,720 --> 00:08:09,480 Speaker 1: bring him with her to practice. 157 00:08:09,920 --> 00:08:11,800 Speaker 2: Damn, that's messed up. 158 00:08:12,080 --> 00:08:14,440 Speaker 1: You don't even think about this like you think about 159 00:08:14,680 --> 00:08:16,920 Speaker 1: all right, those are women, all right, they're gonna have 160 00:08:17,000 --> 00:08:18,320 Speaker 1: a kid, and when they have a kid, they're not 161 00:08:18,360 --> 00:08:20,560 Speaker 1: gonna play ball. You never think about the ones who 162 00:08:20,560 --> 00:08:23,680 Speaker 1: tried to play ball while having a kid. Wow, if 163 00:08:23,680 --> 00:08:26,240 Speaker 1: I'd have a bad game, you know, my kid would 164 00:08:26,280 --> 00:08:28,640 Speaker 1: be blamed for it at times, and it was just like, oh, 165 00:08:29,360 --> 00:08:32,040 Speaker 1: was your kid up late at night? The US women's 166 00:08:32,120 --> 00:08:35,520 Speaker 1: national team player said in a recent interview, so Arizona 167 00:08:35,559 --> 00:08:39,840 Speaker 1: State basketball coach Charlie Turner Thorn had three children without 168 00:08:39,880 --> 00:08:43,240 Speaker 1: taking maternity leave. Oooh felt that pressure of that culture 169 00:08:43,360 --> 00:08:45,360 Speaker 1: was I can't do it. And New York Liberty head 170 00:08:45,360 --> 00:08:51,160 Speaker 1: coach and former WNBA player Sandy Broundello, acknowledging the difficulties 171 00:08:51,160 --> 00:08:54,560 Speaker 1: that she would face if she got pregnant, waited to 172 00:08:54,679 --> 00:08:58,640 Speaker 1: have kids until she retired as a player at age 173 00:08:58,800 --> 00:09:02,000 Speaker 1: thirty eight. Damn, imagine want to have kids at thirty 174 00:09:02,040 --> 00:09:04,560 Speaker 1: one and you wait seven more years just because you 175 00:09:04,640 --> 00:09:06,680 Speaker 1: know soon as I have these kids, they're gonna be 176 00:09:06,679 --> 00:09:09,120 Speaker 1: looking at me like, bruh, it's a rap like you 177 00:09:09,200 --> 00:09:11,520 Speaker 1: a thirty year old running back, like nobody trying to 178 00:09:11,520 --> 00:09:15,800 Speaker 1: mess with you. God, the sports culture man, they whisper 179 00:09:15,880 --> 00:09:18,920 Speaker 1: and they yell to you, hey, don't do that or else. Okay, 180 00:09:19,360 --> 00:09:22,920 Speaker 1: when I played, it was second medical opinions, Like we 181 00:09:23,040 --> 00:09:25,880 Speaker 1: had our team doctor. And if you dared to say, well, 182 00:09:25,920 --> 00:09:27,960 Speaker 1: I'm gonna go over here, what you're gonna go wear 183 00:09:28,000 --> 00:09:29,280 Speaker 1: and find out what information? 184 00:09:29,880 --> 00:09:31,360 Speaker 2: Find out more than we already know. 185 00:09:31,480 --> 00:09:33,760 Speaker 1: We already did our homework, we already did our research, 186 00:09:33,880 --> 00:09:36,240 Speaker 1: we already did our evaluation. Don't you dare try to 187 00:09:36,640 --> 00:09:39,839 Speaker 1: undermine us and go get another opinion. And guys who 188 00:09:39,840 --> 00:09:42,319 Speaker 1: went and got second opinions, a lot of them early days, 189 00:09:42,480 --> 00:09:44,680 Speaker 1: they suffered for it, right, because they took out the 190 00:09:44,720 --> 00:09:47,680 Speaker 1: consequences on them. So juggling the demands a parenthood with 191 00:09:47,720 --> 00:09:50,480 Speaker 1: those of a professional sports career just one of the 192 00:09:50,559 --> 00:09:54,320 Speaker 1: myriad of challenges that face female athletes in the industry 193 00:09:54,600 --> 00:09:57,760 Speaker 1: that also has been rife with pay disparities. All right, 194 00:09:57,800 --> 00:09:59,839 Speaker 1: that pay dispirity stuff. Do now, don't start bringing that 195 00:09:59,880 --> 00:10:01,679 Speaker 1: in here, like there ain't no pay dispair of the 196 00:10:01,800 --> 00:10:05,080 Speaker 1: argument that I've seen yet that has been false. If 197 00:10:05,120 --> 00:10:07,040 Speaker 1: the women are bringing in the same amount of money, 198 00:10:07,120 --> 00:10:09,880 Speaker 1: eyeballs and sponsorship that should get paid to say, in 199 00:10:09,920 --> 00:10:11,600 Speaker 1: some instances they are, most they're not. 200 00:10:11,760 --> 00:10:12,559 Speaker 2: So let's not do that. 201 00:10:12,760 --> 00:10:15,920 Speaker 1: Okay, harassment and bullying in the twenty seven years since 202 00:10:15,960 --> 00:10:19,880 Speaker 1: the WNBA, damn, twenty seven years. Twenty seven years, God 203 00:10:21,679 --> 00:10:25,920 Speaker 1: has a lot of money gone. I had a lot 204 00:10:25,960 --> 00:10:28,640 Speaker 1: of subsidizing going on. Come on, WNBA, get it right 205 00:10:28,679 --> 00:10:32,360 Speaker 1: with your marketing, and I swear to product lorda rams 206 00:10:32,559 --> 00:10:35,320 Speaker 1: marketed a little better. I guarantee you y'all will go 207 00:10:35,320 --> 00:10:38,160 Speaker 1: into black, get out the red. The first women's professional 208 00:10:38,240 --> 00:10:42,480 Speaker 1: sports league was formed the twenty seven years ago WNBA. 209 00:10:43,000 --> 00:10:46,160 Speaker 1: All right, let's talk about this. Then, she once again 210 00:10:46,240 --> 00:10:49,280 Speaker 1: drew national attention right before the season began when WNBA 211 00:10:49,360 --> 00:10:54,040 Speaker 1: player d Alrica di Rika Handy says she been harassed 212 00:10:54,040 --> 00:10:56,960 Speaker 1: by her coach for getting pregnant Damn during the season. 213 00:10:57,040 --> 00:10:59,959 Speaker 2: Las Vegas ass coach Becky Hammond, I know that name. 214 00:11:00,320 --> 00:11:00,920 Speaker 2: One of the leagues. 215 00:11:01,000 --> 00:11:03,680 Speaker 1: Marquith Figures in a six time in WNBA All Star, 216 00:11:04,080 --> 00:11:11,040 Speaker 1: denied bullying Handy. Oh, coaches always denied when they be 217 00:11:11,120 --> 00:11:14,040 Speaker 1: harassing your ass. I always believe the player when they 218 00:11:14,080 --> 00:11:17,400 Speaker 1: say they got her ass. Coaches be going hard hard. 219 00:11:17,679 --> 00:11:18,080 Speaker 2: She said. 220 00:11:18,120 --> 00:11:20,559 Speaker 1: The player wasn't traded to the Los Angeles Sparks because 221 00:11:20,559 --> 00:11:23,280 Speaker 1: she was pregnant. The trade, she said, had everything to 222 00:11:23,320 --> 00:11:26,160 Speaker 1: do with freeing up money to sign free agents. Now, 223 00:11:26,640 --> 00:11:28,440 Speaker 1: I don't know why she got traded or not, but 224 00:11:28,480 --> 00:11:31,680 Speaker 1: I certainly know that probably being pregnant didn't help your calls. 225 00:11:31,800 --> 00:11:34,280 Speaker 1: Let's just say that. Can you agree with that, Becky Hammy? 226 00:11:34,400 --> 00:11:36,439 Speaker 1: All right? So still Hammond said she may have made 227 00:11:36,480 --> 00:11:37,040 Speaker 1: a miss. 228 00:11:37,000 --> 00:11:43,080 Speaker 2: Up man, Damn, I knew it. 229 00:11:43,240 --> 00:11:45,920 Speaker 1: Hannon said she may she may have made a misstep. 230 00:11:46,679 --> 00:11:50,400 Speaker 1: Y'all were walking on stairs, walk on steps and make 231 00:11:50,440 --> 00:11:54,240 Speaker 1: a misstep. You never say I may have made a misstep. 232 00:11:54,320 --> 00:11:57,520 Speaker 2: You know you did or didn't so don't give me no. 233 00:11:57,640 --> 00:12:00,160 Speaker 1: May have made your ass know you made it is 234 00:12:00,200 --> 00:12:02,480 Speaker 1: that by asking hand Be at one point about her pregnancy, 235 00:12:03,400 --> 00:12:05,760 Speaker 1: and she indicated that the rules in the WNBA regarding 236 00:12:05,800 --> 00:12:09,000 Speaker 1: players and how that looks within an organization have to 237 00:12:09,000 --> 00:12:11,880 Speaker 1: be better defined, shining a light on the balancing act 238 00:12:11,920 --> 00:12:15,040 Speaker 1: of having a family and maintaining a professional sports career, 239 00:12:15,760 --> 00:12:21,160 Speaker 1: especially as a woman. I could keep going and going. 240 00:12:21,200 --> 00:12:22,360 Speaker 1: There's so much here. 241 00:12:23,000 --> 00:12:23,200 Speaker 2: Man. 242 00:12:23,240 --> 00:12:25,520 Speaker 1: They got stipends for him now and they're trying to 243 00:12:25,559 --> 00:12:29,120 Speaker 1: help them out. A small number of the elite veteran 244 00:12:29,160 --> 00:12:31,400 Speaker 1: players who have played eight or more seasons can be 245 00:12:31,559 --> 00:12:34,680 Speaker 1: reimburse up to twenty thousand per year for costs directly 246 00:12:34,720 --> 00:12:40,079 Speaker 1: related to adoption, surrogacy, egg freezing, or other fertility treatments. Wow, 247 00:12:41,040 --> 00:12:43,720 Speaker 1: and it's the progressive offering compared to other industries that 248 00:12:43,840 --> 00:12:48,439 Speaker 1: is inclusive of the lgbtq IA. 249 00:12:47,800 --> 00:12:49,480 Speaker 2: Plus athletes as well. 250 00:12:49,840 --> 00:12:53,000 Speaker 1: All Right, may strides and everything they say, but there's 251 00:12:53,040 --> 00:12:55,520 Speaker 1: still a little asterisk that it has to be at 252 00:12:55,520 --> 00:12:58,760 Speaker 1: the eight year service to get it, et cetera, et cetera. Yeah, 253 00:12:58,920 --> 00:13:01,199 Speaker 1: that is one thing about BENS, Like if I'm in 254 00:13:01,200 --> 00:13:03,120 Speaker 1: the league, I'm in the league. Now you can give 255 00:13:03,160 --> 00:13:06,360 Speaker 1: me more. I get it as I accrue more time 256 00:13:06,400 --> 00:13:10,600 Speaker 1: and stature in this league and tenure in this league. 257 00:13:10,920 --> 00:13:13,200 Speaker 1: But at the same time, dog, once I'm in the league, 258 00:13:13,120 --> 00:13:16,600 Speaker 1: get the money going, put your boy up, get these 259 00:13:16,640 --> 00:13:20,360 Speaker 1: benefits going. Right. So these challenges that women facing sports 260 00:13:20,440 --> 00:13:24,480 Speaker 1: like Brondela in them, they got to decide, literally, do 261 00:13:24,559 --> 00:13:27,640 Speaker 1: I have a kid right now? Or do I ball 262 00:13:27,760 --> 00:13:31,320 Speaker 1: right now? Damn dudes, got it easy. In disrespect, this 263 00:13:31,440 --> 00:13:34,439 Speaker 1: is unreal. Female athletes shouldn't have to give a mother 264 00:13:34,480 --> 00:13:36,719 Speaker 1: hood because they want to be an athlete. That's right. 265 00:13:36,960 --> 00:13:40,200 Speaker 2: Doctor Katherine Ackerman agrees with that as well. 266 00:13:40,559 --> 00:13:43,400 Speaker 1: But there's a fear that when female athletes become parents, 267 00:13:43,760 --> 00:13:46,240 Speaker 1: they may not value being an athlete as much. So 268 00:13:46,280 --> 00:13:48,760 Speaker 1: that's the fallacy that's out there, Like you're gonna have 269 00:13:48,800 --> 00:13:51,480 Speaker 1: a kid and then all of a sudden, well, look, 270 00:13:51,520 --> 00:13:54,480 Speaker 1: obviously they're going to be tremendous demands on your time. 271 00:13:54,880 --> 00:13:57,160 Speaker 1: And I hope that you have a partner, and I'm 272 00:13:57,160 --> 00:13:59,480 Speaker 1: talking about a husband, but if not, just a partner 273 00:13:59,559 --> 00:14:02,880 Speaker 1: or just some dawn for the calls because being single 274 00:14:03,760 --> 00:14:06,240 Speaker 1: and have the kid and trying to ball and I'm 275 00:14:06,280 --> 00:14:09,720 Speaker 1: running that organization I'm looking at your ass every single day. 276 00:14:09,800 --> 00:14:14,360 Speaker 1: Lift them shades up your time because I know you timebouse, 277 00:14:14,880 --> 00:14:17,400 Speaker 1: and don't let your production slip because I don't want 278 00:14:17,400 --> 00:14:20,280 Speaker 1: to hear your hamstring. I don't want to hear oh, 279 00:14:20,440 --> 00:14:23,280 Speaker 1: they ain't giving you the ball properly. I want to 280 00:14:23,320 --> 00:14:26,120 Speaker 1: look and I'm probably gonna look dead at now. 281 00:14:26,240 --> 00:14:27,760 Speaker 2: That family is taxing your ass. 282 00:14:28,000 --> 00:14:29,840 Speaker 1: And that's the tough part because you got to respect 283 00:14:29,880 --> 00:14:32,640 Speaker 1: the organization sphere as well, which is like if you 284 00:14:32,760 --> 00:14:34,760 Speaker 1: got too much going on in your life, which is 285 00:14:34,840 --> 00:14:39,400 Speaker 1: having kids and not properly supported not having kids, it's 286 00:14:39,600 --> 00:14:41,800 Speaker 1: what's your family structure dynamic? 287 00:14:42,080 --> 00:14:44,800 Speaker 2: How you gonna work this out? What's your plan? Because 288 00:14:44,800 --> 00:14:47,240 Speaker 2: you're the mom. 289 00:14:46,400 --> 00:14:50,520 Speaker 1: And we all know that the mama, as I tell 290 00:14:50,560 --> 00:14:54,600 Speaker 1: my boys all the time, mama has milk. What do 291 00:14:54,680 --> 00:15:01,280 Speaker 1: men have sperm? There, Let's just say that the connection 292 00:15:01,440 --> 00:15:04,040 Speaker 1: kids have to moms a lot different milk. 293 00:15:04,840 --> 00:15:07,160 Speaker 2: Man, that's essential milk. 294 00:15:08,080 --> 00:15:10,200 Speaker 1: We do give life though, so you know, and not 295 00:15:10,200 --> 00:15:12,280 Speaker 1: trying to choose one, but we know that the mother 296 00:15:12,360 --> 00:15:14,960 Speaker 1: in the maternal structure has to be in place or 297 00:15:15,280 --> 00:15:17,960 Speaker 1: Mama's gonna be upset, kids not gonna be properly taken 298 00:15:18,000 --> 00:15:20,240 Speaker 1: care of, and the organization gonna suffer because you're not 299 00:15:20,240 --> 00:15:23,680 Speaker 1: gonna be there for them. So a conundrum of issues 300 00:15:23,760 --> 00:15:27,440 Speaker 1: right here, especially facing the women in pregnancy in sports. 301 00:15:27,480 --> 00:15:29,800 Speaker 2: There's no solution to this. I think it's case by case. 302 00:15:30,160 --> 00:15:32,280 Speaker 1: You just got to see the athlete and some you 303 00:15:32,280 --> 00:15:35,800 Speaker 1: know what, if she's married, got the family structure. Even 304 00:15:35,840 --> 00:15:39,320 Speaker 1: though that travel, Oh god, that's one reason why I 305 00:15:39,320 --> 00:15:41,240 Speaker 1: didn't want to take my next offer in media. It 306 00:15:41,320 --> 00:15:44,560 Speaker 1: was going to involve some more travel, and I was like, man, 307 00:15:44,760 --> 00:15:47,080 Speaker 1: not to that extent. I did that for ten years 308 00:15:47,080 --> 00:15:50,600 Speaker 1: in the NFL. I did that for ESPN. I was like, man, 309 00:15:50,600 --> 00:15:52,680 Speaker 1: I gotta stay still as much as possible. That's why 310 00:15:52,760 --> 00:15:55,280 Speaker 1: y'all see me in the same ass locker room. Its 311 00:15:55,280 --> 00:15:57,920 Speaker 1: start to stink in here. Let me stop coptin the 312 00:15:57,960 --> 00:16:01,240 Speaker 1: Columbia sign. I'm doing as much work as I can 313 00:16:01,840 --> 00:16:05,120 Speaker 1: downstairs in my basement. Your damn right. People say that, 314 00:16:05,200 --> 00:16:07,000 Speaker 1: and they try to clown people like, oh, you and 315 00:16:07,080 --> 00:16:10,480 Speaker 1: his mom's basement. Well, I wishers was my mom's basement 316 00:16:10,560 --> 00:16:13,040 Speaker 1: because that means I would have had a legacy and 317 00:16:13,080 --> 00:16:15,800 Speaker 1: some money coming in here. I would have had a 318 00:16:15,880 --> 00:16:18,840 Speaker 1: trust fund. If this was my mama's basement, but it's 319 00:16:18,920 --> 00:16:22,680 Speaker 1: mine and I hold it in high esteem. So women 320 00:16:22,720 --> 00:16:27,160 Speaker 1: out there make sure, like anybody whoever's having a kid, 321 00:16:27,200 --> 00:16:29,560 Speaker 1: you got to always make sure that your structure set 322 00:16:29,640 --> 00:16:32,280 Speaker 1: up properly and you could be able to support the kid. 323 00:16:32,600 --> 00:16:35,000 Speaker 1: You can't ask the organization, you can't ask your job 324 00:16:35,520 --> 00:16:38,920 Speaker 1: to give you all of this leniency if they know 325 00:16:39,000 --> 00:16:42,840 Speaker 1: that you're struggling at home. So tough situation for all. 326 00:16:42,920 --> 00:16:45,120 Speaker 1: Hopefully they can get it fixed. Case. If by case, 327 00:16:45,400 --> 00:16:48,480 Speaker 1: let's talk about Fetty Wapping. When you come out way, 328 00:16:49,520 --> 00:16:53,240 Speaker 1: Fatty wops lawyers so trying to go a different way 329 00:16:53,240 --> 00:16:56,320 Speaker 1: because the financial struggles, they said, led to his involvement 330 00:16:56,680 --> 00:17:00,760 Speaker 1: in a drug ring. Damn, I ain't notice. Fetti Wap's 331 00:17:00,840 --> 00:17:02,840 Speaker 1: lawyers are looking to get a lighter sentence than his 332 00:17:03,000 --> 00:17:07,400 Speaker 1: minimum five years he's facing for his drug drug trafficking 333 00:17:07,520 --> 00:17:09,960 Speaker 1: case dating back to two thousand and. 334 00:17:10,000 --> 00:17:11,280 Speaker 2: Twenty one he got arrested. 335 00:17:11,359 --> 00:17:14,840 Speaker 1: Damn. Thirty one year old's legal team says that his 336 00:17:14,920 --> 00:17:17,880 Speaker 1: financial struggles calls him to get involved with the multimillion 337 00:17:17,920 --> 00:17:18,680 Speaker 1: dollar drug ring. 338 00:17:19,320 --> 00:17:23,920 Speaker 2: That'sh all defense, No, no, what do you play? Guilty? Goodness? 339 00:17:24,320 --> 00:17:24,680 Speaker 2: Come on? 340 00:17:25,000 --> 00:17:29,119 Speaker 1: Your defense is I got financial issues. That's what every 341 00:17:29,280 --> 00:17:32,879 Speaker 1: drug dealer's issue is. Every drug dealer start off with, 342 00:17:33,800 --> 00:17:36,200 Speaker 1: I'll say this in common, whether they black, they white, 343 00:17:36,240 --> 00:17:38,280 Speaker 1: they from the suburbs, they from the hood, I can 344 00:17:38,320 --> 00:17:42,760 Speaker 1: tell you one thing they got in common, financial struggles 345 00:17:43,000 --> 00:17:45,119 Speaker 1: right the day one. No, I ain't talking about day 346 00:17:45,200 --> 00:17:47,520 Speaker 1: hundred when you make it some dole or whatever going 347 00:17:47,600 --> 00:17:50,520 Speaker 1: day one. Ain't nobody on the block balling out of control, 348 00:17:50,560 --> 00:17:52,399 Speaker 1: trying to slang no rocks are they? 349 00:17:52,720 --> 00:17:55,120 Speaker 2: If they are, they got mental issues, all right. 350 00:17:55,160 --> 00:17:58,159 Speaker 1: So the six seven to nine artists lawyers argue that 351 00:17:58,320 --> 00:18:01,000 Speaker 1: COVID nineteen in the pandemic ruined his ability to be 352 00:18:01,040 --> 00:18:03,520 Speaker 1: on the road, thus hindering any tour income he was 353 00:18:03,560 --> 00:18:07,239 Speaker 1: able to generate according to the Billboard magazine. So what 354 00:18:07,320 --> 00:18:11,440 Speaker 1: makes this case unusual is mister Maxwell's motivation. Personal gain 355 00:18:11,560 --> 00:18:14,040 Speaker 1: was not his motivation. Rather, he was motivated by his 356 00:18:14,040 --> 00:18:17,720 Speaker 1: commitment to financially support others. He now realizes that he 357 00:18:17,760 --> 00:18:19,480 Speaker 1: does not have to carry the weight of the world 358 00:18:19,480 --> 00:18:20,200 Speaker 1: on his shoulders. 359 00:18:20,760 --> 00:18:25,120 Speaker 2: Man stop, I got. 360 00:18:25,040 --> 00:18:28,160 Speaker 1: That entourage bigger than mc hammers, and like, I got 361 00:18:28,200 --> 00:18:29,879 Speaker 1: to make sure they eat. So I'm about to slang 362 00:18:29,920 --> 00:18:33,680 Speaker 1: this that ain't it and carry the weight on your shoulders. 363 00:18:35,600 --> 00:18:38,879 Speaker 1: I know that pressure, and I know it's real, and 364 00:18:38,960 --> 00:18:41,200 Speaker 1: I know you subscribe to it, but you go also 365 00:18:41,280 --> 00:18:42,879 Speaker 1: elect to get out of it. You can opt out 366 00:18:42,920 --> 00:18:46,560 Speaker 1: of that. You got to tell people, Hey, brouh, I 367 00:18:46,600 --> 00:18:49,479 Speaker 1: am not you, and nobody could take care of you 368 00:18:49,520 --> 00:18:52,040 Speaker 1: better than you, So get off my ass and get 369 00:18:52,080 --> 00:18:55,080 Speaker 1: off my shoulders and take care of yourself quote. Suddenly 370 00:18:55,119 --> 00:18:57,119 Speaker 1: it felt like life was going in reverse, and he 371 00:18:57,200 --> 00:18:59,520 Speaker 1: became ashamed when he began to struggle to keep up 372 00:18:59,560 --> 00:19:02,560 Speaker 1: the lights out that he created for so many. Oh, 373 00:19:02,600 --> 00:19:05,320 Speaker 1: I get that, that is a real thing. His judgment 374 00:19:05,440 --> 00:19:08,679 Speaker 1: became impaired. Desperate to keep up with his financial obligations, 375 00:19:08,720 --> 00:19:13,119 Speaker 1: mister Maxwell became involved in the instant offense and then 376 00:19:13,119 --> 00:19:16,760 Speaker 1: instant offense instant offense, I guess for a few months 377 00:19:16,760 --> 00:19:20,399 Speaker 1: in the spring of oh, probably the initial offense Spring 378 00:19:20,440 --> 00:19:21,080 Speaker 1: of twenty twenty. 379 00:19:21,160 --> 00:19:22,639 Speaker 2: Ah, So he felt that pressure. 380 00:19:22,680 --> 00:19:25,480 Speaker 1: Look, I always told you guys this story about how 381 00:19:26,040 --> 00:19:29,920 Speaker 1: I witnessed Junior Seau and some of his struggles and 382 00:19:30,040 --> 00:19:34,919 Speaker 1: the inability to say no really made him implode, you know, 383 00:19:36,160 --> 00:19:39,480 Speaker 1: and I feeddie wop, I get it, bro Like the 384 00:19:39,520 --> 00:19:42,240 Speaker 1: inability to tell everybody, I ain't got it. Made you 385 00:19:42,280 --> 00:19:44,920 Speaker 1: want to just go out there anyway, in any mean 386 00:19:45,080 --> 00:19:48,760 Speaker 1: to get it, but you can't. You can't. Like you, 387 00:19:49,160 --> 00:19:52,200 Speaker 1: it's better to just tap out and let him laugh 388 00:19:52,240 --> 00:19:55,639 Speaker 1: at you than now you're gonna be forced to tap out. 389 00:19:55,880 --> 00:19:59,720 Speaker 1: You're gonna get pinned in the pin to go to 390 00:19:59,760 --> 00:20:02,840 Speaker 1: the and I wonder if they're gonna laugh at you then, 391 00:20:03,200 --> 00:20:05,760 Speaker 1: you know, God like, so much. 392 00:20:05,600 --> 00:20:07,480 Speaker 2: Of this is just based on others. 393 00:20:07,560 --> 00:20:11,040 Speaker 1: Sad like dog care about what you think about you 394 00:20:11,160 --> 00:20:13,520 Speaker 1: more than what they think about you. Like I know, 395 00:20:13,600 --> 00:20:16,000 Speaker 1: we all care about what others think, but it can't 396 00:20:16,080 --> 00:20:19,040 Speaker 1: trump what you think of yourself. And in this situation, 397 00:20:19,160 --> 00:20:22,240 Speaker 1: if he had had that properly in its right structure, 398 00:20:22,680 --> 00:20:25,119 Speaker 1: he wouldn't be fixing these five years minimum, all right. So, 399 00:20:25,160 --> 00:20:28,159 Speaker 1: according to the legal team, he realizes a terrible mistake 400 00:20:28,200 --> 00:20:29,960 Speaker 1: he made and is truly sorry for the loss and 401 00:20:30,000 --> 00:20:32,560 Speaker 1: heard he has calls. They're hoping to reduce his potential 402 00:20:32,600 --> 00:20:35,840 Speaker 1: sentence to five years due to the unique circumstances of 403 00:20:35,880 --> 00:20:40,600 Speaker 1: the situation and accountability has shown goodness. Now this is 404 00:20:40,600 --> 00:20:44,480 Speaker 1: what he is up for. Goodness. Accused of trafficking over 405 00:20:44,520 --> 00:20:49,320 Speaker 1: one hundred kilos of opioids, crack, and cocaine from the 406 00:20:49,320 --> 00:20:52,600 Speaker 1: West Coast to be sold through our Long Island suckers 407 00:20:52,600 --> 00:20:55,440 Speaker 1: on his franklin. He over here trying to really snowfall it. 408 00:20:55,640 --> 00:20:58,600 Speaker 1: You really try to win. Fetti played guilty to conspiring 409 00:20:58,680 --> 00:21:01,680 Speaker 1: to possess and distribute five hundred grams of more or 410 00:21:01,680 --> 00:21:06,879 Speaker 1: more of cocaine, blaming COVID, blaming financial struggles, blaming the 411 00:21:06,960 --> 00:21:10,320 Speaker 1: need to financially provide everything, but taking responsibilities for his actions. 412 00:21:10,359 --> 00:21:12,439 Speaker 1: And I'm hoping and I'm certain that he is. That 413 00:21:12,560 --> 00:21:14,800 Speaker 1: just didn't make the headlines. That just didn't make the 414 00:21:14,840 --> 00:21:17,600 Speaker 1: news stories because it sounds like a cop out if 415 00:21:17,640 --> 00:21:19,480 Speaker 1: he didn't. Let me tell you, if a teammate that 416 00:21:19,520 --> 00:21:25,240 Speaker 1: I had, I'm gonna protected guilty that got me caught 417 00:21:25,320 --> 00:21:28,960 Speaker 1: up in something like this. Almost teammate of mine, one 418 00:21:29,000 --> 00:21:31,080 Speaker 1: of my best friends. I played with him a couple 419 00:21:31,119 --> 00:21:34,840 Speaker 1: of teams, and I remember he had his new friend 420 00:21:35,359 --> 00:21:37,360 Speaker 1: who like fixed cars, and I was like, all right, 421 00:21:37,400 --> 00:21:40,399 Speaker 1: that's cool. Now. You know, my spider sense always goes 422 00:21:40,440 --> 00:21:44,480 Speaker 1: off when somebody's a trucker or fixing cars mechanics, Like, 423 00:21:44,480 --> 00:21:46,720 Speaker 1: I ain't gonna lie. I just maybe I'd have lived 424 00:21:46,760 --> 00:21:49,200 Speaker 1: it too much or seen too me movies or both. 425 00:21:49,880 --> 00:21:51,359 Speaker 1: I'm like, all right, what else do you do? Dog? 426 00:21:51,680 --> 00:21:53,560 Speaker 2: You know what I mean? So anyway. 427 00:21:54,760 --> 00:21:57,560 Speaker 1: He got caught up. Next thing, you know, he's you 428 00:21:57,600 --> 00:21:59,440 Speaker 1: know he first. He used to always want me to 429 00:21:59,480 --> 00:22:01,840 Speaker 1: come over and go to the spot like they had, 430 00:22:01,960 --> 00:22:04,080 Speaker 1: you know, in the back of the shop where they 431 00:22:04,080 --> 00:22:06,200 Speaker 1: were fixing the cards. They would play cards and stuff, 432 00:22:06,200 --> 00:22:08,560 Speaker 1: and I was like, Dog, I used to always tell 433 00:22:08,600 --> 00:22:10,960 Speaker 1: my boys in college and in the pros like I'm 434 00:22:10,960 --> 00:22:13,000 Speaker 1: not the I'm not the homie that comes over and 435 00:22:13,080 --> 00:22:15,760 Speaker 1: just hangs with y'all. I'm not because I use that 436 00:22:15,880 --> 00:22:18,719 Speaker 1: time to go hang with some girls. Like seriously, like 437 00:22:18,960 --> 00:22:21,879 Speaker 1: if we go to eat, we go to the club, 438 00:22:23,119 --> 00:22:24,640 Speaker 1: we go to a bar, we go. 439 00:22:24,640 --> 00:22:25,280 Speaker 2: To a lounge. 440 00:22:25,320 --> 00:22:26,720 Speaker 1: But I ain't just going over your house to play 441 00:22:26,800 --> 00:22:29,200 Speaker 1: Nintendo and just talking smoking, drink. 442 00:22:29,520 --> 00:22:33,280 Speaker 2: Nah, that's girl time, dude. 443 00:22:33,560 --> 00:22:35,919 Speaker 1: Just too much bag, too much of sosterone, just too 444 00:22:36,000 --> 00:22:40,280 Speaker 1: much bad and hack fights, miss disagreements. You could bond, 445 00:22:40,400 --> 00:22:42,800 Speaker 1: but we could bond anywhere, dog like, because most of 446 00:22:42,800 --> 00:22:45,720 Speaker 1: the time I'm working whatever it is I'm game playing 447 00:22:45,840 --> 00:22:48,080 Speaker 1: or by myself building up my relationship with my best 448 00:22:48,080 --> 00:22:52,600 Speaker 1: friend me. So that three four hours. We just older 449 00:22:52,720 --> 00:22:55,600 Speaker 1: wings and coming through kicking it. I'll watch the game 450 00:22:55,640 --> 00:22:58,240 Speaker 1: with y'all yet, but just coming through the playing Nintendo, 451 00:22:59,040 --> 00:23:01,080 Speaker 1: coming through the just play arts. Nah be not me, 452 00:23:01,240 --> 00:23:04,640 Speaker 1: and I don't judge, y'all, don't judge me. I'm gonna judge. 453 00:23:05,160 --> 00:23:07,600 Speaker 1: So he used to invite me. I used to say, no, no, no, 454 00:23:07,560 --> 00:23:10,959 Speaker 1: they're finally back. He called me up one day and 455 00:23:11,000 --> 00:23:16,080 Speaker 1: he was like telling me that he was in LA 456 00:23:16,280 --> 00:23:18,280 Speaker 1: and he wanted to connect. And I was like, all right, 457 00:23:18,359 --> 00:23:20,399 Speaker 1: let's do it. This is all right. Let me hit 458 00:23:20,480 --> 00:23:22,720 Speaker 1: you back. And I'm busy right now, and we connect 459 00:23:22,760 --> 00:23:25,400 Speaker 1: our shin and I swear I ain't heard from him 460 00:23:25,440 --> 00:23:28,520 Speaker 1: since I got a letter from his wife I think 461 00:23:28,960 --> 00:23:32,720 Speaker 1: years ago, and I didn't respond. And why didn't I respond? 462 00:23:33,119 --> 00:23:36,119 Speaker 1: Because I felt he violated my trust. Turns out fans 463 00:23:36,200 --> 00:23:39,159 Speaker 1: was watching him. Turns out my phone was tapped. Turns 464 00:23:39,200 --> 00:23:42,680 Speaker 1: out they've been watching me. Now. I ain't find shit 465 00:23:42,760 --> 00:23:45,680 Speaker 1: cause I don't be doing nothing. I ain't jo my rent. 466 00:23:45,840 --> 00:23:47,080 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. I don't do stuff for 467 00:23:47,160 --> 00:23:49,000 Speaker 1: the for the public at large. I don't do stuff 468 00:23:49,040 --> 00:23:51,000 Speaker 1: on the GRAMD. I don't do stuff on ig lot 469 00:23:51,000 --> 00:23:53,160 Speaker 1: I don't let y'all know my business. Plus, I ain't 470 00:23:53,200 --> 00:23:56,960 Speaker 1: doing nothing. He ain't gonnaarrest me for what. So I 471 00:23:57,040 --> 00:24:01,919 Speaker 1: was like, damn, that's messed up. Didn't even tell your boy, Like, 472 00:24:01,960 --> 00:24:03,919 Speaker 1: and I know it's a tough conversation to have with me. 473 00:24:04,000 --> 00:24:06,720 Speaker 1: Will If it's so tough, don't hang with me, don't 474 00:24:06,760 --> 00:24:10,040 Speaker 1: compromise me, don't put me in those positions and predicaments. 475 00:24:10,119 --> 00:24:10,879 Speaker 2: I got a family, bro. 476 00:24:11,880 --> 00:24:13,720 Speaker 1: So when his wife wrote me that letter, and not 477 00:24:13,800 --> 00:24:15,880 Speaker 1: as much as I still love that dude, I still 478 00:24:15,880 --> 00:24:18,760 Speaker 1: think of that dude. Nope, because if you didn't tell 479 00:24:18,760 --> 00:24:20,680 Speaker 1: me then that you were doing something that got you 480 00:24:21,160 --> 00:24:25,159 Speaker 1: keen ben charges you went up for you went up 481 00:24:25,200 --> 00:24:29,680 Speaker 1: for double digits. I heard and you for for months 482 00:24:29,760 --> 00:24:33,080 Speaker 1: and years, knew you were doing that and was trying 483 00:24:33,080 --> 00:24:35,280 Speaker 1: to bring me into it because you know this is 484 00:24:35,320 --> 00:24:37,840 Speaker 1: how it goes. Come play cards, all right? Oh he 485 00:24:37,840 --> 00:24:40,480 Speaker 1: came to play cards. Then this boy his partner, Like, Yo, 486 00:24:41,080 --> 00:24:42,560 Speaker 1: what else you got going on? Why do you got 487 00:24:42,600 --> 00:24:45,320 Speaker 1: all that money? What you're doing with it? Like? 488 00:24:45,359 --> 00:24:45,760 Speaker 2: What you mean? 489 00:24:45,800 --> 00:24:48,840 Speaker 1: Why you in my business? What you want? Oh? No, 490 00:24:48,960 --> 00:24:50,720 Speaker 1: I'm just knowing. You know you got diversified. You got 491 00:24:50,800 --> 00:24:52,439 Speaker 1: to get into stuff. Man. I know some cats. Man, 492 00:24:52,440 --> 00:24:56,200 Speaker 1: you give them five hundred, they come back with five thousand. Damn, 493 00:24:56,600 --> 00:24:59,480 Speaker 1: that's cool, man, We'll give them five hundred. I don't 494 00:24:59,520 --> 00:25:02,040 Speaker 1: need five. There are five thousand. You know what I mean. 495 00:25:02,200 --> 00:25:04,560 Speaker 1: I don't need your two cents. Eason like shut up. 496 00:25:04,640 --> 00:25:07,400 Speaker 1: But see that's me I'm asked. But point being, they 497 00:25:07,440 --> 00:25:10,320 Speaker 1: go as far as they think you would go. So 498 00:25:10,400 --> 00:25:13,439 Speaker 1: he would have been nudging me to get into that 499 00:25:13,560 --> 00:25:16,720 Speaker 1: dark side. It would have just one of them times. 500 00:25:16,760 --> 00:25:18,440 Speaker 1: I was joking. You know me, I'm a jokester, so 501 00:25:18,480 --> 00:25:20,800 Speaker 1: I'm like she man. Next time I see y'all, I 502 00:25:20,840 --> 00:25:23,560 Speaker 1: got a million on whatever the hell y'all talking about. Now, 503 00:25:23,600 --> 00:25:24,960 Speaker 1: I could have wormed out of it, like I ain't 504 00:25:24,960 --> 00:25:26,240 Speaker 1: know what they were talking about. But then at the 505 00:25:26,240 --> 00:25:28,840 Speaker 1: same time, mister Wiley, why are you hanging with them? 506 00:25:28,880 --> 00:25:32,920 Speaker 1: I'm on fucking I'm on people's court, trying to defend myself, 507 00:25:33,000 --> 00:25:37,040 Speaker 1: meanwhile getting cut by the damn Dallas Cowboys. BOYO, y'all 508 00:25:37,080 --> 00:25:39,360 Speaker 1: tell me if I should call him because I miss him, 509 00:25:39,400 --> 00:25:41,680 Speaker 1: But I missed that bs. 510 00:25:41,320 --> 00:25:43,000 Speaker 2: All right, y'all, last story right here. 511 00:25:43,080 --> 00:25:46,960 Speaker 1: Budget savvy Bride sparks a furious debate after revealing she 512 00:25:47,040 --> 00:25:49,480 Speaker 1: got chilies to cater her wedding for just twenty dollars. 513 00:25:49,520 --> 00:25:50,520 Speaker 2: I guess. 514 00:25:52,080 --> 00:25:54,560 Speaker 1: Damn it, she wasn't married already. I married her too, 515 00:25:55,560 --> 00:26:00,560 Speaker 1: Madison Mulki from Georgia. That's a Georgia name. Man, that 516 00:26:00,640 --> 00:26:02,360 Speaker 1: name ain't made it to California yet. 517 00:26:02,440 --> 00:26:02,800 Speaker 2: Monkey. 518 00:26:04,920 --> 00:26:08,400 Speaker 1: She tied the night not with her boyfriend Greg Mulky 519 00:26:08,600 --> 00:26:10,920 Speaker 1: back in March, all right. They decided to serve food 520 00:26:10,920 --> 00:26:13,399 Speaker 1: from Chili's on their big day, and while their choice 521 00:26:13,400 --> 00:26:16,560 Speaker 1: resulted in them saving thousands of dollars, it left a 522 00:26:16,560 --> 00:26:18,679 Speaker 1: lot of people divided on it. All right, So she 523 00:26:18,800 --> 00:26:22,000 Speaker 1: shared the videos she got on TikTok. Of course had 524 00:26:22,119 --> 00:26:24,720 Speaker 1: lad by no girl, I got that chilies over here, 525 00:26:25,000 --> 00:26:27,960 Speaker 1: And she explained that they spent that they spent less 526 00:26:27,960 --> 00:26:32,080 Speaker 1: than two thousand dollars less than two k to feed 527 00:26:32,200 --> 00:26:35,600 Speaker 1: ninety nine guests, which comes out about twenty bucks a person. Right, 528 00:26:36,280 --> 00:26:39,120 Speaker 1: the average price for a wedding catering usually seventy five 529 00:26:39,200 --> 00:26:43,879 Speaker 1: dollars a person. Greg, you married the right one one 530 00:26:43,960 --> 00:26:47,040 Speaker 1: two three Greg one two three, Greg Sucker, he had 531 00:26:47,080 --> 00:26:50,840 Speaker 1: got him a good girl. Oh man. The tray that 532 00:26:50,880 --> 00:26:54,960 Speaker 1: they order included chicken tenders, sliders, egg ros, chips, sausa 533 00:26:55,119 --> 00:26:58,320 Speaker 1: cage and chicken, pasta and salad, as well as five 534 00:26:58,359 --> 00:27:01,320 Speaker 1: specialty meals for people who were gluten or dairy free. 535 00:27:01,440 --> 00:27:03,760 Speaker 1: Damn they looking out too. They're like, you got a 536 00:27:03,800 --> 00:27:06,640 Speaker 1: little issue in your blood system. Let me make sure 537 00:27:06,680 --> 00:27:09,399 Speaker 1: you're good. God Lee, I love this. We loved the 538 00:27:09,440 --> 00:27:11,840 Speaker 1: price point. They said, you really can't beat the price point, 539 00:27:11,960 --> 00:27:17,000 Speaker 1: Like you just can't. They quotes is tripling down on 540 00:27:17,400 --> 00:27:20,800 Speaker 1: shit with chet. It's all good. It's insane that we 541 00:27:20,840 --> 00:27:23,199 Speaker 1: only spent that much for our wedding food. Now, on 542 00:27:23,200 --> 00:27:25,199 Speaker 1: top of cutting costs, a couple also wanted to have 543 00:27:25,320 --> 00:27:27,920 Speaker 1: Chilis at their wedding because it was something that connected 544 00:27:27,960 --> 00:27:30,760 Speaker 1: them earlier in their relationship. So she shared a screenshot 545 00:27:30,760 --> 00:27:33,040 Speaker 1: of an old text message conversation between her and Greg 546 00:27:33,080 --> 00:27:35,119 Speaker 1: and which she asked her what she thought. 547 00:27:35,200 --> 00:27:35,760 Speaker 2: Of the chain. 548 00:27:35,840 --> 00:27:38,040 Speaker 1: Oh, Greg, like me, let me tell you my story. 549 00:27:38,560 --> 00:27:43,879 Speaker 1: So I used to date a lot of women early 550 00:27:43,880 --> 00:27:46,160 Speaker 1: two thousands. Yeah, this era like two thousand and two 551 00:27:46,160 --> 00:27:53,240 Speaker 1: thousand and five. I was a bad, bad, bad bad boy, 552 00:27:53,760 --> 00:27:55,920 Speaker 1: all right. So there was a spot I grew up 553 00:27:56,280 --> 00:28:02,119 Speaker 1: around the corner from on Sloughson and Angela's vista called Ye's. 554 00:28:02,400 --> 00:28:04,600 Speaker 2: And if you from La, you know Yee's was it? 555 00:28:05,520 --> 00:28:09,440 Speaker 1: I mean it. You can't talk about what Panda expressed. 556 00:28:09,440 --> 00:28:14,480 Speaker 1: You can't talk about what PF changed. She Yee's was it? Boy? 557 00:28:14,560 --> 00:28:18,320 Speaker 1: Them egg rolls was silly. The scripts was crazy. And 558 00:28:18,400 --> 00:28:19,919 Speaker 1: I used to go to Ye's as much as I 559 00:28:19,920 --> 00:28:22,240 Speaker 1: could when I could get fired. I was, man, I 560 00:28:22,320 --> 00:28:23,840 Speaker 1: give me a child's plate on their head. That's what 561 00:28:23,880 --> 00:28:25,879 Speaker 1: it was called, the child's plate. Get that little that 562 00:28:25,920 --> 00:28:28,440 Speaker 1: little peanut butter cookie and the egg roll and oh 563 00:28:28,560 --> 00:28:29,560 Speaker 1: that short bread cookies. 564 00:28:29,680 --> 00:28:32,560 Speaker 2: Oh God loved anyway. 565 00:28:33,000 --> 00:28:35,840 Speaker 1: I used to date. And when I dated, a young 566 00:28:35,920 --> 00:28:39,160 Speaker 1: lady saying we're going to Ye's, and if she turned 567 00:28:39,160 --> 00:28:42,400 Speaker 1: her nose up to yeast, I turned my head away 568 00:28:42,400 --> 00:28:44,760 Speaker 1: from her. I was like, it's a rap. And one 569 00:28:44,800 --> 00:28:47,840 Speaker 1: of those girls that I did that too, because she 570 00:28:47,920 --> 00:28:51,000 Speaker 1: actually did that. And I'm being hyperbolic a little, but 571 00:28:51,200 --> 00:28:53,880 Speaker 1: really it was a strike, like why don't like it? 572 00:28:53,880 --> 00:28:56,200 Speaker 1: It ain't about you don't like ease, it's just they 573 00:28:56,280 --> 00:28:58,320 Speaker 1: goes like, why are we over here eating this? When 574 00:28:58,360 --> 00:29:01,320 Speaker 1: you Marcellus Wiley, And I get it, you grew up 575 00:29:01,320 --> 00:29:03,720 Speaker 1: over here. I get it that you from around here, 576 00:29:03,880 --> 00:29:06,720 Speaker 1: but while we hear e ye's and it's not even 577 00:29:06,760 --> 00:29:09,200 Speaker 1: that good, because I admit, if you and grow up 578 00:29:09,200 --> 00:29:11,200 Speaker 1: on ye'es, you ain't gonna probably love ye's because my 579 00:29:11,240 --> 00:29:13,600 Speaker 1: wife now doesn't like it. But they closed it down 580 00:29:13,600 --> 00:29:16,240 Speaker 1: so she ain't have to go through the test. We 581 00:29:16,280 --> 00:29:18,080 Speaker 1: used to deliver it a little bit before they closed. 582 00:29:19,440 --> 00:29:22,080 Speaker 1: And I get that, But when you turn your nose 583 00:29:22,160 --> 00:29:25,440 Speaker 1: up to the experience, to my upbringing, to where I'm from, 584 00:29:25,520 --> 00:29:27,760 Speaker 1: and more importantly to the people over there, like you're 585 00:29:27,760 --> 00:29:30,440 Speaker 1: basically judging them, like you can't eat this because this 586 00:29:30,480 --> 00:29:33,320 Speaker 1: ain't no food food, this ain't no fresh people around, 587 00:29:33,360 --> 00:29:36,080 Speaker 1: and this ain't on This ain't in West Hollywood, this 588 00:29:36,160 --> 00:29:37,280 Speaker 1: ain't in Hollywood. 589 00:29:37,520 --> 00:29:39,160 Speaker 2: You're like, we're in the hood over here. 590 00:29:39,280 --> 00:29:42,160 Speaker 1: Okay, that's how you Okay, But one of those girls 591 00:29:42,160 --> 00:29:44,560 Speaker 1: will she was married's material. She ended up getting married too. 592 00:29:44,920 --> 00:29:46,800 Speaker 1: I see them all the time. But she was a 593 00:29:46,920 --> 00:29:49,080 Speaker 1: she was a monster. She is a beast like on 594 00:29:49,160 --> 00:29:52,400 Speaker 1: paper on in real life, she's something special. But we 595 00:29:52,480 --> 00:29:54,680 Speaker 1: had other issues. I was a little immature at the time. 596 00:29:54,880 --> 00:29:57,640 Speaker 1: All right, So let me finish this story because I 597 00:29:57,640 --> 00:30:02,080 Speaker 1: think this is hilarious. The messages. They went back and 598 00:30:02,120 --> 00:30:08,160 Speaker 1: forth and showed that they love chilies together, right, and 599 00:30:08,280 --> 00:30:10,640 Speaker 1: so Chili's was like, damn, y'all want to do this 600 00:30:10,680 --> 00:30:12,680 Speaker 1: all right, y'all got to order y'all food early because 601 00:30:12,680 --> 00:30:14,440 Speaker 1: you know, we stayed busy around here and it was 602 00:30:14,480 --> 00:30:16,960 Speaker 1: a holiday weekend, so they had to order the food 603 00:30:17,080 --> 00:30:20,760 Speaker 1: hell early on their wedding day. But they said it 604 00:30:20,880 --> 00:30:23,880 Speaker 1: came through and everybody was pumped, and everybody was kind 605 00:30:23,880 --> 00:30:26,600 Speaker 1: of like caught off guard, but at the same time, like, dog, 606 00:30:26,680 --> 00:30:30,080 Speaker 1: y'all authentic, y'all real about this. So they said that 607 00:30:30,120 --> 00:30:33,360 Speaker 1: they were thankful for it, and more importantly, they just 608 00:30:33,440 --> 00:30:37,440 Speaker 1: had it their way in that BurgerKing, So they were 609 00:30:37,440 --> 00:30:43,520 Speaker 1: pumped forward. Man, man, let me tell y'all this, every 610 00:30:43,640 --> 00:30:47,000 Speaker 1: single dude that has ever gotten married in this world's 611 00:30:47,240 --> 00:30:51,320 Speaker 1: history has thought about a plan like this. I know, 612 00:30:51,680 --> 00:30:54,440 Speaker 1: you're like damn, because you just start thinking it ain't 613 00:30:54,440 --> 00:30:58,760 Speaker 1: the money, fully, it's how much you're spending for the time, 614 00:30:59,760 --> 00:31:01,840 Speaker 1: and it's only like three five hours, like you know, 615 00:31:02,080 --> 00:31:05,440 Speaker 1: like it's one thing, Okay, she said it's five thousand dollars, 616 00:31:05,440 --> 00:31:06,240 Speaker 1: ten thousand dollars. 617 00:31:06,240 --> 00:31:06,840 Speaker 2: He's like damn. 618 00:31:07,880 --> 00:31:11,680 Speaker 1: But then you think a man immediately thinks for three hours, 619 00:31:13,480 --> 00:31:16,240 Speaker 1: and a woman thinks for a lifetime memory. 620 00:31:16,360 --> 00:31:18,440 Speaker 2: See the difference there. Men and women are different. 621 00:31:18,440 --> 00:31:21,480 Speaker 1: The dude, it's like man. But meanwhile, the dude spent 622 00:31:21,560 --> 00:31:24,040 Speaker 1: five thousand dollars sell on the floor to watch Spencing 623 00:31:24,080 --> 00:31:28,080 Speaker 1: Crawford and that might end in the first round. Hell no, 624 00:31:28,160 --> 00:31:30,160 Speaker 1: I ain't ending in the first round. That's going the distance, right, 625 00:31:30,320 --> 00:31:34,480 Speaker 1: But the point is Mike Tyson first round. Five thousand dollars. Yeah, 626 00:31:35,520 --> 00:31:37,440 Speaker 1: your wife's like five thousand dollars for the food that 627 00:31:37,560 --> 00:31:39,720 Speaker 1: the damn with? How long? 628 00:31:39,880 --> 00:31:42,240 Speaker 2: How much what you want? Will we serving? 629 00:31:42,800 --> 00:31:43,440 Speaker 1: So crazy? 630 00:31:43,520 --> 00:31:43,680 Speaker 2: Right? 631 00:31:44,000 --> 00:31:47,320 Speaker 1: So I thought that was hilarious upper story man like 632 00:31:47,400 --> 00:31:51,520 Speaker 1: people out here are silly. So I married the right 633 00:31:51,560 --> 00:31:54,000 Speaker 1: one too. She did it right. We had a destination wedding. 634 00:31:54,240 --> 00:31:57,000 Speaker 1: It was sick. So destination wedding it's the only way 635 00:31:57,040 --> 00:31:59,640 Speaker 1: to go weed out all those little homies that live around. 636 00:31:59,680 --> 00:32:01,760 Speaker 1: You just gonna show up for your food anyway and 637 00:32:01,800 --> 00:32:04,120 Speaker 1: to hear the DJ. If he's good, they stay. If 638 00:32:04,120 --> 00:32:06,080 Speaker 1: he ain't, stay out. But they gonna ate up your 639 00:32:06,080 --> 00:32:08,360 Speaker 1: food and sat up and farted up your church. Right, 640 00:32:08,720 --> 00:32:11,880 Speaker 1: So I like destination weddings. Get your asses out of here. 641 00:32:11,920 --> 00:32:14,720 Speaker 1: Whoever got it, Come, whoever wants to really be there, 642 00:32:14,800 --> 00:32:17,760 Speaker 1: Come everybody else, chill and we'll see you when we 643 00:32:17,840 --> 00:32:20,600 Speaker 1: come back from the honeymoon. And I like that because 644 00:32:22,960 --> 00:32:24,960 Speaker 1: we not only you get the real ones that come, 645 00:32:25,120 --> 00:32:27,320 Speaker 1: or you know, frankly, some people just can't afford it, 646 00:32:27,360 --> 00:32:30,800 Speaker 1: and they're real, but they find a way. It creates 647 00:32:30,800 --> 00:32:34,000 Speaker 1: another family, the people that were there for that week. 648 00:32:34,040 --> 00:32:36,760 Speaker 1: And you have it midweek, so you let three days 649 00:32:36,760 --> 00:32:39,400 Speaker 1: go by, and everybody just got to get familiar, break 650 00:32:39,440 --> 00:32:41,840 Speaker 1: the ice, start seeing each other in the pool a 651 00:32:41,880 --> 00:32:44,320 Speaker 1: little more than jacuzie. Ain't nothing funnier than all these 652 00:32:44,320 --> 00:32:46,920 Speaker 1: couples walking around and then you just sitting there talking 653 00:32:46,960 --> 00:32:49,640 Speaker 1: to somebody else's wife. You're about to get married, and 654 00:32:49,720 --> 00:32:52,160 Speaker 1: you just sit there at the pool, bikini and stuff, 655 00:32:52,200 --> 00:32:54,720 Speaker 1: and y'all passing out drink, getting faded, and. 656 00:32:54,680 --> 00:32:56,360 Speaker 2: You just sitting there like, oh this is crazy. 657 00:32:56,480 --> 00:32:59,360 Speaker 1: Now it becomes some big old frat sorority party, right 658 00:33:00,080 --> 00:33:02,520 Speaker 1: is kicking it. And then you get married and everybody 659 00:33:02,600 --> 00:33:05,040 Speaker 1: act to fool in. And then after that, oh you 660 00:33:05,160 --> 00:33:09,400 Speaker 1: know it's on. Then after that it's a party. I 661 00:33:09,520 --> 00:33:13,800 Speaker 1: mean a party, because now everybody cool and everybody got 662 00:33:13,840 --> 00:33:15,800 Speaker 1: lit and everybody kicking it, and then there's three more 663 00:33:15,880 --> 00:33:18,520 Speaker 1: days of that family experience. So I love it which 664 00:33:18,600 --> 00:33:21,720 Speaker 1: Chili's to deliver the Mexico because my ass would have 665 00:33:21,760 --> 00:33:22,080 Speaker 1: been there. 666 00:33:22,200 --> 00:33:23,040 Speaker 2: I don't like Chili's. 667 00:33:23,080 --> 00:33:25,200 Speaker 1: I had a bad experience last time, So y'all tell 668 00:33:25,200 --> 00:33:26,720 Speaker 1: me if y'all love Chilies, because I need to go 669 00:33:26,760 --> 00:33:30,360 Speaker 1: back again. I'm not through with Chili's. But that experience 670 00:33:30,400 --> 00:33:33,360 Speaker 1: got me shook. It was just not good. And it 671 00:33:33,440 --> 00:33:36,360 Speaker 1: was hot in there too. So my daughter of Moroccan Nos, 672 00:33:36,520 --> 00:33:40,000 Speaker 1: daddy ain't for Chili's right now, Tony itche. 673 00:33:39,880 --> 00:33:40,760 Speaker 2: What wily ism? 674 00:33:41,160 --> 00:33:45,120 Speaker 1: Today's whalley ism comes from my man head coach, the 675 00:33:45,240 --> 00:33:49,040 Speaker 1: genius Marv Levy. He told us this my rookie year. 676 00:33:49,080 --> 00:33:53,080 Speaker 1: He said, you can't who with the owls and sore 677 00:33:53,200 --> 00:33:57,720 Speaker 1: with the Eagles? Can't who with the owls and sore 678 00:33:57,800 --> 00:34:00,800 Speaker 1: with the Eagles? Y'all know what this means. He was 679 00:34:00,800 --> 00:34:03,640 Speaker 1: looking at his team like, dude, y'all need to go 680 00:34:03,680 --> 00:34:07,160 Speaker 1: to bed. Y'all out there, hanging, y'all out there, chilling, 681 00:34:07,240 --> 00:34:10,520 Speaker 1: y'all out there, just party whatever you're doing, But you're 682 00:34:10,680 --> 00:34:13,719 Speaker 1: trying to hoop with the Owls. But then when it 683 00:34:13,800 --> 00:34:16,880 Speaker 1: comes time to wake up the next day, time to 684 00:34:16,920 --> 00:34:21,280 Speaker 1: go get this work in. You can't store with the Eagles. Basically, 685 00:34:21,320 --> 00:34:24,320 Speaker 1: don't burn both ends of the candle. You gotta be 686 00:34:24,400 --> 00:34:27,960 Speaker 1: smart about that. We talked earlier about how important rest 687 00:34:28,120 --> 00:34:31,600 Speaker 1: is for the offseason of NFL players. We just talked 688 00:34:31,600 --> 00:34:34,279 Speaker 1: about it with Zion Wimson in terms of not only 689 00:34:34,320 --> 00:34:36,640 Speaker 1: do you have to work out and work out hard, 690 00:34:36,920 --> 00:34:40,440 Speaker 1: you got to recover and rest just as hard. Once again, 691 00:34:40,920 --> 00:34:43,640 Speaker 1: it shows his face. You can't go out there and 692 00:34:43,640 --> 00:34:46,839 Speaker 1: hoop with the Owls and soar with the Eagles. And 693 00:34:46,880 --> 00:34:51,600 Speaker 1: it's not just rest and recovery. Frankly, it's almost a 694 00:34:51,760 --> 00:34:58,000 Speaker 1: responsibility conversation. We know, nothing really good happens that late. 695 00:34:58,600 --> 00:35:00,520 Speaker 2: I mean one thing, We do know one thing. 696 00:35:00,440 --> 00:35:04,120 Speaker 1: But other than that one thing, nothing really good happens 697 00:35:04,200 --> 00:35:07,200 Speaker 1: after what they say midnight two o'clock Tony Dungee style. 698 00:35:07,840 --> 00:35:10,000 Speaker 1: We know what we're getting into when we let the 699 00:35:10,200 --> 00:35:14,280 Speaker 1: clock strike twelve. But the point is, if you have something, 700 00:35:14,719 --> 00:35:16,800 Speaker 1: you have a task at hand, you have a goal 701 00:35:16,840 --> 00:35:21,480 Speaker 1: in mind, make sure you attack it with full focus, 702 00:35:22,080 --> 00:35:25,520 Speaker 1: full energy. And the only way to do that, frankly, 703 00:35:26,040 --> 00:35:29,120 Speaker 1: you can't hoop with OUs and sore with the eagles, 704 00:35:29,320 --> 00:35:32,360 Speaker 1: All right, y'all, that'll do it. For More to It, 705 00:35:32,480 --> 00:35:34,160 Speaker 1: check the show notes for all the information on our 706 00:35:34,160 --> 00:35:36,880 Speaker 1: topics today today. Want to keep the conversation go on, 707 00:35:36,960 --> 00:35:39,480 Speaker 1: Let's talk. Find me on all socials at Marcel's. Wiley 708 00:35:40,080 --> 00:35:42,200 Speaker 1: More Too is a production of Dan Patrick Production That 709 00:35:42,320 --> 00:35:45,319 Speaker 1: Dude Entertainment and workhouse Media. Show is executive produced by 710 00:35:45,400 --> 00:35:48,800 Speaker 1: Dan Patrick, Marcell's Whally, Paul Anderson, and Nick Panela. Thanks 711 00:35:48,800 --> 00:35:53,359 Speaker 1: for all the love, ratings, and subscriptions and reviews, membership 712 00:35:53,480 --> 00:35:56,080 Speaker 1: to Wiley's World on YouTube. Keep it coming because there's 713 00:35:56,120 --> 00:35:58,000 Speaker 1: more coming from More to It, Talk to y'all hell 714 00:35:58,040 --> 00:35:58,359 Speaker 1: a soon