1 00:00:02,600 --> 00:00:06,600 Speaker 1: Two teas in a pod with Teddy Mellancamp and camera judge. 2 00:00:12,560 --> 00:00:16,400 Speaker 1: All Right, you guys, we are here with Monica Garcia 3 00:00:17,560 --> 00:00:19,160 Speaker 1: Salt Lake City. 4 00:00:18,960 --> 00:00:21,239 Speaker 2: No Housewise Housewife. 5 00:00:22,480 --> 00:00:25,119 Speaker 1: I gotta say, I've been really riding the wave with you. 6 00:00:25,200 --> 00:00:32,680 Speaker 1: Like there's sometimes where I'm like, I know, sometimes I'm like, Okay. 7 00:00:31,400 --> 00:00:31,760 Speaker 2: I know. 8 00:00:32,159 --> 00:00:35,360 Speaker 3: That's literally every week everybody's well a Greek. 9 00:00:35,240 --> 00:00:39,239 Speaker 4: Easter episode, we're like, no, Monica, no, And then we 10 00:00:39,240 --> 00:00:41,200 Speaker 4: felt bad for your mom. And then when you actually 11 00:00:41,200 --> 00:00:43,400 Speaker 4: had to sit down with your mom, Ye, my heart 12 00:00:44,400 --> 00:00:47,000 Speaker 4: was broken and a bazillion pieces. 13 00:00:47,040 --> 00:00:49,920 Speaker 2: An entire episode literally made me cry. 14 00:00:50,000 --> 00:00:52,879 Speaker 4: Yeah, because I just felt like, I mean, I understood 15 00:00:52,920 --> 00:00:56,400 Speaker 4: you better. I felt bad, and I just wanted to 16 00:00:56,400 --> 00:00:58,000 Speaker 4: tell your mom stop. 17 00:00:58,440 --> 00:00:59,920 Speaker 2: And the fact that your dad. 18 00:00:59,800 --> 00:01:01,400 Speaker 4: Left to you when you were young, and then your 19 00:01:01,440 --> 00:01:04,479 Speaker 4: mom left you at twelve years old is just. 20 00:01:04,640 --> 00:01:06,240 Speaker 3: Well, damn, let's just dive, right. 21 00:01:07,720 --> 00:01:10,959 Speaker 1: I I have no just no, I was like, we 22 00:01:11,000 --> 00:01:12,679 Speaker 1: can use different words and left you. 23 00:01:13,120 --> 00:01:16,720 Speaker 3: I'm just sorry. I just I was so heart broke. 24 00:01:16,959 --> 00:01:19,840 Speaker 2: I watched it Champagne for this. I'm sorry. 25 00:01:19,880 --> 00:01:21,959 Speaker 3: I've been doinning to reach out to you. That's why 26 00:01:22,000 --> 00:01:24,640 Speaker 3: yourself to me, No, you're s for you. 27 00:01:24,840 --> 00:01:28,600 Speaker 2: My my question is in regards to all that, when 28 00:01:28,640 --> 00:01:29,560 Speaker 2: it came. 29 00:01:29,400 --> 00:01:33,840 Speaker 1: To filming, what made you say, like, I'm willing to 30 00:01:33,880 --> 00:01:36,560 Speaker 1: film with my mom and expose this part of my 31 00:01:36,600 --> 00:01:40,720 Speaker 1: life because I mean, we all have family, not to 32 00:01:40,800 --> 00:01:44,360 Speaker 1: your extent, but like there's there's family dynamics that sometimes 33 00:01:44,360 --> 00:01:47,039 Speaker 1: people are comfortable showing and sometimes they aren't. 34 00:01:47,040 --> 00:01:49,120 Speaker 2: What made you comfortable doing that? 35 00:01:49,920 --> 00:01:53,200 Speaker 3: I think for me, there wasn't ever a doubt in 36 00:01:53,240 --> 00:01:56,160 Speaker 3: my mind. I kind of felt like a lot of 37 00:01:56,160 --> 00:01:59,440 Speaker 3: people hide their real lives, and I felt like for me, 38 00:01:59,480 --> 00:02:01,520 Speaker 3: the only way it was going to work to be 39 00:02:01,640 --> 00:02:06,960 Speaker 3: on the show was to be completely transparent. And my 40 00:02:07,080 --> 00:02:10,960 Speaker 3: situation with my mother is bad, like it's really bad, 41 00:02:11,400 --> 00:02:14,560 Speaker 3: but there are other people that have even worse than that, 42 00:02:15,080 --> 00:02:17,160 Speaker 3: and I just feel like it's so important for those 43 00:02:17,160 --> 00:02:19,919 Speaker 3: people to feel seen because I feel like a lot 44 00:02:19,919 --> 00:02:25,799 Speaker 3: of times watching shows, it's like everything's perfect and everything's 45 00:02:25,800 --> 00:02:28,160 Speaker 3: great and it's okay to show the ugly sides too, 46 00:02:28,280 --> 00:02:31,880 Speaker 3: and how you work through that And mentally, I think 47 00:02:31,919 --> 00:02:35,680 Speaker 3: it's been crazy my dms. I've never seen anything. 48 00:02:36,120 --> 00:02:38,360 Speaker 4: I was just gonna ask you, Yeah, you actually And 49 00:02:38,400 --> 00:02:41,360 Speaker 4: I've known this because I've been the bazillion years I've 50 00:02:41,400 --> 00:02:44,080 Speaker 4: been on this show, I've shared so many ups and 51 00:02:44,120 --> 00:02:46,720 Speaker 4: downs in life. I feel like when you do that, 52 00:02:46,840 --> 00:02:49,480 Speaker 4: you're probably getting reached. People are reaching out to you 53 00:02:49,520 --> 00:02:51,840 Speaker 4: that have gone through the same thing, and you realize 54 00:02:51,880 --> 00:02:54,040 Speaker 4: when you do that and you open yourself up to that, 55 00:02:54,080 --> 00:02:55,440 Speaker 4: you're helping so many people. 56 00:02:55,520 --> 00:03:00,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's been crazy. I don't know, Like from the 57 00:03:00,200 --> 00:03:05,120 Speaker 3: first episode till now, the dms are insane with I 58 00:03:05,160 --> 00:03:08,760 Speaker 3: am so grateful that you filmed that and thank you 59 00:03:08,800 --> 00:03:11,680 Speaker 3: for sharing, Like I'm not alone and it was not 60 00:03:11,919 --> 00:03:14,840 Speaker 3: seeing like an exact fight I've had with like my 61 00:03:15,000 --> 00:03:16,480 Speaker 3: mom or dad or whoever. 62 00:03:18,080 --> 00:03:22,200 Speaker 4: Mom, mom and daughter relationships are difficult, I know, but yeah, 63 00:03:22,320 --> 00:03:22,560 Speaker 4: I know. 64 00:03:22,960 --> 00:03:27,160 Speaker 1: What about your thoughts on her being so vocal on 65 00:03:27,200 --> 00:03:27,919 Speaker 1: social media? 66 00:03:28,000 --> 00:03:29,760 Speaker 2: Like did you know that part was gonna happen? 67 00:03:29,800 --> 00:03:32,400 Speaker 1: Because that's that's why I'm like, Okay, we're already watching 68 00:03:32,440 --> 00:03:37,360 Speaker 1: this play out, but now it's just non stop social media, Like. 69 00:03:37,440 --> 00:03:40,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, and I have not talked to my mother still, 70 00:03:40,880 --> 00:03:41,800 Speaker 3: what how. 71 00:03:41,640 --> 00:03:44,960 Speaker 2: Long have you, like since the Easter Saints Greek Easter. 72 00:03:45,960 --> 00:03:51,080 Speaker 3: No there's more, yeah, oh yeah, there's more after that 73 00:03:51,080 --> 00:03:57,080 Speaker 3: that happens obviously, But since filming stopped. We Yeah, I'm 74 00:03:57,280 --> 00:03:59,760 Speaker 3: just I'm and then seeing what she's been doing on 75 00:03:59,800 --> 00:04:05,480 Speaker 3: Twitter is insane. It's insane. It's the retweets and the 76 00:04:05,680 --> 00:04:08,680 Speaker 3: likes of the next denis about me that I'm like, 77 00:04:09,280 --> 00:04:10,120 Speaker 3: you're my mother. 78 00:04:10,280 --> 00:04:13,000 Speaker 4: But do you feel like putting it on National TV? 79 00:04:13,200 --> 00:04:15,560 Speaker 4: It made your relationship worse between you and your. 80 00:04:15,480 --> 00:04:18,919 Speaker 3: Mom that it's always been really bad. I think it 81 00:04:19,000 --> 00:04:22,200 Speaker 3: actually gave me the strength to cut ties. 82 00:04:22,400 --> 00:04:25,039 Speaker 2: To do boundaries, to set up your boundaries. 83 00:04:25,240 --> 00:04:30,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, because seeing it was like, it was hard, Yeah, 84 00:04:30,960 --> 00:04:31,880 Speaker 3: it was really hard. 85 00:04:32,200 --> 00:04:34,960 Speaker 1: And if you had to pick one person from the 86 00:04:35,000 --> 00:04:37,280 Speaker 1: group of women that you're you know, in your friend 87 00:04:37,279 --> 00:04:39,800 Speaker 1: group at this point that you trust. 88 00:04:39,839 --> 00:04:46,520 Speaker 3: I think right now maybe I would say Meredith. I guess. 89 00:04:47,960 --> 00:04:51,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, And how do I had to pick? I'm going 90 00:04:51,200 --> 00:04:53,760 Speaker 2: with Meredith. How do you think jen Shaw feels about 91 00:04:53,800 --> 00:04:54,440 Speaker 2: you being on the show. 92 00:04:55,839 --> 00:04:56,560 Speaker 3: I don't care. 93 00:04:59,200 --> 00:05:01,520 Speaker 2: Good love that. Yeah. 94 00:05:01,920 --> 00:05:04,200 Speaker 4: So we got we got to meet Jenshaw last year. 95 00:05:04,520 --> 00:05:08,480 Speaker 4: We got, we got to we got no IoT like we. 96 00:05:08,400 --> 00:05:10,280 Speaker 2: Had came in our room. 97 00:05:10,400 --> 00:05:14,000 Speaker 1: Well, no, I wouldn't leave Heather alcohol and our glam. 98 00:05:14,200 --> 00:05:17,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, Heather Gate brought her into our room and we 99 00:05:17,240 --> 00:05:21,400 Speaker 4: talked to her. She had a therapist, a bodyguard, a 100 00:05:21,520 --> 00:05:25,200 Speaker 4: jeweler person, she had all these, she had entourage of 101 00:05:25,360 --> 00:05:27,080 Speaker 4: these very random people. 102 00:05:26,760 --> 00:05:27,520 Speaker 2: A jeweler. 103 00:05:27,920 --> 00:05:31,760 Speaker 4: But the thing is she was so outgoing and fun. 104 00:05:32,680 --> 00:05:35,159 Speaker 4: She was outgoing and fun, and we had no idea 105 00:05:36,160 --> 00:05:38,720 Speaker 4: at the moment we thought that she was good. 106 00:05:38,839 --> 00:05:39,279 Speaker 2: We didn't. 107 00:05:39,360 --> 00:05:43,040 Speaker 4: She kept denying she was Okay. 108 00:05:43,360 --> 00:05:45,720 Speaker 2: Now I had to give I had to give talk. 109 00:05:45,800 --> 00:05:49,400 Speaker 2: We were going like I like everybody. 110 00:05:50,640 --> 00:05:54,520 Speaker 1: And like she's not coming with us, She's we're leaving 111 00:05:54,560 --> 00:05:56,120 Speaker 1: it here, we gotta go, and. 112 00:05:56,080 --> 00:05:57,320 Speaker 2: She like that. 113 00:05:57,400 --> 00:06:02,160 Speaker 1: I know, I'm always this skeptic's going Do I care? 114 00:06:02,279 --> 00:06:02,960 Speaker 2: She's going away? 115 00:06:03,080 --> 00:06:07,240 Speaker 4: Like she's all right, Well, okay, let's move on from Brinshaw. 116 00:06:07,920 --> 00:06:11,599 Speaker 1: Is there anyone you actually really have fun with though? 117 00:06:11,720 --> 00:06:12,760 Speaker 2: In that group? Like who? 118 00:06:13,760 --> 00:06:15,720 Speaker 3: I would say, Whitney I had the most fun with. 119 00:06:16,560 --> 00:06:17,520 Speaker 2: Okay, Whitney a lot. 120 00:06:17,640 --> 00:06:20,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, I would say Whitney I had the most fun with. 121 00:06:20,320 --> 00:06:22,240 Speaker 3: She's the easiest to have fun. 122 00:06:22,440 --> 00:06:24,880 Speaker 2: And is this Lisa Warlow's sixty thousand dollars ring? Because 123 00:06:24,880 --> 00:06:25,720 Speaker 2: it looks quite fun? 124 00:06:25,720 --> 00:06:29,600 Speaker 3: How many people ask me? I can't asked that all 125 00:06:29,640 --> 00:06:32,039 Speaker 3: the time. I don't know where the ring is, Like, 126 00:06:32,080 --> 00:06:33,920 Speaker 3: so it's fifty dollars off Amazon. 127 00:06:34,200 --> 00:06:37,080 Speaker 2: I love them. Are you dating it? Are you dating 128 00:06:37,080 --> 00:06:41,920 Speaker 2: anyone right now? Any brothers, any law I. 129 00:06:42,000 --> 00:06:42,960 Speaker 1: Have a line. 130 00:06:43,839 --> 00:06:51,760 Speaker 3: Okay, her brother is I have standards, red family have 131 00:06:51,920 --> 00:07:00,159 Speaker 3: some distance. There it is you, sister wives. Actually I 132 00:07:00,200 --> 00:07:04,640 Speaker 3: will give you a very very big life update. My 133 00:07:04,800 --> 00:07:08,839 Speaker 3: divorce actually was just finalized at the beginning. 134 00:07:08,520 --> 00:07:09,160 Speaker 2: Of this month. 135 00:07:09,600 --> 00:07:15,240 Speaker 4: Congratulation, Yes, yes, yes, How are your kids like being 136 00:07:15,280 --> 00:07:15,720 Speaker 4: on the show? 137 00:07:16,200 --> 00:07:18,360 Speaker 3: You know what? They don't really get it. They really 138 00:07:18,440 --> 00:07:21,240 Speaker 3: don't get it. They have no idea. No, I don't 139 00:07:21,240 --> 00:07:24,960 Speaker 3: even play it in my house, so they have no idea. 140 00:07:25,200 --> 00:07:27,400 Speaker 3: Like when I went to Costco and people like came 141 00:07:27,480 --> 00:07:30,200 Speaker 3: up to me, My little seven year old was like, 142 00:07:30,200 --> 00:07:32,800 Speaker 3: why do you want picture with my mom? Like, they 143 00:07:32,880 --> 00:07:34,120 Speaker 3: have no idea. 144 00:07:35,000 --> 00:07:37,880 Speaker 1: That was actually one of my favorite things that you 145 00:07:37,920 --> 00:07:41,440 Speaker 1: did when you were, you know, in your robe driving 146 00:07:41,480 --> 00:07:44,040 Speaker 1: the kids to school and they were I forget did 147 00:07:44,040 --> 00:07:46,640 Speaker 1: your kids say penis or they were a boner bon. 148 00:07:48,320 --> 00:07:49,160 Speaker 2: I was like, this is. 149 00:07:49,120 --> 00:07:51,640 Speaker 1: Such a relatable moment because it's all of us, and 150 00:07:51,760 --> 00:07:54,640 Speaker 1: like your their car cams and then your kids say 151 00:07:54,680 --> 00:07:55,040 Speaker 1: some shit. 152 00:07:55,120 --> 00:07:57,040 Speaker 2: You're like, damn it every time. 153 00:07:57,680 --> 00:08:02,240 Speaker 3: So we have the wheel of truth and answer the question. Okay, 154 00:08:02,480 --> 00:08:06,880 Speaker 3: I'm scared, don't be scared. Okay, Oh ask that that's 155 00:08:06,880 --> 00:08:07,720 Speaker 3: a question. 156 00:08:08,040 --> 00:08:17,640 Speaker 4: Yes, funny, okay, okay, she I'll ask some questions. 157 00:08:19,640 --> 00:08:21,320 Speaker 2: Ask this picture, some questions. 158 00:08:21,840 --> 00:08:25,080 Speaker 3: Okay, I will ask you a question. Do you think 159 00:08:25,400 --> 00:08:29,000 Speaker 3: that you will ever come back on the show, because 160 00:08:29,000 --> 00:08:30,040 Speaker 3: I really am curious. 161 00:08:30,480 --> 00:08:33,320 Speaker 2: I don't know. I would only go back in a 162 00:08:33,360 --> 00:08:34,280 Speaker 2: certain capacity. 163 00:08:34,440 --> 00:08:36,920 Speaker 3: So okay, So you would never want to go back 164 00:08:36,920 --> 00:08:37,400 Speaker 3: full time? 165 00:08:37,800 --> 00:08:40,600 Speaker 2: I know, I would never want to go back part time. 166 00:08:41,080 --> 00:08:42,760 Speaker 3: Oh she wants to go back full time? 167 00:08:43,880 --> 00:08:47,600 Speaker 2: Oh, I would never go So I would never go 168 00:08:47,679 --> 00:08:49,319 Speaker 2: back and a limited capacity. 169 00:08:49,320 --> 00:08:53,160 Speaker 3: Here's okay. She's got a house in La Okay, and 170 00:08:53,200 --> 00:08:53,680 Speaker 3: she's got a. 171 00:08:53,679 --> 00:08:56,840 Speaker 2: House in Orange County. Now she's got a podcast with me. 172 00:08:58,679 --> 00:09:02,960 Speaker 1: Thank you so much for joining us, I Monica, thank you. 173 00:09:08,080 --> 00:09:08,480 Speaker 2: M hmm.